<![CDATA[Healing Jephthah's Daughters]]>Mon, 16 Jan 2023 14:48:05 +0000Captivate.fmTheoLab Mediahttps://artwork.captivate.fm/c003ec6d-616d-47a3-bc25-a531549527ee/zgzn4u79U_C6FLHp10TDzqMZ.pngHealing Jephthah's DaughtersTheoLab MediaTheoLab MediaJephthah is a biblical character who made a short-sighted promise that resulted in the murder of his daughter. Jephthah’s daughter paid the price for his seeming lack of wisdom and maturity. Today, so many daughters, so many fathers, replay this story like a syndicated episode of a 1990s sitcom. In Healing Jephthah’s Daughters, The Reverend Lisa M. Weaver, Ph.D., deploys family systems theory, biblical criticism, and storytelling to explore the childhood traumas women and girls experience at the hands of their fathers - and, at times, their guardians more broadly. Utilizing Judges 11 as a starting point, Lisa guides listeners on a journey from pain toward living a free, healed, and whole life.https://hjd.captivate.fmnoepisodicHealing Is Not A Linear Process. The Work Continues.Healing Is Not A Linear Process. The Work Continues.In this episode, Lisa concludes the first season of Healing Jephthah's Daughters with a brief reflection on the healing journey so far accented by a few of our favorite moments from the first ten episodes. Lisa also offers a few invitations to help you continue your healing journey in the days and weeks to come.

Season 2 will premiere in Fall 2021 on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and most other podcast platforms. Until then, our prayer for you is freedom, healing, and wholeness.

]]>In this episode, Lisa concludes the first season of Healing Jephthah's Daughters with a brief reflection on the healing journey so far accented by a few of our favorite moments from the first ten episodes. Lisa also offers a few invitations to help you continue your healing journey in the days and weeks to come.

Season 2 will premiere in Fall 2021 on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and most other podcast platforms. Until then, our prayer for you is freedom, healing, and wholeness.

]]>38a12bf8-82e9-4f94-b62a-c169c0393c01Fri, 16 Jul 2021 06:45:00 -050016:49nofull110Wrapping up season one, looking toward season two.TheoLab MediaGrieving Is Not A Gendered Experience | On Grief & Being A ParentGrieving Is Not A Gendered Experience | On Grief & Being A ParentOVERVIEW

This episode engages the following questions:

  • What is grief?
  • Is grieving a gendered experience?
  • What is the difference between instrumental and intuitive grief?
  • What is the relationship between grief and blame?
  • What does Jephthah teach us about grief?

GUESTS

The Reverend Darryl Owens is the Chaplain and Grief Counselor for Women at the University of North Carolina Hospitals. Darryl shares his work with parents and patients who experience grief and loss during their hospital stay. He also discusses the necessity of learning that grief is not a gendered process.

The Reverend Leander Hardaway is an attorney and mitigation expert for the National Death Penalty Project who shares his experience of being a father, encountering the story of Jephthah's Daughter, and working with those who grieve the loss of loved ones.

HEALING RESOURCES


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This episode engages the following questions:

  • What is grief?
  • Is grieving a gendered experience?
  • What is the difference between instrumental and intuitive grief?
  • What is the relationship between grief and blame?
  • What does Jephthah teach us about grief?

GUESTS

The Reverend Darryl Owens is the Chaplain and Grief Counselor for Women at the University of North Carolina Hospitals. Darryl shares his work with parents and patients who experience grief and loss during their hospital stay. He also discusses the necessity of learning that grief is not a gendered process.

The Reverend Leander Hardaway is an attorney and mitigation expert for the National Death Penalty Project who shares his experience of being a father, encountering the story of Jephthah's Daughter, and working with those who grieve the loss of loved ones.

HEALING RESOURCES


]]>fdb5f287-211e-422c-b4b8-dc3dce6f4bc8Thu, 01 Jul 2021 06:45:00 -050049:31nofull19This week, Lisa welcomes Rev. Darryl Owens and Rev. Leander Hardaway for conversations about grief, gender, parenting, and loss.TheoLab MediaNo More Cheeks to Turn | An HJD and THSP MashupNo More Cheeks to Turn | An HJD and THSP MashupThis week, Lisa welcomes Brandon T. Maxwell and Katie Ricks from TheoLab Media's flagship podcast, The Holy Shit Pod, for a conversation about the Tina Turner and Aretha Franklin documentaries, Joe Biden's long-term commitment to ending violence against women, and how churches can help end cycles of violence

Subscribe to The Holy Shit Pod: https://holyshit.captivate.fm/listen

ARTICLES & RESOURCES


DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESOURCES


]]>This week, Lisa welcomes Brandon T. Maxwell and Katie Ricks from TheoLab Media's flagship podcast, The Holy Shit Pod, for a conversation about the Tina Turner and Aretha Franklin documentaries, Joe Biden's long-term commitment to ending violence against women, and how churches can help end cycles of violence

Subscribe to The Holy Shit Pod: https://holyshit.captivate.fm/listen

ARTICLES & RESOURCES


DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESOURCES


]]>010a13b4-783f-4f11-9448-2bcd09fe5788Fri, 18 Jun 2021 06:45:00 -050054:36yesbonusLisa is joined by Brandon T. Maxwell and Katie Ricks from The Holy Shit Pod for a conversation about ending violence against women.TheoLab MediaWhat Happened to Him? | Complicating Fatherhood, Understanding JephthahWhat Happened to Him? | Complicating Fatherhood, Understanding JephthahThis week, Lisa invites listeners to consider the value of knowing our parents' stories and how adulthood (read, parenthood) can give wounded children clarity and perspective to understand the challenging components of their parents' actions and expectations. The discussion includes four conversation partners: Rev. Adriene Thorne, Rev. Dionne Boissiere, Rev. Dr. P. Kimberleigh Jordan, and Rev. Leander W. Hardaway.

]]>This week, Lisa invites listeners to consider the value of knowing our parents' stories and how adulthood (read, parenthood) can give wounded children clarity and perspective to understand the challenging components of their parents' actions and expectations. The discussion includes four conversation partners: Rev. Adriene Thorne, Rev. Dionne Boissiere, Rev. Dr. P. Kimberleigh Jordan, and Rev. Leander W. Hardaway.

]]>860c365e-c02b-4998-ba89-6f3aa88cdf7dThu, 10 Jun 2021 06:45:00 -050030:35nofull18TheoLab MediaTelling Our Stories | Four Daughters Talk About Their DadsTelling Our Stories | Four Daughters Talk About Their DadsThis week, Lisa is joined by Rev. Dionne Boissiere, Rev. Adriene Thorne, and Rev. Dr. P. Kimberleigh Jordan for a conversation about childhood memories, their fathers’ stories, the impact of parenting, the imprint of parenting, and how these things have shaped them.  

]]>This week, Lisa is joined by Rev. Dionne Boissiere, Rev. Adriene Thorne, and Rev. Dr. P. Kimberleigh Jordan for a conversation about childhood memories, their fathers’ stories, the impact of parenting, the imprint of parenting, and how these things have shaped them.  

]]>f05bbcb1-4bb2-431e-afa5-6a9ff15ba947Thu, 03 Jun 2021 06:45:00 -050034:06nofull17TheoLab MediaWhat We Learn, How We Live: Learning to Reposition and ReorientWhat We Learn, How We Live: Learning to Reposition and ReorientThis week, Lisa continues last week’s conversation with the Reverends Dionne Boissiere and Adriene Thorne. Part two of the dialogue explores the complicated relationship between expectations and exercising one's agency. 

Check out the healing resources referenced in this episode:



]]>This week, Lisa continues last week’s conversation with the Reverends Dionne Boissiere and Adriene Thorne. Part two of the dialogue explores the complicated relationship between expectations and exercising one's agency. 

Check out the healing resources referenced in this episode:



]]>5e9bd7ca-6c52-4b46-af0c-65c95a301eeaThu, 27 May 2021 06:45:00 -050034:54nofull16Part two of the conversation on expectations and expandability. Lisa explores the complicated relationship between expectations and exercising one's agency.TheoLab MediaExpectations & the Expendability of Women (Girl, Don't Wake Up Dead!)Expectations & the Expendability of Women (Girl, Don't Wake Up Dead!)It the friend episode! This week, Lisa Weaver is joined by two of her closest friends - Rev. Adriene Thorne and Rev. Dionne Patrice Boissière - for a conversation about the expectations that are placed on women and how they can be death-dealing.

]]>It the friend episode! This week, Lisa Weaver is joined by two of her closest friends - Rev. Adriene Thorne and Rev. Dionne Patrice Boissière - for a conversation about the expectations that are placed on women and how they can be death-dealing.

]]>62cef2d5-00da-4243-adc6-a431e52c99f6Thu, 20 May 2021 06:45:00 -050030:00nofull15TheoLab MediaYou Have To Do What? Says Who? | On Obedience, Customs, & ExpectationsYou Have To Do What? Says Who? | On Obedience, Customs, & ExpectationsThis week, Lisa explores the role of beliefs and customs in shaping our behavior.

]]>This week, Lisa explores the role of beliefs and customs in shaping our behavior.

]]>fcd1f9f5-c887-4bd3-b51f-258651250f6eWed, 05 May 2021 00:00:00 -050015:31nofull14TheoLab MediaLife in Mizpah | Unsafe in the Safety ZoneLife in Mizpah | Unsafe in the Safety ZoneThis week, Lisa Weaver is joined by Professor Yolanda Norton, Hebrew Bible scholar, and creator of the Beyoncé Mass, a womanist worship experience. Lisa and Yolanda explain why Mizpah, a fortified military city in the Ancient Near East, should have been a safe space for Jephthah's Daughter. They also delve into the social customs of the day and why some may choose not to fool with Jephthah and his promise to God.

]]>This week, Lisa Weaver is joined by Professor Yolanda Norton, Hebrew Bible scholar, and creator of the Beyoncé Mass, a womanist worship experience. Lisa and Yolanda explain why Mizpah, a fortified military city in the Ancient Near East, should have been a safe space for Jephthah's Daughter. They also delve into the social customs of the day and why some may choose not to fool with Jephthah and his promise to God.

]]>8930247a-8972-467d-bf3c-2b7190144998Wed, 28 Apr 2021 06:45:00 -050033:20nofull13TheoLab MediaReading Judges 11 | What Katie Cannon Taught Me About Telling Women's StoriesReading Judges 11 | What Katie Cannon Taught Me About Telling Women's StoriesThis week's episode features a comprehensive reading of Judges 11 by a few HJD listeners, a creative retelling of the the story of Jephthah's daughter, a lesson from Rev. Dr. Katie Geneva Cannon (1950-2018), and a brief moment of gratitude for George Floyd and Darnella Frazier.

Books by Rev. Dr. Katie Geneva Cannon:


]]>This week's episode features a comprehensive reading of Judges 11 by a few HJD listeners, a creative retelling of the the story of Jephthah's daughter, a lesson from Rev. Dr. Katie Geneva Cannon (1950-2018), and a brief moment of gratitude for George Floyd and Darnella Frazier.

Books by Rev. Dr. Katie Geneva Cannon:


]]>7602421c-5d89-45cc-a47a-f5657dc72834Wed, 21 Apr 2021 06:45:00 -050036:03nofull12TheoLab MediaWhy This Story? | Stumbling Upon Jephthah's DaughterWhy This Story? | Stumbling Upon Jephthah's DaughterIn today's episode, Lisa introduces the HJD podcast by sharing a narrative glimpse into her own story and reading a portion of Judges 11 (the story of Jephthah's daughter). The episode also includes a conversation with Katie Ricks from the THSP pod by TheoLab Media that offers helpful context on the origins of the HJD podcast.

]]>In today's episode, Lisa introduces the HJD podcast by sharing a narrative glimpse into her own story and reading a portion of Judges 11 (the story of Jephthah's daughter). The episode also includes a conversation with Katie Ricks from the THSP pod by TheoLab Media that offers helpful context on the origins of the HJD podcast.

]]>b77cc64a-90a8-4ac8-8ef5-96d62e15cc68Wed, 14 Apr 2021 15:00:00 -050028:09nofull11TheoLab Media