Reclaiming HER Resilience

Reclaiming HER: The Controlled Burn - Season 2 Finale

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Reclaiming HER: The Controlled Burn - Season 2 Finale

Episode Summary:

In this powerful season finale, host Robrenna shares a deeply personal journey of transformation using the metaphor of a controlled burn. Just as prairie land managers intentionally burn dead thatch to make way for new growth, Robrenna describes her own decision to step away from a professional environment that no longer nourished her, clearing space for something more authentic and life-giving.

Key Topics Covered:

• The metaphor of controlled burns in the Great Plains (Nebraska sand hills and Kansas Flint Hills)

• Recognizing when "dead fuel" has piled up in your professional or personal life

• The difference between a controlled burn (on your terms) versus a wildfire (crisis)

• Introducing RHR Media Co. - the publishing arm of Reclaiming Her Resilience

• The symbolism of the fiddlehead fern logo and what it represents

• The spiritual foundation of "Reclaiming Her Resilience" (Joel 2:25-26)

• Understanding resilience as getting back up, even if slowly

About the Host:

Robrenna Parker is a narrative focus, trauma care certified story coach, somatic attachment coach, and founder of Reclaiming Her Resilience, LLC and RHR Media Co.

Special Offering:

Free guided meditation: "The Unfurl" - created for women who have been holding themselves tightly for so long they've almost forgotten what it feels like to open. Complete form to Download the Unfurl Meditation

What's Next:

Season 3 is coming! Robrenna is taking a sabbatical and building something exciting to share when the podcast returns. Send topic or guest suggestions to: Hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Credits:

Executive Producer and Editor: Robrenna Parker

Published by: RHR Media Co. - Where voice is honored and the story unfolds

Logo Design: Mari Crisler Design

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Email: Hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Biblical Reference:

I will repay you for the years the locust has eaten... You will have plenty to eat until you are full and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you and never again will my people be shamed. Joel 2:25-26 (paraphrased)

The Unfurl Download the Unfurl Meditation

Communities embrace controlled burns to protect themselves

Glacier Creek Preserve (University of Nebraska Omaha)

Audubon Great Plains: Restoring Grasslands

The Botanical Society of America

When the Body Knows: Voice Without Adjacency

Thu, 26 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400

What does it mean to reclaim your voice when you no longer want to borrow safety from proximity to power? In this solo episode, host Robrenna Parker explores the concept of adjacency—how we align ourselves with power structures for protection and what happens when our bodies signal it's time to stand on our own terms.

In This Episode:

A dream that revealed how the body protects through survival and self-preservation
Adjacency as adaptation — not weakness
The difference between hypervigilance and lived intelligence
How fawning functions as a trauma response alongside fight, flight, and freeze
The hidden cost of borrowing safety through alignment with power
Moving from borrowed calm to self-generated sovereignty
Reclaiming voice as an act of internal authority.

REFLECTIVE JOURNAL PROMPTS

Where does my body lower itself? In what types of rooms do I shrink, soften, or disappear?
What specifically feels dangerous there—misunderstanding, erasure, or premature visibility?
Where have I borrowed safety through adjacency?
When have I aligned myself with power to feel protected? What did it cost me and what did it give me?
What would visibility on my own terms look like?

Resources:

My Grandmother's Hands Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies By Resmaa Menakem

The Master's Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master's House by Audre Lorde

The Pocket Guide to the Polyvagal Theory The Transformative Power of Feeling Safe By Stephen W Porges

Betrayal Trauma: Traumatic Amnesia as an Adaptive Response to Childhood Abuse by Dr. Jennifer Freyd

Blind to Betrayal Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled by Dr. Jennifer Freyd

Fawning By Dr. Ingrid Clayton

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Credits: Executive Producer & Editor: Robrenna Parker

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

RHR Media Co. is the publishing and media arm of Reclaiming HER Resilience, LLC, creating story-centered media that honors voice, restores agency, and invites women back into authorship of their own lives.

Reclaiming HER Self-Compassion: Cultivating Self-Kindness

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, our guest, Laura Jackson, a counselor, mindful self-compassion leader, teacher, and advocate, joins us for an in-depth conversation about cultivating kindness toward ourselves in the midst of life's challenges. Laura shares her expertise on the three core elements of mindful self-compassion—mindfulness, kindness, and common humanity—and explores how this practice can help us untangle harsh inner critics, survival-based patterns, and unrealistic expectations. Laura explains how reconnecting with ancestral care practices benefits us and others.

Loving-Kindness Practice

Laura invites listeners to create their own loving-kindness phrases. Examples include:

May I be held in compassion
May I be safe
May I find peace
May I be at ease

Resource:

Center for Mindfulness Self-compassion

Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey

Connect with Laura:

Website: www.paradigmjoy.com

Instagram: @paragdimjoy

LinkedIn: Laura I Jackson

Email: Laura@paradigmjoy.com

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Reclaiming HER Resilience is executive produced and edited by Robrenna Parker.

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Sensuality: Healing Intimacy and Self-Rediscovery

Thu, 12 Feb 2026 06:45:00 -0400

Guest: Leontyne 'Tyne' Evans, The Relationship Saver

In this episode, story coach Robrenna is joined by Leontyne 'Tyne' Evans, a licensed marriage and family therapist, sex therapist, and counselor. They discuss the challenges and importance of reclaiming sensuality and intimacy after toxic or abusive relationships. The conversation covers how emotional, psychological, sexual, spiritual, and relational harm can impact body autonomy, desire, and safety. We discuss how purity culture influences body image and sexual experiences, the difference between sensuality and sexuality, and the importance of slow, steady self-compassion in the healing process. They also address trauma bonding, differentiating between sensual desire and trauma reenactment, and rebuilding trust in one’s body. This candid discussion aims to provide listeners with insights on creating a safe, self-compassionate space to reconnect with their bodies.

Connect with Leontyne:

TikTok: @therelationshipshaver

Facebook: Tyne Evans

Website: Relationshipgoalsinc.com

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Reclaiming HER Resilience is executive produced and edited by Robrenna Parker.

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Healing: Breaking Generational Cycles with Priscilla Quezada

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400

Guest: Priscilla Quezada, Founder of Powerful Authentic Queen (PAC)

Content Warning: This episode discusses domestic violence, sexual abuse, and trauma. Listen at your own pace.

In this episode, Priscilla and Robrenna discuss:

Recognizing generational trauma patterns in families and relationships
Understanding that domestic violence includes emotional, financial, verbal, and sexual abuse—not just physical
Breaking cycles through self-awareness and healing work
The body's role in storing trauma
Resources and practices for healing

Takeaway: Love should not hurt. Healing takes time and consistency. Be compassionate with yourself; it does get better.

Support Resources:

My Grandmother's Hands Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem MSW Licsw

Break the Cycle, A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma by Dr. Mariel Buqué

What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perry

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

TheHotline.org 800.799.SAFE (7233) (Domestic Violence Hotline)

RAINN.org Call 800.656.HOPE (4673)

Love is Respect (Teen Dating Violence) 1.866.331.9474 Text LOVEIS to 22522

Connect with Priscilla:

PowerfulAuthenticQueen.com

Powerful Authentic Queen Facebook: Facebook

PowerfulAuthentic Queen Instagram:Instagram

PowerfulAuthentic Queen YouTube

PowerfulAuthentic Queen Spotify Playlist

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Facebook: Reclaiming HER Resilience

Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Reclaiming HER Resilience is executive produced and edited by Robrenna Parker.

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Faith: A Journey of Healing

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Guest: Carla Rousseau

In this episode of Reclaiming Her Resilience, Robrenna and Guest Carla Rousseau discuss the journey of reclaiming faith and healing spiritual wounds. We explore the differences between spiritual struggles and deeper harm, the importance of processing grief, and the steps to begin healing. The conversation emphasizes the need for safe spaces, community, and the value of asking questions in spiritual growth. We invite you to honor your pain while also seeking hope and connection in your spiritual journeys.

Connect with Carla at Illuminate Soul Care

Facebook: Illuminate Soul Care

carla@thebrokenandbeautiful.com

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is executive produced and edited by Robrenna Parker.

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Life: Create the Life You Desire

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Guest: Angela R. Lewis

In this episode of Reclaiming HER Life, Robrenna sits down with former professional basketball player, coach, author, and leadership mentor Angela R. Lewis to explore what it means to slow down, release hustle culture, and intentionally create a life rooted in alignment.

Angela shares how sports strengthened her confidence, even as certain emotional needs and moments of grief were quietly carried in the background. She reflects on the pivotal “ideal day” exercise, which helped her see what she longed for, and how an opportunity in Colombia, where cultural rhythm, nature, and joy transformed how she lives, works, and leads.

Together, they discuss letting go of overachievement, releasing guilt, honoring personal pace, and redefining success—especially for women rebuilding their lives later in life. Angela also introduces her Six V Framework, a powerful model for navigating seasons of life from valley to victory with clarity and compassion.

This conversation is an invitation to rest, realign, and remember: slowing down doesn’t mean giving up—it means choosing yourself.

Connect with Angela R. Lewis:

Angela R. Lewis

angela@angelarlewis.com

314 598 7870

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is executive produced and edited by Robrenna Parker.

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Harmony: Clarity & Alignment- Your Body as Your Compass

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 08:25:00 -0400

In this episode, we explore the relationship between clarity and alignment—and how your body quietly guides you toward what is true, safe, and life-giving.

So many of us are taught to override our bodies, push through discomfort, or ignore the subtle signals that something isn’t right. But your body holds wisdom. It speaks through sensations of ease and tension, energy and exhaustion, openness and contraction. This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen, and begin trusting yourself again.

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Stillness and Light: Breathwork Practice

Thu, 25 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400

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Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by the RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story Group – Weeks 7 & 8

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 08:40:00 -0400

We conclude Reclaiming HER Story 8-week Group weeks 7 & 8 with befriending our bodies, closure, ritual, and celebration.

Join the 8-week Online Reclaiming HER Story Group

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hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story Group – Weeks 5 & 6

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 15:35:00 -0400

Grief, Lament, Self-Forgiveness, & Reclaiming Truth

In this episode, we explore grief as something that needs to be witnessed, not minimized or rushed. Drawing on David Kessler’s work, we name grief as a courageous act of truth—especially in the aftermath of relational and spiritual trauma.

We talk about the many invisible losses survivors often carry: loss of safety, identity, time, dreams, relationships, faith communities, and parts of ourselves we had to abandon to survive.

You’ll hear about:

The five stages of grief (Kübler-Ross) and why they aren’t linear
How unprocessed grief lives in the body
Lament as a biblical and cultural practice of truth-telling with God
Why grief is not weakness—but part of healing

In the second half, we move into Week 6 themes:

Self-forgiveness as releasing shame and misplaced blame
Why forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation
How forgiveness requires truth, not denial
Reclaiming your story from shame and false narratives

This episode includes reflection questions, gentle somatic practices, and a guided lament to help you name what was lost—without pressure to “move on.”

Takeaway:

Grief is not a setback. Lament honors what was never allowed to be spoken. Truth restores dignity and freedom.

Grief.com

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Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story Group – Weeks 3 & 4

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 13:07:00 -0400

In this episode, we continue our four-part series on walking through the flow and heart of my 8-week Story Work Group Reclaiming HER Story. This week, we explore weeks 3 & 4, two deeply transformative weeks when women begin to understand the roles they played in their families and how those roles affect their relationships today.

Reclaiming HER Story is an 8-week small group experience for women ready to understand their past, heal long-standing patterns, and reconnect with their authentic voice. Seats are limited — I only take 4-6 women to keep the circle intimate and safe.

Learn more or get on the waitlist, contact Robrenna: hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

3 Brain Systems that Control Your Behavior

Brené Brown Books

Atlas of the Heart

Daring Greatly

The Gifts of Imperfection

Richard C. Schwartz, PhD

No Bad Parts

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story Group – Weeks 1 & 2

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 18:41:00 -0400

Join me on a compassionate journey through a four-part series titled Reclaiming HER Story. These episodes are inspired by an eight-week story group designed to support and uplift each other. In our first two weeks together, we focus on creating a safe, nurturing space, reconnecting with our bodies, and gently uncovering the early stories that shaped us. This episode offers a glimpse into the first two weeks of a restorative space for women ready to embrace healing and seek connection.

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Brain and Body: Part 2 w/ Dr. Sooniti J. Weems

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 17:30:00 -0400

Dr. Sooniti J. Weems — known lovingly as Dr. Soo, is the founder of Well With My Soul Holistic Health Center.

A Doctor of Naprapathic Medicine, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Massage Therapist, Board-Certified Coach, and Certified Clinician of Whole Food Nutrition, Dr. Soo integrates bodywork, mental health coaching, nutrition, and trauma-informed care to bring healing to the whole person—body, mind, and spirit. Dr. Soo supports individuals, including veterans and trauma survivors, in moving beyond pain to resilience, strength, and wholeness. Her work now includes Chi Nei Tsang, an ancient abdominal healing practice she studied in Thailand, expanding her holistic approach even further.

Connect with Dr. Soo

Website: supportmywellness.com

FB and Instagram social media handles

@wellwithmysoulcenter

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Brain and Body: Part 1 w/ Dr. Sooniti J. Weems

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 17:04:00 -0400

Dr. Sooniti J. Weems — known lovingly as Dr. Soo, is the founder of Well With My Soul Holistic Health Center.

Connect with Dr. Soo

Website: supportmywellness.com

FB and Instagram social media handles

@wellwithmysoulcenter

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Facebook: Reclaiming HER Resilience

Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

A Letter to the Church about Domestic Violence

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 13:59:00 -0400

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, if you're in the U. S., contact the National Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline at 1 800 799 SAFE (7233).

StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-762-8483

International listeners, contact Ending Violence Against Women International

No More.org Global Directory International

Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474, 1-866-331-8453 (TTY)

Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men By Lundy Bancroft

Supporting someone who keeps returning National Domestic Violence Hotline Article

Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse by Shannon Thomas, LCSW

Leslie Vernick - Training Church Leaders to Recognize and Respond to Abusive Behavior

Called to Peace Church Training Ministry

Exposing Financial Abuse: When Money Is a Weapon by Shannon Thomas, LCSW

When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing with Narcissism and Emotional Abuse by Dr. David Hawkins

Connect with Robrenna:

hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story: Korea Part 2

Thu, 23 Oct 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Join us for a moving 2-part episode titled "Reclaiming HER Story." In this episode, you’ll hear part 1 of Korea’s story as she bravely shares her journey of escaping an abusive marriage and confronting the misuse of scripture. She vulnerably shares her path to healing and self-discovery, including the struggles she faced and the moments of awakening that empowered her to reclaim her courage and her life. Tune in to hear Korea’s inspiring story.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, if you're in the U. S., contact the National Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline at 1 800 799 SAFE (7233).

StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-762-8483

International listeners, contact Ending Violence Against Women International

No More.org Global Directory International

Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474, 1-866-331-8453 (TTY)

The Black Woman's Guide to Overcoming Domestic Violence: Tools to Move Beyond Trauma, Reclaim Freedom, and Create the Life You Deserve by Shavonne J. Moore-Lobban, PhD, ABPP, Robyn L. Gobin, PhD

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Allender Center

Chuck Degroat

Leslie Vernick

The Place We Find Ourselves Adam Young Podcast

Chris Moles Podcast

The Body Keeps the Score By Bessel Van Der Kolk

Connect with Robrenna:

Send an email, I’d love to hear from you! hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Credits:

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Network: Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Story: Korea Part 1

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 07:00:00 -0400

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, if you're in the U. S., contact the National Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline at 1 800 799 SAFE (7233).

StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-762-8483

International listeners, contact Ending Violence Against Women International

No More.org Global Directory International

Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474, 1-866-331-8453 (TTY)

Resource mentioned:

Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse by Shannon Thomas

Connect with Robrenna:

Send an email, I’d love to hear from you! hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Facebook: Reclaiming HER Resilience

Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming Her Purpose: Finding the Way Forward (with Celeste Henderson)

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 07:10:00 -0400

In this episode, I sit down with Celeste Henderson, Christian Life Coach and founder of The Sanctuary International—a sacred space where women can encounter God—for a soulful conversation about reclaiming purpose in the midst of life’s many obligations. Celeste shares the story behind founding The Sanctuary International and reflects on how she continues to pursue her calling and purpose while navigating the everyday demands of life. This inspiring conversation offers wisdom on resilience, faith, and the transformative power of community in living out one’s true purpose.

Connect with Celeste:

Facebook: Celeste Henderson

Instagram: the_sanctuary_international

Website: www.thesanctuaryinternational.com

Connect with Robrenna: hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by the RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Reclaiming HER Calling: A Leap of Faith

Thu, 02 Oct 2025 07:10:00 -0400

Reclaiming HER Resilience, LLC is a fully autonomous Story Coaching boutique practice. This episode was recorded during a prior collaboration season. I’ve chosen to include this context in the spirit of transparency.

In this episode, Robrenna Parker sits down with Patria Rector to explore the profound journey of reclaiming one's calling and purpose. Through candid conversations, they explore the transformative power of healing, the significance of community, and the courage it takes to step onto one's true path. Join us as we uncover the strength found in vulnerability, offering listeners inspiration and guidance on their own journeys to purpose.

Connect with Robrenna: hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Facebook: Reclaiming HER Resilience

Instagram: Reclaiming_HER_Resilience

Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Season 1 Wrap-Up: My Story, Your Healing, and What’s Next

Mon, 07 Jul 2025 07:10:00 -0400

💛 Episode Summary:

In this season finale, I reflect on the journey of Season 1—starting with telling my full story out loud for the first time. We talked about grief, narcissistic abuse, reclaiming what trauma tried to take (like voice, worth, and joy), and using somatic tools to support your healing.

I hope my story helped you feel less alone. And now, I want to hear yours. Season 2 is coming—and I’d love to feature more voices, more stories, and more tools for your journey.

Do you have a story to share? I’d love to hear it and maybe even share it or invite you to share here on the podcast..

Email me at hello@reclaimingherresilience.com

Let’s keep reclaiming together. 💛

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Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: by Alex-Productions | Music promoted by Chosic.com

Creative Commons CC BY 3.0

Reclaiming Hope with Reverend Dr. Melodie Jones-Pointon

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 07:25:00 -0400

In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, I’m joined by Reverend Dr. Melodie Jones-Pointon, senior leader at Eastridge Presbyterian Church and someone I call a true hope bringer.

I first met Melodie during a time when I was wrestling with the aftermath of spiritual harm. Walking into a church again felt nearly impossible—but Eastridge became one of the first places where I felt spiritually and emotionally safe. It was there I attended my first trauma healing group and facilitator training, and it marked the beginning of reclaiming my own hope.

Melodie and I recently reconnected through an interfaith cohort called Missio-Lincoln, where we didn’t just ask church questions—but God questions.

In this conversation, we explore what it means to hold on to hope in a fractured world, how to reconnect with it after trauma, and the practices that help us stay grounded. Melodie shares with grace and wisdom about seasons when hope felt distant, the role of faith and community, and how we can create safe spaces for others to heal.

Melodie’s wisdom, faith, and grounded compassion make this a powerful and timely conversation

.✨ If hope has felt distant, this episode is for you.

Books Mentioned:

Everything Happens for a Reason And Other Lies I've Loved by Kate Bowler

No Cure for Sorrow A Book of Blessings for Times of Grief by Jan Richardson

Connect with Melodie Jones-Pointon

Eastridge.org

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Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: Alex-Productions

Music Promoted by Chosic.com

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Reclaiming Trust

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Robrenna talks with counselor Janet Friesen of The Broken and Beautiful Collective about what it means to rebuild trust after betrayal—whether in relationships, institutions, or with ourselves. They explore how trauma affects trust, the role of a safe community, and small, practical steps toward healing.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

🔍 What trust really means—and how it changes over time

💔 How trust is broken in relationships, systems, and within ourselves

🧠 The effects of betrayal and trauma on our ability to trust

🌱 First steps toward healing and trusting again

🛑 The role of boundaries and safe community in recovery

🛠️ Simple, practical ways to rebuild trust daily

✨ A powerful story of healing and reclaimed trust

This conversation offers hope and gentle guidance for anyone learning to trust again.

Connect with Janet: Janet Friesen Counseling

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Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: Alex-Productions

Music Promoted by Chosic.com

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by the RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Adventure Part 2: The Unexpected Gift of Connection

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 07:10:00 -0400

This episode continues my Panama journey as I take a Hop-On Hop-Off bus to the iconic canal and make meaningful connections along the way—with a fellow solo traveler, a generous kindred-spirit, and new friends in Boquete. From hiking mountain trails to surprise birthday celebrations, this leg of the trip reminded me that solo travel isn’t about being alone—it’s about making space for connection, kindness, and rediscovering your strength.

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Produced and edited by: Stephen R. Sanders

Music by: by Alex-Productions | https://onsound.eu/

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Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by the RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

Adventure Part 1: Trusting the Unknown

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 07:05:07 -0400

In this episode, I share the beginning of my solo journey to Panama—a trip I took seeking rest but ended up finding something deeper. From getting lost in translation to learning to slow down and trust myself, I reflect on the beauty of letting go of control and embracing the unknown. From the vibrant streets of Panama City to quiet, soul-stirring moments, this adventure became a mirror of my healing and resilience.

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June 1 is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day – Recognize the Patterns, Reclaim Your Story

Sun, 01 Jun 2025 22:22:18 -0400

This episode invites you into a moment of clarity during World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day. I’ll guide you through a powerful metaphor using falcons, helping you understand how manipulative people—like narcissists—target vulnerability, not weakness.

You’ll learn to:
🔍 Recognize red flags of narcissistic behavior
♻️ Identify the Idealize–Devalue–Discard cycle
💣 Understand gaslighting and emotional confusion
🧠 Explore the types and roots of narcissism
🧍🏾‍♀️ Listen to your body’s warning signals
🛑 Stop walking on eggshells and reclaim your peace

Plus, a grounding somatic practice to reconnect with safety in your body.
Awareness is the first step toward freedom—let’s take it together.

🔍 Where to Learn More
✅ Trauma-Informed & Clinical Sources:

Dr. Ramani Durvasula (YouTube, books, courses): One of the most trusted voices on narcissistic abuse. It’s Not You It's Not You Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People By Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Shahida Arabi – Author of “Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare” and “Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse.”
Sandra L. Brown, MA – Specializes in narcissistic and psychopathic relationships.
Psychology Today – Search articles on "narcissistic types" or "narcissistic personality disorder."
National Domestic Violence Hotline – Website offers insights on emotional abuse and manipulation.
No More.org Global Directory International

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🎯 General Awareness & Reach
#NarcissisticAbuseAwareness
#EmotionalAbuseRecovery
#ToxicRelationshipAwareness
#BreakTheCycle
#KnowTheRedFlags
#AwarenessIsPower
#ReclaimYourStory
#TraumaInformedHealing
#GaslightingRecovery
#StopWalkingOnEggshells
#MindBodyHealing
#CycleOfAbuse
#NarcissismExplained
#SurvivorSupport
#YouAreNotAlone
#ReclaimingHERResilience
#HealingTogether
#SomaticHealing
#FaithAndHealing

🧠 Education & Empowerment
💜 Support & Community

Reclaiming HER Imagination

Mon, 26 May 2025 07:05:00 -0400

Imagination is a spiritual and creative lifeline—but trauma can silence it. In this episode, Guest Patria Rector, returns to talk about how reclaiming imagination helps us see beyond survival and into possibility. Together, we reflect on how imagining with God can open up healing, hope, and new stories.

In this episode:

How trauma can shut down imagination
Why imagination is vital for spiritual and emotional healing
Practices that help you reconnect with your imaginative self
Seeing imagination as a gift from God

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Reclaiming HER Sense of Play

Mon, 19 May 2025 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we explore how play—something often lost after trauma—can become a sacred part of healing. Guest: Patria Rector shares her own journey of reconnecting with joy and creativity, offering gentle, practical ways to reintroduce play into daily life. This conversation is a powerful reminder that play is not frivolous—it’s essential for resilience.

In this episode:

Why play often disappears after trauma
How play helps regulate the nervous system
Small, safe ways to begin playing again

Youtube video: Deb Dana on Glimmers

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Reclaiming Safety: Standing Together Against Domestic Violence

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 07:05:00 -0400

Caution: This episode contains discussion on domestic violence and homicide listen with care.

In this episode, I share why I chose not to release my previous episode, the challenges of telling my own story, and why I’m taking a short break to focus on my master’s program. I open up about the recent rise in domestic violence homicides in our community and the generational impact of abuse from my personal experience. I also discuss the urgent need for change—shifting perceptions, closing legal gaps, and empowering men to be allies in ending abuse. Let’s stand together, advocate, and support survivors.

If you need help -

Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474, 1-866-331-8453 (TTY)
Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-762-8483
Línea directa de violencia doméstica 1-800-799-SEGURO (7233)
No More.org Global Directory International

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Reclaiming Your Intuition

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 07:05:00 -0400

Reconnect with your inner knowing. In this episode, Robrenna Parker shares how trauma can disconnect us from our intuition and offers practical ways to rebuild trust with our inner knowing. Learn to tune into your body, reflect on past experiences, and honor small decisions that strengthen self-trust. Let go of self-blame and embrace growth.

The Gift of Fear Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence By Gavin de Becker

The Empath's Survival Guide Life Strategies for Sensitive People By Judith Orloff

Verywellmind.com Article

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Reclaiming Your Strength

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 07:05:00 -0400

In this episode of Reclaiming HER Resilience, I offer compassionate insights on recognizing your limits, honoring your body’s need for rest, and finding small, courageous steps to rebuild emotional and mental strength.

Resources:

Sacred Rest by Saundra Dalton-Smith, MD

Rest is the Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey

Pause, Rest, Be: Stillness Practices for Courage in Times of Change by Octavia F. Raheem

The Wisdom of Your Body Finding Healing, Wholeness, and Connection Through Embodied Living by Hillary L. McBride, Phd

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Reclaiming Your Worth

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 08:05:00 -0400

Many women have been conditioned to tie their value to achievements, relationships, or how much they give to others. But true worthiness isn’t something you earn—it’s something you already have.

In this episode, I share a pivotal moment in my healing journey when a simple yet powerful question changed my perspective and allowed me to confront deep self-contempt and the ways I unknowingly rejected care because she didn’t believe I deserved it. I examine how unworthiness can be an unconscious form of self-harm, a way to stay small, and even an act of control. I also explore how holding onto unworthiness can be a form of self-harm, keeping us stuck in shame and preventing us from accepting love, grace, and healing.

Worthiness is a birthright, not a reward, and shifting from self-contempt to self-compassion can create lasting healing. I invite you to step into your inherent worth and embrace relationships that honor and respect you.

Take a deep breath—you are worthy.

Good Morning, I Love You Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy by Shauna Shapiro

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Reclaiming Your Voice

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 08:05:00 -0400

In this episode, we explore the power of reclaiming your voice—why it’s difficult, why it matters, and how to start small. We unpack the societal, cultural, and personal reasons that make speaking up challenging, from early experiences to fear of rejection and internalized doubt. Honor your voice by recognizing your needs and emotions. Use somatic practices to reconnect with your body, Take small, actionable steps to self-advocacy. Your voice matters. You are worthy of being heard.

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Reclaiming HER Truth: Speaking Your Truth

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:05:00 -0400

In this episode, we'll explore why telling your truth is essential for healing, how to navigate disbelief and dismissal, and practical ways to begin reclaiming your truth. From listening to your body’s signals to setting boundaries and building a supportive network, this episode is here to remind you: Your truth is worth honoring.

February is Teen Dating Abuse Awareness Month
Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474, 1-866-331-8453 (TTY)
Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-762-8483
No More Global Directory

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The Journey to Self-Intimacy: Reclaiming Connection with Yourself

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 08:05:00 -0400

Self-intimacy is the foundation of healing—learning to deeply know, trust, and care for yourself.

In this episode, I share how I reclaimed my sense of self after years of self-abandonment and explore four key components of self-intimacy:

Practicing self-forgiveness and self-compassion
Setting boundaries to protect your well-being
Tuning into body signals and incorporating somatic practices
Rebuilding self-trust by showing up for yourself

Healing isn’t just about moving forward—it’s about reconnecting with who you truly are.

Recommended Reading

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Reclaiming HER Grief: Part 2

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 08:05:00 -0400

Layers of Grief and How Grief Shapes Story

Grief can surface the moment a difficult realization sets in. Every loss, whether big or small, deserves to be acknowledged and honored. In my story, I shared how my inability to grieve for my losses led me to a dark and difficult place. Allowing myself to feel the pain, let it move through my body, and shed the tears I’d been holding back, helped me carry the weight of my losses.

In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation about grief with my friend Renee Meyer, a hospice chaplain and spiritual director. My hope is that this episode offers you comfort and support on your own healing journey.

Resources:

Griefshare

Strong like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety, and Compassion to Move through Hard Things--and Experience True Flourishing by Aundi Kolber

Grief is love By Marisa Renee Lee

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Instagram: @belongingbecoming

Substack: Belonging & Becoming

Website: reneedavismeyer.com

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Reclaiming HER Grief: Part 1

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Layers of Grief and How Grief Shapes Story

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Substack: Belonging & Becoming

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Resources:

Griefshare

Strong like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety, and Compassion to Move through Hard Things--and Experience True Flourishing by Aundi Kolber

Grief is love By Marisa Renee Lee

Edited by: Stephen R Sanders

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Reclaiming HER Story-My Story Part 3: Unhoused, Hopeful, Healing and Rebuilding

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 20:00:00 -0400

(Warning: This episode discusses suicide ideation. Please listen with care.)

In this episode, I share an emotional, raw, and redemptive journey through one of the most challenging seasons of my life.

After leaving my 23-year marriage, marked by psychological and financial abuse, I found myself without a home—moving from place to place with no permanent space to call my own. I’ll take you through how I found solace and support in a missional community outside the walls of a traditional church, and how living with a foster mom and her seven children became an unexpected chapter of healing and connection.

In that season, I learned profound lessons about shared struggles and the beauty of community. Join me as I reflect on this transformative time in my life and how it reshaped my perspective on faith, hope, community, and the courage it takes to start over.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, if you're in the U.S., contact the National Violence Abuse Hotline at 1 800 799 SAFE, 1 800 799 7233. International listeners, you can contact Ending Violence Against Women International

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Reclaiming HER Story-My Story Part 2: Facing the Truth and Heartbreak

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 02:03:00 -0400

Facing the Truth and Heartbreak: Counseling, Courage, and the Unexpected Help

In this episode, I share a pivotal chapter in my journey—my steps toward healing through couples and individual counseling and the heartbreaking yet freeing decision to leave my 23-year marriage. I open up about the challenges of navigating therapy in a relationship where real change wasn’t happening. I share the raw truths of what I learned in therapy—how it helped me understand my patterns, recognize the damage, and ultimately make the life-altering decision to leave.

I also explore a surprising truth: help doesn’t always come from the places or people you expect. During one of the hardest seasons of my life, I learned to accept support from unlikely sources, a humbling and life-changing experience that taught me the power of community and resilience. Through this story, my hope is to remind you that even when the path to freedom feels uncertain, every small step forward matters, and support can come in the most unexpected ways.

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Resources

Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse by Shannon Thomas

The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse by Debbie Mizra

Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

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Reclaiming HER Story-My Story Part 1: Discovering the Patterns

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 18:19:00 -0400

Discovering the Patterns: How Story Work Unveiled Childhood Roles That Shaped My Unhealthy Marriage

In the debut episode of Reclaiming HER Resilience, host Robrenna Parker shares her deeply personal journey of uncovering the patterns that shaped her life through the transformative process of story work. Robrenna reveals how early childhood wounds unconsciously shaped her 23-year marriage, where she found herself trapped in the same dynamics—sacrificing her needs to care for others, absorbing blame, and enduring the emotional toll of a psychologically abusive relationship.

Through story work, she connected the dots between her past and present, uncovering the patterns that kept her stuck. This transformative process gave her the clarity, resilience, and courage to break free and begin rewriting her narrative. Robrenna’s vulnerable storytelling invites women to begin their journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment, one story at a time.

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Resources

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, if you're in the U. S., contact the National Violence Abuse Hotline at 1 800 799 SAFE, 1 800 799 7233. International listeners, you can contact Ending Violence Against Women International

Healing from Hidden Abuse, A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse by Shannon Thomas

Edited by Stephen R. Sanders

Music by Music Promoted by Envato.com

Reclaiming HER Resilience is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.