<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/blindian-brown-girls/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Blindian Brown Girls Podcast]]></title><podcast:guid>7efcc5ed-a3cf-5519-8907-4d23ebbbcbde</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 18:43:54 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2024 Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></copyright><managingEditor>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to the Blindian Brown Girls podcast, where hosts Dr. Aumatma & Tanya chat every week about all things life, love, parenting, wellness and modern culture. The two-hosts who share a similar story of growing up Indian in the West, pursuing alternative paths & finding love in Blindian relationships - get real and raw, as they dive deep into candid conversations around all the complicated intersections of our lives.

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</description><link>https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Leisure"></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Kids &amp; Family"></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Alternative Health"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>From Inspiration flying First-Class to Self-Dates: How to Fill Your Cup &amp; Unlock Your Creativity</title><itunes:title>From Inspiration flying First-Class to Self-Dates: How to Fill Your Cup &amp; Unlock Your Creativity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>How do you write an entire book in six hours, find inspiration in unexpected places, and balance your personal needs with life’s constant demands? In this episode of the <strong>Blindian Brown Girls Podcast</strong>, we’re taking you on a journey of self-discovery, creativity, and boundary-setting.</p><p>Dr. Aumatma and Tanya share their personal stories, touching on everything from writing entire books on airplanes, to the transformative power of self-dates. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert, you’ll find relatable insights into how intentional time alone can transform your energy, creativity, and perspective.</p><h3>🔑 Topics We Cover:</h3><ul><li>✈️ <strong>The Magic of Being in the Air</strong>: How a first-class flight turned six hours into a completed book and why the right environment matters for creativity.</li><li>🧠 <strong>Understanding Yourself</strong>: What introversion, extroversion, and ambiversion really mean—and how they shape how we recharge.</li><li>🛑 <strong>The Power of Saying No</strong>: Why setting boundaries at work and at home is vital for protecting your energy.</li><li>🍽️ <strong>The Joy of Self-Dates</strong>: How spending intentional time with yourself can boost creativity, relieve stress, and reconnect you to your purpose.</li><li>👩‍👧‍👦 <strong>Navigating Mom Guilt</strong>: Striking the balance between parenting, personal ambition, and taking time for yourself.</li><li>🌍 <strong>The Human Design Factor</strong>: How understanding your energy channels could unlock new levels of flow and productivity.</li><li>💡 <strong>Creating Space for Creativity</strong>: Why stepping out of your routine might be the missing link to your next big idea.</li></ul><br/><h3>💬 Listener Challenge:</h3><p>Take yourself out on a “self-date” this week! Whether it’s grabbing coffee, visiting a museum, or just sitting at a park bench, give yourself 30 minutes to recharge and reconnect. No phones, no to-do lists—just you. Share your experience with us in the comments or on social media using <strong>#BlindianBrownGirlsSelfDate</strong>.</p><p>✨ Don’t miss this thought-provoking episode that blends real-life stories, actionable insights, and inspiring challenges to help you take charge of your energy and creativity.</p><p>💌 <strong>Subscribe to the Blindian Brown Girls Podcast</strong> to join the journey of self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. New episodes drop weekly!</p><p>📢 <strong>Connect With Us:</strong></p><p>🎧 Share your thoughts on this episode using <strong>#BlindianBrownGirls</strong></p><p>📱 Follow us on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a></p><p>🎙️ Love what you hear? Leave us a review—it helps us bring even more amazing topics and guests your way!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do you write an entire book in six hours, find inspiration in unexpected places, and balance your personal needs with life’s constant demands? In this episode of the <strong>Blindian Brown Girls Podcast</strong>, we’re taking you on a journey of self-discovery, creativity, and boundary-setting.</p><p>Dr. Aumatma and Tanya share their personal stories, touching on everything from writing entire books on airplanes, to the transformative power of self-dates. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert, you’ll find relatable insights into how intentional time alone can transform your energy, creativity, and perspective.</p><h3>🔑 Topics We Cover:</h3><ul><li>✈️ <strong>The Magic of Being in the Air</strong>: How a first-class flight turned six hours into a completed book and why the right environment matters for creativity.</li><li>🧠 <strong>Understanding Yourself</strong>: What introversion, extroversion, and ambiversion really mean—and how they shape how we recharge.</li><li>🛑 <strong>The Power of Saying No</strong>: Why setting boundaries at work and at home is vital for protecting your energy.</li><li>🍽️ <strong>The Joy of Self-Dates</strong>: How spending intentional time with yourself can boost creativity, relieve stress, and reconnect you to your purpose.</li><li>👩‍👧‍👦 <strong>Navigating Mom Guilt</strong>: Striking the balance between parenting, personal ambition, and taking time for yourself.</li><li>🌍 <strong>The Human Design Factor</strong>: How understanding your energy channels could unlock new levels of flow and productivity.</li><li>💡 <strong>Creating Space for Creativity</strong>: Why stepping out of your routine might be the missing link to your next big idea.</li></ul><br/><h3>💬 Listener Challenge:</h3><p>Take yourself out on a “self-date” this week! Whether it’s grabbing coffee, visiting a museum, or just sitting at a park bench, give yourself 30 minutes to recharge and reconnect. No phones, no to-do lists—just you. Share your experience with us in the comments or on social media using <strong>#BlindianBrownGirlsSelfDate</strong>.</p><p>✨ Don’t miss this thought-provoking episode that blends real-life stories, actionable insights, and inspiring challenges to help you take charge of your energy and creativity.</p><p>💌 <strong>Subscribe to the Blindian Brown Girls Podcast</strong> to join the journey of self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. New episodes drop weekly!</p><p>📢 <strong>Connect With Us:</strong></p><p>🎧 Share your thoughts on this episode using <strong>#BlindianBrownGirls</strong></p><p>📱 Follow us on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a></p><p>🎙️ Love what you hear? Leave us a review—it helps us bring even more amazing topics and guests your way!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/ep-28]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">552c62a7-c59e-4786-87a3-b1ed588dd6bd</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/38bdfced-c0ef-4f3b-99e0-03ba47bac91c/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-28.mp3" length="169875840" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:10:47</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Blended Families &amp; Breaking Traditions: Navigating Relationships Beyond the Norm</title><itunes:title>Blended Families &amp; Breaking Traditions: Navigating Relationships Beyond the Norm</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive deep into the complexities and joys of blended families. From navigating dynamics with ex-partners and stepchildren to redefining what family looks like in intercultural and interracial contexts, we explore the layers that make these relationships challenging yet rewarding. Through personal stories and candid reflections, we highlight the importance of communication, setting expectations, and embracing modern family structures.</p><p>Whether you’re part of a blended family or just curious about how others make it work, this episode is packed with relatable insights and actionable advice.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The cultural stigmas surrounding blended families, especially in traditional and intercultural contexts.</li><li>The unique challenges of raising stepchildren and fostering relationships within blended families.</li><li>Stories of navigating ex-partner dynamics and co-parenting with compassion.</li><li>Practical advice for setting expectations and maintaining open communication in blended families.</li><li>Why societal norms need to catch up with the growing prevalence of non-traditional family setups.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Points and a Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li><em>“Blended families can be complex, but they’re also a reflection of love and adaptability.”</em></li><li><em>“One of the hardest parts of my divorce was losing the extended family I thought I was a part of.”</em></li><li><em>“When expectations aren’t set early, friction builds—and it’s often too late to fix it.”</em></li><li><em>“Representation matters. Seeing diverse families on TV helps normalize what so many of us are living.”</em></li><li><em>“Traditional families are beautiful, but they’re not the only kind of family that works.”</em></li><li><em>“Communicate, communicate, communicate. Blended families thrive on clarity and understanding.”</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p><em>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</em></p><p><em>We're now on Instagram! </em><a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>@blindianbrowngirls</em></a><em> and... if you want to connect with us individually...</em></p><ul><li><em>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</em></li><li><em>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</em></li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future</em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive deep into the complexities and joys of blended families. From navigating dynamics with ex-partners and stepchildren to redefining what family looks like in intercultural and interracial contexts, we explore the layers that make these relationships challenging yet rewarding. Through personal stories and candid reflections, we highlight the importance of communication, setting expectations, and embracing modern family structures.</p><p>Whether you’re part of a blended family or just curious about how others make it work, this episode is packed with relatable insights and actionable advice.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The cultural stigmas surrounding blended families, especially in traditional and intercultural contexts.</li><li>The unique challenges of raising stepchildren and fostering relationships within blended families.</li><li>Stories of navigating ex-partner dynamics and co-parenting with compassion.</li><li>Practical advice for setting expectations and maintaining open communication in blended families.</li><li>Why societal norms need to catch up with the growing prevalence of non-traditional family setups.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Points and a Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li><em>“Blended families can be complex, but they’re also a reflection of love and adaptability.”</em></li><li><em>“One of the hardest parts of my divorce was losing the extended family I thought I was a part of.”</em></li><li><em>“When expectations aren’t set early, friction builds—and it’s often too late to fix it.”</em></li><li><em>“Representation matters. Seeing diverse families on TV helps normalize what so many of us are living.”</em></li><li><em>“Traditional families are beautiful, but they’re not the only kind of family that works.”</em></li><li><em>“Communicate, communicate, communicate. Blended families thrive on clarity and understanding.”</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p><em>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</em></p><p><em>We're now on Instagram! </em><a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>@blindianbrowngirls</em></a><em> and... if you want to connect with us individually...</em></p><ul><li><em>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</em></li><li><em>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</em></li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future</em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/ep-27]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">db88d464-6f57-4543-bdea-1415be147760</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/782f63d5-25f3-4aa6-b052-f17385c5bf8f/Episode-27-Blended-families.mp3" length="127722240" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>53:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/61f669e9-3b44-4c99-88de-4d72e7c31363/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Self-Trust, Even When Life Gets Hard</title><itunes:title>Self-Trust, Even When Life Gets Hard</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt episode, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into cultivating self-trust amidst life’s challenges. From navigating the complexities of mixed-race relationships &amp; motherhood to redefining personal growth, they share raw, unfiltered insights on resilience, creating safety in uncertainty, and building a strong sense of self. Tune in to hear their stories, experiences, and actionable advice on turning life’s curveballs into stepping stones for growth.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Building self-trust through life’s adversities and understanding what “being good” means for you.</li><li>The importance of scheduling downtime to prevent burnout.</li><li>Strategies for creating work-life balance as entrepreneurs, moms, and partners.</li><li>The intersection of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and navigating personal fears, especially around money and financial stability.</li><li>Facing hard truths, planning for uncertainty, and why intentionality is crucial for resilience.</li><li>How proactive planning accelerates healing during major life transitions.</li><li>Practical steps to examine and release limiting beliefs around self-worth and money.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li>“No matter what external circumstances present, I trust myself to find a way forward.”</li><li>“Motherhood taught me I can’t control everything. My kids have their own lessons to learn.”</li><li>“We can only control what we can control. The rest is circumstance, and that’s okay.” </li><li>“Facing hard truths is scary, but the other side is where we grow.”</li><li>“Life’s challenges may break me, but I know I can rebuild stronger every time.” </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and... if you want to connect with us individually:</p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</li><li><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt episode, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into cultivating self-trust amidst life’s challenges. From navigating the complexities of mixed-race relationships &amp; motherhood to redefining personal growth, they share raw, unfiltered insights on resilience, creating safety in uncertainty, and building a strong sense of self. Tune in to hear their stories, experiences, and actionable advice on turning life’s curveballs into stepping stones for growth.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Building self-trust through life’s adversities and understanding what “being good” means for you.</li><li>The importance of scheduling downtime to prevent burnout.</li><li>Strategies for creating work-life balance as entrepreneurs, moms, and partners.</li><li>The intersection of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and navigating personal fears, especially around money and financial stability.</li><li>Facing hard truths, planning for uncertainty, and why intentionality is crucial for resilience.</li><li>How proactive planning accelerates healing during major life transitions.</li><li>Practical steps to examine and release limiting beliefs around self-worth and money.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li>“No matter what external circumstances present, I trust myself to find a way forward.”</li><li>“Motherhood taught me I can’t control everything. My kids have their own lessons to learn.”</li><li>“We can only control what we can control. The rest is circumstance, and that’s okay.” </li><li>“Facing hard truths is scary, but the other side is where we grow.”</li><li>“Life’s challenges may break me, but I know I can rebuild stronger every time.” </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and... if you want to connect with us individually:</p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</li><li><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/ep26]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">84821a1c-c373-4dd9-b394-d4bab30d5e38</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/144c09a8-26e6-47ba-9f67-644b72b1148c/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-26.mp3" length="98902080" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>41:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Breaking the Chains: Navigating Self-Sabotage in Relationships, Careers, and Lif</title><itunes:title>Breaking the Chains: Navigating Self-Sabotage in Relationships, Careers, and Lif</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’re diving deep into the hidden patterns of self-sabotage—how it sneaks into our relationships, careers, and even the way we see ourselves. From trust issues to fear of success, we’re peeling back the layers to uncover <em>why</em> we get in our own way and, more importantly, how to break free.</p><p>Join us as we discuss:</p><p>✨ <strong>The surprising link between fear of success and fear of failure</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>How self-sabotage shows up in relationships and how to break toxic cycles</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The excuses we cling to—and how they keep us stuck</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>Practical steps to unlearn patterns that hold you back</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>Inspiring stories of transformation and reframing beliefs</strong></p><p>This isn’t just another podcast episode—it’s your invitation to take back control, rewrite your narrative, and step into a life where growth and fulfillment lead the way.</p><p>💡 <strong>Let’s talk:</strong> How have you recognized (or overcome) self-sabotage in your life? Share your story in the comments!</p><p>👉 <strong>Subscribe now</strong> and let’s start building the life you’ve been dreaming of.</p><p>#SelfSabotage #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #BreakingCycles</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’re diving deep into the hidden patterns of self-sabotage—how it sneaks into our relationships, careers, and even the way we see ourselves. From trust issues to fear of success, we’re peeling back the layers to uncover <em>why</em> we get in our own way and, more importantly, how to break free.</p><p>Join us as we discuss:</p><p>✨ <strong>The surprising link between fear of success and fear of failure</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>How self-sabotage shows up in relationships and how to break toxic cycles</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The excuses we cling to—and how they keep us stuck</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>Practical steps to unlearn patterns that hold you back</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>Inspiring stories of transformation and reframing beliefs</strong></p><p>This isn’t just another podcast episode—it’s your invitation to take back control, rewrite your narrative, and step into a life where growth and fulfillment lead the way.</p><p>💡 <strong>Let’s talk:</strong> How have you recognized (or overcome) self-sabotage in your life? Share your story in the comments!</p><p>👉 <strong>Subscribe now</strong> and let’s start building the life you’ve been dreaming of.</p><p>#SelfSabotage #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #BreakingCycles</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/breaking-the-chains-navigating-self-sabotage-in-relationships-careers-and-lif]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6cdf0b1c-1366-486c-b6d2-246f02e4d59e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/d16988df-35ed-41e7-9226-fb3e835dd229/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-25-YT.mp3" length="117218880" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>48:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Making Choices as a Mom - Can we manage it all?</title><itunes:title>Making Choices as a Mom - Can we manage it all?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt and candid episode, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into the nuances of motherhood, parenting styles, and navigating life as mothers. From the guilt of leaving kids behind for self-care trips to the societal pressures on working moms, this episode unpacks the realities of juggling career aspirations, parenting, and cultural expectations. With a mix of personal anecdotes and thought-provoking insights, they also explore the unspoken tensions in mother-child relationships, parenting guilt, and why women deserve more grace in their journey.</p><h3><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></h3><ul><li>Balancing career and motherhood as working moms in mixed-race families.</li><li>Why self-care for mothers isn’t selfish—it’s essential.</li><li>The emotional logistics of leaving kids for work or personal growth.</li><li>Parenting styles: Finding what works for you and your child’s unique personality.</li><li>Societal pressures on mothers vs. fathers: Why the expectations are so different.</li><li>The unspoken dynamics of mother-child relationships and why they often feel more fraught than father-child dynamics.</li><li>The evolving conversation around workplace support for mothers, including menstrual leave and breastfeeding spaces.</li></ul><br/><h3><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>“I’m a whole person, even outside of my children. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.”</strong></li><li><strong>“You can’t make your child into who you want them to be. They are who they are, and your job is to support that.”</strong></li><li><strong>“Mothers juggle so much, and we’re still expected to show up at 150%. It’s time to change that narrative.”</strong></li><li><strong>“It’s not about having the ‘right’ parenting style. It’s about finding what works for you and your family.”</strong></li><li><strong>“Mothering is such a special role, and it’s not just for those who birth children. It’s about nurturing and showing up.”</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Let's connect!</strong></h3><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and...</p><p><strong>If you want to connect with us individually:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Connect with Tanya</strong> for awesome interracial relationship content.</li><li><strong>Connect with Aumatma</strong> for cutting-edge fertility content.</li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt and candid episode, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into the nuances of motherhood, parenting styles, and navigating life as mothers. From the guilt of leaving kids behind for self-care trips to the societal pressures on working moms, this episode unpacks the realities of juggling career aspirations, parenting, and cultural expectations. With a mix of personal anecdotes and thought-provoking insights, they also explore the unspoken tensions in mother-child relationships, parenting guilt, and why women deserve more grace in their journey.</p><h3><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></h3><ul><li>Balancing career and motherhood as working moms in mixed-race families.</li><li>Why self-care for mothers isn’t selfish—it’s essential.</li><li>The emotional logistics of leaving kids for work or personal growth.</li><li>Parenting styles: Finding what works for you and your child’s unique personality.</li><li>Societal pressures on mothers vs. fathers: Why the expectations are so different.</li><li>The unspoken dynamics of mother-child relationships and why they often feel more fraught than father-child dynamics.</li><li>The evolving conversation around workplace support for mothers, including menstrual leave and breastfeeding spaces.</li></ul><br/><h3><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>“I’m a whole person, even outside of my children. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.”</strong></li><li><strong>“You can’t make your child into who you want them to be. They are who they are, and your job is to support that.”</strong></li><li><strong>“Mothers juggle so much, and we’re still expected to show up at 150%. It’s time to change that narrative.”</strong></li><li><strong>“It’s not about having the ‘right’ parenting style. It’s about finding what works for you and your family.”</strong></li><li><strong>“Mothering is such a special role, and it’s not just for those who birth children. It’s about nurturing and showing up.”</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Let's connect!</strong></h3><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and...</p><p><strong>If you want to connect with us individually:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Connect with Tanya</strong> for awesome interracial relationship content.</li><li><strong>Connect with Aumatma</strong> for cutting-edge fertility content.</li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/motherhood-mixed-race-parenting-and-finding-balance-in-the-chaos]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3c400d6e-679a-4fa2-9d2e-bdc826fe6a40</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/93fcff6e-aa12-47a4-b544-07e8de22481a/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-24-Self-care.mp3" length="152679360" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:03:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Episode 23 - Embracing Holiday Traditions in Mixed-Race Families | Real Talk on Navigating Culture, Family, and Parenthood</title><itunes:title>Episode 23 - Embracing Holiday Traditions in Mixed-Race Families | Real Talk on Navigating Culture, Family, and Parenthood</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Get ready for an unfiltered conversation as we dive into the complex world of celebrating traditions in mixed-race relationships. 🎄🎉 From Thanksgiving and Diwali to Christmas and everything in between, we share our experiences growing up in immigrant households and how those traditions—or lack thereof—shape our lives today. 💫</p><p>With the holiday season here, we explore the challenges of merging different cultures, building new traditions, and teaching our kids about their heritage. Whether it’s navigating family expectations or redefining holiday celebrations, join us as we break down the joys, struggles, and compromises of being in interracial relationships and raising multicultural families. 🌎</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Get ready for an unfiltered conversation as we dive into the complex world of celebrating traditions in mixed-race relationships. 🎄🎉 From Thanksgiving and Diwali to Christmas and everything in between, we share our experiences growing up in immigrant households and how those traditions—or lack thereof—shape our lives today. 💫</p><p>With the holiday season here, we explore the challenges of merging different cultures, building new traditions, and teaching our kids about their heritage. Whether it’s navigating family expectations or redefining holiday celebrations, join us as we break down the joys, struggles, and compromises of being in interracial relationships and raising multicultural families. 🌎</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-23-embracing-holiday-traditions-in-mixed-race-families-real-talk-on-navigating-culture-family-and-parenthood]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f53c84c8-0743-4e0c-a772-3e1a85d72045</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c1349ca7-e756-4831-954c-421b2cfc7a62/Episode-23-Holidays.mp3" length="189769920" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:19:04</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Mixed-Race Relationships, Parenthood, Culture, Family &amp; Identity</title><itunes:title>Mixed-Race Relationships, Parenthood, Culture, Family &amp; Identity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Episode Summary:</p><p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, hosts Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra dive into the unique dynamics of mixed-race relationships and the challenges of blending cultures. From navigating family expectations to raising multiracial children, this episode reveals the raw, real experiences of two couples as they tackle cultural biases, family acceptance, the complexities of identity, and the journey to embracing both similarities and differences in our relationships.</p><p>What We Discussed:</p><p>- The journey of blending cultures in mixed-race marriages</p><p>- Family acceptance, expectations, and how it shapes relationships</p><p>- Raising multiracial children and societal perceptions</p><p>- The role of cultural values, from independence to family loyalty</p><p>- How music and shared interests create connection amid cultural differences</p><p>- The impact of society’s judgment on interracial couples</p><p>A Few Things We Said:</p><ul><li> "This podcast is about showing up as ourselves, raw and real. We don’t gloss over our truths."</li><li>"When I met my husband, it wasn’t just love; it was navigating two worlds that see things very differently."</li><li>"Kids are the equalizer in a way—seeing our kids accepted makes it easier to feel accepted ourselves."</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p>Let’s Connect!</p><ul><li>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</li><li>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you.</li><li>We're now on Instagram <a href="https://@blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> </li><li>If you want to connect with us individually:</li></ul><br/><p>			Connect with Tanya (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thetanyamitra" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@thetanyamitra</a>) for awesome Interracial Relationship content</p><p>            Connect with Aumatma (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@holisticfertilitydoctor</a>) for cutting-edge fertility content</p><p><br></p><p>AND if you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to *<strong>Blindian Brown Girls</strong>* on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode.</p><p>We'd appreciate it if you’d leave us a review 🙏🏽—it helps us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.*</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Episode Summary:</p><p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, hosts Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra dive into the unique dynamics of mixed-race relationships and the challenges of blending cultures. From navigating family expectations to raising multiracial children, this episode reveals the raw, real experiences of two couples as they tackle cultural biases, family acceptance, the complexities of identity, and the journey to embracing both similarities and differences in our relationships.</p><p>What We Discussed:</p><p>- The journey of blending cultures in mixed-race marriages</p><p>- Family acceptance, expectations, and how it shapes relationships</p><p>- Raising multiracial children and societal perceptions</p><p>- The role of cultural values, from independence to family loyalty</p><p>- How music and shared interests create connection amid cultural differences</p><p>- The impact of society’s judgment on interracial couples</p><p>A Few Things We Said:</p><ul><li> "This podcast is about showing up as ourselves, raw and real. We don’t gloss over our truths."</li><li>"When I met my husband, it wasn’t just love; it was navigating two worlds that see things very differently."</li><li>"Kids are the equalizer in a way—seeing our kids accepted makes it easier to feel accepted ourselves."</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p>Let’s Connect!</p><ul><li>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</li><li>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you.</li><li>We're now on Instagram <a href="https://@blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> </li><li>If you want to connect with us individually:</li></ul><br/><p>			Connect with Tanya (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thetanyamitra" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@thetanyamitra</a>) for awesome Interracial Relationship content</p><p>            Connect with Aumatma (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@holisticfertilitydoctor</a>) for cutting-edge fertility content</p><p><br></p><p>AND if you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to *<strong>Blindian Brown Girls</strong>* on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode.</p><p>We'd appreciate it if you’d leave us a review 🙏🏽—it helps us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.*</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-21-featuring-walt]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">bded5a74-31f7-4c4f-91cf-5b5e2c2c9918</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/71371971-7f95-4f2f-bed9-95160e4581de/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-21-Walt-origin-story-mp4.mp3" length="171516480" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:11:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/023f43e3-d750-47de-91de-76fadd2a71b9/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Politics, Representation &amp; A Blindian President: Real Talk on the 2024 Election</title><itunes:title>Politics, Representation &amp; A Blindian President: Real Talk on the 2024 Election</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong></p><p>It's election season and we had to talk about it! Join us for this candid discussion about identity, race, and politics as we see Kamala Harris, <em>a Blindian woman</em>, takes position as the potential first female, woman of color President in US history. In this episode, we explore the significance of the 2024 election, including Tanya's first-time voting experience as a US citizen, the pressures faced by public figures of mixed race, and the complexities of representation. We share personal insights on what it means to vote, especially as Blindian women navigating two cultures in today’s very volatile &amp; charged political landscape.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed</strong></p><ul><li><em>First-Time Voting</em>: Tanya’s reflections on becoming a U.S. citizen and the importance of voting this year.</li><li><em>The Dual Identity Dilemma</em>: How Kamala Harris navigates her role as a Black and South Asian woman in politics.</li><li><em>Media, Misogyny, and Misrepresentation</em>: Scrutinizing how Kamala’s mixed-race identity influences public opinion.</li><li><em>Candace Owens, Trump, and Political Alliances</em>: A breakdown of key conservative influences on minority representation.</li><li><em>The Role of Celebrities</em>: How high-profile figures like Beyoncé support political campaigns and the social perceptions they influence.</li><li><em>Intergenerational Perspectives</em>: Comparing political engagement and identity dynamics between generations.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said</strong></p><ul><li>"The first time voting in the U.S., and at such a pivotal moment, it felt huge."</li><li>"Kamala is not just too much of a woman; she’s somehow also ‘not enough.’ It’s this impossible standard women face in politics."</li><li>"Being a Blindian woman today means embracing layers of identity – there’s no box for that, especially in politics."</li><li>"We’re always asked to support leaders who don't fully represent us, and yet we keep seeking the closest thing to who we are and what we value."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><ul><li>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</li><li>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you.</li><li>Follow us on Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a></li><li>Connect with Tanya for incredible Interracial Relationship content</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content</li><li><strong>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—we release weekly! We’d also appreciate a quick review 🙏🏽, which will help us continue to bring you amazing guests and topics in the future.</strong></li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong></p><p>It's election season and we had to talk about it! Join us for this candid discussion about identity, race, and politics as we see Kamala Harris, <em>a Blindian woman</em>, takes position as the potential first female, woman of color President in US history. In this episode, we explore the significance of the 2024 election, including Tanya's first-time voting experience as a US citizen, the pressures faced by public figures of mixed race, and the complexities of representation. We share personal insights on what it means to vote, especially as Blindian women navigating two cultures in today’s very volatile &amp; charged political landscape.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed</strong></p><ul><li><em>First-Time Voting</em>: Tanya’s reflections on becoming a U.S. citizen and the importance of voting this year.</li><li><em>The Dual Identity Dilemma</em>: How Kamala Harris navigates her role as a Black and South Asian woman in politics.</li><li><em>Media, Misogyny, and Misrepresentation</em>: Scrutinizing how Kamala’s mixed-race identity influences public opinion.</li><li><em>Candace Owens, Trump, and Political Alliances</em>: A breakdown of key conservative influences on minority representation.</li><li><em>The Role of Celebrities</em>: How high-profile figures like Beyoncé support political campaigns and the social perceptions they influence.</li><li><em>Intergenerational Perspectives</em>: Comparing political engagement and identity dynamics between generations.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said</strong></p><ul><li>"The first time voting in the U.S., and at such a pivotal moment, it felt huge."</li><li>"Kamala is not just too much of a woman; she’s somehow also ‘not enough.’ It’s this impossible standard women face in politics."</li><li>"Being a Blindian woman today means embracing layers of identity – there’s no box for that, especially in politics."</li><li>"We’re always asked to support leaders who don't fully represent us, and yet we keep seeking the closest thing to who we are and what we value."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s Connect!</strong></p><ul><li>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</li><li>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you.</li><li>Follow us on Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a></li><li>Connect with Tanya for incredible Interracial Relationship content</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content</li><li><strong>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—we release weekly! We’d also appreciate a quick review 🙏🏽, which will help us continue to bring you amazing guests and topics in the future.</strong></li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/the-political-landscape-blindian-identity-voting-realities-real-talk-on-the-2024-election]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6e96d418-5d98-444a-acb6-35a26f2dc0b1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/ffabfdb5-6182-4560-9717-7a2d985a2990/Episode-22-Electing-a-president.mp3" length="200146560" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:23:24</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/450a05f8-7998-48d7-89e2-37f8e82b6475/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Navigating Burnout, Choices, and Mixed-Race Motherhood in the Modern World</title><itunes:title>Navigating Burnout, Choices, and Mixed-Race Motherhood in the Modern World</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of *Blindian Brown Girls*, hosts Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra dive deep into real, raw conversations about burnout, decision fatigue, and the challenges of balancing mixed-race motherhood with modern life. From travel stress to managing the overwhelming number of choices in everyday life, they explore how societal pressures, especially on women in their 40s, contribute to burnout. Aumatma and Tanya also discuss the complexities of living authentically while navigating cultural expectations, relationships, and motherhood, sharing personal stories and insights into how women can reclaim their power.</p><p>**What We Discussed**:</p><p>- Decision fatigue and its role in burnout for women</p><p>- How travel and packing can become stressful reflections of life’s pressures</p><p>- Balancing work, motherhood, and personal responsibilities in mixed-race families</p><p>- The privilege and burden of choice in the modern world</p><p>- Menstrual cycles, hormone balance, and how societal structures ignore women’s natural rhythms</p><p>- Cultural expectations of women in mixed-race relationships and their impact on personal identity</p><p>- The importance of intentional self-care to avoid burnout</p><p>- How women can reclaim their power in both the workforce and the family structure**A Few Things We Said**:</p><p>- *“There are just so many decisions we have to make all the time. It’s exhausting!”*</p><p>- *“We carry a lot as women, and yet we’re often expected to show up the same way as men—no matter what’s going on with our bodies.”*</p><p>- *“The reality is, burnout happens. And we need to start building intentional time for self-care into our lives.”*</p><p>- *“It’s not just about avoiding burnout; it’s about reclaiming the power to live on our terms.”*---**Let's connect!**</p><p>- *Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.*</p><p>Hope you loved this episode!! If so, will you please take 15 seconds to show us some love? It helps so much!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a> - mixed race relationship support</p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a> - fertility support </p><p>Got questions, topic suggestions, or feedback? Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p> *If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.*</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of *Blindian Brown Girls*, hosts Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra dive deep into real, raw conversations about burnout, decision fatigue, and the challenges of balancing mixed-race motherhood with modern life. From travel stress to managing the overwhelming number of choices in everyday life, they explore how societal pressures, especially on women in their 40s, contribute to burnout. Aumatma and Tanya also discuss the complexities of living authentically while navigating cultural expectations, relationships, and motherhood, sharing personal stories and insights into how women can reclaim their power.</p><p>**What We Discussed**:</p><p>- Decision fatigue and its role in burnout for women</p><p>- How travel and packing can become stressful reflections of life’s pressures</p><p>- Balancing work, motherhood, and personal responsibilities in mixed-race families</p><p>- The privilege and burden of choice in the modern world</p><p>- Menstrual cycles, hormone balance, and how societal structures ignore women’s natural rhythms</p><p>- Cultural expectations of women in mixed-race relationships and their impact on personal identity</p><p>- The importance of intentional self-care to avoid burnout</p><p>- How women can reclaim their power in both the workforce and the family structure**A Few Things We Said**:</p><p>- *“There are just so many decisions we have to make all the time. It’s exhausting!”*</p><p>- *“We carry a lot as women, and yet we’re often expected to show up the same way as men—no matter what’s going on with our bodies.”*</p><p>- *“The reality is, burnout happens. And we need to start building intentional time for self-care into our lives.”*</p><p>- *“It’s not just about avoiding burnout; it’s about reclaiming the power to live on our terms.”*---**Let's connect!**</p><p>- *Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.*</p><p>Hope you loved this episode!! If so, will you please take 15 seconds to show us some love? It helps so much!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a> - mixed race relationship support</p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a> - fertility support </p><p>Got questions, topic suggestions, or feedback? Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p> *If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.*</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-20-burnout]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c9656aa-26be-434d-beeb-87c92ccacb40</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/db88ac72-b6bf-4a55-9360-e6682f2dc96b/Episode-20-Burnout.mp3" length="163571520" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:08:09</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/94d398b0-0071-4b6b-97fe-9788e16d611a/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Why Saying &apos;No&apos; is Harder Than You Think: Navigating Mixed-Race Relationships, Business, and Boundaries</title><itunes:title>Why Saying &apos;No&apos; is Harder Than You Think: Navigating Mixed-Race Relationships, Business, and Boundaries</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong>:</p><p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we explore the challenge of saying "no"—especially for women of color—and how cultural conditioning, guilt, and societal expectations impact our ability to set boundaries. We dive into personal stories of navigating mixed-race relationships, business decisions, and why many women feel compelled to say "yes" when they really want to say "no." Join us as we uncover how intuition, self-trust, and confidence play a role in reclaiming our voice.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed</strong>:</p><ul><li>The cultural pressures women of color face around saying “no.”</li><li>How FOMO and guilt often dictate our decisions in both personal and professional settings.</li><li>How societal conditioning influences women to overextend themselves.</li><li>How men and women are conditioned differently when it comes to setting boundaries.</li><li>Real-life examples of how business decisions can challenge your ability to say no.</li><li>Why self-trust and intuition are crucial for making better decisions.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said</strong>:</p><ul><li>“We default to ‘yes,’ but we don’t often explore why we feel obligated to say it.”</li><li>“The consequence of saying ‘no’ is often guilt—but learning to set boundaries is part of trusting ourselves.”</li><li>“We have to shift from making decisions based on what everyone else thinks to really tuning into our intuition.”</li><li>“For women of color, saying no can feel like breaking away from deep-rooted cultural expectations.”</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let's connect!</strong></p><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and... if you want to connect with us individually:</p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</li><li><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong>:</p><p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we explore the challenge of saying "no"—especially for women of color—and how cultural conditioning, guilt, and societal expectations impact our ability to set boundaries. We dive into personal stories of navigating mixed-race relationships, business decisions, and why many women feel compelled to say "yes" when they really want to say "no." Join us as we uncover how intuition, self-trust, and confidence play a role in reclaiming our voice.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed</strong>:</p><ul><li>The cultural pressures women of color face around saying “no.”</li><li>How FOMO and guilt often dictate our decisions in both personal and professional settings.</li><li>How societal conditioning influences women to overextend themselves.</li><li>How men and women are conditioned differently when it comes to setting boundaries.</li><li>Real-life examples of how business decisions can challenge your ability to say no.</li><li>Why self-trust and intuition are crucial for making better decisions.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said</strong>:</p><ul><li>“We default to ‘yes,’ but we don’t often explore why we feel obligated to say it.”</li><li>“The consequence of saying ‘no’ is often guilt—but learning to set boundaries is part of trusting ourselves.”</li><li>“We have to shift from making decisions based on what everyone else thinks to really tuning into our intuition.”</li><li>“For women of color, saying no can feel like breaking away from deep-rooted cultural expectations.”</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let's connect!</strong></p><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blindianbrowngirls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@blindianbrowngirls</a> and... if you want to connect with us individually:</p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content.</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content.</li><li><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode—they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽—it’s going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-19-difficulty-saying-no]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">77cdf775-73ab-4ad6-93ca-3c4c7ced9584</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/4bea1168-1eba-4f2c-b0e2-c0ece11081df/Episode-19-Difficulty-Saying-No.mp3" length="168370677" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:10:09</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/61342cd5-73de-42bc-be47-6f4be6fc227a/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Beauty, Social Media, and Authenticity: Redefining Standards</title><itunes:title>Beauty, Social Media, and Authenticity: Redefining Standards</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this candid episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra explore the evolving standards of beauty, the role of social media in shaping our perceptions, and how authenticity plays into it all. From makeup tutorials to the influence of bots and fake engagement on social media, we discuss how modern platforms affect self-perception, relationships, and what it means to be authentic in today’s world. We also touch on the impact of social media in interracial relationships and how it can add layers of complexity to trust and communication.</p><h3>What We Discussed:</h3><ul><li>How beauty standards have evolved from skinny, blonde ideals to more diverse forms, but still with unattainable elements.</li><li>Social media’s impact on our perception of beauty and authenticity, from press-on nails to makeup tutorials.</li><li>The emotional and relational complexities introduced by social media in interracial relationships.</li><li>How AI and fake engagement are altering what we see and consume online, shaping trends and preferences.</li><li>Why authenticity and trusting relationships are harder to maintain in a social media-driven world.</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Points &amp; Quotes:</h3><ul><li><strong>Nails and Press-ons:</strong> "I’m into press-on nails right now… it has changed my life!"</li><li><strong>Makeup and Authenticity:</strong> “There’s this idea that makeup makes you less authentic, but honestly, it’s part of who I am. It’s playtime.”</li><li><strong>Beauty Standards Shifting:</strong> "Everyone has the same lips now… it’s crazy how these things become trends, but it changes how we see ourselves."</li><li><strong>Social Media and Trust in Relationships:</strong> "Social media can be the third wheel in a relationship, constantly feeding insecurities and creating new ones."</li><li><strong>Influencers and Authenticity:</strong> "We have access to all these people’s lives, but it’s a highlight reel—this isn’t real life."</li></ul><br/><h3>Let's Connect!</h3><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p><em>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</em></p><p><em>We're now on Instagram! @blindianbrowngirls and... if you want to connect with us individually...</em></p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content</li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this candid episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, Dr. Aumatma Simmons and Tanya Mitra explore the evolving standards of beauty, the role of social media in shaping our perceptions, and how authenticity plays into it all. From makeup tutorials to the influence of bots and fake engagement on social media, we discuss how modern platforms affect self-perception, relationships, and what it means to be authentic in today’s world. We also touch on the impact of social media in interracial relationships and how it can add layers of complexity to trust and communication.</p><h3>What We Discussed:</h3><ul><li>How beauty standards have evolved from skinny, blonde ideals to more diverse forms, but still with unattainable elements.</li><li>Social media’s impact on our perception of beauty and authenticity, from press-on nails to makeup tutorials.</li><li>The emotional and relational complexities introduced by social media in interracial relationships.</li><li>How AI and fake engagement are altering what we see and consume online, shaping trends and preferences.</li><li>Why authenticity and trusting relationships are harder to maintain in a social media-driven world.</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Points &amp; Quotes:</h3><ul><li><strong>Nails and Press-ons:</strong> "I’m into press-on nails right now… it has changed my life!"</li><li><strong>Makeup and Authenticity:</strong> “There’s this idea that makeup makes you less authentic, but honestly, it’s part of who I am. It’s playtime.”</li><li><strong>Beauty Standards Shifting:</strong> "Everyone has the same lips now… it’s crazy how these things become trends, but it changes how we see ourselves."</li><li><strong>Social Media and Trust in Relationships:</strong> "Social media can be the third wheel in a relationship, constantly feeding insecurities and creating new ones."</li><li><strong>Influencers and Authenticity:</strong> "We have access to all these people’s lives, but it’s a highlight reel—this isn’t real life."</li></ul><br/><h3>Let's Connect!</h3><p><em>Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</em></p><p><em>Send us a voice memo! We’d love to hear from you!</em></p><p><em>We're now on Instagram! @blindianbrowngirls and... if you want to connect with us individually...</em></p><ul><li>Connect with Tanya for awesome Interracial Relationship content</li><li>Connect with Aumatma for cutting-edge fertility content</li></ul><br/><p><em>If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future.</em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-18-beauty-social-media-and-authenticity-redefining-standards]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">68ae9d17-42bf-4d57-a299-f7bde4bd3017</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/46f48b11-e809-4e00-8d6c-4be93c9d4fb8/Episode-18-Social-Media-convo.mp3" length="153995520" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:04:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7652094c-bd4c-4a38-8d12-2dc64dfe9fb7/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Money Stories and Power Dynamics: Navigating Finances in Relationships</title><itunes:title>Money Stories and Power Dynamics: Navigating Finances in Relationships</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dr. Aumatma and Tanya Mitra dive deep into one of the most common sources of tension in relationships: finances. They explore how money stories, societal roles, and cultural expectations influence financial dynamics within relationships, especially in interracial partnerships. With a blend of personal anecdotes and expert insights, the hosts tackle the complexities of power dynamics, ambition, and the evolving roles of men and women when it comes to providing and nurturing. Whether you’re navigating your own financial challenges with your partner or curious about how money influences modern relationships, this episode offers real, honest, and thought-provoking conversation.</p><h3>What We Discussed:</h3><ul><li>The impact of money stories:&nbsp;How subconscious beliefs around finances influence relationships.</li><li>Cultural and societal expectations:&nbsp;The traditional "provider" and "nurturer" roles, and how these are shifting in modern relationships.</li><li>Financial power dynamics:&nbsp;Why women can struggle to fully embrace their feminine energy when there's financial stress.</li><li>Ambition vs. contentment:&nbsp;How partners with differing levels of ambition can find balance in their financial lives.</li><li>Practical financial strategies:&nbsp;The importance of having open conversations about money, lifestyle, and future planning.</li></ul><br/><h3>A Few Things We Said:</h3><ul><li>“Finances often bring up stuff we didn’t even know was there, but it’s always there, lurking beneath the surface.”</li><li>“Society has conditioned us to believe certain roles when it comes to money, and we’re constantly navigating that as couples.”</li><li>“If you're in a relationship where you're always the one driving the financial ship, resentment can easily build if it's not addressed.”</li><li>“It's not about who pays for what—it’s about the energy behind it, and how that influences your dynamic as a couple.”</li><li>“Whether you're providing financially or nurturing emotionally, there's always a way to strike a balance in a partnership if you're communicating openly.</li></ul><br/><h2>Let's connect! </h2><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! @blindianbrowngirls and... if you want to connect with us individually... </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a> for awesome Interracial Relationship content </p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a> for cutting-edge fertility content </p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dr. Aumatma and Tanya Mitra dive deep into one of the most common sources of tension in relationships: finances. They explore how money stories, societal roles, and cultural expectations influence financial dynamics within relationships, especially in interracial partnerships. With a blend of personal anecdotes and expert insights, the hosts tackle the complexities of power dynamics, ambition, and the evolving roles of men and women when it comes to providing and nurturing. Whether you’re navigating your own financial challenges with your partner or curious about how money influences modern relationships, this episode offers real, honest, and thought-provoking conversation.</p><h3>What We Discussed:</h3><ul><li>The impact of money stories:&nbsp;How subconscious beliefs around finances influence relationships.</li><li>Cultural and societal expectations:&nbsp;The traditional "provider" and "nurturer" roles, and how these are shifting in modern relationships.</li><li>Financial power dynamics:&nbsp;Why women can struggle to fully embrace their feminine energy when there's financial stress.</li><li>Ambition vs. contentment:&nbsp;How partners with differing levels of ambition can find balance in their financial lives.</li><li>Practical financial strategies:&nbsp;The importance of having open conversations about money, lifestyle, and future planning.</li></ul><br/><h3>A Few Things We Said:</h3><ul><li>“Finances often bring up stuff we didn’t even know was there, but it’s always there, lurking beneath the surface.”</li><li>“Society has conditioned us to believe certain roles when it comes to money, and we’re constantly navigating that as couples.”</li><li>“If you're in a relationship where you're always the one driving the financial ship, resentment can easily build if it's not addressed.”</li><li>“It's not about who pays for what—it’s about the energy behind it, and how that influences your dynamic as a couple.”</li><li>“Whether you're providing financially or nurturing emotionally, there's always a way to strike a balance in a partnership if you're communicating openly.</li></ul><br/><h2>Let's connect! </h2><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p>We're now on Instagram! @blindianbrowngirls and... if you want to connect with us individually... </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a> for awesome Interracial Relationship content </p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a> for cutting-edge fertility content </p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-17-money-discussions]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">cb6b7cdb-c957-4db9-8832-57c0b609e865</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/cbc513d6-fbf3-432d-bd20-8bc041783238/Episode-17-Money-Discussions.mp3" length="185328000" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:17:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9c4a3abe-e3bb-46f0-8251-e94194378410/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Navigating Friendships, Motherhood, and Life&apos;s Complexities | Blinidan Brown Girls</title><itunes:title>Navigating Friendships, Motherhood, and Life&apos;s Complexities | Blinidan Brown Girls</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this candid episode of <em>Blinidan Brown Girls</em> we dive deep into the topic of adult friendships, especially as we navigate motherhood and the intersections of our lives. We explore the nuances of friendships that grow, change, or sometimes fade away, and how these relationships shape our journey. From the challenges of finding like-minded mom friends to understanding the dynamics of friendships that no longer serve us, we get real and raw about what it means to maintain meaningful connections in a world that’s constantly shifting…. And becoming more disconnected with each day.</p><p>Whether you're balancing relationships, dealing with life's transitions, or simply looking for a space to reflect on your own friendships, this conversation is for you. Tune in as we unpack the layers of trust, connection, and the different roles that friendships play in our lives, all while keeping it real and relatable. Don't miss out on this heartfelt discussion—hit play and let's get into it!</p><p><strong> What we discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Cultivating Friendships in a New place</li><li> Grieving friendships that were lost over time or distance</li><li>A dating app for mom friends - we wish!  </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><p>Join us for more real conversations on navigating mixed-race relationships, motherhood, and culture. Follow us on Instagram @BlindianBrownGirls for updates and more insights!</p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>Don’t miss out! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this candid episode of <em>Blinidan Brown Girls</em> we dive deep into the topic of adult friendships, especially as we navigate motherhood and the intersections of our lives. We explore the nuances of friendships that grow, change, or sometimes fade away, and how these relationships shape our journey. From the challenges of finding like-minded mom friends to understanding the dynamics of friendships that no longer serve us, we get real and raw about what it means to maintain meaningful connections in a world that’s constantly shifting…. And becoming more disconnected with each day.</p><p>Whether you're balancing relationships, dealing with life's transitions, or simply looking for a space to reflect on your own friendships, this conversation is for you. Tune in as we unpack the layers of trust, connection, and the different roles that friendships play in our lives, all while keeping it real and relatable. Don't miss out on this heartfelt discussion—hit play and let's get into it!</p><p><strong> What we discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Cultivating Friendships in a New place</li><li> Grieving friendships that were lost over time or distance</li><li>A dating app for mom friends - we wish!  </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><p>Join us for more real conversations on navigating mixed-race relationships, motherhood, and culture. Follow us on Instagram @BlindianBrownGirls for updates and more insights!</p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>Don’t miss out! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/navigating-friendships-motherhood-and-lifes-complexities-blinidan-brown-girls]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">989e9ed7-ed7a-4f48-a33e-58cfe0d424ff</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c24dd3d9-da60-42f6-9f32-c57a6019d294/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-16-Friendships-mp4.mp3" length="181468800" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:15:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>How Where You Live Affects Who You Are: Exploring Identity, Hair, and Culture</title><itunes:title>How Where You Live Affects Who You Are: Exploring Identity, Hair, and Culture</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></p><p>In this episode, we talk about how where you grow up can change how you look and act. Can you tell where someone is from just by looking at them? We discuss how traits like hair, mannerisms, and even the energy people give off can hint at where they come from. We also explore the idea of epigenetics – how your environment affects your physical traits over time.</p><p>We touch on the differences between growing up in individualistic societies, like the U.S., and collectivist cultures, like India, and how this shapes people's confidence and behavior. The conversation also covers the unique experiences of raising mixed-race children and the importance of names, looking at how names can impact how people see and treat you.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Can you tell if someone is from India, Africa, or elsewhere just by their appearance?</li><li>How the environment you grow up in affects your physical traits, like hair.</li><li>The difference between growing up in collectivist versus individualistic cultures.</li><li>Raising mixed-race children and helping them shape their own identity.</li><li>The importance of names and how they influence people’s perceptions.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li>“I can almost always tell if someone’s Indian and grew up in India, just by their hair and mannerisms.”</li><li>“We come from an individualistic society, but we’re bringing collectivist ideas from our parents. That shifts the way we show up in the world.”</li><li>“Epigenetics is the mix of our genes and our environment, which decides how certain traits, like hair, are expressed.”</li><li>“Raising mixed-race children, especially when they’re part Black, is a different experience from raising kids who are part White.”</li><li>“So much of how we act is influenced by how other people see us. It's hard not to be affected by that.”</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><p>Join us for more real conversations on navigating mixed-race relationships, motherhood, and culture. Follow us on Instagram @BlindianBrownGirls for updates and more insights!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>Don’t miss out! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></p><p>In this episode, we talk about how where you grow up can change how you look and act. Can you tell where someone is from just by looking at them? We discuss how traits like hair, mannerisms, and even the energy people give off can hint at where they come from. We also explore the idea of epigenetics – how your environment affects your physical traits over time.</p><p>We touch on the differences between growing up in individualistic societies, like the U.S., and collectivist cultures, like India, and how this shapes people's confidence and behavior. The conversation also covers the unique experiences of raising mixed-race children and the importance of names, looking at how names can impact how people see and treat you.</p><p><strong>What We Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Can you tell if someone is from India, Africa, or elsewhere just by their appearance?</li><li>How the environment you grow up in affects your physical traits, like hair.</li><li>The difference between growing up in collectivist versus individualistic cultures.</li><li>Raising mixed-race children and helping them shape their own identity.</li><li>The importance of names and how they influence people’s perceptions.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>A Few Things We Said:</strong></p><ul><li>“I can almost always tell if someone’s Indian and grew up in India, just by their hair and mannerisms.”</li><li>“We come from an individualistic society, but we’re bringing collectivist ideas from our parents. That shifts the way we show up in the world.”</li><li>“Epigenetics is the mix of our genes and our environment, which decides how certain traits, like hair, are expressed.”</li><li>“Raising mixed-race children, especially when they’re part Black, is a different experience from raising kids who are part White.”</li><li>“So much of how we act is influenced by how other people see us. It's hard not to be affected by that.”</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><p>Join us for more real conversations on navigating mixed-race relationships, motherhood, and culture. Follow us on Instagram @BlindianBrownGirls for updates and more insights!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>Don’t miss out! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/culture-ep-15]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">2b97daef-77a7-4510-8d52-b3ff1640941e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/a592c5a1-511e-46e3-af99-c7effb728d1d/Recognizing-culture-Ep-15.mp3" length="102261120" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>42:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>The Hair Chronicles: Cultural Identity, Beauty, and Self-Love</title><itunes:title>The Hair Chronicles: Cultural Identity, Beauty, and Self-Love</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of<em> Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive into the unique challenges of raising mixed-race kids, especially when it comes to navigating hair and identity. From daughters wanting hair like Elsa’s to sons proudly rocking their curls &amp; their mixed race heritage, we explore how beauty standards, societal expectations, and even family opinions shape our children’s perceptions of themselves.</p><p>We talk about the differences in how boys and girls are treated when it comes to hair, how parents' and grandparents' views influence their sense of identity, and what it means to raise children who are proud of every part of who they are.</p><p>Things get raw as we share personal stories about our own struggles with hair growing up and how we’re trying to instill confidence and pride in our children’s natural beauty. Whether it’s dealing with cultural beauty standards, supporting our kids through identity questions, or finding a balance between cultural traditions and self-expression, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the intersections of race, identity, and parenting.</p><p><em>What We Discussed:</em></p><ul><li>The struggle of helping our mixed-race daughters love their curly hair when they want it to look like Elsa's straight braid.</li><li>How boys’ curls are often praised while girls face stricter beauty expectations.The cultural and family pressures that come with hair and beauty standards, and how these influence our kids’ self-perception.</li><li>The impact of societal beauty standards on our children’s sense of identity, especially for Black and mixed-race kids.</li><li>Raising kids with pride in their mixed heritage and helping them navigate the pressures of cultural expectations.</li></ul><br/><p><em>A Few Things We Said:</em></p><ul><li> “She’s four years old and she’s watching all the Disney movies and it's beautiful because I love her love for herself, but it’s still such an innocent thing because she’s starting to grapple with, ‘Why can’t I have Elsa’s hair?’”  </li><li>“Boys with curls? People flock to them. Girls with curls? It’s like the standard is so much higher for them.”  </li><li>"My daughter has curls, but they don’t grow that long. I pull it out straight, and it’s still not where other kids' hair is. And long hair is the standard”</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p><em>Please Connect with Us! </em></p><p>We’d love to hear your stories and thoughts! Follow us on Instagram <em>@BlindianBrownGirls</em> and join the conversation. Share how you’re navigating hair and identity with your kids and let’s keep this important dialogue going.</p><p><br></p><p><em>Subscribe: </em></p><p>Stay updated and never miss an episode! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you’re enjoying our show, drop us a review—your feedback keeps us inspired and helps us grow!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of<em> Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive into the unique challenges of raising mixed-race kids, especially when it comes to navigating hair and identity. From daughters wanting hair like Elsa’s to sons proudly rocking their curls &amp; their mixed race heritage, we explore how beauty standards, societal expectations, and even family opinions shape our children’s perceptions of themselves.</p><p>We talk about the differences in how boys and girls are treated when it comes to hair, how parents' and grandparents' views influence their sense of identity, and what it means to raise children who are proud of every part of who they are.</p><p>Things get raw as we share personal stories about our own struggles with hair growing up and how we’re trying to instill confidence and pride in our children’s natural beauty. Whether it’s dealing with cultural beauty standards, supporting our kids through identity questions, or finding a balance between cultural traditions and self-expression, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the intersections of race, identity, and parenting.</p><p><em>What We Discussed:</em></p><ul><li>The struggle of helping our mixed-race daughters love their curly hair when they want it to look like Elsa's straight braid.</li><li>How boys’ curls are often praised while girls face stricter beauty expectations.The cultural and family pressures that come with hair and beauty standards, and how these influence our kids’ self-perception.</li><li>The impact of societal beauty standards on our children’s sense of identity, especially for Black and mixed-race kids.</li><li>Raising kids with pride in their mixed heritage and helping them navigate the pressures of cultural expectations.</li></ul><br/><p><em>A Few Things We Said:</em></p><ul><li> “She’s four years old and she’s watching all the Disney movies and it's beautiful because I love her love for herself, but it’s still such an innocent thing because she’s starting to grapple with, ‘Why can’t I have Elsa’s hair?’”  </li><li>“Boys with curls? People flock to them. Girls with curls? It’s like the standard is so much higher for them.”  </li><li>"My daughter has curls, but they don’t grow that long. I pull it out straight, and it’s still not where other kids' hair is. And long hair is the standard”</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p><em>Please Connect with Us! </em></p><p>We’d love to hear your stories and thoughts! Follow us on Instagram <em>@BlindianBrownGirls</em> and join the conversation. Share how you’re navigating hair and identity with your kids and let’s keep this important dialogue going.</p><p><br></p><p><em>Subscribe: </em></p><p>Stay updated and never miss an episode! Subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. If you’re enjoying our show, drop us a review—your feedback keeps us inspired and helps us grow!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-14-hair]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e8ed4b22-c857-41ac-9d96-58eb79a86de4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Aumatma Simmons & Tanya Mitra]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c2e03a00-9726-499d-a0ea-7672c1bd85d4/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-14-Hair.mp3" length="94165440" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>39:14</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Dr. Aumatma Simmons &amp; Tanya Mitra</itunes:author></item><item><title>Fast Fashion, Sustainability &amp; Looking Cute - Can You Have It All?</title><itunes:title>Fast Fashion, Sustainability &amp; Looking Cute - Can You Have It All?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive headfirst into the world of fast fashion and its far-reaching impacts on our planet<em> and</em> our closets. We’re unpacking the messy truth behind those irresistibly cheap clothes and exploring whether we can truly balance style with sustainability.</p><p>We get real about the environmental and ethical toll of fast fashion, from the appalling working conditions to the mountains of waste. But it’s not all doom and gloom—we’re also sharing our love for secondhand shopping gems like Buffalo Exchange and how these treasures can elevate your wardrobe without breaking the bank.</p><p>Our chat takes a cultural twist as we challenge the outdated stigma around secondhand clothes and discuss how attitudes are shifting. We’ll give you practical tips on revamping your closet with what you already own, and how to make mindful fashion choices </p><p>Tune in to find out how you can stay stylish while being kinder to the earth. Because yes, you can look cute and be conscious!</p><h3>Key Topics Discussed</h3><ul><li>Our journey from trend-followers to classic piece lovers and how we keep our style fresh.</li><li>Why we adore secondhand stores like Buffalo Exchange and how they offer high-quality finds.</li><li>The harsh realities of fast fashion, including its environmental damage and exploitation of workers.</li><li>The shift in cultural views on secondhand clothing and the move away from outdated stigmas.</li><li>Tips for making the most of your wardrobe, and finding joy in what you already have.</li></ul><br/><h3>Notable Quotes</h3><ul><li>“I guess I have to admit, I don't keep up with trends as much, so I could give a shit"</li><li>“There’s still an association with poverty and poor people that wear secondhand clothes”</li><li>“When you see that site, you're like - this is not fashion."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us!:</strong></p><p>We’d love to hear how your cultural background has influenced your parenting or education choices. </p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><strong>Subscribe!:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p><p><br></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive headfirst into the world of fast fashion and its far-reaching impacts on our planet<em> and</em> our closets. We’re unpacking the messy truth behind those irresistibly cheap clothes and exploring whether we can truly balance style with sustainability.</p><p>We get real about the environmental and ethical toll of fast fashion, from the appalling working conditions to the mountains of waste. But it’s not all doom and gloom—we’re also sharing our love for secondhand shopping gems like Buffalo Exchange and how these treasures can elevate your wardrobe without breaking the bank.</p><p>Our chat takes a cultural twist as we challenge the outdated stigma around secondhand clothes and discuss how attitudes are shifting. We’ll give you practical tips on revamping your closet with what you already own, and how to make mindful fashion choices </p><p>Tune in to find out how you can stay stylish while being kinder to the earth. Because yes, you can look cute and be conscious!</p><h3>Key Topics Discussed</h3><ul><li>Our journey from trend-followers to classic piece lovers and how we keep our style fresh.</li><li>Why we adore secondhand stores like Buffalo Exchange and how they offer high-quality finds.</li><li>The harsh realities of fast fashion, including its environmental damage and exploitation of workers.</li><li>The shift in cultural views on secondhand clothing and the move away from outdated stigmas.</li><li>Tips for making the most of your wardrobe, and finding joy in what you already have.</li></ul><br/><h3>Notable Quotes</h3><ul><li>“I guess I have to admit, I don't keep up with trends as much, so I could give a shit"</li><li>“There’s still an association with poverty and poor people that wear secondhand clothes”</li><li>“When you see that site, you're like - this is not fashion."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us!:</strong></p><p>We’d love to hear how your cultural background has influenced your parenting or education choices. </p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><strong>Subscribe!:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p><p><br></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-13]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">61cd475c-b84c-4ba7-b9ee-076600980c87</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/9cfcfa18-62e2-4561-bb3c-5ea510fbf1b7/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-13-YT.mp3" length="130789992" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>51:02</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>How Race &amp; Culture Shapes Our Parenting and School Choices, and the Unseen Pressures for Children of Color</title><itunes:title>How Race &amp; Culture Shapes Our Parenting and School Choices, and the Unseen Pressures for Children of Color</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive into how our cultural backgrounds influence our parenting styles and views on education. We chat about the pressures of being part of the "model minority" in Asian communities and share personal stories of our own rebellious moments against these expectations, when we were kids, and now as mothers. We discuss how cultural identity influences academic performance, and the impact of racially-specific incidents at school that our own kids have experienced. Plus, we explore how different cultures balance strict parenting with letting kids enjoy their childhood, and question whether college is still the ultimate path to success in today’s world.</p><p><strong>Key Topics Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The impact of racial awareness on academic performance and the implications of the model minority myth.</li><li>How cultural expectations and stereotypes shape childhood experiences and academic outcomes.</li><li>The subtle yet significant social dynamics at play in childhood friendships and school environments, especially amongst culturally diverse groups</li><li>The role of parents in either reinforcing or breaking down racial and cultural barriers for their children.</li><li>The challenges of raising mixed-race children in environments with deeply rooted biases and systemic racism.</li><li>The critical importance of open conversations about race and identity in the home.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Notable Quotes:</strong></p><ul><li>"Comparing kids can totally kill their motivation."</li><li>"There are so many ways to succeed now that don’t involve a college degree."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong>&nbsp;We’d love to hear how your cultural background has influenced your parenting or education choices. </p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive into how our cultural backgrounds influence our parenting styles and views on education. We chat about the pressures of being part of the "model minority" in Asian communities and share personal stories of our own rebellious moments against these expectations, when we were kids, and now as mothers. We discuss how cultural identity influences academic performance, and the impact of racially-specific incidents at school that our own kids have experienced. Plus, we explore how different cultures balance strict parenting with letting kids enjoy their childhood, and question whether college is still the ultimate path to success in today’s world.</p><p><strong>Key Topics Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The impact of racial awareness on academic performance and the implications of the model minority myth.</li><li>How cultural expectations and stereotypes shape childhood experiences and academic outcomes.</li><li>The subtle yet significant social dynamics at play in childhood friendships and school environments, especially amongst culturally diverse groups</li><li>The role of parents in either reinforcing or breaking down racial and cultural barriers for their children.</li><li>The challenges of raising mixed-race children in environments with deeply rooted biases and systemic racism.</li><li>The critical importance of open conversations about race and identity in the home.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Notable Quotes:</strong></p><ul><li>"Comparing kids can totally kill their motivation."</li><li>"There are so many ways to succeed now that don’t involve a college degree."</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong>&nbsp;We’d love to hear how your cultural background has influenced your parenting or education choices. </p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-10]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ebf08d99-f055-49c3-b9d1-8a19d6e640e1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8dc444a9-d0f2-4a36-b47c-11f7f7d65686/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-11-YT.mp3" length="131552768" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>51:21</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>Navigating Divorce, Cultural Identity, and Mixed-Race Relationships</title><itunes:title>Navigating Divorce, Cultural Identity, and Mixed-Race Relationships</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></p><p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive deep into the complexities of divorce, especially for women in their 30s and 40s, and explore how cultural and personal identities shape our relationships. Join us as we have an unfiltered conversation about the emotional rollercoaster of post-divorce life, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the unique challenges faced by those in mixed-race relationships. We also touch on topics like the influence of religion, navigating toxic family dynamics, and the unexpected lessons that come from life’s toughest moments.</p><p><strong>Key Topics Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The emotional and practical challenges of divorce for women in their 30s and 40s.</li><li>How childhood experiences and cultural expectations influence adult relationships.</li><li>The importance of self-awareness in navigating relationship difficulties.</li><li>Understanding and dealing with narcissistic behavior in a partner.</li><li>The role of religion and spirituality in relationships.</li><li>The impact of toxic family dynamics on personal growth and relationships.</li><li>The transformative power of hardship and how it can lead to personal growth.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Why You Should Listen:</strong>&nbsp;If you’re navigating the complexities of relationships, especially in the context of cultural expectations and personal growth, this episode offers relatable stories and insights that will resonate. Whether you’re dealing with divorce, mixed-race relationships, or just trying to find your footing in a challenging world, we’re here to remind you that you’re not alone and that there’s always life on the other side of hardship.</p><p><strong>Listen and Subscribe:</strong>&nbsp;Don’t miss out on future episodes! Subscribe to&nbsp;<em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>&nbsp;on [Apple Podcasts], [Spotify], or your favorite podcast platform. Join us on this journey of self-discovery, cultural exploration, and real, raw conversations.</p><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p> Share your thoughts on this episode and let us know how you navigate the intersections of culture, relationships, and personal growth.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></p><p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, we dive deep into the complexities of divorce, especially for women in their 30s and 40s, and explore how cultural and personal identities shape our relationships. Join us as we have an unfiltered conversation about the emotional rollercoaster of post-divorce life, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the unique challenges faced by those in mixed-race relationships. We also touch on topics like the influence of religion, navigating toxic family dynamics, and the unexpected lessons that come from life’s toughest moments.</p><p><strong>Key Topics Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>The emotional and practical challenges of divorce for women in their 30s and 40s.</li><li>How childhood experiences and cultural expectations influence adult relationships.</li><li>The importance of self-awareness in navigating relationship difficulties.</li><li>Understanding and dealing with narcissistic behavior in a partner.</li><li>The role of religion and spirituality in relationships.</li><li>The impact of toxic family dynamics on personal growth and relationships.</li><li>The transformative power of hardship and how it can lead to personal growth.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Why You Should Listen:</strong>&nbsp;If you’re navigating the complexities of relationships, especially in the context of cultural expectations and personal growth, this episode offers relatable stories and insights that will resonate. Whether you’re dealing with divorce, mixed-race relationships, or just trying to find your footing in a challenging world, we’re here to remind you that you’re not alone and that there’s always life on the other side of hardship.</p><p><strong>Listen and Subscribe:</strong>&nbsp;Don’t miss out on future episodes! Subscribe to&nbsp;<em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>&nbsp;on [Apple Podcasts], [Spotify], or your favorite podcast platform. Join us on this journey of self-discovery, cultural exploration, and real, raw conversations.</p><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p> Share your thoughts on this episode and let us know how you navigate the intersections of culture, relationships, and personal growth.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-9]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d6345318-f67d-499b-88f6-eba88b225ee8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/9be0c6a8-d047-498f-b51b-363c7d9c8a20/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-9-YT.mp3" length="200596800" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:23:35</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>&apos;Gendered&apos; Holidays and Expensive Gifts from Your Partner - it&apos;s not always what it seems!</title><itunes:title>&apos;Gendered&apos; Holidays and Expensive Gifts from Your Partner - it&apos;s not always what it seems!</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into the world of gift-giving and the (fun) stress that often comes with it. We're talking about whether there are more holidays where 'men' feel the pressure to give gifts than 'women' do, and how these traditions play out in our lives.</p><p>We'll chat about the emotional rollercoaster of receiving expensive gifts from your partner – why it can be tricky, and what those gifts really mean. Plus, we’re getting real about kids' birthday parties, their gift expectations, and the whole culture of giving presents to kids. Are we raising little gift monsters or teaching gratitude?</p><p><strong><span class="ql-cursor">﻿</span>Key Topics:</strong></p><ul><li>Are guys more often the gift-givers on holidays?</li><li>How society shapes our gift-giving habits.</li><li>What do gifts really say about our relationships?</li><li>How do we each value and interpret gifts?</li><li>Why pricey presents can be a mixed bag of emotions.</li><li>The psychological side of receiving extravagant gifts.</li><li>When did birthday parties become SO expensive?</li><li>Managing kids' high expectations and entitlement.</li><li>Balancing fun and materialism with your kids</li><li>How different people view holidays.</li><li>The role of culture and personal experiences in shaping holiday traditions.</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Us!:</strong></p><p>Share your thoughts on gift-giving, holidays, and kids' birthday parties with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe!:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em>, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into the world of gift-giving and the (fun) stress that often comes with it. We're talking about whether there are more holidays where 'men' feel the pressure to give gifts than 'women' do, and how these traditions play out in our lives.</p><p>We'll chat about the emotional rollercoaster of receiving expensive gifts from your partner – why it can be tricky, and what those gifts really mean. Plus, we’re getting real about kids' birthday parties, their gift expectations, and the whole culture of giving presents to kids. Are we raising little gift monsters or teaching gratitude?</p><p><strong><span class="ql-cursor">﻿</span>Key Topics:</strong></p><ul><li>Are guys more often the gift-givers on holidays?</li><li>How society shapes our gift-giving habits.</li><li>What do gifts really say about our relationships?</li><li>How do we each value and interpret gifts?</li><li>Why pricey presents can be a mixed bag of emotions.</li><li>The psychological side of receiving extravagant gifts.</li><li>When did birthday parties become SO expensive?</li><li>Managing kids' high expectations and entitlement.</li><li>Balancing fun and materialism with your kids</li><li>How different people view holidays.</li><li>The role of culture and personal experiences in shaping holiday traditions.</li></ul><br/><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Us!:</strong></p><p>Share your thoughts on gift-giving, holidays, and kids' birthday parties with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe!:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take 15 seconds to subscribe to <em>Blindian Brown Girls</em> on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/ep-10]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a550b184-f64c-44cc-9233-bbf452dfb162</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/b059c638-5947-417d-ac08-582ad05c9887/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-10-YT.mp3" length="158014808" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:02:23</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>From Tinder to Texas...sharing our interracial, intercultural, blended love stories</title><itunes:title>From Tinder to Texas...sharing our interracial, intercultural, blended love stories</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Tanya &amp; Aumatma's relationship stories, our backgrounds, and how we ended up here- in Texas. We are literally telling all - from meeting on Tinder, to dating, and long-term partnerships/marriage. You're going to love this episode! </p><p>We will also get into blended families, stepping out of traditional boxes, and even parenting. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tanya &amp; Aumatma's relationship stories, our backgrounds, and how we ended up here- in Texas. We are literally telling all - from meeting on Tinder, to dating, and long-term partnerships/marriage. You're going to love this episode! </p><p>We will also get into blended families, stepping out of traditional boxes, and even parenting. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-8]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">40378e15-bab1-44de-99b0-f8ce0f48fa5e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/284e3352-9f5a-456c-96bc-fe1f9922b433/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-8-YT.mp3" length="140379840" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>58:29</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>Orgasms &amp; Prioritizing Pleasure</title><itunes:title>Orgasms &amp; Prioritizing Pleasure</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This is a taboo topic, but it needs to be discussed. Pleasure and orgasms during s3x is remiss for so many women, particularly brown women. We are going to get super raw and vulnerable about prioritizing our pleasure as women. Some women even experience pain instead of pleasure.  In this episode, we discuss the cultural nuances of dating, marriage, and s3x. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a taboo topic, but it needs to be discussed. Pleasure and orgasms during s3x is remiss for so many women, particularly brown women. We are going to get super raw and vulnerable about prioritizing our pleasure as women. Some women even experience pain instead of pleasure.  In this episode, we discuss the cultural nuances of dating, marriage, and s3x. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/fff]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6e76dd8e-2072-443e-b115-d5102b8830b5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/a1f7abab-cda9-4641-91e8-9076f3b2b18f/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Podcast-Ep-4.mp3" length="100731840" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>41:58</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>Entrepreneurship vs. Corporate Life</title><itunes:title>Entrepreneurship vs. Corporate Life</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Is entrepreneurship your jam? In this episode, we're navigating the mindsets and expectations of being an entrepreneur. Sometimes we have to leap before the net appears! </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is entrepreneurship your jam? In this episode, we're navigating the mindsets and expectations of being an entrepreneur. Sometimes we have to leap before the net appears! </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/ep-5]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">caf8445c-82eb-4692-8544-5989cb82b466</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/be4df163-5b61-47c8-9992-4cab3417d01b/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Podcast-Ep-5.mp3" length="130446720" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>54:21</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>What is a &quot;BLINDIAN&quot;? A Breakdown of our intercultural experience.</title><itunes:title>What is a &quot;BLINDIAN&quot;? A Breakdown of our intercultural experience.</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We are the Blindian Brown Girls. What is blindian though? We are in blended relationships, in a unique and somewhat taboo way. We dish all the sauce in this episode. </p><p>Where do Blindians live? Are they common? Why is it so taboo anyway? </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are the Blindian Brown Girls. What is blindian though? We are in blended relationships, in a unique and somewhat taboo way. We dish all the sauce in this episode. </p><p>Where do Blindians live? Are they common? Why is it so taboo anyway? </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-4]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">663a0975-168f-423b-9a66-0d753adf7fc4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8ac65292-f8ae-4860-a245-51aa2b185ed0/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Podcast-Ep-6.mp3" length="125323200" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>52:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>Balancing Parenthood and Business: Juggling Life’s Curveballs</title><itunes:title>Balancing Parenthood and Business: Juggling Life’s Curveballs</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Managing life as a working mom can feel like a constant juggling act. In this candid chat, we dive into the challenges of parenting, business ownership, and unexpected curveballs. From handling a brand-new puppy to balancing the needs of three kids, it’s all about finding that delicate balance. Join us as we discuss dropping the occasional ball, overcoming the fear of disappointment, and embracing the chaos with grace.</p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Managing life as a working mom can feel like a constant juggling act. In this candid chat, we dive into the challenges of parenting, business ownership, and unexpected curveballs. From handling a brand-new puppy to balancing the needs of three kids, it’s all about finding that delicate balance. Join us as we discuss dropping the occasional ball, overcoming the fear of disappointment, and embracing the chaos with grace.</p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/fffff]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">68174299-a4ad-4af0-8051-ef8e71c10085</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/73d8e25b-8e6c-4432-b728-9bc1fa481dc0/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Podcast-Ep-3.mp3" length="125165760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>52:09</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author></item><item><title>Claiming Our Space &amp; What&apos;s the deal with Fertility?</title><itunes:title>Claiming Our Space &amp; What&apos;s the deal with Fertility?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the Blindian Brown Girls podcast! We’re the Blindian Brown Girls, and we’ve officially claimed our name. Join us as we dive into candid conversations about fertility, relationships, and parenting. Whether you’re navigating fertility challenges or simply curious about the nuances of family planning, we’ve got you covered. Dr. Aumatma, a world-renowned holistic fertility doctor, tells all about her story! </p><p> Discover the truth behind common myths and learn how to empower yourself (or your partner) with women's health knowledge. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the Blindian Brown Girls podcast! We’re the Blindian Brown Girls, and we’ve officially claimed our name. Join us as we dive into candid conversations about fertility, relationships, and parenting. Whether you’re navigating fertility challenges or simply curious about the nuances of family planning, we’ve got you covered. Dr. Aumatma, a world-renowned holistic fertility doctor, tells all about her story! </p><p> Discover the truth behind common myths and learn how to empower yourself (or your partner) with women's health knowledge. </p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/episode-2]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">42bebc16-0abd-4b44-a91e-981b9639a041</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/0db55bff-a408-496a-a454-834fc8fbf206/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-2-YT.mp3" length="180236160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:15:06</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/3e6657d3-3acb-4721-ae8c-0e01e8173a73/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Navigating Interracial Relationships and Shared Experiences</title><itunes:title>Navigating Interracial Relationships and Shared Experiences</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this exciting moment, we’re finally taking action. Despite not discussing it for long, we’re launching this fun, lifestyle podcast.  Our setup includes background, lights, and even Prosecco to celebrate. But why are we here? The idea emerged spontaneously, driven by the unique experience of being in an interracial relationship. Layered with other shared experiences, in this kick-off episode, we discuss our lives beyond the context of our individual stories. Having children from these relationships adds another layer to our lives. As we get older, making friends becomes more challenging, but our connection feels destined. Through our experiences, we hope to connect with others who share similar aspects of their lives. So, let’s get to know each other in real time and we are excited to share our journey.</p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this exciting moment, we’re finally taking action. Despite not discussing it for long, we’re launching this fun, lifestyle podcast.  Our setup includes background, lights, and even Prosecco to celebrate. But why are we here? The idea emerged spontaneously, driven by the unique experience of being in an interracial relationship. Layered with other shared experiences, in this kick-off episode, we discuss our lives beyond the context of our individual stories. Having children from these relationships adds another layer to our lives. As we get older, making friends becomes more challenging, but our connection feels destined. Through our experiences, we hope to connect with others who share similar aspects of their lives. So, let’s get to know each other in real time and we are excited to share our journey.</p><p>*Share your thoughts on this episode with us on social media using #BlindianBrownGirls.</p><p>Send us a&nbsp;<a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/Blindian_brown_girls" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">voice memo</a>! We’d love to hear from you!</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.remixed.relationship?igsh=NGJsbXN0cHV2ajlj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Tanya</a></p><p><a href="http://www.instagram.com/holisticfertilitydoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Connect with Aumatma</a></p><p>*If you loved this episode, take 15 seconds to subscribe to Blindian Brown Girls on your favorite podcast platform to catch every new episode - they drop every week! And we'd appreciate it if you would leave us a review 🙏🏽 - it's going to help us bring amazing guests and topics in the future. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://blindian-brown-girls.captivate.fm/episode/blindian-brown-girls-navigating-interracial-relationships-and-shared-experiences]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">562ca9f9-2cf6-48a9-8aff-54b1eef93964</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e4b31401-fc38-41c2-9c2d-9cd0c138482a/mK6tjJHFjaGbWEZITRsXLddR.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Aumatma Simmons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/e802cd7b-8fc4-4754-96d1-e64a95d8d0e5/Blindian-Brown-Girls-Episode-1-YT.mp3" length="155494080" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:04:47</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Aumatma Simmons</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/644ce95b-7461-4134-8588-b5a76b902854/index.html" type="text/html"/></item></channel></rss>