Family Sobriety Now

The Moment You Stop Walking On Eggshells

Thu, 09 Apr 2026 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin explores the moment many families quietly long for, the moment you stop walking on eggshells. When addiction has been part of the home, tension can become the norm, leading you to carefully choose your words, avoid conflict, and try to keep the peace at any cost. Over time, that way of living becomes exhausting. Joseph shares what it looks like to begin stepping out of that pattern, offering real-life examples of how families can move from fear-based responses to grounded, honest, and steady ways of showing up. This isn’t about becoming confrontational; it’s about becoming clear and finding your footing again. If you’ve been feeling like you’re constantly managing the environment just to keep things from falling apart, this episode will help you understand what it takes to begin changing that dynamic

When You Are Tired Of Being Strong

Thu, 26 Mar 2026 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph Devlin speaks directly to the parent, spouse, or loved one who has been holding everything together through addiction and is quietly reaching a point of emotional exhaustion.

Through two powerful stories, Joseph explores what it feels like to keep showing up, supporting recovery, and still feel depleted inside. One story highlights a mother who gave everything she had to support her loved one’s recovery, only to realize she had nothing left for herself. Another story reveals what begins to shift when someone finally stops carrying it alone.

This episode is a reminder that being tired doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means you’ve been carrying too much for too long.

If you’ve been trying to stay strong for everyone else… this conversation will help you begin taking care of yourself again.

When Progress Feels Invisible

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, host Joseph Devlin explores the subtle signs that healing may already be happening, even when it doesn’t feel obvious.

Through real-life stories and practical insight, Joseph discusses how small moments like a simple text message, fewer arguments at home, or consistent effort can signal meaningful progress in recovery.

Families often overlook these changes because they are waiting for something bigger. But recognizing these small shifts can restore hope and help families stay grounded during the long process of rebuilding trust.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why recovery progress often feels slow or invisible

• How small moments of connection can signal healing

• Three signs that recovery may be working—even when it doesn’t feel like it yet

Recovery is rarely a straight line, and healing takes time. But when families begin to recognize the quiet signs of progress, they often discover that more change is happening than they realized.

Celebrations

Fri, 27 Feb 2026 18:22:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin explores why celebrating recovery can feel complicated for families when trust is still fragile and past wounds are still tender. He shares the story of a family choosing to intentionally mark their son’s homecoming from treatment, demonstrating how thoughtful celebration can restore belonging and reinforce identity change. Another story highlights a man publicly acknowledging a sobriety milestone, a moment that strengthened his commitment, inspired others in recovery, and allowed his wife to feel pride instead of anxiety. Joseph encourages families to celebrate effort rather than perfection and to shape moments of recognition around their own culture and values. He concludes that celebration is a powerful healing tool, one that marks progress, rebuilds connection, and reminds families that recovery is possible for everyone involved.

Staying Hopeful When Trust Is Still Fragile

Thu, 12 Feb 2026 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin explores what it means to stay hopeful when trust is still fragile after addiction. Through heartfelt stories and real-life examples, he shares how families can rebuild connection without rushing healing or ignoring past pain. This conversation offers practical insight into balancing hope with healthy caution, reminding listeners that fragile trust doesn’t mean broken trust. If you’re learning how to believe again while still protecting your heart, this episode is for you.

When Reconnection Feels Slow

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 04:22:00 -0400

This episode focuses on the challenges of family reconnection during recovery, particularly when progress feels slow. Joseph discusses how reconnection often moves more slowly than recovery behaviors, emphasizing that emotional healing requires time, especially when families have been trained to stay alert and braced for potential issues. He shared two case examples: Tom, a father who maintained gentle contact with his sober daughter, and Eric, who learned to be consistently present without demanding closeness, which eventually led his family to notice a difference in his behavior. Joseph concluded by offering three gentle practices for families navigating slow reconnection.

Laying The Groundwork

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 05:22:00 -0400

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin talks about how families can begin again after addiction has created distance and broken trust. Rather than focusing on quick fixes, this conversation centers on building a strong foundation through consistency and connection. Through heartfelt stories, including a mother who slowly rebuilt her relationship with her children, Joseph offers hope to families and individuals in recovery who feel like reconnection may be out of reach. This episode reminds listeners that healing happens one small, faithful step at a time and that sobriety is truly a family affair.

Gratitude In The Middle

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph explored the concept of gratitude in family recovery, discussing how it helps individuals find light amidst darkness and survive challenging situations. Through personal stories and practical examples, he demonstrated how gratitude can transform relationships and rebuild connections in families dealing with addiction. Joseph shared actionable ways to cultivate gratitude, emphasizing its role in healing and growth, and encouraged listeners to implement these practices in their own families.

After The Substance Stops

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 06:22:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph explores what comes after your loved one puts down the drink, the pills, or the drug and real recovery begins. Because when the substance stops, the healing work truly starts. Addiction was once the “solution” to pain, fear, and disconnection. Now that it’s gone, families often ask, What does support look like now? Joseph shares heartfelt stories of families learning to rebuild purpose, trust and hope together and how simple acts of service, volunteering, or helping others can become powerful tools for lasting sobriety. In this episode, you’ll learn how to reconnect as a family unit, nurture your loved one’s new sense of meaning, and create shared pathways to growth and peace at home.

The Family Healing Blueprint: Feel, Laugh, and Live Again

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 04:22:00 -0400

When addiction enters a home, emotions often go underground- laughter fades, tension rises, and family members lose sight of themselves. In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin guides families through three powerful steps to reclaim peace and connection: expressing emotions safely, finding daily satisfaction, and rediscovering laughter as medicine for the soul. With real-life stories, faith-based insight, and practical strategies, this conversation offers hope and a path forward for families who are ready to heal — together.

Is It Enabling or Helping?

Thu, 21 Aug 2025 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph Devlin unpacks one of the toughest questions families face when a loved one is struggling with addiction or substance abuse: Am I helping, or am I enabling? With heartfelt stories and relatable examples, Joseph explores how good intentions can sometimes backfire, fueling the very behavior you want to stop. He also shares how true support looks different, as it means setting healthy communication, staying consistent, and choosing love with wisdom. Along the way, you’ll discover four practical steps you can take today to strengthen your emotional resilience, create more peace at home, and keep connection alive without losing yourself in the chaos. Whether your loved one is in the early stages of struggle or deep in active addiction, this episode offers hope, clarity, and encouragement for your journey.

You Are Not Crazy: Understanding The Chaos Of Addiction

Thu, 07 Aug 2025 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph validates the emotional rollercoaster families face when loving someone who has struggled with substance abuse. Through powerful real-life stories, he shows how patterns of broken trust, curfew slips, and past traumas trigger real, protective responses in our brains, proving you’re not overreacting or “paranoid.” You’ll learn why these feelings are normal, how to ground yourself during moments of chaos, and three practical tools to help you stay steady in the storm. Whether you’ve been up at 2 a.m. worrying or second-guessing your instincts, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and hope for anyone walking this difficult path.

The Power Of Family Support

Thu, 24 Jul 2025 04:22:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph shares Angela’s story, a devoted mother whose son Kyle began struggling with heroin addiction at just 18. Angela was emotionally drained, filled with guilt, and unsure of how to truly help. Through support, journaling, and a deeper shift in prayer, Angela and her sister created a new plan, a way to love Kyle without enabling his behavior. When he returned home high, Angela responded with calm strength, setting firm yet compassionate boundaries. Over time, her steady love became a reference point Kyle could rely on.

Joseph reminds listeners that they are not alone, and that seeking support and caring for their own emotional and spiritual well-being is not only allowed but essential. Healing is possible for both the loved one and the family. This episode is a testament to the quiet power of consistency, love, and faith.

Loving Them Without Losing Yourself

Thu, 10 Jul 2025 04:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Joseph shares the powerful story of Melissa, a devoted wife and mother navigating the emotional toll of loving someone in active addiction. Through Melissa’s experience with her husband, we explore the subtle but profound ways families can begin to reclaim their emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being—without abandoning the person they love.

You’ll hear how Melissa moved from exhaustion and heartbreak to clarity and quiet strength by making gentle shifts in how she showed up for herself and for her family. From a birthday party betrayal to morning rituals of self-care, this episode offers tangible, hope-filled examples of what it looks like to draw healthy boundaries and reconnect with your inner life.

This episode is a compassionate invitation to stay grounded in your truth, even while holding space for someone you love who's still struggling. If you're tired of feeling like you're losing yourself in someone else's battle, this conversation is for you.

Peace Over Panic: Supporting Without Sinking

Thu, 26 Jun 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph shares the story of Diane, whose husband, Marcus, struggles with heavy drinking. Though Marcus maintained his responsibilities, his drinking created emotional chaos at home. Diane reached a turning point when she realized she was more focused on his sobriety than her own sanity. Joseph outlines three key shifts that helped Diane reclaim peace: from over-responsibility to shared ownership, from emotional reaction to grounded response, and from fixing to witnessing. These shifts allowed her to loveMarcus without losing herself. Diane’s calm, steady presence eventually helpedMarcus face his own choices. This episode offers hope and guidance for families walking with a loved one in addiction. You’ll learn how to stay close without collapsing and why your peace might be the very thing that inspires change.

When They Don’t Want Help, What You Can Still Do

Thu, 12 Jun 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discusses strategies for supporting a family member struggling with substance abuse and who is resistant to help. He shares stories and outlines three key strategies: holding a mirror to reality without minimizing, building a life that isn't compromised by the addiction, and making sobriety attractive rather than shameful. Joseph emphasizes the importance of consistency, dignity, and steadiness in the face of addiction.

How Families Can Support a Heavy Drinker Without Losing Themselves

Thu, 29 May 2025 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discusses supporting heavy drinkers using three key principles. He shares stories of families who learned to support, protect and reconnect with their loved ones. Joseph emphasizes that support means walking beside loved ones without fixing them and that hope can be maintained through connection rather than perfection.

Talking To Heavy Drinkers

Thu, 15 May 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph focuses on providing guidance for supporting loved ones with excessive drinking habits, emphasizing their importance of compassion and clear communication over control or enabling. He shares personal stories illustrating how expressing love and setting boundaries can lead to breakthroughs in relationships affected by alcohol abuse. The discussion concludes with encouragement for maintaining hope while taking care of oneself, highlighting that sobriety is a family affair and support is available.

Homeostasis Resistance In Addiction Recovery

Thu, 01 May 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin explores a powerful and often overlooked concept in addiction recovery: homeostasis—the brain’s natural resistance to change. Discover why your loved one may feel intense emotional and physical discomfort in early sobriety, even after making the courageous decision to stop using substances. Joseph shares a compelling story about how a sister played a vital role in helping their loved one shift toward a new normal. You’ll also learn practical, sometimes unconventional ways families can become an anchor of support for their loved one through small daily actions.

How You Can Support Someone Who Wants Change

Thu, 17 Apr 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed supporting a loved one who wants to take a break from drinking. He emphasizes maintaining excitement and understanding their reasons, such as improved relationships or health. He suggests setting clear goals, like a 60-day pause, and breaking the goal into smaller, manageable steps. Joseph advises planning activities and celebrating small successes. He highlights the importance of allowing the loved one to take the lead and together reflecting on the positive changes. Joseph also encourages listeners to apply these principles to their own life improvements, restating that even small change has multiple benefits.

Newcomer Suggestions

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed suggestions for newcomers in 12-step programs, emphasizing their applicability across various recovery communities. Key points include attending 90 meetings in 90 days, obtaining phone numbers for support, listening for similarities in others' stories, and buying the Big Book. He advises finding a home group, seeking a temporary sponsor, avoiding triggers, managing HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) states, and sticking with sober individuals. Joseph also highlights the importance of prayer and active participation in recovery. He encourages family members to support loved ones by applying these principles and avoiding lecturing and moralizing.

Open Doors

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discusses the concept of "open doors" in relationships, particularly when a loved one seeks forgiveness or help after a mistake or relapse. He emphasizes the importance of responding with gratitude and offering specific, non-condemning actions that foster positive change. By doing so, he explains, these supportive actions can plant seeds of transformation and be more readily accepted. Joseph encourages listeners to prepare for these moments and to persist in offering support, as repeated encouragement can lead to lasting impact. At the same time, he stresses the need to maintain personal peace and emotional safety during these interactions. To ensure their message is authentic and effective, he advises individuals to tailor their approach to their unique family dynamics.

Tiny Changes Connected Home

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of small shifts in the home for fostering happiness and connectedness. He shared a family's successful strategy to address communication challenges through subtle changes in their living room. He emphasized the need to create a unique environment for each family, focusing on communication and connection, and suggested making small changes to the existing environment could lead to significant results. Joseph also encouraged the audience to make one small change now and stay with the change, easy does it.

Sane and Happy Usefulness

Thu, 20 Feb 2025 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph emphasized the importance of spiritual principles, active listening, empathy, and effective communication in leading a fulfilling life. He shared personal anecdotes and strategies for building trust and rapport with others, as well as helping individuals navigate challenging situations. Joseph also encouraged others to develop their active listening skills and seek new ways to positively influence others.

Common Ground For Families

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 05:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of spiritual principles and common ground in family life, particularly in the context of addiction and recovery. He emphasized the significance of tolerance, understanding, and love as key values for fostering unity and positive relationships within families. Joseph encouraged families to establish shared values and accountability measures, which can be designed as a family or by the individual.

Addiction and Family Dynamics

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 05:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed excerpts from the book Alcoholics Anonymous, focusing on the chapter "To Wives". He highlighted two key points: abstaining from worrying about what others think and staying away from taking sides in arguments involving family members who are drinking or using. Joseph emphasized the importance of introspection and self-reflection in addressing addiction, and how participating in a twelve-step community can help individuals overcome their pride, self-pity, and vanity. He also mentioned the book's suggestion that putting spiritual principles into practice in every aspect of life can help solve problems related to family and addiction.

Goal Setting

Thu, 09 Jan 2025 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed an effective goal setting strategy, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's 'why' and setting specific, measurable goals. He emphasized that goal setting doesn't have to be limited to once a year and can be done quarterly or whenever a new goal is recognized. Joseph also highlighted the role of visualization, dopamine release, and positive thinking in achieving goals, and encouraged participants to reach out for further exploration.

Navigating Holiday Conversations

Wed, 25 Dec 2024 05:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the challenges of celebrating the holidays in families with complicated dynamics, particularly when someone is in active addiction, and emphasized the importance of focusing on small wins and maintaining positive conversations during these gatherings. He also shared strategies for navigating potentially challenging family gatherings, creating positive and memorable experiences, and managing tensions while maintaining positive conversations. Lastly, he stressed the importance of creating a safe environment for open conversation, using conversation starters, and following up with a text after the event to express gratitude and increase the likelihood of future gatherings.

Spiritually Committed To Recovery Or Being Preoccupied By Recovery

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 05:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the idea of being spiritually committed to recovery versus being preoccupied by recovery. He emphasized the importance of finding a rhythm and not just following black and white rules, as there are many shades of gray in life and recovery. Joseph suggested that spiritual fitness can be maintained through introspection, interpersonal relationships, and involvement in a supportive community. He emphasized the need for an awareness between being active and taking time to spiritually feed oneself. Joseph encouraged individuals in recovery to be asked about their experiences and the benefits they derive from their involvement, as this can lead to a deeper understanding of their motivations and values. He encouraged everyone to spend intentional time with the people and community they want to be connected with. He highlighted the benefits of such practices, including increased energy, decreased stress levels, and a desire to repeat the experience.

Cultivating Gratitude

Thu, 28 Nov 2024 05:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of cultivating gratitude in overcoming addiction and improving overall well-being. He shared his personal experience of transitioning from a life of shame and guilt to one of gratitude. Joseph emphasized the benefits of daily gratitude lists, which he found helped him appreciate the small things in life and connect with his emotions on a deeper level. He discussed strategies for cultivating gratitude within families and friend groups. He emphasized the importance of mindful moments and focusing on the positive aspects of life, even in challenging situations. Joseph concluded by highlighting the significance of gratitude in family life and its role in overcoming addiction, encouraging everyone to remember that sobriety is a family affair.

A Peek Into Sponsorship

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Joseph emphasized the importance of sponsorship in the 12-step recovery program. He noted key points that are valuable when choosing a sponsor. Joseph shared personal experiences, highlighting how sponsorship transformed his life, providing guidance, and fostering personal growth. He stressed the value of trust, open communication, and the role of guidance in recovery. Joseph also noted that sponsorship helped him set goals, improve relationships, and maintain sobriety by offering ongoing support and accountability, ultimately benefiting both him and his community.

Twelve-Step Program

Thu, 31 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the effectiveness of the 12-step program for long-term sobriety, emphasizing its holistic approach to addressing the mind, body, and spirit. He highlighted the importance of setting boundaries with loved ones who attend meetings however are not participating in the program. Joseph also drew parallels between the 12-step program and other self-improvement efforts, such as weight loss and exercise, emphasizing the need for continuous nurturing and engagement to maintain progress. Lastly, Joseph encouraged listeners to engage with a twelve-step program or reach out to him for guidance on personal change and growth.

Good Orderly Direction

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the 12-step recovery program and its emphasis on the concept of a higher power. He addresses objections to the program and highlights the importance of community and personal relationships with a higher power. Joseph shared personal stories of recovery and how it was influenced by a community and seeking guidance from a higher power.

Imitation Is The Sincerest Form Of Flattery

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 04:22:00 -0400

Joseph discussed some ofthe basic themes of the 12-step program of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) in recovery, emphasizing the importance of following the program thoroughly and its widespread adoption by other support groups. He also highlighted the need to address addiction as a whole, including social circles, mind, body, and spirit, and stressed the importance of taking ownership of one's strengths and weaknesses. Lastly, he addressed the role of shame and guilt in addiction recovery, emphasizing that addiction is not a reflection of one's worth and the importance of seeking help and making small changes to improve one's life.

The One Thing That Matters

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of peace of mind, emphasizing that it is the most valuable thing one can possess. He shared an essay titled "The One ThingThat Matters" by Emmett Fox, which highlights the significance of peace of mind in overcoming life's challenges. Joseph also shared his approach to helping his children when they are upset, which involves breathing calmly and actively listening to their concerns. He highlighted the value of this approach in bringing peace to a situation and facilitating communication and problem-solving.

Recovery and Personality Characteristics

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph highlighted the importance of a lifelong recovery process for individuals dealing with addiction. He stressed that recovery is not just about abstaining from substances but also about addressing the underlying personality traits that lead to addiction. Joseph suggested the practice of writing a daily gratitude list as a powerful tool for maintaining a positive mindset and perspective. He shared his own experience of how this simple practice helped change his life. He also discussed the concept of addiction as a solution to life's problems and the risks associated with slipping back into old behaviors and mindsets once the addiction is removed or put into remission.

After Treatment and Forgiveness

Thu, 22 Aug 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of celebrating milestones in addiction recovery, maintaining a routine, and seeking support through groups like 12-step programs. He emphasized the importance of forgiveness in the recovery process, not only for the sake of the person being forgiven but for one's own well-being. Joseph also highlighted the significance of forgiveness and personal growth in the recovery process.

Celebrating Successes In Recovery

Thu, 08 Aug 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph highlighted the significance of celebrating successes, no matter how small, and the role of community and support in the recovery process. He emphasized the importance of perseverance, personal growth, and family involvement in effective long-term recovery from addiction. Lastly, he encouraged everyone to create individual lists of successes and corresponding celebrations because sobriety is a family affair.

Rebuilding Trust In Recovery

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin emphasized the need for rebuilding trust between individuals in recovery and their loved ones and encouraged consistent actions to strengthen this trust. He highlighted the importance of random drug testing and community support in maintaining accountability and building trust during the recovery process. He also suggested that loved ones should agree on consistent check-ins and boundaries to deter substance abuse.

Participating in Treatment Goals and Building Relationships

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin emphasized the importance of family sessions, written communication, and setting achievable goals in supporting individuals with addiction. He also highlighted the value of community support networks and addressing the spiritual aspect of mental and physical health issues. Lastly, he encouraged the identification and engagement with a spiritual mentor or sponsor as a means of guidance and support in the journey towards recovery.

Goal Setting In Addiction Treatment

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin discussed the importance of goal-setting and building a supportive community in the treatment process or addiction, emphasizing the need for realistic, attainable goals and the involvement of loved ones. He underscored the significance of balance, enjoyment, and reflection in the process of recovery. Joseph highlighted that realistic, attainable goals, set in collaboration with a counselor, are key to successful achievement and rapid change. He noted that setting too many goals or attempting to do too much too fast could lead to feeling overwhelmed and ultimately failing. Joseph stressed the importance of building goals from the previous level of treatment and encouraged support and encouragement for loved ones in setting their goals.

Family Sessions Help With Agreements

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the significance of family support in addiction treatment, emphasizing the need for open communication, active involvement, and respect for confidentiality laws. He also highlighted the importance of support groups and proactive boundary setting in enhancing the chances of success in achieving sobriety. Lastly, he shared his experiences in helping families create agreements and commitments to support their loved ones' recovery, stressing the importance of accountability and consequences.

Taking Care of Yourself

Thu, 30 May 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed that in a holistic recovery process, prioritizing personal well-being is crucial to supporting a loved one. Engaging in support groups, such as 12-step-based groups, spiritual support groups, and community groups, provides shared experiences and insights into the recovery process. Building a support system, including community support groups, will help maintain a healthy state of mind, body, and spirit. Joseph also challenged listeners to an exercise to stay in good mental, physical, and spiritual health. By prioritizing their own well-being, caregivers can better support their loved ones in recovery.

About our Host:

Joseph B. Devlin, MA, CAADC, is a respected behavioral health expert with more than 20 years of experience in the specialty of Drug and Alcohol Recovery and Treatment. Joseph’s professional experience includes clinical director, interventionist, professor, facility director, addiction counselor, counseling supervisor, case manager, care manager, treatment facilities auditor, steward of county and state funding for treatment facilities, utilization reviewer and family group decision making facilitator.

As an expert in the field of drug and alcohol addiction, not only has Joseph personally walked the path of sobriety, he has used his journey to freedom and his education to help others. Joseph is a Certified Advanced Alcohol and Drug Counselor in the State of Pennsylvania, has received a Masters degree in Restorative Practices and Youth Counseling from International Institute for Restorative Practices, as well as a BA in Psychology from University of North Carolina. Since then, he has become a licensed trainer in Restorative Practices. He also has obtained extensive training and experience in trauma-informed care, combined with a vast knowledge in community building with an expertise in substance use disorders, including co-occurring mental health issues.

Author of A Step Out of Darkness, Joseph also speaks to groups, while he coaches individuals and/or families who are interested in the road to recovery. Often the family is left in the dark in the middle of this epidemic. Where does the family member turn to? Joseph offers experience and knowledge to help you navigate through this chaotic struggle you are walking through.

Learn more about Joseph at https://josephbdevlin.com/

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Peace in the Storm, Accountability, Amends and Family Growth

Thu, 16 May 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Jen shared her journey supporting a loved one through addiction, emphasizing the importance of community support and setting boundaries. She reflected on her past controlling behavior, expressing gratitude to her children for guiding her towards personal growth and strengthening her family. Jen and Joseph discussed the importance of accountability and making amends, highlighting the positive impact on family dynamics. Last, Jen discussed seeking family counseling with her husband highlighting it as a crucial part of their journey towards building a strong and lasting marriage.

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Self-Advocacy and Assessment Process

Thu, 09 May 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discussed the importance of self-advocacy, particularly when dealing with healthcare providers and insurance companies. He emphasized the need to be informed and persistent in understanding what treatments are covered. He also discussed the current crisis of addiction and the importance of advocating for loved ones seeking treatment. Joseph then outlined the intake process for addiction treatment, emphasizing the need to schedule the first appointment in the morning and recommended having a close family member present. He also discussed the importance of the assessment process, emphasizing its efficiency and the role of interventionists in providing crucial information. Joseph emphasized the importance of creating a safe environment for individuals in recovery and their loved ones. He highlighted the significance of this safe space, devoid of temptations and chaos, as a crucial step in the recovery journey.

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Step-Down Approach to Addiction Treatment

Thu, 02 May 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin discussed chapter four treatment options for addiction from his book a Step Out of Darkness. He emphasized that inpatient treatment is not a quick fix but a preparation for life after intensive counseling. He proposed a step-down approach to treatment, starting with detox, followed by inpatient rehab, partial hospitalization program, intensive outpatient program, and general outpatient. However, he acknowledged the financial and time constraints as major concerns, he clarified that although there's no long-term commitment required, individuals may be 'mortgaging their future'.

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A Family's Struggle with Substance Abuse

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Paul and Maureen shared their experiences dealing with their son's addiction issues. They highlighted the importance of recognizing warning signs such as poor sleep patterns, lack of loyal friends, and erratic behavior. They also shared how their family dynamics changed due to their struggle with their son's addiction, including the challenges of balancing tough love with support. They recounted instances where their son’s actions lead to a loss of trust and changes in household rules. They also discussed their ongoing concerns for their son, the positive steps he is making, and the benefits of setting boundaries.

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Intervention and Connection in Healing Relationships

Thu, 18 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph Devlin discussed the importance of connections in our lives, drawing from his book "A Step Out of Darkness." In the episode, he emphasized the role of intervention in rebuilding relationships, especially those affected by addiction. Joseph highlighted the need for a professional interventionist to handle frustration and anger, allowing loved ones to approach the conversation from a place of healing and love. He emphasized that an intervention is not an act of turning one's back on a loved one, but rather a demonstration of persistence and love. Joseph underscored the importance of choosing words that land well with the individual being intervened upon, expressing appreciation for their positive attributes as this can be a powerful motivator for the addict to seek treatment.

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Addressing the Impact of Addiction on Mind, Body and Spirit

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discusses the biological and behavioral aspects of addiction. He describes the complex nature of addiction, including its activation of certain genes, the creation of new neural pathways, the role of community and family, and the evolution of treatment and recovery programs. He emphasizes that addiction is a powerful force that requires understanding and effective engagement. Joseph encourages participants to seek out resources and programs that address all aspects of well-being and stressed the importance of ongoing support from family and community.

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The Addiction Impact on Society

Thu, 04 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Joseph discusses the severity of addiction, highlighting that it affects all races, nationalities, and socio-economic groups. He emphasizes that addiction destroys relationships, financial stability, and personal wellbeing, and is a major issue in society. Joseph shares statistics about the prevalence of addiction and its economic impact and stresses the need to tackle the issue proactively, especially for those close to us who are struggling. He also highlights the crucial role of family values and time spent together in promoting sobriety and healing.

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Addiction Epidemic: Shedding Light, Supporting Individuals

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400

In his premiere episode, Joseph discusses the importance of openly addressing the addiction epidemic and supporting individuals without compromising accountability. He emphasizes that addiction often breeds shame and isolation, but these issues can be confronted through community conversations. He also discussed his journey in the treatment industry and his goal to guide others through addiction recovery. Joseph reiterates the goal of shedding light on the epidemic and stressed the importance of asking for and accepting help, as well as the need for a shift in mindset towards the perceived complexity of the recovery process.

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Welcome to Family Sobriety Now!

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Learn what the Family Sobriety Now podcast is about and about it's host, Joseph Devlin.