<![CDATA[TRTM: They're Rabbis & They're Married]]>ee046ddd-1aa0-5e2d-a3fc-de226286f340Thu, 12 Feb 2026 19:03:45 +0000Captivate.fmRant9 Productionshttps://artwork.captivate.fm/3aa7db19-878f-4600-979a-e9bf6f1918cc/Hyv1qGloEOxjvIETqksKSl93.jpgTRTM: They're Rabbis & They're MarriedRant9 ProductionsRant9 ProductionsWhat does it mean to be Rabbis who are married to each other? What does it mean to live Jewishly? What are ways that I can incorporate Jewish wisdom, values, and practices into my everyday life? Join Rabbi Rachel and Rabbi Marcus, a husband-and-wife rabbi team who serve as the co-rabbis of Temple of Aaron in Saint Paul, Minnesota, as they bring you an intimate glimpse into how they live out their daily Jewish lives. Each episode they will share their joys, struggles and everything in between as they work to apply Jewish ideas, values, and practices to their daily lives—building a Jewish home, raising children, serving their community, and navigating their busy daily lives. Join Rabbis Rubenstein each episode to learn ways that you too can practice an open-minded, modern, human-oriented, and sincere Judaism in your everyday life. Intro music by the very talented Coleen Dieker and Jeffrey Baldingerhttps://living-jewishly.captivate.fmfalseepisodicnopodcastResponding to Operation Metro SurgeResponding to Operation Metro SurgeIn a special episode, our rabbis Rubenstein discuss the ongoing federal immigration enforcent operation in the Twin Cities. The rabbis discuss and toil to understand what the Torah is asking from us at this moment.

]]>In a special episode, our rabbis Rubenstein discuss the ongoing federal immigration enforcent operation in the Twin Cities. The rabbis discuss and toil to understand what the Torah is asking from us at this moment.

]]>7753dd07-415f-4b04-89fe-d30c90202c6cWed, 14 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -060050:00falsefull6226Getting in With the GovernmentGetting in With the GovernmentHow should a Jew, according to the Torah, relate to the secular governemnt in which one lives in? How trusting should Jews be of the government and how much attention should we pay to it? The Rabbis Rubenstein learn, teach and discuss texts that discuss these essential questions for the modern Jew. They also speak about a very exciting event coming up at Temple of Aaron on Nov. 15th, 2025 on Shabbat morning when local St. Paul elected leaders will be visiting and meeting the community.

]]>How should a Jew, according to the Torah, relate to the secular governemnt in which one lives in? How trusting should Jews be of the government and how much attention should we pay to it? The Rabbis Rubenstein learn, teach and discuss texts that discuss these essential questions for the modern Jew. They also speak about a very exciting event coming up at Temple of Aaron on Nov. 15th, 2025 on Shabbat morning when local St. Paul elected leaders will be visiting and meeting the community.

]]>0635fd03-35b4-48a3-b45a-de915bad49a3Wed, 29 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -060058:57falsefull6116Suprise Text: Praying for Healing on a Day of RestSuprise Text: Praying for Healing on a Day of RestCan you pray for someone who’s sick on Shabbat? In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus talk through a Talmudic debate on Shabbat 12b that asks exactly that question. Together, they explore why the rabbis might have hesitated about mixing words of healing with a day meant for rest and joy, and how this tension shows up in our own lives when we bring pain and worry into sacred time. What does it mean to pray for others on Shabbat, and how do we balance the holiness of the day with the reality of human need?

]]>Can you pray for someone who’s sick on Shabbat? In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus talk through a Talmudic debate on Shabbat 12b that asks exactly that question. Together, they explore why the rabbis might have hesitated about mixing words of healing with a day meant for rest and joy, and how this tension shows up in our own lives when we bring pain and worry into sacred time. What does it mean to pray for others on Shabbat, and how do we balance the holiness of the day with the reality of human need?

]]>119e3cd4-4bd3-4215-a501-342473b969c6Fri, 22 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -060059:06falsefull5665Dancing in the Vineyards: Unpacking Tu B’Av and the Talmud’s Greatest Love StoryDancing in the Vineyards: Unpacking Tu B’Av and the Talmud’s Greatest Love StoryIn this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus dive deep into one of the Talmud’s most surprising and romantic discussions— the closing passage of Tractate Taanit — to uncover the origins and deeper meanings of Tu B’Av, the 15th of Av. What makes this day, alongside Yom Kippur, one of the two greatest days in the Jewish calendar? Why were the daughters of Jerusalem dancing in white in the vineyards — and what does that have to do with matchmaking, war, unity, and redemption?

Join us as we explore love, loss, and the surprising halachic history behind this lesser-known holiday that just might be Judaism’s most radical celebration of relationship, renewal, and hope.

]]>In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus dive deep into one of the Talmud’s most surprising and romantic discussions— the closing passage of Tractate Taanit — to uncover the origins and deeper meanings of Tu B’Av, the 15th of Av. What makes this day, alongside Yom Kippur, one of the two greatest days in the Jewish calendar? Why were the daughters of Jerusalem dancing in white in the vineyards — and what does that have to do with matchmaking, war, unity, and redemption?

Join us as we explore love, loss, and the surprising halachic history behind this lesser-known holiday that just might be Judaism’s most radical celebration of relationship, renewal, and hope.

]]>365683f4-e7ad-42c1-a734-546daef82ba6Tue, 05 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -060055:14falsefull5555Why Cry Over Ruins? Finding Meaning in Mourning the TempleWhy Cry Over Ruins? Finding Meaning in Mourning the TempleAs modern Jews, especially outside of Israel, the destruction of the Temple can feel like a distant and abstract loss. So why do we still fast, cry, and read Lamentations thousands of years later? In this episode, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein explore the spiritual value of mourning the Beit HaMikdash today. What does this grief open in our souls? How can remembering the brokenness of Jerusalem help us reconnect—with God, with people, with our own inner wholeness? Drawing from rabbinic texts, Chassidic thought, and their own experiences as clergy and partners, they uncover the enduring relevance of Tisha B’Av and the Three Weeks in a post-Temple, post-modern world.

]]>As modern Jews, especially outside of Israel, the destruction of the Temple can feel like a distant and abstract loss. So why do we still fast, cry, and read Lamentations thousands of years later? In this episode, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein explore the spiritual value of mourning the Beit HaMikdash today. What does this grief open in our souls? How can remembering the brokenness of Jerusalem help us reconnect—with God, with people, with our own inner wholeness? Drawing from rabbinic texts, Chassidic thought, and their own experiences as clergy and partners, they uncover the enduring relevance of Tisha B’Av and the Three Weeks in a post-Temple, post-modern world.

]]>af1e9bac-d0d2-4fff-acde-bab030e4ab50Tue, 29 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -060048:24falsefull5445Is Israel Committing Genocide in Gaza?Is Israel Committing Genocide in Gaza?In this bold and timely episode, our Rabbis Rubenstein take on one of the most serious and inflammatory accusations facing the Jewish state today: the charge that Israel is committing genocide in Gaza.

From the headlines to the hashtags, this claim has gained traction around the world — but what’s really behind it? The Rabbis cut through the misinformation and double standards to present a clear, Jewish defense of Israel. Grounded in facts, Jewish ethics, and historical context, they explore how these accusations distort both international law and Jewish values.

What does Judaism actually say about war, self-defense, and the sanctity of life — including the lives of one’s own people? How should Jews respond to the moral confusion and outright hostility surrounding this issue?

This episode is a passionate and principled response to a dangerous lie, and a reminder that defending Israel is not just a political act — it's a spiritual and moral responsibility.

]]>In this bold and timely episode, our Rabbis Rubenstein take on one of the most serious and inflammatory accusations facing the Jewish state today: the charge that Israel is committing genocide in Gaza.

From the headlines to the hashtags, this claim has gained traction around the world — but what’s really behind it? The Rabbis cut through the misinformation and double standards to present a clear, Jewish defense of Israel. Grounded in facts, Jewish ethics, and historical context, they explore how these accusations distort both international law and Jewish values.

What does Judaism actually say about war, self-defense, and the sanctity of life — including the lives of one’s own people? How should Jews respond to the moral confusion and outright hostility surrounding this issue?

This episode is a passionate and principled response to a dangerous lie, and a reminder that defending Israel is not just a political act — it's a spiritual and moral responsibility.

]]>d3d1637f-bf6d-42e0-a152-1b71c420f10dFri, 11 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -060059:39falsefull533510 Foundational Practices: Synagogue (Part 2 of 10)10 Foundational Practices: Synagogue (Part 2 of 10)In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, our Rabbis continue their mini-series on 10 foundational Jewish practices. They explore why showing up to synagogue isn’t just a weekend habit—it’s a cornerstone of Jewish spiritual life. From the ancient Temple to your neighborhood shul, we trace how communal prayer, sacred space, and presence in a minyan have shaped Jewish identity across generations.

We talk about the emotional resistance people often feel, what makes a shul feel like home (or not), and how even imperfect prayer spaces still carry divine potential. Whether you're a daily davener, a High Holiday drop-in, or somewhere in between, this conversation invites you to rethink what it means to “belong” in Jewish community.

]]>In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, our Rabbis continue their mini-series on 10 foundational Jewish practices. They explore why showing up to synagogue isn’t just a weekend habit—it’s a cornerstone of Jewish spiritual life. From the ancient Temple to your neighborhood shul, we trace how communal prayer, sacred space, and presence in a minyan have shaped Jewish identity across generations.

We talk about the emotional resistance people often feel, what makes a shul feel like home (or not), and how even imperfect prayer spaces still carry divine potential. Whether you're a daily davener, a High Holiday drop-in, or somewhere in between, this conversation invites you to rethink what it means to “belong” in Jewish community.

]]>9817f7d1-bbd4-4946-ac3c-6ef4f1522d99Wed, 04 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -060043:25falsefull522510 Foundational Practices: Prayer (Part 1 of 10)10 Foundational Practices: Prayer (Part 1 of 10)In this special episode, Rabbi Marcus and Rachel Rubenstein kick off a brand-new mini-series exploring 10 foundational practices for living out your Judaism. First up: Prayer.

What does it mean to really pray — not just recite words, but connect? The Rubensteins dive into the heart of tefillah, sharing personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical guidance for building a meaningful prayer life, whether you're a daily davener or just beginning to explore the siddur.

From ancient texts to modern struggles with focus, from the structure of the Amidah to finding your own voice in conversation with the Divine — this episode sets the tone for a transformative journey into embodied Jewish living.

Tune in and take the first step with us.

]]>In this special episode, Rabbi Marcus and Rachel Rubenstein kick off a brand-new mini-series exploring 10 foundational practices for living out your Judaism. First up: Prayer.

What does it mean to really pray — not just recite words, but connect? The Rubensteins dive into the heart of tefillah, sharing personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical guidance for building a meaningful prayer life, whether you're a daily davener or just beginning to explore the siddur.

From ancient texts to modern struggles with focus, from the structure of the Amidah to finding your own voice in conversation with the Divine — this episode sets the tone for a transformative journey into embodied Jewish living.

Tune in and take the first step with us.

]]>343b2631-369a-4602-8de4-d8be6462e50fFri, 23 May 2025 00:00:00 -060045:20falsefull5115Will it Always Get Better?Will it Always Get Better?Join our rabbis Rubenstein as they explore the hit Israeli song of the year, "Tamid Ohev Oti" or "Always loves me" by Sasson Ifram Shaulov. The rabbis discuss the meaning of the song and what it says about Israeli society and the Jewish people.

Listen to the full song by clicking here: https://tinyurl.com/3fz8ezua

Link to Ein Nechamah Song: אלייצור - אין נחמה | ElaytZur- Ein Nechama - YouTube

Link to Lyrics of Ein Nechamah: Shilo Ben Saadon - אין נחמה (Ein Nechama) (English translation)

Lyrics of Od Yoter Tov: 

God is a good Father, and He extols me, He sees my good deeds

He sees that I seek to be good, but I’m imperfect, thus all I need is a few prayers

But God sees my good deeds, the times I tried, refusing to give up

He knows my moment of shame and frustration, and how I continually start over anew

And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness

He hears me, has mercy on me, and always answers me, even when the answers feel delayed, God's still there, remind me continually that You always love me, give me new gifts everyday

And mercifully guide me, as in this world is called mercy, let everyone see that you hear prayers, and we will be glad and healthy

And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness.

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness.

And I will have a prosperous life, and for those seeking love, may they find their match, I will have complete recovery and sound health, an exquisite happy life every year

The blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness

 

ה' הוא אבא טוב והוא תמיד מתפאר בי רואה בי רק ת'נקודות הטובות

רואה שאני רוצה להיות טוב רק לא יוצא לי וחסרות לי כולה כמה תפילות

וה' הוא גם ראה את הרצון שהיה לי שניסיתי לא אמרתי נואש

רואה בבזיון שלי במר שהרגשתי איך התחלתי כל פעם שוב מחדש

 

וה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ויהיה לי עוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

 

שומע מרחם עלי ותמיד עונה לי

ואם עדיין לא]]>Join our rabbis Rubenstein as they explore the hit Israeli song of the year, "Tamid Ohev Oti" or "Always loves me" by Sasson Ifram Shaulov. The rabbis discuss the meaning of the song and what it says about Israeli society and the Jewish people.

Listen to the full song by clicking here: https://tinyurl.com/3fz8ezua

Link to Ein Nechamah Song: אלייצור - אין נחמה | ElaytZur- Ein Nechama - YouTube

Link to Lyrics of Ein Nechamah: Shilo Ben Saadon - אין נחמה (Ein Nechama) (English translation)

Lyrics of Od Yoter Tov: 

God is a good Father, and He extols me, He sees my good deeds

He sees that I seek to be good, but I’m imperfect, thus all I need is a few prayers

But God sees my good deeds, the times I tried, refusing to give up

He knows my moment of shame and frustration, and how I continually start over anew

And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness

He hears me, has mercy on me, and always answers me, even when the answers feel delayed, God's still there, remind me continually that You always love me, give me new gifts everyday

And mercifully guide me, as in this world is called mercy, let everyone see that you hear prayers, and we will be glad and healthy

And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness.

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness.

And I will have a prosperous life, and for those seeking love, may they find their match, I will have complete recovery and sound health, an exquisite happy life every year

The blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness

And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness

 

ה' הוא אבא טוב והוא תמיד מתפאר בי רואה בי רק ת'נקודות הטובות

רואה שאני רוצה להיות טוב רק לא יוצא לי וחסרות לי כולה כמה תפילות

וה' הוא גם ראה את הרצון שהיה לי שניסיתי לא אמרתי נואש

רואה בבזיון שלי במר שהרגשתי איך התחלתי כל פעם שוב מחדש

 

וה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ויהיה לי עוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

 

שומע מרחם עלי ותמיד עונה לי

ואם עדיין לא ממשיך לחכות

מלא אותי בזה שאתה תמיד אוהב'תי

תתן לי כל יום מחדש מתנות

ותנהיג אותי ברחמים כאלו כמו שבעולם הזה נקרא רחמים

שיראו כולם שכן אתה שומע תפילות

ונחייך נהיה בריאים ונשיר

שה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

ויהיה לי עוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ועוד יותר טוב

ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב

 

ותהיה לי פרנסה

תהיה לי עשירות

ורווקים ורווקות יהיה להם זיווג

תהיה גם רפואה שלמה ובריאות איתנה

חיים יפים מאושרים שנה אחרי שנה

 

יאיר בנו האור, תאיר האמונה,

חוכמת אמת ודעת ובינה

יבוא כבר משיחנו ובלי שום מלחמה

נאכל גם אבטיח יהיה לנו יום חג

]]>2f529bf6-1528-4c2c-a9fd-b0370d39c49bTue, 29 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -060045:48falsefull4884Signing Rabbinic StatementsSigning Rabbinic StatementsThe Rabbis Rubenstein speak about a recent decision to not sign a recent letter signed by many other rabbis in the twin cities. They explain their reasoning and their philosophy of when to and when to not sign rabbinic letters.

https://minnesotarabbinicalassociation.org/letter-to-the-jewish-community-about-constitutional-rights-and-jewish-safety

]]>The Rabbis Rubenstein speak about a recent decision to not sign a recent letter signed by many other rabbis in the twin cities. They explain their reasoning and their philosophy of when to and when to not sign rabbinic letters.

https://minnesotarabbinicalassociation.org/letter-to-the-jewish-community-about-constitutional-rights-and-jewish-safety

]]>8860d40c-e1ee-4ebc-a2da-68f49ef02bf8Mon, 07 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -060048:09falsefull4774Our Communal Relationship to Israel w/Tal Dror RouacheOur Communal Relationship to Israel w/Tal Dror RouacheJoin the rabbis Rubenstein as they chat with Saint Paul Tal Dror Rouache, a great friend and Israel Program director of the Saint Paul Jewish Federation. Together they will explore how we as American, Minnesotan Jews could be in active relationship with Israel. 

]]>Join the rabbis Rubenstein as they chat with Saint Paul Tal Dror Rouache, a great friend and Israel Program director of the Saint Paul Jewish Federation. Together they will explore how we as American, Minnesotan Jews could be in active relationship with Israel. 

]]>12cad0cd-9790-4d91-95dc-08e449b1119aSat, 08 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -060046:12falsefull4664Learning Judaism through Improvisation w/ Andrew DaviesLearning Judaism through Improvisation w/ Andrew DaviesOur Rabbis Rubenstein are joined by guest, Andrew Davies of the Bible Players (The Bible Players, Jewish Comedy) to discuss alternative and fun ways to teach and learn Torah and Judaism. The Rabbis experiment with improvisation games and speak about the value of widening the ways in which we teach Judaism. We hope you enjoy this discussion!

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein are joined by guest, Andrew Davies of the Bible Players (The Bible Players, Jewish Comedy) to discuss alternative and fun ways to teach and learn Torah and Judaism. The Rabbis experiment with improvisation games and speak about the value of widening the ways in which we teach Judaism. We hope you enjoy this discussion!

]]>6a368dca-b3f3-4bef-a27e-14d0bb2e5c60Tue, 03 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -060052:06falsefull4554Early Zionist Thinkers & You!Early Zionist Thinkers & You!Join our Rabbis Rubenstein as they delve into early Zionist philosophers who sound like they could be writing their thoughts today on your favorite social media app. The thinkers they will sample with you in this episode are not well known enough in today's modern American Jewish community but they should be! These Jews were facing many of the same issues we are confronting anew today and can give us much fresh insight from the past. We hope you enjoy!

]]>Join our Rabbis Rubenstein as they delve into early Zionist philosophers who sound like they could be writing their thoughts today on your favorite social media app. The thinkers they will sample with you in this episode are not well known enough in today's modern American Jewish community but they should be! These Jews were facing many of the same issues we are confronting anew today and can give us much fresh insight from the past. We hope you enjoy!

]]>831cbcdc-4abf-4481-b2e9-00362031b185Tue, 12 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -060050:03falsefull4444Talmudic Gift Giving & Jewish ValueTalmudic Gift Giving & Jewish ValueOur Rabbis Rubenstein delve into a "surprise text" (B. Talmud Shabbat 11a) which discusses the proper way for a Jew to give a gift. Through it's illuminating discussion, our Rabbis are able to derive many important Jewish values about how we treat each other and the purpose of our actions in this world. 

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein delve into a "surprise text" (B. Talmud Shabbat 11a) which discusses the proper way for a Jew to give a gift. Through it's illuminating discussion, our Rabbis are able to derive many important Jewish values about how we treat each other and the purpose of our actions in this world. 

]]>bc3026aa-554c-4ba6-a0cd-a43b12553696Tue, 24 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -060049:52falsefull4334Finding Meaning in the Siddur 2: The Verses of SongFinding Meaning in the Siddur 2: The Verses of SongOur Rabbis Rubenstein are back! R. Rachel has returned from maternity leave! The rabbis are starting where they left off- with the siddur (Jewish prayer book)! In this episode they will continue guiding you through the siddur. Through listening, this episode will help you connect in a deeper way to the words of prayer and hopefully to God. 

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein are back! R. Rachel has returned from maternity leave! The rabbis are starting where they left off- with the siddur (Jewish prayer book)! In this episode they will continue guiding you through the siddur. Through listening, this episode will help you connect in a deeper way to the words of prayer and hopefully to God. 

]]>a1dc8d29-6cf8-4438-933a-1dd2bf97f029Tue, 16 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -060001:01:08falsefull4224Finding Meaning in the Siddur: 1. The Morning BlessingsFinding Meaning in the Siddur: 1. The Morning BlessingsOur Rabbis Rubenstein have noticed that many Jews struggle to find meaning in the traditional Jewish prayer service. Even if they are able to say the prayers, often it is something that is done because one is supposed to with little understanding of the spiritual transformation it should lead one to achieve. On the contrary, the Jewish siddur (prayer book) leads a spiritual practitioner through a vast guided meditation which can rewire the mind and the soul. Our rabbis lead us through a magisterial tour of the siddur, and what each moment of it can offer a dedicated spiritual practitioner. Here is part #1 on the morning blessings.

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein have noticed that many Jews struggle to find meaning in the traditional Jewish prayer service. Even if they are able to say the prayers, often it is something that is done because one is supposed to with little understanding of the spiritual transformation it should lead one to achieve. On the contrary, the Jewish siddur (prayer book) leads a spiritual practitioner through a vast guided meditation which can rewire the mind and the soul. Our rabbis lead us through a magisterial tour of the siddur, and what each moment of it can offer a dedicated spiritual practitioner. Here is part #1 on the morning blessings.

]]>93935c26-2359-44ef-b071-93aada794fc7Tue, 02 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -060052:08falsefull4114A First-Hand Account of the Struggle of Soviet JewryA First-Hand Account of the Struggle of Soviet JewryOur Rabbis Rubenstein interview Temple of Aaron member, Semyon Axelrod, a Jew who escaped the Soviet regime after being refused exit for many, many years. He speaks about his historic struggle to live as a Jew freely and what that struggle means for us today.

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein interview Temple of Aaron member, Semyon Axelrod, a Jew who escaped the Soviet regime after being refused exit for many, many years. He speaks about his historic struggle to live as a Jew freely and what that struggle means for us today.

]]>53cf68a9-2219-462f-b6a1-b89c5baf2f0bTue, 12 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -060001:02:40falsefull3883Surprise Text: When Is It Ok To Poke the Bear?Surprise Text: When Is It Ok To Poke the Bear?R. Marcus surprises R. Rachel with a text she never delved deeply into in the Babylonian Talmud Tractate Brachot (7b) asking the question- when is it ok to poke the bear? When is it ok to do something that you know will upset a powerful but evil person? Learn this text with us and see how two rabbis break down an important Talmudic text.

]]>R. Marcus surprises R. Rachel with a text she never delved deeply into in the Babylonian Talmud Tractate Brachot (7b) asking the question- when is it ok to poke the bear? When is it ok to do something that you know will upset a powerful but evil person? Learn this text with us and see how two rabbis break down an important Talmudic text.

]]>415f07cf-a757-46a7-a581-3c08a6d63844Tue, 20 Feb 2024 09:00:00 -060055:40falsefull3773Music & Judaism w/ Special Guest Coleen DiekerMusic & Judaism w/ Special Guest Coleen DiekerOur Rabbis Rubenstein invite a special guest, Coleen Dieker, onto the podcast to discuss music and it’s role in Jewish practice, spirituality and life. Coleen has been the incredible artist in residence for Temple of Aaron over the past years and is an expert in using musical performance to elevate the spiritual moments had in Jewish communities across the country. We will also get to hear a new exclusive song from her! We hope you enjoy this conversation.

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein invite a special guest, Coleen Dieker, onto the podcast to discuss music and it’s role in Jewish practice, spirituality and life. Coleen has been the incredible artist in residence for Temple of Aaron over the past years and is an expert in using musical performance to elevate the spiritual moments had in Jewish communities across the country. We will also get to hear a new exclusive song from her! We hope you enjoy this conversation.

]]>78b9400e-82b4-413c-a7d8-45c0bb6ac2faThu, 01 Feb 2024 09:00:00 -060001:00:30falsefull3663Fertility & Birth in Judaism w/ Special Guest Dr. Rachel ParritzFertility & Birth in Judaism w/ Special Guest Dr. Rachel ParritzOur Rabbis Rubenstein will delve into the topic of fertility and birth with a very special guest- a wonderful OB-GYN in their community. They will discuss their experiences with birth and fertility as well as how Judaism looks at these important topics. We hope you enjoy what was a truly meaningful and important discussion.

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein will delve into the topic of fertility and birth with a very special guest- a wonderful OB-GYN in their community. They will discuss their experiences with birth and fertility as well as how Judaism looks at these important topics. We hope you enjoy what was a truly meaningful and important discussion.

]]>d1d34198-383a-48b6-a02a-f4f9bf420d17Thu, 11 Jan 2024 09:00:00 -060001:02:13falsefull3553Is Judaism Too Expensive?Is Judaism Too Expensive?The Rabbis Rubenstein invite special guest, Ken Agranoff, ED of Temple of Aaron, to have a conversation around the financial costs of practice Judaism in 2023. Is practicing Judaism too expensive, just or a bargain? Listen and find out!

]]>The Rabbis Rubenstein invite special guest, Ken Agranoff, ED of Temple of Aaron, to have a conversation around the financial costs of practice Judaism in 2023. Is practicing Judaism too expensive, just or a bargain? Listen and find out!

]]>73f5bdc0-8dd6-489b-9a87-76b92e0e163eWed, 27 Dec 2023 09:00:00 -060001:04:02falsefull3443An Interview w/ a Survivor of the Nova Music FestivalAn Interview w/ a Survivor of the Nova Music FestivalIn a very special and important episode, Our Rabbis Rubenstein interview Rom El Hai, a survivor of the Nova Music Festival. His personal story of shock, confusion, fear, courage and resolve allows us to connect in a unique way to the upheaval and horror of October 7th, 2023. We hope you find our conversation as meaningful, informative and poignant as we did.

]]>In a very special and important episode, Our Rabbis Rubenstein interview Rom El Hai, a survivor of the Nova Music Festival. His personal story of shock, confusion, fear, courage and resolve allows us to connect in a unique way to the upheaval and horror of October 7th, 2023. We hope you find our conversation as meaningful, informative and poignant as we did.

]]>4dad107f-a35f-4548-a38a-57957084b2cbTue, 05 Dec 2023 09:00:00 -060048:34falsefull3333Honoring & Finding Common Ground in a Multi-Faith World w/ Pastor Phillip RomineHonoring & Finding Common Ground in a Multi-Faith World w/ Pastor Phillip RomineOur rabbis Rubenstein talk to pastor Phillip Romine about interfaith work in Saint Paul and speak about the purpose of interfaith or multi-faith relationships. Special guest, Pastor Phillip Romine, of Interfaith Action of Saint Paul, joins us to talk about a very special organization in the twin cities area. We address the challenges, beauties, and communal obligations of living in a multi-faith society.

]]>Our rabbis Rubenstein talk to pastor Phillip Romine about interfaith work in Saint Paul and speak about the purpose of interfaith or multi-faith relationships. Special guest, Pastor Phillip Romine, of Interfaith Action of Saint Paul, joins us to talk about a very special organization in the twin cities area. We address the challenges, beauties, and communal obligations of living in a multi-faith society.

]]>a97973a7-492e-4c92-84cf-5f9efa3c1044Tue, 28 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -060001:05:37falsefull3223Coping with the Ongoing War in Gaza w/ Dr. Ashley Braun-GabelmanCoping with the Ongoing War in Gaza w/ Dr. Ashley Braun-GabelmanThe Jewish community is going through a tremendous tragedy and experiencing intense grief and anxiety after Hamas terrorists broke through the barrier fence in Gaza, murdering over 1400 Israelis, taking over 200 people of all ages hostage on Oct. 7 2023, committing one of the worst massacre of Jewish life in one day since the Holocaust. Now we in America sit updating the news every couple of minutes as Israel opens up a major invasion of Gaza in order to destroy Hamas and rescue the hostages. Although we are surely not suffering as much as Israelis at this time, Jews in America are experiencing intense grief, as well as confusion, fear and anxiety with increasing threats of Anti-Semitism in the USA and around the world. The Rabbis Rubenstein and their favorite psychologist, Dr. Ashley Braun-Gabelman discuss their responses and reactions to the ongoing conflict and strategies for coping with the ongoing anxiety, grief and fear we are experiencing. We hope that this episode can be your guide in getting through and coping with this extremely difficult time.

]]>The Jewish community is going through a tremendous tragedy and experiencing intense grief and anxiety after Hamas terrorists broke through the barrier fence in Gaza, murdering over 1400 Israelis, taking over 200 people of all ages hostage on Oct. 7 2023, committing one of the worst massacre of Jewish life in one day since the Holocaust. Now we in America sit updating the news every couple of minutes as Israel opens up a major invasion of Gaza in order to destroy Hamas and rescue the hostages. Although we are surely not suffering as much as Israelis at this time, Jews in America are experiencing intense grief, as well as confusion, fear and anxiety with increasing threats of Anti-Semitism in the USA and around the world. The Rabbis Rubenstein and their favorite psychologist, Dr. Ashley Braun-Gabelman discuss their responses and reactions to the ongoing conflict and strategies for coping with the ongoing anxiety, grief and fear we are experiencing. We hope that this episode can be your guide in getting through and coping with this extremely difficult time.

]]>4665f3d5-49a0-495d-97e0-7e36a48070f5Tue, 31 Oct 2023 09:00:00 -060059:45falsefull3113Headbands, Kippot and Hats…Oh My!Headbands, Kippot and Hats…Oh My!Our Rabbis Rubenstein jump into the topic of head-covering in Jewish thought. They jump into questions like should you be covering your head? What might you cover your head with? Why do some Jews cover their heads? and where does the head covering tradition come from?

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein jump into the topic of head-covering in Jewish thought. They jump into questions like should you be covering your head? What might you cover your head with? Why do some Jews cover their heads? and where does the head covering tradition come from?

]]>30f79c32-da45-4542-9504-caa5bc9396d5Tue, 01 Aug 2023 09:00:00 -060053:20falsefull2882An Epidemic of Loneliness w/ Dr. Ashley Braun-GabelmanAn Epidemic of Loneliness w/ Dr. Ashley Braun-GabelmanToday our Rabbis Rubenstein explore, what the US Surgeon General, has called the epidemic of Loneliness in our country. They explore Jewish responses to depression, anxiety, and loneliness all with the professional advice of a sought-after and experienced clinical psychologist who studies and treats these issues, R. Rachel’s sister, Dr. Ashley Braun-Gabelman. Enjoy this meaningful episode!

]]>Today our Rabbis Rubenstein explore, what the US Surgeon General, has called the epidemic of Loneliness in our country. They explore Jewish responses to depression, anxiety, and loneliness all with the professional advice of a sought-after and experienced clinical psychologist who studies and treats these issues, R. Rachel’s sister, Dr. Ashley Braun-Gabelman. Enjoy this meaningful episode!

]]>fa220b81-8bc6-45a6-9dc3-6e9411648f93Thu, 29 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -060001:13:46falsefull2772They’re Rabbis and There are More of Them!They’re Rabbis and There are More of Them!In honor of our new show name (They’re Rabbis and They’re Married), we invited on another lovely rabbinic couple Becca Walker and Ariella Rosen to talk through what’s it’s truly like to be rabbis and be married to each other. We hope you enjoy our conversation!

]]>In honor of our new show name (They’re Rabbis and They’re Married), we invited on another lovely rabbinic couple Becca Walker and Ariella Rosen to talk through what’s it’s truly like to be rabbis and be married to each other. We hope you enjoy our conversation!

]]>8479ffcc-c503-4033-9121-3367d31b4e39Wed, 14 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -060001:09:28falsefull2662Torah from Heaven w/ Special Guest Rabbi Adam Stock SpilkerTorah from Heaven w/ Special Guest Rabbi Adam Stock SpilkerIn this episode of, “They’re Rabbis & They’re Married,” we invite on a special guest, R. Adam Stock Spilker, one of our amazing rabbinic colleagues in Saint Paul. R. Spilker is the senior rabbi of Mount Zion, the nearby reform congregation. We invite him on to address the topic of “Torah from Heaven,” or the idea that the Torah is from God and given to Moses on Mt. Sinai. We will address that faith claim, and look at the different ways and theologies we hold as Jews who love Torah each in our individual way. We hope you find our different theologies on this particular topic refreshing and helpful to aid you in building a relationship with Torah in your life.

]]>In this episode of, “They’re Rabbis & They’re Married,” we invite on a special guest, R. Adam Stock Spilker, one of our amazing rabbinic colleagues in Saint Paul. R. Spilker is the senior rabbi of Mount Zion, the nearby reform congregation. We invite him on to address the topic of “Torah from Heaven,” or the idea that the Torah is from God and given to Moses on Mt. Sinai. We will address that faith claim, and look at the different ways and theologies we hold as Jews who love Torah each in our individual way. We hope you find our different theologies on this particular topic refreshing and helpful to aid you in building a relationship with Torah in your life.

]]>538e1c87-ff9b-4b6f-9503-35ebfcaa4f8dWed, 24 May 2023 09:00:00 -060001:03:55falsefull2552How to Study a Jewish TextHow to Study a Jewish TextOur Rabbis Rubenstein parse through an ancient Jewish text together, demonstrating what Jewish partner (chevrutah) study looks like. They discuss, within the text learning, what to look for in new teachers and friends.

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein parse through an ancient Jewish text together, demonstrating what Jewish partner (chevrutah) study looks like. They discuss, within the text learning, what to look for in new teachers and friends.

]]>f690b62a-024c-495e-a7f1-e06113f8c1dfWed, 10 May 2023 09:00:00 -060001:08:08falsefull2442Pesach Kashering Made EasierPesach Kashering Made EasierGet ready for Passover the Rabbis Rubenstein! Learn all about chametz and getting your home ready for the holiday! We’ll learn not only what to do but why we do it- Chag Pesach Sameach!

]]>Get ready for Passover the Rabbis Rubenstein! Learn all about chametz and getting your home ready for the holiday! We’ll learn not only what to do but why we do it- Chag Pesach Sameach!

]]>cf3fa866-3379-4235-ad4d-cf0334531363Tue, 04 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -060055:25falsefull2332“On Being a Good Neighbor” w/ Rev. Dr. James C. Thomas“On Being a Good Neighbor” w/ Rev. Dr. James C. ThomasJoin our rabbis as they engage in discussion with Rev. Dr. James C. Thomas, immediate past president of the Saint Paul Black Interdenominational Ministerial Alliance and pastor of Mount Olivet Baptist Church. Today the rabbis go through and discuss the famous Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. sermon- “On Being a Good Neighbor” with their good friend and community partner- Rev. Dr. Thomas. We hope you enjoy!

]]>Join our rabbis as they engage in discussion with Rev. Dr. James C. Thomas, immediate past president of the Saint Paul Black Interdenominational Ministerial Alliance and pastor of Mount Olivet Baptist Church. Today the rabbis go through and discuss the famous Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. sermon- “On Being a Good Neighbor” with their good friend and community partner- Rev. Dr. Thomas. We hope you enjoy!

]]>a74aa38a-3db8-4def-adfa-e97224cfdbf7Wed, 22 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -060001:21:41falsefull2222Should Jews Watch America Football?Should Jews Watch America Football?Our Rabbis Rubenstein and special guest Rabbi Adir Yolkut discuss and break down the question: Should Jews watching American Football? Listen and find out how one can look at American Football from a Jewish perspective right before the Superbowl!

]]>Our Rabbis Rubenstein and special guest Rabbi Adir Yolkut discuss and break down the question: Should Jews watching American Football? Listen and find out how one can look at American Football from a Jewish perspective right before the Superbowl!

]]>b4315899-0705-4d23-a976-12a3f795114dFri, 10 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -060001:03:32falsefull2112Do We Really Need Denominations?Do We Really Need Denominations?Today the Rabbis Rubenstein discuss the modern movements and denominations of Judaism. They detail how the movements came about and ask the big question of many peoples minds these days- do we still need denominations? Should one be “just Jewish?” Listen and find out!

]]>Today the Rabbis Rubenstein discuss the modern movements and denominations of Judaism. They detail how the movements came about and ask the big question of many peoples minds these days- do we still need denominations? Should one be “just Jewish?” Listen and find out!

]]>c8173cdc-4c93-4a4e-bbdc-fd8d06753a65Wed, 25 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -060043:31falsefull1881Special Dr. MLK Jr. EpisodeSpecial Dr. MLK Jr. EpisodeA special episode of Living Jewishly with the Rabbis Rubenstein in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s birthday. The rabbis read through one of their favorite sermons of Dr. King and discuss it through a Jewish lens deriving practical lessons for today’s issues.

]]>A special episode of Living Jewishly with the Rabbis Rubenstein in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s birthday. The rabbis read through one of their favorite sermons of Dr. King and discuss it through a Jewish lens deriving practical lessons for today’s issues.

]]>fccc76fd-7a82-41b4-a032-5519b4ed0e07Mon, 16 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -060051:46falsefull1771Would the Maccabees hate us?Would the Maccabees hate us?In this episode, the Rabbis Rubenstein, debate the meaning of the holiday of Chanukah. They work together to isolate the different meanings of the holiday and talk about the holiday means to them. They discuss the battles of the Maccabees against the Syrian Greeks and Hellenized Jews and if they would have found Modern Jews who were also proud Americans to be distasteful. Is there room for the zealotry of the Maccabees for the modern American Jew? If so, what role should the spiritual meaning of Chanukah play in our lives today? We hope you enjoy their meaningful discussion! Happy Chanukah!!

]]>In this episode, the Rabbis Rubenstein, debate the meaning of the holiday of Chanukah. They work together to isolate the different meanings of the holiday and talk about the holiday means to them. They discuss the battles of the Maccabees against the Syrian Greeks and Hellenized Jews and if they would have found Modern Jews who were also proud Americans to be distasteful. Is there room for the zealotry of the Maccabees for the modern American Jew? If so, what role should the spiritual meaning of Chanukah play in our lives today? We hope you enjoy their meaningful discussion! Happy Chanukah!!

]]>da8b476d-0163-4e12-945f-cdb640c94b10Tue, 20 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -060049:08falsefull1661Can a Jew Listen to Christmas Music?Can a Jew Listen to Christmas Music?Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein discuss their relationship and encounters with Christmas traditions as American Jews. Can American Jews engage with Christmas? If so, so what is the line? For Jews, how is Christmas both problematic and positive at the same time? Listen to find out!

]]>Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein discuss their relationship and encounters with Christmas traditions as American Jews. Can American Jews engage with Christmas? If so, so what is the line? For Jews, how is Christmas both problematic and positive at the same time? Listen to find out!

]]>71fce421-070d-420f-a834-8f31aa8ac07bTue, 13 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -060056:52falsefull1551The Tradition of GratitudeThe Tradition of GratitudeIn this episode, our rabbis take us on a journey through the sources, philosophies and traditions of gratitude within their Jewish practice. In honor of the Thanksgiving holiday the rabbis share their family Thanksgiving traditions and how they intersect with their Jewish identity and practice. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!

]]>In this episode, our rabbis take us on a journey through the sources, philosophies and traditions of gratitude within their Jewish practice. In honor of the Thanksgiving holiday the rabbis share their family Thanksgiving traditions and how they intersect with their Jewish identity and practice. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!

]]>09f004cf-98af-492e-9f93-d2b9d964a43dMon, 21 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -060040:12falsefull1441The Sources of our ZionismsThe Sources of our ZionismsIn this episode of Living Jewishly with the Rabbis Rubenstein, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus explore the sources and inspirations for their passionate Zionisms. We use the plural to say that there are many different ways and reasons for one to love the state of Israel and those ways and reasons should be explored and celebrated. They discuss some of the complicated and difficult questions around Israel and share their personal experiences with their spiritual homeland. The episode is in response and in honor of the recent Israeli elections for prime minister.

]]>In this episode of Living Jewishly with the Rabbis Rubenstein, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus explore the sources and inspirations for their passionate Zionisms. We use the plural to say that there are many different ways and reasons for one to love the state of Israel and those ways and reasons should be explored and celebrated. They discuss some of the complicated and difficult questions around Israel and share their personal experiences with their spiritual homeland. The episode is in response and in honor of the recent Israeli elections for prime minister.

]]>752cf082-c0eb-4b9d-a5d5-7b1e942efd84Wed, 16 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -060053:45falsefull1331Is Halloween Kosher?Is Halloween Kosher?Today Rabbis Rachel and Marcus will discuss the holiday of Halloween. American Jews are confronted with the celebration of Halloween and each family must ask themselves- Do we celebrate Halloween? Does Halloween accord with Jewish values? How does Judaism deal with the holidays of other faiths and cultures? What does it mean to live as a minority? How do we maintain our Jewish identities while striving to be fully integrated and proud Americans? They will also examine the origin of Halloween and if ghosts and demons are talked about or believed in within the Tanakh and Rabbinic Literature.

]]>Today Rabbis Rachel and Marcus will discuss the holiday of Halloween. American Jews are confronted with the celebration of Halloween and each family must ask themselves- Do we celebrate Halloween? Does Halloween accord with Jewish values? How does Judaism deal with the holidays of other faiths and cultures? What does it mean to live as a minority? How do we maintain our Jewish identities while striving to be fully integrated and proud Americans? They will also examine the origin of Halloween and if ghosts and demons are talked about or believed in within the Tanakh and Rabbinic Literature.

]]>a4117f78-2cc9-4a36-a2ae-3388ad8822edThu, 27 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -060039:45falsefull1221Welcome to Living JewishlyWelcome to Living JewishlyWelcome to the very first episode of Living Jewishly! In this pilot episode you will be introduced to the hosts of the show, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein. As you meet your hosts you will hear stories of how they grew up, how they choose to live out their Jewish lives as a family today, and a peek into what this podcast will be all about. After the introductions, we delve into today’s topic-- Kosher, or Jewish practices around food and eating. How do Rabbis Marcus and Rachel apply Kosher practices to their own lives? How do they make decisions about what they will and won’t eat? How do they eat with people who don’t keep kosher? What meaning does keeping kosher add to their lives? What about keeping kosher do they struggle with? Explore these questions and more in this exciting first episode of Living Jewishly! Remember to rate, review, and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts!

]]>Welcome to the very first episode of Living Jewishly! In this pilot episode you will be introduced to the hosts of the show, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein. As you meet your hosts you will hear stories of how they grew up, how they choose to live out their Jewish lives as a family today, and a peek into what this podcast will be all about. After the introductions, we delve into today’s topic-- Kosher, or Jewish practices around food and eating. How do Rabbis Marcus and Rachel apply Kosher practices to their own lives? How do they make decisions about what they will and won’t eat? How do they eat with people who don’t keep kosher? What meaning does keeping kosher add to their lives? What about keeping kosher do they struggle with? Explore these questions and more in this exciting first episode of Living Jewishly! Remember to rate, review, and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts!

]]>11a478be-0403-484e-a3fa-f833f6f2855cTue, 06 Sep 2022 09:00:00 -060045:01falsefull1111