In My Shoes Stories from Women of Color

What this birthday taught me about giving it to God

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 19 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400

May is the month for me ya'll! It's my birthday, mother's day, and it's also Mental Health and Foster Care Awareness Month. All of this is of course, near and dear to my heart. Find out what being a foster mama meant to me and what I've learned as the mama of a child (now an adult) living with a mental health disorder AND the four things about Mental Health Awareness Month that I hope you can remember year round.

PLUS how you can help me celebrate my milestone birthday

More great advice on mental health from a former guest and mental health advocate Natasha Pierre.

Wait, was that a micro aggression?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Sat, 29 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400

It's a term you hear a lot these days, but what exactly does it mean? Many describe micro aggressions as subtle or unintentional acts of racism? But are they unintentional? And does calling it subtle make it any better or any less hurtful? And when is a micro aggression just an incident of flat out racism?

Maureen Greene-James of MGJ Speaks is an inclusion champion with great insight into what micro aggressions are, what they aren't and what to do when you experience it.

Tennis Shoes, Accidents & Autism Awareness Month

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 06 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400

Catching up on what's been going on with me and with my baby girl as we honor Autism Awareness Month. It's been a minute since a solo episode. Wait until I tell you what happened to me not to mention my baby girl and how it's related to her Autism diagnosis. As an African American mom of an adult on the spectrum the journey has been winding and sometimes full of potholes, be we are making it and there's no road I'd rather be on. Find out why and the advice I give to new moms on this Autism journey.

How Six Strangers Became Sisters

Karin Davis-Thompson — Wed, 08 Mar 2023 21:11:00 -0400

In honor of International Women's Day and Women's History Month I wanted you to meet my girls! During the pandemic, we agreed to become an accountability team, helping each other as we grow our business, but what happened over a very short time became so much more than that!

This episode will dispel the myth about women unwilling to support each other. Find out how we met, how we formed an unbreakable bond, what we think of the stereotype AND why we think it's so important for women to support each other.

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Her New Book - I'm Not Yelling is Like Therapy for Black Girls

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0400

It started when Elizabeth Leiba was falsely arrested for a pack of batteries she had actually paid for. When she opened up about her experience it resonated and her social media BLEW UP! As she began talking to other Black women she realized empowerment for Black women, learning to love themselves as they are, and understanding the only path to true happiness is showing up as YOU, natural hair and all!

Find out why Elizabeth says she let go of "Angela" and what happened the night before her book release.

And check out her first episode with IMS Today and why she decided to share her story and experience.

When they couldn't find it, they decided to create it - The Women of Black Paper Party

Karin Davis-Thompson — Sat, 28 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0400

J'Aaron Merchant, Chief Creative Officer for Black Paper Party talks about how the company began, what happened when she and her two co-founders saw a lack of representation in the holiday retail space, and how she's learning to embrace and celebrate her wins as a freelance illustrator and creator of the characters and illustrations for the new company.

Find out more about Black Paper Party:

https://www.blackpaperparty.com

Instagram: @blackpaperparty

She Did What?!

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0400

I have finally recorded it FAM! This episode I've been teasing for sometime. Find out what really went down with my baby girl and the day she came home with a referral accusing her of destroying school property.

Such powerful language and emotional wording. And when I tell you what she actually did! You won't believe it. On this quick episode I tell you why it's so important that we pay attention to the words used to describe our children and their behavior in the classroom.

Ya'll know, I believe in the power of words!

ME, YOU AND 2022 - HAPPY NEW YEAR'S EVE!

Karin Davis-Thompson — Sat, 31 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0400

No music, no intro, just me!

I could not let 2022 ride off into the sunset without saying hello to you all! I am excited about next year and continuing this podcast journey with all of you. I took a little break, but I've still been busy. This is a quick catch up. Tomorrow I'll go live on FB to share my word for 2023. Do you have your word, your mantra for the new year? There is still time to work on it.

Be sure to follow me on Facebook; Instagram and I am even trying to get my TikTok game going!

Three Words for World Mental Health Day and an Update on my baby girl

Karin Davis-Thompson — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 17:07:00 -0400

I recorded this just before Hurricane Ian but before I could post, Ian hit and we were without power for a few days! So I am releasing on World Mental Health Day instead of a little earlier the way I planned. As the mom of a special needs child I know how important it is to take care of your own mental health if you want to be there for others.

I hope this resonates with you. Happy World Mental Health Day!

Freedom or Arrogance - When You Refuse to Change for Someone Else's Comfort

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 01 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400

I LOVE Tabitha Brown, did I say I LOVE HER?! So, when a comment on Twitter called her choice to refuse to be anything less than what God made her to be was call arrogant by another Black Woman, Auntie Tab let her know it isn't arrogance, it's freedom.

You know I had to weigh in! Why would her choice be called arrogant, and why would one Black woman attach that label to another Black woman for such a personal choice?

Why does it sometimes feel as though it's tough for us to support each other and the choices we make?

I would love to know what you think! Hit me up and let me know: kidt@inmyshoestoday.com. And be sure to take my challenge, promote and support a woman of color this week, no judgement, just pure love!

I will start! Check out my girl Ginain Grayes and her new podcast: Cook the Garden - https://cookprayslay.com/podcast

Five Words to Keep Your Dream from Becoming a Nightmare

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 18 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400

I'm BAAAAACCCCKKK!!! After some much needed time off from the mic, I am ready to share what I've learned, the changes I've made and what I discovered about myself. These Five words made all the difference. Maybe this will help you too!

A Model at 70? She Did That!

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 10 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400

Meet Carolyn Doelling who refused to allow society to make her feel invisible after retirement. She decided to add a bit of color to her wardrobe and embrace her natural hair, as her own visual protest. The results, a blossoming modeling career at 70 and the chance to use her platform to help other women see that retirement isn't the end - it's really the beginning.

On National Missing Children's Day - Tips from the Black and Missing Foundation on Keeping Our Children Safe

Karin Davis-Thompson — Wed, 25 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400

It's an update from Natalie Wilson with The Black and Missing Foundation. Find out what tips she has for making sure our children are safe online. And help me honor them, this month is 14 years of service helping us find us. Wear something orange this weekend (that's their color) and tag them on Instagram @blackandmissingfdn and tell them THANK YOU for their dedication and commitment to our missing.

Visit their website to learn more and find out how you can help.

My Daughter, My Birthday and My Mental Health

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 06 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400

May is my month ya'll! It's Mother's Day, its' my Birthday and May is Mental Health Awareness Month. I just could not help but start the month talking about why May means so much to me.

Find out what's going on with my girl, what I've learned about balance when it comes to dealing with her life and protecting my own mental health. There is one thing I believe is VERY important (maybe two) to remember during mental health awareness month. And HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME! This year my birthday is on the "eve" of next year's milestone birthday and it's a time that I am learning more about what I want this next chapter in my life to look like, including committing more time to the non-profit my sisters and I started several years ago but had to put on the back burner for a while.

I'd love for you to celebrate with me and donate to SEW (only if you want to)

DONATE TO MY BIRTHDAY FUNDRAISER

REWIND! Your Baby is Autistic - Congratulations! Embracing Your New Normal

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 14 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400

It's Autism Awareness Month and we are talking to Tiffany Hutchinson, a mom with a son on the spectrum. She talks about the rough road getting to a diagnosis, how she felt when she finally had answers and what she thinks are some of the misconceptions many have about children with autism.

The experience led her to use her love of writing to write about the experience and from there, she started her blog, A Mama Bear and Her Cub: https://amamabearandhercub.com/author/amamabearandhercub/

April is Autism Awareness Month and I can't wait for you to listen to this discussion. Moms of color have a story to tell about raising children with autism and this story is inspirational, relatable and real ya'll, so let's get into it!

Endometriosis - The Struggle is REAL

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 31 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400

March is National Endometriosis Month and I just could not let the month pass without talking about it. I've talked about the fibroids, but guess what, I had endometriosis too. We need to talk about it more so here goes - more on this part of my journey! Check me out, and click below for a few resources with more information.

What is Endometriosis

Black Women and Endometriosis

The Sisterhood Project

The Authors of We Are Not Like Them Talk Race and Friendship in the Face of Tragedy

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400

In the book We Are Not Like Them, two friends, one White and one Black tell the story from their separate perspective when a tragic event involving the shooting of an unarmed Black teenager changes their lives forever. They must face the issue of race head on and talk about uncomfortable feelings and stereotypes around race.

Authors Christine Pride and Jo Piazza tell a powerful story and find that in order to tell this fictional but emotional and relevant story, they had to be open and honest about race with each other.

Check out what they had to say, and then, if you haven't read the book, buy a hard copy or the audiobook TODAY!

My Surgery Update and Why March is a Month to Celebrate

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 03 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400

I'm BAAAAAACK! it's my surgery update, what I wish I had done differently and the DRAMA after the surgery in recovery. It was a rocky start but thank God I made It! And, guess what ya'll! It's my two-year podcast anniversary! PLUS a quick preview of wha's coming up In My Shoes and with our non-profit Sisters Empowering Women.

REWIND! Our Love Story - Celebrating Black Love

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0400

It's me and my boo ya'll! We are telling our love story for Valentine's Day. Find out what happened when he realized I was just a Freshman, and years later, when we were just about to date and then he moved away.

And the day I found out he was getting married!! You will have to listen to find out what happened there!

It's Valentine's Day and we are celebrating love on In My Shoes.

Surviving Cancer, Divorce & Parenthood All at the Same Time

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 04 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0400

When Zykeisha Destin began to experience back pain, stomach aches and low iron, she began a year long journey of doctor's visits, blood transfusions and medical professionals who could only guess at the cause as one test after another failed to reveal the cause.

And then one day the answer - colon cancer. It was something no doctor thought to test for since she was in her early thirties and had already given birth to two children. Now with Stage 4 colon cancer, she was fighting for her life, determined to be there to raise her two little ones, even as her marriage began to fall a part.

This is a story of one Black woman's struggle, perseverance and determination even against the odds.

Follow Zykeisha on instagram

REWIND! HGTV's Egypt Sherrod Talks Missing Children of Color and What We Can Do to Keep our Children Safe

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0400

REWIND! In this REWIND episode, Egypt Sherrod talks about what she thinks our community needs to do to bring awareness to the thousands of people of color who go missing every year.

Find out what she tells her daughters, what she decided to do last year to make sure she can defend her family and why she thinks more predators believe they can get away with it in broad daylight.

Watch her powerful message:

Follow Egypt on Instagram at: EgyptSherrod

Did you know: January Is Sex Trafficking Awareness Month? Take the time to learn more and find out what you can do to keep your loved ones safe.

Reflecting on 2021 then... Unexpected Surgery in 2022

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0400

Happy New Year! It's our first episode of 2022. It's just me on the mic, reflecting on 2021 and the surprised beginning of 2022... surgery. Find out what issue I've been dealing with for years that has finally come to a need for another surgery, what I wish I had known when I was younger and what I regret not advocating for earlier.

Then, a quick update on my word for 2022 and my upcoming vision board party.

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Find out more about the Sheinelle Jones documentary: Stories We Tell: The Fertility Secret

https://www.today.com/video/today-s-sheinelle-jones-shares-inside-look-at-new-documentary-on-infertility-128980549818

REWIND! Faith Over Fear - One Woman's Determination to Conquer Fear and Follow Hear Dream

Karin Davis-Thompson — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Sabrina Tshiamalenge has always loved to cook. A teacher by day she always loved trying new recipes as a hobby and of course, loved cooking for her family in the evenings and on weekends. But one day, a series of events led her to believe God was talking to that inner voice, the one that always wanted to try cooking as more than a hobby but was doubtful that anyone would take notice.

Then one day, she made a menu to post on social media, but couldn't bring herself to post it. With a little help from her husband, the menu made it to social media and the rest... she will tell you all about it. Hear how she conquered fear and self doubt and what it has meant to her community, her family and her confidence in herself.

Follow Sabrina on social media:

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REWIND! One Woman's Story: Wrongfully Accused, Arrested Over a Three Dollar Pack of Batteries

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0400

This is the story of Elizabeth Leiba, who still lives with the shame of an arrest that wasn't her fault during her days as a student at the University of Florida.

After a local drug store accused her of theft, (for a pack of batteries she had purchased) the store refused to admit wrongdoing and for years, she didn't talk about it, until the death of George Floyd and the outpouring of support for Kyle Rittenhouse, a teen charged with killing two men during the protests in Kenosha, triggered a need to respond, and wonder how so many can support a young who has admitted to taking two lives, yet try to ruin the life and reputation of a young girl all those years earlier over a pack of batteries.

It's a powerful story.

Follow Elizabeth on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethleiba

REWIND! The Hate Dark-Skinned Girls Get is Weird - A 17-year-old's Story

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0400

When Zariyah reposted the simple sentence about the hate dark-skinned girls must endure her mother knew right away that she needed to check in with her daughter. As the darkest member of her family, Zariyah often deals with the insensitive comments about the color of her skin - often from people of her own race.

But the 17-year-old said she refuses to let the comments dim her light and her mother says she will always remind her that her melanin is poppin.

Find out more about Zariyah, her mom and their beautiful transracial family: https://www.facebook.com/raisingcultures/

It's Just Me- Finding Gratitude in the Storm and Praying for My Baby Girl

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 02 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0400

I can't believe it is December! It's been a while since it's just been me on the mic. I figured it was time for an update on my girl and a look back at 2021.

So, it's just me this time. Find out what's going on with my girl, how I am planning to push myself out of my comfort zone in 2022, my take on parenting young adults and how I have found gratitude in the don't haves.

It's my thoughts on 2021 and my look ahead for 2022.

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Donate to our non-profit, Sisters Empowering Women, Inc. and help us provide gratitude and "free-write" journals to girls of color as we teach them the value of words, communication and finding their voice.

It's National Adoption Awareness Month - Meet My Niece Charli

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 25 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Tonight is Thanksgiving and I am so thankful for the opportunity adoption afforded me. It gave me the chance to grow my family and become the mommy God wanted me to be with the two babies He gave me.

I am also thankful for the chance adoption has given my baby sister. She adopted a beautiful baby girl 8 months ago. Today you get to meet her! She has A LOT to say and you can see some of it on our Facebook page.

You can follow my suga' mama (Charli) on Instagram: @charlisays2021

And follow In My Shoes on Instagram: @ n_my_shoes - Facebook: @NMyShoes2

Don't forget there is still time to help us reach our goal for Giving Tuesday!

This ICU Nurse Tells Her Story - Fighting COVID on the Frontlines

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Maria is an ICU nurse who was on the frontlines of COVID from the very beginning. She shares her experience and what it meant for her family. Find out what she says was the hardest part for her and the way the NFL showed its gratitude to her for caring for our veterans.

And don't forget we are working on our donation challenge for Giving Tuesday to support our non-profit, Sisters Empowering Women, Inc. - Here's the link for you to DONATE TODAY! We've almost reached or goal: https://bit.ly/IMSDONATE

REWIND Remembering Vanessa Guillen

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 11 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400

On this Veterans Day we pause to remember Vanessa Guillen. A beautiful soldier serving a Ford Hood Texas who mysteriously went missing. The military didn't have many answers for her family, but they wouldn't give up and refused to accept the military's stance that she simply walked off base.

Now a little more than a year after her death, her family works to make sure she is never forgotten and that she did not die in vein. in this REWIND episode we talk to Vanessa's sister Mayra talks about her sister and the family's fight for justice for Vanessa.

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REWIND! Our Path to Parenthood - How Adoption Changed Our Lives

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 04 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It’s a rewind episode with me and my hubby talking about our adoption journey in honor of National Adoption Awareness Month. Find out how he felt when I told him I didn’t think I would get pregnant easily and what he thinks helped him to be open to adoption.

AND don’t forget November is the month of giving and you can help us make Thanksgiving and Christmas bright for girls and women in need of a little pick me up. We are working with families in our area who need Thanksgiving meals and gifts for Christmas. You can visit our website to donate OR, purchase from our shop and all proceeds go to the non-profit.

Visit our website: www.inmyshoestoday.com

How this Attorney, Advocate and Auntie Makes a Difference for the Special Needs Community

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 28 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Sandy Boisrond is an attorney, advocate and auntie. She is a part of the village and support system for her nephew who is on the autism spectrum. As an attorney she helps families with estate planning and making sure they have the right things in place in order to future plan for the needs of a special needs loved one

Find out what she thinks is one of the biggest mistakes families make, how her role as auntie to an autistic nephew has impacted the way she practices law and what she thinks we need to do as a society to better support those with special needs. AND be sure to listen until the end and find out about a generous offer Sandy is making to IMS listeners. http://www.thespectrumlawfirm.com/

PLUS: It's the holiday season and we are preparing to support several families for Thanksgiving. You can help us provide meals for girls in high school and their families who have fallen on hard times and need support and a good Thanksgiving meal. Donate today. All donations are tax deductible: https://bit.ly/IMSDONATE

REWIND! Meet Andrea Dalzell - The first RN in a wheelchair in NYC and a New Millionaire

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 21 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to this rewind episode in honor of Disability Employment Awareness Month.

Andrea Dalzell (The Seated Nurse on the 'Gram) talks about the struggles of proving she can do her job with her wheels just as effectively as any other nurse.

Listen to her story and find out what happened when Good Morning America honored her as a front line hero and worked with a Foundation to gift her with ONE MILLION DOLLARS!

Follow her on Instagram:

https://instagram.com/theseatednurse?igshid=rlc5b23wodlf

The Day She Found Out She Had Breast Cancer

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 14 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's a member of my tribe Tam! Talking about the day she found out she had breast cancer and her yearlong journey fighting the disease. She is open, honest, candid, and inspirational. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and I am so glad that my girl had the courage to step into the light and share her story.

Find out why she was alone when she found out, what she had to do about the new job she was about to start, and the advice she gives to any brave woman just about to start her cancer journey.

Real Talk with Minda Harts about Workplace Trauma for Women of Color and How to Get Right Within

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 07 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Best-selling author Minda Harts talks about her journey to healing and her new book Right Within - How to Heal from Racial Trauma in the Workplace. Listen to her talk about how her finger nail polish led to daily racial aggression and the courage she found to insist on the respect and treatment she deserved. Her new book is out NOW! Find it wherever you guy your books and learn more about Minda as an author, podcaster, speaker and advocate for women of color.

Check her out and connect with her on social media:

https://www.mindaharts.com

https://www.mindaharts.com/rightwithin

Sis, You Might Need a Booster Shot: Straight Talk from an Infectious Disease Pharmacist

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 30 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0400

As the possibility of a booster seems to be becoming a reality, Dr. JAM, an infectious disease pharmacist, breaks down the myths, what we can expect for the future (masks or no masks) and what she's sees in the ICU as more and more COVID patients are admitted.

Find out where she thinks we can get the best information about the vaccine and why she says getting emergency use authorization is a lot harder than you might think.

REWIND! She is Missing Too - When the Black & Brown Go Missing Where is the Media Coverage?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0400

When the Black and Brown go missing, the alerts, media posts and police updates don't happen quickly. There have been countless examples, most recently the story of Grabby Petito. Her story has made the headlines for weeks and while any missing person is a tragedy, where is that level of coverage and concern when people of color go missing? What needs to happen for things to change?

Meet, Derrica Wilson and Natalie Wilson, two women who set out to make sure our missing family members get the attention they deserve.

My Daughter Breonna

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 16 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0400

In this powerful episode, Breonna Taylor's mom Tamika Palmer talks about her daughter, the night she was murdered and how she is still fighting for those responsible to be held accountable. Find out what she wants people to know about Breonna, how she found out her daughter was gone, what the police didn't tell her and how she is honoring her memory with the foundation that bears her name.

REWIND! When Someone Tells You this is America, Speak English

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 09 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0400

September 15 - October 15 is Hispanic Heritage Month, this is the perfect time to give you another chance to hear this episode.

Listen to two members of my tribe talk about how they handle it when someone insists that they refrain from speaking Spanish and tell them that this is America and they should speak English.

They talk about how they respond and their opinion on why they believe people think it's OK to make such comments.

And we have a special guest that joins us too!

How One Woman's Diary Entry Started a Movement

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 02 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0400

When the pandemic hit, Kyra Peralte needed an outlet to express how this new way of living made her feel. So, she bought a simple black and white composition notebook and began to write. After deciding she wanted to share her thoughts with a stranger and in turn, give them a space to write their own thoughts, she found a woman willing to participate.

That one woman led to another, and another and today, dozens of traveling diaries are making their way across the globe with more than 1,000 women writing their thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams, then passing it along for the next woman to do the same.

Find out what Kyra thinks of the movement she has started and the community she has built who are all connected by the power of pen and paper.

Join the movement:

https://www.thetravelingdiarytour.com/

What the Cancel Culture is Really About and Why the Mainstream Hates the Word Woke

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 26 Aug 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's me and my tribe ya'll! We are talking about the real meaning of cancel culture and why the majority hates the word woke. Both concepts are steeped in the African American culture and were meant to be a way for us to come together and recognize that we are a force to be reckoned with.

Listen to what we have to say, send me a shout out and let me know what you think too! And check out the links below to find out what these concepts were really meant for.

The Cancel Culture Debate

What Woke Really Means

How the Pandemic Inspired One Woman to Follow Her Dreams and Write a Children's Book

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Melissa Toyo had been dreaming about writing a book, but with a family and a full- time job, she could never find the time. Then, the pandemic hit, the world went into lockdown and she suddenly had three extra hours a day that she would normally spend getting to and from work.

So she decided to put that time to good use and began the draft of a children's book. After a few ideas she finally found the one that spoke to her and the book Brown is a Beautiful Color was born.

Find out why a children's book and what she hopes this book will mean for girls of color everywhere.

Brown is a Beautiful Color is out for pre-sale NOW. With an official release is this Saturday-8/14/21.

-Pre-order the hardcover or eBook of Brown is a Beautiful Color: https://www.colorinwriting.com/shop

* Pre-order your eBook directly on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B099314LKK/ref=nodl_?ref_=pe_3052080_276849420

Sha'carri, Simone, Naomi, Mental Health and the Olympics

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 05 Aug 2021 00:00:00 -0400

This year's Olympics has been about so much more than the usual medal count. From Sha'carri's disqualification before the games even began, to Simone's brave decision to take a step back and Naomi's return to light the torch and represent Japan in tennis, women of color have certainly been front and center.

Take a listen as I talk with two members of my village talk about how we feel about it all. Did Sha'carri deserve a chance to run? Why Simone's decision NOT to compete means more than the two medals she's bringing home, and how Naomi started the important conversation of mental health that helped pave the way for Simone to stand in her truth. Mental health has taken center stage at the games.

We definitely have a lot to say. Once you listen, comment back on the IMS Facebook page and tell us what you think.

Falsely Arrested at 13: Now, Interning in the Juvenile Justice System

Karin Davis-Thompson — Wed, 28 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Marie Rattigan was 13 years old. She was riding the bus home when her cousin was assaulted and the bus driver asked the two girls if they wanted to call the police. They said yes, but Maria asked if she could get off the bus while they waited to tell her mother where they were.

One minute, the middle schooler was talking to her mom, the next minute, she was being slammed against a car, frisked, put in handcuffs and hauled away in the back of a police car. Totally confused, Marie refused to agree to a plea deal and opted for a trial.

Fast forward nearly 13 years later, her life has come full circle. Find out what happened, hear her story.

REWIND! Protecting Your Peace - A Conversation with NAMI Exec. Director Natasha Pierre

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 22 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Continuing to honor Bebe Moore Minority Mental Health Month this is a REWIND episode!

This was our conversation last year just before World Mental Health Day:

We had a chance for another important talk with Natasha Pierre, Executive Director of NAMI Hillsborough (Tampa). NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the largest grassroots organization focusing on mental health, mental illness and advocacy.

She talks about the importance of protecting our peace, acknowledging our feelings during this tough time (pandemic, social unrest, job loss) and being unapologetic about meeting our own needs and self-care.

Learn more about the NAMI chapter in your area: https://www.nami.org/Home

Follow Natasha Pierre on social media: https://www.facebook.com/NatashaPierreOfficial

Are you caring for someone struggling with a Mental Illness or an "invisible disability"? Join our community today for support and resources: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2365758677086524/?ref=share

Minority Mental Health Month - Who Cares for the Caregiver?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 15 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400

This is a solo episode ya'll. You know I had to talk about Bebe Moore Campbell Minority Mental Health Month. As I continue to navigate life for my baby girl (who will turn 20 this month!) and figure out how to balance that with my own life, it got me to thinking... who cares for the caregiver?

Listen as I give an update on my beautiful baby girl and give you a few tips on how you can make sure that as you care for others, you don't forget to Take Care of You.

Join our community for caregivers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2365758677086524/

Then, download our newest product, the Self Care Planner Ebook: https://inmyshoestoday.com/shop/ols/products/self-care-planner-ebook

Bonnets and Blankets and Slippers, Oh My!

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400

The reaction to a video a few weeks ago posted by Monique and her feelings on Black women walking around in Bonnets, Blankets and Slippers started a frenzy on social media.

So you know my girls and I had to put in our two cents! Check out what we had to say about this "trend" and how people reacted to Monique's take on it.

It's me, Amber Conage of Designs By Lynne and Maureen Greene-James of MGJ Speaks!

After you listen, check out my girls!

Designs By Lynne: https://designsbylynne.com

MGJ Speaks!: https://mgjspeaks.com

How the Murder of George Floyd Gave this Influencer the Chance to Make a Difference in the Craft Industry

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 01 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Shar Phillips has been crafting for more than twenty years. She joined social media groups to meet other crafters and things were going well, until George Floyd was murdered. And a space that was meant to encourage creativity began to become a place to use creativity to make offensive and inappropriate comments about Floyd's death.

It was clear it wasn't a safe space for women of color. So Shar started her own group, and a year later, she has more than 50,000 women sharing their crafts and making money, starting actual businesses, in a space that still holds little room for women of color. But Shar and her group Brown and Bougie, are committed to changing that - demanding a voice for the millions women of color spend in the industry.

Starting this group has started a revolution and these women have a lot to say.

Follow Shar on Clubhouse or Facebook @Brown and Bougie

I Am Vanessa Guillen

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0400

You have all heard the story. Vanessa Guillen was a vibrant, beautiful 20-year-old soldier who vanished from the Fort Hood Texas Army base. With no real answers from the Army the family began a crusade to find out what happened to Vanessa. Tragically her remains were found on June 30 of last year, killed at the hands of a fellow soldier.

Hear her sister Mayra talk about all the family has been through to ensure Vanessa did not die in vain. Currently the family is working to pass legislation in her honor. Call your representatives and urge them to make her bill law.

Daddy, Daughter and Disability - What It's Like to Be a Girl Dad When Your Baby has a Disability

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's my hubby ya'll! Joining me at the table to talk about being a girl dad and how he handled the news when her diagnoses began pouring in. Sometimes the importance of a dad is overlooked and for Father's Day, I wanted to shine a light on that special relationship between a girl and her dad.

So check out my boo! He has some great wisdom to share and he will talk about the difference between being a boy dad and a girl dad (since we have a son too!). And, you'll find out why it was so important to me that he attend school conferences and events for both of our children.

It's a Father's Day edition of In My Shoes, because a girl needs her dad!

Happy Father's Day!

When They Tell You Your Natural Hair Isn't Professional

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 10 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Meet Brittany Noble, of the Noble Journalist. She was working her way up in TV News, landed an anchor position, then, she had a baby, decided to embrace her natural hair, and everything changed.

They wouldn't accommodate her with a place to pump, they took her face off of the promotional billboards while she was pregnant, she wasn't invited to represent the station at events and had her natural hair deemed unprofessional and compared to wearing a baseball cap.

Find out what she decided to do about it and how the station responded.

Follow Brittany on Instagram: @thenoblejournalist

Meet Mom of Multiples Karen Derrico of TLC's Doubling Down with the Derricos

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's Season 3! I can't believe it!

This was like talking to an old friend ya'll! Karen Derrico was a joy to interview and their show is a breath of fresh air. No drama, no mess, just a family trying to make it work every day.

Listen as she talks about her daily routine and how she handled the question "You pregnant again?!" And even those who tried to discourage the couple from doing the show.

I promise you, after listening to Karen, you will want to watch the show and learn more about the Derricos.

You can watch episodes on TLC and catch the new season each Tuesday at 10 p.m.

REWIND! He Is White, I am Black and I am His Mom

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 20 May 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's another REWIND episode with foster and adoptive mom Keia Jones-Baldwin. She and her husband have four children including a son who is White.

In this episode she talks about the crazy questions she's received over the years, including people calling the police when they are convinced that she must have kidnapped her baby boy.

May is Foster Care Awareness Month and this conversation with Keia is the perfect way to celebrate that.

Follow Keia on Facebook to find out more about her family: https://www.facebook.com/raisingcultures/

ALSO, don't forget you can still help me celebrate my birthday by donating to the non-profit arm of IMS and help us give away journals FREE to girls and women of color.

https://bit.ly/IMSDONATE

Be Blessed!

REWIND - Mental Illness - The Stigma, The Shame, My Story

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 13 May 2021 00:00:00 -0400

May is Mental Health Awareness Month!

Hear NAMI Hillsborough's Executive Director Natasha A. Pierre tell her story of discovery after she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She will talk about the stigma she has faced, what happened when she was first diagnosed and the day she decided she was going to go public with her diagnosis.

NAMI (the National Alliance on Mental Illness) is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization. The goal is to build better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.

To learn more about NAMI go to: https://www.nami.org.

AND... It's my birthday! Don't forget to help me celebrate with a donation to our non-profit so that we can donate journals to girls of color starting their senior in high school, as well as educators of color dedicated to making a difference for children.

Please Donate Today! https://bit.ly/IMSDONATE - Thank you!

It's My Birthday!

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 06 May 2021 20:26:00 -0400

It is my birthday ya'll! Normally I don't celebrate all month, but this year I have something really big to celebrate. For my birthday, help me celebrate with a donation to our non-profit, Sisters Empowering Women, Inc.

We are relaunching the non-profit and we could use your help. SEW's mission is help women and girls of color to find their voice and speak their truth boldly and unapologetically.

A donation will go towards giving journals to girls going into their senior year in high school as well as a journal/planner to educators of color working every day to help our babies on this journey to adulthood.

I hope you would consider donating today: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=7BLHME9UM95CW

She's at the Fridge Again! How a funny post on social media turned KD French into an Internet Sensation

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 19:28:00 -0400

KD French said a few years ago, when she discovered an app that allowed her to record all the vocals of a song with her voice, she started putting her creations on social media.

The more she posted, the more popular they became. And then one day she posted a funny story about her struggles to stay away from the fridge as the pandemic dragged on and boredom set in. The song was a hit and she's been on Good Morning America, the Kelly Clarkson Show and even a game show!

Find out what life has been like since her song went viral.

Follow KD French: https://www.facebook.com/khristie.french

My Infertility Journey - You Are Not Alone

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's just me this week. April 18-24 is National Infertility Awareness Week. I wanted to use this episode to share my own journey and let any woman struggling with infertility know that you are not alone.

Infertility was a part of my story very early and I wanted to share what it was like for me. Although I chose a different path and if you follow me, you know adoption was always a first choice for me, I did learn a young age that if I wanted to get pregnant, it would not be easy.

I hope listening to my story encourages you and reminds you that you are not the only one that has been in the struggle. Be Blessed.

Learn more about National Infertility Awareness Week, visit: https://infertilityawareness.org/about-niaw/

Black Beauty Industry - A Billion Dollar Business So Why So Few Black Women Owners of Beauty Supply Stores?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 15 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0400

The Black Beauty Business rakes in billions of dollars each year, but there are only a handful of companies owned by Black Women with a store selling the products that are targeted almost exclusively to our community.

Meet Pam Thompson of My Shade and Texture. She was tired of not seeing people who looked like her as the owners of beauty supply stores that were marketing and selling exclusively to Black women.

Find out more about her store, how she was able to remain successful during the pandemic, and the scare tactics competitors, with a stronghold in the market, tried to use to keep her from opening.

Visit the store's website to learn more about Pam and how you can place an order from anywhere: www.myshadeandtexture.com

Fear, Communities of Color and the COVID Vaccine

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 01 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to this powerful and important conversation with Dr. Jasmine Marcelin, an Infectious Disease Physician at the University of Nebraska Medical Center.

Dr. Marcelin, a TEDxSpeaker, will talk about the vaccines, how researchers were able to make them so quickly, why she believes there is so much mistrust in communities of color and why it is important to seriously consider getting vaccinated.

She will also discuss how the vaccines are made and tackle several of the myths and misconceptions many have about the vaccines.

We are Talking Colorism a Year Later, The "Angry Black Woman Syndrome and Women, COVID and the Workplace

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 25 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Hanging out with my girls on this episode! As we wrap up celebrating our one year anniversary, this is another group in my tribe talking colorism, one year later, the “angry Black woman syndrome” and our hopes and dreams for the rest of 2021.

Listen to my girls Ginain Grayes, of Cook Pray Slay and Maureen Green James of MGJ Speaks and Wyllow Caraballo-Pasani as we hang out as girlfriends do and talk about whatever comes to mind. It’s a party while we celebrate one year of In My Shoes the podcast!

Check out Ginain at: https://cookprayslay.com/

Check out Maureen at: https://mgjspeaks.com/

Why People of Color Should Care About Colon Cancer

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to Dr. Erin King-Mullins, a colorectal surgeon in Atlanta and founder of Corona Mamas, as she discusses colon cancer, what can be done to catch it early, why family history matters and why people of color, and African Americans in particular, need to learn all they can.

March is Colon Cancer Awareness Month. To learn more, go to:

https://fascrs.org/

https://www.cancer.org/

COVID One Year Later & Racial Injustice - Catching Up with My Tribe

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 21:48:00 -0400

Still celebrating our one year anniversary ya'll! Catching up with some of my tribe and how they feel about COVID and the racial unrest that begun right after In My Shoes began.

Hear what they have to say, how they are doing today and what they think 2021 holds as we work toward herd immunity and maybe a little light at the end of the COVID tunnel.

In My Shoes is One! And Why We Almost Didn't Reach This Milestone

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Celebrate with me in this solo episode as In My Shoes turns ONE! Hear why this exciting day almost didn't happen, why I started the podcast, what I had to do when I was plagued with self-doubt and where In My Shoes is going next.

Don't miss ME, taking the mic solo.

Visit our website: www.inmyshoestoday.com and join our mailing list for all of the IMS news, special offers and exclusive updates.

How One Woman Went from Healthcare to Hairstyles to Working in the Entertainment Industry

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Tinika Carrington thought she wanted to be a nurse, she did hair on the side and eventually decided that working as a hairstylist was the way to go. But a chance conversation with the husband of a client sent her life in a totally new direction. She got her Commercial Driver's License and now works in the transportation teamsters union for the entertainment industry in Georgia.

Breaking into the industry is tough, and many in the majority keep the information to themselves, sharing only with family and close friends. Listen as she talks about the importance of networking and the need for people of color to break through and dispel the myth that there are no qualified people of color to work in technical and support roles in entertainment.

One Black Woman's Brave Story of Infertility

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 18 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Meet Stephanie, she and her husband have been struggling to get pregnant for a while, she was ashamed and often felt horrible as family and friends around her were able to have successful pregnancies.

She tells her story of infertility, how she stays positive and what she told her husband when she first learned she would have trouble getting pregnant. Stephanie will also talk about the stress she was under and what she decided to do to try and increase her chances of having a baby.

Follow Stephanie on LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/stephaine-courtney-m-ed-6ba012b6

Stephanie's website address: www.tlptraining.com

To HBCU or Not to HBCU - That is the Question

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two members of my tribe talk about their college experience - one who attended a PWI (Predominantly White Institution) and on who attended an HBCU (Historically Black College or University).

How did they decide where they wanted to go, what were their experiences like, are there misconceptions about HBCUs that sometimes impact decisions? And if they had to do it all over again, would they make the same college choice?

A Woman of Color Making Her Mark in the White Male Dominated Field of Medicine

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 28 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to Dr. Vanessa Stark, an anesthesiologist in Washington D.C. as she talks about her journey to becoming a doctor, the comments she gets when patients realize a Black woman will take care of them during surgery, and the difference between the way Black men and White men respond when dating a woman with M.D. behind her name.

You can also join Dr. Starks as she hosts a Virtual Town Hall Meeting, COVID: In Our Community. Click here to register:

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/479sqdtastq93vc/AABnK-D3BTN9JtwB7Ic2PFwBa?dl=0

Making "Her"Story

Karin Davis-Thompson — Wed, 20 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0400

It's Inauguration Day! Listen as my girls and I talk about the importance of today - what it means to us and what we think it means for our daughters and the country.

We are dropping this episode a day early because how could we not? It's the day the first woman ever, and a woman of color at that, is the Vice President of the United States!

To say we are excited is an understatement.

It's my little sis Amber Conage of Designs by Lynne and two of my sorority sisters, Lawanda Harper and Tiffini Ferdinand joining me for this important conversation.

Do Women Support Each Other the Way They Should?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 14 Jan 2021 18:13:00 -0400

This one has been in the vault for a bit, but the information is so timely. After watching a little series about women of color on Essence.com and the Madame CJ Walker Story (I know that's how long it's been).

I wondered about women supporting each other, why doesn't it happen more, why is it important and how can we do better?

Listen to me and a few members of my tribe get into this conversation, it's a good one!

It's Just Me - Wrapping Up 2020, An Update on My Girl, Her Battle with Mental Illness, My Hope for 2021 and the One "Resolution" I Just Can't Get Right

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 31 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0400

This is a solo episode guys! Just giving you an update on the last few months of my 2020, my girl, her mental illness, what I just realized about myself, my word (one of them at least) for 2021 and the one place I was hoping to see more progress as we go into the New Year.

There's also a few nuggets about what episodes you can expect in the New Year!

Wishing you all an AMAZING 2021! Happy New Year!

Pay to Play - Black Women on Knowing Their Worth in Business

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as members of my tribe talk about their side hustles, what they do when people want the hook up and when they began to put a price on what they offer clients in business.

It is a great discussion with Maureen, Amber and Ginain. Find out how people reacted when things they once did for free they were now charging for, why they struggled with calling themselves an expert, and how they handle it when in business, clients don't want to pay the price they are quoted.

Learn more about their businesses:

Maureen Greene- James: https://mgjspeaks.com/

Ginain Grayes: https://cookprayslay.com/

Amber Conage: https://www.designsbylynne.com/

And here is a great quote from Amber: "The only person you should try to compete with is the person you were yesterday."

Motherhood, a Pandemic and Race: Meet Dr. Erin King-Mullins founder of Corona Mamas and Featured on the Today Show

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 10 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Dr. Erin King-Mullins said she had trouble finding the support and information she needed after becoming a new mom during the pandemic. As she recovered from preeclampsia, struggled with breast feeding and how to keep her newborn safe during a pandemic, she found that finding the information in one place was a challenge.

So she created Corona Mamas - a website full of great information for moms in all stages of motherhood, from self-care to emotional support to great recipes for breastfeeding moms, you can find it all.

Listen to her share her story and why she thought it was important to start this movement.

Learn more about Corona Mamas: https://corona-mamas.com

An African American Mom Tells Her Story, Loving Three Children - Two White, One Black

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 26 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to adoptive mom Collette Eltzroth and her three children talk about the stares, crazy comments and requests for ID as they live their lives. Collette is Black, her son is White and she has two daughters, one White and one Black.

She says the questions some people ask leave you scratching your head and wondering if they have ever heard the word adoption. Her children say they were aware in elementary school that for their friends and even some adults, the life they saw as normal was anything but to others.

It's a powerful story as we get the perspective of not only an adoptive mom but three great kids whose lives have been forever changed by adoption.

Our Adoption Journey - Me and My Hubby

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0400

It's National Adoption Awareness Month! Listen as my husband and I talk about our journey and how he felt when I told him (while we were dating) that I didn't think having a child biologically was in the cards for me and that I didn't want to try any infertility treatment, I just wanted to adopt.

We talk about it all from how the suspicions about my infertility were confirmed after a great deal of pain led me to see my doctor and the doctor's visit we both had to make to convince my doctor adoption was all I needed - in order for me to get the relief I needed.

How an Elementary School Lesson on Black Lives Matter Divided a Town

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 12 Nov 2020 19:16:00 -0400

After the shooting of Jacob Blake in Kenosha WI, Melissa Statz's students in Burlington, WI began to talk about the protests that followed. They lived about 30 minutes away from Kenosha and many had family there.

Melissa, a social studies teacher, thought it was a good time to talk about racism, Black Lives Matter and why so many people were hurt and upset. What happened hours after she taught the lesson to her fourth grade class was more than she ever expected.

Listen to her tell her story.

What Happens When Black Parents Adopt a White Child?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 05 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Meet Keia Jones-Baldwin, a foster parent and adoptive mom. Listen to her tell her family's story of accusations, questions and strange looks as they raise their children, particularly their youngest son who is White.

Keia and her family have had to answer multiple questions about whether or not they kidnapped him or if she is her son's nanny. It's a powerful discussion about race, adoption and the hurdles we still have to deal with in society when all a family wants to do is love a child.

Meet Gazmin "GG" Mason - The First African American Woman to Win Singles & All-Events Gold in Bowling for the USA Olympic Team

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Gazmine "GG" Mason is a powerhouse and inspiration to young Black girls everywhere who may want to breakthrough in a sport or industry where there are few people who look that they do.

GG talks with In My Shoes about her career as a pro-bowler, what it's like to see very few people who look like her in the sport. She discusses how she got started, what she hopes to achieve and why she believes the sport sometimes doesn't get the respect it deserves.

Learn about GG and what she stands for and her initiatives Black Girls Can Bowl 2 and Got Game.

https://www.facebook.com/bgcb2/

https://www.gotgame10.com/our-story

https://www.gazminemason.com/

Black Women Bearing Arms

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to three women talk about their love of shooting, the gun range and why they decided that this was something they are truly passionate about. Find out what happens when people find out that one of my guests owns a gun range and is a pastor. And what happened the very first time another guest picked up a rifle.

And listen to ya girl (ME) talk about my decision to get my concealed weapons permit and my first time at the shooting range. It's a fascinating conversation about these women specifically and the number of women of color in general who are deciding to exercise their right to bear arms.

Follow my guests on Instagram and Facebook:

Joy Allen

Website: www.e3personaldefense.com
Instagram: instagram.com/e3personaldefense
Facebook: facebook.com/e3personaldefense

Monique Clark

Facebook: www.facebook.com/LionessDefenseFirearmsTrainingLLC/

Instagram: instagram.com/lionessdefensefirearmstraining

Meet Dr. Maya Warren - An African American Female Ice Cream Scientist

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Dr. Maya Warren loves all things ice cream. She has studied the science behind it, she eats, sleeps and lives it. And she may be the only African American ice cream scientist in the United States. And she is a winner of the Amazing Race!

Listen to her story, find out when she realized ice cream was her passion and what she is working on now.

It's a really fun interview, and just the pick me up we all need right now.

*NOTE: this interview was recorded a few weeks ago hence the reference to the U.S. Open. Enjoy!

Follow Dr. Warren at: https://www.instagram.com/p/CFuXUoojhb6/?igshid=1poekkepl76ud

Ice Cream for Change: https://www.icecreamforchange.org

Battle Fatigue - Still Dealing with Racism and a World that Seems to Hate Us

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 24 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

It's my girls ya'll, back for a very important discussion. We are talking about what I am calling Battle Fatigue. It seems like almost everyday there is a new incident of racism and hate speak against people of color.

I feel tired, drained and some days it's hard to be optimistic. In short, I feel like I am doing battle. So, I wanted to know if I was alone in how I'm feeling and invited my tribe to chime in. We are all feeling the strain, trying to keep it together while dealing with the racism that people are so proudly putting on display.

You've met my girls before but just in case:

Ginain Grayes: https://cookprayslay.com/

Maureen Greene-James: https://mgjspeaks.com/

Amber Davis: https://www.designsbylynne.com/

Black, Brown and Missing

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Hear from the founders of the Black and Missing Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated

to finding the missing family members of people of color.

This is an important conversation about what we need to do if a loved one ever goes missing. Find

out why so many young people of color (under the age of 18) go missing without an Amber Alert.

Learn more about the services the organization offers families and what we can all do to help.

http://www.blackandmissinginc.com/

HGTV's Egypt Sherrod Talks About Her Passion to Bring Awareness to the Missing in Communities of Color

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to Egypt Sherrod talk about what she thinks our community needs to do to bring awareness to the thousands of people of color who go missing every year.

Find out what she tells her daughters, what she decided to do last year to make sure she can defend her family and why she thinks more predators believe they can get away with it in broad daylight.

Watch her powerful message: https://www.facebook.com/EgyptSherrod/videos/886565595071872/?vh=e&extid=oJTmFMxeJR3iP6HG

Follow Egypt on Instagram at: egyptsherrod

BONUS EPISODE! Season One Favorites - Foster Care, Adoption and Sybil Wilkes

Karin Davis-Thompson — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Take a listen to what a couple of loyal listeners had to say about what they loved most about Season One. Hear what question one listener would have asked Sybil Wilkes and why another felt such a connection to me, my girl and our story.

Season One DONE! Get ready for Season Two this Thursday!

COVID and the Classroom - What are Black Educators Saying?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 27 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

THE SEASON ONE CLOSER! I can't believe it! One whole season done! I decided to end with this conversation because it was just so timely. I will post my audience look back episode as a bonus on Monday.

Listen as three Black educators from three different states talk about what their school districts are doing in the wake of a pandemic and the need to educate our children. What happens to kids whose parents need to work? What about access to technology? How do they feel about the possibility of returning to the classroom?

Listen to their view and what they said they would do if they were called back to the classroom today. This is a candid and honest perspective from educators trying to do the job they love while staying safe too.

Still on this Journey - Me, My Daughter and Her Mental Illness

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 20 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

This one was tough. Harder to record than I thought it would be. As we begin wrapping up Season 1, several listeners said hearing my story, of raising a child with a mental illness, really resonated with them. So, today is an update of how things are going with my girl.

It has been a really hard few months and talking about it was emotional but helpful. I hope those who listen have more empathy for those of us on this journey. And for my sisters in the struggle, I am praying for you!

Follow In My Shoes on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/NMyShoes2/

https://www.instagram.com/n_my_shoes/

A Black Girl's View

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 13 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

This is me guys! Talking about my feelings about what's been going on over the past few months. It's been a heavy weight and I have loved having the podcast to listen to others and know I am not alone.

A few mentions:

In the podcast I mention a story about a police officer who lost her pension and her job after trying to stop a colleague from using a chokehold on a black man. Here is the story:

https://nypost.com/2020/06/11/buffalo-wants-pension-restored-for-cop-who-stopped-chokehold/

I also mention my blog post from a few months ago about This Land. Just in case you want to read it:

https://inmyshoestoday.com/my-blog/f/why-i-am-tired-of-this-land

Racially Profiling You with Your Name

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 06 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two members of my tribe, Jo-Ann Taveras and Amber Conage talk about how their

names have been perceived, the comments people have made and what happened when the

person expected for the interview or loan meeting, didn't match the name on paper.

Do you think companies, banks and businesses use names as a way to racially profile applicants?

When we allow this to influence something as simple as what we name our children, are

we allowing them some control? I would love to hear your thoughts.

Email me at kdt@inmyshoestoday.com

You can also click on the link below, it gives a great breakdown of systemic racism, including what

we are talking about today.

SYSTEMIC RACISM EXPLAINED

An Interracial Couple Loving Each Other in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 30 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as Darlee and Susan Nelson talk about what it's like to be an interracial couple in America. Hear more about how it has impacted their children, what happens at restaurants almost every time they go and their view of the protests since the murder of George Floyd.

Be sure to like and rate us on iTunes and email me at: kdt@inmyshoestoday.com to let us know what you think of the podcast and what topics you want to hear more about.

Black in Corporate America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Wed, 22 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to career coach Maureen Green-James as she shares stories and gives advice on how to make it as a Black woman in corporate America.

Best known as MGJ, Maureen is a sought after career coach, inclusion champion, and inspirational storyteller who possesses an exemplary brand for collaborating and consulting with senior executives, emerging and mid-career managers and teams. Throughout her career as a People & Employee Experience executive, Maureen is a thought-leader who serves as a principal voice to the business in the areas of diversity, inclusion, equity and belonging, workplace engagement, and leadership development. Managing a successful career while raising a family, Maureen also held a national board seat (SVP of Communications and Branding) with the National Association of African Americans in Human Resources (NAAAHR).

As a career coach, Maureen has transformed the lives of many who have gone on to excel in their personal and professional career endeavors. She also speaks at national conferences on a broad range of topics: leveraging diversity and inclusion to impact a company's bottom-line, leadership brand, executive presence, and transforming young minds towards the aspiration of their excellence.

Visit her website: https://mgjspeaks.com/home

A Black Man in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 16 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

This is a powerful episode with two men I admire very much, my husband Ron and David, the best man in our wedding (and one of his closest friends). Hear them tell gripping stories of encounters with the police, their fears for their children, "friendships" lost over Black Lives Matter and the change they hope to see.

This is one of the most emotional episodes I've ever done.

**PLEASE NOTE: There is one use of the "N" word as they tell the story of an experience that they had with a classmate.**

Don't You See Me? - White Privilege in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 09 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two members of my tribe talk about white privilege, and how it felt to be victims of it. Although this episode was recorded before the current unrest, it was so timely and relevant that I wanted to include it in our Race in America series.

I tell a few stories of my own experience as well. How has it impacted your life? I want to hear from you. Email me at: kdt@inmyshoestoday.com

Two Police Officers One White, One Black Talk Race and Policing in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 02 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Hear two police officers in Florida talk about race, the riots and what it's like to be a police officer in the current climate.

Michael Bucciarelli and Anthony Collins are officers with the sheriff's department in Hillsborough County, Florida. Both talk openly about working in law enforcement today and racial tensions and concerns about police brutality in the wake of the murder of George Floyd.

Raising Black Daughters in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 25 Jun 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Our Black and Brown in America series continues with two mothers of daughters. Listen as Ginain Grayes and LaToya Hayes discuss their fears as they raise daughters in America.

How do they deal with their girls' questions on race, the murder of black men and women and the future they hope for as their daughters grow up in America?

Raising Black Sons in America

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two members of my tribe talk about their concerns raising Black sons in America. Maureen Greene-James and Toni Boyd both have sons in college, they are both 20 years old and away from home. I also have a 20-year-old son who attended technical college and is working in his field.

We discuss the fear that grips us when we can't reach them right away on the phone or when they are away from home longer than expected. Hear what it's like to be the mom of a Black son in America, and why we worry so much about our young men.

Why is it White People Don't Want to Talk About Race?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 11 Jun 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to Dr. Robin DiAngelo talk about her book White Fragility - Why So Many White People Struggle to Talk About Race. She dives into why many white people struggle to deal with racism or admit that they struggle with it.

Her book has been a best seller since it was released in 2018. Dr. DiAngelo is an American academic, lecturer, and author working in the fields of critical discourse analysis and whiteness studies.

Click here to learn more about her book: https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414

Catching Up With Sybil Wilkes - from the Tom Joyner Morning Show

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to a great conversation with Sybil Wilkes. After 26 years on the Tom Joyner Morning Show, the flyjock retired and now Sybil is moving into a new season of life with her daily newsletter What You Need to Know. It's five major news stories that impact the Black Community. Hear her talk about the newsletter, politics and the pandemic.

Click Here to Subscribe to her newsletter: https://sybilwilkes.com/

Stepping Into the Light - My Battle With Depression

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 28 May 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as my classmate Sammecia Bagley talks openly for the first time about her battle with depression. While Sammecia has talked with close friends and family, she has never spoken publicly about her struggle.

Hear her brave conversation about what helps her deal, what triggers an episode and why it was hard for her to decide to step forward.

You will also learn more about the chance to take a mental health first aid training - an opportunity to learn more about how you can detect signs that someone is in mental distress and how you can get them connected with help. If you want to know more click on the links below.

In the Tampa Bay area: https://safeandsoundhillsborough.org/

Throughout the United States: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/take-a-course/

Motherhood, Mindset and Mental Illness

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 21 May 2020 15:26:00 -0400

More Than a Mom founder Andresea Jackson talks about her life as a mom of four, including two children with special needs.

Listen to her talk about juggling motherhood with for kids in school quarantined at home while trying to work full time job and remember to keep working on her own dreams.

It’s a thought-provoking interview that will leave you wanting to know more about Andresea and about More Than a Mom.

Go to her Facebook page: MORE THAN A MOM

Small Business Owner Update - Reopening Her Business in the New Normal

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 14 May 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Catch up with our small business owner, Ivanaa as she lets us in on how things have been going on the eve of being able to reopen her business. She was forced to close in late March because of COVID-19.

Ivanaa began seeing clients in the new normal the week of May 11.

https://www.chateaublanclashandbeautylounge.com/

Quarantine and Self Discovery - What I've Learned

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 07 May 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen to three members of my tribe talk about life in quarantine.

What will they do differently in the "new normal"
How have they been able to advance their side hustles
What is the one word they would use to describe their quarantine experience
Find out who said they would make a terrible teacher and who was at first worried about too much alone time with the hubby only to find it was just what they needed

And check out their businesses:

https://cookprayslay.com/ - Ginain Grayes

https://mgjspeaks.com/ - Maureen Greene-James

https://www.facebook.com/designsbylynne/ - Amber Conage

My Mental Health Journey - NAMI's Natasha A. Pierre In Her Own Words

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 30 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Hear NAMI Hillsborough's Vice President Natasha A. Pierre tell her story of discovery after she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She will talk about the stigma she has faced, what happened when she was first diagnosed and the day she decided she was going to go public with her diagnosis.

To learn more about NAMI go to: https://www.nami.org.

Have You Ever Missed Your Moment?

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 23 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two In My Shoes regulars talk about how they sometimes feel they may have missed a great opportunity worrying about the "what ifs." They will talk about their experiences in business and their personal lives and how they deal with the self doubt we all struggle with as we strive to make our dreams a reality.

Lifetime's I Am Somebody's Child - The Regina Louise Story

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Interested in reading her books?

Somebody's Someone: A Memoir - https://tinyurl.com/ybvo6lgg

Someone Has Led this Child to Believe: A Memoir: https://tinyurl.com/ybjcjgvh

I Am Somebody's Child - The Regina Louise Story (the Lifetime movie) - https://tinyurl.com/ybo3p3j8

Want to Enter for a Chance to Win a Free Audible Edition of Somebody's Someone?

Go to the In My Shoes Facebook Page and Share the Episode 11 is Live post to your FB Page by Wednesday 4/22 and that's it! I will randomly pick one person who was kind enough to share and gift you with the free audible book link.

Mental Illness and a Pandemic

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

This is my story, worrying about my young adult daugther who is battling a mental illness out there in the world during COVID-19. She refuses the help we are offering her and with her host of diagnoses there is no telling what she has been exposed to.

It's been hard and talking about it was a lot tougher than I thought it would be, but I hope opening up helps someone else. #strongertogether

A Small Business and COVID-19

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 02 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Meet Ivanaa. She has a small business in the beauty industry forced to close once our home town inssued a Safer-at-Home order. Hear how she plans to survive and what closing the business has meant for her. PLEASE NOTE: This episode was recorded the week of March 23 so stats such as the number of people applying for unemployment may have chaged.

Want to reach out to Ivanaa? Contact her at the email below: chateaublanclashandbeauty@gmail.com

Talking Colorism Part 4

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 26 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

In this final episode on Colorism, two of our podcast regulars, Amber Congae and Ginain Grayes, talk hair and how their relationship with their hair and the messages they received growing up has shaped their feelngs about wearing their natural hair, how they handle quesitons and comments from famiily and co-workers and how they struggle with the right hairstyle for the workplace.

Learn more about Amber and Designs By Lynne at: https://www.facebook.com/designsbylynne/

Visit Ginain's Lifestyle blog Cook, Pray, Slay at https://cookprayslay.com/

Love the song Amber mentioned? Listen to India.Arie's I Am Not My Hair:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_5jIt0f5Z4

Talking Colorism Part 3

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

How does colorism impact women in the Hispanic community? Two Latina women will discuss their experience with colorism, how it impacted their families, their self esteem and the way they raised their children.

Season 1 Episode 6 - Colorism Part 2

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 12 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

In Part 2 of our colorism series, two of our lighter-skinned sisters talk about their experiences with questions about their blackness and if they have mixed our white parents. And one guest will tell you how she handles for beautiful girls in every shade.

Season 1 - Episode 5 -Talking Colorism - Loving My Dark Skin

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 05 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Listen as two beautiful darker-skinned sisters tell their story dealing with colorism in their community and at home. Maureen and Ginain will give you a great perspective about how they have dealt with comments like "You're pretty for a Black girl," and "You don't really need to get anymore sun do you?"

Here how they handle it all, how it shaped their view of themselves and how it has impacted the way they have raised their children.

Season 1 Episode 4 - Tales from a Brown Girl

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 12:45:00 -0400

In this last solo episode before in-stuio guests, learn more about how the issues women of color face can be swept under the rug. What is it really like in this skin?

Season 1 Episode 3 Confessions of an Adoptive Mom

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 12:30:00 -0400

Adopting my babies has been one of the greatest honors of my life. But it never dawned on me that society might question my choice, or ask me questions and make comments that I can't believe anyone would be bold enough to actually say.

In this next to the last solo episode before our in-studio interviews begin, I'll tell you some of the craziest things people have ever said to me, how I handled it and how it made me feel.

And a little encouragement for anyone considering foster care and adoption. I can't say it is always easy, but it sure is worth it.

Season 1 Episode 2 - Struggling to Use the Words Mentally Ill as Part of My Daughter's Diagnosis

Karin Davis-Thompson — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 06:30:00 -0400

In this solo episode, I give you a little more information on why I started this podcast and blog: www.inmyshoestoday.com, why I had to grieve the loss of the relationship I thought I would have with my daughter and learn how to embrace our connection in order to give her what she needs to fight this battle for her mind.

I'll also tell you my experience as the only person of color in care giver support groups and what happened to me when I thought I was in a safe place to speak my truth, only to have my ability to really express myself crippled by the opinions of a group that should have been there to support me.

In My Shoes Podcast - Intro Episode

Karin Davis-Thompson — Tue, 04 Feb 2020 09:00:00 -0400

So excited to introduce In My Shoes, a podcast that chronicles the life experiences of women of color. This episode tells you what you can expect and what we hope you will learn from listening.