<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/livethe8wiseway/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Live the 8Wise™️ Way]]></title><podcast:guid>92133021-ccdf-5481-b4fe-d997c7d42235</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2024 10:04:44 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2024 Kim Rutherford]]></copyright><managingEditor>Kim Rutherford</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Live the 8Wise™️ Way, a brand new podcast hosted by psychotherapist, therapeutic coach and author Kim Rutherford.

The aim of this podcast is to help you develop better mental health and wellbeing, so that you can have a healthier, happier mind and live the life you want. 

I know the content in this podcast works because I used to battle my own mental health issues. Part of my recovery was realising I needed to implement practical tools and techniques that were going to work for me. After lots of research, what I found were these core elements to focus on. I used these to get myself back to where it needed to be, but I still use them today as a preventative tool to improve my wellbeing and keep my mental health in check. 

Today, I use this method with my private clients and I’m going to share it with you in this podcast. 

In each episode I’ll share the tools, the techniques and the method of the 8Wise™ Way 

If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg</url><title>Live the 8Wise™️ Way</title><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Kim Rutherford</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><description>Welcome to Live the 8Wise™️ Way, a brand new podcast hosted by psychotherapist, therapeutic coach and author Kim Rutherford.

The aim of this podcast is to help you develop better mental health and wellbeing, so that you can have a healthier, happier mind and live the life you want. 

I know the content in this podcast works because I used to battle my own mental health issues. Part of my recovery was realising I needed to implement practical tools and techniques that were going to work for me. After lots of research, what I found were these core elements to focus on. I used these to get myself back to where it needed to be, but I still use them today as a preventative tool to improve my wellbeing and keep my mental health in check. 

Today, I use this method with my private clients and I’m going to share it with you in this podcast. 

In each episode I’ll share the tools, the techniques and the method of the 8Wise™ Way 

If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.</description><link>https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>Goodbye Part 4 - Take Care of Your Lifestyle Dimension</title><itunes:title>Goodbye Part 4 - Take Care of Your Lifestyle Dimension</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In the final episode of the series, we’re taking a look at the lifestyle dimension. This brings together the foundation dimension, the internal dimension and the external dimension and looks at how you can use all of the principles of 8 Wise to create a safe environment for you live your happiest, healthiest life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:44) Two core elements of occupational wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(04:52) Don’t be scared to move on!&nbsp;</p><p>(09:02) It’s never too late to retrain and change career&nbsp;</p><p>(15:46) What are your motivators?&nbsp;</p><p>(18:43) Don’t be scared to seek help&nbsp;</p><p>(21:18) Old age sneaks up on all of us&nbsp;</p><p>(26:28) Our mental health is our responsibility&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In the final episode of the series, we’re taking a look at the lifestyle dimension. This brings together the foundation dimension, the internal dimension and the external dimension and looks at how you can use all of the principles of 8 Wise to create a safe environment for you live your happiest, healthiest life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:44) Two core elements of occupational wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(04:52) Don’t be scared to move on!&nbsp;</p><p>(09:02) It’s never too late to retrain and change career&nbsp;</p><p>(15:46) What are your motivators?&nbsp;</p><p>(18:43) Don’t be scared to seek help&nbsp;</p><p>(21:18) Old age sneaks up on all of us&nbsp;</p><p>(26:28) Our mental health is our responsibility&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">55f83807-5160-4046-b670-a7e8adae142d</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/644684be-b6a7-4318-ad97-cc3a8d163cae/039-Goodbye-Part-4-Take-Care-of-Your-Lifestyle-Dimension.mp3" length="50196893" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:29</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>39</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/068b901d-088e-4f97-bbf6-31e1dbfb200e/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/068b901d-088e-4f97-bbf6-31e1dbfb200e/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Goodbye Part 3 - Take Care of Your External Dimension</title><itunes:title>Goodbye Part 3 - Take Care of Your External Dimension</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In the last episode we covered the internal stuff, so on this episode I am going to recap the external dimension – the environmental and circumstantial factors that impact your mental health and wellbeing, and what you can do to manage it successfully.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:16) What is your environmental wellness?&nbsp;</p><p>(06:29) Finding the right environment for you&nbsp;</p><p>(09:28) Creating a healthy workplace&nbsp;</p><p>(13:14) Social wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(16:17) Tackling the external helps you manage the internal&nbsp;</p><p>(18:50) We can only control ourselves&nbsp;</p><p>(20:54) You respond to the world around you&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In the last episode we covered the internal stuff, so on this episode I am going to recap the external dimension – the environmental and circumstantial factors that impact your mental health and wellbeing, and what you can do to manage it successfully.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:16) What is your environmental wellness?&nbsp;</p><p>(06:29) Finding the right environment for you&nbsp;</p><p>(09:28) Creating a healthy workplace&nbsp;</p><p>(13:14) Social wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(16:17) Tackling the external helps you manage the internal&nbsp;</p><p>(18:50) We can only control ourselves&nbsp;</p><p>(20:54) You respond to the world around you&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">9693dfcd-03f3-421f-9bef-00abc4cee4b6</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/ac35a976-5824-49e7-b7a4-8b38e5cf715b/038-Goodbye-Part-3-Take-Care-of-Your-External-Dimension.mp3" length="38340267" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:15</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>38</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/79a1c805-1183-42bc-a719-80320fbad4e1/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/79a1c805-1183-42bc-a719-80320fbad4e1/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Goodbye Part 2 - Take Care of Your Internal Dimension</title><itunes:title>Goodbye Part 2 - Take Care of Your Internal Dimension</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to recap the internal dimension, including your spiritual and emotional wellness. This is the stuff that happens on the inside, it makes up who you are, and getting a grip on this helps you manage anything the world may throw at you!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(05:26) Understanding who you are at your core&nbsp;</p><p>(07:55) Living a life true to you&nbsp;</p><p>(13:11) Self-reflection on spiritual wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(17:27) Stop living in your comfort zone!&nbsp;</p><p>(20:14) How to develop a healthy body and mind&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous 8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to recap the internal dimension, including your spiritual and emotional wellness. This is the stuff that happens on the inside, it makes up who you are, and getting a grip on this helps you manage anything the world may throw at you!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(05:26) Understanding who you are at your core&nbsp;</p><p>(07:55) Living a life true to you&nbsp;</p><p>(13:11) Self-reflection on spiritual wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(17:27) Stop living in your comfort zone!&nbsp;</p><p>(20:14) How to develop a healthy body and mind&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">095a68b5-d177-4428-a8c0-c16065553d73</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/0cd1d1de-b5ed-47fc-9891-d147de00e675/037-Goodbye-Part-2-Take-Care-of-Your-Internal-Dimension.mp3" length="42171120" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>28:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>37</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ee6def64-19c8-451a-86bb-b0e1640647c6/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ee6def64-19c8-451a-86bb-b0e1640647c6/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Goodbye Part 1 - Take Care of Your Foundation Dimension</title><itunes:title>Goodbye Part 1 - Take Care of Your Foundation Dimension</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous&nbsp;8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to recap the foundation dimension, because understanding and mastering the blueprint for better mental health is absolutely essential for living a happier, healthier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(04:39) The key to 8 Wise&nbsp;</p><p>(08:23) Emotional regulation &amp; emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(11:22) How to manage your stress&nbsp;</p><p>(14:58) Looking after your nutrition&nbsp;</p><p>(20:56) Healthy body, healthy mind&nbsp;</p><p>(24:47) How to beat insomnia and get a great night’s sleep&nbsp;</p><p>(29:58) Finding your tool belt&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we wind down the final few episodes of the Live the 8 Wise Way podcast, I am going to recap all of the key things, the real big stuff that you need to take from this podcast, if nothing else!&nbsp;</p><p>Of course if you like what you hear, go back and listen to the whole series so you can get a full, in depth and completely free podcast talking you through my famous&nbsp;8 Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to recap the foundation dimension, because understanding and mastering the blueprint for better mental health is absolutely essential for living a happier, healthier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(04:39) The key to 8 Wise&nbsp;</p><p>(08:23) Emotional regulation &amp; emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(11:22) How to manage your stress&nbsp;</p><p>(14:58) Looking after your nutrition&nbsp;</p><p>(20:56) Healthy body, healthy mind&nbsp;</p><p>(24:47) How to beat insomnia and get a great night’s sleep&nbsp;</p><p>(29:58) Finding your tool belt&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">bc4ed1f8-9a85-42cf-a2e9-e204c3500d72</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/f2fcead2-2adc-4463-931a-42103e4636e8/036-Goodbye-Part-1-Take-Care-of-Your-Foundation-Dimension.mp3" length="54208793" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>37:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>36</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e39a8077-3b63-43d3-8162-53b5ae2ad81b/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 3 – Debunking Stress Myths</title><itunes:title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 3 – Debunking Stress Myths</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Did you know that stress can be a factor in up to 75% of mental health issues, and is a contributing symptom to the six most common causes of death?&nbsp;</p><p>Many of us, particularly career-driven individuals, wear stress like a badge of honour. A stressful day at work is seen as a productive day, or maybe you feel like you’re motivated by stress.&nbsp;</p><p>Well this podcast episode is about to blow your mind on everything you think you know about stress!&nbsp;</p><p>As we continue our mini-series on identifying, creating and implementing healthy coping mechanisms, this episode takes a look at some of the common myths around stress, inspired by <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-myth-stress/201005/8-deadly-myths-about-stress" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Andrew Bernstein’s 8 Deadly Myths About Stress</a>.&nbsp;</p><p>We should be fighting stress, not celebrating it, and hopefully this podcast will help you reframe your understanding of it, and give you some of the tools to start managing stress better in your life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:13) Stress is NOT a mental health issue&nbsp;</p><p>(04:18) MYTH – stress comes from circumstance&nbsp;</p><p>(06:08) MYTH – stress is a motivator&nbsp;</p><p>(08:47) MYTH – some stress is good for you&nbsp;</p><p>(10:13) MYTH – without stress you would be bored&nbsp;</p><p>(12:11) MYTH – the best way to deal with stress is to exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(15:57) MYTH – stress is a choice&nbsp;</p><p>(18:02) MYTH – stress is inevitable&nbsp;</p><p>(20:39) MYTH – everyone is stressed&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you know that stress can be a factor in up to 75% of mental health issues, and is a contributing symptom to the six most common causes of death?&nbsp;</p><p>Many of us, particularly career-driven individuals, wear stress like a badge of honour. A stressful day at work is seen as a productive day, or maybe you feel like you’re motivated by stress.&nbsp;</p><p>Well this podcast episode is about to blow your mind on everything you think you know about stress!&nbsp;</p><p>As we continue our mini-series on identifying, creating and implementing healthy coping mechanisms, this episode takes a look at some of the common myths around stress, inspired by <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-myth-stress/201005/8-deadly-myths-about-stress" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Andrew Bernstein’s 8 Deadly Myths About Stress</a>.&nbsp;</p><p>We should be fighting stress, not celebrating it, and hopefully this podcast will help you reframe your understanding of it, and give you some of the tools to start managing stress better in your life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:13) Stress is NOT a mental health issue&nbsp;</p><p>(04:18) MYTH – stress comes from circumstance&nbsp;</p><p>(06:08) MYTH – stress is a motivator&nbsp;</p><p>(08:47) MYTH – some stress is good for you&nbsp;</p><p>(10:13) MYTH – without stress you would be bored&nbsp;</p><p>(12:11) MYTH – the best way to deal with stress is to exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(15:57) MYTH – stress is a choice&nbsp;</p><p>(18:02) MYTH – stress is inevitable&nbsp;</p><p>(20:39) MYTH – everyone is stressed&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">73c450e2-1b85-4a36-b708-443b56133090</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/6878684e-de30-49a5-93e3-6462ffcfb64e/035-Developing-Healthy-Coping-Mechanisms-Part-3-Debunking-Stres.mp3" length="42958098" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>35</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7ee856b5-8590-4ec4-97e7-c105dd3f2df5/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 2 – Mindfulness &amp; Meditation</title><itunes:title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 2 – Mindfulness &amp; Meditation</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>How are your New Year’s resolutions going?&nbsp;</p><p>I predict that many of you have set big, huge goals which are now beginning to fail, and that’s because you’ve made them too big and too huge rather than focusing on the smaller, achievable targets.&nbsp;</p><p>Maybe your frustration at not hitting your goals is causing some additional stress. Maybe you have a busy life, a challenging or unfulfilling job, or any number of things feeding your anxiety on a daily basis.&nbsp;</p><p>Well it’s time to stop, take a step back, and breathe...&nbsp;</p><p>As we continue our mini-series on identifying, creating and implementing healthy coping mechanisms, this special episode I am going to take you through a meditative process, which you can use at home whenever you want. Simply find a comfortable, quiet place and listen back to this episode.&nbsp;</p><p>This exercise is a free practical exercise you can use when life is getting a bit overwhelming.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:39) Managing what life throws at you&nbsp;</p><p>(02:31) Kim says relax&nbsp;</p><p>(04:03) A self-meditative exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(21:59) Learning to re-focus your coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How are your New Year’s resolutions going?&nbsp;</p><p>I predict that many of you have set big, huge goals which are now beginning to fail, and that’s because you’ve made them too big and too huge rather than focusing on the smaller, achievable targets.&nbsp;</p><p>Maybe your frustration at not hitting your goals is causing some additional stress. Maybe you have a busy life, a challenging or unfulfilling job, or any number of things feeding your anxiety on a daily basis.&nbsp;</p><p>Well it’s time to stop, take a step back, and breathe...&nbsp;</p><p>As we continue our mini-series on identifying, creating and implementing healthy coping mechanisms, this special episode I am going to take you through a meditative process, which you can use at home whenever you want. Simply find a comfortable, quiet place and listen back to this episode.&nbsp;</p><p>This exercise is a free practical exercise you can use when life is getting a bit overwhelming.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:39) Managing what life throws at you&nbsp;</p><p>(02:31) Kim says relax&nbsp;</p><p>(04:03) A self-meditative exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(21:59) Learning to re-focus your coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">0123b872-f47e-4bd8-a827-5714ac1b97c7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/74c79c8d-9e44-4a34-a809-64991a4dc7fa/034-Developing-Healthy-Coping-Mechanisms-Part-2-Mindfulness-Med.mp3" length="38326390" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:15</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>34</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0e101d4e-7ab0-4855-8143-5836e5760028/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 1</title><itunes:title>Developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Part 1</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to jump into the new year, hit the ground running and achieve all of your resolutions and goals?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s ok to say no!&nbsp;</p><p>There will be times, particularly at the start of a new year, when we will like things can get on top of us. Maybe we put too much pressure on ourselves, or perhaps we have so many plans that life just spirals away from us.&nbsp;</p><p>Whatever causes you to speed towards a meltdown, it’s important to know what your coping mechanisms are AND know how to use them. This episode is first part of a mini-series where we look at exactly that and speak to some expert guests so that you can start identifying and managing your life with healthy coping mechanisms.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:34) Life can start to feel chaotic&nbsp;</p><p>(03:05) Coping skills help you feel better&nbsp;</p><p>(05:40) Unhealthy coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>(08:55) Problem-based coping skills&nbsp;</p><p>(12:14) Journaling isn’t for everyone, but it could be what <em>you</em> need&nbsp;</p><p>(16:04) Dance to the beat of your own drum&nbsp;</p><p>(17:38) The emotions wheel&nbsp;</p><p>(21:24) Vision boards&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to jump into the new year, hit the ground running and achieve all of your resolutions and goals?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s ok to say no!&nbsp;</p><p>There will be times, particularly at the start of a new year, when we will like things can get on top of us. Maybe we put too much pressure on ourselves, or perhaps we have so many plans that life just spirals away from us.&nbsp;</p><p>Whatever causes you to speed towards a meltdown, it’s important to know what your coping mechanisms are AND know how to use them. This episode is first part of a mini-series where we look at exactly that and speak to some expert guests so that you can start identifying and managing your life with healthy coping mechanisms.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:34) Life can start to feel chaotic&nbsp;</p><p>(03:05) Coping skills help you feel better&nbsp;</p><p>(05:40) Unhealthy coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>(08:55) Problem-based coping skills&nbsp;</p><p>(12:14) Journaling isn’t for everyone, but it could be what <em>you</em> need&nbsp;</p><p>(16:04) Dance to the beat of your own drum&nbsp;</p><p>(17:38) The emotions wheel&nbsp;</p><p>(21:24) Vision boards&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">57a5835e-036e-4656-94c1-e10a7fda46d3</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/331717cb-5e81-48ef-9add-909e95a2b972/033-Developing-Healthy-Coping-Mechanisms-Part-1.mp3" length="42048020" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>28:49</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>33</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d03afc37-b998-4793-ab54-463929a942f2/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Hello 2023</title><itunes:title>Hello 2023</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Can you believe it – we have made it all the way to 2023. The new year is here, so I want to take the opportunity and thank you all for listening, and welcome those who have only just discovered the podcast.&nbsp;</p><p>This episode is a bit of a recap of the 8Wise model, giving you a whistlestop tour of all the stuff we covered in the earlier episodes, so that you can feel refreshed and ready to dive into some of the amazing content I&nbsp;have coming up for you this year.&nbsp;</p><p>In 2023 we will be joined by some truly special guests, who will share their stories, their expert advice, and their support. You will hear first-hand accounts from those who have experienced mental health issues, and get some valuable insight that can help you tackle your own mental health and wellbeing head on in the coming year.&nbsp;</p><p>It’s time to start living the healthiest, happiest version of you – are you ready?&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:36) It’s time to focus on you&nbsp;</p><p>(04:00) How my own life spiralled&nbsp;</p><p>(07:29) The world inside of us&nbsp;</p><p>(10:32) Set your core goals&nbsp;</p><p>(14:43) You <em>are</em> good enough&nbsp;</p><p>(17:42) Amazing guests&nbsp;</p><p>(21:08) Hear from others who understand you&nbsp;</p><p>(23:42) The 8Wise Masterclass&nbsp;</p><p>(26:28) An 8Wise plan to suit every budget&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can you believe it – we have made it all the way to 2023. The new year is here, so I want to take the opportunity and thank you all for listening, and welcome those who have only just discovered the podcast.&nbsp;</p><p>This episode is a bit of a recap of the 8Wise model, giving you a whistlestop tour of all the stuff we covered in the earlier episodes, so that you can feel refreshed and ready to dive into some of the amazing content I&nbsp;have coming up for you this year.&nbsp;</p><p>In 2023 we will be joined by some truly special guests, who will share their stories, their expert advice, and their support. You will hear first-hand accounts from those who have experienced mental health issues, and get some valuable insight that can help you tackle your own mental health and wellbeing head on in the coming year.&nbsp;</p><p>It’s time to start living the healthiest, happiest version of you – are you ready?&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:36) It’s time to focus on you&nbsp;</p><p>(04:00) How my own life spiralled&nbsp;</p><p>(07:29) The world inside of us&nbsp;</p><p>(10:32) Set your core goals&nbsp;</p><p>(14:43) You <em>are</em> good enough&nbsp;</p><p>(17:42) Amazing guests&nbsp;</p><p>(21:08) Hear from others who understand you&nbsp;</p><p>(23:42) The 8Wise Masterclass&nbsp;</p><p>(26:28) An 8Wise plan to suit every budget&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ad53f2a0-700e-47b5-a9bb-1c6bb43706dd</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/9cd3e1a4-2ef7-40e0-9540-83ba070f271e/032-Hello-2023.mp3" length="44338991" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>30:18</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>32</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/04f04f6d-36a6-4d25-b04e-d8abda6cb827/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Ending the Year the Wise Way</title><itunes:title>Ending the Year the Wise Way</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As New Year’s Eve fast approaches, it’s a time many of us will be reflecting back on 2022. You will celebrate the things that went well, but you’ll also be dwelling on the things that didn’t go so well.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I’m here to tell you to draw a line under it and move on.&nbsp;</p><p>I was going to do a special episode about the new year, but instead I decided to share something a bit deeper and more personal with you, because 2022 was a year of significant change for me, and I have made a big decision:&nbsp;</p><p>No more new year resolutions.&nbsp;</p><p>Listen to the episode to find out why I’m abandoning this end of year tradition, and why my own journey in the past year can inspire you to make positive changes by using the 8Wise model to improve your mental health and wellbeing as you head into 2023.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:22) Have you survived the festive period?&nbsp;</p><p>(02:38) The stigma around weight loss surgery&nbsp;</p><p>(06:09) Resolutions are a thing of the past&nbsp;</p><p>(08:28) “If you are overweight, you deserve to die first”&nbsp;</p><p>(11:26) Acknowledging dysfunctional coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>(15:36) Life isn’t about the number on the scale&nbsp;</p><p>(18:29) No longer eating the pain away&nbsp;</p><p>(21:43) The face of 8Wise; the face of change&nbsp;</p><p>(24:56) Opening my business to new opportunities&nbsp;</p><p>(28:20) You are not perfect, and that’s ok&nbsp;</p><p>(32:03) 2023 will be whatever it’s going to be&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As New Year’s Eve fast approaches, it’s a time many of us will be reflecting back on 2022. You will celebrate the things that went well, but you’ll also be dwelling on the things that didn’t go so well.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I’m here to tell you to draw a line under it and move on.&nbsp;</p><p>I was going to do a special episode about the new year, but instead I decided to share something a bit deeper and more personal with you, because 2022 was a year of significant change for me, and I have made a big decision:&nbsp;</p><p>No more new year resolutions.&nbsp;</p><p>Listen to the episode to find out why I’m abandoning this end of year tradition, and why my own journey in the past year can inspire you to make positive changes by using the 8Wise model to improve your mental health and wellbeing as you head into 2023.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:22) Have you survived the festive period?&nbsp;</p><p>(02:38) The stigma around weight loss surgery&nbsp;</p><p>(06:09) Resolutions are a thing of the past&nbsp;</p><p>(08:28) “If you are overweight, you deserve to die first”&nbsp;</p><p>(11:26) Acknowledging dysfunctional coping mechanisms&nbsp;</p><p>(15:36) Life isn’t about the number on the scale&nbsp;</p><p>(18:29) No longer eating the pain away&nbsp;</p><p>(21:43) The face of 8Wise; the face of change&nbsp;</p><p>(24:56) Opening my business to new opportunities&nbsp;</p><p>(28:20) You are not perfect, and that’s ok&nbsp;</p><p>(32:03) 2023 will be whatever it’s going to be&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e7c50e80-1109-4fdd-975e-a1ee8ded5072</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/4dcf8132-bf3a-434d-8a3a-bfa4b49245d3/031-Ending-the-Year-the-Wise-Way.mp3" length="53151838" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>36:25</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>31</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bd241d0d-eaba-443d-b8fc-961ea10cffd7/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 4: Grief &amp; Loss</title><itunes:title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 4: Grief &amp; Loss</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we will be focussing on grief and loss. Whether you have lost someone around the holidays, you have just recently lost someone, or you have ever previously lost a loved one, the holidays can be triggering. We can sometimes be overwhelmed by emotion as we surround ourselves with motifs of togetherness, family and good will.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to help you process and manage your grief at this time, because here’s the big secret: it never goes away, but that’s ok! It is completely ok to remember someone, to mourn them, and to be sad that they’re gone, but I want to help you turn that pain into a celebration of those you love and of the happy memories you have of them, so that your&nbsp;holidays are more manageable... dare I say even joyous again?!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:02) Tradition can be a hurtful reminder of our losses&nbsp;</p><p>(06:31) The reality of grief&nbsp;</p><p>(09:00) Reach out, make plans, and be there for those who need it&nbsp;</p><p>(11:29) Don’t let the pain consume you&nbsp;</p><p>(15:16) There’s nothing wrong in crying&nbsp;</p><p>(17:10) Reach out if you’re struggling&nbsp;</p><p>(21:02) A time for self-reflection&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we will be focussing on grief and loss. Whether you have lost someone around the holidays, you have just recently lost someone, or you have ever previously lost a loved one, the holidays can be triggering. We can sometimes be overwhelmed by emotion as we surround ourselves with motifs of togetherness, family and good will.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to help you process and manage your grief at this time, because here’s the big secret: it never goes away, but that’s ok! It is completely ok to remember someone, to mourn them, and to be sad that they’re gone, but I want to help you turn that pain into a celebration of those you love and of the happy memories you have of them, so that your&nbsp;holidays are more manageable... dare I say even joyous again?!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:02) Tradition can be a hurtful reminder of our losses&nbsp;</p><p>(06:31) The reality of grief&nbsp;</p><p>(09:00) Reach out, make plans, and be there for those who need it&nbsp;</p><p>(11:29) Don’t let the pain consume you&nbsp;</p><p>(15:16) There’s nothing wrong in crying&nbsp;</p><p>(17:10) Reach out if you’re struggling&nbsp;</p><p>(21:02) A time for self-reflection&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">2b9aa34e-f96d-40dd-98e3-f6867ff9fd25</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/24e0187d-be22-4b74-b330-f76cbde3ecc1/030-Managing-the-Festive-Season-Part-4-Grief-Loss.mp3" length="35471948" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:09</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>30</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/f46838b3-1eda-439d-95e7-1e17630b6ba6/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 3: Loneliness</title><itunes:title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 3: Loneliness</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are focussing on loneliness, because as many people gather with their families over the holidays, there are also many individuals who feel increasingly isolated and alone at this time of year.&nbsp;</p><p>I know that feeling well. I’ve been there. However, it doesn’t have to be this way, and I am going to talk you through some of the things you can do to get more social, feel more connected and improve your wellbeing over the festive period.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:35) The self-isolation creeps up on you&nbsp;</p><p>(04:01) Humans are naturally social animals&nbsp;</p><p>(09:02) Make a plan of activitie&nbsp;</p><p>(13:02) Get involved by giving back&nbsp;</p><p>(15:07) People do care about you&nbsp;</p><p>(19:07) Loneliness can impact our stress levels&nbsp;</p><p>(22:07) Being in the same room is not the same as feeling connected to people&nbsp;</p><p>(25:50) Man’s best friend&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are focussing on loneliness, because as many people gather with their families over the holidays, there are also many individuals who feel increasingly isolated and alone at this time of year.&nbsp;</p><p>I know that feeling well. I’ve been there. However, it doesn’t have to be this way, and I am going to talk you through some of the things you can do to get more social, feel more connected and improve your wellbeing over the festive period.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:35) The self-isolation creeps up on you&nbsp;</p><p>(04:01) Humans are naturally social animals&nbsp;</p><p>(09:02) Make a plan of activitie&nbsp;</p><p>(13:02) Get involved by giving back&nbsp;</p><p>(15:07) People do care about you&nbsp;</p><p>(19:07) Loneliness can impact our stress levels&nbsp;</p><p>(22:07) Being in the same room is not the same as feeling connected to people&nbsp;</p><p>(25:50) Man’s best friend&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">41287fc4-b202-4819-8aae-1472cea80082</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/e245372b-821e-43dd-ab4b-f8989113f450/029-Managing-the-Festive-Season-Part-3-Loneliness.mp3" length="46116092" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>29</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/21284308-96be-4bc5-8e13-64e51e4774a2/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 2: Managing Time</title><itunes:title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 2: Managing Time</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are focussing on one the biggest year round stresses in our lives – time. We never seem to have enough of it, and our constant belief that we need to do everything with everyone all at once can create a lot of unnecessary anxiety.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to help you manage your time better this holiday season with seven practical tips you can start using today.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:13) Time is always running out&nbsp;</p><p>(03:32) Confirm your dates&nbsp;</p><p>(09:09) Plan ahead and get organised&nbsp;</p><p>(13:53) Set boundaries... and stick to them!&nbsp;</p><p>(16:21) Make a conscience change now.&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>Throughout this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are focussing on one the biggest year round stresses in our lives – time. We never seem to have enough of it, and our constant belief that we need to do everything with everyone all at once can create a lot of unnecessary anxiety.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to help you manage your time better this holiday season with seven practical tips you can start using today.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:13) Time is always running out&nbsp;</p><p>(03:32) Confirm your dates&nbsp;</p><p>(09:09) Plan ahead and get organised&nbsp;</p><p>(13:53) Set boundaries... and stick to them!&nbsp;</p><p>(16:21) Make a conscience change now.&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">dedc4e42-07f9-43b0-9a31-dee66a7397f4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8389a1a0-7d88-48b9-8277-b730237c041d/028-Managing-the-Festive-Season-Part-2-Managing-Time.mp3" length="30591351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>20:46</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ff234b7d-d3f8-4460-9084-fb7077b6e789/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 1: Festive Stress</title><itunes:title>Managing the Festive Season - Part 1: Festive Stress</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>In this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are going to break down the dreaded Festive Stress – what is it, what can cause it, and how can you take control of it so that your holidays are happier and healthier?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:30) Holidays are coming&nbsp;</p><p>(03:47) Family time vs me time&nbsp;</p><p>(09:20) Spending money at Christmas&nbsp;</p><p>(14:37) Keeping up with the Joneses&nbsp;</p><p>(18:04) Lonely this Christmas&nbsp;</p><p>(21:46) Tis the season to be jolly&nbsp;</p><p>(29:35) The financial impact of family traditions&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re approaching the holiday season once again, and though ‘tis the season to be merry, many of us often feel this time of year brings other feelings such as stress, anxiety, loneliness, and depression.&nbsp;</p><p>In this special mini-series I am going to help you manage your festive season better, whether you celebrate Christmas, Hannukah, something else or nothing at all.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are going to break down the dreaded Festive Stress – what is it, what can cause it, and how can you take control of it so that your holidays are happier and healthier?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:30) Holidays are coming&nbsp;</p><p>(03:47) Family time vs me time&nbsp;</p><p>(09:20) Spending money at Christmas&nbsp;</p><p>(14:37) Keeping up with the Joneses&nbsp;</p><p>(18:04) Lonely this Christmas&nbsp;</p><p>(21:46) Tis the season to be jolly&nbsp;</p><p>(29:35) The financial impact of family traditions&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">89bf8b8f-6e56-4934-bff3-a935357a35de</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/082346fb-5b74-47fe-a1bf-9580aa159fbe/027-Managing-the-Festive-Season-Part-1-Festive-Stress.mp3" length="57348196" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>39:20</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7ec81170-fc91-4bb4-a3bc-808d490f7510/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>How Did I Get Like This?</title><itunes:title>How Did I Get Like This?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>One of the most common questions I get asked by my clients is ‘how did I get like this?’&nbsp;</p><p>That’s why, in this episode, I’m going to talk you through a timeline exercise I do with my private clients. By doing this, you will start to reflect in so much more detail on all of the significant moments in your life; some will be good, some will be negative, and some you may have buried deep in your subconscious, but this exercise will help to bring all of those memories back to the surface.&nbsp;</p><p>This is about understanding the things that made you who you are, and accepting that you are the sum of all of these parts, good and bad, and that’s awesome.&nbsp;</p><p>By understanding and owning your timeline, you will take control of your mental health and stop worrying about how you got like this. Remember, you are not broken, you are uniquely, perfectly you, and it’s time to stop excusing it and start celebrating!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:54) Why are you the way you are?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:27) Mental health is like a gun&nbsp;</p><p>(08:45) It’s time to go deep and swim around your subconscious&nbsp;</p><p>(14:11) The negatives are easier than the positives&nbsp;</p><p>(18:36) We can change our mindset if it’s not working for us&nbsp;</p><p>(22:02) Understand how the past impacts the present&nbsp;</p><p>(24:22) Don’t underestimate the first decade&nbsp;</p><p>(28:45) You have the ability to overcome anything&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most common questions I get asked by my clients is ‘how did I get like this?’&nbsp;</p><p>That’s why, in this episode, I’m going to talk you through a timeline exercise I do with my private clients. By doing this, you will start to reflect in so much more detail on all of the significant moments in your life; some will be good, some will be negative, and some you may have buried deep in your subconscious, but this exercise will help to bring all of those memories back to the surface.&nbsp;</p><p>This is about understanding the things that made you who you are, and accepting that you are the sum of all of these parts, good and bad, and that’s awesome.&nbsp;</p><p>By understanding and owning your timeline, you will take control of your mental health and stop worrying about how you got like this. Remember, you are not broken, you are uniquely, perfectly you, and it’s time to stop excusing it and start celebrating!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:54) Why are you the way you are?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:27) Mental health is like a gun&nbsp;</p><p>(08:45) It’s time to go deep and swim around your subconscious&nbsp;</p><p>(14:11) The negatives are easier than the positives&nbsp;</p><p>(18:36) We can change our mindset if it’s not working for us&nbsp;</p><p>(22:02) Understand how the past impacts the present&nbsp;</p><p>(24:22) Don’t underestimate the first decade&nbsp;</p><p>(28:45) You have the ability to overcome anything&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">829a00e2-5009-4c59-a24a-9ec1957f1a37</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/537e3f61-2ddf-40be-aa37-226ac7c16e47/026-20-20How-20Did-20I-20Get-20Like-20This.mp3" length="51783953" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>35:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/777ea41a-8d36-4bdc-a673-924d9649f821/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Planning for Effective Change</title><itunes:title>Planning for Effective Change</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Live the 8 Wise Way</em> we are talking about something that affects every single one of us – fear.&nbsp;</p><p>Fear comes in all shapes and sizes. In some people it’s an addiction and we know them as adrenaline junkies, but in others it can manifest in other ways and have more serious, debilitating impacts on our mental health, wellbeing and overall quality of life.&nbsp;</p><p>So I am going to dispel some myths about fear. I am going to explain how and why we experience fear. And I am also going to explain how you can put tools in place to manage your fears.&nbsp;</p><p>Spoiler alert: it won’t be easy, but if you take my advice and start working on your fears (or phobias) you can get it under control!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:32) Identify the reason for change&nbsp;</p><p>(08:10) What’s blocking the change?&nbsp;</p><p>(11:14) Short, medium and long term goal-setting&nbsp;</p><p>(16:04) Take control and get proactive&nbsp;</p><p>(21:17) Change is down to you!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Live the 8 Wise Way</em> we are talking about something that affects every single one of us – fear.&nbsp;</p><p>Fear comes in all shapes and sizes. In some people it’s an addiction and we know them as adrenaline junkies, but in others it can manifest in other ways and have more serious, debilitating impacts on our mental health, wellbeing and overall quality of life.&nbsp;</p><p>So I am going to dispel some myths about fear. I am going to explain how and why we experience fear. And I am also going to explain how you can put tools in place to manage your fears.&nbsp;</p><p>Spoiler alert: it won’t be easy, but if you take my advice and start working on your fears (or phobias) you can get it under control!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:32) Identify the reason for change&nbsp;</p><p>(08:10) What’s blocking the change?&nbsp;</p><p>(11:14) Short, medium and long term goal-setting&nbsp;</p><p>(16:04) Take control and get proactive&nbsp;</p><p>(21:17) Change is down to you!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a78e2ad9-06fd-4fb4-8707-b309a0002e64</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/55e1b3b1-c07d-43aa-b4dc-0c05f7b8b232/025-20-20Planning-20for-20Effective-20Change.mp3" length="36416234" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:48</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/515714e9-0a07-4ce0-94f3-ddc5d97b8eab/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Forever Fearing Fear</title><itunes:title>Forever Fearing Fear</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Live the 8 Wise Way</em> we are talking about something that affects every single one of us – fear.&nbsp;</p><p>Fear comes in all shapes and sizes. In some people it’s an addiction and we know them as adrenaline junkies, but in others it can manifest in other ways and have more serious, debilitating&nbsp;impacts on our mental health, wellbeing and overall quality of life.&nbsp;</p><p>So I am going to dispel some myths about fear. I am going to explain how and why we experience fear. And I am also going to explain how you can put tools in place to manage your fears.&nbsp;</p><p>Spoiler alert: it won’t be easy, but if you take my advice and start working on your fears (or phobias) you can get it under control!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; </p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:10) Imagine watching a horror movie...&nbsp;</p><p>(06:58) Your fear dictates the action you take to manage it&nbsp;</p><p>(10:46) A threat to your psychological wellbeing&nbsp;</p><p>(14:04) Fear can be a symptom of mental health conditions&nbsp;</p><p>(18:58) Get in control of the situation&nbsp;</p><p>(24:26) The fear of panic attacks&nbsp;</p><p>(26:58) Phobias&nbsp;</p><p>(30:58) The best way to overcome is to understand&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Live the 8 Wise Way</em> we are talking about something that affects every single one of us – fear.&nbsp;</p><p>Fear comes in all shapes and sizes. In some people it’s an addiction and we know them as adrenaline junkies, but in others it can manifest in other ways and have more serious, debilitating&nbsp;impacts on our mental health, wellbeing and overall quality of life.&nbsp;</p><p>So I am going to dispel some myths about fear. I am going to explain how and why we experience fear. And I am also going to explain how you can put tools in place to manage your fears.&nbsp;</p><p>Spoiler alert: it won’t be easy, but if you take my advice and start working on your fears (or phobias) you can get it under control!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; </p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:10) Imagine watching a horror movie...&nbsp;</p><p>(06:58) Your fear dictates the action you take to manage it&nbsp;</p><p>(10:46) A threat to your psychological wellbeing&nbsp;</p><p>(14:04) Fear can be a symptom of mental health conditions&nbsp;</p><p>(18:58) Get in control of the situation&nbsp;</p><p>(24:26) The fear of panic attacks&nbsp;</p><p>(26:58) Phobias&nbsp;</p><p>(30:58) The best way to overcome is to understand&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">af4e9ed2-b19b-46a0-b969-da1b33007932</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/7149f2e3-6cb5-4d02-8f1b-759914fb5ee6/024-20-20Forever-20Fearing-20Fear.mp3" length="56219941" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>38:33</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/55025011-02ee-404e-93d4-8842c044dfc4/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Meaning of Life</title><itunes:title>The Meaning of Life</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What is the meaning of life?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s the age old question debated by philosophers, scientists and clergymen alike, and will continue to be debated until the end of time.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode, I talk to you about what I believe the meaning of life is or, more precisely, what <em>my</em> meaning of life is. Because I think the answer to this question is fluid and personal to you. There is no one size fits all.&nbsp;</p><p>To demonstrate this I am going to read an excerpt from chapter two of my book, which you can purchase from any book retailer right now and get yourself on the path towards a happier, healthier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:12) Merging philosophy with science&nbsp;</p><p>(06:38) What is the point of anything?&nbsp;</p><p>(10:54) What is the meaning of <em>human</em> life?&nbsp;</p><p>(16:02) The three major structures&nbsp;</p><p>(19:24) Imagine you’re a cruise ship&nbsp;</p><p>(25:05) Writing the formula to live your life in the way you want&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is the meaning of life?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s the age old question debated by philosophers, scientists and clergymen alike, and will continue to be debated until the end of time.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode, I talk to you about what I believe the meaning of life is or, more precisely, what <em>my</em> meaning of life is. Because I think the answer to this question is fluid and personal to you. There is no one size fits all.&nbsp;</p><p>To demonstrate this I am going to read an excerpt from chapter two of my book, which you can purchase from any book retailer right now and get yourself on the path towards a happier, healthier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:12) Merging philosophy with science&nbsp;</p><p>(06:38) What is the point of anything?&nbsp;</p><p>(10:54) What is the meaning of <em>human</em> life?&nbsp;</p><p>(16:02) The three major structures&nbsp;</p><p>(19:24) Imagine you’re a cruise ship&nbsp;</p><p>(25:05) Writing the formula to live your life in the way you want&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">14bf18d2-3eee-4a28-be78-bf6572d6c77b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/072f8047-20fe-46c7-9f91-dbdd379104aa/023-20-20The-20Meaning-20of-20Life.mp3" length="48726886" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:21</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7f9b6c8d-d128-4201-bb79-4bf7c7e42abc/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Is It a Mid-Life Crisis?</title><itunes:title>Is It a Mid-Life Crisis?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In my job, as a psychotherapist, I speak to a lot of people who tell me they’re having the symptoms of a mid-life crisis. But here’s the thing: many of them are quite young.&nbsp;</p><p>In fact, there are so many twentysomethings now having a so-called ‘quarter-life crisis’ that it makes you wonder how many more crises we can fit in our lives!!&nbsp;</p><p>However, the actual science pointing to evidence of a mid-life or quarter-life crisis condition is slim. That doesn’t mean you are not still feeling a lack of purpose, a lack of motivation or any of the other signs, but maybe it’s not really a crisis at all – maybe, using the 8Wise method, we can find a way for you to deal with these feelings head on and get your mindset back on track!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we look at the signs of a mid-life crisis, the possible triggers, and how you can manage it to keep your mental health and wellbeing in check.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:52) Do not struggle alone&nbsp;</p><p>(04:34) A transition of identity and self-confidence&nbsp;</p><p>(09:17) How long does a mid-life crisis last?&nbsp;</p><p>(15:12) The triggers of a mid-life crisis&nbsp;</p><p>(20:01) Question yourself&nbsp;</p><p>(23:29) I don’t believe in a mid-life crisis&nbsp;</p><p>(27:55) Are you living authentically?&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my job, as a psychotherapist, I speak to a lot of people who tell me they’re having the symptoms of a mid-life crisis. But here’s the thing: many of them are quite young.&nbsp;</p><p>In fact, there are so many twentysomethings now having a so-called ‘quarter-life crisis’ that it makes you wonder how many more crises we can fit in our lives!!&nbsp;</p><p>However, the actual science pointing to evidence of a mid-life or quarter-life crisis condition is slim. That doesn’t mean you are not still feeling a lack of purpose, a lack of motivation or any of the other signs, but maybe it’s not really a crisis at all – maybe, using the 8Wise method, we can find a way for you to deal with these feelings head on and get your mindset back on track!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we look at the signs of a mid-life crisis, the possible triggers, and how you can manage it to keep your mental health and wellbeing in check.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:52) Do not struggle alone&nbsp;</p><p>(04:34) A transition of identity and self-confidence&nbsp;</p><p>(09:17) How long does a mid-life crisis last?&nbsp;</p><p>(15:12) The triggers of a mid-life crisis&nbsp;</p><p>(20:01) Question yourself&nbsp;</p><p>(23:29) I don’t believe in a mid-life crisis&nbsp;</p><p>(27:55) Are you living authentically?&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">35684e63-1599-4c31-ab51-301b532c76f1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/1af6ed06-efa0-4c22-8c5f-16759652ae82/022-20-20Is-20It-20a-20Mid-Life-20Crisis.mp3" length="55084817" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>37:46</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/17a43006-9d31-4b58-b1e0-c0c639536d9f/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>It’s Okay to go Back to Basics</title><itunes:title>It’s Okay to go Back to Basics</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>There’s nothing wrong in feeling burnt out, and there’s nothing wrong in feeling stressed or overwhelmed, but there will be something wrong if you don’t do anything about it!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I talk all about going right back to basics to keep your mental health and wellbeing in check.&nbsp;</p><p>Sometimes it’s the little things that make the biggest difference, so I’ll be telling you all about my own recent experiences and showing you how you can prevent the onset of total burnout by using the 8Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:41) Give yourself permission to say “it’s okay”&nbsp;</p><p>(05:55) Life’s too short to say no&nbsp;</p><p>(09:44) A classic case of foggy brain&nbsp;</p><p>(13:36) Using the 12 week journal&nbsp;</p><p>(19:41) Emotional regulation&nbsp;</p><p>(23:09) Regular self-reflection can minimise stress&nbsp;</p><p>(27:14) We’re all human!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There’s nothing wrong in feeling burnt out, and there’s nothing wrong in feeling stressed or overwhelmed, but there will be something wrong if you don’t do anything about it!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I talk all about going right back to basics to keep your mental health and wellbeing in check.&nbsp;</p><p>Sometimes it’s the little things that make the biggest difference, so I’ll be telling you all about my own recent experiences and showing you how you can prevent the onset of total burnout by using the 8Wise methodology.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:41) Give yourself permission to say “it’s okay”&nbsp;</p><p>(05:55) Life’s too short to say no&nbsp;</p><p>(09:44) A classic case of foggy brain&nbsp;</p><p>(13:36) Using the 12 week journal&nbsp;</p><p>(19:41) Emotional regulation&nbsp;</p><p>(23:09) Regular self-reflection can minimise stress&nbsp;</p><p>(27:14) We’re all human!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">87ac1785-86d7-4e68-9466-786a181cc393</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/33502b26-89e6-4e10-8e01-57966a9c3e86/021-20-20It-27s-20Okay-20to-20go-20Back-20to-20Basics.mp3" length="46804584" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>32:01</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Are You Thriving?</title><itunes:title>Are You Thriving?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we’re talking about what it means to thrive.&nbsp;</p><p>So, are you thriving right now?&nbsp;</p><p>That’s the question I want you to ask yourself, and the reason we are diving into this is because the on the week of this episode’s release it is Global Mental Health Awareness Day, and this year the theme being covered is mental wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>8Wise is all about mental wellbeing, and this is all about being in a general state of thriving in all areas of your life.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to break down the different states you can be in and help you to put tools and strategies in place to help you get to a place of thriving and stay there!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:50) Are you thriving?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:14) Building a strong foundation for your mind&nbsp;</p><p>(09:32) The mental health continuum&nbsp;</p><p>(14:09) Being flexible with perspective&nbsp;</p><p>(21:09) The different levels of the mental health continuum&nbsp;</p><p>(26:02) How to keep thriving&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we’re talking about what it means to thrive.&nbsp;</p><p>So, are you thriving right now?&nbsp;</p><p>That’s the question I want you to ask yourself, and the reason we are diving into this is because the on the week of this episode’s release it is Global Mental Health Awareness Day, and this year the theme being covered is mental wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>8Wise is all about mental wellbeing, and this is all about being in a general state of thriving in all areas of your life.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to break down the different states you can be in and help you to put tools and strategies in place to help you get to a place of thriving and stay there!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:50) Are you thriving?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:14) Building a strong foundation for your mind&nbsp;</p><p>(09:32) The mental health continuum&nbsp;</p><p>(14:09) Being flexible with perspective&nbsp;</p><p>(21:09) The different levels of the mental health continuum&nbsp;</p><p>(26:02) How to keep thriving&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8baf3b68-2f9f-4d20-b6eb-55d9e813a0c3</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/a2d79f15-2705-44a4-8315-23f8fd01be28/020-20-20Are-20You-20Thriving.mp3" length="50058806" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Are You Feeling S.A.D (Seasonal Affective Disorder)?</title><itunes:title>Are You Feeling S.A.D (Seasonal Affective Disorder)?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Did you know over 3 in every 100 adults deal with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) on an annual basis?&nbsp;</p><p>SAD is often dismissed as not serious, but it is still a form of depression, so if you think you struggle with your mental health at this time of year you need to take action.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode of the podcast I apply the 8Wise principles to SAD and show you how you can implement simple activities right away to help you manage your happiness through the winter.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:28) Things are changing for us&nbsp;</p><p>(04:37) Daylight is so important&nbsp;</p><p>(08:51) Winter sun&nbsp;</p><p>(13:04) SAD needs treatment&nbsp;</p><p>(16:13) Never underestimate physical exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(19:09) Embrace the autumn&nbsp;</p><p>(23:09) It’s all about sleep&nbsp;</p><p>(25:19) Make time for social wellness&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you know over 3 in every 100 adults deal with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) on an annual basis?&nbsp;</p><p>SAD is often dismissed as not serious, but it is still a form of depression, so if you think you struggle with your mental health at this time of year you need to take action.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode of the podcast I apply the 8Wise principles to SAD and show you how you can implement simple activities right away to help you manage your happiness through the winter.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:28) Things are changing for us&nbsp;</p><p>(04:37) Daylight is so important&nbsp;</p><p>(08:51) Winter sun&nbsp;</p><p>(13:04) SAD needs treatment&nbsp;</p><p>(16:13) Never underestimate physical exercise&nbsp;</p><p>(19:09) Embrace the autumn&nbsp;</p><p>(23:09) It’s all about sleep&nbsp;</p><p>(25:19) Make time for social wellness&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b267b20f-9e1d-42b9-9588-26f94b5f1242</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/972418e3-7845-4b64-b075-7906ba09733a/019-20-20Are-20You-20SAD.mp3" length="46229739" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9c31919e-3b3c-4323-b317-362c8e1ac1c3/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Dysfunctional Behaviours</title><itunes:title>Dysfunctional Behaviours</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself raiding the fridge after a bad day?&nbsp;</p><p>Perhaps you find solace in alcohol, the escape of TV or even hitting the gym several times a day?&nbsp;</p><p>These are all forms of dysfunctional behaviours. In fact, anything you do as a way of coping with stress that isn’t dealing head on with the stress is a dysfunctional behaviour.&nbsp;</p><p>For me it was eating, and for years I had a major problem with food. It got so bad I had to take drastic measures, but even then, once the eating stopped I found myself with all of this unmanaged stress and anxiety – what was I supposed to do?!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I help you identify your own dysfunctional behaviours and explain how these habits are made and broken, so that you can start to get your behaviour under control and live a happy, healthy life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:30) How are dysfunctional behaviours formed?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:53) My battle as a stress eater&nbsp;</p><p>(11:06) Obesity is NOT about laziness&nbsp;</p><p>(17:04) What do you use to cover up the pain?&nbsp;</p><p>(22:14) Embedding a functional behavioural cycle&nbsp;</p><p>(25:17) Anything can be dysfunctional&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself raiding the fridge after a bad day?&nbsp;</p><p>Perhaps you find solace in alcohol, the escape of TV or even hitting the gym several times a day?&nbsp;</p><p>These are all forms of dysfunctional behaviours. In fact, anything you do as a way of coping with stress that isn’t dealing head on with the stress is a dysfunctional behaviour.&nbsp;</p><p>For me it was eating, and for years I had a major problem with food. It got so bad I had to take drastic measures, but even then, once the eating stopped I found myself with all of this unmanaged stress and anxiety – what was I supposed to do?!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I help you identify your own dysfunctional behaviours and explain how these habits are made and broken, so that you can start to get your behaviour under control and live a happy, healthy life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:30) How are dysfunctional behaviours formed?&nbsp;</p><p>(04:53) My battle as a stress eater&nbsp;</p><p>(11:06) Obesity is NOT about laziness&nbsp;</p><p>(17:04) What do you use to cover up the pain?&nbsp;</p><p>(22:14) Embedding a functional behavioural cycle&nbsp;</p><p>(25:17) Anything can be dysfunctional&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">82d8e8d2-1d1e-43dc-aa39-b497e74fc2a0</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/d19cfc27-d12d-4392-bbf8-0a8e2e3e6601/018-20-20Dysfunctional-20Behaviours.mp3" length="51880924" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>35:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9e588470-b1d3-4079-a74c-7416992aaf85/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Grief &amp; Bereavement</title><itunes:title>Grief &amp; Bereavement</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Loss affects us all in different ways, and it’s something we will all experience in our lives. This has been no more pertinent across the UK than now, as we come together to mourn the death of Queen Elizabeth II.&nbsp;</p><p>However, bereavement is also a very personal experience and it can come from places you might not expect: the loss of a job and the ending of a relationship through to the loss of a loved one can all trigger grief.&nbsp;</p><p>As unique and as personal as it is, there are some shared characteristics and stages in the grieving process. In this episode I help you understand what they are and share some advice to help you navigate your own journey in whatever way works best for you.&nbsp;</p><p>This is all about ensuring that we grieve in a healthy and appropriate way, so that in the long term we can find the closure and comfort we need to continue living a healthy life.&nbsp;</p><p>If you are currently experiencing&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:46) Making support and advice accessible to all&nbsp;</p><p>(03:15) Grieving for someone you don’t know&nbsp;</p><p>(07:33) A self-defence mechanism&nbsp;</p><p>(13:21) Everyone grieves at their own pace&nbsp;</p><p>(17:46) Adapting to a new role&nbsp;</p><p>(22:29) Are you looking for support?&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loss affects us all in different ways, and it’s something we will all experience in our lives. This has been no more pertinent across the UK than now, as we come together to mourn the death of Queen Elizabeth II.&nbsp;</p><p>However, bereavement is also a very personal experience and it can come from places you might not expect: the loss of a job and the ending of a relationship through to the loss of a loved one can all trigger grief.&nbsp;</p><p>As unique and as personal as it is, there are some shared characteristics and stages in the grieving process. In this episode I help you understand what they are and share some advice to help you navigate your own journey in whatever way works best for you.&nbsp;</p><p>This is all about ensuring that we grieve in a healthy and appropriate way, so that in the long term we can find the closure and comfort we need to continue living a healthy life.&nbsp;</p><p>If you are currently experiencing&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:46) Making support and advice accessible to all&nbsp;</p><p>(03:15) Grieving for someone you don’t know&nbsp;</p><p>(07:33) A self-defence mechanism&nbsp;</p><p>(13:21) Everyone grieves at their own pace&nbsp;</p><p>(17:46) Adapting to a new role&nbsp;</p><p>(22:29) Are you looking for support?&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p>If you would like to find out more about 8Wise, please come to one of my upcoming masterclass events:</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-403367993527?fbclid=IwAR2rXTH88fJbzhDNPiGDnhvnJ7QlKexcNYa-cTwT5pJt_gWlmoJBbptYoIM" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">5th October 2022</a></p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/8-wisetm-mental-wellness-masterclass-tickets-404003975767?fbclid=IwAR36BRtfvb1nebSEBDBHM5mYuFgmSeuXrLJbyMFm2BPYTQ6yvhjwJkt6imo" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">14th October 2022</a></p><p>Click the link to find out more and register now!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3e7e4241-40d3-4565-9ca8-da635f3bd9a2</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/d6f32b6f-3149-46c3-9a4f-ec47919e859f/017-20-20Grief-20and-20Bereavement.mp3" length="45781270" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:21</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bdf415c8-fa8c-40c6-90fe-5e6a9f6d3299/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Are You Thinking Too Loud?</title><itunes:title>Are You Thinking Too Loud?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In the last episode we covered all the unpleasant emotions we’re usually so scared of, and looked how to understand and accept them as tools our body uses to help us navigate life.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we’re going to build on this, by looking at how these emotions create different cognitive thinking processes in our brains.&nbsp;</p><p>Don’t worry, I’m not about to go all super sciency on you! It’s really just about understanding what emotions we feel, how they trigger our thought processes, how they trigger our overall feelings and how that affects our body and behaviour.&nbsp;</p><p>By learning to take ownership of our feelings and gain better control over the behaviours those feelings can trigger, we can take better control of our lives and manage our mental health and wellbeing more effectively.&nbsp;</p><p>So let’s do this!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:19) The internal dimension of the 8Wise model&nbsp;</p><p>(10:15) We live in a comparative world&nbsp;</p><p>(12:59) Common distortions linked to anxiety and depression&nbsp;</p><p>(21:17) Overcoming negative thought patterns&nbsp;</p><p>(25:37) Failing forward&nbsp;</p><p>(28:59) Start dialling the noise down&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the last episode we covered all the unpleasant emotions we’re usually so scared of, and looked how to understand and accept them as tools our body uses to help us navigate life.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we’re going to build on this, by looking at how these emotions create different cognitive thinking processes in our brains.&nbsp;</p><p>Don’t worry, I’m not about to go all super sciency on you! It’s really just about understanding what emotions we feel, how they trigger our thought processes, how they trigger our overall feelings and how that affects our body and behaviour.&nbsp;</p><p>By learning to take ownership of our feelings and gain better control over the behaviours those feelings can trigger, we can take better control of our lives and manage our mental health and wellbeing more effectively.&nbsp;</p><p>So let’s do this!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:19) The internal dimension of the 8Wise model&nbsp;</p><p>(10:15) We live in a comparative world&nbsp;</p><p>(12:59) Common distortions linked to anxiety and depression&nbsp;</p><p>(21:17) Overcoming negative thought patterns&nbsp;</p><p>(25:37) Failing forward&nbsp;</p><p>(28:59) Start dialling the noise down&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5ef70a1b-a6a5-4a0f-ae46-1ecf383b0e65</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/0bb356e1-ee84-44df-85ce-db9112b07cc4/016-20-20Are-20You-20Thinking-20Too-20Loud.mp3" length="50519271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0ee60a67-7f72-4ea7-9c0c-ca73b5e66efb/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Understanding Unpleasant Emotions</title><itunes:title>Understanding Unpleasant Emotions</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Anger, disgust, sadness – they’re not just characters from Disney’s <em>Inside Out</em>. They’re real emotions, we’ve all experienced them, and it doesn’t feel great. Our physical responses to these emotions means we pigeonhole them as bad or negative, but actually all of our emotions serve an important purpose. &nbsp;</p><p>At a really basic evolutionary level, our emotions help us make the right decisions in order to survive, so it’s really important to understand why they make us feel the way we do.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to explain the connection emotions, feelings and moods. I look at some of our most unpleasant emotions and break down the reason we have them, and why our bodies tend to react in pretty unpleasant ways to them.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:46) We may not want unpleasant emotions, but we need them&nbsp;</p><p>(04:04) The difference between emotions, feelings and moods&nbsp;</p><p>(08:32) It's part of our survival system&nbsp;</p><p>(14:15) It's getting hot-headed in here&nbsp;</p><p>(18:54) Understanding Anger&nbsp;</p><p>(20:56) Frustration is no game&nbsp;</p><p>(22:55) Disgust is why you don’t eat rotten apples&nbsp;</p><p>(25:12) Regrets? I’ve got&nbsp;a few.&nbsp;</p><p>(27:18) You never need to struggle alone&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anger, disgust, sadness – they’re not just characters from Disney’s <em>Inside Out</em>. They’re real emotions, we’ve all experienced them, and it doesn’t feel great. Our physical responses to these emotions means we pigeonhole them as bad or negative, but actually all of our emotions serve an important purpose. &nbsp;</p><p>At a really basic evolutionary level, our emotions help us make the right decisions in order to survive, so it’s really important to understand why they make us feel the way we do.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I am going to explain the connection emotions, feelings and moods. I look at some of our most unpleasant emotions and break down the reason we have them, and why our bodies tend to react in pretty unpleasant ways to them.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:46) We may not want unpleasant emotions, but we need them&nbsp;</p><p>(04:04) The difference between emotions, feelings and moods&nbsp;</p><p>(08:32) It's part of our survival system&nbsp;</p><p>(14:15) It's getting hot-headed in here&nbsp;</p><p>(18:54) Understanding Anger&nbsp;</p><p>(20:56) Frustration is no game&nbsp;</p><p>(22:55) Disgust is why you don’t eat rotten apples&nbsp;</p><p>(25:12) Regrets? I’ve got&nbsp;a few.&nbsp;</p><p>(27:18) You never need to struggle alone&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d0649921-cd07-4e9a-a16c-13fa5b188594</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/201891ec-339f-46d8-a3b3-c4e31998c746/015-20-20Understanding-20Unpleasant-20Emotions.mp3" length="50967651" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>What is Your Body Telling You?</title><itunes:title>What is Your Body Telling You?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>It’s no secret that our mind and our body are deeply connected, and this is no more obvious than when we are stressed or experiencing issues with our mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>When our psychological or emotional wellness is being challenged, we often see an impact to our physical wellness, so in this episode we are going to take a closer look at what you body is telling you about your own wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>I talk you through an exercise which will help you identify the areas in your life where you are struggling the most, because once you identify the issue you can start to manage it AND prevent it from becoming a bigger, more unmanageable beast further down the line.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is all about helping you manage and prevent mental health issues so that you can live a healthy, happy life, and understanding the relationship between your emotional and physical wellness is absolutely key.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:54) Commit to some self-reflection&nbsp;</p><p>(03:25) We are built for stress&nbsp;</p><p>(10:25) Physical reactions to emotional stress&nbsp;</p><p>(15:58) The strong connection between our physical and mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(18:48) How can emotional stress impact your life?&nbsp;</p><p>(20:13) The Stress Test&nbsp;</p><p>(26:58) Implement strong self-care strategies today!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s no secret that our mind and our body are deeply connected, and this is no more obvious than when we are stressed or experiencing issues with our mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>When our psychological or emotional wellness is being challenged, we often see an impact to our physical wellness, so in this episode we are going to take a closer look at what you body is telling you about your own wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>I talk you through an exercise which will help you identify the areas in your life where you are struggling the most, because once you identify the issue you can start to manage it AND prevent it from becoming a bigger, more unmanageable beast further down the line.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is all about helping you manage and prevent mental health issues so that you can live a healthy, happy life, and understanding the relationship between your emotional and physical wellness is absolutely key.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:54) Commit to some self-reflection&nbsp;</p><p>(03:25) We are built for stress&nbsp;</p><p>(10:25) Physical reactions to emotional stress&nbsp;</p><p>(15:58) The strong connection between our physical and mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(18:48) How can emotional stress impact your life?&nbsp;</p><p>(20:13) The Stress Test&nbsp;</p><p>(26:58) Implement strong self-care strategies today!&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">db12efb4-33e1-4092-ac4d-8595e8e4c11c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/f3ce20e1-d7b1-4f26-9e55-c2e2f4dd89d8/014-20-20What-20is-20Your-20Body-20Telling-20You.mp3" length="48157260" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>32:57</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Triggering Transitions</title><itunes:title>Triggering Transitions</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>It’s always said that art of acting is about reacting, but the same could be said for us in everyday life too. We spend most of our lives learning how to deal with whatever the universe throws at us, which is why in this episode I am going to cover what those big things are and how they may affect our mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>Transitions come in all shapes and sizes, from the almost unnoticeable transition of learning a new skill to bigger life events like buying a house or having children. Transitions can also be negative experiences, such as being evicted or losing a job, but whether good or bad, these transitions can often trigger mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>Having the tools and the mindset to deal with all of the transitions life throws our way, no matter how unexpected, will help you live the happy, healthy life you deserve, so let’s do it!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:11) Let’s be honest, life is tough!&nbsp;</p><p>(06:17) Most of us struggle with change&nbsp;</p><p>(10:10) The four types of life transition we all experience&nbsp;</p><p>(14:20) Unanticipated transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(16:52) Non-event transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(19:31) Sleeper transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(23:07) Transitions come in good and bad forms&nbsp;</p><p>(25:42) How to manage and process change&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s always said that art of acting is about reacting, but the same could be said for us in everyday life too. We spend most of our lives learning how to deal with whatever the universe throws at us, which is why in this episode I am going to cover what those big things are and how they may affect our mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>Transitions come in all shapes and sizes, from the almost unnoticeable transition of learning a new skill to bigger life events like buying a house or having children. Transitions can also be negative experiences, such as being evicted or losing a job, but whether good or bad, these transitions can often trigger mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>Having the tools and the mindset to deal with all of the transitions life throws our way, no matter how unexpected, will help you live the happy, healthy life you deserve, so let’s do it!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:11) Let’s be honest, life is tough!&nbsp;</p><p>(06:17) Most of us struggle with change&nbsp;</p><p>(10:10) The four types of life transition we all experience&nbsp;</p><p>(14:20) Unanticipated transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(16:52) Non-event transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(19:31) Sleeper transitions&nbsp;</p><p>(23:07) Transitions come in good and bad forms&nbsp;</p><p>(25:42) How to manage and process change&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">7e657268-1b47-43a7-b2bc-00f79eac6414</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/968ef946-8460-4f09-b316-fa893548d975/013-20-20Triggering-20Transitions.mp3" length="48405099" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Living the 8Wise Way</title><itunes:title>Living the 8Wise Way</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In the podcast so far, I have broken down the core elements of the 8Wise methodology, so that you have the tools and resources you need to start managing your mental health better to live a healthier, happier life.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I wrap this all up and show you how all of these elements co-exist and work together. I show you how important it is to consider all of them together and not just focus on one. For example,&nbsp;there's no point having amazing physical wellness, if you really neglect your emotional wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is designed to give you an introduce to the 8Wise program, so that everybody can start implementing the techniques to improve your mental health right now. The tools are not just designed to manage mental health, but stop&nbsp;the onset of preventable mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>You deserve to live your best life, and I am here to help you do that!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:50) How do you use 8Wise in everyday life?&nbsp;</p><p>(05:11) Building a framework to support your mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(10:34) We don’t have goals, only milestones&nbsp;</p><p>(18:51) Grab the low-hanging fruit&nbsp;</p><p>(22:59) Only <em>you</em> are responsible for <em>your</em> mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(26:12) Embrace your emotions and learn to regulate them&nbsp;</p><p>(28:22) The 8Wise Discovery course&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the podcast so far, I have broken down the core elements of the 8Wise methodology, so that you have the tools and resources you need to start managing your mental health better to live a healthier, happier life.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I wrap this all up and show you how all of these elements co-exist and work together. I show you how important it is to consider all of them together and not just focus on one. For example,&nbsp;there's no point having amazing physical wellness, if you really neglect your emotional wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is designed to give you an introduce to the 8Wise program, so that everybody can start implementing the techniques to improve your mental health right now. The tools are not just designed to manage mental health, but stop&nbsp;the onset of preventable mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>You deserve to live your best life, and I am here to help you do that!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:50) How do you use 8Wise in everyday life?&nbsp;</p><p>(05:11) Building a framework to support your mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(10:34) We don’t have goals, only milestones&nbsp;</p><p>(18:51) Grab the low-hanging fruit&nbsp;</p><p>(22:59) Only <em>you</em> are responsible for <em>your</em> mental health&nbsp;</p><p>(26:12) Embrace your emotions and learn to regulate them&nbsp;</p><p>(28:22) The 8Wise Discovery course&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">0740cc7e-0a11-4be9-ba9b-80d9dc08e933</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c4ea9a5b-761d-4d0e-ba73-bf924d6cb0e3/012-20-20Living-20the-208Wise-20Way.mp3" length="52835640" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>36:12</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>How to Make Your Habits Work for You</title><itunes:title>How to Make Your Habits Work for You</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Habits are always so easy to create but very difficult to break! I bet every single one of you has a habit you wish you could break, be it as small as nail-biting or something more significant which may be impacting your mantal health.&nbsp;</p><p>I used to have a bad habit of comfort eating, and it had a big impact on both my physical and mental health. However, once I put in practice the principles of the 8Wise methodology I was able to get my habits under control.&nbsp;</p><p>So in this episode I am going to explain how habits are formed and what you can do about it.&nbsp;</p><p>I will also share the resources and the tools you need to not only combat your bad habits, but create healthy new ones so that you can keep your mental health and wellbeing firmly in the green!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:53) Changing habits is hard&nbsp;</p><p>(05:41) 40% of our actions are driven by habits&nbsp;</p><p>(08:55) Cue, craving, response and reward&nbsp;</p><p>(13:01) Creating the loop&nbsp;</p><p>(19:45) Small change creates a big lasting impact&nbsp;</p><p>(24:16) Using habits to create a self-care routine&nbsp;</p><p>(27:13) How to create new habits&nbsp;</p><p>(30:29) You can change&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Habits are always so easy to create but very difficult to break! I bet every single one of you has a habit you wish you could break, be it as small as nail-biting or something more significant which may be impacting your mantal health.&nbsp;</p><p>I used to have a bad habit of comfort eating, and it had a big impact on both my physical and mental health. However, once I put in practice the principles of the 8Wise methodology I was able to get my habits under control.&nbsp;</p><p>So in this episode I am going to explain how habits are formed and what you can do about it.&nbsp;</p><p>I will also share the resources and the tools you need to not only combat your bad habits, but create healthy new ones so that you can keep your mental health and wellbeing firmly in the green!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:53) Changing habits is hard&nbsp;</p><p>(05:41) 40% of our actions are driven by habits&nbsp;</p><p>(08:55) Cue, craving, response and reward&nbsp;</p><p>(13:01) Creating the loop&nbsp;</p><p>(19:45) Small change creates a big lasting impact&nbsp;</p><p>(24:16) Using habits to create a self-care routine&nbsp;</p><p>(27:13) How to create new habits&nbsp;</p><p>(30:29) You can change&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8f74ce8b-cbd3-46ac-961e-d52d141d9896</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/33c8f5c4-b203-4242-b072-8c9dd6432fef/011-20-20How-20to-20Make-20Your-20Habits-20Work-20for-20You.mp3" length="51421283" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>35:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>How to Transition from Stress</title><itunes:title>How to Transition from Stress</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>TEXT</p><p>Stress affects us all. Whether it’s our finances, our job, our relationships, or a combination of many things, if we do not have the tools to manage stress effectively, we set ourselves on a path towards anxiety, depression and a number of other mental health disorders.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I want to help you manage your stress.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to give you practical tips and advice so you can understand your triggers and get control of them before they impact you.&nbsp;</p><p>I talk about the different types of stress, from acute to chronic, and the physiological affect it can have. I know, because stress drove me to agoraphobia and an eating disorder, but you can beat it!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:55) Stress is the gateway to mental health issues&nbsp;</p><p>(06:17) I was an idiot&nbsp;</p><p>(08:01) Your mental health is like a gun&nbsp;</p><p>(13:06) How the brain processes stress&nbsp;</p><p>(19:11) The three different types of stress&nbsp;</p><p>(23:35) How to understand your stress triggers&nbsp;</p><p>(27:56) Creating a negative conditioned mindset&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TEXT</p><p>Stress affects us all. Whether it’s our finances, our job, our relationships, or a combination of many things, if we do not have the tools to manage stress effectively, we set ourselves on a path towards anxiety, depression and a number of other mental health disorders.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I want to help you manage your stress.&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to give you practical tips and advice so you can understand your triggers and get control of them before they impact you.&nbsp;</p><p>I talk about the different types of stress, from acute to chronic, and the physiological affect it can have. I know, because stress drove me to agoraphobia and an eating disorder, but you can beat it!&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:55) Stress is the gateway to mental health issues&nbsp;</p><p>(06:17) I was an idiot&nbsp;</p><p>(08:01) Your mental health is like a gun&nbsp;</p><p>(13:06) How the brain processes stress&nbsp;</p><p>(19:11) The three different types of stress&nbsp;</p><p>(23:35) How to understand your stress triggers&nbsp;</p><p>(27:56) Creating a negative conditioned mindset&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5e92b241-e37d-4738-bd50-36e3758db03f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/13c867a3-f1ca-4452-b088-49d6ae1e27e8/010-20-20Transitioning-20from-20Stress.mp3" length="51645388" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>35:22</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d723004f-3047-4cc9-ae90-daa53e4d6e65/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Mastering Money Madness</title><itunes:title>Mastering Money Madness</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Money is one of the biggest causes of stress in adults, and stress is the gateway to all sorts of mental health issues. So it’s a no-brainer that if you can feel comfortable and in control of your finances, you’re more likely to avoid spiralling into a mental health crisis.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are going to take a close look at how finance can trigger depression, anxiety and, in extreme cases, even cause people to take their own lives.&nbsp;</p><p>Money has a stranglehold on many of us, but it doesn’t have to. I know, because I used to have severe money issues – credit cards, debt collectors, you name it.&nbsp;</p><p>So believe me when I tell you that the advice in this podcast comes from experience. Do not make the same mistakes I made.&nbsp;</p><p>And remember, if you are struggling with money or you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, please reach out and get help.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:33) Money makes us all made from time to time&nbsp;</p><p>(04:08) What does money mean to you?&nbsp;</p><p>(08:53) Identify your stress triggers&nbsp;</p><p>(11:31) My personal money struggles&nbsp;</p><p>(15:58) Take control and beat the anxiety&nbsp;</p><p>(18:43) The tools &amp; techniques to manage your finances&nbsp;successfully&nbsp;</p><p>(23:34) The link between financial wellness and mental health&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Money is one of the biggest causes of stress in adults, and stress is the gateway to all sorts of mental health issues. So it’s a no-brainer that if you can feel comfortable and in control of your finances, you’re more likely to avoid spiralling into a mental health crisis.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are going to take a close look at how finance can trigger depression, anxiety and, in extreme cases, even cause people to take their own lives.&nbsp;</p><p>Money has a stranglehold on many of us, but it doesn’t have to. I know, because I used to have severe money issues – credit cards, debt collectors, you name it.&nbsp;</p><p>So believe me when I tell you that the advice in this podcast comes from experience. Do not make the same mistakes I made.&nbsp;</p><p>And remember, if you are struggling with money or you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, please reach out and get help.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:33) Money makes us all made from time to time&nbsp;</p><p>(04:08) What does money mean to you?&nbsp;</p><p>(08:53) Identify your stress triggers&nbsp;</p><p>(11:31) My personal money struggles&nbsp;</p><p>(15:58) Take control and beat the anxiety&nbsp;</p><p>(18:43) The tools &amp; techniques to manage your finances&nbsp;successfully&nbsp;</p><p>(23:34) The link between financial wellness and mental health&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p><p><blockquote>"There's a stigma in this world that men can't talk. Listen, if you're a man and you've got a weight on your shoulders and you think the only way you can solve it is by killing yourself - please speak to someone. Speak to anyone. I know I'd rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." So please, let's get rid of this stigma and men start talking." - Paddy Pimblett, UFC Athlete</blockquote> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">7b6fafa7-6489-402b-a1f2-7d4a366758fa</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/ddb7baaa-8bf4-43aa-a1c1-8f27fd7828f9/009-20-20Mastering-20Money-20Madness.mp3" length="47463056" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>32:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Is Your Job Killing You?</title><itunes:title>Is Your Job Killing You?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We spend 800,000 hours of our life at work. That’s the equivalent of watching the entirety&nbsp;of <em>Friends</em> over 9,000 times. Now imagine if you don’t love <em>Friends</em> – you probably wouldn’t choose to sit through it even once, right?&nbsp;</p><p>So why is your job&nbsp;any different?!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I’m talking about occupational welfare, and why it’s never too early to start thinking about your mental health in the workplace.&nbsp;</p><p>So many of us get ourselves caught up in the results-driven, work hard play hard mindset that is synonymous with the corporate world. I was one of them!&nbsp;I’m going to tell you my story – use it as a health warning, because I want you to start really thinking about if your job is having a positive or negative affect on your mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>If your job is causing you too many sleepless Sunday nights, it’s time to do something about it, and it’s not as hard as you’re telling yourself. Listen to this podcast and find out how you can start putting your mental health and personal happiness first.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:56) My job nearly killed me&nbsp;</p><p>(06:05) I loved the corporate world at first&nbsp;</p><p>(08:43) Workplace bullying and eating disorders&nbsp;</p><p>(13:12) Everything was out of sync&nbsp;</p><p>(17:45) The problems of rapid change&nbsp;</p><p>(21:28) You can take control of your own occupational wellbeing&nbsp;</p><p>(25:49) You have the power to choose&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We spend 800,000 hours of our life at work. That’s the equivalent of watching the entirety&nbsp;of <em>Friends</em> over 9,000 times. Now imagine if you don’t love <em>Friends</em> – you probably wouldn’t choose to sit through it even once, right?&nbsp;</p><p>So why is your job&nbsp;any different?!&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I’m talking about occupational welfare, and why it’s never too early to start thinking about your mental health in the workplace.&nbsp;</p><p>So many of us get ourselves caught up in the results-driven, work hard play hard mindset that is synonymous with the corporate world. I was one of them!&nbsp;I’m going to tell you my story – use it as a health warning, because I want you to start really thinking about if your job is having a positive or negative affect on your mental health.&nbsp;</p><p>If your job is causing you too many sleepless Sunday nights, it’s time to do something about it, and it’s not as hard as you’re telling yourself. Listen to this podcast and find out how you can start putting your mental health and personal happiness first.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:56) My job nearly killed me&nbsp;</p><p>(06:05) I loved the corporate world at first&nbsp;</p><p>(08:43) Workplace bullying and eating disorders&nbsp;</p><p>(13:12) Everything was out of sync&nbsp;</p><p>(17:45) The problems of rapid change&nbsp;</p><p>(21:28) You can take control of your own occupational wellbeing&nbsp;</p><p>(25:49) You have the power to choose&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">32953b34-d856-4141-8fba-2767a795b276</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/90285f83-2c68-48ff-bb00-473af98023a4/008-20-20Is-20Your-20Job-20Killing-20You.mp3" length="50423679" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/67bc04b7-59cd-422a-876a-f3b88eed833d/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>How to Grow a Healthy Social Network</title><itunes:title>How to Grow a Healthy Social Network</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Let’s be honest – one of the biggest causes of stress in our lives comes from our relationships with others.&nbsp;</p><p>That’s why in this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we are taking a deeper look at social networks and support systems we build for ourselves. Are yours the best for you? Do they offer you the support you need?&nbsp;</p><p>Often the reason we have dysfunctional, unhealthy or even toxic relationship is because one or both individuals have not understood what the needs of each person are. The relationship isn’t what it needs to be, and sometimes there shouldn’t be a relationship at all, and guess what – that's ok!&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to give you some tools and techniques to help you identify your social network and build an effective support system, so that you can start leveraging your network to live a healthier, happier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(04:39) Are you neglecting your social wellness?&nbsp;</p><p>(07:29) Social media is not the answer to loneliness&nbsp;</p><p>(10:49) Are you part of your wider community?&nbsp;</p><p>(13:58) The Swimming Lanes Activity&nbsp;</p><p>(18:30) We can’t control the external factors&nbsp;</p><p>(21:04) Creating boundaries vs living by the boundary&nbsp;</p><p>(25:36) “I just don’t want you to eat at my table” - Jim Carrey&nbsp;</p><p>(27:31) Introvert vs Extrovert&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let’s be honest – one of the biggest causes of stress in our lives comes from our relationships with others.&nbsp;</p><p>That’s why in this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we are taking a deeper look at social networks and support systems we build for ourselves. Are yours the best for you? Do they offer you the support you need?&nbsp;</p><p>Often the reason we have dysfunctional, unhealthy or even toxic relationship is because one or both individuals have not understood what the needs of each person are. The relationship isn’t what it needs to be, and sometimes there shouldn’t be a relationship at all, and guess what – that's ok!&nbsp;</p><p>I am going to give you some tools and techniques to help you identify your social network and build an effective support system, so that you can start leveraging your network to live a healthier, happier life.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(04:39) Are you neglecting your social wellness?&nbsp;</p><p>(07:29) Social media is not the answer to loneliness&nbsp;</p><p>(10:49) Are you part of your wider community?&nbsp;</p><p>(13:58) The Swimming Lanes Activity&nbsp;</p><p>(18:30) We can’t control the external factors&nbsp;</p><p>(21:04) Creating boundaries vs living by the boundary&nbsp;</p><p>(25:36) “I just don’t want you to eat at my table” - Jim Carrey&nbsp;</p><p>(27:31) Introvert vs Extrovert&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">44cc203f-685a-42db-ad98-5358b084a505</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/63bbcd35-ccf3-4b01-b35b-3bf09f88ceb9/007-20-20How-20to-20Grow-20a-20Healthy-20Social-20Network.mp3" length="50290728" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Is Your Environment Making You Sick?</title><itunes:title>Is Your Environment Making You Sick?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we start to look at the external dimension through environmental wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>So far we've explored&nbsp;the foundation dimension where&nbsp;healthy body means healthy mind. We've had the internal dimension, which is all about knowing who you are through your spiritual wellness and stimulating your brain through intellectual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Now we are venturing outside of ourselves and reflecting on how we&nbsp;interact with the world around us. Environmental wellness plays a huge role in that.&nbsp;</p><p>During this podcast I talk you through a reflective exercise, and we look at how changes to your external environment – your physical surroundings, your home, your furniture, and even the colours you wear – can all impact your mental health and wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:33) Exploring the external dimension&nbsp;</p><p>(06:34) Did you spend lockdown in a negative environment?&nbsp;</p><p>(09:42) Let’s make ourselves great again&nbsp;</p><p>(12:46) Simple,&nbsp;effective changes you can make right now&nbsp;</p><p>(15:14) How I improved my own environmental wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(20:05) How to look after your environment&nbsp;</p><p>(23:16) It starts with knowing what you need&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we start to look at the external dimension through environmental wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>So far we've explored&nbsp;the foundation dimension where&nbsp;healthy body means healthy mind. We've had the internal dimension, which is all about knowing who you are through your spiritual wellness and stimulating your brain through intellectual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Now we are venturing outside of ourselves and reflecting on how we&nbsp;interact with the world around us. Environmental wellness plays a huge role in that.&nbsp;</p><p>During this podcast I talk you through a reflective exercise, and we look at how changes to your external environment – your physical surroundings, your home, your furniture, and even the colours you wear – can all impact your mental health and wellbeing.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:33) Exploring the external dimension&nbsp;</p><p>(06:34) Did you spend lockdown in a negative environment?&nbsp;</p><p>(09:42) Let’s make ourselves great again&nbsp;</p><p>(12:46) Simple,&nbsp;effective changes you can make right now&nbsp;</p><p>(15:14) How I improved my own environmental wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(20:05) How to look after your environment&nbsp;</p><p>(23:16) It starts with knowing what you need&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4347f968-6f7e-4df4-b591-8a43135e6656</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/4b53c0e1-d16d-4e5f-bbd5-e8784397b306/006-20-20Is-20My-20Environment-20Making-20Me-20Sick.mp3" length="40619014" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>27:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item><item><title>Break Free from Your Comfort Zone</title><itunes:title>Break Free from Your Comfort Zone</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we continue to look at the internal dimension and explore the concept of intellectual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Intellectual wellness is making sure your brain is stimulated, to ensure you keep developing and growing as a person. It ensures we continue to learn and thrive, but at a really basic level it also ensures our survival as a species.&nbsp;</p><p>During this episode I am going to explore the different aspects of intellectual wellness. We explore how our comfort zone safeguards us from the unknown, but in doing so it limits us from exploring our potential. We also look at the different intelligence types, and how the modern education system is often too linear which can cause many of us to feel not good enough or not smart enough.&nbsp;</p><p>Ultimately I help you understand how you can manage your intellectual wellness so that you can prevent anxiety, stress, depression and other mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:48) Two core points to the meaning of life&nbsp;</p><p>(08:27) Physical wellness is about more than a gym membership&nbsp;</p><p>(11:01) We have to dig deep and face the fear&nbsp;</p><p>(15:31) Multiple intelligence types&nbsp;</p><p>(20:38) Intelligence is not one size fits all&nbsp;</p><p>(23:04) Keeping our brains healthy and stimulated</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Live the 8Wise™ Way we continue to look at the internal dimension and explore the concept of intellectual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Intellectual wellness is making sure your brain is stimulated, to ensure you keep developing and growing as a person. It ensures we continue to learn and thrive, but at a really basic level it also ensures our survival as a species.&nbsp;</p><p>During this episode I am going to explore the different aspects of intellectual wellness. We explore how our comfort zone safeguards us from the unknown, but in doing so it limits us from exploring our potential. We also look at the different intelligence types, and how the modern education system is often too linear which can cause many of us to feel not good enough or not smart enough.&nbsp;</p><p>Ultimately I help you understand how you can manage your intellectual wellness so that you can prevent anxiety, stress, depression and other mental health issues.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:48) Two core points to the meaning of life&nbsp;</p><p>(08:27) Physical wellness is about more than a gym membership&nbsp;</p><p>(11:01) We have to dig deep and face the fear&nbsp;</p><p>(15:31) Multiple intelligence types&nbsp;</p><p>(20:38) Intelligence is not one size fits all&nbsp;</p><p>(23:04) Keeping our brains healthy and stimulated</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5941f6cb-e15f-465c-bd31-f72f99b031fa</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/59aacef0-7049-4539-acf2-5d9bbca59009/005-20-20Break-20Free-20from-20Your-20Comfort-20Zone.mp3" length="42626114" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:07</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/c1571055-2d3d-46e1-b2c6-f9c242707c5e/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Who Am I and Why Does it Matter?</title><itunes:title>Who Am I and Why Does it Matter?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In previous episodes we have covered emotional and physical wellness, as we explore the first dimension of the&nbsp;8Wise™&nbsp;model.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are moving on to the next dimension – your internal dimension, and your inner world and your spiritual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Now this doesn’t necessarily mean anything religious or faith-based. In fact, I think we spend a lot of&nbsp;time externalising our spiritual wellness and look for something divine, when spiritual wellness is about&nbsp;self-reflection and connecting with yourself.&nbsp;</p><p>Who are you?&nbsp;</p><p>What do you want to do with your life?&nbsp;</p><p>Are you happy?&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:28) Spiritual wellness is all about me&nbsp;</p><p>(06:04) What are your values?&nbsp;</p><p>(10:43) Your self-esteem is like a brick wall&nbsp;</p><p>(13:42) What gets you out of bed in the morning?&nbsp;</p><p>(16:08) Not today, Bob&nbsp;</p><p>(18:22) What is a mid-life crisis and how do you deal with it?&nbsp;</p><p>(22:51) When you can’t see the wood for the trees, just look at your own feet and start walking&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In previous episodes we have covered emotional and physical wellness, as we explore the first dimension of the&nbsp;8Wise™&nbsp;model.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode we are moving on to the next dimension – your internal dimension, and your inner world and your spiritual wellness.&nbsp;</p><p>Now this doesn’t necessarily mean anything religious or faith-based. In fact, I think we spend a lot of&nbsp;time externalising our spiritual wellness and look for something divine, when spiritual wellness is about&nbsp;self-reflection and connecting with yourself.&nbsp;</p><p>Who are you?&nbsp;</p><p>What do you want to do with your life?&nbsp;</p><p>Are you happy?&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(02:28) Spiritual wellness is all about me&nbsp;</p><p>(06:04) What are your values?&nbsp;</p><p>(10:43) Your self-esteem is like a brick wall&nbsp;</p><p>(13:42) What gets you out of bed in the morning?&nbsp;</p><p>(16:08) Not today, Bob&nbsp;</p><p>(18:22) What is a mid-life crisis and how do you deal with it?&nbsp;</p><p>(22:51) When you can’t see the wood for the trees, just look at your own feet and start walking&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4e36582c-3cc4-425d-abe4-788c3f41979f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c0c63fbb-9a45-4594-906b-95175a2002ac/004-20-20Who-20Am-20I-20and-20Why-20Does-20it-20Matter.mp3" length="41698228" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>28:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7f02d268-3413-4a99-a14c-a55fc023393b/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Know Your Body, Know Your Mind</title><itunes:title>Know Your Body, Know Your Mind</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself neglecting your physical wellbeing when you’re in a rut?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s common for us to become less active and get into poor routines when we’re feeling down, but as the old trope goes, a healthy body really can make a healthy mind.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I explore some of the ways you can improve your physical wellbeing to help you live a happier, healthier life. I give you a practical breathing exercise you can use to tackle sleep problems including insomnia, and I also talk through some of the things you can do to improve your nutrition and exercise plans to embed long-term healthier habits.&nbsp;</p><p>There is such a strong link between your physical and emotional wellness, and it’s so important you listen to this podcast and put some of my 8Wise™ model into practice to support your mental health prevention journey.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:54) Use the books to follow along&nbsp;</p><p>(04:31) Your emotional and physical wellness are interlinked&nbsp;</p><p>(08:32) An exercise to help with insomnia&nbsp;</p><p>(12:18) Fuel your body with the right diet&nbsp;</p><p>(15:11) Find the exercises that work for you&nbsp;</p><p>(18:17) Your body needs an MOT too&nbsp;</p><p>(24:24) There is no one size fits all&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself neglecting your physical wellbeing when you’re in a rut?&nbsp;</p><p>It’s common for us to become less active and get into poor routines when we’re feeling down, but as the old trope goes, a healthy body really can make a healthy mind.&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode I explore some of the ways you can improve your physical wellbeing to help you live a happier, healthier life. I give you a practical breathing exercise you can use to tackle sleep problems including insomnia, and I also talk through some of the things you can do to improve your nutrition and exercise plans to embed long-term healthier habits.&nbsp;</p><p>There is such a strong link between your physical and emotional wellness, and it’s so important you listen to this podcast and put some of my 8Wise™ model into practice to support your mental health prevention journey.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(00:54) Use the books to follow along&nbsp;</p><p>(04:31) Your emotional and physical wellness are interlinked&nbsp;</p><p>(08:32) An exercise to help with insomnia&nbsp;</p><p>(12:18) Fuel your body with the right diet&nbsp;</p><p>(15:11) Find the exercises that work for you&nbsp;</p><p>(18:17) Your body needs an MOT too&nbsp;</p><p>(24:24) There is no one size fits all&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">85da2274-c4fd-4d99-948e-6f2bb3000f73</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8e9144d4-693d-43ce-85c6-eee3b5f46fd4/003-20Know-20Your-20Body-20Know-20Your-20Mind.mp3" length="43089097" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2cf48538-f86f-49b1-8f53-d2a09144f2d4/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Regulating Your Emotions to Control Your Mind</title><itunes:title>Regulating Your Emotions to Control Your Mind</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>How can we regulate our emotions to&nbsp;boost our emotional wellness and start living a healthier, happier way?&nbsp;</p><p>That’s what this episode is all about, and by using the principles of the 8Wise™ model I am going to help you understand the science behind your emotions and the things you can do to manage them better. I will also tell you all about the additional resources you can use to help you with this.&nbsp;</p><p>I also break down the difference between self-esteem and confidence, and the important of balancing your logical thinking with your emotional thinking.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is not just about helping you to recover from mental health issues, but putting the right tools in place to prevent them.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:59) Understand the language of emotions&nbsp;</p><p>(07:08) Triggering suppressed memories&nbsp;</p><p>(10:49) We are at our best when emotion and logic are balanced&nbsp;</p><p>(14:11) What is emotional intelligence?&nbsp;</p><p>(17:53) Understanding resilience&nbsp;</p><p>(22:35) Resources to develop your emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can we regulate our emotions to&nbsp;boost our emotional wellness and start living a healthier, happier way?&nbsp;</p><p>That’s what this episode is all about, and by using the principles of the 8Wise™ model I am going to help you understand the science behind your emotions and the things you can do to manage them better. I will also tell you all about the additional resources you can use to help you with this.&nbsp;</p><p>I also break down the difference between self-esteem and confidence, and the important of balancing your logical thinking with your emotional thinking.&nbsp;</p><p>This podcast is not just about helping you to recover from mental health issues, but putting the right tools in place to prevent them.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(03:59) Understand the language of emotions&nbsp;</p><p>(07:08) Triggering suppressed memories&nbsp;</p><p>(10:49) We are at our best when emotion and logic are balanced&nbsp;</p><p>(14:11) What is emotional intelligence?&nbsp;</p><p>(17:53) Understanding resilience&nbsp;</p><p>(22:35) Resources to develop your emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">28e6ca9c-82f3-470b-a2b7-0f16399b386b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:31:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/1b039f91-0a91-4fd0-b511-9b0c2d8af972/002-20-20Regulating-20Your-20Emotions-20to-20Control-20Your-20M.mp3" length="42237011" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>28:51</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9f82418a-affe-4deb-9d2c-7f07ff8da524/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>How to Break Down the Mental Chaos</title><itunes:title>How to Break Down the Mental Chaos</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode I will be outlining the 8Wise™ process and showing you how it can be used to break down the mental chaos.&nbsp;</p><p>You might be thinking how do I know this works?&nbsp;</p><p>Well, I have had a long battle with mental health myself, and it’s actually the reason why I studied psychotherapy and developed the 8Wise™ program. Having studies criminology at University, I recognised the psychological signs when I was spiralling from stress to anxiety to depression, and then to agoraphobia.&nbsp;</p><p>When I was too scared to even get off my sofa, I knew something had to change, and so I created 8Wise™ and I used it for my own recovery.&nbsp;</p><p>It works. And if you follow the steps in this podcast, you can start to break down your own mental chaos and make it work for you too.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:56) My own mental health journey&nbsp;</p><p>(06:38) You need to survive your busy lifestyle&nbsp;</p><p>(12:37) 8Wise™ is a recovery and a prevention model&nbsp;</p><p>(16:17) The relationship between physical and emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(21:08) Building a strong lifestyle dimension&nbsp;</p><p>(26:06) Use 8Wise™ to break down your mental chaos&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode I will be outlining the 8Wise™ process and showing you how it can be used to break down the mental chaos.&nbsp;</p><p>You might be thinking how do I know this works?&nbsp;</p><p>Well, I have had a long battle with mental health myself, and it’s actually the reason why I studied psychotherapy and developed the 8Wise™ program. Having studies criminology at University, I recognised the psychological signs when I was spiralling from stress to anxiety to depression, and then to agoraphobia.&nbsp;</p><p>When I was too scared to even get off my sofa, I knew something had to change, and so I created 8Wise™ and I used it for my own recovery.&nbsp;</p><p>It works. And if you follow the steps in this podcast, you can start to break down your own mental chaos and make it work for you too.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Here are the highlights:</strong>&nbsp;</p><p>(01:56) My own mental health journey&nbsp;</p><p>(06:38) You need to survive your busy lifestyle&nbsp;</p><p>(12:37) 8Wise™ is a recovery and a prevention model&nbsp;</p><p>(16:17) The relationship between physical and emotional wellness&nbsp;</p><p>(21:08) Building a strong lifestyle dimension&nbsp;</p><p>(26:06) Use 8Wise™ to break down your mental chaos&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">0513ced1-074f-4a7d-9bfc-3774738fe68c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/85582b18-ae9a-4cf1-ab89-1f4127d9a583/001-20-20How-20to-20Break-20Down-20the-20Mental-20Chaos.mp3" length="47274819" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>32:20</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d35eac9e-5542-48f6-8ae6-a29fc71780dd/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Live the 8Wise™ Way – Trailer</title><itunes:title>Live the 8Wise™ Way – Trailer</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to Live the 8Wise™️ Way, a brand new podcast hosted by psychotherapist, therapeutic coach and author Kim Rutherford.&nbsp;</p><p>The aim of this podcast is to help you develop better mental health and wellbeing, so that you can have a healthier, happier mind and live the life you want.&nbsp;</p><p>I know the content in this podcast works because I used to battle my own mental health issues. Part of my recovery was realising I needed to implement practical tools and techniques that were going to work for me. After lots of research, what I found were these core elements to focus on. I used these to get myself back to where it needed to be, but I still use them today as a preventative tool to improve my wellbeing and keep my mental health in check.&nbsp;</p><p>Today, I use this method with my private clients and I’m going to share it with you in this podcast.&nbsp;</p><p>In each episode I’ll share the tools, the techniques and the method of the 8Wise™ Way&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to Live the 8Wise™️ Way, a brand new podcast hosted by psychotherapist, therapeutic coach and author Kim Rutherford.&nbsp;</p><p>The aim of this podcast is to help you develop better mental health and wellbeing, so that you can have a healthier, happier mind and live the life you want.&nbsp;</p><p>I know the content in this podcast works because I used to battle my own mental health issues. Part of my recovery was realising I needed to implement practical tools and techniques that were going to work for me. After lots of research, what I found were these core elements to focus on. I used these to get myself back to where it needed to be, but I still use them today as a preventative tool to improve my wellbeing and keep my mental health in check.&nbsp;</p><p>Today, I use this method with my private clients and I’m going to share it with you in this podcast.&nbsp;</p><p>In each episode I’ll share the tools, the techniques and the method of the 8Wise™ Way&nbsp;</p><p>If you like what you hear, please subscribe to the podcast, share with friends and leave a review so others can find us.&nbsp;</p><p>You can also find out more about the 8Wise™ Way here:</p><p><a href="https://8wise.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 8Wise™ Website</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/8wise-therapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/8wisekim/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/8wise_kim" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Twitter</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/8Wise/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p>  </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://livethe8wiseway.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5497ffbf-6b47-4c51-a7d2-449ea63059a8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f3965005-c285-4838-a306-057df66bb85f/y6tDdV7btT1en8opdn2pgi5Z.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Rutherford]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2022 11:37:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/30e9d5eb-ef01-4536-b9fb-247460a090f2/000-20-20Live-20the-208Wise-20Way-20TRAILER.mp3" length="3929867" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>02:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>trailer</itunes:episodeType><itunes:author>Kim Rutherford</itunes:author></item></channel></rss>