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And why are so many talented leaders told they need this skill - without being shown how to develop it?

In this episode I’m joined by Charlie Curson, strategy consultant, leadership coach, and author of Be More Strategic. Together, we unpack why strategy so often feels intimidating, how it’s different from planning, and how leaders can build the confidence to think and act more strategically - even in uncertainty.

In this episode, we explore:

1. Why “be more strategic” is such common (and unhelpful) feedback for leaders
2. The difference between strategy and planning — and why confusing the two causes problems
3. How creativity plays a vital role in strategic thinking (even if you don’t see yourself as “creative”)
4. Practical ways to manage uncertainty — without needing all the answers
5. Why future-focused thinking doesn’t come naturally to everyone (and how to develop it)
6. Decision-making styles, procrastination, and how to make better calls with imperfect information
7. Charlie’s four-level framework for becoming more strategic — from self-awareness to scaling impact

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

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About Charlie Curson

Founder of Mandarin. Strategic advisor, investor, facilitator and accredited leadership coach with 25+ years across 250+ organisations (including VISA, McDonald’s, Unilever, Experian, Volkswagen Group, L’Oréal, Barclays). Lifelong “tinkerer” obsessed with making things faster, better, smarter, who challenges assumptions and turns clarity into action. He helps leaders and teams build strategic capability and momentum.

Author of Be More Strategic: 12 Essential Practices to Build the

Life and Career You Want. Find out more, and get your copy

Take the Be More Strategic Quiz

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Helen returns to the podcast to talk about her new book, People Glue, and the research behind it. We dig into how to create a working environment where people feel able to do their best work, stay engaged, and choose to stay — even when other options are available.

In this episode, we explore:

1. What People Glue really means
2. The paradox at the heart of retention: why giving people more freedom often makes them more likely to stay
3. The four freedoms people want at work
4. How to tell if your team or organisation is truly “sticky”
5. Practical, low-risk ways leaders can offer more freedom while maintaining clarity and accountability
6. What leaders can do to protect morale and people glue during restructures and periods of change
7. How individuals can reflect on their own experience of freedom at work and take more control of their careers

Helen also shares practical examples from organisations that are getting this right, including simple leadership practices that build trust, psychological safety, and connection - without losing focus on results.

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

Work with Carla:

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About Helen Beedham

Helen Beedham, MA Cantab, is an organisational expert, business book author, speaker and host of The Business of Being Brilliant podcast. Her first book 'The Future of Time: How ‘re-working’ time can help you boost productivity, diversity and wellbeing' was named People, Culture & Management Book of the Year at the Business Book Awards, and her second book 'People Glue: Hold on to your best people by setting them free' was published in January 2026.

Helen advises business and HR leaders on creating a positive culture that fuels growth; helps teams to deliver more and have more fun; and coaches executives to become their sharpest, brightest best. She speaks publicly about the future of work and is regularly featured in national, business and HR press including the FT, Financial News, Forbes, FastCompany and HR Review.

Helen's website

Helen on LinkedIn

The Business of Being Brilliant podcast

Link to buy 'People Glue'

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We talk about curiosity, influence, and what really happens when leaders feel they’re supposed to have all the answers.

In this conversation, we explore:

1. Why most of us stop asking good questions as our careers progress
2. The subtle ways workplace culture rewards answers and punishes curiosity
3. The different motives behind questions — and why some shut people down
4. How questions can build influence without needing certainty
5. What leaders can learn from children, improv, and discomfort
6. Why “I don’t know” might be one of the most powerful things a leader can say
7. The role curiosity plays in a world increasingly shaped by AI
8. Joe’s favourite question — and why it opens doors most people miss

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

Work with Carla:

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About Joe Lalley

Joe Lalley is a writer, speaker, and workshop facilitator who has spent much of his career leading innovation workshops for companies of all industries, shapes, and sizes.

Joe has published multiple articles ranging from how to use curiosity to navigate remote work in the pandemic to how to fix the endless cycles of bad, inefficient meetings.

In 2011, Joe completed the Stanford d.school Design Thinking Bootcamp, an intensive program that draws executives from Fortune 500 companies worldwide. As part of a team with peers from Google and Cisco, he worked directly with JetBlue to redesign the passenger ground experience at San Francisco International Airport. Through field research, interviews, and rapid prototyping, Joe and his team presented innovative solutions to JetBlue executives—a transformational experience that helped shape the next chapter of his career.

Joe has held leadership roles at Columbia University, MTV/Viacom, WWE, PwC, and his own consultancy, Joe Lalley Experience Design. His client portfolio spans global brands and organizations such as Meta, Pfizer, Cisco, Chegg, General Assembly, Match Group/Tinder,

Latham & Watkins, and Lam Research, as well as mission-driven groups like the American Physical Society, Optica, Banyan Global, and CAQH.

In October 2025, Lalley released ‘Question to Learn: How Curiosity Can Transform Your Career, Team, and Organization.’

Website

LinkedIn

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In this episode of Influence & Impact, I am joined by Dr Julia Carden, former Royal Navy officer, leadership coach, and author of You Are Not As Self-Aware As You Think You Are. Drawing on her PhD research and years of coaching senior leaders, Julia shares why self-awareness is harder — and more confronting — than most people expect.

Together, we explore how self-awareness goes far beyond surface-level feedback, why it’s essential for healthy team dynamics, and how leaders can start uncovering their blind spots without becoming defensive.

In this episode, we cover:

1. Why self-awareness is often a blind spot for leaders
2. The moment you say “I’m very self-aware” — and why that’s a warning sign
3. How a lack of self-awareness shows up as team tension, conflict, and disengagement
4. Julia’s practical definition of self-awareness using interpersonal and intrapersonal “ingredients”
5. Why feedback can feel threatening — and how to work with it constructively
6. How leaders can build self-awareness without a coach or 360-degree feedback
7. The role of beliefs, values, emotions, and even physiological responses in leadership behaviour
8. Why the people who irritate us most can be powerful mirrors
9. Simple reflective practices that highly self-aware leaders use consistently
10. The one question leaders can ask themselves daily to deepen self-awareness
11. How greater self-awareness can lead to more compassion, acceptance, and connection at work

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

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About Dr Julia Carden PhD MSc PCC FCIPD

Julia was born and raised in Cornwall and “made in the Royal Navy” and now lives in Hampshire. She has been and continues to be on a lifelong journey in developing her own self-awareness. She works as a relational coach and coach supervisor practitioner, with an academic underpinning. Her work focuses on working with the whole person (both individuals and teams) to expand and deepen self-awareness, so that individuals can connect deeply with others and develop the capacity to sit with uncertainty. Julia has a deep interest in self-awareness and how it helps individuals develop and grow, by enabling firstly self-connection and then connection with others. This approach is underpinned by her PhD research into Self-Awareness. Alongside her coaching and supervision practice she is a visiting tutor at Henley Business School teaching on the Professional Certificate in Executive Coaching, MSc in Executive Coaching for Behavioural Change and heads up the Professional Certificate in Coaching Supervision.

Her new book “You Are Not As Self-Aware As You Think You Are” will was published in October 2025.

Julia is an accredited coaching supervisor and coach with the EMCC and ICF.

Website: https://carden-consulting.co.uk/

Book: https://youarenotasselfawareasyouthink.com/

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Angela shares the five pillars of meaningful work—from autonomy to impact—and we dive into simple, practical steps you can take if you’ve fallen out of love with your role. We also look at the powerful role managers play in helping others find meaning, and how meaning can protect us from burnout when it’s balanced in a healthy way.

We talk about:

• What meaning is and how it differs from purpose

• The five pillars of meaningful work

• Practical ways to create more meaning in your current role

• How leaders can build meaning within their teams

• Why meaning boosts engagement—and how it can sometimes lead to burnout

• A powerful real-life example of how autonomy transformed performance

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

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About Angela Rixon

Angela Rixon is an award-winning leadership strategist, executive coach, and culture-transformation specialist with over 25 years’ experience spanning technology, professional services, and financial sectors. A former Partner at EY and Director at CGI and Mercer, she is recognised internationally for pioneering research and frameworks that close the Purpose-to-Meaning Gap™ enabling organisations to embed meaning into leadership, culture, and performance.

As Founder and CEO of The Centre for Meaningful Work Ltd, Angela helps CEOs and executive teams design human-centred cultures that perform. Her Amazon-bestselling book Meaning Over Purpose: The CEO’s Strategic Blueprint for Growth and Lasting Engagement (2025) combines behavioural science and applied positive psychology to redefine how leaders drive growth through meaning.

Angela’s work blends corporate rigour with psychological depth. An accredited executive coach (MSc, Distinction) and Fellow of the CIPD, she integrates Transactional Analysis, Adaptive Leadership, and Systems Thinking to help leaders achieve measurable business results while fostering inclusion, wellbeing, and authenticity. Clients describe her approach as “supportive, challenging, and transformative.”

A regular keynote speaker on meaningful work, inclusion, and the future of leadership, Angela is the creator of the Lead with Meaning™, Own Your Meaning™, and Meaning Metrics™ frameworks.

She lives in London with her partner Tony and believes that when work works for people, people work better, and organisations thrive.

Email: angela@angelarixon.com

Website: thecentreformeaningfulwork.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/angelarixon

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💡 We talk about: 

• What psychological safety really means 
• The difference between psychological safety and trust 
• Why mistakes aren’t a bad thing 
• What destroys psychological safety 
• Why comfort isn’t the goal 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

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• Visit our new Impactful Teams website 

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We explore why traditional models of leadership don’t always fit women, how to lead in alignment with who you are, and the courage it takes to lead your way in systems not designed for you. 

💡 We talk about: 

• Why many women don’t relate to traditional leadership 
• The Four E’s of authentic leadership 
• How to find and lead from your true essence 
• The power of energy in leadership 
• How to trust yourself and lead your way 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

About Julia Middleton: 

Founder Women Emerging 

Julia Middleton is a best-selling author of “If that’s leading, I’m in”, "Leading beyond Authority" and "Cultural Intelligence" and the host of the Women Emerging podcast. 

She is deeply committed to helping people from all backgrounds to lead and speaks regularly about leadership to audiences around the world.  

In 2022, Julia launched an expedition of 24 women to find 'an approach to leading that resonated with women'. In 2024 she then founded Women Emerging. She now leads expeditions with women across the world using the 4Es methodology, discovered on the first expedition.  

Prior to this Julia was Founder and Chief Executive of Common Purpose, which she grew to become one of the biggest leadership development organisations in the world.  

Julia is also an Ambassador for the Aurora Prize based in Armenia, on the advisory councils of AUB in Lebanon, Fundação Dom Cabral in Brazil and Synapse in Pakistan. She is also a board member of Equality Now globally. 

Born in London and brought up in New York and Geneva, Julia was educated at French Lycées and graduated from the London School of Economics. She is married, with five children and seven grandchildren. 

LISTEN TO JULIA’S TED TALK ON CULTURAL INTELLIGENCE 

Julia’s books can be found here: 

1. If that’s leading, I’m in 

2. Beyond Authority: Leadership in a changing world 

3. Cultural Intelligence: The competitive edge for leaders crossing boundaries: 

CONNECT WITH JULIA ON LINKEDIN 

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My guest Alex Atherton—former head teacher turned leadership coach and author of The Snowflake Myth—is here to challenge the “snowflake” stereotype and get practical about leading Gen Z.  

We explore what’s really driving Gen Z at work and how to recruit, onboard, and set expectations without lowering the bar.  We also talk about how to get intergenerational teams communicating successfully and the skills we need to develop as leaders to get the most out of this younger generation entering the workplace. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

About Alex Atherton: 

Alex Atherton is an experienced educator, keynote speaker and leadership coach. Previously Alex spent 25 years working in inner-city comprehensive secondary schools, of which over half was spent as a headteacher in London.  

Links for Alex: 

Website 

Book: The Snowflake Myth 

LinkedIn 

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In this episode we’re diving into practical strategies to help you pause, regain clarity, and take control of your day. You’ll learn four key steps that can shift your mindset, streamline your priorities, and help you feel more grounded—even when the pressure is on. 

Whether you’re juggling multiple projects, managing a team, or just trying to stay sane through back-to-back meetings, this episode is packed with insights to help you work smarter, not harder. 

Listen in to discover: 

• How a simple shift in perspective can instantly reduce stress 

• Why doing less might actually increase your impact 

• What tasks to start saying no to 

If you’re ready to feel more focused, confident, and in control at work, this episode is for you. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Work with Carla: 

• Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
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Together, we explore why our relationship with our boss has such a huge impact on how we feel at work, the different “types” of difficult bosses you might come across, and how to work more effectively with them – without losing your sanity or confidence. 

We cover: 

• The most common “types” of difficult boss 
• How to understand what’s driving your boss so you can partner with them 
• Simple tools to stay calm and grounded before tough meetings 
• Ways to make sure you’re not accidentally someone else’s “difficult boss” 

If you want to feel calmer, more in control and more influential in your relationship with your boss, this episode is packed with ideas and tools you can start using right away. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

My Emotional Work Life Podcast 

Ep 03: The difficult boss survival guide | Jen McCanna 

Ep 02: Finding a job after a toxic work experience | Jen McCanna 

About Jen: 

Jen is sought after as a leadership coach who is often asked to help clients overcome periods of challenge and change, helping them rebuild their confidence and self-belief and realise their ambition. She supports leaders to manage their energy and navigate their emotions so they can feel calm and resourceful at work. 

Not only an experienced coach with the international coaching federation, Jen is a emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner, Resilience Dynamic practitioner and designs and delivers leadership development programmes and team building days for clients across the charity, corporate and public sectors. 

In her podcast – My Emotional Work Life – Jen and her guests share stories and strategies that help listeners navigate the rollercoaster that is working life. Check it episodes on difficult bosses, job hunting after a toxic work experiences and navigating the menopause at work. 

Ever experienced a toxic work relationship, badly handled restructure or the challenge of an HR process which rumbles on and on? Feel it knocked you for six a bit? Then Jen is your coach! 

Find My Emotional Work Life here: https://podfollow.com/my-emotional-work-life 

And her website is full of resources designed to make the lives of busy leaders easier  

You can follow Jen @jen_the_leadership_coach on Instagram or here on LinkedIn. 

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You’ll hear the difference between task and relational conflict, learn their 5R model (Reflection, Regulation, Readiness, Response, Repair) and pick up quick, practical tips you can use to calm my nerves, land your message and repair relationships. 

Alice Driscoll and Louise van Haarst are the founders of The Power House, a global 

leadership development and cultural transformation business on a mission to unlock human and organisational potential. They work with organisations including BBC Studios, PwC, Deutsche Bank, LVMH, Johnson & Johnson, ProperCorn, Bethnal Green Ventures and Zinc VC. 

Their new book ‘Smart Conflict - how to have hard conversations at work’ is a highly 

practical, evidence-based guide to getting good at conflict and hard conversations at work. Whether your default conflict style is avoidant, inflexible or aggressive, this book will give you the tools to embrace Smart Conflict and transform your leadership, your team and maybe your life. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

Buy Smart Conflict, How to have hard conversations at work:  https://mybook.to/SmartConflict   

Download free resources including our read-along workbook: https://thepowerhouse.company/resources 

Take the default conflict style and team diagnostics:  https://thepowerhouse.company/diagnostics 

LinkedIn: Alice Driscoll  

LinkedIn: Louise van Haarst  

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This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high-performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately to be better at your job without working harder. 

In This Episode: 

• Operational vs. Strategic Leadership 
• Why Leaders Get Stuck in Doing 
• The Cost of Staying in the Weeds 
• Signs You’re Too Operational 
• The Strategic Leader’s Role 
• Building a Self-Sufficient Team  
• Creating Space for Strategic  

Mentioned in This Episode: 

Episode 61 - How to be great at delegation. 

Episode 174 - How to be a coach-like manager with Jude Sclater. 

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• Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
• 1:1 Leadership Coaching with Carla – Define your unique leadership brand and thrive outside the mould. Book a discovery call 

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Eleanor introduces us to her five-step Change Mastery model, a practical and powerful framework designed to help leaders process change themselves before they try to lead others through it. We explore why traditional approaches to change often fall short, the emotional complexity leaders face in transition, and how we can show up more intentionally and empathetically during uncertain times. 

This episode is for any leader navigating change themselves or trying to lead a team through transformation. Whether you’re facing restructures, technological shifts, personal crossroads—or simply the everyday micro-changes of life—this conversation offers clarity and compassion. 

Episode highlights: 

• Why change is rarely linear and almost never neat 
• The difference between managing change and mastering it 
• How leaders can work through change themselves before leading others 
• The five steps of Eleanor’s Change Mastery model for leaders: 

1. Pause – Start by stopping. Create space to rest and think. 
2. Mess – Acknowledge the emotional complexity and personal impact. 
3. Play – Get curious and explore possibilities without pressure. 
4. Try – Take small, intentional steps forward. 
5. Restart – Begin again, but with clarity and intention. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

About Eleanor Tweddell: 

Eleanor Tweddell is a coach, change consultant, facilitator, keynote speaker and author. After over two decades working in senior corporate management roles, including Whitbread, Virgin Atlantic and Vodafone, she founded Another Door with the mission of helping individuals, teams and businesses navigate change. 

• Website: Another Door 
• LinkedIn: Eleanor Tweddell 
• Book: Another Door Opens (Coming 4th September 2025) 

Work with Eleanor: 

Eleanor now offers Change Mastery for Leaders and Change Mastery for Teams—high-impact workshops designed to help people navigate transition with intention and resilience. 

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• Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
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Your heart skips a beat. You’re thinking, “Uh… how do I respond without sounding defensive or totally thrown?” 

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m sharing practical strategies for handling objections and challenging questions in meetings with confidence, clarity, and composure. You’ll learn how to stay grounded in the moment, turn objections into opportunities, and even use these situations to boost your credibility. 

In This Episode: 

• My story of presenting my first strategy to a board - and what I learned the hard way about handling challenging questions 
• Why objections trigger us (hello, imposter feelings and fear of being wrong!) 
• How to reframe objections as engagement—not personal attacks 
• 4 common types of challenging questions—and how to handle each 
• The B.R.I.D.G.E. Framework for structured, confident responses 
• Language you can use in the moment, even when caught off guard 
• Mindset shifts to help you stay calm and in control under pressure 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Mentioned in This Episode: 

• Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
• 1:1 Leadership Coaching with Carla – Define your unique leadership brand and thrive outside the mould. Book a discovery call 

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We’re diving into what really makes a team impactful - not just in terms of performance, but in how aligned, influential, and sustainable their success is. 

Lara and I share our brand-new Impactful Teams framework to help teams grow their impact. We talk about why psychological safety, emotional intelligence, and shared purpose are essential ingredients, and why even high-performing teams can still have hidden challenges holding them back. 

We also share the story behind how Lara and I started working together and how our different but complementary strengths have shaped the way we support leaders and teams. 

If you’re leading a team—or want to take your already successful team to the next level—this episode will give you practical insights and a clear starting point to increase your team's influence and impact. 

In this episode, you’ll hear: 

• Why I’ve invited Lara Cullen to co-host episodes focused on Impactful Teams 
• The story of how we met and why we decided to collaborate 
• Our Align–Amplify–Embed framework for building Impactful Teams 
• What really drives team success (hint: it’s not just the individuals) 
• The 5 key elements of team alignment using our TEAMS model 
• How to amplify your team’s voice and influence across your organisation 
• The importance of embedding change to make it last 
• How you can find out how impactful your team really is right now 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Work with us: 

• Impactful Teams Scorecard – It takes just 2 minutes to discover where your team is strong and where you might want to focus next. You’ll get personalised results—and for a limited time, you can also book a free 30-minute call to talk through them. 
• Visit our new Impactful Teams website 

Work with Carla: 

• 1:1 Leadership Coaching with Carla – get the support you need to thrive in your role. Book a discovery call 

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In this episode, I’m walking you through exactly how to set yourself up for success in your first 90 days and beyond. I’ve been a new senior leader multiple times myself, supported countless coaching clients through the transition, and even placed senior leaders when I ran a recruitment agency – so this is one of my favourite topics to share on. 

Whether you're stepping into your first senior role or switching organizations at a senior level, I’ll help you avoid the common traps and start your new role with clarity and confidence. 

🔍 What I cover in this episode: 

• The biggest mistakes new leaders make – and how to avoid them 
• Why over-promising and trying to "know it all" early on can derail your influence 
• The Valley of Doom – why it’s real, and how to move through it faster 
• The key mindset shift that will help you feel more confident when you don’t have all the answers 
• How to start strong: building trust, strategic relationships, and team insight 
• The conversations you must have with your line manager early on 
• How to assess your team and create a leadership development plan 
• What to do three months in: reflect, realign, and co-create your team’s future vision 

This episode is packed with practical tips you can implement immediately – plus some heartfelt encouragement if you’re doubting yourself right now. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Mentioned in This Episode: 

•  Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
• Need support in your new role? Coaching can help you navigate the transition with confidence. Drop me a message on LinkedIn or Book a discovery call 

📢 If This Resonated… 

Please share this episode with a fellow leader who needs to hear it. 

Leave a review to support the show or reach out to me directly — I’d love to hear what landed most for you. 

Mentioned in this episode:

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In this episode, I’m flipping the script on outdated leadership expectations and exploring how your difference is actually your strength. 

What You’ll Learn: 

• What “the leadership mould” really is — and who it was built for 
• The hidden cost of trying to fit into a leadership style that doesn’t align with your values 
• Why traditional feedback like “you need more gravitas” often reflects bias, not fact 
• The power of leading with empathy, reflection, and authenticity 
• Real-life examples, including Jacinda Ardern’s leadership style and Carla’s own journey 
• 3 practical shifts to help you embrace your leadership identity and develop to the next level of leadership 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Mentioned in This Episode: 

•  Impactful Teams Scorecard – Discover how your team measures up and how you can grow your team’s impact. 
• 1:1 Leadership Coaching with Carla – Define your unique leadership brand and thrive outside the mould. Book a discovery call 

📢 If This Resonated… 

Please share this episode with a fellow leader who needs to hear it. 

Leave a review to support the show or reach out to me directly — I’d love to hear what landed most for you. 

Mentioned in this episode:

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Some of us can spend a fair bit of time negatively comparing ourselves to this fictional and seemingly perfect leader! That mental energy could be going somewhere far more productive so in this mini episode I want to unpick the myth that a good leader always has the answers. 

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders with Carla Miller, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Stay in Touch: If you're tuning in on Apple Podcasts, click follow so you never miss an update. 

Spread the Love: On June 16th or 17th, share the podcast on social media or leave a review on Apple podcasts. Snap a screenshot and send it to hello@carlamiller.co.uk, and I'll send you an exclusive pack of my Influence & Impact affirmation cards as a thank you. 

Work with Carla: To chat about hiring Carla as your coach or to work with your team book a call or visit carlamiller.co.uk. 

Mentioned in this episode:

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In this mini episode, I’m going to share with you a simple but truly effective way to dial back that overwhelm and make things simpler for yourself.   

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders with Carla Miller, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Stay in Touch: If you're tuning in on Apple Podcasts, click follow so you never miss an update. 

Spread the Love: On June 16th or 17th, share the podcast on social media or leave a review on Apple podcasts. Snap a screenshot and send it to hello@carlamiller.co.uk, and I'll send you an exclusive pack of my Influence & Impact affirmation cards as a thank you. 

Work with Carla: To chat about hiring Carla as your coach or to work with your team book a call or visit carlamiller.co.uk. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

This is Influence & Impact for Leaders with Carla Miller, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder. 

Stay in Touch: If you're tuning in on Apple Podcasts, click follow so you never miss an update. 

Spread the Love: On June 16th or 17th, share the podcast on social media or leave a review on Apple podcasts. Snap a screenshot and send it to hello@carlamiller.co.uk, and I'll send you an exclusive pack of my Influence & Impact affirmation cards as a thank you. 

Work with Carla: To chat about hiring Carla as your coach or to work with your team book a call or visit carlamiller.co.uk. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In our conversation we discuss… 

• How to weigh different perspectives and ‘effectively deliberate’ 

• The ‘transparency and fairness tests’ you can apply to decisions 

• Creating safe spaces for difficult discussions after hard decisions 

• The concept of the ‘moral remainder’ and how it will help you navigate hard decisions and their aftermath 

• What we can learn from philosophy about leadership 

• How having a ‘challenger role’ could make your leadership team’s decisions better 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Other news: 

I’m taking a 3 month pause from the podcast and we will be back in June.  Do explore the back catalogue of 180 episodes if you are looking for some practical leadership inspiration and make sure you are signed up to my newsletter to be notified when the podcast starts again. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

About Sarah Miller: 

Sarah Miller is the Chief Executive at Principia, the leading global ethics consultancy.  She is a senior client partner and advisor with leading global companies on values-based leadership, culture and decision-making, primarily working across technology, financial services, energy, construction, professional services and non-profit sectors.  

Sarah has twenty years’ experience in global leadership roles in complex international settings, including significant strategy, governance, multicultural team management and operational oversight responsibilities.  An organizational development expert, much of her career has involved designing and...]]>Many leaders struggle with making tough decisions and dealing with their aftermath. In this episode Sarah Miller, CEO at leading global ethics consultancy Principia, shares how ethics can provide a set of resources and tools to use within decision-making, guiding how we lead as individuals from our own place of values, but probably more critically, how we engage with others who bring their own sets of values. 

In our conversation we discuss… 

• How to weigh different perspectives and ‘effectively deliberate’ 

• The ‘transparency and fairness tests’ you can apply to decisions 

• Creating safe spaces for difficult discussions after hard decisions 

• The concept of the ‘moral remainder’ and how it will help you navigate hard decisions and their aftermath 

• What we can learn from philosophy about leadership 

• How having a ‘challenger role’ could make your leadership team’s decisions better 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Other news: 

I’m taking a 3 month pause from the podcast and we will be back in June.  Do explore the back catalogue of 180 episodes if you are looking for some practical leadership inspiration and make sure you are signed up to my newsletter to be notified when the podcast starts again. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

About Sarah Miller: 

Sarah Miller is the Chief Executive at Principia, the leading global ethics consultancy.  She is a senior client partner and advisor with leading global companies on values-based leadership, culture and decision-making, primarily working across technology, financial services, energy, construction, professional services and non-profit sectors.  

Sarah has twenty years’ experience in global leadership roles in complex international settings, including significant strategy, governance, multicultural team management and operational oversight responsibilities.  An organizational development expert, much of her career has involved designing and facilitating change processes, focusing on the intersection of culture and conduct with systems and structures.  She is committed to bringing human centred design and systems thinking into her work with leaders, increasing awareness and equipping with the practical tools to build a more responsible, inclusive business environment.  

Sarah's areas of expertise include good governance, ethical decision making, diversity and inclusion and speak-up.  She brings deep knowledge and experience with sustainability, DEI, business and human rights and key drivers of poverty and inequality, and has led socially and environmentally responsible initiatives in more than 30 countries. 

Sarah holds an M.S. in International Affairs and has spent most of her career working extensively across the Americas, Asia, Africa, Europe, and the Middle East. She began her career working on immigration, refugee resettlement, mental health and housing and homelessness issues in the United States, and continues to be actively engaged in these issues as a Board member. She is now based in Edinburgh, U.K. with her husband and two daughters. 

Principa’s website: www.principia-advisory.com 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In our conversation we discuss… 

• What is the ‘small stuff’ and why should leaders sweat it? 

• What are micro-interactions and why do they mater so much? 

• How important it is for leaders to recognise that their job is their people 

• Becoming more conscious of the impact of both the content and delivery of our words  

• The ways in which many leaders unconsciously create a team culture through their behaviour 

• Top tips for making every interaction count in a positive way 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again later in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

About Sarah Langslow: 

Self-awareness as a leader is easier said than done since we all have blind spots.  One way to improve the quality of our working relationships is to get our micro-interactions right.  When I came across Sarah Langslow’s book ‘Do Sweat the Small Stuff’ I immediately recognised it as an invaluable guide to any leader looking to lead in a positive and people-focused way so I’m excited to share this conversation with you. 

In our conversation we discuss… 

• What is the ‘small stuff’ and why should leaders sweat it? 

• What are micro-interactions and why do they mater so much? 

• How important it is for leaders to recognise that their job is their people 

• Becoming more conscious of the impact of both the content and delivery of our words  

• The ways in which many leaders unconsciously create a team culture through their behaviour 

• Top tips for making every interaction count in a positive way 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again later in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

About Sarah Langslow: 

Sarah Langslow is an executive coach and leadership development specialist. She integrates leadership lessons from a sporting career as a rower, including competing twice in the Oxford and Cambridge Boat Race, a 15-year corporate career across management consulting and finance, and experience as an entrepreneur with her own coaching and leadership development business. Sarah has an MA and an MBA from the University of Cambridge and is accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF) as a Professional Certified Coach. Sarah’s new best-selling book “Do Sweat the Small Stuff” illuminates the often unrecognised power of micro-interactions to supercharge leadership effectiveness and people development. 

Find out more about Sarah Langslow: 

Sarah on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahlangslow/ 

Sarah on Instagram - @sarahlangslow_coach 

Sarah’s website - sarahlangslow.com 

Sarah’s book – Do Sweat the Small Stuff  

Sarah is offering a free workshop: Small Stuff Big Impact, which provides an introduction to what micro-interactions are and why they matter in leadership. Participants will discover how small adjustments in communication, tone, and behaviour can create a ripple effect, transforming their daily interactions into powerful tools for engagement. And, they will learn how to translate theory into action – they will leave with a framework to think through their micro-interactions and practical suggestions to start making subtle but effective changes right away. 

Link to learn more and to register is here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/gWHNaQrNRXqVJJ2OQWvOAQ 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

Sarah Manley built a highly successful career in marketing as a deep introvert but was growing tired of being ‘always on’ and visible and increasingly felt like she was in the wrong place.  It ate at her confidence.  Then she discovered ‘Quiet’; by Susan Cain and she understood herself and her strengths fully for the first time.  Sarah approached work with a new mindset and embraced being an introvert at work.  In her book ‘The Quiet Catalyst’ Sarah shares her insights, tools and strategies to thriving as an introvert at work. 

In our conversation we discuss… 

• How to network successfully as an introvert 

• How to navigate working with an extraverted manager 

• How to gather feedback that works for you as an introvert and how to make it useful 

• Why energy management is so important for introverts and Sarah’s tools for managing your energy effectively 

• Top tips for presentations 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

Workplaces and meetings are not set up to get the best out of introverts so it’s no wonder that many people who identify as introverts can experience self doubt at work even in leadership roles. 

Sarah Manley built a highly successful career in marketing as a deep introvert but was growing tired of being ‘always on’ and visible and increasingly felt like she was in the wrong place.  It ate at her confidence.  Then she discovered ‘Quiet’; by Susan Cain and she understood herself and her strengths fully for the first time.  Sarah approached work with a new mindset and embraced being an introvert at work.  In her book ‘The Quiet Catalyst’ Sarah shares her insights, tools and strategies to thriving as an introvert at work. 

In our conversation we discuss… 

• How to network successfully as an introvert 

• How to navigate working with an extraverted manager 

• How to gather feedback that works for you as an introvert and how to make it useful 

• Why energy management is so important for introverts and Sarah’s tools for managing your energy effectively 

• Top tips for presentations 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

About Sarah Manley: 

Sarah Manley, an Amazon #1 bestselling author, career coach, mentor and speaker draws on two decades of international corporate experience. As the founder of The Quiet Catalyst, she helps introverted professionals unlock their potential by offering tailored guidance for navigating corporate life with confidence and energy. 

Find out more about Sarah: 

Website: www.thequietcatalyst.com  

Sarah’s links: https://linktr.ee/thequietcatalyst 

Sarah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahmanleytqc/ 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sponsor my 50th birthday Great North Run to find a cure for diabetes 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In this episode you’ll hear more about… 

• How overthinking is linked to avoiding our feelings 

• The 3 key fears that come up for many of us 

• The signs that you may be overthinking 

• Practical steps you can take to deal with overthinking and build more positive thought patterns 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

You might also enjoy episode 110 ‘How to stop overthinking’ and episodes 122 and 123 on worrying. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

More about Nicole Freeman: 

Nicole is a highly regarded ICF accredited coach working with mid- and senior-level professionals. With chartered accountancy and MBA qualifications as well as experience as an interim FD, business consultant, owner of her own multi award winning business and having run a small family business, she’s commercially focused with strong business acumen, and comfortable across a range of industries. Her background as a top performing audit and transaction senior manager, and then project manager to the UK leadership team in one of the Big 4 accountancy firms, means she’s well placed to understand the challenges those in professional services face.  

Her areas of expertise are around perfectionism, people pleasing and 

procrastination, things common for high achievers. As a trusted confidante, sounding board and thinking partner, Nicole is a natural asset to individuals and organisations keen to unlock their full potential through coaching. 

Nicole’s website: www.nicolefreeman.co.uk  

Find Nicole on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-freeman-coaching/  

Nicole offers a free Mindset MOT you can book at: https://tidycal.com/nicolefreeman/mindset-mot 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

Perhaps you relate – you need to make tough decisions as a leader but you take things to heart, you care about people and their wellbeing and sometimes the decisions you make can have significant impact on others.   

Or perhaps you are the person who is implementing the decisions that others have made and cascading unwelcome news or making unpopular changes.  You may be involved in a restructure for example or taking a team member through performance management. 

Now, I didn’t want to call this ‘how to care less as a leader’ because I don’t think that those of us who care a lot would embrace the idea of caring less.  Caring, having empathy, being conscious of the impact of our decisions on people - these are all wonderful traits for a leader to have and may well be a huge strength of yours as a leader. 

However, if caring has no boundaries around it then you could be heading towards sleepless nights, self-doubt and possibly even burnout. 

In this episode I’m going to explore 3 insights and 3 tools and techniques to help you if you are someone who cares too much as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the May cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Get in touch with me via LinkedIn or my website to chat about how I could work with you or your organisation. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

One of the key issues we discussed was the challenge of being interrupted in meetings, particularly for women. I provide strategies for managing interruptions and finding opportunities to speak up, including utilising allies and the powerful strategy of amplification. 

In this episode you’ll hear more about… 

• The impact of gender bias on confidence. 

• Strategies for managing interruptions and finding opportunities to speak up. 

• The importance of integrating body language tools and my "Cloak of Authority" to feel more in control in challenging situations. 

• The significance of delivering feedback upwards in a diplomatic and solution-focused manner. 

• The importance of body language and ending contributions with confidence. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Women Leading: 

My Women Leading community gives you the support and strategies you need to: 

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations 

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing 

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively 

⭐ Stop people pleasing  

⭐ Lead under pressure 

All for just £49/month  

And if you’re not already an avid listener to Aoife’s Happier At Work podcast go follow it now.  She has some fantastic guests talking about all aspects of work. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In this week’s episode I interview Jude Sclater about her book ‘Think Like a Coach’ which is a wonderfully practical step by step guide that any manager can use to become a coach-like manager.  Jude simplifies coaching for us, defining it as giving someone your attention while they think out loud and emphasizes the importance of listening and asking questions 

We discuss… 

- Jude’s 3 principles to help you become more coach-like with your team 

- When to coach your team and when not to! 

- Jude’s ‘Two Step’ approach to get you coaching straight away 

- The number one step you can take to create psychological safety in your team 

- How to coach in 5 minutes or less 

- How to support a team member experiencing strong emotions  

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Women Leading: 

My Women Leading community gives you the support and strategies you need to: 

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations 

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing 

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively 

⭐ Stop people pleasing  

⭐ Lead under pressure 

All for just £49/month  

About Jude Sclater: 

Jude Sclater is a coach, author, and trainer. Her book, “Think Like a Coach: How to empower your team through everyday conversations,” introduces the innovative Coaching Two-Step model that simplifies coaching down to its core principles, enabling you to swiftly adopt a coaching management style. 

Over 20 years her career has spanned audit, project management, and learning and development for companies such as Deloitte. Pearson and Penguin Books. She draws on this vast experience to coach and train managers from consulting, legal, and financial service industries, guiding them from individual contributors to great team managers.  

Links from Jude: 

Website: www.thinkwithjude.com  

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/judesclater  

Instagram: www.instagram.com/thinkwithjude  

Blog Signup: www.thinkwithjude.com/signmeup  

Booksellers: www.thinkwithjude.com/think-like-a-coach#buy 

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• The story of my career and how and why I became a coach 

• My top tips on making the right first impression on a new line manager or senior stakeholder 

• How to hold your own and build your influence with the key stakeholders in your organisation 

• Some of my top tips for being confident around senior people 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Women Leading: 

My Women Leading community gives you the support and strategies you need to: 

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations 

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing 

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively 

⭐ Stop people pleasing  

⭐ Lead under pressure 

All for just £49/month  

And if you’re not already an avid listener to Lucy’s 360 LeadHERship podcast go and add it to your follow list now. 

Mentioned in this episode:

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I explore this with my guest Emma Thomas, founder of Managing the Menopause and host of the Middling Along podcast. 

We discuss: 

• Why employers should care about supporting women through this transition  

• What managers can do to be supportive of colleagues struggling with perimenopause symptoms  

• How to talk to your line manager about your symptoms and what support you can request 

• Emma’s SENSE model for managing symptoms through lifestyle changes 

• Insights on how caffeine and alcohol impact your sleep 

Emma is also teaching her SENSE model inside my Women Leading community at our bi-monthly menopause gatherings where we meet to share experiences and coping strategies. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Be Bolder 

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover: 

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt 

⭐ Mastering your mindset 

⭐ Courageous conversations 

⭐ Speaking up  

Women Leading: 

My Women Leading community gives you the support and strategies you need to: 

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations 

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing 

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively 

⭐ Stop people pleasing  

⭐ Lead under pressure 

All for just £49/month  

About Emma Thomas: 

Emma is the founder of Managing the Menopause - her experience in coaching, internal communications and change management make her perfectly placed to help organizations plan and execute strategies to become more ‘menopause-friendly.’ Emma lives in Oxford with her husband and two children, and is also a Director of the Udjat CIC, which operates a wide-range of projects within Oxford and beyond. 

Emma’s website: www.managingthemenopause.com   

Emma’s podcast: www.middlingalong.com 

Mentioned in this episode:

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An emotional overdraft is when you as a leader habitually overcome your employer’s challenges at the cost of our own physical and mental health. Sound familiar?

I am seeing this happening a LOT at the moment with the women within my Women Leading community so I was excited to dive into the topic with the book’s author Andy Brown.

We discussed:

• The cost of going too deep into your emotional overdraft
• How to start paying it back
• What behaviours or drivers create our emotional overdraft
• The role of management skills and influencing in changing a culture which relies on people being emotionally overdrawn
• How to approach urgency and filling short term gaps more strategically
• How the emotional overdraft shows up outside of work

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge:

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days!

Influence & Impact:

Join the next cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions.

Be Bolder

My Be Bolder 4 week confidence and assertiveness course will be running again in February.  In it we cover:

⭐ Tackling imposter feelings and self-doubt

⭐ Mastering your mindset

⭐ Courageous conversations

⭐ Speaking up 

Women Leading:

My Women Leading community gives you the support and strategies you need to:

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively

⭐ Stop people pleasing 

⭐ Lead under pressure

All for just £49/month 

About Andy Brown:

Andy has over 30 years’ experience as an award-winning adviser and coach for people-based businesses. He’s also a podcast host and the author of Amazon #1 best seller, ‘The Emotional Overdraft: 10 simple changes for balancing business success and wellbeing’ a book for entrepreneurs, leaders and founders that articulates the often overlooked mental and physical costs of leadership

Links from Andy:

Buy the book in the UK 

Complete the free Emotional Overdraft Self-Assessment 

Connect with Andy 

Follow Emotional Overdraft on Instagram 

Get all the latest Emotional Overdraft articles 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

Perhaps it stops you contributing in meetings for fear of judgement from others.  

Or keeps you awake replaying conversations in your head feeling like you said something wrong.  

Or it means when you’ve got something challenging to say you water it down to the point where you’re barely making a point anymore.

If any of that sounds familiar then keep listening because in this short episode I’m going to give you some insights and strategies you can use to reduce those worries and allow you to perform at your best at work.

This is the third in a series of three podcasts this summer around mindset so if you’ve not already listened to episode 166 on overcommitting and episode 168 on people pleasing do bookmark those to listen to.   

One of the most powerful things you can do is learn how to say no which is why I’ve created my free How To Say No challenge which will take you from saying yes and regretting it to feeling comfortable saying no in just 5 days. Head over to carlamillertraining.com/sayno to access that.

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.  

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge:

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You get a short email containing a short video each day, taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days.

Access it at carlamillwertraining.com/sayno

Influence & Impact:

Join the September cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions.

Find out more at https://carlamiller.co.uk/influence

Women Leading:

You can now join over 40 women in Women Leading for just £49 a month and learn to lead without overwhelm.  It includes peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership or wellbeing workshop each month on topics including…

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team
• How and When to Coach Your Team
• Reducing Drama in your Team
• Setting and Holding Boundaries

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading 

You may also find episode 32 Why we look to others for validation useful

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We discuss: 

• Sue’s overall philosophy for coping with a crisis 

• How to calm yourself down from the initial state of panic 

• How to keep your team calm in a crisis too 

• The importance of taking personal responsibility as a leader 

• What to do when you don’t know what the right decision is 

• The keys to successful communication when managing a crisis 

Sue shares some great stories from her own leadership experience, as well as her 6 step crisis management framework from her book Firecracker Leadership. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.   

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

About Sue Musson: 

Sue Musson achieved her first board-level leadership role at the age of twenty-seven. She is keen to share what she has learned to help other women build their confidence and impact. 

For 30 years, Sue has led numerous organisations including her own successful businesses under the Firecracker brand. She recently completed her term as Chairman of Liverpool University Hospitals, one of the largest NHS trusts in the country, with 14,000 staff and a turnover of £1.2Bn.  Sue led the trust through a merger, the pandemic and the opening of a new hospital by the Prince and Princess of Wales.  

Her experience of leadership spans the full gamut of highs and lows, which she recounts with honesty, insight and humour in her new book, Firecracker Leadership.  

The book achieved number one bestseller status in three categories on Amazon and became a top ten bestseller in the USA. Firecracker Leadership is endorsed by the Mindvalley Book Club: “We are happy to endorse Firecracker Leadership (which) is a wonderfully written and structured book. It is packed with great ideas and quote-worthy wisdoms…It is a wonderful book that we are happy we got our hands on.” 

Concepts from the book have been featured in publications like Forbes, European Business Review, Elite Business, She Can Code, HR News, Startups Magazine, Training Journal and The HRDirector.  

Having served for fifteen years as a non-executive director and chair of five of the UK’s most significant healthcare organisations, Sue continues her public service by chairing panels to appoint UK judges in addition to running her own businesses. 

Sue’s website - https://www.suemusson.com/   

Sue on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/sue-musson-a0119416  

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days! 

Access it at carlamillertraining.com/sayno 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the September cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Find out more at https://carlamiller.co.uk/influence 

Women Leading: 

My Women Leading community gives you the support you need to: 

⭐ Set boundaries and expectations 

⭐ Prioritise your wellbeing 

⭐ Coach your hybrid team effectively 

⭐ Stop people pleasing  

⭐ Lead under pressure 

You can read more and sign up here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In this solo episode I’m going to share some of the signs that you’re a people pleaser, what it’s costing you and 4 practical strategies you can use to break free from your people pleasing patterns and start prioritising your own needs. 

This is the second in a series of 3 podcasts this summer around mindset and setting boundaries and if you’ve not already listened to episode 166 on overcommitting.    

One of the most powerful things you can do is learn how to say no which is why I’ve created my free How To Say No challenge which will take you from saying yes and regretting it to feeling comfortable saying no in just 5 days. Head over to carlamillertraining.com/sayno to access that. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.   

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You get a short email containing a short video each day, taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days. 

Access it at carlamillwertraining.com/sayno 

Influence & Impact: 

Join the September cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions. 

Find out more at https://carlamiller.co.uk/influence 

Women Leading: 

You can now join over 40 women in Women Leading for just £49 a month and learn to lead without overwhelm.  It includes peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership or wellbeing workshop each month on topics including… 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

Mentioned in this episode:

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These are the questions I explored in a fantastic chat with fellow women’s leadership coach Lucy Gernon in this week’s podcast episode.

We also discussed…

• How the concept of executive presence has evolved over the past 10 years
• Where confidence comes from and how Lucy defines it
• Lucy’s fantastic DO IT model for making decisions without second-guessing yourself
• How to confidently talk about your achievements
• How to deal with praise
• Why we don’t need to compete against other women

There is a lot of gold in this episode!

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.  

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

About Lucy Gernon:

Lucy Gernon is an Irish mom of 3, Multi Award-Winning Executive Coach, host of The 360 LeadHERship Podcast and acclaimed international speaker supporting women in senior leadership roles to accelerate their careers with confidence and develop as leaders without sacrificing work-life balance. She is sought out by Fortune 500 companies for her expertise in executive presence, confidence building, leadership, conflict management, healthy productivity, personal branding and more. Lucy is the Founder of 3SIXTY Leaders Club—the only positive psychology-infused membership focused on career advancement, leadership and work-life balance. Lucy is a certified positive psychology coach, holds Bachelor and Masters Degrees in Science, Diploma in Integrative Coaching, and had a 20-year career in leadership roles in American & British multinationals. Her corporate CV and business experience, combined with her extensive executive coaching and business experience  gives her a unique perspective on the needs and ambitions of female leaders and how to get them there 

Website: www.lucygernon.com

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/the-360-leadhership-podcast/id1596311791

Executive Presence Course: www.lucygernon.com/ep

Instagram: www.instagram.com/lucygernon

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lucygernon

HBR Article Exec Presence that Lucy refers to in this episode: https://hbr.org/2024/01/the-new-rules-of-executive-presence

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge:

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You’ll receive a short email each day containing a short video taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days!

Access it at carlamillertraining.com/sayno

Influence & Impact:

Join the September cohort of Influence & Impact to learn how to tackle self-doubt, increase your impact and become brilliant at influencing.  It’s a small cohort working closely with me and includes 6 workshops and 2 peer coaching sessions.

Find out more at https://carlamiller.co.uk/influence

Women Leading:

You can now join over 40 women in Women Leading for just £49 a month and learn to lead without overwhelm.  It includes peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership or wellbeing workshop each month on topics including…

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team
• How and When to Coach Your Team
• Reducing Drama in your Team
• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

If any of those resonate it sounds like you may be overcommitting - constantly trying to show how much value you add, by going above and beyond when it isn’t needed.   

In this episode I’m going to… 

• break down the ways we overcommit  

• explain why we overcommit 

• share the questions you can ask to help you dial back the overcommitting (and still do a great job!) 

I also share a brilliant new free resource I’ve created for you – the How To Say No Challenge which you can sign up to at carlamillertraining.com/sayno 

This is the first in a series of 3 podcasts this summer around mindset and setting boundaries and you can expect an episode on people pleasing and another one on worrying too much what people think of you.  I’ve also recorded some great guest interviews such as exclusive presence and managing the menopause which we’ll be releasing in the coming months.   

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.   

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

FREE RESOURCE - How To Say No Challenge: 

If you struggle to say ‘no’ then this free 5 day challenge is for you.  You get a short email containing a short video each day, taking you through the 5 steps of my How To Say No framework. We’ll get you happily saying no in just 5 days. 

Access it at carlamillwertraining.com/sayno  

Women Leading: 

You can now join over 40 women in Women Leading for just £49 a month and learn to lead without overwhelm.  It includes peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership or wellbeing workshop each month on topics including… 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In today’s episode my guest Cath Bishop makes a powerful case for implementing what she calls Long Win Thinking.  Cath knows a bit about winning as a three time Olympian with a silver medal and a fascinating career in diplomacy within conflict zones! 

We discuss: 

• Why workplaces benefit from focusing on the Long Win 

• How Cath’s mindset around winning shifted across her 3 Olympic Games and how she felt at the start line of her medal-winning Olympic race  

• What insights Cath has taken from her diplomatic experience into leadership coaching 

• How early in life we start thinking winning is important 

• Separating performance from results and winning 

• Cath’s 3 C model for implementing long win thinking in your team 

I found this episode really timely as I reflect on the impact I want to make through my work and what success means to me.  I hope it brings you some insights both personally and also as you think about how to create high performance in your team. 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author, trainer and founder of Women Leading, the community that helps women lead without overwhelm.  I’m on a mission to empower women leaders in the workplace and make leading less lonely.   

And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Women Leading: 

You can now join over 40 women in Women Leading for just £49 a month and learn to lead without overwhelm.  It includes peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership or wellbeing workshop each month on topics including… 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

About Cath Bishop: 

Cath Bishop is a triple Olympian, World Champion and Olympic silver medallist in rowing. In her career as a diplomat, she specialized in stabilization policy for conflict-affected parts of the world. She now works as a coach and consultant, advising on leadership, performance and culture across business, sport and education, and teaches on Executive Education programmes at the Judge Business School, Cambridge University. She writes monthly articles for The Guardian on topics of culture in sport and co-hosts The Inside Out Culture 

Podcast. She is a globally sought-after speaker. 

Websites: www.cathbishop.com www.thelongwin.com  

Instagram: cath_bishop  

Inside Out Culture Podcast: https://insideoutculture.buzzsprout.com/  

X: @thecathbishop  

https://www.theguardian.com/profile/cath-bishop 

Mentioned in this episode:

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In this episode, my guest, career and executive coach Fay Wallis shares 6 practical strategies you can use to reduce your email overwhelm.  We discuss:

• Why grouping emails by sender is insightful
• The problems with using your email inbox as a to-do list and what to do instead
• When to hit unsubscribe 
• How to ‘unsubscribe’ from internal emails
• Using tools like email templates and schedule send
• Prioritising deep work
• Setting email boundaries

I also share an excerpt from my current favourite book, Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman on why inbox zero isn’t actually going to bring us the peace of mind we think it will.

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

You might also enjoy…

• Episode 120 Developing your career with Fay Wallis
• Episode 144 Finding focus when you’re overwhelmed with Julia Wolfendale 

And we mentioned Graham Allcott’s book, How to be a Productivity Ninja and his email Rev up for the Week - https://www.grahamallcott.com/

Women Leading:

Come and join over 40 women in Women Leading – my community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership and wellbeing workshop each month on topics including…

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team
• How and When to Coach Your Team
• Reducing Drama in your Team
• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading 

About Fay Wallis:

Fay is a career and executive coach, with a background in HR who specialises in coaching HR & People professionals. She is the Founder of Bright Sky Career Coaching and has a 5 star rated podcast called HR Coffee Time, where you can hear free career advice and ideas every week.

Bright Sky Career Coaching: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/ 

Fay’s LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/faywallis/ 

HR Coffee Time podcast page: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/hr-coffee-time-podcast/

Mentioned in this episode:

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My guest, leadership coach and podcast host Rebekah Whitaker shares why we get pulled into the ‘drama triangle’ and what we can learn from Transactional Analysis to understand ourselves and our relationships with others better. 

Transactional Analysis is new to me so it was really interesting to understand the ‘drama triangle’ and reflect on how it plays out in the workplace and the role we can play as leaders in creating more positive behaviours and relationships. 

In this episode Rebekah provides an introduction to this concept and I’m delighted that she’s running a workshop within Women Leading this autumn to bring the next level of insights into how leaders can reduce drama within their teams. 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Women Leading: 

Come and join over 40 women in Women Leading – my community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership and wellbeing workshop each month on topics including… 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

About Rebekah Whitacker: 

Through Quest for EST Rebekah is on a mission to change the way that we approach leadership development, equipping leaders with skills to support them from the start of their leadership journey. She is also the co-host of In Pursuit of the Better You, a podcast dedicated to helping you maximise your potential personally and professionally. 

Rebekah’s website: www.quest4est.co.uk  

Rebekah’s substack: https://quest4est.substack.com 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

That’s what Ellie Rich-Poole, career development coach and one of LinkedIn’s Top Voices for careers. 

We cover… 

• Why networking is key to developing your career and accessing opportunities 

• How to build your network in a way that works for you 

• The power of making genuine connections rather than working the room 

• How to make yourself actually go to networking events 

• Making the most of networking opportunities 

• Creating a croissant not a bagel (you’ll have to listen to decipher that one) 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Come and join over 40 women in Women Leading – my community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership and wellbeing workshop each month on topics including… 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

About Ellie 

 Ellie Rich-Poole is a Career Development Coach. She helps leaders find their perfect role and be brilliant in it, by playing to their strengths. She goes on the journey with them as a supporter and challenger to help them get to action and get results, particularly at times of transition. 

She has over 25 years’ experience in HR, Recruitment and Head-hunting. She founded her business in 2016 to inspire and support others with their career development. 

She enjoys leading group sessions and speaks on a range of career topics including ’12 ways to take control of your career’, ‘Learn to Love LinkedIn’ and ‘Stop hiding, start Networking.’ 

She supports a range of DEI focused organisations as an Interview Coach, a Mentor and a Career Accelerator programme lead. She is the Chief Ambassador for Girls Friendly Society (GFS) a charity working with girls in the UK’s least privileged areas. She is passionate about helping individuals achieve their potential. 

Ellie is a Mental Health First Aider and has lived experience of pre and postnatal anxiety. 

She understands the challenges of managing a career and a family. 

Ellie has lived and worked in the UK, Germany, Chile and Singapore and enjoys 

supporting globally minded individuals and organisations, and making new friends. 

She has studied at both Durham and Oxford University, and is an International Coaching Federation PCC level Coach. She is a Strengths Profile and Insights Discovery Practitioner. LinkedIn named her a LinkedIn ‘Top Voice’ for Careers in 2022. 

https://www.ellierichpoole.com/organisations/  

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellierichpoole/  

We discuss…

• How to stop harsh feedback from impacting your confidence
• How to talk to your line manager when you’re struggling to work with a colleague
• Your expectations of your line manager and what to do when they aren’t being met
• Jen’s ‘What Next Wheel’ – a tool that helps you respond rather than react in tricky influencing situations

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

I’ve just launched Women Leading – a community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support calls, group coaching calls, regular menopause events and a live leadership and wellbeing workshop each month on topics including…

• How to Say No
• Managing an Overwhelmed Team
• How and When to Coach Your Team
• Reducing Drama in your Team
• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward

Find up more and sign up at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading

About Jennifer

Jen is sought after as a leadership coach who helps clients overcome even the most horrible work challenges, helping them rebuild their confidence and self-belief and realise their ambition. She supports clients to manage their energy and navigate their emotions so they can feel calm and resourceful at work.

Not only an experienced coach with the international coaching federation, Jen is a emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner, leadership development expert and valued member of the Women Leading faculty!

She works with clients across the charity, corporate and public sectors including the UK’s Department for Education, Oxfam, HSBC, Sheffield City Council, Pancreatic Cancer UK and hundreds of small charities delivering services across the country.

Ever experienced a toxic work relationship, badly handled restructure or the challenge of an HR process which rumbles on and on? Feel it knocked you for six a bit? Then Jen is your coach! In life before coaching Jen managed high profile fundraising events and diverse teams of fundraisers so she knows first hand the influencing skills, self awareness and sense of humour needed to lead a team within an organisation.

Jen has so many valuable resources on her website including Coffee Break

Coaching which includes 5 great exercises – everything to increase your insight

about someone you’re struggling to build a relationship with, to a reflection for the rubbish days when you just need to feel a notch better to find the motivation to get on with things.

Website:  mccannacoaching.co.uk

You can follow her on LinkedIn Jennifer McCanna 

And on Instagram (@jen_the_leadership_coach) 

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We discuss…

• What makes people happy at work
• The 5 factors that influence team happiness
• Who is responsible for your team’s happiness

Richard Clarke is the founder and ex-CEO of Secret Source, an IT company based in Spain. In 2014 he had a theory, if he set up a company whose main KPIs were team and client happiness then the team would collaborate better, be more aligned with their clients and perform better and all the traditional measures of success, profit, revenue, growth would naturally follow. For 10 years Richard studied the science of happiness in the workplace and applied it in his company. In 2022, with almost 50 employees Richard handed over the role of CEO and he now dedicates his life to sharing his knowledge. He writes, speaks and teaches leaders and organisations how to use the science of happiness and wellbeing to build better teams.

Richard’s white paper on team happiness: richardclarke.eu/podcastgift 

Happy Teams substack: happyteams.substack.com 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

I’ve just launched Women Leading – a community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support, live Q&A with me, access to the Leadership Skills Lab, menopause events and a live workshop each month on topics including…

• How to Say No
• Managing an Overwhelmed Team
• How and When to Coach Your Team
• Reducing Drama in your Team
• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward

Until 1 May 2024 you can access a discounted price at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

In this episode I’m going to share… 

• Why being the problem solver could be holding you back in your career  

• How to elevate your level of working and empower your team 

• How to analyse why your team are relying on you to solve their problems  

• What you can do to empower your team to become problem solvers 

• How to retrain your team to think for themselves using one of my favourite questions 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership bestie.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

I’ve just launched Women Leading – a community to help you lead without overwhelm.  It offers peer support, live Q&A with me, access to the Leadership Skills Lab, menopause events and a live workshop each month on topics including… 

• How to Say No 

• Managing an Overwhelmed Team 

• How and When to Coach Your Team 

• Reducing Drama in your Team 

• Giving Feedback Without Feeling Awkward 

Until 1 May 2024 you can access a discounted price at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/womenleading  

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

We look at: 

• How we identify a toxic work environment 

• How to establish if it is generally toxic for everyone or just toxic for you  

• What to do if you feel stuck in a toxic environment  

• How to make sure the next workplace you move to is much healthier 

Aoife O’Brien founded Happier at Work to solve the problem that 85% of employees are disengaged at work. Using her research-based Happier at Work framework, she partners with leaders to focus on: workplace culture; cultivating balance; and empowering leaders. Her award-winning podcast, Happier at Work® which I’ve guested on, features a combination of interview-based episodes as well as solo podcasting. 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership coach.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.  This is now a top 2% global podcast so thanks for being part of that and do keep on spreading the word buy sharing a favourite episode with someone today. 

You might also enjoy these episodes… 

Episode 152 – Is it time to leave your job? 

Episode 102 – Happier at work with Aoife o’Brien 

Sign up to the Women Leading waitlist at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/earlybird  

Contact Aoife… 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/aoifemobrien 

https://www.instagram.com/happieratwork.ie  

https://www.twitter.com/happieratworkHQ  

https://www.youtube.com/@happieratworkhq  

https://happieratwork.ie  

https://www.impostersyndrome.ie 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

Have you considered asking your employer to invest in you but felt too awkward about it to actually make the ask?   

Do you feel bad booking yourself onto training because it would be taking training budget away from your team? 

If so, in this episode I am going to… 

• Help you shift your mindset so you feel more comfortable asking your employer to invest in you 

• Share how the leadership multiplier effect means your development benefits others 

• Provide strategies for making the ask 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership coach.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

Sign up to the Women Leading waitlist at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/earlybird  

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

This week on the Influence & Impact podcast I’m joined by Jo Wright, author of ‘No More Sh*t Managers: Seven Steps to a Coaching Culture’ who’ll be talking about how to create a coaching culture within your team or organisation and why coaching conversations between managers and direct reports make so much difference. 

We cover: 

• How to create space for quality conversations when you’re overwhelmed 

• Why organizations need to embrace slowing down to speed up 

• How feedback is key to a coaching culture 

• The seven-step framework for creating a coaching culture 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership coach.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

About Jo: 

As Co-founder of Coaching Culture, and bestselling author of ‘No More Sh*t Managers: Seven Steps to a Coaching Culture’, Jo’s a passionate advocate for the many benefits a coaching ulture creates.  With nearly 30 years’ experience in leading and coaching teams, and as a professionally accredited Coach, Jo is a true coaching champion, on a mission to inspire people to think differently about the power of coaching. She is often to be found sharing insights on howthe power of coaching can be used to create high performing teams, build trust, shape leadership styles and raise performance in the workplace. 

Jo spends much of her time speaking about the benefits of coaching, the power of transformational conversations and culture, as well as interviewing industry leaders for Coaching Culture’s Learncast series. Jo’s first book, ‘No More Sh*t Managers: Seven Steps to a Coaching Culture’ became an Amazon Bestseller on its first day of release in November 2023. 

Find out more about Jo Wright at: 

https://www.jowright.com  

https://www.coachingculture.com  

If you’ve enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and make sure you’ve got the podcast set to ‘follow’ if you’re listening in Apple or Spotify so you don’t miss future episodes.   

If you’d like to talk to me about 1:1 coaching, or the upcoming Be Bolder confidence course and Influence & Impact women’s leadership programme do book a call or connect on LinkedIn and send me a message there. 

Confidence issues are widespread with 79% of women saying they lack confidence at work.  And it impacts people’s ability to perform and progress. 46% of women say managing a negative mindset stops them from making the impact they want at work whilst 37% of women identified a lack of confidence and self-belief in their own ability as an obstacle to career progression 

So how do you help people in your team build their confidence and unlock their potential? 

In this episode, I’m going to share 6 practical ways you can help a team member feel more confident in their role, as well as 3 traps to avoid to make sure you’re not labelling someone as unconfident when that may not be the issue.   

We’ll look at… 

• How the type of feedback you give makes a real difference 

• How you might be impacting the confidence of your team 

• How you can use coaching questions to support their self-awareness and self-belief 

• Ways to make them feel valued 

• How modelling and encouraging a growth mindset can help 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your leadership coach.  I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

If you’ve enjoyed this episode please leave a review and make sure you’ve got the podcast set to ‘follow’ if you’re listening in Apple or Spotify so you don’t miss future episodes.  We’ve got some brilliant episodes coming up in February. 

If you’d like to talk to me about 1:1 coaching, or the upcoming Be Bolder confidence course and Influence & Impact women’s leadership programme do book a call or connect on LinkedIn and send me a message there. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

My guest today Olivia James is a Harley Street performance specialist and therapist. She treats professional confidence issues, public speaking anxiety and trauma. 

As well as uncovering why we feel so anxious Oliva and I discuss some specific strategies you can use ahead of a presentation to go in feeling calm and how to deal with going blank or losing your train of thought during a presentation. I've taken some really fantastic ideas from our conversation and I'm sure you will too.

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your new leadership bestie.  And as your bestie I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

If speaking up in meetings in general is something you struggle with then do ask your employer to fund you to attend our March Be Bolder course. As well as helping you become more confident generally and turn down the volume on your Inner Critic, we have an entire workshop dedicated to helping you speak up confidently and get your voice heard in meetings. Go to carlamiller.co.uk/bebolder to find out more.

If you’ve enjoyed this episode please leave a review and make sure you’ve got the podcast set to ‘follow’ if you’re listening on Apple or Spotify so you don’t miss future episodes.  We’ve got some brilliant episodes coming up in February.

If you’d like to talk to me about 1:1 coaching, or the upcoming Be Bolder confidence course and Influence & Impact women’s leadership programme do book a call or connect on LinkedIn and send me a message there.

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

It doesn’t have to be that way.  Join me in this episode as I share with you… 

• How to shift your mindset and take the pressure off those situations, allowing you to perform better 

• The exact powerful phrases you can use to respond when you’re put on the spot 

• How to buy yourself a moment to think 

• How to delay giving any answer until the following day 

• How to respond confidently when asked for information you don’t have to hand 

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader. 

My name’s Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your new leadership bestie.  And as your bestie I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career. 

To download the powerful phrases I share in this episode head over to carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter, sign up and you’ll be sent the phrases along with access to my how to worry less about work video 

If you’ve enjoyed this episode please leave a review and make sure you’ve got the podcast set to ‘follow’ if you’re listening in Apple or Spotify so you don’t miss future episodes.   

We’ve got great episodes coming up including one on overcoming your fears around public speaking and how you support a team member who doesn’t believe in themselves. 

If you’d like to talk to me about 1:1 coaching, or the upcoming Be Bolder confidence course and I&I women’s leadership programme do book a call or connect on LinkedIn and send me a message there. 

Mentioned in this episode:

https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

It’s a big decision and one many people struggle to make. How do you know when the time is right?  How do you avoid making the wrong decision? And how do you build the courage to quit when you know you’re too unhappy to stay?

If you’ve got some of those thoughts whirring round in your head then this is the episode that’s going to help you.

In this episode I’m going to share with you…

• How to know when you’re ready for a change

• The 6 factors you need to consider when making the decision to quit

• Why staying in a toxic workplace is a confidence vortex

• My 4 top tips for making the decision to stay or go

This is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.

I’m your host Carla Miller, I’ve been coaching leaders for the past 15 years and I’m your new leadership BFF.  And as your BFF I’m here to remind you of the value to bring to your organisation, to help believe in yourself and to share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

I hope you’ve enjoyed this episode.  If you have please share it with others or leave a rating or review so more people can benefit from it.

WORK WITH ME:

If you’d like to talk to me about 1:1 coaching, which of my courses and programmes are a good fit for you or how I can support the women in your team or org do book a call or connect on LinkedIn and send me a message there.

In this episode I cover:

Reflecting back on the last year. Take the time to ponder and journal about what you've learned about yourself during 2023. What are your proudest moments, and the parts of yourself that may have been neglected in the past year? Self-reflection is often the first step to personal growth.

Consider what you want to do differently next year and the boundaries you want to set. Think about embracing new possibilities and envision what would make 2024 a brilliant year for you at work.

What can you change? Identify some areas that you would like to improve. Whether it's in your health, relationships, or personal development, we will journal the actions you could take to create positive changes in the year ahead.

Find out more about Influence & Impact here.

WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM 

We partner with you to: 

• Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation. 

• Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women 

• Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity. 

Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.  

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I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social! 

Thank you for listening, see you next time! 

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In our conversation, we cover: 

The challenges faced by midlife women, including the collision of events such as menopause, parental care, and financial pressures. We also discuss the gender bias in caregiving and the impact on women's careers, with many struggling to return to the workforce. 

We discuss the need for a revolution in how midlife women are supported, emphasising the importance of transitioning from full-time to part-time work and redefining the narratives that often surround middle-aged women. 

We also stress the need for organisations to integrate age into diversity agendas, track data, conduct listening exercises, and promote part-time and job share options. 

About Dr Lucy Ryan: 

Dr. Lucy Ryan is a leadership coach, trainer, and researcher who focuses on midlife women and their decision-making process as they move into positions of power. After observing many women making unexpected career choices just as they were on the brink of stepping up, Dr. Ryan realised there was little research on the subject and decided to pursue a PhD to investigate further. Despite leaving school with no qualifications, she self-educated herself from the age of 40 onwards, eventually becoming an expert in her field. Dr. Ryan is passionate about understanding the phenomenon and helping women navigate their careers with confidence and purpose. 

Connect with Dr. Lucy Ryan: 

Website 

Book a call 

Read the Book "Revolting Women, Why Midlife Women Are Walking Out."  

LinkedIn 

Instagram 

WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM  

We partner with you to:  

• Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.  

• Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women  

• Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.  

Exciting news - We are thrilled to introduce a new leadership community that will provide a support system and incredible learning opportunities. This community will include peer coaching calls, monthly leadership training, well-being sessions, and an online space for support and solidarity. Sign up here to be the first to know more.  

We also offer individuals:  

• Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -  

• Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme  

• 1:1 coaching  

Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.   

CONNECT WITH ME  

• LinkedIn  

• Instagram  

• Website  

HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?  

• Is midlife making you wonder what to do next or are you suffering from ageism at work? Listen to this captivating conversation with me and Dr Lucy Ryan, inspired by her book "Revolting Women, Why Midlife Women Are Walking Out." We delve deep into the impact of gendered ageism, the many challenges faced by midlife women, and why many are leaving the workforce.  

  In our conversation, we cover: 

  The challenges faced by midlife women, including the collision of events such as menopause, parental care, and financial pressures. We also discuss the gender bias in caregiving and the impact on women's careers, with many struggling to return to the workforce. 

  We discuss the need for a revolution in how midlife women are supported, emphasising the importance of transitioning from full-time to part-time work and redefining the narratives that often surround middle-aged women. 

  We also stress the need for organisations to integrate age into diversity agendas, track data, conduct listening exercises, and promote part-time and job share options. 

  About Dr Lucy Ryan: 

  Dr. Lucy Ryan is a leadership coach, trainer, and researcher who focuses on midlife women and their decision-making process as they move into positions of power. After observing many women making unexpected career choices just as they were on the brink of stepping up, Dr. Ryan realised there was little research on the subject and decided to pursue a PhD to investigate further. Despite leaving school with no qualifications, she self-educated herself from the age of 40 onwards, eventually becoming an expert in her field. Dr. Ryan is passionate about understanding the phenomenon and helping women navigate their careers with confidence and purpose. 

   

  Connect with Dr. Lucy Ryan: 

  Website 

  Book a call 

  Read the Book "Revolting Women, Why Midlife Women Are Walking Out."  

  LinkedIn 

  Instagram 

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM  

  We partner with you to:  

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.  

  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women  

  
  

  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.  

  
  

  Exciting news - We are thrilled to introduce a new leadership community that will provide a support system and incredible learning opportunities. This community will include peer coaching calls, monthly leadership training, well-being sessions, and an online space for support and solidarity. Sign up here to be the first to know more.  

  We also offer individuals:  

  • Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -  

  • Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme  

  
  

  • 1:1 coaching  

  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.   

   

  CONNECT WITH ME  

  • LinkedIn  

  
  

  • Instagram  

  • Website  

  
  

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?  

  • Subscribe  

  
  

  • Share this episode with a friend  

  • Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify  

  
  

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next time! 

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>63cfc9f5-e125-423e-bf04-012cc4ebb07dMon, 11 Dec 2023 02:30:00 +000048:56falsefull150150Ep 149 - Managing Managers with ConfidenceWelcome to the latest episode of the Influence and Impact Podcast for female leaders! In this episode Managing Managers with Confidence, we dive into the unique challenges and strategies involved in leading leaders, whether you're new to a leadership role or have been leading managers for a while. 

   

  In this episode I cover… 

   

  • How to recognise that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to managing and leading.  

  • Encouraging open conversations about different management styles  

  • How to build trust 

  • Ways to advocate for your team 

  
  

  • Creating and modelling psychological safety  

  
  

   

  Managing managers requires a unique approach that acknowledges their level of responsibility and the complexity of their roles. By implementing these essential tips, you can build a strong and supportive relationship with your managers, enabling them to thrive and have a positive impact on their teams. 

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.

  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.

  
  

  Earlybird Offer - we have a brilliant programme specifically designed to provide managers and leaders with the support, training, and community they need to excel in their roles. Don't miss out; sign up for our early bird list to stay informed carlamillertraining.com/earlybird. 

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -

  • Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme

  • 1:1 coaching

  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

  CONNECT WITH ME

  • LinkedIn

  • Instagram

  • Website

  
  

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  • Subscribe

  • Share this episode with a friend

  • Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

  
  

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next time!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Welcome to the latest episode of the Influence and Impact Podcast for female leaders! In this episode Managing Managers with Confidence, we dive into the unique challenges and strategies involved in leading leaders, whether you're new to a leadership role or have been leading managers for a while. 

   

  In this episode I cover… 

   

  • How to recognise that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to managing and leading.  

  • Encouraging open conversations about different management styles  

  • How to build trust 

  • Ways to advocate for your team 

  
  

  • Creating and modelling psychological safety  

  
  

   

  Managing managers requires a unique approach that acknowledges their level of responsibility and the complexity of their roles. By implementing these essential tips, you can build a strong and supportive relationship with your managers, enabling them to thrive and have a positive impact on their teams. 

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.

  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.

  
  

  Earlybird Offer - we have a brilliant programme specifically designed to provide managers and leaders with the support, training, and community they need to excel in their roles. Don't miss out; sign up for our early bird list to stay informed carlamillertraining.com/earlybird. 

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -

  • Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme

  • 1:1 coaching

  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

  CONNECT WITH ME

  • LinkedIn

  • Instagram

  • Website

  
  

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  • Subscribe

  • Share this episode with a friend

  • Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

  
  

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next time!

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  ]]>3db09733-4a08-4040-a061-1148128ef01cMon, 27 Nov 2023 02:30:00 +000029:52falsefull149149Ep 148 - Breaking Free from the Yes TrapWelcome back to another episode of the Influence and Impact Podcast. Today we're diving into a topic that many of us struggle with: saying yes to things we don't really want to do. As female leaders, we often find ourselves taking on tasks that aren't our responsibility, and it's time to put a stop to it. I’ll be sharing strategies and practical tips to help you reclaim your time and energy by breaking free from the Yes trap.

   

  We will explore the reasons behind our tendency to say yes when we want to say no. Spoiler alert: it often stems from our desire to be liked. We'll also dive into the societal pressure for women to be constantly agreeable and how it impacts our progress in the workplace. 

   

  I’ll be sharing strategies to help you break this pattern, including using holding phrases to manage expectations, creating a checklist to decide when to say yes or no, and communicating clearly when declining a request. We also discuss how to navigate non-promotable tasks and the importance of assigning them fairly to avoid overburdening certain individuals. 

   

  On a more personal note, I will be sharing my current journey with my son who recently experienced a health scare that led to a diagnosis of type 1 diabetes. I'll share the symptoms we noticed, the process of getting a diagnosis, and the importance of raising awareness about this condition. 

   

  So, stay tuned for an episode packed with insights and practical advice to empower you to stop saying yes to things you don't really want to do. It's time to take control of your time, energy, and influence. 

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.
  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women
  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.
  
  

  Exciting news - We are thrilled to introduce a new leadership community that will provide a support system and incredible learning opportunities. This community will include peer coaching calls, monthly leadership training, well-being sessions, and an online space for support and solidarity. Sign up here to be the first to know more.

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -
  • Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme
  • 1:1 coaching
  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

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  ]]>Welcome back to another episode of the Influence and Impact Podcast. Today we're diving into a topic that many of us struggle with: saying yes to things we don't really want to do. As female leaders, we often find ourselves taking on tasks that aren't our responsibility, and it's time to put a stop to it. I’ll be sharing strategies and practical tips to help you reclaim your time and energy by breaking free from the Yes trap.

   

  We will explore the reasons behind our tendency to say yes when we want to say no. Spoiler alert: it often stems from our desire to be liked. We'll also dive into the societal pressure for women to be constantly agreeable and how it impacts our progress in the workplace. 

   

  I’ll be sharing strategies to help you break this pattern, including using holding phrases to manage expectations, creating a checklist to decide when to say yes or no, and communicating clearly when declining a request. We also discuss how to navigate non-promotable tasks and the importance of assigning them fairly to avoid overburdening certain individuals. 

   

  On a more personal note, I will be sharing my current journey with my son who recently experienced a health scare that led to a diagnosis of type 1 diabetes. I'll share the symptoms we noticed, the process of getting a diagnosis, and the importance of raising awareness about this condition. 

   

  So, stay tuned for an episode packed with insights and practical advice to empower you to stop saying yes to things you don't really want to do. It's time to take control of your time, energy, and influence. 

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.
  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women
  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.
  
  

  Exciting news - We are thrilled to introduce a new leadership community that will provide a support system and incredible learning opportunities. This community will include peer coaching calls, monthly leadership training, well-being sessions, and an online space for support and solidarity. Sign up here to be the first to know more.

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four week confidence and assertiveness course -
  • Influence & Impact, an open three month women’s leadership development programme
  • 1:1 coaching
  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

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  ]]>a1f9772b-c23a-4e25-8de5-ac04e95ce3adMon, 13 Nov 2023 02:30:00 +000036:20falsefull148148Ep 147 - How to Handle Energy Vampires at WorkIs the joy being sucked from your working day by energy drains? Tune into this episode to learn how to deal with energy vampires. I share how a strong mindset and powerful boundaries can overcome difficult interactions and situations at work.

  As female leaders, we often find ourselves feeling exhausted and drained after certain meetings and conversations. But fear not, because in this episode, I’ll provide you with valuable insights and strategies to protect and preserve your energy.

  Have you ever felt physically exhausted or even icky after a conversation with someone? Well, it turns out that if you are highly sensitive to other people's energy, their emotions can really affect you. I will explore protecting your energy and discuss practical tools, such as creating an energy bubble, to shield you from negative influences.

  Whether you're dealing with colleagues who are constantly stressed or individuals who exude negativity, I’ve got you covered. By the end of this episode, you will have a better understanding of how to protect your energy and leave conversations feeling empowered, rather than exhausted.

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.

  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.

  
  

  We are giving away a new free resource that you won't want to miss. It's a video excerpt from our highly popular master class on how to worry less about work. This video contains five powerful strategies that have helped thousands of women overcome their work-related worries. To access this valuable resource, sign up for our fortnightly newsletter on our website. 

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four-week confidence and assertiveness course

  • Influence & Impact, an open three-month women’s leadership development programme

  • 1:1 coaching

  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>Is the joy being sucked from your working day by energy drains? Tune into this episode to learn how to deal with energy vampires. I share how a strong mindset and powerful boundaries can overcome difficult interactions and situations at work.

  As female leaders, we often find ourselves feeling exhausted and drained after certain meetings and conversations. But fear not, because in this episode, I’ll provide you with valuable insights and strategies to protect and preserve your energy.

  Have you ever felt physically exhausted or even icky after a conversation with someone? Well, it turns out that if you are highly sensitive to other people's energy, their emotions can really affect you. I will explore protecting your energy and discuss practical tools, such as creating an energy bubble, to shield you from negative influences.

  Whether you're dealing with colleagues who are constantly stressed or individuals who exude negativity, I’ve got you covered. By the end of this episode, you will have a better understanding of how to protect your energy and leave conversations feeling empowered, rather than exhausted.

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  • Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation.

  • Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  • Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity.

  
  

  We are giving away a new free resource that you won't want to miss. It's a video excerpt from our highly popular master class on how to worry less about work. This video contains five powerful strategies that have helped thousands of women overcome their work-related worries. To access this valuable resource, sign up for our fortnightly newsletter on our website. 

  We also offer individuals:

  • Be Bolder, an open four-week confidence and assertiveness course

  • Influence & Impact, an open three-month women’s leadership development programme

  • 1:1 coaching

  
  

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. 

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>5e38c615-a971-48cc-a605-3134b48f15e5Mon, 30 Oct 2023 01:30:00 +000021:01falsefull147147Ep 146 – Being intentional about your career with Dr Hannah Roberts If you are feeling stuck in your career you’ll be pleased to hear that there is now a framework you can use to identify the steps you can take to move towards career fulfilment.  This framework was created by my guest on this podcast, Dr Hannah Roberts, author of Intentional Careers for STEM Women.

  In our conversation we cover…

  -        What it means to have an intentional career rather than an unconscious career

  -        The ‘proving’ cycle many of us get stuck in when we start a job

  -        What can cause us to become unfulfilled in our career or overworked to the point where it is unsustainable

  -        How to find alignment in your career through purpose, mission and vision

  -        The 3 career pivots that will help you work out what you need to change to find career happiness

  Hannah’s book is a fantastic resource for any woman wanting to take control of her career and also goes deep on many of the issues on the confidence issues many women struggle with.  I highly recommend grabbing a copy.

  About Dr Hannah Roberts:

  As founder of Intentional Careers™, author of Amazon #1 bestseller Intentional Careers for STEM Women and host of a top 10 UK podcast, top 5% globally Women in STEM Career & Confidence, Dr Hannah Roberts is an award-winning coach on a mission to eradicate inequity in the workplace by guiding professionals to design careers for fulfilment with a mindset for leadership to build progressive workplace cultures where every individual feels valued.

  Hannah is uniquely positioned as a scientist, mum of three with a background in corporate and academia. She was managing director of a spin-out company before pivoting into coaching, speaking and training in 2019. She has clients spanning 6 continents and is a certified One of Many™ Women’s Leadership Coach and Trainer with the Professional Certified Coach credential from the International Coaching Federation and has been a member of the Forbes Coaches Council since 2022.

  Useful links:

  https://hannahnikeroberts.com/  Career Accelerator Scorecard: https://scorecard.intentional-careers.com/strategy

  Free strategy session: https://intentional-careers.com/workshop/

  Read The Book 'Intentional Careers for STEM Women': https://www.amazon.co.uk/Intentional-Careers-STEM-Women-confidence-ebook/dp/B0CGXRNFZ3/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3ROKZ7OEFHC64&keywords=intentional+careers+for+stem+women&qid=1693918605&s=books&sprefix=intentional+careers+for+stem+woemn%2Cstripbooks%2C66&sr=1-1 

  www.linkedin.com/in/hannahrobertscoaching

  www.facebook.com/drhannahroberts

  X (Twitter) @HannahNikeR 

  Instagram @drhannahroberts

   

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about November’s Influence For Success workshop at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess 

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]> If you are feeling stuck in your career you’ll be pleased to hear that there is now a framework you can use to identify the steps you can take to move towards career fulfilment.  This framework was created by my guest on this podcast, Dr Hannah Roberts, author of Intentional Careers for STEM Women.

  In our conversation we cover…

  -        What it means to have an intentional career rather than an unconscious career

  -        The ‘proving’ cycle many of us get stuck in when we start a job

  -        What can cause us to become unfulfilled in our career or overworked to the point where it is unsustainable

  -        How to find alignment in your career through purpose, mission and vision

  -        The 3 career pivots that will help you work out what you need to change to find career happiness

  Hannah’s book is a fantastic resource for any woman wanting to take control of her career and also goes deep on many of the issues on the confidence issues many women struggle with.  I highly recommend grabbing a copy.

  About Dr Hannah Roberts:

  As founder of Intentional Careers™, author of Amazon #1 bestseller Intentional Careers for STEM Women and host of a top 10 UK podcast, top 5% globally Women in STEM Career & Confidence, Dr Hannah Roberts is an award-winning coach on a mission to eradicate inequity in the workplace by guiding professionals to design careers for fulfilment with a mindset for leadership to build progressive workplace cultures where every individual feels valued.

  Hannah is uniquely positioned as a scientist, mum of three with a background in corporate and academia. She was managing director of a spin-out company before pivoting into coaching, speaking and training in 2019. She has clients spanning 6 continents and is a certified One of Many™ Women’s Leadership Coach and Trainer with the Professional Certified Coach credential from the International Coaching Federation and has been a member of the Forbes Coaches Council since 2022.

  Useful links:

  https://hannahnikeroberts.com/  Career Accelerator Scorecard: https://scorecard.intentional-careers.com/strategy

  Free strategy session: https://intentional-careers.com/workshop/

  Read The Book 'Intentional Careers for STEM Women': https://www.amazon.co.uk/Intentional-Careers-STEM-Women-confidence-ebook/dp/B0CGXRNFZ3/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3ROKZ7OEFHC64&keywords=intentional+careers+for+stem+women&qid=1693918605&s=books&sprefix=intentional+careers+for+stem+woemn%2Cstripbooks%2C66&sr=1-1 

  www.linkedin.com/in/hannahrobertscoaching

  www.facebook.com/drhannahroberts

  X (Twitter) @HannahNikeR 

  Instagram @drhannahroberts

   

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about November’s Influence For Success workshop at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess 

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>fcd965e3-9293-4672-83b9-4241d70e2eb4Sun, 15 Oct 2023 14:30:00 +000041:01falsefull146146Ep 145 - Building incredible collaborative relationships at work with Deb MashekCollaboration is an essential part of working life – we have to work alongside others to succeed in our role.  So I was fascinated to come across Deb Mashek’s book, “Collabor(h)ate: How to build incredible collaborative relationships at work (even if you’d rather work alone”

  We’ve all experienced tension at work and felt the joy of being in a good team.  In this episode Deb and I discuss:

  -        What collaboration is and why it matters

  -        How and why it sometimes goes wrong

  -        Strategies for building strong successful working relationships

   

  About Deb Mashek:

  Social psychologist Deb Mashek delivers high-stakes collaboration across silos, institutions, and stakeholders. An experienced business advisor, professor, and nonprofit executive, her writing appears in MIT-Sloan Management Review, Fortune, ReWorked, The Hechinger Report, and Psychology Today. Deb has been an invited speaker on collaboration and viewpoint diversity at leading organizations including the United Nations, the American Psychological Association, and Siemens. She is the author of Collabor(h)ate.

  Website: www.debmashek.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-mashek/ 

  Deb’s twice-monthly newsletter: https://debmashek.lpages.co/one_simple_tip

  The Mashek Matrix: https://debmashek.lpages.co/mashekmatrix

  The Collaboration Ecosystem: https://debmashek.lpages.co/collaboration-ecosystem-model 

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about October’s Be Bolder course at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about November’s Influence For Success workshop at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>Collaboration is an essential part of working life – we have to work alongside others to succeed in our role.  So I was fascinated to come across Deb Mashek’s book, “Collabor(h)ate: How to build incredible collaborative relationships at work (even if you’d rather work alone”

  We’ve all experienced tension at work and felt the joy of being in a good team.  In this episode Deb and I discuss:

  -        What collaboration is and why it matters

  -        How and why it sometimes goes wrong

  -        Strategies for building strong successful working relationships

   

  About Deb Mashek:

  Social psychologist Deb Mashek delivers high-stakes collaboration across silos, institutions, and stakeholders. An experienced business advisor, professor, and nonprofit executive, her writing appears in MIT-Sloan Management Review, Fortune, ReWorked, The Hechinger Report, and Psychology Today. Deb has been an invited speaker on collaboration and viewpoint diversity at leading organizations including the United Nations, the American Psychological Association, and Siemens. She is the author of Collabor(h)ate.

  Website: www.debmashek.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-mashek/ 

  Deb’s twice-monthly newsletter: https://debmashek.lpages.co/one_simple_tip

  The Mashek Matrix: https://debmashek.lpages.co/mashekmatrix

  The Collaboration Ecosystem: https://debmashek.lpages.co/collaboration-ecosystem-model 

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about October’s Be Bolder course at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about November’s Influence For Success workshop at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>720ae76b-9773-4f80-b85b-2f5b69164985Sun, 01 Oct 2023 14:30:00 +000049:41falsefull145145Ep 144 - Finding focus when you’re overwhelmed with Julia Wolfendale Is Autumn already feeling a bit overwhelming as everything kicks into action after the summer?  If so then this is the episode you need right now.

  My guest Julia Wolfendale and I discuss the strategies she shares in her book ‘Five Ways to Focus’.  We talk about:

  -        How you can find focus when you need it most

  -        How to handle distractions

  -        Julia’s top ways to get organised

  -        How to effectively prioritise and delegate

  Resources:

  Julia has kindly shared her calming visualisation which you can access along with a Five Ways to Focus worksheet and a life audit at 

  Discover more about Julia's work and how to get things On The Up at  Pick up the Five Ways to Focus book here .

  Check out the Five Ways to Focus online course   on Udemy.com - email Julia for a voucher code.

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about October’s Be Bolder course at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about September’s Influence & Impact cohort at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]> Is Autumn already feeling a bit overwhelming as everything kicks into action after the summer?  If so then this is the episode you need right now.

  My guest Julia Wolfendale and I discuss the strategies she shares in her book ‘Five Ways to Focus’.  We talk about:

  -        How you can find focus when you need it most

  -        How to handle distractions

  -        Julia’s top ways to get organised

  -        How to effectively prioritise and delegate

  Resources:

  Julia has kindly shared her calming visualisation which you can access along with a Five Ways to Focus worksheet and a life audit at 

  Discover more about Julia's work and how to get things On The Up at  Pick up the Five Ways to Focus book here .

  Check out the Five Ways to Focus online course   on Udemy.com - email Julia for a voucher code.

  My upcoming courses

  Find out about October’s Be Bolder course at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about September’s Influence & Impact cohort at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>94c6f59c-0f26-46cf-8bc8-7eed56d19ca2Sun, 17 Sep 2023 14:30:00 +000050:51falsefull144144Ep 143 How to challenge Upwards without damaging your career There are these unspoken rules about the world of work that most of us buy into without questioning.  One of those rules is that we don’t say no to our line manager or disagree with senior stakeholders.  As a result, people end up frustrated, overworked, and demotivated because they’ve never learnt how to challenge the thinking of senior stakeholders without challenging their authority.  They’ve never learnt how to speak truth to power.

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I will be sharing 9 practical strategies to help you to disagree with someone in authority without negatively impacting your career or your relationship.  Whether you are dealing with your line manager, senior management team or your board you will find practical insights you can use to learn how to challenge in a constructive and career building way.

   

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

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  ]]> There are these unspoken rules about the world of work that most of us buy into without questioning.  One of those rules is that we don’t say no to our line manager or disagree with senior stakeholders.  As a result, people end up frustrated, overworked, and demotivated because they’ve never learnt how to challenge the thinking of senior stakeholders without challenging their authority.  They’ve never learnt how to speak truth to power.

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I will be sharing 9 practical strategies to help you to disagree with someone in authority without negatively impacting your career or your relationship.  Whether you are dealing with your line manager, senior management team or your board you will find practical insights you can use to learn how to challenge in a constructive and career building way.

   

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  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

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  ]]>78c81692-ad15-405f-ada6-edbe76217c17Sun, 03 Sep 2023 14:30:00 +000028:22falsefull143143Ep 142 - Increasing your gravitas This week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is all about gravitas.  What is it?  What do we need it for?  And how do we have gravitas when we need it most?

  Gravitas used to be a requirement for leadership, back in the days when leadership was about telling others what to do.  It is defined as dignity, seriousness or being solemn of manner. 

  Leadership has evolved since then and women no longer need to act like old men in grey suits to be taken seriously as leaders.  However there are times when we have to deliver serious news or address a room full of people who intimidate us and gravitas helps with that.  In this episode I’m sharing some tools you can use in those situations.

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

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  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

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  ]]> This week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is all about gravitas.  What is it?  What do we need it for?  And how do we have gravitas when we need it most?

  Gravitas used to be a requirement for leadership, back in the days when leadership was about telling others what to do.  It is defined as dignity, seriousness or being solemn of manner. 

  Leadership has evolved since then and women no longer need to act like old men in grey suits to be taken seriously as leaders.  However there are times when we have to deliver serious news or address a room full of people who intimidate us and gravitas helps with that.  In this episode I’m sharing some tools you can use in those situations.

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

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  ]]>5d831ca2-075a-41ac-b8e4-0610ad813d35Sat, 19 Aug 2023 07:14:00 +000034:06falsefull142142Ep 141 6 practical strategies to tackle perfectionism This is part two of my series on perfectionism and overworking and in this episode, I share with you 6 practical strategies you can start using today to help you become successful without breaking yourself in the process.

  If you want to adopt a more sustainable and enjoyable way of working yet still get great results this episode is for you.

  I share:

  -        How you can be a high achiever without being a perfectionist

  -        Why perfectionism is not actually the reason you are successful

  -        Something surprising about your imperfections that could change how you feel about yourself

  Get in touch about 1:1 coaching at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/contact

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4-week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3-month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

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  ]]> This is part two of my series on perfectionism and overworking and in this episode, I share with you 6 practical strategies you can start using today to help you become successful without breaking yourself in the process.

  If you want to adopt a more sustainable and enjoyable way of working yet still get great results this episode is for you.

  I share:

  -        How you can be a high achiever without being a perfectionist

  -        Why perfectionism is not actually the reason you are successful

  -        Something surprising about your imperfections that could change how you feel about yourself

  Get in touch about 1:1 coaching at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/contact

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid-career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4-week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3-month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>10869aa9-3569-443d-bdd2-08758142f980Sun, 06 Aug 2023 14:30:00 +000025:18falsefull141141Ep 140 Why Perfectionism and Overworking could be Holding you back - re-released episode For years I thought that I was doing well in my career because I worked so hard and held myself to such high standards.  Then I realised that those strategies were actually causing as much harm as they were good.  I coach a lot of high achieving women, at all levels and perfectionism in its various guises, crops up all the time.  Often it looks like overworking, trying to be in control of everything in your life, procrastinating and fear of failure. 

  In this episode I’d like to help you to identify and reflect on any unhealthy thought or work patterns you may have around perfectionism so that you can stop holding yourself to such impossibly high standards.

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]> For years I thought that I was doing well in my career because I worked so hard and held myself to such high standards.  Then I realised that those strategies were actually causing as much harm as they were good.  I coach a lot of high achieving women, at all levels and perfectionism in its various guises, crops up all the time.  Often it looks like overworking, trying to be in control of everything in your life, procrastinating and fear of failure. 

  In this episode I’d like to help you to identify and reflect on any unhealthy thought or work patterns you may have around perfectionism so that you can stop holding yourself to such impossibly high standards.

  Find out about Be Bolder at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  Find out about Influence & Impact at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course -

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>e755274b-e32a-4305-963c-a81273d364eeSun, 23 Jul 2023 14:30:00 +000043:53falsefull140140Ep 139 - How to be more inclusive with Catherine Garrod We all want to be inclusive but we don’t always know exactly how to embed that into our teams and our everyday activities.  My guest Catherine Garrod tackles exactly that in her book ‘Conscious Inclusion: How to ‘do’ EDI one decision at time’ and in this episode we discuss some really practical ways to be more inclusive.

  You’ll learn:

  • -        How you can encourage respectful disagreement (and why you’ll want to)
  • -        A great model for gathering feedback in a meeting
  • -        How building in inclusion reminders will help you get better at your job
  • -        How important it is to ‘resize’ a role for part time work and the best way to approach that
  
  

  About Catherine:

  Catherine Garrod is the founder of Compelling Culture and works with organisations to determine whether people from underrepresented groups are having the same good experience as people from overrepresented groups. Then she defines specific actions to boost the experience for colleagues, customers and communities.  And she lives by this quote “Unless you’re consciously including people, you’re almost certainly unconsciously excluding people.”

  Previously, Catherine led Sky to become the Most Inclusive Employer in the UK, with 80% of teams increasing their diversity. Now as a consultant she combines the power of listening, employee engagement, diversity and inclusion, to make the complex simple - by absorbing an organisation's purpose and providing practical actions that can be implemented today, tomorrow and the day after.

  Catherine is straight talking, full of energy and she empowers people to create sustainable change. When every voice is heard, every person is empowered and everybody takes action, the outcomes are extraordinary.

  Catherine’s book - https://www.compellingculture.co.uk/conscious-inclusion

  Compelling Culture website - https://www.compellingculture.co.uk/

  Follow Catherine on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinegarrod/

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  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

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  ]]> We all want to be inclusive but we don’t always know exactly how to embed that into our teams and our everyday activities.  My guest Catherine Garrod tackles exactly that in her book ‘Conscious Inclusion: How to ‘do’ EDI one decision at time’ and in this episode we discuss some really practical ways to be more inclusive.

  You’ll learn:

  • -        How you can encourage respectful disagreement (and why you’ll want to)
  • -        A great model for gathering feedback in a meeting
  • -        How building in inclusion reminders will help you get better at your job
  • -        How important it is to ‘resize’ a role for part time work and the best way to approach that
  
  

  About Catherine:

  Catherine Garrod is the founder of Compelling Culture and works with organisations to determine whether people from underrepresented groups are having the same good experience as people from overrepresented groups. Then she defines specific actions to boost the experience for colleagues, customers and communities.  And she lives by this quote “Unless you’re consciously including people, you’re almost certainly unconsciously excluding people.”

  Previously, Catherine led Sky to become the Most Inclusive Employer in the UK, with 80% of teams increasing their diversity. Now as a consultant she combines the power of listening, employee engagement, diversity and inclusion, to make the complex simple - by absorbing an organisation's purpose and providing practical actions that can be implemented today, tomorrow and the day after.

  Catherine is straight talking, full of energy and she empowers people to create sustainable change. When every voice is heard, every person is empowered and everybody takes action, the outcomes are extraordinary.

  Catherine’s book - https://www.compellingculture.co.uk/conscious-inclusion

  Compelling Culture website - https://www.compellingculture.co.uk/

  Follow Catherine on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinegarrod/

  LOOKING TO BECOME AN INFLUENTIAL LEADER? Our next cohort of Influence & Impact, a 3 month women’s leadership development programme starts in September - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  WANT THE CONFIDFENCE TO HAVE CHALLENGING CONVERSATIONS? Our next cohort of Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course starts in October - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

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  ]]>0ffcc357-0cac-4aa9-bb4a-f12aa6143131Sun, 02 Jul 2023 14:30:00 +000042:32falsefull139139Ep 138 - A simple shift that makes it easier to navigate internal politics I remember a period of time when I felt a lot of frustration at work.  Frustrated with decisions being made, with an obstructive colleague I had to work with and with my inability to influence change.  It turns out I was not alone.  A recent report from Gallup shared that 19% of Brits feel angry frequently at work and 38% report feeling stressed a lot of the time.

  In this week’s episode I share one simple shift I made that makes it easier to navigate internal politics.

  So if you’d like to become a better leader and get people to listen to you then have a listen to this short solo episode.

  WANT TO BECOME A BETTER INFLUENCER?  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  LOOKING TO BECOME AN INFLUENTIAL LEADER? Our next cohort of Influence & Impact, a 3 month women’s leadership development programme starts in September - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  WANT THE CONFIDFENCE TO HAVE CHALLENGING CONVERSATIONS? Our next cohort of Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course starts in October - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]> I remember a period of time when I felt a lot of frustration at work.  Frustrated with decisions being made, with an obstructive colleague I had to work with and with my inability to influence change.  It turns out I was not alone.  A recent report from Gallup shared that 19% of Brits feel angry frequently at work and 38% report feeling stressed a lot of the time.

  In this week’s episode I share one simple shift I made that makes it easier to navigate internal politics.

  So if you’d like to become a better leader and get people to listen to you then have a listen to this short solo episode.

  WANT TO BECOME A BETTER INFLUENCER?  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  LOOKING TO BECOME AN INFLUENTIAL LEADER? Our next cohort of Influence & Impact, a 3 month women’s leadership development programme starts in September - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  WANT THE CONFIDFENCE TO HAVE CHALLENGING CONVERSATIONS? Our next cohort of Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course starts in October - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>1aab20a9-c4a2-4f59-9185-580d3dce7566Sun, 25 Jun 2023 14:30:00 +000025:51falsefull138138Ep 137 - Stepping up into a Director role with Gabi Field If you’re thinking about moving into a Director role or are new in your Director role this straight taking conversation will give you some insights to prepare you. I talk to listener Gabi Field about her experience stepping up to Director level in an interim capacity and what she learnt from it.  We discuss…

  -        How you know you’re ready to step up to Director level

  -        How imposter feelings crop up as you step out of your comfort zone

  -        How you learn to think at an organisation-wide level

  -        How Gabi handled leading her former peers

  -        What Gabi wishes she’d known before stepping up

  Other episodes you may find helpful:

  Ep 60 From Specialist to Generalist - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-60-from-specialist-to-generalist/id1435136477?i=1000532062903

  Ep 41 - What I wish I'd known about managing -https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-41-what-i-wish-id-know-about-managing/id1435136477?i=1000514675261

  Ep 37 - How to start a new job well - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-37-how-to-start-a-new-job-well/id1435136477?i=1000510992334

  Ep 35 - When you’re promoted above your peers - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-35-when-you-re-promoted-above-your-peers

  Ep 30 - Stepping up to the next level of leadership - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-20-stepping-up-to-the-next-level-of-leadership

   

  Gabi’s Bio:

  Gabi was the Director of Fundraising and Comms at Refuge, leading the income generation and communication functions to support women and their children experiencing domestic abuse- including campaigning, high value partnerships, celebrity ambassadors and mass markets. Gabi has worked in the charity sector for 10 years, starting as a community fundraiser in a local charity and working across large and medium charities. Gabi has a real passion for people, both their abilities, their development and their uniqueness they bring to a team. She truly believes in the power of a team. Gabi lives in West Sussex with her cat Flo and enjoys yoga, walking and baking.

  Gabi’s LinkedIn profile - https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabi-field-fundraising/

  MY NEW WORKSHOP:

  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

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  ]]> If you’re thinking about moving into a Director role or are new in your Director role this straight taking conversation will give you some insights to prepare you. I talk to listener Gabi Field about her experience stepping up to Director level in an interim capacity and what she learnt from it.  We discuss…

  -        How you know you’re ready to step up to Director level

  -        How imposter feelings crop up as you step out of your comfort zone

  -        How you learn to think at an organisation-wide level

  -        How Gabi handled leading her former peers

  -        What Gabi wishes she’d known before stepping up

  Other episodes you may find helpful:

  Ep 60 From Specialist to Generalist - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-60-from-specialist-to-generalist/id1435136477?i=1000532062903

  Ep 41 - What I wish I'd known about managing -https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-41-what-i-wish-id-know-about-managing/id1435136477?i=1000514675261

  Ep 37 - How to start a new job well - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ep-37-how-to-start-a-new-job-well/id1435136477?i=1000510992334

  Ep 35 - When you’re promoted above your peers - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-35-when-you-re-promoted-above-your-peers

  Ep 30 - Stepping up to the next level of leadership - https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-20-stepping-up-to-the-next-level-of-leadership

   

  Gabi’s Bio:

  Gabi was the Director of Fundraising and Comms at Refuge, leading the income generation and communication functions to support women and their children experiencing domestic abuse- including campaigning, high value partnerships, celebrity ambassadors and mass markets. Gabi has worked in the charity sector for 10 years, starting as a community fundraiser in a local charity and working across large and medium charities. Gabi has a real passion for people, both their abilities, their development and their uniqueness they bring to a team. She truly believes in the power of a team. Gabi lives in West Sussex with her cat Flo and enjoys yoga, walking and baking.

  Gabi’s LinkedIn profile - https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabi-field-fundraising/

  MY NEW WORKSHOP:

  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>85812bdf-2e82-49df-8413-be8211181a47Mon, 12 Jun 2023 06:48:00 +000001:03:42falsefull137137Ep 136 - Becoming more resilient with Lara Cullen How do you react under extreme stress?  Do you find yourself over-functioning or under-functioning?  This is just one of the areas I explore with author and coach Lara Cullen on our episode on resilience this week.  We also discuss…

  -        Lara’s definition of resilience and why we both hate the term ‘mental toughness’

  -        The qualities of resilient people

  -        How you can use energy, mindset and strategies to become more resilient

  -        How understanding resilience can make us better leaders

  Lara’s Bio:

  Lara Cullen is a sought-after executive coach, trainer, author and founder. After a successful 15 year career in HR and leadership working with global brands across a number of industries, she decided to spread her wings and do things her own way. She founded the People Person Ltd a boutique personal development and coaching consultancy based in London with the sole aim of helping more people be happier, healthier and more successful doing what they love and enabling businesses to get the best out of their people. Known for her warmth, energy and insight, Lara works with individuals and brands who have big hearts, big dreams and rebellious souls and who are (or who aspire to be) kind, brave and brilliant.  Lara is the author of the book ‘How to be a People Person: Be Kind. Be Brave. Be Brilliant’ which was published in 2021.

  Lara’s website - www.thepeopleperson.org

  Lara’s book - https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-People-Person-Brave-Brilliant/dp/1912300486/

  OUR NEW WORKSHOP:

  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]> How do you react under extreme stress?  Do you find yourself over-functioning or under-functioning?  This is just one of the areas I explore with author and coach Lara Cullen on our episode on resilience this week.  We also discuss…

  -        Lara’s definition of resilience and why we both hate the term ‘mental toughness’

  -        The qualities of resilient people

  -        How you can use energy, mindset and strategies to become more resilient

  -        How understanding resilience can make us better leaders

  Lara’s Bio:

  Lara Cullen is a sought-after executive coach, trainer, author and founder. After a successful 15 year career in HR and leadership working with global brands across a number of industries, she decided to spread her wings and do things her own way. She founded the People Person Ltd a boutique personal development and coaching consultancy based in London with the sole aim of helping more people be happier, healthier and more successful doing what they love and enabling businesses to get the best out of their people. Known for her warmth, energy and insight, Lara works with individuals and brands who have big hearts, big dreams and rebellious souls and who are (or who aspire to be) kind, brave and brilliant.  Lara is the author of the book ‘How to be a People Person: Be Kind. Be Brave. Be Brilliant’ which was published in 2021.

  Lara’s website - www.thepeopleperson.org

  Lara’s book - https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-People-Person-Brave-Brilliant/dp/1912300486/

  OUR NEW WORKSHOP:

  Learn more about our Influence for Success workshop at www.carlamillertraining.com/influenceforsuccess

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>28dabcc0-a876-4162-94fe-a93ae62bbe21Sun, 28 May 2023 14:30:00 +000049:14falsefull136136Ep 135 - The confidence crisis impacting girls with Laura Sercombe I spend a lot of time coaching women around confidence, giving them tools to build their confidence and shining a light on the role gender bias plays in making us doubt ourselves.  But confidence issues often start a long time before women enter the workplace and the pressure that girls face today thanks to social media is huge.

  In this episode I interview Laura Sercombe, the inspiring CEO of GFS (Girl’s Friendly Society), a charity that works with girls to inspire and empower them to live their best lives.  This year my business has been making a donation to fund a girl to attend one of GFS’s confidence building sessions for every participant in our open Be Bolder courses, so it was great to explore this topic with Laura.

  We talked about why there is a need for the work GFS does, what’s causing girls as young as 6 to struggle with their confidence and the importance of positive role models and safe spaces where girls can be themselves.

  Laura’s Bio:

  For almost 30 years I have worked as part of the third sector in service delivery charities with a focus around challenging injustice – around education, disability and gender. I am driven by a desire to see more equity in the world and so it will be no surprise that I have a real interest in addressing EDI in the roles I have been fortunate to work in.

  I am lucky enough to work in an environment I really enjoy; as CEO for GFS (Girls Friendly Society), a children’s charity with a mission to support girls to be proud of who they are. This is because girls as young as six tell us this is something they cannot do. Our hope is that this works contribute to the movement to address gender inequity for girls and young women.

  At GFS, we work with girls across England and Wales in areas where research says they do not have the same life opportunities as their peers – to inspire and empower them to live their best lives.

  GFS is an exciting charity that we are proud to be caretakers of. The history is extraordinary as GFS is one of the longest running charities in England and Wales, devoted solely to meeting the needs for girls and young women. We have a real focus on developing partnerships with organisations that are keen to be involved and support this objective.

  From an early age, girls are well aware of the far reaching gender inequalities that exist for them. We are focused on building a fair society one girl at a time by inspiring the girls to think beyond their own experience and empowering them to have the confidence to live the life they want to. This takes hard work and dedication by the volunteers who deliver sessions each week for the girls.

  GFS website: https://girlsfriendlysociety.org.uk/

  Donate an hour: https://hour.girlsfriendlysociety.org.uk/

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]> I spend a lot of time coaching women around confidence, giving them tools to build their confidence and shining a light on the role gender bias plays in making us doubt ourselves.  But confidence issues often start a long time before women enter the workplace and the pressure that girls face today thanks to social media is huge.

  In this episode I interview Laura Sercombe, the inspiring CEO of GFS (Girl’s Friendly Society), a charity that works with girls to inspire and empower them to live their best lives.  This year my business has been making a donation to fund a girl to attend one of GFS’s confidence building sessions for every participant in our open Be Bolder courses, so it was great to explore this topic with Laura.

  We talked about why there is a need for the work GFS does, what’s causing girls as young as 6 to struggle with their confidence and the importance of positive role models and safe spaces where girls can be themselves.

  Laura’s Bio:

  For almost 30 years I have worked as part of the third sector in service delivery charities with a focus around challenging injustice – around education, disability and gender. I am driven by a desire to see more equity in the world and so it will be no surprise that I have a real interest in addressing EDI in the roles I have been fortunate to work in.

  I am lucky enough to work in an environment I really enjoy; as CEO for GFS (Girls Friendly Society), a children’s charity with a mission to support girls to be proud of who they are. This is because girls as young as six tell us this is something they cannot do. Our hope is that this works contribute to the movement to address gender inequity for girls and young women.

  At GFS, we work with girls across England and Wales in areas where research says they do not have the same life opportunities as their peers – to inspire and empower them to live their best lives.

  GFS is an exciting charity that we are proud to be caretakers of. The history is extraordinary as GFS is one of the longest running charities in England and Wales, devoted solely to meeting the needs for girls and young women. We have a real focus on developing partnerships with organisations that are keen to be involved and support this objective.

  From an early age, girls are well aware of the far reaching gender inequalities that exist for them. We are focused on building a fair society one girl at a time by inspiring the girls to think beyond their own experience and empowering them to have the confidence to live the life they want to. This takes hard work and dedication by the volunteers who deliver sessions each week for the girls.

  GFS website: https://girlsfriendlysociety.org.uk/

  Donate an hour: https://hour.girlsfriendlysociety.org.uk/

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me at https://calendly.com/carla-miller/call-with-carla

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>74c25b56-fb94-4f20-aa2c-077e9a1c9627Sun, 14 May 2023 14:30:00 +000048:25falsefull135135Ep 134 - Thriving as an introvert in the workplace with Emma Taggart Up to 50% of people have introverted tendencies yet meetings are still designed in a way that doesn’t allow them to contribute effectively.  In this episode I’m talking to Emma Taggart, a leadership and career coach for introverted leaders about what introverts bring to the workplace and leadership, how to have confidence as an introvert and how we can run meetings in a more inclusive and effective way.

  It's a super practical conversation that I highly recommend, whether you recognise your own introverted tendencies or you want to run a team that brings the best out in everyone, regardless of their thinking style.

  About Emma Taggart:

  Emma Taggart is a leadership and career coach for introverted leaders. She helps ambitious people with a quiet, reserved and unassuming style to feel confident in their capabilities and progress their careers without changing who they are.

  Before training as a coach Emma was policy director at a breast cancer charity, chief of staff to a prominent politician, and ran an independent consultancy supporting not-for-profit organisations to campaign and influence effectively.

  The Introvert Success Scorecard - assess yourself against 9 criteria you need to build a successful career as an introverted leader: https://www.emmataggart.co.uk/scorecard-signup

   Emma’s LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-taggart/

  Emma’s website: https://www.emmataggart.co.uk/

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]> Up to 50% of people have introverted tendencies yet meetings are still designed in a way that doesn’t allow them to contribute effectively.  In this episode I’m talking to Emma Taggart, a leadership and career coach for introverted leaders about what introverts bring to the workplace and leadership, how to have confidence as an introvert and how we can run meetings in a more inclusive and effective way.

  It's a super practical conversation that I highly recommend, whether you recognise your own introverted tendencies or you want to run a team that brings the best out in everyone, regardless of their thinking style.

  About Emma Taggart:

  Emma Taggart is a leadership and career coach for introverted leaders. She helps ambitious people with a quiet, reserved and unassuming style to feel confident in their capabilities and progress their careers without changing who they are.

  Before training as a coach Emma was policy director at a breast cancer charity, chief of staff to a prominent politician, and ran an independent consultancy supporting not-for-profit organisations to campaign and influence effectively.

  The Introvert Success Scorecard - assess yourself against 9 criteria you need to build a successful career as an introverted leader: https://www.emmataggart.co.uk/scorecard-signup

   Emma’s LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-taggart/

  Emma’s website: https://www.emmataggart.co.uk/

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>89170b5e-4073-4594-baa9-117a48f492bdFri, 28 Apr 2023 00:00:00 +000054:32falsefull134134Ep 133 - The 5 mistakes many managers make and how to avoid them This is the episode I wish I’d heard when I was in my first few years of managing people and teams.  It would have made my life so much easier.

  In this episode I cover:

  -        How to claim the authority that comes with your role

  -        My favourite tool for going into challenging conversations with confidence

  -        Why it is important to set expectations and hold people accountable

  -        Why your team’s happiness is not down to you

  Please do share this episode with any newer managers you know.

  Other episodes you might like:

  Episode 125 How to set and hold your boundaries - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/6bb95322e0be3e4d1ad9588d769372e9

  Episode 115 – How to give feedback well - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/c55bd71b5b253082b5dde223892793ba

  Episode 61 – Become great at delegating - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/88e3418cb66c33773f85362858c5e48b

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]> This is the episode I wish I’d heard when I was in my first few years of managing people and teams.  It would have made my life so much easier.

  In this episode I cover:

  -        How to claim the authority that comes with your role

  -        My favourite tool for going into challenging conversations with confidence

  -        Why it is important to set expectations and hold people accountable

  -        Why your team’s happiness is not down to you

  Please do share this episode with any newer managers you know.

  Other episodes you might like:

  Episode 125 How to set and hold your boundaries - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/6bb95322e0be3e4d1ad9588d769372e9

  Episode 115 – How to give feedback well - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/c55bd71b5b253082b5dde223892793ba

  Episode 61 – Become great at delegating - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/88e3418cb66c33773f85362858c5e48b

   

  WORK WITH ME AND MY TEAM

  We partner with you to:

  ·       Develop your women leaders and prepare them to advance within the organisation

  ·       Build women’s confidence - particularly your early and mid career level women

  ·       Empower men and leaders to become allies for gender equity

   

  We also offer individuals:

  -        Be Bolder, an open 4 week confidence and assertiveness course

  -        Influence & Impact, an open 3 month women’s leadership development programme

  -        1:1 coaching

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>e8244c5b-6d43-4d62-9b00-72b017962098Sun, 16 Apr 2023 14:30:00 +000029:28falsefull133133Ep 132 - Managing your reaction to stressful situations Do you find yourself feeling tongue-tied and inarticulate when under pressure?  Do you feel stress every time your email or phones flashes up with a certain person calling?  Are you able to calmly respond in those situations or are you reacting?  In this episode I’m going to share what’s going on when you’re reacting and how to respond calmly and powerfully.

  In this episode I cover:

  -        The importance of knowing your stress response and what triggers it

  -        My favourite tools for remaining calm

  -        How to respond instead of reacting

  -        Recovering from a stressful situation

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynotes and run workshops, courses and programmes to organisations wanting to develop, support and retain women and close the gender pay gap.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]> Do you find yourself feeling tongue-tied and inarticulate when under pressure?  Do you feel stress every time your email or phones flashes up with a certain person calling?  Are you able to calmly respond in those situations or are you reacting?  In this episode I’m going to share what’s going on when you’re reacting and how to respond calmly and powerfully.

  In this episode I cover:

  -        The importance of knowing your stress response and what triggers it

  -        My favourite tools for remaining calm

  -        How to respond instead of reacting

  -        Recovering from a stressful situation

  WORK WITH ME

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  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

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  ]]>16c4ad67-8c9d-4adb-adee-328fa1181037Sun, 02 Apr 2023 14:30:00 +000037:17falsefull132132Ep 131 - The Brutal Impact of Parenthood on Women’s Careers with Jess Heagren When I read the Careers After Babies report I knew we had to talk about it on the podcast.  The stories and statistics within it show the stark reality of how many women’s careers are impacted by motherhood.  It’s a must read for anyone in the workplace who has children, wants to have children or wants to be a leader or employer that supports working parents.

  I’m joined by guest Jess Heagren, author of the Careers After Babies report to discuss its findings and what we can do to improve this situation.  We talk about how equal parenting and shared parental leave make a huge difference, why we see a drop in women at management level after parenthood and how long it takes careers to recover after having a child.

  MORE ABOUT JESS

  Jess Heagren is an ex Financial Services Director, mother of four, award-winning CEO of That Works For Me, and author of landmark report Careers After Babies. On a personal mission to keep more parents in the workplace, Jess works with businesses to make them better employers for parents through the Careers After Babies accreditation programme and supports hiring through That Works For Me, home to thousands of parents seeking flexible work.

  Read the Careers After Babies report at the report here - https://www.thatworksforme.co.uk/guides-and-tools/careers-after-babies 

  Find out about the accreditation at https://www.thatworksforme.co.uk/guides-and-tools/careers-after-babies-accreditation

  FOLLOW JESS

  Twitter - https://twitter.com/that_worksforme 

  Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-heagren/ 

  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/that-works-for-me/?viewAsMember=true 

  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/that_works_for_me/?hl=en 

  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thatworksforme 

  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFFnLUhExUsTsrBrdOnIHjg?view_as=subscriber 

   

  You may also enjoy these related episodes:

  -        Equality at Home with Clare Twelvetrees - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/1ff00341d846a9bfe3e546b0ad55b1fe

  -        Setting boundaries as a working parent with Rachel Vecht - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/142ba5c939356fd2a5473cb20ef27d94

  -        Why we’re not aiming fort work-life balance with Jessica Chivers - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/aa3943e3b5545cf39ab7e469b0623182

  -        Successful job sharing with The Job Share pair - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ce2a2ca870f509053f6fcca70b39b9e2

  -        Returning from parental leave with confidence with Lizzie Martin - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/929e47d10463b66d49d983d12f9307ba

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynotes and run workshops, courses and programmes to organisations wanting to develop, support and retain women and close the gender pay gap.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]> When I read the Careers After Babies report I knew we had to talk about it on the podcast.  The stories and statistics within it show the stark reality of how many women’s careers are impacted by motherhood.  It’s a must read for anyone in the workplace who has children, wants to have children or wants to be a leader or employer that supports working parents.

  I’m joined by guest Jess Heagren, author of the Careers After Babies report to discuss its findings and what we can do to improve this situation.  We talk about how equal parenting and shared parental leave make a huge difference, why we see a drop in women at management level after parenthood and how long it takes careers to recover after having a child.

  MORE ABOUT JESS

  Jess Heagren is an ex Financial Services Director, mother of four, award-winning CEO of That Works For Me, and author of landmark report Careers After Babies. On a personal mission to keep more parents in the workplace, Jess works with businesses to make them better employers for parents through the Careers After Babies accreditation programme and supports hiring through That Works For Me, home to thousands of parents seeking flexible work.

  Read the Careers After Babies report at the report here - https://www.thatworksforme.co.uk/guides-and-tools/careers-after-babies 

  Find out about the accreditation at https://www.thatworksforme.co.uk/guides-and-tools/careers-after-babies-accreditation

  FOLLOW JESS

  Twitter - https://twitter.com/that_worksforme 

  Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-heagren/ 

  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/that-works-for-me/?viewAsMember=true 

  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/that_works_for_me/?hl=en 

  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thatworksforme 

  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFFnLUhExUsTsrBrdOnIHjg?view_as=subscriber 

   

  You may also enjoy these related episodes:

  -        Equality at Home with Clare Twelvetrees - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/1ff00341d846a9bfe3e546b0ad55b1fe

  -        Setting boundaries as a working parent with Rachel Vecht - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/142ba5c939356fd2a5473cb20ef27d94

  -        Why we’re not aiming fort work-life balance with Jessica Chivers - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/aa3943e3b5545cf39ab7e469b0623182

  -        Successful job sharing with The Job Share pair - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ce2a2ca870f509053f6fcca70b39b9e2

  -        Returning from parental leave with confidence with Lizzie Martin - https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/929e47d10463b66d49d983d12f9307ba

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynotes and run workshops, courses and programmes to organisations wanting to develop, support and retain women and close the gender pay gap.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>69db8166-a83d-45b3-a404-b2b089c4383dSun, 19 Mar 2023 15:15:00 +000046:32falsefull131131Ep 130 - Understanding the Authority Gap with Mary Ann SieghartEp 130 Show Notes: Understanding the Authority Gap with Mary Ann Sieghart I’ve republished this episode as it is the perfect episode for International Women’s Day 2023. It has received more feedback than any other episode and for good reason. Mary Ann is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men, a BBC Radio 4 presenter, speaker and advocate for women’s equality in the workplace. We discuss: The impact of the book The Authority Gap and why it’s so important that male leaders read it Conversational manspreading Whether woman need to change how they behave to be seen as more competent Unconscious bias about women, by women and how to be aware of it What men can gain by narrowing the authority gap Mary Ann shares so many fascinating studies that demonstrate the authority gap in action which are both surprising and validating for women's experiences at work. MORE ABOUT MARY ANN Mary Ann Sieghart is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men. She spent 20 years as Assistant Editor and columnist at The Times and won a large following for her columns on politics, economics, feminism, parenthood and life in general. She has presented many programmes on BBC Radio 4, such as Start the Week, Profile, Analysis, Fallout and One to One. She chaired the revival of The Brains Trust on BBC2 and recently spent a year as a Visiting Fellow of All Souls College, Oxford. She is a Visiting Professor at King’s College London, Chair of the judges for the Women’s Prize for Fiction 2022 and sits on numerous boards.

  BBC RADIO 4 EPISODES Speak Up: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000ydx0 Why Are Even Women Biased Against Women?: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09pl66d A Job For The Boys: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0003t9y

  CONNECT WITH MARY ANN The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/ Vist Mary Ann’s website: www.maryannsieghart.com Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-sieghart-17a27891/ Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/masieghart?lang=en

  Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masieghartwriter/

  WORK WITH ME As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynotes and run workshops, courses and programmes to organisations wanting to develop, support and retain women and close the gender pay gap.. Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/ Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  ]]>Ep 130 Show Notes: Understanding the Authority Gap with Mary Ann Sieghart I’ve republished this episode as it is the perfect episode for International Women’s Day 2023. It has received more feedback than any other episode and for good reason. Mary Ann is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men, a BBC Radio 4 presenter, speaker and advocate for women’s equality in the workplace. We discuss: The impact of the book The Authority Gap and why it’s so important that male leaders read it Conversational manspreading Whether woman need to change how they behave to be seen as more competent Unconscious bias about women, by women and how to be aware of it What men can gain by narrowing the authority gap Mary Ann shares so many fascinating studies that demonstrate the authority gap in action which are both surprising and validating for women's experiences at work. MORE ABOUT MARY ANN Mary Ann Sieghart is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men. She spent 20 years as Assistant Editor and columnist at The Times and won a large following for her columns on politics, economics, feminism, parenthood and life in general. She has presented many programmes on BBC Radio 4, such as Start the Week, Profile, Analysis, Fallout and One to One. She chaired the revival of The Brains Trust on BBC2 and recently spent a year as a Visiting Fellow of All Souls College, Oxford. She is a Visiting Professor at King’s College London, Chair of the judges for the Women’s Prize for Fiction 2022 and sits on numerous boards.

  BBC RADIO 4 EPISODES Speak Up: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000ydx0 Why Are Even Women Biased Against Women?: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09pl66d A Job For The Boys: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0003t9y

  CONNECT WITH MARY ANN The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/ Vist Mary Ann’s website: www.maryannsieghart.com Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-sieghart-17a27891/ Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/masieghart?lang=en

  Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masieghartwriter/

  WORK WITH ME As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynotes and run workshops, courses and programmes to organisations wanting to develop, support and retain women and close the gender pay gap.. Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/ Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  ]]>afa219a1-a791-45f2-97c9-4c63a3b088feWed, 08 Mar 2023 09:45:00 +000049:29falsefull130130Ep 129 – Embracing Equity this International Women’s DayI’ve republished the most shared episode of last year for International Women’s Day 2023 and I’d encourage you to share it with your colleagues, whatever their gender. Men can be really powerful allies for gender equality in the workplace. This episode shares some practical ways men can support the women they work with. Listen for: Why gender equality matters in the workplace The different stages of allyship What men can do as colleagues to promote gender equality in their organisation How managers and leaders can reduce gender inequity Ways men can support women at home to positively impact their careers You can get in touch with Carla about male allyship workshops, inclusion week talks and supporting the women in your organisation at hello@carlamiller.co.uk You can find out about the Embracing Equity Toolkit at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/allyshiptoolkit

  WORK WITH CARLA As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my open programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and run workshops, courses and programmes for women leaders and early career women with organisations wanting to develop womenand close the gender pay gap. Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>I’ve republished the most shared episode of last year for International Women’s Day 2023 and I’d encourage you to share it with your colleagues, whatever their gender. Men can be really powerful allies for gender equality in the workplace. This episode shares some practical ways men can support the women they work with. Listen for: Why gender equality matters in the workplace The different stages of allyship What men can do as colleagues to promote gender equality in their organisation How managers and leaders can reduce gender inequity Ways men can support women at home to positively impact their careers You can get in touch with Carla about male allyship workshops, inclusion week talks and supporting the women in your organisation at hello@carlamiller.co.uk You can find out about the Embracing Equity Toolkit at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/allyshiptoolkit

  WORK WITH CARLA As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my open programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and run workshops, courses and programmes for women leaders and early career women with organisations wanting to develop womenand close the gender pay gap. Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me. Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>63c412b7-d6af-40de-999f-a0bb0541a15eSun, 05 Mar 2023 01:00:00 +000045:37falsefull129129Ep 128 – Why women are not getting the feedback they need to succeed Gender bias in workplace feedback is a pervasive and often overlooked issue, with many women in the workplace receiving feedback that can hinder their professional development and advancement. 

   Recent studies have found that negative personality-based reviews are up to 76% more likely to occur in women's reviews, compared to only 2% in men's reviews.

  In addition, men are more likely to receive actionable feedback that prepares them for leadership roles, while women tend to receive feedback that is more general and non-actionable. It is no wonder that many women struggle with confidence in the workplace due to the feedback they are receiving.

   In this episode, l explored the differences between the feedback that men and women receive and the impact of that on their career development. I also covered the practical steps that can be taken to address these gender biases in the workplace and help women to succeed.

   

  LINKS

  -        Women get nicer feedback and it holds then back - https://hbr.org/2023/01/women-get-nicer-feedback-and-it-holds-them-back?registration=success

         Personality-Based Performance Reviews Are Fine To Give Women - As Long As Men Get Them Too - https://www.forbes.com/sites/rebekahbastian/2019/03/08/personality-based-performance-reviews-are-fine-to-give-women-as-long-as-men-get-them-too/

  Men get more actionable feedback than women - https://hbr.org/2021/02/research-men-get-more-actionable-feedback-than-women

   CHARITY PARTNERSHIP

  I also announced our charity partnership with feminist charity GFS.   For every woman who joins Be Bolder in March I will be donating £47 to enable a girl to attend a session run by GFS that helps to build their confidence and self-esteem. GFS runs weekly groups for girls, in the most disadvantaged parts of England and Wales. A GFS girl is valued for exactly who she is, and the sessions grow her confidence to be her true self in the challenging years ahead. 

   

  EMBRACING EQUITY TOOLKIT

   

  Want to help your colleagues become better allies for women in your workplace in just 10 minutes? 

  This International Women’s Day provide your colleagues with practical steps they can take to become better allies with the Embracing Equity Toolkit.

  The toolkit includes 5 engaging micro-learning videos with clear action points for male allies, managers and women.  Each of these engaging animated video is less than 2 minutes long.  They cover topics including:

  -       Office housework – what is it and why does it matter?

  -       Brilliant meetings - tackling interruptions

  -       Brilliant meetings - pass the mic (how to stop men taking up all the airspace in meetings)

  -       Amplification - a top allyship strategy

  -       Feedback do’s and don’ts

  Find out more at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/allyshiptoolkit and send it on to your People Team if you wish your colleagues would watch the videos.

   

   

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

   

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

   

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence and make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I also work with women at all career stages on confidence and assertiveness through my open and in-house Be Bolder course.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]> Gender bias in workplace feedback is a pervasive and often overlooked issue, with many women in the workplace receiving feedback that can hinder their professional development and advancement. 

   Recent studies have found that negative personality-based reviews are up to 76% more likely to occur in women's reviews, compared to only 2% in men's reviews.

  In addition, men are more likely to receive actionable feedback that prepares them for leadership roles, while women tend to receive feedback that is more general and non-actionable. It is no wonder that many women struggle with confidence in the workplace due to the feedback they are receiving.

   In this episode, l explored the differences between the feedback that men and women receive and the impact of that on their career development. I also covered the practical steps that can be taken to address these gender biases in the workplace and help women to succeed.

   

  LINKS

  -        Women get nicer feedback and it holds then back - https://hbr.org/2023/01/women-get-nicer-feedback-and-it-holds-them-back?registration=success

         Personality-Based Performance Reviews Are Fine To Give Women - As Long As Men Get Them Too - https://www.forbes.com/sites/rebekahbastian/2019/03/08/personality-based-performance-reviews-are-fine-to-give-women-as-long-as-men-get-them-too/

  Men get more actionable feedback than women - https://hbr.org/2021/02/research-men-get-more-actionable-feedback-than-women

   CHARITY PARTNERSHIP

  I also announced our charity partnership with feminist charity GFS.   For every woman who joins Be Bolder in March I will be donating £47 to enable a girl to attend a session run by GFS that helps to build their confidence and self-esteem. GFS runs weekly groups for girls, in the most disadvantaged parts of England and Wales. A GFS girl is valued for exactly who she is, and the sessions grow her confidence to be her true self in the challenging years ahead. 

   

  EMBRACING EQUITY TOOLKIT

   

  Want to help your colleagues become better allies for women in your workplace in just 10 minutes? 

  This International Women’s Day provide your colleagues with practical steps they can take to become better allies with the Embracing Equity Toolkit.

  The toolkit includes 5 engaging micro-learning videos with clear action points for male allies, managers and women.  Each of these engaging animated video is less than 2 minutes long.  They cover topics including:

  -       Office housework – what is it and why does it matter?

  -       Brilliant meetings - tackling interruptions

  -       Brilliant meetings - pass the mic (how to stop men taking up all the airspace in meetings)

  -       Amplification - a top allyship strategy

  -       Feedback do’s and don’ts

  Find out more at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/allyshiptoolkit and send it on to your People Team if you wish your colleagues would watch the videos.

   

   

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

   

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

   

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence and make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I also work with women at all career stages on confidence and assertiveness through my open and in-house Be Bolder course.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>2a715266-1078-497f-a15a-6838c8b0d9ddSun, 19 Feb 2023 15:30:00 +000034:47falsefull128128Ep 127 – How to speak up in meetingsEver sat in a meeting with a contribution to make but talked yourself out of it only to hear someone else make it later?

   

  In this episode I explore what we can find it hard to speak up in meetings and share some practical steps you can take to contribute more confidently in meetings. 

   

  We’ll be exploring the role your Inner Critic and unhelpful beliefs can play, how your thinking style impacts your ability to speak up and recognising that not all rooms are safe to speak up in.

   

  Please share it with anyone else you know who would find it helpful.

   

  If you want the support, tools and strategies to put it into action then the Be Bolder course is perfect for you as we have a 90 minute session on exactly this!

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

   

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

   

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence and make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I also work with women at all career stages on confidence and assertiveness through my open and in-house Be Bolder course.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>Ever sat in a meeting with a contribution to make but talked yourself out of it only to hear someone else make it later?

   

  In this episode I explore what we can find it hard to speak up in meetings and share some practical steps you can take to contribute more confidently in meetings. 

   

  We’ll be exploring the role your Inner Critic and unhelpful beliefs can play, how your thinking style impacts your ability to speak up and recognising that not all rooms are safe to speak up in.

   

  Please share it with anyone else you know who would find it helpful.

   

  If you want the support, tools and strategies to put it into action then the Be Bolder course is perfect for you as we have a 90 minute session on exactly this!

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

   

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

   

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence and make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I also work with women at all career stages on confidence and assertiveness through my open and in-house Be Bolder course.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>b83caa50-ed5b-4c91-abfa-4fb6ddb7dc4bSun, 05 Feb 2023 15:30:00 +000037:35falsefull127127Ep 126 – 7 Things Confident Women DoWe want to be more confident as women in the workplace yet it can be challenging, especially when we face gender bias on a daily basis.  Increasing your confidence is easier than you think and in this episode I share 7 things confident women do – and some of them might surprise you!

  KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Confidence and competence are often confused in the workplace which is why we are at a disadvantage if we are not confident
  • The experience of gender bias causes women to doubt themselves in the workplace
  • Confidence isn’t about becoming someone who never doubts themselves – self-doubt is a totally normal part of the human experience
  • You don’t have to have all the answers to be confident
  • Confident women support and encourage others and can also own their own strengths and achievements
  • Confident women can have the courageous conversations, set boundaries and say no
  • Confident women speak up when their Inner Critic is very vocal
  • Confidence involves trusting your own judgement
  • Confident women like and love themselves
  
  

  If this sounds good but you want the support, tools and strategies to put it into action then the Be Bolder course is perfect for you.

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>We want to be more confident as women in the workplace yet it can be challenging, especially when we face gender bias on a daily basis.  Increasing your confidence is easier than you think and in this episode I share 7 things confident women do – and some of them might surprise you!

  KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Confidence and competence are often confused in the workplace which is why we are at a disadvantage if we are not confident
  • The experience of gender bias causes women to doubt themselves in the workplace
  • Confidence isn’t about becoming someone who never doubts themselves – self-doubt is a totally normal part of the human experience
  • You don’t have to have all the answers to be confident
  • Confident women support and encourage others and can also own their own strengths and achievements
  • Confident women can have the courageous conversations, set boundaries and say no
  • Confident women speak up when their Inner Critic is very vocal
  • Confidence involves trusting your own judgement
  • Confident women like and love themselves
  
  

  If this sounds good but you want the support, tools and strategies to put it into action then the Be Bolder course is perfect for you.

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>49d6b901-4a24-45e7-a371-6aeaeede647eSun, 22 Jan 2023 15:30:00 +000035:07falsefull126126Ep 125 How to set and hold your boundaries in 2023The new year is a great opportunity to change how you approach your work life to make it work better for you. One way you can do this is by getting clear on some meaningful and realistic boundaries.

  There is an art to both setting and holding boundaries, particularly when it feels uncomfortable to say no or disappoint someone else.

  This episode is inspired by Beth Stallwood’s debut book - WorkJoy: A toolkit for a better working life.  The tools and practices are from her insightful and practical chapter on boundaries.

  I share:

  • The four signs you need to set or update your boundaries
  • The three types of boundaries you should have
  • How to create clear boundaries in your career and personal life
  • Three steps to holding your boundaries confidently
  
  

  Make sure you get your copy of WorkJoy: A toolkit for a better working life.   You can get the Kindle version for 99p on Monday 9 January!

  https://www.amazon.co.uk/WorkJoy-toolkit-better-working-life/dp/1788603583/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PUD81B000CXV&keywords=workjoy&qid=1666024483&sprefix=workjoy%2Caps%2C72&sr=8-1

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Find out more about Beth: https://bethstallwood.com/

  Ep 89: Finding Your WorkJoy with Beth Stallwood: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/c4e2ffefc9123ef631f2fb110ea2fbed

  Ep 119: Are You Trying To Do It All?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/95800afa877f3102c01908105e202fc9

  Ep 117: Are You Asking For What You Want?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ea50b48e3484b101a9917253dae2b2b3

  Ep 95: Setting Boundaries As A Working Parent: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/142ba5c939356fd2a5473cb20ef27d94

  Ep 75: Are You A People Pleaser?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/270919d8b209b48e8f42f7bf3f960517

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>The new year is a great opportunity to change how you approach your work life to make it work better for you. One way you can do this is by getting clear on some meaningful and realistic boundaries.

  There is an art to both setting and holding boundaries, particularly when it feels uncomfortable to say no or disappoint someone else.

  This episode is inspired by Beth Stallwood’s debut book - WorkJoy: A toolkit for a better working life.  The tools and practices are from her insightful and practical chapter on boundaries.

  I share:

  • The four signs you need to set or update your boundaries
  • The three types of boundaries you should have
  • How to create clear boundaries in your career and personal life
  • Three steps to holding your boundaries confidently
  
  

  Make sure you get your copy of WorkJoy: A toolkit for a better working life.   You can get the Kindle version for 99p on Monday 9 January!

  https://www.amazon.co.uk/WorkJoy-toolkit-better-working-life/dp/1788603583/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PUD81B000CXV&keywords=workjoy&qid=1666024483&sprefix=workjoy%2Caps%2C72&sr=8-1

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Find out more about Beth: https://bethstallwood.com/

  Ep 89: Finding Your WorkJoy with Beth Stallwood: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/c4e2ffefc9123ef631f2fb110ea2fbed

  Ep 119: Are You Trying To Do It All?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/95800afa877f3102c01908105e202fc9

  Ep 117: Are You Asking For What You Want?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ea50b48e3484b101a9917253dae2b2b3

  Ep 95: Setting Boundaries As A Working Parent: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/142ba5c939356fd2a5473cb20ef27d94

  Ep 75: Are You A People Pleaser?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/270919d8b209b48e8f42f7bf3f960517

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>7dade8cc-c398-42f2-a86f-9cd96fac48abSun, 08 Jan 2023 15:29:00 +000033:38falsefull125125Ep 124 - Setting Your Intentions For 2023Welcome to 2023 and a fresh new year! This mini episode is a really valuable and practical exercise that I’ll be coaching you through.   

  We’ll be reflecting on the year just been, celebrating your achievements and who you’ve become, and setting your intentions for the year ahead.

  Make yourself a cuppa, get your notebook and cosy up with some undisturbed time to reflect and plan for the year ahead.

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Welcome to 2023 and a fresh new year! This mini episode is a really valuable and practical exercise that I’ll be coaching you through.   

  We’ll be reflecting on the year just been, celebrating your achievements and who you’ve become, and setting your intentions for the year ahead.

  Make yourself a cuppa, get your notebook and cosy up with some undisturbed time to reflect and plan for the year ahead.

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN MARCH

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women. Our next cohort begins on Tuesday 7 March.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>b1e82fc6-741d-4ec9-9ae3-ecd952a2b664Sun, 01 Jan 2023 15:15:00 +000013:25falsefull124124Ep 123 - 5 Practical Strategies You Can Use To Worry LessIs your worry taking up too much of your mental and emotional energy, causing you to doubt yourself and stopping you from being your best in life?

  You are not alone and I’m here to help you worry less in this super practical episode!

  Listen for:

  • Effective strategies for shifting your attention away from worrying thoughts
  • How to distinguish between productive and unproductive worries
  • Two ways to turn your overthinking into a positive superpower
  
  

  This episode is part 2 of my series on worry so if you missed it, listen to part 1 “Taking Control of your Worrying” here: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/06050505e22a719ac563c98a8fb1f8e7

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 21 - Handling Negative Feedback Like A Pro: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-21-handling-negative-feedback

  Ep 56 - How To Stop Overthinking: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/f80cd13ac693e07526531828f9aed4ed

  Blog Post - 6 Mindfulness Strategies to Reduce your Overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/reducing-overthinking

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN 2023

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Is your worry taking up too much of your mental and emotional energy, causing you to doubt yourself and stopping you from being your best in life?

  You are not alone and I’m here to help you worry less in this super practical episode!

  Listen for:

  • Effective strategies for shifting your attention away from worrying thoughts
  • How to distinguish between productive and unproductive worries
  • Two ways to turn your overthinking into a positive superpower
  
  

  This episode is part 2 of my series on worry so if you missed it, listen to part 1 “Taking Control of your Worrying” here: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/06050505e22a719ac563c98a8fb1f8e7

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 21 - Handling Negative Feedback Like A Pro: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-21-handling-negative-feedback

  Ep 56 - How To Stop Overthinking: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/f80cd13ac693e07526531828f9aed4ed

  Blog Post - 6 Mindfulness Strategies to Reduce your Overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/reducing-overthinking

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN US IN 2023

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more and join here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

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  ]]>c7db95a0-1b3e-4163-9bcd-41c98625eda4Sun, 18 Dec 2022 15:15:00 +000034:31falsefull123123Ep 122 - Taking Control Of Your WorryingDo you find yourself worrying a lot? You might ruminate on the past or worry about what could happen in the future and how you might deal with it.

  Or perhaps you worry that you’re not good enough at your job or that people are judging you.

  If that’s you, then you’re not alone. This week’s podcast is the first of a two-episode series on worry.

  I talk about why our brains worry, share a simple way of recognising that worry isn't serving you, and give you some strategies to help you change your perspective and be more present.  

  In part two, I am going to talk through some really practical strategies that you can use to switch out of a worrying state.

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 32 - Why We Look To Others For Validation: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ec7888784de4c4939c516135e4cce412

  Ep 54 - Anxiety At Work: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/a381a858efff35cdf33049fff2a428c4

   

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  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Join the 2023 Waitlist: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book  

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

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  ]]>Do you find yourself worrying a lot? You might ruminate on the past or worry about what could happen in the future and how you might deal with it.

  Or perhaps you worry that you’re not good enough at your job or that people are judging you.

  If that’s you, then you’re not alone. This week’s podcast is the first of a two-episode series on worry.

  I talk about why our brains worry, share a simple way of recognising that worry isn't serving you, and give you some strategies to help you change your perspective and be more present.  

  In part two, I am going to talk through some really practical strategies that you can use to switch out of a worrying state.

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 32 - Why We Look To Others For Validation: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/ec7888784de4c4939c516135e4cce412

  Ep 54 - Anxiety At Work: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/a381a858efff35cdf33049fff2a428c4

   

  BE BOLDER – JOIN THE WAITLIST

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Join the 2023 Waitlist: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book  

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

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  ]]>a966b4b4-21fe-4272-9eb4-a9131ef83d21Sun, 11 Dec 2022 15:15:00 +000027:53falsefull122122Ep 121 - Do you worry that you don't know enough?Do you feel like your ability to do a good job depends on how much experience or how many skills or qualifications you have? And you never feel like you have enough.

  Do you worry that you don’t know enough to confidently answer questions in meetings or move to the next level in your career?

  If you’re nodding your head, then this week’s episode is a must listen. I share:

  • The very real reason why women doubt their skills and experience more than men do
  • Why the desire to be seen as an expert could be holding you back and how to recognise this
  • How to feel confident NOT knowing all the answers
  
  

  You worth at work is not determined by how much you know and I hope this episode reminds you of that.

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women: Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It – Valerie Young: https://www.amazon.com.au/Secret-Thoughts-Successful-Women-Impostor-ebook/dp/B004KPM1N0

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, help women at all stages of their careers have more confidence and assertiveness in my course Be Bolder and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  Be Bolder: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>Do you feel like your ability to do a good job depends on how much experience or how many skills or qualifications you have? And you never feel like you have enough.

  Do you worry that you don’t know enough to confidently answer questions in meetings or move to the next level in your career?

  If you’re nodding your head, then this week’s episode is a must listen. I share:

  • The very real reason why women doubt their skills and experience more than men do
  • Why the desire to be seen as an expert could be holding you back and how to recognise this
  • How to feel confident NOT knowing all the answers
  
  

  You worth at work is not determined by how much you know and I hope this episode reminds you of that.

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women: Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It – Valerie Young: https://www.amazon.com.au/Secret-Thoughts-Successful-Women-Impostor-ebook/dp/B004KPM1N0

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  I coach women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, help women at all stages of their careers have more confidence and assertiveness in my course Be Bolder and give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  Be Bolder: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>82b97502-e6b5-4b63-ae7c-c6a7e1655d95Sun, 04 Dec 2022 15:15:00 +000027:50falsefull121121Ep 120 - Developing Your Career with Fay WallisAre you ready to progress to that next level in your career, expand your skills or make the move to a new role and organisation?

  There are many ways you can develop your career and this week’s episode is your guide on how to do that.

  I speak to Fay Wallis who is a career coach, the founder of Bright Sky Career Coaching and the host of the 5-star rated podcast - HR Coffee Time.

  Listen for:

  • Fay’s top tip for a CV that gets noticed
  • The three Es model for career development and what you can do at each step
  • How managers can facilitate valuable career conversations with their team
  
  

  Prepare to be surprised about what you need to focus on the most to take the next step in your career!

   

  MORE ABOUT FAY

  Fay is a career coach, with a background in HR who specialises in coaching HR & People professionals. She is the Founder of Bright Sky Career Coaching and has a 5 star rated podcast called HR Coffee Time, where you can hear free career advice and ideas every week.

  Connect with Fay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/faywallis/

  Bright Sky Career Coaching: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/

  HR Coffee Time Podcast:  https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/hr-coffee-time-podcast/

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  A helpful framework for career conversations at work with Steve McIntosh: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/hr-coffee-time-podcast/33

  Fay’s CV writing course: https://brightsky.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1072378

  Ep 86 - Taking Control of Your Career: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-86-taking-control-of-your-career

  Ep 79 - 6 Ways To Increase Your Visibility At Work: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-79-6-ways-to-increase-your-visibility-at-work

   

  FREE DOWNLOAD: MY TOP PODCAST EPISODES

  My most impactful podcast episodes - all in one place! I've created this PDF download for you with 42 of my must-listen episodes grouped into themes such as workplace diversity, inclusion and equality, boosting your confidence and leading with impact.

  Download Your Copy Here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/sites/33382/themes/2151814715/downloads/lSsxr4ssRcmgFVJwudvB_Recommended_Podcast_Episodes_Influence_Impact_For_Female_Leaders_.pdf

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>Are you ready to progress to that next level in your career, expand your skills or make the move to a new role and organisation?

  There are many ways you can develop your career and this week’s episode is your guide on how to do that.

  I speak to Fay Wallis who is a career coach, the founder of Bright Sky Career Coaching and the host of the 5-star rated podcast - HR Coffee Time.

  Listen for:

  • Fay’s top tip for a CV that gets noticed
  • The three Es model for career development and what you can do at each step
  • How managers can facilitate valuable career conversations with their team
  
  

  Prepare to be surprised about what you need to focus on the most to take the next step in your career!

   

  MORE ABOUT FAY

  Fay is a career coach, with a background in HR who specialises in coaching HR & People professionals. She is the Founder of Bright Sky Career Coaching and has a 5 star rated podcast called HR Coffee Time, where you can hear free career advice and ideas every week.

  Connect with Fay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/faywallis/

  Bright Sky Career Coaching: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/

  HR Coffee Time Podcast:  https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/hr-coffee-time-podcast/

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  A helpful framework for career conversations at work with Steve McIntosh: https://www.brightskycareercoaching.co.uk/hr-coffee-time-podcast/33

  Fay’s CV writing course: https://brightsky.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1072378

  Ep 86 - Taking Control of Your Career: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-86-taking-control-of-your-career

  Ep 79 - 6 Ways To Increase Your Visibility At Work: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-79-6-ways-to-increase-your-visibility-at-work

   

  FREE DOWNLOAD: MY TOP PODCAST EPISODES

  My most impactful podcast episodes - all in one place! I've created this PDF download for you with 42 of my must-listen episodes grouped into themes such as workplace diversity, inclusion and equality, boosting your confidence and leading with impact.

  Download Your Copy Here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/sites/33382/themes/2151814715/downloads/lSsxr4ssRcmgFVJwudvB_Recommended_Podcast_Episodes_Influence_Impact_For_Female_Leaders_.pdf

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>efb1f699-3e03-4da1-b37a-15843e7311daSun, 27 Nov 2022 15:15:00 +000041:40falsefull120120Ep 119 - Are you trying to do it all?Are you at full capacity but still saying yes to whatever is asked at you at work and home?

  In this episode, I’m sharing tips, strategies and ways of reframing your thinking to help you if you’re overwhelmed from trying to do it all.

  Listen for:

  • How to let go of the “shoulds” that are adding to your to do list
  • My top tip for saying no with confidence
  
  

  I hope this episode helps you to do less and create more space and rest in your life.

   

  RECOMMENDED EPISODES

  Are You A People Pleaser?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/270919d8b209b48e8f42f7bf3f960517

  Become Great At Delegating: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/88e3418cb66c33773f85362858c5e48b

  Are We Addicted To Productivity?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/67abb4c9640c4d46db96161000f67e1d

  Are You Running On Autopilot?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/56578fd03c154dc9e269f282f111b241

   

  FREE DOWNLOAD: MY TOP PODCAST EPISODES

  My most impactful podcast episodes - all in one place! I've created this PDF download for you with 42 of my must-listen episodes grouped into themes such as workplace diversity, inclusion and equality, boosting your confidence and leading with impact.

  Download Your Copy Here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/sites/33382/themes/2151814715/downloads/lSsxr4ssRcmgFVJwudvB_Recommended_Podcast_Episodes_Influence_Impact_For_Female_Leaders_.pdf

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>Are you at full capacity but still saying yes to whatever is asked at you at work and home?

  In this episode, I’m sharing tips, strategies and ways of reframing your thinking to help you if you’re overwhelmed from trying to do it all.

  Listen for:

  • How to let go of the “shoulds” that are adding to your to do list
  • My top tip for saying no with confidence
  
  

  I hope this episode helps you to do less and create more space and rest in your life.

   

  RECOMMENDED EPISODES

  Are You A People Pleaser?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/270919d8b209b48e8f42f7bf3f960517

  Become Great At Delegating: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/88e3418cb66c33773f85362858c5e48b

  Are We Addicted To Productivity?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/67abb4c9640c4d46db96161000f67e1d

  Are You Running On Autopilot?: https://pod.link/1435136477/episode/56578fd03c154dc9e269f282f111b241

   

  FREE DOWNLOAD: MY TOP PODCAST EPISODES

  My most impactful podcast episodes - all in one place! I've created this PDF download for you with 42 of my must-listen episodes grouped into themes such as workplace diversity, inclusion and equality, boosting your confidence and leading with impact.

  Download Your Copy Here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/sites/33382/themes/2151814715/downloads/lSsxr4ssRcmgFVJwudvB_Recommended_Podcast_Episodes_Influence_Impact_For_Female_Leaders_.pdf

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>4c881bbf-4afb-4a0d-b969-2a16902b7ae3Sun, 20 Nov 2022 16:42:00 +000023:09falsefull119119Ep 118 - 3 Steps To Reduce The Tension Between Your Team And Other TeamsEp 118: 3 Steps To Reduce The Tension Between Your Team And Other Teams

  What can you do when you’re constantly dealing with tensions between your team and another team that they can’t resolve for themselves?

  I get asked questions like this a lot from my coaching clients so in this week’s episode, I’m teaching you my three-pronged approach for resolving friction between teams.

  This is a super practical episode and I share a couple of my best leadership tools you can put into practice.

  Listen to discover…

  • How you can coach your team to approach situations differently
  • How to negotiate with your peers
  • When to push an issue upwards and when to tackle it yourself
  
  

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Ep 118: 3 Steps To Reduce The Tension Between Your Team And Other Teams

  What can you do when you’re constantly dealing with tensions between your team and another team that they can’t resolve for themselves?

  I get asked questions like this a lot from my coaching clients so in this week’s episode, I’m teaching you my three-pronged approach for resolving friction between teams.

  This is a super practical episode and I share a couple of my best leadership tools you can put into practice.

  Listen to discover…

  • How you can coach your team to approach situations differently
  • How to negotiate with your peers
  • When to push an issue upwards and when to tackle it yourself
  
  

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>72874e28-8739-4403-a052-e9d9bffabd2dSun, 13 Nov 2022 15:15:00 +000028:46falsefull118118Ep 117 - Are you asking for what you want?How good are you at asking for what you want or what you need?  It could be flexible work hours, a pay rise, resources for your team, professional development or even just for help when you need it.

  Many women struggle to ask for what they want and are often more comfortable putting other people’s needs ahead of their own.

  In this week’s episode, I share how to get clear on your wants and needs, know that you deserve whatever it is that you're asking for and some top tips for making that ask.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 75 - Are You A People Pleaser?: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-75-are-you-a-people-pleaser

  Ep 87 - Having The Career Conversation With Your Line Manager: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-87

  Ep 96 - Negotiating Your Salary With Michelle Gyimah: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-96-negotiating-your-salary-with-michelle-gyimah

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  ]]>How good are you at asking for what you want or what you need?  It could be flexible work hours, a pay rise, resources for your team, professional development or even just for help when you need it.

  Many women struggle to ask for what they want and are often more comfortable putting other people’s needs ahead of their own.

  In this week’s episode, I share how to get clear on your wants and needs, know that you deserve whatever it is that you're asking for and some top tips for making that ask.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 75 - Are You A People Pleaser?: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-75-are-you-a-people-pleaser

  Ep 87 - Having The Career Conversation With Your Line Manager: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-87

  Ep 96 - Negotiating Your Salary With Michelle Gyimah: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-96-negotiating-your-salary-with-michelle-gyimah

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  ]]>3017853c-511a-413e-a108-e74dfbc6acc0Sun, 23 Oct 2022 14:15:00 +000029:40falsefull117117Ep 116 - Creating time in your week to think re-released episode - Carla MillerIf you’re like me, life has been incredibly busy lately. As we come out of the slower summer, autumn greets us with an increasing list of projects, commitments and to dos in both work and life.

  I thought it would be the perfect time to re-release this episode about creating the time and space in your day to think.

  I share how you can redesign your working day to create some breathing space, where you can think strategically and do the things that are important to you - rather than being constantly available to everyone else.

  If this resonates with you, ask yourself regularly what you need to do for yourself and how you can prioritise a bit of that each day. 

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>If you’re like me, life has been incredibly busy lately. As we come out of the slower summer, autumn greets us with an increasing list of projects, commitments and to dos in both work and life.

  I thought it would be the perfect time to re-release this episode about creating the time and space in your day to think.

  I share how you can redesign your working day to create some breathing space, where you can think strategically and do the things that are important to you - rather than being constantly available to everyone else.

  If this resonates with you, ask yourself regularly what you need to do for yourself and how you can prioritise a bit of that each day. 

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>c0144fa8-1b80-4385-8c74-86e53b1237aaSun, 16 Oct 2022 14:15:00 +000025:43falsefull116116Ep 115 - How To Give Feedback WellGiving honest and direct feedback is an essential part of being an effective leader. Honest feedback says that you care about a person's development, you care about the work that they do and you want to help them improve because you value them.

  In this week’s episode, I share why feedback is so important, why psychological safety is foundational to a positive and constructive feedback environment, and the five key elements to giving constructive criticism to a team member.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Authority Magazine Article - Giving Feedback; How To Be Honest Without Being Hurtful: https://medium.com/authority-magazine/carla-miller-of-impact-consulting-giving-feedback-how-to-be-honest-without-being-hurtful-449d9a69394b

  Ep 25: How to disagree with people more senior than you: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-25-how-to-disagree-with-people-more-senior-than-you

  Ep 21: Handling negative feedback like a pro: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-21-handling-negative-feedback

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>Giving honest and direct feedback is an essential part of being an effective leader. Honest feedback says that you care about a person's development, you care about the work that they do and you want to help them improve because you value them.

  In this week’s episode, I share why feedback is so important, why psychological safety is foundational to a positive and constructive feedback environment, and the five key elements to giving constructive criticism to a team member.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Authority Magazine Article - Giving Feedback; How To Be Honest Without Being Hurtful: https://medium.com/authority-magazine/carla-miller-of-impact-consulting-giving-feedback-how-to-be-honest-without-being-hurtful-449d9a69394b

  Ep 25: How to disagree with people more senior than you: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-25-how-to-disagree-with-people-more-senior-than-you

  Ep 21: Handling negative feedback like a pro: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-21-handling-negative-feedback

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impa

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

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  ]]>7433cc88-cebe-4062-93e3-2cc1d2698de5Sun, 09 Oct 2022 14:15:00 +000029:54falsefull115115Ep 114 - Women Taking The Lead with Jodi FlynnMore women in senior management and leadership positions is win-win-win. For women, for organisations and for workplace equality. So how do individuals and organisations create more opportunities to get to the top and thrive there?

  This week, I’m pleased to be speaking to Jodi Flynn of Women Taking the Lead. Jodi is an executive leadership coach, speaker, host of the critically acclaimed Women Taking the Lead podcast and author of the Amazon bestseller ‘Accomplished: How to Go from Dreaming to Doing’.

  Listen for:

  • The four common struggles women experience when promoted to senior leadership
  • How empowering team and delegating more makes you more promotable
  • What organisations can do to support more women into leadership positions
  • A discussion on women’s rights and equality in work and society
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT JODI

  Jodi works with organisations to support their women leaders to develop the skills needed to grow into and thrive in senior leadership. She is President of the board for The Maine Women’s Conference and has been featured in Entrepreneur and Forbes magazines. Jodi has spoken at the Massachusetts Conference for Women, the Women in Banking and Emerging Leaders Conferences, and Podcast Movement.

  Visit the Women Taking The Lead website: https://womentakingthelead.com/

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jodiflynn/ 

  Women Taking The Lead Podcast: https://womentakingthelead.com/podcast/

  Accomplished: How To Go From Dreaming To Doing: https://womentakingthelead.com/accomplished/

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  BE BOLDER - STARTING ON WEDNESDAY!

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts this Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>More women in senior management and leadership positions is win-win-win. For women, for organisations and for workplace equality. So how do individuals and organisations create more opportunities to get to the top and thrive there?

  This week, I’m pleased to be speaking to Jodi Flynn of Women Taking the Lead. Jodi is an executive leadership coach, speaker, host of the critically acclaimed Women Taking the Lead podcast and author of the Amazon bestseller ‘Accomplished: How to Go from Dreaming to Doing’.

  Listen for:

  • The four common struggles women experience when promoted to senior leadership
  • How empowering team and delegating more makes you more promotable
  • What organisations can do to support more women into leadership positions
  • A discussion on women’s rights and equality in work and society
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT JODI

  Jodi works with organisations to support their women leaders to develop the skills needed to grow into and thrive in senior leadership. She is President of the board for The Maine Women’s Conference and has been featured in Entrepreneur and Forbes magazines. Jodi has spoken at the Massachusetts Conference for Women, the Women in Banking and Emerging Leaders Conferences, and Podcast Movement.

  Visit the Women Taking The Lead website: https://womentakingthelead.com/

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jodiflynn/ 

  Women Taking The Lead Podcast: https://womentakingthelead.com/podcast/

  Accomplished: How To Go From Dreaming To Doing: https://womentakingthelead.com/accomplished/

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  BE BOLDER - STARTING ON WEDNESDAY!

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts this Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>96f11262-cc35-4bdb-a5cd-67550948ac7bSun, 02 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +000050:21falsefull114114Ep 113 - Communication that builds connection with Felicity DwyerFirst off, a huge thank you to everyone who supported the book launch for Closing the Influence Gap which went straight to the top spot in Leadership and Management on Amazon Kindle.

  In this week’s episode, I speak with Felicity Dwyer, an independent facilitator, trainer, coach and speaker who specialises in communication and leadership skills about how we can create connection when we communicate.

  We discuss:

  • How to stay calm and connected in difficult conversations
  • How to truly listen to another person
  • Why your body is important in communication
  
  

  MORE ABOUT FELICITY

  Felicity Dwyer helps individuals and teams to connect and communicate, so that people feel heard and understood.

  Her clients include charities, small businesses, membership bodies, and public sector health and heritage organisations. She is the author of “Crafting Connection: Transform how you communicate with yourself and others”. The book introduces Felicity’s Connecting in 3D model. It’s packed with practical ideas to help you connect with yourself, and build better relationships with other people.

  Visit Felicity’s website: https://felicitydwyer.com/

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/felicitydwyer/  

  Felicity’s book Crafting Connection: https://felicitydwyer.com/crafting-connection/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>First off, a huge thank you to everyone who supported the book launch for Closing the Influence Gap which went straight to the top spot in Leadership and Management on Amazon Kindle.

  In this week’s episode, I speak with Felicity Dwyer, an independent facilitator, trainer, coach and speaker who specialises in communication and leadership skills about how we can create connection when we communicate.

  We discuss:

  • How to stay calm and connected in difficult conversations
  • How to truly listen to another person
  • Why your body is important in communication
  
  

  MORE ABOUT FELICITY

  Felicity Dwyer helps individuals and teams to connect and communicate, so that people feel heard and understood.

  Her clients include charities, small businesses, membership bodies, and public sector health and heritage organisations. She is the author of “Crafting Connection: Transform how you communicate with yourself and others”. The book introduces Felicity’s Connecting in 3D model. It’s packed with practical ideas to help you connect with yourself, and build better relationships with other people.

  Visit Felicity’s website: https://felicitydwyer.com/

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/felicitydwyer/  

  Felicity’s book Crafting Connection: https://felicitydwyer.com/crafting-connection/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now in paperback and on Kindle.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>37910b2f-f28d-4265-9051-e9b9517914a6Sun, 25 Sep 2022 14:00:56 +000045:46falsefull113113Ep 112 - Creating effective, engaging & enjoyable meetings with Mamie Kanfer StewartMeetings are a part of every job and the higher you progress in your career, the more meetings you need to attend. But are all meetings necessary and are they achieving a specific outcome for your team, project or organisation?

  In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Mamie Kanfer Stewart, a coach and consultant who trains teams and organisations to develop a healthy and productive meeting culture.

  We discuss:

  • How to establish whether you need a meeting and the alternatives to holding one
  • Ways that leaders and participants can prepare for meetings effectively
  • How to chair meetings inclusively for different personalities and thinking styles
  • Different approaches to running successful hybrid meetings
  
  

  This episode is packed full of practical tips so make sure you note them down and put them into action in your team!

  MORE ABOUT MAMIE

  Mamie Kanfer Stewart learned about organizational culture and management from her family business--GOJO Industries, inventors of PURELL® Hand Sanitizer--before launching Meeteor.

  Meeteor’s mission is to help people individually and collectively work smarter, happier and thrive. Through training, coaching and consulting, Meeteor enables teams and organizations to develop a healthy and productive meeting culture.

  Mamie holds degrees from New York University Stern School of Business and Kansas City Art Institute.

  Mamie’s website: https://www.mamieks.com/Momentum: Creating effective, engaging and enjoyable meetings: https://www.meeteor.com/momentum The Modern Manager Podcast: https://themodernmanager.com/ Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamiekanferstewart/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mamieks/  

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now available on Kindle and the paperback is out on Tuesday 20 September.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Meetings are a part of every job and the higher you progress in your career, the more meetings you need to attend. But are all meetings necessary and are they achieving a specific outcome for your team, project or organisation?

  In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Mamie Kanfer Stewart, a coach and consultant who trains teams and organisations to develop a healthy and productive meeting culture.

  We discuss:

  • How to establish whether you need a meeting and the alternatives to holding one
  • Ways that leaders and participants can prepare for meetings effectively
  • How to chair meetings inclusively for different personalities and thinking styles
  • Different approaches to running successful hybrid meetings
  
  

  This episode is packed full of practical tips so make sure you note them down and put them into action in your team!

  MORE ABOUT MAMIE

  Mamie Kanfer Stewart learned about organizational culture and management from her family business--GOJO Industries, inventors of PURELL® Hand Sanitizer--before launching Meeteor.

  Meeteor’s mission is to help people individually and collectively work smarter, happier and thrive. Through training, coaching and consulting, Meeteor enables teams and organizations to develop a healthy and productive meeting culture.

  Mamie holds degrees from New York University Stern School of Business and Kansas City Art Institute.

  Mamie’s website: https://www.mamieks.com/Momentum: Creating effective, engaging and enjoyable meetings: https://www.meeteor.com/momentum The Modern Manager Podcast: https://themodernmanager.com/ Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamiekanferstewart/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mamieks/  

   

  ORDER MY BOOK

  “Closing The Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” is now available on Kindle and the paperback is out on Tuesday 20 September.

  Closing the Influence Gap empowers women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, leading their way and changing it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Find out more and order you copy here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/book

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>749b41dd-30b0-4688-b175-0278ed448456Sun, 18 Sep 2022 14:00:02 +000057:41falsefull112112Ep 111 - You Don't Need FixingYou don't need fixing. You're not broken. And there's nothing wrong with you.

   In fact, the thoughts and feelings you're having and the challenges that you're facing at work are completely normal.

  Not only do I want you to know that, I also want you to understand why you might be feeling that way.

  In this week’s episode, I talk about the systemic gender bias that women face at work and how the daily experiences of being undervalued, unheard and not fitting in causes many women to doubt and criticise themselves, and question their worth.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  E 99: The authority gap with Mary Ann Sieghart: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/theauthoritygap

  The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/

  Ep 84: Breaking the bias: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias

  Why Men Win At Work – Gill Witty-Collins: https://gillwhittycollins.com/why-men-win-at-work

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>You don't need fixing. You're not broken. And there's nothing wrong with you.

   In fact, the thoughts and feelings you're having and the challenges that you're facing at work are completely normal.

  Not only do I want you to know that, I also want you to understand why you might be feeling that way.

  In this week’s episode, I talk about the systemic gender bias that women face at work and how the daily experiences of being undervalued, unheard and not fitting in causes many women to doubt and criticise themselves, and question their worth.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  E 99: The authority gap with Mary Ann Sieghart: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/theauthoritygap

  The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/

  Ep 84: Breaking the bias: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias

  Why Men Win At Work – Gill Witty-Collins: https://gillwhittycollins.com/why-men-win-at-work

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>93e1a6c8-f5e6-4527-bb0f-9c5ff6f1774bSun, 11 Sep 2022 14:00:57 +000027:04falsefull111111Ep 110 - How to stop overthinking re-release with Tahirih McLaren-BrownAre you an overthinker? Perhaps you ruminate on past situations, worry about future events or are fearful of the judgement of others?

  This re-release of one of my most popular podcasts with Tahirih McLaren-Brown is for you.

  Overthinking can affect both our work and personal lives as well as how we show up with confidence as a leader. Our thoughts also directly impact the levels of daily stress we experience and how quickly we can recover from it.

  We discussed:

  • What mindfulness is and how it can benefit you
  • How you can have more awareness and control of your thoughts and emotions
  • What you can do if you’re feeling worried or anxious about returning to the office
  • Ways you can handle uncertainty and even embrace it
  • A quick mindfulness exercise you can do anywhere to instantly ease your stress
  
  

   

  If you’d like to learn the Four Step Pause that Tahirih shared and get access to seven days of guided meditations for overthinkers, you can find those here: https://tahirih-mclaren-brown.newzenler.com/courses/free-mindfulness-kit

   

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are you an overthinker? Perhaps you ruminate on past situations, worry about future events or are fearful of the judgement of others?

  This re-release of one of my most popular podcasts with Tahirih McLaren-Brown is for you.

  Overthinking can affect both our work and personal lives as well as how we show up with confidence as a leader. Our thoughts also directly impact the levels of daily stress we experience and how quickly we can recover from it.

  We discussed:

  • What mindfulness is and how it can benefit you
  • How you can have more awareness and control of your thoughts and emotions
  • What you can do if you’re feeling worried or anxious about returning to the office
  • Ways you can handle uncertainty and even embrace it
  • A quick mindfulness exercise you can do anywhere to instantly ease your stress
  
  

   

  If you’d like to learn the Four Step Pause that Tahirih shared and get access to seven days of guided meditations for overthinkers, you can find those here: https://tahirih-mclaren-brown.newzenler.com/courses/free-mindfulness-kit

   

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>8a1442b8-f85b-41c6-83c3-092ba6df04beSun, 04 Sep 2022 00:00:03 +000056:18falsefull110110Ep 109 - Are you being too humble? Re-released episode featuring Stephanie Sword-WilliamsIf you are more comfortable talking about your team's achievements than your own, then this re-release of episode 28 is a must listen!

  I am joined by Stef Sword-Williams, Forbes 30 under 30, TEDx speaker and author of F*ck Being Humble. Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion and encourage people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements. 

  In this episode, we talk about the fear of sounding stupid, how to get paid what you are worth and how to network in a digital world.

  MORE ABOUT STEF

  Stef Sword-Williams is an entrepreneur, author, public speaker, community builder and the founder of F*ck Being Humble

  Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion. Originally started as a side hustle, F*ck Being Humble is now a global consultancy, online community, book and event series that teaches people how to be unapologetically proud of their achievements.

  Read F*ck Being Humble:  https://www.amazon.co.uk/Being-Humble-self-promotion-isnt-dirty/dp/1787135136/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=9781787135130&qid=1575296840&sr=8-1&tag=smarturl-gb

  Visit Stef’s Website: https://www.stefanieswordwilliams.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fbeinghumble/ Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanieswordwilliams/

   

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>If you are more comfortable talking about your team's achievements than your own, then this re-release of episode 28 is a must listen!

  I am joined by Stef Sword-Williams, Forbes 30 under 30, TEDx speaker and author of F*ck Being Humble. Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion and encourage people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements. 

  In this episode, we talk about the fear of sounding stupid, how to get paid what you are worth and how to network in a digital world.

  MORE ABOUT STEF

  Stef Sword-Williams is an entrepreneur, author, public speaker, community builder and the founder of F*ck Being Humble

  Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion. Originally started as a side hustle, F*ck Being Humble is now a global consultancy, online community, book and event series that teaches people how to be unapologetically proud of their achievements.

  Read F*ck Being Humble:  https://www.amazon.co.uk/Being-Humble-self-promotion-isnt-dirty/dp/1787135136/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=9781787135130&qid=1575296840&sr=8-1&tag=smarturl-gb

  Visit Stef’s Website: https://www.stefanieswordwilliams.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fbeinghumble/ Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanieswordwilliams/

   

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>0b28b0e1-e136-46d6-81f0-e98e15a31434Sun, 28 Aug 2022 14:00:32 +000001:06:14truefull109109Ep 108 - A simple mindset shift that could make you happierIn this week’s episode, I’m sharing a simple piece of wisdom that’s helped me to shift my mindset and be happier. This has been so valuable for many of my clients and will really help you in your career and life.

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>In this week’s episode, I’m sharing a simple piece of wisdom that’s helped me to shift my mindset and be happier. This has been so valuable for many of my clients and will really help you in your career and life.

  JOIN THE BOOK LAUNCH SQUAD

  My book - “Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard” – is launching on Monday 19 September. I would love you to be part of my Book Launch Squad, get the book on the Amazon best-sellers list and get free access to my new career development community!

  To join the Book Launch Squad, all you need to do is sign up at the link below and then on Monday 19 September, buy the book on Kindle for the special price of 99p and share it with as many people as possible.

  Join the Book Launch Squad here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/launchsquad

   

  MORE ABOUT THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT COMMUNITY

  The career development community I'm creating for women is almost ready to pilot. My aim is for it to be an all-in-one solution for female talent development from early careers to senior leaders. To start with it will be a brilliant library of career development resources combined with an online community and spaces for women to come together and support each other.

  I will be running a free beta version from 1 October – 31 December 2022 to build the community and refine the idea. To be part of it, you just need to pre-order my book and send a copy of your receipt to hello@carlamiller.co.uk with the subject line “Pre-Order”, or join my launch book squad!

  Pre-Order Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>731ce782-414f-4c1a-bcfd-10ed3c8d09cfSun, 21 Aug 2022 14:00:12 +000025:09falsefullEp 107 - 5 podcasts that changed my lifeI love listening to podcasts and find them a source of inspiration for my work and life.

  This week, I'm sharing 5 of my favourite non-leadership podcasts, an impactful episode and some of the lessons I've learnt from them.

   

  1. Beyond Busy hosted by Graham Allcott
  
  

  Episode: How To Stop Trying To Do Everything with Oliver Burkeman (7 January 21)

  Listen here: https://www.grahamallcott.com/podcast

   

  2. Feel Better, Live More hosted by Dr Rangan Chatterjee
  
  

  Episode 269: How To Eat Your Way To Better Health by Dr Rupy Akjila

  Listen here: https://drchatterjee.com/blog/category/podcast/

  3. We Can Do Hard Things hosted by Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach and Amanda Doyle
  
  

  Episode 94 & 95: Elizabeth Gilbert on Grief and loving an addict

  Listen here: http://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/

  4. Postcards from Midlife hosted by Lorraine Candy and Trish Halpin
  
  

  Episode: Your Midlife Brain Explained with Kate Muir

  Listen here: https://www.postcardsfrommidlife.com/

  5. The Greg McKeown Podcast
  
  

  Episode 39: Nir Eyal on How to be Indistractable

  Listen now: https://gregmckeown.com/podcast/

  Other podcasts I recommend:

  Good Life Project: https://www.goodlifeproject.com/podcast/

  Ten Percent Happier: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast

  Happy Place: https://www.happyplaceofficial.co.uk/podcast/

  Tara Brach: https://www.tarabrach.com/talks-audio-video/

  Diary of a CEO: https://stevenbartlett.com/the-diary-of-a-ceo-podcast/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  I can also deliver Be Bolder in house in your organisation to all of your women employees.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>I love listening to podcasts and find them a source of inspiration for my work and life.

  This week, I'm sharing 5 of my favourite non-leadership podcasts, an impactful episode and some of the lessons I've learnt from them.

   

  1. Beyond Busy hosted by Graham Allcott
  
  

  Episode: How To Stop Trying To Do Everything with Oliver Burkeman (7 January 21)

  Listen here: https://www.grahamallcott.com/podcast

   

  2. Feel Better, Live More hosted by Dr Rangan Chatterjee
  
  

  Episode 269: How To Eat Your Way To Better Health by Dr Rupy Akjila

  Listen here: https://drchatterjee.com/blog/category/podcast/

  3. We Can Do Hard Things hosted by Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach and Amanda Doyle
  
  

  Episode 94 & 95: Elizabeth Gilbert on Grief and loving an addict

  Listen here: http://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/

  4. Postcards from Midlife hosted by Lorraine Candy and Trish Halpin
  
  

  Episode: Your Midlife Brain Explained with Kate Muir

  Listen here: https://www.postcardsfrommidlife.com/

  5. The Greg McKeown Podcast
  
  

  Episode 39: Nir Eyal on How to be Indistractable

  Listen now: https://gregmckeown.com/podcast/

  Other podcasts I recommend:

  Good Life Project: https://www.goodlifeproject.com/podcast/

  Ten Percent Happier: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast

  Happy Place: https://www.happyplaceofficial.co.uk/podcast/

  Tara Brach: https://www.tarabrach.com/talks-audio-video/

  Diary of a CEO: https://stevenbartlett.com/the-diary-of-a-ceo-podcast/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4 session course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October. 

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  I can also deliver Be Bolder in house in your organisation to all of your women employees.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>9ad905eb-05df-475d-b5ca-90db3a27d950Sun, 14 Aug 2022 14:00:29 +000048:26falsefull109109Ep 106 - Speaking Out About Bullying and Harassment with Marie HemingwayHave you ever experienced workplace bullying or harassment? It happens in many organisations but is all too often ignored, dismissed or swept under the rug, with victims being silenced or leaving when they are brave enough to speak up. 

  This week, I speak to Marie Hemingway, the co-founder and Chief Technology Officer of Speak Out Revolution - a non-profit organisation with a mission to cancel the culture of silence on harassment and bullying in our workplaces.

  We discuss: 

  • How Speak Out Revolution is bringing transparency and a voice to workplace bullying and harassment
  • How leaders can start to address workplace bullying and harassment in their organisation
  • Why employee experience data, allyship training and leadership development are essential for building an inclusive working environment
  
  

  Speak Out Revolution have a global Speak Out Survey where you can document your experience of workplace harassment and bullying. This anonymous data is then used to provide insights and actions for organisation.

  Take the survey here: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/the-speak-out-survey   

  CONNECT WITH MARIE

  Marie founded Speak Out Revolution with Frances Holmes in 2020 and leads on key technology and dashboard partnerships, SpeakOut academy and product development.

  She is a strategy consultant helping businesses transform their people, processes and technology to drive positive business outcomes with expertise in strategic investment decision making, digital transformation and organisational change.

  Maire is also a board member for the Women’s Infrastructure Network and is focused on expanding the network outside of London, creating cross sector opportunities for women to network, exchange ideas and help shape the infrastructure agenda.

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Take the Speak Out Survey: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/the-speak-out-survey  

  Visit the Speak Out Revolution Website: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/

  Contact Marie: marie@speakoutrevolution.co.uk

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-hemingway-271453119/

  The Anti-Racist Organization: Dismantling Systemic Racism in the Workplace by Shareen Daniels: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/the-anti-racist-organization-dismantling-systemic-racism-in-the-workplace/9781119880622

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Have you ever experienced workplace bullying or harassment? It happens in many organisations but is all too often ignored, dismissed or swept under the rug, with victims being silenced or leaving when they are brave enough to speak up. 

  This week, I speak to Marie Hemingway, the co-founder and Chief Technology Officer of Speak Out Revolution - a non-profit organisation with a mission to cancel the culture of silence on harassment and bullying in our workplaces.

  We discuss: 

  • How Speak Out Revolution is bringing transparency and a voice to workplace bullying and harassment
  • How leaders can start to address workplace bullying and harassment in their organisation
  • Why employee experience data, allyship training and leadership development are essential for building an inclusive working environment
  
  

  Speak Out Revolution have a global Speak Out Survey where you can document your experience of workplace harassment and bullying. This anonymous data is then used to provide insights and actions for organisation.

  Take the survey here: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/the-speak-out-survey   

  CONNECT WITH MARIE

  Marie founded Speak Out Revolution with Frances Holmes in 2020 and leads on key technology and dashboard partnerships, SpeakOut academy and product development.

  She is a strategy consultant helping businesses transform their people, processes and technology to drive positive business outcomes with expertise in strategic investment decision making, digital transformation and organisational change.

  Maire is also a board member for the Women’s Infrastructure Network and is focused on expanding the network outside of London, creating cross sector opportunities for women to network, exchange ideas and help shape the infrastructure agenda.

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Take the Speak Out Survey: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/the-speak-out-survey  

  Visit the Speak Out Revolution Website: https://www.speakoutrevolution.co.uk/

  Contact Marie: marie@speakoutrevolution.co.uk

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-hemingway-271453119/

  The Anti-Racist Organization: Dismantling Systemic Racism in the Workplace by Shareen Daniels: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/the-anti-racist-organization-dismantling-systemic-racism-in-the-workplace/9781119880622

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>fae20e19-04fe-451a-ae7a-7b7185c5c409Sun, 07 Aug 2022 14:15:42 +000044:30truefull106106Ep 105 - Prioritising Wellbeing in the Workplace with Claire WarnerA positive workplace improves teamwork, raises morale, increases productivity, job satisfaction and performance, and reduces stress in employees. So how can organisations start to put people first over productivity?

  In this episode, I speak to Claire Warner, a former charity Fundraising Director & Senior Leader, turned workplace culture and wellbeing strategist.

  We discuss:

  • Claire’s story from breast cancer survivor to a workplace wellbeing advocate and consultant
  • How to instigate cultural and organisational change to better support employee wellbeing
  • Why leaders should focus on the cause of diminishing wellbeing, not just treat the symptoms
  • The importance of self-awareness, education and creating psychological safety for leaders and their teams
  
  

   

  CONNECT WITH CLAIRE

  Claire Warner is the Founder of Claire Warner Wellbeing and the Charity Workplace Wellbeing Summit.

  It was in trying to throw herself back into her beloved Fundraising Director role after 12 months' treatment for aggressive breast cancer, that Claire discovered the field of workplace wellbeing and hasn't looked back since.

  In 2020, Claire won the Best Digital Leader Award at the Social CEO Awards and in 2021, curated the first Charity Wellbeing Summit and was named as one of 20 Pandemic Pioneers by Charity Times.

  Today, Claire Warner Wellbeing exists to help charity & not-for-profit organisations and professionals to recognise and reap the benefits of prioritising personal & workplace wellbeing. The majority of the company’s work is in the areas of workplace culture and wellbeing consultancy; management skill and confidence training; and life balance coaching.

  Website: www.claire-warner.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-warner/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ClaireWarner Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclairewarner/

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>A positive workplace improves teamwork, raises morale, increases productivity, job satisfaction and performance, and reduces stress in employees. So how can organisations start to put people first over productivity?

  In this episode, I speak to Claire Warner, a former charity Fundraising Director & Senior Leader, turned workplace culture and wellbeing strategist.

  We discuss:

  • Claire’s story from breast cancer survivor to a workplace wellbeing advocate and consultant
  • How to instigate cultural and organisational change to better support employee wellbeing
  • Why leaders should focus on the cause of diminishing wellbeing, not just treat the symptoms
  • The importance of self-awareness, education and creating psychological safety for leaders and their teams
  
  

   

  CONNECT WITH CLAIRE

  Claire Warner is the Founder of Claire Warner Wellbeing and the Charity Workplace Wellbeing Summit.

  It was in trying to throw herself back into her beloved Fundraising Director role after 12 months' treatment for aggressive breast cancer, that Claire discovered the field of workplace wellbeing and hasn't looked back since.

  In 2020, Claire won the Best Digital Leader Award at the Social CEO Awards and in 2021, curated the first Charity Wellbeing Summit and was named as one of 20 Pandemic Pioneers by Charity Times.

  Today, Claire Warner Wellbeing exists to help charity & not-for-profit organisations and professionals to recognise and reap the benefits of prioritising personal & workplace wellbeing. The majority of the company’s work is in the areas of workplace culture and wellbeing consultancy; management skill and confidence training; and life balance coaching.

  Website: www.claire-warner.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-warner/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ClaireWarner Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclairewarner/

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 90-minute online workshop with bite sized videos and coaching exercises to do between sessions. Our next cohort starts on Wednesday 5 October.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>19e3832e-d9dd-4195-b202-8f815ac6dc14Sun, 31 Jul 2022 14:00:55 +000046:31falsefull105105Ep 104 - Equality at home with Clare TwelvetreesAre the household responsibilities shared equally in your home? Or is the majority of the emotional, mental and domestic load taken on by one person?

  In this week’s episode, I speak to Clare Twelvetrees about how we can create more equality in our homes. Clare is the Chair of Equality Starts at Home (ESAH) and in our conversation, we discuss how to start a conversation about equality with your partner and share tips for workplaces and line managers on supporting equality at home.

  COMPLETE THE HOUSEHOLD BALANCE CALCULATOR

  Equality Starts at Home has come together with ThirdShift which has developed a Household Balance Calculator. Answer questions about what chores you do and how long they take you and the tool calculates what the balance is in a percentage. An objective way to start the conversation in your household!

  Household Balance Calculator: https://www.thirdshift.co.uk/

  CONNECT WITH CLARE

  Clare is a leader in the international development sector and currently Director of Strategy and Performance at Brooke. She is also the Co-Founder and Chair of Equality Starts at Home (ESAH). Equality Starts at Home was formed after giving her speech about equality post COVID-19 at the Aspire Re-imagination conference in June 2020.

  The other Co-Founders of Equality Starts At Home are Jackie Carter, Lesley Macniven and Venise Vinegar and Trustees are Rita Kakati-Shah, Jago Brown, Frances Goodrum and Catherine McArthur.

  Clare has worked on a range of issues including women’s empowerment specifically as Interim CEO at the Cherie Blair Foundation for Women. She is passionate about equality at home and believes it has helped her and her partner challenge stereotypes, achieve their potential and be positive role models to their children.

  Website: https://www.equalitystartsathome.com/  

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/equality-starts-at-home/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/equalhome

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

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  ]]>Are the household responsibilities shared equally in your home? Or is the majority of the emotional, mental and domestic load taken on by one person?

  In this week’s episode, I speak to Clare Twelvetrees about how we can create more equality in our homes. Clare is the Chair of Equality Starts at Home (ESAH) and in our conversation, we discuss how to start a conversation about equality with your partner and share tips for workplaces and line managers on supporting equality at home.

  COMPLETE THE HOUSEHOLD BALANCE CALCULATOR

  Equality Starts at Home has come together with ThirdShift which has developed a Household Balance Calculator. Answer questions about what chores you do and how long they take you and the tool calculates what the balance is in a percentage. An objective way to start the conversation in your household!

  Household Balance Calculator: https://www.thirdshift.co.uk/

  CONNECT WITH CLARE

  Clare is a leader in the international development sector and currently Director of Strategy and Performance at Brooke. She is also the Co-Founder and Chair of Equality Starts at Home (ESAH). Equality Starts at Home was formed after giving her speech about equality post COVID-19 at the Aspire Re-imagination conference in June 2020.

  The other Co-Founders of Equality Starts At Home are Jackie Carter, Lesley Macniven and Venise Vinegar and Trustees are Rita Kakati-Shah, Jago Brown, Frances Goodrum and Catherine McArthur.

  Clare has worked on a range of issues including women’s empowerment specifically as Interim CEO at the Cherie Blair Foundation for Women. She is passionate about equality at home and believes it has helped her and her partner challenge stereotypes, achieve their potential and be positive role models to their children.

  Website: https://www.equalitystartsathome.com/  

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/equality-starts-at-home/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/equalhome

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

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  ]]>4c56d0a4-cfd0-41e1-8f04-4dfdcd28ba61Sun, 24 Jul 2022 14:00:30 +000044:37falsefullEp 103 - Working with Chronic Illness with Rebecca Kudyk29% of working age people in the UK have a chronic illness and yet it is something that is rarely discussed or recognised within many workplaces.  In this week’s episode, I speak to Rebecca Kudyk who openly shares her personal experience with chronic illness and how she manages motherhood, a career in financial services and her unpredictable symptoms and pain.

  Rebecca shares helpful and practical advice for managers and workplaces on how they can support a team member with a chronic illness or disability. We also talk about grief, mental health and all the strengths that an employee with chronic illness can bring to the organisation.

  CONNECT WITH REBECCA

  Rebecca Kudyk is a 33-year-old wife and mum of a 3-year-old boy. She suffers from Fibromyalgia, Osteoarthritis, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (known as ME or chronic fatigue syndrome) and anxiety and depression. Rebecca also has a career specialising in Conduct Risk within Financial Services.

  At 25, thanks to private healthcare at work, Rebecca was diagnosed with severe osteoarthritis in her knees. Since then, she has had 8 operations on her knees as well as my jaw. It is the physical trauma of the operations that doctors believe to be the cause of her fibromyalgia.   

  Connect on Instagram @chronically_bex: https://www.instagram.com/chronically_bex/

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>29% of working age people in the UK have a chronic illness and yet it is something that is rarely discussed or recognised within many workplaces.  In this week’s episode, I speak to Rebecca Kudyk who openly shares her personal experience with chronic illness and how she manages motherhood, a career in financial services and her unpredictable symptoms and pain.

  Rebecca shares helpful and practical advice for managers and workplaces on how they can support a team member with a chronic illness or disability. We also talk about grief, mental health and all the strengths that an employee with chronic illness can bring to the organisation.

  CONNECT WITH REBECCA

  Rebecca Kudyk is a 33-year-old wife and mum of a 3-year-old boy. She suffers from Fibromyalgia, Osteoarthritis, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (known as ME or chronic fatigue syndrome) and anxiety and depression. Rebecca also has a career specialising in Conduct Risk within Financial Services.

  At 25, thanks to private healthcare at work, Rebecca was diagnosed with severe osteoarthritis in her knees. Since then, she has had 8 operations on her knees as well as my jaw. It is the physical trauma of the operations that doctors believe to be the cause of her fibromyalgia.   

  Connect on Instagram @chronically_bex: https://www.instagram.com/chronically_bex/

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch on demand for a limited time!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>6c972f63-ca86-4561-aae2-c40bf556a5b9Sun, 17 Jul 2022 14:00:12 +000040:46falsefull103103Ep 102 - Happier at Work with Aoife O'BrienEmployee happiness is gaining traction as an essential element of the employee experience. A happy person is more engaged and productive, performs better and positively impacts clients and customers.

  This week, I speak to Aoife O’Brien, the founder of Happier at Work, a business with the mission to support organisations in retaining top talent.

  We discuss:

  • The value of workplace happiness for both individuals and organisations
  • Aoife’s three core elements of having a good “fit” with your role
  • How to identify your values and strengths and work to them
  • The future of work and hiring with cultural fit and diversity in mind
  
  

  After listening, I encourage you to think about what your needs and values are at work and how you can align better with them.

  CONNECT WITH AOIFE

  Aoife O’Brien is the founder of Happier at Work, a business with the mission to support organisations in retaining top talent. She is passionate about ‘fit’ and specifically how creating the right environment can help individuals to reach their full potential and support organisations to thrive.

  Her podcast, Happier at Work, features a combination of interview-based episodes as well as solo podcasting. She has lived and worked in Dublin, London, Perth, and Sydney and has a MSc in Work and Organisational Behaviour, a Diploma in Executive and Life Coaching and a Certificate in Career Coaching. 

  Happier At Work: www.happieratwork.ie   

  Happier At Work Podcast: https://happieratwork.ie/happier-at-work-podcast/   

  Imposter to Empowered: www.impostersyndrome.ie

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aoifemobrien  

  Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happieratwork.ie 

  Follow on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/happieratwork

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch this month only!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>Employee happiness is gaining traction as an essential element of the employee experience. A happy person is more engaged and productive, performs better and positively impacts clients and customers.

  This week, I speak to Aoife O’Brien, the founder of Happier at Work, a business with the mission to support organisations in retaining top talent.

  We discuss:

  • The value of workplace happiness for both individuals and organisations
  • Aoife’s three core elements of having a good “fit” with your role
  • How to identify your values and strengths and work to them
  • The future of work and hiring with cultural fit and diversity in mind
  
  

  After listening, I encourage you to think about what your needs and values are at work and how you can align better with them.

  CONNECT WITH AOIFE

  Aoife O’Brien is the founder of Happier at Work, a business with the mission to support organisations in retaining top talent. She is passionate about ‘fit’ and specifically how creating the right environment can help individuals to reach their full potential and support organisations to thrive.

  Her podcast, Happier at Work, features a combination of interview-based episodes as well as solo podcasting. She has lived and worked in Dublin, London, Perth, and Sydney and has a MSc in Work and Organisational Behaviour, a Diploma in Executive and Life Coaching and a Certificate in Career Coaching. 

  Happier At Work: www.happieratwork.ie   

  Happier At Work Podcast: https://happieratwork.ie/happier-at-work-podcast/   

  Imposter to Empowered: www.impostersyndrome.ie

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aoifemobrien  

  Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happieratwork.ie 

  Follow on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/happieratwork

  FREE MASTERCLASS: HOW TO BE A RESPECTED LEADER

  My popular free masterclass - How To Be A Respected Leader Without Being Any Less Likeable – is available to watch this month only!

  Learn how to:

  • Avoid the 3 BIG mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas as a leader
  • Use my #1 tool for tackling difficult conversations
  • Finally unlock the secret to being a respected leader without being any less likeable
  
  

  Watch The Masterclass: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/respected-leader

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  ]]>11752aca-d452-44be-9510-4567d701d1f4Sun, 10 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +000051:47falsefullEp 101 How to confidently present to senior stakeholdersThis week is another medley, showcasing the most impactful tips and insights from previous guests and episodes. Our topic is how to present to senior stakeholders and colleagues with confidence.

  In this episode Sandra Francis, Rupal Patel and myself cover:

  • Speaking the language of senior stakeholders
  • How to feel comfortable dealing with interruptions
  • Owning your expertise and authority with senior leaders or in a male-dominated space
  • How to present information so it lands for everyone in the room
  
  

  I hope this episode gives you practical tips and lots of inspiration.

   

  EPISODES FEATURED

  Episode 93: Succeeding in a Male-Dominated Environment with Sandra Francis: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-93-succeeding-in-a-male-dominated-environment-with-sandra-francis

  Episode 98: From CIA to CEO with Rupal Patel: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-98

  Episode 82: Speaking the Language of Senior Stakeholders: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-82-speaking-the-lanuage-of-senior-stakeholders

   

  CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

  Sandra Francis: https://www.linkedin.com/in/esanfra/

  Rupal Patel: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rupal-patel-2145a960/ 

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>This week is another medley, showcasing the most impactful tips and insights from previous guests and episodes. Our topic is how to present to senior stakeholders and colleagues with confidence.

  In this episode Sandra Francis, Rupal Patel and myself cover:

  • Speaking the language of senior stakeholders
  • How to feel comfortable dealing with interruptions
  • Owning your expertise and authority with senior leaders or in a male-dominated space
  • How to present information so it lands for everyone in the room
  
  

  I hope this episode gives you practical tips and lots of inspiration.

   

  EPISODES FEATURED

  Episode 93: Succeeding in a Male-Dominated Environment with Sandra Francis: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-93-succeeding-in-a-male-dominated-environment-with-sandra-francis

  Episode 98: From CIA to CEO with Rupal Patel: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-98

  Episode 82: Speaking the Language of Senior Stakeholders: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-82-speaking-the-lanuage-of-senior-stakeholders

   

  CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

  Sandra Francis: https://www.linkedin.com/in/esanfra/

  Rupal Patel: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rupal-patel-2145a960/ 

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>7ad952c6-2d85-4e1b-afcf-c0e45c1cb899Sun, 03 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +000020:15falsefull101101Ep 100 - 6 Ways to Champion the Women in your TeamThis week I’m celebrating 100 episodes of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast! Thank you for listening and supporting the show.

  I was recently speaking at a conference and was asked a brilliant question by a woman in the audience. She asked:

  “How can I, as a female leader, support and champion the women in my team? How can I do my bit to overcome gender bias and give them the most opportunities possible?”

  In this episode, I’m sharing 6 ways you can champion the women in your team with a medley of the best tips and ideas from past episodes.

  • Episode 70: Women with Influence Interview with Mylene Sylvestre: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-70-women-with-influence-interview-with-mylene-sylvestre
  • Episode 72: Women with Influence with Monique Carayol: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-72-show-notes-women-with-influence-with-monique-carayol
  • Episode 84: Breaking the Bias: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias
  • Episode 87: Having the career conversation with your Line Manager: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-87
  
  

  I hope this episode gives you some practical ideas about how you can champion the women in your team. If you found it helpful, then please do share it with other leaders, whatever their gender, so they can also help to create more gender equality in the workplace.

  CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

  Mylene Sylvestre: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mylene-sylvestre-she-her-609b399/

  Monique Carayol: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monique-carayol/

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>This week I’m celebrating 100 episodes of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast! Thank you for listening and supporting the show.

  I was recently speaking at a conference and was asked a brilliant question by a woman in the audience. She asked:

  “How can I, as a female leader, support and champion the women in my team? How can I do my bit to overcome gender bias and give them the most opportunities possible?”

  In this episode, I’m sharing 6 ways you can champion the women in your team with a medley of the best tips and ideas from past episodes.

  • Episode 70: Women with Influence Interview with Mylene Sylvestre: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-70-women-with-influence-interview-with-mylene-sylvestre
  • Episode 72: Women with Influence with Monique Carayol: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-72-show-notes-women-with-influence-with-monique-carayol
  • Episode 84: Breaking the Bias: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias
  • Episode 87: Having the career conversation with your Line Manager: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-87
  
  

  I hope this episode gives you some practical ideas about how you can champion the women in your team. If you found it helpful, then please do share it with other leaders, whatever their gender, so they can also help to create more gender equality in the workplace.

  CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

  Mylene Sylvestre: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mylene-sylvestre-she-her-609b399/

  Monique Carayol: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monique-carayol/

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>de671fb1-d196-43e4-84a6-edc0f00aaaedSun, 26 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +000039:41falsefull100100Ep 99 - The Authority Gap with Mary Ann SieghartMary Ann Sieghart has been on my dream guest list for a while so I’m very excited to share this interview with you. Mary Ann is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men, a BBC Radio 4 presenter, speaker and advocate for women’s equality in the workplace.

  We discuss:

  • The impact of the book The Authority Gap and why it’s so important that male leaders read it
  • Conversational manspreading
  • Whether woman need to change how they behave to be seen as more competent
  • Unconscious bias about women, by women and how to be aware of it
  • What men can gain by narrowing the authority gap
  
  

  Mary Ann shares so many fascinating studies that demonstrate the authority gap in action which are both surprising and validating for women's experiences at work.

   

  MORE ABOUT MARY ANN

  Mary Ann Sieghart is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men. She spent 20 years as Assistant Editor and columnist at The Times and won a large following for her columns on politics, economics, feminism, parenthood and life in general.

  She has presented many programmes on BBC Radio 4, such as Start the Week, Profile, Analysis, Fallout and One to One. She chaired the revival of The Brains Trust on BBC2 and recently spent a year as a Visiting Fellow of All Souls College, Oxford. She is a Visiting Professor at King’s College London, Chair of the judges for the Women’s Prize for Fiction 2022 and sits on numerous boards.

   

  BBC RADIO 4 EPISODES

  Speak Up: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000ydx0

  Why Are Even Women Biased Against Women?: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09pl66d

  A Job For The Boys: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0003t9y

   

  CONNECT WITH MARY ANN

  The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/

  Vist Mary Ann’s website: www.maryannsieghart.com

  Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-sieghart-17a27891/

  Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/masieghart?lang=en

  Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masieghartwriter/

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Mary Ann Sieghart has been on my dream guest list for a while so I’m very excited to share this interview with you. Mary Ann is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men, a BBC Radio 4 presenter, speaker and advocate for women’s equality in the workplace.

  We discuss:

  • The impact of the book The Authority Gap and why it’s so important that male leaders read it
  • Conversational manspreading
  • Whether woman need to change how they behave to be seen as more competent
  • Unconscious bias about women, by women and how to be aware of it
  • What men can gain by narrowing the authority gap
  
  

  Mary Ann shares so many fascinating studies that demonstrate the authority gap in action which are both surprising and validating for women's experiences at work.

   

  MORE ABOUT MARY ANN

  Mary Ann Sieghart is the author of the best-selling book The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men. She spent 20 years as Assistant Editor and columnist at The Times and won a large following for her columns on politics, economics, feminism, parenthood and life in general.

  She has presented many programmes on BBC Radio 4, such as Start the Week, Profile, Analysis, Fallout and One to One. She chaired the revival of The Brains Trust on BBC2 and recently spent a year as a Visiting Fellow of All Souls College, Oxford. She is a Visiting Professor at King’s College London, Chair of the judges for the Women’s Prize for Fiction 2022 and sits on numerous boards.

   

  BBC RADIO 4 EPISODES

  Speak Up: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000ydx0

  Why Are Even Women Biased Against Women?: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09pl66d

  A Job For The Boys: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0003t9y

   

  CONNECT WITH MARY ANN

  The Authority Gap: Why We Still Take Women Less Seriously Than Men: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/

  Vist Mary Ann’s website: www.maryannsieghart.com

  Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-sieghart-17a27891/

  Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/masieghart?lang=en

  Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masieghartwriter/

   

  WORK WITH ME

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>8d65f04b-b904-4675-ac82-66a7c996677bSun, 19 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +000051:47falsefull9999Ep 98 - From CIA To CEO with Rupal PatelIn this week’s episode I speak to Rupal Patel, a CEO, business consultant, coach and former CIA Intelligence Analyst.

  Rupal’s high-octane career has taken her from jungles and war zones to corporate boardrooms and international stages.

  We discuss her inspirational career journey so far and Rupal shares how her experiences at the CIA translate to practical leadership tools, including profiling, tactical ignorance and a personal energy map.

  We also talk about being influential as woman, person of colour and young leader in a male-dominated environment.

  MORE ABOUT RUPAL

  After a thrilling career at the CIA, Rupal Patel earned her MBA from London Business School and started her first award-winning business over ten years ago.

  Called a ‘Power Woman’ by Harper's Bazaar Magazine, Rupal is a sought-after international speaker and business consultant who has spoken in front of thousands. As a sitting CEO, author, advisor, coach and mentor, Rupal helps founders, executives, and next generation change-makers reset their mindset and make the possible impossible.

  Her book From CIA to CEO provides a powerful new toolkit for leaders and entrepreneurs that reveals how the techniques of the CIA can help anyone find their voice and thrive in the world of business without conforming to stale stereotypes or dated “best practice”.

  Rupal’s Website: www.rupalypatel.com

  From CIA to CEO: Unconventional Life Lessons for Thinking Bigger, Leading Better, and Being Bolder: www.ciatoceo.com

  Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rupal-patel-2145a960/

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>In this week’s episode I speak to Rupal Patel, a CEO, business consultant, coach and former CIA Intelligence Analyst.

  Rupal’s high-octane career has taken her from jungles and war zones to corporate boardrooms and international stages.

  We discuss her inspirational career journey so far and Rupal shares how her experiences at the CIA translate to practical leadership tools, including profiling, tactical ignorance and a personal energy map.

  We also talk about being influential as woman, person of colour and young leader in a male-dominated environment.

  MORE ABOUT RUPAL

  After a thrilling career at the CIA, Rupal Patel earned her MBA from London Business School and started her first award-winning business over ten years ago.

  Called a ‘Power Woman’ by Harper's Bazaar Magazine, Rupal is a sought-after international speaker and business consultant who has spoken in front of thousands. As a sitting CEO, author, advisor, coach and mentor, Rupal helps founders, executives, and next generation change-makers reset their mindset and make the possible impossible.

  Her book From CIA to CEO provides a powerful new toolkit for leaders and entrepreneurs that reveals how the techniques of the CIA can help anyone find their voice and thrive in the world of business without conforming to stale stereotypes or dated “best practice”.

  Rupal’s Website: www.rupalypatel.com

  From CIA to CEO: Unconventional Life Lessons for Thinking Bigger, Leading Better, and Being Bolder: www.ciatoceo.com

  Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rupal-patel-2145a960/

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>15b9ec83-57ed-4dfd-8eb3-0837a00d2453Sun, 12 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +000043:31falsefull9898Ep 97 - Closing The Gender Pay Gap with Michelle GyimahGender and ethnicity pay gaps are a very real issue in the UK and worldwide – so how do we change that? 

  This week’s episode is part two of my interview Michelle Gyimah, the Director of Equality Pays, a gender and ethnicity equality consultancy dedicated to closing workplace pay gaps.

  We discuss what organisations need to know about tackling the gender and ethnicity pay gaps and how they can take action to make the changes that are needed.

  In part one, we talked about how to ask for a pay rise or negotiate a higher salary when you start a new role. You can listen to that episode here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/podcast

   

  MORE ABOUT MICHELLE

  Michelle Gyimah is a passionate advocate for enabling women (and men) to progress in their careers in a way that suits their outside of work responsibilities and lifestyle choices. She does this by empowering workplaces to radically rethink how they can support their employees to thrive at work.

  Michelle’s unique understanding of employee engagement, workplace challenges and personal experiences enables her to embed practical application into her consultancy.

  She has over 8 years’ experience of working at the Equality and Human Rights Commission and holds a Masters in Human Rights from The University of Manchester.

   

  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellegyimah/

  Visit the Equality Pays website: https://www.equalitypays.co.uk/

  Read Michelle’s Whitepaper - Women, Race, Money and Representation: How pay gap reporting is shaking up corporate vulnerability: https://equalitypays.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1071087

   

  RELATED EPISODES

  Ep 58: The Challenges We Face As Women In The Workplace: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  Ep 84: Breaking The Bias: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias

   

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  ]]>Gender and ethnicity pay gaps are a very real issue in the UK and worldwide – so how do we change that? 

  This week’s episode is part two of my interview Michelle Gyimah, the Director of Equality Pays, a gender and ethnicity equality consultancy dedicated to closing workplace pay gaps.

  We discuss what organisations need to know about tackling the gender and ethnicity pay gaps and how they can take action to make the changes that are needed.

  In part one, we talked about how to ask for a pay rise or negotiate a higher salary when you start a new role. You can listen to that episode here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/podcast

   

  MORE ABOUT MICHELLE

  Michelle Gyimah is a passionate advocate for enabling women (and men) to progress in their careers in a way that suits their outside of work responsibilities and lifestyle choices. She does this by empowering workplaces to radically rethink how they can support their employees to thrive at work.

  Michelle’s unique understanding of employee engagement, workplace challenges and personal experiences enables her to embed practical application into her consultancy.

  She has over 8 years’ experience of working at the Equality and Human Rights Commission and holds a Masters in Human Rights from The University of Manchester.

   

  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellegyimah/

  Visit the Equality Pays website: https://www.equalitypays.co.uk/

  Read Michelle’s Whitepaper - Women, Race, Money and Representation: How pay gap reporting is shaking up corporate vulnerability: https://equalitypays.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1071087

   

  RELATED EPISODES

  Ep 58: The Challenges We Face As Women In The Workplace: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  Ep 84: Breaking The Bias: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-84-breaking-the-bias

   

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

   

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  ]]>7a5ac0e2-37fa-4ba4-8d5f-dbd40a3bf626Sun, 05 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +000028:02falsefullEp 96 - Negotiating Your Salary with Michelle GyimahEver wished you knew how to ask for a pay rise?  Or negotiate a higher salary when you start a new role?  We don’t talk about money enough and that’s exactly what I’m talking to Michelle Gyimah about in this episode.

   Michelle Gyimah is the Director of Equality Pays, a gender and ethnicity equality consultancy dedicated to closing workplace pay gaps.  We’ve recorded two episodes together – this one is all about what you can do to close your own pay gap.

  Then in episode 97 (released on Monday 6 June) we’ll be focusing on how organisations can close the gender and ethnicity pay gaps.

  MORE ABOUT MICHELLE

  Michelle Gyimah is a passionate advocate for enabling women (and men) to progress in their careers in a way that suits their outside of work responsibilities and lifestyle choices. She does this by empowering workplaces to radically rethink how they can support their employees to thrive at work.

  Michelle’s unique understanding of employee engagement, workplace challenges and personal experiences enables her to embed practical application into her consultancy.

  She has over 8 years’ experience of working at the Equality and Human Rights Commission and holds a Masters in Human Rights from The University of Manchester.

  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellegyimah/

  Visit the Equality Pays website: https://www.equalitypays.co.uk/

  Read Michelle’s Whitepaper - Women, Race, Money and Representation: How pay gap reporting is shaking up corporate vulnerability: https://equalitypays.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1071087

  RELATED EPISODES

  Ep 79: 6 Ways To Increase Your Visibility At Work: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-79-6-ways-to-increase-your-visibility-at-work

  Ep 87: Having The Career Conversation With Your Line Manager: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-87

  Ep 58: Women In The Workplace: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  ]]>Ever wished you knew how to ask for a pay rise?  Or negotiate a higher salary when you start a new role?  We don’t talk about money enough and that’s exactly what I’m talking to Michelle Gyimah about in this episode.

   Michelle Gyimah is the Director of Equality Pays, a gender and ethnicity equality consultancy dedicated to closing workplace pay gaps.  We’ve recorded two episodes together – this one is all about what you can do to close your own pay gap.

  Then in episode 97 (released on Monday 6 June) we’ll be focusing on how organisations can close the gender and ethnicity pay gaps.

  MORE ABOUT MICHELLE

  Michelle Gyimah is a passionate advocate for enabling women (and men) to progress in their careers in a way that suits their outside of work responsibilities and lifestyle choices. She does this by empowering workplaces to radically rethink how they can support their employees to thrive at work.

  Michelle’s unique understanding of employee engagement, workplace challenges and personal experiences enables her to embed practical application into her consultancy.

  She has over 8 years’ experience of working at the Equality and Human Rights Commission and holds a Masters in Human Rights from The University of Manchester.

  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellegyimah/

  Visit the Equality Pays website: https://www.equalitypays.co.uk/

  Read Michelle’s Whitepaper - Women, Race, Money and Representation: How pay gap reporting is shaking up corporate vulnerability: https://equalitypays.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1071087

  RELATED EPISODES

  Ep 79: 6 Ways To Increase Your Visibility At Work: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-79-6-ways-to-increase-your-visibility-at-work

  Ep 87: Having The Career Conversation With Your Line Manager: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-87

  Ep 58: Women In The Workplace: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

  CONNECT WITH ME

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  ]]>4e785740-5fac-4c25-8fd5-f73dc053d3deSun, 29 May 2022 14:00:00 +000041:08falsefull9696Ep 95 - Setting Boundaries as a Working Parent with Rachel Vecht If you’re a parent, carer or someone with a busy life, you want to make sure you’re doing your best at work, while making the most of your time outside of it.

  In this week’s episode, I interview Rachel Vecht, founder of Educating Matters. Rachel works with organisations on inclusion and changing cultures to engage and support their employees, with a special focus on parents and carers.

  We discuss:

  • How to set boundaries as a working parent or carer
  • How to integrate work, parenting/caring and time for yourself
  • Making sure a part-time role really is part-time
  • What it means to be a good enough parent
  
  

  Rachel’s tips are helpful for anyone at work so this is worth a listen even if you’re not a parent or carer.

   

  ABOUT RACHEL:  

  Rachel Vecht founded ‘Educating Matters’ in 2001 and provides guidance on inclusion, changing cultures and bespoke training. They help Diversity, Equity & Inclusion, L&D, HR teams and Employee Resource Groups to support and enhance the wellbeing of employees, so these employees are focused, productive, empowered, loyal and motivated.

  Rachel’s practical support draws on her experiences as a schoolteacher but also the real, everyday experience of being an ‘imperfect but good enough’ mother to 4 children and the challenges of integrating work and family. She aims to equip parents and carers with the skills necessary to maximise the quality of precious time they spend with their children at home and get the very best out of them.

  Educating Matters Website: https://www.educatingmatters.co.uk/

  Parenting Matters Course: https://rachel-vecht.mykajabi.com/parenting-matters-1

  Connect With Rachel On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelvecht-educatingmatters/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  The Future of Time with Helen Beedham: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-90-the-future-of-time-with-helen-beedham

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]> If you’re a parent, carer or someone with a busy life, you want to make sure you’re doing your best at work, while making the most of your time outside of it.

  In this week’s episode, I interview Rachel Vecht, founder of Educating Matters. Rachel works with organisations on inclusion and changing cultures to engage and support their employees, with a special focus on parents and carers.

  We discuss:

  • How to set boundaries as a working parent or carer
  • How to integrate work, parenting/caring and time for yourself
  • Making sure a part-time role really is part-time
  • What it means to be a good enough parent
  
  

  Rachel’s tips are helpful for anyone at work so this is worth a listen even if you’re not a parent or carer.

   

  ABOUT RACHEL:  

  Rachel Vecht founded ‘Educating Matters’ in 2001 and provides guidance on inclusion, changing cultures and bespoke training. They help Diversity, Equity & Inclusion, L&D, HR teams and Employee Resource Groups to support and enhance the wellbeing of employees, so these employees are focused, productive, empowered, loyal and motivated.

  Rachel’s practical support draws on her experiences as a schoolteacher but also the real, everyday experience of being an ‘imperfect but good enough’ mother to 4 children and the challenges of integrating work and family. She aims to equip parents and carers with the skills necessary to maximise the quality of precious time they spend with their children at home and get the very best out of them.

  Educating Matters Website: https://www.educatingmatters.co.uk/

  Parenting Matters Course: https://rachel-vecht.mykajabi.com/parenting-matters-1

  Connect With Rachel On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelvecht-educatingmatters/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  The Future of Time with Helen Beedham: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-90-the-future-of-time-with-helen-beedham

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  ]]>cce6546f-44bb-431e-b8ae-f3ed36063402Sun, 22 May 2022 14:00:00 +000045:24falsefull9595Ep 94 - What I wish every woman knewIn this episode, I’m talking about some impactful things that I wish every woman knew. If I had known these a long time ago, my leadership journey would have been easier.

  As you listen, I encourage you to reflect on my words for your own life. I hope they make a transformational difference for you.

  To help, I’ve noted down the key points for you to come back to or write down for yourself.

  1. You are not broken.
  2. Bias is real and it creates imposter feelings.
  3. It’s normal to have imposter feelings and a vocal inner critic.
  4. You are enough exactly as you are
  
  

   

  WORK WITH CARLA.

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>In this episode, I’m talking about some impactful things that I wish every woman knew. If I had known these a long time ago, my leadership journey would have been easier.

  As you listen, I encourage you to reflect on my words for your own life. I hope they make a transformational difference for you.

  To help, I’ve noted down the key points for you to come back to or write down for yourself.

  1. You are not broken.
  2. Bias is real and it creates imposter feelings.
  3. It’s normal to have imposter feelings and a vocal inner critic.
  4. You are enough exactly as you are
  
  

   

  WORK WITH CARLA.

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>2e358ca9-1e40-40f5-a31d-413634b34af5Sun, 15 May 2022 14:00:00 +000026:22falsefull9494Ep 93 - Succeeding in a Male-Dominated Environment with Sandra FrancisAre you a woman working in a technical or male-dominated environment (or both!)?  If so, this week’s episode is for you.

  I talk to Sandra Francis, an accredited coach who helps technical leaders to become confident and inspiring leaders. Sandra spent 25 years working in challenging technical environments and was often the solo female voice amongst the leadership.

  We discuss:

  • Sandra’s career experiences in both technical and male-dominated environments
  • How to lead and support teams and senior leadership through organisational change
  • Ways technical leaders can be more people-centric in their team management
  • Being heard, being yourself and getting support as a woman in a male-dominated workplace
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT SANDRA

  Sandra is an AOEC accredited coach, her focus is in helping technical leaders get out of their comfort zone and develop their skills to become confident and inspiring leaders, enabling them to accelerate their careers.

  So often the sole female voice, early in her career, her passion now is aligning technical and business expertise with people centric leadership. Having held senior positions and collaborated with leaders at all levels of the organisation, she has a unique insight into the skills required for strong leadership.

  Website – Real World Coaching: https://www.realworldcoaching.org/

  Leading With Impact Programme: https://www.realworldcoaching.org/courses/leading-with-impact LinkedIn: www.linked.com/in/esanfra

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are you a woman working in a technical or male-dominated environment (or both!)?  If so, this week’s episode is for you.

  I talk to Sandra Francis, an accredited coach who helps technical leaders to become confident and inspiring leaders. Sandra spent 25 years working in challenging technical environments and was often the solo female voice amongst the leadership.

  We discuss:

  • Sandra’s career experiences in both technical and male-dominated environments
  • How to lead and support teams and senior leadership through organisational change
  • Ways technical leaders can be more people-centric in their team management
  • Being heard, being yourself and getting support as a woman in a male-dominated workplace
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT SANDRA

  Sandra is an AOEC accredited coach, her focus is in helping technical leaders get out of their comfort zone and develop their skills to become confident and inspiring leaders, enabling them to accelerate their careers.

  So often the sole female voice, early in her career, her passion now is aligning technical and business expertise with people centric leadership. Having held senior positions and collaborated with leaders at all levels of the organisation, she has a unique insight into the skills required for strong leadership.

  Website – Real World Coaching: https://www.realworldcoaching.org/

  Leading With Impact Programme: https://www.realworldcoaching.org/courses/leading-with-impact LinkedIn: www.linked.com/in/esanfra

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>bc5ebe29-8975-4ed9-9723-8db99e86df0eSun, 24 Apr 2022 14:00:00 +000038:48falsefull9393Ep (2 - Let's Talk About ConfidenceConfidence at work is something many women struggle with. I believe that a lack of confidence is having a very tangible impact on women and that their talent is being overlooked and underappreciated because of it. I also think gender bias causes many of our confidence issues.

  In this week’s episode, I share the personal insights of my Be Bolder clients on how confidence affects them at work and how you can support women in your team who struggle with confidence.

  Listen for:

  • The different ways lack of confidence can show up at work
  • How more confidence creates tangible benefits for individuals and their organisations
  • Ways that you can build your confidence at work
  • What leaders can do to support, encourage and empower the women around them
  
  

  If you are struggling with confidence, know that you're not alone and there is nothing wrong with you. With support, you can feel more confident and assertive at work.

  You can listen to the intersectionality episode I mention with Tala Hassoun here: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-80-what-every-leader-needs-to-know-about-intersectionality-with-tala-hassoun

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour live virtual workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Confidence at work is something many women struggle with. I believe that a lack of confidence is having a very tangible impact on women and that their talent is being overlooked and underappreciated because of it. I also think gender bias causes many of our confidence issues.

  In this week’s episode, I share the personal insights of my Be Bolder clients on how confidence affects them at work and how you can support women in your team who struggle with confidence.

  Listen for:

  • The different ways lack of confidence can show up at work
  • How more confidence creates tangible benefits for individuals and their organisations
  • Ways that you can build your confidence at work
  • What leaders can do to support, encourage and empower the women around them
  
  

  If you are struggling with confidence, know that you're not alone and there is nothing wrong with you. With support, you can feel more confident and assertive at work.

  You can listen to the intersectionality episode I mention with Tala Hassoun here: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-80-what-every-leader-needs-to-know-about-intersectionality-with-tala-hassoun

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in Be Bolder, my 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour live virtual workshop, starting on Wednesday 8 June.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder-june

   

  PRE-ORDER MY BOOK

  My book, Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard, is now available for pre-order from most bookshops!

  I wrote this to empower women leaders to successfully navigate the workplace, lead their way and change it for the better. It is a reference tool packed with practical strategies and a troubleshooting section which women can draw on daily to tackle the challenging conversations, decisions and situations they face.

  Available in September – Pre-order your copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Closing-Influence-Gap-practical-leaders/dp/1788603613/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32SFPA2L60FCM&keywords=closing+the+influence+gap&qid=1649087866&sprefix=closing+the+influence+gap%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>66b52071-ad5c-4e20-9c50-f8efbb28654eSun, 17 Apr 2022 14:00:00 +000041:58falsefull9292Ep 91 - Grief and the Workplace with Lizzie PickeringWe discuss:
  • Lizzie’s own experience of grief and her journey to become a grief investigator
  • How we can shift our perspective of grief, stay open to it and embrace a life with it
  • A best practice guide for organisations offering grief support to their employees
  • Things you can do and say as a manager or colleague supporting a grieving team member
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT LIZZIE

  Lizzie Pickering is a grief investigator, speaker, consultant and film and podcast producer. She works with companies on the wellbeing of staff through all types of loss, whether resulting from death, divorce, diagnosis or workplace change.

  With 21 years of experience investigating her own grief and the grief of others, she now consults on Grief Guidelines, deliver talks on grief and offers 1:1 Grief Support Sessions.

  Lizzie has recently written a grief memoir When Grief Equals Love which includes 23 interviews with people who have survived different forms of life-changing grief.

  Book: When Grief Equals Love: https://unbound.com/books/when-grief-equals-love/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizzie-pickering-bb814a1a/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzie.pickering/

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

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  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and tackle self-doubt in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

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  ]]>We discuss:
  • Lizzie’s own experience of grief and her journey to become a grief investigator
  • How we can shift our perspective of grief, stay open to it and embrace a life with it
  • A best practice guide for organisations offering grief support to their employees
  • Things you can do and say as a manager or colleague supporting a grieving team member
  
  

   

  MORE ABOUT LIZZIE

  Lizzie Pickering is a grief investigator, speaker, consultant and film and podcast producer. She works with companies on the wellbeing of staff through all types of loss, whether resulting from death, divorce, diagnosis or workplace change.

  With 21 years of experience investigating her own grief and the grief of others, she now consults on Grief Guidelines, deliver talks on grief and offers 1:1 Grief Support Sessions.

  Lizzie has recently written a grief memoir When Grief Equals Love which includes 23 interviews with people who have survived different forms of life-changing grief.

  Book: When Grief Equals Love: https://unbound.com/books/when-grief-equals-love/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizzie-pickering-bb814a1a/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzie.pickering/

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and tackle self-doubt in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>9ce81cd1-f49c-4853-b737-bcd3f9b488b0Sun, 10 Apr 2022 14:00:00 +000053:22falsefullEp 90 The Future of Time with Helen BeedhamHow we currently approach managing time isn't serving us as individuals or organisations so let’s do it differently! In Helen Beedham’s new book, The Future of Time, she challenges leaders to think differently about our organisational working habits and practices, and focus on collective time management.

  Helen is a thought leader, speaker and adviser with over 25 years’ experience in corporate workplaces and professional careers. She now writes, speaks and advises on how to create more inclusive, productive workplaces where everyone can flourish.

  We discuss:

  • Our current perspectives on time and why most of the working world is failing to manage time successfully
  • Why better time management matters for productivity, diversity and wellbeing
  • The aspirational traits of time focused organisations and time intelligent leaders
  • Three practical things you can do as a team leader to manage collective time better
  
  

  In the episode, Helen shares two free resources – a time management checklist for individuals and a team time contract. You can download both here: https://www.helenbeedham.com/TFOT-downloads-list

   

  CONNECT WITH HELEN

  Helen’s book - The Future of Time: https://www.helenbeedham.com/book

  The Business of Being Brilliant Podcast: https://www.helenbeedham.com/podcast

  Website: https://www.helenbeedham.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/helenjbeedham/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helenjbeedham/

  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDOqV4lC6dMQDkZApOH8IsA

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>How we currently approach managing time isn't serving us as individuals or organisations so let’s do it differently! In Helen Beedham’s new book, The Future of Time, she challenges leaders to think differently about our organisational working habits and practices, and focus on collective time management.

  Helen is a thought leader, speaker and adviser with over 25 years’ experience in corporate workplaces and professional careers. She now writes, speaks and advises on how to create more inclusive, productive workplaces where everyone can flourish.

  We discuss:

  • Our current perspectives on time and why most of the working world is failing to manage time successfully
  • Why better time management matters for productivity, diversity and wellbeing
  • The aspirational traits of time focused organisations and time intelligent leaders
  • Three practical things you can do as a team leader to manage collective time better
  
  

  In the episode, Helen shares two free resources – a time management checklist for individuals and a team time contract. You can download both here: https://www.helenbeedham.com/TFOT-downloads-list

   

  CONNECT WITH HELEN

  Helen’s book - The Future of Time: https://www.helenbeedham.com/book

  The Business of Being Brilliant Podcast: https://www.helenbeedham.com/podcast

  Website: https://www.helenbeedham.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/helenjbeedham/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helenjbeedham/

  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDOqV4lC6dMQDkZApOH8IsA

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>a68a975f-fea6-4408-bb1b-456015287ec3Sun, 03 Apr 2022 14:00:00 +000053:24falsefull9090Ep 89 - Finding Your WorkJoy with Beth StallwoodDoes your work bring you joy? For many people, the words work and joy don’t fit together but Beth Stallwood is changing that.

  Beth is an executive coach, the founder of WorkJoy and wants the world to know that work doesn't have to be miserable. She helps people take small steps that make a big difference to improving how they feel about work.

  We discussed:

  • Beth’s definitions of work joy and work gloom
  • Practical ways you can cultivate more work joy and reduce work gloom each day
  • The importance of knowing your values and having “micro-purposes” in your role
  • Common things blocking women leaders from experiencing work joy and Beth’s tips for overcoming them
  
  

  We hope this episode empowers you to make positive changes to your current work life.

   

  MORE ABOUT BETH

  Beth Stallwood is a qualified executive coach with over 15 years’ experience. Her mission is to help people create and cultivate more WORKJoy. Beth’s coaching style balances support and challenge in equal measure, enabling people to empower themselves to achieve their goals. 

   

  CONNECT WITH BETH

  WorkJoy Jam Podcast: https://createworkjoy.com/workjoy-jam-podcast

  WorkJoy Website: https://createworkjoy.com/

  Free WorkJoy – Where Do You Get Yours? Worksheet: https://createworkjoy.com/freebies

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beth-stallwood-415a0928/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createworkjoy/

  Email: hello@createworkjoy.com

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

   

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  ]]>Does your work bring you joy? For many people, the words work and joy don’t fit together but Beth Stallwood is changing that.

  Beth is an executive coach, the founder of WorkJoy and wants the world to know that work doesn't have to be miserable. She helps people take small steps that make a big difference to improving how they feel about work.

  We discussed:

  • Beth’s definitions of work joy and work gloom
  • Practical ways you can cultivate more work joy and reduce work gloom each day
  • The importance of knowing your values and having “micro-purposes” in your role
  • Common things blocking women leaders from experiencing work joy and Beth’s tips for overcoming them
  
  

  We hope this episode empowers you to make positive changes to your current work life.

   

  MORE ABOUT BETH

  Beth Stallwood is a qualified executive coach with over 15 years’ experience. Her mission is to help people create and cultivate more WORKJoy. Beth’s coaching style balances support and challenge in equal measure, enabling people to empower themselves to achieve their goals. 

   

  CONNECT WITH BETH

  WorkJoy Jam Podcast: https://createworkjoy.com/workjoy-jam-podcast

  WorkJoy Website: https://createworkjoy.com/

  Free WorkJoy – Where Do You Get Yours? Worksheet: https://createworkjoy.com/freebies

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beth-stallwood-415a0928/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createworkjoy/

  Email: hello@createworkjoy.com

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>998e5197-a000-4fe3-adc9-24fabee33944Sun, 27 Mar 2022 14:00:00 +000051:19falsefull8989Episode 88 - Success on your Own TermsHow we define success influences how we feel about ourselves. Are you working to an old version of success or even someone else’s version?

  In this week’s podcast episode, I share:

  • Why you should regularly reflect on your definition of success
  • How you can use your values to make decisions
  • Ways to work towards success on your own terms
  • A reminder to be happy in the moment and feel successful now
  
  

  I hope what this episode inspires you to think about what's important to you right now and to feel confident with your own definition own of success.

  RECOMMENDED READING

  Radical Candor – Kim Scott: https://www.radicalcandor.com/the-book/

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

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  ]]>How we define success influences how we feel about ourselves. Are you working to an old version of success or even someone else’s version?

  In this week’s podcast episode, I share:

  • Why you should regularly reflect on your definition of success
  • How you can use your values to make decisions
  • Ways to work towards success on your own terms
  • A reminder to be happy in the moment and feel successful now
  
  

  I hope what this episode inspires you to think about what's important to you right now and to feel confident with your own definition own of success.

  RECOMMENDED READING

  Radical Candor – Kim Scott: https://www.radicalcandor.com/the-book/

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT). 

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.  

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

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  ]]>dc99b720-6189-4298-a046-2ef2f16d8c25Sun, 20 Mar 2022 15:00:00 +000028:43falsefull8888Ep 87 - Having the Career Conversation with your Line ManagerWe’re continuing our career month on the podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing my tips on how to speak to your line manager about your career progression within your organisation and asking for investment in your training and development.

  This is an important topic for women in leadership as research tells us that women do not get promoted as often or as quickly as men do and many of us avoid having career conversations with our managers.

  Listen for:

  • How gender bias is probably holding you back in your career
  • How to prepare for a career conversation with your manager
  • Confidently talking to your manager about your aspirations
  • How to ask your organisation to invest in your development
  
  

   

  I want this to episode to encourage you to feel empowered to ask for what you want in a way that gives you the best chance of success. 

   

  RECOMMENDED READING

  Why Men Win At Work - Gill Whitty-Collins: https://gillwhittycollins.com/why-men-win-at-work

  Radical Candor – Kim Scott: https://www.radicalcandor.com/the-book/

   

  CAREER ACCELERATOR

  This week is my free 5 day Career Accelerator with daily videos and actions to help boost your confidence and prepare to take the next step. 

  If you haven’t signed up yet, it’s not too late. Sign-up now and you’ll be given instant access to the Career Accelerator hub, all the videos and our Facebook group. 

  Join Here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT).

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. 

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  KEYNOTES AND WORKSHOPS

  As well as coaching women leaders, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles and promote gender equality.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

   

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  ]]>We’re continuing our career month on the podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing my tips on how to speak to your line manager about your career progression within your organisation and asking for investment in your training and development.

  This is an important topic for women in leadership as research tells us that women do not get promoted as often or as quickly as men do and many of us avoid having career conversations with our managers.

  Listen for:

  • How gender bias is probably holding you back in your career
  • How to prepare for a career conversation with your manager
  • Confidently talking to your manager about your aspirations
  • How to ask your organisation to invest in your development
  
  

   

  I want this to episode to encourage you to feel empowered to ask for what you want in a way that gives you the best chance of success. 

   

  RECOMMENDED READING

  Why Men Win At Work - Gill Whitty-Collins: https://gillwhittycollins.com/why-men-win-at-work

  Radical Candor – Kim Scott: https://www.radicalcandor.com/the-book/

   

  CAREER ACCELERATOR

  This week is my free 5 day Career Accelerator with daily videos and actions to help boost your confidence and prepare to take the next step. 

  If you haven’t signed up yet, it’s not too late. Sign-up now and you’ll be given instant access to the Career Accelerator hub, all the videos and our Facebook group. 

  Join Here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Join Influence & Impact before 7 April to access a free place on our Be Bolder 4 week live confidence and assertiveness course for one woman in your organisation (worth £397+VAT).

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. 

  Find out more: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  KEYNOTES AND WORKSHOPS

  As well as coaching women leaders, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles and promote gender equality.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

   

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  ]]>1a6e899d-0253-4dca-beda-039523e99ce0Sun, 13 Mar 2022 15:00:00 +000040:42falsefull8787Ep 86 - Taking Control of Your CareerWhether you're happy in your role or thinking of moving on, it's a good idea to be thinking about what your next step will be and be working towards that.

  Gone are the days when we could rely on our line manager to recognise our potential and plan for our career development. In fact, I think that was always a bit of a myth! It’s up to you to prioritise your career and development.

  Your next step doesn’t have to be upwards - it could be a sideways move, a new sector or a new work-life balance so you can spend more time with the kids or starting your side hustle.

  In this episode, I’m sharing with you why investing in your own career development is one of the best investments you'll ever make and giving you 5 practical actions you can take to prioritise yours.

  RECOMMENDED BOOKS:

  F*ck Being Humble – Stephanie Sword-Williams: https://www.fuckbeinghumble.com/book    

  Why Losing Your Job Could be the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You: Five Simple Steps to Thrive after Redundancy – Eleanor Tweddell: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/why-losing-your-job-could-be-the-best-thing-that-ever-happened-to-you-five-simple-steps-to-thrive-after-redundancy/9780241458976 

  The Squiggly Career – Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis: https://www.amazingif.com/books/ 

  FREE CAREER ACCELERATOR

  Join the free 5-Day Career Accelerator! Starting on Monday 14 March, this is a free week-long experience to boost your confidence in your role, help you be seen as more credible or prepare for your next step.  

  Each day, you get career coaching from me through a short video and practical exercise plus extra coaching and bonuses inside our private Facebook group. 

  Join the Accelerator here: www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator  

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. 

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

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  ]]>Whether you're happy in your role or thinking of moving on, it's a good idea to be thinking about what your next step will be and be working towards that.

  Gone are the days when we could rely on our line manager to recognise our potential and plan for our career development. In fact, I think that was always a bit of a myth! It’s up to you to prioritise your career and development.

  Your next step doesn’t have to be upwards - it could be a sideways move, a new sector or a new work-life balance so you can spend more time with the kids or starting your side hustle.

  In this episode, I’m sharing with you why investing in your own career development is one of the best investments you'll ever make and giving you 5 practical actions you can take to prioritise yours.

  RECOMMENDED BOOKS:

  F*ck Being Humble – Stephanie Sword-Williams: https://www.fuckbeinghumble.com/book    

  Why Losing Your Job Could be the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You: Five Simple Steps to Thrive after Redundancy – Eleanor Tweddell: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/why-losing-your-job-could-be-the-best-thing-that-ever-happened-to-you-five-simple-steps-to-thrive-after-redundancy/9780241458976 

  The Squiggly Career – Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis: https://www.amazingif.com/books/ 

  FREE CAREER ACCELERATOR

  Join the free 5-Day Career Accelerator! Starting on Monday 14 March, this is a free week-long experience to boost your confidence in your role, help you be seen as more credible or prepare for your next step.  

  Each day, you get career coaching from me through a short video and practical exercise plus extra coaching and bonuses inside our private Facebook group. 

  Join the Accelerator here: www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator  

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. 

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/ 

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  ]]>ca8318e2-7232-48e0-89fa-84d970ec7798Sun, 06 Mar 2022 15:00:00 +000027:28falsefull8686The business case for flexible working with Molly Johnson-JonesDo you know that globally only 8% of people want to go into the office every day?

  The pandemic forced remote working onto the majority of employers but before that Molly Johnson-Jones, CEO and Co-Founder of Flexa, was advocating for flexible work, certifying companies and promoting them on the Flexa recruitment platform.

  In this episode, we discuss:

  • What flexible working really is (hint: it’s not just remote working) and how Flexa measures it
  • The “Great Reshuffle” and what the future of flexible working could look like
  • Molly’s advice for companies and leaders wanting to offer a more flexible workplace
  • How more workplace equality can be achieved through flexible working policies
  
  

  After this episode, I encourage you to reflect on whether the way you work, works for you and your team, and what flexible working changes are possible at your organisation.

  MORE ABOUT MOLLY

  Molly Johnson-Jones, is the CEO and co-founder of Flexa, a platform that enables people to discover companies with the best possible working environments.

  After being sacked from investment banking because of asking to work from home one day per week to accommodate her autoimmune disease, Molly realised that the lack of transparency in the job-hunting process was problematic for both candidates and companies. So she and her partner, Maurice, started Flexa.

  She’s closed two rounds of funding with Flexa and regularly speaks on the future of work, gender inequality in the startup world and the perils of raising money.

  CONNECT WITH MOLLY

  Visit the Flexa website: https://flexa.careers/ 

   Connect with Molly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/molly-johnson-jones/  

  CAREER ACCELERATOR

  Join the free 5-Day Career Accelerator! Starting on Monday 14 March, this is a free week-long experience to boost your confidence in your role, help you be seen as more credible or prepare for your next step. 

  Each day, you get career coaching from me through a short video and practical exercise plus extra coaching and bonuses inside our private Facebook group.

  Join the Accelerator here: www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  ]]>Do you know that globally only 8% of people want to go into the office every day?

  The pandemic forced remote working onto the majority of employers but before that Molly Johnson-Jones, CEO and Co-Founder of Flexa, was advocating for flexible work, certifying companies and promoting them on the Flexa recruitment platform.

  In this episode, we discuss:

  • What flexible working really is (hint: it’s not just remote working) and how Flexa measures it
  • The “Great Reshuffle” and what the future of flexible working could look like
  • Molly’s advice for companies and leaders wanting to offer a more flexible workplace
  • How more workplace equality can be achieved through flexible working policies
  
  

  After this episode, I encourage you to reflect on whether the way you work, works for you and your team, and what flexible working changes are possible at your organisation.

  MORE ABOUT MOLLY

  Molly Johnson-Jones, is the CEO and co-founder of Flexa, a platform that enables people to discover companies with the best possible working environments.

  After being sacked from investment banking because of asking to work from home one day per week to accommodate her autoimmune disease, Molly realised that the lack of transparency in the job-hunting process was problematic for both candidates and companies. So she and her partner, Maurice, started Flexa.

  She’s closed two rounds of funding with Flexa and regularly speaks on the future of work, gender inequality in the startup world and the perils of raising money.

  CONNECT WITH MOLLY

  Visit the Flexa website: https://flexa.careers/ 

   Connect with Molly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/molly-johnson-jones/  

  CAREER ACCELERATOR

  Join the free 5-Day Career Accelerator! Starting on Monday 14 March, this is a free week-long experience to boost your confidence in your role, help you be seen as more credible or prepare for your next step. 

  Each day, you get career coaching from me through a short video and practical exercise plus extra coaching and bonuses inside our private Facebook group.

  Join the Accelerator here: www.carlamillertraining.com/careeraccelerator

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  ]]>a7c5e844-ba7e-49a3-9fbb-7ccea66ae892Sun, 27 Feb 2022 15:00:00 +000038:48falsefull8585Ep 84 Breaking the Bias This episode is inspired by the International Women’s Day 2022 theme #BreaktheBias and I’m talking about how men can be really powerful allies for gender equality in the workplace.   I would love you to share this episode with your male colleagues and the men in your life as well as listen to it yourself.

  Men are so important to helping the women that they work with be recognised and valued at work.

   This episode is about encouraging this and sharing some practical ways men can support the women they work with.

  Listen for:

  • Why gender equality matters in the workplace
  • The different stages of allyship
  • What men can do as colleagues, managers and leaders to promote gender equality in their organisation
  • Ways men can support women at home to positively impact their careers
  
  

  You can get in touch with Carla about IWD or inclusion week talks at hello@carlamiller.co.uk

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>This episode is inspired by the International Women’s Day 2022 theme #BreaktheBias and I’m talking about how men can be really powerful allies for gender equality in the workplace.   I would love you to share this episode with your male colleagues and the men in your life as well as listen to it yourself.

  Men are so important to helping the women that they work with be recognised and valued at work.

   This episode is about encouraging this and sharing some practical ways men can support the women they work with.

  Listen for:

  • Why gender equality matters in the workplace
  • The different stages of allyship
  • What men can do as colleagues, managers and leaders to promote gender equality in their organisation
  • Ways men can support women at home to positively impact their careers
  
  

  You can get in touch with Carla about IWD or inclusion week talks at hello@carlamiller.co.uk

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>5917dcfe-3352-4ed8-8422-a9a55fd0e6e3Sun, 20 Feb 2022 01:00:00 +000048:48falsefull8484Ep 83 - On Fire Leadership with Nicola BuckleyHave you discovered your purpose, passion and love for what you do? Do you feel connected to who you are and are you living aligned to your values?

  Nicola Buckley calls this your fire and today she’s sharing her On Fire Leadership model to help you find your own fire. 

  Nicola is a leadership coach and neuroscience expert. Over the last four years she has helped thousands of women globally to become clear and confident leaders, go for the promotion, and challenge the status quo, without sacrificing themselves and compromising family time.

  We discuss:

  • How to discover your values and start living by them
  • Upgrading your beliefs and stories about yourself
  • The importance of language and how you talk to yourself
  • How to access your magic and embrace who you are
  
  

   

  CONNECT WITH NICOLA

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-buckley-strongher/

  Female Leaders on Fire Podcast: 

  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/female-leaders-on-fire/id1576857410

  Visit Nicola’s website: https://nicolaskorko.com/

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Have you discovered your purpose, passion and love for what you do? Do you feel connected to who you are and are you living aligned to your values?

  Nicola Buckley calls this your fire and today she’s sharing her On Fire Leadership model to help you find your own fire. 

  Nicola is a leadership coach and neuroscience expert. Over the last four years she has helped thousands of women globally to become clear and confident leaders, go for the promotion, and challenge the status quo, without sacrificing themselves and compromising family time.

  We discuss:

  • How to discover your values and start living by them
  • Upgrading your beliefs and stories about yourself
  • The importance of language and how you talk to yourself
  • How to access your magic and embrace who you are
  
  

   

  CONNECT WITH NICOLA

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-buckley-strongher/

  Female Leaders on Fire Podcast: 

  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/female-leaders-on-fire/id1576857410

  Visit Nicola’s website: https://nicolaskorko.com/

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>6e63b090-35bc-43a5-bb6b-8093c1367068Sun, 13 Feb 2022 15:00:00 +000056:21falsefull8383Ep 82 - Speaking the Language of Senior StakeholdersThe struggle to be heard and taken seriously as a woman in the workplace is real, particularly when presenting to senior stakeholders.  In this episode I share how you can successfully speak the language of senior stakeholders.

  I share:

  • The 4 questions people ask and how to use those to influence effectively
  • A simple tool for communicating with impact
  • Strategies for communicating to busy senior people
  
  

  Take one of these tools and put it into practice this week and let me know how you get on!

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  The Fix podcast featuring Mary Ann Sieghart https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authority-gap-mary-ann-sieghart/id1336361820?i=1000533999695

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

   

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>The struggle to be heard and taken seriously as a woman in the workplace is real, particularly when presenting to senior stakeholders.  In this episode I share how you can successfully speak the language of senior stakeholders.

  I share:

  • The 4 questions people ask and how to use those to influence effectively
  • A simple tool for communicating with impact
  • Strategies for communicating to busy senior people
  
  

  Take one of these tools and put it into practice this week and let me know how you get on!

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  The Fix podcast featuring Mary Ann Sieghart https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authority-gap-mary-ann-sieghart/id1336361820?i=1000533999695

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

   

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>cd3c9b1c-87ab-429f-95e0-4ec55e7b8169Sun, 06 Feb 2022 15:00:00 +000021:13falsefull8282Ep 81 - How to Stress Less at Work - Tahirih Mclaren-BrownThis week it’s a podcast takeover! Tahirih Mclaren-Brown takes over the mic to talk about ways that you can stress less at work.

  Having awareness of how you experience stress and strategies to ease those feelings can transform the way you approach work, help you to handle challenges and feel calmer each day.

  Tahirih shares: 

  • What happens in our bodies and minds when we get stressed
  • Your stress cycle and how to complete it
  • Creating your own stress game plan
  • A guided meditation for calming your body and mind
  
  

  Reducing stress is a practice. The more you do the steps in the Stress Game Plan, the more they’ll become your default way of responding. I hope these practices are there to help when you need them!

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Ep 56: How to stop overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-56-how-to-stop-overthinking

  Blog: 6 Mindfulness Strategies To Reduce Overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/reducing-overthinking

  Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle: https://www.burnoutbook.net/

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>This week it’s a podcast takeover! Tahirih Mclaren-Brown takes over the mic to talk about ways that you can stress less at work.

  Having awareness of how you experience stress and strategies to ease those feelings can transform the way you approach work, help you to handle challenges and feel calmer each day.

  Tahirih shares: 

  • What happens in our bodies and minds when we get stressed
  • Your stress cycle and how to complete it
  • Creating your own stress game plan
  • A guided meditation for calming your body and mind
  
  

  Reducing stress is a practice. The more you do the steps in the Stress Game Plan, the more they’ll become your default way of responding. I hope these practices are there to help when you need them!

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Ep 56: How to stop overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-56-how-to-stop-overthinking

  Blog: 6 Mindfulness Strategies To Reduce Overthinking: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/reducing-overthinking

  Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle: https://www.burnoutbook.net/

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>ef401c5b-07ad-490d-8ccd-14ca2026e309Sun, 30 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +000043:08falsefull8181Ep 80 - What Every Leader Needs to Know About Intersectionality with Tala Hassoun“It is the responsibility of each one of us to learn and understand how people have different experiences in their lives”

  In this week’s episode, I interview Tala Hassoun - an international development and humanitarian expert, and gender, diversity and inclusion lead facilitator.

  We discuss:

  • What intersectionality is and why it matters in the workplace
  • Tala’s own experiences as a migrant to the UK, woman of colour and young leader
  • How leaders can best support people who face additional barriers because of their identities
  • Creating a safe environment to learn about intersectionality, share experiences and support others.
  • What individuals can do to help create a diversity-supportive workplace
  
  

  Tala is passionate about influencing organisational change by ensuring an inclusive culture and driving transparent dialogue across differences.

  If you’re interested in learning more, connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tala-hassoun-2a957b212/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  How to Talk to Your Boss About Race – Y-Vonne Hutchinson: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/672435/how-to-talk-to-your-boss-about-race-by-y-vonne-hutchinson/

  Ep 74 - Is the CV dead? With Khyati Sundaram: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-74-is-the-cv-dead-with-khyati-sundaram

  Ep 46 - Being an Inclusive Leader with Haseena Farid: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-46-being-an-inclusive-leader

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>“It is the responsibility of each one of us to learn and understand how people have different experiences in their lives”

  In this week’s episode, I interview Tala Hassoun - an international development and humanitarian expert, and gender, diversity and inclusion lead facilitator.

  We discuss:

  • What intersectionality is and why it matters in the workplace
  • Tala’s own experiences as a migrant to the UK, woman of colour and young leader
  • How leaders can best support people who face additional barriers because of their identities
  • Creating a safe environment to learn about intersectionality, share experiences and support others.
  • What individuals can do to help create a diversity-supportive workplace
  
  

  Tala is passionate about influencing organisational change by ensuring an inclusive culture and driving transparent dialogue across differences.

  If you’re interested in learning more, connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tala-hassoun-2a957b212/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  How to Talk to Your Boss About Race – Y-Vonne Hutchinson: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/672435/how-to-talk-to-your-boss-about-race-by-y-vonne-hutchinson/

  Ep 74 - Is the CV dead? With Khyati Sundaram: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-74-is-the-cv-dead-with-khyati-sundaram

  Ep 46 - Being an Inclusive Leader with Haseena Farid: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-46-being-an-inclusive-leader

  FREE CONFIDENCE QUIZ

  Do you wish you felt more confident at work? Take this fun, 2 minute quiz to help you discover your biggest confidence block and how you can overcome it!

  With your result, I also share two coaching tips that you can put into action this week which will make a big impact on how you show up in your role and organisation.

  Take the quiz: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence-quiz

   

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>2d471887-a0c8-4ce0-b5b4-cebb89df8f36Sun, 23 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +000038:11falsefull8080Ep 79 - 6 Ways to Increase Your Visibility at WorkIf you want to develop your career, it’s important to be able to communicate your strengths and successes to others, and be visible to key stakeholders within your organisation.

  Does the thought of doing this make you feel uncomfortable? Many women feel the same.

  However, a lack of visibility could be holding you back from reaching your career goals and getting the recognition you deserve for the brilliant work you do.

  In this episode I share:

  • Why visibility is essential for influencing and making an impact in your role
  • How to overcome your fears of criticism and judgement
  • Why we need to stop believing the myth of meritocracy
  • 6 practical ways to increase your visibility in your organisation
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to choose one way you’d like to build your visibility and take baby steps towards doing it.

  Ep 44: How We Give Our Power Away: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-44-how-we-give-away-our-power

  KEYNOTE SPEECHES

  Does your organisation have any events planned for International Women’s Day in March? If you’re looking for a keynote presentation, a speaker or a workshop, please get in touch.

  I love to talk about developing female talent, helping women succeed, creating a workplace that works for women and how women can increase their influence and impact.

  Get in touch to find out more, book a call or share my details with your HR team.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

   

  ]]>If you want to develop your career, it’s important to be able to communicate your strengths and successes to others, and be visible to key stakeholders within your organisation.

  Does the thought of doing this make you feel uncomfortable? Many women feel the same.

  However, a lack of visibility could be holding you back from reaching your career goals and getting the recognition you deserve for the brilliant work you do.

  In this episode I share:

  • Why visibility is essential for influencing and making an impact in your role
  • How to overcome your fears of criticism and judgement
  • Why we need to stop believing the myth of meritocracy
  • 6 practical ways to increase your visibility in your organisation
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to choose one way you’d like to build your visibility and take baby steps towards doing it.

  Ep 44: How We Give Our Power Away: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-44-how-we-give-away-our-power

  KEYNOTE SPEECHES

  Does your organisation have any events planned for International Women’s Day in March? If you’re looking for a keynote presentation, a speaker or a workshop, please get in touch.

  I love to talk about developing female talent, helping women succeed, creating a workplace that works for women and how women can increase their influence and impact.

  Get in touch to find out more, book a call or share my details with your HR team.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

   

  ]]>a5dc8c72-2009-4b3c-8e4d-e6ba5f60140dSun, 16 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +000038:31falsefull7979Ep 78 - How We Make Influencing Harder For OurselvesAre you getting in your own way when it comes to influencing?

  When we're trying to influence, we often make it about other people and believe that they’re the problem. However, the way we are showing up greatly impacts our ability to influence effectively.

  In this episode, I share the common ways you might trip yourself up and how to adjust your approach for a more positive result.

  Listen for:

  • How to recognise when you’re reacting and what has triggered it
  • Using the 90 second rule as a tool for responding
  • Identifying your unspoken rules and values in the workplace
  • What unconscious needs are and how they influence our actions
  
  

  After this episode I encourage you to explore your unspoken rules, values and unconscious needs, and reflect on how they’re impacting you as a leader.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Harvard Business Review – Achieving Gender Balance Article: https://hbr.org/2021/11/achieving-gender-balance-at-all-levels-of-your-company

  Ep 75: Are You A People Pleaser?: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-75-are-you-a-people-pleaser

  Jill Bolte Taylor - The 90 Second Rule: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-right-mindset/202004/the-90-second-rule-builds-self-control

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

   As well as coaching women leaders in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I would like to work more with organisations that are committed to gender equality and reducing their gender pay gap.

  Get in touch to find out more, book a call or share my details with your HR team.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are you getting in your own way when it comes to influencing?

  When we're trying to influence, we often make it about other people and believe that they’re the problem. However, the way we are showing up greatly impacts our ability to influence effectively.

  In this episode, I share the common ways you might trip yourself up and how to adjust your approach for a more positive result.

  Listen for:

  • How to recognise when you’re reacting and what has triggered it
  • Using the 90 second rule as a tool for responding
  • Identifying your unspoken rules and values in the workplace
  • What unconscious needs are and how they influence our actions
  
  

  After this episode I encourage you to explore your unspoken rules, values and unconscious needs, and reflect on how they’re impacting you as a leader.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Harvard Business Review – Achieving Gender Balance Article: https://hbr.org/2021/11/achieving-gender-balance-at-all-levels-of-your-company

  Ep 75: Are You A People Pleaser?: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/ep-75-are-you-a-people-pleaser

  Jill Bolte Taylor - The 90 Second Rule: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-right-mindset/202004/the-90-second-rule-builds-self-control

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

   

  WORK WITH CARLA

   As well as coaching women leaders in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles. I would like to work more with organisations that are committed to gender equality and reducing their gender pay gap.

  Get in touch to find out more, book a call or share my details with your HR team.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  You can now leave a review on Spotify as well as Apple Podcasts. Reviews help more people to find the podcast and for us to help more women in leadership.

  You can also share the podcast with a friend, colleague or on social media.

  Thanks for your support, speak to you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>92dd386f-270b-47d1-9ab0-53dda5ffbe03Sun, 09 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +000030:35falsefull7878Ep 77 - Set Your Intention for 2022Happy New Year! In this short and sweet episode, I’m helping you to reflect on 2021 and set your intentions for 2022.

  Get yourself a pen or paper, write down the questions I share and create some quiet time to answer them.

  I would love to hear your reflections and intentions. Send me a message on LinkedIn or Instagram, or email me at: hello@carlamiller.co.uk

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  LET’S CONNECT:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Happy New Year! In this short and sweet episode, I’m helping you to reflect on 2021 and set your intentions for 2022.

  Get yourself a pen or paper, write down the questions I share and create some quiet time to answer them.

  I would love to hear your reflections and intentions. Send me a message on LinkedIn or Instagram, or email me at: hello@carlamiller.co.uk

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  LET’S CONNECT:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>c760415a-d6a2-4f3e-91dc-15139349b316Mon, 03 Jan 2022 08:26:49 +000017:05falsefull7777Ep 76 - Dealing with Difficult People featuring Liz KislikMost of us will encounter plenty of difficult colleagues or workplace conflicts in our career. With so many types of personalities, working styles and goals, it seems inevitable.

  As a leader, you need to approach conflict in a way that considers yourself, your team and the goals of your organisation.

  In this week’s episode, Liz Kislik, a management consultant and executive coach, shares with us just how we can do that.

  We discuss:

  • Helpful approaches for dealing with a colleague you find difficult
  • How to identify when conflict becomes a business problem and how to ask for support
  • The ways that leaders can contribute to conflict within teams and the importance of self-awareness
  • The characteristics of a good team and how leaders can foster great teamwork
  
  

  MORE ABOUT LIZ

  Liz Kislik is a management consultant and executive coach, and a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review and Forbes. She specializes in developing high performing leaders and workforces, and for 30 years has helped family-run businesses, national nonprofits, and Fortune 500 companies.

  Liz offers surprising insights and successful techniques for leadership, mastering collaboration, conflict, talent development, and customer loyalty.

  CONNECT WITH LIZ

  Website: https://lizkislik.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizkislik/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/lizkislik

  TEDX Talk: Liz Kislik: Why there's so much conflict at work and what you can do to fix it | Liz Kislik | TEDxBaylorSchool

  Free ebook: How to Resolve Interpersonal Conflicts in the Workplace: https://lizkislik.com/resolve-conflict/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Most of us will encounter plenty of difficult colleagues or workplace conflicts in our career. With so many types of personalities, working styles and goals, it seems inevitable.

  As a leader, you need to approach conflict in a way that considers yourself, your team and the goals of your organisation.

  In this week’s episode, Liz Kislik, a management consultant and executive coach, shares with us just how we can do that.

  We discuss:

  • Helpful approaches for dealing with a colleague you find difficult
  • How to identify when conflict becomes a business problem and how to ask for support
  • The ways that leaders can contribute to conflict within teams and the importance of self-awareness
  • The characteristics of a good team and how leaders can foster great teamwork
  
  

  MORE ABOUT LIZ

  Liz Kislik is a management consultant and executive coach, and a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review and Forbes. She specializes in developing high performing leaders and workforces, and for 30 years has helped family-run businesses, national nonprofits, and Fortune 500 companies.

  Liz offers surprising insights and successful techniques for leadership, mastering collaboration, conflict, talent development, and customer loyalty.

  CONNECT WITH LIZ

  Website: https://lizkislik.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizkislik/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/lizkislik

  TEDX Talk: Liz Kislik: Why there's so much conflict at work and what you can do to fix it | Liz Kislik | TEDxBaylorSchool

  Free ebook: How to Resolve Interpersonal Conflicts in the Workplace: https://lizkislik.com/resolve-conflict/

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4-week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Each weekly session is delivered as a 2 hour online workshop, starting on Wednesday 23 February.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/bebolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>eb42e483-0c7f-4530-9202-9a9293610f34Sun, 12 Dec 2021 15:00:00 +000001:04:39falsefull7676Ep 75 - Are You A People Pleaser?Many women in my community struggle with people pleasing and in this week’s episode, I’m diving into what people pleasing is, how to identify it and how to put your own needs first.

  A general definition of a people pleaser is a person who has the emotional need to please others, often at the expense of their own needs or desires.

  In this episode, I share:

  • Four key signs that you’re a people pleaser
  • A description of my “Likeable Lucy” persona to help you identify how people pleasing may be impacting your leadership style
  • Why we are constantly training others how to treat us
  • How to set and communicate healthy boundaries
  
  

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 58 – The Challenges We Face as Women in the Workplace:

  https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  Ep 32: Why We Look To Others For Validation:

  https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-32-why-we-look-to-others-for-validation

  Brené Brown’s Power of Vulnerability TED Talk:

  Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability

  Find Brené Brown’s Books here:

  https://brenebrown.com/books-audio 

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4 week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Many women in my community struggle with people pleasing and in this week’s episode, I’m diving into what people pleasing is, how to identify it and how to put your own needs first.

  A general definition of a people pleaser is a person who has the emotional need to please others, often at the expense of their own needs or desires.

  In this episode, I share:

  • Four key signs that you’re a people pleaser
  • A description of my “Likeable Lucy” persona to help you identify how people pleasing may be impacting your leadership style
  • Why we are constantly training others how to treat us
  • How to set and communicate healthy boundaries
  
  

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Ep 58 – The Challenges We Face as Women in the Workplace:

  https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-58-women-in-the-workplace

  Ep 32: Why We Look To Others For Validation:

  https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-32-why-we-look-to-others-for-validation

  Brené Brown’s Power of Vulnerability TED Talk:

  Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability

  Find Brené Brown’s Books here:

  https://brenebrown.com/books-audio 

  BE BOLDER

  Increase your confidence and assertiveness at work in my new 4 week course for women.

  Learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no more often, speak up more confidently in meetings, worry less about what others think of you, have the courage to have challenging conversations and be more assertive in your communication.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/be-bolder

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>a3add40a-6962-47ac-83c2-e298ac5e62ceSun, 05 Dec 2021 15:00:00 +000030:24falsefull7575Ep 74 - Is the CV dead? with Khyati SundaramAre the standard hiring practices we use fair and do they truly give us the best candidates for each role? Khyati Sundaram’s answer to this is no and she says it’s time to leave CVs and biased hiring practices behind.

  Khyati is the CEO of Applied, an all-in-one hiring platform that uses behavioural science-backed techniques for fair and de-biased hiring.

  We discuss:

  • Why CVs are no longer fit for purpose
  • The importance of gender-neutral language to attracting women applicants
  • How unconscious bias negatively impacts recruitment
  • Why skills-based interviews are the way forward
  • The importance of hiring for values and mission over cultural fit
  
  

  Khyati also gives some practical tips at the end for leaders working in smaller organisations who are responsible for hiring their own teams.

  MORE ABOUT KHAYTI

  Khyati Sundaram is the CEO of Applied, which helps companies remove bias from hiring processes by removing gendered words from job adverts, anonymising applications, holding structured interviews and hiring based on skills (rather than proxies on CVs).

  In her former life, Khyati co-founded and led an AI company looking at sustainable supply chains and worked in investment banking with JP Morgan and RBS. She has a breadth of experience in data science, product development, and fundraising.  

   

  CONNECT WITH KHAYTI AND APPLIED

  Email: khyati@beapplied.com

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/khyatisundaram/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/sunkhyati1

  Applied: https://www.beapplied.com/

  Learn more about Applied’s work: https://www.beapplied.com/press-and-media

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/beapplied/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/beapplied

  Read the Gendered Language for Job Adverts study: https://gender-decoder.katmatfield.com/static/documents/Gaucher-Friesen-Kay-JPSP-Gendered-Wording-in-Job-ads.pdf

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are the standard hiring practices we use fair and do they truly give us the best candidates for each role? Khyati Sundaram’s answer to this is no and she says it’s time to leave CVs and biased hiring practices behind.

  Khyati is the CEO of Applied, an all-in-one hiring platform that uses behavioural science-backed techniques for fair and de-biased hiring.

  We discuss:

  • Why CVs are no longer fit for purpose
  • The importance of gender-neutral language to attracting women applicants
  • How unconscious bias negatively impacts recruitment
  • Why skills-based interviews are the way forward
  • The importance of hiring for values and mission over cultural fit
  
  

  Khyati also gives some practical tips at the end for leaders working in smaller organisations who are responsible for hiring their own teams.

  MORE ABOUT KHAYTI

  Khyati Sundaram is the CEO of Applied, which helps companies remove bias from hiring processes by removing gendered words from job adverts, anonymising applications, holding structured interviews and hiring based on skills (rather than proxies on CVs).

  In her former life, Khyati co-founded and led an AI company looking at sustainable supply chains and worked in investment banking with JP Morgan and RBS. She has a breadth of experience in data science, product development, and fundraising.  

   

  CONNECT WITH KHAYTI AND APPLIED

  Email: khyati@beapplied.com

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/khyatisundaram/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/sunkhyati1

  Applied: https://www.beapplied.com/

  Learn more about Applied’s work: https://www.beapplied.com/press-and-media

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/beapplied/

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/beapplied

  Read the Gendered Language for Job Adverts study: https://gender-decoder.katmatfield.com/static/documents/Gaucher-Friesen-Kay-JPSP-Gendered-Wording-in-Job-ads.pdf

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  WORK WITH CARLA

  As well as coaching women leaders to have more influence, make more impact and be kinder to themselves in my programme Influence & Impact, I also give keynote speeches and trainings to organisations wanting to develop women in leadership roles.

  Get in touch to find out more or book a call with me.

  Keynotes, training and coaching: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/employers

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>8dcefb72-bdcb-48a2-be25-49a8412f1affSun, 28 Nov 2021 15:00:00 +000051:57falsefull7474Why we're not aiming for work-life balance with Jessica Chivers - Ep 73Many of us will take extended leave during our careers. It could be maternity or shared parental leave, sickness or sabbatical, family caregiving or just a much-needed career break.

  Unfortunately, the reality is that extended leave can result in feelings of isolation, being left behind, starting again on the back foot or having to downgrade our careers.

  Jessica Chivers, coaching psychologist and founder of The Talent Keeper Specialists, wants to make sure everyone feels connected, cared for and confident during extended leave and the transition back to work.

  In this episode we discussed:

  • The positives and benefits of taking extended leave and feeling confident about it
  • Why we don’t like the terms work-life balance and imposter syndrome
  • Creating your ideal work life blend when you transition back to work
  • How to negotiate sharing the load within your household so you can be your best at work
  • Focusing on output, flexibility and managing energy rather than contracted hours
  
  

  Make sure you download the Comeback Community free Career Fuel Guide that Jessica shares in this episode: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk/careerfuel/

  MORE ABOUT JESSICA

  Jessica is a coaching psychologist, author of “Mothers Work! How to Get a Grip on guilt and make a smooth return to work” and host of the Comeback Coach podcast.

  She’s also the founder of The Talent Keeper Specialists, a business whose mission is to keep everyone everywhere feeling confident, connected and cared for when they take extended leave from work. Their clients are forward-thinking employers such as ITV, CIPD, BlackRock and Lily’s Kitchen.

  CONNECT WITH JESSICA

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicachivers/

  The Talent Keeper Specialists: https://www.talentkeepers.co.uk/

  Comeback Community: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk

  Comeback Coach Podcast: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk/comeback-coach/

  Mothers Work! How to Get a Grip on Guilt and Make a Smooth Return to Work: https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1848503199?ie=UTF8&tag=wwwbeyoubutbe-21&link_code=as3&camp=2506&creative=9298&creativeASIN=1848503199

  HELPFUL LINKS

  She's Back: Your guide to returning to work: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shes-Back-Your-guide-returning/dp/1911583565

  How To Have A Good Day: The essential toolkit for a productive day at work and beyond: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Have-Good-Day-productive/dp/1447276515

  Ep 36 - Returning from parental leave with confidence with Lizzie Martin: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-36-returning-from-parental-leave-with-confidence-with-lizzie-martin

  Ep 55 - Menopause in the workplace with Deborah Garlick: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-55-menopause-in-the-workplace

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings. 

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  Writing a review on Apple Podcasts is free, only takes a few minutes and really helps the podcast reach more people.

  If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you share it with a friend or colleague you think it will help.

  Don’t forget to subscribe on whatever platform you listen on.

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  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Many of us will take extended leave during our careers. It could be maternity or shared parental leave, sickness or sabbatical, family caregiving or just a much-needed career break.

  Unfortunately, the reality is that extended leave can result in feelings of isolation, being left behind, starting again on the back foot or having to downgrade our careers.

  Jessica Chivers, coaching psychologist and founder of The Talent Keeper Specialists, wants to make sure everyone feels connected, cared for and confident during extended leave and the transition back to work.

  In this episode we discussed:

  • The positives and benefits of taking extended leave and feeling confident about it
  • Why we don’t like the terms work-life balance and imposter syndrome
  • Creating your ideal work life blend when you transition back to work
  • How to negotiate sharing the load within your household so you can be your best at work
  • Focusing on output, flexibility and managing energy rather than contracted hours
  
  

  Make sure you download the Comeback Community free Career Fuel Guide that Jessica shares in this episode: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk/careerfuel/

  MORE ABOUT JESSICA

  Jessica is a coaching psychologist, author of “Mothers Work! How to Get a Grip on guilt and make a smooth return to work” and host of the Comeback Coach podcast.

  She’s also the founder of The Talent Keeper Specialists, a business whose mission is to keep everyone everywhere feeling confident, connected and cared for when they take extended leave from work. Their clients are forward-thinking employers such as ITV, CIPD, BlackRock and Lily’s Kitchen.

  CONNECT WITH JESSICA

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicachivers/

  The Talent Keeper Specialists: https://www.talentkeepers.co.uk/

  Comeback Community: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk

  Comeback Coach Podcast: https://comebackcommunity.co.uk/comeback-coach/

  Mothers Work! How to Get a Grip on Guilt and Make a Smooth Return to Work: https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1848503199?ie=UTF8&tag=wwwbeyoubutbe-21&link_code=as3&camp=2506&creative=9298&creativeASIN=1848503199

  HELPFUL LINKS

  She's Back: Your guide to returning to work: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shes-Back-Your-guide-returning/dp/1911583565

  How To Have A Good Day: The essential toolkit for a productive day at work and beyond: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Have-Good-Day-productive/dp/1447276515

  Ep 36 - Returning from parental leave with confidence with Lizzie Martin: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-36-returning-from-parental-leave-with-confidence-with-lizzie-martin

  Ep 55 - Menopause in the workplace with Deborah Garlick: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-55-menopause-in-the-workplace

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings. 

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  SUPPORT THE PODCAST

  Writing a review on Apple Podcasts is free, only takes a few minutes and really helps the podcast reach more people.

  If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you share it with a friend or colleague you think it will help.

  Don’t forget to subscribe on whatever platform you listen on.

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Thanks for listening!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>0a5a5db4-47d0-43e6-97bf-01119e1028d4Sun, 21 Nov 2021 15:00:00 +000053:49falsefull7373Ep 72 - Women with Influence with Monique CarayolWomen with Influence is my LinkedIn Live series where I interview inspirational and influential women leaders on their career journey so far. 

  This podcast episode is a recording of my interview with Monique Carayol, a Leadership & Talent Development Consultant, Coach and an ambitious, award-winning change maker.

  Monique started her career in healthcare as a PA and navigated her way up to a high-profile board executive director role.

  Monique and I discuss:

  • Her successful career progression in the NHS and how she made it happen
  • How to be proactive and create opportunities to be seen, given more responsibility and promoted
  • The benefits of managing upwards and being in the room with senior managers for your confidence and profile
  • Advice for women progressing in middle and senior management roles
  
  

  Monique also shares the challenges of being a woman of colour and a Mum at Director level and how she inspired and supported others to see what’s possible for them.

  CONNECT WITH MONIQUE

  Monique is the host of leadership podcast 'Be Yourself, Back Yourself & Make it Happen with Monique Carayol' and shares practical insights and advice to help leaders at all levels.

  Listen to her podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/be-yourself-back-yourself-and-make-it-happen-with-monique-carayo

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monique-carayol/

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings. 

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Women with Influence is my LinkedIn Live series where I interview inspirational and influential women leaders on their career journey so far. 

  This podcast episode is a recording of my interview with Monique Carayol, a Leadership & Talent Development Consultant, Coach and an ambitious, award-winning change maker.

  Monique started her career in healthcare as a PA and navigated her way up to a high-profile board executive director role.

  Monique and I discuss:

  • Her successful career progression in the NHS and how she made it happen
  • How to be proactive and create opportunities to be seen, given more responsibility and promoted
  • The benefits of managing upwards and being in the room with senior managers for your confidence and profile
  • Advice for women progressing in middle and senior management roles
  
  

  Monique also shares the challenges of being a woman of colour and a Mum at Director level and how she inspired and supported others to see what’s possible for them.

  CONNECT WITH MONIQUE

  Monique is the host of leadership podcast 'Be Yourself, Back Yourself & Make it Happen with Monique Carayol' and shares practical insights and advice to help leaders at all levels.

  Listen to her podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/be-yourself-back-yourself-and-make-it-happen-with-monique-carayo

  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monique-carayol/

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings. 

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>6ddad29b-d413-4bfe-828d-d170de48ec4eSun, 14 Nov 2021 15:00:00 +000041:02falsefull7272Ep 71 - How to Gain Respect as a LeaderOne of most asked questions I get from women in leadership is how to feel more respected as a leader. I love this question because it’s at the heart of what my work is all about.

   That's why I developed the Influence & Impact framework and it's why I built the Influence and Impact group coaching programme.

  Essentially, being a respected leader comes down to is respecting yourself, respecting others and gaining the respect of others.

  In this week’s episode, I share 10 super practical things you can do right now to gain respect as a leader.  I hope there’s a few that you identify as things you’d like to do more of or dial up a bit.

   

  DEVELOP YOUR PERSONAL LEADERSHIP BRAND

  Join me in my free taster workshop, Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand, on Monday 15 November at 12:30pm.  Learn how to take control of how others perceive you at work, get clear on the kind of leader you want to be and uncover your Zone of Genius. 

  Get more details and reserve your spot here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  The programme is based on a 3-part Influence & Impact framework and includes a year’s support with teaching calls, group coaching calls and a supportive community.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts

   

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>One of most asked questions I get from women in leadership is how to feel more respected as a leader. I love this question because it’s at the heart of what my work is all about.

   That's why I developed the Influence & Impact framework and it's why I built the Influence and Impact group coaching programme.

  Essentially, being a respected leader comes down to is respecting yourself, respecting others and gaining the respect of others.

  In this week’s episode, I share 10 super practical things you can do right now to gain respect as a leader.  I hope there’s a few that you identify as things you’d like to do more of or dial up a bit.

   

  DEVELOP YOUR PERSONAL LEADERSHIP BRAND

  Join me in my free taster workshop, Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand, on Monday 15 November at 12:30pm.  Learn how to take control of how others perceive you at work, get clear on the kind of leader you want to be and uncover your Zone of Genius. 

  Get more details and reserve your spot here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Influence & Impact is my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  The programme is based on a 3-part Influence & Impact framework and includes a year’s support with teaching calls, group coaching calls and a supportive community.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>6eb31049-e43b-443b-9865-c7e6a61eae66Mon, 08 Nov 2021 06:33:22 +000034:44falsefull7171Ep 70 - Women with Influence Interview with Mylene SylvestreWomen with Influence is my new LinkedIn Live series where I interview inspirational and influential women leaders on their career journey so far.

  This podcast episode is a recording of our first Women with Influence interview with Mylene Sylvestre. Mylene is the Publishing Director at Guardian News & Media and co-Founder of the Women of Colour Global Network (WOCGN).

  I loved talking to Mylene and she shared exactly how she went about sponsoring and advocating for the women in her team – I wish every leader would listen to what she has to say and take note.

  Mylene and I discussed:

  • Her career journey so far and what her role is like at the Guardian
  • Experiencing self-doubt after returning from maternity leave and how coaching gave her the confidence to become a Director.
  • How she sponsors women including giving them a seat at the Directors’ table and advocating to address the gender pay gap
  • What the Women of Colour Global Network is and how you can get involved
  
  

  Mylene also gives some great advice to women wanting to move to the Director level and embracing the transition from a specialist to a generalist.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Connect with Mylene: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mylene-sylvestre-she-her-609b399/

  Women of Colour Global Network: https://www.wocgn.com/    

  Women of Colour Global Network LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/women-of-colour-global-network-ltd/  

  Ep 46 - Being an Inclusive Leader with Haseena Farid: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-46-being-an-inclusive-leader  

  Ep 60 - From Specialist to Generalist: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-60-from-specialist-to-generalist

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

  Leave a review on Apple Podcasts

  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Women with Influence is my new LinkedIn Live series where I interview inspirational and influential women leaders on their career journey so far.

  This podcast episode is a recording of our first Women with Influence interview with Mylene Sylvestre. Mylene is the Publishing Director at Guardian News & Media and co-Founder of the Women of Colour Global Network (WOCGN).

  I loved talking to Mylene and she shared exactly how she went about sponsoring and advocating for the women in her team – I wish every leader would listen to what she has to say and take note.

  Mylene and I discussed:

  • Her career journey so far and what her role is like at the Guardian
  • Experiencing self-doubt after returning from maternity leave and how coaching gave her the confidence to become a Director.
  • How she sponsors women including giving them a seat at the Directors’ table and advocating to address the gender pay gap
  • What the Women of Colour Global Network is and how you can get involved
  
  

  Mylene also gives some great advice to women wanting to move to the Director level and embracing the transition from a specialist to a generalist.

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Connect with Mylene: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mylene-sylvestre-she-her-609b399/

  Women of Colour Global Network: https://www.wocgn.com/    

  Women of Colour Global Network LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/women-of-colour-global-network-ltd/  

  Ep 46 - Being an Inclusive Leader with Haseena Farid: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-46-being-an-inclusive-leader  

  Ep 60 - From Specialist to Generalist: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-60-from-specialist-to-generalist

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/leader/

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>ab792b67-5ed0-4c9f-838e-791d94bbef3eSun, 31 Oct 2021 15:00:00 +000043:11falsefull7070Ep 69 - Strategic Speaking for Results with Elizabeth BachmanUsing your voice and presence strategically can help you be heard and have more influence in your organisation. In this week’s episode, I interview Elizabeth Bachman, a Professional Speaker, Executive Career Coach and Presentation Skills Trainer.

  Elizabeth is passionate about getting more smart women into positions of authority, helping them do really good jobs and get more women's voices heard in the world.

  We discuss:

  • Elizabeth’s presenting tips from her experience as an Opera Director
  • Valuing the unique strengths and multi-focused approach women bring to the workplace
  • What the glass cliff is and how organisations can support leaders better
  • How to use strategic empathy to influence others
  
  

  MORE ABOUT ELIZABETH

  Elizabeth Bachman is a go-to person for advanced training in speaking, presentation skills, sales and leadership. She helps high-level clients master a message that brings the funding they need, the allies they want and the recognition they deserve.

  Having spent over 30 years directing more than 50 operas around the world, Elizabeth brings a wealth of tools to help business professionals become respected presenters.

  She is also the host of the podcast: Speakers Who Get Results.

  Website: https://elizabethbachman.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethbachman/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StrategicSpeakingForResults

  Speakers Who Get Results Podcast: https://elizabethbachman.com/podcast/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Carla’s episode on Elizabeth’s podcast: https://elizabethbachman.com/leading-with-impact-and-influence-unleashing-the-leader-within-with-carla-miller/

  Learn more about the Glass Cliff: https://www.businessinsider.com/women-and-people-of-color-face-glass-cliff-us-2020-7?r=US&IR=T

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>Using your voice and presence strategically can help you be heard and have more influence in your organisation. In this week’s episode, I interview Elizabeth Bachman, a Professional Speaker, Executive Career Coach and Presentation Skills Trainer.

  Elizabeth is passionate about getting more smart women into positions of authority, helping them do really good jobs and get more women's voices heard in the world.

  We discuss:

  • Elizabeth’s presenting tips from her experience as an Opera Director
  • Valuing the unique strengths and multi-focused approach women bring to the workplace
  • What the glass cliff is and how organisations can support leaders better
  • How to use strategic empathy to influence others
  
  

  MORE ABOUT ELIZABETH

  Elizabeth Bachman is a go-to person for advanced training in speaking, presentation skills, sales and leadership. She helps high-level clients master a message that brings the funding they need, the allies they want and the recognition they deserve.

  Having spent over 30 years directing more than 50 operas around the world, Elizabeth brings a wealth of tools to help business professionals become respected presenters.

  She is also the host of the podcast: Speakers Who Get Results.

  Website: https://elizabethbachman.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethbachman/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StrategicSpeakingForResults

  Speakers Who Get Results Podcast: https://elizabethbachman.com/podcast/

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Carla’s episode on Elizabeth’s podcast: https://elizabethbachman.com/leading-with-impact-and-influence-unleashing-the-leader-within-with-carla-miller/

  Learn more about the Glass Cliff: https://www.businessinsider.com/women-and-people-of-color-face-glass-cliff-us-2020-7?r=US&IR=T

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader 

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>551329de-4c65-4c38-bcb1-0ad38c3b3f98Sun, 24 Oct 2021 14:00:00 +000039:45falsefull6969Ep 68 - When You and Your Boss Don’t Get OnTension between managers and their direct reports isn't unusual but it can make work feel difficult and uncomfortable.

  This tension usually comes down to different leadership styles, communication styles, priorities or personalities.

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • The most common reasons tensions occur and practical tips to defuse them
  • Why we should value different leadership styles
  • The types of communication styles using the Insights Profile
  • How you can apply these insights to yourself as a line manager
  
  

  I hope you find these tips helpful, particularly when it comes to managing and influencing upwards and sideways.

  OTHER HELPFUL PODCAST EPISODES

  Ep 18: How to leave bullying bosses in the past: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/how-to-leave-bullying-bosses-in-the-past

  Ep 25: How to disagree with people more senior than you: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-25-how-to-disagree-with-people-more-senior-than-you

  Ep 31: How To Have More Gravitas: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-31-how-to-have-more-gravitas

   

  DEVELOP YOUR PERSONAL LEADERSHIP BRAND

  Join me in my free taster workshop, Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand, on Monday 15 November at 12:30pm.  Learn how to take control of how others perceive you at work, get clear on the kind of leader you want to be and uncover your Zone of Genius.

  Get more details and reserve your spot here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Tension between managers and their direct reports isn't unusual but it can make work feel difficult and uncomfortable.

  This tension usually comes down to different leadership styles, communication styles, priorities or personalities.

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • The most common reasons tensions occur and practical tips to defuse them
  • Why we should value different leadership styles
  • The types of communication styles using the Insights Profile
  • How you can apply these insights to yourself as a line manager
  
  

  I hope you find these tips helpful, particularly when it comes to managing and influencing upwards and sideways.

  OTHER HELPFUL PODCAST EPISODES

  Ep 18: How to leave bullying bosses in the past: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/how-to-leave-bullying-bosses-in-the-past

  Ep 25: How to disagree with people more senior than you: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-25-how-to-disagree-with-people-more-senior-than-you

  Ep 31: How To Have More Gravitas: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-31-how-to-have-more-gravitas

   

  DEVELOP YOUR PERSONAL LEADERSHIP BRAND

  Join me in my free taster workshop, Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand, on Monday 15 November at 12:30pm.  Learn how to take control of how others perceive you at work, get clear on the kind of leader you want to be and uncover your Zone of Genius.

  Get more details and reserve your spot here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

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  Subscribe

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

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  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>aa4a8a60-2050-452e-a4d1-d9a15c55dad9Sun, 17 Oct 2021 14:00:00 +000039:30falsefull6868Ep 67 - How to avoid micromanagingMicromanaging is often seen as a sin of management. No employee wants it and no leader wants to be accused of it.

  So how do you get the balance right and offer your team members the support that they need without looking over their shoulders or giving too much freedom?

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • Why we micromanage and how to gently release some of that control
  • The difference between micromanaging and managing closely
  • How to judge the level of support your team members need
  • Ways to strategically manage those that do need more of your support
  
  

  I hope you find these tips helpful and give the Spectrum of Support a try with your team.

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: 

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Micromanaging is often seen as a sin of management. No employee wants it and no leader wants to be accused of it.

  So how do you get the balance right and offer your team members the support that they need without looking over their shoulders or giving too much freedom?

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • Why we micromanage and how to gently release some of that control
  • The difference between micromanaging and managing closely
  • How to judge the level of support your team members need
  • Ways to strategically manage those that do need more of your support
  
  

  I hope you find these tips helpful and give the Spectrum of Support a try with your team.

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: 

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  ]]>8dc2062d-ad60-4222-82fc-78ce6e740aefSun, 10 Oct 2021 14:00:00 +000017:53falsefull6767Ep 66 – How to Succeed at InterviewsRight now, we’re in the middle of what is being termed The Great Resignation with a lot of people looking for new roles and a lot of organisations with openings.

  In this episode, I’m sharing with you a few tips on how you can succeed in your next interview.  I’m also sharing the content from the Psychology of Interviews module of my audio course Instant Interview Confidence.

  Listen for:

  • How to play the interview game
  • How to handle being asked about your current salary
  • Tips on approaching a salary negotiation
  • Ways to act and feel more confident during the interview
  
  

  If you are going for an interview, best of luck! I've got my fingers crossed for you.

  If you get the job and you've stepped up to a new level, we would love to see you in Influence & Impact. Watch the Influential Leader masterclass or book a call with me on my website.

  INSTANT INTERVIEW CONFIDENCE

  In my Instant Interview Confidence audio course I teach the seven steps to succeeding at an interview from preparation to mindset and answering difficult questions. You’ll get seven audio recordings that you can download and keep forever. This isn’t usually for sale but podcast listeners can now purchase it for just £99

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/instant-interview-confidence

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Right now, we’re in the middle of what is being termed The Great Resignation with a lot of people looking for new roles and a lot of organisations with openings.

  In this episode, I’m sharing with you a few tips on how you can succeed in your next interview.  I’m also sharing the content from the Psychology of Interviews module of my audio course Instant Interview Confidence.

  Listen for:

  • How to play the interview game
  • How to handle being asked about your current salary
  • Tips on approaching a salary negotiation
  • Ways to act and feel more confident during the interview
  
  

  If you are going for an interview, best of luck! I've got my fingers crossed for you.

  If you get the job and you've stepped up to a new level, we would love to see you in Influence & Impact. Watch the Influential Leader masterclass or book a call with me on my website.

  INSTANT INTERVIEW CONFIDENCE

  In my Instant Interview Confidence audio course I teach the seven steps to succeeding at an interview from preparation to mindset and answering difficult questions. You’ll get seven audio recordings that you can download and keep forever. This isn’t usually for sale but podcast listeners can now purchase it for just £99

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/instant-interview-confidence

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leader

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my free workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>c661422c-833d-42d8-b397-722effe12817Sun, 03 Oct 2021 14:00:00 +000035:28falsefull6666Ep 65 - When things don't go according to planBoth work and life are unpredictable and the older I get, the more I realise they rarely go to plan. But this doesn’t need to be a source of stress.

  Our ability to accept and embrace reality as it’s happening can determine how happy and successful we are in all parts of our lives.

  In this week’s episode, I share:

  • Mindset tips for reframing and letting go when things don’t go to plan
  • The difference between productive and unproductive worries
  • How you can choose the emotions you want to feel
  • Why accepting reality and releasing expectations is such a powerful way to live a happier life
  
  

  Next time when things don’t go according to plan for you, try to remember one point or tip from this episode and give it a go for yourself.

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my FREE workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INSTANT INTERVIEW CONFIDENCE

  Podcast listeners get exclusive access to my audio course, Instant Interview Confidence. I teach the seven steps to succeeding at an interview from preparation to mindset and answering difficult questions. You’ll get seven audio recordings that you can download and keep forever.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/instant-interview-confidence

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/ 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Both work and life are unpredictable and the older I get, the more I realise they rarely go to plan. But this doesn’t need to be a source of stress.

  Our ability to accept and embrace reality as it’s happening can determine how happy and successful we are in all parts of our lives.

  In this week’s episode, I share:

  • Mindset tips for reframing and letting go when things don’t go to plan
  • The difference between productive and unproductive worries
  • How you can choose the emotions you want to feel
  • Why accepting reality and releasing expectations is such a powerful way to live a happier life
  
  

  Next time when things don’t go according to plan for you, try to remember one point or tip from this episode and give it a go for yourself.

  MAXIMISE YOUR LEADERSHIP IMPACT

  Download my FREE workbook "3 Steps To Maximise Your Leadership Impact This Week" and in just 10 minutes, learn practical ways you can make more impact and get your voice heard at work this week.

  Inside are some of my favourite coaching exercises to help you determine what type of leader you want to be, a checklist of how you could be giving your power away at work and three ways to boost your presence in meetings.

  Download it here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/maximise

  INSTANT INTERVIEW CONFIDENCE

  Podcast listeners get exclusive access to my audio course, Instant Interview Confidence. I teach the seven steps to succeeding at an interview from preparation to mindset and answering difficult questions. You’ll get seven audio recordings that you can download and keep forever.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/instant-interview-confidence

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/ 

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>ae1711db-6f9f-4127-b790-9c9963e0449aSun, 26 Sep 2021 14:00:00 +000039:55falsefull6565Ep 64 – One of my favourite coaching toolsIn this short and sweet podcast episode, I’m teaching you one of my favourite coaching tools – the Career Coaching Wheel.

  You can so this as a personal exercise and reflect on your current skills, plan your development and build your confidence.

  You can also you can use it with your team members to help them to become more self aware, to increase their confidence, help them develop in their role and perform at the highest level.

  I share:

  • What the Career Coaching Wheel is and how you can create your own.
  • How you can use it to coach or appraise a member of your team
  • Some practical examples of it in action
  
  

  Set aside time this week to complete your own Career Coaching Wheel and check in with me on social to let me know what insights you gained.

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Letting Self-Doubt Hold You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/ 

  COACH IN RESIDENCE

  If you’d like to chat about having me as your Coach in Residence in your team or organisation email hello@carlamiller.co.uk

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  ]]>In this short and sweet podcast episode, I’m teaching you one of my favourite coaching tools – the Career Coaching Wheel.

  You can so this as a personal exercise and reflect on your current skills, plan your development and build your confidence.

  You can also you can use it with your team members to help them to become more self aware, to increase their confidence, help them develop in their role and perform at the highest level.

  I share:

  • What the Career Coaching Wheel is and how you can create your own.
  • How you can use it to coach or appraise a member of your team
  • Some practical examples of it in action
  
  

  Set aside time this week to complete your own Career Coaching Wheel and check in with me on social to let me know what insights you gained.

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Letting Self-Doubt Hold You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic. 

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/ 

  COACH IN RESIDENCE

  If you’d like to chat about having me as your Coach in Residence in your team or organisation email hello@carlamiller.co.uk

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Website: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

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  ]]>17ad0c1b-8ee2-4a54-8a4d-0c4cbedef285Sun, 12 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +000027:20falsefull6464Ep 63 - Deep Work, Rest and Play with Alicia NavarroThis week, I’m joined by Alicia Navarro from FLOWN, a start-up who have created a deep work toolkit and deep work spaces that help knowledge workers get significant work done - and take joy in the journey.

  Deep work is focused, uninterrupted time where you’re working on something challenging or significant and allows opportunity for creativity, problem solving and a real sense of purpose.

  Unfortunately, it’s not the norm in most corporate workplaces and FLOWN wants to improve that. 

  Alicia and I discuss:

  • What deep work looks like and the factors needed to create it
  • How you can distraction proof your working time
  • The importance of play for creativity and problem solving
  • Nurturing feminine energy in a predominantly masculine world of work
  • How FLOWN is reimagining how we work and their free daily sessions you can join
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to review your normal working day. Is it dictated by emails, meetings and lacking creative thinking space? How can you create more deep work and play time for you and your team?

  MORE ABOUT ALICIA

  Alicia Navarro is a serial tech entrepreneur, with a passion for product, brand, design and culture.

  She is the founder and CEO of a new startup, FLOWN, creating ‘deep work’ spaces for knowledge workers. Frustrated by how hard it was to find the physical and mental spaces conducive to productive and creative thinking, Alicia began Flown to offer a curated network of deep work-enabled home and hotels accompanied by a set of online tools and resources to enable accountability, focus and creativity.

  CONNECT WITH FLOWN

  Website: https://flown.com/

  Instagram: @flownspace  - https://www.instagram.com/flownspace/

  Facebook: @flown_space - https://www.facebook.com/flownspace/

  Linkedin: @flown - https://www.linkedin.com/company/flown

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Freedom App: https://freedom.to/

  Deep Work – Cal Newport: https://www.calnewport.com/books/deep-work/

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

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  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>This week, I’m joined by Alicia Navarro from FLOWN, a start-up who have created a deep work toolkit and deep work spaces that help knowledge workers get significant work done - and take joy in the journey.

  Deep work is focused, uninterrupted time where you’re working on something challenging or significant and allows opportunity for creativity, problem solving and a real sense of purpose.

  Unfortunately, it’s not the norm in most corporate workplaces and FLOWN wants to improve that. 

  Alicia and I discuss:

  • What deep work looks like and the factors needed to create it
  • How you can distraction proof your working time
  • The importance of play for creativity and problem solving
  • Nurturing feminine energy in a predominantly masculine world of work
  • How FLOWN is reimagining how we work and their free daily sessions you can join
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to review your normal working day. Is it dictated by emails, meetings and lacking creative thinking space? How can you create more deep work and play time for you and your team?

  MORE ABOUT ALICIA

  Alicia Navarro is a serial tech entrepreneur, with a passion for product, brand, design and culture.

  She is the founder and CEO of a new startup, FLOWN, creating ‘deep work’ spaces for knowledge workers. Frustrated by how hard it was to find the physical and mental spaces conducive to productive and creative thinking, Alicia began Flown to offer a curated network of deep work-enabled home and hotels accompanied by a set of online tools and resources to enable accountability, focus and creativity.

  CONNECT WITH FLOWN

  Website: https://flown.com/

  Instagram: @flownspace  - https://www.instagram.com/flownspace/

  Facebook: @flown_space - https://www.facebook.com/flownspace/

  Linkedin: @flown - https://www.linkedin.com/company/flown

   

  HELPFUL LINKS

  Freedom App: https://freedom.to/

  Deep Work – Cal Newport: https://www.calnewport.com/books/deep-work/

   

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>952d7c8b-ddfa-4706-9d60-d2e8b845e791Sun, 05 Sep 2021 14:00:00 +000001:00:34falsefull6363Ep 62 – The Secrets to Leading Successful TeamsThere is a very distinct skill to being able to bring a team together and get them working in a cohesive way.

  As a leader approaching team building proactively and creating an environment that allows everyone to flourish is a very powerful skill to learn.

  In this episode, I share:

  • What a great team looks and acts like
  • Practical exercises you can use to create your team vision, values and culture
  • The 4 stages of team development
  • What your role is as the leader of your team
  • How to manage tensions within a team
  
  

  This episode is full of practical tips and exercises which your team can be involved in. If you feel inspired, why not book in a day with your team and create your vision, values and culture together.

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>There is a very distinct skill to being able to bring a team together and get them working in a cohesive way.

  As a leader approaching team building proactively and creating an environment that allows everyone to flourish is a very powerful skill to learn.

  In this episode, I share:

  • What a great team looks and acts like
  • Practical exercises you can use to create your team vision, values and culture
  • The 4 stages of team development
  • What your role is as the leader of your team
  • How to manage tensions within a team
  
  

  This episode is full of practical tips and exercises which your team can be involved in. If you feel inspired, why not book in a day with your team and create your vision, values and culture together.

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe/Follow

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>9c956eb2-472e-44ca-aaf1-8bccd0a9f678Sun, 29 Aug 2021 14:00:00 +000035:30falsefull6262Ep 61 - Become Great at DelegatingDelegation is an essential skill that every leader needs but are many good at it? According to research, the answer is no.

   Being great at delegation makes a huge difference to your workload and stress levels, allows you to do the higher impact tasks required in your role and is a way to develop the people in your team.

  In this episode, I share:

  • The benefits of delegating for you and your team
  • Four signs that you need to delegate
  • The seven deadly sins of delegation
  • How to change your limiting beliefs around delegation
  
  

  While listening to this episode, I encourage you to assess your own view on delegation, whether you could delegate more and what actions you could take this week to help you do that.

  LEADERSHIP SKILLS LAB

  Develop your leadership skills and confidence and become the leader you’re meant to be!

  The Leadership Skills Lab is a self-study, online programme that will help you to master the core leadership skills you need to become a visionary leader and succeed at any level.

  Develop a leadership mindset, communicate with authority and gravitas, and get the best out of your team.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/join-the-leadership-skills-lab

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Delegation is an essential skill that every leader needs but are many good at it? According to research, the answer is no.

   Being great at delegation makes a huge difference to your workload and stress levels, allows you to do the higher impact tasks required in your role and is a way to develop the people in your team.

  In this episode, I share:

  • The benefits of delegating for you and your team
  • Four signs that you need to delegate
  • The seven deadly sins of delegation
  • How to change your limiting beliefs around delegation
  
  

  While listening to this episode, I encourage you to assess your own view on delegation, whether you could delegate more and what actions you could take this week to help you do that.

  LEADERSHIP SKILLS LAB

  Develop your leadership skills and confidence and become the leader you’re meant to be!

  The Leadership Skills Lab is a self-study, online programme that will help you to master the core leadership skills you need to become a visionary leader and succeed at any level.

  Develop a leadership mindset, communicate with authority and gravitas, and get the best out of your team.

  Find out more here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/join-the-leadership-skills-lab

  INFLUENTIAL LEADER MASTERCLASS

  You're invited to my free masterclass - How To Be An Influential Leader without Self-Doubt Holding You Back!

  Learn how to avoid the 3 big influencing mistakes that keep many female leaders feeling stuck and frustrated, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader within your organisation and what you can do to turn down the volume on your inner critic.

  Join the masterclass here: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/influentialleader/

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back. 

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

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  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>8af9900e-3745-4c31-b68e-ea2cabd1273dSun, 22 Aug 2021 14:00:00 +000032:15falsefull6161Ep 60 - From Specialist to GeneralistAs you develop your career and become more senior, there’s a good chance that you’ll move from being a specialist to a generalist.

  Instead of just managing people from your specialism, you can find yourself having to lead, manage and trust people from different specialisms who know more about their areas than you do.

  This transition from successful specialist to a successful generalist can be difficult to navigate.

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • What the move from specialist to generalist can look like
  • My experience of doing this in my career
  • 4 tips on how you can be a successful generalist
  
  

  This is a short and sweet episode with lots of practical actions you can take into your role.

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  ]]>As you develop your career and become more senior, there’s a good chance that you’ll move from being a specialist to a generalist.

  Instead of just managing people from your specialism, you can find yourself having to lead, manage and trust people from different specialisms who know more about their areas than you do.

  This transition from successful specialist to a successful generalist can be difficult to navigate.

  In this week’s podcast, I share:

  • What the move from specialist to generalist can look like
  • My experience of doing this in my career
  • 4 tips on how you can be a successful generalist
  
  

  This is a short and sweet episode with lots of practical actions you can take into your role.

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  My next free taster workshop – Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt – is on Monday 13 September.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll explore those imposter feelings and self-doubt using a model from Dr Val Young, learn practical steps you can take to reduce those feelings and quieten the voice of your Inner Critic so they don’t hold you back.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  ]]>ba27e5a0-fbb9-4148-975a-abfd41f59e89Sun, 15 Aug 2021 14:00:00 +000024:37falsefull6060Ep 59 – Being Kinder to YourselfOne of the most powerful ways to live a happier life is learning how to be kinder to yourself and love yourself more.

  As women, we often struggle with accepting ourselves and being confident and secure in who we are. Being kinder to yourself not only makes your relationship with yourself a better one, it also improves how you show up as a leader.

  In this episode I discuss:

  • Why accepting and loving yourself is essential for your happiness
  • How I’ve learnt to be kinder to myself and how I practice it
  • Eight ways you can be kinder to yourself today
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I’d love for you to ask yourself this – What's one way I can love myself more today?

  Head over to my socials and share with your answer with me!

  I mentioned episode 32: Why we look to others for validation. You can listen here https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-32-why-we-look-to-others-for-validation

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  Join my free taster workshop – Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – on Monday 16 August.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll get clear on the type of leader you want to be, uncover your zone of genius and take control of how others perceive you at work.

  Expect to come away feeling energised and equipped with a technique that is going to help you in meetings, interviews and your career.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Carlamillertraining.com: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>One of the most powerful ways to live a happier life is learning how to be kinder to yourself and love yourself more.

  As women, we often struggle with accepting ourselves and being confident and secure in who we are. Being kinder to yourself not only makes your relationship with yourself a better one, it also improves how you show up as a leader.

  In this episode I discuss:

  • Why accepting and loving yourself is essential for your happiness
  • How I’ve learnt to be kinder to myself and how I practice it
  • Eight ways you can be kinder to yourself today
  
  

  After listening to this episode, I’d love for you to ask yourself this – What's one way I can love myself more today?

  Head over to my socials and share with your answer with me!

  I mentioned episode 32: Why we look to others for validation. You can listen here https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-32-why-we-look-to-others-for-validation

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  Join my free taster workshop – Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – on Monday 16 August.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll get clear on the type of leader you want to be, uncover your zone of genius and take control of how others perceive you at work.

  Expect to come away feeling energised and equipped with a technique that is going to help you in meetings, interviews and your career.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more Influence & Impact, my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work.

  Influence & Impact: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

   

  CONNECT WITH ME:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

  Carlamillertraining.com: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear your feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>07e1b0df-32b8-4fbf-93fc-5fbd1681468fSun, 08 Aug 2021 14:00:00 +000038:36falsefull5959Ep 58 - The Challenges we Face as Women in the WorkplaceAs a coach for women leaders, I focus on how as women we can take control of our careers.

  But I’ve never addressed on the podcast why we even need women’s leadership coaches and women’s leadership programmes.

  The playing field that women operate on in the workplace is shockingly unlevel. It’s time to acknowledge that and collectively take steps to change it.

  I discuss:

  • The dynamics of the current working environment and how it wasn’t designed with women in mind
  • The true extent of the disadvantages we face from pay to promotions to behaviour
  • What sponsorship is and how women can proactively support each other
  • Ways we can improve the working environment, embrace our personal strengths and step into the space we deserve
  
  

   

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Why Men Win at Work - Gill Whitty-Collins: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Why-Men-Win-at-Work/dp/1913025624

  Ep 45 - Successful Job Sharing with The Job Share Pair: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-45-successful-job-sharing-with-the-job-share-pair

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  Join my free taster workshop – Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – on Monday 16 August.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll et clear on the type of leader you want to be, uncover your zone of genius and take control of how others perceive you at work.

  Expect to come away feeling energised and equipped with a technique that is going to help you in meetings, interviews and your career.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

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  ]]>As a coach for women leaders, I focus on how as women we can take control of our careers.

  But I’ve never addressed on the podcast why we even need women’s leadership coaches and women’s leadership programmes.

  The playing field that women operate on in the workplace is shockingly unlevel. It’s time to acknowledge that and collectively take steps to change it.

  I discuss:

  • The dynamics of the current working environment and how it wasn’t designed with women in mind
  • The true extent of the disadvantages we face from pay to promotions to behaviour
  • What sponsorship is and how women can proactively support each other
  • Ways we can improve the working environment, embrace our personal strengths and step into the space we deserve
  
  

   

  HELPFUL LINKS:

  Why Men Win at Work - Gill Whitty-Collins: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Why-Men-Win-at-Work/dp/1913025624

  Ep 45 - Successful Job Sharing with The Job Share Pair: https://carla-miller.mykajabi.com/blog/ep-45-successful-job-sharing-with-the-job-share-pair

   

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOP

  Join my free taster workshop – Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – on Monday 16 August.

  In 45 minutes, you’ll et clear on the type of leader you want to be, uncover your zone of genius and take control of how others perceive you at work.

  Expect to come away feeling energised and equipped with a technique that is going to help you in meetings, interviews and your career.

  Reserve your place here: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/leadership-brand-workshop

   

  FOLLOW ME ON: 

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller// 

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST? 

  Subscribe - it's FREE

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  ]]>0e0c6091-4aa8-412b-8c95-07acff459a84Sun, 01 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +000044:11falsefull5858Ep 57 Using your voice confidently - Sharon Stacey As a leader, your voice is a powerful tool for communicating your expertise, confidence and authority. But do you know how to use your effectively?

  In this episode of the podcast, I interview Sharon Stacey, a Voice Coach and Musical Director. Sharon teaches people how to use vocal clarity, attentive tone and confidence for delivering in person and online meetings, keynote speeches and business pitches.

  We discussed:

  • How you can use your voice to have more authority and gravitas in meetings
  • Using your voice confidently in nervous, pressured or stressful situations
  • Ways you can look after your vocal health, particularly with back-to-back virtual meetings
  • Practical voice training exercises for using your voice more powerfully
  
  

   

  Sharon had me try three of the voice training exercises that you can participate in along with us.

  MORE ABOUT SHARON

  Sharon is a voice coach and musical director with a 16+ year history of delivering to high performing professionals, engaging individuals and teams across the public and private sector. She helps clients achieve vocal clarity, attentive tone and confidence through her programme Voice Coaching For Leaders.

  Sharon is also a certified Vocal Health First Aider and delivers Vocal Health Workshops for teams who need a voice care strategy to help reduce voice impairment related absences. In addition, she runs team building events including her specially created workshops Choir Collaboration and Strummin’ & Humming’ Ukulele.

  CONNECT WITH SHARON

   

  Website: https://sharonstaceymusic.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-stacey-music-672305141/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonstaceymusic/ 

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/SharonStaceyMu1

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOPS

  I run free monthly taster workshops on topics specifically helpful to female leaders. These are your chance to experience a little bit of what I call the Influence and Impact magic.

  Upcoming workshops are:

   

  • Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – Mon 16 August
  • Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt - Mon 13 September
  • Increasing Your Impact in Meetings - Mon 11 October
  
  

  To be notified of the dates and details of each new workshop, sign-up to my newsletter: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/.

  Find the form at the bottom of my website.

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/ 

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  ]]>As a leader, your voice is a powerful tool for communicating your expertise, confidence and authority. But do you know how to use your effectively?

  In this episode of the podcast, I interview Sharon Stacey, a Voice Coach and Musical Director. Sharon teaches people how to use vocal clarity, attentive tone and confidence for delivering in person and online meetings, keynote speeches and business pitches.

  We discussed:

  • How you can use your voice to have more authority and gravitas in meetings
  • Using your voice confidently in nervous, pressured or stressful situations
  • Ways you can look after your vocal health, particularly with back-to-back virtual meetings
  • Practical voice training exercises for using your voice more powerfully
  
  

   

  Sharon had me try three of the voice training exercises that you can participate in along with us.

  MORE ABOUT SHARON

  Sharon is a voice coach and musical director with a 16+ year history of delivering to high performing professionals, engaging individuals and teams across the public and private sector. She helps clients achieve vocal clarity, attentive tone and confidence through her programme Voice Coaching For Leaders.

  Sharon is also a certified Vocal Health First Aider and delivers Vocal Health Workshops for teams who need a voice care strategy to help reduce voice impairment related absences. In addition, she runs team building events including her specially created workshops Choir Collaboration and Strummin’ & Humming’ Ukulele.

  CONNECT WITH SHARON

   

  Website: https://sharonstaceymusic.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-stacey-music-672305141/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonstaceymusic/ 

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/SharonStaceyMu1

  FREE TASTER WORKSHOPS

  I run free monthly taster workshops on topics specifically helpful to female leaders. These are your chance to experience a little bit of what I call the Influence and Impact magic.

  Upcoming workshops are:

   

  • Develop Your Personal Leadership Brand – Mon 16 August
  • Tackling Imposter Feelings & Self-Doubt - Mon 13 September
  • Increasing Your Impact in Meetings - Mon 11 October
  
  

  To be notified of the dates and details of each new workshop, sign-up to my newsletter: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/.

  Find the form at the bottom of my website.

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/ 

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>53936cf4-1bc7-4b7a-a5ff-8ab90256e767Sun, 25 Jul 2021 14:00:00 +000052:24falsefull5757Ep 56 - How to Stop OverthinkingAre you an overthinker? Perhaps you ruminate on past situations, worry about future events or are fearful of the judgement of others?

  Overthinking can affect both our work and personal lives as well as how we show up with confidence as a leader. Our thoughts also directly impact the levels of daily stress we experience and how quickly we can recover from it.

  In reality, our minds are natural overthinkers if we let them be. Tahirih McLaren-Brown is helping people to take control and be the boss of their brain through mindfulness and meditation.

  We discussed:

  • What mindfulness is and how it can benefit you
  • How you can have more awareness and control of your thoughts and emotions
  • What you can do if you’re feeling worried or anxious about returning to the office
  • Ways you can handle uncertainty and even embrace it
  • A quick mindfulness exercise you can do anywhere to instantly ease your stress
  
  

   

  If you’d like to learn the Four Step Pause that Tahirih shared and get access to seven days of guided meditations for overthinkers, you can find those at her website: https://www.tahirih.co/f/mindfulness-kit

   

  HOW TO WORRY LESS ABOUT WORK

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

  Link: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

  MORE ABOUT TAHIRIH

  Tahirih McLaren-Brown is a mindfulness coach who helps to free people from overthinking, anxiety, worry and fear. She shows them to build a calm, happy and confident mind that they love using a mix of mindfulness, meditation positive psychology and neuroscience.

   

  CONNECT WITH TAHIRIH

  Instagram: @mindful_tee https://www.instagram.com/mindful_tee/

  Facebook: The Overthinkers Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/theoverthinkersclub

  Website: https://www.tahirih.co/

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are you an overthinker? Perhaps you ruminate on past situations, worry about future events or are fearful of the judgement of others?

  Overthinking can affect both our work and personal lives as well as how we show up with confidence as a leader. Our thoughts also directly impact the levels of daily stress we experience and how quickly we can recover from it.

  In reality, our minds are natural overthinkers if we let them be. Tahirih McLaren-Brown is helping people to take control and be the boss of their brain through mindfulness and meditation.

  We discussed:

  • What mindfulness is and how it can benefit you
  • How you can have more awareness and control of your thoughts and emotions
  • What you can do if you’re feeling worried or anxious about returning to the office
  • Ways you can handle uncertainty and even embrace it
  • A quick mindfulness exercise you can do anywhere to instantly ease your stress
  
  

   

  If you’d like to learn the Four Step Pause that Tahirih shared and get access to seven days of guided meditations for overthinkers, you can find those at her website: https://www.tahirih.co/f/mindfulness-kit

   

  HOW TO WORRY LESS ABOUT WORK

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

  Link: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

  MORE ABOUT TAHIRIH

  Tahirih McLaren-Brown is a mindfulness coach who helps to free people from overthinking, anxiety, worry and fear. She shows them to build a calm, happy and confident mind that they love using a mix of mindfulness, meditation positive psychology and neuroscience.

   

  CONNECT WITH TAHIRIH

  Instagram: @mindful_tee https://www.instagram.com/mindful_tee/

  Facebook: The Overthinkers Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/theoverthinkersclub

  Website: https://www.tahirih.co/

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>3ee3c0e2-9faf-4097-8f7e-612466c13391Sun, 11 Jul 2021 14:00:00 +000056:59falsefull5656Ep 55 – Menopause in the WorkplaceMenopause is something that all women will experience in their life however it’s not something that’s well understood or openly spoken about. The symptoms of menopause will almost certainly affect how you work but it’s often seen to be a taboo subject which leaves women struggling in silence.

  In this week’s episode I interview Deborah Garlick from Henpicked Menopause who’s on a mission to ensure women are supported throughout menopause through awareness, education and workplace training.

  We discuss:

  • What menopause is, how it can affect you and our personal experiences
  • Deborah’s advice for getting the help you need from your GP
  • How you can talk about menopause at work and how it’s impacting you
  • Ways that leaders can support colleagues that are going through menopause
  • What organisations can do to be more aware, supportive and menopause friendly
  
  

  Throughout the interview, Deborah provided fantastic, practical tips for both individuals, leaders and organisations that will help to make a real difference for perimenopausal and menopausal women at work.

  Many of the questions on this podcast were inspired by discussions with my LinkedIn connections. I’ll be continuing the conversation on my LinkedIn profile and invite you to connect with me there: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  CONNECT WITH DEBORAH

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-garlick-menopause-in-the-workplace-9156ba15/?originalSubdomain=uk

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/henpickednet/

  Email: menopause@henpicked.net

  HELPFUL RESOURCES

  Henpicked Menopause: https://menopauseintheworkplace.co.uk/

  Deborah’s book - Menopause: The Change for Better: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Menopause-Change-Better-Deborah-Garlick/dp/1472948734

  Davina McCall: Sex, Myths and the Menopause: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/davina-mccall-sex-myths-and-the-menopause/on-demand/71025-001

  Women’s Health Concern: https://www.womens-health-concern.org/ 

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

   

  Link: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Menopause is something that all women will experience in their life however it’s not something that’s well understood or openly spoken about. The symptoms of menopause will almost certainly affect how you work but it’s often seen to be a taboo subject which leaves women struggling in silence.

  In this week’s episode I interview Deborah Garlick from Henpicked Menopause who’s on a mission to ensure women are supported throughout menopause through awareness, education and workplace training.

  We discuss:

  • What menopause is, how it can affect you and our personal experiences
  • Deborah’s advice for getting the help you need from your GP
  • How you can talk about menopause at work and how it’s impacting you
  • Ways that leaders can support colleagues that are going through menopause
  • What organisations can do to be more aware, supportive and menopause friendly
  
  

  Throughout the interview, Deborah provided fantastic, practical tips for both individuals, leaders and organisations that will help to make a real difference for perimenopausal and menopausal women at work.

  Many of the questions on this podcast were inspired by discussions with my LinkedIn connections. I’ll be continuing the conversation on my LinkedIn profile and invite you to connect with me there: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  CONNECT WITH DEBORAH

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-garlick-menopause-in-the-workplace-9156ba15/?originalSubdomain=uk

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/henpickednet/

  Email: menopause@henpicked.net

  HELPFUL RESOURCES

  Henpicked Menopause: https://menopauseintheworkplace.co.uk/

  Deborah’s book - Menopause: The Change for Better: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Menopause-Change-Better-Deborah-Garlick/dp/1472948734

  Davina McCall: Sex, Myths and the Menopause: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/davina-mccall-sex-myths-and-the-menopause/on-demand/71025-001

  Women’s Health Concern: https://www.womens-health-concern.org/ 

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

   

  Link: https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>e2cbfd89-ed53-4cc9-b194-5c5984f79ff4Sun, 04 Jul 2021 14:00:00 +000001:04:28falsefull5555Ep 54 - How to worry less about workMany managers and leaders that I work with mention anxiety as one of the things they struggle with, both personally and in the workplace.

  This week, I’m bringing back one of my most popular podcast episodes about how we can tackle these feelings of anxiety and be calmer and more confident at work.

   In this episode I share:

  • My experience with anxiety throughout my life
  • My thoughts on where it comes from and what we can do about it
  • A powerful approach that I’ve used to end my anxiety for good
  • A guided meditation that you can use whenever you feel anxious
  
  

  Although many of us experience anxiety, it’s not something that needs to rule your daily life or affect your leadership in the workplace.

  I hope you enjoy the meditation and please come back to it as a tool when you need it.

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Many managers and leaders that I work with mention anxiety as one of the things they struggle with, both personally and in the workplace.

  This week, I’m bringing back one of my most popular podcast episodes about how we can tackle these feelings of anxiety and be calmer and more confident at work.

   In this episode I share:

  • My experience with anxiety throughout my life
  • My thoughts on where it comes from and what we can do about it
  • A powerful approach that I’ve used to end my anxiety for good
  • A guided meditation that you can use whenever you feel anxious
  
  

  Although many of us experience anxiety, it’s not something that needs to rule your daily life or affect your leadership in the workplace.

  I hope you enjoy the meditation and please come back to it as a tool when you need it.

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  Join my free masterclass – How To Worry Less About Work – where I share 5 practical strategies that you can use to worry less and reclaim your mental space. You’ll also learn what successful leaders do focus their time and attention on, and my framework for having more influence and impact as a woman in a leadership role.

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/worry-masterclass/

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>546e4ee9-16ad-422a-9836-0936ab4f45f4Sun, 27 Jun 2021 14:00:00 +000025:29falsefull5454Ep 53 - Books that have changed the way I look at lifeI get a huge amount of inspiration, insight and wisdom from books. There are books that I’ve read that have changed my life, made me see the world differently and inspired me into action.

  Other books have helped me know myself better, release the fear and self-doubt that’s held me back and show up more as my authentic self.

  In this week’s podcast episode, I’m sharing some of these books with you.

  Listen for:

  The 10 non-fiction books that have made a big impact on my life

  Valuable ideas and lessons from these books

  How they’ve shaped my personal experiences, confidence and mindset

  You can find the full list of books on my blog:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/10-books

  Now it’s your turn.  Choose one from my list that spoke to you or buy that book that’s been on your “to read” list for a while. When you’re finished, tell me your thoughts and what your biggest takeaway was.

  If you’ve read any incredible personal development books recently, I’d love to hear about them! Connect me on social to share your recommendations.

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  WORKSHOP: TACKLING IMPOSTER FEELINGS AND SELF-DOUBT

  I’m running a bite-sized online workshop for women on Tuesday 29 June, helping you to overcome your imposter feelings and banish your self-doubt.

  In this 90-minute interactive workshop I’ll be sharing what those imposter feelings and self-doubt really are, practical steps you can take to reduce them and teaching you how to quieten the voice of your inner critic.

   Find out more and book your place: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

   

  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

   

  Thank you for listening, happy reading!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>I get a huge amount of inspiration, insight and wisdom from books. There are books that I’ve read that have changed my life, made me see the world differently and inspired me into action.

  Other books have helped me know myself better, release the fear and self-doubt that’s held me back and show up more as my authentic self.

  In this week’s podcast episode, I’m sharing some of these books with you.

  Listen for:

  The 10 non-fiction books that have made a big impact on my life

  Valuable ideas and lessons from these books

  How they’ve shaped my personal experiences, confidence and mindset

  You can find the full list of books on my blog:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/blog/10-books

  Now it’s your turn.  Choose one from my list that spoke to you or buy that book that’s been on your “to read” list for a while. When you’re finished, tell me your thoughts and what your biggest takeaway was.

  If you’ve read any incredible personal development books recently, I’d love to hear about them! Connect me on social to share your recommendations.

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

  WORKSHOP: TACKLING IMPOSTER FEELINGS AND SELF-DOUBT

  I’m running a bite-sized online workshop for women on Tuesday 29 June, helping you to overcome your imposter feelings and banish your self-doubt.

  In this 90-minute interactive workshop I’ll be sharing what those imposter feelings and self-doubt really are, practical steps you can take to reduce them and teaching you how to quieten the voice of your inner critic.

   Find out more and book your place: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/tackling-imposter-feelings-self-doubt

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?

   

  Subscribe

  Share this episode with a friend

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

   

  Thank you for listening, happy reading!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>f66d4c23-3fbf-43f3-8a65-44351a95f6abSun, 20 Jun 2021 14:00:00 +000035:03truefull5353Ep 52 Are you on the brink of burnout? “There are two types of people. Those who are burnt out, and those who are in denial about being burnt out” - Greg McKeown

  Burnout is on the rise and I’ve noticed, particularly since the pandemic began, that more and more people are on the path to burnout. With increased responsibilities and stress coupled with often unrealistic expectations, and the boundaries between work and life having completely disappeared, it’s easy to see why.

  In this week's episode, I’m helping you to recognise your own signs of burnout and what you can do about it.

  I share:

  Where burnout comes from and what causes it

  What the different stages of burnout are

  The types of behaviour that lead to burnout and how you can recognise your warning signs

  My personal story of burnout and how I now prioritise my wellbeing

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to pause for five minutes and assess how you’re feeling right now and whether you’re on the path to burnout.

  If you recognise the warning signs and you’re ready to stop feeling mentally, physically or emotionally exhausted, then Rebalance might be the perfect next step for you.

  REBALANCE

  Rebalance is a 30 day, self-guided audio programme to bring you back from the brink of burnout.

  Designed to be listened to on a short walk each day, helping you to create space in your day for you.

  Each day, I share one idea, concept or tool that you can use. By the end of the 30 days, you’ll have come back from burnout, feel calm, energetic and rested, and have created a working life you love that fits into the life you desire.

  Sign-up to the waitlist for more details and to get access as soon as it begins: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/burnout

   

  ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

   

  Feel Better Live More featuring Greg McKeown:  https://drchatterjee.com/how-to-achieve-your-goals-effortlessly-with-greg-mckeown/

   

  The Six Stages of Burnout – Katie Maybach:  https://thriveglobal.com/stories/the-six-stages-of-burnout/

  Burnt Out by Selena Barker: https://www.selinabarker.com/burnt-out

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

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  ]]>“There are two types of people. Those who are burnt out, and those who are in denial about being burnt out” - Greg McKeown

  Burnout is on the rise and I’ve noticed, particularly since the pandemic began, that more and more people are on the path to burnout. With increased responsibilities and stress coupled with often unrealistic expectations, and the boundaries between work and life having completely disappeared, it’s easy to see why.

  In this week's episode, I’m helping you to recognise your own signs of burnout and what you can do about it.

  I share:

  Where burnout comes from and what causes it

  What the different stages of burnout are

  The types of behaviour that lead to burnout and how you can recognise your warning signs

  My personal story of burnout and how I now prioritise my wellbeing

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to pause for five minutes and assess how you’re feeling right now and whether you’re on the path to burnout.

  If you recognise the warning signs and you’re ready to stop feeling mentally, physically or emotionally exhausted, then Rebalance might be the perfect next step for you.

  REBALANCE

  Rebalance is a 30 day, self-guided audio programme to bring you back from the brink of burnout.

  Designed to be listened to on a short walk each day, helping you to create space in your day for you.

  Each day, I share one idea, concept or tool that you can use. By the end of the 30 days, you’ll have come back from burnout, feel calm, energetic and rested, and have created a working life you love that fits into the life you desire.

  Sign-up to the waitlist for more details and to get access as soon as it begins: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/burnout

   

  ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

   

  Feel Better Live More featuring Greg McKeown:  https://drchatterjee.com/how-to-achieve-your-goals-effortlessly-with-greg-mckeown/

   

  The Six Stages of Burnout – Katie Maybach:  https://thriveglobal.com/stories/the-six-stages-of-burnout/

  Burnt Out by Selena Barker: https://www.selinabarker.com/burnt-out

  FOLLOW ME ON:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//

   

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  Subscribe

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!

   

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>92d51b83-35c9-4d8e-bf8d-380b08835bb4Sun, 13 Jun 2021 14:00:00 +000036:30falsefullEp 51 – Are we addicted to productivity?The way work is designed doesn’t work for so many of us for so many reasons. I believe that the value we place on productivity and ticking off the to do list is resulting in overwork, burnout and ineffective leaders.

  In this week’s episode, I’m sharing why I think it’s time that leaders take a step back, question the structure of their work and focus on what really makes an impact in their role.

  I’ve combined this one of my podcast episodes from 2019 – Hard work is not the answer.

  I speak about:

  The culture of productivity and why we should reimagine the way we work

  How you can challenge a common leadership belief held by many

  Why thinking, feeling and acting like a leader is more important than your to do list

  Practical steps for prioritising your own development as a leader

  Over investing in your role, working overtime and pushing yourself towards burnout isn’t healthy for you or your team.

  If you're working really hard and still not getting the results that you want then this episode is your encouragement to pause, rethink and make changes.

  In next week’s episode I’ll be extending on this theme and speaking about leadership burnout, what the signs are and how to prevent it. Look out for that on Monday 14 June.

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>The way work is designed doesn’t work for so many of us for so many reasons. I believe that the value we place on productivity and ticking off the to do list is resulting in overwork, burnout and ineffective leaders.

  In this week’s episode, I’m sharing why I think it’s time that leaders take a step back, question the structure of their work and focus on what really makes an impact in their role.

  I’ve combined this one of my podcast episodes from 2019 – Hard work is not the answer.

  I speak about:

  The culture of productivity and why we should reimagine the way we work

  How you can challenge a common leadership belief held by many

  Why thinking, feeling and acting like a leader is more important than your to do list

  Practical steps for prioritising your own development as a leader

  Over investing in your role, working overtime and pushing yourself towards burnout isn’t healthy for you or your team.

  If you're working really hard and still not getting the results that you want then this episode is your encouragement to pause, rethink and make changes.

  In next week’s episode I’ll be extending on this theme and speaking about leadership burnout, what the signs are and how to prevent it. Look out for that on Monday 14 June.

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>6957772c-cb7c-479d-93b8-3a7a70c1efd7Sun, 06 Jun 2021 00:00:00 +000022:44falsefull5151Ep 50 – Neurodiversity at Work with Professor Amanda KirbyIn this week’s episode, I interview Professor Amanda Kirby about a fascinating topic – neurodiversity – and how we can create inclusive workplaces for everyone.

  Neurodiversity is an emerging subject especially in relation to adults and the workplace. Put simply, it defines the different ways we think, act and communicate.

  Some of us are neurodivergent which means the way we do these things is different from the “average” or “norm”. This influences our individual strengths and challenges.

  In the episode we discussed:

  • What neurodiversity is and understanding what it means for individuals at work
  • The positive benefits of having a neurodiverse workplace
  • How leaders and work spaces can support neurodivergent colleagues
  • Practical ways you can create an inclusive recruitment and onboarding process
  • Amanda’s tool for profiling your own neurodiverse strengths and challenges
  
  

   

  I hope this podcast helps you to understand neurodiversity better, consider how you can create an open and supportive environment for neurodivergent team members and embrace the strengths they bring to their work.

  If you’d like to assess your own neurodiversity, you can do it for free on the Neurodiversity App.

  Download it here: https://profiler.app/nd-app/

  You can pre order Amanda’s book co-authored with Theo Smith.

  Neurodiversity at Work: Drive Innovation, Performance and Productivity with a Neurodiverse Workforce

  https://www.koganpage.com/product/neurodiversity-at-work-9781398600249

   

  MORE ABOUT AMANDA

   

  Professor Amanda Kirby has an international reputation in the field of Neurodiversity. She is a trustee of the ADHD Foundation, works closely with the BDA, Dyspraxia Foundation and several Autism charities. She has written 8 books and more than 100 research papers in the field.

  Amanda delivers the first UK accredited course on Neurodiversity in the Workplace and has developed the Neurodiversity Aware Standard with the ADHD Foundation.

  She is the CEO of Do-IT Solutions, who are Disability Confident Leaders. Do-IT is an innovative tech for good company providing web-based screening and assessment tools relating to neurodiversity for all ages.

  CONNECT WITH AMANDA

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/profamandakirby/

  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/profamandakirby/ @profamandakirby

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/profamandakirby

  Do-It Solutions: https://www.doitprofiler.com/

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

  Share this episode with a friend  

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>In this week’s episode, I interview Professor Amanda Kirby about a fascinating topic – neurodiversity – and how we can create inclusive workplaces for everyone.

  Neurodiversity is an emerging subject especially in relation to adults and the workplace. Put simply, it defines the different ways we think, act and communicate.

  Some of us are neurodivergent which means the way we do these things is different from the “average” or “norm”. This influences our individual strengths and challenges.

  In the episode we discussed:

  • What neurodiversity is and understanding what it means for individuals at work
  • The positive benefits of having a neurodiverse workplace
  • How leaders and work spaces can support neurodivergent colleagues
  • Practical ways you can create an inclusive recruitment and onboarding process
  • Amanda’s tool for profiling your own neurodiverse strengths and challenges
  
  

   

  I hope this podcast helps you to understand neurodiversity better, consider how you can create an open and supportive environment for neurodivergent team members and embrace the strengths they bring to their work.

  If you’d like to assess your own neurodiversity, you can do it for free on the Neurodiversity App.

  Download it here: https://profiler.app/nd-app/

  You can pre order Amanda’s book co-authored with Theo Smith.

  Neurodiversity at Work: Drive Innovation, Performance and Productivity with a Neurodiverse Workforce

  https://www.koganpage.com/product/neurodiversity-at-work-9781398600249

   

  MORE ABOUT AMANDA

   

  Professor Amanda Kirby has an international reputation in the field of Neurodiversity. She is a trustee of the ADHD Foundation, works closely with the BDA, Dyspraxia Foundation and several Autism charities. She has written 8 books and more than 100 research papers in the field.

  Amanda delivers the first UK accredited course on Neurodiversity in the Workplace and has developed the Neurodiversity Aware Standard with the ADHD Foundation.

  She is the CEO of Do-IT Solutions, who are Disability Confident Leaders. Do-IT is an innovative tech for good company providing web-based screening and assessment tools relating to neurodiversity for all ages.

  CONNECT WITH AMANDA

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/profamandakirby/

  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/profamandakirby/ @profamandakirby

  Twitter: https://twitter.com/profamandakirby

  Do-It Solutions: https://www.doitprofiler.com/

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

  Share this episode with a friend  

  Leave a review   

   

  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>e1299731-e267-4439-aca3-4fd5003b2f8eSun, 30 May 2021 14:00:00 +000001:04:30falsefull5050Ep 49 – Struggle and Leadership with Grace MarshallAs a leader do you feel comfortable sharing when you’re struggling? In general, we don’t talk about struggle a lot but Grace Marshall wants to open up the conversation.

  This week on the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast, I interviewed Grace about struggle, leadership and her new book Struggle: the surprising truth, beauty and opportunity hidden in life’s sh*ttier moments.

  We discussed:

  • Why we all have struggle and why we should remove the self-judgement around it
  • What you can do if you’re struggling as a leader
  • The power of your emotions and how you can acknowledge and express them in a work environment
  • Grace’s unique three step process for handling struggle as it happens
  
  

  As a leader, sometimes we put ourselves on a pedestal and hold high expectations of how we should handle difficult or uncertain situations.

  I hope this episode helps you to see struggle from a different perspective, understand that you don’t always need to show up perfectly or have everything figured out and that it’s ok to ask for support.

  As Grace says, what if struggle is precisely where the magic happens? Shouldn’t we embrace it if it’s where we can do our best, most important work?

   

  MORE ABOUT GRACE

  Author of the award-winning How to be Really Productive, Grace Marshall is known for her ‘refreshingly human’ approach to productivity. Featured in The Guardian, Forbes and Huffpost, her work as a Productivity Ninja with global productivity training company Think Productive has helped thousands of people to replace stress, overwhelm and frustration with success, sanity and satisfaction. Her new book Struggle: the surprising truth, beauty and opportunity hidden in life’s sh*ttier moments is out now.

  Buy Grace’s book Struggle: https://gracemarshall.com/struggle/

  CONNECT WITH GRACE

  Instagram: @gracemarshallninja https://www.instagram.com/gracemarshallninja/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gracemarshallcoaching

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gracemarshall/

  Website: https://gracemarshall.com/

  Twitter:@GraceMarshall https://twitter.com/gracemarshall

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe (It's FREE)  

  Share this episode with a friend  

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>As a leader do you feel comfortable sharing when you’re struggling? In general, we don’t talk about struggle a lot but Grace Marshall wants to open up the conversation.

  This week on the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast, I interviewed Grace about struggle, leadership and her new book Struggle: the surprising truth, beauty and opportunity hidden in life’s sh*ttier moments.

  We discussed:

  • Why we all have struggle and why we should remove the self-judgement around it
  • What you can do if you’re struggling as a leader
  • The power of your emotions and how you can acknowledge and express them in a work environment
  • Grace’s unique three step process for handling struggle as it happens
  
  

  As a leader, sometimes we put ourselves on a pedestal and hold high expectations of how we should handle difficult or uncertain situations.

  I hope this episode helps you to see struggle from a different perspective, understand that you don’t always need to show up perfectly or have everything figured out and that it’s ok to ask for support.

  As Grace says, what if struggle is precisely where the magic happens? Shouldn’t we embrace it if it’s where we can do our best, most important work?

   

  MORE ABOUT GRACE

  Author of the award-winning How to be Really Productive, Grace Marshall is known for her ‘refreshingly human’ approach to productivity. Featured in The Guardian, Forbes and Huffpost, her work as a Productivity Ninja with global productivity training company Think Productive has helped thousands of people to replace stress, overwhelm and frustration with success, sanity and satisfaction. Her new book Struggle: the surprising truth, beauty and opportunity hidden in life’s sh*ttier moments is out now.

  Buy Grace’s book Struggle: https://gracemarshall.com/struggle/

  CONNECT WITH GRACE

  Instagram: @gracemarshallninja https://www.instagram.com/gracemarshallninja/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gracemarshallcoaching

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gracemarshall/

  Website: https://gracemarshall.com/

  Twitter:@GraceMarshall https://twitter.com/gracemarshall

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe (It's FREE)  

  Share this episode with a friend  

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>b7c4ef68-1b15-4c0a-8716-15bcf7cc85dbSun, 23 May 2021 14:00:00 +000053:25truefull4949Ep 48 - Mental Health First AidEveryone has mental health but not everyone feels comfortable talking about it, especially in the workplace. Danielle Bridge, founder and CEO of ABC Life Support CIC, is opening up the conversation on this week’s podcast.

  We discussed:

  What mental health first aid is and why it’s important

  Practical ways leaders can recognise and support mental health in the workplace

  How leaders can set boundaries when supporting their teams

  The rise of burnout and its impact on mental health

  How you can get help if you’re struggling mentally and emotionally

  Although many workplaces have programmes in place to support the health of their employees, they aren’t being used by many and there’s still a stigma attached to mental health issues. In fact, 90% of people who are off of work for mental health challenges cite a different reason.

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to look at what support is available in your organisation and open up the conversation with your team.

  Take a few of Danielle’s ideas for supporting others and creating a safe space for mental health in your workplace. 

  If you’re struggling with your mental health right now, please know that there’s help available.

  You can visit the Mind website for information, advice and access to support.

  https://www.mind.org.uk/

  If you’re interested in taking Mental Health First Aid training or arranging it for your organisation, please visit:

  ABC Life Support CIC: https://www.abclifesupport.co.uk/

  MHFA England: https://mhfaengland.org/

   

  MORE ABOUT DANIELLE

  Danielle is the founder and CEO of ABC Life Support CIC, a First Aid Training organisation delivering physical and mental health first aid training to organisations and individuals across the UK.

  Her vision is to make first aid training, both physical and mental health, a basic human right for everybody.

  She has been running the company for over 10 years and in that time has helped organisations understand their mandatory requirements, empowered them to start conversations and helped them implement systems that support people in the workplace.

  Danielle is an Associate Mental Health First Aid England instructor, Wellbeing and Mental Health instructor for British Safety Council and chairs the Cambridge Mental Health Network.

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellebridge/

  Website: https://www.daniellebridge.co.uk/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT  

  Find out more about my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.   

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21   

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

  Share this episode with a friend  

  Leave a review   

   

  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

   

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Everyone has mental health but not everyone feels comfortable talking about it, especially in the workplace. Danielle Bridge, founder and CEO of ABC Life Support CIC, is opening up the conversation on this week’s podcast.

  We discussed:

  What mental health first aid is and why it’s important

  Practical ways leaders can recognise and support mental health in the workplace

  How leaders can set boundaries when supporting their teams

  The rise of burnout and its impact on mental health

  How you can get help if you’re struggling mentally and emotionally

  Although many workplaces have programmes in place to support the health of their employees, they aren’t being used by many and there’s still a stigma attached to mental health issues. In fact, 90% of people who are off of work for mental health challenges cite a different reason.

  After listening to this episode, I encourage you to look at what support is available in your organisation and open up the conversation with your team.

  Take a few of Danielle’s ideas for supporting others and creating a safe space for mental health in your workplace. 

  If you’re struggling with your mental health right now, please know that there’s help available.

  You can visit the Mind website for information, advice and access to support.

  https://www.mind.org.uk/

  If you’re interested in taking Mental Health First Aid training or arranging it for your organisation, please visit:

  ABC Life Support CIC: https://www.abclifesupport.co.uk/

  MHFA England: https://mhfaengland.org/

   

  MORE ABOUT DANIELLE

  Danielle is the founder and CEO of ABC Life Support CIC, a First Aid Training organisation delivering physical and mental health first aid training to organisations and individuals across the UK.

  Her vision is to make first aid training, both physical and mental health, a basic human right for everybody.

  She has been running the company for over 10 years and in that time has helped organisations understand their mandatory requirements, empowered them to start conversations and helped them implement systems that support people in the workplace.

  Danielle is an Associate Mental Health First Aid England instructor, Wellbeing and Mental Health instructor for British Safety Council and chairs the Cambridge Mental Health Network.

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellebridge/

  Website: https://www.daniellebridge.co.uk/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT  

  Find out more about my 12 month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.   

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21   

   

  FOLLOW ME ON:    

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/  

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//   

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?   

  Subscribe  

  Share this episode with a friend  

  Leave a review   

   

  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social!  

   

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>226c618d-ba28-4265-afa8-c794502512cdSun, 16 May 2021 14:00:00 +000055:03falsefull4848Ep 47 – Fertility and the WorkplaceThis week on the podcast I interview Cat Strawbridge, a fertility advocate and host of the Finally Pregnant Podcast, and Frankie Hockham, Fertility Network UK volunteer on infertility, pregnancy loss and childlessness.

  Infertility is a disease that affects 1 in 6 couples, the majority of whom are in the workforce, however it is not an issue that is talked about or well supported in organisations in the UK.

  We discussed:

  Our personal experiences with fertility treatments, loss and pregnancy while working

  How you can communicate your fertility situation to your manager or employer

  What you can do to get the support you need from your organisation

  Practical ways leaders can proactively support team members or colleagues having fertility treatments or dealing with infertility

  I hope this episode shines a light on the effect infertility and fertility treatments has on individuals in the workplace, gives both those affected and those supporting helpful tips and encourages you to take action to improve fertility policies in your organisation. 

  If you would like support with infertility, fertility treatments, loss or childlessness, please reach out to The Fertility Network UK and use the resources they provide on their website: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/

  If you’d like to know more about fertility in the workplace, visit: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/trying-to-conceive/fertility-at-work/

  MORE ABOUT CAT

  Finally Pregnant Podcast host, community leader and fertility advocate Cat Strawbridge is a fertility patient who has experienced multiple rounds of fertility treatment and sadly pregnancy loss. Cat now supports the trying to conceive (TTC) community and those who are finally pregnant and parenting after infertility and loss. Cat has worked with corporates to embed fertility policies, education and training to staff and managers and supports to all those affected by infertility and loss.

  Finally Pregnant Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/finally-pregnant/id1463544731

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tryingyears/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catstrawbridge/

  MORE ABOUT FRANKIE

  Like so many, Frankie has been affected and impacted by infertility and pregnancy loss. Throughout her fertility journey, she was struck by how isolating the experience can be and how unprepared they were for what was to come due to lack of support and information. On sharing her story, several our friends, colleagues and even family came forward to talk about their secret struggles with fertility.

  Because of this, Frankie became a volunteer for the Fertility Network UK and now speaks publicly to raise awareness of infertility, pregnancy loss and childlessness. Frankie wants to help ensure others realise that they’re not alone.

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cheska1981/

  LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/francescahockham

   

  Carla forgot to mention that she wrote a book on what she learnt from her fertility treatment called Whilst I was Waiting.  You can buy that on Amazon kindle at https://rb.gy/fzspbe

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT 

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.  

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21  

  Follow me on:  

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/ 

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller//  

   

  HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE PODCAST?  

  Subscribe 

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  I would love to hear you feedback on this week’s podcast. Please leave a review or come say hello on social! 

  Thank you for listening, see you next week!

   

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  ]]>This week on the podcast I interview Cat Strawbridge, a fertility advocate and host of the Finally Pregnant Podcast, and Frankie Hockham, Fertility Network UK volunteer on infertility, pregnancy loss and childlessness.

  Infertility is a disease that affects 1 in 6 couples, the majority of whom are in the workforce, however it is not an issue that is talked about or well supported in organisations in the UK.

  We discussed:

  Our personal experiences with fertility treatments, loss and pregnancy while working

  How you can communicate your fertility situation to your manager or employer

  What you can do to get the support you need from your organisation

  Practical ways leaders can proactively support team members or colleagues having fertility treatments or dealing with infertility

  I hope this episode shines a light on the effect infertility and fertility treatments has on individuals in the workplace, gives both those affected and those supporting helpful tips and encourages you to take action to improve fertility policies in your organisation. 

  If you would like support with infertility, fertility treatments, loss or childlessness, please reach out to The Fertility Network UK and use the resources they provide on their website: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/

  If you’d like to know more about fertility in the workplace, visit: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/trying-to-conceive/fertility-at-work/

  MORE ABOUT CAT

  Finally Pregnant Podcast host, community leader and fertility advocate Cat Strawbridge is a fertility patient who has experienced multiple rounds of fertility treatment and sadly pregnancy loss. Cat now supports the trying to conceive (TTC) community and those who are finally pregnant and parenting after infertility and loss. Cat has worked with corporates to embed fertility policies, education and training to staff and managers and supports to all those affected by infertility and loss.

  Finally Pregnant Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/finally-pregnant/id1463544731

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tryingyears/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catstrawbridge/

  MORE ABOUT FRANKIE

  Like so many, Frankie has been affected and impacted by infertility and pregnancy loss. Throughout her fertility journey, she was struck by how isolating the experience can be and how unprepared they were for what was to come due to lack of support and information. On sharing her story, several our friends, colleagues and even family came forward to talk about their secret struggles with fertility.

  Because of this, Frankie became a volunteer for the Fertility Network UK and now speaks publicly to raise awareness of infertility, pregnancy loss and childlessness. Frankie wants to help ensure others realise that they’re not alone.

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cheska1981/

  LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/francescahockham

   

  Carla forgot to mention that she wrote a book on what she learnt from her fertility treatment called Whilst I was Waiting.  You can buy that on Amazon kindle at https://rb.gy/fzspbe

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT 

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.  

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21  

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  ]]>3e904967-5f53-4581-a595-d8ff9d628f61Sun, 09 May 2021 11:00:00 +000001:12:58falsefull4747Ep 46 - Being an Inclusive Leader with Haseena FaridIn this episode of the Influence and Impact for Female Leaders podcast, I speak to Haseena Farid, co-founder of The Women of Colour Global Network - a membership network connecting professional women of colour, supporting them with career progression and advancement.

  We discuss:

  • How The Women of Colour Global Network was started, what they do and how you can be part of it.
  • The double disadvantage for women of colour and the impact of that
  • How leaders can create a safe space and open dialogue around diversity and inclusion
  • Ways we can educate ourselves on inclusion and become change-makers in our organisations.
  
  

  I hope this week’s podcast provides you some more insight on inclusion in the workplace and practical ways you can be a more inclusive leader.

  I’m grateful to Haseena for being so open with her experiences and advice.  The Network is a supportive and inclusive space for all women and their future vision is to provide mentoring, run events, and work with organisations to improve their culture, policies and practices.

  THE WOMEN OF COLOUR GLOBAL NETWORK

  Join the network: https://www.wocgn.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/women-of-colour-global-network-ltd/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wocgn/?hl=en

  MORE ABOUT HASEENA

  As well as co-founding The Women of Colour Global Network, Haseena is an executive coach and the founder of Meshwork - a consultancy providing organisational development, training, facilitation, fundraising, coaching and management expertise for charities, nonprofits and creative sectors.

  She is a second generation British-Bangladeshi woman of colour and is passionate about inclusive leadership, building purposeful and impact-driven organisations and the promotion of equality and equity of women of colour in the workplace and in wider society.

  Connect with Haseena: https://www.linkedin.com/in/haseenafarid/

  Meshwork: https://www.meshwork.uk/

   

  HASEENA’S BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS

  Brit (ish): On Race, Identity and Belonging – Afua Hirsch

  https://www.afuahirsch.com/product/british-on-race-identity-and-belonging/

  Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race – Reni Eddo-Lodge

  https://renieddolodge.co.uk/books/

  Queenie - Candice Carty-Williams

  http://www.candicecartywilliams.com/

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  How to be an influential leader without self-doubt holding you back

  Sign-up to my free masterclass and learn the three big influencing mistakes that are holding you back, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader and how you can turn down the volume on your inner critic. Available only until 9 May

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/beaninfluentialleader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May. 

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21

   

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  ]]>In this episode of the Influence and Impact for Female Leaders podcast, I speak to Haseena Farid, co-founder of The Women of Colour Global Network - a membership network connecting professional women of colour, supporting them with career progression and advancement.

  We discuss:

  • How The Women of Colour Global Network was started, what they do and how you can be part of it.
  • The double disadvantage for women of colour and the impact of that
  • How leaders can create a safe space and open dialogue around diversity and inclusion
  • Ways we can educate ourselves on inclusion and become change-makers in our organisations.
  
  

  I hope this week’s podcast provides you some more insight on inclusion in the workplace and practical ways you can be a more inclusive leader.

  I’m grateful to Haseena for being so open with her experiences and advice.  The Network is a supportive and inclusive space for all women and their future vision is to provide mentoring, run events, and work with organisations to improve their culture, policies and practices.

  THE WOMEN OF COLOUR GLOBAL NETWORK

  Join the network: https://www.wocgn.com/

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/women-of-colour-global-network-ltd/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wocgn/?hl=en

  MORE ABOUT HASEENA

  As well as co-founding The Women of Colour Global Network, Haseena is an executive coach and the founder of Meshwork - a consultancy providing organisational development, training, facilitation, fundraising, coaching and management expertise for charities, nonprofits and creative sectors.

  She is a second generation British-Bangladeshi woman of colour and is passionate about inclusive leadership, building purposeful and impact-driven organisations and the promotion of equality and equity of women of colour in the workplace and in wider society.

  Connect with Haseena: https://www.linkedin.com/in/haseenafarid/

  Meshwork: https://www.meshwork.uk/

   

  HASEENA’S BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS

  Brit (ish): On Race, Identity and Belonging – Afua Hirsch

  https://www.afuahirsch.com/product/british-on-race-identity-and-belonging/

  Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race – Reni Eddo-Lodge

  https://renieddolodge.co.uk/books/

  Queenie - Candice Carty-Williams

  http://www.candicecartywilliams.com/

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  How to be an influential leader without self-doubt holding you back

  Sign-up to my free masterclass and learn the three big influencing mistakes that are holding you back, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader and how you can turn down the volume on your inner critic. Available only until 9 May

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/beaninfluentialleader/

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May. 

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact-apr-21

   

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  ]]>6af2d422-f1b7-4e1b-a6fe-4f8ed0238dbeSun, 02 May 2021 14:00:00 +000001:08:48falsefull4646Ep 45 Successful job-sharing with The Job Share PairIn this episode, I interview Hannah and Rachel from The Job Share Pair. They’re on a mission to normalise job sharing as a way of life.

  In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why job-sharing should be normalised and how we can do that
  • The benefits of job sharing for the both employees and their organisation
  • The practicalities of job-sharing and managing the role and relationship dynamics
  • Tips on how you can propose job sharing to your employer
  
  

  I really enjoyed interviewing Hannah and Rachel and fully support their mission to create a way of working that’s conducive to a happy life. I hope this podcast inspires at least one person to consider job sharing and take action to create a career that actually works for them and their lifestyle.

  About Hannah and Rachel…

  They started The Job Share Pair to help others realise their full potential at work without compromising family life or free time. Hannah and Rachel focus on demystifying the methodology of job sharing to organisations, providing them with all the tools needed to make it work, as well as providing bespoke coaching services for job share partners, their managers and their teams, to maximise the effectiveness of their unique partnership and provide the best opportunity for seamless working success.

  CONNECT WITH THE JOB SHARE PAIR

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejobsharepair/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejobsharepair

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-job-share-pair/about/

  Website: www.thejobsharepair.com

   

   

  FREE QUIZ

  How much authority do you have as a leader?

  Take my free quiz to find out how much authority you have as a leader. You’ll get instant access to the exact steps you can take to build your authority and influence.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/authority-quiz

   

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  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>In this episode, I interview Hannah and Rachel from The Job Share Pair. They’re on a mission to normalise job sharing as a way of life.

  In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why job-sharing should be normalised and how we can do that
  • The benefits of job sharing for the both employees and their organisation
  • The practicalities of job-sharing and managing the role and relationship dynamics
  • Tips on how you can propose job sharing to your employer
  
  

  I really enjoyed interviewing Hannah and Rachel and fully support their mission to create a way of working that’s conducive to a happy life. I hope this podcast inspires at least one person to consider job sharing and take action to create a career that actually works for them and their lifestyle.

  About Hannah and Rachel…

  They started The Job Share Pair to help others realise their full potential at work without compromising family life or free time. Hannah and Rachel focus on demystifying the methodology of job sharing to organisations, providing them with all the tools needed to make it work, as well as providing bespoke coaching services for job share partners, their managers and their teams, to maximise the effectiveness of their unique partnership and provide the best opportunity for seamless working success.

  CONNECT WITH THE JOB SHARE PAIR

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejobsharepair/

  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejobsharepair

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-job-share-pair/about/

  Website: www.thejobsharepair.com

   

   

  FREE QUIZ

  How much authority do you have as a leader?

  Take my free quiz to find out how much authority you have as a leader. You’ll get instant access to the exact steps you can take to build your authority and influence.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/authority-quiz

   

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  How to be an influential leader without self-doubt holding you back

  Sign-up to my free masterclass and learn the three big influencing mistakes that are holding you back, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader and how you can turn down the volume on your inner critic. Available only until 9 May

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/beaninfluentialleader/

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>7130b3b6-6cfc-4b9e-8d19-6e4a34f7bafaSun, 25 Apr 2021 14:00:00 +000050:36falsefull4545Ep 44 How we give our power awayWe give our power away in so many ways without even realising it.  In this episode, I share 13 ways we often give our power away at work, ranging from boundaries and people pleasing to deferring authority and underestimating ourselves.

  I also share 6 things you can do this week to take some of your power back.  By the end of this episode, you’ll have awareness of where you might be giving your power away and will feel ready to be 5% bolder.

  A quick note that this episode is aimed at those working in the safety of a healthy environment with reasonable people. If you are working within a toxic workplace with aggression, bullying or systemic discrimination it may not be possible or feel safe for you to follow these suggestions and you are not responsible for the situation you find yourself in.

  FREE QUIZ

  How much authority do you have as a leader?

  Take my free quiz to find out how much authority you have as a leader. You’ll get instant access to the exact steps you can take to build your authority and influence.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/authority-quiz

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  How to be an influential leader without self-doubt holding you back

  Sign-up to my free masterclass and learn the three big influencing mistakes that are holding you back, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader and how you can turn down the volume on your inner critic. Available only until 9 May https://carlamiller.lpages.co/beaninfluentialleader

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  My other podcasts mentioned in this episode:

  Ep 18: How to leave bullying bosses in the past

  Ep 21: Handling negative feedback like a pro

  Ep 32: Why we look to others for validation

  Follow me on:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

   

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  ]]>We give our power away in so many ways without even realising it.  In this episode, I share 13 ways we often give our power away at work, ranging from boundaries and people pleasing to deferring authority and underestimating ourselves.

  I also share 6 things you can do this week to take some of your power back.  By the end of this episode, you’ll have awareness of where you might be giving your power away and will feel ready to be 5% bolder.

  A quick note that this episode is aimed at those working in the safety of a healthy environment with reasonable people. If you are working within a toxic workplace with aggression, bullying or systemic discrimination it may not be possible or feel safe for you to follow these suggestions and you are not responsible for the situation you find yourself in.

  FREE QUIZ

  How much authority do you have as a leader?

  Take my free quiz to find out how much authority you have as a leader. You’ll get instant access to the exact steps you can take to build your authority and influence.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/authority-quiz

  FREE MASTERCLASS

  How to be an influential leader without self-doubt holding you back

  Sign-up to my free masterclass and learn the three big influencing mistakes that are holding you back, the steps you can take to become a more influential leader and how you can turn down the volume on your inner critic. Available only until 9 May https://carlamiller.lpages.co/beaninfluentialleader

   

  INFLUENCE & IMPACT

  Find out more about my 12-month group training and coaching programme for female leaders who want to become brilliant at influencing, tackle self-doubt and make more impact at work. Don’t miss out, enrolment closes 21 May.

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/influence-impact

  My other podcasts mentioned in this episode:

  Ep 18: How to leave bullying bosses in the past

  Ep 21: Handling negative feedback like a pro

  Ep 32: Why we look to others for validation

  Follow me on:

  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlamiller1/

  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisiscarlamiller/

   

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  ]]>bc66251c-830a-4356-842f-c65e1d2a4272Sun, 18 Apr 2021 14:00:00 +000038:52falsefull4444Ep 43 How to work from home successfully with Harriet MinterIn this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I catch up with Harriet Minter, author of “Working From Home: How to build a career you love when you’re not in the office”. 

  Harriet has been writing about women and work for the past 15 years so we explore lots of interesting topics including…

  • Managing your team remotely
  • The future of hybrid working
  • Strategies for building your brand and profile when working remotely
  • Exactly how to ask for a pay rise (and generally asking for what you want)
  • A simple framework for communicating your strengths
  
  

  Harriet Minter is a journalist, author and flexible work specialist. She focuses on a variety of issues relating to women, the future of work, media and diversity. She has written for publications including The Guardian, The Times and The Pool. She has a monthly column in Psychologies magazine. She is a regular speaker on women’s rights, organisational change, workplace diversity and just getting stuff done. She has given two TED talks and appeared on the BBC and Sky News. As well as her media work she coaches individuals to help them achieve their professional goals, and provides brands with diversity and content marketing consultancy.

  Follow Harriet @harrietminter on instagram and twitter www.harrietminter.com

  Her book "WFH - Working from Home" is available on Amazon or bookshop.org

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I catch up with Harriet Minter, author of “Working From Home: How to build a career you love when you’re not in the office”. 

  Harriet has been writing about women and work for the past 15 years so we explore lots of interesting topics including…

  • Managing your team remotely
  • The future of hybrid working
  • Strategies for building your brand and profile when working remotely
  • Exactly how to ask for a pay rise (and generally asking for what you want)
  • A simple framework for communicating your strengths
  
  

  Harriet Minter is a journalist, author and flexible work specialist. She focuses on a variety of issues relating to women, the future of work, media and diversity. She has written for publications including The Guardian, The Times and The Pool. She has a monthly column in Psychologies magazine. She is a regular speaker on women’s rights, organisational change, workplace diversity and just getting stuff done. She has given two TED talks and appeared on the BBC and Sky News. As well as her media work she coaches individuals to help them achieve their professional goals, and provides brands with diversity and content marketing consultancy.

  Follow Harriet @harrietminter on instagram and twitter www.harrietminter.com

  Her book "WFH - Working from Home" is available on Amazon or bookshop.org

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>d1925602-9867-4f76-b1a4-2235c6084decSun, 11 Apr 2021 14:00:00 +000001:13:18falsefull4343Ep 42 Are you running on autopilot?I’ve been running on autopilot lately, head down constantly focusing on the next task.  So I’ve taken a few days out at the end of my financial year to stop and do some reflection and I found it really powerful.  So in this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I thought I’d share some of the powerful questions I use to reflect and course correct when I’ve been running on autopilot.

  We’ll be exploring what success actually means to us, uncovering what’s driving our behaviour and how we can wake up to and enjoy the moment more.

  The Meaning of Success

  "To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success."

  --Ralph Waldo Emerson

  Find out more about my Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management gain confidence, communicate more powerfully and make more impact at work at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>I’ve been running on autopilot lately, head down constantly focusing on the next task.  So I’ve taken a few days out at the end of my financial year to stop and do some reflection and I found it really powerful.  So in this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I thought I’d share some of the powerful questions I use to reflect and course correct when I’ve been running on autopilot.

  We’ll be exploring what success actually means to us, uncovering what’s driving our behaviour and how we can wake up to and enjoy the moment more.

  The Meaning of Success

  "To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success."

  --Ralph Waldo Emerson

  Find out more about my Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management gain confidence, communicate more powerfully and make more impact at work at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>1d2d12e5-7c52-45d7-8f8e-0aa66e6a41a5Sun, 04 Apr 2021 14:00:00 +000033:45truefull4242Ep 41 What I wish I’d know about managing20 years ago I took on my first management role.  It was much more of a personal development journey than I ever imagined it would be because it triggered all of my doubts about myself, all my unhelpful stories and it highlighted how much I didn’t know.  I wished that management and my team members came with a manual I could read so I could do it right without risking making any mistakes.

  In this episode I’m sharing the things I wish my 26 year old self had known about managing.  These are the things that would have made my life much easier and happier!  I hope they help you if you’re at the start of your management and leadership journey.

  Book your spot on my FREE How To Be A Respected Leader without being any less likeable masterclass at https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader-march-21

  Find out more about my Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management gain confidence, communicate more powerfully and make more impact at work at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>20 years ago I took on my first management role.  It was much more of a personal development journey than I ever imagined it would be because it triggered all of my doubts about myself, all my unhelpful stories and it highlighted how much I didn’t know.  I wished that management and my team members came with a manual I could read so I could do it right without risking making any mistakes.

  In this episode I’m sharing the things I wish my 26 year old self had known about managing.  These are the things that would have made my life much easier and happier!  I hope they help you if you’re at the start of your management and leadership journey.

  Book your spot on my FREE How To Be A Respected Leader without being any less likeable masterclass at https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader-march-21

  Find out more about my Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management gain confidence, communicate more powerfully and make more impact at work at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>432d62a3-1ec2-4bc1-a06c-e851dea5d8d1Sun, 28 Mar 2021 00:00:00 +000039:41falsefull4141Ep 40 Thoughtful Leadership with Fiona BucklandIn today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I’m talking to Fiona Buckland, author of the book Thoughtful Leadership.  Fiona’s book beautifully describes what it means to lead consciously and authentically with self-awareness.  We chat about why we need thoughtful leadership more than ever, how to lead yourself effectively and what it means to be an authentic leader.

  Fiona is a life and leadership coach and facilitator, who supports people to be better leaders of themselves, so they can be the leaders our world needs. A Fulbright scholar with a Ph.D. from New York University, her clients include The Wall Street Journal, Dow Jones, Alexander McQueen, Viacom and Twitter.

  In addition to her own private and corporate coaching practice, she also leads in-house leadership programmes, as well as public workshops and courses, Guardian Masterclasses on Inner Critics, Imposter Syndrome and Self-Direction, and has contributed to The Guardian and the Independent. She is also a guest lecturer in Coaching at Birkbeck University of London and on the faculty of The School of Life, where she was previously Head of Learning. Her book Thoughtful Leadership is published by Leaping Hare Press.

  Follow Fiona on instagram @fionabucklandcoaching

   

  Book your spot on my FREE How To Be A Respected Leader without being any less likeable masterclass at https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader-march-21

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>In today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I’m talking to Fiona Buckland, author of the book Thoughtful Leadership.  Fiona’s book beautifully describes what it means to lead consciously and authentically with self-awareness.  We chat about why we need thoughtful leadership more than ever, how to lead yourself effectively and what it means to be an authentic leader.

  Fiona is a life and leadership coach and facilitator, who supports people to be better leaders of themselves, so they can be the leaders our world needs. A Fulbright scholar with a Ph.D. from New York University, her clients include The Wall Street Journal, Dow Jones, Alexander McQueen, Viacom and Twitter.

  In addition to her own private and corporate coaching practice, she also leads in-house leadership programmes, as well as public workshops and courses, Guardian Masterclasses on Inner Critics, Imposter Syndrome and Self-Direction, and has contributed to The Guardian and the Independent. She is also a guest lecturer in Coaching at Birkbeck University of London and on the faculty of The School of Life, where she was previously Head of Learning. Her book Thoughtful Leadership is published by Leaping Hare Press.

  Follow Fiona on instagram @fionabucklandcoaching

   

  Book your spot on my FREE How To Be A Respected Leader without being any less likeable masterclass at https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader-march-21

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

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  ]]>ca2951dc-bbc5-4dd9-8618-ec6bf6b6be95Sun, 21 Mar 2021 15:00:00 +000001:05:09falsefull4040Ep 39 Practical strategies for tackling perfectionismThis is part two of my series on perfectionism and overworking and in this episode of the Influence and Impact podcast I share with you 6 practical strategies you can start using today to help you become successful without breaking yourself in the process.

  If you want to adopt a more sustainable and enjoyable way of working yet still get great results this episode is for you.

  If you’d like know more about my new Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management visit https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>This is part two of my series on perfectionism and overworking and in this episode of the Influence and Impact podcast I share with you 6 practical strategies you can start using today to help you become successful without breaking yourself in the process.

  If you want to adopt a more sustainable and enjoyable way of working yet still get great results this episode is for you.

  If you’d like know more about my new Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management visit https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>a4b4de47-273d-4f29-8ec5-88c16bb7e03eSun, 14 Mar 2021 15:00:00 +000024:16falsefull3939Ep 38 Why perfectionism and overworking could be holding you backFor years I thought that I was doing well in my career because I worked so hard and held myself to such high standards.  Then I realised that those strategies were actually causing as much harm as they were good. 

  I coach a lot of high achieving women, at all levels and perfectionism in its various guises, crops up all the time.  We may not consider ourselves to be perfectionist but often it looks like overworking, trying to be in control of everything in your life, procrastinating and fear of failure. 

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’d like to help you to identify and reflect on any unhelpful patterns you may have around perfectionism so that you can stop holding yourself to such impossibly high standards.

  If you’d like know more about my new Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management visit https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>For years I thought that I was doing well in my career because I worked so hard and held myself to such high standards.  Then I realised that those strategies were actually causing as much harm as they were good. 

  I coach a lot of high achieving women, at all levels and perfectionism in its various guises, crops up all the time.  We may not consider ourselves to be perfectionist but often it looks like overworking, trying to be in control of everything in your life, procrastinating and fear of failure. 

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’d like to help you to identify and reflect on any unhelpful patterns you may have around perfectionism so that you can stop holding yourself to such impossibly high standards.

  If you’d like know more about my new Confidence to Lead programme for women in their first few years of management visit https://www.carlamillertraining.com/confidence

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>90d20657-306b-446d-bf23-ac77f81315deSun, 07 Mar 2021 15:00:00 +000040:08falsefull3838Ep 37 How to start a new job wellStarting a new organisation can be daunting at the best of times but starting as a leader when everyone is working remotely adds new levels of complexity.  So in this episode I’m sharing my advice on how to start a leadership role in a new organisation.  I talk about being intentional about the impression you want to make, getting aligned on expectations, building relationships with key stakeholders and much more.

  Plus I’ve invited a special guest in for a chat about this topic too. Victoria Wickenden is a member of my Influence & Impact programme who started a leadership role during lockdown.  She shared her top tips in a brilliant article and I invited her on the podcast to talk about what she has learnt from her experience and she shares some great insights and ideas.

  You can read Victoria’s article at

  https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/on-boarding-remotely-lessons-from-coivd-new-starter-victoria/

  ***

  Want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back!

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE MANAGERS AND LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

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  ]]>Starting a new organisation can be daunting at the best of times but starting as a leader when everyone is working remotely adds new levels of complexity.  So in this episode I’m sharing my advice on how to start a leadership role in a new organisation.  I talk about being intentional about the impression you want to make, getting aligned on expectations, building relationships with key stakeholders and much more.

  Plus I’ve invited a special guest in for a chat about this topic too. Victoria Wickenden is a member of my Influence & Impact programme who started a leadership role during lockdown.  She shared her top tips in a brilliant article and I invited her on the podcast to talk about what she has learnt from her experience and she shares some great insights and ideas.

  You can read Victoria’s article at

  https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/on-boarding-remotely-lessons-from-coivd-new-starter-victoria/

  ***

  Want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back!

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE MANAGERS AND LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>87319fe9-9b3d-4abf-a7d3-42c9df99b339Sun, 28 Feb 2021 15:00:00 +000042:42falsefull3737Ep 36 Returning from parental leave with confidence with Lizzie MartinIn this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I’m chatting to Lizzie Martin of Work Life Mother about how to return from parental leave with confidence and how as leaders we can support parents with this transition.

  We talk about how you can prepare for your return, negotiation with your line manager, the skills we learn from parenting and getting yourself back in the work mindset before you return.

  Lizzie is an executive coach, former senior leader of 10 years within the retail space, mother to two sassy daughters and founder of Work Life Mother. For the past 3 years she has been working with individuals and organisations providing parental transition coaching - aimed to support any professional returning from a period of parental leave so that they can come back to work with confidence and impact.

  Lizzie says “It was when I was on my first maternity leave that I truly understood the complexities of returning to work as a new parent. I saw many women who were left to figure it all out on their own, it's a particularly overwhelming period of what can be a long fulfilling career yet without the right support many women experience self-doubt, low confidence and poor career development support and this can mean they downshift their careers or leave the workforce altogether.”

  Visit Lizzie’s website www.worklifemother.com to download her free toolkit for managers, to find out about her upcoming masterclasses or for 1:1 coaching support.

  Follow Lizzie on INSTA here: @worklifemother

  ***

  Want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back!

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE MANAGERS AND LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I’m chatting to Lizzie Martin of Work Life Mother about how to return from parental leave with confidence and how as leaders we can support parents with this transition.

  We talk about how you can prepare for your return, negotiation with your line manager, the skills we learn from parenting and getting yourself back in the work mindset before you return.

  Lizzie is an executive coach, former senior leader of 10 years within the retail space, mother to two sassy daughters and founder of Work Life Mother. For the past 3 years she has been working with individuals and organisations providing parental transition coaching - aimed to support any professional returning from a period of parental leave so that they can come back to work with confidence and impact.

  Lizzie says “It was when I was on my first maternity leave that I truly understood the complexities of returning to work as a new parent. I saw many women who were left to figure it all out on their own, it's a particularly overwhelming period of what can be a long fulfilling career yet without the right support many women experience self-doubt, low confidence and poor career development support and this can mean they downshift their careers or leave the workforce altogether.”

  Visit Lizzie’s website www.worklifemother.com to download her free toolkit for managers, to find out about her upcoming masterclasses or for 1:1 coaching support.

  Follow Lizzie on INSTA here: @worklifemother

  ***

  Want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back!

  Take the Leadership Quiz here: www.carlamillertraining.com

  FREE ONLINE MASTERCLASS FOR FEMALE MANAGERS AND LEADERS - Stop Worrying About Work & Get More Done!

  www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

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  ]]>be588606-d2b9-461b-bd30-a87c5db4c119Sun, 21 Feb 2021 15:00:00 +000001:10:58falsefull3636Ep 35 When you’re promoted above your peersLeadership is a delicate balance at the best of times, but no more so than when you’ve been promoted above your peers.  You may be experiencing all sorts of emotions, imposter syndrome could be in overdrive and in practical terms this is an awkward transition to manage. 

  Whether you are friends with your new direct reports or have experienced tension with them in the past there are things you can do to make this transition smoother.  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for female leaders podcast I share practical tools and insights for managing your own emotions, holding honest conversations with your direct reports and creating your new team culture.

  The doors to Influence & Impact, my 12 month group coaching programme for female leaders are now open.  Join me to tackle self-doubt, become brilliant at influencing and make more impact at work.  Find out more at www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Leadership is a delicate balance at the best of times, but no more so than when you’ve been promoted above your peers.  You may be experiencing all sorts of emotions, imposter syndrome could be in overdrive and in practical terms this is an awkward transition to manage. 

  Whether you are friends with your new direct reports or have experienced tension with them in the past there are things you can do to make this transition smoother.  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for female leaders podcast I share practical tools and insights for managing your own emotions, holding honest conversations with your direct reports and creating your new team culture.

  The doors to Influence & Impact, my 12 month group coaching programme for female leaders are now open.  Join me to tackle self-doubt, become brilliant at influencing and make more impact at work.  Find out more at www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>33727abc-804e-42c0-9c4e-d512d8904ab8Sun, 14 Feb 2021 15:00:00 +000032:17falsefull3535Ep 34  Career lessons I’ve learned from 25 years of workingI had a moment of feeling old this week when I realised that I’ve been working for 25 years now!  I like to think I’ve accumulated some wisdom along the way and I also know I have lots of new listeners to my podcast so I thought I would share the career lessons I’ve learned from 25 years of working and share a bit about my career journey in the process. 

  This is a really honest account of the ups and downs of my career and I hope that you’ll find something in here that resonates with where you are  now. 

  I talk about believing in yourself, choosing the job that’s right for you, communication challenges, perfectionism and the downside to letting your identity be defined by your work.

  The doors to Influence & Impact, my 12 month group coaching programme for female leaders are now open.  Join me to tackle self-doubt, become brilliant at influencing and make more impact at work.  Find out more at www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>I had a moment of feeling old this week when I realised that I’ve been working for 25 years now!  I like to think I’ve accumulated some wisdom along the way and I also know I have lots of new listeners to my podcast so I thought I would share the career lessons I’ve learned from 25 years of working and share a bit about my career journey in the process. 

  This is a really honest account of the ups and downs of my career and I hope that you’ll find something in here that resonates with where you are  now. 

  I talk about believing in yourself, choosing the job that’s right for you, communication challenges, perfectionism and the downside to letting your identity be defined by your work.

  The doors to Influence & Impact, my 12 month group coaching programme for female leaders are now open.  Join me to tackle self-doubt, become brilliant at influencing and make more impact at work.  Find out more at www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>e5115fc7-19a3-4b6b-af9a-dad10cfb700dSun, 07 Feb 2021 15:00:00 +000049:12falsefull3434Ep 33 How to stay motivated in challenging timesLet’s face it - lots of us are struggling with motivation at the moment.  Here in the UK we are in lockdown 3 and even though there are plus points to working from home the whole situation is challenging in so many ways.  In today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’m going to share how you can stay motivated in challenging times.  I’m sure you think a lot about keeping your team motivated but this one is for you.

  You can now sign up for my free masterclass How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back link is https://carlamiller.lpages.co/how-to-be-an-influentialleader 

  It is available until 7 February 2021 so be sure to watch it whilst you can.

  I mentioned Liz and Mollie on Instagram in this episode here is their Insta: @lizandmollie

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Let’s face it - lots of us are struggling with motivation at the moment.  Here in the UK we are in lockdown 3 and even though there are plus points to working from home the whole situation is challenging in so many ways.  In today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’m going to share how you can stay motivated in challenging times.  I’m sure you think a lot about keeping your team motivated but this one is for you.

  You can now sign up for my free masterclass How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back link is https://carlamiller.lpages.co/how-to-be-an-influentialleader 

  It is available until 7 February 2021 so be sure to watch it whilst you can.

  I mentioned Liz and Mollie on Instagram in this episode here is their Insta: @lizandmollie

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>8a00b5a8-2965-46fc-8973-43f7d44e8420Mon, 01 Feb 2021 08:11:46 +000027:20falsefull3333Ep 32 Why we look to others for validationLike many of the female leaders I work with, I have often found myself seeking reassurance, feedback and validation from others in order to feel like I am enough.  This is something I’ve been making a lot of progress with over the last few years and I see it come up again and again in the group coaching calls within my programme so I thought it would make a good episode for the podcast.  It seems that the isolation of working from home has really exacerbated this issue for many people as well. 

   

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’ll be talking about where that need for validation comes from, how it is holding us back and the first steps you can take to stop giving your power away to other people and start getting your validation from yourself rather than others.

  You can now sign up for my FREE masterclass How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back (link is https://carlamiller.lpages.co/how-to-be-an-influentialleader).  It is available until 7 February 2021 so be sure to watch it whilst you can.

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Like many of the female leaders I work with, I have often found myself seeking reassurance, feedback and validation from others in order to feel like I am enough.  This is something I’ve been making a lot of progress with over the last few years and I see it come up again and again in the group coaching calls within my programme so I thought it would make a good episode for the podcast.  It seems that the isolation of working from home has really exacerbated this issue for many people as well. 

   

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast I’ll be talking about where that need for validation comes from, how it is holding us back and the first steps you can take to stop giving your power away to other people and start getting your validation from yourself rather than others.

  You can now sign up for my FREE masterclass How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back (link is https://carlamiller.lpages.co/how-to-be-an-influentialleader).  It is available until 7 February 2021 so be sure to watch it whilst you can.

   

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>feaf7212-d008-463a-9df1-3308ec5b1194Sun, 24 Jan 2021 15:00:00 +000027:16falsefull3232Ep 31 How To Have More GravitasThis week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is all about gravitas.  What is it?  What do we need it for?  And how do we have gravitas when we need it most?

  Gravitas used to be a requirement for leadership, back in the days when leadership was about telling others what to do.  It is defined as dignity, seriousness or being solemn of manner.  Leadership has evolved since then and women no longer need to act like old men in grey suits to be taken seriously as leaders.  However there are times when we have to deliver serious news or address a room full of people who intimidate us and gravitas helps with that.  In this episode I’m sharing some tools you can use in those situations.

  I’ve got a FREE masterclass for female leaders coming up later in January – How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back.  Visit my website at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  and sign up to my newsletter to be invited to the masterclass

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>This week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is all about gravitas.  What is it?  What do we need it for?  And how do we have gravitas when we need it most?

  Gravitas used to be a requirement for leadership, back in the days when leadership was about telling others what to do.  It is defined as dignity, seriousness or being solemn of manner.  Leadership has evolved since then and women no longer need to act like old men in grey suits to be taken seriously as leaders.  However there are times when we have to deliver serious news or address a room full of people who intimidate us and gravitas helps with that.  In this episode I’m sharing some tools you can use in those situations.

  I’ve got a FREE masterclass for female leaders coming up later in January – How To Be An Influential Leader without letting self-doubt hold you back.  Visit my website at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  and sign up to my newsletter to be invited to the masterclass

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>11111f18-5590-4e4f-9c36-3077217820bdSun, 17 Jan 2021 01:00:00 +000029:21falsefull3131Ep 30 Talking Redundancy and Resilience with Eleanor TweddellIn this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I'm chatting to Eleanor Tweddell, author of the book "Why Losing Your Job Could Be the Best Thing That Ever Happened To You".  We talk about how to thrive when you've been made redundant, from dealing with those initial emotions to making decisions about your next steps. 

  We also discuss how leaders who are making colleagues redundant can handle it with kindness.  Redundancy is one of life's big events and Eleanor has done a wonderful job of taking her experiences and creating a toolkit others can use.

  About my guest: Eleanor Tweddell founded Another Door when she was made redundant and had a feeling she wanted to do something other than corporate life. She has worked for organisations such as Costa Coffee, Virgin Atlantic, Vodafone and Channel 4 - but it felt like it was time to change.  She said to get curious about what else was out there, and what else could she be doing. She wrote a blog, started a podcast and wrote a book 'Why losing your job could be the best thing to happen to you' published by Penguin in Nov 2020.

  Another Door is a club supporting people in the space in-between a door closing and the next door opening and takes people from shock to thriving. Another Door also works with businesses to handle redundancies fairly and supports their employees with outplacement workshops.

  To find out more about Eleanor you can connect with her on Linkedin, or visit  https://www.anotherdoor.co.uk/

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>In this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I'm chatting to Eleanor Tweddell, author of the book "Why Losing Your Job Could Be the Best Thing That Ever Happened To You".  We talk about how to thrive when you've been made redundant, from dealing with those initial emotions to making decisions about your next steps. 

  We also discuss how leaders who are making colleagues redundant can handle it with kindness.  Redundancy is one of life's big events and Eleanor has done a wonderful job of taking her experiences and creating a toolkit others can use.

  About my guest: Eleanor Tweddell founded Another Door when she was made redundant and had a feeling she wanted to do something other than corporate life. She has worked for organisations such as Costa Coffee, Virgin Atlantic, Vodafone and Channel 4 - but it felt like it was time to change.  She said to get curious about what else was out there, and what else could she be doing. She wrote a blog, started a podcast and wrote a book 'Why losing your job could be the best thing to happen to you' published by Penguin in Nov 2020.

  Another Door is a club supporting people in the space in-between a door closing and the next door opening and takes people from shock to thriving. Another Door also works with businesses to handle redundancies fairly and supports their employees with outplacement workshops.

  To find out more about Eleanor you can connect with her on Linkedin, or visit  https://www.anotherdoor.co.uk/

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>82ba2d4f-7b7f-42b5-83aa-518f2e9b1072Sun, 10 Jan 2021 15:00:00 +000001:10:46falsefull3030Ep 29 Productivity, Leadership & Kindness with Graham AllcottIn this week's episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I'm chatting to Graham Allcott, author of How To Be A Productivity Ninja. 

  We talk about how we as leaders can make more space for the things that matter and what our teams need from us whilst working remotely.  We dive into what it means to lead well in this "new normal" and the power of doing less rather than more.  And we explore the role that kindness plays in leadership and how being more human as a leader is a strength.   I really enjoyed this chat with Graham, and I hope you find it as inspiring as I did.

  About my guest: Graham Allcott is the author of the global best-seller, "How to be a Productivity Ninja".

  He is the founder of Think Productive, one of the world's leading providers of personal productivity training and consultancy. His podcast "Beyond Busy" explores the issues of productivity, work/life balance and how people define happiness in their lives.

  Previous roles include Chief Executive of Student Volunteering England, Head of Volunteering at the University of Birmingham, and an advisor to the UK Government on youth volunteering policy.

  You can sign up for Graham's newsletter and listen to his Beyond Busy podcast at www.grahamallcott.com and you can use the code CARLA for a 15% discount on The Kindness Happening which starts on 14 January 2021.  To book your place visit: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-kindness-happening-with-christina-kisley-and-graham-allcott-tickets-125639088897

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

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  ]]>In this week's episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I'm chatting to Graham Allcott, author of How To Be A Productivity Ninja. 

  We talk about how we as leaders can make more space for the things that matter and what our teams need from us whilst working remotely.  We dive into what it means to lead well in this "new normal" and the power of doing less rather than more.  And we explore the role that kindness plays in leadership and how being more human as a leader is a strength.   I really enjoyed this chat with Graham, and I hope you find it as inspiring as I did.

  About my guest: Graham Allcott is the author of the global best-seller, "How to be a Productivity Ninja".

  He is the founder of Think Productive, one of the world's leading providers of personal productivity training and consultancy. His podcast "Beyond Busy" explores the issues of productivity, work/life balance and how people define happiness in their lives.

  Previous roles include Chief Executive of Student Volunteering England, Head of Volunteering at the University of Birmingham, and an advisor to the UK Government on youth volunteering policy.

  You can sign up for Graham's newsletter and listen to his Beyond Busy podcast at www.grahamallcott.com and you can use the code CARLA for a 15% discount on The Kindness Happening which starts on 14 January 2021.  To book your place visit: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-kindness-happening-with-christina-kisley-and-graham-allcott-tickets-125639088897

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

   

   

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  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>994c759a-fa9e-41d9-943f-ca7875585a29Sun, 03 Jan 2021 09:28:22 +000053:56falsefull2929Ep 28 - How to be Less Humble with Stef Sword WilliamsIf you are more comfortable talking about your team's achievements than your own, then this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is a must listen!

  I am joined by Stef Sword-Williams, TEDx speaker and author of F*ck being Humble. Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion and encourage people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements.  I wish I had read her book 20 years ago and, in this episode, we talk about the fear of sounding stupid, how to get paid what you are worth and how to network in a digital world.

   

  If you've enjoyed this episode check out the F*ck being Humble book  or  click here for her workshops.

  About my guest: Stefanie Sword-Williams is Founder of F*ck Being Humble; a mentoring platform, event series and book, that help individuals overcome the fear of self-promotion.

  In 2018 Stef set out on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion, encouraging people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements. Since then, she has been recognised as Forbes 30 Under 30 Europe 2020 and as The Dots 100 women who changing the creative industry, publishing her book 'F*ck Being Humble; why self-promotion isn't a dirty word' and has worked with clients such as Google, Asos, Bumble, Unilever, to name a few.

  To find out more about Stef you can connect with her on LinkedIn or follow her at @fbeinghumbleldn on twitter and Instagram.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to be a Respected Leader without being any less likeable? Join me on Tuesday 15th December 2:30-3:30pm for my FREE Masterclass for female managers and leaders. In this masterclass I will be sharing the 3 mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas and giving you my #1 tool for confidently handling difficult conversations. Spots are limited to 100 people so sign up now to reserve your place at:

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader/

   

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>If you are more comfortable talking about your team's achievements than your own, then this episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders is a must listen!

  I am joined by Stef Sword-Williams, TEDx speaker and author of F*ck being Humble. Stef is on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion and encourage people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements.  I wish I had read her book 20 years ago and, in this episode, we talk about the fear of sounding stupid, how to get paid what you are worth and how to network in a digital world.

   

  If you've enjoyed this episode check out the F*ck being Humble book  or  click here for her workshops.

  About my guest: Stefanie Sword-Williams is Founder of F*ck Being Humble; a mentoring platform, event series and book, that help individuals overcome the fear of self-promotion.

  In 2018 Stef set out on a mission to change the way the world views self-promotion, encouraging people to be unapologetically proud of their achievements. Since then, she has been recognised as Forbes 30 Under 30 Europe 2020 and as The Dots 100 women who changing the creative industry, publishing her book 'F*ck Being Humble; why self-promotion isn't a dirty word' and has worked with clients such as Google, Asos, Bumble, Unilever, to name a few.

  To find out more about Stef you can connect with her on LinkedIn or follow her at @fbeinghumbleldn on twitter and Instagram.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to be a Respected Leader without being any less likeable? Join me on Tuesday 15th December 2:30-3:30pm for my FREE Masterclass for female managers and leaders. In this masterclass I will be sharing the 3 mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas and giving you my #1 tool for confidently handling difficult conversations. Spots are limited to 100 people so sign up now to reserve your place at:

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader/

   

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>c7c1046d-93a1-4d5d-b044-a406fa0ffa16Sun, 13 Dec 2020 15:00:00 +000001:05:10truefull2828Ep 27 - Taking Control of Your CareerGone are the days when we could rely on our line manager to recognise our potential and plan for our career development.  In fact, I think that was always a bit of a myth anyway with the majority of workplaces.  But 2020 has shown us that the only person who has the headspace to think about your career development is you.  So, today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast is going to help you do just that.

  Whether you are happy in your role or thinking of moving on, it is a good idea to know what your next step will be and be working towards that.  And your next step doesn’t have to be upwards - it could be a sideways move, a new sector or a new work-life balance so you can spend more time with the kids or starting your sourdough side hustle.

  In this episode I am going to talk you through some helpful strategies to help you create a fulfilling and successful career. 

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to be a Respected Leader without being any less likeable? Join me on Tuesday 15th December 2:30-3:30pm for my FREE Masterclass for female managers and leaders. In this masterclass I'll be sharing the 3 mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas and giving you my #1 tool for confidently handling difficult conversations. Spots are limited to 100 people so sign up now to reserve your place at

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader/

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Gone are the days when we could rely on our line manager to recognise our potential and plan for our career development.  In fact, I think that was always a bit of a myth anyway with the majority of workplaces.  But 2020 has shown us that the only person who has the headspace to think about your career development is you.  So, today’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast is going to help you do just that.

  Whether you are happy in your role or thinking of moving on, it is a good idea to know what your next step will be and be working towards that.  And your next step doesn’t have to be upwards - it could be a sideways move, a new sector or a new work-life balance so you can spend more time with the kids or starting your sourdough side hustle.

  In this episode I am going to talk you through some helpful strategies to help you create a fulfilling and successful career. 

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to be a Respected Leader without being any less likeable? Join me on Tuesday 15th December 2:30-3:30pm for my FREE Masterclass for female managers and leaders. In this masterclass I'll be sharing the 3 mistakes that are reducing your authority and gravitas and giving you my #1 tool for confidently handling difficult conversations. Spots are limited to 100 people so sign up now to reserve your place at

  https://carlamiller.lpages.co/respected-leader/

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>be93159f-953b-421c-9cf9-7e8ecb857870Sun, 06 Dec 2020 15:00:00 +000021:12falsefull2727Ep 26 -  How to be a Social Leader with Damian CorbetIn this week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I am talking to Damian Corbet, author of The Social CEO about how social media can make you a stronger leader.

  We cover what it means to be a Social Leader, why as leaders we should be engaging in social media and how we can avoid some of the pitfalls.  We talk about having an authentic and credible voice online and reflect on this new era of transparent and open leadership.  We also explore how you can build your personal brand and grow your network of connections using social media.

  This conversation really opened my eyes to the potential of social media for leadership and career development and I think you’ll find it relevant whatever level of leadership you’re at now.

  About my guest: Damian Corbet is a social media strategist, consultant, and writer with over 20 years’ experience in public relations and communications. He founded The Social C-Suite to help senior leaders get the most from social media and thrive in the social age. Damian regularly speaks at conferences and leadership events about social leadership and has also co-organized and presented at workshops for C-level leaders. He also regularly interviews CEOs for his blog, and his new book, The Social CEO, was published by Bloomsbury in 2019.

  To find out more about Damian you can connect with him on Linkedin, read his blog or follow him at @damiancorbet on twitter.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what is holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>In this week’s episode of the Influence & Impact podcast for female leaders I am talking to Damian Corbet, author of The Social CEO about how social media can make you a stronger leader.

  We cover what it means to be a Social Leader, why as leaders we should be engaging in social media and how we can avoid some of the pitfalls.  We talk about having an authentic and credible voice online and reflect on this new era of transparent and open leadership.  We also explore how you can build your personal brand and grow your network of connections using social media.

  This conversation really opened my eyes to the potential of social media for leadership and career development and I think you’ll find it relevant whatever level of leadership you’re at now.

  About my guest: Damian Corbet is a social media strategist, consultant, and writer with over 20 years’ experience in public relations and communications. He founded The Social C-Suite to help senior leaders get the most from social media and thrive in the social age. Damian regularly speaks at conferences and leadership events about social leadership and has also co-organized and presented at workshops for C-level leaders. He also regularly interviews CEOs for his blog, and his new book, The Social CEO, was published by Bloomsbury in 2019.

  To find out more about Damian you can connect with him on Linkedin, read his blog or follow him at @damiancorbet on twitter.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what is holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>02758527-c3b5-4667-b810-4ec861034735Sun, 29 Nov 2020 15:00:00 +000048:03falsefull2626Ep 25 - How to disagree with people more senior than youThere are these unspoken rules about the world of work that most of us buy into without questioning.  One of those rules is that we don’t say no to our line manager or disagree with senior stakeholders.  As a result, people end up frustrated, overworked, and demotivated because they’ve never learnt how to challenge the thinking of senior stakeholders without challenging their authority.  They’ve never learnt how to speak truth to power.

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I will be sharing 9 practical strategies to help you to disagree with someone in authority without negatively impacting your career or your relationship.  Whether you are dealing with your line manager, senior management team or your board you will find practical insights you can use to learn how to challenge in a constructive and career building way.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what is holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>There are these unspoken rules about the world of work that most of us buy into without questioning.  One of those rules is that we don’t say no to our line manager or disagree with senior stakeholders.  As a result, people end up frustrated, overworked, and demotivated because they’ve never learnt how to challenge the thinking of senior stakeholders without challenging their authority.  They’ve never learnt how to speak truth to power.

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I will be sharing 9 practical strategies to help you to disagree with someone in authority without negatively impacting your career or your relationship.  Whether you are dealing with your line manager, senior management team or your board you will find practical insights you can use to learn how to challenge in a constructive and career building way.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what is holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at: https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>8568b0a5-c386-463b-b907-38fc4c6f3233Sun, 22 Nov 2020 15:00:00 +000028:48falsefull2525Ep 24 - Creating Habits for SuccessSo much of what we do in life and at work is habitual. As author James Clear says, “the quality of our lives depends on the quality of our habits”. But habits can be hard to form and hard to break as they sit within the subconscious part of our brain.

   

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I’ll be teaching you how to can create new habits and break unhelpful old habits to take control of your daily life and prime it for success.  I’ll also be sharing my top habits for confidence, focus and happiness.

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

   

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>So much of what we do in life and at work is habitual. As author James Clear says, “the quality of our lives depends on the quality of our habits”. But habits can be hard to form and hard to break as they sit within the subconscious part of our brain.

   

  In this episode of the Influence & Impact for Female Leaders podcast I’ll be teaching you how to can create new habits and break unhelpful old habits to take control of your daily life and prime it for success.  I’ll also be sharing my top habits for confidence, focus and happiness.

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

   

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>7cf3a2c6-a991-4d02-880d-3ac236217ea9Sun, 15 Nov 2020 15:00:00 +000025:32falsefull2424Being Your Authentic Self as a LeaderOne of the things that female leaders struggle with the most is feeling a disconnect between their idea of what a leader should be and who they are.  In fact, many women avoid stepping into leadership roles because they don’t consider themselves to be leaders - when they’re actually doing a great job!

  I’m a huge fan of leading like a human. In this episode I’ll be sharing how you can develop a leadership style that feels authentic to you AND is also powerful.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>One of the things that female leaders struggle with the most is feeling a disconnect between their idea of what a leader should be and who they are.  In fact, many women avoid stepping into leadership roles because they don’t consider themselves to be leaders - when they’re actually doing a great job!

  I’m a huge fan of leading like a human. In this episode I’ll be sharing how you can develop a leadership style that feels authentic to you AND is also powerful.

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Do you want to fulfil your potential as a leader? It starts with understanding your strengths – and what’s holding you back! Take my 2 minute leadership quiz at:

  https://www.carlamillertraining.com/quiz and you’ll get instant access to a customised path to becoming a more inspiring and impactful female leader.

  For more leadership advice, join the Influence & Impact community by following my Influence & Impact page on Facebook or follow @thisiscarlamiller on Instagram.

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>d38d32df-f4f7-4292-8e1c-801dea8822aaSun, 08 Nov 2020 15:00:00 +000020:42falsefull2323Creating Time in Your Week to ThinkWe are working at a time when we are constantly bombarded with things that need our attention.  Countless emails arriving in our inbox before we’ve had time to deal with yesterday’s emails, in back to back meetings all day barely stopping to grab some lunch, calls from senior colleagues with another new task or project for our to do lists.

  So, we get through it by diligently ticking things off our to do list and hoping that by the end of the week that to do list is a bit smaller (spoiler alert: it never is). 

  Sound familiar? 

  In this episode I’m going to share how you can step out of that busy trance you’ve been stuck in for so long and create the time you need to think about the important things.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>We are working at a time when we are constantly bombarded with things that need our attention.  Countless emails arriving in our inbox before we’ve had time to deal with yesterday’s emails, in back to back meetings all day barely stopping to grab some lunch, calls from senior colleagues with another new task or project for our to do lists.

  So, we get through it by diligently ticking things off our to do list and hoping that by the end of the week that to do list is a bit smaller (spoiler alert: it never is). 

  Sound familiar? 

  In this episode I’m going to share how you can step out of that busy trance you’ve been stuck in for so long and create the time you need to think about the important things.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>6ec982c0-80df-4595-8231-c5c377ddf1edSun, 01 Nov 2020 15:00:00 +000021:48falsefull2222Handling Negative Feedback Like A ProEven the most confident of female leaders can struggle to deal with negative or critical feedback.  When we are working really hard and doing our best such feedback can at best be demotivating and at worst really knock our confidence.  Many of us also let the words (and the stories we tell ourselves about those words) whirr around in our head for hours, if not days.

  But it is possible to hear negative feedback without it sending you into a spiral of self-doubt.  In this episode I’m going to share some ways you can become more resilient in the face of negative feedback, how to deal with it in the moment and how to let go of it after it has happened.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Even the most confident of female leaders can struggle to deal with negative or critical feedback.  When we are working really hard and doing our best such feedback can at best be demotivating and at worst really knock our confidence.  Many of us also let the words (and the stories we tell ourselves about those words) whirr around in our head for hours, if not days.

  But it is possible to hear negative feedback without it sending you into a spiral of self-doubt.  In this episode I’m going to share some ways you can become more resilient in the face of negative feedback, how to deal with it in the moment and how to let go of it after it has happened.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>d783fc03-2943-4326-9d0e-1bbbf428fbfcSun, 25 Oct 2020 20:10:00 +000026:19falsefull2121Preparing to Step Up to the Next Level of LeadershipAre you thinking about stepping up to the next level of leadership?  Perhaps the possibility of a promotion has been raised by your line manager. Maybe you’re finding yourself wishing you were the one making decisions rather than having to deal with the fallout from them.  Or perhaps you’re feeling ready to step out of your comfort zone and develop your career.  Whatever is motivating you, you’re going to find this podcast episode really valuable.

   

  I’ll be sharing why each new level you reach requires a new way of leading.  I’ll help you avoid some of the mistakes that many people make as they move into head of department and then director roles.  And I’ll cover the areas you can work on now to feel prepared and confident about taking that step up.

   

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>Are you thinking about stepping up to the next level of leadership?  Perhaps the possibility of a promotion has been raised by your line manager. Maybe you’re finding yourself wishing you were the one making decisions rather than having to deal with the fallout from them.  Or perhaps you’re feeling ready to step out of your comfort zone and develop your career.  Whatever is motivating you, you’re going to find this podcast episode really valuable.

   

  I’ll be sharing why each new level you reach requires a new way of leading.  I’ll help you avoid some of the mistakes that many people make as they move into head of department and then director roles.  And I’ll cover the areas you can work on now to feel prepared and confident about taking that step up.

   

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com/

   

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>e9391323-082a-4841-b240-163f1f7c85f8Sun, 18 Oct 2020 15:30:00 +000021:52falsefull2020How Successful Leaders ThinkI’m going to come right out and say it - mindset is the secret superpower of successful leaders.  Too many leadership books and books focus on the strategies and tactics of leadership without ever addressing the fact that you can have all the strategies in the world but if you don’t have the right mindset you’ll never be able to action them effectively.

  In this episode I am going to share with you how those successful leaders think differently so you too can improve every meeting you attend and make more impact at work.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>I’m going to come right out and say it - mindset is the secret superpower of successful leaders.  Too many leadership books and books focus on the strategies and tactics of leadership without ever addressing the fact that you can have all the strategies in the world but if you don’t have the right mindset you’ll never be able to action them effectively.

  In this episode I am going to share with you how those successful leaders think differently so you too can improve every meeting you attend and make more impact at work.

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

  https://carlamiller.co.uk/newsletter/

  ]]>b89696e6-e3f6-4516-ad1e-6e3524f74869Sun, 18 Oct 2020 15:00:00 +000022:03falsefull1919How to Leave Bullying Bosses in the PastIf you’ve ever had a bullying boss or a manager who really knocked your confidence, then you’ll know that the impact of that doesn’t disappear when you leave that job. It can leave you full of self-doubt in your next role and make you super sensitive so that you see criticism and negative feedback in every statement your new boss makes.

  In today’s episode of Influence & Impact for female leaders you’re going to learn how to leave that bullying boss firmly in the past. 

  If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway.  Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to Instagram and tag me @thisiscarlamiller

   

  If you haven’t done so already, please leave me a review and thanks for your support of this show!

   

  Find out more about working with Carla at https://www.carlamillertraining.com

  Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>If you’ve ever had a bullying boss or a manager who really knocked your confidence, then you’ll know that the impact of that doesn’t disappear when you leave that job. It can leave you full of self-doubt in your next role and make you super sensitive so that you see criticism and negative feedback in every statement your new boss makes.

  In today’s episode of Influence & Impact for female leaders you’re going to learn how to leave that bullying boss firmly in the past. 

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  ]]>68a4ca46-0a91-4ef3-8a6d-69a8b60927b6Sun, 18 Oct 2020 14:30:00 +000024:31falsefull1818Tackling anxiety at workMany managers and leaders suffer from anxiety. In this episode Carla shares the powerful approach she used to end her anxiety for good and takes you through an exercise you can use when you feel anxious.

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  ]]>Many managers and leaders suffer from anxiety. In this episode Carla shares the powerful approach she used to end her anxiety for good and takes you through an exercise you can use when you feel anxious.

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  ]]>1c75c4f7f85c4d97b07d737320f00799Tue, 23 Apr 2019 05:00:00 +000020:29falsefull1717The stories we tell ourselvesAre you holding yourself back by how you are viewing certain situations?  In this episode you'll learn how to identify when you are telling yourself an unhelpful story about your career and find out how to write a better one.

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  ]]>Are you holding yourself back by how you are viewing certain situations?  In this episode you'll learn how to identify when you are telling yourself an unhelpful story about your career and find out how to write a better one.

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  ]]>f83f5a227cb64a5d96d4a096bee0c0f2Tue, 12 Mar 2019 10:26:43 +000009:25falsefull1616Finding Your Zone of GeniusDiscovering and working from your Zone of Genius is  great way to supercharge your career.  This episode explains what your Zone of Genius is and how to discover it.
   

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  ]]>Discovering and working from your Zone of Genius is  great way to supercharge your career.  This episode explains what your Zone of Genius is and how to discover it.
   

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  ]]>cae6888979854424816bff8fbe80f812Tue, 26 Feb 2019 06:00:00 +000015:00falsefull1515Managing people is about managing feelings This episode gives you an understanding of the role that feelings play in the workplace and some top tips on how you can get great at understanding the feelings of your team, particularly in difficult times.

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  ]]>This episode gives you an understanding of the role that feelings play in the workplace and some top tips on how you can get great at understanding the feelings of your team, particularly in difficult times.

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  ]]>93d22724aa02432b981ad1a35e519e2bTue, 12 Feb 2019 06:00:00 +000014:04falsefull1414Hard work is not the answer Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>1bcb528933f54f7081c30177c3fa7b33Tue, 29 Jan 2019 06:00:00 +000012:55falsefull1313How to avoid micromanaging Mentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>23be038d09f041989b748691311a638cTue, 15 Jan 2019 06:00:00 +000012:30falsefull1212Starting the New Year Right In this episode Carla helps you to bring a close to 2018 with a reflection exercise and to set your intention for 2019 with a method much simpler and more effective than New Year's Resolutions.
   

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  ]]>In this episode Carla helps you to bring a close to 2018 with a reflection exercise and to set your intention for 2019 with a method much simpler and more effective than New Year's Resolutions.
   

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  ]]>ea46eb6f637346b49e4069a3abd85404Tue, 01 Jan 2019 06:00:00 +000019:28falsefull1111Culture - Your team has the power to change the world Sarah Carter #10Your team has the power to change the world. To do that, the people in it need to feel they belong that they are safe, supported, trusted. But as a leader, just how do you achieve that? Culture Coach Sarah Carter, gives us an insight. For more details click here 

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  ]]>Your team has the power to change the world. To do that, the people in it need to feel they belong that they are safe, supported, trusted. But as a leader, just how do you achieve that? Culture Coach Sarah Carter, gives us an insight. For more details click here 

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  ]]>8e0c0d1c2569489e863c45681df1a3a4Tue, 18 Dec 2018 06:00:00 +000031:13falsefull1010Do you feel like an imposter? A pathway to self-confidence with Fiona BucklandIf you believe that luck rather than ability lies behind your success, then you might be suffering from "Imposter Syndrome" a corrosive form of self-esteem that can affect you as a leader. Fiona Buckland is my guest, she has a variety of strategies to better your confidence. For more details www.fionabucklandcoaching.com 

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  ]]>If you believe that luck rather than ability lies behind your success, then you might be suffering from "Imposter Syndrome" a corrosive form of self-esteem that can affect you as a leader. Fiona Buckland is my guest, she has a variety of strategies to better your confidence. For more details www.fionabucklandcoaching.com 

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  ]]>28dafde274944bee8ce299f5c227e5deTue, 04 Dec 2018 06:00:00 +000030:35falsefullCuriosity and the power of I wonder?Find out how getting curious and using two simple words "I wonder" can make you happier and help you have more honest and interesting conversations at work.

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  ]]>Find out how getting curious and using two simple words "I wonder" can make you happier and help you have more honest and interesting conversations at work.

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  ]]>5b772f979f18407f8e2f77812d84a2ecFri, 23 Nov 2018 10:29:48 +000008:22falsefullLet's talk innovationIn this episode Carla interviews Lucy Gower, author of the best-selling book "The Innovation Workout" about all the role of mindset in successful innovation.  If you want your team to innovate you won't want to miss this episode. Find out more about Lucy here 

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  ]]>In this episode Carla interviews Lucy Gower, author of the best-selling book "The Innovation Workout" about all the role of mindset in successful innovation.  If you want your team to innovate you won't want to miss this episode. Find out more about Lucy here 

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  ]]>5dba5094ddc44f6fa3f1f489b73837d8Tue, 06 Nov 2018 08:30:00 +000027:17falsefullBody Wisdom In this episode Carla shares 3 ways that you can tune in to a valuable stream of information that is available to you as a leader - your body wisdom.

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  ]]>In this episode Carla shares 3 ways that you can tune in to a valuable stream of information that is available to you as a leader - your body wisdom.

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  ]]>95288eccc6db4bc6a504f310b86dc993Tue, 23 Oct 2018 07:30:00 +000012:58falsefullThe impact you have as a managerMentioned in this episode:

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  ]]>530c06cabf67416c92218e0cdacd7543Tue, 09 Oct 2018 07:30:00 +000012:41falsefullWhat kind of leader do you want to be?In this episode Carla takes you through her 5 step process to take control of your personal leadership brand and become the kind of leader you want to be.

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  ]]>In this episode Carla takes you through her 5 step process to take control of your personal leadership brand and become the kind of leader you want to be.

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  ]]>06863aff718c428baedd9af10fbb7cb8Tue, 25 Sep 2018 13:00:00 +000008:41falsefullAn instant way to have more confidenceDiscover the simple method you can use for the moments when you want a greater sense of authority and confidence asa manager and leader.

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  ]]>Discover the simple method you can use for the moments when you want a greater sense of authority and confidence asa manager and leader.

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  ]]>741e94aeb015410ebc7692d5f6b3d104Tue, 11 Sep 2018 13:00:00 +000007:52falsefull3 tips for increasing your authorityIn this episode, I share three practical tips to give you more authority as a leader, and the story of my disastrous start as a leader. I'm Carla Miller a leadership coach and founder of the Leadership Skills Lab - the online leadership coaching programme.

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  ]]>In this episode, I share three practical tips to give you more authority as a leader, and the story of my disastrous start as a leader. I'm Carla Miller a leadership coach and founder of the Leadership Skills Lab - the online leadership coaching programme.

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  ]]>2b47b0d368df41338739baa71d81d0b8Tue, 04 Sep 2018 13:00:00 +000011:43falsefull22The 90 second rule, reduce your frustrationFind out how to reduce your frustration at work using this simple mindset shift. We all experience frustration at work when something or someone is standing in the way of what we want to achieve. Most of us make it about that person or situation but in fact we often cause our own frustration.  In this episode we cover the 3 ways in which YOU are the source of your own frustration and give you tips which will dramatically reduce your frustration level at home and in life!

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  ]]>Find out how to reduce your frustration at work using this simple mindset shift. We all experience frustration at work when something or someone is standing in the way of what we want to achieve. Most of us make it about that person or situation but in fact we often cause our own frustration.  In this episode we cover the 3 ways in which YOU are the source of your own frustration and give you tips which will dramatically reduce your frustration level at home and in life!

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