We sit back reflect on the show and also make wishes for us individually, collectively and as well as what we want for you all out there!

We will return in 2026!

Stay Tuned and find out then, WHAT ARE WE EVEN TALKING ABOUT?

The momentous occasion of WAWETA's 18th birthday marks a significant milestone, as we relinquish control to our esteemed guest, Kwame', also known as THE VIBE CREATOR. In this extraordinary episode, we engage in a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges the boundaries of our usual discussions and allows Kwame' to dictate the narrative. Our conversation promises to traverse uncharted territories, as we delve into topics that are both unexpected and deeply resonant. Listeners are invited to partake in this unique exploration, where the spontaneity of Kwame's insights may lead us to profound revelations. Join us as we celebrate this pivotal transition and uncover what intriguing themes Kwame' has in store for us.

Takeaways:

• In this distinct episode, we relinquish the control of our podcast to our esteemed guest, Kwame', marking a significant milestone as we celebrate our 18th episode, akin to the metaphorical coming of age.
• The conversation delves into the essence of vulnerability, showcasing how it serves as a superpower for both the hosts and the guest, enabling deeper connections and authentic exchanges.
• Throughout this episode, we explore the complexities of being a Libra, particularly the incessant overthinking and indecision that often accompany this zodiac sign's quest for balance and harmony.
• Listeners are encouraged to embrace the notion that every decision is an opportunity for growth, underscoring the importance of trusting oneself amidst the uncertainties of life.

As all of us Libras are taking our trip around the sun, what are the things about you celebrate about yourself, some of the things that hold you back and lastly what are the things holding you back?

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we meticulously examined the intricate dynamics of leadership styles and their implications.
• We articulated the significance of effective communication in fostering a collaborative work environment.
• Our discussion encompassed the critical role of emotional intelligence in enhancing interpersonal relationships.
• We explored the transformative power of resilience in overcoming challenges and adversity in the workplace.
• The episode provided insights into the necessity of adaptability in an ever-evolving professional landscape.
• We emphasized the importance of continuous learning and self-improvement for professional development.

In this episode we are joined by our very first guest, YoItsYahYah from TikTok to join in on the fun as dig deeper in what it means to be a libra based on our individual life experiences

The podcast episode featuring the debut guest, YoItsYahYah, delves into the intricate nuances of being a Libra, a topic both hosts and their guest navigate through personal anecdotes and shared experiences. The conversation unfolds with a light-hearted introduction, where the hosts enthusiastically welcome Yaya, establishing a convivial atmosphere that sets the stage for deeper discussions. As the episode progresses, the trio engages in a profound exploration of Libra characteristics, blending humor with introspection. Each participant reflects on their individual experiences, effectively illustrating how these traits manifest in their lives. Yaya's insights into his journey as a Libra, particularly the balance between charm and the struggle for honesty, resonate with the audience, prompting a collective reflection on self-awareness and personal growth.

The episode also touches on the importance of empathy and relational dynamics, a theme that resonates deeply with Libras, who are often seen as the peacemakers of the zodiac. The dialogue seamlessly transitions from light banter to serious discussions about emotional intelligence and the challenges of maintaining balance in personal relationships. Yaya’s candidness about his journey in the cosmetology field, coupled with the hosts’ reflections on their own paths, creates a rich tapestry of narratives that highlight the complexities of being a Libra. The conversation culminates in a thoughtful dialogue about the significance of self-love and the power of vulnerability, leaving listeners with a sense of connection and belonging.

The episode concludes with a celebration of individuality and the unique traits that make each Libra special. The hosts express gratitude for the opportunity to share this platform with their guest, emphasizing the power of community and support among friends. The episode is not just a casual chat; it is a heartfelt exploration of identity, self-acceptance, and the shared experiences that bind us all, making it a compelling listen for anyone seeking understanding of the Libra experience.

We talk about joy and what makes us happy. We breakdown certain things we had to realize as we have gotten older and we really break down what it mean to be a LIBRA

This podcast episode delves into the intricate dynamics of interpersonal relationships and their profound impact on individual well-being. We explore the various factors that contribute to the formation and maintenance of these connections, emphasizing the significance of communication and empathy. Through a series of thoughtful discussions, we examine how misunderstandings can arise and the ways in which they can be effectively addressed. Additionally, we reflect on the role that cultural backgrounds play in shaping our interactions with others. Ultimately, we aim to provide listeners with insights that foster deeper understanding and more harmonious relationships in their lives.

In this episode, King Christopher and SIr PJ dig deep into what it means to pivot. We share our deep thoughts and experiences on what it looks like and when is it time to do it. We talk about how our insecurities play a factor and even talk about removing yourself from people can help the process be successful based on our experiences and opinions.

This episode presents a compelling exploration of personal evolution and the challenges associated with transformative life changes. The conversation begins with Christopher revealing their recent decision to leave a job that no longer aligns with their aspirations. This pivotal moment is framed within the context of cosmic shifts, suggesting that these changes are not only personal but also influenced by larger astrological forces. Christopher expresses a profound sense of excitement and anticipation as they witness their long-held dreams beginning to materialize, a sentiment that resonates deeply with the listeners.

The dialogue shifts to a more intimate realm as Christopher recounts a recent significant experience, reflecting on themes of self-worth and confidence. Their candidness about personal relationships and the complexities of intimacy offers a rich tapestry of emotions that many can relate to. They delve into the nuances of vulnerability, emphasizing the need for open communication and mutual understanding in relationships. This segment encourages listeners to embrace their desires and acknowledge their fears, fostering a sense of empowerment.

As the conversation unfolds, the speakers touch upon the importance of community and the transformative power of shared experiences. They urge listeners to engage with the world around them, advocating for stepping outside comfort zones as a means of growth. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder that change is an integral part of life, and embracing these pivots can lead to new opportunities for joy and fulfillment.

Takeaways:

• The podcast emphasizes the importance of honest communication and vulnerability in relationships, fostering deeper connections between individuals.
• Listeners are encouraged to embrace personal transformations as a natural part of growth, highlighting the significance of patience and faith in the process.
• The hosts discuss the need for self-compassion during challenging times, stressing that feelings of inadequacy do not define one’s worth or potential.
• It is acknowledged that navigating the complexities of mental health can be daunting, yet support systems and self-awareness are crucial in overcoming obstacles.
• The conversation highlights the necessity of setting boundaries in personal and professional relationships to maintain mental well-being and self-respect.
• The podcast stresses that embracing change, even when uncomfortable, is essential for personal development and achieving one's goals.

In this episode we are trying our best to get through the conversation as we are having libations. As we are getting ready for the new season. What are we ready to let go and what are we letting in?

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we engage in a reflective discourse about the seasonal transitions we encounter, contemplating what we are prepared to relinquish and what we wish to embrace moving forward.
• Our conversation is imbued with the influence of libations, which adds a layer of authenticity and candidness to our discussion about personal growth and transformation.
• We explore the challenging emotions associated with feeling lonely during transitional periods and the desire to connect with others while simultaneously pushing them away.
• The significance of boundaries is emphasized as we navigate our personal lives, advocating for the importance of maintaining one's own space amidst external pressures and opinions.
• As we prepare for a new season, we deliberate on the necessity of shedding unproductive habits and fostering healthier practices that align with our aspirations for personal fulfillment.
• The podcast underscores the importance of being present in our experiences, recognizing that growth often comes from discomfort, and allowing ourselves the space to process our feelings.

In this episode we dig deep into the lies we tell ourselves. We go even deeper and figure out what authenticity means for each of us

The exploration of self-deception looms large in the discourse of personal development and authenticity. Our discussion endeavors to unearth the intricate layers of the lies we tell ourselves, often veiled in the guise of self-preservation or societal acceptance. We embark upon a profound examination of the narratives we construct, which may serve to protect us from confronting uncomfortable truths about our emotions, desires, and limitations. Through candid reflections, we illuminate the path toward authentic existence, advocating for a rigorous self-examination that allows us to discern truth from fiction in our internal dialogue. What does it mean to be authentic in a world that often rewards duplicity? This inquiry leads us to confront our fears and the discomfort that accompanies vulnerability, ultimately positing that the journey to authenticity is fraught with challenges yet replete with the potential for profound personal growth.

In this episode we take a deep dive into the world of gratitude and it shows up in our lives.

What are you doing to show gratitude? Tell us all about it @ waweta.cast@gmail.com

Takeaways:

• The discussion centers around the complexities of sexual identity and the perceptions that come with it, highlighting how societal expectations shape individual experiences.
• Both speakers reflect on their personal journeys regarding sexual attraction, revealing a nuanced understanding of masculinity and femininity in their interactions with others.
• The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's emotional availability and the potential impact of past experiences on current relationships.
• There is a critical exploration of the dynamics of respect and consent in sexual encounters, underscoring the significance of open communication in establishing boundaries.
• Listeners are encouraged to engage with their emotions and experiences, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships with others.
• The podcast advocates for the practice of gratitude as a means of personal growth, illustrating how recognizing positive aspects in life can cultivate resilience and hope.

Links referenced in this episode:

• waweda.podcast

in this episode we dive deep but not too deep into the thoughts of imposter syndrome and how that has helped or hurt us

Takeaways:

• Imposter syndrome can manifest as self-doubt, leading us to question our worthiness in various situations.
• Acknowledging our past experiences is essential to understanding how they shape our present self-perception.
• The significance of encouragement from others cannot be overstated when combating feelings of inadequacy.
• Confronting imposter syndrome often involves recognizing our achievements and the hard work that brought us to our current positions.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Folgers
• Hoover
• Mitsubishi
• Chevrolet
• BC Powder
• Luther Vandross
• Destiny's Child
• Usher
• Brandy
• Monica
• Outcast
• Doja Cat
• SZA
• Beyonce
• India.Arie
• Jimmy Smith
• Phylicia Rashad
• Stephen McKinley Henderson
• Ruben Santiago Hudson
• Michelle Shea

In this episode, King Christopher & Sir PJ have had quite a day, week, month... actually its been a year! So we decided to do a mental health checkin.

When was the last time you did a mental health checkin with your friends? Been a while, thats ok. No time like the present to change that

Takeaways:

• The importance of conducting mental health check-ins with friends cannot be overstated, as it fosters deeper connections and understanding.
• Recognizing and acknowledging one's feelings is crucial, especially during periods of emotional turmoil or discontent.
• Engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfillment is essential for mental well-being and can alleviate feelings of loneliness.
• Creating a supportive environment where vulnerability is welcomed can significantly enhance the quality of friendships and personal growth.

In this episode we have a triggering conversation about Death & her baby sister Grief and what it has meant to navigate that in our every day lives.

If you are struggling with grief and hearing something like this triggers you, by all means take care you first... We will be here when you get back!

So for now,

Let's Vibe

In this episode we talk about the intricacies and difficulties that comes with dealing with an unsupportive parent when it comes to your sexuality. PJ goes into EXTENSIVE details about his experiences while Christopher tries to keep him from going off the deep end. How many of you can relate?

Let's Vibe!

Exploring the profound and often painful intersections of parental expectations and personal authenticity, this episode presents a raw and honest dialogue between PJ and Christopher. PJ opens up about his tumultuous relationship with his mother, whose rigid beliefs regarding sexuality have not only created distance but also a sense of inadequacy within him. The emotional weight of PJ's experiences is palpable as he recounts pivotal moments that have defined his path toward self-acceptance. Christopher's presence in the discussion acts as a grounding force, allowing for a more nuanced exploration of the topic without veering into despair. Together, they navigate the complexities of love, acceptance, and the longing for familial connection, all while acknowledging the harsh realities faced by many in the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is a poignant reminder of the importance of empathy and understanding in familial relationships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences of love and acceptance, ultimately fostering a sense of solidarity among those who may share similar struggles.

Takeaways:

• Navigating the complexities of an unsupportive parental relationship regarding one's sexuality can be profoundly challenging and emotionally taxing.
• The journey to acceptance within familial dynamics often necessitates immense resilience and the capacity for personal growth over time.
• Communication between parents and children about sexual orientation is crucial but can be hindered by ignorance and deeply rooted beliefs.
• The experiences shared in this episode resonate with many who have faced similar struggles in seeking acceptance from their parents regarding their identity.

Links referenced in this episode:

• waweta.podcast

In this episode we break down friendships as adults. When is time to walk sway from those you called your friends? What do we want from our friends and figure out ways to become better friends to those we choose.... and for all the others we got one message for y'all... GET UP OUT MY FACE!

LET'S VIBE!

Takeaways:

• The dynamics of adult friendships evolve, requiring us to reassess our expectations and commitments.
• It is imperative to establish healthy boundaries in friendships to protect one's mental well-being.
• Authenticity in friendships is essential; friends should encourage rather than judge each other's choices.
• Navigating friendships as adults can be challenging, particularly when past experiences influence current connections.

This episode delves into the intricacies of sexual history, inviting listeners to explore their own experiences in a judgment-free environment. We candidly discuss our respective journeys with sexual encounters, revealing personal anecdotes that illuminate our evolving perspectives on intimacy and desire. Amidst the explicit narratives, we emphasize the importance of honesty and vulnerability, fostering a connection that encourages open dialogue about topics often considered taboo. As we navigate through our stories, we also reflect on the broader implications of sexual expression and the societal perceptions surrounding it. Join us as we embrace this safe space to share, learn, and perhaps even challenge our own notions of sexuality.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Sir Davis
• Beyonce
• Lunazul Vodka

Let's Vibe!

Takeaways:

• The significance of self-awareness in the dating process cannot be overstated, as understanding oneself fosters healthier relationships.
• Past dating experiences often illuminate the need for better communication and clearer intentions in relationships moving forward.
• Recognizing personal growth is essential; lessons learned from previous relationships guide individuals towards more fulfilling connections.
• Mutual respect and accountability are crucial in any relationship, as they create a safe environment for vulnerability and growth.
• Dating requires intentionality; being aware of one's desires and boundaries leads to more meaningful connections than simply relying on chemistry.
• The journey of dating is inherently tied to self-discovery, and thus, one must prioritize personal development alongside seeking companionship.

Ask yourself... What does fear mean to me? Where does this fear come? Is it real or it imagined

• Ryan Coogler
• Rotten Tomatoes
• Michael B. Jordan

Welcome to the very first episode of the What Are We Even Talking About? Podcast!

We’re just two Libras  — King Christopher (you might know him from One Moment At A Time) and Sir PJ aka PJ Ryan (Creator and Cohost of Highly Melanated and The Dear You Project) — who decided to link up and create a space where real conversations can flow, laughs are guaranteed, and nothing is off-limits.

In this intro episode, we’re keeping it chill — just giving you a little peek into who we are, how this podcast came to be, and what you can expect as we figure it all out together.

Let’s vibe.