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Hosted by husband-and-wife duo Joia and Torrence, this isn't your typical relationship podcast. We're bringing honest, unfiltered discussions about love, marriage, dating, family, money, entrepreneurship, pop culture, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating.

Every week, we sit down with a signature cocktail in hand and tackle the conversations everyone is having behind closed doors but few are willing to have out loud. From modern dating struggles and marriage realities to viral relationship debates, Black culture, trending topics, and the challenges of building a life together, no topic is off-limits.

Expect bold opinions, healthy disagreements, plenty of laughs, and a fresh perspective from both the male and female point of view.

Whether you're single, dating, married, divorced, situationship-ing, or simply trying to make sense of today's relationship landscape, you'll find yourself somewhere in these conversations.

Each episode features:
🥂 The Signature Sip – A custom cocktail inspired by the week's topic
🎙️ Straight, No Chaser – Unfiltered discussion on the main topic
🍸 Sip or Tell – A game where honesty is tested and secrets may spill
📱 Y'all Said What? – Listener questions, hot takes, and social media drama
⚖️ The Verdict – Final thoughts and takeaways from both sides

At the end of the day, we're not relationship experts—we're just a real married couple sharing our experiences, perspectives, wins, mistakes, and lessons learned along the way.

So grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join the conversation.

Welcome to His & Hers: Unfiltered—where the conversations are honest, the opinions are bold, and the drinks are always flowing. 

New episodes weekly. Subscribe and join the family]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/daca6b87-03b1-4195-8536-be4740b040e0/Business-cards-his-and-hers-1.jpg</url><title>His &amp; Hers: Unfiltered</title><link><![CDATA[https://youtube.com/@hisnhersunfiltered?si=ignslNZ1x8-OjFv5]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/daca6b87-03b1-4195-8536-be4740b040e0/Business-cards-his-and-hers-1.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Joia Evans</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Joia Evans</itunes:author><description>His &amp; Hers: Unfiltered is where real relationships meet real conversations.
Hosted by husband-and-wife duo Joia and Torrence, this isn&apos;t your typical relationship podcast. We&apos;re bringing honest, unfiltered discussions about love, marriage, dating, family, money, entrepreneurship, pop culture, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating.

Every week, we sit down with a signature cocktail in hand and tackle the conversations everyone is having behind closed doors but few are willing to have out loud. From modern dating struggles and marriage realities to viral relationship debates, Black culture, trending topics, and the challenges of building a life together, no topic is off-limits.

Expect bold opinions, healthy disagreements, plenty of laughs, and a fresh perspective from both the male and female point of view.

Whether you&apos;re single, dating, married, divorced, situationship-ing, or simply trying to make sense of today&apos;s relationship landscape, you&apos;ll find yourself somewhere in these conversations.

Each episode features:
🥂 The Signature Sip – A custom cocktail inspired by the week&apos;s topic
🎙️ Straight, No Chaser – Unfiltered discussion on the main topic
🍸 Sip or Tell – A game where honesty is tested and secrets may spill
📱 Y&apos;all Said What? – Listener questions, hot takes, and social media drama
⚖️ The Verdict – Final thoughts and takeaways from both sides

At the end of the day, we&apos;re not relationship experts—we&apos;re just a real married couple sharing our experiences, perspectives, wins, mistakes, and lessons learned along the way.

So grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join the conversation.

Welcome to His &amp; Hers: Unfiltered—where the conversations are honest, the opinions are bold, and the drinks are always flowing. 

New episodes weekly. 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