Anything But Traditional

Life’s Not a Factory, It’s a Farm: Shaena Cantor Abramowitz

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 12 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0300

Shaena Cantor Abramowitz, an educational leader and mother, shares her remarkable journey from her Modern Orthodox upbringing in New Jersey to living on the Arugot Farm in Israel.

Shaena discusses her experiences of making Aliyah, the challenges of finding her bashert at 37, and her unique life raising three young children on a hilltop in the Judean hills.

She also touches on the hardships and miracles related to fertility treatment, living through the Intifada, and the current Israeli war.

Despite the adversities, Shaena and her husband Ari find deep meaning and purpose in their unconventional life.

This heartfelt conversation provides listeners with inspiration and a profound insight into resilience, faith, and the power of community.

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01:26 - Childhood and Upbringing

03:25 - High School and Seminary Years

06:58 - Graduate School and Early Career

09:48 - Making Aliyah and Early Experiences in Israel

16:16 - Life on a Hilltop: Challenges, Rewards, and Community

37:55 - Navigating Fertility Treatments

46:20 - Postpartum Challenges and Support

01:02:29 - Being An "Older" Parent

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

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Rethinking The Blueprint of Life: Yaakov Fein (@theturntjew/@frum.fitness)

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 05 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0300

Yaakov Fein, better known as @theturntjew and @frumfitness, hails from Seattle, Washington, and has earned a reputation as both the king of Jewish memes and a dedicated fitness coach.

In this episode, Yaakov opens up about his life’s journey, reflecting on his religious evolution, his career in fitness, and his experiences navigating the Orthodox Jewish community as a single man.

He shares the pressures he faced growing up, the transformative role Jewish education played in his life, and how his popular meme page came to be.

Yaakov also offers meaningful insights into his fitness journey, the importance of investing in yourself, overcoming peer pressure, and handling the weight of societal expectations.

This is one episode not to be missed. So, tune in now and get ready to think, laugh, and be inspired!

01:12 - Growing Up Jewish in Seattle

02:55 - High School Journey: From Conservative to Orthodox

07:10 - The Influence of NCSY and Choosing Yeshiva

08:49 - Aliyah

18:23 - Starting the Turnt Jew: A Meme Page Success

26:57 - Balancing Humor and Faith

29:13 - Becoming a Fitness Instructor

36:23 - Fitness Philosophy and Accountability

42:03 - Personal Journey and Challenges

44:27 - Dating and Community

01:03:20 - Advice for the Younger Generation

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

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The Fabric of Resilience: Daniella (Faye) Farin

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 22 May 2025 07:00:00 +0300

In this episode of 'Anything But Traditional,' the host welcomes fashion designer Daniella Faye, who shares her inspiring journey from humble beginnings to becoming a recognized name in the Jewish fashion industry.

Daniella discusses her struggles with school due to ADHD and how she found solace and purpose in creativity.

Raised in Chicago, she moved to Israel at the young age of 15.

Despite countless challenges, including financial struggles and manufacturing mishaps, Daniella's resilience and determination shone through.

Daniella also shares how influencer marketing helped her brand grow and the impact of her designs on women's confidence.

She touches on the importance of loving and accepting oneself, and highlights the value of supportive relationships in both personal and professional realms.

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00:59 - Daniella's Fashion Journey

01:32 - Early Beginnings

06:40 - Moving to Israel at 15

11:02 - Pursuing a Career in Fashion

18:03 - Meeting Dave and Starting a Family

23:20 - Opening a Store on Hillel

27:14 - Struggles with School and Creativity

29:00 - Learning Through Trial and Error

36:24 - Building a Brand Name

47:38 - The Role of Influencer Marketing

55:13 - Balancing Business and Personal Life

58:49 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

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Choosing Happiness Against All Odds: Shoshana Stavsky

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 15 May 2025 07:00:00 +0300

In this episode of 'Anything but Traditional,' Shoshana Statsky, a remarkable woman who endured a decade-long infertility journey followed by a battle with breast cancer shares her story.

This includes her struggles with painful intercourse due to vaginismus and unsuccessful surgery, her grueling experience with infertility treatments, and the overwhelming joy of finally becoming a mother to twins.

She also shares the process of being diagnosed with breast cancer, the exhaustive treatments, and the unwavering support from her community.

Throughout her narrative, Shoshana emphasizes the importance of choosing growth over despair, maintaining faith, and finding happiness amidst adversity.

Her story is a powerful testament to resilience, gratitude, and the strength of the human spirit.

Listen and be inspired!

01:12 - Shoshana's Childhood and Education

06:20 - Meeting Her Husband

11:01 - Career Path: Becoming a Court Stenographer

17:34 - Early Marriage and Health Struggles

21:47 - Battling Depression and Finding Hope

35:02 - Navigating Infertility Treatments

53:16 - The Rollercoaster of Pregnancy

55:31 - The Birth and Beyond

01:06:26 - Aliyah

01:10:00 - Pregnancy and Miscarriage During COVID-19

01:13:03 - Breast Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment

01:21:59 - Community Support and Acceptance

01:28:07 - Final Thoughts and Reflections

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

Thank you for listening!

Laughter, Faith, and Fertility: Shoshana Charnoff

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 08 May 2025 07:00:00 +0300

Shoshana Charnoff, known on stage as Shoshana Shazam, co-directed the JLIC (Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus) program at Queens College, fostering Jewish learning and community for several years.

Six years ago, she made aliyah with her family, settling in Israel to begin a new chapter.

Today, Shoshana is an emerging Orthodox comedian and inspirational speaker, best known for her signature events, "Comedy and Emunah," which blend stand-up comedy with moving stories of faith.

She is also an avid runner, dancer, cook, and a dedicated wife and mother to three children.

In this episode, Shoshana shares her upbringing in Philadelphia, her shift from modern Orthodox to stronger religious observance, and her work in Jewish nonprofit organizations.

A significant portion of the episode delves into Shoshana's challenging fertility journey, which involved multiple miscarriages, the birth of her children, and ultimately a life-changing hysterectomy.

Through humor and deep faith, Shoshana navigates these personal hardships and uses her experiences to inspire others. The episode underscores the importance of resilience, faith, and authenticity in facing life's challenges.

01:43 - Shoshana's Early Life and Upbringing

03:25 - Influences and Inspirations

13:06 - Choosing a Path in Israel

25:11 - Meeting Robbie and Early Marriage

28:36 - Career Beginnings and JLIC

33:39 - Navigating the Orthodox Community

37:40 - Aliyah

38:59 - The Power of Laughter and Inspiration

44:10 - Fertility Struggles and Triumphs

55:06 - A Miraculous Pregnancy

01:08:52 - Embracing Life's Challenges

01:12:05 - Final Reflections

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

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Mind, Body, and Soul: Tasha Cohen

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 01 May 2025 07:00:00 +0300

Tasha Cohen made Aliyah from London in 2012.

She has a strong background in entrepreneurship and operations management, having led multiple startups across various industries.

For over twenty years, she has also been deeply committed to mind, body, and soul healing - a passion that took on new urgency after October 7.

Understanding firsthand the physical and emotional toll of trauma, Tasha immediately took action.

What started as transporting soldiers and supplies to bases quickly revealed a deeper need: physical and emotional support to IDF soldiers.

In response, she founded Chayal’s Angels, a grassroots initiative that became an official nonprofit in April 2024.

The episode delves into Tasha's personal journey, discussing her struggles with mental health, chronic pain, and her path to spiritual and physical resilience.

Tasha shares her upbringing, her relationship with Judaism, and her evolution to integrate unconventional practices like tattoos into her spiritual life.

She also discusses her various career paths, passion for childcare, and the importance of a balanced life that focuses on mind, body, and soul.

00:37 - Introducing Tasha Cohen: A Woman of Many Talents

01:28 - Founding Chayal's Angels: A Mission of Healing

03:38 - A Unique Relationship with Judaism

05:21 - Tasha's Upbringing and Family Background

08:23 - Struggles and Self-Discovery

13:06 - Seminary Life and Personal Growth

23:01 - The Significance of Tattoos in Tasha's Life

30:04 - Career Paths and Ambitions

33:58 - Mental Health Challenges and Healing

36:16 - Exploring Somatic Therapies

42:38 - Facing Life's Challenges Head-On

44:12 - Personal Journey with Chronic Pain

56:24 - Emotional and Physical Healing

01:01:46 - Chayal's Angels: Helping Soldiers Heal

01:12:28 - Faith and Resilience

01:21:23 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

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Legacy of Nathanel Young, A True Hero of Israel: Eliot Young

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 24 Apr 2025 12:24:00 +0300

Eliot grew up in Southgate in North London, and his family was very involved in the small Jewish community there, including having a Shabbat table full of guests every week.

Before making Aliyah in 2013, Eliot was Youth Director for a couple of communities in North London.

Eliot lives in Jerusalem with his wife Rena and three daughters, Emunah, Hallel, and Nili, and works in marketing.

In this episode, he discusses his life story, his transition to life in Israel, and his deep love for the land and people of Israel.

Eliot reflects on the tragic loss of his brother, Nathanel, a young soldier who was killed in combat on October 7th, sharing insights into the profound impact this had on his family.

Elliot discusses the support his family received during their unimaginable grief, the importance of unity and community, and how his brother's legacy lives on through acts of kindness and resilience.

This episode underscores the heroism of soldiers and the strength found in communal bonds amidst adversity.

To hear more from Eliot, listen to his podcast Hero Israel.

And please feel free to check out this website dedicated to Nathanel Young.

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00:00 - Meet Eliot Young

01:56 - Life in North London

02:50 - Aliyah

09:59 - Sibling Relationships and Family Dynamics

18:29 - Nathanel's Personality and Legacy

33:33 - Support and Community Response

42:00 - The Day of October 7th

50:16 - The Aftermath and Family Support

51:58 - A Brother's Journey to Ashkelon

58:09 - The Funeral and Community Support

01:14:11 - A Lasting Impact

01:21:13 - Moving Forward with Purpose

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

Thank you for listening and strengthening the Jewish nation!

Becoming Frum and Navigating Finances: Rabbi Reuven and Devorah Kigel

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 13 Jan 2025 21:27:00 +0300

As a professional dating coach, Devorah Kigel has helped over 300 women get clarity in their dating lives and marry their bashert. She has also been teaching classes for women on Judaism since 2001. She has her Masters in French and lived in Paris for 2 years, before discovering Torah Judaism and becoming observant.

Devorah and her husband, Reuven, who is the Campus Director for Emet Outreach, host Shabbos guests most weeks. Using humor and honesty, Devorah shares the entertaining personal journey that led her to develop powerful tools to have the relationships you desire.

Her book “Marry a Mensch: Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today’s Single Woman” published by Gefen was released September 2024 and is available on Amazon. Devorah has been featured in Newsweek, The Jerusalem Post, Meaningful Minute, Torah Anytime and on aish.com.

For more info: www.devorahkigel.com

Rabbi Reuven Kigel is Emet’s dynamic Campus Director, overseeing all of Emet’s campus programs—at Baruch college, St. John’s University, Queens College, and Adelphi University, as well as a multi-campus program in Forest Hills. He also serves as the Jewish chaplain for Baruch College.

In 2022 he started an initiative to help 100k frum men get their health back by eating according to Chazal. You can find out more on www.thefitjew.com

Born during the heyday of communism to capitalist-aspiring parents in Kiev, USSR, Rabbi Kigel immigrated to the United States in 1978, as a young child. Rabbi Kigel has semicha from Rabbi Heineman in Baltimore, and has been a longtime member of the Passaic-Clifton community kollel.

Rabbi Kigel graduated from the University of Michigan in 1995 with a degree in finance and spent 8 years working on Wall Street before switching careers to devote himself to the Jewish people.

This conversation delves into his near-death experience, their financial struggles, the importance of faith and resilience during tough times, and their dedication to Jewish outreach, helping others find their bashert, and health initiatives.

Enjoy the episode!

00:00 - Meet the Kigels

02:36 - Devorah's Early Life and Discovery of Orthodox Judaism

10:59 - Rabbi Reuven's Background and Immigration Story

17:08 - Rabbi Reuven's Car Accident and Spiritual Awakening

30:12 - Financial Struggles and Career Transition

47:51 - The Importance of Supportive Relationships

50:11 - Becoming a Dating Coach

51:16 - Challenges in Modern Dating

57:48 - Balancing Career and Family

01:04:29 - Health and Fitness Side Hustle

01:08:21 - Final Thoughts and Reflections

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

Thank you for listening and strengthening the Jewish nation!

Channukah Sameach!!!

Life, Laughter, Lessons: Ronnie Baras

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 30 Dec 2024 17:17:00 +0300

For over twenty years, Ronnie Baras has been traveling the world with his hypnotism and mentalism shows. He integrates comedy into his hypnosis routine to add flavor to a mesmerizing show.

Ronnie is a certified hypnotherapist. Unlike most hypnotists, Ronnie goes to great lengths to entertain, without embarrassing either his audience or his hypnotism subjects.

In addition to hypnotism, Ronnie also performs ‘mentalism’ shows where he demonstrates the ability to ‘read minds’ in an entertaining fashion.

Every show is a unique event.

No two shows are ever the same.

What is consistent, however, is top-quality entertainment with a huge dose of humor and fun.

Ronnie has performed several times in Las Vegas including headlining at the renowned Venetian Hotel.

He performs weekly throughout the United States (and sometimes Canada) and has recently completed a performing tour in Israel.

Listen as he shares his life's journey, the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, and his favorite parts of being a hypnotist in this episode.

He can be contacted at Ronnie@ronniebaras.com or by phone at 240-305-7007 for bookings!

00:00 - Introduction

05:19 - Ronnie Barris' Journey into Hypnosis

07:51 - Growing Up in Silver Spring

14:38 - Pranks and School Life

17:45 - College Days and Hypnosis

23:50 - Family Life and Hypnosis

25:16 - Stress Management Hypnosis Session

31:12 - Memorable Hypnotherapy Stories

42:28 - Balancing Career and Family

46:48 - Unexpected Challenges and Rewards

55:03 - Final Thoughts and Contact Information

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

If you would like to donate to continue the initiative, please send money via Zelle to tberg93@gmail.com

Thank you for listening and strengthening the Jewish nation!

Channukah Sameach!!!

Grief, Giggles, and Growth: Joan Weiner Levin

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 25 Nov 2024 07:00:00 +0300

In this powerful episode, marketing expert, comedian, and mother of two, Joan Wiener, takes us on a deeply personal journey through her life. She shares her experiences of growing up in a conservative Jewish home on Long Island, facing the profound loss of her mother at just six years old, grappling with her religious identity, losing her roommate in a bus bombing, navigating a broken engagement, and battling infertility.

Joan’s wit and resilience shine through it all, demonstrating how humor can be a source of strength even in the darkest moments.

If you’d like to continue the conversation with Joan, you can connect with her on LinkedIn, Facebook, or her website.

00:00 - Meet Joan Wiener Levin

01:37 Joan's Childhood and Family Background

02:53 - The Loss of Joan's Mother

10:09 - Joan's Path to Becoming a Comedian

16:02 - Joan's Religious Journey

24:07 - Finding Love and Marriage

27:48 - A Traumatic Experience in Israel

29:18 - Graduate School and the Pull to Israel

31:17 - Navigating Personal Tragedy and Relationships

36:31 - Life in San Francisco During the Dot-Com Boom

39:09 - Challenges and Joys of Parenthood

42:48 - The Journey of Aliyah

48:00 - Struggles with Judaism and Personal Beliefs

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

** Please note that from November 11th until December 31st, Anything But Traditional is having a sale on podcast ads - $25 for a 30-second ad. Be in touch if interested!

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Closed Doors, Open Paths: Elia Weixelbaum (My Stepdad)

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 07:00:00 +0300

From surviving the horrors of 9/11 to the heartbreak of losing a spouse at a young age, Elia Weixelbaum’s journey has been quite the definition of anything but traditional.

Hear as we dive deep into his experiences as a single father, the challenges and triumphs of blending two families, and the profound role his faith has played throughout his life.

Now living in Rechovot, Israel, with his wife (my mom) — he is living his dream life.

Listen to this story and be inspired by Elia's faith, resilience, determination, and positive attitude.

It's truly an episode not to be missed!

00:00 - Meet Elia Weixelbaum

01:28 - Elia's Early Life and Family Dynamics

06:54 - Education and Career Beginnings

13:27 - Life in Greenwich Village and First Wife

21:18 - Family Life, Moving to East Brunswick, Career Switch

30:45 - 9/11 Experience and Aftermath

47:36 - Stephanie's Passing and Its Aftermath

58:48 - The Challenges of Single Parenthood

01:02:04 - Dating and Blending Families

01:12:41 - Facing More Losses and Life Challenges

01:17:02 - Making Aliyah and Starting Anew

01:24:17 - Reflections on Life's Journey and Future Expectations

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

** Please note that from November 11th until December 31st, Anything But Traditional is having a sale on podcast ads - $25 for a 30-second ad. Be in touch if interested!

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Strength In Every Step: David Beiss

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 11 Nov 2024 07:00:00 +0300

David Beiss is an attorney and partner at Hunter Herman PLLC. His practice areas include complex commercial litigation and post-judgment enforcement.

David was born with an extremely rare and painful skin disease called Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB).

As a child and young adult, David mainly used a wheelchair for mobility but never let EB define his life or ambitions.

As an advocate, David is dedicated to raising awareness and fundraising for rare diseases and helping those with disabilities achieve their goals.

Thank you for listening!

00:00 - Introduction to David Beiss

02:00 - David's Early Life and Family Background

05:14 - Understanding Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB)

31:37 - Yachad, Camp Simcha, and Kids of Courage

43:14 - Navigating Yeshiva with a Disability

47:40 - Impact of EB on Relationships

55:14 - Fundraising and Advocacy Efforts

57:52 - Career Path and Legal Profession

01:07:03 - Involvement in Disability and Israel Advocacy

01:10:47 - Final Thoughts and Messages

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

** Please note that from November 11th until December 31st, Anything But Traditional is having a sale on podcast ads - $25 for a 30-second ad. Be in touch if interested!

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Finding The Grey in A Black and White World: Giddy Ben Tzvi

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 04 Nov 2024 07:00:00 +0300

Originally from Rockville, Maryland, Giddy Ben Tzvi, is a lot more than Anything But Traditional's host, Tamar Ben Tzvi's husband.

He currently lives in Neve Shamir in Ramat Bet Shemesh, is an avid lover of Torah, a massive religious Zionist, dedicated member of his shul Avnei Shamir, runner, and pick up ball player.

Over the past 9 years, Giddy has held various positions in hi-tech and hi-tech adjacent companies.

In this episode, we explore Giddy's life, various challenges, his relationship with God especially in dealing with infertility, the importance of living a more nuanced Jewish life and so much more.

This is an episode you don't want to miss!

Thank you for listening!

00:00 - Introduction

02:35 - Giddy's Early Life

14:50 - Yeshiva and Israel Experience

33:18 - Post-Yeshiva Reflections

37:07 - Aliyah

39:31 - Meeting Tamar and Early Marriage

41:56 - Navigating Life's Challenges

43:13 - Coping with Anxiety

56:06 - Fertility Journey and Faith

01:08:22 - Tamar and Giddy Fun

*For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

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Adversity, Advocacy, and Administration: Dr. David Leitner

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 29 Jul 2024 08:35:00 +0300

Dr, David Leitner, better known as Dr. D., is a strategy and leadership consultant and a university lecturer. He specializes in using strategy to create team alignment and engaged followership. He is married and has three amazing kids. He is a disabled IDF veteran who suffers from CRPS. And is the only IPSC wheelchair competitor in Israel.

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, Dr. David Leitner reflects on his upbringing as the son of a conservative rabbi, his life-changing experience in Israel, and his severe injury during military service that led to his struggle with CRPS.

Dr. D discusses making aliyah on his own, building Bar Ilan into a more accessible university, and building a family and career despite chronic pain.

Thank you for listening!

00:00 Introduction

01:22 Growing Up as a Rabbi's Kid

05:06 Journey to Israel and Religious Transformation

08:39 College Life and Struggles with Identity

16:16 Military Service and Injury

26:48 Living with CRPS

31:26 Adapting to a New Reality

41:44 Expanding Accessibility Efforts

42:47 Handing Over the Role and Creating a Board

43:43 Pursuing a PhD and Major Life Events

46:00 Challenges and Triumphs in the Army

51:11 Building A Family

01:01:26 Daily Life and Assistance

01:10:12 Leadership and Followership

01:14:57 Final Thoughts and Advice

**For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

Thank you for listening!

The Common Ground Of Jewish & American Values: Shabbos Kestenbaum

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 22 Jul 2024 07:30:00 +0300

Shabbos Kestenbaum graduated from Harvard’s divinity school this past May, and is now suing Harvard University for failing to protect Jewish students from antisemitism.

This past Wednesday night, Shabbos addressed the Republican National Convention.

Today, we hear the story of his past, present, and future.

From Yeshivat Noam to Harvard Divinity School, he shares his evolving political ideologies, and emphasizes the importance of fighting for Jewish and American values, both domestically and abroad with his goal of greater unity and support for Jewish causes.

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00:00 - Introduction

01:57 - Early Life and Family

04:26 - Educational Journey and Harvard Experience

07:36 - Political Views and Ideologies

08:16 - Experiences in Poland and Jewish Education

19:30 - Reflections on American and Israeli Jewish Communities

24:11 - Future Plans and Final Thoughts

**For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

Thank you for listening!

The Unspoken Struggles Of Motherhood: Chari Pere

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 15 Jul 2024 23:08:00 +0300

Chari Pere, creator of Miscarried: An Unspoken Cartoonmentary, worked as a creative director and illustrator/storyboard artist on projects for Red Bull, Jockey, Disney, Comedy Central, and Bud Light.

She has created content for The Washington Post's The Lily and Mad Magazine and has collaborated with NYT bestselling author Gretchen Rubin and actress Mayim Bialik.

Chari launched the "Unspoken" Cartoon series as part of the 2024 Jewish Writers' Initiative Digital Storytellers Lab Fellowship.

Breaking Stigmas through Cartoons: An Interview with Shari Pair

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, Chari shares her journey from childhood aspirations to her experiences working with major brands like Red Bull and Disney, and her profound personal journey through miscarriage and postpartum depression.

The conversation delves into her efforts to break the silence around very important, yet often untalked about topics, through her comics and animated shorts, and is a powerful testament to using art to foster empathy and support others facing similar challenges.

Website: https://www.charipere.com/

Miscarried: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xI7kEAYkUJI

Michael's Miscarriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_E-9Nc66L2k&t=2s

Subscribe to the "Unspoken" YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UnspokenCartoonmentary

Instagram/Facebook: @charipereart

**For updates and conversations about these episodes, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

You can also reach out to Tamar@tales-of.com with questions, comments, or inquiries, and/or check out my website tales-of.com to learn more about who I am and what I do.

Thank you for listening!

00:00 Introduction

01:29 Chari's Journey into Cartooning

02:32 The Impact of Miscarriage on Chari's Work

03:48 Creating Comics for Social Change

08:58 Chari's Background and Early Influences

16:24 Navigating Career and Motherhood

20:16 Challenges and Resilience in Chari's Career

27:26 Struggles and Miscarriages

31:48 Postpartum Depression and Health Challenges

34:19 Balancing Career and Family

38:31 Finding Support and Breaking Stigmas

49:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Finding Judaism, Finding Self: Kylie Lobell

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 08 Jul 2024 22:00:00 +0300

Kylie Ora Lobell is the president of KOL Digital Marketing, a marketing, PR, and ghostwriting firm for Jewish organizations, authors, and business owners. She is also an award-winning writer who has been published in the Jewish Journal of LA, Washington Post, LA Times, New York Magazine, Aish, Chabad, and Tablet. You can follow her on X, LinkedIn, or Instagram.

In this episode, Kylie shares her extraordinary journey from a secular Christian upbringing to converting to Orthodox Judaism. She discusses her tumultuous childhood, questioning faith, and eventual embrace of Jewish practices after experiencing the warmth of the Jewish community.

Kylie delves into her struggles with depression, postpartum depression, the challenges she faced in her conversion process, and how Judaism is misrepresented in the media.

This episode is packed with inspiring anecdotes, offering a deep dive into the complexities and rewards of Kylie's faith and personal growth.

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00:00 Introducing Kylie Ora Lobel

01:55 Kylie's Childhood and Family Background

03:42 Questioning Faith and Early Doubts

14:52 Meeting Daniel and Exploring Judaism

17:29 Discovering Chabad and Connecting with Faith

21:41 Conversion Journey and Challenges

33:28 Challenges and Reflections on Jewish Practices

46:51 Postpartum Depression and Community Support

01:01:09 Final Thoughts and Inspirational Messages

Cancer Survivor to Community Builder: Raphy Sassieni

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 01 Jul 2024 18:04:00 +0300

Today, Raphy Sassieni works at UserWay and plays a pivotal role in the vibrant Neve Shamir community of Ramat Beit Shemesh, loves mountain biking and has three beautiful children.

However, his journey to this fulfilling life wasn't always smooth.

At the young age of four, Raphy was diagnosed with cancer.

Now, in remission for many years, the journey undoubtedly shaped both him and the course of his life.

In this episode, we explore Raphy's transformative journey, his diverse upbringing, his dedication to the nonprofit sector, his love for Israel & Judaism, and his commitment to his community.

Furthermore, Raphy imparts invaluable insights on parenting, emphasizing the importance of fostering each child's distinct individuality, a principle instilled in him by his parents multiple times during his own upbringing.

So whether you're seeking inspiration, practical wisdom, or simply a heartwarming tale, tune in to this episode. It's certainly worth a listen!

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Dream, Believe, Achieve: Sean (Zeesha) Littman

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 24 Jun 2024 08:00:00 +0300

From public school kid to chossid, Sean (Zeesha) Littman shares his story of determination and perseverance in this week's episode of Anything But Traditional.

Hear as he shares his religious journey, the epic story of how he met his wife Ilana, their journey to aliyah, having 5 daughters, his path to Ramat Beit Shemesh, and his awesome career in nonprofit marketing.

Lastly, make sure to listen until the end as he shares more about his incredible new business, GiveSuite.com, a marketing solution for the nonprofit sector.

To be in touch with Zeesha, you can email him at sean@catch22nonprofit.com.

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Dating & Anxiety: Rabbi David Schlusselberg

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 17 Jun 2024 09:00:00 +0300

Rabbi David Schlusselberg received his Bachelor's degree in psychology and Rabbinic ordination from Yeshiva University.

He has a master's degree in Jewish education from the Azrieli School of Jewish Education and currently works at the Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School, and serves as the Mashgiach Ruchani.

Last summer, he started his Instagram page, which now has over 12,000 followers, where he provides Jewish inspiration and education about Israel and antisemitism.

He has lectured at Columbia, Princeton, NYU, Maryland, Rutgers, and a few other colleges.

While his career is certainly fascinating, in this episode, we talk more about who Rabbi Schlusselberg is, his family, upbringing, dating experience, and immense struggle with anxiety.

There's a lot in this episode - so listen and be inspired!

Also, make sure to follow him on Instagram, check out his series Lessons From A Decade of Dating on YU Torah, and feel free to be in touch with him if you have any questions via email or phone 201-543-9308

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Oh, The People You Meet: Marna Becker

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 10 Jun 2024 09:00:00 +0300

Originally from Wilmington, Delaware, Marna Becker is a natural networker, a social media enthusiast, an SDR leader, an activist, an educator, and a ball of energy. She was the youngest member of the board of the Jerusalem Business Networking Forum (JBNF), the predecessor of Made in Jerusalem, where she served for 5 years. In addition, she has worked successfully in both the B2B and B2C marketing and sales universe, where her passion for making processes more efficient and effective has shined through. She has worked with numerous startups, both here in Israel and abroad. She currently is the SDR Team Lead at UserWay.org

Marna is the founder of the Anglo Israel Job Network Facebook group that has over 15K members. The group helps more than 100 people find jobs in Israel each year.

She has spoken on the topics of networking effectively and the power of networking in Raanana at N4ES (Networking for English Speakers), in Gush Etzion at Hub Etzion, in Bet Shemesh at SUBS, and has taught a class on social media for the Temech Hub. She most recently spoke at an event sponsored by SDRs of Israel in Tel Aviv and virtually for the Innovate Summit.

In this episode, we delve into the many opportunities she tapped into over the years and how she created magic wherever she went, always learning from everyone she met.

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A Mother's Resilience: Jordana Lobell

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 03 Jun 2024 13:00:00 +0300

While today Jordana Lobell is a mother to a precious son, her journey to him was not without pain.

In this episode, she shares her lengthy, devastating, and resilient journey through infertility, miscarriages, and stillbirth.

Let this episode inspire you.

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Yad Yehuda to help students afford their gap year in Israel

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And Puah to help couples struggling with infertility.

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Sarcoma, Surrogacy, and Strength: Reena Bloom

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 27 May 2024 13:00:00 +0300

Reena Bloom is an audiologist and mom of 3, who is lives in New Jersey with her husband Jason. Reena is a cancer survivor and survived a rare type of sarcoma in the uterus. Unfortunately, to survive, Reena had to have a hysterectomy. This led to Reena and Jason finding a new way to bring their children into the world.

Today, Reena is very passionate about spreading awareness about her experience with surrogacy.

In this episode, Reena dives deep into this subject and shares how they found her surrogates, how they navigated the halachic challenges, the emotional toll of it all, and more.

If you've ever wanted to know more about surrogacy, especially in the Orthodox Jewish world, this episode is for you.

Enjoy the episode!

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Making The Most Of Our Time: Dov Carpe

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 07 Apr 2024 14:18:00 +0300

In today's episode, we hear from Dov Carpe.

Today, Dov works in hi-tech and lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh, Israel with his five children, but Dov never thought life would be this way.

Growing up, all Dov wanted to do was be a rockstar.

But one fateful day, his life was forever changed as he had a near-death giving him a new chance at life.

Hear his story, his insights, and how his life was forever changed in this episode.

Thank you for tuning in!

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The Balancing Act Of Life: Shlomo Lipman

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 31 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0300

In today's episode, we hear from Shlomo Lipman AKA the 'singing chayal,' a name that has been coined for him since October 2023 when videos of him singing in uniform went viral.

Here, Shlomo opens up about his experiences, from making aliyah to Israel with his family, to having his father become a member of the Israeli Knesset.

He shares his many passions of Torah, baseball, and learning, and how he balances it all while also being a husband and father.

A special shout-out goes to our generous sponsors this week—Kayla Haber Goldstein, LEV, and ORA. If you're a Rabbi, make sure to register here. If not, make sure to tell your Rabbi to do so.

Thank you for tuning in!

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Fighting For Freedom: Adina Sash AKA FlatbushGirl

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 17 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0300

The agunah crisis poses a significant challenge within Orthodox Judaism, and Adina Sash, also known as FlatbushGirl, has taken it upon herself to combat it with unwavering determination.

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, we delve into Adina's relentless advocacy against the agunah crisis, her broader efforts to secure representation for women within Orthodox Judaism, her upbringing, her fertility journey, and the development of her influential personality and Instagram persona.

Tune in to this impactful episode and consider how you can stand in solidarity with your fellow Jewish sisters today.

Thank you for listening!

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An Animator's Tale of Hollywood and Holiness: Saul Blinkoff

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 10 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0300

In this enlightening episode of Anything But Traditional, Hollywood Producer and Animator Saul Blinkoff invites us into the intricacies of his and his family's lives, shedding light on the harmonious integration of religious practices within the bustling entertainment industry.

Listen as Saul recounts his journey, working with prestigious clients such as DISNEY, DREAMWORKS, and NETFLIX, offering a unique perspective on navigating the entertainment industry while staying true to his Jewish values.

To hear more from Saul, listen to his podcast Life of Awesome, check out his website, or even invite him to speak in your community!

Thank you Saul for coming on to this week's episode.

Enjoy the show!

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Finding Blessing Amidst Struggles in Dating: Zahava (Moskowitz) Grodman

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 03 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0300

Zahava Grodman (formerly Moskowitz) recently moved to Israel with her husband, whom she met at the age of 27 after 7 years in the dating-world.

She is a graduate of the Master's program at Azrieli and the Matan Bellows Eshkolot Institute for Tanakh and Jewish Studies in Israel.

Before making aliyah, Zahava taught Tanach for six years in New York. Today, she is currently teaching English at an Israeli girls' high school.

Alongside her passion for teaching, she is the founder of the Singled Out Podcast, where she engages in open discussions about the challenges of being single within the Jewish community and explores ways to make the most of this period.

Here, we delve into some of these various dating challenges, exploring the blessings found in the waiting game while yearning for a deep connection.

Our conversation touches on dating stigmas, the notion of being selective, and the valuable lessons Zahava gained from her dating experiences.

Tune in to this episode for insightful discussions. I'm confident you'll gain some valuable insights—I certainly did!

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Pursuing Justice and Representation in Orthodox Judaism: Shoshanna Keats Jaskoll

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 25 Feb 2024 13:00:00 +0300

As Israel's elections unfold this Tuesday, we are honored to feature Shoshanna Keats Jaskoll, the esteemed Director and Founder of Chochmat Nashim, on this episode of Anything But Traditional.

During our conversation, Shoshanna graciously shares profound insights on the future of Beit Shemesh, home for both her and our host, Tamar Ben Tzvi, and offers thoughts on the broader landscape of Israel.

Throughout the episode, Shoshanna openly addresses the formidable challenges of erasure and marginalization faced by women in Orthodox Judaism, her passionate advocacy for justice and equality in representation, and why she dedicates herself to this important cause.

Learn more about Shoshanna's impactful work and the mission of Chochmat Nashim by visiting her website, exploring the dedicated platform of Chochmat Nashim, or tuning in to the Chochmat Nashim podcast.

The Man Behind The Uniform: Arky Staiman

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 18 Feb 2024 13:00:00 +0300

Arky Staiman has become a real celebrity over the past four months as he vlogs his journey of being in the IDF reserves during this extremely trying time.

But who exactly is Arky Staiman?!

Where did he come from? Where does he live now? What does he do when he's not in the army? What is his family like? And what has his life's journey been like thus far?

That's what we sit down to discuss in this episode, but for now, here are just a few fun facts about Arky:

Arky is a tour guide in Israel. He lives in Tekoa with his three kids and awesome boss of a wife, Avigail, and grew up in Baltimore, Maryland.

Learn more about Arky in this episode!

And be sure to check out Arky's website & Instagram page for more information.

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Driving Through Hardships with Humor: Shmuel Katz

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 13:00:00 +0300

Shmuel Katz, Beit Shemesh's beloved car mechanic, shares his story on this episode of Anything But Traditional.

From the loss of his mother at the young age of eight to his rebellious teenage years, relocation to Israel, navigating his wife's cancer battle, and ultimately taking the reins as the general manager and owner of AutoKing, Shmuel opens up about the defining moments that shaped his identity.

Throughout our discussion, Shmuel shares how he faces life's challenges with a unique blend of humor and an unwavering optimism for tomorrow.

He provides insights into his views on religion, the importance of adaptability in life and career, and his significant role as a teacher in his community.

Join us as we uncover the layers of Shmuel's life beyond the grease and gears, revealing a story of resilience, faith, and community impact.

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Embracing Life's Path Less Traveled To Love: Avi Dzik

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 04 Feb 2024 13:00:00 +0300

In this episode, my neighbor, Avi Dzik, unfolds the chapters of his life – a journey from an awkward little boy to an outgoing adult, culminating in marriage at the age of 38.

Along this transformative path, he grappled with career choices, deciding where to live, maintaining religious observance, and the challenge of creating a home for himself.

Today, Avi resides in Ramat Beit Shemesh with his wife and four children, thriving in his role as a physical trainer and masseuse.

You can hear more of his story in a documentary made about single men in their thirties and forties here.

To reach out to Avi, email him at avi.dzik@gmail.com

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Letting Go and Letting God: Kayla Haber Goldstein

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 28 Jan 2024 13:00:00 +0300

This week's episode features my good friend, Kayla Haber Goldstein.

Kayla and her husband Rabbi Shmuel Goldstein, currently serve as the Associate Rabbi and Rebbetzin in Congregation Beth Tefillah in Paramus NJ. Together with their two children, they run an open home at which anyone who needs a Shabbat, a dinner, or a listening ear is welcome. Besides for speaking engagements and events that Questioning The Answers put on, Kayla has recently become involved in the Agunah crisis. Always open for conversation, to offer a helping hand, or to answer any questions.

Hear as we delve into her story in this episode of Anything But Traditional.

To reach out to Kayla you can email her at kaylahaber@gmail.com or reach out on Instagram @questioningtheanswers.

You can also check out her website here.

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Taking Control of the Wait: Aliza Abrams Konig

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 20:10:00 +0300

Aliza Abrams Konig is the Director of Student Leadership, at Yeshiva University. Throughout Aliza’s career she has worked within areas of student life, team building, creating curricula, and enriching the experiences of thousands of students through Experiential Education. Aliza also serves as a Surrogacy Consultant to families and individuals pursuing surrogacy.

Earlier in Aliza's career she served as the YU Director of Alumni Engagement, Assistant Principal at Central, Yeshiva University High School for Girls, Director of Student Life at Stern College and as the Director of Jewish Service Learning for the University, where she built the service-learning curriculum and established chessed missions around the world.

Aliza is a member of the inaugural Wexner Field Fellows program through the Wexner Foundation. She has spoken worldwide in synagogues, community centers, and schools about leadership, education, faith, prayer, and issues related to the contemporary Jewish family, dating, infertility, surrogacy, and family.

Aliza holds a BA in Judaic Studies from Stern College, a master's in social work from Wurzweiler School of Social Work, and is currently a doctoral candidate at Wurzweiler. Aliza, her husband Samuel, and their children live in Riverdale, New York, where they are very involved with their community, synagogue, and other local organizations.

In this episode, we sit down to discuss all of this and more.

Some important mentions:

Surrogate Solutions

I Was Supposed To Have A Baby

Keep The Vision Alive Campaign In Memory of Jeffrey Berger

Aliza and My Instagram Live

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Surviving to Thriving: Karen Berger (My Mother)

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 14 Jan 2024 13:00:00 +0300

To commemorate my father's yahrzeit, observed last Thursday night and Friday, I've decided to feature my mother on this week's podcast.

Here, she shares her story, encompassing my father's life, his premature passing, her experiences as a single parent raising three children, her subsequent remarriage, the blending of our family with her new husband's family, her spiritual journey, parenting tips, and her perspectives on the current situation in Israel.

This podcast not only provides insight into my mother's life but also sheds light on my upbringing and our family dynamics. Thank you for tuning in!

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Navigating Transitions with Roots in Tradition: Mindy Levine

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 07 Jan 2024 13:37:00 +0300

Mindy Levine had a pretty conventional beginning to life, she went to Yeshiva day schools, began a rewarding career as a chemistry professor, got married, and life was smooth sailing.

Then, the unthinkable happened when she was pregnant with her youngest and his twin and unfortunately delivered the twin as a stillborn.

With determination and perseverance, Mindy continued with life, and eventually came to Israel and made aliyah, which came with its unique struggles as she got divorced from her husband and quickly after her 3.5-year-old daughter came out as trans.

While Mindy, her son, and the municipality tried to issue a 'don't ask don't tell' policy, this policy broke as some parents found out and exposed Mindy's son.

This caused intense legal battles and a PR war.

Mindy was put on the air by YNet, Kan, The Pink News, The Times of Israel, World Israel News, and more.

Today, Mindy shares her story with us. What an honor it is to have her on.

As shared in the podcast, Mindy gives special thanks to Havruta, an organization for LGBTQ+ people who are on the religious spectrum.

Thank you for listening!

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The Modern Day Sara Imanu: Ronel Barak (Part 2)

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 13:00:00 +0300

Originally from South Africa, Ronel has been living with her family in the scenic Judean Mountains for the past twelve years.

This transformative journey of self-discovery, leading to the recognition of her family's spiritual and physical home in Israel, was anything but brief.

In fact, it spanned eighteen years of intense exploration of Judaism before culminating in their ultimate conversion.

Despite the challenges, Ronel deems the lengthy journey worthwhile, as she is now living her dream of a more fulfilling life, culminating in the establishment of Cafe Ronel: a delectable Kosher Mehadrin cafe situated on her home's premises, inspired by local customs, cultures, flavors, tastes, and history.

This not only serves as a space for everyone to come together, celebrate, and unite but also as a place that continues to serve chayalim since the beginning of the current war.

You can donate to this initiative through Paypal internationally: ronel.barak@gmail.com

Or if you're in Israel, through bank transfer:

שם: קפה רונאל

בנק: הבינלאומי

סניף: 013רחביה

חשבון: 309729

At the cafe, there is also an incredible and unique gift shop where one can browse quality tablecloths, challahs, serviettes, and more.

You truly have to see it to believe it, and I was fortunate to do so with my husband last year!

As this is a two-episode story, make sure to listen in to the first part as Ronel shares her journey away from Christianity.

Then, tune into this episode as she shares about her transition to Judaism, her unique experiences becoming Jewish, and where she is in life today.

Thank you Ronel for coming on and sharing your story.

The Modern Day Sara Imanu: Ronel Barak (Part 1)

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Sun, 24 Dec 2023 13:00:00 +0300

Originally from South Africa, Ronel has been living with her family in the scenic Judean Mountains for the past twelve years.

This transformative journey of self-discovery, leading to the recognition of her family's spiritual and physical home in Israel, was anything but brief.

In fact, it spanned eighteen years of intense exploration of Judaism before culminating in their ultimate conversion.

This not only serves as a space for everyone to come together, celebrate, and unite but also as a place that continues to serve chayalim since the beginning of the current war, which you will hear more about in the second part of this episode, airing next week.

At the cafe, there is also an incredible and unique gift shop where one can browse quality tablecloths, challahs, serviettes, and more.

You truly have to see it to believe it, and I was fortunate to do so with my husband last year!

As this is a two-episode story, this part focuses on the first part of Ronel's journey, including her questions and delving into the Biblical texts.

Next week, we will hear more about her transition to Judaism and learn what she is up to in life today.

Thank you Ronel for coming on and sharing your story.

One Family's Century-Long Israeli Journey: Gila Green

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 13 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +0300

Canadian author Gila Green is an Israel-based writer, editor, and EFL teacher with a unique perspective on the unfolding events of Israeli history.

Growing up, her house was intensely Zionistic, as her father grew up in British-mandated Palestine and lived through three wars during his early years of life.

Then while traveling in Israel, Gila met her husband, who grew up in South Africa under apartheid. Together, they decided that Israel was the best place for them to live.

Today, Gila has been living in Israel for the past few decades in Ramat Beit Shemesh, and currently, her son-in-law is in reserves, and previously her son served as well.

With this amount of personal experience and unique understanding of Israel, Gila has put her knowledge and experience to good use as she writes fervently about Israel and has written several fictional novels and shorts on the topic.

Here are just some of her novels:

Passport Control (S&H Publishing, Virginia, 2018)

White Zion, a novel-in-stories (Cervena Barva Press, Massachusetts, 2019)

No Entry (Stormbird Press, Australia, 2019)

King of the Class (NON Publishing, Vancouver, 2013)

Gila is excited to publish her 5th book, a suspense thriller entitled: With A Good Eye, (AOS Publishing, Montreal this coming August). You can pre-order the Novel here.

Lastly, Gila has been in several articles and podcasts, including her most recent interview with Distinctions, a piece brought up several times throughout our episode.

To get in touch with Gila, feel free to check out her website, and make sure to check out her new TikTok and Instagram where she makes fun cooking videos with her kids!

As always, I would love to delve into it with you. So please feel free to visit @talesoftamar on Instagram to expand the conversation and hear updates about future episodes.

Thank you for listening!

Navigating Strength in the Face of Terrorism: Sarri Singer

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 06 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +0300

On June 11, 2003, Sarri Singer was on Bus 14 in Jerusalem when an 18-year-old Palestinian terrorist dressed as a religious Jew boarded and blew himself up.

17 people were killed, including all those seated and standing around her, and over 100 people were injured. Sarri was hospitalized for two weeks and then returned to New Jersey to be with family.

Her story became high profile. She appeared on television stations such as CBS, FoxNews, CNN, and radio interviews. She spoke before Congressmen and Senators in Washington, D.C., and politicians in New York and New Jersey.

In September 2003 she returned to work and volunteering in Israel. In June 2004, she returned to the United States to take care of ongoing medical issues associated with her attack.

Sarri is the Founder and Director of Strength to Strength (www.stosglobal.org), which focuses on bringing together victims of terrorism together from around the world and assisting with long-term psychological needs.

Sarri has addressed audiences throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, and Israel and continues to share her unique insight into the ongoing struggle for victims of terror in Israel and around the world.

Now, in this episode, she addresses the Anything But Traditional community.

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Unveiling Resilience Amid Adversity: Roxanne Weinberger

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 29 Nov 2023 11:30:00 +0300

Today, Roxanne Weinberger joins Tamar for a pivotal and transparent conversation regarding Roxanne's life to date.

To say that no stone was left unturned would be an understatement as they addressed serious topics such as becoming religious as a teen/young adult, joining the IDF, aliyah, fertility, NICU babies, motherhood, and more.

While Roxanne shares her story of where she was on October 7th and its effect on her life, this story is much more than just about the ongoing current events.

It's about true resilience despite immense hardship.

It's about finding the helpers and becoming the helper.

It's about the land, the Torah, and the beauty of Israel.

Listen to Roxanne's story, feel her words, and connect.

This is truly an episode worth listening to.

Thank you for listening!

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Revealed Antisemitism on College Campus: An Insider's Perspective

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 12:00:00 +0300

On October 7th, Israel was changed forever.

On October 8th, the world was changed forever as the somewhat more quiet and festering Antisemitism spread fiercely and rapidly all across the world.

Today, Tamar sits down with a student from The Ohio State University (who wishes to remain anonymous) for an in-depth and intense conversation about Antisemitism in the United States, and particularly on College Campuses.

In this episode, hear the real and raw experiences of being a student and the encounters this student and her friends have had to face, due to merely living their life as Jews.

Remember, this war is truly not just in Israel but worldwide.

How will you fight this war today?

Thank you for listening.

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Looking forward to continuing the conversation!

Am Yisrael Chai: Adena Mark Kapon

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 15 Nov 2023 13:00:00 +0300

Today, Tamar welcomes Adena Mark Kapon to the conversation.

Adina, the brilliant mind behind A to Z Events Israel, is the mother and wife of Chayalim, as well as the daughter of a victim of terror.

In this episode, Adena opens up about her family's journey, from growing up in New York to making Aliyah in 2004 with her 5 children; later bringing her sabra into the midst.

Although they never lived in Israel together, Adena shares how her passion for living in Israel stems from her mother's passion, earlier immigration, and the overwhelming support her family received from their community in Efrat during these dark hours.

Hear Adena's resilient spirit as she reflects on the phrase "Am Yisrael Chai," symbolizing the enduring strength of the Jewish people, their profound acts of kindness, and the unity she has witnessed, leaving us with a powerful message and hope for a brighter future.

Thank you for listening!

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Defending Israel: Stories from the IDF Frontlines

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Thu, 09 Nov 2023 14:00:00 +0300

In this episode of "Anything But Traditional," we delve into the lives of three extraordinary individuals with unwavering dedication to the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF).

Host Tamar Ben Tzvi brings you an intimate and eye-opening look at their experiences during challenging times.

First up is Tom Eisenman, who recounts the moment he was called up during Simchat Torah and the profound sense of honor and Jewish pride that compelled him to serve. Tom emphasizes the importance of defending Israel, reminding us that the IDF plays a crucial role in safeguarding the nation.

Next, we hear from Sam Cohen, an officer in the Home Front Command. Sam was in the United States when the conflict escalated and had to make the challenging journey back to Israel. He shares his experiences supporting the civilian sector during these tumultuous times and the heart-wrenching struggle of being separated from his family.

Finally, we meet Ariav Schlesinger, a commander and teacher specializing in the handling of bodies from war and disasters. Ariav's unique role in the IDF places him at the heart of some of the most difficult moments during times of conflict. He sheds light on the vital work he and his fellow soldiers do to honor and identify the fallen.

Join us for this episode that offers a window into the personal experiences, unwavering commitment, and deep-rooted dedication of these remarkable individuals who serve their country during challenging times. "Defending Israel: Stories from the IDF Frontlines" is a testament to the resilience and unity of the Israeli people.

Thank you for listening!

**For updates and conversations about these episodes follow me at @talesoftamar

Commanding The Homefront: A Wife's Perspective While Her Husband Is At War

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Wed, 08 Nov 2023 14:00:00 +0300

In this episode of "Anything But Traditional," we showcase the stories of five extraordinary military wives, the unsung heroes who stand strong as their husbands serve on the front lines.

These women face a multitude of challenges, from daily responsibilities to emotional strength, far beyond mere companionship.

Bazy Rubin, a mother of four, shares her journey of protecting her family from the media storm and the emotional impact of her husband's deployment.

Esther Krinkin, tells her journey of finding herself in an unexpected situation when her husband was called up as a reservist and highlights the significance of Israel as a safe haven for the Jewish people.

Nechama Eisenman, humorously reflects on her life before and during the war, managing increased responsibilities and anxiety in the absence of her husband (and best friend).

Talya Adler candidly discusses the impact of the war on her family and the importance of unity and hope during these trying times.

Adina Kestenbaum shares her experiences without her husband Netanel by her side, having to be adamant about putting her family first, and the experiences she's had during this time with her children.

Join us for a powerful episode to gain profound insight into the lives of these remarkable women, embodying resilience and unity, proving that even in adversity, love and support prevail.

**For updates and conversations about this episode, and more, follow me at @talesoftamar on Instagram.

Sleepless Nights Yet Choosing Life: A Parent's Perspective During Israel's War

Tamar Ben-Tzvi — Mon, 06 Nov 2023 09:00:00 +0300

In this episode, you'll hear heartfelt stories from parents with children serving in the Israeli army, individuals directly affected by the ongoing war, and educators dedicated to instilling the values of pride in being Jewish and Israeli.

They share their personal experiences, offering a poignant glimpse into the impact of this challenging period and the necessity of unity and making principled choices, even when comfort seems out of reach.

Join us for a moving and inspiring journey through the resilience and unwavering spirit of these remarkable individuals including:

Perry Smith from Ma'ale Adummim

Felicia Newman Azut from Ashdod

Rav Binyamin Kwalwasser, Executive Director of Lev L'Chayal

Rav Michael Olshin, Executive Director of Yeshivat Torat Shraga

Thank you for listening!

**For updates and conversations about these episodes follow me at @talesoftamar

Anything But Traditional Trailer

Tamar Ben Tzvi — Mon, 06 Nov 2023 09:00:00 +0300

Life is a journey filled with twists and turns, and family dynamics are no exception. In the Orthodox Jewish community, there's a common perception of what a traditional family should look like. But the truth is, families are as diverse as life itself, and it's time to create a more open and accepting space within our community.

If your family doesn't fit the mold, you're not alone.

Our mission is to initiate a conversation about Jewish families, fostering a sense of belonging and understanding for all. We want to inspire young families to rethink and reimagine what a thriving Orthodox Jewish family can be, even when facing adversity.

Join us as we explore the myriad paths that families have taken, both by choice and circumstance, to reach their unique destinations.

This is an original podcast by Tales Of.