In part, Joe is stepping away to make more room for Silke to take center stage. Look for more Randolph Roots stories in the near future and some refreshed energy and direction from her. However, Silke is right now in Germany with her mother and her dying father. It is a little uncertain when she will return to this podcast, but return she shall.

Joe is shifting his focus back to writing about education, children, and wilderness. His blog Off Grid Kids led to the creation of How to Tell Stories to Children over three years ago, and he's returning to that subject matter with a new blog titled Rare Earth. He is also working on a second book - about trees, neural development, and education. You can find his work at www.josephsarosy.com.

Thanks for all your support!

When Randolph Roots shows up to give Willie some rest and attention, Eddie Elf takes charge. He helps all the helpful little wichtels get organized, for they have much work to do.

Wichtels are helpful little creatures that arrive at our hearths each year to help parents and grandparents with the extra tasks of the holiday season. Chopping kindling, washing dishes, sweeping floors - they do it all silently while the people rest.

You can be a wichtel too! But shh...every kind deed they do is a well kept secret.

This is Season 2 - After the story, Silke & Joe discuss the story's context and meaning. The story comes first, so that listeners with little children can access them easily.

Our goal is to inspire you. We love telling stories, but we love it even more when you feel empowered to tell your own. Whether you find inspiration in the stories, or something of value in the discussion - let that be your guide to opening your own voice.

World class storytellers visit the tree in dazzling seasonal festivals - till one day little Annabel Rattigan reminds everyone that sharing stories is not merely about spinning wild and elegant yarns, but sharing the sweet, intimate, and sometimes small connections between mother and child.

Today, some say the tree never existed. But we know that’s not true for one simple reason - children still find them. Chances are there is a storytelling tree in your backyard this very moment. It may even be peaking in your window, waiting for just the right child to sit underneath its branches.

If you have ever watched a child act out a story, you have observed something exceptional about the impact of stories on human behavior. Not only do we understand them, we move our bodies and limbs in tandem with the stories in our minds – even if, as is often the case, we know them not to be true. No other animal, so far as we know, possesses this remarkable trait.

The human relationship between story and behavior sheds new light on the question of whether a particular story is true or false. Better to ask - is it effective? If it motivates behavior, and that behavior impacts the individual and/or others, then the story is of consequence.

But stories aren't just play things. They are the root of our religions, nations, and the precious possessions of our cultures. We may sacrifice much in life, but we will often live and die for the right story. To understand why, we need to take a deeper look into how stories take up residence in our brains, and what happens when they depart. This is your brain on stories.

On his way home, Randolph comes across a house where the mother and father are arguing. Their child is saddened by their arguments, and Randolph talks with her. He gives her the seed babies, which bring a magical blessing into the home.

This is Season 2 - After the story, Silke & Joe discuss the story's context and meaning. The story comes first, so that listeners with little children can access them easily.

Our goal is to inspire you. We love telling stories, but we love it even more when you feel empowered to tell your own. Whether you find inspiration in the stories, or something of value in the discussion - let that be your guide to opening your own voice.

In return for a few chickens with which to feed his family, a stone mason helps Amalgamesh polish and craft his crystal ball. Finally, after months of work Amalgamesh discovers a fatal flaw - something he could not see until the crystal was nearly complete.

Feeling dejected, Amalgamesh resorts to anger and frustration - till a young child helps him recognize that his place in the community is what makes him a great sorceror, not his greatness above others.

This is Season 2 - After the story, Silke & Joe discuss the story's context and meaning. The story comes first, so that listeners with little children can access them easily.

Our goal is to inspire you. We love telling stories, but we love it even more when you feel empowered to tell your own. Whether you find inspiration in the stories, or something of value in the discussion - let that be your guide to opening your own voice.

A story comes first, so that listeners with little children can access them easily. After the story, adults will have a chance to listen to part 2 – where Silke & Joe give a little background and perspective on the story.

Our goal is to inspire you. We love telling stories, but we love it even more when you feel empowered to tell your own. You may find inspiration in the stories. You may find something of value in the discussion. Whatever strikes you, let that be your guide to opening your own voice, like a beautiful flower blossoming after a long drink in the summer sun.

In this episode, Randolph Roots encounters a circle of fairies singing around an old and dying apple tree. In acknowledging the loss, there is also a celebration of new life - a tiny seedling sprouting nearby.

As we move into Autumn, we invite you to explore stories like this with your children. Maybe take a tour of your garden, yard, or neighborhood, then tell a story about a tree or plant that made an impression on you. Tying stories like this into real life experiences can be incredibly meaningful for both parent and child.

P.S - We will still occasionally publish episodes on timely storytelling topics and ideas.

The format is simple - each person has a chance to tell a story, real or imaginary, and also to listen. The goal is short, easy stories - so no one feels pressured to “do it right.” By drawing inspiration from the previous story, you eventually get a “snowball effect” that turns into laughter, creativity, and lifelong memories.

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This can be as simple as helping our little ones process a tumble by telling (and allowing them to retell) how it happened. But it can also be as complicated as a therapeutic story that helps a child process a traumatic event with big emotions.

The goal of this episode is to help you define trauma, differentiate between small and large traumatic events, and give you some guidance on the kinds of stories that may work in different contexts. Further resources are provided at the end.

Disclaimer - If you or your child is experiencing significant psychological or emotional stress, please seek the help of a doctor, therapist, or another qualified professional.

In this episode, we define 3 types of healing stories:

1. Reconstruction and Repetition of Real Events
2. Soothing/Calming Stories
3. Therapeutic Stories

Further Resources on Therapeutic Storytelling

Therapeutic Storytelling by Susan Perrow

Using Therapeutic Storytelling With Children by John Sommers-Flanagan, PHD

Guidelines for Therapeutic Story Writing by Susan Laing

Stories to Light the Night by Susan Perrow

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The number one piece of feedback we get from adults is that it’s hard to be creative. Some say they feel as if they have no imagination at all.

We think you do, and there are several strategies you can use to build a colorful mindscape, including:

• Personification
• Visualization
• Relaxation (don’t overlook this)
• Regular practice
• Learning from children

No matter where you’re at today, it’s important not to criticize yourself. The modern world is a highly complex place, and internal criticism is a goblin of creativity. Nothing will slow you down more than this. On the other hand, just a little bit of courage and peace in your own body will open doors in your mind that you may not even be able to see right now.

We promise they’re there. Imagination is a major part of what makes you a human. So, start by respecting yourself. Take a moment to acknowledge where you are right now. You’re that lovely person who is trying to be who she needs to be. That alone is an enormous gift you bring into the world.

Above all, don’t forget to practice. It’s amazing where a two minute story will lead sometimes. Even just one meaningful story moment with your kids will make it easier to do it again - because you’ll feel the connection and love in your bones. You’ll come running back for more.

In this episode, we celebrate the many ways dads show up in kids' lives, and how storytelling is often the doorway into their hearts and souls.

It's not always easy for men to express intimacy, but once you get Dad spinning a yarn there is something childlike, something playful, something deeply intuitive and connecting that can arise.

This heartfelt connection is always our focus at How to Tell Stories to Children. Forget the blockbusters. The simple, often ridiculous, or goofy stories are sometimes the best stories of all. They stay with us forever when they come from someone who truly loves.

If you're a father, we highly recommend taking the time to tell stories with your kids. They will be some of your greatest memories, and just like you, your kids will never forget.

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Tapping into this intuitive method is easy once we recognize:

1. The goal of storytelling is connection with your child, not a bestseller.
2. It’s easier when you’re at ease (not distracted).
3. You have to value your stories, even when they are simple.

Valuing your stories turns out to have major consequences. Not only does it lead to more engaged and creative stories, it models to your children that their voice matters.

This could be likened to a child’s simple drawing. If we look at it and compare it to Da Vinci, we have missed the point. Sharing our stories means loving ourselves, believing in ourselves, and acknowledging our voice. This is a crucial message to model to children.

They will love you for it.

In this episode, we explore the theme of self-worth and beauty through the lens of a common blade of grass, who begins to compare herself to the tulip. We will also teach you how to make a simple grass doll (on our website).

A human figure - whether of sticks, plastic, or yarn - is an essential ingredient of play. As a parent, making one for your child out of everyday objects from the earth can be very rewarding. And it only takes five minutes.

The story takes your character even further. You and your child witness the grass becoming a person, and the person becoming a story. Soon we’re building homes out of stones, gardens out of leaves, and super-highways for our imaginations.

We call this the Storytelling Loop. It is a journey we take with our kids. We start with something real (like grass), then tell a creative story about it. When we finish, the grass takes on new meaning. Nothing has changed, but everything has changed. Play is often a final component, as a child will commonly repeat or act out the story with a favorite doll - in this case the one you just made!

In This Episode

• Explore the theme of self-worth and beauty
• Learn how to make a grass doll
• Watch the video to see an example
• Listen to the story of Simplicity, or tell your own
• Explore how storytelling changes your child’s relationship to the grass under her feet. Can you see other characters and stories ready to come alive in your backyard?

In this episode, we draw attention to the need for mothers of all kinds to share your stories and speak your truth. What is motherhood to you? What has it been like to bring life into this world? For men, this is an opportunity to listen.

Listening with patience and without an agenda is one of the greatest gifts we can give to another human being. Telling stories is not merely about telling stories. It requires a listener, and within the two a relationship is formed. What does it mean to truly listen this Mothers Day? What does it mean to truly speak?

Your story resonates out like ripples on a pond, touching the hearts of girls, boys, men and women - many of whom will be mothers some day, will tend for mothers, and live to tell their own stories.

There are 2 billion mothers on the earth. We invite you to truly listen to the ones in your life. For many of you, this may be yourself.

And thank you to all the wonderful mothers out there! Happy Mothers Day!

Stories help us tie our imaginations into the web of reality at our fingertips, in this case the dough. By listening to a story and helping in the kitchen, we bake a rich experience out of simple ingredients, a process we call the Storytelling Loop.

The Storytelling Loop is a journey we take with our kids. We start with something real (like dough), then “plant” a story in it. When we finish, our kids are left with something very real that sparks both memories and their imagination. Play is often a further component, as children commonly repeat or act out the story with a favorite doll or stuffy. Tasting the fresh baked bread makes this experience one of the sweetest.

In This Episode

• Learn how to bake bread as a storytelling experience
• Visit our website for ingredients and a video tutorial
• As the dough rises, listen to the recorded story of “Baker Lou & The Mouse King,” or tell your own
• Explore how storytelling can change your relationship to real things. Can you see each ingredient - water, honey, grain, and salt - as a character in your story?

On our website, we’ve also included a short video with a quick example of how we do it, something we call the Storytelling Loop.

The Storytelling Loop is a great way to awaken interest by “planting” a story in a common object or activity. For example, if we tell a story about a stone, a real stone, a child tends to be curious about that very stone after the story.

Likewise, if we tell a story about Batman or fairies, there is often a newfound interest in these characters. The interest our story has sparked often leads a child to continue exploring the subject on their own.

So this Earth Day we’re crafting stories to draw our attention to the earth under our feet. This can be as simple as a story about the feeling of grass on our toes, the sound of music in the trees, a curious animal, or maybe just an elf who likes the potted plant on your windowsill.

Bring all of your senses into your story - what does it feel like? What does it smell like? What do you see, taste, and hear? If we allow our own creativity to awaken our senses, children love to follow along! The rich sensory language can help them get in touch with so much beauty at their fingertips.

Transition times can be stressful for child and parent, yet we encounter them almost every day. In this episode, we share a few story strategies that can help parents and children stay connected during these delicate moments.

Bringing a story into transitions can give children something to look forward to, rather than merely experiencing the end of what was. Unlike other treats, which are often a substitute, stories give children what they really want - your love and attention.

With just a little practice you can easily establish a routine at pick-up time, clean-up, or morning preparations, turning previously stressful transitions into a time you and your child look forward to. Such a skill can be priceless for parents.

When we tell a story about something real we tie imagination and reality together, a process we call the Storytelling Loop. Play often becomes a third component, because our stories open up a child’s curiosity to explore and create.

By “planting” a story in something real (in this case grass), our kids awaken to a very rich experience, with plenty of room to explore both reality and imagination.

In This Episode

• Learn how to sprout and grow your own wheat grass
• Listen to a sample story that will connect your little ones to the grass you're growing at home
• Explore the background of how story, real life, and creative activities make for a rich sensory experience
• You have the opportunity to play the story we’ve recorded, or use it as an example to tell your own

You will find more details, including a video planting guide at - https://howtotellstoriestochildren.com/podcast-blog/how-to-grow-fresh-green-stories

In The Story

Mira lives in the city. She loves her mom and dad, but she misses her Grandmother’s farm. Then she remembers the little seed pouch Grandmother gave her. She gathers a pot, some soil, and puts all her love and attention into the little seed babies in her care.

In doing so, Mira brings the whole family together, and the story describes the same process you and your child will follow to plant your own seed babies at home.

In a second story, Randolph Roots, the gnome of the mountain, visits Mira’s Grandmother, and we get to see the seed babies from a whole new perspective.

After The Story

Plant your seed babies. On our website we have a short video with instructions for growing wheat grass, which is very simple. But you could grow beans, squash, or any plants you like. The goal isn’t so much to replicate our process, but to observe the relationship between story and the real world. Have fun with it. Explore. We share stories and examples with the intention of inspiring you to create your own.

Storytelling is something humans have been doing for thousands of years, because it works. It will work today if you're perfect, but it will also work if you're not. It will even work in spite of any self-doubt, bad attitudes, or feelings of exhaustion. Because it’s not about being good. It’s about connecting.

It’s easy to think that storytelling is for perfect parents, the fairy godmother types, the ones who have it all together. But that would mean there are perfect parents out there, and we know that’s not true. We’re imperfect, each of us, in lots of ways. And we also have incredible gifts.

Storytelling is a way to share those gifts, and it allows for a huge range of diverse expression. You can be funny. You can be serious. You can make mistakes. No matter how you do it, it will bring you and your children closer.

In This Episode

• We walk you through the steps of how story, real life, and creative activities all support one another - so that you can recreate the experience at home.
• You will have the opportunity to listen to the story we’ve recorded, or use it as an example to tell your own.
• We have also included a short video on how to blow-out and decorate eggs and more storytelling background at https://howtotellstoriestochildren.com/podcast

In The Story

King Winter is getting ready to depart. As Lady Spring arrives, the little flowers and blades of grass are so excited that they just can’t keep themselves from peeping out to see her!

Personalizing the seasons and plants can help young children build a relationship with them. The characters can even be represented with a favorite doll or a child's drawing.

As Lady Spring arrives, the chickens in the coop get excited too, then fluffy and proud as the flower fairies decorate each egg a different color. But King Winter isn’t gone just yet! Fortunately, Lady Spring sweeps him out by promising that he can return next year.

After The Story

Get out your Easter eggs and start decorating. Perhaps you can be Lady Spring, and your child is one of the flower fairies. Pay attention and see if the story makes the activity come alive with new richness for your child.

We also encourage you to listen to this story and see which aspects bring excitement and joy to your child. This allows you to pick up on those elements and integrate them into your own homemade stories.

The story can also continue by being drawn into your egg hunt. Perhaps the Easter Rabbit and Lady Spring were so delighted with your beautiful eggs that they wanted to make a fun game for your special little flower fairy.

Stories can be like little chicks that hatch from an egg. It’s pure magic when we see it happen. Perhaps you can hatch your own story with your child!

When we draw a child's imagination and creativity into the chore that needs attention, we give them a way to bring their play and excitement into the activity. In other words, stories open a door instead of closing one. Even better, they give us a creative framework to build a feeling of connection and mutual participation.

This can save parents a lot of unnecessary stress, time, and energy.

Silke Rose West has been present for families in her school who lost children, mothers, and other family members. She has been at the side of elders as they died. Through it all, she has helped siblings, parents, her kindergarten class, and the entire school community reckon with the pain and love that resides in death.

In this episode, she explains how storytelling helped her - and can help you - guide children and families through those difficult moments, and give them hope.

Using flexible examples and a simple method, Silke and Joe take you through the steps of creating this special moment for your own family.

In this episode, Joseph Sarosy draws upon the work of neuroscientists to explain how a well-placed story can ease and even transform fear. Not erase it. Not distract from it. But how a story helps us look fear right in the face, and change it.

Alternatively, simple stories are often a great way to help our children stay connected in heart and mind to grandma or grandpa - and in ways that can be very engaging and playful. In this episode, Silke and Joe discuss how to introduce family stories - both real and imaginative - that can help keep your distant loved ones in your child's life.

What scientists have pieced together over the last seventy years is that storytelling is a principle component of how we think, speak, and make meaning of our lives. But almost all of this research is focused on the relationship between the story and the listener. At How to Tell Stories to Children, we focus on the relationship between speaker and listener - meaning you and your child.

To fill in the gap in the science, we need to look elsewhere – at one of the principle theories of human development: attachment theory. The main principle of attachment theory is that a healthy attachment to one or more parental figures in a child’s early years helps a child form healthy relationships later in life. Since relationships are vital to social creatures like you and I, this leads to all sorts of desirable outcomes, like academic and career success, mental health, and positive self-esteem.

In this episode, Joseph Sarosy, co-author of How to Tell Stories to Children, explains:

1. The science of storytelling
2. A simple method to help get you started
3. The social and global impact of diverse storytelling

What causes a person to claim the role of storyteller in their life? Is it a natural gift? A learned skill? The answer may surprise you.