<![CDATA[Inside the Circle with Coach Pat]]>d9af2bdf-c087-5350-8b26-779d93379ccaTue, 21 Jul 2026 08:15:18 +0000Captivate.fmpatrick burnshttps://artwork.captivate.fm/e15d2811-1b1e-4bc1-a2fb-c321a93464d9/ITC-Cover-Art.jpgInside the Circle with Coach Patpatrick burnspatrick burnsYouth sports can be one of the greatest experiences of your family's life. It can also be one of the most overwhelming. Between the recruiting pressure, the tournament schedules, the team drama, and the constant noise about what your kid should be doing next, it's easy to lose sight of why you started in the first place. Inside the Circle with Coach Pat cuts through all of it. Coach Pat is a youth and travel softball coach with over 20 years of experience and a track record of helping dozens of athletes reach college softball. Known for his calm, firm coaching style and his belief that sport is one of the best classrooms life has to offer, Coach Pat brings the inside perspective that most people in youth sports don't want to say out loud. Every episode features honest conversations with college coaches, tournament directors, travel ball organizations, and people who've built programs that last. We talk about team culture, player development, coaching fundamentals, the recruiting process, and the mindset that keeps families grounded when the pressure gets loud. This show is for the parents sitting in the bleachers trying to figure it all out. It's for the new coach who wants to do right by their players. And it's for the athlete who is starting to take the game seriously and wants to understand what the journey ahead really looks like. Every kid's journey is unique and this show exists to help you navigate yours. New episodes every other week. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube.https://inside-the-circle.captivate.fmfalseepisodicnopodcast004: Rick Fremin on Why Raw Talent Isn't Enough | Coach Pat004: Rick Fremin on Why Raw Talent Isn't Enough | Coach PatSoftball team culture is the real reason a mid-major program keeps beating Power Four schools, and in this episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat sits down with Rick Fremin, head coach at Southeastern Louisiana University, to find out exactly how he built it.

In five years, Rick took a program with only four winning seasons in over three decades to back to back NCAA tournament appearances, a first ever regular season conference title, and the school's first at-large NCAA bid in 23 years.

Rick breaks down the lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull framework he uses to evaluate players, why he'd rather recruit character than home runs, and why a transactional recruiting pitch breaks teams apart while a transformational one holds them together. He also shares why his team runs a player-led leadership council and a 30 minute phone-free rule after every game.

If you're trying to understand what actually separates good teams from great ones, this conversation gets specific.

You’ll learn:

  • Why Rick Fremin cares more about a player's character than her home run totals or batting average when building softball team culture.
  • What the lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull framework reveals about the four player personality types and who a program should actually recruit.
  • Why a transactional recruiting pitch breaks teams apart while a transformational approach to softball culture holds them together long term.
  • How a player-led Lion Council gives athletes real ownership over team accountability instead of leaving all of it to the coaching staff.
  • Why Rick Fremin's program runs a 30 minute phone-free rule after every game to protect relationships over distractions.
  • What it actually takes to move a roster from a team to a champion to a warrior, and why that process takes years, not one good season.

We talk about:

00:00 Meet Rick Fremin and the Southeastern Louisiana turnaround

02:24 Why vision matters more than talent when building a program

04:12 Inside the team retreat that sets the tone every season

05:12 Why you can't put bad people in a good organization

09:35 How faith and self improvement show up in daily culture

10:00 Why a strong culture ends up recruiting itself

11:56 The win or learn mindset behind failing forward

17:07 Why players are treated like adults with no curfews

24:44 Transactional versus transformational team building

26:18 How the player-led Lion Council keeps standards high

28:00 The lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull personality framework

Connect with Rick Fremin


Connect with me


#SoftballTeamCulture #SoftballCoaching #DivisionOneSoftball #TravelSoftball #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballLeadership #SoftballMentalToughness #SoutheasternLouisianaSoftball #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #RickFremin #SoftballDad #SoftballMom #YouthSoftball #SoftballDevelopment #SoftballMindset

]]>Softball team culture is the real reason a mid-major program keeps beating Power Four schools, and in this episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat sits down with Rick Fremin, head coach at Southeastern Louisiana University, to find out exactly how he built it.

In five years, Rick took a program with only four winning seasons in over three decades to back to back NCAA tournament appearances, a first ever regular season conference title, and the school's first at-large NCAA bid in 23 years.

Rick breaks down the lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull framework he uses to evaluate players, why he'd rather recruit character than home runs, and why a transactional recruiting pitch breaks teams apart while a transformational one holds them together. He also shares why his team runs a player-led leadership council and a 30 minute phone-free rule after every game.

If you're trying to understand what actually separates good teams from great ones, this conversation gets specific.

You’ll learn:

  • Why Rick Fremin cares more about a player's character than her home run totals or batting average when building softball team culture.
  • What the lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull framework reveals about the four player personality types and who a program should actually recruit.
  • Why a transactional recruiting pitch breaks teams apart while a transformational approach to softball culture holds them together long term.
  • How a player-led Lion Council gives athletes real ownership over team accountability instead of leaving all of it to the coaching staff.
  • Why Rick Fremin's program runs a 30 minute phone-free rule after every game to protect relationships over distractions.
  • What it actually takes to move a roster from a team to a champion to a warrior, and why that process takes years, not one good season.

We talk about:

00:00 Meet Rick Fremin and the Southeastern Louisiana turnaround

02:24 Why vision matters more than talent when building a program

04:12 Inside the team retreat that sets the tone every season

05:12 Why you can't put bad people in a good organization

09:35 How faith and self improvement show up in daily culture

10:00 Why a strong culture ends up recruiting itself

11:56 The win or learn mindset behind failing forward

17:07 Why players are treated like adults with no curfews

24:44 Transactional versus transformational team building

26:18 How the player-led Lion Council keeps standards high

28:00 The lion, chameleon, turtle, and bull personality framework

Connect with Rick Fremin


Connect with me


#SoftballTeamCulture #SoftballCoaching #DivisionOneSoftball #TravelSoftball #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballLeadership #SoftballMentalToughness #SoutheasternLouisianaSoftball #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #RickFremin #SoftballDad #SoftballMom #YouthSoftball #SoftballDevelopment #SoftballMindset

]]>e8c68dac-2888-4b66-b507-60e16238e2d0Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:15:00 -040032:28falsefull003: Bill Conroy Sent 529 Kids to College Softball. Here’s What Happened Next | Coach Pat003: Bill Conroy Sent 529 Kids to College Softball. Here’s What Happened Next | Coach PatTravel softball recruiting advice from someone who has sent 529 players to college ball starts right here.

In this episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat sits down with Bill Conroy, founder of the Beverly Bandits and the original Chicago Bandits professional team, who has spent over 30 years guiding families through camps, showcases, and the recruiting process.

Bill breaks down why one smart camp choice can save a family thousands of dollars, how the new five for five rule and transfer portal are reshaping college rosters, and why he caps parent coaches at three years max to protect kids from favoritism. He also shares the story behind Empowering Girls for Life, the nonprofit that gave out $140,000 in scholarships last year.

If you're trying to understand where the real value is in recruiting, this conversation cuts through the noise.

You’ll learn:

  • Why one local recruiting camp with several college programs in attendance can outperform four separate out of state camps that cost $8,000 total.
  • How the new five for five eligibility rule is changing the way college softball players plan their four to five years on a roster.
  • Why Bill Conroy caps parent coaches at two to three years on a team to avoid favoritism as recruiting decisions get made.
  • What percentage of transfer portal athletes actually land in a better spot, according to Bill's estimate from three decades of recruiting.
  • Why building real relationships with college coaches takes years, not a single strong season, before a travel program gets real recruiting traction.
  • How Empowering Girls for Life grew from a single event into a nonprofit that gave out $140,000 in scholarships last year.

We talk about:

00:00 How Bill Conroy backed into coaching softball by accident

02:07 Building the Beverly Bandits from rec ball to a national title

04:05 Why he almost coached in Chicago's first pro softball league

09:52 Should young players go to college recruiting camps

12:12 Why one smart camp beats four expensive flights

13:35 How COVID and new rules changed softball recruiting for good

17:00 Why parent coaches need a built in expiration date

23:42 The years it takes to build real college coach relationships

25:06 What actually happens behind the scenes at PGF Nationals

27:00 The truth about the Colorado 4th of July tournaments

30:22 Why Empowering Girls for Life started and what it's grown into

Connect with Bill Conroy


Connect with me


#TravelSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #CollegeSoftball #PGF #BeverlyBandits #SoftballCamps #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballShowcase #DivisionOneSoftball #SoftballScholarships #EmpoweringGirlsForLife #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #SoftballDad #SoftballMom #TravelBall #YouthSoftball

]]>Travel softball recruiting advice from someone who has sent 529 players to college ball starts right here.

In this episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat sits down with Bill Conroy, founder of the Beverly Bandits and the original Chicago Bandits professional team, who has spent over 30 years guiding families through camps, showcases, and the recruiting process.

Bill breaks down why one smart camp choice can save a family thousands of dollars, how the new five for five rule and transfer portal are reshaping college rosters, and why he caps parent coaches at three years max to protect kids from favoritism. He also shares the story behind Empowering Girls for Life, the nonprofit that gave out $140,000 in scholarships last year.

If you're trying to understand where the real value is in recruiting, this conversation cuts through the noise.

You’ll learn:

  • Why one local recruiting camp with several college programs in attendance can outperform four separate out of state camps that cost $8,000 total.
  • How the new five for five eligibility rule is changing the way college softball players plan their four to five years on a roster.
  • Why Bill Conroy caps parent coaches at two to three years on a team to avoid favoritism as recruiting decisions get made.
  • What percentage of transfer portal athletes actually land in a better spot, according to Bill's estimate from three decades of recruiting.
  • Why building real relationships with college coaches takes years, not a single strong season, before a travel program gets real recruiting traction.
  • How Empowering Girls for Life grew from a single event into a nonprofit that gave out $140,000 in scholarships last year.

We talk about:

00:00 How Bill Conroy backed into coaching softball by accident

02:07 Building the Beverly Bandits from rec ball to a national title

04:05 Why he almost coached in Chicago's first pro softball league

09:52 Should young players go to college recruiting camps

12:12 Why one smart camp beats four expensive flights

13:35 How COVID and new rules changed softball recruiting for good

17:00 Why parent coaches need a built in expiration date

23:42 The years it takes to build real college coach relationships

25:06 What actually happens behind the scenes at PGF Nationals

27:00 The truth about the Colorado 4th of July tournaments

30:22 Why Empowering Girls for Life started and what it's grown into

Connect with Bill Conroy


Connect with me


#TravelSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #CollegeSoftball #PGF #BeverlyBandits #SoftballCamps #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballShowcase #DivisionOneSoftball #SoftballScholarships #EmpoweringGirlsForLife #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #SoftballDad #SoftballMom #TravelBall #YouthSoftball

]]>3f5e9c97-50a0-4471-bda5-b6f4f2058871Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:10:00 -040036:21falsefull002: 37 Years, 8 Titles, One Coaching Rule with Mike Candrea | Coach Pat002: 37 Years, 8 Titles, One Coaching Rule with Mike Candrea | Coach PatYouth softball coaching tips from a legend anchor this episode of Inside the Circle.

Coach Pat sits down with Mike Candrea, the winningest coach in NCAA softball history, who spent 37 years building the University of Arizona program into eight national championships and two Olympic medals.

If you're a parent or coach trying to figure out what actually helps a young athlete grow, this conversation is for you. Coach Candrea and Coach Pat dig into team culture, why recruiting a family matters as much as recruiting a player, and why he learned to coach the person before the athlete.

They talk through the physical, mental, and emotional order that works best for female athletes, why travel ball's one practice for five games model creates real gaps, and how fundamentals like long toss and position versatility still win out over flashy training. It's a conversation about building something that lasts longer than a season.

You’ll learn:

  • Why building softball team culture today means getting buy-in from the team instead of just dictating standards from the top down.
  • What Mike Candrea looks for when recruiting families, not just players, and why character at home predicts character on the field.
  • Why the physical, mental, and emotional order most coaches use should be reversed for female athletes, starting with emotional trust first.
  • How the high energy, high output, low drama framework helped Coach Candrea build championship rosters at Arizona.
  • Why travel ball's one practice for five games model creates a gap that college programs are built to avoid.
  • What role long toss and position versatility play in developing young softball players before they specialize.
  • Why teaching kids to connect the dots and understand why they do things matters more than any single drill.

We talk about:

00:00 Remembering assistant coach Larry Ray and his impact on the game

01:30 Meet Mike Candrea, the winningest coach in NCAA softball history

02:16 How Coach Candrea went from baseball to fastpitch softball

09:52 Why team culture today has to come from the inside out

11:20 What travel ball and college softball share about relationships

13:21 Why the mental health conversation looks different today

17:36 How overcoming adversity matters more than easy success

20:38 What the five pillars of culture look like in practice

28:36 Why coaching the person comes before coaching the athlete

30:49 The problem with practicing once and playing five games

41:07 Why kids need to know why they do what they do

44:07 What long toss can and cannot fix

Connect with Mike Candrea

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mike-candrea-a6a4b219/

Website: https://arizonawildcats.com/sports/softball/roster/coaches/mike-candrea/5249

Connect with me


#SoftballCoaching #YouthSoftball #TravelBall #14USoftball #SoftballTeamCulture #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballParents #SoftballMom #SoftballDad #SoftballFundamentals #YouthSportsCoaching #SportsParenting #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #MikeCandrea #ArizonaSoftball #SoftballHistory #SoftballLifeLessons

]]>Youth softball coaching tips from a legend anchor this episode of Inside the Circle.

Coach Pat sits down with Mike Candrea, the winningest coach in NCAA softball history, who spent 37 years building the University of Arizona program into eight national championships and two Olympic medals.

If you're a parent or coach trying to figure out what actually helps a young athlete grow, this conversation is for you. Coach Candrea and Coach Pat dig into team culture, why recruiting a family matters as much as recruiting a player, and why he learned to coach the person before the athlete.

They talk through the physical, mental, and emotional order that works best for female athletes, why travel ball's one practice for five games model creates real gaps, and how fundamentals like long toss and position versatility still win out over flashy training. It's a conversation about building something that lasts longer than a season.

You’ll learn:

  • Why building softball team culture today means getting buy-in from the team instead of just dictating standards from the top down.
  • What Mike Candrea looks for when recruiting families, not just players, and why character at home predicts character on the field.
  • Why the physical, mental, and emotional order most coaches use should be reversed for female athletes, starting with emotional trust first.
  • How the high energy, high output, low drama framework helped Coach Candrea build championship rosters at Arizona.
  • Why travel ball's one practice for five games model creates a gap that college programs are built to avoid.
  • What role long toss and position versatility play in developing young softball players before they specialize.
  • Why teaching kids to connect the dots and understand why they do things matters more than any single drill.

We talk about:

00:00 Remembering assistant coach Larry Ray and his impact on the game

01:30 Meet Mike Candrea, the winningest coach in NCAA softball history

02:16 How Coach Candrea went from baseball to fastpitch softball

09:52 Why team culture today has to come from the inside out

11:20 What travel ball and college softball share about relationships

13:21 Why the mental health conversation looks different today

17:36 How overcoming adversity matters more than easy success

20:38 What the five pillars of culture look like in practice

28:36 Why coaching the person comes before coaching the athlete

30:49 The problem with practicing once and playing five games

41:07 Why kids need to know why they do what they do

44:07 What long toss can and cannot fix

Connect with Mike Candrea

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mike-candrea-a6a4b219/

Website: https://arizonawildcats.com/sports/softball/roster/coaches/mike-candrea/5249

Connect with me


#SoftballCoaching #YouthSoftball #TravelBall #14USoftball #SoftballTeamCulture #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballParents #SoftballMom #SoftballDad #SoftballFundamentals #YouthSportsCoaching #SportsParenting #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #MikeCandrea #ArizonaSoftball #SoftballHistory #SoftballLifeLessons

]]>fca3299a-5707-405a-9e1f-c565654fcf66Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:05:00 -040049:33falsefull001: Three Lessons Every Travel Softball Parent Needs | Coach Pat001: Three Lessons Every Travel Softball Parent Needs | Coach PatTravel softball for parents often starts with a pretty pink bat, a matching helmet, and a hit that lands on grandma's Facebook. It rarely stays that simple.

In this solo episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat, a youth and travel fastpitch coach with over 20 years of experience and a strong track record of college placements, lays out the three things every parent of a 14U and under athlete needs to hear before the confusion, the politics, and the pressure set in.

Coach Pat walks through what he wishes he'd known in year one, what two decades of coaching youth sports has actually taught him, and why this podcast exists for the parent in the bleachers, whether they're brand new or already a little worn down.

You'll walk away with a clearer sense of what to expect from the travel softball journey and why the scoreboard matters far less than the relationships your daughter builds along the way.

You’ll learn:

  • Why travel softball for parents rarely stays as simple as it looks in year one, and what actually changes once the pressure and the politics show up.
  • What Coach Pat wishes he knew when he started coaching youth sports, and how that perspective shifts once you've been through the full recruiting and travel ball cycle.
  • Why the most talented players are not always the ones who go the furthest, and what actually predicts long-term success in youth sports.
  • How a coach earns a player's trust before they can push that player into real growth, and why that process cannot be rushed.
  • Why kids remember the relationships and the road trips from travel softball long after they forget the wins and the losses.
  • What role parents should play on the ride home after a game, win or lose, according to Coach Pat's 20 years of coaching experience.

We talk about:

00:00 Why every softball parent's journey feels unique but familiar

00:38 Why travel softball turns confusing so fast

01:51 Point one, what Coach Pat wishes he knew then

02:45 Why pressure builds quietly on talented young players

03:42 Why kids remember relationships, not wins and losses

04:33 Point two, 20 years of coaching youth sports

05:26 Why talent alone does not predict how far kids go

06:09 How a coach earns a player's trust over time

06:50 What parents should do on the ride home

08:16 Point three, why Inside the Circle exists

09:00 Meet next episode's guest, Coach Mike Candrea

Connect with me


#TravelSoftball #YouthSoftball #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballCoaching #YouthSportsParenting #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballMom #SoftballDad #TravelBall #SoftballLife #YouthAthletes #SportsParenting #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #SoftballJourney #YouthSportsCoaching #SoftballTips

]]>Travel softball for parents often starts with a pretty pink bat, a matching helmet, and a hit that lands on grandma's Facebook. It rarely stays that simple.

In this solo episode of Inside the Circle, Coach Pat, a youth and travel fastpitch coach with over 20 years of experience and a strong track record of college placements, lays out the three things every parent of a 14U and under athlete needs to hear before the confusion, the politics, and the pressure set in.

Coach Pat walks through what he wishes he'd known in year one, what two decades of coaching youth sports has actually taught him, and why this podcast exists for the parent in the bleachers, whether they're brand new or already a little worn down.

You'll walk away with a clearer sense of what to expect from the travel softball journey and why the scoreboard matters far less than the relationships your daughter builds along the way.

You’ll learn:

  • Why travel softball for parents rarely stays as simple as it looks in year one, and what actually changes once the pressure and the politics show up.
  • What Coach Pat wishes he knew when he started coaching youth sports, and how that perspective shifts once you've been through the full recruiting and travel ball cycle.
  • Why the most talented players are not always the ones who go the furthest, and what actually predicts long-term success in youth sports.
  • How a coach earns a player's trust before they can push that player into real growth, and why that process cannot be rushed.
  • Why kids remember the relationships and the road trips from travel softball long after they forget the wins and the losses.
  • What role parents should play on the ride home after a game, win or lose, according to Coach Pat's 20 years of coaching experience.

We talk about:

00:00 Why every softball parent's journey feels unique but familiar

00:38 Why travel softball turns confusing so fast

01:51 Point one, what Coach Pat wishes he knew then

02:45 Why pressure builds quietly on talented young players

03:42 Why kids remember relationships, not wins and losses

04:33 Point two, 20 years of coaching youth sports

05:26 Why talent alone does not predict how far kids go

06:09 How a coach earns a player's trust over time

06:50 What parents should do on the ride home

08:16 Point three, why Inside the Circle exists

09:00 Meet next episode's guest, Coach Mike Candrea

Connect with me


#TravelSoftball #YouthSoftball #SoftballParents #14USoftball #SoftballCoaching #YouthSportsParenting #FastpitchSoftball #SoftballRecruiting #SoftballMom #SoftballDad #TravelBall #SoftballLife #YouthAthletes #SportsParenting #SoftballCommunity #InsideTheCircle #CoachPat #SoftballJourney #YouthSportsCoaching #SoftballTips

]]>5cf024f8-1774-4c09-99ee-4298b7c27d10Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:00:00 -040011:06falsefullTrailer | Welcome Inside the Circle with Coach PatTrailer | Welcome Inside the Circle with Coach PatYouth sports can be one of the greatest experiences of your family's life. It can also be one of the most overwhelming.

Between the recruiting pressure, the tournament schedules, the team drama, and the constant noise about what your kid should be doing next, it's easy to lose sight of why you started in the first place. Inside the Circle with Coach Pat cuts through all of it.

Coach Pat is a youth and travel softball coach with over 20 years of experience and a track record of helping dozens of athletes reach college softball. Known for his calm, firm coaching style and his belief that sport is one of the best classrooms life has to offer, Coach Pat brings the inside perspective that most people in youth sports don't want to say out loud.

Every episode features honest conversations with college coaches, tournament directors, travel ball organizations, and people who've built programs that last. We talk about team culture, player development, coaching fundamentals, the recruiting process, and the mindset that keeps families grounded when the pressure gets loud.

This show is for the parents sitting in the bleachers trying to figure it all out. It's for the new coach who wants to do right by their players. And it's for the athlete who is starting to take the game seriously and wants to understand what the journey ahead really looks like.

Every kid's journey is unique and this show exists to help you navigate yours.

New episodes every other week. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube.

Connect here

  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coach_pat_fastpitch/
  • Website: https://coachpatfastpitch.com/

]]>Youth sports can be one of the greatest experiences of your family's life. It can also be one of the most overwhelming.

Between the recruiting pressure, the tournament schedules, the team drama, and the constant noise about what your kid should be doing next, it's easy to lose sight of why you started in the first place. Inside the Circle with Coach Pat cuts through all of it.

Coach Pat is a youth and travel softball coach with over 20 years of experience and a track record of helping dozens of athletes reach college softball. Known for his calm, firm coaching style and his belief that sport is one of the best classrooms life has to offer, Coach Pat brings the inside perspective that most people in youth sports don't want to say out loud.

Every episode features honest conversations with college coaches, tournament directors, travel ball organizations, and people who've built programs that last. We talk about team culture, player development, coaching fundamentals, the recruiting process, and the mindset that keeps families grounded when the pressure gets loud.

This show is for the parents sitting in the bleachers trying to figure it all out. It's for the new coach who wants to do right by their players. And it's for the athlete who is starting to take the game seriously and wants to understand what the journey ahead really looks like.

Every kid's journey is unique and this show exists to help you navigate yours.

New episodes every other week. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube.

Connect here

  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coach_pat_fastpitch/
  • Website: https://coachpatfastpitch.com/

]]>76e85313-479c-4188-8577-edc88a71b028Mon, 13 Jul 2026 04:00:00 -040001:50falsetrailer