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When Faith Becomes a Political Weapon

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Is our political passion a sign of strong faith, or a symptom of a spiritual void? We’re moving past the radicalized rage on both sides to diagnose the truth about where our hope for restoration actually lies.

We cover:

💜 The Heart Audit: Moving past "Trump Derangement Syndrome" and "Radicalized Rage" to a strictly biblical lens.

🔍 The Bipartisan Blindspot: Why both sides "pick and choose" from the Bible to fit their platform.

⛪️ Restoration vs. Order: Why a return to the past isn't the same thing as a return to holiness.

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Lost Virtues: Recovering the Active Power of Patience

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Can you tell if you are "waiting" on God or something that looks like patience, but isn't? We break through cultural conditioning, impatience, and passivity in this episode, discovering the Lost Virtue of Biblical Patience.

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What the Bible Really Means by Carnal, Spiritual, and Backslidden

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Lukewarm, backslidden, carnal, spiritual—everyone’s using the words, almost no one knows what they mean. Let’s go back to Scripture and clear up what’s actually going on.

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Almost True: The Lies That Fool Most Believers

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

If there is one spiritual gift we really need in the End Times, it's discernment.

I expose how Satan still runs the same playbook today: make lies look close enough to the truth that nobody questions them and then I give some tips for those who want discernment but haven't read the entire Bible yet.

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The importance of confessing our sins

Sat, 20 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Many Christians have heard about confessing sins, but probably weren't taught the importance of it. Confession is a lost discipline that holds so much power for the believer. This covers:

Why confession is commanded in Scripture — not suggested
How hidden sin corrupts prayer, conscience, and community
Why public “vulnerability” online is not biblical confession
How confession leads to healing, restored relationships, and revival

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Life in the Family of God- Relationship over religion

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We're constantly hearing the word "revival." People keep saying revivals are happening everywhere and church numbers are increasing and Bible sales are on the rise. . .

But is that Christianity? We say "Christianity isn't a religion, it' s a relationship", but what kind?

This episode is all about the FAMILY OF GOD!

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What the Bible has to say about Judging

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Judgement!

A big buzzword and topic because it is so misunderstood. This episode will provide clarity about the judgment of ourselves, the judging of others, and God's judgement

Quick Overview 📝

Why “don’t judge me” is usually a confession, not a defense
The difference between self-examination and self-righteousness
How biblical accountability actually works inside the church
Why Christians aren’t called to judge the world—but God still does
What God’s judgment looks like today and why believers shouldn’t fear it

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Lost Virtues- The Biblical way to OVERCOME Greed

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Tis the season! for buying and spending. But what does God have to say about our (His ) money? How we view our money says a lot about our heart. This episode dives into the generous heart, tithing, hospitality and the sins of greed, stinginess and wastefulness. May we glorify God with what He has blessed us with!

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Lost Virtues- Cultivating a THANKFUL heart

Wed, 26 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0500

Right in time for Thanksgiving!

Mass consumerism, comparison culture, and constant complaining have us acting like we’re owed everything. But 1 Corinthians 4:7 flips that attitude fast. In this episode, we talk about developing a thankful heart that actually changes your mood, humbles your ego, and makes life lighter—especially during the holiday chaos. Let’s trade entitlement for gratitude and get our joy back.

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What Are Christians Actually Supposed to Be Doing Here?

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we break down the real assignment of the Christian life: not just getting saved, not just evangelizing, but holy living through discipleship and stewardship.

📌 We’ll Cover:

Why the modern church created millions of converts but few disciples
Why sanctification matters just as much as salvation
How comfort and prosperity quietly destroy holy living
What it really means to be a servant and steward of God
Why singleness, marriage, and family are assignments, not personal projects

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Unanswered Prayer: When God Says No, Not Yet, or Nothing at All

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0500

If you’re saved, there’s no such thing as an “unanswered” prayer — God always answers: yes, no, or wait.

Why some prayers never reach God at all (hint: not everyone praying is His child).
The #1 reason believers don’t get answers: unconfessed sin and hidden shame.
The danger of mistaking self-righteousness for holiness.
How to tell when God’s “no” is really His protection.
What to do in the “wait” — when the answer exists, just not yet.
Real stories, real scripture, and how God still moves even when it feels silent.

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Prayer 101: A Conversation With Our Heavenly Father

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Let's go back to the basics

The power in the Christian walk comes from prayer, because God is the power behind us. If we don't know how to talk to Him or just don't we'll be left limping through our faith. We're gonna set the foundation for what prayer is here:

Prayer isn’t just talking at God — it’s a real conversation with Him.
Romans 8:26-27 reveals how the Holy Spirit literally helps us pray.
Learn how all three persons of the Trinity are involved every time you pray.
Get practical tools: A.C.T.S. and the Navigators hand model for prayer.
Why adoration should come before confession (and how it changes everything).
Tips to beat distraction, refocus your mind, and keep reverence in the conversation.

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Lost Virtues- Finding Contentment in a Busy World

Wed, 02 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In America we feel like we need to hustle harder, earn more, or finally "make it" That pressure isn’t peace, and it’s definitely not from God. In this episode, we’re talking about contentment: what it really means for Christians and how it kills the lies of comparison, envy, and spiritual apathy.

I think I have to round out Season 2 here and take a break while I restructure Season 3 with set dates and topics. Bear with me as I grow and learn guys. You can still find me on TikTok 🙏🏽

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Lost Virtues- Trusting God in a World that Doubts

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Struggling with doubt, unbelief, or weak faith? Challenging episode - We explore the Christian virtue of faith—what GOD SAYS it is, what it isn’t, and how to grow stronger in your walk with God through Scripture, prayer, and obedience.

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Nef 😉

Lost Virtues- Can Christians REALLY Overcome Fear with Courage?

Tue, 20 May 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We admire courage, but why is it so rare today-especially among believers? In this episode of LV, I dig deep into why fear has overtaken our culture and how true courage isn't self-made-it's rooted in faith, humility, and hope in God.

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https://nefreteri.com/forgiveness-in-a-culture-of-cut-offs/

Lost Virtues- How Biblical Forgiveness can Change the World (seriously)

Thu, 15 May 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Ahhh yes, the virtue we all jump to when we have disagreements. . . Not!! This episode we go over what Biblical forgiveness is compared to the world. And you betcha, we're gonna talk reconciliation. Tough, powerful episode, but if implemented, people's relationships would flourish.

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Lost Virtues- Jesus: The ONLY Hope For A Better Tomorrow

Tue, 13 May 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we’re breaking down HOPE, which lives between Despair and Gullibility. Christians must know that Jesus gives us hope in life to endure and, in death, salvation. We shouldn't get to caught up with speculation and getting too hopeful, that we fail to be vigilant, which may result in gullible actions.

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Lost Virtues- The Destructive Sin of Gluttony

Tue, 06 May 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We’re breaking down Moderation (Temperance)—a virtue that keeps us from falling into the extremes of gluttony or excessive self-denial. We’ll explore Scripture, real-world statistics, and how modern food science is designed to keep us addicted. We're gonna talk about alcohol in here too! We'll round it out with practical tips to overcome it.

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Lost Virtues - Humility: the Underrated Virtue

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We hear a lot about pride as Christians, but don't recognize that insecurities and low self-esteem are the other side. Humility, one of the most beautiful—but most misunderstood—virtues in the world, sits right in the middle. It's what allows us to know exactly who we are as God's creation.

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Lost Virtues- Learning to Overcome Envy in your daily life

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Envy is a silent killer in the Christian walk-it robs your joy, ruins relationships, and turns your heart bitter. The flipside and equally as bad is not thinking you're worthy of things people have. Can we overcome it? In this episode, I'll show you how kindness (brotherly love) is the key to defeating envy and why it's impossible to do it without God.

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Lost Virtues- Living in the Middle: Cultivating Godly Character

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0500

By special request I was asked to upload my YouTube series called Lost Virtues to the podcast.

This is very different content from the podcast. These are convicting episodes dealing with vices and virtues to gain godly character.

This episode is the introduction and will explain the practicality of Christianity and what "character training" is!

I pray these bless you 🙏🏽

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The Narrow Way: In between Legalism and Lawlessness

Mon, 14 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0500

This is a more "theological episode" than cultural but super important. We're told to follow Jesus, but many don't understand sin, how to not be legalistic, but also not regularly sinning. We'll talk about all of that here.

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For Beauty and Glory: Our Body is a Temple

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0500

God gave us magnificent bodies that we should be taking care of. We talk about food, fitness, drugs, fashion and modesty. This episode shows the amount of freedom there is in the Christian faith, but it must guided by wisdom and responding to convictions from the Holy Spirit.

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For Beauty and Glory: Or Vanity?

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this 2-part series, I’m tackling a topic pastors won’t preach on. I take you on a deep dive into beauty from God's perspective—beyond just human physicality.

God designed beauty with purpose—from creation, art, music, and architecture to human appearance. But in our fallen world, beauty is often distorted, envied, or misused. When we STOP comparing ourselves and START seeing through God’s eyes, everything changes.

*note- I add some visuals to the Youtube video, so the experience is better for this particular episode

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Friends and Fellowship- Who can Believers be friends with?

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Life is better with friends!

In this episode, we’re diving deep into what the Bible really says about friendships, relationships, and mentorship. We’ll tackle common misconceptions, break down relevant scriptures, and highlight the difference between being wise in our friendships and being trapped in a “holy huddle.”

Manifestation vs prayer: The TRUTH behind it

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we’re breaking down the deception behind manifestation and why it’s NOT the same as prayer. Some Christians now are trying to blend the two, thinking they can manifest their dreams while also trusting in God.

We’ll dive into where manifestation really comes from, why so many people fall for it, and the real, legitimate power behind prayer—how done the right way—actually changes lives, ourselves and others.

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Am I really practicing solitude or just self-isolating?

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to Season 2!

Season 1 got us warmed up by telling us who we are, created by God and made for a purpose.

This episode we talk about the increasing habit of pulling away from others by self-isolating.

Well when God made us, He said "It's not good for man to be alone." So we're gonna talk about what's going on in the culture, how to identify if you're isolating or practicing solitude, and what this means for people who identify as believers in Christ.

Jam-packed with science, spirituality and theology; this is a powerful listen if you've been considering "protecting your inner peace."

Is God actually cruel?

Wed, 20 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Many people struggle with this question, believing that God is a harsh, judgmental figure responsible for the pain and suffering in the world. In this episode, we challenge that view with logical arguments, cultural examples, and biblical truth to uncover God’s true nature.

We explore what it really means to see God as a benevolent Creator, how His character is revealed through creation (Romans 1:20), and why the problem often lies in our own resistance to His sovereignty.

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Follow Jesus Not The Crowd

Follow Jesus, NOT the Crowd!

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we’re breaking down the sneaky lie of conformity and how it creeps into our lives without us realizing it.

Society tells us to be individuals, yet pressures us to act, think, and speak like everyone else. But there are ways to counter it.

Christians must also avoid the danger of conforming to Christian culture in response.

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The Lie of Internal Validation: What Really Works

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Are you caught in the endless chase for validation? Whether it’s from social media, friends, or even your own self-talk, the need for approval can feel overwhelming—and the Internet’s solution of *self-validation* just doesn’t work for everyone. In this episode, I dive deep into why internal validation isn’t the magical fix it’s made out to be and why chasing external validation is a normal, human experience.

But here’s the truth: the ultimate validation doesn’t come from people or even yourself. It comes from something far greater—your Creator. I’ll share the reasons why faith is the missing piece in the validation puzzle and offer hope for those who feel stuck in the cycle.

🤍 If you're ready to stop chasing temporary approval and want to learn how to ground your identity in something unshakable, this episode is for you! 💪🏽

**Key Takeaways**:

- The dangers of focusing too much on internal validation

- Why we all naturally seek external approval

- The lie behind positive affirmations and their limitations

- The powerful truth about finding your identity and worth in God

**Scripture References**:

Psalm 139:13-14 | Galatians 1:10 | John 12:43 | Romans 8:31 | John 14:27

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The Confidence Lies You've Been Told - Uncovered and Exposed!

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Tired of trying to BE confident? Are the self-help rituals and routines causing burnout and exhaustion? Wouldn’t you love to just be a confident version of YOURSELF?

In this episode we’ll be calling out the lies surrounding the never-ending, contradictory advice around gaining confidence.

This will challenge your way of thinking and if society even wants you to be confident!

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https://nefreteri.com/the-not-so-secret-to-lasting-confidence/

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Tired of self-help? The TRUE Way to discover your Identity

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Are you stuck in the hamster wheel of self-help? Are you feeling overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do lists from scientific research meant for you to achieve a fulfilling life?

So many people are being sold a lie about who they are as people leading to imposter syndrome or overconfidence.

In this video I'll walk you through the ever-changing identities we've come to accept as the norm and how to discover who you really are.

You will never know where you are going. If you don't know who you are!

The LIE that no one is coming to save you

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500

What must I do to be saved?

People have been asking this, since the beginning of time.

In this bonus episode of The Intro to Christianity 101, I explain what real belief in Jesus Christ means.

This episode is the GOOD NEWS- the gospel of salvation!

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Tremble -Seth Jacobsen

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The Truth about Christian Freedom

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Has Christianity disappointed you? Do you find it too difficult to obey all of those “rules”? And it hasn’t given you the life of freedom you heard about?

In this episode I talk about religious Christians vs authentic ones. You’ll learn about the term “legalism” that’s thrown around in Christian circles. And the “secret” or “key” that unlocks the rewards of the most liberating faith on Earth!

It’s a hefty episode with a lot of scripture, but will show you why Christianity is different from the “religion” you thought it was.

The 2nd video in my Christianity 101 series:

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