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The Real Reason Couples Stop Feeling Connected in 2026

Wed, 01 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700

The Real Reason Couples Stop Feeling Connected in 2026

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0:00 - Introduction: Meet Jonathan Van Vegan

1:30 - "I Was Kidnapped at 9" – Jonathan's Traumatic Childhood

4:15 - How He Knew She Was "The One" After Two Dates

6:45 - The Fight That Almost Ended His Marriage

9:30 - Why Trauma Shows Up as Anger in Men

13:00 - Why He Explodes When You Ask Him to Take Out the Trash

18:30 - "Prop Up His Ego" – The Advice That Triggers Women

24:00 - Pain Saturation: Why Couples Stop Feeling Chosen

29:15 - Do Men and Women Fall in Love Differently?

33:45 - Women Want to Be Chosen, Men Want to Be Liked

38:30 - Why Society Trying to "Blend" Us Is a Problem

43:00 - For Women Who Feel They Missed Their Chance at Love

47:30 - Why Love Languages & Attachment Styles Can Hurt Your Marriage

51:00 - The Restaurant Test: Do You Know What She'd Order?

54:30 - What Men Are Too Afraid to Admit They Want

57:15 - The Hallmark of a Healthy Relationship

59:00 - Where to Find Jonathan + Upcoming Book Stop looking through the "Lens of Pain."

In this deep-dive interview, renowned psychotherapist and relationship coach Jonathan Van Viégas (creator of the Chosen and Cherished Method) reveals why even "wonderful" relationships can start to feel like a burden.

We explore the concept of Pain Saturation, the moment life’s external stressors (work, health, trauma) bleed into your partnership, causing you to view your spouse as the enemy rather than your teammate.

Jonathan shares his own vulnerable journey from a traumatic childhood and struggles with anger to building a thriving, emotionally safe marriage.

In this video, you will learn: The "Pain Saturation" Effect: Why couples attribute all their life's pain to their partner. Gendered Needs: Why women crave being "chosen" and why men desperately need to be "cherished" and liked.

The Ego Reframing: How propping up a partner's ego (without becoming their caretaker) creates a bridge to healing. Trauma & Anger: Understanding why men often manifest stress as anger and how to navigate those "identity-level" wounds.

The 2026 Perspective: How to honor the fundamental differences between men and women in a modern, fast-paced world.

Whether you are struggling to communicate or simply want to deepen your intimacy, this conversation provides practical tools to move from "surviving" to "thriving."

Is It Better To Be Single Than Unhappy?

Wed, 08 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we dive into an enlightening conversation with Cindy Stibbard, a certified divorce and relationship coach and the founder of Divorce Redefined. Cindy shares her journey of dealing with infidelity, navigating the breakdown of her marriage, and ultimately finding purpose in helping others. The discussion touches on the importance of addressing conflict in relationships, emotional safety, and the value of independence and self-worth. Cindy offers practical advice for both single and married listeners on how to build healthy relationships, whether it involves staying and working through tough times or knowing when to move on.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (06:20) Deciding Whether to Stay or Go

- (15:09) The Importance of Emotional Safety

- (22:21) Cindy's Personal Marriage Experience

- (39:19) The Two-Year Rule for Relationships

- (43:09) The Dangers of Codependency

- (47:16) The Strength of Being Single

- (54:28) Dealing with Betrayal and Infidelity

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A Bestselling Author's #1 Rule for a Happier Life

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we dive into an in-depth and heartfelt conversation with bestselling author Amber Rae. The discussion revolves around the importance of brave truth-telling, choosing wonder over worry, and finding alignment in one's life. Amber shares insights from her journey of moving from living a 'good' life to truly feeling free, emphasizing self-honesty and personal alignment. The episode covers her transformative moments, including her previous marriage and how she eventually found deep connection and intimacy in her current relationship. Amber also opens up about her new book 'Lovable' and her life as a mother, while discussing the societal expectations and personal challenges she overcame to live authentically. Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of honoring oneself and embracing the unknown.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:24) Motherhood and Personal Growth

- (09:43) Self-Honesty and Life Changes

- (26:41) Facing the Truth in a Relationship

- (29:47) Choosing Self-Love and Authenticity

- (34:43) Embracing Vulnerability and True Connection

- (41:14) Living Authentically and Finding True Love

- (45:31) The Journey to Inner Peace and Purpose

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He's a Great Provider, But a Distant Husband. Here's Why (And How to Help).

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Doug and Charlene tackle the critical issue of men disconnecting in their relationships, highlighting how Doug’s own journey led him to create programs that help married businessmen become better fathers and husbands. He discusses his personal transformation after realizing his shortcomings as a husband and father. Doug emphasizes the importance of men finding their inner power and emotional safety, sharing the impactful results of his work with thousands of men. Additionally, he offers a free resource to help men and their partners start on the path to better relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:39) Challenges Men Face: Emotional Struggles and Solutions

- (19:42) Personal Story: Doug's Turning Point

- (36:51) The Struggle of Men in Relationships

- (39:03) Understanding Male Psychology

- (47:08) Taking Responsibility and Making Changes

- (53:00) The Clean Slate Method

- (01:03:04) Hope and Transformation in Relationships

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The Real Root of Your Relationship Problems (It Starts With Your Childhood)

Wed, 17 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we sit down with Jennie Monnes, an expert in early childhood education and psychology. Jennie talks about her journey of self-discovery and the importance of self-love before entering relationships. She emphasizes how a parent's emotional health and healing are key to creating a stable and loving environment for their children. Jennie explains the significance of acknowledging and validating children's emotions and discusses her work in providing support for parents. The conversation explores the challenges of relationships, the impact of childhood experiences on adult life, and practical strategies for fostering secure emotional bonds with children.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:13) The Importance of Early Childhood Experiences

- (11:46) Navigating Relationships and Self-Discovery

- (23:10) Finding Joy in Work and Life

- (38:15) Navigating Life's Autopilot and Finding Awareness

- (41:17) Modeling Healthy Relationships for Children

- (46:32) The Impact of Parental Behavior on Children

- (01:00:54) The Power of Awareness and Self-Reflection

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The Art of Building a Zero-Fight Relationship

Wed, 10 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this insightful episode, we sit down with Chantal Heide, Canada's number one dating coach, to explore the complexities of relationships and the male mind. Chantal shares her journey from working as a stripper to becoming a renowned dating coach, blending her extensive knowledge of sociology, psychology, and personal experiences. She discusses her 'no kissing for three months' method for finding the right partner and emphasizes the importance of acceptance and communication in achieving a zero-fight relationship. Chantal provides practical advice for both singles and couples, aiming to help individuals create lasting, meaningful connections.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (07:26) The Importance of Acceptance and Connection in Relationships

- (14:27) Debunking Relationship Myths and Brainwashing

- (18:26) Practical Advice for Improving Relationships

- (27:14) The Role of Gratitude and Intimacy in Relationships

- (42:57) Choosing the Right Partner

- (44:20) Avoiding Manipulation and Red Flags

- (56:20) Zero Fight Relationship: Understanding and Implementation

- (01:06:29) The Slow Burn: Building Lasting Chemistry

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A Guide for Alpha Women in Relationships

Wed, 03 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What happens when an "alpha woman" partners with her husband in business? In this episode, host Charlene sits down with Dhayany Walker, co-founder of Lovepreneur. Dhayany shares her powerful story of transitioning from a "survival mode" mentality to embracing a softer approach that transformed her marriage and catapulted her businesses. Learn practical frameworks like the "Three T's" (Tone, Tongue, and Time) and G.R.A.C.E. to improve communication, define roles, and build a lasting legacy with your partner.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (02:13) The Definition of a "Lovepreneur"

- (07:01) The "Alpha Woman" Challenge in Partnerships

- (09:14) Dhayany's Backstory and Entrepreneurial Journey

- (14:50) The Philosophy: "Build Before You Say I Do"

- (21:49) A Turning Point: The Driveway Epiphany

- (29:43) A Man's Role: Show Up with Structure, Presence, and a Vision

- (32:47) The Power of Admiration and the "Lovepreneur Sandwich"

- (39:56) The G.R.A.C.E. Framework for Relationships

- (43:40) How Softening Up Builds His Confidence and Leadership

- (47:05) Business Strategy: Knowing Your Role Based on Strengths

- (50:41) The Four Key Roles in Any Business Partnership

- (53:50) Keys to Success: Know Your Role, Be a Team, and Forgive

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How to Ask For What You REALLY Want in Bed (Without Shame or Awkwardness)

Wed, 27 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this engaging episode, we interview Karli Harvey Raymond, an international event host, MC, and certified sex educator. They discuss the importance of sexual wellness and confidence for women. Karli shares her unique journey from growing up in a religious household to becoming a sex educator who helps women embrace their desires.

The conversation explores why sex remains a taboo topic, the impact of shame, trauma, and stress on sexual pleasure, and practical tips on improving intimacy in relationships. Karli also offers advice on communicating sexual needs effectively and the significance of foreplay for women's sexual satisfaction. The episode emphasizes the crucial role of communication in relationships and Karli's methods for renewing attraction and intimacy with long-term partners.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (03:24) Breaking Taboos Around Sex

- (06:03) From Purity Culture to Sex Educator

- (09:16) Empowering Women Through Sexual Confidence

- (13:00) The Role of Pleasure in Our Lives

- (23:06) Communicating Desires with Partners

- (28:25) Exploring Fantasies and Boundaries

- (34:21) Using the Yes-No-Maybe List

- (36:40) Evolving Sexuality and Connection

- (38:48) Common Issues in Long-Term Relationships

- (42:26) Misconceptions About Sex

- (51:48) Encouraging Change in Relationships

- (55:37) Karli's Workshops and Coaching

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Judge Lynn Toler: What 'Divorce Court' & Losing My Husband Taught Me About Love

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we dive deep into a heartfelt conversation with Judge Lynn Toler, who shares her personal journey and professional insights on love, relationships, and emotional intelligence. Judge Toler reflects on her mother's profound influence, her own marriage of 33 years, and the tragic loss of her husband. She discusses the complexities of communication, the common issues in relationships, and the importance of understanding and meeting emotional needs in a partnership.

This episode also touches on her experiences on shows like 'Divorce Court' and 'Marriage Bootcamp,' underscoring the universal challenges couples face. Judge Toler's wisdom, humor, and authenticity shine through as she offers valuable lessons for anyone seeking to improve their relationships or navigate personal loss.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (03:44) Insights on Relationships and Reality TV

- (06:37) Influence of Mother's Emotional Intelligence

- (07:57) Growing Up with a Bipolar Father

- (14:51) Navigating Early Adulthood and Career Choices

- (20:01) Marriage and Family Dynamics

- (23:49) Coping with Loss and Grief

- (29:30) Reflections on Long-term Relationships

- (37:14) The Culture of Loud and Proud Relationships

- (37:37) Navigating Relationship Advice and Hypocrisy

- (38:33) Understanding Individual Needs in Relationships

- (40:06) The Influence of Dr. Laura and Direct Communication

- (44:49) The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

- (47:34) Communication Issues as the Root of Relationship Conflicts

- (48:07) The Impact of Social Media on Relationships

- (49:02) Coping with Tragedy and Personal Loss

- (01:00:13) Balancing Roles and Responsibilities in Relationships

- (01:06:53) The Importance of Not Taking Each Other for Granted

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The Person You THINK You Are Is Sabotaging Your Relationships

Wed, 13 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I engage in a deep and thought-provoking conversation with relationship and dating expert Flora Ong. We explore the intricate dynamics of love, dating, and the barriers that often prevent individuals, particularly women, from achieving the fulfilling relationships they desire.

Flora shares her personal journey, detailing her own experiences with love, loss, and self-discovery. After a series of life-altering events, including her father's illness and her subsequent divorce, she embarked on a path of personal development that ultimately led her to become a dating coach. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that transformation is possible, even after hardship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:51) The Missing Link in Relationships

- (10:13) Core Wounds and Attachment Styles

- (20:13) Processing Emotions

- (32:09) Finding Authenticity

- (39:11) The Cycle of Dating Challenges

- (41:00) Awareness and Change

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The "SWAN Method": 4 Simple Habits for a Healthier & Happier Relationship

Wed, 06 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of "Love Stories," I had the pleasure of speaking with Kurt and De Anna Mangum II, co-founders of Coupley Fit, a health, wellness, and lifestyle brand dedicated to creating generational health. Our conversation delved into the intricate relationship between health and romantic partnerships, emphasizing how our well-being can significantly impact our relationships.

Throughout the episode, we discussed the significance of having a strong foundation in relationships, particularly when it comes to shared values like health and wellness. Kurt and De Anna stressed the importance of having open conversations about health goals and how couples can support each other in their journeys. They introduced their SWAN philosophy, encouraging listeners to make small, manageable changes in these areas to improve their overall well-being.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (06:25) Communication During Health Struggles

- (12:44) Shared Values in Health and Wellness

- (22:04) Importance of a Strong Foundation

- (28:39) Changing Relationships with Food

- (32:50) The SWAN Philosophy

- (39:11) Accountability in Relationships

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The Day She Realized Her Marriage Was Over: A Powerful Story of Choosing Self-Love

Wed, 30 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of "Love Stories," I had the immense pleasure of welcoming Winter, a remarkable woman whose journey through love, loss, and self-discovery is nothing short of inspiring. We dove deep into her life story, starting from her upbringing in Jonesboro, Arkansas, where she grew up as a pastor's daughter, the oldest of three girls, in a loving but modest household. Winter shared how her childhood experiences shaped her, including her early involvement in pageants and the impact of a hurtful comment about her weight that led to struggles with self-esteem and an eating disorder.

Throughout our conversation, Winter emphasized the importance of self-discovery and healing. She spoke about the pivotal moment when she was hospitalized due to stress and how that experience led her to a deeper understanding of herself and her worth. With her mother's support and a newfound clarity, Winter made the courageous decision to walk away from a toxic relationship, setting the stage for her personal growth.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:00) The Impact of a Strict Upbringing

- (12:04) The Surprise of Early Motherhood

- (19:09) The Heartbreak of Loss

- (26:30) The Struggles of Young Marriage

- (30:06) Discovering Infidelity

- (46:25) The Danger of Not Knowing Your Worth

RESOURCES

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How Her Perfect Response to Rejection Led to Marriage (A CEO's Story)

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this exciting episode of "Love Stories," I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Kylie, a successful entrepreneur and owner of a marketing agency. From the moment we started, it was clear that Kylie's journey is filled with serendipitous moments and valuable life lessons that resonate deeply with our audience of successful women navigating love and relationships.

The highlight of our conversation was Kylie's love story with her now-husband, which began in a rather unexpected way. After a humorous exchange on Twitter, they connected, and she candidly shared her initial confusion about his intentions. Their first date was a delightful mix of mini-golf and casual conversation, but it took a surprising turn when he expressed doubts about pursuing a relationship. Kylie's thoughtful response to his concerns showcased her emotional intelligence and willingness to take the high road.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:49) Kylie's Early Influences and Family Background

- (14:01) The Shift in Kylie's Perspective on Friendships

- (20:41) Kylie's First Serious Relationship

- (30:31) The Unexpected Text After the Date

- (35:30) Reconnecting After a Month Apart

- (39:56) Kylie's Relationship Milestones

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The Journey to 'I Do': Embracing Life Transitions and Authentic Connections

Wed, 16 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Hannah Gray, a celebrated wedding photographer and the founder of Wedding Wellness. With over 14 years of experience and having photographed more than 600 weddings across seven countries, Hannah brings a unique perspective to the world of love and relationships.

Throughout the episode, we explored the idea of being present in the moment, both during the wedding and in life. Hannah shared her insights on how to cultivate a deeper connection with oneself and one’s partner, emphasizing the importance of self-love and personal growth.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:47) The Journey of Self-Discovery

- (15:21) Learning from Heartbreak

- (22:52) Moving Forward After Heartbreak

- (34:03 ) Recognizing Life Transitions

- (39:39) Grounding Couples in Their Wedding Journey

- (51:12) Daily Rituals for Grounding

RESOURCES

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The Cortisol Connection: How Your Hormones Are Driving Your Food Cravings

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Amber Romaniuk, an emotional eating, digestive, and hormone expert. Amber's journey from struggling with emotional eating to becoming a guiding light for others is both inspiring and enlightening. With over 12 years of experience, she helps high-achieving women build body confidence, heal self-sabotaging patterns with food, and achieve vibrant health through deep mindset and self-care work.

Amber also emphasized the significance of self-care practices, such as meditation, movement, and journaling, in fostering a healthier relationship with food. She encouraged listeners to get curious about their triggers and to explore the underlying emotions that drive their eating habits. By doing so, we can begin to break free from the cycle of self-sabotage and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with ourselves.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (09:31) The Role of Upbringing in Body Image Issues

- (18:09) Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

- (26:29) The Impact of Stress on Hormonal Balance

- (32:07) Addressing Root Causes of Hormonal Imbalances

- (39:29) Healing the Inner Child and Self-Love

- (41:55) The Path to Body Freedom and Self-Acceptance

RESOURCES

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What is "Fierce Empathy"? The #1 Skill for High-Performing Men to End Self-Sabotage

Wed, 02 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of welcoming David Waldy, the fierce empathy coach, to discuss the transformative power of empathy and self-love. David, a husband, father of four, and former corporate leader, has dedicated his life to helping high-performing men and entrepreneurs break through self-sabotage and lead with courage, clarity, and purpose.

Throughout our discussion, we touched on the critical idea that many people struggle with self-love because they often prioritize the needs of others over their own. David emphasized that true self-love is not selfish; rather, it is essential for being able to give love to others. He encouraged listeners to treat themselves with the same compassion they would offer to a loved one, highlighting the importance of understanding and forgiving oneself for past mistakes.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:25) The Turning Point

- (20:23) The Importance of Loving Yourself

- (30:03) Behavior Follows Identity

- (33:05) Moving in with a New Partner

- (39:05) Manifestation vs. Identity

- (45:45) Breaking Free from Illusions

RESOURCES

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A CEO's Guide to Energetics: How to Manifest the Healthy Love You Deserve

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Annette Skye Oran, a remarkable woman who embodies the balance of success in both her personal and professional life. As the co-founder and VP of business development at Cohere Incorporated, Annette has dedicated her career to helping coaches and entrepreneurs launch and scale their businesses by blending energetics with strategy. But beyond her impressive professional achievements, Annette shares her inspiring journey of love, manifestation, and the importance of healthy relationships.

As we navigate through her dating experiences, Annette emphasizes the importance of trusting one's intuition and recognizing red flags in relationships. She highlights how her past experiences have equipped her with the awareness to make better choices in love.

As we wrap up the episode, Annette reflects on her journey to finding her husband, emphasizing the importance of self-love, personal growth, and the belief that great love is available to everyone. She leaves listeners with a powerful message about the abundance of opportunities in life and the significance of being open to love while maintaining a strong sense of self.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:32) Dating Experiences in High School

- (19:00) Career Aspirations in Hospitality

- (27:00) Learning from Relationships

- (33:05) Moving in with a New Partner

- (37:14) Trusting Intuition in Relationships

- (43:21) Annette's Life Changes

RESOURCES

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Is Your Past Secretly Hurting Your Relationship? Here's How to Heal Together

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Tarah and EJ Kerwin, a dynamic couple dedicated to transforming the lives of couples through meaningful connection and support. As the founders of Relationship Renovation, they have developed innovative programs aimed at helping couples thrive, regardless of their current circumstances.

Throughout our conversation, Tarah and EJ highlighted the significance of understanding one's past and how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. They discussed the concept of secure attachment and how it plays a crucial role in fostering healthy connections. By sharing their own vulnerabilities and the tools they developed, they provided valuable insights for listeners who may be experiencing similar challenges in their relationships.

This episode is a heartfelt reminder that while relationships can be incredibly challenging, they can also be repaired and strengthened with the right tools and support. I hope you find inspiration in Tarah and EJ's story and the wisdom they shared, and remember to stick around for the tip of the week at the end of the show!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:38) The Importance of Communication

- (18:49) Seeking Help Before Crisis

- (29:16) Developing Code Words for Communication

- (32:00) Cognitive Restructuring in Conflict

- (40:14) Building Secure Attachments

- (44:40) Self-Protection and Emotional Needs

RESOURCES

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Is Your Marriage Drifting Apart? Here’s a Powerful First Step (with Casey Caston)

Wed, 11 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Casey Caston, co-founder and CEO of Marriage 365, to discuss the transformative power of relationships and the importance of humor in marriage. Casey and his wife, Megan, have built a thriving community of over 12,000 couples, helping them navigate the complexities of love and connection through their innovative programs and resources.

One of the central themes of our discussion was the role of humor in relationships. Casey highlighted how laughter can serve as a vital communication tool, helping couples tackle difficult topics while maintaining a sense of joy and connection. We delved into the common pitfalls that many couples encounter, such as falling into routines that lead to emotional disconnection. Casey introduced the concept of the "law of one in 60," illustrating how even a small deviation in a couple's trajectory can lead to significant distance over time.

As we wrapped up the episode, Casey reminded us that the journey to a better marriage begins with individual growth. He shared the importance of self-awareness and setting healthy boundaries, encouraging listeners to take the first step in their own relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:28) The Disconnect in Long-Term Relationships

- (14:23) Isolation and Loneliness Among Men

- (26:02) Understanding Emotional Neglect in Relationships

- (30:15) The Power of Curiosity in Relationships

- (33:31) The Role of Self-Improvement in Relationship Dynamics

- (41:04) The Impact of Vulnerability in Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH CASEY

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Marriage365 HERE

Anxiety is a Messenger: Decode Its Secrets & Heal Your Inner Child (ft. Dr. Nicole Cain)

Wed, 04 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the immense pleasure of welcoming Dr. Nicole Cain, a leading expert in trauma-informed and integrative approaches for mental and emotional wellness. Dr. Cain is the author of the acclaimed book, Panic Proof, and her insights into anxiety and trauma are both enlightening and empowering.

One of the most powerful segments of our conversation was when Dr. Cain introduced a three-minute hack for listeners to begin their healing journey. This simple yet profound exercise encourages individuals to acknowledge their feelings, trace them back to their origins, and communicate with their inner child. By doing so, we can start to dismantle the patterns of anxiety and build a healthier relationship with ourselves.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:52) The Role of Unmet Needs

- (16:56) The Impact of Parenting Styles

- (22:12) The Three-Minute Hack

- (32:06) Patterns in Relationships

- (38:12) The Role of Medication

- (42:28) Navigating Anxiety and Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH DR NICOLE

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Chef Mareya on Healing Her Relationship with Food, Faith, and Love

Wed, 28 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Mareya Ibrahim, also known as Chef Mareya, the Fit Foodie. Mareya is a nationally recognized food and lifestyle expert, author, and creator of transformative programs like Fit and Fab Over 40 and Eat to Thrive. With her rich background as a chef, holistic nutritionist, and brain health coach, Marea is dedicated to helping others lead vibrant, purpose-filled lives through the integration of faith, food, and wellness.

Mareya also opened up about her marriage and the challenges she faced with her ex-husband's alcoholism. She candidly discussed the difficult decision to prioritize her children's well-being, leading to her eventual divorce. This pivotal moment in her life prompted her to embrace her entrepreneurial spirit, resulting in the creation of EatCleaner, a product designed to enhance food safety and quality.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:21) Responsibility as a Young Caretaker

- (14:13) Impact of Bullying

- (20:11) College and Eating Disorder Struggles

- (33:17) Embracing a New Perspective on Food

- (42:54) Dealing with Alcoholism in Marriage

- (50:44) Taking Risks for a Better Future

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH MAREYA

On Instagram HERE

Her Links HERE

Long Lists, Ghosting, and Unrealistic Standards: Why You're Not Finding Love

Wed, 21 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Max “Tripp” Kramer, a renowned dating coach, author, and founder of Tripp Advice. With over a decade of experience helping men build confidence and create meaningful connections, Max brings a unique perspective to the world of dating and relationships.

For those interested in diving deeper into Max's world, he offers a wealth of resources on social media under the name Tripp Advice, as well as a podcast titled "How to Talk to Girls." He also mentioned that his team includes female coaches who are skilled at helping women navigate the dating scene.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:05) Finding What's Important

- (16:02) The Work of Finding the Right Person

- (29:21) Signs of Disinterest

- (32:56) The Stoic Approach to Dating

- (43:24) Understanding Men's Fear

- (45:46) Building Self-Esteem Through Action

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH MAX

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His Website HERE

How Faith Strengthened Our Marriage

Wed, 14 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this heartfelt episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of welcoming Caleb and Stefanie Rouse, renowned Christian relationship coaches, authors, and speakers. Their mission is to help singles and couples cultivate Christ-centered love stories, and their insights are both profound and inspiring.

Throughout the episode, Caleb and Stefanie emphasized the significance of being each other's best friends and the importance of building a solid foundation of trust and authenticity in a relationship. They highlighted how their friendship allowed them to grow together, support one another, and ultimately strengthen their bond.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (9:03) Caleb's Journey of Growth

- (15:15) The Importance of Authenticity

- (26:05) God at the Center of Their Marriage

- (34:08) Facing Hardships Together

- (39:40) The Emotional Impact of Loss

- (44:05) Processing Grief and Questions

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH STEFANIE & CALEB

On YouTube HERE

Their Website HERE

Cultivate the Love You Deserve

Wed, 07 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Charelle Thomas, a certified love and intimacy coach dedicated to helping high-achieving women rediscover themselves and cultivate the passionate love lives they truly desire. Our conversation delved deep into the importance of self-love and the transformative power of prioritizing one's relationship with oneself.

As we navigated through topics like vulnerability, emotional and physical intimacy, and the significance of honoring one's own needs, Charelle offered practical advice for women looking to break free from patterns of people-pleasing and self-doubt. She highlighted the importance of recognizing one's worth and the need to cultivate a loving relationship with oneself before seeking it in others.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:56) Navigating Relationships as a Teen

- (16:10) Heartbreak and Trust Issues

- (23:36) Conditioning and Fear in Relationships

- (30:00) Conforming in Relationships

- (35:06) Lessons from Relationships

- (40:10) Understanding Personal Needs

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARELLE

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Building Meaningful Connections in a Digital World

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Talia Koren, a dating podcaster, content creator, and entrepreneur who founded Dating Intentionally. With over 2 million podcast downloads and a thriving community on Instagram, Talia is dedicated to helping singles navigate the often challenging world of dating with purpose, confidence, and ease.

Talia shared her personal story of meeting her husband, emphasizing the importance of quiet confidence and persistence in building a connection. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the dating landscape, reminding us all that dating can be a fun and enriching experience when approached with the right mindset.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (8:15) Validation vs. Serious Intentions

- (12:33) Choosing the Right Dating Apps

- (20:00) Short Dates vs. Long Dates

- (27:04) Childhood Views on Love

- (35:38) Meeting Her Husband

- (41:01) Top Tips for Dating Apps

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH TALIA

On Instagram HERE

Dating Intentionally HERE

How Your Past Shapes Your Present Relationships

Wed, 23 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this enlightening episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Quentin DeCamp, a multifaceted relationship coach, mentor, somatic therapist, and breathwork facilitator. Our conversation delved deep into the intricate dynamics of ego, attachment styles, and the profound impact of childhood experiences on our adult relationships.

Throughout the episode, we touched on the importance of self-awareness and the need to break free from the subconscious patterns that dictate our relationship choices. Quentin encouraged listeners to engage in self-reflection and to seek professional guidance to navigate their healing journeys. He highlighted that true healing requires a comprehensive approach that addresses not just behaviors but also the underlying wounds and beliefs that shape our identities.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (8:41) Navigating Childhood Dynamics

- (12:15) Understanding Anxious and Avoidant Attachments

- (20:47) Understanding Relationship Patterns

- (26:28) The Role of Professional Guidance in Healing

- (36:04) Empowerment Through Self-Reflection

- (43:40) The Role of the Ego in Healing and Identity

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH QUENTIN

On Instagram HERE

Work With Q HERE

How Therapy Can Redefine Love and Identity

Wed, 16 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Jasmine Chanelle, an inspiring entrepreneur and personal brand coach, to share her journey of self-discovery and resilience. As the host of the Mom2Mogul podcast, Jasmine has dedicated her career to empowering women to build online businesses and achieve financial independence. With over 350 women successfully branded through her Mom2Mogul program, Jasmine's insights are invaluable for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth.

Throughout our conversation, we explored the themes of emotional safety, identity, and the importance of choosing the right partner. Jasmine emphasized that true love should not feel like a constant struggle, and she reflected on the lessons learned from her journey. She highlighted the significance of understanding one's identity in Christ and the necessity of emotional safety in a relationship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:26) Romantic Ideals

- (11:06) Incompatible Values

- (19:11) Pandemic Challenges

- (24:17) Therapy Journey

- (35:09) Death by a Thousand Paper Cuts

- (40:58) Emotional Safety and Authenticity

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JASMINE

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Creating a Better Than Perfect Relationship

Wed, 09 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming John and Nicole Sonmez, the dynamic duo behind the Better Than Perfect Podcast. Our conversation delved deep into the complexities of love, commitment, and the transformative power of relationships.

As we wrapped up the conversation, John and Nicole offered listeners a glimpse into their life together now, four and a half years later, and how they continue to navigate the challenges of love and commitment. They left us with a powerful reminder that true love often requires us to confront our past and embrace the journey of growth together.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (8:13) John's Dating Mindset

- (13:12) Signs of Interest

- (19:02) Personal Growth and Understanding

- (32:21) Returning to Reality

- (39:00) Navigating the Complexity

- (42:55) Advice for Men

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JOHN & NICOLE

On Instagram HERE

Better Than Perfect Podcast HERE

How Journaling Transformed Ivana's Life

Wed, 02 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Ivana Maria Delsol, a trust architect and energetic health consultant who specializes in helping individuals heal and connect through the power of story and self-awareness. Ivana is the founder of Storyplace, a social journaling app that fosters a global community through authentic expression, and The Hidden Broccoli, a personal transformation company dedicated to guiding individuals in clearing energetic blocks and building intentional, conscious lives.

As our conversation progressed, Ivana shared how her newfound self-love and clarity led her to manifest the ideal partner. She described the importance of focusing on how she wanted to feel in a relationship rather than getting caught up in specific external traits. This shift in perspective allowed her to attract a partner who truly aligns with her values and energy.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:10) Understanding Self-Love

- (10:22) The Impact of Childhood on Self-Perception

- (23:00) Justifying Toxic Situations

- (28:06) The Influence of Parental Relationships

- (38:19) The Freedom of Choosing Self-Love

- (44:51) How to Start Your Journaling Journey

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH IVANA

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Discovering Safety and Joy in Relationships

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Afi, a remarkable woman whose journey is both inspiring and heartwarming. Born in West Africa and raised in London, Afi is a digital creator dedicated to educating and inspiring others living with type 1 diabetes. She also runs her own styling consulting business, Afi Like Taffy, where she empowers clients to dress for their higher selves.

Throughout the episode, Afi's journey serves as a powerful reminder that love is not only possible but can also flourish despite the obstacles we face. Her story is a testament to resilience, hope, and the belief that great love is available to all of us. As we wrapped up our conversation, I encouraged listeners to stay tuned for the tip of the week, where we discussed practical ways to cultivate love and connection in their own lives.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:50) Life After Loss

- (10:27) Boarding School Experience

- (21:20) Fear of Relationships

- (28:32) Long-Distance Love

- (36:30) Unexpected Wedding Drama

- (39:10) The Importance of Choosing Love

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH AFI

On Instagram HERE

Get Styling HERE

The Intimacy Hack That Saved Their Love Life!

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Nick and Amy, a husband and wife duo who have been married for 23 years. They have transformed their own struggles with emotional intimacy into a mission to help couples strengthen their marriages through their Ultimate Intimacy App, podcast, and various resources.

Nick and Amy provided valuable insights into how couples can break this cycle by fostering open communication and understanding each other's love languages. They encouraged listeners to prioritize emotional intimacy as a foundation for a healthy sexual relationship, emphasizing that both aspects are essential for a thriving marriage.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (07:14) Men's Early Clarity in Relationships

- (12:06) Challenges After Having Children

- (22:07) Breaking Point in the Marriage

- (31:04) Understanding Each Other's Needs

- (36:09) The Importance of Safety in Intimacy

- (42:34) Breaking the Cycle of Withdrawal

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH NICK & AMY

On Instagram HERE

Ultimate Intimacy HERE

Build An Above-Average Marriage w/ John Trone

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with John Trone, a dedicated marriage mentor who is passionate about helping couples build above-average marriages. Our conversation delved into the common misconceptions surrounding marriage, particularly the belief that it has to be hard work. John shared his insights on how couples can create deeper connections, improve communication, and foster lasting partnerships.

This episode is packed with practical wisdom and heartfelt insights that can help anyone looking to enhance their relationship. Whether you're newly married or have been together for years, John's perspective on building an above-average marriage is sure to inspire and motivate you to invest in your love story. Don't forget to stick around for the tip of the week at the end of the show!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:32) Challenging the Idea That Marriage is Hard

- (11:16) The Role of Friendship in Overcoming Challenges

- (21:21) Men's Perspectives on Marriage

- (30:35) The Power of Mutual Support

- (39:08) The Importance of Communication

- (48:39) Prioritizing Connection Over Being Right

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JOHN

On Instagram HERE

Links HERE

Healing the Inner Child in Relationships

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Yats Palat, a relationship inner work coach dedicated to helping high-achieving women break free from painful relationship cycles and reconnect with their feminine energy.

Throughout the episode, we discussed the significance of emotional safety in relationships and how women can reclaim their femininity by allowing themselves to be vulnerable. Yats shared insights on how a woman's upbringing, particularly her relationship with her father, can influence her ability to receive love and nurture in adulthood. We also touched on the idea that many women feel the need to "fix" their partners, often at the expense of their own well-being.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:41) Realizations of Fatherhood

- (12:28) Inner Child and Relationship Dynamics

- (22:59) Wounded Women Attracting Wounded Men

- (30:27) Father Figures and Emotional Safety

- (35:02) Emotional Expression in Relationships

- (41:40) Cultural Differences in Masculinity

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH YATS

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Links HERE

Strengthen Your Marriage with Faith

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the immense pleasure of welcoming Clarette Farmer, a highly sought-after faith-based speaker, transformational life coach, and author. With over 20 years of speaking experience and a passion for empowering high-achieving believers, Clarette shares her insights on overcoming unseen battles and stepping into one's true purpose.

As we wrap up our conversation, Clarette emphasizes the need for individuals to cultivate their own relationship with God, encouraging listeners to seek knowledge and understanding for themselves. She reminds us that both men and women have unique roles in a marriage, and when they operate in their God-given authority, they can create a powerful partnership.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:08) Understanding Love

- (13:20) Personal Experiences with Relationships

- (22:05) Mutual Submission in Marriage

- (30:07) Desire for a Healthy Relationship

- (36:39) Hearing God's Voice

- (43:04) A Memorable First Date

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH CLARETTE

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Website HERE

Reclaiming Self-Worth in Relationships

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Hannah Spanke, a remarkable relationship coach, spiritual healer, and Tantra teacher. Hannah's journey is one of profound healing and self-discovery, and she brings a unique perspective to the world of relationships, particularly in understanding the dynamics between men and women.

This episode is a deep dive into the complexities of love, relationships, and personal transformation. Hannah's story is a testament to the power of self-discovery and the importance of doing the inner work necessary to create authentic connections. I encourage you to listen closely and reflect on your own journey as you navigate the world of love and relationships. Don't forget to stick around for the tip of the week at the end of the show!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:15) Growing Up with Parental Separation

- (14:48) The Influence of Cultural Norms on Women

- (22:06) The Impact of Relationships on Self-Perception

- (30:41) The Dangers of the Martyr Complex

- (33:27) Breaking Free from Disempowerment

- (42:19) The Role of Rock Bottom in Growth

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH HANNAH

On Instagram HERE

Book a Session HERE

What Women Need to Know About Attracting Quality Men

Wed, 12 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I am thrilled to welcome Los Acie, a certified life and relationship coach, and motivational speaker. Los has dedicated his career to helping individuals heal from toxic relationships and build the confidence necessary to pursue the love they truly desire. Drawing from his own transformative journey, he empowers people worldwide to become their best selves and achieve fulfilling relationships.

This episode is packed with actionable insights and thought-provoking discussions that will inspire listeners to take charge of their love lives. As always, we conclude with a tip of the week, ensuring that our audience leaves with practical tools to apply in their own journeys toward love and fulfillment. Join us for this enlightening conversation that promises to shift perspectives and empower you to create the love story you desire.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (06:47) Self-Reflection for Women

- (14:12) The Impact of Self-Work

- (22:04) Changing Patterns in Relationships

- (30:17) The Role of Online Dating

- (32:01) Los's Personal Journey

- (43:07) Aligning Personal Growth with Relationship Goals

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH LOS ACIE

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Joker Proof Dating HERE

How Juliana Joy Attracted the Right Partner After Years of Learning

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Juliana Joy, a Bring Him Closer expert, energy healer, and certified master dating coach. Juliana's journey is both inspiring and relatable, as she shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the complexities of love and relationships.

Throughout the episode, we highlighted key takeaways for listeners, including the importance of self-reflection, the necessity of setting boundaries, and the value of seeking help when navigating the often tumultuous waters of love and relationships. Juliana's journey serves as a reminder that while the path to finding lasting love can be challenging, it is also filled with opportunities for growth and transformation.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:45) The Importance of Independence in Relationships

- (15:29) Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

- (21:02) Learning from Past Mistakes

- (29:42) The Importance of Emotional Availability

- (35:09) Recognizing Patterns in Relationships

- (43:22) Transforming Relationships Through Self-Esteem

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH JULIANA

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Her Website HERE

What Men Really Want in Relationships w/ Jamie Date

Wed, 29 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Jamie Date, a viral dating coach known as the Red Flag Whisperer. Jamie specializes in helping men attract high-quality women through confidence, self-love, and mastering the art of conversation. Our discussion delved deep into the intricacies of dating, relationships, and the unique challenges that both men and women face in the modern dating landscape.

This episode is packed with actionable insights and thought-provoking discussions that will resonate with anyone navigating the complexities of modern dating. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious about the dynamics between men and women, Jamie's expertise offers a fresh perspective on creating meaningful connections. Don't forget to stick around for the tip of the week at the end of the show!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (08:42) Understanding Relationship Dynamics

- (16:10) Coaching Men: Insights into Their Struggles

- (20:14) Creating Opportunities for Connection

- (25:12) Navigating Vulnerability and Trust

- (36:02) The Importance of Compliments and Appreciation

- (43:48) Final Thoughts on Building Healthy Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JAMIE

On Instagram HERE

On TikTok HERE

The Key to Thriving Relationships w/ Daniele Hage

Wed, 22 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I delve into the intricate dynamics of relationships, particularly focusing on the importance of emotional availability and the power of feminine energy with the amazing Daniele Hage.

Throughout our conversation, we explore the balance between masculine and feminine energies in relationships, emphasizing that both men and women can be empowered without diminishing one another. Daniele provides valuable perspectives on how women can embrace their femininity while still being ambitious and successful in their careers.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (09:35) Feminine Energy vs. Masculine Energy

- (15:21) Attracting the Right Partner

- (19:56) Understanding Men's Needs in Relationships

- (25:07) Navigating Vulnerability and Trust

- (39:26) Growing Together in Marriage

- (46:26) Uncovering Hidden Issues in Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH DANIELE

On Instagram HERE

On YouTube HERE

Find Your Purpose Partner w/ Vernel Samuel

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I delve into the intricate dynamics of love, relationships, and personal growth with my special guest, Vernel Samuel. As a dedicated pastor, mentor, and relationship coach, Vernel brings a wealth of experience and insight into the conversation, particularly from a man's perspective.

This episode is filled with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the complexities of love and relationships. Vernel's perspective as a man committed to faith and purpose offers a refreshing take on the importance of partnership in achieving personal and relational fulfillment. Join us for this enlightening conversation that aims to inspire and empower you to create your own beautiful love story.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:06) Impact of Family Dynamics on Relationships

- (15:01) Navigating Breakups and Growth

- (20:09) The Importance of Positive Role Models

- (26:27) The Value of Marriage as a Partnership

- (37:58) Vernel's Marriage Journey and Lessons Learned

- (40:00) Challenges of Living Together as Newlyweds

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH VERNEL

On Instagram HERE

On YouTube HERE

A Match Made In Heaven (Amazon) HERE

Overcoming Toxic Relationships and Finding Self-Love w/ Christina Cipriani

Wed, 08 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Christina Cipriani, a certified dating and relationship coach with a profound personal journey that has shaped her mission to empower women. Christina's story is one of resilience and transformation, having navigated through the challenges of an abusive relationship, healed from deep-seated father wounds, and reclaimed her body after battling an eating disorder.

Throughout the episode, Christina's passion for helping others heal and create meaningful connections shone through. She reminded us that great love is available to all of us, but it requires belief in ourselves and a commitment to attracting the love we truly desire.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:07) Childhood Dynamics and Family Background

- (13:04) Early Relationships and Boy Crazy Phase

- (21:11) First Serious Relationship Experience

- (25:06) Understanding Trauma Bonds

- (34:39) The Importance of Leaving Abusive Situations

- (40:02) Advice for Women in Toxic Relationships

RESOURCES

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My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA

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How to Attract the Right Man by Embracing Your Feminine Energy w/ Esther Sarphatie

Wed, 01 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I am thrilled to welcome the incredible Esther Sarphatie, a coach, author, and influencer with a passion for helping women navigate the complexities of love and relationships.

This episode is packed with actionable tips and profound insights that can help women transform their approach to dating and relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, Esther's wisdom will inspire you to embrace your true self and attract the love you deserve. Join us for this enlightening conversation that promises to empower and uplift!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:02) Mindset Shift: Focus on Self, Not Finding Men

- (15:07) Reconnecting with Feminine Energy

- (21:01) Practical Steps to Embrace Feminine Energy

- (26:08) Polarity in Relationships: Masculine vs. Feminine

- (32:29) Expectations and the Reality of Good Men

- (41:06) Longing for Connection: What Women Truly Desire

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH ESTHER

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Your Guide To Do Love Right HERE

From Exes to Experts: How Benny Lichtenwalner Transformed Heartbreak into Success

Wed, 25 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I delve into the intricate world of relationships, healing, and personal growth with our special guest, Benny Lichtenwalner. As a dating and relationship coach with over seven years of experience, Benny shares his unique insights on navigating love, particularly focusing on the complexities of reconnecting with ex-partners.

Benny's insights into the dating world are both enlightening and relatable. He shares practical advice on how to approach dating with intention, emphasizing the importance of knowing what qualities to look for in a partner. We discuss the significance of self-awareness and the need to break free from past patterns that may hinder our ability to form healthy connections.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:18) Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences

- (14:29) Early Relationships and Insecurities

- (22:05) Transition to Adulthood and Marriage

- (27:40) Post-Divorce Journey and Self-Discovery

- (33:17) Finding Unconditional Love

- (40:08) Current Relationship and Separation

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH BENNY

On Instagram HERE

On TikTok HERE

The Power of Choice: Redefining What Love Means for You w/ Robyn Michon

Wed, 18 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships with my guest, Robyn Michon, a dating and relationship coach. We explore the evolving landscape of love and dating, particularly how our childhood experiences shape our relationship patterns and expectations.

Throughout our conversation, we touch on the importance of self-awareness and the power of choice in relationships. Robyn shares her insights on how to break free from unhealthy patterns by recognizing the skills needed for successful relationships. We discuss the significance of understanding one's own needs and desires, and how this clarity can lead to healthier connections.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (9:01) Expectations vs. Reality in Relationships

- (12:51) Childhood Influences on Relationship Skills

- (20:23) The Impact of Low Self-Esteem

- (25:10) Learning from Past Relationships

- (30:10) The Power of Thought in Relationships

- (40:38) Defining Love on Your Own Terms

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH ROBYN

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Her Website HERE

Choosing Yourself First: The Key to Attracting the Right Partner w/ Fila Antwine

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the immense pleasure of speaking with Fila Antwine, a visionary leader and transformational life coach dedicated to empowering women, particularly women of color. Fila's journey is both inspiring and relatable, as she shares her experiences overcoming childhood trauma and her mission to help others heal and thrive in their relationships.

The episode culminates in a powerful story of how Fila met her husband just a week after ending a toxic relationship. This serendipitous encounter occurred when she embraced her self-worth and made a commitment to herself. Fila’s journey illustrates that when we choose to love and accept ourselves, we open the door to attracting the right partners into our lives.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:54) The Importance of Self-Love

- (12:44) Impact of Childhood Experiences on Relationships

- (20:54) Lessons from a Toxic Relationship

- (36:22) Reclaiming Power and Closure

- (39:21) Meeting Her Future Husband

- (46:15) The Journey with Her Husband

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH FILA

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Breaking Free from the Past: Empowerment and Love in the Modern Age w/ Barbara Schreihans

Wed, 04 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I dive deep into the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth with my guest, Barbara Schreihans. As the founder and CEO of Your Tax Coach and a successful business strategist, Barbara has not only excelled in her career but has also navigated the tumultuous waters of love and relationships.

Throughout the episode, we discuss the importance of self-reflection and healing. Barbara candidly shares her struggles with finding healthy relationships and the patterns she fell into after her divorce. However, her story takes a turn when she meets a man on Tinder, leading to a deep connection that challenges her previous beliefs about love.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (8:24) Success in Love and Life

- (12:04) Early Relationships and Patterns

- (21:35) Navigating Life After a Breakup

- (30:08) The Aftermath of Betrayal

- (37:13) Divorce and Moving Forward

- (40:51) Finding Love Again

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH BARBARA

On Instagram HERE

Life Changing Money podcast HERE

Navigating Modern Dating: Insights from a Man of Faith

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I delve into the intricate dynamics of love, relationships, and the importance of understanding one's true self. We kick off the conversation by exploring the disempowering messages that society often sends to women, particularly those who are single. I share my observations about how many women feel pressured to do it all, leading to exhaustion and a disconnect from their feminine energy. I emphasize that women are inherently the prize and deserve partners who honor and support them.

Today’s guest is Micael Santos, a Brazilian writer and digital creator currently residing in Germany. Micael brings a unique perspective to the conversation, rooted in his faith and personal experiences. We discuss how God has influenced his understanding of love and relationships, highlighting the importance of aligning values and beliefs in romantic partnerships.

Join us for this heartfelt conversation that aims to empower women and men alike to navigate the complexities of love with clarity, faith, and authenticity. Whether you're single, dating, or simply curious about relationships, this episode is packed with insights that can help you create your own beautiful love story.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:55) Cultural Differences in Faith

- (18:10) Lessons from Past Relationships

- (25:16) Self-Reflection and Growth

- (32:32) The Courage to Approach

- (39:15) Advice for Single Women Seeking Love

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH MICAEL

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His Website HERE

From Chaos to Clarity: Jada Bell's Journey of Healing and Love

Wed, 20 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, Jada shares her harrowing experience of sexual assault, which compounded her struggles and led her to seek comfort in unhealthy relationships. Despite the trauma, she eventually found hope and healing through her faith and the support of her now-husband, who exemplified the qualities of a strong, God-centered man. Their friendship blossomed into a romantic relationship, and Jada describes the transformative power of love and faith in her life.

Throughout our conversation, we explore the themes of trust, vulnerability, and the importance of understanding one's partner deeply before committing to a relationship. Jada emphasizes the necessity of courtship and the role it plays in establishing a solid foundation for marriage. She also discusses her journey of healing from borderline personality disorder and the impact it had on her marriage, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in fostering healthy relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (5:53) Jada's Journey

- (16:32) Chaotic First Relationship

- (25:06) Finding Faith

- (35:18 ) Marriage and Trust

- (43:17) Healing and Growth

- (47:45) Emotional Abuse Awareness

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JADA

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Her Links HERE

Breaking Love Blocks: How to Attract Healthy Relationships w/ Victoria Miretti

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I delve into the intricate world of relationships and attachment styles with my guest, Victoria Miretti. As a seasoned mergers and acquisition consultant turned relationship coach, Victoria brings a unique perspective to the conversation about love and connection.

Victoria highlights the significance of healing and personal growth in attracting the right partner. She shares her experience of being in a committed relationship where both partners worked through their attachment issues together, illustrating the beauty of mutual growth and understanding.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:38) Early Relationships and Love

- (15:07) The Jaded Perspective on Love

- (21:12) Dimming Your Light in Relationships

- (30:09) Overview of Attachment Styles

- (45:08) Healing and Shifting Attachment Styles

- (47:52) Personal Growth Through Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH VICTORIA

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Her Website HERE

From Dating Apps to Lasting Marriage w/ Cree and Louis

Wed, 06 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming Cree and Louis, a dynamic couple who have been married for over eight years and are the proud parents of one-year-old twins. As a relationship podcast aimed at successful women, I was excited to dive into their love story and explore the keys to their thriving marriage, especially amidst the challenges of raising twins.

Throughout the episode, we delved into the importance of building a solid foundation as a couple, especially when raising children. Cree and Louies emphasized the significance of being each other's best friends and supporting one another through the ups and downs of parenting. Their story serves as an inspiring reminder that love can flourish even in the most challenging circumstances, and that open communication and mutual respect are essential for a successful relationship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (9:55) Cree and Louie's Upbringing and Backgrounds

- (15:16) Cree's Childhood and Family Dynamics

- (23:01) Reflections on Past Relationships

- (30:11) Impact of Upbringing on Relationship Dynamics

- (39:58) First Impressions: Meeting in Person

- (44:43) Vibing and Connecting on Their First Date

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH CREE & LOUIS

On Instagram (Cree) HERE

On Instagram (Louis) HERE

Navigating Conflict: Transforming Communication in Love w/ Lisa McFarland

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I delve into the intricacies of relationships with our special guest, Lisa McFarland, the UK and Ireland's leading relationship coach. We kick off the conversation by emphasizing the importance of "sweating the small stuff" in relationships, as it's often the little things that can make a significant difference in our connections with others.

Lisa reflects on her upbringing as a minister's daughter and how her childhood experiences shaped her views on relationships. We explore her early romantic experiences and how she ultimately found love with her husband, Nigel, after initially rejecting him.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (09:20) Communication Breakdowns

- (14:09) Job Description for Relationships

- (22:06) Safe Place to Land

- (32:12) Weekly Check-Ins

- (38:18) Teenage Years and Early Relationships

- (46:40) Marriage and Family Life

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH LISA

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Lisa’s Website HERE

Overfunctioning & Understanding Relationship Dynamics w/ Dr. Ashley Southard

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I dive deep into the complex dynamics of over-functioning in romantic relationships with my guest, Dr. Ashley Southard, a licensed marriage and family therapist. We explore the emotional landscape that many successful women navigate when they find themselves in one-sided, unfulfilling love relationships.

As we wrap up the episode, we touch on the importance of self-awareness and the power of making conscious choices in relationships. Dr. Ashley emphasizes that while it’s essential to work on oneself, it’s equally important to recognize when a partner is unwilling to do their part. We encourage listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider whether they are in a healthy, fulfilling partnership or if they are simply maintaining the status quo out of fear or obligation.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (09:06) Dr. Ashley's Background and Experience

- (14:05) Navigating Early Relationships

- (23:01) Understanding Overfunctioning

- (32:03) The Under-Functioning Partner's Perspective

- (40:08) The Importance of Self-Respect

- (47:09) Allowing Partners to Handle Their Emotions

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH ASHLEY

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Ashley’s Website HERE

The Power of Intentional Dating: How to Attract the Right Partner w/ Adrianna Onubogu

Wed, 16 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this exciting episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I am thrilled to welcome back my guest, Adrianna Onubogu, for the second part of our two-part series. If you missed the first half, I highly recommend you catch up, as Adriana's journey of perseverance and self-discovery is truly inspiring.

As we wrap up the episode, Adrianna reflects on her current life with her husband, expressing gratitude for the love and support she receives. She encourages listeners to believe in the possibility of finding great love, even after experiencing heartbreak.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:08) Intentional Conversations

- (12:10) Mutual Vetting in Dating

- (23:03) Setting the Pace in Relationships

- (30:28) Dating and Options

- (35:01) Life After Marriage

- (43:58) The Importance of Supportive Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH ADRIANNA

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Adrianna’s Website HERE

The Truth About Love and Marriage: Insights from Adrianna Onubogu

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with the inspiring Adrianna Onubogu, a life and love coach who specializes in helping women find love after divorce. This episode marks the first part of a two-part series, and I couldn't be more excited to share our candid and heartfelt conversation.

As we wrapped up the first part of our discussion, I was left feeling inspired by Adriana's resilience and commitment to helping other women embrace their wholeness and pursue meaningful relationships. I can't wait for you to hear the second half of our conversation next week, where we will dive even deeper into her journey and the strategies she offers for finding love after divorce.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (5:51) Overcoming Challenges as a Young Mother

- (12:06) The Impact of a Single-Parent Household

- (22:54) The Struggles of Dating After Divorce

- (30:15) Understanding the Importance of Self-Discovery

- (36:28) Advice for Women in Difficult Relationships

- (45:37) Embracing Single Motherhood Again

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH ADRIANNA

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Adrianna’s Links HERE

Creating Healthy Intimacy: Transforming Relationships with Mary Whitman Ortiz

Wed, 02 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I am thrilled to welcome Mary Whitman Ortiz, a passionate Christian sex educator, relationship coach, author, and speaker. Our conversation dives deep into the importance of healthy intimacy in marriage and the transformative power of love and connection.

We conclude the episode by reflecting on the lessons learned from both of our experiences and the hope that exists for those who may be struggling in their relationships. Mary’s insights serve as a reminder that love is always possible, and with the right tools and mindset, anyone can create a beautiful love story of their own.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (5:57) Mary's Background and Early Life

- (11:40) Desire for a Lasting Marriage

- (21:20) The Journey of Healing

- (32:54) Building a Healthy Relationship

- (40:44) The Importance of Communication

- (51:10) Adapting to Change in Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH MARY

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Overcome Roadblocks in your Intimacy HERE

Sexual Wholeness Training HERE

Michelle Willard on Empowering Women After Unhealthy Relationships

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Michelle Willard, a dedicated life and relationship coach who specializes in helping women rediscover their sense of identity and purpose after navigating unhealthy relationships. Michelle's journey is both inspiring and enlightening, as she shares her personal experiences of love, loss, and transformation.

As we wrap up the episode, Michelle offers valuable insights for listeners on the importance of self-awareness, seeking the right kind of help, and understanding that love should enhance our lives rather than detract from them. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of love, resilience, and the journey toward finding true fulfillment in relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:32) Michelle's Journey: From Codependency to Self-Discovery

- (11:44) Family Dynamics and Early Aspirations

- (22:17) Reflections on Red Flags in Relationships

- (30:01) Reconnecting with Faith

- (34:01) The Importance of Healing Before New Relationships

- (48:47) Finding the Right Help for Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH MICHELLE

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Marry Yourself First: The Key to True Love and Happiness

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Fabiana Dorea, a corporate lawyer turned self-love expert, published writer, public speaker, and life coach. Fabiana's journey is a powerful testament to the importance of self-discovery and the pursuit of true happiness in relationships.

As we wrapped up our conversation, Fabiana's insights on self-love, personal growth, and the importance of understanding one's own needs in relationships left me inspired. This episode serves as a reminder that love is available to all of us, regardless of our past experiences or societal expectations. It encourages listeners to embrace their journey, prioritize self-discovery, and remain open to the possibilities that love can bring.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:28) Fabiana's Background and Family Dynamics

- (12:29) Realizations About Relationship Patterns

- (21:01) Courage and the Decision to Change

- (30:23) Finding Purpose and Passion

- (35:11) The Disappearance of a Significant Relationship

- (41:01) Embracing Self-Love and Growth

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH FABI

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Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Lessons Learned from Divorce

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Brooke Fink, a remarkable woman who has navigated the complexities of love, loss, and personal growth. We dive deep into her journey, starting from her childhood in South Florida, where she faced the challenges of having a father who struggled with addiction and ultimately passed away when she was just 12 years old. This pivotal moment shaped her understanding of relationships and her desire for connection.

Throughout the episode, Brooke's story serves as a powerful reminder of the complexities of love and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. Her journey of healing and self-discovery is inspiring, and I hope it resonates with listeners who may find themselves in similar situations. Join us as we celebrate the resilience of the human spirit and the pursuit of true love.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (9:03) Brooke's Background and Family Dynamics

- (19:36) Navigating Adolescence and Relationships

- (25:10) Meeting Her First Husband

- (32:40) Recognizing Lack of Chemistry

- (39:44) The Decision to Separate

- (45:39) The Hardship of Divorce

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH BROOKE

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Thrive On Purpose HERE

Unveiling the Layers of Toxic Relationships w/ Nicole Amaturo

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, we delved deep into the personal journey of a courageous woman, Nicole Amaturo, as she shared her experiences of love, relationships, and self-discovery. The host, Charlene Byars, guided the conversation with empathy and understanding, creating a safe space for Nicole to open up about her past struggles and triumphs.

Listeners were left with a profound reflection on the power of self-discovery, healing, and setting boundaries in relationships, as they navigated their own journeys of love and personal growth. The episode resonated with the universal themes of resilience, self-worth, and the transformative power of self-love in creating meaningful and authentic relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:32) Nicole's Childhood

- (18:45) First Abusive Relationship

- (26:45) Importance of Emotional Safety

- (30:08) Lack of Respect and Safety

- (37:06) Role of Men in Relationships

- (43:03) Confusion and Attempts to Communicate

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH NICOLE

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Her Website HERE

How to Find Love After Heartbreak w/ Felicia Romero

Wed, 28 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Felicia Romero, a fitness entrepreneur, about her journey to finding love after going through challenging relationships. Felicia shared her personal experiences and insights on how she transformed herself and attracted a healthy relationship into her life.

The episode highlights the importance of self-worth, setting boundaries, and recognizing red flags in relationships. Felicia's story serves as a powerful reminder that love is attainable for those who are willing to do the inner work and prioritize their own well-being.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:53) Childhood Influences

- (17:57) High School Sweetheart

- (23:57) Redefining Self-Worth

- (29:57) The Importance of Self-Discovery

- (35:57) Learning from Past Experiences

- (41:57) Embracing Love and Growth

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH FELICIA

On Instagram HERE

Her Website HERE

Creating a Happy and Fulfilling Relationship w/ Saif Al-Yasi

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this Part 2 episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of hosting Saif Al-Yasi, a true masculine gentleman, for a captivating conversation about relationships, love, and the dynamics between men and women. Saif shared insightful perspectives on the importance of choosing the right partner and investing in the relationship to create a strong foundation for happiness and success.

As the conversation unfolded, Saif and I delved into the future aspirations of his relationship, focusing on the shared goal of growing old together, continuing to learn and evolve as individuals and as a couple. Saif's commitment to creating a happy and thriving partnership was evident throughout the episode, inspiring listeners to prioritize mutual respect, communication, and personal growth in their own relationships.

Head back to Part 1 for the first part of our conversation: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swallowing-the-pill-of-ego-w-saif-al-yasi/id1727768921?i=1000665253483

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (11:27) Importance of Personal Growth in Relationship Success

- (21:08) Importance of Self-Care in Relationship Dynamics

- (27:38) Mutual Growth and Happiness in Relationships

- (35:37) How to Connect with the Saif

- (39:01) Impact of Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

- (43:26) The Value of Mutual Respect and Investment in Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH SAIF

On Instagram HERE

On YouTube HERE

Be Human Academy HERE

Swallowing the Pill of Ego w/ Saif Al-Yasi

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this captivating Part 1 episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of interviewing Saif Al-Yasi, a unique blend of science, fitness, and healthcare expertise. Saif shared his insights on relationships, masculinity, and personal growth, offering valuable lessons for both men and women.

Through Saif's experiences with his first marriage, divorce, and remarriage, listeners gain valuable insights into the complexities of love, communication, and personal evolution. Saif's commitment to self-improvement and vulnerability in his relationships serves as a beacon of inspiration for listeners seeking to enhance their own love stories.

Stay tuned for Part 2, next week!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (11:17) Cultural Differences in Dating Practices

- (21:51) Lessons Learned from Past Relationships

- (27:35) Saif’s Experience with a Multinational Upbringing

- (35:57) Cultural Perspectives on Dating and Marriage

- (43:13) Personal Growth and Reflection in Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH SAIF

On Instagram HERE

On YouTube HERE

Be Human Academy HERE

Love, Business, and the Perfect Partner

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of interviewing Taylor Archer, a successful entrepreneur and jewelry designer, who shared her journey of finding love and building a thriving business with her supportive husband. Taylor's story is a testament to the power of finding a partner who complements your strengths and supports your dreams.

Taylor's story serves as a reminder that finding a partner who complements your strengths and supports your dreams can lead to a fulfilling and harmonious relationship. Through open communication, mutual respect, and shared values, Taylor and her husband have created a love story that continues to grow and thrive. Cheers to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (12:30) Dating Experiences and Lessons Learned

- (24:06) Meeting Her Husband

- (30:10) Relationship Dynamics and Growth

- (36:28) Building a Business Together

- (38:50) Mutual Support and Partnership

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

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I married my soulmate.

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of interviewing Steph Dorworth, who shared her beautiful journey of finding love and building a strong relationship with her husband, Zach. Steph's story is a testament to the power of patience, trust, and communication in relationships.

The podcast episode also highlighted the importance of financial alignment in relationships, as Steph and Zach worked together to set financial goals and ensure their financial stability before taking the next step in their relationship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (11:25) Relationship Surprises

- (22:01) Parental Influence on Relationships

- (25:22) Childhood Crush Reconnection

- (29:26) Early Relationship Conversations

- (36:36) Building Trust in Relationships

- (42:50) Relocation and Relationship Progression

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH STEPH

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How to Navigate Marriage Challenges

Wed, 24 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Welcome to the Love Stories Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of relationships and the journey to finding and maintaining love. In this episode, we hear the heartfelt story of Zaesha Hudson, a devoted wife and mother of two, who shares her tumultuous journey of love, faith, and forgiveness.

Through prayer and introspection, Zaesha found the strength to forgive and persevere, despite the setbacks and heartbreak. Her journey of self-discovery and reliance on God's guidance exemplifies the power of faith and resilience in overcoming obstacles in relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:03) Meeting and Early Relationship with Husband

- (13:12) Moving to Colorado and Challenges

- (20:53) Decision to Fight for Marriage

- (25:16) Separation and Infidelity Revelation

- (37:12) Second Separation and New Relationship

- (40:08) Coping with Second Separation and Uncertainty

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH ZAESHA

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Love Triangle’s Matt Hall Talks Emotional Connection

Wed, 17 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Matt Hall, a Guinness World Record holder, serial entrepreneur, and high-performance mindset and business coach. Matt shared his journey of love and dating, starting from a seven-year relationship that ended in betrayal to navigating the challenges of modern dating apps.

As we explored the dynamics of dating fatigue and confidence struggles, Matt revealed his decision to participate in the reality show "Love Triangle." This bold move challenged him to confront his dating insecurities and step out of his comfort zone in search of love.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (5:30) Belief in Love

- (13:31) Challenges in Dating Apps

- (21:56) Importance of Communication and Connection

- (25:56) Understanding Men's Perspective on Love

- (34:46) Men's Desire for Emotional Connection

- (42:42) Taking a Leap with a Reality Show

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH MATT

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Generational Trauma and Healing in Relationships

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of interviewing Monica Tanner, a relationship coach who shared her personal journey of overcoming generational trauma and finding healing in her marriage. Monica opened up about her childhood experiences, her fears of repeating her parents' story, and the impact it had on her marriage. She discussed the importance of facing fears, seeking help, and learning to be the author of one's own story.

Monica's story serves as a powerful reminder that healing and growth are possible in relationships, and that with effort and self-awareness, couples can create their own version of happily ever after.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (15:20) Facing Generational Trauma

- (25:36) Navigating Anxiety and Seeking Help

- (36:03) Healing and Becoming the Author of Your Story

- (47:54) Working with Couples to Enhance Relationships

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH MONICA

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From Toxic Relationships to Self-Discovery

Wed, 03 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, we delve into the personal journey of Natalia Hart, a dating and relationship coach, who shares her inspiring story of overcoming a toxic marriage and rediscovering herself through dating and self-discovery.

Natalia opens up about her tumultuous relationship with a controlling and manipulative husband, highlighting the emotional and physical toll it took on her. Despite her high-functioning exterior, Natalia's marriage was a facade, and she found herself in a cycle of abuse and manipulation.

The episode concludes with Natalia's journey of self-discovery and empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and being true to oneself in the pursuit of healthy and fulfilling relationships.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (13:08) The Impact of Toxic Relationships

- (19:37) Lessons Learned from Dating Experiences

- (25:37) Seeking Help and Making Decisions

- (33:51) Making a Commitment to Personal Growth

- (41:38) Transitioning to Dating Again

- (49:37) Embracing Self-Discovery and New Beginnings

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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Navigating Relationship Challenges with Faith and Grace

Wed, 26 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, we delve into the personal journey of a young woman named Kelly Norman. Kelly shares her story of meeting her husband at a young age of 19. Their relationship faced challenges due to his previous marriage and the complexities of blending a family with his two children.

As Kelly and her husband navigated the ups and downs of their relationship, they found solace in their faith and commitment to each other. Despite the struggles with his ex-wife and the mental torment she faced, Kelly's unwavering love for her husband and their growing family kept them moving forward.

The episode also touches on the impact of past decisions on self-worth and the transformative power of accepting God's forgiveness and love. Kelly's journey serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the healing that can come from embracing one's faith and facing inner demons.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:22) Kelly's Background and Early Life

- (09:34) Reflections on Parents' Relationship

- (15:14) Initial Relationship Dynamics with Husband

- (37:53) Challenges with Ex-Wife and Stepchildren

- (42:19) Realization of Need for Inner Healing

- (45:07) Encounter with God and Mental Turmoil

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH KELLY

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EZ Dating Coach's Guide to Online Dating Success

Wed, 19 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, host Charlene Byars interviews dating and relationship expert Mike Goldstein. Mike shares his personal journey from struggling with relationships to becoming a successful dating coach with a high success rate in getting clients into relationships. He discusses the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and the effectiveness of online dating.

Join Charlene and Mike as they share valuable tips and insights on creating successful love stories and finding the right partner. Don't miss out on this engaging and informative episode filled with practical advice for those navigating the world of dating and relationships. Cheers to great love!

Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more relationship advice and love stories. Connect with Mike Goldstein for personalized dating coaching and visit Charlene Byars' website for more relationship resources. Let's create beautiful love stories together!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (06:05) Mike's Transformation in Relationships

- (15:30) Realization of Relationship Dynamics

- (23:40) Empowerment Through Self-Discovery

- (40:15) Effective Online Dating Strategies

- (44:54) Investing in Love

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH MIKE

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The Power of Partnership in Relationships

Wed, 12 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, host Charlene Byers delves into the captivating journey of Jill Stanton, creator of Millionaire Girls Club. Jill shares her story of trusting her intuition, meeting the love of her life, and even playing matchmaker for her sister.

From navigating through failed relationships to finding true partnership with her husband Josh, Jill's story is a testament to the power of intuition and trust in oneself. Join us as we explore the twists and turns of Jill's love story, from blind dates to unexpected engagements.

Tune in to discover how Jill's strong sense of intuition guided her towards love and success, and how she continues to create beautiful love stories in her life and those around her.

Don't miss this heartwarming episode filled with love, trust, and the magic of finding true connection. Cheers to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:47) Trusting Intuition

- (16:20) Meeting Josh

- (35:17) Transition to Entrepreneurship

- (43:38) Engagement Surprise

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH JILL

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The Power of Clarity: Manifesting Love After Heartbreak

Wed, 05 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of speaking with Dee Evans, a remarkable woman who shared her journey of love, self-discovery, and resilience. Dee opened up about her past marriage, the challenges she faced, and the strength she found within herself to move forward.

Dee's journey is a testament to the power of self-love, resilience, and clarity in defining one's desires. Through her experiences, Dee exemplifies the strength and courage it takes to prioritize personal growth and authenticity in the pursuit of love and companionship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:06) Dee's Background and Early Relationships

- (12:55) Dee's First Marriage

- (17:43) Dee's Journey to Self-Discovery

- (29:33) Dee's Decision to Prioritize Self-Love

- (39:07) Dee's Experience with Dating Apps

- (41:27) Connection with Sam through Bucket Lists

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH DEE

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The Journey to True Connection with Jordan Gill

Wed, 29 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we dive deep into the intriguing love story of our guest, Jordan Gill, a successful business strategist. Jordan shares her journey of meeting her now-husband, Marcus, in a serendipitous encounter at a Starbucks.

Throughout the episode, Jordan reflects on her journey of self-discovery and vulnerability in love. She shares how her relationship with Marcus challenged her perceptions and allowed her to embrace a deeper connection. Join us as we explore the power of vulnerability, intentionality, and genuine connection in creating a beautiful love story. Cheers to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:59) Jordan's Childhood and Relationship Patterns

- (10:43) Meeting Jordan's Husband

- (16:00) Initial Interactions and Connection

- (22:00) Discovering Personal Attachment Styles

- (26:16) Navigating Early Dates and Communication

- (36:04) Revealing Personal Stories and Intentions

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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Finding Fun and Chemistry in Dating with Relationship Expert Hunt Ethridge

Wed, 22 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with relationship expert Hunt Ethridge. We delved into the complexities of dating, relationships, and finding true love. Hunt shared his personal journey from being a wild and carefree young man to a committed husband and father, highlighting the importance of personal growth and self-awareness in the dating world.

Hunt's coaching philosophy focuses on helping individuals become the best versions of themselves, both personally and professionally. He emphasized the significance of building a strong foundation in relationships, starting with self-reflection and understanding one's own worth.

Overall, this episode served as a guide for successful women looking to find love and build meaningful connections. Hunt's expertise and practical advice offered a fresh perspective on dating and relationships, encouraging listeners to approach the dating world with confidence, authenticity, and a sense of fun.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:55) Hunt's experience with relationships and dating

- (15:08) Hunt's mindset towards relationships in his younger years

- (17:47) Hunt's shift in perspective towards relationships

- (22:19) Hunt's transition to a more intentional approach to dating

- (26:33) Hunt's personal transformation and shift towards a committed relationship

- (33:11) Hunt's approach to coaching clients on dating and relationships

- (40:38) Discussion on the mindset and approach to dating for successful women

- (45:33) Insight into the mix of factors influencing dating dynamics

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH HUNT

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The Importance of Feeling Safe and Valued in Love Relationships

Wed, 15 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, host Charlene Byers delves into a captivating love story with guest Jennifer Johnson. Jennifer shares her journey from a challenging childhood to meeting the man of her dreams at a young age. Discover how Jennifer's commitment to feeling safe and valued led her to a deep connection with her now-husband. Their story highlights the importance of valuing oneself, taking things slow, and prioritizing emotional safety in relationships. Join Charlene and Jennifer as they explore the power of self-awareness and intentional love in creating a beautiful and lasting relationship.

Don't miss out on this insightful and heartwarming episode that sheds light on the significance of feeling safe and cherished in a romantic partnership. Tune in to gain valuable insights into building a strong and loving connection with your partner.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:44) Introduction of Guest Jennifer Johnson

- (06:01) Jennifer's Background and Childhood

- (09:32) Jennifer's Journey to Finding Love

- (16:06) Jennifer's Relationship Development with Her Husband

- (36:15) Importance of Feeling Safe in a Relationship

RESOURCES

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Tips and Insights from Relationship Expert Bill Scalzitti

Wed, 08 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of speaking with Bill Scalzitti, the coach for romance. Bill shared his insights and wisdom on relationships, drawing from his own experiences and years of research. He emphasized the importance of making intentional choices in relationships and understanding the differences in communication between men and women.

We delved into the significance of self-care and taking time for oneself before seeking a partner. Bill highlighted the need to slow down the dating process, get to know multiple people, and prioritize communication and alignment in relationships. He emphasized the value of a positive mental attitude and making conscious decisions to create the love life you desire.

Join me on the Love Stories podcast each week for more insightful conversations with guests and experts on love, dating, and relationships. Remember, the key to a fulfilling love story lies in the choices you make and the effort you put into understanding yourself and your partner. Cheers to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:30) Guest Introduction

- (15:05) Importance of Dating Multiple Men

- (25:32) Importance of Slowing Down in Dating

- (35:03) Avoiding Rushed Intimacy

- (42:01) Closing Thoughts and Contact Information

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH BILL

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Creating a Vision: How a Couple Turned Their Dreams into Reality

Wed, 01 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, I had the pleasure of interviewing Jill Leonard, a successful woman who shares her beautiful love story with her husband, Michael. Jill and Michael met in college and quickly realized their deep connection and shared ambition to build a life together. Despite facing skepticism from others, they decided to start their own business instead of going on a honeymoon, prioritizing their time together over traditional expectations.

Jill's journey with Michael showcases the power of following your gut and being true to yourself in relationships. From the moment they met, Jill felt a strong connection with Michael, not just physically but emotionally as well. Their relationship was built on mutual respect, love, and a shared vision for their future.

Join us on the Love Stories podcast as we delve into the inspiring journey of Jill and Michael, and discover the beauty of building a life and business together based on love and shared values. Cheers to great love stories!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (05:29) Jill’s Childhood in Northern California

- (10:20) Jill’s Standards for Relationships

- (13:40) Jill’s Relationship Journey

- (20:43) Jill’s Family Values

- (25:10) Meeting the Husband

- (39:00) Engagement and Marriage

- (45:25) Building the Business as a Couple

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

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CONNECT WITH JILL

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The Science of Dating: Tips for Finding Love w/ Brandan Rader

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Brandan Rader, an award-winning psychological researcher, matchmaker, and dating coach. Together, we explore the importance of communication, overcoming fear of rejection, and the significance of doing the internal work before seeking a romantic partner.

Join Charlene and Brandan as they discuss the skill set required for successful relationships, the impact of romantic relationships on every aspect of our lives, and the importance of being intentional in the dating process. Discover practical tips on how to navigate difficult conversations, approach dating strategically, and handle rejection with grace.

Tune in to this informative episode to gain insights into the science of dating and relationships, and learn how to prepare yourself for a fulfilling and meaningful love story. Don't miss out on this valuable discussion that can help you navigate the complexities of modern dating and find true connection. Cheers to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (11:59) Overcoming Fear of Rejection

- (16:01) Taking Action in Dating

- (20:56) Learning from Dating Experiences

- (25:10) Strategic Locations for Meeting Potential Partners

- (29:18) Embracing Dating as an Opportunity for Growth

- (36:27) Importance of Self-Reflection in Relationship Readiness

- (42:58) The Journey of Personal Growth in Dating

- (45:18) Breaking the Stigma Around Seeking Relationship Guidance

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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Unveiling the Patterns: A Journey to Attracting Masculine Men w/ Anna Rova

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Anna Rova, a relationship expert who helps successful women attract and keep masculine men. Anna shared her personal journey of overcoming toxic relationship patterns and transforming her beliefs about love and masculinity.

Anna's story resonates with many women who have experienced challenges in finding fulfilling relationships while navigating their own success and independence. Through introspection and self-discovery, Anna was able to shift her mindset and attract a loving and supportive partner.

Listeners are encouraged to explore their own family dynamics, generational patterns, and societal influences to understand how these factors shape their views on relationships. The episode offers a message of empowerment and self-awareness, reminding women that they have the power to break free from limiting beliefs and create the love story they desire.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (10:56) Anna's Relationship Patterns and Attraction to Masculine Men

- (16:24) Exploring Dating Life and Relationship Dynamics

- (21:17) Anna's Exploration of Dating and Feminine Energy

- (26:08) Anna's Childhood and Family Dynamics

- (32:25) Generational Belief Systems and Family Influence

- (38:02) Influence of Societal Messages on Women's Beliefs

- (43:25) Impact of Women Embracing Masculine Traits

- (45:32) Shift Towards Embracing Feminine Energy and Finding Love

RESOURCES

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Love and Clarity: Navigating the Path to Longevity w/ Jezreel & Tonza Christian

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I had the pleasure of diving deep into the power of intentions and transparency in relationships with the incredible couple, Jezreel and Tonza Christian.

Join us as we explore their unique love story that started with a chance encounter at a wedding in Maryland and blossomed into a beautiful journey of growth and understanding. Jezreel and Tonza share their insights on how asking the right questions and being transparent from the start can lead to a strong and lasting connection.

We discuss the importance of having clarity in relationships, the value of forgiveness, and the significance of aligning goals and dreams with your partner. Their story is a testament to the power of open communication and genuine intentions in building a successful relationship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:15) Tips for Successful Dating and Red Flags to Look Out For

- (08:36) Love Story of Jezreel and Tonza Christian Begins

- (15:36) Past Experiences and Intentions in Relationships

- (21:00) Falling in Love and Building a Strong Foundation

- (25:55) Importance of Asking the Right Questions in Relationships

- (30:53) Understanding Forgiveness and Self-Discovery in Relationships

- (33:00) Value and Clarity in Relationship Dynamics

- (41:27) Humility and Integrity in Building a Relationship

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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Navigating Parenthood and Marriage: A Story of Love and Sacrifice w/ Karen McCoy

Wed, 03 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Hey, lovely listeners! In this episode of Love Stories, I dive deep into my personal journey with Karen McCoy, a remarkable woman who has faced incredible challenges in her relationships and as a parent. We discuss the struggles and triumphs of navigating a marriage while caring for a child with a degenerative disease.

Karen shares her raw and honest experiences of finding love, losing herself, and rediscovering her strength through adversity. We explore the importance of communication, self-discovery, and resilience in maintaining a healthy and loving relationship.

Join us as we uncover the power of love, perseverance, and growth in the face of life's toughest challenges. Don't miss this heartwarming and inspiring episode of Love Stories Podcast.

Tune in now to hear Karen's incredible journey and how we found strength and love in the midst of adversity. Let's learn, grow, and celebrate the beauty of true love together. Cheers, to great love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (3:28) Introduction to Karen's Background

- (10:08) Karen's Childhood and Relationship with Father

- (16:33) Karen's First Marriage and Relationship Dynamics

- (27:37) Meeting Current Husband and Manifestation

- (31:44) Challenges with Son's Diagnosis

- (40:21) Struggles in Marriage due to Son's Condition

- (42:00) Empowerment and Healing in Marriage

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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Love, Struggles, and Resilience: A Journey of Healing and Redemption w/ Kathryn Gordon

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Love Stories, host Charlene Byers delves into the captivating and tumultuous journey of her guest, Kathryn Gordon. Kathryn shares her raw and inspiring story of overcoming toxic relationships, health struggles, and finding true love amidst adversity.

Join Charlene and Kathryn as they explore the importance of self-care, knowing your body, and maintaining a strong relationship through life's challenges. This episode is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of love.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (13:00) Kathryn Gordon's background before marriage

- (22:00) Kathryn and her husband's initial struggles in marriage

- (29:00) Decision to write the book "Relationship Grit"

- (34:00) Kathryn's health crisis and discovery of implant issues

- (42:00) Recovery and spiritual insights after health crisis

RESOURCES

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CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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The Power of Self-Awareness in Building Strong Relationships with Alex and Hannes Nickl

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Alex and Hannes Nickl share their international love story, highlighting their journey from a long-distance relationship to a thriving marriage. They discuss the importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions and assumptions in a relationship, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding.

Tune in to discover valuable insights on how to create a deeper connection with your partner, navigate assumptions and triggers, and choose love over being right. Learn how to cultivate a neutral and loving space for conversations, explore the impact of the five love languages, and uncover the power of self-awareness in fostering a harmonious relationship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (8:37) Personal Growth and Relationship Dynamics

- (13:14) Learning to Communicate Effectively

- (25:58) Creating a Neutral Space for Conversations

- (31:46) Navigating Long-Distance Relationships

- (40:11) Understanding Love Languages

- (45:27) Challenging Assumptions and Expectations

- (49:52) Choosing Love Over Being Right

RESOURCES

- Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

- App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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From Toxic Relationships to Finding True Love and Wellness with Jordan Reynolds

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0700

I got to sit down with Jordan Reynolds, a dedicated fitness instructor and personal trainer, to discuss her journey from toxic relationships to finding true love and wellness. Jordan shares her personal story of overcoming toxic relationships, finding healing through therapy, and ultimately meeting her husband online.

Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with insights, personal growth, and the journey to finding true love and wellness. Tune in now to embark on a journey of healing and self-discovery with Jordan Reynolds.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (1:11) Upcoming Workshop announcement

- (6:41) Jordan's Toxic Relationship Experience

- (10:37) Engagement and Discovery of Infidelity

- (21:27) Leaving the Toxic Relationship

- (27:48) Moving Forward and Meeting the Right Partner

- (32:10) Meeting the Husband on Bumble

- (41:08) Impact of Husband on Business and Wellness

- (45:34) Advice for Healing and Attracting Healthy Relationships

RESOURCES

- Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

- App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

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CONNECT WITH JORDAN

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Finding True Love with Evan Marc Katz, the World’s First Dating Coach

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0700

Today, I had the pleasure of chatting with Evan Marc Katz, renowned dating coach and host of The Love U Podcast. Evan went from being a writer and finding himself at the age of 30 having to start over to becoming a true dating expert. He has been helping women with dating and relationship advice since 2003.

In this episode, Evan shares his journey from being the world's first dating coach to finding true love himself. Learn about the importance of forgiveness, setting standards, and taking proactive steps in your love life. Gain valuable advice on avoiding common dating pitfalls and redefining what settling truly means.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (9:18) Evan's Unique Approach to Dating Advice

- (11:43) Evan's Insights on Finding Lasting Love

- (17:41) The Importance of Feeling Safe, Heard, and Understood

- (24:26) Encouragement to Take Control of Your Love Life

- (34:12) Applying Strategic Approaches to Dating

- (41:19) Inspiring Hope and Encouragement in Love

- (42:44) Evan's Offer of Free Special Report for Listeners

RESOURCES

- Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

- App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH EVAN

On Instagram @realevanmarckatz

Listen to The Love U Podcast

Free Special Report HERE

Learning To Love Again After Betrayal With Danny-J Johnson, Award-Winning Entrepreneur & TEDx Speaker

Wed, 28 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Today, I had the pleasure of talking to an absolute powerhouse who has achieved so much in life and is truly awe-inspiring! Danny-J Johnson, an ex-acrobat, award-winning entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, and host of The Best Life podcast, joined me for a vulnerable conversation all about bouncing back after extreme heartbreak and trauma.

During our chat, Danny-J opens up about her experience with her unfaithful ex-husband, her journey of learning to trust again, and why she was ultimately thankful for this period of her life. This episode is perfect for anyone who thinks getting back into the dating pool after a heartbreak is impossible. Danny-J is living proof that you start all over again and come out stronger on the other side!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (11:25) Danny discusses her previous 10 year marriage

- (16:58) How Danny coped with her ex-husband’s infidelity and betrayal

- (30:55) Navigating listening to your heart versus your head in unhealthy relationships

- (47:07) The strategies Danny used to heal before she started dating again

- (52:20) The early stages of Danny’s new relationship

- (1:06:33) How they discussed their fears and insecurities, and came to an understanding to support each other's healing processes

- (1:14:22) Reframing past failed relationships as opportunities for growth

- (1:21:02) What the future looks like for Danny and her relationship

RESOURCES

- Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

- App rec: Bumble

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH DANNY-J

On Instagram @dannyjdotcom

Listen to The Best Life Podcast

Work with Danny-J HERE

How To Build A Love That Lasts With Marriage Educators, Keisha & Chris Bass

Wed, 21 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Today, I had the pleasure of chatting with a couple whose love story began all the way back in the 3rd grade. 34 years later, Chris and Keisha Bass are still going strong and are here to share all of their wisdom! As marriage educators, they are truly passionate about helping others reach their full potential in their relationships.

Throughout the episode, they lift the curtain on their secrets to a long and happy marriage, even though they admit they started off their relationship doing everything the "wrong way." We touch on so many important topics, like mutual respect, embracing your feminine energy, strengthening your communication, and the role faith plays in a marriage. Listen in and get inspired to build a healthier and more fulfilling connection with your partner (or partner-to-be)!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (7:49) How Chris and Keisha’s love story began

- (14:02) Their initial perspectives on marriage and having children

- (18:45) Learning to be a wife, a mother, and embracing self-love

- (25:12) The role God and spirituality play in their marriage

- (38:58) Advice for when one partner is evolving and growing and the other is not

- (42:31) The most common challenges Chris and Keisha see couples face and tips for overcoming them

- (52:44) The importance of surrounding yourself with a supportive and positive community

- (1:02:57) What Chris and Keisha are most looking forward to in their marriage

RESOURCES

- Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH KEISHA & CHRIS

On Instagram @herdopemarriage.com

On TikTok @herdopemarriage

Work with Keisha HERE

Productivity Coach Sandi Glandt On How To Balance Your Fairytale Love Story With Your Busy Schedule

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Trust me – I know how challenging it can be to find a balance between your personal and professional life, all while seeking that perfect fairytale relationship. Which is why I'm so excited to share my chat with Sandi Glandt, who is here to discuss exactly how you can achieve it all! Sandi is a productivity coach, mom, best-selling author, TV host, and Mrs. International 2022. She found the love of her life while pursuing her big dreams, and she believes that you can do it too!

Throughout this episode, Sandi opens up about her love story and shares tips on figuring out what you really want in a partner, making time for your loved one amidst your busy schedule, and creating a supportive environment that respects your partner's goals. Whether you're just starting to seriously explore the dating world or you're ready to take your relationship to the next level, Sandi's practical strategies and tested systems will help you create a healthy and strong foundation for love!

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (6:22) How Sandi's childhood influenced her Disney fairytale perspective on love

- (10:31) Every lesson from past relationships that led her to The One

- (16:11) Navigating gender roles in a marriage and prioritizing true partnership

- (27:30) The best ways to make time for family nights, date nights, and real quality time

- (42:52) Sandi's long-distance love story that emphasizes the importance of effort and trusting in the universe

- (51:25) Sandi's magical surprise proposal

- (56:14) Reflecting on their strong 10-year relationship and how they've maintained it

- (1:02:38) Why you need to be understanding of your partner's goals and respect their desires

- (1:05:10) Strategies and exercises for building a foundation of genuine and aligned love

- (1:18:15) A sneak peek into Sandi's Book

RESOURCES

- Buy Sandi’s book, Slay Your Day HERE

CONNECT WITH SANDI

On Instagram @sandiglandt

Learn more about Sandi HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

Trailer: It's Time To Start Chapter One Of Your Love Story

Fri, 26 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0700

We’ve all heard the great love stories throughout history, but what about the great love stories of today?

Love Stories highlights the relationship journeys of successful, modern-day women and the trials they’ve overcome in pursuit of finding their aligned partner. I’m Charlene Byars, a feminine embodiment practitioner, certified empowerment coach and relationship expert. I created Love Stories to remind you to never lose hope that you are worthy of finding love.

Each week, you’ll hear the deep, vulnerable stories from women, men and couples and their valuable learnings to help you find your own path to true love. Through actionable tips, constructive advice and my deeply passionate pep talks (I promise, they work), you will leave feeling confident and empowered to choose the right man, communicate intimately, and connect to your full feminine power.

You already possess everything you need to attract a beautiful relationship, it’s just never been activated. It’s time to release your old patterns and embrace a new shift into Chapter One of your love story.

Follow Charlene @mscharlenebyars.