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Mr. Dominus On Polyamory, Pride & Pleasure Part 2

Wed, 11 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0500

Mr. Dominus is back for part two of our investigation into his polyamory journey, starting with the story of his new "sir," and the list of tasks our new friend must complete in his sir's absence... In this episode, filmed during World Pride in DC, we share some of our favorite kinks, sex stories, and open ourselves up to be proud of who we are, even in the face of those who try their hardest to make us feel shame.

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Mr. Dominus On Polyamory, Pride & Pleasure Part 1

Wed, 11 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0500

It’s playtime! Mr. Dominus, is breaking down that nickname and going deep on sex, kink, intimacy, and how his polyamory journey inspired him to advise others in sexual satisfaction. Our game put Nico’s knowledge of Black Queer Icons to the test as we celebrate World Pride in our nation’s capital.

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Odessa Da Gawd's New Single & Life After The Dragon Sisters

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0500

In part two of our conversation with Odessa Da Gawd (Cain Coleman), Odessa expands on his incredible evolution as an artist and human being. From their time performing with the Dragon Sisters to stepping out as a solo act, Odessa shares how growth, transformation, and creative freedom are shaping this new chapter.

We dive into:

✨ What it takes to reinvent yourself as an artist

✨ The lessons learned from collaborations and going solo

✨ The meaning of growth—both on and off stage

✨ Odessa’s journey of self-discovery and Da Gawd energy

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Odessa Da Gawd's New Single & Life After The Dragon Sisters

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Just Press Play, Ell & Trey sit down with the incomparable Odessa Da Gawd — formerly of The Dragon Sisters — to talk about their bold transition into a solo career. Odessa opens up about the split, rediscovering their artistry as a solo performer, and some highlights of their career. Plus, we get a preview of their new single and discuss what it takes to pave your own way as an artist.

Chosen Family: A Holiday Special Part 2

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

Ariah Lynn is a professional dancer and model in the ball culture scene; she is affiliated with the houses of Gorgeous Gucci and Marciano. In this conversation, we explore how family structures exist everywhere in the world, including in the ballroom, and in the gay community at large.

Chosen Family: A Holiday Special ft. Ariah Lynn

Wed, 28 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

The holidays are for fun, laughter, and joy. But what would this time of year be without family? On this very special episode of Just Press Play, we welcome a member of our chosen family to do all of our favorite things at Christmas time. By the end, if you don’t know what family means…watch it again. It’ll help our metrics so we can get those sponsors. Enjoy!

Top Queens of Controversy Countdown Part 2

Wed, 21 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who's c*ntiest of them all? Naomi Campbell and Tyra Banks, Phaedra Parks and Tiffany Pollard--all of our beloved queens are also known for acting bad. But who's the best at being the baddest? Tune in

Top Queens of Controversy Countdown Part 1

Wed, 21 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

It’s playtime! Ell and Trey test their chemistry in a game of Mind Meld. Trey is in the hot seat during a game called “Name That 90’s Sitcom Mom,” and Ell & Trey introduce the main topic—counting down their favorite queens of controversy. Tune in, press play.

Just Press Play Ep. 209: Modern Dating Advice From a Black Gay Therapist (w Michael Snipe) Part 1

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Cuffing season is upon us and we've got the perfect guest to help you through. Michael Snipe is a professional dancer, turned instructor turned therapist, joining us for a kiki on the couch. In this episode, we revisit perspectives on NYC nightlife and discuss our least favorite traits in a romantic partner. Then we play a game of Marry, F***, Kill, and "Name That Rom-Com." How many can you name? Let us know in the comments

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Just Press Play Ep. 208: Good Head - A Queer Barbershop Reinventing Self Care For All (Part 2)

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We're back with Edwin Pabon and Jorge Cortez, owners of Good Head Barbershop. In this episode, we learn more about how the duo got into cutting heads, the origin of Good Head (including the name), haircut horror stories and much more!

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Modern Dating Advice from Black Gay Therapist Michael Snipe | Just Press Play Ep 210 (Part 2)

Sun, 12 Jan 2025 04:00:00 -0500

The meat and potatoes of our conversation with Michael Snipe, a licensed therapist who shares insights about how to safely navigate non-monagamous relationships, common challenges his patients face and ways to navigate the challenges of modern-day dating.

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Just Press Play Ep 207 Good Head: A Queer Barbershop Reinventing Self Care for All (Part 1)

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

On this episode of Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, we're exploring the story behind Good Head, a trailblazing queer-owned barbershop in NYC offering more than just haircuts. It's a haven for self-expression, where inclusivity meets artistry. It's also spooky season, so for part one, we're talking about our fears (both rational and irrational), and putting our guests' scary movie knowledge to the test in a game of "Riddle Me Twist."

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Just Press Play Ep. 206 Black Queer Spaces and Finding Chosen Family (w/ Dey Phoenix)

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 13:00:00 -0500

Dey is back for part two of our conversation! We're delving into his work as President of the NYC Chapter of Impulse, the world's largest HIV and wellness group for gay men, his life and career as an exotic dancer, and the significance of finding your tribe.

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Just Press Play Ep. 205: President of Impulse Group NYC and Exotic Pole Dancer - Dey Phoenix

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

On this episode of Just Press Play, Ell and Trey welcome Dey Phoenix, a nightlife performer who serves as President of the New York chapter of Impulse, the world's largest HIV and wellness group for gay men. For starters, we're talking about about trash TV, bad spending habits and putting Dey's memory (and rapping skills) to the test. Watch and stay tuned for part two, where we delve into Dey's role in creating safe spaces for the queer community.

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Just Press Play Ep 204: Do You Know What I Did Last Summer? (Part 2)

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500

This summer was defined by two words -- Brat and demure. On this episode of Just Press Play with Ell and Trey, we're out at Sheep Meadow to even the score once and for all. Was this year's summer a time of mindfulness or chaos? We'll also discuss gay bars in Hell's Kitchen and our vastly different experiences at the Fire Island Pines.

Between Ell and Trey, who had a brat summer and whose was more demure? Let us know what you think in the comments.

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Just Press Play Ep. 203: Do You Know What I Did This Summer?

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500

It's season 2 baby!

And we're kicking off this season with a summer wrap up to commemorate the enad of our favorite season. We're watching the sunset at the pier and catching up on all of our out-of-state Adventures and shenanigans in the city.

In this episode, you’ll hear about the songs that made us feel alive, Trey’s warm welcome into the world of ballroom and how Less almost became a Bar Mitzvah hype guy. All that and much more on the official start of season two of Just Press Play with Ell and Trey.

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Just Press Play Ep. 202: 2024 Presidential Debate Best Moments and Online Commentary

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500

It's part 2 of our conversation wrapping up the presidential debate on ABC News. We're pulling tweets from the internet that made us laugh, adding our own insights and commentary, and we might be jumping the gun, but what does the first Black woman president wear to the Inauguration? Come laugh with us.

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Just Press Play: Ep 201 2024 Presidential Debate Highlights (w/ CBS Correspondent Jared Hill)

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0500

On this episode of "Just Press Play with Ell and Trey" CBS News Correspondent Jarred Hill helps us break down some of the highlights (and lowlights) from the debate which, at times, felt more remedial than presidential.

In this recap we discuss the performance of both candidates, exploring some of the weird and wacky moments from Trump and moments of dominance from Harris, pushback from the Republican party and the impact this debate could have on voter perceptions and the upcoming election.

Just Press Play Ep. 12 Meet the Mastermind Behind the Drag Performer Tiana Maxim

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0500

We continue our conversation with Tiana Maxim and dive into her pitfalls, her triumphs, and what it means to be mother. Also, you cannot miss a very special game of "Name That Tune: Queer Pop Icon Edition!"

Just Press Play Ep. 11 The Pride Special (w/ Tyla Bryant)

Sun, 30 Jun 2024 07:00:00 -0500

On this very special edition of Just Press Play with Ell and Trey, we read the community for filth (with love, of course) in our first-ever monologue, and later, revisit the story of The Stonewall uprising. Tyla Bryant, the mastermind behind the drag performer Tiana Maxim, joins us for a kiki on the couch—as we explore her experience as a Black trans woman during Pride and in broader society. Finally, we honor the lives of trans people we’ve lost to violence this year and pose a question…

What’s the most important part of pride? Let us know your answer in the comments.

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Just Press Play Ep. 10 DL? With a Belly Ring??? (w/ Caleb) Part 2

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Ell and Trey continue their conversation on DL men with our newly crowned "professor of DL-ology," Caleb Smith! Just press play and hear about a hot and DL-adjacent encounter Caleb once had, the unique stigma bisexual men face on the daily, and the various harms that come with chasing DL men.

DL? With a Belly Ring??? Part 1 (w/ Caleb Smith)

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Caleb Smith is a public servant and figure model, and on this episode he joins Ell and Trey to discuss all things DL! Get up and listen as Ell, Trey, and Caleb play a revealing game of “Put a Finger Down," unveiling personal experiences with DL men, the cultural and historical context of the term DL, and the potential harm of DL behavior. Play along and learn a little as we dive into part one with Caleb, sharing stories, laughing, and focusing on sexual health and well-being!

The Problem with OnlyFans (w/ Ricky Roman)

Mon, 20 May 2024 09:00:00 -0500

We continue our conversation with adult film actor Ricky Roman, exploring his personal experiences within the industry. Ricky discusses the challenges of dating as an adult film actor, the importance of self-care, and the impact of platforms like OnlyFans. Ricky also gives his own unique perspective on how he has experienced othering and racism within the adult film industry. Also, Ricky shares a heartbreaking, but triumphant story about an awful dating experience that you won't want to miss. Press play!

How Much Do Adult Film Stars REALLY Make? (w/ Ricky Roman)

Mon, 06 May 2024 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we continue our exploration of the ever-evolving adult film industry with a performer who has nearly 15 years of experience -- Ricky Roman. We delve into his career from inception to present day, the impact of the pandemic, and parts of the industry that are often overlooked--from exploitative hiring practices to the artistic value of adult film. And just for fun, we put our guest's love for Lady Gaga to the test in a game of trivia. Press Play.

Should I Start an OnlyFans? (w/ Xavier Blanco)

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Xavier Blanco is a sex entrepreneur, student, and content creator, who is obsessed with two things: sex and sobriety. In this episode, he shares his perspectives on the misconceptions about adult content creation, sexual racism, the stigma surrounding sex work, and how he stays sober. Don't miss out – hit play now! #JustPressPlay #SexEntrepreneur #OnlyFans #Stigma #Sobriety

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What Does it Mean to Be Gay? (w Xavier Blanco)

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Our dear friend Xavier Blanco joins us remotely to discuss his work-life balance as a student and professional sex entrepreneur, 2000-era music nostalgia, and just for fun, we play a game that delves into some of the stereotypes, absurdities, and contradictions of being a gay man. Get ready to laugh.

Mustapha Sanaweh: Life as an MTA Bus Driver | Just Press Play Ep 4

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Mustapha Sanaweh has a big personality and a job he's dreamt of since he was a little boy--he drives busses for the MTA. In our conversation, he explains his childhood infatuation with transit vehicles, his biggest passenger pet peeves, and his goal of changing the narrative about MTA workers through social media. Let his charisma, charm, and kindness prove how he earned the name @Yourfavoritebusdriva

Ryan Jones: Did Life Peak in the Early 2000's? | Just Press Play Ep. 3

Sun, 10 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Nostalgia is in! Hardly anything feels new, and sometimes it feels like everything sucks now. Let us take you back to the early 2000s and reminisce about better days -- flip phones, appointment television, and the joy (and trauma) of going to the mall as a teenager.

Ryan Jones: Are Circuit Gays Undatable? | Just Press Play Ep. 2

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 09:00:00 -0500

The gay community consists of many tribes and types, and we often develop preferences and hangups around them. And for some people, circuit gays and the parties they attend, are dealbreakers when it comes to dating. But why? In this conversation with our friend and guest, Ryan Jones, we define circuit parties, and the associated stereotypes to make sense of what exactly makes circuit gays "undatable."

Ryan Jones: Do The Grammys Matter? | Just Press Play Ep 1

Mon, 12 Feb 2024 09:00:00 -0500

In conversation with Ryan Jones, a TV producer and friend of the show, Ell and Trey discuss our big takeaways from the Grammys, including the best thing about Miley Cyrus' speeches, Nicki Minaj's new (and old) Grammy debacle, Jay-Z's words of wisdom, and why Taylor Swift's win goes against everything the Recording Academy claims to stand for.