We are getting incredibly honest about our own struggles with "keeping up," healing from past communal and religious judgment, and our individual journeys toward self-acceptance. Laura also drops a massive truth bomb about why the word "mindfulness" might actually be holding us back -- because to truly find peace, we need to put the mind in the passenger seat and let the heart drive.

Grab a cup of tea, ignore the weeds in your yard, and join us for a conversation about starving your negative thoughts and saying "cheers to selective judgment!"

Key Takeaways

• The Gardening Guilt Trip: Why we need to stop letting the pressure of perfect landscaping ruin our summer joy. Let the pool parties happen, weeds and all!
• The Irony of Mindfulness: The mind is full of duality, judgment, and "shoulds". True presence requires paying attention to the mind's actions while letting the heart take the wheel.
• Starving the Pain Body: How to recognize when the "pain body" (an accumulation of negative energy and thoughts) is beating you up over unfinished chores, and how to stop it by questioning those thoughts.
• Surviving the PTA & Judgment: Ann shares her candid story of moving to Ireland, dealing with school bullying, and navigating the duality of people who preach kindness but practice judgment.
• Modeling Presence for Our Kids: You can't just tell your children how to be present; you have to vibrate it. We discuss the importance of filling your own cup first so you can genuinely show up for your family without resentment.

Helpful Information & Resources

We mentioned many incredible spiritual teachers and thought leaders who helped us on our journeys. If you are looking to dive deeper, check out their work below:

• Eckhart Tolle: Author of The Power of Now and A New Earth. (He's the one who teaches about the "Pain Body" and realizing that a tree isn't just a tree, it's called a tree!) EckhartTolle.com
• Brené Brown: Researcher and author of The Gifts of Imperfection, which helped Ann realize that "I am enough". BreneBrown.com
• Iyanla Vanzant: Spiritual life coach and author who famously reminded us that "Life is so easy" if we stop making it hard. Iyanla.com
• Dr. Wayne Dyer: The "father of motivation," whose cassette tapes on the power of positive thinking got Laura started on her path back in 1993. DrWayneDyer.com
• Abraham Hicks: A great resource for daily morning affirmations and alignment. Abraham-Hicks.com
• Marianne Williamson: Author and spiritual teacher famous for the quote, "Who are you not to be?" Marianne.com

Ann Donnelly

1. Business Growth Strategist anndonnelly.com
2. Turn Up Dance Fitness Instructor and Wellness Advocate raisingyourvoice.com

Laura Killian

1. Inner Alignment Coach lksmiles1.wixsite.com/love
2. Killian's Beef Ranch killiansbeefranch.com

Judy Viger

1. Salon V salonvbeauty.com

Key Takeaways:

1. The Power of Local Roots: How the South High Marathon Dance instills a lifelong sense of service and community in local youth.
2. The 'COVID Pause' Reflection: A look at the challenges of losing milestones like graduations, and the unexpected gift of extra time with family.
3. Navigating the Empty Nest: The emotional shift of "launching" children into adulthood and the struggle to stop checking Life360.
4. Creator vs. Consumer: The importance of encouraging the next generation to use technology to create rather than just consume.
5. The 'No Regrets' Mindset: Why being present in the moment is more important than a perfectly clean house.

More Information:

Ann Donnelly

1. Ann Donnelly Business Growth Strategist
2. Ann Donnelly Success Stories

Laura Killian

1. Inner Alignment Coach
2. Killian Beef Ranch

Judy Viger

1. Salon V

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