<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/ashesintobeauty/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Ashes Into Beauty]]></title><podcast:guid>d29f4d27-4555-59b5-bac7-6ecfe1c12f11</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 20:16:46 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Stephanie Laswell]]></copyright><managingEditor>Stephanie Laswell</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I never want anyone to feel as though they are navigating divorce alone or that life is now over. Ashes Into Beauty is to provide hope, resources & a sense of community. To share insights & tips from everyday folks on how they got through the dark days of divorce & turned it into something beautiful! 
I am a proud mom of five children, one with the gift of autism. I enjoy making memories & establishing traditions with my tribe. I enjoy meaningful conversation while connecting with others over yummy local food & drinks. My family of origin moved to OK in 1982 & we haven’t left since! Exploring our great state & supporting local businesses is one of my favorite pastimes. I thrive on living a holistic & nutritarian lifestyle. You can find me in the gym pumping iron, punching a boxing bag or dancing the night away on Saturday nights! I am a huge advocate for healing through counseling & personal growth with a life coach or mentor. This life is not meant to be lived figuring it out alone. Please reach out any time if you ever feel alone. - Stephanie Marie Laswell]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg</url><title>Ashes Into Beauty</title><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Stephanie Laswell</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Stephanie Laswell</itunes:author><description>I never want anyone to feel as though they are navigating divorce alone or that life is now over. Ashes Into Beauty is to provide hope, resources &amp; a sense of community. To share insights &amp; tips from everyday folks on how they got through the dark days of divorce &amp; turned it into something beautiful! 
I am a proud mom of five children, one with the gift of autism. I enjoy making memories &amp; establishing traditions with my tribe. I enjoy meaningful conversation while connecting with others over yummy local food &amp; drinks. My family of origin moved to OK in 1982 &amp; we haven’t left since! Exploring our great state &amp; supporting local businesses is one of my favorite pastimes. I thrive on living a holistic &amp; nutritarian lifestyle. You can find me in the gym pumping iron, punching a boxing bag or dancing the night away on Saturday nights! I am a huge advocate for healing through counseling &amp; personal growth with a life coach or mentor. This life is not meant to be lived figuring it out alone. Please reach out any time if you ever feel alone. - Stephanie Marie Laswell</description><link>https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[The Divorced Life - Hosted by Stephanie Marie Laswell]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>Episode 27 with Host Stephanie Marie Laswell: Preparing for Mediation</title><itunes:title>Episode 27 with Host Stephanie Marie Laswell: Preparing for Mediation</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Tips from a Divorce Coach on how to best prepare for the divorce mediation process.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tips from a Divorce Coach on how to best prepare for the divorce mediation process.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">faafbdc7-17b5-475c-ace1-777946876e30</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/f69689d2-6139-4e2d-ab4d-0856672fdfc0/27-20230503-Ashes-Into-Beauty-converted.mp3" length="47722493" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>19:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode></item><item><title>Episode 26 with guest Shel Harrington &amp; Host Stephanie Laswell</title><itunes:title>Episode 26 with guest Shel Harrington &amp; Host Stephanie Laswell</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Tune in to hear host Stephanie Laswell &amp; guest Shel Harrington discuss divorce as they are both pro-marriage. </p><p>Shel Harrington is a seasoned Family Law attorney and adjunct professor who has taught Family Law and related classes at Oklahoma City University School of Law for more than two decades. At her ShelHarrington.com website and related Facebook page, she writes about doing marriage and divorce better, and ways to stay out of her office. In her alternative life, Shel blogs with humor about being fierce over fifty at FatBottomFiftiesGetFierce.com. Her related smile-inducing Facebook page has almost half a million followers. In addition to law-related publications, Shel is the author of, Over 50 Defined – words just for us that aren’t in the dictionary . . . yet! and Over 50 Even More Defined – more words just for us that aren’t in the dictionary . . . yet! Her next book, Quinbloits are Relatable, is due out this fall.</p><p>Michelle C. Harrington, P.C.</p><p><a href="shelharrington.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">shelharrington.com</a></p><p><a href="okfamilylawyers.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">okfamilylawyers.com</a></p><p><a href="fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce.com</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/ShelHarringtonRelationshipAdvocate" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/ShelHarringtonRelationshipAdvocate</a></p><p>https://www.facebook.com/fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tune in to hear host Stephanie Laswell &amp; guest Shel Harrington discuss divorce as they are both pro-marriage. </p><p>Shel Harrington is a seasoned Family Law attorney and adjunct professor who has taught Family Law and related classes at Oklahoma City University School of Law for more than two decades. At her ShelHarrington.com website and related Facebook page, she writes about doing marriage and divorce better, and ways to stay out of her office. In her alternative life, Shel blogs with humor about being fierce over fifty at FatBottomFiftiesGetFierce.com. Her related smile-inducing Facebook page has almost half a million followers. In addition to law-related publications, Shel is the author of, Over 50 Defined – words just for us that aren’t in the dictionary . . . yet! and Over 50 Even More Defined – more words just for us that aren’t in the dictionary . . . yet! Her next book, Quinbloits are Relatable, is due out this fall.</p><p>Michelle C. Harrington, P.C.</p><p><a href="shelharrington.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">shelharrington.com</a></p><p><a href="okfamilylawyers.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">okfamilylawyers.com</a></p><p><a href="fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce.com</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/ShelHarringtonRelationshipAdvocate" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/ShelHarringtonRelationshipAdvocate</a></p><p>https://www.facebook.com/fatbottomfiftiesgetfierce</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">eaf025e4-806c-4605-8a5f-09f9fc8767a0</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/1fe00206-745e-43b9-95b3-5d7e015ed00c/26-20230329-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="65083449" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode></item><item><title>25 - Professional guest Audra George with Pretty Neat</title><itunes:title>25 - Professional guest Audra George with Pretty Neat</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Listen is as Stephanie Marie chats with CEO of  Pretty Neat: An Organizational Solution on how our environment effects us holistically. </p><p>To learn more about Pretty Neat visit: https://prettyneatok.com/ </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listen is as Stephanie Marie chats with CEO of  Pretty Neat: An Organizational Solution on how our environment effects us holistically. </p><p>To learn more about Pretty Neat visit: https://prettyneatok.com/ </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">775d1b90-7d72-4d02-9bf3-a544e8caeae5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8eeaaf9b-6560-49c8-a910-38d7f0acf721/25-20230322-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="32351449" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:52</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode></item><item><title>24 - Do you know about True Dads?</title><itunes:title>24 - Do you know about True Dads?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Your host Stephanie chats with Ryan from True Dads. A OKC non-profit that is supporting &amp; equipping dads in their journey through fatherhood. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your host Stephanie chats with Ryan from True Dads. A OKC non-profit that is supporting &amp; equipping dads in their journey through fatherhood. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e4fd43a9-728c-4145-adaf-6f9f7b327bb6</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/2857b53c-7e1e-4507-954b-83dd1234e06c/24-20230315-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="45585356" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>23:46</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode></item><item><title>23 - Expected Stages of Divorce</title><itunes:title>23 - Expected Stages of Divorce</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie Marie discusses the stages of divorce &amp; some things to expect when going through the divorce process. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie Marie discusses the stages of divorce &amp; some things to expect when going through the divorce process. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">865dc12f-3828-45be-a83d-4f7664a827ed</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/89898262-f73c-46dc-bdd0-62744291d954/23-20230308-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="42772249" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:18</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode></item><item><title>22 - Mason Phillips; Marriage &amp; Family Therapist</title><itunes:title>22 - Mason Phillips; Marriage &amp; Family Therapist</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie Marie chats with licensed marriage and family therapist &amp; hypnotist, Mason Phillips. They discuss the holistic approach to their work &amp; how it can benefit couples, individuals &amp; divorcees.</p><p>To learn more about the services Mason provides, visit:</p><p><a href="https://www.masonphillipslmft.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.masonphillipslmft.com/</a></p><p>As always, thanks for tuning in! Until next time, radiate love!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie Marie chats with licensed marriage and family therapist &amp; hypnotist, Mason Phillips. They discuss the holistic approach to their work &amp; how it can benefit couples, individuals &amp; divorcees.</p><p>To learn more about the services Mason provides, visit:</p><p><a href="https://www.masonphillipslmft.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.masonphillipslmft.com/</a></p><p>As always, thanks for tuning in! Until next time, radiate love!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">9547275b-8ae3-47b3-8041-6553fd496d92</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/498d1f7a-1bd4-44c8-b941-eb1eefa6a0cb/22-20230215-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="68663929" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>35:48</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode></item><item><title>21 - Let&apos;s Connect Speed Dating in OKC</title><itunes:title>21 - Let&apos;s Connect Speed Dating in OKC</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Your host Stephanie Marie Laswell invites Stephanie Nana to tell us about the new dating niche she is brining to Oklahoma.</p><p>You can find out more about Let's Connect Speed Dating here: <a href="https://www.letsconnectspeeddating.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.letsconnectspeeddating.com/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your host Stephanie Marie Laswell invites Stephanie Nana to tell us about the new dating niche she is brining to Oklahoma.</p><p>You can find out more about Let's Connect Speed Dating here: <a href="https://www.letsconnectspeeddating.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.letsconnectspeeddating.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">58f59a7a-c694-4cd8-81e0-251315f6b54e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/6ea2da47-2daa-47b3-82da-d0b155057f0b/21-20230116-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="26089783" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode></item><item><title>20 - Mary Huang; Wealth</title><itunes:title>20 - Mary Huang; Wealth</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie talks to guest Mary Huang about wealth and finance and how that relates to divorce.</p><p>You can find Mary Huang on her website:</p><p><a href="https://www.marylhuang.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.marylhuang.com/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie talks to guest Mary Huang about wealth and finance and how that relates to divorce.</p><p>You can find Mary Huang on her website:</p><p><a href="https://www.marylhuang.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.marylhuang.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8537b0ff-b4d7-4ef2-bcb5-e2b0c8ed1d3d</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/989ca25c-0ce4-44a8-b953-c2e9c3cb1b2a/20-20230111-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="40598744" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>21:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode></item><item><title>19 - Grant Johnson; Insurance</title><itunes:title>19 - Grant Johnson; Insurance</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie invites Grant Johnson to the podcast and they discuss insurance and how divorce can affect policies, credit, and more!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie invites Grant Johnson to the podcast and they discuss insurance and how divorce can affect policies, credit, and more!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">36b6d0b0-f86d-495a-ae3f-6d40c024e084</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/5c69a867-a789-4d3c-a557-648d0c4f4d0a/19-Ashes-To-Beauty-Insurance.mp3" length="36316029" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>18:56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode></item><item><title>18 - Stephanie on her services</title><itunes:title>18 - Stephanie on her services</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie has a solo podcast and she discusses how she became an expert on divorce and the services she provides as a divorce coach.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie has a solo podcast and she discusses how she became an expert on divorce and the services she provides as a divorce coach.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">49c8577b-3d6f-4119-9ad1-dfc03caea2bf</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/83302849-1c6f-4626-b6ae-d74d52f565f7/18-Ashes-To-Beauty.mp3" length="40489649" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:53</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode></item><item><title>17 - Charity Danker; Sex and Relationship Coach</title><itunes:title>17 - Charity Danker; Sex and Relationship Coach</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Charity Danker joins host Stephanie to talk about sexual health, intimacy, and communication, which is one factor that is helpful in preventing divorce.</p><p>Charity is a holistic sex and relationship coach, and a certified sex therapist, somatic sex educator, and certified orgasmic meditation life coach and trainer.</p><p>You can find Charity through her website:</p><p><a href="https://desireokc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://desireokc.com/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charity Danker joins host Stephanie to talk about sexual health, intimacy, and communication, which is one factor that is helpful in preventing divorce.</p><p>Charity is a holistic sex and relationship coach, and a certified sex therapist, somatic sex educator, and certified orgasmic meditation life coach and trainer.</p><p>You can find Charity through her website:</p><p><a href="https://desireokc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://desireokc.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4fc47f70-3dec-43cd-b80d-7d0c6265fed0</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/72080b8d-e622-4bc5-9d9d-d0c35432efc8/17-20221130-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="58858522" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>30:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode></item><item><title>16 - Mary Ann Hughes</title><itunes:title>16 - Mary Ann Hughes</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Mary Ann Hughes joins host Stephanie to discuss how Mary Ann helps her clients as they go through a divorce involving children, including neurodivergent children.</p><p>A project mentioned on the podcast with advice for supporting neurodiverse kids in divorce: <a href="https://youtube.com/@LENDdivorceproject" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://youtube.com/@LENDdivorceproject</a></p><p>Mary Ann also has a course available on her website: <a href="https://specialfamilytransitions.com/resources" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://specialfamilytransitions.com/resources</a></p><p>Mary Ann's website: <a href="https://specialfamilytransitions.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://specialfamilytransitions.com/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary Ann Hughes joins host Stephanie to discuss how Mary Ann helps her clients as they go through a divorce involving children, including neurodivergent children.</p><p>A project mentioned on the podcast with advice for supporting neurodiverse kids in divorce: <a href="https://youtube.com/@LENDdivorceproject" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://youtube.com/@LENDdivorceproject</a></p><p>Mary Ann also has a course available on her website: <a href="https://specialfamilytransitions.com/resources" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://specialfamilytransitions.com/resources</a></p><p>Mary Ann's website: <a href="https://specialfamilytransitions.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://specialfamilytransitions.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6cc67159-6be0-486c-bd5e-48d401930757</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/eeabe2ba-e65b-4d83-bd29-c9ed1b729ef0/16-20221116-Ashes-Into-Beauty.mp3" length="36044657" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>25:04</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode></item><item><title>15 - Heidi returns to discuss relationship coaching</title><itunes:title>15 - Heidi returns to discuss relationship coaching</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Heidi joins host Stephanie to discuss Heidi's work as a relationship coach and how she helps her clients through the many details surrounding divorce.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heidi joins host Stephanie to discuss Heidi's work as a relationship coach and how she helps her clients through the many details surrounding divorce.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">38171e58-34c3-437f-a26c-b3403e3f56ed</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2022 00:15:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/d9e714d6-58e5-450a-a72f-1e1e30f076e0/20221114-Ashes-To-Beauty.mp3" length="47643790" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:08</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode></item><item><title>14 - 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Mark</title><itunes:title>04 - Mark</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie and her guest Mark recall what it means to let go of the burdens in life that are not meant for us to carry.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Host Stephanie and her guest Mark recall what it means to let go of the burdens in life that are not meant for us to carry.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://www.buildingbridgesokc.org/thedivorcedlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a78767ae-1dcd-4d86-ad5f-90a4c3e34f44</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84912072-4913-4b1b-bc6e-9a5c58fb0b45/W7aA7ZCvjgg-mmn56RV8sxCC.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2022 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/e2cd94a1-84a0-4972-8ec4-213798106523/From-Ashes-to-Beauty-EP-04.mp3" length="75026891" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode></item><item><title>03 - 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