Dateless in Delray

Ep. 85 - You Thought It Went Well: What Your Date Really Said with Joy Wayne

Tue, 29 Sep 2026 11:00:00 -0400

Two people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what happens after the date, when each person privately tells the matchmaker what they really thought. Joy shares what men and women notice, the behaviors that quietly undermine a promising connection, what “no chemistry” may actually mean and when attraction deserves more time. They also explore how confidence can be mistaken for arrogance, independence for disinterest and nervousness for a lack of personality. It’s an honest, revealing look at the dating feedback most of us never hear—and what it can teach us about how we show up, connect and give love a genuine chance.

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Ep. 84 - Are Relationships for Suckers? The Truth About Making Love Last with Belle Gayer

Tue, 22 Sep 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Is lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from more than 55 years of marriage and thousands of relationship questions.
They discuss chemistry versus compatibility, handling recurring conflict, maintaining intimacy, expressing gratitude and knowing the difference between healthy commitment and losing yourself. Belle also shares practical wisdom for divorced and later-in-life daters who still believe love is worth the effort.

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Ep. 83 - Microwave Love: Why We Rush Romance and Starve Connection—with Rose Lambert

Tue, 15 Sep 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Would you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love?

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker, entrepreneur, and mystic Rose Lambert, founder of Rose Match Inc., a nonprofit addressing loneliness through education and community. Rose explains why instant chemistry is lust rather than love, why she asks singles to give someone at least three dates, and how endless options have taught us to discard people instead of building with them.

They also discuss what men actually need from a partnership, the cost of postponing love until the career is built, why financial security and a full social calendar don't cure loneliness, and how raising your own energy changes who you attract.

Whether you're swiping, dating, or rebuilding after divorce, this conversation makes the case that love is grown, not found. Learn more about Rose at roselambertmatchmaker.com, or join her free masterclasses and community at rosematch.org.

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Ep. 82 - Is My Ex Really a Narcissist? Dating, Personality Disorders & Mental Health with Frederic Bien

Tue, 08 Sep 2026 09:00:00 -0400

“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply labeling people who hurt or disappoint us?
Susan Shoer talks with Frederic Bien, President of the Personality Disorders Awareness Network (PDAN), about the difference between difficult personality traits and diagnosable personality disorders, how emotional dysregulation and attachment patterns can affect relationships, and why understanding someone’s behavior doesn’t mean excusing unhealthy or hurtful treatment.
They also explore boundaries, relationship instability, fear of abandonment, the tendency to diagnose our dates, and whether people with personality disorders can have healthy, loving relationships. Learn more and find resources at pdan.org.

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Ep. 81 - Chemistry Test: Is It Love, Lust, or Your Nervous System with Pavini Moray, PhD

Tue, 01 Sep 2026 09:00:00 -0400

That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar.
Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner, about the body’s role in attraction, desire, attachment and relationship patterns. They explore why intense chemistry can sometimes be confused with compatibility, how past experiences can shape who we’re drawn to, and what it means to feel genuinely safe and connected with another person.
Pavini also shares how somatic awareness can help us recognize old patterns, make more conscious relationship choices, and understand the difference between excitement, anxiety, lust and lasting intimacy.
Learn more about Pavini at pavinimoray.com.

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Ep. 80 - One Marriage. Two Relationship Philosophies: The MonoPoly Couple Explains

Tue, 25 Aug 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The MonoPoly Couple, to discuss the unconventional relationship that's captured attention online. Married for 17 years, they began navigating a mono-poly dynamic just four years ago after Courtney realized she was polyamorous while Nate remained monogamous.
Together, they share how they navigate jealousy, boundaries, trust, and communication, challenge common misconceptions about polyamory, and explain why honesty and emotional safety matter in every relationship.
Whether you agree with their relationship style or not, this conversation offers fresh insights into love, commitment, and what it takes to build a partnership that works for both people.Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The MonoPoly Couple, to discuss the unconventional relationship that's captured attention online. Married for 17 years, they began navigating a mono-poly dynamic just four years ago after Courtney realized she was polyamorous while Nate remained monogamous.
Together, they share how they navigate jealousy, boundaries, trust, and communication, challenge common misconceptions about polyamory, and explain why honesty and emotional safety matter in every relationship.
Whether you agree with their relationship style or not, this conversation offers fresh insights into love, commitment, and what it takes to build a partnership that works for both people.

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Ep. 79 - Boy School, Girl School: Learning to Understand Each Other with Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton

Tue, 18 Aug 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Why do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and intimacy specialists Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton, co-creators of The Space Between® Approach, to explore the invisible lessons men and women learn about love long before they ever enter a relationship.
They call it "Boy School" and "Girl School"—the unspoken emotional education that shapes how we communicate, handle conflict, express vulnerability, and seek connection. Through humor, honesty, and real-life examples, Naomi and Martin reveal why so many relationship struggles aren't caused by incompatibility, but by two very different emotional languages colliding.
Whether you're dating, married, divorced, or looking for love after 50, this eye-opening conversation will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and why good people can keep missing each other—even when love is there.

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Ep. 78 - Over It: Why Dating Apps Are Dying and What Comes Next with Scot MacKay

Tue, 11 Aug 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Are dating apps on life support?
After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, relationship coach and dating strategist Scot MacKay joins Susan Shoer to explore why so many people are walking away from the apps—and what comes next.
Together, they discuss the growing frustration with online dating, why technology alone can't create chemistry, and how today's singles can use AI, social media, communities, and real-world opportunities to build authentic connections. Scot also shares practical strategies for creating a dating life that doesn't revolve around algorithms—and why the future of dating may look a lot more human than digital.
Whether you're ready to delete the apps or simply want to date smarter, this conversation offers fresh insight, hope, and actionable advice for finding love in a changing world.

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Ep. 77 - Love After Loss: Can the People We Lose Help Us Find Love Again with Susan Anderson

Tue, 04 Aug 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan explores the idea that the loved ones we've lost may continue to guide, support, and even influence our lives from beyond.
Drawing from her own experiences as a medium and the insights from her book, Communicating with Grace: The Awakening of a Psychic Medium, Susan shares stories of spiritual connection, signs from the other side, and how grief can sometimes open unexpected doors to healing, hope, and even new love. Whether you're a believer, a skeptic, or simply curious about what happens after loss, this thought-provoking conversation offers a fresh perspective on love, loss, and the enduring bonds that connect us. Learn more at SusanAnderson.net.

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Ep. 76 - You Never Listen to Me: The Relationship Warning Men Ignore with Hoady Spencer

Tue, 28 Jul 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear.
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and relationship coach Hoady Spencer to discuss his book,"Listen Baby: A Man's Guide to Better Relationships." Hoady explains why genuine listening is one of the most overlooked—and transformative—skills in love. Together, they explore why people often listen to respond instead of understand, how emotional validation can strengthen intimacy, and the simple communication shifts that can dramatically improve romantic relationships. Whether you're dating, in a long-term partnership, or starting over after 50, this conversation offers practical insights for creating deeper trust, fewer misunderstandings, and stronger connections.
If you've ever wanted to feel more understood—or become a better partner—this episode is full of wisdom you'll use long after the conversation ends.

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Ep. 75 - Delicious DNA: Why Some Men Get All the Dates with Suki Nefertiti

Tue, 21 Jul 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making.
In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with human sexuality expert Suki Nefertiti to unpack the most common dating mistakes men make—and how a few simple shifts can dramatically change the way they're perceived by women.
From being basic, cheap, or performative to developing what Suki calls "Delicious DNA," this conversation explores attraction, confidence, emotional intelligence, and the qualities that create genuine connection. Drawing on psychology, evolutionary biology, and real-world dating experiences, Suki offers practical, often surprising advice that benefits men and women alike.
Whether you're dating, coaching someone who is, or simply fascinated by modern relationships, this episode delivers fresh insights, plenty of laughs, and actionable takeaways you can use on your very next date.

Get in touch with Suki: sukinefertiti@gmail.com

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Ep. 74 - The Formula of Desire: Why the Spark Fades—and How to Find It Again with Anna Elton

Tue, 14 Jul 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist Anna Elton to unpack the psychology of attraction, desire, and lasting connection. Together, they explore why dating after 50 feels different, the biggest myths about chemistry and compatibility, how dating apps are reshaping our expectations, and what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships.
Anna also introduces her Relational Desire Score, a practical framework for understanding the health of your relationships and identifying opportunities for deeper connection. Whether you're dating, rebuilding after divorce, or looking to reignite intimacy with your partner, this conversation offers fresh insights grounded in both research and clinical experience.
Learn more about Anna, her books, workshops, and relationship resources at DrAnnaElton.com and TheFormulaOfDesire.com, where you'll also find her online relationship and desire assessments designed to help you better understand yourself and your relationships.

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Ep. 73 - Rediscovering Mars and Venus: Navigating Love and Hormones with John Gray

Tue, 07 Jul 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Thirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights into the hidden role hormones play in modern love.
In this eye-opening episode, John reveals how estrogen and testosterone shape attraction, communication, intimacy, and even conflict. He explains why certain relationship dynamics naturally boost—or deplete—these powerful hormones and offers practical ways couples can create more passion, connection, and understanding.
Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or looking for love after 50, you'll discover why the chemistry between men and women is about far more than romance—and how understanding it can transform your relationships.

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Ep. 72 - Plenty of Stories: Reinvention, Fearless Love & Building Your Next Chapter with Robin Fisher Roffer

Tue, 30 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and the founder of Big Fish Marketing, whose clients have included CNN, MTV, Discovery, and some of the biggest media brands in the world. Robin shares the lessons behind her bestselling books, including Make a Name for Yourself and her newest memoir, Plenty of Husbands, a candid and inspiring look at love, resilience, and finding your true path.
From career pivots and personal reinvention to relationships, purpose, and the courage to embrace change at any age, Robin offers practical wisdom and unforgettable stories from a life spent helping others discover—and tell—their greatest story. Learn more at bigfishmarketing.com.

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Ep. 71 - Love Starts Within: How Healing Yourself Changes Who You Attract

Tue, 23 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener?

This week, host Susan Shore sits down with two remarkable women from very different corners of the wellness world: Marla Past, full-spectrum health coach, author, hypnotherapist, and meditation teacher; and Julie Shanebrook, founder and CEO of ChillRx Med Spa in Delray Beach. Both have turned personal struggles into powerful careers helping others feel better from the inside out.

Together, they explore the surprising and deeply personal connections between physical health, emotional well-being, self-confidence, and our ability to build meaningful relationships. The conversation covers:

How cryotherapy, infrared sauna, and contrast therapy work — and why reducing inflammation can quiet anxiety and shift your entire outlook
The law of attraction and vibration: why becoming the person you want to attract is more than just a mantra
Marla's journey from childhood obesity and decades-long battle with bulimia to becoming a guide for others navigating life's hardest transitions
Julie's breast cancer journey, how her own wellness tools carried her through, and her moving tribute to the women who came before her
Hyperbaric oxygen therapy and the science of healing from the inside out
Why "degunk" might be the most honest relationship advice you'll ever hear

Whether you're recovering from heartbreak, reentering the dating world, or simply trying to feel more like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that the healthiest relationships start with a healthy relationship with you.

Connect with our guests:

Marla Past: marlapast.org
ChillRx Med Spa: chillrx.net | Instagram: @ChillRxMedSpa | delray@chillrx.net

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Ep. 70 - Man Up: Why Nice Guys Finish Last with Elliott Katz

Tue, 16 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400

A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author Elliott Katz, some of those well-intentioned behaviors may actually be pushing women away.
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan chats with Elliott, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, and How To Get Your Man to Wear the Pants So You Don't Have To, to explore the most common dating mistakes men make and why confidence, decisiveness, and leadership still matter in modern relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this lively conversation offers timeless insights into attraction, respect, and connection. Find out more at elliottkatz.com

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Ep. 69 - The Body Knows Best: Sara Perry on Desire, Intimacy, and Somatic Sexual Therapy

Tue, 09 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Sara Perry for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the parts of relationships most people avoid. Sara is a somatic sex coach and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She works with individuals and couples navigating trauma, chronic pain, and complicated relationships with intimacy—bringing a shame-free, consent-centered approach to pleasure and connection.
Together, they explore what it really means to communicate desires, set boundaries, and create intimacy that goes beyond surface-level connection.
In this episode, they discuss:
• The truth about non-monogamy and why it’s often misunderstood
• How somatic sex therapy helps people reconnect with their bodies
• Why honesty—not chemistry—is the foundation of real intimacy
• How to talk about desires, boundaries, and difficult topics without fear
This is an honest, eye-opening conversation about connection, communication, and giving yourself permission to want what you want.

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Ep. 68 - Love at First Click: Dirty Little Dating Secrets with Lopaze Lasane

Tue, 02 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400

From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets behind modern online dating. In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into dating app frustration, attraction psychology, communication mistakes, and what it really takes to make love click in today’s swipe-right world.
Plus, check out Lopaze’s book, Love at First Click: Dirty Little Secrets to Succeed at Modern Online Dating, and his Love Can’t Wait Podcast for more unfiltered conversations about dating, relationships, and modern love.

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Ep. 67 - Give Me Some Sugar: A Different Kind of Matchmaking with Patrick Fletcher

Tue, 26 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Sugar dating. Luxury lifestyles. Clear expectations. Transactional romance… or just radical honesty about modern relationships?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Patrick Fletcher of Sugar Matchmaking — a premium, highly screened matchmaking service for affluent men and elite women — along with returning guest Nikki from the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, who shares her firsthand perspective as a sugar baby navigating this unconventional world.
From mentorship and power dynamics to attraction, authenticity, money, and modern dating expectations, this conversation dives deeper into one of the most talked-about — and misunderstood — corners of today’s dating culture.
Whether you’re fascinated, skeptical, curious, or quietly taking notes… this episode pulls back the curtain.
Learn more about Patrick Fletcher and Sugar Matchmaking at https://sugarmatchmaking.com

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Ep. 66 - Sweet on You: Secrets of a Sugar Daddy with Marcus—The Truth Behind the Arrangement

Tue, 19 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What really happens behind the velvet curtain of a “sugar” relationship—and why are more people quietly stepping into this world than ever before? In this provocative and eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with Marcus, the voice behind the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, to pull back the curtain on modern arrangements, power dynamics, and the unspoken rules that govern them.
Marcus doesn’t hold back. From how these relationships actually begin, to what both sides really want (and often won’t admit), to the biggest misconceptions people have about sugar dating—this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. We get into money, control, emotional boundaries, and the fine line between fantasy and reality.
Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or secretly intrigued, this episode offers a rare, insider perspective that challenges what you think you know about love, intimacy, and transactional relationships in today’s dating landscape.
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Ep. 65 - Laugh, Love & Level Up: Emotional Intelligence and Dating with Alla Esther Levy

Tue, 12 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What does emotional intelligence have to do with dating? Quite a lot.
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Alla Esther Levy—Certified Emotional Intelligence Strategist, Minister of Spiritual Healing, and founder of the EIEQ Institute—about how self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation can dramatically improve communication and connection in relationships.
Alla also shares insights from her book Level of Crazy: A Five-Step Guide to Emotional Intelligence and Transformational Leadership, exploring how understanding our emotional patterns can help us grow, laugh at ourselves, and show up more authentically in love and life. Learn more about Alla’s work at: https://www.eieqinstitute.com

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Ep. 64 - Rewriting Your Story: Dianne Harris on Reinvention, Resilience & Real Love

Tue, 05 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What happens when the love story you believed in turns out to be something else entirely?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Dianne Harris—coach, survivor, and author of Love Bomb: He Sold Her a Dream and Delivered a Nightmare—to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of manipulation, misplaced trust, and ultimately… reclaiming your power.
Dianne shares her deeply personal story of being swept into what felt like a dream relationship, only to discover the darker reality beneath it. Together, we explore the red flags of love bombing, why smart, self-aware women still fall for it, and how to rebuild confidence, boundaries, and trust after the fallout.
This is a conversation about resilience, self-worth, and learning to trust yourself again—especially in today’s complicated dating landscape.
If you’ve ever questioned your instincts, ignored red flags, or found yourself asking “How did I get here?”—this episode is for you.
Learn more about Dianne’s coaching at dianneharris.com
Get her book here: Love Bomb: He Sold Her a Dream and Delivered a Nightmare https://a.co/d/0hqNrNz7
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Ep. 63 - Crown Jewels: The Real Gems of Long Marriage, Ambition & Modern Love with Elyse Ryan

Tue, 28 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What makes love last?
Susan Shoer sits down with Elyse Ryan — founder of Elyse Ryan Jewelry and host of Stacked — to talk about long marriage, ambition, intimacy, and evolving partnership. They explore emotional safety, attraction over time, and why commitment can deepen rather than limit identity.
A thoughtful conversation about the craftsmanship of lasting love.

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Ep. 62 - From Bachelor Producer to Love Producer: Julie LaPlaca on Reality TV, Real Life, and Rewriting the Script

Tue, 21 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What happens when the person producing fairy-tale romances for television has to rewrite her own love story?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Julie LaPlaca, longtime Bachelor TV show franchise producer and author of the upcoming memoir The Love Producer. After more than two decades creating reality TV’s most dramatic love stories, Julie stepped away to rethink love, career, and the pressure of life timelines.
They discuss what really happens behind the scenes of reality TV romance, how those narratives shape our expectations about relationships, and how Julie reinvented her life and work using hypnotherapy and other techniques to help people reconnect with their intuition and create more authentic lives. It’s a candid conversation about fantasy vs. reality, personal reinvention, and becoming the producer of your own life and love story.

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Ep. 61 - Pleasure Principles: Desire, The Lifestyle & The Courage to Want More with Eve Hall

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Sex therapist and Please Me podcast host Eve Hall joins Susan Shoer for a candid conversation about desire, mismatched libidos, midlife sexuality, and consensual non-monogamy.
They unpack myths about compatibility, why communication is the foundation of intimacy, and what people misunderstand about “the lifestyle.” Thoughtful, grown-up, and grounded, this episode invites honest dialogue about pleasure and connection.

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Ep. 60 - Fast, Flirty & Face-to-Face: Speed Dating, Modern Love & What Really Works with Daniel Gudema

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Is speed dating the antidote to swipe fatigue?
Susan Shoer talks with longtime speed dating host Daniel Gudema about the history, evolution, and surprising effectiveness of live dating events. They explore why face-to-face chemistry still matters, common mistakes singles make, and whether meeting in real life beats algorithms.
If you’re tired of swiping, this episode may change your strategy.

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Ep. 59 - Skip the Swipes: Dating by Doing with Plus 1 Founder Jeff Wulkan

Wed, 25 Mar 2026 16:56:11 -0400

Are dating apps making connection harder instead of easier?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Jeff Wulkan, founder of Plus 1, a platform designed to help people meet through shared experiences rather than endless swiping. Instead of matching profiles, Plus 1 encourages users to post plans—dinner, a concert, a workout, or an event—and choose someone to join them.
Jeff shares what inspired him to rethink the dating app model, the biggest frustrations singles face today, and why real-world interaction may be making a comeback. They also discuss dating burnout, ghosting culture, and how shifting the focus from profiles to experiences might create more meaningful connections.
If you’re tired of swiping and ready to rethink how people meet, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on the future of dating.

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Ep. 58 - From Team Esteem to Team Love: Dating, Parenting & Emotional Intelligence with Jamie Levine

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0400

What do parenting skills and dating skills have in common? More than you think.
Susan Shoer sits down with Jamie Levine — founder of Team Esteem and host of the Mom Esteem podcast — to explore how emotional intelligence shapes both parenting and partnership. From dating burnout to blended family life, Jamie shares why behavior is communication and how building self-esteem is essential before building a relationship.
Insightful, practical, and refreshingly honest, this episode connects emotional awareness with modern love.

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Ep. 57 - Where Are They Now? One Year Later with Stephanie Xintas & Bill Kavanov

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0400

What happens after the podcast microphones turn off and real dating life continues? In this Dateless in Delray follow-up episode, Susan Shoer reunites with Stephanie Xintas and Bill Kavanov, two South Florida singles who were among the show’s very first guests, to find out what’s changed—and what hasn’t—over the past year. From dating apps and singles events to shifting priorities, evolving expectations, and a few laugh-out-loud dating stories, Stephanie and Bill share how another year of dating has reshaped their perspectives. The conversation explores growth, burnout, optimism, self-awareness, and the realities of staying open to love in today’s dating landscape. An honest, funny, and relatable episode for anyone wondering whether dating really gets easier—or just more interesting—with time.

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Ep. 56 - Cosmic Connections: Astrology, Relationships & Life Paths with Susan Reynolds

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with seasoned astrologer Susan Reynolds, who brings over 40 years of experience to the table. We explore how the stars influence our dating patterns, relationship timing, and personal growth. Susan demystifies astrology’s role in understanding relationship patterns, navigating heartbreak, and aligning with our true selves. Whether you’re skeptical or star-obsessed, this episode is a fascinating dive into how cosmic insight can offer a fresh lens on love and self-discovery.

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Ep. 55 - Palm Beach Unfiltered: Old Money, New Rules & Modern Matchmaking

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0400

In Palm Beach Unfiltered: Old Money, New Rules & Modern Matchmaking, we dive even deeper with Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert. Building on our previous conversation, this episode reveals the hidden dynamics of love in one of America’s most exclusive enclaves. Rose shares candid insights on the evolving social rules, the interplay of old money and modern dating, and how genuine connection is forged amidst glamour and expectation. If you’re curious about what it really takes to find love in high society—or anywhere—this episode uncovers the heart beneath the glitz.

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Ep. 54 - From Heartbreak to Hope: Dating, Generations & Emotional Intelligence with Dr. Corey Seemiller

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0400

What happens when a relationship expert experiences the kind of heartbreak she never saw coming? In this deeply honest episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Dr. Corey Seemiller—award-winning leadership professor, global generational expert, and TEDx speaker—to talk about love, loss, and rebuilding after everything falls apart. Despite widespread professional success, Corey’s long-term relationship ended abruptly, forcing her to confront heartbreak in a very personal way. Drawing on her research into emotionally intelligent relationships, attachment styles, boundaries, and generational dynamics, Corey shares how she transformed pain into clarity—and applied the same tools she taught in the workplace to dating, healing, and finding love again. The conversation explores why so many smart, accomplished people struggle in relationships, how emotional intelligence shapes romantic success, and what it really takes to move forward with hope instead of fear. Corey also discusses her book, The Soulmate Strategy: My Imperfect Plan to Conquer Heartbreak and Find True Love, launching February 10, 2026, a candid, research-backed roadmap for healing and opening yourself up to love again. A powerful episode for anyone navigating heartbreak, dating after loss, or learning how to build healthier, more intentional relationships—at any stage of life. Find it on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Soulmate-Strategy-Imperfect-Conquer-Heartbreak/dp/B0FD8S2S4L or wherever you buy your books.

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EP. 53 - Connection with Intention: From Networking to AI with George Dubec & Joann Coffey

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0400

What if better dating isn’t about swiping more—but connecting smarter?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer explores modern love at the intersection of human connection and technology with George Dubec and Joann Coffey. George, a master networker with over 40 years in the singles world and a 46-year marriage, explains why networking principles and real-world introductions often outperform dating apps. Joann brings a forward-looking lens on AI and technology in dating, along with deep life perspective shaped by raising 12 children. Together, they unpack compatibility vs. chemistry, standards vs. fear, and what it really means to date with intention in a tech-driven world.
If you’re navigating modern dating and want clarity without losing the human element, this episode is for you.

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Ep. 52 - Two Singles, Two Playbooks: Desire, Faith & Dating in South Florida

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0400

What happens when two singles are dating from very different playbooks—but hoping for something real?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Carrie Brudner and Ryan Edwards for two candid, contrasting conversations about love, attraction, and intention in midlife.
Carrie, in her 50s, knows exactly what she wants: a younger, great-looking man who has it all—confidence, chemistry, and lifestyle alignment. Ryan, in his mid-40s, is searching for something very different: a kind, grounded partner who shares his Christian values and vision for a meaningful relationship.
On the surface, their dating goals couldn’t look more different. But as the conversations unfold, surprising common threads emerge—desire for connection, clarity, authenticity, and a relationship that actually works in real life.
This episode explores:
How age, attraction, and values shape dating choices
What men and women say they want vs. what they’re really seeking
Where modern dating creates tension—and where it reveals shared hopes
Why being clear about your non-negotiables matters more than ever
If you’ve ever wondered whether love is about chemistry, compatibility, faith, timing—or all of the above—this episode will resonate.

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Ep. 51 - Fewer Dates That Suck: Dating, Mindset & Laughing Through the Chaos with Deborah Mallow

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0400

Dating can be exhausting—the apps, the expectations, the overthinking, and the moments that make you wonder why you even left the house. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with happiness and mindset expert Deborah Mallow, author of 6 Steps to Fewer Days That Suck, to talk about how small, practical mindset shifts can make modern dating feel lighter, healthier, and far less draining.
Together, they explore why dating hits our mental health so hard, how overthinking sabotages promising connections, and why self-kindness and humor are underrated relationship tools. Deborah shares science-backed strategies to stop spiraling after a bad date, let go of perfection, and recover faster from rejection—without fake positivity or pretending dating doesn’t sting sometimes.
If you’re tired of dating burnout and ready for fewer days (and dates) that suck, this episode delivers clarity, compassion, and a much-needed laugh.

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Ep. 50 - Old School Matchmaking Meets Modern Love: Rose Lambert on Dating and the Future of Connection

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0400

Dating has always reflected the times we live in—from blind dates and advice columns to apps, algorithms, and artificial intelligence. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with renowned Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert to explore how matchmaking has evolved, what technology gets right (and wrong), and why human intuition still matters more than ever.
With decades of experience helping accomplished men and women find lasting love long before dating apps existed, Rose shares how timeless matchmaking principles translate into today’s fast, swipe-driven culture. She also discusses her expanding mission to help younger daters navigate choice overload, dating fatigue, and emotional readiness in a digital-first world.
This conversation bridges past and future, blending wisdom, strategy, and modern insight to answer a timely question: how do we create meaningful connection in an age of endless options?
A must-listen for anyone curious about where dating has been—and where love is headed next.

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Ep. 49 - When Trust Breaks: Healing Betrayal Trauma & Redefining Relationship Worth with Mr. Jay

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0400

Betrayal doesn’t just break trust in a relationship—it can shake your sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. In this powerful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Mr. Jay, relationship coach and betrayal trauma practitioner, to explore why betrayal cuts so deeply and what real healing actually looks like. Together, they unpack betrayal blindness, the hidden ways trust erodes, and how unresolved trauma can follow us into future relationships if left unexamined. Mr. Jay shares insight into rebuilding self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and transforming pain into clarity and growth.
This episode is for anyone navigating heartbreak, betrayal, or the fear of trusting again—and for those ready to move forward with strength, awareness, and intention. Learn more about Mr. Jay’s work at mrjayrelationshipcoach.com.

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Ep. 48 - Speak Your Heart: Communication, Connection & Conscious Dating with Laurie Schloff

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0400

What if the secret to better dating—and deeper relationships—has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with communication? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer talks with Laurie Schloff, Founder of Partners in Communication, Inc., and author of Smart Speaking and He & She Talk. Laurie is one of the nation’s top communication coaches, known for helping people express themselves clearly, listen with empathy, and communicate with confidence in every aspect of life—including love. Together, Susan and Laurie explore how our words, tone, and body language shape everything from first impressions to lasting connection. They share tools for speaking with intention, listening to truly understand, and navigating dating’s trickiest moments with courage and clarity. They discuss how to communicate authentically on dates and avoid misfires; the art of listening to connect—not just to respond; and how to express your needs without fear or apology. If you’ve ever wondered why good communication feels harder in love than in life, this episode will help you find your voice, speak your truth, and build real connection—one conversation at a time.

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Ep. 47 - Becoming the Woman Who Receives Love: Faith, Healing & Divine Alignment with Kim S. Anderson

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0400

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with powerhouse mentor, bestselling author, and faith-driven entrepreneur Kim S. Anderson. From her early career in NBA communications to leading Savvy Media, homeschooling four children, and empowering women around the world, Kim’s journey is one of reinvention, resilience, and purpose.
Together, Susan and Kim explore the deeper work required to attract healthy love—breaking old patterns, rebuilding self-worth after heartbreak, and shifting from “waiting for love” to becoming truly ready to receive it. Kim shares insights from her signature program, The Pathway To Your Divine Perfect Mate, an 8-step system designed to help women heal, grow, and align with the relationship they deserve.
This episode is a powerful blend of faith, strategy, and truth-telling for anyone navigating midlife transformation, singleness, dating, or rediscovering their worth.
A must-listen for women ready to step confidently into their purpose—and into the love story meant for them

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Ep. 46 - Love on the Brain: Chemistry, Consciousness & Modern Dating with Dr. Janné Lomasky

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0400

In this special crossover episode, Dateless in Delray teams up with Your Mental Highness as Susan Shoer sits down with psychologist Dr. Janné Lomasky to explore what really happens in the brain and body when we fall for someone. From the intoxicating rush of dopamine and “chemistry” to the emotional crash of heartbreak, Susan and Janné break down the neuroscience behind attraction, the nervous system’s role in love, and why modern dating can feel like an addictive rollercoaster. They also dive into Janne’s own dating experiences, the signals our bodies send before our minds catch up, and how to stay grounded, clear, and conscious while navigating connection in a swipe-first world. With humor, honesty, and a dose of science, this episode unpacks the highs, lows, and lessons of love in the modern age. A must-listen for anyone looking to elevate their awareness — and their love life.

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Ep. 45 - Facing the Taboo: Porn, Betrayal Trauma & Real Connection with Joshua Shea

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0400

In this eye-opening episode, Susan Shoer sits down with Joshua Shea, pornography addiction and betrayal trauma coach, to explore how hidden compulsive behavior can quietly unravel trust and intimacy in relationships. Joshua shares his own journey through addiction and recovery, the neuroscience behind compulsive porn use, and why betrayal trauma can feel as painful as infidelity.
They dive into how partners can rebuild safety, how individuals can recognize the signs of addiction, and what healing looks like on both sides. Honest, compassionate, and deeply human, this episode brings clarity to one of the least talked about issues affecting modern dating and relationships.
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Ep. 44 - Reclaiming Masculinity, Vitality & Connection with Dr. Orest Komarnyckyj”

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0400

This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes Dr. Orest Komarnyckyj, host of Old Guy Talks To Me and founder of Hold the Door Coaching (drorestk.com), for a bold and refreshingly honest conversation about men, aging, and intimacy.After a 33-year career as a periodontal surgeon, Orest Komarnyckyj, reinvented himself as a mentor for men—helping them optimize health, rediscover confidence, and build what he calls “kick-ass lives for themselves and those they love.” This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan and Orest unpack the truth about testosterone, communication, and connection, while challenging outdated ideas of masculinity and aging. Discover:
• How men can reclaim passion, purpose, and presence at any age
• The real link between hormonal health and emotional connection
• Why communication—not performance—is the foundation of intimacy
• What women need to know about men’s vulnerability and confidence
It’s candid, funny, and deeply insightful—a conversation for anyone ready to rewrite the rules of love and life after 50.
Visit drorestk.com to learn more about Dr. Orest’s Hold the Door Coaching and his mission to help men live, love, and age boldly.

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Encore Episode: Curiosity, Courage & Connection: Louise Walker on Redefining the Dating Mindset

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 19:30:36 -0400

This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.

Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.

And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:

💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection Experience
Saturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray Beach

This four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!

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Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.

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Ep. 43 - Healing Hearts, Opening Bodies: Love, Somatic Healing & Ayahuasca with Olivia Sage

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What if the secret to finding love isn’t about looking out there—but coming home to yourself?
In this transformative episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Olivia Sage, a somatic therapist, healer, and host of Becoming Your Own Soulmate, for a deep dive into how the body, trauma, and nervous system shape the way we love.
From ayahuasca journeys to embodiment practices, Olivia shares how true healing begins when we reconnect to our physical and emotional selves. Together, she and Susan explore how unhealed wounds drive our relationship patterns, why somatic work changes how we date, and how becoming your own soulmate is the first step to attracting the right partner.
Whether you’re curious about plant medicine, tired of repeating the same dating cycles, or simply ready to feel more grounded and open in love—this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you inward.

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Ep. 42 - From First Dates to Great Debates: Brian Howie on Love, Dating & What’s Next

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0400

In this special full-circle episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Brian Howie—host of The Great Love Debate podcast, owner of PodPopuli, and her very first guest 42 episodes ago. Together, they riff on the realities of modern dating: from the highs and lows of dating apps to the revival of matchmaking, the dream of meeting “organically,” and what the future of love might look like. With his signature candor and sharp insights, Brian unpacks why singles are more connected—and more confused—than ever, while Susan shares how his coaching and support helped her grow as a podcast host. This lively conversation is equal parts funny, frank, and forward-looking, reminding listeners that love is always evolving, and so should we. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should swipe, hire a matchmaker, or just hang out by the avocados at Publix—this episode is for you.

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Ep. 41 - Love, Lies & Libidos: Author Stephanie Todd on Desire, Betrayal, and Reclaiming the Self

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer sits down with debut author Stephanie Todd, whose novel Love. Lies. and Libidos blurs the line between fiction and lived experience. Todd takes us deep into the raw terrain of passion, betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy journey of reclaiming the self after heartbreak.
Together, they explore the creation of her novel, the courage it took to reveal intimate details of her own life, and how her children reacted to seeing parts of their family story on the page. Stephanie opens up about why she calls her past “the wreckage,” how deficiencies like a hunger for affection can blind us, and the haunting question of whether true passion can ever be felt again after betrayal.
Listeners will hear her insights on intuition versus anxiety, why we stay in relationships long after we know we should leave, and what advice she offers for those navigating the complexities of dating and love today.
If you’ve ever wrestled with trust, yearned for a love that consumed you, or wondered how to rebuild after everything has fallen apart, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

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Ep. 40 - Swipe Less, Spark More: Video Dating That Connectswith Zach Schleien

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0400

Endless swiping leaving you burned out? Video dating might be the spark you’ve been missing. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Zach Schleien shares how Spark is changing the dating game—bringing back authenticity, laughter, and face-to-face chemistry without the awkward small talk.
We’ll dive into why video-first dating helps people connect more meaningfully, how technology is shifting the way we meet, and what the future of online dating really looks like. If you’ve ever wished dating felt less like work and more like magic, this episode is for you.

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Ep. 39 - Passport to Possibilities: Singles Travel Adventures with Shelby Frenette & Jeff Shoer

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What happens when you mix wanderlust with the world of dating? You get adventure, laughter, and stories you definitely won’t find on a resort brochure.
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by solo travel expert Shelby Frenette, founder of TravelFun.Biz, and singles traveler and foodie Jeff Shoer to explore the magic of traveling single. From luxury escapes to unforgettable mishaps, Shelby and Jeff share how travel can expand your horizons—not just geographically, but emotionally too.
Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray for a free travel consultation with Shelby Frenette!
Contact Shelby: TravelFun.Biz | Call/Text 833-TRVL-FUN (833-878-5386)
Connect with Jeff: https://linktr.ee/food.in.travel
Whether you’re ready to book your next trip or just looking for inspiration, this episode is your passport to new possibilities.

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Ep. 38 - From First Dates to Soulmates: Matchmaking with Fass Pass to Love

Wed, 10 Sep 2025 17:10:28 -0400

Is love really a three-course meal? Matchmakers Jessica Fass and Brian Bachow of Fass Pass to Love join Susan to share how patience, coaching, and confidence can transform dating from swipe culture into lasting partnerships. They reveal why investing in yourself first is key, what it means to be truly “match-ready,” and the surprising success stories (and hilarious misfires) that keep them inspired. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray to receive an exclusive discount on a Matchmaking Strategy Session. Email Jessica@fasspasstolove.com to claim your offer.

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Ep. 37 - Mindfulness Matters: Intimacy & Intention with Wendi Dumbroff

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 19:13:59 -0400

What if the key to deeper intimacy isn’t a new partner, a bigger spark, or even better communication—but mindfulness?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with therapist and mindfulness teacher Wendi Dumbroff, MA, LPC to explore how presence, awareness, and intentional connection can transform dating, sex, and long-term relationships. From breaking destructive cycles to easing performance anxiety to setting intentions in love, Wendi brings decades of experience in couples and sex therapy to the conversation.
Whether you’re navigating a new romance, rekindling passion, or simply curious about how mindfulness shapes intimacy, this episode blends humor, wisdom, and practical takeaways you can use today.
Learn more about Wendi at wendidumbrofftherapy.com and follow her on Instagram at @wendidumbroff.

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Ep. 36 - ADHD and Dating: Late, Loud, and Looking for Love with Leah Carroll

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0400

Dating is complicated enough—but what happens when ADHD enters the mix? In this eye-opening and refreshingly honest episode, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with ADHD Life & Mindset Coach Leah Carroll to unpack how neurodivergence shapes love, attraction, and connection.
From love-bombing to ghosting, forgetting to text back to over-functioning in relationships, ADHD shows up in ways most people don’t expect—but can absolutely relate to. Leah and Susan explore rejection sensitivity, emotional intensity, and why dating with ADHD can feel like a rollercoaster one minute and a breakthrough the next.
Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, dating someone who is, or just curious about how our wiring impacts intimacy, this episode offers humor, insight, and strategies for building healthier, more authentic connections—without abandoning yourself in the process. Tune in for a conversation that’s equal parts validating, funny, and transformative.

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Ep. 35 - What Women Want – Inside the World of a Male Escort with George Goulburn

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 17:38:35 -0400

What happens when a corporate professional leaves behind the boardroom and reinvents himself as a male escort? In this unfiltered conversation, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with George Goulburn—Australia-based escort, writer, and media personality—to explore what women truly seek when they hire him, and what his journey reveals about intimacy, confidence, and connection.
From younger women craving companionship without commitment to an 80-year-old with more energy than men half her age, George shares real, often surprising stories from his career. Together, we unpack the history and stigma around sex work in Australia, why women turn to professional escorts, and the lessons everyday men can learn from his approach to listening, presence, and emotional connection.
With humor, honesty, and a dose of humanity, this episode sheds light on what dating and relationships can look like when we strip away the labels—and focus on what people actually want.

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Ep. 34 - Dateless, Not Speechless: 34 Episodes, 1 Microphone, and No Guest in Sight

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0400

After 33 conversations with daters, coaches, therapists, and experts, I’m flying solo for Episode 34—and pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to host a dating podcast while living the dating life myself. In this candid, funny, and occasionally too-honest episode, I share what I’ve learned about love, self-worth, and swiping after 50, the most surprising lessons from my guests, and what listeners have taught me along the way.
Plus, a peek at what’s next for Dateless in Delray—including matchmaking and maybe even my very own “Dating Game” reboot.

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Ep. 33 - Beyond the Swipe: Dating Skills, Deeper Bonds & the Road to Real Love with Ken Blackman

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 19:02:04 -0400

What if your best relationship is still ahead of you? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Ken Blackman—former Silicon Valley engineer turned sought-after relationship coach—to unpack how we evolve from casual dating to true connection. Ken shares his journey from feeling insecure and disconnected to helping couples deepen intimacy and grow lasting love. They discuss the difference between dating skills and relationship skills, navigating mismatched commitment levels, and why friendship might just be the foundation of forever. If you’ve ever dated someone who checked almost all the boxes—this episode is for you.

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Ep. 32 - Weighty Issues: Fasting, Fitness & First Dates

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What does intermittent fasting have to do with flirting? More than you think. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Steve Feingold returns to share his personal transformation—physically and romantically—after committing to a fasting lifestyle. Joining the conversation is communication coach Laurie Schloff, who reveals how the language we use about our bodies can shape our confidence and our connections. Together, we explore how getting in shape isn't just about weight—it's about mindset, self-worth, and dating with intention. If you're ready to glow up from the inside out, this episode serves real talk—and real results.

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Ep. 31 - Open House, Open Heart: Ken O'Brien on Looking for Love After 50

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0400

Ken O’Brien knows how to close a deal—and he’s still searching for the one that truly moves him. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Ken, a former Las Vegas bartender turned Florida real estate agent, mentor, and investor, who’s also a fitness enthusiast with a couple of bodybuilding wins under his belt. They talk about navigating dating over 50, starting over with strength, and why your heart—like your home—might just need the right buyer to see its potential. Funny, real, and full of wisdom, this one’s got curb appeal.

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Ep. 30 - First Impressions & Fashion Confessions: Dating Style with Kim Bolufé

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What does your outfit say before you even open your mouth? In this stylishly honest episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by celebrity stylist, Delray Beach boutique owner, and host of the Do You Have It? podcast Kim Bolufé, to talk all things fashion, dating, and confidence. From first-date faux pas to post-divorce closet reinventions, we explore how clothes can reflect your confidence—or sabotage it. Kim shares real talk, real tips, and a few wild fashion confessions along the way. Whether you’re dating in Delray or just looking to level up your look, this episode is your permission slip to dress—and date—with intention.

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Ep. 29 - Second Acts & Dating Comebacks: Live from Pod-A-Palooza with Andrea McGinty

Thu, 26 Jun 2025 13:40:20 -0400

Recorded live at Pod-A-Palooza in Boca Raton, in this abbreviated episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer takes her show on the road, with matchmaking expert Andrea McGinty. She's the founder of It’s Just Lunch and the author of Second Acts.: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50. Andrea shares tips and advice for dating over 50, from picking the best dating apps to shifting your midnset. With 33,000 dates arranged and countless success stories, Andrea proves that love is a strategy, not a swipe. This is your invitation to date smarter—and live bolder.

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Ep. 28 - Still Got It: Situationships and Sex Toys with Suzanne Noble

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0400

Think your best sex is behind you? Think again. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer gets cheeky and candid with Suzanne Noble, author, media maven, and host of Sex Advice for Seniors. Together, they dive deep into the modern realities of aging, intimacy, and why “situationships” might be exactly what we need—especially after 60. Suzanne shares her journey from traditional relationships to swinging, ethical non-monogamy, and Sunday-only lovers. They cover sex toys, supplements, mismatched socks, and dating across the pond (British blokes are different). With plenty of stats, sass, and a profile that’ll make you say, “You can’t make this sh*t up,” this episode proves you’re never too old to explore your pleasure potential.

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Ep. 27 - Dating from Your Worth: Magic, Miracles & the Sexual Awakening with Lauren Elise Rogers

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What if the secret to better dating isn’t in the apps—but in how you feel about yourself? In this empowering episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Lauren Elise Rogers—Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach—to explore how healing shame, embracing desire, and dating from your worth can transform your love life at any age. From sexual awakening to sacred partnerships, Lauren shares stories, tools, and insights that will leave you inspired to love boldly. Learn more about her work at sexedforyou.com.

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Ep. 26 - It’s Complicated: Love, Estrangement & Blending Families with Dr. Jeff Segal

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0400

In this unflinching episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Dr. Jeff Segal to explore what really happens when long-term marriages end—especially for the children left to make sense of it all. Whether they’re still at home or grown with families of their own, kids often carry the emotional ripple effects of their parents’ separation. Susan’s son, Alex Shoer, joins the conversation to share his experience from the other side of the split. Together, they unpack the guilt, the grief, and the healing that comes when love changes shape—but family ties remain.

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Ep. 25 - Uncover to Discover: Emotional Truths, Connection & Dating with Liv Kammerman

Tue, 27 May 2025 16:26:43 -0400

What if your most painful emotions were actually the key to deeper connection and lasting love? In this soul-stirring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes speaker, singer, and emotional connection coach Liv Kammerman. Together, they explore how embracing vulnerability, healing old wounds, and “uncovering to discover” can transform your dating life—and your relationship with yourself. Liv shares her personal journey from emotional shutdown to soulful awakening, along with tools to reconnect with your true desires. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or “not enough,” this episode will leave you feeling seen, heard, and ready to love.

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Ep. 24 - Beyond Vanilla: Conscious Relationship Design and Managing Jealousy with Dr. Joli Hamilton."

Mon, 19 May 2025 17:58:42 -0400

Imagine if you stop swiping for “the one” and start consciously designing the relationship that actually fits you, In this bold and enlightening episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Dr. Joli Hamilton—research psychologist, relationship coach, author, and TEDX speaker,—about ethical non-monogamy, jealousy, and what to ask when someone’s profile says “ENM.” Dr. Joli doesn't just talk about it, she's lived it. From swinging to open dating apps and triads to relationship anarchy, we explore how to navigate today’s dating scene with clarity and courage. Whether you're curious about alternative relationships or just over the whole ghosting game, this episode will help you date—and connect—on your own terms.

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Ep. 23 - The Pleasure Keys: Unlocking Desire, Intimacy & Self-Love with Susan Morgan Taylor

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What if your desire wasn’t broken—but just buried under years of shame, stress, or misinformation? In this pulse-quickening episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer gets to it with somatic sex therapist and Sex Talk Café podcast host Susan Morgan Taylor, to explore how to reignite intimacy, reconnect with your body, and rewrite the script on pleasure at any age. From her signature Pleasure Keys Process to why climax isn’t always the goal, Susan Morgan Taylor shares transformative tools to unlock joy and connection in and out of the bedroom. Learn more about her coaching and retreats at pathwaytopleasure.com. Warning: side effects may include goosebumps and bold new boundaries.

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Ep. 22 - Curiosity, Courage & Connection: Louise Walker on Redefining the Dating Mindset

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What if dating isn’t about finding “the one,” but becoming more of yourself? In this soulful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Human Potential Coach Louise Walker to explore how mindset, curiosity, and inner freedom shape our dating lives. From blind spots to self-trust, from vulnerability to the Enneagram, Louise shares powerful tools for anyone ready to drop the mask and connect more authentically. Whether you’re starting over or simply stuck, this episode is your invitation to date with courage—and grow through love, not just in it.

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Ep. 21 - The Science of Cheating: Love, Lust & Spit Tests with Dawn Maslar-Biggie

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What if the key to understanding love, lust, and infidelity lies not in your heart—but in your hormones? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with science writer and “Love Biologist” Dawn Maslar-Biggie to explore the biological forces behind why we fall in love, why we stray, and how spit tests might one day predict compatibility. From oxytocin and dopamine to evolutionary instincts and modern romance, this eye-opening conversation blends humor, science, and insight to help you date smarter—and maybe avoid a broken heart. Love may be messy, but biology has a blueprint.

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Ep. 20 - Swipe Left on the Dead Fish: Media Myths, First Date Fails & Why Your Profile Sucks

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0400

What do bad dating profiles and bad lighting have in common? Everything. In this eye-opening episode, host Susan Heller Shoer shines the spotlight on retired media professor Richard Lenoce (who she met on a date and thought he'd make a great guest) to dissect the disasters of online dating—from dead-fish pics to cringe-worthy bios. With their shared backgrounds in media and marketing, they address ways your dating profile is really a 15-second commercial, they tackle the myths rom-coms sold us, and look at how showing up authentically matters more than ever. Whether you're a seasoned swiper or just dating-curious, this episode is packed with laughs, real talk, and a dash of hope.

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Ep. 19 - Counseling Couch Confessions: Unfiltered Insights from a Marriage and Family Therapist

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 09:00:33 -0400

Maybe you should talk to someone. If you've ever heard that advice, this episode of Dateless in Delray is for you! Host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with the "Not-So-Filtered Therapist," an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist and host of the "Naked Truths" podcast. They discuss the importance of self-love in relationships, delve into the complexities of infidelity, and explore how self-esteem influences dating dynamics. The conversation also uncovers secrets to maintaining long-term, fulfilling partnerships. With her candid and compassionate approach, the "Not-So-Filtered Therapist" offers unfiltered insights into the realities of love, trust, and human connection, and shows why all of us could probably use a litte therapy!

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Ep. 18 - Reigniting Romance: Navigating Dating Over 50 with Confidence and Insight

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 09:17:35 -0400

In this lively episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer reconnects with fellow Sharon, Massachusetts native, Donna Star—a dynamic Executive Coach who helps corporate professionals "live their life on purpose.". Together, they delve into the nuances of dating after 50, sharing personal anecdotes and practical advice. Discover how to leverage professional skills in the dating world, embrace new life chapters, create boundaries, and build genuine connections in our digitally distant world.. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene or seeking to enhance your current relationships, this episode offers valuable insights with a touch of humor and heartfelt stories.

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Ep. 17 - Love Starved: Filling the Hunger for Connection and Fulfillment with Dr. Janné Lomasky

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Dr. Janné Lomasky, a licensed psychologist, co-author of To Stay or Not To Stay?: A Self-Help Workbook for People Considering Divorce, and host of the podcast, Your Mental Highness.. Together they delve into the "love-starved" phenomenon, discussing how chronic loneliness affects mental and physical health, leading individuals to seek fulfillment through binge-watching, alcohol, or other substances. Dr. J shares insights on recognizing when one's relationship contributes to feelings of isolation and offers strategies to cultivate genuine connections. Tune in to explore the impact of loneliness and discover pathways to meaningful relationships.

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Ep. 16 - Lesson Plan for Romance: A Retired Teacher’s Crash Course in Modern Dating

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0400

Trying to be smart in your search for love? Join host Susan Heller Shoer in this episode of Dateless in Delray, where we get schooled by Janet Armstrong, a retired elementary school teacher and author of Navigating Parents Through Elementary School. Five years ago, they met at a Yoga on the Beach session in Delray Beach and have been good friends ever since. Together, they explore Janet's "Lesson Plan for Love," detailing her adventures in online dating after 50. From crafting the perfect dating "syllabus" to grading potential partners, Janet shares her insights on navigating the digital dating landscape. Discover her must-haves and deal-breakers, and learn how her teaching experience influenced her approach to finding love. This episode offers a humorous and heartfelt look at embracing new chapters and the pursuit of connection at any age.

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Ep. 15 - Love Floats: Living Apart Together & Cohabiting in a Sausalito Houseboat Community

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 21:33:23 -0400

This week, Dateless in Delray goes on location to a vibrant houseboat community of Sausalito, California, where love and relationships take on unconventional forms. From Living Apart Together (LAT) to cohabiting in floating homes, this eclectic enclave redefines modern romance.

Susan Heller Shoer sits down with medical researcher and pioneer Dr. Jacob “Jay” Lalezari, along with former LAT advocates Tam Morgan, head of The Foundation for Inner Peace, and Peter Miller, a longtime renewable energy and climate change advocate. Once committed to living separately, Tam and Peter now share a multi-level houseboat. Can couples thrive whether or not they share a roof? Tune in as Susan uncovers the stories of those rewriting the rules of love, commitment, and connection—on the water.

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Ep. 14 - Golden Rules for Dating: Insights from April Kirkwood of The Golden Bachelor

Tue, 28 Jan 2025 10:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV. From her fascinating years-long relationship with the legendary Frankie Valli, to her career as a holistic therapist, to her experiences navigating dating after loss, April shares heartfelt stories and behind-the-scenes secrets from the hit show. With humor, wisdom, and a dash of resilience, she reminds us that love has no age limit and reinvention is always possible. Don’t miss this golden opportunity to laugh, reflect, and get inspired by one incredible woman’s journey!

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Ep. 13 - 50 Shades of Fabulous: Dating, Owning Your Story, and Rediscovering Yourself

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 10:00:00 -0400

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom Confessionals (https://50safpodcast.com/bedroom-confessionals). . Nicole shares her journey from heartbreak and loss to rediscovering herself and embracing life with humor, honesty, and resilience. As she prepares to relaunch her podcast this March, Nicole opens up about her experiences with divorce, widowhood, and starting over. From the fears of dating after 50 to finding joy in independence, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the ultimate reminder: your next fabulous chapter is always within reach.

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Ep. 12 - Built to Last: Relationship Advice from a Certified Marriage Coach

Thu, 16 Jan 2025 22:37:49 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of experience helping couples break free from loneliness and resentment, Michelle shares practical advice for building long-lasting relationships. From tips for successful dating to setting personal boundaries, Michelle’s insights are perfect for anyone seeking love or strengthening their connection. Plus, she reveals her secrets as someone who’s been proposed to five times! Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers inspiration and tools for creating a relationship that’s truly built to last.

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Ep. 11 - Dating Unfiltered: Sex, Truth, and Relationships Beyond Monogamy

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 10:00:00 -0400

Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Karen Bigman,, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, and host of her own podcast, Taboo to Truth.. Karen shares her insights on everything from when to get intimate in a new relationship to getting comfortable with "sex toys," to polyamory and navigating ethical non-monogamy. Love, sex, and connection—let’s talk about it all! Don’t miss this unforgettable episode.

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Ep. 10 - Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love

Tue, 24 Dec 2024 15:30:04 -0400

In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience in individual, couples, and family therapy. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the groundbreaking work of Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight (HMT) program, Dr. Segal shares how understanding attachment styles can help couples break negative patterns and strengthen connections.

We’re also joined by South Florida single Steve, a retired attorney who’s swiping but struggling to find “the one.” Together, we’ll explore how our past experiences and childhood traumas can impact not only long-term relationships but also dating in today’s modern world.

Funny, insightful, and packed with takeaways, this episode is perfect for anyone seeking deeper understanding and connection in their love life.

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Ep. 9 - Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 19:21:31 -0400

Grab a glass of wine and eavesdrop on girl talk, with Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World. Host Susan Heller Shoer teams up with her friend and fellow real estate agent Susan, to dish on navigating the dating scene after divorce, tackling money dynamics, health challenges, South Florida stereotypes, and more! Clearly, at least one of the Susans has her act together! This episode is sponsored by Atik Medical Aesthetics and Wellness—feel great inside and out with their less invasive fat transfer technology! Call 561-870-0770 today.

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Ep. 8 - Match Point: Playing to Win with Professional Matchmaking

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 10:00:00 -0400

Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? In Match Point: Playing to Win with Professional Matchmaking, legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman (julieferman.com) joins host Susan Heller Shoer to uncover how matchmaking can transform your search for love. Julie, host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast and the mastermind behind over 1,400 successful couples, shares her secrets to creating lasting connections. From her unique Romance Marketing Plan to actionable tips for getting out in the real world, Think plan your own singles events! Julie’s insights can help you find the one you're seeking. Whether you’re curious about matchmaking or ready to give it a try, this episode serves up the ultimate love strategies..

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Ep. 7 - Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 18:16:00 -0400

In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere, creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject) designed to help men attract high-quality women and build lasting relationships. Tom, a self-proclaimed former “player,” will soon be appearing on a local South Florida TV news segment about dating. Tom and Dateless in Delray host Susan Heller Shoer chat about some of the crazy things men do to win women over. Tom shares actionable tips and insights to help men build confidence and step up their dating game. Returning favorite Bill Kavonov adds real-life perspective, like how he still finds it scary to approach a woman in a bar, while getting some great strategies from Tom. This episode is sponsored by Atik Medical Aesthetics and Wellness, featuring their less invasive fat transfer technology that gently removes unwanted fat from where you don’t want it and puts it where you need it! Call 561-870-0770 for more information..

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Ep. 6 - Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 20:51:00 -0400

In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist Alex Antonucci (waxwingwellness.com) shares the actionable and insightful Gottman Method, known for turning relationship science into practical advice (think relationship to do list!)... Studies from the Gottman Institute show that happiy couples spend at least five hours per week intentionally focusing on each other—and not just as they’re mindlessly scrolling or binge-watching Netflix. We’re talking real, meaningful quality time. Joining us are real-life couple Dennis Shuman and Michelle Puchall of Shuman Realty, who are walking examples of Alex's tips in action! They spill the beans on keeping love exciting while working together.Looking for a home in South Florida? Dennis has you covered—reach out at srg@bbfo.com for all your real estate needs. Whether you're dating, married, happily single, or looking for love in all the wrong places, tune in to discover how to make your happily ever after a reality!

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Ep. 5 - Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence.

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 10:00:00 -0400

In this episode we explore the art of Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence. Certified CoActive and Professional Coach Darla Beam (darlabeam.com; IG @darlabeamcoaching), guides us through her approach to dating with intentionality and mindfulness—what it means to know yourself fully and align your dating life with purpose. Darla’s coaching client, Michelle, a twice-divorced woman in her 50s, joins the conversation to share her journey of taking a break from dating to focus on self-discovery and building confidence from within. Communications Coach Laurie Schloff also lends her expertise on how what you say and how you say it matters. Discover how you may be inadvertently manifesting the wrong type of matches, because of what you think and say! Whether you’re ready to date or taking time to reflect, this episode offers a thought-provoking perspective on creating authentic, meaningful connections and showing up in the dating world in a whole new way! Want more insights on dating and relationships? Follow, subscribe, and leave us a review so you’re always in the loop with Dateless in Delray! This episode of Dateless in Delray was sponsred by Atik Medical Aesthetics and Wellness in Boca Raton, Deerfield Beach, Boynton Bach, Florida and in New York City. Consult with world-renowned functional medicine expert Dr. Raphael Kellman along with top aestheticians and nurse practioners for ensuring you're beautiful inside and out! Call them at 954-408-8882.

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Ep. 4 - The Science of Sexy: How Chemistry Changes the Dating Game

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 10:00:00 -0400

What really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction. Join us as we explore the powerful effects of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen, and testosterone and how they influence who we’re drawn to—and why. Our expert guest lineup features Dr. Marcy Dater Weiss, Psychotherapist and Board Certified Sexologist, who unpacks how these “love chemicals” impact desire and compatibility. Communications Coach Laurie Schloff shares practical advice on creating attraction and connection through body language and conversation. And for some real-life perspective, we’ll hear from everyone's favorite tell-it-like-it-is dater, Stephanie, as she opens up about her own chemistry-driven highs and lows in the dating world. Whether you want to understand why sparks fly (or fall flat) or are seeking a winning formula for dating, this episode is a must-listen! Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up with Dateless in Delray and all our you-can’t-make-this-sh*t-up dating stories!

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Ep. 3 - The Profile Predicament: Separating the Hype from the Swipe on the Dating Apps

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0400

Online dating—exciting or exhausting? In this episode, Susan Heller Shoer dives headfirst into the world of dating apps and profiles. We’re talking deceptive photos, scammers, swindlers, and those profiles with pictures from decades ago. Susan, alongside guest experts and real-life daters, unpacks the “fun” of ghosting, fake profiles, and figuring out who’s really behind that perfect profile pic. If you’ve ever been burned by a swipe or feel like you’re wading through a sea of nonsense online, this episode is for you! Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up with Dateless in Delray and all our you-can’t-make-this-sh*t-up dating stories! Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up with Dateless in Delray and all our you-can’t-make-this-sh*t-up dating stories!

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Ep. 2 - Red Flags & Green Lights: Is It a No or a Go?

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer tackles one of the most critical parts of modern dating—spotting red flags and knowing when to move forward with green lights. Joined by everyday daters and experts, Susan breaks down deal breakers, non-negotiables, and those all-important must-haves that guide us on our dating journeys. Are you missing the signs? Or are you holding out for perfection? This episode is all about understanding what really matters when deciding if someone’s a keeper—or a hard pass. Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up with Dateless in Delray and all our you-can’t-make-this-sh*t-up dating stories!

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Ep. 1 - Getting Real About Relationships: Chemistry, Conversations, and Modern Dating

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0400

In the debut episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer—a writer, real estate agent, and somewhat reluctant expert on dating in Delray Beach, the heart of single life after 50—dives deep into the realities of chemistry, communication, and finding love in the modern world. Susan is joined by special guests Brian Howie, host of the wildly successful podcast The Great Love Debate, and Laurie Schloff, a communications coach with Partners in Communication, and an expert on what to say and how to say it when it matters most.

Together, they’ll tackle the big questions: What exactly is chemistry, and why does it matter so much? How can communication make or break a connection? And how do you navigate the challenges of dating, especially when you're back in the game later in life?

Whether you're newly single, already dating, or just curious about the journey, this episode brings real talk, expert insights, and plenty of laughs.

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