<![CDATA[Liberation Wisdom Podcast]]>a24fadd1-fcbd-5b51-8cc1-ab89b6b52bc2Fri, 03 Apr 2026 07:00:07 +0000Captivate.fmKayla Moorehttps://artwork.captivate.fm/79fe4cac-9300-4b98-85aa-b210be97acd4/Liberation-Wisdom-Podcast-1.jpgLiberation Wisdom PodcastKayla MooreKayla MooreLiberation Wisdom is a podcast for seekers, healers, and anyone who feels the old world crumbling and the new one trying to be born. Hosted by Kayla Moore — a Sacred Feminine Priestess in Training and guide on this journey of walking as love in a world of chaos. This podcast bridges galactic, clinical, and sacred feminine wisdom with grounded, real-world transformation. Each episode explores three core themes: liberating ourselves from patriarchal wounds by choosing love and community over fear and control; weaving the divine feminine and masculine back into sacred harmony; and revealing tangible evidence of how the new Earth is manifesting through shifting collective consciousness. This isn't spiritual bypassing. Kayla holds space for grief, rage, confusion, and hope — alchemizing it all into a frequency of love and light to cast our collective vision for the creation of new earth. Whether you're navigating shadow work, reclaiming your sacred body and pleasure, understanding cosmic shifts, doing relationship healing, or simply trying to choose love in a fear-driven world — this podcast is your sacred container. Through solo episodes, Liberation Wisdom offers mystical insight and practical guidance for co-creating the world we know is possible. Always choose love.https://www.connectedpleasurecoaching.comtrueepisodicnopodcastSupport the show!From God-Fearing to God-Loving: How Patriarchal Religion Harms RelationshipsFrom God-Fearing to God-Loving: How Patriarchal Religion Harms RelationshipsWhat does it really mean when someone says they want a "God-fearing" partner? And what harm does that language do to how we show up in relationships?

In this episode, Kayla unpacks the phrase "God-fearing" — where it comes from, what it reveals about patriarchal religion, and why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics. She explores how externalizing our connection to the divine through gatekeepers (priests, pastors, religious leaders) disconnects us from our own divinity and reinforces hierarchy and control.

Kayla shares the difference between Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies (fire and container, not dominance and submission), and reveals the sacred partnership between Jesus and Mary Magdalene that patriarchy erased from history. She invites us to shift from "God-fearing" to "God-loving" — choosing unconditional love over fear, connection over separation, and co-creation over control.

This episode is a call to remember: God is love. Not fear. And healthy relationships — with the divine, with each other, with ourselves — are built on love, safety, and sacred union.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What "God-fearing" really means (and why it's harmful)
  • How patriarchal religion externalizes our connection to the divine
  • Why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics
  • The difference between patriarchal masculinity and Divine Masculine
  • Divine Feminine as fire, Divine Masculine as container (not control)
  • The Great Mother: unconditional love with no conditions
  • Jesus and Mary Magdalene as sacred union (the lost teachings)
  • How Jesus embodied love for the marginalized, not fear and separation
  • Why "God-loving" is the shift we need
  • We are all divine — we came from a womb, our souls chose to be here
  • Sacred Fire Circle announcement (April 12, Gig Harbor WA)

This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.

Sacred Fire Circle (In Person Women's Circle) - Sunday, April 12

10am - 12pm

Gig Harbor, WA | A Touch of Meraki - Gather Room

Alchemize grief and rage into joy and vision

Finally release your grief and rage without drowning in it or carrying the weight of the world alone! Link in show notes

CLICK HERE TO JOIN!

Kayla will be taking a 3-week break from the podcast (spring break + prep time). Back in late April!

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>What does it really mean when someone says they want a "God-fearing" partner? And what harm does that language do to how we show up in relationships?

In this episode, Kayla unpacks the phrase "God-fearing" — where it comes from, what it reveals about patriarchal religion, and why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics. She explores how externalizing our connection to the divine through gatekeepers (priests, pastors, religious leaders) disconnects us from our own divinity and reinforces hierarchy and control.

Kayla shares the difference between Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies (fire and container, not dominance and submission), and reveals the sacred partnership between Jesus and Mary Magdalene that patriarchy erased from history. She invites us to shift from "God-fearing" to "God-loving" — choosing unconditional love over fear, connection over separation, and co-creation over control.

This episode is a call to remember: God is love. Not fear. And healthy relationships — with the divine, with each other, with ourselves — are built on love, safety, and sacred union.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What "God-fearing" really means (and why it's harmful)
  • How patriarchal religion externalizes our connection to the divine
  • Why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics
  • The difference between patriarchal masculinity and Divine Masculine
  • Divine Feminine as fire, Divine Masculine as container (not control)
  • The Great Mother: unconditional love with no conditions
  • Jesus and Mary Magdalene as sacred union (the lost teachings)
  • How Jesus embodied love for the marginalized, not fear and separation
  • Why "God-loving" is the shift we need
  • We are all divine — we came from a womb, our souls chose to be here
  • Sacred Fire Circle announcement (April 12, Gig Harbor WA)

This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.

Sacred Fire Circle (In Person Women's Circle) - Sunday, April 12

10am - 12pm

Gig Harbor, WA | A Touch of Meraki - Gather Room

Alchemize grief and rage into joy and vision

Finally release your grief and rage without drowning in it or carrying the weight of the world alone! Link in show notes

CLICK HERE TO JOIN!

Kayla will be taking a 3-week break from the podcast (spring break + prep time). Back in late April!

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>49c3f27e-67f4-4cfe-90b0-7ad482f47708Fri, 03 Apr 2026 00:00:00 -070035:50truefull1441The Patriarchy Is the Problem (And Love Is the Answer)The Patriarchy Is the Problem (And Love Is the Answer)The patriarchy isn't just about men versus women — it's a system that's harming everyone. And it's crumbling.

In this episode, Kayla breaks down what the patriarchy actually is, where it came from, and why fighting it with love (not more violence) is the only way forward.

She explores the difference between patriarchy (hierarchy, domination, extraction) and matriarchy (community, circle, care for women and children at the center). She traces how we got here — from the Roman Empire to the Industrial Revolution to right now, this moment where the wheels are coming off and the system is in its extinction burst.

But here's the thing: they want us divided. They want us blaming each other — immigrants, neighbors, anyone but the system itself. Because when we see each other's humanity, when we link arms and say "no more," we become unstoppable.

Kayla also shares about Sacred Fire Circle — her new in-person offering where we alchemize grief and rage into joy, pleasure, and a collective vision for the new Earth. And she invites listeners to join the No Kings Day protest as an act of love, community, and resistance.

This episode is a call to step outside the patriarchal playbook and choose something different: love over fear, community over division, joy over greed.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What the patriarchy actually is (and what it isn't)
  • The difference between patriarchy and matriarchy
  • How the patriarchy has only existed for ~5,000 years (we lived differently before)
  • Why division is the patriarchy's greatest weapon
  • How the system harms everyone — even the people at the top
  • Why we're in the "extinction burst" of patriarchy right now
  • Fighting corruption and greed with love (not more violence)
  • Seeing the humanity in people — even those we disagree with
  • Harry Potter, Voldemort, and the power of love (yes, really)
  • Sacred Fire Circle: alchemizing grief and rage into vision
  • Why protests are joyful, family-friendly acts of love
  • Small acts of kindness as revolutionary resistance

This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.

Sacred Fire Circle - In-Person Event

Sunday, April 12th | 10am-12pm PDT

A Touch of Meraki, Gig Harbor, WA - Gather Room

SIGN UP HERE!!

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>The patriarchy isn't just about men versus women — it's a system that's harming everyone. And it's crumbling.

In this episode, Kayla breaks down what the patriarchy actually is, where it came from, and why fighting it with love (not more violence) is the only way forward.

She explores the difference between patriarchy (hierarchy, domination, extraction) and matriarchy (community, circle, care for women and children at the center). She traces how we got here — from the Roman Empire to the Industrial Revolution to right now, this moment where the wheels are coming off and the system is in its extinction burst.

But here's the thing: they want us divided. They want us blaming each other — immigrants, neighbors, anyone but the system itself. Because when we see each other's humanity, when we link arms and say "no more," we become unstoppable.

Kayla also shares about Sacred Fire Circle — her new in-person offering where we alchemize grief and rage into joy, pleasure, and a collective vision for the new Earth. And she invites listeners to join the No Kings Day protest as an act of love, community, and resistance.

This episode is a call to step outside the patriarchal playbook and choose something different: love over fear, community over division, joy over greed.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What the patriarchy actually is (and what it isn't)
  • The difference between patriarchy and matriarchy
  • How the patriarchy has only existed for ~5,000 years (we lived differently before)
  • Why division is the patriarchy's greatest weapon
  • How the system harms everyone — even the people at the top
  • Why we're in the "extinction burst" of patriarchy right now
  • Fighting corruption and greed with love (not more violence)
  • Seeing the humanity in people — even those we disagree with
  • Harry Potter, Voldemort, and the power of love (yes, really)
  • Sacred Fire Circle: alchemizing grief and rage into vision
  • Why protests are joyful, family-friendly acts of love
  • Small acts of kindness as revolutionary resistance

This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.

Sacred Fire Circle - In-Person Event

Sunday, April 12th | 10am-12pm PDT

A Touch of Meraki, Gig Harbor, WA - Gather Room

SIGN UP HERE!!

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>641a8373-82ac-482a-9a53-cece372c73dbFri, 27 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -070036:06truefull1331Your Needs Matter Just as Much as HisYour Needs Matter Just as Much as HisWhat if taking your power back isn't selfish — it's sacred?

In this episode, Kayla explores a core wound many women carry: the belief that we must put others — especially men — before ourselves. This conditioning shows up everywhere: carrying the mental load, prioritizing partners' rest over our own, believing pleasure is only for them.

Kayla shares her own journey of unlearning generational programming that taught her to coddle men and treat them as incapable. She explores how this pattern shows up in motherhood, relationships, and especially sexual healing — where clients have been taught their bodies should follow a blueprint instead of being honored as variable and alive.

But here's the truth: when women step back from over-giving, it doesn't just free us — it empowers everyone. It invites men to actually step up and creates space for true co-creation.

This episode also grounds us in the Aries Equinox — the astrological New Year and a powerful portal for renewal. We're in a karmic burn, clearing old cycles to birth the new Earth. And it starts with healing these core wounds within ourselves first.

Always choose love.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>What if taking your power back isn't selfish — it's sacred?

In this episode, Kayla explores a core wound many women carry: the belief that we must put others — especially men — before ourselves. This conditioning shows up everywhere: carrying the mental load, prioritizing partners' rest over our own, believing pleasure is only for them.

Kayla shares her own journey of unlearning generational programming that taught her to coddle men and treat them as incapable. She explores how this pattern shows up in motherhood, relationships, and especially sexual healing — where clients have been taught their bodies should follow a blueprint instead of being honored as variable and alive.

But here's the truth: when women step back from over-giving, it doesn't just free us — it empowers everyone. It invites men to actually step up and creates space for true co-creation.

This episode also grounds us in the Aries Equinox — the astrological New Year and a powerful portal for renewal. We're in a karmic burn, clearing old cycles to birth the new Earth. And it starts with healing these core wounds within ourselves first.

Always choose love.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>36629544-be24-49de-b7db-4da4faafb34aFri, 20 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -070032:44truefull1221Liberation Wisdom: Walking as Love in a World of ChaosLiberation Wisdom: Walking as Love in a World of ChaosWhat if the shift you've been waiting for is already happening — and it starts with choosing love over productivity?

Welcome to Liberation Wisdom, a new iteration of this podcast where Kayla steps fully into her path as a Sacred Feminine priestess. This isn't about bypassing the darkness or pretending everything is fine — it's about walking as love in the face of chaos, and bridging galactic wisdom with the very real, tangible shifts happening in our collective consciousness right now.

In this first episode, Kayla introduces what it means to be a priestess (spoiler: it's walking as unconditional love), explains the sacred symbols guiding this work, and dives into a major shift she's witnessing in the collective: people are waking up to the truth that productivity culture is killing us. From parents rejecting the 40-60 hour work week to colleagues stepping back from burnout, to her own husband choosing family over corporate ladder-climbing — the ick is spreading. And it's creating the new Earth.

This episode explores how our disconnect from natural rhythms (especially in winter), the rise of AI, and a growing collective awareness are forcing us to redefine success, time, and money. The American Dream is dead. What comes next is up to us — and it starts with choosing love, rest, creativity, and connection over extraction.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. What it means to be a priestess and walk as love
  2. The sacred symbols of Liberation Wisdom (sapphire blue, the solar cross)
  3. Bridging galactic channeling, astrology, and psychology to understand collective shifts
  4. Why winter depression is about more than SAD — it's about stolen time for rest and reflection
  5. The collective "ick" spreading around productivity and corporate culture
  6. How people are starting to reject work that treats them as numbers, not humans
  7. Why you can be replaced at work but never at home
  8. The role of AI in dismantling (and rebuilding) our relationship to work
  9. Co-creating the new Earth through choosing family, creativity, and connection over capitalism
  10. How internal shifts create collective change (as within, so without)

This is Liberation Wisdom. This is the path of the priestess. Always choose love.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing Pleasure
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Book your Liberation Wisdom Session
  4. Book 45 minute FREE consultation

]]>What if the shift you've been waiting for is already happening — and it starts with choosing love over productivity?

Welcome to Liberation Wisdom, a new iteration of this podcast where Kayla steps fully into her path as a Sacred Feminine priestess. This isn't about bypassing the darkness or pretending everything is fine — it's about walking as love in the face of chaos, and bridging galactic wisdom with the very real, tangible shifts happening in our collective consciousness right now.

In this first episode, Kayla introduces what it means to be a priestess (spoiler: it's walking as unconditional love), explains the sacred symbols guiding this work, and dives into a major shift she's witnessing in the collective: people are waking up to the truth that productivity culture is killing us. From parents rejecting the 40-60 hour work week to colleagues stepping back from burnout, to her own husband choosing family over corporate ladder-climbing — the ick is spreading. And it's creating the new Earth.

This episode explores how our disconnect from natural rhythms (especially in winter), the rise of AI, and a growing collective awareness are forcing us to redefine success, time, and money. The American Dream is dead. What comes next is up to us — and it starts with choosing love, rest, creativity, and connection over extraction.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. What it means to be a priestess and walk as love
  2. The sacred symbols of Liberation Wisdom (sapphire blue, the solar cross)
  3. Bridging galactic channeling, astrology, and psychology to understand collective shifts
  4. Why winter depression is about more than SAD — it's about stolen time for rest and reflection
  5. The collective "ick" spreading around productivity and corporate culture
  6. How people are starting to reject work that treats them as numbers, not humans
  7. Why you can be replaced at work but never at home
  8. The role of AI in dismantling (and rebuilding) our relationship to work
  9. Co-creating the new Earth through choosing family, creativity, and connection over capitalism
  10. How internal shifts create collective change (as within, so without)

This is Liberation Wisdom. This is the path of the priestess. Always choose love.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing Pleasure
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Book your Liberation Wisdom Session
  4. Book 45 minute FREE consultation

]]>bcd48379-e86d-47a1-b34e-2feb1e76c5a1Fri, 13 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -070044:07truefull1111From Victoria's Secret to the Sacred BodyFrom Victoria's Secret to the Sacred BodyWhat if the key to reclaiming pleasure starts with reclaiming your body?

In this episode, Kayla explores how patriarchal systems have weaponized body shame to keep women distracted, disconnected, and disempowered. She traces the cultural programming many of us absorbed growing up — the mall brands, the impossible beauty standards, the male gaze we internalized — back to predatory systems designed to make us feel unsafe in our own skin.

Kayla shares her own moment of reckoning while dancing alone in her kitchen, realizing she was still judging herself through someone else's eyes. She invites listeners to shift their relationship with their bodies from one of scrutiny to one of reverence — honoring what your body does for you, not just what it looks like.

This episode offers pathways to body reclamation through gratitude, cycle awareness, rest, and witnessing the beautiful diversity of real bodies in real life.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. How patriarchy uses body shame to control and distract women
  2. The insidious influence of mall culture and brands designed to prey on young girls
  3. Recognizing and releasing the male gaze
  4. Shifting from appearance to function: what does your body do for you?
  5. Creating new narratives and identifying whose voices are in your head
  6. Tracking your cycle with the moon and honoring rest
  7. The power of witnessing real bodies in their natural habitat

This is for anyone ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming their sacred body.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing Pleasure
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>What if the key to reclaiming pleasure starts with reclaiming your body?

In this episode, Kayla explores how patriarchal systems have weaponized body shame to keep women distracted, disconnected, and disempowered. She traces the cultural programming many of us absorbed growing up — the mall brands, the impossible beauty standards, the male gaze we internalized — back to predatory systems designed to make us feel unsafe in our own skin.

Kayla shares her own moment of reckoning while dancing alone in her kitchen, realizing she was still judging herself through someone else's eyes. She invites listeners to shift their relationship with their bodies from one of scrutiny to one of reverence — honoring what your body does for you, not just what it looks like.

This episode offers pathways to body reclamation through gratitude, cycle awareness, rest, and witnessing the beautiful diversity of real bodies in real life.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. How patriarchy uses body shame to control and distract women
  2. The insidious influence of mall culture and brands designed to prey on young girls
  3. Recognizing and releasing the male gaze
  4. Shifting from appearance to function: what does your body do for you?
  5. Creating new narratives and identifying whose voices are in your head
  6. Tracking your cycle with the moon and honoring rest
  7. The power of witnessing real bodies in their natural habitat

This is for anyone ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming their sacred body.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing Pleasure
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>ff242580-fbc1-410a-903c-e99b631df251Fri, 06 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -070032:21truefull147471Men - What She Really Means When She Says "I Need More"Men - What She Really Means When She Says "I Need More"What if the key to more intimacy isn't asking for more — but showing up differently?

In this candid episode, Kayla speaks directly to men (and the partners who want to share this with them). If you're a loving partner who's trying hard but still hearing "I need more from you" — especially around sex and desire — this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for understanding what's really being asked of you.

Kayla explores why so many heterosexual relationships have a desire discrepancy, how patriarchy has disconnected men from their emotions and the feminine within them, and why women often carry the emotional weight of entire households. She explains what it means when your partner says they need more emotional connection before physical intimacy — and why that's not about blaming you, but about healing a system that's failed both of you.

This isn't about shame. It's about understanding how we got here and what it takes to dismantle those patterns from the inside out. The work starts with you doing your own inner work: learning to name and regulate your emotions, understanding how you've participated in patriarchal culture (even unintentionally), and showing up to your partner from a place of wholeness rather than need.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why 90% of men have physical touch as their love language (and what that really means)
  2. How patriarchy stripped the feminine from everyone — including men
  3. What "carrying the emotional load" actually means in relationships
  4. Why men often put all their emotional needs into the "sex bucket"
  5. The difference between coming to your partner from need vs. from wholeness
  6. How to hold the container of safety for your partner to finally release and receive
  7. Why it's not your job to "make everyone happy" sexually
  8. What it means to reconnect with the divine feminine within you
  9. How doing your own work automatically lightens the burden on your partner
  10. Supporting your partner in her journey to reclaim pleasure (without pressuring her)

This is an episode for men ready to show up differently — and for the partners who want to understand why this inner work matters so much.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>What if the key to more intimacy isn't asking for more — but showing up differently?

In this candid episode, Kayla speaks directly to men (and the partners who want to share this with them). If you're a loving partner who's trying hard but still hearing "I need more from you" — especially around sex and desire — this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for understanding what's really being asked of you.

Kayla explores why so many heterosexual relationships have a desire discrepancy, how patriarchy has disconnected men from their emotions and the feminine within them, and why women often carry the emotional weight of entire households. She explains what it means when your partner says they need more emotional connection before physical intimacy — and why that's not about blaming you, but about healing a system that's failed both of you.

This isn't about shame. It's about understanding how we got here and what it takes to dismantle those patterns from the inside out. The work starts with you doing your own inner work: learning to name and regulate your emotions, understanding how you've participated in patriarchal culture (even unintentionally), and showing up to your partner from a place of wholeness rather than need.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why 90% of men have physical touch as their love language (and what that really means)
  2. How patriarchy stripped the feminine from everyone — including men
  3. What "carrying the emotional load" actually means in relationships
  4. Why men often put all their emotional needs into the "sex bucket"
  5. The difference between coming to your partner from need vs. from wholeness
  6. How to hold the container of safety for your partner to finally release and receive
  7. Why it's not your job to "make everyone happy" sexually
  8. What it means to reconnect with the divine feminine within you
  9. How doing your own work automatically lightens the burden on your partner
  10. Supporting your partner in her journey to reclaim pleasure (without pressuring her)

This is an episode for men ready to show up differently — and for the partners who want to understand why this inner work matters so much.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>0ce2ecaf-0f75-472a-8b91-39a3f124f5fbFri, 27 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -070037:26truefull146461Stop Chasing the Orgasm (And Start Here Instead)Stop Chasing the Orgasm (And Start Here Instead)What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?

In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion)
  2. Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfaction
  3. Why orgasm doesn't have to be the goal
  4. How compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safety
  5. Letting go of judgment to reclaim pleasure

This is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?

In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion)
  2. Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfaction
  3. Why orgasm doesn't have to be the goal
  4. How compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safety
  5. Letting go of judgment to reclaim pleasure

This is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join my Newsletter Community
  2. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  3. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  4. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>26ba6290-8aad-4803-a6a5-4e79dad85afeFri, 20 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -070019:53truefull145451Cultural Catalyst: Eros, Resonance, and the New Wave of Leadership with Jaclyn OrentCultural Catalyst: Eros, Resonance, and the New Wave of Leadership with Jaclyn OrentIn this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world.

This episode is for founders, visionaries, and change-makers ready to build something more alive, resonant, and revolutionary.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why high-level founders won't pursue growth unless it's pleasurable
  2. The difference between "push" (masculine force) and "pull" (feminine desire) in business
  3. How consciousness shifts in a leader transform their entire system
  4. The loneliness of leadership and why founders need actual peers
  5. What resonant leadership really means: shared vision, compassion, and energy
  6. Reframing eros as pure life force — not just sexual energy
  7. The being vs. doing paradox: how to stop controlling and start surrendering
  8. Why women especially struggle with control as a trauma response
  9. What it means to identify as a "cultural catalyst" and why it starts the change process

This is a conversation for those ready to lead differently and scale consciously.

Connect with Jaclyn Orent

  1. Masterclass 'The Science-Backed Secrets to Activate Your Highest Impact as a Cultural Catalyst Without Burning Out' - https://www.culturalcontribution.com/masterclass
  2. Instagram: @jaclynorent
  3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kova.orent
  4. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaclynorent/

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world.

This episode is for founders, visionaries, and change-makers ready to build something more alive, resonant, and revolutionary.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why high-level founders won't pursue growth unless it's pleasurable
  2. The difference between "push" (masculine force) and "pull" (feminine desire) in business
  3. How consciousness shifts in a leader transform their entire system
  4. The loneliness of leadership and why founders need actual peers
  5. What resonant leadership really means: shared vision, compassion, and energy
  6. Reframing eros as pure life force — not just sexual energy
  7. The being vs. doing paradox: how to stop controlling and start surrendering
  8. Why women especially struggle with control as a trauma response
  9. What it means to identify as a "cultural catalyst" and why it starts the change process

This is a conversation for those ready to lead differently and scale consciously.

Connect with Jaclyn Orent

  1. Masterclass 'The Science-Backed Secrets to Activate Your Highest Impact as a Cultural Catalyst Without Burning Out' - https://www.culturalcontribution.com/masterclass
  2. Instagram: @jaclynorent
  3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kova.orent
  4. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaclynorent/

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>07ac87fb-0f66-4a7c-bf09-a6d264943df8Fri, 13 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -070042:46truefull144441When Receiving Feels Hard: Priestess Wisdom for Pleasure & IntimacyWhen Receiving Feels Hard: Priestess Wisdom for Pleasure & IntimacyIn this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an invitation to soften, release control, and remember the body’s innate capacity to be held. A grounding listen for anyone longing to reconnect with pleasure, presence, and embodied trust.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an invitation to soften, release control, and remember the body’s innate capacity to be held. A grounding listen for anyone longing to reconnect with pleasure, presence, and embodied trust.

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>455d6537-2a23-4962-a116-abd779517941Fri, 06 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -070026:27truefull143431Pleasure as a Blueprint: Ethics, Community & the Future We’re Being Asked to Build with Andrew PhippsPleasure as a Blueprint: Ethics, Community & the Future We’re Being Asked to Build with Andrew PhippsWhat if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal?

In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world.

Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism and politics to productivity culture and individualism — have shaped how disconnected we feel from our bodies, from one another, and from pleasure itself. This episode invites listeners to zoom out and ask bigger questions:

What are we actually working toward? Who does our success serve? And what would change if pleasure, ethics, and connection were central rather than peripheral?

Andrew offers a global perspective on ethics, politics, and climate responsibility, naming how short-term decision-making and insular thinking have created collective harm — while Kayla brings the conversation home to the body, the nervous system, intimacy, and the longing for community many of us feel in our daily lives.

Together, they imagine a future rooted in shared resources, communal care, ethical leadership, and pleasure as a measure of quality of life — not just productivity or profit.

This episode is an invitation to soften, to question, and to remember that pleasure isn’t indulgent — it’s connective. It’s how we attune to one another, find our people, and come back into right relationship with ourselves and the world.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why ethics are largely absent from politics — and why that matters
  2. How arbitrary systems and borders shape disconnection and inequality
  3. The difference between longevity and quality of life
  4. Pleasure as a shared, relational experience — not a solitary one
  5. Why community, not individualism, is the antidote to burnout and despair
  6. How comparison culture erodes fulfillment
  7. The role of nervous system safety in intimacy and connection
  8. Reimagining success through rest, connection, and shared care
  9. Tuning into “frequency” — and how resonance creates belonging
  10. Why pleasure may be the most radical blueprint for the future

This is a conversation for those who feel the old ways crumbling and sense something more humane, connected, and pleasurable trying to be born.

Connect with Andrew Phipps

  1. Instagram: @theintimacyinquiry and @empathyunbound
  2. Listen to The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
  3. Youtube: The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
  4. Listen to Empathy Unbound Podcast

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>What if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal?

In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world.

Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism and politics to productivity culture and individualism — have shaped how disconnected we feel from our bodies, from one another, and from pleasure itself. This episode invites listeners to zoom out and ask bigger questions:

What are we actually working toward? Who does our success serve? And what would change if pleasure, ethics, and connection were central rather than peripheral?

Andrew offers a global perspective on ethics, politics, and climate responsibility, naming how short-term decision-making and insular thinking have created collective harm — while Kayla brings the conversation home to the body, the nervous system, intimacy, and the longing for community many of us feel in our daily lives.

Together, they imagine a future rooted in shared resources, communal care, ethical leadership, and pleasure as a measure of quality of life — not just productivity or profit.

This episode is an invitation to soften, to question, and to remember that pleasure isn’t indulgent — it’s connective. It’s how we attune to one another, find our people, and come back into right relationship with ourselves and the world.

In this episode, we explore:

  1. Why ethics are largely absent from politics — and why that matters
  2. How arbitrary systems and borders shape disconnection and inequality
  3. The difference between longevity and quality of life
  4. Pleasure as a shared, relational experience — not a solitary one
  5. Why community, not individualism, is the antidote to burnout and despair
  6. How comparison culture erodes fulfillment
  7. The role of nervous system safety in intimacy and connection
  8. Reimagining success through rest, connection, and shared care
  9. Tuning into “frequency” — and how resonance creates belonging
  10. Why pleasure may be the most radical blueprint for the future

This is a conversation for those who feel the old ways crumbling and sense something more humane, connected, and pleasurable trying to be born.

Connect with Andrew Phipps

  1. Instagram: @theintimacyinquiry and @empathyunbound
  2. Listen to The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
  3. Youtube: The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast
  4. Listen to Empathy Unbound Podcast

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>20517be9-1d0b-4175-9b08-d31578d5e9eaFri, 30 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -070001:22:45truefull142421From Over-Functioning to Receiving: Pleasure, Power & Nervous System Safety with Dr. Jordin WigginsFrom Over-Functioning to Receiving: Pleasure, Power & Nervous System Safety with Dr. Jordin WigginsIn this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives.

Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, families, achievements—yet feel numb, exhausted, and unseen in their relationships. Together, we explore the concept of “super traits”: extreme empathy, loyalty, forgiveness, and over-functioning, traits that often lead women into relational dynamics where desire disappears and intimacy becomes extractive rather than nourishing.

We unpack why traditional therapy and common relationship advice often fails women with super traits, how power imbalances go unaddressed in patriarchal models of intimacy, and why pleasure is not the reward for healing—but the reset that makes real connection possible.

This conversation also dives into:

  1. How over-functioning and under-functioning dynamics erode desire and safety
  2. Why scheduling sex, “just setting boundaries,” or trying harder often backfires
  3. The role of sexual coercion and invisible power contracts in long-term relationships
  4. How patriarchy harms everyone—including men—and why more men are now seeking this work
  5. Pleasure as a nervous system capacity, not a performance
  6. The importance of learning to tolerate sensation—both pleasure and pain
  7. Feminine and masculine energy, safety, and the ability to truly receive
  8. What BDSM teaches us about consent, power, desire, and embodied choice

Jordin shares how her own journey—from chronic health issues and a sexless marriage to pleasure-centered healing—led her to integrate functional medicine, trauma awareness, and embodied power work into a method that helps women move from survival-based intimacy into true receiving.

This episode is an invitation to question the stories you’ve been told about love, sex, and responsibility—and to remember that desire must be freely chosen, not managed, negotiated, or earned.

Pleasure is not indulgent.

It is information.

And it is a pathway home.

Connect with Dr. Jordin Wiggins

  1. Instagram: @drjordinwiggins
  2. Take the Super Traits Quiz
  3. Listen to The Pleasure Principles Podcast

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives.

Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, families, achievements—yet feel numb, exhausted, and unseen in their relationships. Together, we explore the concept of “super traits”: extreme empathy, loyalty, forgiveness, and over-functioning, traits that often lead women into relational dynamics where desire disappears and intimacy becomes extractive rather than nourishing.

We unpack why traditional therapy and common relationship advice often fails women with super traits, how power imbalances go unaddressed in patriarchal models of intimacy, and why pleasure is not the reward for healing—but the reset that makes real connection possible.

This conversation also dives into:

  1. How over-functioning and under-functioning dynamics erode desire and safety
  2. Why scheduling sex, “just setting boundaries,” or trying harder often backfires
  3. The role of sexual coercion and invisible power contracts in long-term relationships
  4. How patriarchy harms everyone—including men—and why more men are now seeking this work
  5. Pleasure as a nervous system capacity, not a performance
  6. The importance of learning to tolerate sensation—both pleasure and pain
  7. Feminine and masculine energy, safety, and the ability to truly receive
  8. What BDSM teaches us about consent, power, desire, and embodied choice

Jordin shares how her own journey—from chronic health issues and a sexless marriage to pleasure-centered healing—led her to integrate functional medicine, trauma awareness, and embodied power work into a method that helps women move from survival-based intimacy into true receiving.

This episode is an invitation to question the stories you’ve been told about love, sex, and responsibility—and to remember that desire must be freely chosen, not managed, negotiated, or earned.

Pleasure is not indulgent.

It is information.

And it is a pathway home.

Connect with Dr. Jordin Wiggins

  1. Instagram: @drjordinwiggins
  2. Take the Super Traits Quiz
  3. Listen to The Pleasure Principles Podcast

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>599c70d1-adb9-4d6b-a181-a3032f11d6e7Fri, 23 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -070051:14truefull141411Unfurling in the Wild: Pleasure, Body Acceptance & the Courage to Be Seen with Wren MorrowUnfurling in the Wild: Pleasure, Body Acceptance & the Courage to Be Seen with Wren MorrowIn this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.

We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like to belong in your body and on the earth.

Wren shares her powerful perspective on boudoir as fluorescence—the unfurling of a human being willing to be seen. We talk about shame as the instinct to close back into the bud, and pleasure as the courage to open, soften, and take up space. Together, we unpack how body image, motherhood, trauma, and cultural conditioning disconnect us from our sensuality—and how play, nature, and sensation help restore it.

This conversation also dives into:

  1. Why embodiment and pleasure are birthrights—not reserved for “perfect” bodies
  2. How nature mirrors our own “imperfections” as stories of resilience and becoming
  3. The reclamation and bravery involved in being nude in wild spaces
  4. Holding consent, safety, and boundaries during outdoor erotic art sessions
  5. Group shoots, feminine friendship, and the healing power of shared experience
  6. Men, shame, vulnerability, and the complexities of holding erotic space across genders
  7. Navigating power dynamics, safety, and tenderness with integrity

We close with reflections on the divine feminine and masculine, the harm patriarchy has caused everyone, and the importance of moving toward a future rooted in embodiment, pleasure, responsibility, and collective healing.

This episode is an invitation to soften, unfurl, and remember:

Your body is not wrong.

Your scars are stories.

And pleasure begins with presence.

Connect with Wren Morrow:

  1. Website: https://www.wrenmorrow.com/
  2. Social Media: @_wrenmorrow

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course - Beta starts January 21st 2026!
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.

We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like to belong in your body and on the earth.

Wren shares her powerful perspective on boudoir as fluorescence—the unfurling of a human being willing to be seen. We talk about shame as the instinct to close back into the bud, and pleasure as the courage to open, soften, and take up space. Together, we unpack how body image, motherhood, trauma, and cultural conditioning disconnect us from our sensuality—and how play, nature, and sensation help restore it.

This conversation also dives into:

  1. Why embodiment and pleasure are birthrights—not reserved for “perfect” bodies
  2. How nature mirrors our own “imperfections” as stories of resilience and becoming
  3. The reclamation and bravery involved in being nude in wild spaces
  4. Holding consent, safety, and boundaries during outdoor erotic art sessions
  5. Group shoots, feminine friendship, and the healing power of shared experience
  6. Men, shame, vulnerability, and the complexities of holding erotic space across genders
  7. Navigating power dynamics, safety, and tenderness with integrity

We close with reflections on the divine feminine and masculine, the harm patriarchy has caused everyone, and the importance of moving toward a future rooted in embodiment, pleasure, responsibility, and collective healing.

This episode is an invitation to soften, unfurl, and remember:

Your body is not wrong.

Your scars are stories.

And pleasure begins with presence.

Connect with Wren Morrow:

  1. Website: https://www.wrenmorrow.com/
  2. Social Media: @_wrenmorrow

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course - Beta starts January 21st 2026!
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>e56171e4-ef26-422b-9150-87ebee92e7a9Fri, 16 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -070001:04:16truefull140401Closing the Orgasm Gap: Big Clit Energy, Sexual Health, and the Orgasm Revolution with Eve HallClosing the Orgasm Gap: Big Clit Energy, Sexual Health, and the Orgasm Revolution with Eve HallIn this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.

We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.

We also talk about Big Clit Energy — the confidence and vitality that comes from knowing your body and owning your desire — and how closing the orgasm gap benefits everyone, not just women.

This episode is educational, affirming, and deeply empowering for anyone ready to stop settling and start experiencing pleasure as a vital part of wellbeing.

Connect with Eve Hall:

  1. Website: https://pleaseme.online
  2. Contact Page and Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/get-in-touch/
  3. Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com
  4. Patreon (Ad-Free & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast
  5. Shameless Care: https://shamelesscare.com/

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.

We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.

We also talk about Big Clit Energy — the confidence and vitality that comes from knowing your body and owning your desire — and how closing the orgasm gap benefits everyone, not just women.

This episode is educational, affirming, and deeply empowering for anyone ready to stop settling and start experiencing pleasure as a vital part of wellbeing.

Connect with Eve Hall:

  1. Website: https://pleaseme.online
  2. Contact Page and Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/get-in-touch/
  3. Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com
  4. Patreon (Ad-Free & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast
  5. Shameless Care: https://shamelesscare.com/

If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course
  2. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  3. Join my Newsletter Community
  4. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  5. Book 45 minute consultation
  6. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>38d2ab80-3858-4496-8a1e-54a7d369482aFri, 09 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -070050:14truefull139391January 2026: Why Everything Feels So Heavy Right NowJanuary 2026: Why Everything Feels So Heavy Right NowIn this episode, I begin by pausing.

Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.

I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share why I am moving away from the medicalized lens of diagnosis — not because suffering isn’t real, but because so much of what people are experiencing is a natural response to living in a world that does not support human life, rest, connection, creativity, or safety.

In this reflection, I explore:

  1. Why anxiety, depression, burnout, and numbness are often symptoms of systemic failure — not individual brokenness
  2. What it means to hold collective grief and rage without collapsing into hopelessness
  3. The priestess role of holding duality: honoring the collapse of old structures while still tending the vision of what comes next
  4. Why feeling our feelings fully is not indulgent — it’s essential
  5. How rage and grief can be alchemized into clarity, courage, and creative power

I talk about the necessity of fierce love — love that is tender and boundaried, compassionate and unwilling to accept what is dehumanizing. I reflect on the fear that comes with imagining an entirely different way of living, and why change will not come all at once, but through sustained courage, heart, and collective imagination.

This episode is also a reminder of why I created this podcast in the first place: to help seed new blueprints for how we live, love, heal, relate to money, steward technology, and care for the earth and one another. The change we are longing for does not come from outside authority — it comes from within us, and then between us.

Toward the end of the episode, I share about my upcoming eight-week beta course Sacred Desire, and why I believe reclaiming desire, pleasure, and embodied truth is deeply radical work in times like these. I speak to how women reconnecting with their desire, boundaries, and inner fire is not escapism — it is world-changing.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here!

Inside Sacred Desire, we focus on:

  1. Reclaiming your relationship to sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure
  2. Understanding the barriers that have disconnected you from your desire
  3. Healing in community rather than isolation
  4. Rising together, supported and witnessed

If you feel a pull toward this work, I invite you to join the waitlist. When you do, you’ll receive:

  1. My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure
  2. A FREE 45-minute Desire Discovery Call with me
  3. Space to discern, without pressure, whether this container is right for you

Above all, this episode is an offering of presence. A reminder that you are not alone, that your feelings make sense, and that even in the heaviness, something new is trying to be born.

Hold your grief.

Honor your rage.

Do not abandon hope.

We are still creating what comes next — together.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here! The course begins January 21st, 2026.

If you cannot make this round AND want to be on the waitlist for future launches of this course, please also join the waitlist and we can begin your reclamation journey through a free desire discovery call and being in my newsletter community before future launches.

Please send this to a friend that you think may benefit from this work as well. I am so grateful to anyone that is spreading the word about this sacred work and helping those that are ready step into the divine fire and collective love and liberation.

]]>In this episode, I begin by pausing.

Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.

I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share why I am moving away from the medicalized lens of diagnosis — not because suffering isn’t real, but because so much of what people are experiencing is a natural response to living in a world that does not support human life, rest, connection, creativity, or safety.

In this reflection, I explore:

  1. Why anxiety, depression, burnout, and numbness are often symptoms of systemic failure — not individual brokenness
  2. What it means to hold collective grief and rage without collapsing into hopelessness
  3. The priestess role of holding duality: honoring the collapse of old structures while still tending the vision of what comes next
  4. Why feeling our feelings fully is not indulgent — it’s essential
  5. How rage and grief can be alchemized into clarity, courage, and creative power

I talk about the necessity of fierce love — love that is tender and boundaried, compassionate and unwilling to accept what is dehumanizing. I reflect on the fear that comes with imagining an entirely different way of living, and why change will not come all at once, but through sustained courage, heart, and collective imagination.

This episode is also a reminder of why I created this podcast in the first place: to help seed new blueprints for how we live, love, heal, relate to money, steward technology, and care for the earth and one another. The change we are longing for does not come from outside authority — it comes from within us, and then between us.

Toward the end of the episode, I share about my upcoming eight-week beta course Sacred Desire, and why I believe reclaiming desire, pleasure, and embodied truth is deeply radical work in times like these. I speak to how women reconnecting with their desire, boundaries, and inner fire is not escapism — it is world-changing.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here!

Inside Sacred Desire, we focus on:

  1. Reclaiming your relationship to sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure
  2. Understanding the barriers that have disconnected you from your desire
  3. Healing in community rather than isolation
  4. Rising together, supported and witnessed

If you feel a pull toward this work, I invite you to join the waitlist. When you do, you’ll receive:

  1. My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure
  2. A FREE 45-minute Desire Discovery Call with me
  3. Space to discern, without pressure, whether this container is right for you

Above all, this episode is an offering of presence. A reminder that you are not alone, that your feelings make sense, and that even in the heaviness, something new is trying to be born.

Hold your grief.

Honor your rage.

Do not abandon hope.

We are still creating what comes next — together.

Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here! The course begins January 21st, 2026.

If you cannot make this round AND want to be on the waitlist for future launches of this course, please also join the waitlist and we can begin your reclamation journey through a free desire discovery call and being in my newsletter community before future launches.

Please send this to a friend that you think may benefit from this work as well. I am so grateful to anyone that is spreading the word about this sacred work and helping those that are ready step into the divine fire and collective love and liberation.

]]>2cccb86e-a8c5-46b0-8c78-576e0812cdfaFri, 09 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -070022:10truebonus138381Remembering the Sacred Feminine & Reclaiming the Divine Masculine: Birthing a New WorldRemembering the Sacred Feminine & Reclaiming the Divine Masculine: Birthing a New WorldIn this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.

I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper-masculine survival modes that were never meant to sustain us.

In this episode, I unpack:

  1. What the Sacred Feminine and Divine Masculine actually are as energetic archetypes
  2. How patriarchy fractured both, leading to domination, hyper-vigilance, burnout, and disconnection
  3. Why reclaiming the Sacred Feminine is the first step toward true balance and healing
  4. How pleasure, rest, intuition, and embodiment are foundational to feminine remembrance
  5. What it would mean for the masculine to hold safety, integrity, and sacred containment rather than control

I reflect on how women have been forced to lead from trauma and over-functioning, and how healing the feminine allows us to soften, receive, and create from truth rather than survival. I also speak to the grief, anger, and rage many women carry — and why those emotions must be honored rather than bypassed as part of this reclamation.

This episode is also deeply connected to the current energetic moment. I speak about the new moon in Sagittarius, the winter solstice, and the womb-space of the dark — a zero point where death and rebirth meet. This is a time of reflection, rest, and conscious birthing, not pushing or proving.

I share my long-term vision for this work: beginning with healing the Sacred Feminine through sexuality, desire, and pleasure, and eventually moving toward Sacred Union work — where both partners are supported in embodying healed feminine and masculine energies together, free from patriarchal scripts.

I also talk about why community and sisterhood are essential in this process, and why healing the feminine must happen collectively, not in isolation. This is why my work continues to center women gathering together — witnessing, resourcing, and remembering side by side.

At the end of the episode, I share an update about the upcoming beta launch of my newly renamed course Sacred Desire (formerly Not Broken). This foundational container is a death-rebirth journey designed to help women shed shame, reconnect to their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and remember who they are beneath conditioning. I explain how joining the waitlist includes:

  1. My Sacred Body Workbook
  2. A free call with me to explore your personal barriers to desire
  3. A gentle, no-pressure entry into the circle

This work feels essential to birthing a new world — one rooted in embodiment, pleasure, reverence, and truth. I believe this remembering is not optional anymore. It’s the foundation of what comes next.

I’ll see you in the new year, beloveds.

If you’re feeling called Join Sacred Desire starting on January 21st, 2026

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course

Stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  2. Join my Newsletter Community
  3. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  4. Book 45 minute consultation
  5. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.

I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper-masculine survival modes that were never meant to sustain us.

In this episode, I unpack:

  1. What the Sacred Feminine and Divine Masculine actually are as energetic archetypes
  2. How patriarchy fractured both, leading to domination, hyper-vigilance, burnout, and disconnection
  3. Why reclaiming the Sacred Feminine is the first step toward true balance and healing
  4. How pleasure, rest, intuition, and embodiment are foundational to feminine remembrance
  5. What it would mean for the masculine to hold safety, integrity, and sacred containment rather than control

I reflect on how women have been forced to lead from trauma and over-functioning, and how healing the feminine allows us to soften, receive, and create from truth rather than survival. I also speak to the grief, anger, and rage many women carry — and why those emotions must be honored rather than bypassed as part of this reclamation.

This episode is also deeply connected to the current energetic moment. I speak about the new moon in Sagittarius, the winter solstice, and the womb-space of the dark — a zero point where death and rebirth meet. This is a time of reflection, rest, and conscious birthing, not pushing or proving.

I share my long-term vision for this work: beginning with healing the Sacred Feminine through sexuality, desire, and pleasure, and eventually moving toward Sacred Union work — where both partners are supported in embodying healed feminine and masculine energies together, free from patriarchal scripts.

I also talk about why community and sisterhood are essential in this process, and why healing the feminine must happen collectively, not in isolation. This is why my work continues to center women gathering together — witnessing, resourcing, and remembering side by side.

At the end of the episode, I share an update about the upcoming beta launch of my newly renamed course Sacred Desire (formerly Not Broken). This foundational container is a death-rebirth journey designed to help women shed shame, reconnect to their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and remember who they are beneath conditioning. I explain how joining the waitlist includes:

  1. My Sacred Body Workbook
  2. A free call with me to explore your personal barriers to desire
  3. A gentle, no-pressure entry into the circle

This work feels essential to birthing a new world — one rooted in embodiment, pleasure, reverence, and truth. I believe this remembering is not optional anymore. It’s the foundation of what comes next.

I’ll see you in the new year, beloveds.

If you’re feeling called Join Sacred Desire starting on January 21st, 2026

  1. Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course

Stay in touch with Kayla:

  1. Book your Liberation Wisdom session
  2. Join my Newsletter Community
  3. Support this podcast and leave me a tip!
  4. Book 45 minute consultation
  5. Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com with any questions

]]>74ffd4b3-f6d4-4031-b406-b464055f1ff4Fri, 19 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -070037:46truefull137371Spinal Energetics and Shamanic Healing with Tiffanie MinerSpinal Energetics and Shamanic Healing with Tiffanie MinerIn this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.

We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.

We also talk about collective shifts and intuitive downloads happening right now—how gratitude, connection, and reciprocity are reshaping the way we show up for ourselves and each other. Plus, we dive into Celtic goddess guidance, warrior energy, and star-beings, and what it means to remember our power while moving toward love, softness, and leadership.

This episode is full of wisdom, activation, and inspiration for anyone ready to reclaim their body, their intuition, and their inner strength.

Connect with Tiffanie Miner:


If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.

We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.

We also talk about collective shifts and intuitive downloads happening right now—how gratitude, connection, and reciprocity are reshaping the way we show up for ourselves and each other. Plus, we dive into Celtic goddess guidance, warrior energy, and star-beings, and what it means to remember our power while moving toward love, softness, and leadership.

This episode is full of wisdom, activation, and inspiration for anyone ready to reclaim their body, their intuition, and their inner strength.

Connect with Tiffanie Miner:


If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>8c563475-56b6-4528-bbd5-9913f62b2ba3Fri, 12 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -070001:01:56truefull136361Forbidden Alchemy: Reclaiming Desire, Pleasure, and Spiritual Mastery with Sharon Marie ScottForbidden Alchemy: Reclaiming Desire, Pleasure, and Spiritual Mastery with Sharon Marie ScottIn this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine, to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure.

We dive into:

  • Discovering your pleasure: How deciding that you’re worth falling in love with yourself—and exploring what truly excites you—can be playful, freeing, and life-changing.
  • From shame to sovereignty: Why shame around desire is imposed, not inherent, and how conscious sexual exploration can help you move from need to choice.
  • The “sandbox” of sexual play: Sharon’s book includes exercises ranging from mild to wild—primal play, polarity play, power exchange, and rope—designed to help beginners and seasoned explorers alike expand their pleasure safely.
  • Kink, trauma, and natural desires: How fetishes and preferences can arise from innocence, generational inheritance, or curiosity—not just trauma—and how awareness transforms compulsions into conscious choices.
  • Pleasure as spiritual practice: Sharon explains how pleasure operates at higher frequencies than love alone, and how sex magic and erotic alchemy can accelerate manifestation and conscious creation.
  • Pain and pleasure as transformative tools: How shifting the story around sensation allows us to access higher states of consciousness and integrate both pleasure and challenge into personal growth.
  • Community and co-creation: The role of regenerative, pleasure-focused communities in supporting growth, exploration, and collective manifestation.

Sharon also shares her upcoming work, including her 12-week course The Pleasure Frequency Atelier, which blends online activation, in-person embodied practice, and integration to guide participants through sex magic, erotic alchemy, and conscious pleasure.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore your sexuality, seeking to heal from shame, or ready to integrate pleasure into spiritual mastery, this conversation offers a roadmap to reclaiming desire, deepening your sensual and spiritual connection, and raising your frequency.

Connect with Sharon:


If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine, to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure.

We dive into:

  • Discovering your pleasure: How deciding that you’re worth falling in love with yourself—and exploring what truly excites you—can be playful, freeing, and life-changing.
  • From shame to sovereignty: Why shame around desire is imposed, not inherent, and how conscious sexual exploration can help you move from need to choice.
  • The “sandbox” of sexual play: Sharon’s book includes exercises ranging from mild to wild—primal play, polarity play, power exchange, and rope—designed to help beginners and seasoned explorers alike expand their pleasure safely.
  • Kink, trauma, and natural desires: How fetishes and preferences can arise from innocence, generational inheritance, or curiosity—not just trauma—and how awareness transforms compulsions into conscious choices.
  • Pleasure as spiritual practice: Sharon explains how pleasure operates at higher frequencies than love alone, and how sex magic and erotic alchemy can accelerate manifestation and conscious creation.
  • Pain and pleasure as transformative tools: How shifting the story around sensation allows us to access higher states of consciousness and integrate both pleasure and challenge into personal growth.
  • Community and co-creation: The role of regenerative, pleasure-focused communities in supporting growth, exploration, and collective manifestation.

Sharon also shares her upcoming work, including her 12-week course The Pleasure Frequency Atelier, which blends online activation, in-person embodied practice, and integration to guide participants through sex magic, erotic alchemy, and conscious pleasure.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore your sexuality, seeking to heal from shame, or ready to integrate pleasure into spiritual mastery, this conversation offers a roadmap to reclaiming desire, deepening your sensual and spiritual connection, and raising your frequency.

Connect with Sharon:


If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:


]]>ca818dd1-d711-43a5-ba99-87113e6bba4cFri, 05 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -070055:14truefull135351We Couldn’t Have Predicted This: Integrating the SHED Retreat with Shauna StewartWe Couldn’t Have Predicted This: Integrating the SHED Retreat with Shauna StewartIn this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container.

After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On, the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weekend that cracked all expectations wide open.

Here, they share:

  • What surprised them the most about the group dynamic and the depth of transformation
  • Why the retreat felt like a womb space—a cocoon of safety, softness, and feminine frequency
  • How quickly the women bonded, supported one another, and dropped into profound vulnerability
  • The behind-the-scenes moments—the lodging mix-ups, the “meat hook” underworld meditation, the spontaneous tattoo
  • The power of the singing circle, the ceremonies, and the shared rituals
  • What it felt like to re-enter real life after living in community, connection, and sacred feminine energy
  • Their favorite moments, from spoken-desire rituals to witnessing women see and honor one another fully

This episode is a love letter to the women who showed up, the magic they created together, and the reminder that transformation happens fastest when we are willing to be witnessed.

If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens inside a transformational retreat—or if you’re craving deeper sisterhood, community, and embodied healing—this conversation will open your heart.

Resources:

Join the SHED RETREAT 2026 WAITLIST!!!!

Check Out Shauna's Podcast Life Turned On

Check Out and Join the The Living Temple

If you’re feeling called:


]]>In this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container.

After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On, the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weekend that cracked all expectations wide open.

Here, they share:

  • What surprised them the most about the group dynamic and the depth of transformation
  • Why the retreat felt like a womb space—a cocoon of safety, softness, and feminine frequency
  • How quickly the women bonded, supported one another, and dropped into profound vulnerability
  • The behind-the-scenes moments—the lodging mix-ups, the “meat hook” underworld meditation, the spontaneous tattoo
  • The power of the singing circle, the ceremonies, and the shared rituals
  • What it felt like to re-enter real life after living in community, connection, and sacred feminine energy
  • Their favorite moments, from spoken-desire rituals to witnessing women see and honor one another fully

This episode is a love letter to the women who showed up, the magic they created together, and the reminder that transformation happens fastest when we are willing to be witnessed.

If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens inside a transformational retreat—or if you’re craving deeper sisterhood, community, and embodied healing—this conversation will open your heart.

Resources:

Join the SHED RETREAT 2026 WAITLIST!!!!

Check Out Shauna's Podcast Life Turned On

Check Out and Join the The Living Temple

If you’re feeling called:


]]>778da3ed-5e18-49e7-8fa0-ed977021eab6Fri, 28 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -070043:59truefull134341When Desire Feels Hard: Building Intimacy Outside the BedroomWhen Desire Feels Hard: Building Intimacy Outside the BedroomIn this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through.

I start by sharing an exciting announcement: the Not Broken course is officially launching this January, 2026. This 8–9 week live experience is for women who feel disconnected from their sexual desire, struggle to access pleasure for themselves, or simply feel lost inside their own intimacy. It’s a beta round, meaning it will be the lowest energy exchange it will ever be, and I’m calling in founding members who want to co-create this sacred container with me. You can join the waitlist through the link below.

I also share that I am renaming my spiritual guidance sessions to Liberation Wisdom Sessions—a more aligned reflection of my priestess path and the soul-level support these one-on-one sessions offer. These sessions are for anyone needing grounding, clarity, or guidance as you unravel what’s no longer yours and root deeper into your becoming.

From there, I shift into a conversation inspired by so many stories that surfaced during the SHED retreat—stories about relationships, intimacy, disconnection, and the longing to feel seen, held, and understood by a partner. Although I typically speak directly to the individual, today I offer wisdom from years of working with couples and from witnessing the patterns that consistently shape relational intimacy.

I talk about:

  • Why so many couples feel like intimacy only happens inside a sexual context
  • How emotional intimacy forms the foundation for desire
  • Why women often need emotional safety before accessing physical pleasure
  • How men are conditioned to seek closeness through sex, not emotional connection
  • Daily and weekly practices that build deeper emotional intimacy
  • The role of non-sexual touch and why your body needs it
  • How 20-second hugs literally rewire your nervous system for safety
  • Ways to offer alternate forms of connection when you’re not available for sex
  • Reconciling different intimacy needs without shame or pressure
  • How to reestablish closeness when the relationship feels like “roommates”
  • What it means to advocate for yourself in partnership
  • Why pleasure work begins with YOU, not your partner

I also share more about the dynamic of working with couples, and how partner support containers can be added to the Not Broken course or my 1:1 coaching to help bring your new embodiment into the relational space.

And of course, I reflect on the power of community and what unfolded during the SHED retreat—the transformation, the sisterhood, the courage, and the frequency we built together. Next week, Shauna and I will be releasing a full retreat recap on her podcast Life Turned On, which I’ll link below.

I’ll be taking next week off in honor of Thanksgiving here in the U.S., as well as the National Day of Mourning as we honor Indigenous lives lost in the making of this country. After that, I’ll be back with more guests, more wisdom, and more conversations devoted to reclaiming sexuality, desire, and intimacy on your own terms.

If you’re feeling called:


Other Resources

  • Listen to our processing of the SHED Retreat next week and get first access to the waitlist for next years retreat on Shauna's Life Turned On Podcast

Until next time, my loves—take gentle care.

]]>In this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through.

I start by sharing an exciting announcement: the Not Broken course is officially launching this January, 2026. This 8–9 week live experience is for women who feel disconnected from their sexual desire, struggle to access pleasure for themselves, or simply feel lost inside their own intimacy. It’s a beta round, meaning it will be the lowest energy exchange it will ever be, and I’m calling in founding members who want to co-create this sacred container with me. You can join the waitlist through the link below.

I also share that I am renaming my spiritual guidance sessions to Liberation Wisdom Sessions—a more aligned reflection of my priestess path and the soul-level support these one-on-one sessions offer. These sessions are for anyone needing grounding, clarity, or guidance as you unravel what’s no longer yours and root deeper into your becoming.

From there, I shift into a conversation inspired by so many stories that surfaced during the SHED retreat—stories about relationships, intimacy, disconnection, and the longing to feel seen, held, and understood by a partner. Although I typically speak directly to the individual, today I offer wisdom from years of working with couples and from witnessing the patterns that consistently shape relational intimacy.

I talk about:

  • Why so many couples feel like intimacy only happens inside a sexual context
  • How emotional intimacy forms the foundation for desire
  • Why women often need emotional safety before accessing physical pleasure
  • How men are conditioned to seek closeness through sex, not emotional connection
  • Daily and weekly practices that build deeper emotional intimacy
  • The role of non-sexual touch and why your body needs it
  • How 20-second hugs literally rewire your nervous system for safety
  • Ways to offer alternate forms of connection when you’re not available for sex
  • Reconciling different intimacy needs without shame or pressure
  • How to reestablish closeness when the relationship feels like “roommates”
  • What it means to advocate for yourself in partnership
  • Why pleasure work begins with YOU, not your partner

I also share more about the dynamic of working with couples, and how partner support containers can be added to the Not Broken course or my 1:1 coaching to help bring your new embodiment into the relational space.

And of course, I reflect on the power of community and what unfolded during the SHED retreat—the transformation, the sisterhood, the courage, and the frequency we built together. Next week, Shauna and I will be releasing a full retreat recap on her podcast Life Turned On, which I’ll link below.

I’ll be taking next week off in honor of Thanksgiving here in the U.S., as well as the National Day of Mourning as we honor Indigenous lives lost in the making of this country. After that, I’ll be back with more guests, more wisdom, and more conversations devoted to reclaiming sexuality, desire, and intimacy on your own terms.

If you’re feeling called:


Other Resources

  • Listen to our processing of the SHED Retreat next week and get first access to the waitlist for next years retreat on Shauna's Life Turned On Podcast

Until next time, my loves—take gentle care.

]]>50f00421-72f5-4f0c-b5f2-e871c39f6fd2Fri, 21 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -070037:01truefull133331Holding the Frequency: Creating the New Earth Through Love, Energy, and ConsciousnessHolding the Frequency: Creating the New Earth Through Love, Energy, and ConsciousnessIn this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast.

I start by exploring how energy creates reality — how everything, from our bodies to the stories we consume, vibrates at a frequency. When we focus on fear, shame, and despair, we reinforce those frequencies in our lives and in the collective. But when we orient toward love, pleasure, and joy, we literally help shape a new earth — one grounded in compassion, freedom, and peace.

I speak about what’s happening in our world right now — the political unrest, the fear narratives, and how easy it is to fall into doom scrolling — and I share how I’ve learned to step back and shift my vibration from fear into faith.

Then I explore what many in the spiritual community and scientific realms are noticing:

  • The energetic significance of 3I Atlas, a comet-like celestial body said to be carrying new frequencies of love and consciousness to Earth.
  • The ancient prophecies that align with this exact moment in history — and the idea that we are in the gestation period of the “new human.”
  • How this cosmic energy may be activating healing, heart opening, and evolution in both humans and the planet herself.

I also touch on AI and the Pluto-in-Aquarius era, where technology is advancing at light speed. I reflect on how AI could either amplify scarcity or completely dissolve it — and how our consciousness, the frequency we hold, will determine which way it goes.

Throughout, I bring it back to the heart of my work: holding the frequency of love, joy, and connection — not as a way to bypass what’s happening, but as an act of revolution. This is the deeper meaning of Connected Pleasure — finding the pleasure that comes from true human connection, empathy, and collective healing.

I close by introducing my new Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-on-one, one-hour sessions where I hold space for you to remember your own frequency and come home to yourself. Whether you’re in transition, feeling alone in your awakening, or simply longing to hold your light amidst the noise, this is a space to be held, seen, and guided in love.

If you’re ready to deepen into this work, you can Book a Spiritual Guidance Session and if this episode resonates, please share it with someone who might need these reminders right now.

Together, we are holding the frequency of love and weaving the new world.

Connect with Kayla:


Resources:

Pam Gregory

]]>In this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast.

I start by exploring how energy creates reality — how everything, from our bodies to the stories we consume, vibrates at a frequency. When we focus on fear, shame, and despair, we reinforce those frequencies in our lives and in the collective. But when we orient toward love, pleasure, and joy, we literally help shape a new earth — one grounded in compassion, freedom, and peace.

I speak about what’s happening in our world right now — the political unrest, the fear narratives, and how easy it is to fall into doom scrolling — and I share how I’ve learned to step back and shift my vibration from fear into faith.

Then I explore what many in the spiritual community and scientific realms are noticing:

  • The energetic significance of 3I Atlas, a comet-like celestial body said to be carrying new frequencies of love and consciousness to Earth.
  • The ancient prophecies that align with this exact moment in history — and the idea that we are in the gestation period of the “new human.”
  • How this cosmic energy may be activating healing, heart opening, and evolution in both humans and the planet herself.

I also touch on AI and the Pluto-in-Aquarius era, where technology is advancing at light speed. I reflect on how AI could either amplify scarcity or completely dissolve it — and how our consciousness, the frequency we hold, will determine which way it goes.

Throughout, I bring it back to the heart of my work: holding the frequency of love, joy, and connection — not as a way to bypass what’s happening, but as an act of revolution. This is the deeper meaning of Connected Pleasure — finding the pleasure that comes from true human connection, empathy, and collective healing.

I close by introducing my new Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-on-one, one-hour sessions where I hold space for you to remember your own frequency and come home to yourself. Whether you’re in transition, feeling alone in your awakening, or simply longing to hold your light amidst the noise, this is a space to be held, seen, and guided in love.

If you’re ready to deepen into this work, you can Book a Spiritual Guidance Session and if this episode resonates, please share it with someone who might need these reminders right now.

Together, we are holding the frequency of love and weaving the new world.

Connect with Kayla:


Resources:

Pam Gregory

]]>e27cc040-eccd-4ede-9d26-4429f0ce6bb6Fri, 14 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -070046:24truefull132321Rest as Revolution: Returning to the Body, the Seasons, and the Sacred FeminineRest as Revolution: Returning to the Body, the Seasons, and the Sacred FeminineIn this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest—not as a reward, but as a birthright.

I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitalism, productivity culture, and generational patterns—has taught us that rest must be earned, and how deeply our bodies are asking us to unlearn that.

I share vulnerably about my own relationship to rest as a mother, a business owner, and someone who has carried the belief that I must always be “doing” in order to deserve downtime. I walk you through the emotional labor of asking for help, carving out time away from family, and the courage it took for me to claim three days completely to myself.

I also explore the deeper spiritual aspect of rest:

✨ the feminine cyclical nature of energy

✨ how rest mirrors the seasons and moon phases

✨ why pleasure lives in the rest-and-digest state

✨ how rest expands our capacity for intimacy, spirituality, and connection

We talk about rest as resistance, inspired by the teachings of The Nap Ministry, and how reclaiming rest is part of dismantling systems that profit from our exhaustion.

And then, I share some big news.

On this full moon, I announce the opening of Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-hour, one-on-one sessions where I hold space as healer, priestess-in-training, and sacred disruptor. These are intuitive sessions rooted in somatic presence, grounded spiritual guidance, and deep listening. The investment is $111, and the link to book is below.

Schedule a Spiritual Guidance Session here!

I also share that there is one final spot open for The Shed Retreat — November 14–16 on Vashon Island — a sacred weekend for women in transition, ready to cross a threshold together.

If this episode touches something in you — a whisper that says “I need rest” or “I want support” — trust it.

Rest is not the pause before the real life begins.

Rest is the portal.

Connect with Kayla:


Resources:

The Nap Ministry

]]>In this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest—not as a reward, but as a birthright.

I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitalism, productivity culture, and generational patterns—has taught us that rest must be earned, and how deeply our bodies are asking us to unlearn that.

I share vulnerably about my own relationship to rest as a mother, a business owner, and someone who has carried the belief that I must always be “doing” in order to deserve downtime. I walk you through the emotional labor of asking for help, carving out time away from family, and the courage it took for me to claim three days completely to myself.

I also explore the deeper spiritual aspect of rest:

✨ the feminine cyclical nature of energy

✨ how rest mirrors the seasons and moon phases

✨ why pleasure lives in the rest-and-digest state

✨ how rest expands our capacity for intimacy, spirituality, and connection

We talk about rest as resistance, inspired by the teachings of The Nap Ministry, and how reclaiming rest is part of dismantling systems that profit from our exhaustion.

And then, I share some big news.

On this full moon, I announce the opening of Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-hour, one-on-one sessions where I hold space as healer, priestess-in-training, and sacred disruptor. These are intuitive sessions rooted in somatic presence, grounded spiritual guidance, and deep listening. The investment is $111, and the link to book is below.

Schedule a Spiritual Guidance Session here!

I also share that there is one final spot open for The Shed Retreat — November 14–16 on Vashon Island — a sacred weekend for women in transition, ready to cross a threshold together.

If this episode touches something in you — a whisper that says “I need rest” or “I want support” — trust it.

Rest is not the pause before the real life begins.

Rest is the portal.

Connect with Kayla:


Resources:

The Nap Ministry

]]>45062952-1603-497d-a687-3442ffd68182Wed, 05 Nov 2025 13:00:00 -070040:30truefull131311The Collective Awakening: Pleasure, Politics & the Power of the PeopleThe Collective Awakening: Pleasure, Politics & the Power of the PeopleIn this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now.

I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple—a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we all belong to. As we move through Samhain, the festival that honors the thinning of the veil between worlds, I explore what it means to tend to both our inner and outer worlds: the ancestors we carry within, the stories ready to be shed, and the new frequencies of consciousness that are coming online.

From there, I follow the thread into our shared reality—what’s happening in the U.S. right now with the government shutdown, the slashing of healthcare, and the potential loss of food assistance programs like SNAP and WIC. It might sound like a big leap, but for me, it’s all connected. When we talk about the sacred body, we’re also talking about the collective body. When we talk about nourishment and pleasure, we’re also talking about access, care, and the right for every being to thrive.

I share the lay of the land politically, not from a place of division but to help us see the larger story unfolding—and how this moment is asking us to rise in community care, compassion, and collective action. I offer tangible ways to get involved, from donating to local food banks to organizing small neighborhood giving efforts, and I reflect on how this kind of grassroots care is part of the new world we’re weaving together.

This conversation is about awakening to the truth that pleasure, politics, and the sacred are not separate. They are threads of the same tapestry—calling us home to our humanity, our power, and our responsibility to one another.

Learn More:

The Living Temple Website

Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com to share your interest in coming to the Samhain ceremony at my house in Gig Harbor, WA and I will help to get you all signed up for that.

Politics: Heather Cox Richardson is my go-to for all my politics information. Listen to her latest Politics Chats for all the up to date information.

Donate to My Local Food Bank or Find One in Your Area to Donate to.

ALSO PLEASE VOTE IN THE UPCOMING ELECTION!! ELECTION DAY IS NEXT TUESDAY (11/4) AND WE NEED TO TURN OUT!!! GET BALLOTS IN AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE!!

Kayla's Resources:


]]>In this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now.

I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple—a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we all belong to. As we move through Samhain, the festival that honors the thinning of the veil between worlds, I explore what it means to tend to both our inner and outer worlds: the ancestors we carry within, the stories ready to be shed, and the new frequencies of consciousness that are coming online.

From there, I follow the thread into our shared reality—what’s happening in the U.S. right now with the government shutdown, the slashing of healthcare, and the potential loss of food assistance programs like SNAP and WIC. It might sound like a big leap, but for me, it’s all connected. When we talk about the sacred body, we’re also talking about the collective body. When we talk about nourishment and pleasure, we’re also talking about access, care, and the right for every being to thrive.

I share the lay of the land politically, not from a place of division but to help us see the larger story unfolding—and how this moment is asking us to rise in community care, compassion, and collective action. I offer tangible ways to get involved, from donating to local food banks to organizing small neighborhood giving efforts, and I reflect on how this kind of grassroots care is part of the new world we’re weaving together.

This conversation is about awakening to the truth that pleasure, politics, and the sacred are not separate. They are threads of the same tapestry—calling us home to our humanity, our power, and our responsibility to one another.

Learn More:

The Living Temple Website

Email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com to share your interest in coming to the Samhain ceremony at my house in Gig Harbor, WA and I will help to get you all signed up for that.

Politics: Heather Cox Richardson is my go-to for all my politics information. Listen to her latest Politics Chats for all the up to date information.

Donate to My Local Food Bank or Find One in Your Area to Donate to.

ALSO PLEASE VOTE IN THE UPCOMING ELECTION!! ELECTION DAY IS NEXT TUESDAY (11/4) AND WE NEED TO TURN OUT!!! GET BALLOTS IN AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE!!

Kayla's Resources:


]]>40d5bc56-378c-46d6-9413-e858d8dc4d12Fri, 31 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070001:04:35truefull130301The Shed Retreat: A Journey into Pleasure, Power & Renewal with Shauna StewartThe Shed Retreat: A Journey into Pleasure, Power & Renewal with Shauna StewartIn this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island.

We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation—how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers her pleasure and her body becomes a thread in the great weaving of the new world we’re co-creating.

This conversation is about the wisdom of shedding—of dissolving what’s outdated, oppressive, or numbed—and allowing what’s true, alive, and sacred to rise in its place. We talk about how pleasure isn’t just a personal experience, but a collective medicine, a vibration that calls us back to our wholeness and our creative power.

Shauna and I also share how the retreat has been intentionally crafted as a womb space—a place to be witnessed, to soften, and to reconnect with the body’s natural rhythms of release and renewal. We speak about the through-line between pleasure, grief, and rebirth—and how embodying these cycles helps us live as conduits of healing for the greater whole.

In this episode, we explore:

  • The collective and personal symbolism of shedding and rebirth
  • Pleasure as the through-line that reconnects us to creation and truth
  • How emotional alchemy transforms grief and rage into life force
  • The role of sacred space and ritual in anchoring healing
  • The ripple of liberation that happens when women return to themselves

Retreat Details:

When: November 14–16, 2025

Where: Vashon Island, Washington

  • One final shared room remaining (king bed with closed door for privacy)

Join us for Shed—a sacred weekend of embodiment, emotional alchemy, and collective renewal. Together, we’ll release what’s heavy, remember what’s holy, and rise into the full expression of our feminine power.

Click HERE to Learn More! We will see you there!

Guest Resources:

  • Shauna Stewart: Linger Boutique
  • Listen to our original episode on the SHED Retreat on Shauna's Podcast Life Turned On. I highly recommend listening to all her other episodes this season as well to hear more stories of women shedding what no longer serves them and fully embracing their power and pleasure.
  • Instagram

Kayla's Resources:

  • Schedule your free 45-minute consultation call to explore 1:1 coaching with me and step into your own sacred reclamation.
  • Or start by joining my newsletter, where you’ll receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook—the perfect place to begin your healing journey before our work together.
  • You can email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com
  • Tips - Leave me a tip if you would like to support the podcast

]]>In this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island.

We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation—how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers her pleasure and her body becomes a thread in the great weaving of the new world we’re co-creating.

This conversation is about the wisdom of shedding—of dissolving what’s outdated, oppressive, or numbed—and allowing what’s true, alive, and sacred to rise in its place. We talk about how pleasure isn’t just a personal experience, but a collective medicine, a vibration that calls us back to our wholeness and our creative power.

Shauna and I also share how the retreat has been intentionally crafted as a womb space—a place to be witnessed, to soften, and to reconnect with the body’s natural rhythms of release and renewal. We speak about the through-line between pleasure, grief, and rebirth—and how embodying these cycles helps us live as conduits of healing for the greater whole.

In this episode, we explore:

  • The collective and personal symbolism of shedding and rebirth
  • Pleasure as the through-line that reconnects us to creation and truth
  • How emotional alchemy transforms grief and rage into life force
  • The role of sacred space and ritual in anchoring healing
  • The ripple of liberation that happens when women return to themselves

Retreat Details:

When: November 14–16, 2025

Where: Vashon Island, Washington

  • One final shared room remaining (king bed with closed door for privacy)

Join us for Shed—a sacred weekend of embodiment, emotional alchemy, and collective renewal. Together, we’ll release what’s heavy, remember what’s holy, and rise into the full expression of our feminine power.

Click HERE to Learn More! We will see you there!

Guest Resources:

  • Shauna Stewart: Linger Boutique
  • Listen to our original episode on the SHED Retreat on Shauna's Podcast Life Turned On. I highly recommend listening to all her other episodes this season as well to hear more stories of women shedding what no longer serves them and fully embracing their power and pleasure.
  • Instagram

Kayla's Resources:

  • Schedule your free 45-minute consultation call to explore 1:1 coaching with me and step into your own sacred reclamation.
  • Or start by joining my newsletter, where you’ll receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook—the perfect place to begin your healing journey before our work together.
  • You can email me at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com
  • Tips - Leave me a tip if you would like to support the podcast

]]>5221c71e-f82d-4ef6-8574-26ecd21d1c6aFri, 24 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070048:23truefull129291Collective Consciousness, AI, and the Return to Community: A New Moon ReflectionCollective Consciousness, AI, and the Return to Community: A New Moon ReflectionIn this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth.

I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk about how attention has become our most valuable currency, and what it means to reclaim that attention as sacred — to root it back into pleasure, presence, and purpose.

This episode is an invitation to notice the through line that runs beneath everything — the way consciousness is evolving through us, how grief and pleasure are both portals to awakening, and how we each play a role in co-creating a world that honors the body, the Earth, and the sacred feminine.

As I speak, I’m not just analyzing these patterns — I’m living them, feeling them, and weaving them together into something coherent, something hopeful. This is the work of remembering that we are not separate from the collective story. We are the story.

✨ Join me in the journey:


References

Empire of AI by Karen Hao

]]>In this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth.

I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk about how attention has become our most valuable currency, and what it means to reclaim that attention as sacred — to root it back into pleasure, presence, and purpose.

This episode is an invitation to notice the through line that runs beneath everything — the way consciousness is evolving through us, how grief and pleasure are both portals to awakening, and how we each play a role in co-creating a world that honors the body, the Earth, and the sacred feminine.

As I speak, I’m not just analyzing these patterns — I’m living them, feeling them, and weaving them together into something coherent, something hopeful. This is the work of remembering that we are not separate from the collective story. We are the story.

✨ Join me in the journey:


References

Empire of AI by Karen Hao

]]>59d0f678-15b8-4d8c-ab70-e81b64d997ddTue, 21 Oct 2025 22:00:00 -070049:32truefull128281No Kings Day: Showing Up for Democracy, Love, and Collective JoyNo Kings Day: Showing Up for Democracy, Love, and Collective JoyIn this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure.

I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even motherhood into activism. Whether you’re marching, driving by to honk in solidarity, or creating art and song from home, you are part of this movement.

This isn’t about fear — it’s about choosing love over control, unity over silence, and the belief that our collective energy can change the world.

🌕 Let’s rise together in joy, sovereignty, and action.

Click Below to Find a Rally Near You:

https://www.mobilize.us/

]]>In this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure.

I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even motherhood into activism. Whether you’re marching, driving by to honk in solidarity, or creating art and song from home, you are part of this movement.

This isn’t about fear — it’s about choosing love over control, unity over silence, and the belief that our collective energy can change the world.

🌕 Let’s rise together in joy, sovereignty, and action.

Click Below to Find a Rally Near You:

https://www.mobilize.us/

]]>1c10c7e3-0065-4607-a6be-6e5ed102fc45Fri, 17 Oct 2025 15:30:00 -070008:08truebonus127271The Embodied Path to Power with Cheryl Stelte: Healing, Pleasure & Feminine RisingThe Embodied Path to Power with Cheryl Stelte: Healing, Pleasure & Feminine RisingWelcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within.

Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us reclaim sovereignty over our bodies, our relationships, and our pleasure. We talk about the difference between masculine “doing” energy and feminine “being” energy, and how the balance of both is essential for healing and wholeness.

We also explore how our individual reclamation weaves into the greater tapestry of collective healing — how every woman who returns to her body, her truth, and her pleasure helps shift the consciousness of the world.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your sensuality, your boundaries, or your own power, this episode is an invitation to come home — to yourself, to your body, and to the sacred wisdom within.

✨ Ready to dive deeper?

Schedule your free 45-minute consultation to explore if my 1:1 coaching container is the right fit for you

Join my newsletter to receive sacred reflections, podcast updates, and my free Sacred Body Workbook.

Resources & Links Mentioned with Guest:


]]>Welcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within.

Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us reclaim sovereignty over our bodies, our relationships, and our pleasure. We talk about the difference between masculine “doing” energy and feminine “being” energy, and how the balance of both is essential for healing and wholeness.

We also explore how our individual reclamation weaves into the greater tapestry of collective healing — how every woman who returns to her body, her truth, and her pleasure helps shift the consciousness of the world.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your sensuality, your boundaries, or your own power, this episode is an invitation to come home — to yourself, to your body, and to the sacred wisdom within.

✨ Ready to dive deeper?

Schedule your free 45-minute consultation to explore if my 1:1 coaching container is the right fit for you

Join my newsletter to receive sacred reflections, podcast updates, and my free Sacred Body Workbook.

Resources & Links Mentioned with Guest:


]]>d8dbff46-b307-4f0b-b06f-c9becfde4fc4Fri, 17 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070001:05:24truefull127271The Final Hours — A Collective Prayer for Pleasure and TrustThe Final Hours — A Collective Prayer for Pleasure and TrustWelcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life.

By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching package 4 month payment plan (that’s $400 total) and $200 off per month for the VIP coaching package 4 month payment plan ($800 total).

But instead of another pitch, I want to end this launch with something deeper: a collective prayer — a moment to come home to our bodies, connect with the Earth, and align our energy with what we most desire for ourselves and for the collective.

Together, we ground into the womb of the Earth, stretch into the heavens, and breathe into the vision of who we’re becoming. I invite you to sit with me, breathe, and feel what it would look and feel like to live from pleasure, ease, and embodied truth.

Whether you join my coaching container or continue your journey elsewhere, this episode is an offering of gratitude, trust, and remembrance: what you desire is already written on your timeline — it’s simply calling you home.

Doors Close at Midnight Tonight Pacific Time!

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life.

By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching package 4 month payment plan (that’s $400 total) and $200 off per month for the VIP coaching package 4 month payment plan ($800 total).

But instead of another pitch, I want to end this launch with something deeper: a collective prayer — a moment to come home to our bodies, connect with the Earth, and align our energy with what we most desire for ourselves and for the collective.

Together, we ground into the womb of the Earth, stretch into the heavens, and breathe into the vision of who we’re becoming. I invite you to sit with me, breathe, and feel what it would look and feel like to live from pleasure, ease, and embodied truth.

Whether you join my coaching container or continue your journey elsewhere, this episode is an offering of gratitude, trust, and remembrance: what you desire is already written on your timeline — it’s simply calling you home.

Doors Close at Midnight Tonight Pacific Time!

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>b1a82e9d-0113-424d-9daa-dfcbfc59d9d0Sun, 12 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -070014:49truefull126261We’ve Arrived — The Final Day to Step Into PleasureWe’ve Arrived — The Final Day to Step Into PleasureWelcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move through our eight sessions together.

I break down the flow of each teaching session — from Gathering the Threads (your sexual history and story) to Guarding the Loom (boundaries, consent, and sacred self-advocacy). You’ll also hear about the integration sessions, your bonus options, and how I hold space for you to weave pleasure back into your body at a pace that feels safe and supported.

And since it’s our very last day of open cart, I’m offering something special:

✨ $100 off per month for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($400 total)

✨ $200 off per month for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($800 total)

This is your final invitation to join me before doors close tonight at midnight. Take a deep breath, feel into your body, and ask yourself — what would I love? If your answer whispers “pleasure,” I would be honored to walk beside you in this work.

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move through our eight sessions together.

I break down the flow of each teaching session — from Gathering the Threads (your sexual history and story) to Guarding the Loom (boundaries, consent, and sacred self-advocacy). You’ll also hear about the integration sessions, your bonus options, and how I hold space for you to weave pleasure back into your body at a pace that feels safe and supported.

And since it’s our very last day of open cart, I’m offering something special:

✨ $100 off per month for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($400 total)

✨ $200 off per month for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($800 total)

This is your final invitation to join me before doors close tonight at midnight. Take a deep breath, feel into your body, and ask yourself — what would I love? If your answer whispers “pleasure,” I would be honored to walk beside you in this work.

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

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]]>b7970d0b-3864-45fa-b056-4250be26ca23Sun, 12 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070018:40truefull125251Weaving Pleasure as ResistanceWeaving Pleasure as ResistanceWelcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives.

I explore how our society’s obsession with productivity and “proving ourselves” keeps us in constant fight-or-flight, far from the nourishment our bodies crave. And I speak to the bigger web — how personal pleasure, body reclamation, and feminine energy are intricately woven with systemic healing and global change.

As I close out the early bird period and we enter the final stretch of open cart for Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, I invite you to reflect on what could shift if pleasure became your non-negotiable. What might it look like to slow down, soften, and live from the truth that your pleasure is sacred — and revolutionary?

Join me in this conversation on reclaiming ease, rest, and embodied resistance.

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives.

I explore how our society’s obsession with productivity and “proving ourselves” keeps us in constant fight-or-flight, far from the nourishment our bodies crave. And I speak to the bigger web — how personal pleasure, body reclamation, and feminine energy are intricately woven with systemic healing and global change.

As I close out the early bird period and we enter the final stretch of open cart for Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, I invite you to reflect on what could shift if pleasure became your non-negotiable. What might it look like to slow down, soften, and live from the truth that your pleasure is sacred — and revolutionary?

Join me in this conversation on reclaiming ease, rest, and embodied resistance.

All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

Enroll Now: Core Coaching Package

Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

Enroll Now: VIP Coaching Package

VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package

👉 VIP Coaching Package

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

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]]>cd8eae2c-0219-4467-ad7d-ed7ad071ec1dSat, 11 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -070019:53truefull124241The Descent of Inanna: She Removed Her Armor — Will You?The Descent of Inanna: She Removed Her Armor — Will You?In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna, the goddess who descended into the underworld.

As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn.

This story has lived in my bones for years because it mirrors the feminine path of healing and reclamation.

We, too, are asked to shed the armor that once kept us safe — the perfectionism, the shame, the “good girl” conditioning — so that we can meet ourselves again, whole and holy.

Inside my 1:1 Coaching Container, this is exactly the work we do together.

We descend through your story, through the gates of your conditioning, and you emerge with your power restored — embodied, sovereign, and free.

If you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your invitation to begin.

✨ Early Bird ends today at noon Pacific — and this is the final opportunity to save $500 on your journey.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna, the goddess who descended into the underworld.

As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn.

This story has lived in my bones for years because it mirrors the feminine path of healing and reclamation.

We, too, are asked to shed the armor that once kept us safe — the perfectionism, the shame, the “good girl” conditioning — so that we can meet ourselves again, whole and holy.

Inside my 1:1 Coaching Container, this is exactly the work we do together.

We descend through your story, through the gates of your conditioning, and you emerge with your power restored — embodied, sovereign, and free.

If you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your invitation to begin.

✨ Early Bird ends today at noon Pacific — and this is the final opportunity to save $500 on your journey.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>032977c7-a5cc-40d7-b09b-5f9c4bce66c2Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070022:38truefull123231You Belong Here: Inclusivity, Pleasure, and the FeminineYou Belong Here: Inclusivity, Pleasure, and the FeminineWelcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine.

I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes. While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all identities, orientations, and relationship structures — queer, polyamorous, monogamous, kinky, or anywhere in between.

My work is deeply sex-positive and grounded in consent, curiosity, and connection. I believe that healing the feminine is not about exclusion, but about remembering — the energy that longs to be seen, heard, and held within all of us.

So if you’ve been listening and wondering, “Is there space for me here?”, this is your reminder: yes, there is. You belong here.

✨ Early Bird enrollment for my 1:1 coaching container ends Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific — so if you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your sign to step in.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine.

I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes. While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all identities, orientations, and relationship structures — queer, polyamorous, monogamous, kinky, or anywhere in between.

My work is deeply sex-positive and grounded in consent, curiosity, and connection. I believe that healing the feminine is not about exclusion, but about remembering — the energy that longs to be seen, heard, and held within all of us.

So if you’ve been listening and wondering, “Is there space for me here?”, this is your reminder: yes, there is. You belong here.

✨ Early Bird enrollment for my 1:1 coaching container ends Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific — so if you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your sign to step in.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>ed7fadb3-8d9f-4a2a-9b7e-252ccb63dfcaFri, 10 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -070012:15truefull122221You Deserve Pleasure — Claiming Your Right to Feel GoodYou Deserve Pleasure — Claiming Your Right to Feel GoodIn this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you.

I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and how we can begin to unlearn those patterns. This is about reclaiming your relationship to desire, remembering that your pleasure is sacred, and allowing yourself to receive the nourishment and joy that are your birthright.

I also share details about my one-on-one coaching container, where we move beyond the self-help mindset and into embodied transformation. The Early Bird special closes Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific, so if your body is whispering yes, this is your moment to listen.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you.

I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and how we can begin to unlearn those patterns. This is about reclaiming your relationship to desire, remembering that your pleasure is sacred, and allowing yourself to receive the nourishment and joy that are your birthright.

I also share details about my one-on-one coaching container, where we move beyond the self-help mindset and into embodied transformation. The Early Bird special closes Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific, so if your body is whispering yes, this is your moment to listen.

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

You can email me with any lingering questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>971e4847-5695-4d54-b77b-502983252acaFri, 10 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070015:13truefull121211Saying Yes to Your Pleasure: Navigating Partner Support and Investing in YourselfSaying Yes to Your Pleasure: Navigating Partner Support and Investing in YourselfWelcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier.

We also dive into the ripple effects of prioritizing yourself—how rising in your own love, safety, and pleasure actually benefits everyone around you. I reflect on the history of women and money and why it’s still common for women to feel hesitation around spending on themselves. I offer tips for making your case to your partner and ways to communicate that this work supports both your growth and your relationship.

Finally, I give a reminder about the early bird spots, what’s included in the coaching container, and the bonuses you can choose from—an extra integration session, a ritual session, or additional VIP support. I also share details about the free Sacred Feminine playlist and add-on discounts.

If you’ve been curious about stepping into your pleasure, your power, and your body in a deeper way, this episode is here to support you in making that decision for yourself.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

You can also email with questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier.

We also dive into the ripple effects of prioritizing yourself—how rising in your own love, safety, and pleasure actually benefits everyone around you. I reflect on the history of women and money and why it’s still common for women to feel hesitation around spending on themselves. I offer tips for making your case to your partner and ways to communicate that this work supports both your growth and your relationship.

Finally, I give a reminder about the early bird spots, what’s included in the coaching container, and the bonuses you can choose from—an extra integration session, a ritual session, or additional VIP support. I also share details about the free Sacred Feminine playlist and add-on discounts.

If you’ve been curious about stepping into your pleasure, your power, and your body in a deeper way, this episode is here to support you in making that decision for yourself.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

You can also email with questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>59c614d0-0965-454b-8f84-ac53d3258329Thu, 09 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -070010:06truefull120201The Sacred Feminine and the Journey Back to PleasureThe Sacred Feminine and the Journey Back to PleasureWelcome back, my loves.

In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body.

I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety that already lives within you.

I also share more about how my work weaves together my background in sexuality and intimacy with the sacred feminine path that has been unfolding in my own life. This journey has shown me that pleasure is not separate from the divine — it’s one of the most powerful ways we can return to ourselves and remember who we are.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body or uncertain about your own relationship to pleasure, I invite you to listen with curiosity. What happens in your body when you imagine feeling truly at home, safe, and alive within yourself?

And if something inside you stirs — if your body whispers yes — I would love to walk alongside you in this sacred work.

✨ There are still two early-bird spots available in my 1:1 coaching container. This journey is for women ready to heal, soften, and reclaim their pleasure and power.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

You can also email with questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back, my loves.

In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body.

I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety that already lives within you.

I also share more about how my work weaves together my background in sexuality and intimacy with the sacred feminine path that has been unfolding in my own life. This journey has shown me that pleasure is not separate from the divine — it’s one of the most powerful ways we can return to ourselves and remember who we are.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body or uncertain about your own relationship to pleasure, I invite you to listen with curiosity. What happens in your body when you imagine feeling truly at home, safe, and alive within yourself?

And if something inside you stirs — if your body whispers yes — I would love to walk alongside you in this sacred work.

✨ There are still two early-bird spots available in my 1:1 coaching container. This journey is for women ready to heal, soften, and reclaim their pleasure and power.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

You can also email with questions at kayla@connectedpleasurecoaching.com

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>63e5860a-2187-4195-a68d-37f2b0f647a5Thu, 09 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070026:02truefull119191Why “Spicing It Up” Isn’t the SolutionWhy “Spicing It Up” Isn’t the SolutionHave you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing?

In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort.

You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level solutions and begin healing from the inside out, with compassion, awareness, and sacred curiosity.

✨ Explore Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, my 1:1 container designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Have you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing?

In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort.

You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level solutions and begin healing from the inside out, with compassion, awareness, and sacred curiosity.

✨ Explore Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, my 1:1 container designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons at check out, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>67297db2-193e-42bf-b4eb-e2eda273b4fbWed, 08 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -070010:18truefull118181You Deserve More Than “It’s Fine”You Deserve More Than “It’s Fine”Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.”

Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy.

But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment?

In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it.

You’ll be invited to question what “fine” has cost you, and to imagine what might open if you gave yourself permission to want more — not more to do, but more to feel.

This is about coming home to your body’s natural aliveness, desire, and connection to the sacred — not as a luxury, but as your birthright.

In this episode, I share:

  • Why so many women dismiss pleasure as “not a priority”
  • The difference between being asexual and feeling disconnected from desire
  • How reclaiming your erotic energy transforms every part of your life
  • The sacred invitation to explore what you would love — without shame
  • Why healing your relationship with pleasure creates ripples across generations

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.”

Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy.

But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment?

In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it.

You’ll be invited to question what “fine” has cost you, and to imagine what might open if you gave yourself permission to want more — not more to do, but more to feel.

This is about coming home to your body’s natural aliveness, desire, and connection to the sacred — not as a luxury, but as your birthright.

In this episode, I share:

  • Why so many women dismiss pleasure as “not a priority”
  • The difference between being asexual and feeling disconnected from desire
  • How reclaiming your erotic energy transforms every part of your life
  • The sacred invitation to explore what you would love — without shame
  • Why healing your relationship with pleasure creates ripples across generations

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>daac258e-09c0-4de7-9d5c-b0bd9326536fWed, 08 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070016:37truefull117171Creating Space for Pleasure and PresenceCreating Space for Pleasure and PresenceIn this episode, I’m speaking to one of the most common hesitations I hear when women are considering deep, embodied healing work:

“I just don’t have time for this."

We live in a world that glorifies busyness — that rewards production and punishes rest. But here’s the truth: your healing requires space.

This journey isn’t about adding another thing to your overflowing to-do list. It’s about creating room to breathe, to feel, to reconnect with your body and your pleasure.

In this episode, I explore:

✨ Why slowing down is the medicine your nervous system has been craving

✨ How time scarcity often masks feelings of unworthiness

✨ What it looks like to make space for your pleasure, even in a full life

✨ The ripple effect of one woman choosing to rest, receive, and remember

If you’ve been telling yourself, “I just can’t make time for this right now,” I want you to hear this:

You deserve to take the time.

You deserve the slowness.

You deserve to come home to your body.

About the 1:1 Coaching Container

Doors are now open for my private coaching container, Connected Pleasure, where I guide you to:

🌹 Reclaim your pleasure

🌹 Remember your power

🌹 Come home to your body

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...

This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.

If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>In this episode, I’m speaking to one of the most common hesitations I hear when women are considering deep, embodied healing work:

“I just don’t have time for this."

We live in a world that glorifies busyness — that rewards production and punishes rest. But here’s the truth: your healing requires space.

This journey isn’t about adding another thing to your overflowing to-do list. It’s about creating room to breathe, to feel, to reconnect with your body and your pleasure.

In this episode, I explore:

✨ Why slowing down is the medicine your nervous system has been craving

✨ How time scarcity often masks feelings of unworthiness

✨ What it looks like to make space for your pleasure, even in a full life

✨ The ripple effect of one woman choosing to rest, receive, and remember

If you’ve been telling yourself, “I just can’t make time for this right now,” I want you to hear this:

You deserve to take the time.

You deserve the slowness.

You deserve to come home to your body.

About the 1:1 Coaching Container

Doors are now open for my private coaching container, Connected Pleasure, where I guide you to:

🌹 Reclaim your pleasure

🌹 Remember your power

🌹 Come home to your body

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...

This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.

If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

If you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>861ee6f5-9f64-4248-97df-598d7b6c6203Tue, 07 Oct 2025 14:00:00 -070016:17truefull116161The Fear of Being Vulnerable: Opening Up to Sexual HealingThe Fear of Being Vulnerable: Opening Up to Sexual HealingWelcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is Day 2 of Open Cart Week — where I’m opening six spots for my 1:1 Coaching Container, available from October 6–12.

Today’s episode is about something that comes up for so many of the women I work with: the fear of being vulnerable — especially when it comes to talking about sex.

For many of us, sex was either never talked about growing up or it was actively shamed. So opening up about it — even with a compassionate, nonjudgmental professional — can feel terrifying. I get it. I’ve seen it over and over again in my practice: that initial hesitation, that nervous-system contraction when we start to approach conversations about desire, pleasure, or pain.

But here’s the truth: healing requires vulnerability.

And when you allow yourself to be gently witnessed, normalized, and supported in these conversations, everything starts to shift.

In this episode, I share what it’s like to move through that fear inside my 1:1 coaching container, how I help you feel safe and seen in the process, and how even just talking about sex begins to heal your relationship to it.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...

This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.

If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is Day 2 of Open Cart Week — where I’m opening six spots for my 1:1 Coaching Container, available from October 6–12.

Today’s episode is about something that comes up for so many of the women I work with: the fear of being vulnerable — especially when it comes to talking about sex.

For many of us, sex was either never talked about growing up or it was actively shamed. So opening up about it — even with a compassionate, nonjudgmental professional — can feel terrifying. I get it. I’ve seen it over and over again in my practice: that initial hesitation, that nervous-system contraction when we start to approach conversations about desire, pleasure, or pain.

But here’s the truth: healing requires vulnerability.

And when you allow yourself to be gently witnessed, normalized, and supported in these conversations, everything starts to shift.

In this episode, I share what it’s like to move through that fear inside my 1:1 coaching container, how I help you feel safe and seen in the process, and how even just talking about sex begins to heal your relationship to it.

What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching Container

There are two ways to work with me during open cart week:

🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

  • 8 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamation
  • Personalized practices and between-session support tools
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

  • Everything in the Core Package plus:
  • Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidance
  • Payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250
  • BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)

🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special

✨ Early Bird Discount:

If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.

✨ Included for All Participants:

  • Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation
  • Optional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end

✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:

  • A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life
  • 15% off add-ons, including:
  • The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)
  • The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)

💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...

This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.

If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Join My Newsletter:

Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

]]>26852cf1-a079-4fe5-bef2-faeea627b7c0Tue, 07 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070015:40truefull115151You Don’t Need a Partner to Reclaim Your PleasureYou Don’t Need a Partner to Reclaim Your PleasureWelcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is the second episode of day one in our open cart week for my 1:1 Coaching Container — which officially opened today under the Full Moon in Aries (how divine is that?).

In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest myths I hear from women:

“I need a partner before I can do this kind of work.”

The truth is — you don’t need a partner to begin reclaiming your pleasure. This work is actually meant to begin within you. Whether you’re single or partnered, your healing, sensuality, and embodiment come from creating safety and trust in your own body first.

When we begin here, we enter intimacy from wholeness — not from seeking completion. We begin to attract or deepen relationships that are rooted in authenticity, openness, and pleasure rather than fear or performance.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • Why you don’t need a partner to start your sexual healing journey
  • How self-sourced pleasure builds trust, confidence, and safety
  • The difference between doing inner work solo vs. in partnership
  • How my 1:1 Coaching Container helps you come home to your body

1:1 Coaching Container Details

There are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):

🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

Includes:

  • 6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodiment
  • Access to guided practices and journaling prompts

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

Includes everything in the Core Package plus:

  • Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessions
  • Extra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing process

Payment plans available:

  • Core: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250

🌕 Early Bird Bonuses

There are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:

  • $500 off either package when you pay in full
  • 15% off the following add-ons:
  • A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)
  • Two additional integration sessions for deeper support
  • A free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodiment

Once those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.

If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Your pleasure is your liberation.

]]>Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is the second episode of day one in our open cart week for my 1:1 Coaching Container — which officially opened today under the Full Moon in Aries (how divine is that?).

In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest myths I hear from women:

“I need a partner before I can do this kind of work.”

The truth is — you don’t need a partner to begin reclaiming your pleasure. This work is actually meant to begin within you. Whether you’re single or partnered, your healing, sensuality, and embodiment come from creating safety and trust in your own body first.

When we begin here, we enter intimacy from wholeness — not from seeking completion. We begin to attract or deepen relationships that are rooted in authenticity, openness, and pleasure rather than fear or performance.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • Why you don’t need a partner to start your sexual healing journey
  • How self-sourced pleasure builds trust, confidence, and safety
  • The difference between doing inner work solo vs. in partnership
  • How my 1:1 Coaching Container helps you come home to your body

1:1 Coaching Container Details

There are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):

🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

Includes:

  • 6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodiment
  • Access to guided practices and journaling prompts

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

Includes everything in the Core Package plus:

  • Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessions
  • Extra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing process

Payment plans available:

  • Core: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250

🌕 Early Bird Bonuses

There are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:

  • $500 off either package when you pay in full
  • 15% off the following add-ons:
  • A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)
  • Two additional integration sessions for deeper support
  • A free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodiment

Once those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.

If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

Your pleasure is your liberation.

]]>a84fefcf-4c20-4fb4-b13e-de14ed3cd371Mon, 06 Oct 2025 14:00:00 -070013:38truefull114141Open Cart Week Begins: Connected Pleasure CoachingOpen Cart Week Begins: Connected Pleasure CoachingThe doors are officially open for Connected Pleasure Coaching, my sacred 1:1 container for women ready to reclaim their pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies.

In this episode, I address one of the biggest questions that may be on your mind: the investment. I break down the cost, explain the value and transformation of this container, and share why a 1:1 coaching experience can accelerate your journey more than self-study ever could.

There are only 6 spots available, and this week is your chance to claim yours.

1:1 Coaching Container Details

There are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):

🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

Includes:

  • 6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodiment
  • Access to guided practices and journaling prompts

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

Includes everything in the Core Package plus:

  • Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessions
  • Extra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing process

Payment plans available:

  • Core: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250

🌕 Early Bird Bonuses

There are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:

  • $500 off either package when you pay in full
  • 15% off the following add-ons:
  • A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)
  • Two additional integration sessions for deeper support
  • A free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodiment

Once those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.

If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

]]>The doors are officially open for Connected Pleasure Coaching, my sacred 1:1 container for women ready to reclaim their pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies.

In this episode, I address one of the biggest questions that may be on your mind: the investment. I break down the cost, explain the value and transformation of this container, and share why a 1:1 coaching experience can accelerate your journey more than self-study ever could.

There are only 6 spots available, and this week is your chance to claim yours.

1:1 Coaching Container Details

There are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):

🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999

Includes:

  • 6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)
  • Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodiment
  • Access to guided practices and journaling prompts

🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999

Includes everything in the Core Package plus:

  • Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessions
  • Extra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing process

Payment plans available:

  • Core: 4 monthly payments of $750
  • VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250

🌕 Early Bird Bonuses

There are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:

  • $500 off either package when you pay in full
  • 15% off the following add-ons:
  • A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)
  • Two additional integration sessions for deeper support
  • A free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodiment

Once those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.

If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.

🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:

👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special

👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option

🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)

Learn More About the Offers:

Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

]]>ce364f8a-f0cc-4816-9586-911c127ea6d6Mon, 06 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -070008:18truefull113131Inside the Connected Pleasure Coaching ContainerInside the Connected Pleasure Coaching ContainerWelcome back, loves. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing everything you need to know about my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching container.

Over the last six mini-episodes, I’ve explored the “why” — why someone would enter this program, what barriers it helps dissolve, and the transformations it opens up. Today, I’m sharing the “how”: the structure, the sessions, and the deep intention woven into this container.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

🌙 My mission of weaving pleasure back into our collective and personal lives

🌙 Why this container is about more than just coaching — it’s about shaping a new world

🌙 The 8-session structure (six teachings + two integration sessions)

🌙 What we’ll explore together: from barriers to boundaries, anatomy to desire, and coming home to your body

🌙 The details of the Core and VIP packages, plus partner and ongoing support options

🌙 How to claim one of the six spots available when doors open October 6th (aligned with the Aries full moon ✨)

This isn’t just about working on your pleasure in isolation — it’s about becoming one of the warriors rising to birth a new world. If your body is whispering yes, this may be your time.

Next Steps:

🔗 Join my newsletter for bonuses and discounts + my FREE Sacred Body Workbook

Dive Deeper into the Details of this 1:1 Coaching Container Below ⬇️

Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

]]>Welcome back, loves. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing everything you need to know about my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching container.

Over the last six mini-episodes, I’ve explored the “why” — why someone would enter this program, what barriers it helps dissolve, and the transformations it opens up. Today, I’m sharing the “how”: the structure, the sessions, and the deep intention woven into this container.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

🌙 My mission of weaving pleasure back into our collective and personal lives

🌙 Why this container is about more than just coaching — it’s about shaping a new world

🌙 The 8-session structure (six teachings + two integration sessions)

🌙 What we’ll explore together: from barriers to boundaries, anatomy to desire, and coming home to your body

🌙 The details of the Core and VIP packages, plus partner and ongoing support options

🌙 How to claim one of the six spots available when doors open October 6th (aligned with the Aries full moon ✨)

This isn’t just about working on your pleasure in isolation — it’s about becoming one of the warriors rising to birth a new world. If your body is whispering yes, this may be your time.

Next Steps:

🔗 Join my newsletter for bonuses and discounts + my FREE Sacred Body Workbook

Dive Deeper into the Details of this 1:1 Coaching Container Below ⬇️

Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

]]>d4945789-a4fe-4d7d-a9c8-c8e71c027cd0Fri, 03 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -070040:12truefull112121When Sex Feels Painful: Finding Hope and Reclaiming PleasureWhen Sex Feels Painful: Finding Hope and Reclaiming PleasureSo many women quietly carry the weight of painful sex—and with it, the fear, shame, and disconnection that pain can bring. If sex feels uncomfortable, or even unbearable, it makes sense that desire feels far away.

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore how pain impacts intimacy and why it’s not your fault if you’ve struggled in this area. While pelvic floor physical therapists can support the physical side, my 1:1 coaching container creates space to gently unravel the fear, tension, and narratives that often fuel pain. Together, we work on rebuilding trust in your body, reshaping your relationship to pleasure, and opening the door to experiences that feel safe, connected, and nourishing.

✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:

  • Why painful sex is more common than many realize
  • How fear and anxiety create tension that blocks pleasure
  • The relational impact pain can have on partners and intimacy
  • Ways to begin reclaiming safety, softness, and possibility in your body
  • How my 1:1 coaching container can support your healing journey

If painful sex has been part of your story, take a deep breath and know there is hope. You are not broken, and pleasure is possible for you.

💌 Sign up for my newsletter to receive your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure and stay connected for open cart week.

🌿 Book your FREE 45-minute consultation to explore if one of the six spots in my 1:1 coaching program is meant for you.

🌹 Share or repost on Instagram (@connectedpleasurecoaching) to receive $100 off your coaching package AND tell a friend to give them $100 when they book a coaching package + ANOTHER $100 for you!! (Thats $200+ off depending on how many friends you refer who also book a coaching package!) 

]]>So many women quietly carry the weight of painful sex—and with it, the fear, shame, and disconnection that pain can bring. If sex feels uncomfortable, or even unbearable, it makes sense that desire feels far away.

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore how pain impacts intimacy and why it’s not your fault if you’ve struggled in this area. While pelvic floor physical therapists can support the physical side, my 1:1 coaching container creates space to gently unravel the fear, tension, and narratives that often fuel pain. Together, we work on rebuilding trust in your body, reshaping your relationship to pleasure, and opening the door to experiences that feel safe, connected, and nourishing.

✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:

  • Why painful sex is more common than many realize
  • How fear and anxiety create tension that blocks pleasure
  • The relational impact pain can have on partners and intimacy
  • Ways to begin reclaiming safety, softness, and possibility in your body
  • How my 1:1 coaching container can support your healing journey

If painful sex has been part of your story, take a deep breath and know there is hope. You are not broken, and pleasure is possible for you.

💌 Sign up for my newsletter to receive your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure and stay connected for open cart week.

🌿 Book your FREE 45-minute consultation to explore if one of the six spots in my 1:1 coaching program is meant for you.

🌹 Share or repost on Instagram (@connectedpleasurecoaching) to receive $100 off your coaching package AND tell a friend to give them $100 when they book a coaching package + ANOTHER $100 for you!! (Thats $200+ off depending on how many friends you refer who also book a coaching package!) 

]]>da615aa7-13d8-4e1d-9515-f3a6149c2412Thu, 02 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -070013:03truefull111111Living from the Neck Up: Why Pleasure Requires EmbodimentLiving from the Neck Up: Why Pleasure Requires EmbodimentIn this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m diving into what it means to live “from the neck up”—stuck in our heads, disconnected from our bodies, and unable to fully access pleasure.

So many of us have been conditioned to distrust our bodies, to push down emotions, and to operate only from the mind. But true pleasure, presence, and intimacy require embodiment. Together, we’ll explore:

  • Why our culture keeps us in our heads and away from our bodies
  • The impact of anxiety, negative beliefs, and shame on pleasure
  • How somatic practices help you feel safe enough to be fully present
  • Why one-on-one coaching is a powerful way to shift from overthinking into embodied living

If you’ve been longing to feel grounded in your body and reclaim pleasure as your birthright, this episode will give you insight into what’s possible.

👉 Ready to go deeper?


Let’s move beyond living in our heads and come home to our bodies, together.

]]>In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m diving into what it means to live “from the neck up”—stuck in our heads, disconnected from our bodies, and unable to fully access pleasure.

So many of us have been conditioned to distrust our bodies, to push down emotions, and to operate only from the mind. But true pleasure, presence, and intimacy require embodiment. Together, we’ll explore:

  • Why our culture keeps us in our heads and away from our bodies
  • The impact of anxiety, negative beliefs, and shame on pleasure
  • How somatic practices help you feel safe enough to be fully present
  • Why one-on-one coaching is a powerful way to shift from overthinking into embodied living

If you’ve been longing to feel grounded in your body and reclaim pleasure as your birthright, this episode will give you insight into what’s possible.

👉 Ready to go deeper?


Let’s move beyond living in our heads and come home to our bodies, together.

]]>567993cb-e508-4933-9cca-658d8def74a8Wed, 01 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -070012:17truefull110101Coming Home to Your Body: Healing Shame & Reclaiming PleasureComing Home to Your Body: Healing Shame & Reclaiming PleasureSo many women struggle with feeling disconnected from their bodies — carrying shame, anxiety, or even disgust around their appearance or pleasure. From childhood diet culture to the male gaze to trauma and dissociation, we are taught to mistrust, disconnect from, or even reject our own bodies.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share why body disconnection is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure and how my 1:1 coaching container helps you gently shift into safety, worthiness, and sacred embodiment. Together, we work to release shame, reclaim your body as divine, and open space for both giving and receiving pleasure.

Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • Why so many women struggle to feel safe in their own bodies
  • How shame, trauma, and patriarchal conditioning shape our experience of pleasure
  • The impact of diet culture and beauty standards on body image
  • Why receiving can feel harder than giving — and how to change that
  • How my 1:1 coaching program helps you reclaim your body and your pleasure

🌹 Ready to begin?


Your body is not broken. Your body is sacred.

]]>So many women struggle with feeling disconnected from their bodies — carrying shame, anxiety, or even disgust around their appearance or pleasure. From childhood diet culture to the male gaze to trauma and dissociation, we are taught to mistrust, disconnect from, or even reject our own bodies.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share why body disconnection is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure and how my 1:1 coaching container helps you gently shift into safety, worthiness, and sacred embodiment. Together, we work to release shame, reclaim your body as divine, and open space for both giving and receiving pleasure.

Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • Why so many women struggle to feel safe in their own bodies
  • How shame, trauma, and patriarchal conditioning shape our experience of pleasure
  • The impact of diet culture and beauty standards on body image
  • Why receiving can feel harder than giving — and how to change that
  • How my 1:1 coaching program helps you reclaim your body and your pleasure

🌹 Ready to begin?


Your body is not broken. Your body is sacred.

]]>4dfa44a8-0e2b-4a6d-baa6-2bb4155e56b0Tue, 30 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -070014:12truefull1991Dopamine, Screens, and the Path Back to Pleasure with Dr. Kristin AllottDopamine, Screens, and the Path Back to Pleasure with Dr. Kristin AllottIn this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them.

We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approach to health and well-being, blending neuroscience, naturopathic medicine, and a deep respect for the body.

Together, we dive into:

✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for so many women — and how to shift it into something regenerative and nourishing

✨ The science of dopamine and how our culture trains us to numb rather than replenish

✨ The difference between behavioral addictions and genuine pleasure

✨ Why boredom is actually the doorway to creativity and innovation

✨ The unique challenges mothers and caregivers face with rest, self-care, and connection

✨ Viewing your body as your most precious three-year-old — and treating it with care, love, and attention

✨ The role of community in supporting health, vitality, and pleasure

✨ Kristin’s practices for tracking fun and reconnecting to joy in daily life

✨ The power of sexual healing work with a therapist or coach to come home to your body

This episode weaves science, story, and sacred practice to remind us that our bodies are not broken — they’re wise, powerful, and waiting for us to return.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

  • Learn more about Dr. Kristin Allott: kristinallott.com
  • Kristin’s book: Fuel Your Brain, Not Your Anxiety (available in print, eBook, and Audible)
  • Join her newsletter and groups via her website
  • Meetup Q&A on body and mental health (search “Kristin Allott” on Meetup)
  • Instagram: @kristenallott

Stay Connected with Me, Kayla:

🌹 Get your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journey

🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation

]]>In this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them.

We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approach to health and well-being, blending neuroscience, naturopathic medicine, and a deep respect for the body.

Together, we dive into:

✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for so many women — and how to shift it into something regenerative and nourishing

✨ The science of dopamine and how our culture trains us to numb rather than replenish

✨ The difference between behavioral addictions and genuine pleasure

✨ Why boredom is actually the doorway to creativity and innovation

✨ The unique challenges mothers and caregivers face with rest, self-care, and connection

✨ Viewing your body as your most precious three-year-old — and treating it with care, love, and attention

✨ The role of community in supporting health, vitality, and pleasure

✨ Kristin’s practices for tracking fun and reconnecting to joy in daily life

✨ The power of sexual healing work with a therapist or coach to come home to your body

This episode weaves science, story, and sacred practice to remind us that our bodies are not broken — they’re wise, powerful, and waiting for us to return.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

  • Learn more about Dr. Kristin Allott: kristinallott.com
  • Kristin’s book: Fuel Your Brain, Not Your Anxiety (available in print, eBook, and Audible)
  • Join her newsletter and groups via her website
  • Meetup Q&A on body and mental health (search “Kristin Allott” on Meetup)
  • Instagram: @kristenallott

Stay Connected with Me, Kayla:

🌹 Get your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journey

🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation

]]>26a47756-f30a-4973-85be-b54f00bcbda6Fri, 26 Sep 2025 00:30:00 -070001:08:27truefull1881You Are Not Broken: Reclaiming Pleasure & Coming Home to Your BodyYou Are Not Broken: Reclaiming Pleasure & Coming Home to Your BodySo many women come to me feeling like they are broken when it comes to desire, intimacy, or accessing pleasure. Whether it’s a sudden drop in desire, difficulty experiencing pleasure, or a lifelong disconnection from sexuality, society often reinforces the painful belief that something is “wrong” with you.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share how my 1:1 coaching container creates space for women to explore these barriers with compassion, safety, and softness. Together we dismantle the belief of brokenness, uncover root causes like trauma, anxiety, or life transitions, and begin rewiring the nervous system to reconnect with pleasure and embodied wholeness.

💧 You are not broken. Your body holds wisdom, power, and sacredness — and you deserve to reclaim it.

✨ Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • Why so many women feel “broken” in their sexuality
  • The societal messages that separate us from our pleasure
  • How life transitions and nervous system dysregulation impact desire
  • What it looks like to gently reclaim pleasure in a safe, supportive container
  • How to know if my 1:1 coaching is for you

🌹 Ready to begin your journey?


Your pleasure is sacred. You are whole. You are not broken.

]]>So many women come to me feeling like they are broken when it comes to desire, intimacy, or accessing pleasure. Whether it’s a sudden drop in desire, difficulty experiencing pleasure, or a lifelong disconnection from sexuality, society often reinforces the painful belief that something is “wrong” with you.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share how my 1:1 coaching container creates space for women to explore these barriers with compassion, safety, and softness. Together we dismantle the belief of brokenness, uncover root causes like trauma, anxiety, or life transitions, and begin rewiring the nervous system to reconnect with pleasure and embodied wholeness.

💧 You are not broken. Your body holds wisdom, power, and sacredness — and you deserve to reclaim it.

✨ Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • Why so many women feel “broken” in their sexuality
  • The societal messages that separate us from our pleasure
  • How life transitions and nervous system dysregulation impact desire
  • What it looks like to gently reclaim pleasure in a safe, supportive container
  • How to know if my 1:1 coaching is for you

🌹 Ready to begin your journey?


Your pleasure is sacred. You are whole. You are not broken.

]]>97c03059-b0ff-4868-8aa9-c1efd073833fThu, 25 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -070011:55truefull1771When Sex Feels Like a ChoreWhen Sex Feels Like a ChoreIs sex a chore? You’re not alone.

In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving.

I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconnection can make intimacy feel impossible. I also walk you through how my 1:1 coaching container helps women shift from obligation to liberation — reclaiming sex as a source of pleasure, power, and deep connection.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for women

✨ How stress and body disconnection play a role

✨ Why prioritizing your own pleasure changes everything

✨ How my 8-week coaching container creates space to heal and reclaim intimacy

If you’ve ever thought “I should want sex, but it just feels like work” — this episode is for you.

🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation

🌹 Get your Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journey

Because your body is sacred. Your pleasure is yours. And you are not broken.

]]>Is sex a chore? You’re not alone.

In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving.

I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconnection can make intimacy feel impossible. I also walk you through how my 1:1 coaching container helps women shift from obligation to liberation — reclaiming sex as a source of pleasure, power, and deep connection.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for women

✨ How stress and body disconnection play a role

✨ Why prioritizing your own pleasure changes everything

✨ How my 8-week coaching container creates space to heal and reclaim intimacy

If you’ve ever thought “I should want sex, but it just feels like work” — this episode is for you.

🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation

🌹 Get your Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journey

Because your body is sacred. Your pleasure is yours. And you are not broken.

]]>40edd3d8-0238-42eb-a69b-b9e20b2ff14bWed, 24 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -070006:17truefull1661Our Tears Are Our Weapons, Our Pleasure is Our LiberationOur Tears Are Our Weapons, Our Pleasure is Our Liberation💧 Our tears are weapons. Our pleasure is liberation.

In this special mini-series on the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m opening the doors to my 1:1 coaching container — an intimate 8-week journey designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.

Right now, the world feels heavy. Collectively, we’re grieving, awakening, and shifting into new ways of being. This is the moment to root ourselves back into pleasure — not just for our own healing, but for the ripple it creates in the collective.

In this episode, I share:

✨ Why pleasure is both personal and political

✨ How our grief and collective power are deeply connected

✨ What my 1:1 container looks like, and who it’s for

✨ Why reclaiming sexual pleasure is often the key to unlocking wholeness

If you’ve been feeling the call to heal your relationship to sex, intimacy, and your body, this container may be for you.

🌹 Apply for 1:1 coaching: Schedule your free 45-minute consultation (only available during launch week)

🌹 Get started now: Sign up for my newsletter and receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook — a beautiful first step on your healing journey.

Because when we reclaim our pleasure, we reclaim our liberation.

]]>💧 Our tears are weapons. Our pleasure is liberation.

In this special mini-series on the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m opening the doors to my 1:1 coaching container — an intimate 8-week journey designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.

Right now, the world feels heavy. Collectively, we’re grieving, awakening, and shifting into new ways of being. This is the moment to root ourselves back into pleasure — not just for our own healing, but for the ripple it creates in the collective.

In this episode, I share:

✨ Why pleasure is both personal and political

✨ How our grief and collective power are deeply connected

✨ What my 1:1 container looks like, and who it’s for

✨ Why reclaiming sexual pleasure is often the key to unlocking wholeness

If you’ve been feeling the call to heal your relationship to sex, intimacy, and your body, this container may be for you.

🌹 Apply for 1:1 coaching: Schedule your free 45-minute consultation (only available during launch week)

🌹 Get started now: Sign up for my newsletter and receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook — a beautiful first step on your healing journey.

Because when we reclaim our pleasure, we reclaim our liberation.

]]>3c7b85f6-30cb-408a-bc89-866de0fa5e1bTue, 23 Sep 2025 13:45:00 -070008:28truefull1551Living by the Body, Dreaming of Land, and Weaving the Future with Camille A. SaundersLiving by the Body, Dreaming of Land, and Weaving the Future with Camille A. SaundersWhat happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders, a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience.

Camille shares how she structures her schedule to honor her body’s rhythms, how and why she takes 12 weeks off a year, and how holding boundaries becomes sacred work. We discuss the collective consciousness and why there are so many of us witches and initiatives currently dreaming the same dream. I open up about her dream of building community on the land — with eco-homes called geoships, gardens that nourish, and spaces for retreat and ritual.

We dive into the intersections of technology and the sacred feminine, reflecting on AI, free time, and how rewilding ourselves in nature can anchor us in wisdom and creativity. This conversation is a vision of what it means to weave pleasure back into our lives and the world.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • Why honoring rest is a radical act of sovereignty — and how Camille builds it into her workweek and year
  • The power of boundaries and self-trust when no one else is holding you accountable
  • A vision of geoships, land-based living, and community rooted in reciprocity with the earth
  • How tending gardens and raising children in relationship with the land is part of feminine resistance
  • The role of AI in shifting work, identity, and pleasure — and why creativity will be essential
  • Why women and witches have always been at the edges of society — and how that wisdom is rising again
  • Finding constancy and wisdom in trees, cycles, and the seasons of life and death

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May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>What happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders, a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience.

Camille shares how she structures her schedule to honor her body’s rhythms, how and why she takes 12 weeks off a year, and how holding boundaries becomes sacred work. We discuss the collective consciousness and why there are so many of us witches and initiatives currently dreaming the same dream. I open up about her dream of building community on the land — with eco-homes called geoships, gardens that nourish, and spaces for retreat and ritual.

We dive into the intersections of technology and the sacred feminine, reflecting on AI, free time, and how rewilding ourselves in nature can anchor us in wisdom and creativity. This conversation is a vision of what it means to weave pleasure back into our lives and the world.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • Why honoring rest is a radical act of sovereignty — and how Camille builds it into her workweek and year
  • The power of boundaries and self-trust when no one else is holding you accountable
  • A vision of geoships, land-based living, and community rooted in reciprocity with the earth
  • How tending gardens and raising children in relationship with the land is part of feminine resistance
  • The role of AI in shifting work, identity, and pleasure — and why creativity will be essential
  • Why women and witches have always been at the edges of society — and how that wisdom is rising again
  • Finding constancy and wisdom in trees, cycles, and the seasons of life and death

Guest Link


Connected Pleasure Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>6e175851-fd0a-45dd-82e2-37e6f8905b3eFri, 19 Sep 2025 17:15:00 -070001:33:14truefull1441Bringing Vaginas Into the Light: Pleasure, Pelvic Health, and Healing with Dr. Angie MaxwellBringing Vaginas Into the Light: Pleasure, Pelvic Health, and Healing with Dr. Angie MaxwellIn this first-ever interview on the Connect to Pleasure podcast, I sit down with Dr. Angie Maxwell — pelvic floor physical therapist, founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA, and fierce advocate for women’s health.

We dive into:

  • What pleasure means beyond sex, and how it weaves through every part of life
  • The role of pelvic floor physical therapy in healing pain, postpartum changes, and sexual health
  • Angie’s personal journey with pelvic pain, shame-free sexuality, and why she chose to dedicate her career to female-centered care
  • What actually happens when you see a pelvic floor PT (and how safe, consent-based, and empowering it can be)
  • The importance of creating your “dream team” of providers to support body, mind, and spirit in your healing journey

Together we explore why reclaiming pleasure is essential not just for sexual wellness, but for living fully, freely, and embodied.

Guest Bio

Dr. Angie Maxwell is a board-certified Women’s Health physical therapist and founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA. Specializing in pregnancy, postpartum, bone health, and pelvic dysfunction, she’s passionate about empowering women and female-bodied individuals to feel strong, safe, and at home in their bodies. She is also a community educator, creating safe spaces for conversations around arousal, pleasure, and pelvic health for women of all ages.

Guest Resources & Links

Connect with Angie at Madrona Physical Therapy or email her at info@madronapt.com

Offers Available: Out of network physical therapy services focused on pelvic health.

  • Monday 11:15am Bone health class
  • Wed 1:15pm perinatal work out class for Mom and Baby
  • Each are $20 a class and are drop in.
  • FREE screenings for any patient who has had a C-section birth to evaluate their scar and how it is healing.

Connected Pleasure Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>In this first-ever interview on the Connect to Pleasure podcast, I sit down with Dr. Angie Maxwell — pelvic floor physical therapist, founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA, and fierce advocate for women’s health.

We dive into:

  • What pleasure means beyond sex, and how it weaves through every part of life
  • The role of pelvic floor physical therapy in healing pain, postpartum changes, and sexual health
  • Angie’s personal journey with pelvic pain, shame-free sexuality, and why she chose to dedicate her career to female-centered care
  • What actually happens when you see a pelvic floor PT (and how safe, consent-based, and empowering it can be)
  • The importance of creating your “dream team” of providers to support body, mind, and spirit in your healing journey

Together we explore why reclaiming pleasure is essential not just for sexual wellness, but for living fully, freely, and embodied.

Guest Bio

Dr. Angie Maxwell is a board-certified Women’s Health physical therapist and founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA. Specializing in pregnancy, postpartum, bone health, and pelvic dysfunction, she’s passionate about empowering women and female-bodied individuals to feel strong, safe, and at home in their bodies. She is also a community educator, creating safe spaces for conversations around arousal, pleasure, and pelvic health for women of all ages.

Guest Resources & Links

Connect with Angie at Madrona Physical Therapy or email her at info@madronapt.com

Offers Available: Out of network physical therapy services focused on pelvic health.

  • Monday 11:15am Bone health class
  • Wed 1:15pm perinatal work out class for Mom and Baby
  • Each are $20 a class and are drop in.
  • FREE screenings for any patient who has had a C-section birth to evaluate their scar and how it is healing.

Connected Pleasure Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>a52e3d55-ffbd-4cb5-9e65-9db03f41b924Fri, 12 Sep 2025 00:30:00 -070057:55truefull1331Connected Pleasure Coaching: Transforming Low Desire into Empowered PleasureConnected Pleasure Coaching: Transforming Low Desire into Empowered PleasureWelcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast with me, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, healer, dreamer, and sacred disruptor of the patriarchy. This is our space to return to the body, to power, to pleasure, and to one another.

In this episode, I open my journal and share a vision I cast earlier this year during a new moon ceremony. It’s a vision for a world rooted in safety, laughter, community, and love. A world where women, children, and families are centered and everyone’s needs are met.

From that vision, I share how I’m weaving pleasure back into the world through my sacred containers and community spaces. You’ll hear about:

✨ 1:1 Coaching for Low Sexual Desire – An 8-session high-touch container designed to help women reclaim pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies. Core and VIP options available.

✨ Not Broken Course (Waitlist Open!) – A group program offering the same transformational content as 1:1 coaching, with the added support of community and sisterhood. Founding members will help co-create the inaugural round.

✨ Shed Retreat – November 14–16, 2025 on Vashon Island, WA. A powerful weekend with Shauna Stewart, where we shed old scripts and step into new ways of relating to sex and intimacy.

✨ Sacred Feminine Singing Circle – A community space for women and feminine-identified beings to explore their voices, sing in harmony, and connect through music and sound healing.

This episode is both a reflection and an invitation. If you’ve been longing for deeper connection to your body, your pleasure, and your voice—this is for you.

Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast with me, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, healer, dreamer, and sacred disruptor of the patriarchy. This is our space to return to the body, to power, to pleasure, and to one another.

In this episode, I open my journal and share a vision I cast earlier this year during a new moon ceremony. It’s a vision for a world rooted in safety, laughter, community, and love. A world where women, children, and families are centered and everyone’s needs are met.

From that vision, I share how I’m weaving pleasure back into the world through my sacred containers and community spaces. You’ll hear about:

✨ 1:1 Coaching for Low Sexual Desire – An 8-session high-touch container designed to help women reclaim pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies. Core and VIP options available.

✨ Not Broken Course (Waitlist Open!) – A group program offering the same transformational content as 1:1 coaching, with the added support of community and sisterhood. Founding members will help co-create the inaugural round.

✨ Shed Retreat – November 14–16, 2025 on Vashon Island, WA. A powerful weekend with Shauna Stewart, where we shed old scripts and step into new ways of relating to sex and intimacy.

✨ Sacred Feminine Singing Circle – A community space for women and feminine-identified beings to explore their voices, sing in harmony, and connect through music and sound healing.

This episode is both a reflection and an invitation. If you’ve been longing for deeper connection to your body, your pleasure, and your voice—this is for you.

Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>4e0205d9-9bbc-46dd-a45c-39ae98f9197bFri, 05 Sep 2025 00:30:00 -070027:10truefull1221Lets Play!Lets Play!Hi loves. In this short and sweet transmission, I share a practice that’s been lighting me up lately—inviting the universe to play with me. 🌙

Inspired by my manifestation journey and my love of the sacred feminine, I explore what it looks like to co-create with the moon, the sun, and the earth as partners in our becoming.

This is an invitation to bring more joy, curiosity, and sacred play into your day. What would shift if, instead of pushing, you asked the universe: What can we create together today?

Let’s remember—we are not separate. We are part of one living ecosystem, woven together in love.

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May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>Hi loves. In this short and sweet transmission, I share a practice that’s been lighting me up lately—inviting the universe to play with me. 🌙

Inspired by my manifestation journey and my love of the sacred feminine, I explore what it looks like to co-create with the moon, the sun, and the earth as partners in our becoming.

This is an invitation to bring more joy, curiosity, and sacred play into your day. What would shift if, instead of pushing, you asked the universe: What can we create together today?

Let’s remember—we are not separate. We are part of one living ecosystem, woven together in love.

Resources & Links


Support the Podcast

If this episode touched you, please:


May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

]]>58668e2a-3867-4eff-b9f8-7e9943118a3bWed, 03 Sep 2025 17:30:00 -070001:51truebonus1111Weaving a World of PleasureWeaving a World of PleasureThe Connected Pleasure Podcast, hosted by Kayla Moore, embarks on a profound exploration of the significance of pleasure as a fundamental aspect of human existence. Within the first segment, Moore articulates her journey as a certified sex therapist and coach, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our authentic selves through pleasure and embodiment. She introduces the concept of ‘soft power,’ which advocates for leading with compassion and connection rather than dominance and control. The podcast serves as a platform for discussing the vital importance of pleasure in reshaping societal structures, fostering community, and nurturing individual well-being. Moore posits that the contemporary world, fraught with patriarchy and capitalism, has systematically stripped individuals of their ability to experience joy and connection, thereby necessitating a collective movement towards the ‘Great Turning.’ This paradigm shift calls for the reclamation of pleasure as a transformative force, capable of instigating profound societal change and personal healing.

In her candid narration, Kayla Moore delineates her personal evolution and the impetus for the podcast's rebranding from ‘Her on Top’ to ‘Connected Pleasure.’ This transition symbolizes a deeper commitment to exploring how pleasure intersects with various aspects of life, including activism, community, and personal healing. Moore reflects on her experiences during the hiatus, revealing the transformative journey she undertook, culminating in the establishment of Connected Pleasure Coaching. This coaching initiative underscores a pivotal shift towards more intentional and focused therapeutic practices that prioritize rapid and profound transformation. Through the podcast, Moore aspires to weave together diverse narratives that illustrate how pleasure can be reintegrated into daily life and collective consciousness, thereby advocating for a world where pleasure is not a luxury but a necessity.

The podcast also delves into the intricate relationship between pleasure, justice, and activism, as Moore articulates her vision of a society grounded in interconnectedness and community support. She advocates for a reevaluation of the societal norms that dictate productivity and success, urging listeners to embrace a more holistic and pleasure-centered approach to life. As she invites a variety of guests from diverse backgrounds to share their insights, the podcast aims to illuminate the myriad ways in which pleasure can be woven back into the fabric of society. Moore’s commitment to fostering a dialogue around these themes is evident as she emphasizes the urgency of reimagining work, life, and legacy through the lens of pleasure, ultimately positing that the collective rise of the feminine energy will herald a new era of empowerment and connection. This exploration serves not only as a call to action but also as a reminder that pleasure is intrinsically linked to our humanity, deserving of acknowledgment and celebration.

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Newsletter Signup to get my FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure

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Schedule a FREE 45 Minute Consultation

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Podcast Recommendation: We Are The Great Turning

]]>The Connected Pleasure Podcast, hosted by Kayla Moore, embarks on a profound exploration of the significance of pleasure as a fundamental aspect of human existence. Within the first segment, Moore articulates her journey as a certified sex therapist and coach, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our authentic selves through pleasure and embodiment. She introduces the concept of ‘soft power,’ which advocates for leading with compassion and connection rather than dominance and control. The podcast serves as a platform for discussing the vital importance of pleasure in reshaping societal structures, fostering community, and nurturing individual well-being. Moore posits that the contemporary world, fraught with patriarchy and capitalism, has systematically stripped individuals of their ability to experience joy and connection, thereby necessitating a collective movement towards the ‘Great Turning.’ This paradigm shift calls for the reclamation of pleasure as a transformative force, capable of instigating profound societal change and personal healing.

In her candid narration, Kayla Moore delineates her personal evolution and the impetus for the podcast's rebranding from ‘Her on Top’ to ‘Connected Pleasure.’ This transition symbolizes a deeper commitment to exploring how pleasure intersects with various aspects of life, including activism, community, and personal healing. Moore reflects on her experiences during the hiatus, revealing the transformative journey she undertook, culminating in the establishment of Connected Pleasure Coaching. This coaching initiative underscores a pivotal shift towards more intentional and focused therapeutic practices that prioritize rapid and profound transformation. Through the podcast, Moore aspires to weave together diverse narratives that illustrate how pleasure can be reintegrated into daily life and collective consciousness, thereby advocating for a world where pleasure is not a luxury but a necessity.

The podcast also delves into the intricate relationship between pleasure, justice, and activism, as Moore articulates her vision of a society grounded in interconnectedness and community support. She advocates for a reevaluation of the societal norms that dictate productivity and success, urging listeners to embrace a more holistic and pleasure-centered approach to life. As she invites a variety of guests from diverse backgrounds to share their insights, the podcast aims to illuminate the myriad ways in which pleasure can be woven back into the fabric of society. Moore’s commitment to fostering a dialogue around these themes is evident as she emphasizes the urgency of reimagining work, life, and legacy through the lens of pleasure, ultimately positing that the collective rise of the feminine energy will herald a new era of empowerment and connection. This exploration serves not only as a call to action but also as a reminder that pleasure is intrinsically linked to our humanity, deserving of acknowledgment and celebration.

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]]>af5f8d41-54a7-415d-9a6a-2bb77f7078efFri, 29 Aug 2025 00:52:00 -070035:39truefull1111Connected Pleasure Podcast TrailerConnected Pleasure Podcast TrailerWelcome to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, a sacred space to explore how pleasure can root, restore, and reshape our lives.

I’m your host, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and scared disrupter of the patriarchy. 

This podcast is an invitation to return:

To your pleasure.

To your power.

To your body—and to the earth that holds you.

Together, we’ll explore what it means to lead with soft power in a world that glorifies burnout, domination, and control. Through intimate solo episodes and soul-stirring conversations, we’re weaving a new paradigm, one rooted in connection, embodiment, and love.

Because pleasure is not separate from the rest of life.

It’s what connects us.

To ourselves.

To each other.

To the rhythms of nature and the truth of who we are.

We’ll unlearn the conditioning that told us we were too much or not enough. We’ll remember what it feels like to be deeply alive, deeply worthy, and deeply in tune with our sensual, sacred selves.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desires, unsure of your worth, or hungry for a softer way to be in the world, this podcast is for you.

Because pleasure isn’t frivolous.

It’s foundational.

And it’s time to come home.

Subscribe or follow now and journey with us as we reclaim what was always ours.

]]>Welcome to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, a sacred space to explore how pleasure can root, restore, and reshape our lives.

I’m your host, Kayla Moore—Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and scared disrupter of the patriarchy. 

This podcast is an invitation to return:

To your pleasure.

To your power.

To your body—and to the earth that holds you.

Together, we’ll explore what it means to lead with soft power in a world that glorifies burnout, domination, and control. Through intimate solo episodes and soul-stirring conversations, we’re weaving a new paradigm, one rooted in connection, embodiment, and love.

Because pleasure is not separate from the rest of life.

It’s what connects us.

To ourselves.

To each other.

To the rhythms of nature and the truth of who we are.

We’ll unlearn the conditioning that told us we were too much or not enough. We’ll remember what it feels like to be deeply alive, deeply worthy, and deeply in tune with our sensual, sacred selves.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desires, unsure of your worth, or hungry for a softer way to be in the world, this podcast is for you.

Because pleasure isn’t frivolous.

It’s foundational.

And it’s time to come home.

Subscribe or follow now and journey with us as we reclaim what was always ours.

]]>d415b482-d4ee-46ea-9a42-a9ecc9fcd319Thu, 21 Aug 2025 19:00:00 -070001:48truetrailer11Unlocking the Power of Responsive Desire: A Path to IntimacyUnlocking the Power of Responsive Desire: A Path to IntimacyWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 13!

Delving into the often overlooked dimensions of desire, Kayla Moore presents a thought-provoking episode that challenges conventional wisdom about sexual attraction and intimacy. She opens the discussion by inviting listeners to ponder their own desires and what it might mean to pursue them in a way that is authentic and fulfilling. This episode offers a fresh perspective on the interplay between sexual desire and the various aspects of our lives, suggesting that our relationship with our desires can reflect broader themes of self-worth, connection, and personal empowerment.

Throughout the episode, Kayla introduces the concept of responsive desire, a term that reframes how many individuals perceive their sexual appetites. Instead of viewing desire as something that must be spontaneously ignited, she argues for the importance of creating an environment conducive to arousal and connection. By highlighting the need for safety and emotional intimacy, she encourages listeners to reflect on the contexts in which their desires can thrive, thereby normalizing the idea that desire can be responsive rather than purely spontaneous. This nuanced understanding opens up a dialogue about the complexities of human sexuality and the ways in which emotional states can significantly impact our intimate experiences.

In a particularly enchanting segment, Kayla leads a guided visualization, inviting listeners to connect with their body and mind in a tranquil setting. This exercise not only serves as a tool for grounding but also acts as a catalyst for self-discovery, allowing individuals to appreciate the beauty of their desires and recognize their intrinsic value. As the episode concludes, Kayla emphasizes the importance of nurturing intimate relationships and prioritizing self-care, encouraging a proactive approach to understanding and cultivating desire. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that our desires are sacred, and by embracing both our sexual and emotional needs, we can transform our intimate lives into a more satisfying and connected experience.

Takeaways:

  • Desire is a sacred aspect of our lives, impacting our sexuality and overall fulfillment.
  • Responsive desire requires context and connection, emphasizing the importance of safety and intimacy.
  • Recognizing barriers to desire can help us cultivate a deeper connection with our needs.
  • The journey toward desire is not about whether we have it, but how we can nurture it.
  • Understanding the duality of spontaneous and responsive desire can transform our sexual experiences.
  • Grounding ourselves in the present moment allows us to reconnect with our desires and bodies.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @reclaimingstoriestherapy and @herontoppod

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 13!

Delving into the often overlooked dimensions of desire, Kayla Moore presents a thought-provoking episode that challenges conventional wisdom about sexual attraction and intimacy. She opens the discussion by inviting listeners to ponder their own desires and what it might mean to pursue them in a way that is authentic and fulfilling. This episode offers a fresh perspective on the interplay between sexual desire and the various aspects of our lives, suggesting that our relationship with our desires can reflect broader themes of self-worth, connection, and personal empowerment.

Throughout the episode, Kayla introduces the concept of responsive desire, a term that reframes how many individuals perceive their sexual appetites. Instead of viewing desire as something that must be spontaneously ignited, she argues for the importance of creating an environment conducive to arousal and connection. By highlighting the need for safety and emotional intimacy, she encourages listeners to reflect on the contexts in which their desires can thrive, thereby normalizing the idea that desire can be responsive rather than purely spontaneous. This nuanced understanding opens up a dialogue about the complexities of human sexuality and the ways in which emotional states can significantly impact our intimate experiences.

In a particularly enchanting segment, Kayla leads a guided visualization, inviting listeners to connect with their body and mind in a tranquil setting. This exercise not only serves as a tool for grounding but also acts as a catalyst for self-discovery, allowing individuals to appreciate the beauty of their desires and recognize their intrinsic value. As the episode concludes, Kayla emphasizes the importance of nurturing intimate relationships and prioritizing self-care, encouraging a proactive approach to understanding and cultivating desire. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that our desires are sacred, and by embracing both our sexual and emotional needs, we can transform our intimate lives into a more satisfying and connected experience.

Takeaways:

  • Desire is a sacred aspect of our lives, impacting our sexuality and overall fulfillment.
  • Responsive desire requires context and connection, emphasizing the importance of safety and intimacy.
  • Recognizing barriers to desire can help us cultivate a deeper connection with our needs.
  • The journey toward desire is not about whether we have it, but how we can nurture it.
  • Understanding the duality of spontaneous and responsive desire can transform our sexual experiences.
  • Grounding ourselves in the present moment allows us to reconnect with our desires and bodies.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @reclaimingstoriestherapy and @herontoppod

]]>ceddda4e-5944-4279-b9e9-4683f30ab241Fri, 29 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -070038:16truefull213132Consent and Boundaries: How to Stand Up for What You WantConsent and Boundaries: How to Stand Up for What You WantWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 12!

The complexities of consent and personal boundaries take center stage in Kayla Moore's thought-provoking dialogue, where she invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with saying yes when they truly wish to say no. Through insightful questions and guided reflections, Kayla encourages her audience to examine the relationships in their lives where they struggle to assert their boundaries. This exploration is especially pertinent to women, who often find themselves caught in the societal web of people-pleasing. The episode unfolds as a compassionate journey toward self-awareness, inviting listeners to connect with their bodies and emotions as they navigate these challenging dynamics.

Diving deeper, Kayla sheds light on the consequences of neglecting personal desires, particularly in the context of sexual relationships. She articulates how societal expectations have historically placed the burden of pleasing partners predominantly on women, leading to a pattern where many women feel compelled to say yes, even when it contradicts their personal desires. This habit can create an emotional disconnect and resentment in intimate partnerships, underscoring the importance of recognizing and honoring one's own needs. Kayla emphasizes that understanding and embracing the power to say no is essential for fostering genuine intimacy and satisfaction, both in sexual relationships and across all aspects of life.

As the episode draws to a close, Kayla leaves her listeners with a powerful message of empowerment. She reassures them that learning to assert their boundaries opens the door to authentic yeses in the future, enriching their experiences and relationships. By prioritizing self-care and personal agency, individuals can cultivate deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. This episode is not just a discussion about consent; it is a compelling invitation to reclaim one's power and agency, fostering healthier and more satisfying relationships.

Takeaways:

  • Recognizing the difficulty in saying no is crucial for establishing healthy boundaries in relationships.
  • Women often feel pressured to please partners, leading to saying yes when they truly want to refuse.
  • Understanding your own desires and needs is essential for fostering genuine intimacy and pleasure.
  • Saying no when you mean no is a powerful act that reinforces your self-worth.
  • Learning to say no can ultimately create more space for enthusiastic yeses in your life.
  • Empowering yourself to prioritize your feelings over others can lead to healthier relationships.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 12!

The complexities of consent and personal boundaries take center stage in Kayla Moore's thought-provoking dialogue, where she invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with saying yes when they truly wish to say no. Through insightful questions and guided reflections, Kayla encourages her audience to examine the relationships in their lives where they struggle to assert their boundaries. This exploration is especially pertinent to women, who often find themselves caught in the societal web of people-pleasing. The episode unfolds as a compassionate journey toward self-awareness, inviting listeners to connect with their bodies and emotions as they navigate these challenging dynamics.

Diving deeper, Kayla sheds light on the consequences of neglecting personal desires, particularly in the context of sexual relationships. She articulates how societal expectations have historically placed the burden of pleasing partners predominantly on women, leading to a pattern where many women feel compelled to say yes, even when it contradicts their personal desires. This habit can create an emotional disconnect and resentment in intimate partnerships, underscoring the importance of recognizing and honoring one's own needs. Kayla emphasizes that understanding and embracing the power to say no is essential for fostering genuine intimacy and satisfaction, both in sexual relationships and across all aspects of life.

As the episode draws to a close, Kayla leaves her listeners with a powerful message of empowerment. She reassures them that learning to assert their boundaries opens the door to authentic yeses in the future, enriching their experiences and relationships. By prioritizing self-care and personal agency, individuals can cultivate deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. This episode is not just a discussion about consent; it is a compelling invitation to reclaim one's power and agency, fostering healthier and more satisfying relationships.

Takeaways:

  • Recognizing the difficulty in saying no is crucial for establishing healthy boundaries in relationships.
  • Women often feel pressured to please partners, leading to saying yes when they truly want to refuse.
  • Understanding your own desires and needs is essential for fostering genuine intimacy and pleasure.
  • Saying no when you mean no is a powerful act that reinforces your self-worth.
  • Learning to say no can ultimately create more space for enthusiastic yeses in your life.
  • Empowering yourself to prioritize your feelings over others can lead to healthier relationships.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

]]>fb6edc7b-95d9-4f72-af5d-d09edceab3a9Fri, 15 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -070022:30truefull212122Unlocking Your Sexual Potential: Insights from Linger Boutique's Shauna StewartUnlocking Your Sexual Potential: Insights from Linger Boutique's Shauna StewartWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 11! A rich tapestry of emotions, experiences, and insights unfolds as Shauna Stewart shares her remarkable journey in the realm of women's sexuality and pleasure. The episode draws listeners into a deep conversation about the societal constructs that have historically marginalized women's desires, framing sexual pleasure as a domain primarily for men. Shauna’s candid reflections on her own experiences, including a life-altering health crisis, reveal how she found healing through the reclamation of pleasure. This transformative journey led her to establish Linger Boutique, a space designed to empower women to explore their sensuality without shame or objectification.

The dialogue navigates the intricate landscape of women's emotional lives, particularly the feelings of rage and grief that often accompany the journey of rediscovering one's sexual identity. Shauna passionately argues that embracing these feelings is essential for authentic self-exploration and empowerment. She eloquently discusses the importance of creating safe, welcoming spaces for women to access their desires, emphasizing that pleasure is not merely a luxury but a fundamental aspect of well-being. This perspective challenges the pervasive narratives that dictate how women should feel about their bodies and sexuality, encouraging a more holistic and liberated approach to intimacy.

Listeners are introduced to the unique offerings of Linger Boutique, which go beyond traditional retail to foster community and connection among women. From workshops that encourage couples to communicate and experiment together to personalized shopping experiences, the boutique serves as a catalyst for transformation. Shauna’s vision is rooted in the belief that women's pleasure is a birthright, and she invites listeners to join her in redefining what it means to embrace one's sexuality. This episode not only informs but also inspires, leaving an indelible message about the power of pleasure and the importance of prioritizing oneself in the quest for intimacy.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Shauna Stewart

Website: https://lingerboutique.com/

Socials: @lingerbtq and @linger.u and @lifeturnedonpodcast

Podcast: Life Turned On Podcast (available on all major platforms)

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 11! A rich tapestry of emotions, experiences, and insights unfolds as Shauna Stewart shares her remarkable journey in the realm of women's sexuality and pleasure. The episode draws listeners into a deep conversation about the societal constructs that have historically marginalized women's desires, framing sexual pleasure as a domain primarily for men. Shauna’s candid reflections on her own experiences, including a life-altering health crisis, reveal how she found healing through the reclamation of pleasure. This transformative journey led her to establish Linger Boutique, a space designed to empower women to explore their sensuality without shame or objectification.

The dialogue navigates the intricate landscape of women's emotional lives, particularly the feelings of rage and grief that often accompany the journey of rediscovering one's sexual identity. Shauna passionately argues that embracing these feelings is essential for authentic self-exploration and empowerment. She eloquently discusses the importance of creating safe, welcoming spaces for women to access their desires, emphasizing that pleasure is not merely a luxury but a fundamental aspect of well-being. This perspective challenges the pervasive narratives that dictate how women should feel about their bodies and sexuality, encouraging a more holistic and liberated approach to intimacy.

Listeners are introduced to the unique offerings of Linger Boutique, which go beyond traditional retail to foster community and connection among women. From workshops that encourage couples to communicate and experiment together to personalized shopping experiences, the boutique serves as a catalyst for transformation. Shauna’s vision is rooted in the belief that women's pleasure is a birthright, and she invites listeners to join her in redefining what it means to embrace one's sexuality. This episode not only informs but also inspires, leaving an indelible message about the power of pleasure and the importance of prioritizing oneself in the quest for intimacy.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Shauna Stewart

Website: https://lingerboutique.com/

Socials: @lingerbtq and @linger.u and @lifeturnedonpodcast

Podcast: Life Turned On Podcast (available on all major platforms)

]]>a7d6ef7d-2671-450a-9adc-d291cc827e8eFri, 01 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -070059:33truefull211112Healing In CommunityHealing In CommunityWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 10! Kayla explores the importance of healing as a collective group instead of solely on your own. Kayla first announces some events in the works. Kayla and her co-worker Hannah Olivia are facilitating a Women's Circle on Nov. 30th. 2024 in Gig Harbor, WA. Stay tuned for more info. Kayla also put out the idea of doing a women's pop up choir locally for women to come to sing together, heal together, and have fun. Please contact Kayla if you are interested in participating or helping making this dream a reality. Kayla then discusses the different types of loneliness and why being in a collective group is so important to our human health. Kayla leans into the power that can be shared when women come together to support each other and heal. Kayla then puts forth that she will be bringing other practitioners and important people in the community on to the podcast in the coming episodes to give listeners a taste of the personally curated village that Kayla wants you to be aware of and seek out in addition to talk therapy for your own healing journey.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Hannah Olivia

Website: https://www.naturalglowesthetics.com/

Socials: @hkolivia

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 10! Kayla explores the importance of healing as a collective group instead of solely on your own. Kayla first announces some events in the works. Kayla and her co-worker Hannah Olivia are facilitating a Women's Circle on Nov. 30th. 2024 in Gig Harbor, WA. Stay tuned for more info. Kayla also put out the idea of doing a women's pop up choir locally for women to come to sing together, heal together, and have fun. Please contact Kayla if you are interested in participating or helping making this dream a reality. Kayla then discusses the different types of loneliness and why being in a collective group is so important to our human health. Kayla leans into the power that can be shared when women come together to support each other and heal. Kayla then puts forth that she will be bringing other practitioners and important people in the community on to the podcast in the coming episodes to give listeners a taste of the personally curated village that Kayla wants you to be aware of and seek out in addition to talk therapy for your own healing journey.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Please leave a Google review for Kayla about the podcast at:

https://g.page/r/CdRiE1BnrCIVEAI/review

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Hannah Olivia

Website: https://www.naturalglowesthetics.com/

Socials: @hkolivia

]]>d2a922da-ef11-4edc-ab13-9277969b0a8dFri, 18 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -070034:03truefull210102Journey to Healing Sexual TraumaJourney to Healing Sexual TraumaWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 9! Kayla explores what trauma is and how it might affect you through different definitions of trauma. Kayla then describes what someone who has sexual trauma may be experiencing when they come to see her for healing. Kayla then takes you through the healing journey, starting out with how you can become safe and aware in your own body and then how to pair that with the sexual experiences you want to have with your partner. Kayla ends with how she would help your partner support you and what the ultimate goals of healing could look like.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 9! Kayla explores what trauma is and how it might affect you through different definitions of trauma. Kayla then describes what someone who has sexual trauma may be experiencing when they come to see her for healing. Kayla then takes you through the healing journey, starting out with how you can become safe and aware in your own body and then how to pair that with the sexual experiences you want to have with your partner. Kayla ends with how she would help your partner support you and what the ultimate goals of healing could look like.

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

]]>43455e75-e12e-441b-8711-f603451f284bFri, 04 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -070036:59truefull2992Body Image - Reclaiming Your BodyBody Image - Reclaiming Your BodyWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 8! Kayla discusses body image and how reclaiming your relationship to your body is paramount to having a deeper relationship to yourself and more ease in your sex and intimacy. Kayla deconstructs how society convinces women that you are not enough in order to sell products and keep us in a state of control. Kayla then offers ways to begin to cultivate a deeper love and reverence for your body. Kayla ends by telling women that you deserve to love yourself fully, including your beautiful and powerful body!

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Blog:

How You Feel About Your Body Is Keeping You From Pleasurable Sex

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 8! Kayla discusses body image and how reclaiming your relationship to your body is paramount to having a deeper relationship to yourself and more ease in your sex and intimacy. Kayla deconstructs how society convinces women that you are not enough in order to sell products and keep us in a state of control. Kayla then offers ways to begin to cultivate a deeper love and reverence for your body. Kayla ends by telling women that you deserve to love yourself fully, including your beautiful and powerful body!

Go To reclaimingstoriestherapy.com to schedule your FREE 30 minute consultation with Kayla if you want to dive deeper into these topics for yourself in a therapeutic setting.

Resources: 

Podcast Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod and @reclaimingstoriestherapy

Blog:

How You Feel About Your Body Is Keeping You From Pleasurable Sex

]]>997868bb-048b-42cc-b329-93f139abef79Fri, 20 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -070033:29truefull2882Virgin - A Woman Unto HerselfVirgin - A Woman Unto HerselfWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 7! Kayla tells the sacred feminine story of the Virgin Mary and discusses why our understanding of this story and the word 'virgin' has been so skewed. Kayla poses a different definition of the word 'virgin', meaning a woman unto herself. Kayla asks the question, what would your life be like if you had grown up with this version of the story of Mary and this definition of the word 'virgin'? What would it mean to be a woman unto yourself?

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Sarah Jenks: https://sarahjenks.com/

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 7! Kayla tells the sacred feminine story of the Virgin Mary and discusses why our understanding of this story and the word 'virgin' has been so skewed. Kayla poses a different definition of the word 'virgin', meaning a woman unto herself. Kayla asks the question, what would your life be like if you had grown up with this version of the story of Mary and this definition of the word 'virgin'? What would it mean to be a woman unto yourself?

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Sarah Jenks: https://sarahjenks.com/

]]>27f40cb0-1db3-41ce-817c-b7a3dde5c6eeFri, 06 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -070028:34truefull2772Is Sex For Me?Is Sex For Me?Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 6! Kayla discusses the new moon being in the sign of Leo this month and how this lends itself to talking about how women can work on standing in their own spotlight and shedding the things that no longer serve them. Kayla describes the barriers women encounter when they think about whether or not sex is for them and how those keep us in a place of compliance to the patriarchy. Kayla leads a mindfulness meditation around how your body feels when you think of the phrase "sex is for me" and ends with the invitation to answer the question "Do I want sex to be for me?" You decide!

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 6! Kayla discusses the new moon being in the sign of Leo this month and how this lends itself to talking about how women can work on standing in their own spotlight and shedding the things that no longer serve them. Kayla describes the barriers women encounter when they think about whether or not sex is for them and how those keep us in a place of compliance to the patriarchy. Kayla leads a mindfulness meditation around how your body feels when you think of the phrase "sex is for me" and ends with the invitation to answer the question "Do I want sex to be for me?" You decide!

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>a2f2e252-1a6e-4020-ac9e-1e74e63c6852Fri, 23 Aug 2024 06:00:00 -070026:21truefull2662The Nervous SystemThe Nervous SystemWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 5! Kayla discusses the nervous system and how it is an integral part in healing your relationship to sex. Kayla goes over the differences between the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system and how this affects your ability to get into a space of lust. Kayla explains how the nervous system operates on the familiar and anything unfamiliar feels unsafe. Kayla ends with a guided meditation to invoke the parasympathetic nervous system and to begin your journey in understanding what your body's story is around sex.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 5! Kayla discusses the nervous system and how it is an integral part in healing your relationship to sex. Kayla goes over the differences between the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system and how this affects your ability to get into a space of lust. Kayla explains how the nervous system operates on the familiar and anything unfamiliar feels unsafe. Kayla ends with a guided meditation to invoke the parasympathetic nervous system and to begin your journey in understanding what your body's story is around sex.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>7a34f25a-b61b-4404-8f2a-bbe1ef7f3218Fri, 09 Aug 2024 06:00:00 -070035:55truefull2552The Healing Power of GriefThe Healing Power of GriefWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 4! Kayla discusses grief that comes with unlearning the pesky patriarchal narratives we are told about women's bodies, sex, and sexuality. Kayla then leads you on a guided somatic meditative journey to understand for yourself where and how you may be experiencing grief around your unlearning of stories about sex. Kayla asks a series of questions for you to dive deeper into your body and soul and continue the healing process.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 4! Kayla discusses grief that comes with unlearning the pesky patriarchal narratives we are told about women's bodies, sex, and sexuality. Kayla then leads you on a guided somatic meditative journey to understand for yourself where and how you may be experiencing grief around your unlearning of stories about sex. Kayla asks a series of questions for you to dive deeper into your body and soul and continue the healing process.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>e31bd1fb-8fad-4ec6-acb0-c023563e1799Fri, 26 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -070026:43truefull2442Egg WisdomEgg WisdomWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 3! Kayla discusses the idea of Egg Wisdom and how we can learn from the new and improved narrative of how an egg and sperm meet during the reproductive process. Kayla describes the 4 phases that occur with the egg and sperm and what lessons we can learn from each phase to live out in our own lives. Kayla provides a new lens for women and womb owners to look at their body through in order to heal negative body image and reclaim the power and possibility our bodies hold.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Kate Northrup's Book "do less": https://www.amazon.com/Do-Less-Revolutionary-Approach-Management/dp/1401954987

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 3! Kayla discusses the idea of Egg Wisdom and how we can learn from the new and improved narrative of how an egg and sperm meet during the reproductive process. Kayla describes the 4 phases that occur with the egg and sperm and what lessons we can learn from each phase to live out in our own lives. Kayla provides a new lens for women and womb owners to look at their body through in order to heal negative body image and reclaim the power and possibility our bodies hold.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Kate Northrup's Book "do less": https://www.amazon.com/Do-Less-Revolutionary-Approach-Management/dp/1401954987

]]>84ff3db8-2657-40ca-a831-fdf9a1cc6ed4Fri, 12 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -070024:41truefull2332Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 3! Kayla discusses the idea of Egg Wisdom and how we can learn from the new and improved narrative of how an egg and sperm meet during the reproductive process. Kayla describes the 4 phases that occur with the egg and sperm and what lessons we can learn from each phase to live out in our own lives. Kayla provides a new lens for women and womb owners to look at their body through in order to heal negative body image and reclaim the power and possibility our bodies hold.Choosing Abortion as a MotherChoosing Abortion as a MotherWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 2! Kayla sheds light on the insanity our world is currently in right now when it comes to access to abortion and women's health care. With the 2 year anniversary since Roe v. Wade was overturned by the Supreme Court, Kayla tells her own personal story of seeking and having an abortion to help other mothers seeking abortion or women who just simply do not want to become mothers feel normal and justified in their right to the decision that is best for them. Kayla provides the statistic that 6 out 10 women who seek abortions already have at least one child and half of those women have at least two children. The majority of women seeking abortion are mothers and yet we never hear their stories. Here is one story to give women a sense of community and solidarity. Kayla wants to make her voice known and not shy away from this topic just because our country is trying to silence women's voices and experiences. This is an important election year and our voices and stories can make a difference.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

The Abortion Project no longer has a website but here is a podcast episode they were on.

https://www.apodcastaboutabortion.com/episodes/bonus-destigmatizing-abortion-through-photography-with-the-abortion-project

Here is also an article about the pictures they took and descriptions of what happens in a medical abortion. Do note these photos are graphic so be gentle with yourself on what you are comfortable with.

https://www.thecut.com/2022/08/what-abortion-actually-looks-like-photos.html

Their free abortion guide is also no longer available so if you message me, I would be happy to send that to you.

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2, Episode 2! Kayla sheds light on the insanity our world is currently in right now when it comes to access to abortion and women's health care. With the 2 year anniversary since Roe v. Wade was overturned by the Supreme Court, Kayla tells her own personal story of seeking and having an abortion to help other mothers seeking abortion or women who just simply do not want to become mothers feel normal and justified in their right to the decision that is best for them. Kayla provides the statistic that 6 out 10 women who seek abortions already have at least one child and half of those women have at least two children. The majority of women seeking abortion are mothers and yet we never hear their stories. Here is one story to give women a sense of community and solidarity. Kayla wants to make her voice known and not shy away from this topic just because our country is trying to silence women's voices and experiences. This is an important election year and our voices and stories can make a difference.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

The Abortion Project no longer has a website but here is a podcast episode they were on.

https://www.apodcastaboutabortion.com/episodes/bonus-destigmatizing-abortion-through-photography-with-the-abortion-project

Here is also an article about the pictures they took and descriptions of what happens in a medical abortion. Do note these photos are graphic so be gentle with yourself on what you are comfortable with.

https://www.thecut.com/2022/08/what-abortion-actually-looks-like-photos.html

Their free abortion guide is also no longer available so if you message me, I would be happy to send that to you.

]]>df337966-82ea-420f-99b8-ff9635fcc2c1Fri, 28 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -070001:07:19truefull2222The Menstrual Cycle and Cyclical LivingThe Menstrual Cycle and Cyclical LivingWelcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2 Episode 1! Kayla addresses the shift to the podcast becoming a solo show and where Alex has gone. Kayla then discusses where she has been these last few months and what has been influencing her new direction for the podcast. Kayla talks about Kate Northrup and Sarah Jenks and how they have been extremely influential in guiding her to wanting to work solely with women in her practice and on this podcast. Kayla then discusses cyclical living and the 4 phases of the menstrual cycle. Kayla explains the different energy levels women and people with wombs have in each phase and why this knowledge matters. Kayla questions what could have been different if this was what we learned about periods and the menstrual cycle instead of all the shameful narratives. Kayla ends by sharing how women can use this knowledge to be more reverent and caring towards themselves and their bodies and feel more connected to their inner strength and power.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Kate Northrup: https://katenorthrup.com/

Sarah Jenks: https://sarahjenks.com/

Dr. Mandi Murtaugh: https://www.drmandimurtaugh.com/ AND https://www.thresholdscollective.com/

]]>Welcome to the Her On Top Podcast, Season 2 Episode 1! Kayla addresses the shift to the podcast becoming a solo show and where Alex has gone. Kayla then discusses where she has been these last few months and what has been influencing her new direction for the podcast. Kayla talks about Kate Northrup and Sarah Jenks and how they have been extremely influential in guiding her to wanting to work solely with women in her practice and on this podcast. Kayla then discusses cyclical living and the 4 phases of the menstrual cycle. Kayla explains the different energy levels women and people with wombs have in each phase and why this knowledge matters. Kayla questions what could have been different if this was what we learned about periods and the menstrual cycle instead of all the shameful narratives. Kayla ends by sharing how women can use this knowledge to be more reverent and caring towards themselves and their bodies and feel more connected to their inner strength and power.

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website:

https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Kate Northrup: https://katenorthrup.com/

Sarah Jenks: https://sarahjenks.com/

Dr. Mandi Murtaugh: https://www.drmandimurtaugh.com/ AND https://www.thresholdscollective.com/

]]>23fbcd5a-4ce6-4d6c-960f-2863630df9daFri, 14 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -070036:59truefull2112Make Up SexMake Up SexWelcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 11! Today Kayla and Alex discuss make up sex! The duo explore the benefits and potential pitfalls of make up sex. They also get into what it means to have an awareness of your own internal dialogue, how to cope with your own emotions in a conflict situation, and how to find resolution in conflict with your partner. Finally, the conversation ends with how to use sex as a way to reconnect with your partner once you have both been able to come back to a state of calm in your own bodies. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

 Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 11! Today Kayla and Alex discuss make up sex! The duo explore the benefits and potential pitfalls of make up sex. They also get into what it means to have an awareness of your own internal dialogue, how to cope with your own emotions in a conflict situation, and how to find resolution in conflict with your partner. Finally, the conversation ends with how to use sex as a way to reconnect with your partner once you have both been able to come back to a state of calm in your own bodies. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

 Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>d3647540-b5be-459a-816a-d05513d790f3Fri, 24 May 2024 06:00:00 -070059:54truefull111111MotherhoodMotherhoodWelcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 10! Today Kayla and Alex discuss motherhood in honor of Mother's Day. Alex asks Kayla questions such as: what has been the biggest shift from before motherhood to now and what have been the greatest joys experienced in motherhood so far? Kayla and Alex also have a long discussion of baby names and the often difficult process in coming up with a name for your bundles of joy. To all the mama listeners out there, we wish you a very happy mothers day and hope you feel recognized, loved, and appreciated for all that you do! Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

 

Instagram: @herontoppod

 Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 10! Today Kayla and Alex discuss motherhood in honor of Mother's Day. Alex asks Kayla questions such as: what has been the biggest shift from before motherhood to now and what have been the greatest joys experienced in motherhood so far? Kayla and Alex also have a long discussion of baby names and the often difficult process in coming up with a name for your bundles of joy. To all the mama listeners out there, we wish you a very happy mothers day and hope you feel recognized, loved, and appreciated for all that you do! Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

 

Instagram: @herontoppod

 Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>1847f88c-30aa-4cb8-b091-0d85b8cec7efFri, 10 May 2024 06:00:00 -070001:09:24truefull110101Is Watching Pornography Cheating?Is Watching Pornography Cheating?Welcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 9! Today Kayla and Alex discuss is watching pornography cheating? They discuss why and how someone may think watching and engaging with porn is cheating and how it can also be seen as a non-threatening tool to enhance individual and/or couple sexual experiences. They finish out the episode by discussing how ultimately the focus should not be on porn or masturbation but instead on how you and your partner are communicating about your wants, needs, and boundaries around sex in your relationship. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her On Top Podcast, Episode 9! Today Kayla and Alex discuss is watching pornography cheating? They discuss why and how someone may think watching and engaging with porn is cheating and how it can also be seen as a non-threatening tool to enhance individual and/or couple sexual experiences. They finish out the episode by discussing how ultimately the focus should not be on porn or masturbation but instead on how you and your partner are communicating about your wants, needs, and boundaries around sex in your relationship. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>86c9afbf-6c41-4114-9451-ca4f3a6d5f64Fri, 26 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -070059:30truefull1991Boundaries in RelationshipsBoundaries in RelationshipsWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 8! Today Kayla and Alex discuss boundaries in relationships. They define what a boundary is, describe different types of boundaries, and express what to do when it is hard to set a boundary, especially with family. The duo also discuss setting boundaries with your partner around dividing tasks around the home and taking time for yourself. They finish out the episode by discussing why setting and holding boundaries is important and what happens when we do not set boundaries. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod


Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com


Brené Brown Video on Boundaries: https://youtu.be/TLOoa8UGqxA?si=Qk-VUQvZX5GEZx47

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 8! Today Kayla and Alex discuss boundaries in relationships. They define what a boundary is, describe different types of boundaries, and express what to do when it is hard to set a boundary, especially with family. The duo also discuss setting boundaries with your partner around dividing tasks around the home and taking time for yourself. They finish out the episode by discussing why setting and holding boundaries is important and what happens when we do not set boundaries. Thanks for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod


Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com


Brené Brown Video on Boundaries: https://youtu.be/TLOoa8UGqxA?si=Qk-VUQvZX5GEZx47

]]>0b3510dc-d804-4aee-8c2a-8cd51aa52af4Fri, 12 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -070001:07:16truefull1881Low Sex Drive: What To Do When You Don't Want To Do ItLow Sex Drive: What To Do When You Don't Want To Do ItWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 7! Today Kayla and Alex discuss desire issues or low sex drive issues in relationships and what it looks like when one person does not want sex as much as the other. They talk about what low desire is, why it matters, and what are common situations that low desire can manifest. At the end of the episode, Kayla gives you her little black book of tips and tricks on how to create and sustain desire. Thank you for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Book: "Come As You Are" - Emily Nagoski https://www.emilynagoski.com/

Come As You Are Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-as-you-are/id1628661035

Good Sex Explained Video by Emily Nagoski: https://youtu.be/eqX38J9ya1I?si=jgqbBGKgWvKAgLhD

Lingerie: https://the--bar.com/

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 7! Today Kayla and Alex discuss desire issues or low sex drive issues in relationships and what it looks like when one person does not want sex as much as the other. They talk about what low desire is, why it matters, and what are common situations that low desire can manifest. At the end of the episode, Kayla gives you her little black book of tips and tricks on how to create and sustain desire. Thank you for listening! 

Resources: 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

Book: "Come As You Are" - Emily Nagoski https://www.emilynagoski.com/

Come As You Are Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-as-you-are/id1628661035

Good Sex Explained Video by Emily Nagoski: https://youtu.be/eqX38J9ya1I?si=jgqbBGKgWvKAgLhD

Lingerie: https://the--bar.com/

]]>a3b9f23c-34bd-452b-86b1-fa5a14123b92Fri, 29 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -070001:05:44truefull1771Sex History Series, Part 5: How We Met Our Significant OthersSex History Series, Part 5: How We Met Our Significant OthersWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 6! This episode is the fifth and final episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex detail the stories of how they met their significant others and came to know that they wanted them as forever partners. They also discuss what needed to happen for them as individuals and women to be ready for a healthy, serious, long term relationship. Thank you for listening! 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 6! This episode is the fifth and final episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex detail the stories of how they met their significant others and came to know that they wanted them as forever partners. They also discuss what needed to happen for them as individuals and women to be ready for a healthy, serious, long term relationship. Thank you for listening! 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>fb97e090-ddd5-4cda-8cef-aff37ff2ceddFri, 15 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -070001:15:16truefull1661Sex History Series, Part 4: Our First Sexual ExperiencesSex History Series, Part 4: Our First Sexual ExperiencesWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 5! This episode is the forth episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex discuss their first sexual experiences. The duo reminisce on how they both lost their virginity and how their parents found out they were having sex for the first time. They also discuss the topics of birth control and how culture and religion influenced their experiences. 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 5! This episode is the forth episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex discuss their first sexual experiences. The duo reminisce on how they both lost their virginity and how their parents found out they were having sex for the first time. They also discuss the topics of birth control and how culture and religion influenced their experiences. 

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>61a5c3b4-e3d5-4a65-90a6-e24e4bf7cf9cFri, 01 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -070001:12:45truefull1551Sex History Series, Part 3: Our First RelationshipsSex History Series, Part 3: Our First RelationshipsWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 4! This episode is the third episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex discuss their first relationship experiences. The duo reveal funny stories of their first encounters with dating, the sagas of their first relationships, the heartbreak, and the lessons learned about themselves and relationships in the future.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast, Episode 4! This episode is the third episode in the 5 part sex history series, detailing Kayla and Alex's experiences in learning about sex and relationships from childhood to present day. Today Kayla and Alex discuss their first relationship experiences. The duo reveal funny stories of their first encounters with dating, the sagas of their first relationships, the heartbreak, and the lessons learned about themselves and relationships in the future.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>75d3d4a4-3419-4a9d-b7ab-68502f322ed6Fri, 16 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -070001:33:06truefull1441Sex History Series, Part 2: "I Killed the Dell Computer" - Adolescent SexualitySex History Series, Part 2: "I Killed the Dell Computer" - Adolescent SexualityWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast! Today Kayla and Alex discuss adolescent sexuality. This topic will entail discussing their first childhood crushes and when they first started experimenting with self-pleasure, masturbation, and watching porn. During these conversations they reference movies, music, celebrities, and pop culture of the 90s and early 2000s. The duo also explore the gender differences that take place during this time of exploration, how to empathize with young adolescents going through this time, and the shame often associated with self-pleasure.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast! Today Kayla and Alex discuss adolescent sexuality. This topic will entail discussing their first childhood crushes and when they first started experimenting with self-pleasure, masturbation, and watching porn. During these conversations they reference movies, music, celebrities, and pop culture of the 90s and early 2000s. The duo also explore the gender differences that take place during this time of exploration, how to empathize with young adolescents going through this time, and the shame often associated with self-pleasure.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>eace116e-a039-4124-aff8-6d8d012dba76Fri, 02 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -070001:03:08truefull1331Sex History Series, Part 1: Sexuality in ChildhoodSex History Series, Part 1: Sexuality in ChildhoodWelcome back to the Her on Top Podcast! Today Kayla and Alex discuss childhood sexuality. This topic will explore gender, sex, their bodies from a young age into puberty, and how that has influenced them. They discuss gender and how it is changing over the generations, including elements such as preferred pronouns and gender neutral names. The girls explore conversations about sex education in school and how media and movies has played a role in the sex narrative both positively and negatively.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>Welcome back to the Her on Top Podcast! Today Kayla and Alex discuss childhood sexuality. This topic will explore gender, sex, their bodies from a young age into puberty, and how that has influenced them. They discuss gender and how it is changing over the generations, including elements such as preferred pronouns and gender neutral names. The girls explore conversations about sex education in school and how media and movies has played a role in the sex narrative both positively and negatively.

Website: her-on-top.captivate.fm

Instagram: @herontoppod

Kayla's Therapy Website: https://www.reclaimingstoriestherapy.com

]]>f08d2116-db82-4189-8dd9-aa73b7326be3Fri, 19 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -070001:05:59truefull1221How It Started and How Its GoingHow It Started and How Its GoingKayla and Alex dive into the who, what, where, when, and why of this podcast. They start with an introduction to who they are and why this podcast is important to them to create. Kayla and Alex discuss how sex has become taboo and this podcast is meant to be a safe space where people, especially women, can listen, learn, feel normal, and feel included in these converstations and experinces. Kayla also discussed how most of us do not learn about sex in the context of a relaiotnship. This podcast provides a space to bridge the gap and understand how do we have pleasurable sex within healthy relaitonships. Kayla and Alex then discuss their experiences going to private Catholic school for both elementary, middle, and high school and how that shaped our beliefs as well as how sex and dating were talked about. Kayla discusses going to an all girls Catholic school for high school and how it created a safe space to explore and honor women's expierneces. Next, Kayla and Alex dive into the origin of their friendship, noting they were not friends to begin with. Overtime, Kayla and Alex grew to like each other and chose their friendship for them, not because of anyone else's expectations. Kayla and Alex talk about the things that they had in common that brought them together such as family dynamics and beliefs. They also discuss how their personalities are also very opposite, which makes for a very interesting friendship that has still lasted the test of time. Kayla and Alex then discuss where each of them are now in their lives and what relationships are currently important to them. Alex emphasizes how feeling safe in her current relaitonship has made all the difference and Kayla agrees that feeling safe and secure with a partner is the number one thing to look for in choosing a parnter. Alex also discusses how she and her fiancé are currently DINKs (Double Income No Kids) and is loving life. Kayla on the other hand is a wife and mother, navigating this very fun and hard season of life. Kayla and Alex next explore a childhood story of how Kayla told their whole second grade class about where babies come from. This story is important forshadowing for how Kayla really had a passion for sharing information about sex and relaitonships even from a young age. Finally, Kayla and Alex wrap up the episode with a HOT take on Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey's relationship and how they are in partnership where both partners champiion the other's successes. 

]]>Kayla and Alex dive into the who, what, where, when, and why of this podcast. They start with an introduction to who they are and why this podcast is important to them to create. Kayla and Alex discuss how sex has become taboo and this podcast is meant to be a safe space where people, especially women, can listen, learn, feel normal, and feel included in these converstations and experinces. Kayla also discussed how most of us do not learn about sex in the context of a relaiotnship. This podcast provides a space to bridge the gap and understand how do we have pleasurable sex within healthy relaitonships. Kayla and Alex then discuss their experiences going to private Catholic school for both elementary, middle, and high school and how that shaped our beliefs as well as how sex and dating were talked about. Kayla discusses going to an all girls Catholic school for high school and how it created a safe space to explore and honor women's expierneces. Next, Kayla and Alex dive into the origin of their friendship, noting they were not friends to begin with. Overtime, Kayla and Alex grew to like each other and chose their friendship for them, not because of anyone else's expectations. Kayla and Alex talk about the things that they had in common that brought them together such as family dynamics and beliefs. They also discuss how their personalities are also very opposite, which makes for a very interesting friendship that has still lasted the test of time. Kayla and Alex then discuss where each of them are now in their lives and what relationships are currently important to them. Alex emphasizes how feeling safe in her current relaitonship has made all the difference and Kayla agrees that feeling safe and secure with a partner is the number one thing to look for in choosing a parnter. Alex also discusses how she and her fiancé are currently DINKs (Double Income No Kids) and is loving life. Kayla on the other hand is a wife and mother, navigating this very fun and hard season of life. Kayla and Alex next explore a childhood story of how Kayla told their whole second grade class about where babies come from. This story is important forshadowing for how Kayla really had a passion for sharing information about sex and relaitonships even from a young age. Finally, Kayla and Alex wrap up the episode with a HOT take on Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey's relationship and how they are in partnership where both partners champiion the other's successes. 

]]>81deaa24-1ad5-404a-aa16-a807ec17be88Fri, 05 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -070001:24:28truefull1111