<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/back-on-your-terms/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Back On Your Terms]]></title><podcast:guid>8cea890c-8a88-5767-9d66-19300b0a7dbd</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 20:53:56 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Kelly Knight]]></copyright><managingEditor>Kelly Knight</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you are the one who keeps everything moving, at home, at work, and for everyone else, but still end the day feeling like you have somehow let yourself down, this show is for you. Hosted by Kelly Knight, this podcast is for women who are tired of living in full-on busy mode and ready to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of their time. 
In this show, Kelly talks about why busy is not the same as moving forward, how guilt quietly steals your time, and why another planner is not the answer. She also shares her no label strategy and practical ways to build a calendar that actually works for your life, so listeners can reclaim their time and stop feeling like their schedule is running the show.]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/954878cd-bdac-4b78-9a40-f1b870913170/Time-in-Plain-Sight-1.jpg</url><title>Back On Your Terms</title><link><![CDATA[https://back-on-your-terms.captivate.fm]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/954878cd-bdac-4b78-9a40-f1b870913170/Time-in-Plain-Sight-1.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Kelly Knight</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Kelly Knight</itunes:author><description>If you are the one who keeps everything moving, at home, at work, and for everyone else, but still end the day feeling like you have somehow let yourself down, this show is for you. Hosted by Kelly Knight, this podcast is for women who are tired of living in full-on busy mode and ready to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of their time. 
In this show, Kelly talks about why busy is not the same as moving forward, how guilt quietly steals your time, and why another planner is not the answer. She also shares her no label strategy and practical ways to build a calendar that actually works for your life, so listeners can reclaim their time and stop feeling like their schedule is running the show.</description><link>https://back-on-your-terms.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Personal Journals"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>You Can’t Change What You Won’t Face</title><itunes:title>You Can’t Change What You Won’t Face</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’m talking about the part that can feel uncomfortable, but changes everything: looking honestly at where you are right now. It’s not about blaming yourself, beating yourself up or deciding you’ve got it all wrong.</p><p>It’s about finally seeing what is actually happening with your time, energy and capacity.</p><p>When life is full, it’s easy to keep going, keep saying yes and keep telling yourself you just need to be more organised. But real change starts when you stop guessing and start noticing what is working, what is draining you and what keeps getting pushed aside.</p><p>This is where ownership begins, and it’s the first step towards creating success that actually feels sustainable.</p><p>Highlights:</p><p>(01:30) - Why awareness matters, but still is not enough</p><p>(02:06) - How busyness can become a shield from the truth</p><p>(02:48) - The quiet signs that your calendar no longer reflects what matters</p><p>(03:18) - Why things build gradually until your body finally says no</p><p>(03:52) - What ownership really means, without blame or pressure</p><p>(04:27) - The questions that help you see where your time is really going</p><p>The Summer holidays are coming !</p><p>If you’re already mentally juggling childcare, work, family plans, logistics, routines and everybody else’s needs before summer has even started… or worse, you haven’t even started planning for summer yet… this is for you.</p><p>Join my FREE live workshop:</p><p>☀️ Summer Shouldn’t Feel This Stressful ☀️</p><p>A practical  workshop designed to help ambitious women reduce the mental load, stop running summer in survival mode and create a calmer, more manageable summer that works for THEM too.</p><p>15th June — 12 noon BST.</p><p>Sign up free <a href="https://iamican.fr/summer-should-not-be-this-stressful" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p>Connect with Kelly:</p><p></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/kelly-knight-sustainable-success-strategist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Website</a></p><p>Instagram @kelly.knight_success</p><p></p><p>FREE Resources</p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/7hour-reclaim-game-waitlist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My 7 Hour Reclaim Game</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/busy-but-bottlenecked-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why you’re busy but still bottlenecked…</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/time-blocking-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Time Blocking Bonus</a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’m talking about the part that can feel uncomfortable, but changes everything: looking honestly at where you are right now. It’s not about blaming yourself, beating yourself up or deciding you’ve got it all wrong.</p><p>It’s about finally seeing what is actually happening with your time, energy and capacity.</p><p>When life is full, it’s easy to keep going, keep saying yes and keep telling yourself you just need to be more organised. But real change starts when you stop guessing and start noticing what is working, what is draining you and what keeps getting pushed aside.</p><p>This is where ownership begins, and it’s the first step towards creating success that actually feels sustainable.</p><p>Highlights:</p><p>(01:30) - Why awareness matters, but still is not enough</p><p>(02:06) - How busyness can become a shield from the truth</p><p>(02:48) - The quiet signs that your calendar no longer reflects what matters</p><p>(03:18) - Why things build gradually until your body finally says no</p><p>(03:52) - What ownership really means, without blame or pressure</p><p>(04:27) - The questions that help you see where your time is really going</p><p>The Summer holidays are coming !</p><p>If you’re already mentally juggling childcare, work, family plans, logistics, routines and everybody else’s needs before summer has even started… or worse, you haven’t even started planning for summer yet… this is for you.</p><p>Join my FREE live workshop:</p><p>☀️ Summer Shouldn’t Feel This Stressful ☀️</p><p>A practical  workshop designed to help ambitious women reduce the mental load, stop running summer in survival mode and create a calmer, more manageable summer that works for THEM too.</p><p>15th June — 12 noon BST.</p><p>Sign up free <a href="https://iamican.fr/summer-should-not-be-this-stressful" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p>Connect with Kelly:</p><p></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/kelly-knight-sustainable-success-strategist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Website</a></p><p>Instagram @kelly.knight_success</p><p></p><p>FREE Resources</p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/7hour-reclaim-game-waitlist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My 7 Hour Reclaim Game</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/busy-but-bottlenecked-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why you’re busy but still bottlenecked…</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/time-blocking-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Time Blocking Bonus</a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://back-on-your-terms.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">0b047d34-0946-48eb-950a-24a5c2764066</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/954878cd-bdac-4b78-9a40-f1b870913170/Time-in-Plain-Sight-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 00:15:00 +0100</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/0b047d34-0946-48eb-950a-24a5c2764066.mp3" length="6857500" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>07:09</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode></item><item><title>Why You’re Busy But Still Bottlenecked</title><itunes:title>Why You’re Busy But Still Bottlenecked</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this first episode, I’m talking about something I see so often, capable women who are doing all the things, holding everything together and still ending the day feeling like they somehow haven’t moved forward.</p><p>You can be successful, reliable and busy, while still feeling stretched, reactive and quietly frustrated.</p><p>This episode is a gentle but honest look at why better time management is not always the answer. Sometimes the real issue is capacity, energy and alignment.</p><p>I’ll explain why you might be the bottleneck, not because you’re failing, but because the way you’re operating no longer supports the life or business you’re trying to build.</p><p>Highlights:</p><p>(01:30) - Why being successful should not mean living in survival mode</p><p>(01:52) - The reliable-one trap and why it can leave you resentful</p><p>(02:31) - Why “I just need to get more organised” is not the whole story</p><p>(03:06) - The real mix behind the bottleneck: capacity, energy and alignment</p><p>(03:47) - Why you might be the bottleneck, without it being your fault</p><p>(04:58) - Awareness is where things finally start to change</p><p>The Summer holidays are coming !</p><p>If you’re already mentally juggling childcare, work, family plans, logistics, routines and everybody else’s needs before summer has even started… or worse, you haven’t even started planning for summer yet… this is for you.</p><p>Join my FREE live workshop:</p><p>☀️ Summer Shouldn’t Feel This Stressful ☀️</p><p>A practical workshop designed to help ambitious women reduce the mental load, stop running summer in survival mode and create a calmer, more manageable summer that works for THEM too.</p><p>15th June — 12 noon BST.</p><p>Sign up free <a href="https://iamican.fr/summer-should-not-be-this-stressful" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p>Connect with Kelly:</p><p></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/kelly-knight-sustainable-success-strategist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Website</a></p><p>Instagram @kelly.knight_success</p><p></p><p>FREE Resources</p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/7hour-reclaim-game-waitlist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My 7 Hour Reclaim Game</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/busy-but-bottlenecked-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why you’re busy but still bottlenecked…</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/time-blocking-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Time Blocking Bonus</a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this first episode, I’m talking about something I see so often, capable women who are doing all the things, holding everything together and still ending the day feeling like they somehow haven’t moved forward.</p><p>You can be successful, reliable and busy, while still feeling stretched, reactive and quietly frustrated.</p><p>This episode is a gentle but honest look at why better time management is not always the answer. Sometimes the real issue is capacity, energy and alignment.</p><p>I’ll explain why you might be the bottleneck, not because you’re failing, but because the way you’re operating no longer supports the life or business you’re trying to build.</p><p>Highlights:</p><p>(01:30) - Why being successful should not mean living in survival mode</p><p>(01:52) - The reliable-one trap and why it can leave you resentful</p><p>(02:31) - Why “I just need to get more organised” is not the whole story</p><p>(03:06) - The real mix behind the bottleneck: capacity, energy and alignment</p><p>(03:47) - Why you might be the bottleneck, without it being your fault</p><p>(04:58) - Awareness is where things finally start to change</p><p>The Summer holidays are coming !</p><p>If you’re already mentally juggling childcare, work, family plans, logistics, routines and everybody else’s needs before summer has even started… or worse, you haven’t even started planning for summer yet… this is for you.</p><p>Join my FREE live workshop:</p><p>☀️ Summer Shouldn’t Feel This Stressful ☀️</p><p>A practical workshop designed to help ambitious women reduce the mental load, stop running summer in survival mode and create a calmer, more manageable summer that works for THEM too.</p><p>15th June — 12 noon BST.</p><p>Sign up free <a href="https://iamican.fr/summer-should-not-be-this-stressful" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p>Connect with Kelly:</p><p></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/kelly-knight-sustainable-success-strategist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Website</a></p><p>Instagram @kelly.knight_success</p><p></p><p>FREE Resources</p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/7hour-reclaim-game-waitlist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My 7 Hour Reclaim Game</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/busy-but-bottlenecked-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why you’re busy but still bottlenecked…</a></p><p><a href="https://iamican.fr/time-blocking-freebie" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Time Blocking Bonus</a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://back-on-your-terms.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8b25f90a-3fe1-4937-87da-be7f08ee57d1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/954878cd-bdac-4b78-9a40-f1b870913170/Time-in-Plain-Sight-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 00:15:00 +0100</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8b25f90a-3fe1-4937-87da-be7f08ee57d1.mp3" length="6982052" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>07:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode></item><item><title>TRAILER</title><itunes:title>TRAILER</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>If you are the one who keeps everything moving, at home, at work, and for everyone else, but still end the day feeling like you have somehow let yourself down, this show is for you.</p><p>Back On Your Terms Hosted by Kelly Knight.</p><p>This podcast is for women who are tired of living in full-on busy mode and ready to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of their time.</p><p>In this show, Kelly talks about why busy is not the same as moving forward, how guilt quietly steals your time, and why another planner is not the answer. 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