Not because it’s not there. Because you haven’t slowed down long enough to hear it.

Your days are full. Work, kids, responsibilities, constant output. You keep everything running, but somewhere in that, you lost connection with what actually lights you up.

So instead of trying to “find” your purpose, this is where you start seeing it differently. Through what you’ve already lived. Not something you need to go out and create.

Today you’re sitting down with your journal and walking through prompts that bring you back to yourself in a way that actually feels honest.

Journal Prompts

1. When someone asks what you’re passionate about or what lights you up, what happens? Do you go blank? Change the subject? Give an answer that doesn’t feel true?
2. Think about the hardest season of your life. What was actually happening? How did it feel?
3. How did you cope during that time? What did you do to protect yourself, your time, or your energy?
4. What came out of that season? Who did you become? What did you figure out?
5. Because of what I went through, I am really good at…............
6. Picture someone in the middle of what you already survived. What do you want to say to her? What does that show you about what you’re here to do?

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, unsure, or like everyone else seems to know what they want except you, this is for you.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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You’re more irritable than you want to be. And it feels like your body just isn’t keeping up with your life.

You’ve been told everything is normal. But something about that doesn’t sit right.

We get into what could actually be going on underneath that. From stress that doesn’t switch off to the way your body starts to compensate when it’s been pushed for too long. The symptoms that get brushed off. The patterns that quietly build.

This is for the woman who knows something feels off, even if she can’t explain it yet.

Resources mentioned:

• Dr. Miranda Naylor's Website: https://drmirandanaylor.com/
• Free clarity call with Dr. Miranda: https://drmirandanaylor.com/schedule-now/

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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But underneath it, there’s this quiet fear that if you don’t, everything might fall apart. So you keep relying on structure to hold you together.

Today, we go deeper into that pattern. Not to fix it, but to understand what’s actually driving it and where it came from.

Journal Prompts:

1. Where in your life are you relying on an external structure, system, or routine to keep yourself in check?
2. What are you afraid would happen if that structure disappeared? Get specific about what losing control actually looks like.
3. Where did you learn that you couldn’t be trusted to handle that on your own?
4. Is there any evidence that that belief isn’t always true? Where have you been okay or even better without the structure?
5. What would it feel like to trust yourself in that area? And what is one small way you can test that this week? Pick one and actually do it this week. Notice what happens.

If you’ve ever felt like you need rules, routines, or systems just to stay in control, this is for you.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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Before you know it, you’ve pressed snooze six times and you’re already behind your day.

This isn’t about discipline. It’s the pattern your body is stuck in.

In this episode, I walk you through what actually changed for me. Not forcing myself out of bed. Not setting more alarms. But shifting the way I wake up so I don’t need to fight myself in the morning.

If you’re tired of starting your day already frustrated and rushing, this will land.

A question to sit with after this episode:

Where are you relying on external structure because you don’t trust yourself or because you’re afraid of what happens if you trust yourself instead, like setting alarms?

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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It's meant as a compliment. But sometimes it lands differently. Almost like the word is pointing at something smaller than who you really are.

In Tuesday’s episode we talked about reclaiming sweetness as strength. Today we are looking at the meaning you have attached to that word and where that story came from.

Journal Prompts

1. When someone calls you sweet, how does it land? What are the positive meanings and what are the ones that do not sit well with you?
2. Where did those negative meanings come from? Was there a moment, relationship, or tone that shaped how you interpret the word sweet?
3. Were those people actually defining you? Or was the word reflecting something you already felt about yourself?
4. What proof do you have that the negative version is not the full truth?Where have you been bold, decisive, or direct even if it was quietly?
5. Finish these sentences. I want sweet to mean that I am…...I want my sweetness to be perceived as…...
6. Looking at your answer above, are you already living that? If yes, celebrate it. If not, what is one small step you can take this week?

If you do this exercise, I would love to hear what came up for you. You can reach me through email; hello@samantha-says.com

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 2 open spots: Work with me

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Because sometimes “sweet” carries an unspoken meaning underneath. Easygoing. Agreeable. The person who keeps the peace instead of saying what they actually want to say.

Over time that can quietly turn into people pleasing.

This episode is about the complicated relationship many of us have with the word sweet. How it can feel both kind and diminishing at the same time. Especially in work and relationships where being taken seriously matters.

After a conversation where Sam spoke up, challenged someone, and asked direct questions, the feedback she heard was that she was sweet. That moment raised a new possibility.

Maybe sweetness does not cancel out clarity. Maybe you can ask for what you need, say what you actually think, and still be someone people experience as kind.

If being nice has ever made it harder to speak up, this conversation might change how you think about it.

The episode ends with a few journaling questions to reflect on what sweetness means to you and whether it could actually be one of your strengths.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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Last night I did a future self visualization that felt like a total flop. No income numbers, no business wins, no morning routine inspo. Just a calm, confident woman looking back at me. And honestly? It bummed me out at first.

What came up after that is what this episode is really about. I'd been wearing constant work thoughts like a badge of honor, proof that I cared, proof that I was built for this. And the idea of not thinking about work felt like slipping.

This one is raw, unscripted, and I'm sharing it as it came to me.

If you have a few minutes, reflect on this Journal prompts:

1. Start with the work if that’s what comes up first. Money. Business goals. Success. What do your relationships actually look like?
2. How do you feel when you walk through your front door? What are you doing simply because you enjoy it?
3. What does being present feel like in your body? Who are you if you’re not thinking about work all the time?

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me
3. Connect with Sam: Instagram | Facebook

This episode is the companion journaling session to Tuesday's conversation with Kim O'Hara. We’re not talking about publishing strategies or writing routines. We’re looking at the identity gap between wanting to write the book and becoming the woman who actually does.

The real reason it’s still sitting there might not be time, discipline, or your kids’ schedules. It might be something deeper.

Strategic Journal prompts

1. Why do you want to write this book? Not the polished answer. The real one. Do you want credibility? To feel like an expert? To prove something? Or is there something inside you that needs to be said? If no one ever read it, would you still want to write it?
2. Write down every reason you haven’t written it yet. I don’t have time. I’m not an expert. I don’t know where to start. People will judge me. My story isn’t interesting. Put all of it on paper.
3. Go back through those reasons and circle the ones that are really just “I’m not enough” wearing different masks. For those circled beliefs, ask yourself: What would have to be true for me to feel allowed to write this book? Is that even my voice?
4. Think about the version of you who doesn’t write the book. She waits until she feels ready. What does she believe about herself? How does not writing the book keep her safe? What is she protecting by staying small?
5. Picture the version of you who writes the book. Even if it’s messy. Even if no one reads it. What does she believe about herself? What identity shift has to happen to become her? What has she been trying to tell you that you keep ignoring?
6. What is one small act of joy you are going to do this week just because it sounds good? Not because it’s productive. Not because it makes money. Just because it fills your cup.

This episode is for you if your book has been living on a to do list, a Notes app, or a vision board for longer than you want to admit.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 3 open spots: Work with me

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And then your brain says, you don’t have time. You’re not ready. You’ll be better in five years. So you wait.

In this conversation with book vision strategist Kim O’Hara, we talk about what’s actually stopping women from writing their books. It’s not time. It’s not discipline. And it’s not a lack of rituals. It’s trust.

Kim shares why writing the book is what shapes you into the next version of yourself.

If you keep saying you’ll start “when things slow down,” this is for you. If this conversation stirred something in you, don’t rush to outline a chapter. Build trust in tiny ways. The book will come from there.

Resources mentioned:

1. Website: kimohara.com
2. Overwhelmed to Organized— Free downloadable worksheets to help you move from overwhelmed to writing your book
3. Instagram: kimoharacoach
4. Substack: I Give You Permission
5. Podcast: This Delicious Life
6. Book a clarity call with Kim: https://scheduling.kimohara.com/#/BookClarityCall

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 3 open spots: Work with me

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This is a continuation of part three of the Beyond Awareness series that was aired on Tuesday. Today, we're journaling through what you're actually afraid will happen if you say no.

You're not saying yes because you want to help. You're saying yes because you think saying no means something about who you are as a person.

Journaling Prompts:

1. Think about something you recently said yes to that you didn’t actually want to do. What was it? Why did you say yes? What did saying yes give you in that moment? Did it make you feel needed, helpful, like a good person, like a team player?

2. Imagine you had said no. Walk through what you think would have happened. Would they have been disappointed? Would they have thought less of you? Would you have felt selfish or guilty? What is the worst case scenario your brain was trying to avoid?

3. If you weren’t the one everyone could count on. If you weren’t the person who always said yes and showed up… If you chose yourself and said no confidently…What would that mean about you? Would people still like you?Would you still be a good leader, mom, partner, friend? Would you still be worthy of your success?

4. What would you need to believe about yourself or trust about your relationships to say no without guilt? Finish this sentence: I’m allowed to say no to ______ without it meaning ______.

If you notice that you’ve been saying yes to prove you’re kind, capable, or worthy, that’s the belief that needs to shift.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me
3. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

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Then comes the frustration. The self-judgment. The quiet resentment. And the promise that next time you’ll handle it differently. But next time looks exactly the same.

This isn’t about better boundaries. It’s not about finding the perfect script. It’s about the belief underneath the yes. The one that says saying no makes you selfish. Or a bad boss. Or a bad mom. The one that quietly ties your worth to being needed.

In this final part of the Beyond Awareness series, we’re looking at the real reason you keep overcommitting, even when you know better. Why awareness alone hasn’t changed the pattern.

Because the shift isn’t becoming more disciplined. It’s building self-trust.

This is the layer beneath the mental load and beneath delegation. This is where real change starts.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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You step in before things fall apart. You tell yourself it’s faster if you do it yourself. And somehow, you’re still the one carrying it all.

This episode builds on Part Two of the Beyond Awareness series.

Journal Prompts to Help You Stop Doing Everything Yourself

1. Name one task at work you’re still doing even though someone else could handle it. Why are you really holding onto this? Not the surface reason. The honest one.
2. Imagine you delegated this and it was done differently than you would do it. What do you believe would happen next? What is the worst-case outcome your mind is trying to prevent?
3. If you weren’t the one checking, fixing, or holding everything together, who would you be? What would that mean about your value, your role, or how you’re seen?
4. What would you need to believe about yourself, your work, or the people around you to let this go? What permission do you need to give yourself?

If something came up while you were writing, that’s the point. You didn’t need a better system. You found the belief running the pattern.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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You’ve thought about delegating. You may have even tried. And yet nothing really changes. You’re still involved in everything. Still answering questions. Still carrying more than you want to.

In part 2 of the Beyond Awareness series, we’re looking at the gap between knowing you need to let go and actually being able to do it. Not from a systems or strategy perspective, but from what’s happening underneath.

Because for many people, delegation doesn’t feel hard because of logistics. It feels hard because it touches something deeper. The fear of what might happen if you step back.

Awareness alone doesn’t break these patterns. That’s why even with support, tools, or good intentions, the cycle keeps repeating.

If you want help but don’t trust that letting go won’t cost you something, this episode will help you understand why.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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If you’re the person who remembers everything, anticipates everything, and keeps everything moving, this one is for you.

This episode builds on Part One of the Beyond Awareness series. If you listened on Tuesday, you identified the thought loop behind your mental load. Today, we slow it down and give your brain space to let go.

Journal Prompts To Release the Mental Load

1. List everything that is currently taking up space in your brain right now. Work and home tasks.Things you’re afraid you’ll forget. Decisions you haven’t made yet. Don’t organize it. Don’t clean it up. Just write what’s actually there.
2. From that list, choose the thing that feels most urgent or most stressful. Ask yourself what you believe will happen if you stop thinking about this. If you let it go. If you trust someone else to handle it. If you forget it completely. What is the worst case scenario your brain is trying to prevent?
3. If you weren’t the person who remembered everything and held it all together, who would you be? What would that mean about you? Would you still be valuable? Still worthy of your career, your family, and the life you’re building?
4. What would you need to believe about yourself, or trust about your life, to let your brain rest? What permission do you need to give yourself?

If something came up while you were writing, that’s your signal you’ve gone beyond awareness. You didn’t find another solution. You uncovered the belief driving the pattern.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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This episode is Part 1 of the Beyond Awareness series, where we look at why knowing what to do isn’t the problem. And why awareness alone hasn’t been enough to create real change.

This isn’t a time-management issue. It’s not a discipline issue. And it’s not something another planner or system will fix.

In this episode, I walk you through:

1. Why holding everything in your head feels like responsibility, even when it’s costing you peace
2. The hidden beliefs that keep your brain “on” all the time
3. Why solutions like time-blocking, hiring help, or organization systems don’t stick
4. What actually has to shift for the mental load to get lighter

On Thursday, we’ll continue this work with a strategic journaling episode to help you uncover the specific belief that’s running your mental load, so you’re not just aware of it, but able to release it.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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This episode picks up where my conversation with Dr. Amy Beheimer left off and slows things down enough to look at what actually stops health habits from sticking. Not willpower. Not discipline. The thoughts and feelings that show up before you ever take action.

This is a guided journaling episode designed to help you understand why certain health goals keep falling apart - and what needs to shift so you can follow through in a way that actually fits your life.

We go beyond “I should be doing this” and into the beliefs, expectations, and quiet pressure that keep pulling you back into the same cycle.

Journal through these prompts:

1. What health habit do you know you “should” be doing, but keep not doing because it feels too small to matter?
2. When you think about doing that habit, what do you tell yourself that stops you? Not the logical reason - the automatic thought that shows up.
3. If you’re brutally honest, do you actually want this health goal? Or do you think you should want it because everyone else does? If you don’t want it, what would feel good to your body instead?
4. What would need to change about this habit for you to genuinely want to do it? Not force yourself. Not white-knuckle it. Actually want it.

Dr. Amy says habits aren’t just what we do or don’t do - they’re the thoughts and feelings that come first.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 3 open spots: Work with me

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When goals quietly fall apart, it’s usually not because you didn’t care enough. It’s because the strategy was wrong.

In today's conversation, I’m joined by Dr. Amy Behimer to talk about why most goals fail, what actually makes habits stick, and how to work with your brain instead of constantly fighting it. We talk about the hidden layers beneath your habits, why motivation fades, and how tiny, intentional shifts can change everything over time.

This episode is especially for you if you’ve ever started the year feeling hopeful, only to feel frustrated when the momentum disappears. Or if you’ve been blaming yourself for not following through, even though you genuinely want things to change.

If you’re tired of starting over and ready for a different approach, this conversation offers one that feels realistic, grounded, and sustainable.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Habit Quiz: https://amybehimercoaching.com/quiz
2. Dr. Amy's podcast: Autoimmune Health Secrets- The episode I was featured on her podcast
3. Connect with Dr. Amy on IG

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 3 open spots: Work with me

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It’s late, your body is tired, and you’re frustrated because you meant to stop.

Today, we slow the moment down and look at what actually keeps pulling you back to work - the “just in case,” the fear of what might happen if you stop, and the belief about your worth that’s tied to staying available.

Journaling Prompts

1. What is one work behavior you know you should stop, but can’t make yourself stop?
2. What do you think will happen if you stop doing this behavior? What’s the fear underneath it?
3. What does this behavior give you? Or what would you lose if you stopped?
4. What belief about your worth or value is tied to this behavior?

This belief is the root. It’s what keeps you working at 9 PM. It’s why turning notifications off feels uncomfortable. It’s why willpower, discipline, and tighter boundaries don’t actually solve the problem.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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You understand your patterns. You know why you react the way you do. But your body is still tense. Your nervous system is still on edge. Burnout hasn’t lifted.

Therapy creates insight - but insight alone doesn’t change how you live. The relief comes from what happens between sessions, not just inside them.

In this conversation, I explain the two gaps therapy doesn’t close on its own: The space between insight and reflection, and the space between knowing and doing.

We talk about why awareness without embodiment keeps people stuck, how old patterns like people-pleasing and over-functioning survive even after big realizations, and what it actually looks like to practice change in real life.

If therapy has helped you understand yourself, but you’re still tired, this episode shows you what’s missing - and how to use what you’re already learning to create real relief.

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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The same thought. The same worry. The same unfinished conversation looping, even after you’ve rested. You might be sleeping more. Taking breaks. Trying to slow down. And yet, you still wake up tired.

In my conversation earlier this week with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, author of The Seven Types of Rest, she shared something important: emotional rest doesn’t come from stopping the noise. It comes from processing what your mind is holding onto.

Today, we slow things down. Not to fix anything. Not to solve the problem. But to create space for what’s been quietly draining you.

Journal with me using these prompts:

1. What thought, worry, or conversation keeps replaying in my mind right now? Write it down exactly as it sounds in my head. No filtering. Just capture the loop.
2. What type of rest deficit might this be pointing to? Mental, emotional, social, spiritual, physical, sensory, or creative.
3. Why am I actually holding on to this thought? What do I believe will happen if I let it go or don’t solve it right now? What am I afraid this situation means about me?
4. If I truly wanted to pour back into this depleted area — not just stop the bleeding — what would that look like? What would help me feel restored, not just less drained?

By the end of this episode, you’ll feel calmer and clearer — not because everything is resolved, but because you understand what your mind has been trying to protect.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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In this conversation, I’m joined by Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, physician and author of The Seven Types of Rest, to talk about why sleep alone doesn’t fix burnout, mental overload, or that constant feeling of being drained.

We unpack the difference between sleep and rest, why so many high-achieving women feel tired even when they’re “doing everything right,” and how exhaustion often comes from the places in life where you’re pouring out without restoring.

This isn’t about adding another habit or fixing your bedtim e routine. It’s about noticing where your energy is going, and what it actually takes to feel rested again.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Rest quiz: https://www.restquiz.com/home-page/
2. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
3. Episode 15 about the 7 Types of Rest: https://pod.link/1651843607/episode/S2FqYWJpLTIxNDc4NTMyMjc

Connect with Dr. Saundra:

1. Learn more about Dr. Saundra: DrDaltonSmith.com
2. Dr. Saundra's Website: https://ichoosemybestlife.com/
3. Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drdaltonsmith/

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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So why can't you make yourself do it?

Today we're going beyond awareness into the root belief keeping you stuck. Grab your journal - we're digging into what's actually underneath the pattern.

Journaling prompts from the episode:

1. What’s one pattern you’re aware of but can’t seem to change?
2. What story are you telling yourself about why it keeps happening?
3. What would it cost you to change this pattern? What might you be protecting?
4. Based on what comes up, what actually needs to heal?

We're not shaming ourselves or relying on discipline. We're addressing the root belief so your solution actually works instead of being another thing you "should" do.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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Why do you keep thinking, “I’m so aware of this… shouldn’t that be enough by now?”

You’ve named the pattern a hundred times. Burnout. Overwhelm. Autopilot. You’ve tried fixing it (therapy, routines, tools, discipline) and somehow you still end up right back here. Knowing isn’t the problem anymore. It’s the part that comes after.

In this episode, we sit in that frustrating gap between awareness and actual change. Not to judge it or rush past it — but to understand what’s really keeping you stuck. This is about loosening the anchor underneath the pattern, not adding another thing to your to-do list.

You’ll be guided to reflect on:

1. Why insight alone hasn’t created the shift you expected
2. The hidden belief that keeps stress and busyness feeling “safer”
3. How solutions can fail when the root is left untouched
4. What it looks like to go beyond awareness and into real change

By the end, you won’t feel like you need to try harder or do more. You’ll feel steadier, clearer, and less at war with yourself — with a new way to approach change that actually sticks.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. 90 min Breakthrough Intensives - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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Like you’re doing all the right things, but you’re not really in it anymore?

Maybe you’ve been moving through your days on autopilot - showing up, performing, meeting expectations - without checking in with what you actually want.

Today, we slow everything down. Not to fix anything, but to notice what’s been running in the background of your life. You’ll get space to reflect on where you’ve been performing, why it feels safe, and what it might look like to come back to yourself in small, honest ways.

Journal with me using these prompts:

1. Where have I been performing or living on autopilot this past year? (At work, at home, in my habits, in how I show up.)
2. Why does staying on autopilot feel good or safe for me? What am I protecting myself from?
3. What is this version of me actually costing me? What do I miss out on when I stay here?
4. If I stopped performing for a moment, what’s one small thing I could do this week that feels more like me?

By the end of this episode, you’ll feel more grounded and self-aware—less pressure to keep performing, and more permission to reconnect with who you are underneath the autopilot.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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Why does everything start to feel heavy the moment you think about how it’ll look to other people?

There’s a quiet pressure to show up prepared, polished, and put-together...even when no one asked for that version of you. Maybe it shows up in your work, your routines, or the way you manage everyone else’s expectations. Underneath it, there’s this fear that if you stop trying so hard, you’ll be exposed as “not enough.”

In this episode you'll understand:

1. Why over-preparing might actually be blocking your best work (and keeping you from feeling like yourself)
2. The question that led to my biggest breakthrough: "What am I actually afraid will happen if I don't do this?"
3. How "performance mode" shows up differently for everyone — and why it all comes back to the same thing: safety
4. Small, tangible ways to stop filtering yourself (starting with what you wear and how you speak)

After listening, you’ll be able to slow down and ask, “What do I actually want right now?” - and trust that answer. Not perfectly. Just honestly.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes. Plus integration call 2 weeks later. Book your Breakthrough
2. Exhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 4 open spots: Work with me

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You finally have a quiet moment, but your mind is still running through what you forgot, what you should be doing next, and whether you did enough for everyone.

If you’re physically present but mentally elsewhere, you’re not doing anything wrong. This is what happens when you’re used to carrying everything—your family, your business, the expectations, the invisible to-do list—even on days that are supposed to feel slow.

In this short guided meditation, you’ll give yourself permission to set everything down for a few minutes. Not to fix anything. Not to improve yourself. Just to be here—without guilt, pressure, or the feeling that you should be doing more.

In this meditation, you'll:

1. Release the mental load you've been carrying (the to-do list, the guilt, the "did I do enough?" spiral)
2. Remind yourself that being off today doesn't make you less professional — it makes you more aligned
3. Practice saying "I am enough" and actually feeling it in your body
4. Give yourself permission to just be mom, not the one orchestrating everyone else's experience

After listening, you'll feel grounded enough to stay in the room — not just physically, but emotionally. Take five minutes. You don’t need to earn rest. You’re allowed to be here.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
2. Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Maybe you're stress-cleaning while your kids ask for snacks. Maybe you took time off but you're too exhausted to be present. Maybe you're working and judging yourself for not being festive enough.

This episode gives you the permission slips you need right now. Not tips. Not strategies. Just permission to feel however you're actually feeling.

Permission Slip #1: To not feel festive

Permission Slip #2: To take an actual break (or to work guilt-free)

Permission Slip #3: To feel however you feel

Permission Slip #4: To not have it all figured out by January 1

Journal Prompt: What permission do I actually need to give myself right now?

Sit with it. Maybe journal it. Maybe just think about it while folding laundry.

If you're tired of needing permission slips every time life gets intense, I have 90-minute Breakthrough Intensive spots opening in January. Check out the link below.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
2. Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

1. 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
2. Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Here's what nobody tells you: taking a break won't fix it if you don't know what's actually driving the overstimulation in the first place. You'll just come back from your week off and fall right back into the same patterns.

This journaling session gets you to the root. Four prompts that'll help you figure out if you're even doing things you want to be doing, what staying overstimulated might be protecting you from, and what you'd actually do with your time if you had space to think. No fluff, just the questions that create real shifts.

Journal through these prompts:

1. What is overstimulating me right now?
2. Are the things that overstimulate me things I want to be doing? Or did I adopt them from someone else's expectations?
3. Even though I don't want to be overstimulated, I keep finding myself here. What could this pattern be protecting me from?
4. If I wasn't overstimulated and had more space in my brain and my day, what would I love to spend that time and energy doing?

You'll finish this session with clarity you can't unsee. And you'll stop spinning in the same cycle of overwhelm, break, repeat.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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But here's what actually happens: you hit your breaking point, book a retreat or take a week off, feel temporarily better — and then you're right back where you started. Overstimulated. Exhausted. Running on fumes again.

This episode pulls back the curtain on why we wait until we're desperate to prioritize ourselves, and why those big drastic measures (the retreats, the content courses, the "I'm taking next month off" declarations) aren't actually solving the problem. You'll walk away understanding what's really driving your overstimulation — and three practical ways to regulate your nervous system without needing to escape your life first.

Key Takeaways:

• Why retreats should enhance your life, not be a lifeline to revive you
• The question that reveals if you're actually prioritizing yourself (or just decision fatigued)
• How to stop the cycle of "I'll rest when..." and feel grounded in your actual everyday life
• Three tips to regulate your nervous system right now — no retreat required

You'll stop waiting for permission to feel calm. And you'll start trusting that you can feel less overstimulated without blowing up your schedule or booking a flight.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Most working moms don't question it. You just assume it's your job. That if you don't do it, it won't get done (or won't get done right). And honestly? Part of you might not even want to stop — because being the holiday coordinator gives you something. Control. Identity. Proof that you're a good mom.

This episode isn't about adding more to your plate. It's about creating awareness around the beliefs that are keeping you exhausted.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

• What would happen if you didn't coordinate everything this year?
• What are you afraid your family would think, feel, or say if you didn't coordinate everything this year?
• What does being the holiday coordinator give you? Is it identity, control, or maybe proof that you're a good mom?

These prompts might make you uncomfortable. That's the point. This is how you start questioning the beliefs keeping you stuck — and find a way forward that doesn't require burning yourself out to prove your worth.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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This episode breaks down the belief driving the exhaustion — and what changes when you stop long enough to ask yourself: Why am I doing this? Do I even enjoy it?

Key Takeaways

• The hidden belief behind holiday burnout (and how it shows up on autopilot)
• What you’re trying to protect when you take responsibility for every detail
• A simple question to ask before adding one more tradition, event, or expectation
• How to create joy without performing perfection

After listening, you’ll feel lighter — like you can enjoy the season instead of choreographing it. Press play and give yourself permission to let something be easier this year.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Or maybe it's simpler than that — you see two women laughing together and your brain goes: they don't need you anymore.

It's embarrassing to admit. You're a grown woman. You're successful. You know this is irrational. But the jealousy? The comparison? The exhausting need to prove you're still relevant? It's there. And it's quietly running your friendships, your collaborations, the rooms you avoid walking into.

In today's journaling session, we're going straight to the root: the childhood moment that taught you connection = competition. And we're getting it out of your body.

Inside the free journaling guide, you'll get:

• All 7 strategic prompts with space to journal directly in the doc
• Bonus prompts on breaking the cycle and identifying where this shows up in your life
• Somatic release practices to rewire your nervous system
• No email required - just click, make a copy, and start journaling

Grab the complete guide here: Strategic Journaling to Process & Release Your Sister Wounds

This isn't just awareness work. This is nervous system rewiring so you can stop performing for belonging and start choosing it.

Resources Mentioned:

• Grab the free Google Doc with all 7 prompts + space to journal right in the document (no email required): Strategic Journaling to Process & Release Your Sister Wounds
• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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That's why you hesitate to join the mastermind full of women like you. Why you stay late instead of delegating. Why the thought of bringing on a podcast guest who does something similar makes your stomach drop.

You tell yourself it's about staying focused or protecting your brand. But really? It goes back to that one time another girl made you feel like you weren't enough. Your body still remembers it.

Today I'm getting vulnerable and sharing my own sister wound - two events from senior year of high school. I learned it wasn't safe to let other women get close. And that lesson has been steering my business decisions, my collaborations, even who I invite on this podcast.

I'm not here to dig up the past for drama's sake. I'm here because I finally figured out why I pull back when I should be leaning in - and you probably do the same thing. Once we know this...we can set ourselves free from our sabotage!

What you'll hear:

• What a sister wound actually is (and the subtle ways it shows up in your business and leadership)
• Why my fear of being "outshined" was keeping me from bringing on the exact guests you need to hear from
• The 3-section journaling process that goes way deeper than "what are you grateful for" - straight to the emotional root
• How to tell if you're protecting yourself from collaboration, networking, or visibility without even realizing it
• Why your younger self created rules to keep you safe - and how to teach her a new definition of belonging

By the end, you'll likely recognize your own pattern. And you'll have the prompts to actually work through it - not just understand it intellectually.

This one shifted something big for me. I have a feeling it might for you too.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sister Wounds Journal Prompts: Strategic Journaling to Process & Release Your Sister Wounds
• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Most gratitude journaling feels empty because we're listing things instead of tapping into feelings. And here's what I've learned: the goals you're chasing? They're always attached to an emotion you're craving. Maybe it's peace. Or freedom. Or feeling capable again. That's what we're digging into today.

I'm walking you through four prompts that help you identify the feeling beneath what you want — and then find ways to feel it right now. Not later. Not when everything's perfect. Today.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. What are you working towards right now — and what's the feeling you're actually chasing beneath it?
2. When was the last time you felt that emotion, even for five minutes? Get specific.
3. What elements from that moment are already in your life right now but you've been overlooking?
4. How can you feel that desired emotion today, in small ways?

You'll stop waiting to arrive and start feeling it now. That's the shift.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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You’re doing the things, showing up for everyone, checking the boxes… but underneath, you’re tired in a way that gratitude doesn’t fix. Maybe you’ve been carrying stress that no one sees. Maybe there’s a grief you’ve been trying to outrun. Or maybe you’re just exhausted from pretending you’re okay because “other people have it worse.”

Here’s the truth: you can be grateful and still feel overwhelmed. Both can exist. And in this episode, I’m vulnerably sharing the heavy things happening in my life currently + the moment I finally stopped minimizing what I was feeling — and the 2 shifts that helped me breathe again.

You’ll understand:

• Why naming hard things doesn’t make you ungrateful — it makes you honest
• The question that softened my hardest weeks: “How can this be easy?”
• How to stop carrying emotional weight that was never yours in the first place
• The journaling question that helped me see what I was carrying that wasn't mine

After listening, you’ll feel permission to stop “should-ing” yourself into silence and finally honor what’s heavy without getting swallowed by it.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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You want to be present. You're just not sure how to turn your brain off when there's still so much left undone. This episode is for YOU. It will help you figure out what's actually keeping you mentally at work—and give you permission to let it go

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. What specific work thought keeps replaying when you're trying to be present at home? Don't just say "everything." Name the exact thing—the decision, the email, the conversation—that follows you home.
2. If you let this go for the evening, what are you afraid would happen? Go to the worst-case scenario. Would you forget something? Would someone think you don't care? Write about the fear beneath the mental replay.
3. Think about the last time you were fully present at home. What was different about your internal state that day? Not just your schedule—but your nervous system. Were you calmer? More confident? What allowed you to be mentally there?
4. What if being present at home is the productive choice? If that were true, what would change? What would you give yourself permission to stop thinking about right now?

This is what one of my clients said after working with me:

"I've finally learned to leave work at work even if work is still stressful. I no longer bring work home with me and I'm a more supportive partner, especially when I don't explode at my husband from misplaced frustration at work."

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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Here's the thing: It's not about eating more protein or cutting carbs. It's about blood sugar — and how the way you start your day is setting you (and your kids) up for chaos. That coffee before breakfast? The banana as a snack? They're quietly sabotaging your hormones, your energy, and even your kids' ability to regulate their emotions. (Believe me, I felt attacked yet so understood since I always start my day with caffeine & no food for 1-2 hours lol.)

But we go way beyond nutrition advice. In today's episode, holistic nutrition expert Stefanie Adler breaks down exactly how blood sugar affects your hormones, why you're so depleted after having kids, and what minerals have to do with all of it. We go DEEP, and she provides her solution for how to slow down & how how to stress less!

You'll understand:

• Why coffee before breakfast is tanking your blood sugar for the entire day (and what to do instead)
• The "naked carbs" rule that will change how you snack — for you and your kids
• How mineral depletion after pregnancy is the real reason you're still tired years later
• What a hair mineral analysis can reveal about your stress, hormones, and inflammation

This isn't another list of things you're doing wrong — it's the missing piece that finally makes everything click.

Resources Mentioned:

• Click for Stefanie's website
• Follow Stefanie on IG: @stefanieadlerwellness
• Get 15% off your Hair Mineral Analysis Test w/ code JOURNALENTRIES. Click here for details & discount.
• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94

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You're tired of being everyone's lifeline. 🛟 You're exhausted from keeping all the balls in the air. And somewhere between your overflowing inbox and your kid's forgotten permission slip, you started holding your breath — waiting for something to fall apart.

This episode isn't about gratitude lists or adding more to your plate. It's about using the right questions to shift what's happening inside so you can stop spinning and start seeing clearly.

You'll journal through:

1. What actually feels out of control (and how it's showing up in your body)
2. The real fear underneath trying to hold it all together
3. Where this drowning pattern started—and what you did to survive it back then
4. What you could release today that wouldn't cause the disaster you're imagining

Strategic Journal Prompts (extended in the episode):

• Prompt 1: What feels most out of control in your life right now?
• Prompt 2: If you stopped trying to keep all of these balls in the air, if you just let one drop, what are you terrified would actually happen?
• Prompt 3: Think back to the first time in your life that you remember feeling this same drowning sensation. And the key question: what did you do then to try and stay afloat?
• Prompt 4: Write this at the top of your page: "What if I'm not actually drowning? What if I'm just holding my breath?" What is one thing that you could stop white-knuckling today that wouldn't actually cause the disaster that you fear?

After these four prompts, you'll stop white-knuckling your way through the day. You'll see what you're actually afraid of — and realize you've been holding your breath for no reason.

Resources Mentioned:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94
• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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My client sent me a screenshot of her Oura Ring Results last month — during our one-hour coaching call, her stress level dropped to "restored." The lowest it had been all day. We weren't meditating or doing breathing exercises. We were talking about company policies, team structure, and how to stop putting out fires at work. Her nervous system regulated while we strategized the hard stuff.

After listening, You'll then know:

• Why your body stays in fight-or-flight even when you're "doing everything right"
• The two gut fears that keep you from getting the support you actually need
• How to stop making decisions from overwhelm (so your nervous system can finally exhale)

Stop blaming yourself for not meditating enough — and start addressing what's actually keeping your stress high.

Resources Mentioned:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94
• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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If you’ve been pushing through the fog and telling yourself you’ll rest “after this week,” this one’s for you. Burnout isn’t just about doing too much; it’s about carrying too much alone. And when you’re in survival mode, rest can feel impossible — or even unsafe.

In today's journal session, you’ll get space to pause and reconnect with yourself — not to fix the burnout overnight, but to finally name what’s really draining you and what you actually need. These prompts are designed to help you see the emotional patterns underneath the exhaustion, not just the packed calendar.

Journal Prompts:

• What specific moments this week made you feel the most depleted?
• If your burnout disappeared tomorrow, what would need to change — and what feelings might surface if it did?
• What would shift if you only gave 70% instead of 110% for the next three days?

Press play, grab your journal, and give yourself 10 minutes to breathe again.

Resources Mentioned:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94
• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching
• Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

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Here's what nobody tells you: your body remembers what your mind wants to forget. Those chronic symptoms you can't shake? The digestive issues, the tension that won't release, the pain that moves around for no reason? Your body isn't broken. It's trying to tell you something.

In today's episode, I'm speaking with Maura Eliza about the mind-body connection most doctors don't understand — and why healing your nervous system might be the missing piece you've been looking for.

What You’ll Reflect On:

• Why symptoms can be messengers (not malfunctions) — and what they're actually trying to tell you
• How unresolved trauma from a toxic relationship can create physical symptoms that won't respond to traditional treatment
• What German New Medicine reveals about the real root cause of chronic health issues
• How to start listening to your body differently (instead of fighting it)

After this episode, you'll stop thinking your body is attacking you — and start seeing it as an ally trying to get your attention. And that shift changes everything. Don't forget to Tag us on Instagram if this episode hits different. We see you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Connect with Maura: https://www.instagram.com/flex.health.with.maura
• The Vibrant Way program — https://thevibrantway.com/
• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94
• Private Coaching - 2 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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My client Kristi became CFO after 3 years of working toward it. When she told me, she said, "So I guess that means I'm officially the CFO"—like she'd just completed another Tuesday task. No excitement. No pride. Just... what's next?

If you're someone who keeps raising the bar higher every time you reach it, you're not alone. Most high-achieving women were taught that humility and hustle matter more than satisfaction. So even when you've earned the right to rest or be proud, it feels... uncomfortable. Like celebrating might make you lazy, or ungrateful, or seen as "too much."

Journal Prompts:

1. What’s the last thing you accomplished that you didn’t celebrate?
2. When you think about celebrating it, what thought immediately follows?
3. If your child achieved the same thing, what would you tell them to believe about their worth?
4. What are you afraid might happen if you actually celebrated your wins?

These 10 minutes will help you see how the pattern started—and what it's costing you. Not just celebration, but the ability to feel successful no matter what you accomplish.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: (We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. You leave with a custom plan to feel fulfilled at work and present at home. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later.) https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94

Work with me:

• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private coaching - 2 spots left: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Most women I work with tell me they feel selfish spending money or time on themselves. But what if investing in your own leadership, clarity, and growth is actually the most selfless thing you could do? Not because it sounds good, but because it literally ripples into every area of your life.

In this episode (celebrating 3 years of Journal Entries!), you'll hear:

• Why the "selfish vs. selfless" question is the wrong one to ask
• The two types of fear (and which one means you should actually say yes)
• How my $2,500/month business coach investment led to this podcast existing
• The Bali retreat I didn't take — and why I still think about it

After listening, you'll stop apologizing for wanting more. You'll see that investing in yourself isn't taking from your family or team — it's giving them the best version of you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94

Work with me:

• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private coaching - 2 spots left: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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You’re managing a dozen invisible jobs — gifts, kids, deadlines, emotions — while trying to be grateful and present. You want to slow down, but your brain doesn’t know how to stop running ahead. The pressure to make everyone else’s season special is stealing the calm you keep promising yourself.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. Who am I trying to be for everyone else right now — and what’s it costing me?
2. What would I actually choose to do if no one expected anything?
3. Where do I stay busy as proof that I’m fine?
4. What does being present look like for me this season — not just in theory, but in practice?

After journaling through these prompts, you'll understand why you can't seem to turn off—and that awareness alone will help you stop going through the motions and start actually being there. Don't forget to DM me on Instagram (samantha.s.says) or email me (hello@samantha-says.com) and tell me what came up for you — I love hearing what these prompts unlock for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Breakthrough Intensives: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94

Work with me:

• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private coaching: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect: Instagram | Facebook | Reply to my newsletter

What if the thing holding you back isn't something you're doing wrong…but something you literally can't see? Your blind spots aren't obvious. That's the whole point. They show up as patterns you keep repeating, decisions you keep avoiding, or reactions you can't quite explain.

Today, I'm walking you through exactly how to spot what's been invisible to you—so you can finally move forward without the constant mental fog and decision fatigue.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why your blind spots keep you reacting instead of responding (and how that's draining your energy)
• The most common blind spots that stop ambitious women
• The exact questions to ask yourself when you feel stuck but don't know why (below!)
• How to stop overthinking every decision by seeing the pattern underneath it
• Why awareness alone isn't enough—and what to do after you see the blind spot!

After listening, you'll be able to recognize when you're stuck in a blind spot and know exactly what to do about it. No more spinning your wheels wondering why nothing's shifting.

The 5 questions to see your blind spot:

1. What am I doing (or not doing) because it’s what I think I “SHOULD” do…and what is the ripple effect?
2. Why is this pattern bothering you so much?
3. By NOT doing the thing you want to be doing, what is this protecting you from?
4. What do you actually care about in your business? What value is at the core of your business?
5. What would happen if you prioritized the thing that you actually care about in your business?

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint - my framework for processing emotions and making decisions with clarity: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Episode 180 to stop controlling your business & kids without everything falling apart. Listen on Apple | Listen on Spotify

Work with me:

• 📞 Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Breakthrough Intensives: → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/offers/LN9xep94

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But what if saying “this is hard” is actually the first sign of strength?

In this 5-minute journaling episode, I share a story about meeting another woman who was doing it all — and realizing I couldn’t see my own load until I saw hers. Together, we’ll journal through the hidden pressure successful women carry and what happens when we finally tell the truth about it.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. What’s currently on your plate that you haven’t fully acknowledged or spoken out loud?
2.  What story are you telling yourself about why this should or shouldn’t feel hard?
3. What are you afraid would happen if you fully acknowledged how much you’re carrying?
4. Where did you learn that you have to carry everything silently?

If you journal through this one, DM me on Instagram (samantha.s.says) or email me (hello@samantha-says.com) and tell me what came up for you — I love hearing what these prompts unlock for you.

Resources:

🧠 How to Clear Your Mental Load Workshop Now a mini-course since we already had the original live session!- You're not working too hard to accomplish more at work, or a "bad mom" for not being more present with your kids...your brain is just trying to manage something deeper than your to-do list. Let's fix it!

Calm Mind Blueprint - my framework for processing emotions and making decisions with clarity: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 📞 Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private 1:1 Coaching (2 spots open, start with a 4 month container instead of 6 in October only) → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect: Instagram | Facebook

Everything looks “fine” from the outside, but inside, something feels off. That might be grief — and no, nobody has to die for you to feel it.

Alyssa Rose joins me to unpack what grief can look like when it’s not about death — but about change.

We talk about the quiet ways grief shows up during major life transitions — career pivots, identity shifts, or the loss of the life you expected — and what it really means to honor those emotions instead of rushing past them.

This episode is for you if:

• You're grieving a career pivot, relationship shift, or identity change but feel guilty calling it "grief"
• You avoid going deep with your emotions because you're scared of opening the floodgates
• You and your partner are navigating the same loss in completely different ways (and it's causing distance)
• You're a former "positive person" who's finally letting yourself feel the hard stuff

You'll learn how to build trust with yourself to "go there" without losing it, how to ask for support in a way people can actually show up for you, and why tending your grief is actually the most loving thing you can do.

Your turn! Try this quick reflection after the episode:

Open your journal and write two short lists side-by-side:

1️⃣ What I thought this season would feel like

2️⃣ What it actually feels like

Don’t judge or fix it — just notice the gap.

That space between the two lists? That’s where your grief lives. Naming it is the first step to freeing it.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Alyssa Rose's Website: alisarosehealingarts.com

Instagram: @alisarosehealingarts

Email: alisarosehealingarts@gmail.com

Calm Mind Blueprint - my framework for processing emotions and making decisions with clarity: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private 1:1 Coaching (2 spots open, start with a 4 month container instead of 6 in October only) → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect: Instagram | Facebook

I made THREE different Google Docs for my son's school transition. Three. Each one mapped out a different morning routine depending on what time he woke up. I was literally scheduling my coffee time down to the minute.

Looking back? That wasn't planning. That was me trying to control something I couldn't control because I was scared.

You'll journal through:

• What's actually keeping you up at night about this transition (hint: it's probably not what you think)
• The sneaky ways you're trying to make change feel "safer"
• What you're most afraid would happen if you just... let it unfold
• Your personal pattern when things feel uncertain

Plus: The reframe that changed everything - what if your discomfort isn't a problem to fix but information about what you actually need right now?

Journaling Prompts from this episode:

1. What specific part of this transition is making you feel the most anxious or unsettled right now? (Go deeper than "change is hard")
2. What have you been doing to try to make this transition feel easier or less overwhelming?
3. What are you most afraid would happen if you stopped trying to control how this transition goes?
4. When was the last time you went through a major change in your life? How did you handle it? What patterns are showing up again now?

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint - my framework for processing emotions and making decisions with clarity: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private 1:1 Coaching (2 spots open, start with a 4 month container instead of 6 in October only) → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect: Instagram | Facebook

Today? I'm giving you the raw update. Week one was a disaster. Week two, I sat in my car for 4 hours taking coaching calls with the engine running. Week four, my anxiety is completely gone

...even though I'm recording this while Griffin interrupts me every 3 minutes asking for a bandaid because he cut himself on a cardboard knife. (Fact lol I may have edited that one out bc #momfail, but you'll hear his tiny voice!)

You'll hear:

• Why my anxiety disappeared once I stopped comparing schedules
• How losing work hours made me fitter (counterintuitive but true)
• What actually worked vs. my three planned Google Doc schedules
• My almost 5 year old's transformation in 4 weeks

Once those 7-hour daycare days weren't an option anymore, it stopped being "how will I ever make this work" and became "this IS working."

I'm not saying it's smooth. Last week I carried Griffin out without shoes. The library internet keeps dropping calls. But I can breathe now.

If you're in your own messy middle trying to make something work that feels impossible—you figure it out by doing it. Even from your car in a parking lot.

Mentioned in this episode:

Cindy from @mama_vision: mom coach who helped me through this transition (and many other parenting ones!)

Work with me:

• Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Private 1:1 Coaching (2 spots open, start with a 4 month container instead of 6 in October only) → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect: Instagram | Facebook

If you're burned out behind closed doors while everyone else sees you "having it all," this quick journaling session is for you. I'm walking you through 4 prompts that help you see the gap between how your life looks and how it actually feels—so you can finally figure out what needs to change.

Grab your journal and work through:

• The real disconnect between your external success and internal reality
• What you're actually afraid people will think if you admit you're struggling
• Your automatic response when overwhelm hits (and where else it's sabotaging you)
• What the aligned, peaceful version of you would do differently starting today

This episode is for you if:

• You're successful on paper but constantly exhausted
• You snap at your kids even though you don't want to
• You keep thinking "this isn't what I worked so hard for"
• You're barely present at home or at work
• You want to stop just surviving your success

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spot opens. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

I'd been dreaming about this since he was a baby. But as the start date got closer? How will I work with only 2 hours to myself? What if I can't handle being in mom mode all morning? What if I become that overstimulated, impatient version of myself I hate?

In this episode, I walk you through my actual brain dump from February—the fears, the scheduling panic, the limiting beliefs, and exactly how I used strategic journaling to process it all instead of just white-knuckling through.

You'll hear:

• Why wanting something can still feel terrifying (and what that means)
• The two things I did OUTSIDE of journaling that regulated my nervous system before the change even happened
• How to untangle "I'm excited" from "I'm overwhelmed" when they're happening at the same time

If you're staring down a major schedule change—less childcare, a new job, homeschooling, or just life throwing you a curveball—this will help you move from "I can't do this" to "okay, I can figure this out."

Next Tuesday, Part 2 drops with the real update after a month of living this new reality. Did I spiral? Thrive? Find my flow? You'll find out.

Ready to work together?

• Book a free Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call
• Reserve 1:1 coaching (2 spots open) → https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Plot twist: They never do. 😂

Perfect for working moms who are: Tired of waiting for permission, ready to disappoint a few people to save themselves, done putting their dreams on layaway.

Your 4 Strategic Journaling Prompts:

1. What have you been telling yourself you'll get to once things calm down?
2. Pick the biggest one - if you actually did this, the worst thing that could happen is...
3. What's the real fear underneath it all?
4. I give myself permission to _____ even if it means _____

Take action: Save this episode, grab a coffee, and work through these prompts. Then watch how different September feels when you stop waiting for perfect timing.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

Two things you'll walk away with:

1. 🎯 The Two-Part Framework that stops you from losing your mind when things don't go according to plan (works for toddler tantrums AND work meetings)
2. 💡 Why Your Default "Must Do It My Way" Response is keeping you stressed, overwhelmed, and secretly resentful that nobody appreciates how much you handle

After listening, you'll actually feel relief instead of that tight chest feeling when plans change. You'll stop redoing everyone else's "help" and start trusting that things can get done differently (and still turn out fine).

No more carrying the mental load of making sure everything happens exactly right. No more feeling like the only responsible adult in the room. This is your reminder that flexibility isn't giving up - it's giving yourself permission to breathe.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

If you've been telling yourself "I should be grateful they offered but I just can't accept it," this journaling session is for you.

In this 5-minute episode, we're diving into what's really behind that guilt - and spoiler alert, it's not about being ungrateful. It's about the stories you've been telling yourself about what it means to need help.

What We're Journaling Through:

• Your perfect "receiving day" and why it feels impossible
• The guilty voice that shows up every time help is offered
• What you're really afraid people will think if you actually say yes
• A tiny practice to start receiving without earning it first

The 3 Strategic Prompts:

1. When I think about my perfect receiving day, what am I afraid would happen if I took a whole day to receive?
2. What is the voice in your head that stops you from accepting help? What does she sound like?
3. If you gave yourself permission to receive help without earning it, what are you most afraid people would think?

This builds on Tuesday's episode about receiving and your nervous system - definitely go listen to that one after this if you haven't already.

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

My business coach asked me what I'd do on a random Tuesday if I could do anything. My answer floored me: drink matcha, watch reality TV at noon, cook a real recipe with multiple steps, take a long shower, go to bed early. As I rattled these off, I panicked - where's my ambition? What happened to my drive?

Then it hit me during a journal session. My nervous system wasn't broken - it was trying to show me my purpose right now. After months of giving, creating, strategizing, and pouring into everyone else, my soul was telling me: your job is to learn how to receive.

In this episode:

• Why your purpose might be receiving instead of achieving right now
• The four ways to receive: physical (rest, nourishment, movement), mental (entertainment, learning for fun, silence), emotional (support, celebrating wins), and creative (making something with your hands, playing without purpose)
• How constantly saying "I've got it" blocks you from your actual purpose
• Why receiving isn't evidence you're failing - it's evidence you're human
• The receiving day challenge that will reconnect you with what your soul actually needs

The purpose shift: We think purpose has to be this big, productive thing. But what if your purpose right now is modeling for your kids that adults deserve care too? What if it's showing the women around you that receiving support isn't weakness?

Your end-of-day scrolling? That's your spirit trying to receive something - anything - that doesn't require you to prove you deserve it first.

Maybe your purpose isn't another goal to crush. Maybe it's learning that you're worthy of receiving the same energy you pour into everyone else.

Ready to explore what receiving could look like in YOUR life? Book a free Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Weekly Strategic Journal Prompts: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts
• Subscribe so you can hear Thursday's episode & journal with me: 5-minute journal session on working through your receiving blocks!
• Book a free 30-min Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

Book a free 30-min Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

So instead of pretending I have it all together, I'm taking you into my real, messy braindump journaling session.

No pretty prompts today. Just me, a Google Doc, and all the chaos that comes with being a working mom trying to figure out this back-to-school thing while running a business with exactly 2.5 hours of work time (if I'm lucky).

If you're sitting in your car after drop-off wondering how other moms make this look easy, or if you're questioning whether you're completely screwing up this whole parenting-while-working thing - this one's for you.

In this episode:

• My actual braindump from today (the real, unfiltered version)
• Why 50-minute school drop-offs are apparently my new reality
• How I went from 7 hours of work time to 1.5 hours overnight
• The moment I realized I was playing victim (ouch)
• Why brain dumps are better than letting overwhelm pile up until you explode

Sometimes you need permission to just... dump it all out.

Consider this your permission slip!

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint (the 5 prompts I use after every braindump!): www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Meraki Event - Permission Slips for Ambitious Women workshop at Meraki Beauty - Sunday, September 21st (9 spots left!): https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

We dive into matrescence (the scientific term for becoming a mother) and why it's not just the sleepless nights that knock you sideways. Brittany shares how she went from dreaming about motherhood her whole life to completely crashing when her son was born - and what she wishes someone had told her about the identity shift, hormone chaos, and that voice in your head saying "choose between sleeping, showering, or eating today."

In this episode, we learn about:

• What matrescence actually is and why it matters (spoiler: it can last way longer than you think)
• How your brain literally changes when you become a mom - like, physically restructures itself
• Why getting outside isn't just nice advice - it's actually backed by science for mental health
• How to start small with scheduling time for yourself (yes, even scheduling a shower counts)
• The grief that comes with losing your old self, even when you wanted to be a mom
• Why feeling excited about time away from your kid doesn't make you a terrible mother

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

What if the real issue ISN'T that you're too busy or too responsible? What if you're actually using those tasks to avoid something much deeper?

In this 5-minute strategic journaling session, we're digging into why you feel internal resistance when your child asks you to play - even when you desperately want to be that present, patient mom who enjoys these moments.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. Identify what you convince yourself is more important than playtime
2. Explore your specific fears about engaging fully with your kids
3. Discover if you're using productivity to avoid deeper feelings

Perfect for working moms who feel guilty about always being half-present during family time but can't seem to break the pattern.

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate.

You'll experience a guided meditation, strategic journaling prompts, real-time breakthroughs & mimosas!🥂

📌 Sunday, Sept. 21st @ 10am EST, 12 spots only

Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

If this hits a little too close to home, you're going to love this episode. I'm sharing the exact moment everything clicked for me - when I stopped seeing playtime as another obligation and started actually enjoying those moments with my son.

What You'll Learn:

• The real reason mom guilt creeps in during playtime (hint: it's not because you're selfish)
• Why your brain won't shut off during kid activities - and how to quiet that mental chatter
• The 3-month Transformer saga that taught me everything about being present vs. productive
• How present parenting actually boosts your productivity instead of killing it
• What to do when your kid ignores you after work (this behavior means something specific)
• One simple question that creates instant connection with moody kids

The Truth About Mom Guilt During Playtime: It's not a character flaw - it's your subconscious sabotage patterns (hyperachiever, overthinker, restless energy) hijacking your focus. Once you learn to spot these patterns and disrupt them in real-time, everything changes. The laundry still gets folded, emails still get answered, but now you also get those sweet connection moments that actually energize you.

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

1. The Clarity Reset with Glow Up, Gyrl community! Feeling stuck? Overthinking everything? Join us to learn my simple, strategic 5-step framework that takes you from mental overload to clear, confident action. Register here: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events
2. Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

You're absolutely crushing it at work - managing teams, solving problems, keeping everyone happy. Then you come home with every intention of being present, patient, and fun... only to watch your kids have complete meltdowns over the tiniest things.

In this 5-minute journal session, we'll uncover:

• The hidden reason "good mom" energy actually triggers more meltdowns
• What your kids are really picking up on when you're trying your hardest
• Why perfectionist parenting creates the exact chaos you're trying to prevent
• How to shift from performing motherhood to simply being enough

Today's Journal Prompts:

1. Think about your most stressful parenting moment recently - what were you trying to control or fix?
2. When your kids don't respond how you hoped after you've been trying so hard, what fear comes up?
3. Where else in your life does "trying harder to be good enough" make things fall apart?
4. What if your kids are responding to the pressure they feel from you trying to be perfect?

Your kids don't need a "good mom" - they need a mom who believes she's already enough, so they can feel safe being themselves too.

👭 Register for a workshop with Sam:

1. The Clarity Reset with Glow Up, Gyrl community! Feeling stuck? Overthinking everything? Join us to learn my simple, strategic 5-step framework that takes you from mental overload to clear, confident action. Register here: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events
2. Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

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That cycle used to drive me absolutely nuts. And after working with hundreds of ambitious moms, I've realized we're all chasing the wrong thing. 😂

Here's what we're covering in today's episode:

🧠 Why your to-do list will never make you feel balanced (and what actually will)

⏸️ The 2-second reset technique that stops overwhelm in its tracks without slowing you down

🎯 How hyperachievers can detach from outcomes and actually enjoy their work again

The Real Talk:

After this episode, you'll catch yourself in those scattered moments and know exactly how to bring yourself back to center. No more mental chaos. No more feeling like you're drowning in tasks that multiply faster than you can cross them off.

You'll walk away knowing how to feel accomplished and proud of yourself - without needing anyone else to tell you "good job." Because let's be honest, when's the last time your partner noticed you reorganized the entire pantry or your boss acknowledged you stayed late to prep for that client meeting?

This is about feeling peaceful in the middle of your busy life, not waiting for busy to end.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

This 8-minute strategic journaling session reveals why you can't give yourself permission to rest, even when your body is begging for it. We'll uncover the hidden beliefs keeping you running on empty and give you four powerful prompts to shift your relationship with rest.

You'll get to know;

• Why "I'll sleep when the kids are older" is actually fear in disguise
• The real reason you feel guilty sitting still when there's stuff to be done
• What you're really afraid it means about you if you rest
• How to stop believing rest has to be "earned" through exhaustion

Strategic Journaling Prompts:

1. What thoughts go through your head when you try to rest but there are still things to be done?
2. Who in your life would judge you for resting? What would they say or think?
3. What do you believe you have to accomplish before you're "allowed" to rest?
4. What would change if you believed rest was productive, not lazy?

Perfect for the mom who works through lunch breaks, volunteers for one more committee, and checks emails on vacation. Your worth isn't measured by your productivity.

Resources Mentioned:

• Episode 15: The 7 Types of Rest to Avoid Burnout
• Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Get on the Waitlist: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

Yeah, me too. And apparently, so does literally every mom I talk to.

Here's what you'll learn in this episode:

🎯 The real reason you keep losing it (hint: it's not because you're a bad mom - there's actually something deeper happening that nobody talks about)

🎯 How to bounce back after you've already yelled - including the exact words to say that actually rebuild connection instead of making everyone feel worse

🎯 The one thing you MUST do before trying to help your kids with their emotions (this was a total lightbulb moment for me)

My guest Talia Anderson literally wrote the book on emotions (she's a self-published author), and she breaks down why understanding comes before expressing - for both you AND your kids.

At the end of this episode, you'll finally:

• Stop beating yourself up every time you have a "mom moment"
• Know exactly what to do in those 30 seconds before you're about to lose it
• Have actual words to use when you need to repair with your kids
• Feel way less alone in this whole parenting thing

Resources Mentioned:

Talia's Book: The Tools Within

Connect with Talia: Instagram @talia_anderson__

Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

I was talking with someone inside Emotionally Empowered recently who's working full-time AND starting her master's program. She described her brain as "a ball of yarn" and said she felt like the clock was ticking on her dreams. After we journaled through it together, that tangled mess became clear direction and relief.

This happens way more than you think. Our goals become sources of chaos instead of clarity because we've been taught that worthwhile dreams require struggle.

What we're journaling through today:

• Why your goals might feel scarier to achieve than you realize
• The sneaky beliefs that make success feel impossible
• How overwhelm actually protects you from getting what you want
• A completely different way to think about pursuing your dreams

3 Journal Prompts (grab a notebook or just think through these):

Prompt 1: Write down a goal you're currently working toward. Describe how you want to feel when you achieve it, then write how you actually feel right now while pursuing it.

Prompt 2: Get brutally honest—what are you afraid would happen if you achieved this goal easily, without all the struggle? What if it didn't require sacrificing everything else you care about?

Prompt 3: Complete this sentence: "I make my goals overwhelming because if I don't struggle enough, then..." (Whatever comes up first is usually the most honest answer.)

Most of us unconsciously use overwhelm to prove we deserve our dreams. But what if Oprah was right when she said you'd never have a dream if you didn't already have everything needed to pursue it?

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Get on the Waitlist: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Maybe you've been there - writing down the same goals week after week, checking all the productivity boxes everyone talks about, but still feeling like you're running in circles. Or maybe you're that person who sets a goal, works yourself into the ground trying to achieve it, then barely has energy to celebrate before jumping to the next thing.

🎯 Three Game-Changing Takeaways:

• Stop ignoring your body's warning signals – Those headaches and that pit in your stomach during certain projects? That's not stress you need to push through. It's your intuition telling you something needs to shift.
• Catch your sabotage patterns in real-time – Working past 10 PM "just this once" and refusing to delegate because "it's faster if I do it" aren't signs of dedication. They're self-sabotage patterns keeping you stuck in overwhelm.
• Master the art of post-goal reflection – Most women celebrate for five minutes then jump to the next goal. Strategic journalers dig deeper to spot patterns like stress-eating during projects so they don't repeat the same cycles.

How Strategic Journaling Changes Everything:

Instead of muscling through goals that drain you, you'll start setting goals that actually excite you. Your goals will stop feeling like burdens and start feeling like adventures. You'll complete projects faster because you're not overthinking every decision. Most importantly, you'll wake up excited about your day instead of already feeling behind before your feet hit the floor.

When you learn to journal strategically, you become free to do things your way – and trust that your way is the right way for you. You'll make quicker decisions because you're actually connected to yourself instead of operating on autopilot.

Your 5-Minute Challenge:

Write down your current goals, then ask yourself one question: "Do I actually want this, or am I just doing what I think I should do?" The answer might surprise you.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

I made this episode for the woman who feels like you're the only one who sees how much you're actually handling. Like everyone around you just assumes you've got it all under control, while you're secretly drowning in the weight of keeping everyone else's world spinning.

If you're nodding along thinking "finally, someone gets it," grab your journal & pen or open Google Docs!

In today's 5-minute journaling session, we're diving into why you might be addicted to being indispensable - and how that pattern is actually keeping you trapped in cycles that drain you instead of fulfill you.

What you'll discover:

• The real reason you can't stop "carrying it all" (spoiler: it's NOT about being helpful)
• Why asking for help feels so terrifying (and what you're really afraid of)
• How proving your worth through productivity shows up across ALL areas of your life
• The breakthrough question that will shift you from surviving to thriving

4 Journal Prompts Covered:

1. Write about a time when you felt completely unseen for everything you were handling
2. What are you afraid would happen if you stopped being the person who handles everything?
3. Where else do you prove your worth through how much you can carry?
4. What would change if you believed you were worthy of support and recognition just as you are?

Perfect for the ambitious woman who's tired of being everyone's go-to person but doesn't know how to step back without feeling guilty or incompetent.

Connect with Sam:

• Reply to my newsletter this week and let me know one are that you're feeling unseen! Not receiving my newsletter yet? Click here to subscribe!
• Download the Calm Mind Blueprint - 5 prompts to go from overwhelm to inner peace 2 - 10 mins/day: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Two women on recent calls - a CFO and a CEO - both confessed they'd love to give up everything they've built just to have zero responsibilities.

In this episode, you'll learn:

🎯 Why your brain craves the "trophy wife" life - plus the hidden stressors that come with it (financial anxiety, identity loss, boredom)

🎯 What you're actually craving - it's not zero responsibilities, it's choosing responsibilities that feel aligned with who you want to be

🎯 Questions to ask yourself instead of fantasizing about giving it all up

After listening:

You'll stop feeling guilty about wanting to "escape"

• You'll know exactly what support you actually need
• You'll have a framework for choosing stress that aligns with your values
• You'll understand how to create appreciation for what you're already doing

My former stay-at-home client proved even "trophy wives" feel like they have no time. So this isn't about escaping responsibility - it's about choosing responsibilities that fulfill you instead of drain you.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Application: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Connect with Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

I keep hearing this at networking events — successful women who can negotiate million-dollar deals but can't tell their neighbor they're not available to babysit; or 'feel bad' delegating to their employees because they assume they have too much on their plate already.

What we're diving into:

• Why saying no feels like being a bad person
• The crosswalk analogy that'll change how you think about boundaries
• How guilt is actually your protection mechanism (not proof you're considerate)
• 3 journal prompts to break the guilt cycle

The truth bomb: Your boundary struggles aren't about not knowing how to say no. They're about an unconscious belief that your worth depends on managing everyone else's comfort AND that your guilt = being considerate.

But really? Guilt is keeping you from authentic relationships where people actually know the real you and what you need.

Resources mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint (includes private podcast with voice guidance): www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Private coaching (1 spot open): www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam:

• Instagram: www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says
• Facebook: www.fb.com/coachsamanthahawley
• Email: hello@samantha-says.com

Episode Highlights:

🎯 The Control Trap - Why your 47-item to-do list is creating fake urgency (and what actually matters)

🎯 The Master List Method - My simple Google Doc system that prevents overwhelm while keeping you focused

🎯 Productive vs. Feeling Productive - How to celebrate crossing off ONE thing instead of beating yourself up for not doing ten

After listening to this episode:

You'll stop rewriting the same overwhelming list over and over. Instead of feeling behind even when you're crushing it, you'll wake up knowing exactly what matters today. No more Sunday scaries about everything you "should" be doing.

Picture this: It's 6 PM and instead of stressing about your endless list, you're actually proud of what you accomplished. You can be fully present with your kids because work isn't spinning in your head. Your evenings become yours again.

One more thing:

Your productivity isn't measured by how much you cross off. It's about choosing to feel good about what you DID accomplish. One working mom told me she cleaned the office kitchen between therapy sessions and felt guilty it wasn't "enough." But who decided that wasn't enough?

You get to choose how productive you feel, regardless of what your list looks like.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Application to get on the 1:1 waitlist: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

I'm sharing the breakthrough moment that changed everything for me—and three journal prompts to help you stop using "responsibility" as an excuse to stay small.

What we're exploring:

• Why I avoided networking for 11 months (even though it was my biggest goal)
• The FOMO revelation that was keeping me stuck at home
• How "being a good mom" was actually my protective pattern
• Three prompts to uncover what's really behind your comfort zone

An A-HA moment I had on the episode: Your comfort zone isn't about being comfortable—it's about avoiding the fear of being selfish or letting others down. Let that sink in & apply it to your life.

Resources mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint for taking PEACEFUL, aligned, action towards your goals: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Private coaching (1 spot left!): www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Next steps: Download the Calm Mind Blueprint if you want to start taking confident action peacefully—because stepping outside your comfort zone doesn't have to mean hustling your way through it (and burning out).

Here's what my guest, Heather Nelson, taught me: the most successful business relationships aren't built by the person who talks the most.

Topics Covered:

• Why traditional networking advice doesn't work for introverts
• The biggest networking mistakes that actually repel potential connections
• How to transition from online-only business building to in-person relationships
• The mindset shift that makes networking feel like making friends instead of selling
• Real examples of connections that led to business growth and lasting friendships
• Why the events you don't want to attend often create the biggest opportunities

Your Top Takeaways:

Instead of dreading networking events and forcing yourself into uncomfortable situations that drain your energy for days...

You'll have a clear, sustainable system for building the professional relationships that actually matter. No more imposter syndrome. No more energy crashes. No more wondering if you're "doing it right."

This means: You can advance your career and grow your business while staying true to who you are - coming home energized instead of completely depleted, with genuine connections that lead to real opportunities.

Featured Guest:

Heather Nelson, founder of The Connection Hive and host of Life Conversations with a Twist podcast. Heather has spent over a decade mastering the art of authentic networking and helps business owners build relationships that drive real results.

Resources Mentioned:

Free Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Connect with Heather Nelson:

• Instagram: heathernelson.life
• Website: theconnectionhive.co
• LinkedIn: Heather Nelson Tapia

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Accepting applications for September: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

In today's journaling session, we're diving deep into why you feel guilty for loving what you do and how to break free from that pattern once and for all.

What you'll discover:

• Why career guilt isn't really about being a bad mom
• The protective pattern that keeps you apologizing for your choices
• How to own your love for your work without explanation
• Why guilt might be helping you avoid harder decisions about boundaries

The blind-spot breakthrough: Your guilt about loving your career isn't about motherhood—it's a familiar pattern that protects you from having to fully own your choices and deal with others' reactions.

This is the deep work that I do with my private clients. I currently have ONE open spot. Learn more here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together (prices increasing in August) or email me at hello@samantha-says.com chat about details!

Resources mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: A 5-day framework for busy women who crave peace and fulfillment in just 2-5 mins/day
• Connect with me on IG: @samantha.s.says

Perfect for:

• Working moms who love their careers but feel guilty about it
• Women struggling to balance career fulfillment and motherhood
• Anyone who dims their excitement about work to avoid judgment
• Moms who feel like they "should" want to be home more

Ready to stop apologizing for loving what you do? Grab your journal and let's dive in!

Is that you, too? You're not the only one who feels stuck between what you "should" do and what you actually want.

🎯 3 Game-Changing Takeaways:

• Release the grip - Why your expectations and need for control are blocking your intuition (and how to let go)
• Fear is information - What you're afraid to uncover is exactly what you need to explore
• Trust the process - How to create space for guidance when your mind is spinning with decisions
• 4 strategic journaling prompts - To help you get unstuck & trust your inner voice

Stop second-guessing every decision and start trusting yourself. Go from feeling paralyzed by choices to knowing what YOU actually want - not what everyone else expects from you.

How This Changes Everything:

Instead of lying awake replaying conversations or googling "how to know if I should quit my job," you'll have a clear internal compass. No more asking everyone else for advice. No more feeling guilty about your choices. Just confidence in YOUR voice.

Perfect for when you're questioning your relationship, feeling unfulfilled at work, or just need clarity on your next move.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint (FREE 5-step journaling framework): www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Application: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

In today's 5-minute journaling session, I'm getting vulnerable about my own 3.5-year avoidance story and sharing the exact prompts that finally helped me break through the self-sabotage and take action.

Whether you're avoiding a difficult conversation🗣️ , postponing a career move 👩‍💻, or procrastinating on something that would improve your life 👭- this episode will help you understand what's REALLY keeping you stuck and give you a clear path forward.

What You'll Discover:

✨ My personal story of avoiding child support paperwork for 3.5 years (and what finally shifted)

✨ The difference between frustrating self-sabotage & sneaky self-sabotage

✨ Why your procrastination might actually feel "safe" and protective

✨ 3 powerful journal prompts to identify what's blocking you and create a breakthrough

✨ How to separate your needs from someone else's struggles (game-changer!)

Perfect For:

• Ambitious women who know what they need to do but keep putting it off
• Anyone stuck in analysis paralysis or perfectionism
• Moms who struggle with people-pleasing and avoiding difficult decisions
• Anyone ready to stop letting self-sabotage run their life

Ready to Go Deeper?

• If these prompts resonated and you're ready for personalized support breaking through your unique sabotage patterns, I'd love to work with you in my Peace & Confidence Collective or through 1:1 coaching. Visit samanthapenkoff.com/working-together to learn more about getting the clarity and courage to finally take that action you've been avoiding.
• Download the free Calm Mind Blueprint to start the 5 day experience of going from overwhelm to inner peace. Click here to download & start!

Connect with me:

📧 Weekly newsletter: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts

📱 Instagram: @samantha.s.says

🎧 Subscribe/Follow for more 5-minute journaling sessions every Thursday

You're not alone. That constant worry about judgment is exhausting—and it's stealing your confidence at work and peace at home.

In this episode, my twin sister Dr. Gretchen interviews me about performance anxiety and how to work through it. While we originally discussed this in the context of MS symptoms, I realized the tools apply to ANY situation where you're worried about judgment—whether you're stepping into a leadership role, presenting to your boss, or just feeling like you're barely holding it all together.

What You'll Learn:

🧠 The Worst Case Solution Technique — A simple journaling method that stops anxiety spirals before they hijack your day (works in under 5 minutes)

⚡ The 5-Second Grounding Practice — How to instantly shift focus back to yourself when you feel all eyes on you (perfect for meetings, school pickup, or anywhere you feel judged)

🔄 The Calm Mind Blueprint — My 5-step process to turn post-situation rumination into self-compassion and clarity

The Transformation:

Instead of walking into spaces worried about what others think, you'll show up knowing your worth isn't tied to perfect performance. You'll stop replaying every interaction wondering if you "looked off" or disappointed someone.

This isn't about becoming fearless—it's about separating who you are from how you perform so you can be present with your family and confident at work, even when things don't go perfectly.

Your new reality: Walking into that presentation focused on your message, not your nerves. Coming home with energy for your kids instead of mental exhaustion from overthinking every interaction.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Dr. Gretchen's podcast: The MSing Link Podcast

Ways to Work with Samantha:

1:1 Coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Application: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Ready to break free? The Energized Summer Challenge starts Monday - but registration closes THIS Friday, July 4th, for podcast listeners. Get details + join here → www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summer

In this 5-minute journaling session, I'll guide you through four specific sabotage patterns that might be stealing your summer joy: Hyper-Achiever, Perfectionist, Procrastinator, and Restless. You'll get targeted journal prompts to create awareness around these patterns - because awareness is what leads to those aha moments, simplifications, and real solutions.

Whether you're traveling this holiday weekend or at home, you can either journal through these prompts or simply think through them as I guide you.

What you'll discover:

• Which of the 4 sabotage patterns you recognize in yourself
• Specific ways these patterns show up during summer
• How to start breaking free from the cycles that keep you overwhelmed

Perfect for: Working moms, ambitious women, anyone feeling like summer is more stressful than restful

Energized Summer challenge

Ready to break these patterns before they steal your entire summer?

The Energized Summer Challenge starts Monday, July 7th - but registration closes THIS Friday, July 4th for podcast listeners.

We'll go deeper than awareness into actually disrupting these sabotage patterns so you can release overwhelm and create more energy for what matters most.

7 women are already inside. 5 spots left.

Get all the details and join here → www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summer

Connect With Me

• Website: www.samantha-says.com
• Instagram: @samantha.s.says
• Free journal prompts via the Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

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New to Journal Entries? Welcome! Hit subscribe so you never miss a 5ish-minute session designed to help you get clarity and feel more like yourself.

You'll Discover:

🎯 Why your "self-care Sunday" isn't fixing your exhaustion (hint: you're treating symptoms, not the cause)

🎯 The childhood survival pattern that's secretly running your adult life (and how it's making you everyone's emotional thermostat)

🎯 How to reclaim 3-4 hours of mental energy each week without changing a single thing on your to-do list

Here's What Changes After This Episode:

You'll finally understand why you can follow every productivity hack, try every morning routine, and still feel completely drained by 3 PM.

At Work: You'll stop managing your team's moods and start focusing on actual work that energizes you. No more walking on eggshells around your boss or absorbing everyone's stress.

At Home: You'll be present with your kids without that constant mental checklist running. Playing with them won't feel like another task—it'll actually give you energy.

For YOU: You'll wake up inspired by your own life instead of already feeling behind. Your evenings will be for enjoying, not just surviving.

This isn't about doing more self-care or finding more time. It's about stopping the energy leak that's been draining you for years.

Key Moments:

• The Napa realization that changed everything
• Why you're managing everyone's emotional temperature & how to stop
• What you're accidentally teaching your kids about emotions
• The 24-hour challenge that breaks the pattern

Resources Mentioned:

Enroll now for The Energized Summer Challenge (enrollment ends July 4th): www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summer

Ways to Work with Samantha:

The Energized Summer Challenge (enrollment ends July 4th):www.samanthapenkoff.com/energized-summer

1:1 Coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Application: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Are you constantly exhausted even though you're doing "all the right things" to relieve stress and overwhelm? Going to therapy, exercising, reading personal development books, scheduling self-care Sundays... but you STILL feel drained by 3pm?

Today's 5-minute journaling session is for the working mom who knows her kids and unfulfilling job are draining her, but can't figure out why nothing seems to bring her energy back. Spoiler alert: the problem isn't what you think it is.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why you feel most drained during your day (and it's probably not what you expect)
• The hidden energy leaks happening through tiny decisions all day long
• How asking yourself one simple question can transform your entire energy level
• The real reason self-care isn't working (and what to do instead)

Ready to go deeper? Join me for my FREE 20-minute workshop: 'Permission to Prioritize Your Energy' where you'll learn my signature Permission Slip Method to stop feeling guilty for what you want and start choosing what energizes you.

Workshop Details:

• When: Tuesday, June 24th at 9:15am PST | 12:15pm EST
• What: Live journaling workshop for ambitious moms who are tired of being tired
• Cost: Completely FREE
• Bonus: First 10 people to attend live get my exclusive 'Instant Energy Reset' visualization
• Reserve your spot here →

Key Takeaways

✨ The real problem: You're leaking energy through tiny decisions all day long - every time you choose what you "should" do over what you genuinely want

✨ Why self-care isn't working: You're trying to add energy through external things when you're actually draining yourself through micro-choices

✨ The solution: Learning to make micro-choices that energize instead of deplete you (and this often takes things OFF your plate)

Resources Mentioned

• FREE Workshop: "Permission to Prioritize Your Energy" - Learn the Permission Slip Method to choose energy over exhaustion without changing your to-do list!
• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Connect with Samantha

• Discover ways we can work together: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together
• Follow Sam on Instagram: @samanthassays

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Maybe you imagined climbing the corporate ladder while being the Pinterest-perfect mom. Or maybe you thought you'd have more control over how things turned out. But here you are—juggling a demanding job, feeling guilty about missing bedtime stories, and wondering if this chaos is just "your season" or if there's actually a way through it.

Andrea Smith gets it. She went from successful corporate executive to full-time caregiver overnight when her son developed severe OCD. Twelve years later, she's not just surviving—she's thriving and helping other parents do the same through her podcast "This Way Up."

Here's what you'll walk away with:

🎯 The permission slip you didn't know you needed: How to actually mourn the life you planned (and why this one step changes everything)

🎯 The real secret to finding purpose: Spoiler alert—it's not about having it all figured out or becoming Mother Teresa

🎯 Tiny self-care wins that actually work: "Snack-sized" self-care for when you literally have zero time but need to stop running on empty

The transformation waiting for you:

Instead of feeling guilty about where you "should" be in life, you'll feel peace about where you actually are. You'll stop waiting for the "perfect" season to prioritize yourself and start making tiny choices that give you energy back. Most importantly, you'll realize your purpose doesn't have to be this huge, spotlight-worthy thing—it can be as simple as helping one person, including yourself.

This episode will help you stop feeling like you're just surviving your days and start feeling like you're actually living them. Because here's the truth: you don't need to burn it all down to feel fulfilled. You just need to stop fighting what is and start working with it.

Perfect for the working mom who's tired of feeling like she's failing at everything and ready to find her way up.

Resources Mentioned:

This Way Up Podcast with Andrea

Connect with Andrea: https://www.thiswayuppodcast.com/

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Application: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/assessments/2148353310

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

You're doing all the "right" things—therapy sessions, morning workouts, self-care Sundays, those personal development books everyone raves about. So why are you still completely exhausted by 3 PM? Why does nothing seem to bring your energy back?

If you're a mom who loves your kids but feels constantly drained by them, and your job is starting to feel less and less fulfilling while your days become more mundane, this episode is exactly what you need.

In this 5-minute journaling session, you'll explore:

• When you feel most drained during your day (and the specific triggers you might be missing)
• What you're currently doing to boost energy—and why it's not working
• The hard truth about how often you choose "should" over "want"
• Why we leak energy through tiny decisions all day long as moms
• The real solution that doesn't require adding anything to your plate

🌟 Ready to go deeper? Join the FREE workshop on Tuesday, June 24th to discover how to become an energized mom with daily permission slips that fuel you instead of drain you—even with your long to-do list: www.samanthapenkoff.com/energy-workshop

Key Insight: We're trying to add energy through external things like massages and girls' nights when we're actually leaking energy through micro-choices all day long. Every time we choose what we "should" do over what we genuinely want, we're draining ourselves.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• 🎯 FREE Workshop "Permission to Prioritize Your Energy": www.samanthapenkoff.com/energy-workshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn more here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Peace & Confidence Collective: Where sensitive high-achievers transform emotional overwhelm into lasting peace through intimate, expert-guided support and authentic connection. Learn more here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together

Connect with Sam on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

That pit in your stomach when you think about doing something for YOU during work hours? My client Kristi knows it well. She's a CFO who couldn't shake the guilt of walking out while her team stayed until 5.

🎯 What you'll learn:

• The "Autopilot Override Framework" that stops you from sabotaging your own self-care
• Why your guilt is actually hurting your leadership and the mindset shift that changes everything
• The visualization trick that makes your brain believe leaving at 3pm is totally normal (because it should be)
• The exact conversation that shifted Kristi from "I'm being selfish" to "I'm modeling leadership"

This episode is for you if:

✓ You feel selfish every time you think about prioritizing yourself at work

✓ You want flexibility but worry about what your boss or team will think

✓ You're tired of coming home at 5pm and dumping all your stress on your family

✓ You know you need boundaries but don't know how to set them without guilt

The real transformation:

Instead of that Sunday scaries feeling about another week of overwhelm, you'll actually look forward to your days. You'll stop second-guessing every decision to put yourself first. And when you do leave early? Zero guilt—just confidence that you're modeling the kind of leadership you want to see.

Your evenings will feel completely different. No more collapsing on the couch, totally drained. You'll come home with energy left for the people and things that matter most.

Resources Mentioned:

Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Ways to work with Samantha:

• Calm Mind Blueprint - start the 5 day challenge to go from overwhelm to inner peace in just 2 mins/day. Start here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Peace & Confidence Collective: click here to get no strings attached details!
• 1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, only 2 spots left. Apply here.
• Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Start the 5 Day Calm Mind Challenge, in just 2 mins/day!

What You'll Discover:

• The specific self-care need you keep putting off (and why)
• The story you're telling yourself about why you "can't" prioritize yourself
• Whose voice is really making your decisions (spoiler: it's not yours)
• How taking care of yourself creates a positive ripple effect for your family and work

2 Key Takeaways:

• Self-awareness is the #1 indicator of success in personal and professional life
• Resistance to self-care is your sabotage pattern showing up in real time

Perfect For:

• Working moms who feel guilty taking time for themselves
• Women who constantly put everyone else's needs first
• Anyone who knows what they need but keeps making excuses
• Moms stuck in survival mode who want to break the cycle of overwhelm

Mentioned Resources:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: 5-day challenge with strategic journal prompts to go from overwhelm to inner peace (2 minutes/day). Click here to start!

Your Challenge:

Take ONE small action toward the need you identified today. Not tomorrow, not when things calm down—today. Even 2 minutes counts.

If you're a working mom who feels maxed out but keeps pushing through, this episode is for you.

3 Game-Changing Insights You'll Discover:

🔄 The Time Paradox Truth: Why the very thing you think you don't have time for is exactly what creates more time in your life (it's like refusing to stop for gas while running on empty)

⚡ The Energy Multiplication Effect: How my client Kristi, a CFO working 7-5 daily, transformed her exhausting evenings of crashing on the couch into energized time connecting with her husband—without changing her work schedule

🎯 The Root Cause Revelation: Why therapy, exercise, and self-care aren't fixing your overwhelm (hint: they're band-aids on symptoms, not solutions to the real problem)

By the end of this episode, you'll understand why you're actually wasting precious hours on patterns that drain you—and how to reclaim 3-4 hours each week without changing your schedule. You'll finally see the difference between being busy and being productive, and discover the one investment that transforms how you experience every other hour of your day.

Perfect For Working Moms Who:

• Feel like they're running on empty but can't stop to refuel
• Are crushing it at work but collapsing at home
• Think "I should be able to figure this out myself"
• Want to be present with their kids but feel constantly overwhelmed
• Are tired of just surviving day-to-day instead of actually living

Key Topics Covered:

• Time scarcity mindset vs. time abundance reality
• The subconscious sabotage patterns keeping you stuck in overwhelm
• Real client transformations: From survival mode to thriving
• Why surface-level solutions don't create lasting change
• The strategic approach to creating more time and energy
• How my private coaching transforms your relationship with time

Featured Stories:

• My personal journey from overwhelmed single mom to empowered entrepreneur
• Kristi's transformation from exhausted CFO to energized working mom
• The working mom who was "throwing everything at the wall to see what sticks"

Work With Samantha:

• Calm Mind Blueprint - start the 5 day challenge to go from overwhelm to inner peace in just 2 mins/day. Start here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Peace & Confidence Collective: click here to apply & get no strings attached details!
• 1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, only 2 spots left. Apply here.

Remember: You don't need more time. You need to stop wasting the time you have on patterns that aren't serving you.

Here's the thing nobody tells you: every "bad" habit you have is actually serving a purpose. That's why willpower alone never works.

In this 5-minute journaling session, I'll walk you through the exact 4-prompt framework that helped me break my Instagram scrolling habit (and discover what I was really searching for). Plus, I'm sharing a client example about compulsive cleaning that will make you rethink everything.

4 Breakthroughs You'll discover:

• The hidden belief beneath every habit you want to break
• Why your "bad" habits are actually protecting you
• The 4 journal prompts that reveal what you're really gaining from unwanted behaviors
• How to shift from self-sabotage to self-trust in real time

Perfect for you if:

✓ You scroll when you know you should be present

✓ You have habits that make you feel guilty or frustrated

✓ You've tried willpower but keep falling back into old patterns

✓ You're ready to understand the "why" behind what you do

Grab your journal and let's do this work together.

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint: www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Learn more about private coaching (2 spots open) or the Peace & Confidence Collective (small group coaching): www.samanthapenkoff.com/working-together