<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/nobody-talks-to-that-guy/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Nobody Talks to That Guy]]></title><podcast:guid>81585347-a482-59ed-8932-3ae82ddb7db0</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2026 10:00:37 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Uhia Willis]]></copyright><managingEditor>Uhia Willis</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nobody Talks to That Guy is the show for the man whose career, home, faith, body, and identity are all on fire in the same season — the leader who looks fine in the room and is dying inside it. Host Uhia Willis builds; he doesn't counsel. Construction, not therapy. Each episode is a framework-driven conversation on collapse, rebuilding, and the R.E.B.U.I.L.D. Method — Faith, Grit, System, Track. For the man holding everything together while it's all coming apart: nobody talks to that guy. I do.]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/744a6ccf-ab09-458b-b435-793e919134f9/nobody-talks-to-that-guy-cover-3000.png</url><title>Nobody Talks to That Guy</title><link><![CDATA[https://uhiawillis.com]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/744a6ccf-ab09-458b-b435-793e919134f9/nobody-talks-to-that-guy-cover-3000.png"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Uhia Willis</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Uhia Willis</itunes:author><description>Nobody Talks to That Guy is the show for the man whose career, home, faith, body, and identity are all on fire in the same season — the leader who looks fine in the room and is dying inside it. Host Uhia Willis builds; he doesn&apos;t counsel. Construction, not therapy. Each episode is a framework-driven conversation on collapse, rebuilding, and the R.E.B.U.I.L.D. Method — Faith, Grit, System, Track. For the man holding everything together while it&apos;s all coming apart: nobody talks to that guy. I do.</description><link>https://uhiawillis.com</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Conversations with men in simultaneous collapse.]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Religion &amp; Spirituality"><itunes:category text="Christianity"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>You Made It This Far</title><itunes:title>You Made It This Far</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>You made it this far. That's not luck — that's evidence.</p><p></p><p>In Episode 2, Uhia Willis goes deep on the Grit pillar — not the motivational poster version, but the real kind. The kind built in the middle of the night when nobody's watching, when the concrete won't dry and the pain won't quit. He separates excuses from reasons, shows you why your stripes matter more than your story, and delivers the single truth that keeps a man moving when everything says stop: breath in lungs means you can't quit.</p><p></p><p>For the man who's still standing but doesn't know why — this one is for you. Construction, not therapy. There's an order, and it works.</p><p></p><p>WHAT YOU'LL BUILD:</p><p>• The difference between a reason and an excuse — and why knowing it changes every decision going forward</p><p>• Why your stripes (the hard seasons you survived) are your credentials, not your liabilities</p><p>• How pain ignites purpose — and why the man who avoids pain avoids growth</p><p>• The concrete principle: why you don't understand until you do it, not before</p><p>• Your job vs. your work — and why confusing the two is killing your identity</p><p>• The one thing that means you haven't lost: breath in lungs</p><p></p><p>MONDAY MOVES:</p><p>1. Name one stripe — a season you survived that you've been hiding instead of owning. Write it down. That's a credential, not a scar.</p><p>2. Separate your reasons from your excuses on one decision you've been avoiding. Reasons have roots. Excuses have exits.</p><p>3. Do one thing this week that you don't understand yet. The concrete dries by doing, not by studying.</p><p></p><p>CHAPTERS:</p><p>00:00 — Cold Open: The Grit Block</p><p>03:15 — Reason vs. Excuse</p><p>08:40 — Stripes and Receipts</p><p>14:20 — Pain Ignites Passion</p><p>20:05 — You Don't WANT to Understand</p><p>26:30 — Concrete Won't Dry</p><p>31:45 — Your Job vs. Your Work</p><p>35:10 — Breath in Lungs (Can't Quit)</p><p></p><p>Nobody talks to that guy. I do.</p><p></p><p>Connect: uhiawillis.com</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You made it this far. That's not luck — that's evidence.</p><p></p><p>In Episode 2, Uhia Willis goes deep on the Grit pillar — not the motivational poster version, but the real kind. The kind built in the middle of the night when nobody's watching, when the concrete won't dry and the pain won't quit. He separates excuses from reasons, shows you why your stripes matter more than your story, and delivers the single truth that keeps a man moving when everything says stop: breath in lungs means you can't quit.</p><p></p><p>For the man who's still standing but doesn't know why — this one is for you. Construction, not therapy. There's an order, and it works.</p><p></p><p>WHAT YOU'LL BUILD:</p><p>• The difference between a reason and an excuse — and why knowing it changes every decision going forward</p><p>• Why your stripes (the hard seasons you survived) are your credentials, not your liabilities</p><p>• How pain ignites purpose — and why the man who avoids pain avoids growth</p><p>• The concrete principle: why you don't understand until you do it, not before</p><p>• Your job vs. your work — and why confusing the two is killing your identity</p><p>• The one thing that means you haven't lost: breath in lungs</p><p></p><p>MONDAY MOVES:</p><p>1. Name one stripe — a season you survived that you've been hiding instead of owning. Write it down. That's a credential, not a scar.</p><p>2. Separate your reasons from your excuses on one decision you've been avoiding. Reasons have roots. Excuses have exits.</p><p>3. Do one thing this week that you don't understand yet. The concrete dries by doing, not by studying.</p><p></p><p>CHAPTERS:</p><p>00:00 — Cold Open: The Grit Block</p><p>03:15 — Reason vs. Excuse</p><p>08:40 — Stripes and Receipts</p><p>14:20 — Pain Ignites Passion</p><p>20:05 — You Don't WANT to Understand</p><p>26:30 — Concrete Won't Dry</p><p>31:45 — Your Job vs. Your Work</p><p>35:10 — Breath in Lungs (Can't Quit)</p><p></p><p>Nobody talks to that guy. 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In Episode 1, Uhia Willis opens with the burden no one talks about, then hands you the tool that got him off the floor: not motivation, not a 100% overhaul — 1% better than yesterday. He walks through the season he couldn't breathe, the weight he carried, and the day he stopped turning back. The Hall of Fame standard. Upgrading your identity by writing your own eulogy. And the line you've never said to the man in the mirror. Construction, not therapy. There's an order — and it works.</p><p>Three moves for this week: name the man on your floor (yourself, or a brother who's on it); commit to 1% — one next-correct thing, done unmotivated, today; and say it to the man in the mirror before you give it to anyone else: "I've got you."</p><p>Nobody talks to that guy. I do</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the show for the man whose career, home, faith, body, and identity are all on fire in the same season — the leader who looks fine in the room and is dying inside it. In Episode 1, Uhia Willis opens with the burden no one talks about, then hands you the tool that got him off the floor: not motivation, not a 100% overhaul — 1% better than yesterday. He walks through the season he couldn't breathe, the weight he carried, and the day he stopped turning back. The Hall of Fame standard. Upgrading your identity by writing your own eulogy. And the line you've never said to the man in the mirror. Construction, not therapy. There's an order — and it works.</p><p>Three moves for this week: name the man on your floor (yourself, or a brother who's on it); commit to 1% — one next-correct thing, done unmotivated, today; and say it to the man in the mirror before you give it to anyone else: "I've got you."</p><p>Nobody talks to that guy. 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