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Has Drinking Become Obsolete? + The End of MTV, Obtainable goals in 2026 Ep. 23

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 17:00:00 -0600

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Episode 23 is all about reflection, growth, and moving forward.

We recap the highs and lows of 2025, talk about what needs to be left behind, and set real, honest 2026 goals—from finances and health to travel, freedom, and self-improvement. The conversation also dives into whether drinking culture is fading, how priorities change in your 30s, and the symbolic end of MTV as we knew it.

This episode is for anyone resetting their mindset, chasing balance, and trying to build something meaningful in the next chapter.

👉 What are you leaving in 2025?

👉 What’s one goal you’re serious about in 2026?

#2025Recap #2026Goals

#NewYearReset #AdultingLife

#LifeInYour30s #SelfReflection

#MentalGrowth #WorkLifeBalance

#PersonalDevelopment #RealLifeTalk

#MillennialConversations #PodcastLife

#NewYearMindset

Episode 23 Timestamp

0:00 - Intro

0:15 - 2025 Recap ⏮️

3:55 - Things To Leave Behind In 2025 🚮

4:55 - 2026 New Year Resolutions 🎆

10:15 - Has Alcohol/Drinking Become Obsolete? 🍻🥂

13:10 - The End Of MTV 💀🪦

19:25 - Network Promo

20:12 - End Of Show 🎬

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Holiday Blues 🎄 | Eagles Win NFC East, Jake Paul Boxing Drama & John Cena Says Goodbye (Ep. 22)

Wed, 24 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

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Christmas isn’t the same for everyone. In Episode 22 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, TravTheRealist talks holiday blues, getting older, working holidays, Jake Paul vs Anthony Joshua, Andrew Tate vs Chase DeMoor, Eagles winning the NFC East, John Cena’s final match, Kai Cenat’s mental health, MJ vs Mickey Mouse, and a viral parenting debate. Real talk for the holidays. 🎄

#HolidayBlues #Christmas2025 #HolidayMentalHealth #UrbanPodcast #MiddleAmerica #SportsTalk #JakePaul #AnthonyJoshua #PhiladelphiaEagles #JohnCena #KaiCenat #MichaelJackson #MickeyMouse #RealTalk

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The Rough Patch | “Netflix Buying Warner Bros?! + Passport Ready, Camera Upgrade & Summer Walker Drama" | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking EP21

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0600

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Episode 21 brings a full breakdown of life updates, trending news, and a real creator journey. TravTheRealist opens up with a Thanksgiving recap, family moments, and the mindset shift that comes with watching your parents age. Then we talk podcast changes, balancing life + work, finally getting the passport, upgrading to a new camera, and how that improves content quality moving forward.

We also dive deep into the biggest headline of the week — Netflix acquiring Warner Bros — and what that means for streaming, creators, and entertainment in 2026. And to top it off, we unpack the Summer Walker & Rich The Kid situation, how it affects the culture, and the conversation around self-worth and celebrity transparency.

⏱️ Episode 21 Timestamps

0:08 – Thanksgiving Recap 🦃

4:35 – Podcast Changes

5:45 – Passport Ready 📍🗺️

7:00 – New Camera 🎥📸

7:42 – Netflix Acquires Warner Bros 🎦💰

9:40 – Summer Walker & Rich Da Kid 📲

12:20 – End of Show 🎬

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GOALS! FT. AFO_10 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.20

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

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Episode 20 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” features a powerful and inspiring conversation with former professional soccer player Ansger Otto, as he shares his journey from Ghana to America. This conversation discusses becoming a standout high-school athlete, competing professionally overseas, battling injuries, dealing with depression, and now passing on his passion to his kids as a coach and father.

This episode is PACKED with gems on discipline, mental toughness, parenting, sports culture, and how today’s technology shapes young athletes. If you’re a parent, athlete, coach, or just someone who loves motivational stories — this one’s for you.

EPISODE 20 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Introduction

0:45 – Coming to America 🇺🇸 & adapting

2:00 – Making soccer “cool” in school

3:40 – School soccer vs. professional level

4:45 – Battling injuries & adversity

6:00 – Depression, identity & sports

6:35 – Passing on tradition to your kids

10:00 – Are kids maximizing today’s technology?

15:50 – The REAL debate: Brains vs Athleticism

17:05 – Coaching vs Playing: Which is more rewarding?

18:50 – Who pushed Otto to become great

19:30 – Friends or foes in sports

22:00 – Biggest accomplishments

22:50 – Lowest moments

27:10 – Parenting: When your child doesn’t listen

30:40 – Knowing when to give your child advice

32:50 – Closing thoughts 🎬

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The Butterfly Effect Feat. _Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.19

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Episode 19 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” hosted by TravTherealist dives deep into faith, fitness, emotional discipline, and personal growth with the inspiring _Trainwith24.

From navigating engagement life to strengthening your walk with God, from managing emotions to changing your environment for success—this episode delivers REAL conversations that challenge you to elevate mentally, spiritually, and physically.

We touch on how the economy impacts mental health, how music shapes your emotions, what HYROX really is, and whether your kids truly need to be athletes. If you're working on becoming the best version of yourself, this episode is for you.

💬 Drop your thoughts below — which topic hit you the hardest?

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

0:00 – Start Of The Show 🎬

0:15 – Going From a One-Man Army to Joining a Well-Oiled Machine ⚙️

2:25 – Life After Getting Engaged 💍

3:20 – Premarital Counseling

4:25 – The Importance Of Controlling Your Emotions

6:25 – How the Economy Is Affecting Our Psyche 🧠

12:08 – Ryan’s Faith Journey ⛪️🙏🏿

16:30 – How Music Affects Your Emotions 🎶🧠

17:50 – How To Get Involved In The Church ⛪️🤔

20:00 – Changing Your Environment To Help You Pursue Your Goals

22:20 – The Truth About Getting Closer To God

25:00 – What Is HYROX?

27:20 – The Power of Competition

28:50 – Do Your Kids Have To Be Athletes?

31:00 – Sympathy vs. Empathy

33:35 – End Of Show 🎬

#IfYouDontMindMeAsking #TravTheRealist #Trainwith24 #FaithJourney #EmotionalControl #PremaritalCounseling #ChristianPodcast #SelfImprovementPodcast #MensMentalHealth #MusicAndEmotions #HowToGetCloserToGod #HYROXTraining #CompetitionMindset #ParentingIn2025 #AthleteKids #MotivationPodcast #PersonalGrowthJourney #EconomyAndMentalHealth #ChurchInvolvement #LifeAfterEngagement #PodcastEpisodes2025 #GrowthMindsetTalks #FaithAndFitness #ChristianMotivation

The Good Ol Days | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 18

Mon, 10 Nov 2025 16:00:00 -0600

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Dive into this candid and unfiltered conversation between two lifelong friends — @TravTheRealist and @K_inhd — as they talk about their humble beginnings in sports, transitioning into college football, and the highs and lows that came with chasing greatness.

They open up about fatherhood, whether sons get treated differently than daughters, and ask the tough question — are men still providers or part of the problem in 2025? The conversation also touches on dating today — is it better to meet people online or in person — and ends with funny high-school memories and lessons learned along the way.

🎧 Timestamps:

0:00 - Hook 🪝

2:03 - Show Introduction 🎬

4:30 - Athletic Background 🏀⚾🏈

7:00 - How We Got Into Football 🏈

11:20 - College Football Experience 🏫

28:20 - Do Kids Have to Play Sports? ⚽🏀🏈

30:45 - The Hidden Side Effects of Football 🩻

32:10 - Raising Sons vs Daughters 👦🏾👧🏽

39:30 - Are Men Still Providers in 2025? 💰

42:10 - Do Men Expect Their Women to Be Like Their Moms? 🧠

43:40 - Are Your Dating Preferences Really Right for You? ❤️

45:00 - Online Dating vs Real Life 🔥

53:20 - High School Memories 🏫

59:30 - End of Show 🎬

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What Us Men Really Think Ft. Amon & Aarian___h | Raising Kids, Setting Boundaries, Advice to women on knowing if a guy is serious while dating and much more! | If you Don't Mind Me Aksking EP. 17

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

This Episode is gets deep on how us men really think when it comes to raising kids, relationships and setting boundaries. Sit down and enjoy this unfiltered conversation as TravTheRealist sits down and talk with __Amon__ and Aarian___h, this conversation is no b.s or fluff these are honest thoughts from men on topics that most sugarcoat on social media.

#thinklikeaman #themanshow #lockerroomtalk #mendebates

Episode 17 Timestamps

0:00 - behind the scenes 😳

13:19 - Start of the show 🎥

14:23 - What is worse a strict 😠parent or a free one🥱?

16:33 - Does today’s generation of kids truly have any freedom?

22:14 - would you rather your kid be a rebel or rule follower? ( pros and cons)

24:45 - Do parents set unrealistic expectations on the oldest child ?

33:00 - Does the only son get special treatment?

38:19 - Setting Boundaries as a Man

44:35 - Men Advice to women on how to know if la man really like you

51:25 - Should Men Date who they want? Or who actually likes them ?

1:04:00 - How Do You Know A women likes you ?

1:14:22 - Final Thoughts

SHE GOT GAME Ft. Coachtamm_78 | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? EP.16

Sun, 26 Oct 2025 21:15:00 -0600

Join host TravTheRealist in Episode 16 of "If You Don't Mind Me Asking"

as he sits down with 7X time WNFC national champion, 2022 USA gold

medalist, and trailblazing coach Tammie Moore. From her gritty St. Louis

roots and overcoming "crab in the barrel" mentality to dominating in

women's tackle football with the Texas Elite Spartans, Tammy shares her

inspirational journey of building confidence, switching positions, and

becoming the first female high school football coach in Lewisville.

We dive deep into WNFC exposure, legacy vs. creating your own path,

misconceptions about women's professional football, unlearning survival

mode, book recommendations like "The Power of Who" and "Awaken the Giant

Within," family aspirations, and advice for young female athletes.

Plus, discussions on colorism in boxing and Claressa Shields.

🎙️ Episode 16

0:00 - Hook 🪝

0:08 - hometown origins🏡/ adjusting to new environments

6:23 - start of the show 🎥

7:14 - Texas Elite Women’s Football 🏈 wake up call ☎️

9:19 - building confidence while changing your position in the WNFC

11:58 - How Tammie Moore got into the Women National Football Conference/ Joining The Texas Elite Spartans

23:28 - How can the WNFC gain more exposure globally?

25:46 - would you rather join a legacy or create your own ?

28:48 - What was a greater accomplishment The WNFC championships 💍 or the USA Gold Medal 🥇

30:40 - How many more years do you want to play in the WNFC?

31:43 - would you let your kids play football 🏈

33:43 - becoming the first women’s football coach at Lewisville High School

37:28 - what’s more rewarding coaching or playing football ?

38:08 - Common misconceptions about women’s professional football 🏈

40:33 - unlearning St. Louis survivor mode mentality

41:43 - “The Power of Who” by Bob Beaudine

47:48 - “Awaken The Giant Within” - Tony Robbin’s

48:23 - Do you want a family of your own?

50:43 - How can people support the WNFC ?

53:48 - The best advice to young women who want to play football 🙋🏾‍♀️🏈

55:47 - colorism in boxing and Claressa shield hate 🥊

1:00:08 - End of Show 🎥

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Best of 2025 Top Hip Hop, R&B Albums, Wrestlers, Movies & Animes of the Year | If You Don't Mind Me Asking Ep.15

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 08:15:00 -0600

In this solo episode, TravTheRealist breaks down the Best of 2025 across music, wrestling, movies, and anime — ranking the Top Hip Hop and R&B albums, top male & female wrestlers, the most talked-about films, and must-watch animes of 2025.

#BestOf2025 #HipHop2025 #R&B2025 #Anime2025 #Movies2025 #Wrestling2025 #AEW #WWE #TravTheRealist #Podcast #MusicPodcast #AnimePodcast #WrestlingPodcast #EntertainmentPodcast #SoloLeveling #KaijuNo8 #ClipsLetGodSortThemOut #LeonThomas #FreddieGibbs #ToniStorm #HangmanAdamPage #TopAlbums2025 #TopAnimes2025

👇 Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

0:50 - Best Hip Hop Albums of 2025

4:50 - Best R&B Albums of 2025

7:50 - Best Men Wrestlers of 2025

9:05 - Best Women Wrestlers of 2025

9:35 - Wrestlers to Look Out for in 2025

12:45 - Best Movies of 2025

14:45 - Best Animes of 2025

19:00 - End of Show

RECONNECTING EP.14 ft. AArian___H | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? | Does St. Louis Have the Best Chinese Food? Who Loves Harder Men or Women? When should Kids Date?

Sun, 12 Oct 2025 20:00:00 -0600

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Dive into raw, real conversations on relationship advice 2025! In Episode 14 of If You Don't Mind Me Asking, host TravTheRealist chats with Aarian from Mississippi/St. Louis about who loves harder—men or women? We cover marriage secrets, dating tips for singles in Dallas, parenting sex talk, and when to let kids date. Plus, the ultimate debate: Does St. Louis have the best Chinese food? Timestamps: 0:00 Intro, 2:16 St. Louis Chinese Food Debate 🍲, 13:42 Teen Dating Age & Losing Virginity Young, 20:26 Marriage Tips 🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️, 21:37 Who Loves Harder? 25:29 Dating Standards & Settling, 35:03 Free Advice for Women, 41:39 Save Spouse or Kids? 50:08 Partner Qualities. Like, subscribe, and comment your thoughts to help us grow—aiming for 1000 views!

#relationshipadvice #DatingTips #marriagesecrets #TeenDatingAdvice #ParentingSexTalk #MarriageTips #WhoLovesHarder #DatingStandards #PodcastLife #GrowingUpStories #StLouisChineseFood #LoveAndRelationships

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

0:46 - Does St. Louis have the best Chinese food? 🍲 🇨🇳

3:04 - Moving to/Growing up in St. Louis

12:12 - What age would you let your kids date ? How Did losing your virginity young affect you ?

15:18 - when do you talk to your kids about sex and if their active?

18:56 - what holds a marriage together? 🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️💍

20:07 - who loves harder women or men ?

23:59 - Is the bar set low in today’s dating world ?/ Are people settling ?

33:33 - Free Game 🎲 to women “ Give men the space to make a choice”

36:51 - What makes you happy?

40:09 - you can only save 1 your spouse or your kids

48:38 - what are you looking for in a partner?

50:38 - how can someone get your time/attention

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Jalen Hurts Top 10 QB? Fatherhood, Football Anxiety & Why Kids Quit Sports Exposed ft. Onemission_ | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING EP.13

Mon, 06 Oct 2025 20:00:00 -0600

Join TravTheRealist and Brandon in this deeply personal and raw conversation about

fatherhood, parenting challenges, and life lessons learned the hard way.

From navigating kids quitting sports to teaching discipline, from

balancing mental health with parenting to reflecting on generational

changes, this episode dives into the heart of what it means to be a real

parent today.

this candid chat, Brandon opens up about the struggles and

triumphs of raising kids in the modern world, the value of hard

experiences, and why the lessons he learned from his own father shape

how he guides his children. Whether you're a parent, coach, or just

interested in real-life stories about family and growth, this episode

offers inspiration, reliability, and insight.

#NFL #JalenHurts #CamNewton #Fatherhood #KidsSportsAnxiety #ParentingWins #YouthFootball #TechAddiction #DadAdvice #BlackDads #FamilyLife #SportsDebate #PodcastNFL #ChildMentalHealth #DisciplineTips #GenerationalTrauma #RealTalkPodcast #TravTheRealist #DadsAndSports #PanicAttacks #KidResilience #NFL2025 #ParentingPodcast #ViralDads #FootballParents

Timeline

0:00 – Intro 🎬 | Parenting, Passion & Real Talk

00:31 – My Son Quit Football 🏈 | Honest Dad Talk About Letting Go of Expectations

11:31 – Discovering Your Child’s Passion | Parenting Tips for Raising Purpose-Driven Kids

15:35 – Would You Let Your Daughter Box? 🥊 | Gender Roles & Modern Parenting Debate

17:25 – Do You See Yourself in Your Kids? 👀 | Breaking Generational Patterns

20:15 – Can Kids Outsmart Their Parents? 😅 | Smart Tech, Smart Kids & Discipline

22:00 – Is Technology Hurting Today’s Kids? 📱 | Social Media, Screen Time & Childhood Development

24:00 – Were Millennials the Wildest Generation? 😂 | Comparing Childhood Eras

26:30 – Which Generation Had the Best Childhood? 🧸 | 80s, 90s, or 2000s?

27:45 – Are Divorce Rates Higher Now? 💔 | Modern Marriage & Family Culture

29:00 – Should Parents Raise Kids Like They Were Raised? | Old School vs. New School Parenting

31:30 – Do You Still Believe in Spankings? 👋🏾 | The Discipline Debate

40:30 – “My Uncle Humbled Me” 😔 | Life-Changing Advice That Stuck

42:00 – Lessons We Learned From Our Parents ❤️ | Wisdom, Love & Growth

53:24 – Is Jalen Hurts a Top 10 QB? 🏈 | Real Football Talk

56:00 – Cam Newton vs. Jalen Hurts | Who You Got? 🔥

1:02:01 – Thoughts on Shedeur Sanders 🏈 | Future Star or Overhyped?

If You Don’t Mind Me Asking The Call in(Part 2) | Brandy vs Monica, Parenting Truths & Love Unfiltered ft. ilybahati

Mon, 29 Sep 2025 04:00:00 -0600

In episode 12 of "If You Don’t Mind Me Asking," we dive deep into honest, raw conversations about Black family dynamics, parenting in 2025, generational trauma, and the evolving roles of mothers, fathers, and children. Bria joins to discuss therapy, growing up as a “daddy’s girl,” breaking the stereotypes of the “mama’s boy,” and what it means to be a truly open-minded parent.

This episode tackles what generational healing looks like, the realities of safe suburban childhood vs. city survival, and how community, culture, and history still shape self-identity today. Whether you’re reflecting on your own upbringing or trying to parent differently, this is a must-watch for anyone interested in real talk about love, support systems, and healing within Black families.

#BlackParenting #GenerationalHealing #TherapyMatters #CRT #BlackFamilies #FamilyCycles #OpenMindParenting #CulturalRoots #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #2025Conversations #MentalHealth #BreakingCycles

Timestamps:

0:00 – “Breaking Generational Chains: Black Family Legacy, Healing & Identity”

0:14 – “Brandy vs. Monica: Black Music Icons, Representation & Cultural Impact Debate”

6:39 – “How Do Parents Show Equal Love? Conscious Parenting, Emotional Wellness & Support Systems”

10:55 – “Are We Becoming the Parents We Needed? Breaking Cycles, Transforming Black Homes, Personal Growth”

12:33 – “Parental Influence: Shaping Core Values, Identity, and Generational Mindset”

22:36 – “Marriage, Commitment, & Evolving Black Love: Relationship Education and Partnership in 2025”

28:05 – “Redefining ‘Till Death Do Us Part’: Divorce, Family Resilience & Modern Commitment”

32:00 – “Mama’s Boys, Fatherhood & Masculinity: CRT, Family Roles & Mental Health”

41:00 – “What Really Shapes Us? Personality, Social Identity & Cultural Roots”

45:00 – “Do Parents Truly Know Their Kids? Molding vs. Growth, Raising Authentic Children, Building Safe Spaces”

48:41 – “Matriarchy Power: Black Women’s Resilience, Generational Trauma & Strength”

56:44 – “Parenting Self-Check: Are We Doing Enough? Honest Reflections, Progress & Generational Change”

57:39 – “Are Kids Softer in 2025? Resilience, Safe Spaces, and Raising Strong Black Children”

1:00:01 – “Outro: Community Shoutouts, Next Steps for Healing, and What’s Next for Black Families”

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Censorship, Teachers Underpaid & Finding Your Voice | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking Podcast Ep.11 @Softsafesoul

Mon, 22 Sep 2025 19:30:00 -0600

What happens when freedom of speech collides with censorship? In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist speaks on the cancel culture wave and why creators fear losing their platforms. Special guest Chi, a Reading & Development Specialist, joins to uncover the reality of America’s schools—overcrowded classrooms, underpaid teachers, and students left behind. Together, they dive deep into the power of confidence, therapy, and finding your voice in a world trying to silence it.

If you care about education, free speech, and standing strong in your truth, this is the conversation you need to hear.

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Timeline

0:00 - Intro Music

0:10 - Freedom Of Speech Monologue

2:43 - Introduction

3:56 - What is a reading, learning and development specialist?

4:24 - Challenges teachers face in charter schools

7:51 - The Importance of Teachers advocating for students

9:28 - Difference between a bad kid and a misunderstood kid

11:15 - Did any teachers make a impact on you growing up?

13:24 - How can we support charter school teachers

18:06 - Parents role in their child's education

21:33 - How do teachers deal with difficult parents

23:10 - Where does confidence come from?

25:54 - Moving to a new place, adjusting to different schools

28:07 - My Guest Therapy experience

35:10 - Outro

Chris Brown Concerts, Viral Doc Shocks & Relationship Secrets | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking? Ep.10 Ft. _Naturallycurled

Mon, 15 Sep 2025 13:30:00 -0600

In Episode 10 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, host TravTheRealist sits down with his good friend Kenisha for an unfiltered conversation packed with music, culture, and real-life lessons. From the shocking twists of the “Unknown Number” documentary to the heated Charlie Kirk controversy, plus unforgettable Chris Brown concert experiences, hilarious takes on dating and relationship secrets, and insider travel hacks for Jamaica, the Bahamas, and cruises — this episode has it all. Tap in for authentic conversation, laughs, and insights you won’t hear anywhere else.

We are celebrating 10 episodes! So this episode was a short one.

#ChrisBrown #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #TravTheRealist #PodcastClips #RelationshipTalk #UrbanCulture #TravelHacks #ConcertStories

Episode 10 Timeline

0:00 - Intro

0:39 - unknown Number Documentary 📲🧐❓

2:40 - Charlie Kirk Assassination 🔫☠️

5:30 - Chris Brown Concert Experience 🕺🏽🎤

8:46 - how do these women take so many trips? 👙🏖️☀️

9:20 - most memorable traveling experience

11:05 - Best Cruises to take in 2025 🛳️🚢

14:15 - could you date a person outside the U.S ? 👩‍❤️‍👨🗺️🌍

17:45 - Is there ever an appropriate time to lie to your partner ? 🤥❓

20:34 - Outro

Fitness, Fatherhood & Building a Brand | Life Lessons from CactusFiTT & WRLDChangers Ep.9 "NWO"

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 04:45:00 -0600

What happens when fitness, entrepreneurship, and fatherhood collide? 💪👨‍👦

In Episode 9 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, host @TravTheRealist sits down with @_humbletrapp and @_Dirty30 — the powerhouse duo behind @CactusFiTT and WRLDChangers. From starting with nothing to building a brand that’s making noise nationwide, they share their raw journey of:

🔥 Fitness discipline & bodybuilding transformation — the mental and physical grind it takes to level up.

🌍 Entrepreneurship & brand building — how CactusFiTT grew into WRLDChangers inspiring thousands.

👨‍👦 Fatherhood & breaking generational cycles — raising kids with intention and rewriting family legacies.

❤️ Relationships & marriage talk — real conversations about love, sacrifice, and choosing the right partner.

This episode is more than just talk — it’s motivation for anyone chasing growth, building a business, or becoming the best version of themselves. Whether you’re in the gym, building a brand, or learning how to lead your family, these lessons will hit home.

👉 Don’t just watch — join the movement. Hit LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE if you’re ready to change your life!

#FitnessJourney #Entrepreneurship #Fatherhood #RelationshipTalk #MotivationPodcast #CactusFiTT #WRLDChangers #BodybuildingMotivation #LifeLessons #TravTheRealist

Timeline:

0:00 - Intro Music 🎶

0:13 - Exclusive Behind The Scenes Conversation 🗣️

6:45 - Intro To Show 🎬

7:55 - Who are The “ WRLDChangers” 🌎⁉️

10:22 - When Did You Take The Fitness Industry Seriously 🏋🏾🤔

12:00 - The Importance of Keeping Workouts Fun 🏃🏾‍♂️😃😆

15:00 - Gyms Are Different in 2025

16:20 - The Negative Side of Fitness Culture

19:00 - Dark Side Of Body Building/ Jonathan Majors role in “ Magazine Dreams”

22:35 - Importance of Nutrition and Proper Rest

24:46 - Game Changing Workouts

28:35 - How a active lifestyle can improve love life

30:33 - Monte Love life

31:55 - Something you wish you done/known before having a child

36:10 - Raising a kid with no blueprint 📐

37:35 - Should a parent teach by their words or actions

40:00 - Breaking Generational Curses/ Are they really curses ?

47:13 - Do men get married for their wife or for your kids ?

57:00 - Is there more to love than just happiness?

1:07:35 - Grass isn’t always greener

1:16:21 - Joe Budden Podcast Staff Updates and Thoughts

1:30:02 - Outro

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The Detox Ep. 8 Ft Amon | If You Don't Mind Me Asking

Mon, 01 Sep 2025 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, we dive into detoxing from bad habits, quitting smoking, and the mindset shift needed to truly heal. 💯

This conversation goes deep on family influence, breaking cycles, and finding strength in self-discipline.

If you’re on your own journey of change, this is the episode for you.

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Timeline

0:00 - Intro

1:15- Amon's Fitness/Wellness Journey

14:18 - power of consistency and hard-work

17:00 - You are who you hang around

20:00 - what is something you wish you did before starting a family

21:50 - good questions to ask before committing to a relationship

24:50 - Is Shedeur Sanders Ready ?

32:56 Kameel Walker “Teamwork inst needed”

41:28 - Gillie vs Cam Newton

50:53 - Tank vs Jake Paul

54:42 - what amount would be enough to retire you now

58:00 - Cowboys Trade Parsons to Green Bay

1:01:05 - Outro

Family Matters | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep.7 Ft. Kweku

Mon, 25 Aug 2025 00:30:00 -0600

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In Episode 7 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, TravTheRealist sits down with Kweku to dive deep into real conversations about fatherhood, forgiveness, legacy, and the immigrant grind. From growing up in Ghana to culture shock in America, overcoming bullying, and finding purpose after loss — this episode is packed with raw honesty, powerful lessons, and inspiring gems.

If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with your parents, the meaning of success, or how to turn pain into fuel, this is a must-watch.

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Timeline:

0:00 - Intro

2:00 - can revenge be a good motivator?

5:30 - was standards different in Ghana ? 🇬🇭

8:01 - how did losing a parent effect us 👵🏾

13:29 - how losing one parent got us closer to the other 👵🏾👴🏾

23:20 - how African culture was treated back then vs now 🌍

26:00 - we can be our own worst critics 👫🏾

27:26 - Coming to America

30:08 - bullying (the other side)

34:13 - adjusting to different environments

37:00 - Kweku’s spiritual journey

38:15 - Relocating to Dallas/Starting Over

44:00 - the importance of men being involved in a community

48:20 - Kweku’s most rewarding experience

51:10 - what place has the most beautiful women ?

52:12 - How many kids do we want

52:51 - should you only date within your culture? Arranged marriages

56:21 - Outro

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Prime A.I Ft. Sheldonlucien | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? EP.6

Mon, 18 Aug 2025 02:00:00 -0600

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In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist sits down with Sheldon Lucien — a network architect designing internet infrastructure with Wi-Fi, fiber optics, and AI. We dive into how he got started in tech, why there’s so little Black representation in the industry, how AI is reshaping careers, and the real conversation about relationships, culture, and personal growth.

🔥 Don’t miss this inspiring talk on tech, life, and leveling up.

#blackpeopleintech #techpodcast2025 #aiandtechjobsgoingforward #aiandfutureofwork

Timeline:

0:00 - intro

0:52 - how to become a network architect

8:53 - 100 men vs a Guerrilla

11:18 - Shannon not so sharp

17:27 what are the prime years for men and women

19:39 - things I learned from my lady (Sheldon)

22:26 - is it more important to be lovable or likable in a relationship

31:23 - was our generation taught how to be men and women ?

39:20 - giving shells his flowers

41:00 - music ptsd ? Sheldon Jullliard story

53:35 - should we be afraid of AI?

1:05:15 - Outro

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The Uncomfortable Stage Ft.Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 5

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600

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In this powerful episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, host TravTheRealist sits down with Ryan Moore — Dallas trainer, life coach, and soon-to-be nonprofit founder — for an unfiltered talk on fitness, purpose, relationships, and building resilience.

From workouts that boost bedroom performance 🏋🏾‍♂️ to finding identity after sports, balancing love and ambition, and creating a safe space for growth, Ryan drops gems on mental discipline, faith, and why discomfort is essential for success.

Whether you’re chasing fitness goals, looking for motivation, or want insight into the mindset it takes to win in life, this episode will inspire you to level up.

#fitnessmotivation2025 #gymtipsformen #beneficialcoreworkouts #differentbreathingtechniques #relationshipadviceformen #athletelifeaftersports #nonprofitfounderstory #howtogetmentallytough #buildingresiliance2025 #blackmeninfitness #howtostaydisclipnedinthegym #podcastaboutgrowthandpurpose #inspiringfitnesspodcast #aithndfitness #balancingcareerandlove #personaltrainerinterview #bearviewmedia #grindhardfitness

Episode 5 Timeline

0:00 - Intro

0:40 - How to manage a busy schedule

3:05 - What Stage in life are you currently in

3:55- finding purpose after football

6:26 - “Growing up I seen a lot of great men”

9:50 - workouts for beginners

11:55 - Ryan’s Why

18:25 - balancing a business and a relationship

23:20 - are you and your partner alike ?

24:45 - how do you show up for your partner

27:46 - workouts that help in the bedroom

31:45 - what’s the process in how you coach ?

36:30 - how to overcome complacency

40:51 - promoting your content on social media

45:00 - Ryan’s interesting music tastes

49:55 - Outro

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The Difference ☯️ ft. Amon | If You Don't Mind Me Asking Ep.4

Mon, 04 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600

Diddy’s Trial, Kendrick’s Reach & Sexyy Red vs Smino?! | Ep 4 w/ Amon | TravTheRealist Podcast

From the controversial Diddy allegations to the wild story of a health insurance CEO’s assassination—this episode gets real fast. TravTheRealist and special guest Amon dive into everything from integrity in hip hop (Drake vs Kendrick), STL’s rap crown (Sexyy Red or Smino?), parenting in 2025, and what it really takes to raise confident kids in today’s world. Plus: character flaws, confidence struggles, and the truth about creating safe environments for the next generation.

🔥 If you're into culture, music, parenting, and real-life growth, this episode is for you. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking convos.

Episode 4 Timeline:

0:00 - Intro clip

0:14 - Diddy Trial

3:48 - Health Insurance CEO assassination

5:05 - Healthcare in the US vs Other Countries

8:25 - can money buy your integrity?

9:41 - Podcast Intro

10:03 - Drakes integrity

15:40 - is Kendrick music popular outside the west coast ?

20:50 - does New Jersey still have a distinct sound in music ?

24:00 - who should be the face of STL hip hop Smino or Sexxxy Red ?

26:10 - songs currently in the rotation

28:00 - what’s the difference between raising a son vs a daughter?

34:19 - Parents in the 90s vs 2025

40:30 - the importance of having a good support system

44:24 - how to make time for yourself

45:45 - Do you trust your kids friends ?

49:30 boy vs girl privilege growing up

52:46 - how can we curate a safe environment outside for children

56:42 - character flaws

56:15 - what advice would you give to your younger self

57:30 - character flaws

1:05:23 - confidence issues

1:12:04 - starting health journey

1:16:00 - outro

The Standard Ft. Reggiejennings_ | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 3

Mon, 28 Jul 2025 05:15:00 -0600

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🔥 In this powerful episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist sits down with real estate professional and former athlete Reggie Jennings to talk about image, identity, purpose, and professionalism in today’s culture. From code-switching and post-sports transitions to relationships, leadership, and legacy—this is an unfiltered conversation packed with real insights, personal growth, and timeless gems. Whether you're into deep interviews, relatable life experiences, or motivational podcast content, this episode sets The Standard. 🎙️ Tap in for laughs, game, and inspiration—and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay in the loop with fresh, real conversations every week. #PodcastLife #Interviews #Entertainment

Episode 3 Timeline:

0:00 - Intro

1:07 - How important is someone's image?

6:15 - Code switching

10:04 - should you show up as you are to work?

12:35 - has someone ever gotten you out of character at work?

18:38 - Life after football (was it easy to adjust?)

26:40 - Do you trust just any coach today

29:00 - Kids today vs our back in the day

34:08 - Do you want kids? / Are you ok being an older parent?

35:00 - how to maintain your fitness with a busy schedule

42:15 - Drake vs. UMG

47:25 - what would you tell the younger you

50:15 - playing to your competition

55:49 - people pleaser

57:25 - Have you ever used someone?

59:20 - Views on love; Then vs. Now

1:02:26 - Is it ok for your partner to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

1:06:41 - what drives you?

1:09:25 - is their job security in real estate?

1:12:31 - outro

1:15:34 - Credits // extra content

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The Master ToolBox Ft. ilybahati & queenksmitty | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 2

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 03:45:00 -0600

What's good Bearview family. This episode is from November '24 when I was back home in South Jersey. Its features two close friends @ilybahati and @queenksmitty. This episode we discuss how moms keep their identities, traditional vs non-traditional family values, and therapy. We hope you enjoy the conversation

Sorry for my mic, it got damaged in transit, but Bria and Kayla are the real stars of the show, and their mic was on!

#motherhood #motherhoodjourney #moms #momshavealifetoo #lifelesson #therapy #couplestherapy #southjersey #podcast

Episode 2 timeline:

0:00 - Intro Vid

0:14- BTS conversation

1:30 - start of show

5:00 - how to juggle multiple hats as a mom

7:58 - Raising a blended family

11:17 - how much sleep a mom gets a day

12:55 - How to maintain a strong sisterhood

15:26 - The 21 me vs. Now

19:22 - Bria’s Therapy story

23:20 - constantly growing

24:32- overcoming the fear of asking for help

25:54 - the non affectionate partner/friend

28:21 - Adapting in all relationships

31:36 - what traditions did you keep and leave

38:15 - different views of raising kids

56:58 - why some singers don’t like to sing in public

1:00:53 - Traditional vs non-traditional

1:16:24 - is the 2nd kid

easier to raise

1:17:21 - how is it taking on another persons child

1:25:27 - Difference between the dating phase and marriage

1:31:48 - Toolbox analogy

1:38:40 - Outro

Will The Real Creatives Please STAND UP? Ft. Brotha_Ash | | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 1

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 08:00:00 -0600

Welcome to Episode 1 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking hosted by TravTheRealist, presented by Bearview Media.

We kick things off with rising artist Brotha Ash, diving into his musical roots, family influence, and the state of hip-hop today. From why raw talent doesn’t always chart to debates like Drake vs. Kendrick and whether Lil Wayne’s catalog is built for the big stage — we cover it all.

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Timeline:

IYDMMA EP.1 Timeline

0:00 - Intro

1:01 - "Who is Brotha Ash?"

1:49 - How to stay focus when handling multiple responsibilities

3:21 - Importance of having a solid team

4:52 - Did you ever want to quit?

6:30 - Do you care what people think?

9:28 - Being scared of success//self sabotage

11:45 - Doing things your good at vs. Things your passionate about

16:19 - Current State of Hip Hop -

23:18 - How did you study your craft in Hip Hop

25:40- First Hip Hop Album you bought?

29:15 - Is Lil Wayne Catalogue actually good for shows

32:00 - Drake vs. Kendrick

40:32 - Do you think success changes you?

44:30 - Is it better to be independent or signed to a label?

49:27 - What Era of Rap do you wish you were in?

54:24 - What would you tell teenage you?

56:26 - Did You Have a better high school or college experience?

58:00 - When did you start taking life serious?

1:04:42 - Brotha Ash Single - Baby Boy (TravTheRealist Pick)

11:40 - How did you get the name Brotha Ash?

1:12:31 - What do you want to be remembered for

1:13:35 - Brotha Ash Single "East Coast"

1:16:05 - Brotha Ash Single "A little"

1:18:03 - How does Brotha Ash construct a album

1:19:58 - dream collabs

1:20:55 - Quick sixteen

If You Don't Mind Me Asking hosted by TravTheRealist

Has Drinking Become Obsolete? + The End of MTV, Obtainable goals in 2026 Ep. 23

Holiday Blues 🎄 | Eagles Win NFC East, Jake Paul Boxing Drama & John Cena Says Goodbye (Ep. 22)

The Rough Patch | “Netflix Buying Warner Bros?! + Passport Ready, Camera Upgrade & Summer Walker Drama" | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking EP21

GOALS! FT. AFO_10 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.20

The Butterfly Effect Feat. _Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.19

The Good Ol Days | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 18

What Us Men Really Think Ft. __Amon__ & Aarian___h | Raising Kids, Setting Boundaries, Advice to women on knowing if a guy is serious while dating and much more! | If you Don't Mind Me Aksking EP. 17

SHE GOT GAME Ft. Coachtamm_78 | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? EP.16

Best of 2025 Top Hip Hop, R&B Albums, Wrestlers, Movies & Animes of the Year | If You Don't Mind Me Asking Ep.15

RECONNECTING EP.14 ft. AArian___H | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? | Does St. Louis Have the Best Chinese Food? Who Loves Harder Men or Women? When should Kids Date?

Jalen Hurts Top 10 QB? Fatherhood, Football Anxiety & Why Kids Quit Sports Exposed ft. Onemission_ | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING EP.13

If You Don’t Mind Me Asking The Call in(Part 2) | Brandy vs Monica, Parenting Truths & Love Unfiltered ft. ilybahati

Censorship, Teachers Underpaid & Finding Your Voice | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking Podcast Ep.11 @Softsafesoul

Chris Brown Concerts, Viral Doc Shocks & Relationship Secrets | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking? Ep.10 Ft. _Naturallycurled

Fitness, Fatherhood & Building a Brand | Life Lessons from CactusFiTT & WRLDChangers Ep.9 "NWO"

The Detox Ep. 8 Ft __Amon__ | If You Don't Mind Me Asking

Family Matters | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep.7 Ft. Kweku

Prime A.I Ft. Sheldonlucien | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? EP.6

The Uncomfortable Stage Ft.Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 5

The Difference ☯️ ft. __Amon__ | If You Don't Mind Me Asking Ep.4

Episode 4 Timeline:

The Standard Ft. Reggiejennings_ | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 3

The Master ToolBox Ft. ilybahati & queenksmitty | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 2

Will The Real Creatives Please STAND UP? Ft. Brotha_Ash | | If you don't mind me asking? EP. 1

What Us Men Really Think Ft. Amon & Aarian___h | Raising Kids, Setting Boundaries, Advice to women on knowing if a guy is serious while dating and much more! | If you Don't Mind Me Aksking EP. 17

The Detox Ep. 8 Ft Amon | If You Don't Mind Me Asking

The Difference ☯️ ft. Amon | If You Don't Mind Me Asking Ep.4