Experience Over Expectation

Don’t Say Crazy to Me: Marion Hoffman Koenig on Empathy, Mental Health Advocacy, and Turning Loss into Kindness

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 18:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with memoirist and mental health advocate Marion Hoffman Koenig, author of Don’t Say Crazy to Me.

Marion’s story moves through grief, creativity, 1980s New York energy, and the strange, tender places where humor and death sit at the same table. We talk about what it means to be an empath, how empathy can help and how it can misfire, and why “crazy” is often just a lazy label for what someone does not understand.

You will also hear practical grounding tools Marion uses in real life, including square breathing, plus a powerful reminder: you can show up for someone in pain without losing yourself.

Get the books

Don’t Say Crazy to Me (Marion Hoffman Koenig)
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Say-Crazy-Me-Sinatra-ebook/dp/B0FVGF7Z75
Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dont-say-crazy-to-me-marion-hoffman-koenig/1148689899
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/242577401-don-t-say-crazy-to-me
Experience Over Expectation (Mary McCorvey)
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FPJ9NK4H?ref_=pe_93986420_775043100

Connect with Marion

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marion-koenig/

Eternity in Mind: Rev. Dr. Frank Selden on Chronic Illness, Faith, and Choosing to Stay

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 18:00:00 -0500

Frank Selden came to a cemetery ready to end his life and walked away with one question: “What if my actions in this life affect what comes next?”

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, I sit down with Rev. Dr. Frank Selden, a former Army National Guard officer and JAG detachment veteran, and a respected tax and estate attorney who helped thousands of entrepreneurs build with calm, clarity, and care.

Then chronic, late stage Epstein Barr and related complications changed everything. Frank went from high performance and a full life to being in bed most of the day with no clear medical cure, and he reached a breaking point at Tahoma National Cemetery in Washington State.

What happened next, and what he did with that moment, became the beginning of a rebuilt life, reshaped faith, and a slow, deliberate return to meaning. Frank now serves others through trauma informed men’s work, functional medicine exploration, spiritual training, and writing for those living with chronic illness, pain, and mental health struggles. His upcoming autobiography tells the story, and the long work of learning to live again with eternity in mind.

Guest Resource

SoulBuilding: https://soulbuilding.life/

About the guest

Frank Selden is a former Army National Guard officer and JAG detachment veteran, attorney, and trauma informed guide. After chronic illness changed the trajectory of his life, he rebuilt through spiritual training, functional medicine exploration, and men’s work. In his soon to be released autobiography, he shares his candid account of a suicide attempt, a faith questioned and reshaped, and the slow, intentional work of learning to live again with eternity in mind.

About the host

Mary McCorvey is the author of Experience Over Expectation: Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms, and host of the Experience Over Expectation podcast.

Harmony, Suffering, and Sovereignty: Robin H. Clare on The Frequency of True Success

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 18:00:00 -0500

What if success is not another achievement, it is a frequency you learn to live in

In this conversation, I sit down with Robin H. Clare, best selling author, creator of The Harmony Method, and a spiritual recovery guide whose work is grounded in her own forty year journey through obsessive compulsive food disorder and bulimia.

Her new book, Harmony, The Frequency of True Success, offers a path for aligning your inner life with your outer purpose so that success stops being a scoreboard and becomes something quieter and more powerful, ease, authenticity, and sovereignty.

We talk about messages from the divine, addiction to suffering, recovery as an integrated mind body spirit emotional journey, and what it means to live in harmony in a world that seems designed for discord.

In this episode

The origin story of The Harmony Method, awareness, commitment, mastery, service, leadership, and freedom
How alignment between inner truth and outer purpose helps us manage expectations
Robin’s journey as a “sacred messenger” and what it feels like to receive spiritual guidance
The role of Sophia and the divine feminine in healing addiction and suffering
Why Sophia says there is only one true addiction, suffering, and everything else is a secondary expression
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional, how surrender and grace open the door to recovery
Writing from addiction versus writing from recovery, and why Robin left both voices in her book
Practical tools, the pause, cutting energetic ties, and letting others be themselves without losing your center

About Robin H. Clare

Robin H. Clare is the creator of The Harmony Method, a transformational framework for restoring balance, clarity, and alignment. She is a best selling author, speaker, podcaster, writing coach, retreat leader, energy healer, and recovery coach whose work is grounded in her sustained recovery from a forty year battle with obsessive compulsive food disorder and bulimia. She has been named among the “10 Best Life and Business Coaches” and “10 Best Energy Healers” by Natural Nutmeg readers for seven consecutive years.

Connect with Robin

Website: https://www.robinhclare.com/

Books: https://www.robinhclare.com/books

Work with Robin: https://www.robinhclare.com/engage

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RobinHClare

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robinhclareauthor

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robin_h_clare/

Connect with Mary

Website: https://www.marymccorvey.com

Substack, Experience Over Expectation: https://marymccorvey.substack.com

📘 Mary’s book

Experience Over Expectation, Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms is available on Amazon and wherever you get your books.

Detours, Money, and Meaning: Gal Ezra on Ethical Millionaires and Real Prosperity

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 18:00:00 -0500

What if the biggest no of your life became the turning point for everything that followed

In this conversation, Gal Ezra, a South African-born entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Guaranteed Prosperity, shares how being stranded in Cape Town at 19 after a visa rejection with no money and no plan forced him to rebuild from the inside out.

By 25, Gal had built his first million-dollar business. By 30, he had sold four more. Yet his mission is not just about wealth. It is about creating 10,000 ethical millionaires who understand money as a tool for service, not status.

We talk about detours, havingness, fake realities around money, and what it really means to become the source of your own knowledge and your own life.

In this episode:

Stranded at 19, how one no became Gal’s defining detour
From events to finance to training, the through line behind multiple successful exits
Why your current bank balance reflects what you believe you can have
“Fake realities” about money and success that quietly keep people stuck
The concept of havingness, why many people would subconsciously destroy a sudden windfall
Principles of money, why tools do not work without the right foundation
How Gal’s father refused rescue and gave him something harder and better, true ownership of knowledge
What it means to become source over what you learn
Why Gal’s mission is 10,000 ethical millionaires, not just millionaires

Connect with Gal Ezra:

Website, programs and resources: https://gprosperity.com

Social: search Gal A Ezra on your preferred platform

Connect with Mary:

Website: https://www.marymccorvey.com

Experience Over Expectation on Substack: https://marymccorvey.substack.com

📘 Mary’s book: Experience Over Expectation, Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms is available on Amazon and wherever you get your books.

From Rock Bottom’s Basement to the Castle: Kevin Palmieri on Self-Belief, Self-Worth, and Consistency

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 18:00:00 -0500

Achievement isn’t the same as fulfillment. Host Mary McCorvey talks with Kevin Palmieri, founder/host of Next Level University (top-100 podcast, 1M+ listeners across 170 countries). Kevin shares the moment he says “rock bottom has a basement,” why he reached out for help, and how he rebuilt with small promises, habit tracking, identity work, and better relationships.

You’ll learn

Why purpose starts with self-belief—and why self-worth keeps what you build
Habit tracking and “commitment devices” that make consistency inevitable
Identity upgrades: from who you were to who you’re becoming
Evaluating your circle (best from your past vs. best for your future)
Love + ambition: weekly check-ins, date nights, and honest boundaries

Guest: Kevin Palmieri, Founder & Host, Next Level University

Host: Mary McCorvey, Experience Over Expectation

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The First Daughter Disruptor: Adaku Mbagwu on Breaking the Eldest-Daughter Burden

Wed, 05 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Mary talks with Adaku Mbagwu—a Nigerian-born, Tulum-based transformational guide and the self-proclaimed “first daughter disruptor.” Through her global community, Healed Hero, Adaku helps high-achieving firstborn daughters release generational pressure, perfectionism, and the invisible labor that keeps them exhausted—and build success that actually feels good.

What we cover

Eldest-daughter dynamics across cultures (Nigeria, UK, Mexico)
Invisible labor, hyper-independence, and why “strong” isn’t a life plan
The Strategic Vulnerability Framework: awareness → sharing → receiving → magnetic authenticity
Sibling dynamics, resentment loops, and how to repair without losing yourself
Coaching case study: from stuck at $160K to $1M+ by unlearning “I must be needed”
Practical scripts for asking for help (without feeling weak)

Guest: Adaku Mbagwu — Transformational Guide, Founder of Healed Hero

Host: Mary McCorvey — Experience Over Expectation (author & podcast host)

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Read • Reflect • Respond: How Stories Unlock Trauma (with Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst)

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0500

What if the stories you love could unlock the stories you’ve hidden? In this conversation, psychologist and author Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst shares how reading short, evocative narratives—and then pausing to reflect and respond—can surface long-stored experiences, deepen emotional access, and begin healing. We explore boys’ and men’s emotional development, why reassurance can accidentally shut down intimacy, and two simple tools anyone can use to reconnect with buried memories.

Guest: Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst — Psychologist, author, wife, grandmother; 50+ years helping people across the lifespan translate life experience into growth. Author of Read, Reflect, Respond: The 3 R’s of Growth and Change.

Host: Mary McCorvey, Experience Over Expectation—let go of the plan, live on your terms.

From Fear to Stretch: How Vertical Development Transforms Leaders (w/ Luann Horobin)

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0500

What if leadership isn’t about adding more “apps”… but upgrading your operating system?

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, host Mary McCorvey sits down with executive & leadership coach Luann Horobin (MCC) to unpack vertical development—the shift from piling on skills to changing how you see and respond to the world.

We explore:

Why fear, certainty, and “I’m right” thinking lock us in old patterns

The Stretch: choosing the uncomfortable opposite to unlock new results

Moving from cortisol (defense) to curiosity (creativity & connection)

Building a map for change: awareness → stretch → new habits → new presence

Pivoting a business when the data says “stay” but reality says “change”

About Luann: Executive & Leadership Coach, transformationalist, and long-time guide to high performers navigating the “Is this all there is?” inflection point. Mantra: Changing minds, changing lives.

👉 Order Mary’s book Experience Over Expectation — out now.

👉 Connect with Luann https://luannhorobin.com

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

00:30 What is vertical development?

05:40 Protective strategies & fear loops

10:50 The Stretch: doing the uncomfortable opposite

17:20 Pivot story: advertising → education

23:30 Building the map & new habits

26:30 How to reach Luann + closing

Hashtags: #Leadership #Mindset #VerticalDevelopment #ExecutiveCoaching #ChangeManagement #PersonalGrowth #PresenceOverPerfection #ExperienceOverExpectation

Baby Boomer Wisdom for Today’s Families — Gramps Jeffrey on EOE

Thu, 02 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome to Experience Over Expectation with Mary McCorvey—where we let go of the plan and live on our terms. Today’s guest is Gramps Jeffrey (aka Marc Joseph): father of four, grandfather of six, author of I Don’t Want to Turn 3, and co-founder of BabyBoomer.org, a powerhouse community featuring hundreds of expert contributors across health, finance, parenting, culture, and more.

We dig into:

Why so many grandparents feel “at a distance” from their grandkids—and how to re-engage with respect and boundaries
The surprising power of a nightly question: “What did you do that was nice for someone today?”
Boomers’ outsized role in entrepreneurship and the coming wave of small-business transitions
How AI can be a practical assistant (not a threat) for grandparents, parents, and creators
Passing on values, not just valuables, in the largest intergenerational wealth transfer in U.S. history

📘 Mary’s book, Experience Over Expectation, released September 23, 2025 — now available.

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🌐 Explore BabyBoomer.org

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Intro — Why Boomers still matter (a lot)

02:00 The shared culture that shaped a generation

04:10 Why many grandparents aren’t as involved today

07:45 Boundaries, respect, and avoiding “unsolicited advice”

10:45 What Boomers are doing right: service & legacy

12:40 Small businesses, entrepreneurship & the next 10 years

15:10 AI as a life assistant (not a replacement)

18:05 How Mary used AI to analyze life stories for her book

21:00 Teaching critical thinking in an AI world

24:00 The one question to ask kids every night

26:20 Closing & where to find the book + BabyBoomer.org

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Tell us in the comments: What value do you most want to pass on to the next generation?

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Rick DellaRatta (Jazz for Peace): When Music Becomes a Movement | EOE Podcast

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Today’s guest doesn’t just play music—he organizes it into impact. Rick DellaRatta is a world-class jazz pianist, composer, and founder of Jazz for Peace, known for uniting musicians and communities after 9/11 and channeling concerts into real resources for nonprofits. We talk origin stories (a piano on Christmas Eve), improvisation as a path to freedom, the famous United Nations concert, and why Rick believes “the final solution is love.” He also explains the Jazz for Peace Empowerment Grant model—how it helps outstanding causes become better funded, more sponsored, and more connected.

Highlights:

Improvisation, frequency, and raising human consciousness

The poem that sparked Jazz for Peace after 9/11

UN concert bringing Israeli, Palestinian, and American musicians together

Transforming communities (from schools to Rwanda)

The “zero to 100” idea: funding peace with the same seriousness we fund war

How any legit cause can tap Jazz for Peace’s grant process

Chapters (timestamps to add after upload):

00:00 Intro

02:00 Piano arrives, a kid starts improvising

07:40 Discovering jazz in a library drawer

12:10 The poem & the UN concert

21:30 Art as activism: case studies

33:15 The Empowerment Grant (how it works)

44:50 “Zero to 100” and the podcast: The Final Solution Is Love

51:00 Closing & CTAs

Guest links:

Jazz for Peace site & grants info

Rick DellaRatta’s podcast: The Final Solution Is Love

EOE links:

Pre-order Experience Over Expectation (launch Sept 23) → marymccorvey.com

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#ExperienceOverExpectation #RickDellaRatta #JazzForPeace #TheFinalSolutionIsLove #Jazz #ArtAsActivism #PeaceThroughMusic #Podcast #MaryMcCorvey

Two-Time Emmy Winner Theresa H.K.: The Playbook to Beat a Cold Job Market

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

You are not your job title. That’s where this conversation begins.

Today on Experience Over Expectation, I sit down with Theresa Hummel-Krallinger (Theresa H.K.)—two-time Emmy winner, author of Make Waves, President & Chief People Officer at High Five Performance, university professor, and a stand-up comic of 20+ years. She’s helped job seekers since 2003, and she’s seen every season of the market—hot, cold, and confusing.

Theresa’s “Boat Model” is the kind of simple, sturdy thinking we need right now:

Rudder – your direction
Hull – your skills/experience
Sails – your reputation and brand (degrees, certs, public work)
Motor – your network that moves you even when there’s no wind

It’s humane, practical, and—most of all—doable.

Watch on YouTube: Two-Time Emmy Winner Theresa H.K.: The Playbook to Beat a Cold Job Market (paste your YouTube link here)

Pre-order my book: Experience Over Expectation — Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms →

https://www.marymccorvey.com/

What we cover

Why we confuse identity with employment—and how to separate them
How a comic’s eye for everyday life makes you a better communicator at work
The Boat Model and how to sketch your own “career vessel”
Networking for introverts (relationship-first, not schmooze-first)
What leaders get wrong about retention (hint: tell people they’re top talent)
Financial right-sizing so a job loss isn’t a life collapse

Theresa’s Playbook (quick hits)

Don’t park your soul at the door. You bring your whole self to the work—humor included.
Tend the garden year-round. Help others before you need help. That’s real networking.
Stay out of complacency. Keep learning, keep building reputation signals, keep showing your work.
Live within your means. Overextension turns a layoff into a crisis.
Leaders: say the quiet part out loud. If someone’s top talent, tell them. It matters.

Try this mini-exercise

Draw your boat, honestly.

What’s your rudder pointing toward? If unclear, write what good looks like for you.
Is your hull strong? Which skills need reinforcement?
How full are your sails? List visible proof of credibility (projects, posts, certs, talks).
Does your motor start? Name 10 people you could help this month—then do it, no asks attached.

Save your sketch. Revisit quarterly.

Favorite moments & chapter markers

00:00 – Why identity ≠ employment
02:00 – The origin of Make Waves and helping job seekers since 2003
04:00 – Stand-up comedy for work: building the “humor muscle”
10:28 – The Boat Model: rudder, hull, sails, motor
15:45 – The twin traps: complacency and overextension
18:18 – Networking that feels human (and works for introverts)
23:07 – Retaining top talent: tell them they’re top talent
26:21 – Making waves by leaving corporate to build your own thing
27:58 – Ikigai: joy, skill, need, and pay—finding the overlap

Two quotables to share:

“We don’t park our soul at the door when we come to work.”

-Theresa H.K.

“If you only ask for help when you need it, you’re already late. Be a go-giver first.”

-Theresa H.K.

About our guest

Theresa Hummel-Krallinger (Theresa H.K.) is a two-time Emmy winner, author of Make Waves, President & Chief People Officer at High Five Performance, university professor, and founder/facilitator of Meet the Author at the Pyramid Club (Philadelphia). She’s also a working stand-up comic of 20+ years. Connect with her on LinkedIn and let her know you found her via this episode.

Keep the momentum

Watch the episode on YouTube: Two-Time Emmy Winner Theresa H.K.: The Playbook to Beat a Cold Job Market
Pre-order my new book:

Pre-order Experience Over Expectation

With care,

Mary

Alan Lazaros on Social Courage, the “Out-” Playbook, and Building Your Next Level You

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

I invited Alan Lazaros on Experience Over Expectation because his story hits the heartbeat of this project: when life veers off script, you can either cling tighter to the plan—or you can build something truer.

At 26, Alan survived a car crash that forced a reckoning. He was already “successful” by the world’s measures, but the inner story didn’t match. That tension became fuel. Today he’s the founder/CEO of Next Level University, leading a global team and hosting a Top-100 podcast with 1M+ listens across 175+ countries. The work? Helping people pursue their version of success—not the one they were handed.

What we got into

My Founder Cycle (conceive → decide → resource → execute) and how many of us run that loop without naming it.
Alan’s “Out-” framework—a deceptively simple sequence: Outfocus, Outrisk, Outwork, Outlearn, Outgrow, Outskill, Outtool, Outlead, Outlast.
Social courage vs. the performance of success. Are we building reputations… or character?
Boundaries & belonging as you grow. How to find your “absolutely people” (and kindly release the “absolutely not”).
What to tell a 12-year-old about responsibility, humility, and belief.
The one question Alan asks himself constantly: Why?

“All great things come from people who take responsibility.” —Alan

Watch / Listen

YouTube: https://youtu.be/11ZvDQ2g3ls
Podcast: https://feeds.captivate.fm/experience-over-expectation/
Alan’s world: nextleveluniverse.com

Try this (a pocket exercise)

Name one place you’re performing for the plan.
Ask why (five times if you have to).
Replace the performance with one honest action that serves who you actually are.
Tiny moves count. They compound.

Book note

My book Experience Over Expectation arrives September 23, 2025. If the message resonates—letting go of rigid timelines and living on your terms—pre-orders are open at marymccorvey.com. Early readers help more than you know.

Pre-Order EOE E-Book

Thank you for being here—for the stories, the courage, and the curiosity to keep asking why. That’s how we grow.

With gratitude,

Mary

Luxury Meets Spirituality: Neeti Keswani on Inner Luxury, AI & Brand Storytelling

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to Experience Over Expectation. Today’s episode sits right at the intersection I love most: purpose, creativity, and the courage to pivot. I’m joined by Neeti Keswani—host of Luxury Unplugged, brand/story coach, and author of the bestselling Live Your Dreams, Be You. We talk about “inner luxury,” the spirituality of work, and how to tell a brand story that actually feels like you.

Watch on YouTube

“Luxury from the inside out” isn’t about more things.

It’s alignment—values → voice → actions.

What we cover

Inner Luxury, defined. How purpose-driven leaders blend high performance with grounded values.
AI + spirituality. Using tools like ChatGPT for reflection and clarity—plus where human intuition still leads.
Message–Mindset–Marketing. Neeti’s triad for brand clarity that sounds like you on paper and in the room.
Identity shifts. Clearing emotional blocks that keep founders from speaking their truth.
The pivot. Neeti’s move from corporate consulting to creative work—and the courage that took.

3 ideas to take into your week

Inside-out audit: Write your top three values. Now check your last three posts, pitches, or conversations. Do they reflect those values in tone and content? Where’s the gap?
One brave sentence: Craft a single sentence that names what you really do for people. Test it out loud, not just on paper.
AI as mirror, not master: Ask ChatGPT: “Act as a reflective coach. Help me frame my core message to [audience] in human, conversational language. Push back on clichés.” Then refine it until it sounds like your voice.

Favorite moments

Neeti’s reminder that “perfection is procrastination in a tuxedo”—ship the work.
The elegant pairing of soulful success + measurable impact (yes, you can have both).
The practical difference between content you can type and conviction you can speak—and how coaching bridges that gap.

About Neeti Keswani

Host of Luxury Unplugged, brand/storytelling coach, and author of Live Your Dreams, Be You. Neeti helps entrepreneurs align message, mindset, and marketing so their story lands with clarity and heart.

Find her: search “Luxury Unplugged podcast” on your platform of choice or Instagram.

Listen & connect

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From Addiction, Near-death Experience, Cartel Prison, to Inner Freedom

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

We talk a lot about “taking control” of our lives. Jeff Sorensen took something deeper: radical ownership. After a near-death experience, years of addiction, and a cartel prison cell in Mexico, he discovered a quiet power inside the chaos—the breath, the pause, the choice.

This isn’t a redemption cliché. Jeff maps the very human path from reaction to response, from “my story defines me” to “my story refined me.” If you’ve ever felt stuck, mislabeled, or like something is missing even when life looks “fine,” this one’s for you.

In this episode

Remembering who you are beyond labels (not your diagnoses, job title, or past)
The moment he realized suffering is optional—even in a concrete cell
Breath as an anchor: how to stop spiraling and create space to choose
Radical ownership → self-mastery → conscious creation (the service-driven kind)
The “Ethan vs. Liam” morning—two tiny choices, two different lives

Watch (or listen) here

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If you prefer audio, this will also be on the podcast feed shortly.

Timestamps

00:00 Who Jeff serves and why “remembering” matters

03:25 Near-death, the voice, and choosing to come back

06:06 Addiction, Mexico, the cartel setup, and prison

10:45 Release, study, rebuilding a meaningful life

12:44 Radical ownership begins (the mirror moment)

18:28 When “something’s missing” in an ordinary life

21:22 Self-love without judgment → loving others differently

24:10 Triggers, breath, and the mechanics of self-mastery

29:25 From ownership to mastery (it’s simpler than we think)

31:24 Ethan vs. Liam: two mornings, two outcomes

38:18 Conscious creation: a life that ripples beyond you

Try this (60-second practice)

Sit. Put one hand on your belly.
Inhale through the nose for a count of 4.
Hold for 4.
Exhale gently for 6–8.
Repeat 5 cycles. Then ask: “What response would serve best right now?”
Tiny practice, huge leverage.

Quote of the Day

“When I owned everything I’d created, I also reclaimed the power to create what comes next.”

About Jeff

Jeff Sorensen is a transformational leader, international facilitator, and co-author of the bestselling Ignite Your Inner Spirit. He founded Breath Army and Light Force Training Academy, helping leaders and emerging visionaries move through trauma, reclaim their voice, and live in alignment.

Stand-Up Truths, Smart Networking, and 1,000+ Interviews

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Do you want tighter interviews, sharper jokes, and a real plan for building relationships that actually open doors? This episode is for you.

Steve Cooper—stand-up comic, host of Cooper Talk and Coop’s Comedy Corner, and the mind behind Cocktails/Coffee with Cooper—joins me to share what most people miss about comedy, conversation, and connection.

What you’ll get from this episode

Stage confidence you can use anywhere: How Steve went from a freshman “Mr. Stockton” bit to headlining rooms—and what that journey teaches about presence.
Comedy as a craft (not chaos): The real difference between improv and stand-up, why “thinking on your feet” is a trained skill, and how to work a room without working blue.
Jokes that land: Stories vs. one-liners, building bits you can actually remember, and the rewrite habit that keeps material alive.
Networking that doesn’t feel gross: Inside Steve’s organic meetups and how to build a reputation people vouch for.
Interviewing like a pro: Why listening beats scripts, when to ditch the pre-written questions, and how to keep guests (and audiences) fully dialed in.
Media reality check: Are podcasts replacing late night? What still works—and what’s just noise.

Who this episode helps:

New comics or creators trying to find their voice on stage and on mic
Podcasters who want interviews that breathe (and get shared)
Professionals who need connection skills that aren’t fake or forced
Anyone who loves Philly’s creative scene and wants the behind-the-curtain view

Try these moments

00:53 The talent-show spark that started everything
05:16 Philly’s comedy scene and earning your chops
11:32 Improv vs. stand-up—how to stay nimble without losing your act
14:59 The joke-writing workflow (that isn’t really “writing”)
19:44 What 1,000+ interviews taught Steve about listening and preparation
25:32 Podcasts, late night, and where audiences are actually spending time

Find Steve’s shows and guest gallery: CooperTalk.net

Listen to Cooper Talk and Coop’s Comedy Corner wherever you get your podcasts.

If this episode hits home, subscribe to Experience Over Expectation—and share it with a friend who’s building their voice in public. Your future self (and your audience) will thank you.

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Be the Renegade: Strategy, Risk & Real Leadership

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

What if the key to success isn’t more planning—but better strategy and bold execution?

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with Thom Boharsik—Air Force veteran, former Google and Accenture leader, and co-founder of Outlaw Star Collective—to explore what it means to be a strategic renegade in life and business.

Thom breaks down:

🔹 Why adaptability—not perfection—is the real superpower

🔹 How to lead across radically different cultures (military, tech, consulting)

🔹 The moment he chose entrepreneurship over the corporate ladder

🔹 Why “don’t fear momentum” is a life motto worth living

🔹 How personal strategy can help you drop off kids, launch companies, and stay aligned with your values

Whether you're building a career, a company, or a life with purpose—this episode will challenge your assumptions and help you redefine what success really means.

🧭 Let go of the plan. Live on your terms.

Chapters:

00:00 – Welcome & Intro to Thom

01:00 – What It Means to Be a Renegade

04:00 – Navigating Air Force to Accenture to Google

06:30 – Life Strategy vs. Life Planning

09:30 – Marriage, Momentum & Commitment

12:00 – Veteran Identity & Civilian Purpose

17:00 – Leadership for Everyone (Not Just Vets)

22:00 – Visualizing Success, Handling Chaos

26:00 – Final Thoughts: Be the Renegade

💬 What does being a renegade look like in your life? Tell us in the comments.

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🌐 Visit: marymccorvey.com

📘 Get the book: Experience Over Expectation — coming this September! Pre-order at Marymccorvey.com

Karen Kaufman on Presence, Image, and the Quiet Power of Reinvention

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0500

First impressions are stubborn—research suggests it can take 8–10 new interactions to change them. Executive coach and author Karen Kaufman (K Partners) joins me to unpack personal presence, relationship management, and what golf reveals about leadership: pace, temperament, and trust. We talk brand vs. reputation, updating self-image, women in business golf, and Karen’s book MAGIC: Making a Good Impression Count—On & Off the Golf Course. Plus a gift: her one-page “Factors of Leadership.” Pre-order Experience Over Expectation at marymccorvey.com.

When the System Overlooks You, Build a Better One — with Rebecca Lyons

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0500

What happens when your pain is dismissed and your symptoms ignored? If you're Rebecca Lyons, you turn your story into a solution for millions.

In this powerful episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with Rebecca Lyons, founder and CEO of HerSay, an AI-powered health companion that helps women advocate for their own care. Diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis after years of misdiagnosis, Rebecca didn't just seek healing—she sought change.

Together, we discuss:

💡 How Rebecca went from corporate strategist to startup founder

🧠 Why women's pain is so often dismissed—and what HerSay is doing about it

🤖 The ethical, empowering potential of AI in healthcare

👩‍⚕️ How to speak your truth in the exam room—and be heard

💪 What it means to build while battling chronic illness

This episode is a masterclass in courage, clarity, and reclaiming your voice.

🎧 Subscribe now and follow the journey at https://hersay.ca

#HealthTech #WomensHealth #StartupFounder #AI #ChronicIllness #Endometriosis #ExperienceOverExpectation #RebeccaLyons #MaryMcCorvey #HerSay

How Following Your Own Path Leads to Success | Lauren Perez

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 12:00:00 -0500

What if the perfect resume isn’t the real key to success?

In this inspiring episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with Lauren Perez—IP consultant, self-made founder, and living proof that belief in yourself can take you further than any title ever could.

From having dinner with President Obama to testifying before Congress and becoming VP of a law firm without a law degree, Lauren shares how she built her career on “lightbulb moments,” risk, and sheer self-trust. She opens up about:

💡 How she turned a cold letter into a life-changing career

📉 The mediation certification that didn't turn into a job—but changed her anyway

💔 What divorce, bankruptcy, and burnout taught her about real independence

🔥 The moment she walked away from security to build her own business from scratch

🕊️ Why sometimes the wings we need to fly don’t come from others—they come from within

Whether you’re a dreamer, a doer, or someone stuck in the middle, this episode will move you to redefine what success feels like—not just what it looks like.

✨ Subscribe for more real, raw conversations that honor experience over expectation.

📥 Connect with Lauren: Lauren@LVPSolutionsLLC.com

#Entrepreneurship #WomenInBusiness #LightbulbMoments #ExperienceOverExpectation #Podcast #LaurenPerez #Founders #IPConsultant #CareerReinvention #SelfBelief #EOEPodcast #MaryMcCorvey

The Entrepreneur Gene — Sid Mohasseb on Redefining Risk, Failure, and Change

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0500

What if entrepreneurship isn’t just a profession—it’s part of your DNA?

In this powerful episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with Sid Mohasseb, globally respected entrepreneur, author, investor, and founder of Anabasis Academy—often called the Entrepreneur Philosopher. From curing his own genetic disorder at age 7 to moving to America alone at 16, Sid’s life story is proof that building a meaningful life is less about fearlessness and more about mindful navigation of risk and change.

Together, we explore:

Why entrepreneurship is encoded in our DNA
The real definition of risk (and how entrepreneurs navigate it daily)
Why “fail fast” is the wrong goal—and what to chase instead
What Martin Luther King and Mother Teresa teach us about value exchange
Why fear is an alarm system—not something to silence
How even building a backyard deck is an entrepreneurial act
And why change is your greatest friend—not your enemy

This episode will completely shift the way you think about failure, success, and what it means to build something valuable—whether it’s a company, a career, or a life you actually want.

🎧 Listen now and discover why you were born to build.

Sid also introduces his $1 forever-access learning platform: AnabasisAcademy.org, designed to provoke, engage, and awaken your next best self.

You’re Not Broken: The Truth About Healing with Randy Taylor

Mon, 14 Jul 2025 12:00:00 -0500

If you’ve ever thought, “I’ve done everything right—so why do I still feel stuck?” this episode is for you.

In this powerful conversation, Mary McCorvey sits down with Randy Taylor, founder of Taylormade Leadership and the creator of There~Apy—a revolutionary science-based alternative to traditional therapy. Drawing from 35 years of studying human behavior and his own extraordinary life story, Randy shares a practical, neuroscience-backed method for healing emotional pain, anxiety, PTSD, and self-doubt.

Randy explains how the subconscious mind stores experiences in “files,” and why constantly revisiting old traumas may be keeping us stuck. Instead of focusing on coping, There~Apy helps people create new, empowering files that overwrite limiting beliefs and reactive triggers—often with remarkable results.

In this episode, we explore:

Why talk therapy sometimes reinforces trauma instead of resolving it
How to reprogram your subconscious by building dominant “new files”
The truth about PTSD, emotional triggers, and unresolved grief
Randy’s own experience with tragedy and how he found a path forward
Mary’s story of post-war illness and the long journey to understanding and recovery

“No one was born with a doubt.”

“There’s nothing we cannot unlearn.”

“You’re not broken—you’re responding to an outdated file.”

If you’ve been carrying the weight of your past for far too long, this conversation just might offer the release you didn’t know you needed.

Connect with Randy Taylor:

🌐 https://freefromtherapy.com

📞 Free first session available for veterans and new clients.

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A Life in Harmony — The Discipline, Beauty, and Mystery of Music with Jonathan Taylor

Thu, 10 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0500

In this soul-stirring episode of Experience Over Expectation, host Mary McCorvey is joined by acclaimed classical guitarist Jonathan Taylor, whose career spans decades, continents, and more than 300 recorded tracks—a musical output that rivals The Beatles in volume and surpasses many in-depth.

From being raised by two powerful women—his vaudevillian grandmother and beloved mother—to studying under legends like Pepe Romero and Frederick Noad, Jonathan's path to becoming a virtuoso is equal parts grit, genius, and grace.

In this conversation, Jonathan shares:

🎼 His journey from childhood ukulele plucking to world-class classical guitar

🎼 Why discipline, not just talent, is the foundation of mastery

🎼 The invisible bond between artist and audience—and why live performance is sacred

🎼 A powerful story of a man whose life was saved by a single concert

🎼 Reflections on AI, authenticity, and the future of creativity

🎼 What Saturn's rings can teach us about the nature of sound and harmony

With wit, wisdom, and unapologetic candor, Jonathan offers more than just a behind-the-scenes look at the life of an artist. He offers a meditation on purpose, resilience, and the finite heartbeats we’re given to create something beautiful.

“You have to show people your heart. Not your perfection. Your heart.”

Links & Resources:

Follow Mary: marymccorvey.substack.com

Discover Jonathan’s work: Search “Jonathan Taylor” on Spotify and Apple Music or download his app on the App Store.

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChJvadwu2bYXvzX6cs9MshA

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jtclassicalguitarmastery/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathan-taylor-classical-guitar/

Building a Legacy: George Leone and the Homecoming 250 Celebration

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 14:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, host Mary McCorvey sits down with George Leone—former judge, federal prosecutor, and founder of Homecoming 250—to explore what it takes to turn a deeply personal mission into a national movement.

George shares the origin story behind Homecoming 250, a once-in-a-generation celebration honoring the 250th birthdays of the U.S. Navy and Marine Corps. From early conversations with his wife during the pandemic to securing support from every living Secretary of the Navy, George offers an inspiring look at grassroots leadership, legacy, and the power of collective remembrance.

You’ll hear:

How a retired judge launched a 9-day national celebration
Why Philadelphia is the heart of this historic commemoration
Behind-the-scenes stories of working with the military, volunteers, and civic leaders
The financial realities of throwing a party for the Navy and Marine Corps—and why it matters
A preview of major events including ship tours, concerts, the Blue Angels, and the 100th Marine Corps Ball

This is more than an event. It’s a homecoming for service, sacrifice, and national unity.

🎙️ Don’t miss this intimate conversation about vision, leadership, and what it means to serve a legacy bigger than yourself.

Links & Resources:

Learn more or get tickets: https://homecoming250.org

Support the event: Donate to Homecoming250

Follow Mary: marymccorvey.substack.com

From 5,000 Sq. Ft. to Freedom: Rita Wilkins on the Power of Downsizing

Thu, 19 Jun 2025 18:00:00 -0500

What happens when your dream home starts to feel like a prison?

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with TEDx speaker and bestselling author Rita Wilkins, also known as The Downsizing Designer. Rita shares her surprising journey from a lavish 5,000 sq. ft. home to an 867 sq. ft. apartment—and how that radical shift created a life filled with meaning, freedom, and impact.

We talk about:

Why "more" was never enough
How clutter reflects our inner world
The emotional truth behind letting go
Her TEDx journey and how she built an audience by living her message

This is not just about downsizing stuff—it’s about upgrading your life.

Rita’s TEDx Talk

Her book A Journey to Less

Connect with Rita

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