<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/not-that-girl-anymore/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Not That Girl Anymore]]></title><podcast:guid>0bef6c7a-0759-5df7-8279-efffb4f73718</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 10:02:05 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[@ Not That Girl Anymore]]></copyright><managingEditor>Dawn Bouillion</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A podcast for women reclaiming their voice, their worth, and their story. This is a space for women on their healing journey, because they know they aren't that girl anymore. 

Each episode, we'll sit down with women who walked through fire and found their way back to themselves. You'll hear raw, powerful stories, not just of pain, but of rising. We believe women. We amplify their voices. We hold space for the truth. This isn't just a podcast. It's a movement, a sisterhood rooted in healing, wholeness, and radical bravery. Here, your voice matters, your story matters, and your dreams matter too. Subscribe now to Not That Girl Anymore, a show on the Liminal Network.
]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg</url><title>Not That Girl Anymore</title><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Dawn Bouillion</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Dawn Bouillion</itunes:author><description>A podcast for women reclaiming their voice, their worth, and their story. This is a space for women on their healing journey, because they know they aren&apos;t that girl anymore. 

Each episode, we&apos;ll sit down with women who walked through fire and found their way back to themselves. You&apos;ll hear raw, powerful stories, not just of pain, but of rising. We believe women. We amplify their voices. We hold space for the truth. This isn&apos;t just a podcast. It&apos;s a movement, a sisterhood rooted in healing, wholeness, and radical bravery. Here, your voice matters, your story matters, and your dreams matter too. Subscribe now to Not That Girl Anymore, a show on the Liminal Network.</description><link>https://embraceyourbrave.org/</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[A podcast for women reclaiming their voice, their worth, and their story.]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:new-feed-url>https://feeds.captivate.fm/not-that-girl-anymore/</itunes:new-feed-url><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>How Trauma Heals: The Off Campus Version</title><itunes:title>How Trauma Heals: The Off Campus Version</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Why did a fictional love story spark such powerful conversations about trauma, healing, and hope?</p><p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon explores the deeper psychological themes behind the hit series <em>Off Campus</em> and why so many survivors see pieces of themselves in the journeys of Hannah and Garrett. Through the lens of trauma therapy, Dawn unpacks how trauma lives in the nervous system, why anxiety, hypervigilance, flashbacks, and disconnection are often survival responses—not signs of weakness—and how healing begins when we stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" and start asking, "What happened to me?"</p><p>Together, we'll explore childhood trauma, sexual trauma, abuse, nervous system regulation, attachment wounds, and the powerful role safe relationships play in healing. Dawn also shares why healing doesn't require the perfect romantic partner—but it does require connection, authenticity, and people who help us feel seen, valued, and safe.</p><p>If you've ever wondered whether healing is truly possible after trauma, this conversation offers both insight and hope. Because your story matters, your pain matters, and your healing matters.</p><p><strong>Topics Covered:</strong></p><ul><li>Trauma responses and nervous system survival patterns</li><li>Anxiety, panic attacks, hypervigilance, and dissociation</li><li>Childhood abuse and breaking generational cycles</li><li>Sexual trauma and reclaiming safety</li><li>The connection between relationships and healing</li><li>Why safe people matter in recovery</li><li>Hope, resilience, and post-traumatic growth</li></ul><br/><p>#TraumaHealing #NervousSystemHealing #ComplexTrauma #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalHealing #MentalHealthPodcast #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #PersonalGrowth #NotThatGirlAnymore #EmbraceYourBrave #RelationshipHealing #PTSDRecovery #SelfWorth #HealingAfterTrauma</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why did a fictional love story spark such powerful conversations about trauma, healing, and hope?</p><p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon explores the deeper psychological themes behind the hit series <em>Off Campus</em> and why so many survivors see pieces of themselves in the journeys of Hannah and Garrett. Through the lens of trauma therapy, Dawn unpacks how trauma lives in the nervous system, why anxiety, hypervigilance, flashbacks, and disconnection are often survival responses—not signs of weakness—and how healing begins when we stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" and start asking, "What happened to me?"</p><p>Together, we'll explore childhood trauma, sexual trauma, abuse, nervous system regulation, attachment wounds, and the powerful role safe relationships play in healing. Dawn also shares why healing doesn't require the perfect romantic partner—but it does require connection, authenticity, and people who help us feel seen, valued, and safe.</p><p>If you've ever wondered whether healing is truly possible after trauma, this conversation offers both insight and hope. Because your story matters, your pain matters, and your healing matters.</p><p><strong>Topics Covered:</strong></p><ul><li>Trauma responses and nervous system survival patterns</li><li>Anxiety, panic attacks, hypervigilance, and dissociation</li><li>Childhood abuse and breaking generational cycles</li><li>Sexual trauma and reclaiming safety</li><li>The connection between relationships and healing</li><li>Why safe people matter in recovery</li><li>Hope, resilience, and post-traumatic growth</li></ul><br/><p>#TraumaHealing #NervousSystemHealing #ComplexTrauma #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalHealing #MentalHealthPodcast #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #PersonalGrowth #NotThatGirlAnymore #EmbraceYourBrave #RelationshipHealing #PTSDRecovery #SelfWorth #HealingAfterTrauma</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">952c6a0a-4269-4807-8f04-e82ffd2e8a50</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/952c6a0a-4269-4807-8f04-e82ffd2e8a50.mp3" length="20989906" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:59</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>46</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e6c5db9d-83e0-45b9-9e9b-50a7e1f9aae9/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Why Off Campus Feels Like A Healing Movement</title><itunes:title>Why Off Campus Feels Like A Healing Movement</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Why has <em>Off Campus</em> impacted so many people so deeply? Why are millions of viewers crying at the same scenes, rewatching episodes, and having emotional conversations with friends, partners, children, and therapists?</p><p>In this deeply personal episode, Dawn explores why this story feels bigger than just a television show. Through the lens of trauma healing, emotional safety, healthy relationships, and connection, she unpacks how <em>Off Campus</em> is opening conversations about trust, consent, grief, shame, healing, and what it means to finally feel seen.</p><p>As a trauma therapist, Dawn reflects on the ways the story portrays healing—not through perfect people, but through wounded people learning to trust again, break cycles, and help each other heal. She shares personal reflections about motherhood, friendship, emotional safety, and why safe relationships are often where healing truly begins.</p><p>This episode is a powerful conversation about trauma, hope, belonging, healthy intimacy, and the possibility of becoming more than what happened to us.</p><p>If you’ve ever longed to feel understood, safe, valued, or connected… this conversation is for you.</p><p><a href="http://embraceyourbrave.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Embraceyourbrave.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why has <em>Off Campus</em> impacted so many people so deeply? Why are millions of viewers crying at the same scenes, rewatching episodes, and having emotional conversations with friends, partners, children, and therapists?</p><p>In this deeply personal episode, Dawn explores why this story feels bigger than just a television show. Through the lens of trauma healing, emotional safety, healthy relationships, and connection, she unpacks how <em>Off Campus</em> is opening conversations about trust, consent, grief, shame, healing, and what it means to finally feel seen.</p><p>As a trauma therapist, Dawn reflects on the ways the story portrays healing—not through perfect people, but through wounded people learning to trust again, break cycles, and help each other heal. She shares personal reflections about motherhood, friendship, emotional safety, and why safe relationships are often where healing truly begins.</p><p>This episode is a powerful conversation about trauma, hope, belonging, healthy intimacy, and the possibility of becoming more than what happened to us.</p><p>If you’ve ever longed to feel understood, safe, valued, or connected… this conversation is for you.</p><p><a href="http://embraceyourbrave.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Embraceyourbrave.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">cd9c5a8d-4569-4a00-9351-092c1046c691</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/cd9c5a8d-4569-4a00-9351-092c1046c691.mp3" length="14306194" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:02</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>45</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/6598722e-723d-4dbb-bdd4-a38ec0d55243/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Authenticity Requires Boundaries</title><itunes:title>Authenticity Requires Boundaries</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if the version of you that everyone praises… is actually the version of you that abandoned yourself to survive?</p><p>In this deeply honest and emotionally powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon explores the hidden cost of people-pleasing, over-functioning, perfectionism, and chronic self-abandonment. She unpacks why authenticity can feel terrifying, especially for women who learned early in life that love, safety, and belonging depended on keeping everyone else comfortable.</p><p>Through conversations about trauma, nervous system conditioning, fawning, boundaries, anxiety, burnout, and healing, Dawn explains how many women became disconnected from their own voice, needs, and identity in order to stay accepted and loved. She shares how boundaries are not punishment or selfishness — they are honesty, self-respect, and protection for the authentic self.</p><p>This episode is for the woman who is exhausted from performing strength, happiness, perfection, or “being fine” while quietly drowning underneath it all. It’s for the woman learning that she no longer has to earn love through exhaustion, silence, or self-sacrifice.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if the version of you that everyone praises… is actually the version of you that abandoned yourself to survive?</p><p>In this deeply honest and emotionally powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon explores the hidden cost of people-pleasing, over-functioning, perfectionism, and chronic self-abandonment. She unpacks why authenticity can feel terrifying, especially for women who learned early in life that love, safety, and belonging depended on keeping everyone else comfortable.</p><p>Through conversations about trauma, nervous system conditioning, fawning, boundaries, anxiety, burnout, and healing, Dawn explains how many women became disconnected from their own voice, needs, and identity in order to stay accepted and loved. She shares how boundaries are not punishment or selfishness — they are honesty, self-respect, and protection for the authentic self.</p><p>This episode is for the woman who is exhausted from performing strength, happiness, perfection, or “being fine” while quietly drowning underneath it all. It’s for the woman learning that she no longer has to earn love through exhaustion, silence, or self-sacrifice.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3b87c3e3-04e7-4bc6-8f96-c0e1cd84a11d</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3b87c3e3-04e7-4bc6-8f96-c0e1cd84a11d.mp3" length="20332690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:12</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>44</podcast:episode></item><item><title>The Courage to Be Yourself: Boundaries, Shame &amp; Authentic Healing</title><itunes:title>The Courage to Be Yourself: Boundaries, Shame &amp; Authentic Healing</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when life falls apart and you’re forced to rediscover who you really are?</p><p>In this deeply honest and empowering episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon sits down with licensed professional counselor, supervisor, and founder of The Authenticity Center, Melissa Bowen, for a powerful conversation about authenticity, shame, boundaries, vulnerability, and healing.</p><p>Melissa shares her personal journey from the restaurant industry to becoming a therapist after Hurricane Katrina and the loss of her career forced her into a season of deep self-exploration. Together, Dawn and Melissa unpack what it really means to lose yourself in relationships, people-pleasing, perfectionism, motherhood, hustle culture, and trauma — and how reclaiming your authentic self becomes the path back to healing and belonging.</p><p>The conversation dives into:</p><ul><li>Brené Brown’s research on shame, vulnerability, and courage</li><li>Why authenticity feels so risky</li><li>The hidden cost of self-abandonment</li><li>Boundaries as self-respect, not punishment</li><li>How people-pleasing disconnects us from ourselves</li><li>Why healing requires curiosity instead of judgment</li><li>The importance of culturally safe vulnerability and storytelling</li><li>How authenticity creates deeper connection, healthier relationships, and true belonging</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is for anyone who has ever felt lost inside relationships, exhausted from trying to please everyone, or afraid to fully be themselves. It’s a reminder that healing isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about finally coming home to yourself.</p><p>If you’ve been craving deeper connection, healthier boundaries, and permission to take up space as your authentic self, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.</p><p></p><p><strong>Melissa-Bowen</strong></p><p>Website: https://www.theauthenticitycenter.com/</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when life falls apart and you’re forced to rediscover who you really are?</p><p>In this deeply honest and empowering episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon sits down with licensed professional counselor, supervisor, and founder of The Authenticity Center, Melissa Bowen, for a powerful conversation about authenticity, shame, boundaries, vulnerability, and healing.</p><p>Melissa shares her personal journey from the restaurant industry to becoming a therapist after Hurricane Katrina and the loss of her career forced her into a season of deep self-exploration. Together, Dawn and Melissa unpack what it really means to lose yourself in relationships, people-pleasing, perfectionism, motherhood, hustle culture, and trauma — and how reclaiming your authentic self becomes the path back to healing and belonging.</p><p>The conversation dives into:</p><ul><li>Brené Brown’s research on shame, vulnerability, and courage</li><li>Why authenticity feels so risky</li><li>The hidden cost of self-abandonment</li><li>Boundaries as self-respect, not punishment</li><li>How people-pleasing disconnects us from ourselves</li><li>Why healing requires curiosity instead of judgment</li><li>The importance of culturally safe vulnerability and storytelling</li><li>How authenticity creates deeper connection, healthier relationships, and true belonging</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is for anyone who has ever felt lost inside relationships, exhausted from trying to please everyone, or afraid to fully be themselves. It’s a reminder that healing isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about finally coming home to yourself.</p><p>If you’ve been craving deeper connection, healthier boundaries, and permission to take up space as your authentic self, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.</p><p></p><p><strong>Melissa-Bowen</strong></p><p>Website: https://www.theauthenticitycenter.com/</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">19d3dfd3-d89a-44d1-a958-dd21001f2187</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/19d3dfd3-d89a-44d1-a958-dd21001f2187.mp3" length="41271874" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>49:08</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>43</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/acaa26d7-64ee-40c2-8a21-b23bdbb74e59/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>We Normalize What Harms Us &amp; Stigmatize What Heals Us</title><itunes:title>We Normalize What Harms Us &amp; Stigmatize What Heals Us</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon explores the painful truth behind modern burnout, anxiety, emotional suppression, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment. From toxic relationships and hustle culture to religious trauma, nervous system exhaustion, and chronic stress, Dawn unpacks how society normalizes suffering while stigmatizing healing. This deeply validating conversation offers hope, compassion, and insight for women healing from trauma, narcissistic abuse, burnout, anxiety, depression, and emotional disconnection. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from performing, surviving, or carrying everyone else’s emotional load, this episode is your reminder that healing is brave — and your humanity is not the problem.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon explores the painful truth behind modern burnout, anxiety, emotional suppression, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment. From toxic relationships and hustle culture to religious trauma, nervous system exhaustion, and chronic stress, Dawn unpacks how society normalizes suffering while stigmatizing healing. This deeply validating conversation offers hope, compassion, and insight for women healing from trauma, narcissistic abuse, burnout, anxiety, depression, and emotional disconnection. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from performing, surviving, or carrying everyone else’s emotional load, this episode is your reminder that healing is brave — and your humanity is not the problem.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3faba415-2756-46f6-b484-063a37345a4c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3faba415-2756-46f6-b484-063a37345a4c.mp3" length="18432610" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>21:57</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>42</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/47ac011f-3aff-4bcb-a0d4-d7f81cb23efc/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Stop Calling Abuse Mental Illness</title><itunes:title>Stop Calling Abuse Mental Illness</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>shorter, please.</p><p>Show moreShow less</p><p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and founder of Embrace Your Brave, Dawn Bouillon challenges the dangerous habit of labeling abuse and violence as “mental illness” instead of calling it what it is: coercive control, entitlement, manipulation, and abuse.</p><p>Dawn explores the realities of emotional abuse, domestic violence, victim safety, and why leaving abusive relationships is often the most dangerous time for survivors. This compassionate but direct conversation calls for accountability, prevention, healthier relationship education, and believing victims sooner.</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned your reality, walked on eggshells, or confused control with love, this episode is for you.</p><p>#TraumaRecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse #HealingJourney #HealthyRelationships #SurvivorSupport</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>shorter, please.</p><p>Show moreShow less</p><p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and founder of Embrace Your Brave, Dawn Bouillon challenges the dangerous habit of labeling abuse and violence as “mental illness” instead of calling it what it is: coercive control, entitlement, manipulation, and abuse.</p><p>Dawn explores the realities of emotional abuse, domestic violence, victim safety, and why leaving abusive relationships is often the most dangerous time for survivors. This compassionate but direct conversation calls for accountability, prevention, healthier relationship education, and believing victims sooner.</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned your reality, walked on eggshells, or confused control with love, this episode is for you.</p><p>#TraumaRecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse #HealingJourney #HealthyRelationships #SurvivorSupport</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f02e80c3-3973-4b22-bb72-d80ab6476b0e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f02e80c3-3973-4b22-bb72-d80ab6476b0e.mp3" length="7620466" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>09:04</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>41</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/603840be-3b0a-44ed-975d-faa6928d9607/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Truth We Can’t Ignore: Abuse, Trafficking, and Violence Against Women and Children</title><itunes:title>The Truth We Can’t Ignore: Abuse, Trafficking, and Violence Against Women and Children</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This is not an easy episode—but it’s an important one.</p><p>In this raw and deeply honest conversation, we step into the weight of what’s happening around us: violence against women and children, abuse, trafficking, and the heartbreaking stories that too often become headlines we scroll past.</p><p>This episode is a call to feel again. To refuse numbness. To remember that these are not just stories—they are real people, real lives, real families.</p><p>Through the lens of motherhood, grief, and truth, this conversation challenges us to:</p><ul><li>Stop normalizing what should break our hearts</li><li>Believe and protect women and children sooner</li><li>Hold systems and leaders accountable</li><li>Raise the next generation with empathy, consent, and emotional awareness</li></ul><br/><p>But this isn’t just about awareness—it’s about action, healing, and reclaiming power.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the state of the world…</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned whether your voice matters…</p><p>If you’ve ever needed a reminder that you are not alone…</p><p>This episode is for you.</p><p>You matter. Your story matters. And you are not that girl anymore.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is not an easy episode—but it’s an important one.</p><p>In this raw and deeply honest conversation, we step into the weight of what’s happening around us: violence against women and children, abuse, trafficking, and the heartbreaking stories that too often become headlines we scroll past.</p><p>This episode is a call to feel again. To refuse numbness. To remember that these are not just stories—they are real people, real lives, real families.</p><p>Through the lens of motherhood, grief, and truth, this conversation challenges us to:</p><ul><li>Stop normalizing what should break our hearts</li><li>Believe and protect women and children sooner</li><li>Hold systems and leaders accountable</li><li>Raise the next generation with empathy, consent, and emotional awareness</li></ul><br/><p>But this isn’t just about awareness—it’s about action, healing, and reclaiming power.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the state of the world…</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned whether your voice matters…</p><p>If you’ve ever needed a reminder that you are not alone…</p><p>This episode is for you.</p><p>You matter. Your story matters. 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Or Did I Find It?</title><itunes:title>Did I Lose My Faith... Or Did I Find It?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon, trauma therapist and founder of Embrace Your Brave, shares her journey through spiritual deconstruction, religious trauma, and rebuilding faith in a more authentic way.</p><p>Explore topics like leaving fear-based belief systems, trusting your intuition, healing from shame, and redefining your relationship with God, spirituality, and personal identity. This episode is for anyone navigating deconstruction, questioning religion, or seeking emotional healing, self-trust, and deeper human connection.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon, trauma therapist and founder of Embrace Your Brave, shares her journey through spiritual deconstruction, religious trauma, and rebuilding faith in a more authentic way.</p><p>Explore topics like leaving fear-based belief systems, trusting your intuition, healing from shame, and redefining your relationship with God, spirituality, and personal identity. This episode is for anyone navigating deconstruction, questioning religion, or seeking emotional healing, self-trust, and deeper human connection.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b7ac5477-249e-4cab-910b-42963df554f7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b7ac5477-249e-4cab-910b-42963df554f7.mp3" length="11233474" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:22</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>38</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/a40032f7-340d-4aa5-93cd-a2db147f08ba/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>You’re Not Meant to Heal Alone: The Power of Community in Trauma Recovery</title><itunes:title>You’re Not Meant to Heal Alone: The Power of Community in Trauma Recovery</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if the key to healing isn’t doing more alone—but being seen by others? In this episode, Dawn Bouillon and Brooke dive into the transformative power of community, from reducing isolation to accelerating emotional healing. Learn how shared experiences normalize your story, reveal hidden patterns, and create real breakthroughs—especially for those navigating narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships</p><p></p><p>Visit the group here. https://embraceyourbrave.org/reclaiming-you-therapy-group</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if the key to healing isn’t doing more alone—but being seen by others? In this episode, Dawn Bouillon and Brooke dive into the transformative power of community, from reducing isolation to accelerating emotional healing. Learn how shared experiences normalize your story, reveal hidden patterns, and create real breakthroughs—especially for those navigating narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships</p><p></p><p>Visit the group here. https://embraceyourbrave.org/reclaiming-you-therapy-group</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">2a98b5c0-5cb1-4361-a9b7-839727e4f6f9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 23:30:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2a98b5c0-5cb1-4361-a9b7-839727e4f6f9.mp3" length="14220850" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>37</podcast:episode></item><item><title>From Chaos to Clarity: Reclaiming Your Power and Inner Connection</title><itunes:title>From Chaos to Clarity: Reclaiming Your Power and Inner Connection</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In a world that feels increasingly uncertain, chaotic, and unstable, how do you stay grounded?</p><p>In this powerful conversation, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon and guest Brooke explore what it means to navigate life when the systems we once trusted no longer feel reliable. Together, they dive into the growing sense of collective awakening, the breakdown of old structures, and why reconnecting to yourself is more important than ever.</p><p>This episode unpacks:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why the world feels like it’s unraveling—and what that really means</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The importance of reconnecting to your body, emotions, and intuition</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How disconnection happens (and why so many people feel lost right now)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The role of healing, coaching, and safe spaces in personal transformation</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What it truly means to live from your authentic self</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How individual healing contributes to collective healing</li></ol><br/><p>If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, questioning everything, or sensing that something deeper is shifting—this conversation will help you anchor back into yourself.</p><p>Your healing starts with you. Your power is you. And your story matters.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a world that feels increasingly uncertain, chaotic, and unstable, how do you stay grounded?</p><p>In this powerful conversation, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon and guest Brooke explore what it means to navigate life when the systems we once trusted no longer feel reliable. Together, they dive into the growing sense of collective awakening, the breakdown of old structures, and why reconnecting to yourself is more important than ever.</p><p>This episode unpacks:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why the world feels like it’s unraveling—and what that really means</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The importance of reconnecting to your body, emotions, and intuition</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How disconnection happens (and why so many people feel lost right now)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The role of healing, coaching, and safe spaces in personal transformation</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What it truly means to live from your authentic self</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How individual healing contributes to collective healing</li></ol><br/><p>If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, questioning everything, or sensing that something deeper is shifting—this conversation will help you anchor back into yourself.</p><p>Your healing starts with you. Your power is you. And your story matters.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">22dd4b43-3361-4501-8c14-381d130f980e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/22dd4b43-3361-4501-8c14-381d130f980e.mp3" length="17274754" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>20:34</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>36</podcast:episode></item><item><title>A Heartfelt  Conversation Between Dawn and Brooke</title><itunes:title>A Heartfelt  Conversation Between Dawn and Brooke</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What does it really cost to stay in environments that require you to abandon yourself?</p><p>In this honest and unscripted conversation, trauma therapist Dawn Bouillion sits down with podcast producer Brooke Haynes to reflect on the deeper purpose of Not That Girl Anymore. Together they explore what it means to show up authentically, why awareness is the first step toward healing, and the painful but powerful journey of reclaiming your voice after trauma.</p><p>Dawn shares why this podcast exists: to reach the women who grew up believing their story, their pain, and their dreams didn’t matter—and remind them that they absolutely do.</p><p>They also talk about:</p><p>• The hidden cost of staying in toxic systems</p><p>• Why leaving can feel terrifying—but losing yourself costs more</p><p>• The loneliness that can come with personal awakening</p><p>• How awareness and inspiration lead to real change</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like your voice didn’t matter or that you had to sacrifice yourself to belong, this episode is for you.</p><p>You are not alone. And you are not that girl anymore.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does it really cost to stay in environments that require you to abandon yourself?</p><p>In this honest and unscripted conversation, trauma therapist Dawn Bouillion sits down with podcast producer Brooke Haynes to reflect on the deeper purpose of Not That Girl Anymore. Together they explore what it means to show up authentically, why awareness is the first step toward healing, and the painful but powerful journey of reclaiming your voice after trauma.</p><p>Dawn shares why this podcast exists: to reach the women who grew up believing their story, their pain, and their dreams didn’t matter—and remind them that they absolutely do.</p><p>They also talk about:</p><p>• The hidden cost of staying in toxic systems</p><p>• Why leaving can feel terrifying—but losing yourself costs more</p><p>• The loneliness that can come with personal awakening</p><p>• How awareness and inspiration lead to real change</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like your voice didn’t matter or that you had to sacrifice yourself to belong, this episode is for you.</p><p>You are not alone. And you are not that girl anymore.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">eb477650-cb42-4b8b-b822-1f2fc6507dc6</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/eb477650-cb42-4b8b-b822-1f2fc6507dc6.mp3" length="14165746" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:52</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>35</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/59455dd3-a30e-44d8-a2a6-70efb866961d/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Cost of Waking Up: Grief, Freedom, and the Courage to See Clearly</title><itunes:title>The Cost of Waking Up: Grief, Freedom, and the Courage to See Clearly</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong>, founder of <strong>Embrace Your Brave</strong>, explores the emotional cost of waking up to difficult truths about the systems, relationships, and beliefs we once trusted.</p><p>While awakening is often described as empowering, it can also bring grief, betrayal, and the painful realization that the people or environments we trusted were not safe. Dawn shares why this process can feel disorienting, why many people grieve lost time and misplaced trust, and how reconnecting with your inner voice is a crucial step in healing.</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned your beliefs, experienced betrayal trauma, or found yourself rebuilding your life after leaving a controlling or unhealthy environment, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and encouragement.</p><p>Because waking up has a cost.</p><p> But staying asleep can cost you yourself.</p><p>trauma recovery, betrayal trauma healing, religious trauma recovery, narcissistic abuse healing, waking up from manipulation, reclaiming your voice, healing after toxic relationships, trauma therapist podcast, emotional healing for women, personal awakening journey, leaving controlling systems</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong>, founder of <strong>Embrace Your Brave</strong>, explores the emotional cost of waking up to difficult truths about the systems, relationships, and beliefs we once trusted.</p><p>While awakening is often described as empowering, it can also bring grief, betrayal, and the painful realization that the people or environments we trusted were not safe. Dawn shares why this process can feel disorienting, why many people grieve lost time and misplaced trust, and how reconnecting with your inner voice is a crucial step in healing.</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned your beliefs, experienced betrayal trauma, or found yourself rebuilding your life after leaving a controlling or unhealthy environment, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and encouragement.</p><p>Because waking up has a cost.</p><p> But staying asleep can cost you yourself.</p><p>trauma recovery, betrayal trauma healing, religious trauma recovery, narcissistic abuse healing, waking up from manipulation, reclaiming your voice, healing after toxic relationships, trauma therapist podcast, emotional healing for women, personal awakening journey, leaving controlling systems</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5e662b6e-7623-4130-97e5-5f6306480fac</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5e662b6e-7623-4130-97e5-5f6306480fac.mp3" length="13913074" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:34</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>34</podcast:episode></item><item><title>I Believe You</title><itunes:title>I Believe You</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon explores what true empathy looks like when someone says, “I was abused.” Why do so many survivors face a second wound—not being believed—after the initial harm? How can we respond in ways that create safety instead of silence?</p><p>Through heartfelt reflection and cultural commentary, this episode addresses victim blaming, sexual abuse disclosure, collective trauma, and the emotional impact of not being believed. Dawn unpacks how society conditions women to prevent harm while often failing to hold perpetrators accountable—and why staying human requires us to lean in, not look away.</p><p>If you’ve ever struggled with how to respond to abuse disclosures, questioned your own story, or want to become a safer, more empathetic person, this conversation offers trauma-informed insight, healing validation, and practical perspective.</p><p>Topics include:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How to respond when someone says “This happened to me”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The psychology of abuse disclosure and survivor vulnerability</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The cultural impact of victim blaming</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Collective trauma and current headlines</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “I believe you” can change someone’s life</li></ol><br/><p>This episode is for survivors, allies, therapists, coaches, and anyone committed to empathy, accountability, and emotional safety.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon explores what true empathy looks like when someone says, “I was abused.” Why do so many survivors face a second wound—not being believed—after the initial harm? How can we respond in ways that create safety instead of silence?</p><p>Through heartfelt reflection and cultural commentary, this episode addresses victim blaming, sexual abuse disclosure, collective trauma, and the emotional impact of not being believed. Dawn unpacks how society conditions women to prevent harm while often failing to hold perpetrators accountable—and why staying human requires us to lean in, not look away.</p><p>If you’ve ever struggled with how to respond to abuse disclosures, questioned your own story, or want to become a safer, more empathetic person, this conversation offers trauma-informed insight, healing validation, and practical perspective.</p><p>Topics include:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How to respond when someone says “This happened to me”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The psychology of abuse disclosure and survivor vulnerability</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The cultural impact of victim blaming</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Collective trauma and current headlines</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “I believe you” can change someone’s life</li></ol><br/><p>This episode is for survivors, allies, therapists, coaches, and anyone committed to empathy, accountability, and emotional safety.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">aab4f7e9-95f4-42eb-b71e-8f9d9486cdd2</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/aab4f7e9-95f4-42eb-b71e-8f9d9486cdd2.mp3" length="11549986" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>33</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b2cef9de-68f2-4b2d-9247-381f35a228ab/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Don&apos;t Look Away; Racism, Abuse, and Protecting Our Kids</title><itunes:title>Don&apos;t Look Away; Racism, Abuse, and Protecting Our Kids</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week on <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist Dawn Bouillon shares a deeply personal reflection on talking to her daughters about abuse, racism, and the cultural headlines impacting children.</p><p>How do we teach our kids to stay human in a world that often rewards silence?</p><p>How do we talk about injustice without teaching them to look away?</p><p>Dawn explores trauma reactivation, collective grief, protecting children, and why believing victims matters. If you’ve been feeling heavy or activated by recent events, you’re not alone — your nervous system remembers.</p><p>Stay human. Don’t look away.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week on <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist Dawn Bouillon shares a deeply personal reflection on talking to her daughters about abuse, racism, and the cultural headlines impacting children.</p><p>How do we teach our kids to stay human in a world that often rewards silence?</p><p>How do we talk about injustice without teaching them to look away?</p><p>Dawn explores trauma reactivation, collective grief, protecting children, and why believing victims matters. If you’ve been feeling heavy or activated by recent events, you’re not alone — your nervous system remembers.</p><p>Stay human. Don’t look away.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8cac2ba8-e251-4414-9fdb-697cb4719741</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8cac2ba8-e251-4414-9fdb-697cb4719741.mp3" length="13048882" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>15:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>32</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/42f93054-13cb-4ecd-b247-8128e068bac2/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Empathy is Called a Sin</title><itunes:title>When Empathy is Called a Sin</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>When empathy is labeled weakness, humanity is at risk. A trauma therapist unpacks faith, fear, moral injury, and the cost of silencing compassion.</p><p>In this powerful and deeply compassionate episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon addresses a growing and unsettling cultural narrative: the idea that empathy is weakness, manipulation, or even sin. Speaking from both clinical expertise and lived experience, Dawn unpacks how empathy has been distorted—particularly in faith-based spaces—and why framing compassion as moral failure causes real psychological, spiritual, and collective harm. This episode explores the difference between empathy and agreement, discernment and fear, obedience and humanity. Dawn connects empathy to nervous system attunement, moral injury, and trauma, revealing how suppressing compassion trains people to distrust their own conscience and disconnect from their bodies. With honesty and humility, she shares her own story of being taught to override love in the name of faith—and the profound healing that began when she trusted her empathy again. This conversation is for anyone wrestling with faith, deconstruction, moral injury, spiritual trauma, or the exhaustion of trying to stay human in a hardened world. If you feel tender, conflicted, or deeply affected by suffering—and have been told that means you’re weak—this episode is a grounding reminder: empathy is not a flaw. It is wisdom, humanity, and courage.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When empathy is labeled weakness, humanity is at risk. A trauma therapist unpacks faith, fear, moral injury, and the cost of silencing compassion.</p><p>In this powerful and deeply compassionate episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon addresses a growing and unsettling cultural narrative: the idea that empathy is weakness, manipulation, or even sin. Speaking from both clinical expertise and lived experience, Dawn unpacks how empathy has been distorted—particularly in faith-based spaces—and why framing compassion as moral failure causes real psychological, spiritual, and collective harm. This episode explores the difference between empathy and agreement, discernment and fear, obedience and humanity. Dawn connects empathy to nervous system attunement, moral injury, and trauma, revealing how suppressing compassion trains people to distrust their own conscience and disconnect from their bodies. With honesty and humility, she shares her own story of being taught to override love in the name of faith—and the profound healing that began when she trusted her empathy again. This conversation is for anyone wrestling with faith, deconstruction, moral injury, spiritual trauma, or the exhaustion of trying to stay human in a hardened world. If you feel tender, conflicted, or deeply affected by suffering—and have been told that means you’re weak—this episode is a grounding reminder: empathy is not a flaw. It is wisdom, humanity, and courage.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3573a9b3-6cf8-482a-889d-f2511534fa59</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3573a9b3-6cf8-482a-889d-f2511534fa59.mp3" length="14983234" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>31</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/c6d2fb18-60dd-4d9f-9ac0-983ff637c5c8/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 3); How Strong Women Get Caught Up in Abuse</title><itunes:title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 3); How Strong Women Get Caught Up in Abuse</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Why Strong Women Get Caught in Abuse</strong></p><p><em>When Love Becomes Control — Part 3</em></p><p>In Part 3 of our <em>When Love Becomes Control</em> series, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon answers one of the most painful and confusing questions so many women ask themselves:</p><p><strong>“How did I end up here?”</strong></p><p>This episode gently dismantles the myth that abuse happens because a woman is weak, naïve, or unaware. Instead, Dawn explores the hard truth: <strong>abuse often targets strength</strong>—empathy, loyalty, endurance, emotional intelligence, and the ability to carry a lot without falling apart.</p><p>You’ll learn how survival skills developed early in life can be weaponized in controlling relationships, how psychological layering quietly deepens over time, and why clarity alone doesn’t always create the capacity to leave. Through a trauma-informed lens, this conversation explains how the nervous system prioritizes survival and familiarity over freedom—until safety is present.</p><p>If you’ve ever blamed yourself for staying, hoped someone would love you back into safety, or wondered why your strength didn’t protect you, this episode is for you.</p><p>This is not about becoming stronger.</p><p>It’s about becoming safer.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Why Strong Women Get Caught in Abuse</strong></p><p><em>When Love Becomes Control — Part 3</em></p><p>In Part 3 of our <em>When Love Becomes Control</em> series, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon answers one of the most painful and confusing questions so many women ask themselves:</p><p><strong>“How did I end up here?”</strong></p><p>This episode gently dismantles the myth that abuse happens because a woman is weak, naïve, or unaware. Instead, Dawn explores the hard truth: <strong>abuse often targets strength</strong>—empathy, loyalty, endurance, emotional intelligence, and the ability to carry a lot without falling apart.</p><p>You’ll learn how survival skills developed early in life can be weaponized in controlling relationships, how psychological layering quietly deepens over time, and why clarity alone doesn’t always create the capacity to leave. Through a trauma-informed lens, this conversation explains how the nervous system prioritizes survival and familiarity over freedom—until safety is present.</p><p>If you’ve ever blamed yourself for staying, hoped someone would love you back into safety, or wondered why your strength didn’t protect you, this episode is for you.</p><p>This is not about becoming stronger.</p><p>It’s about becoming safer.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3e97491e-4ed1-4a06-ad87-374366cb44a4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2026 08:19:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3e97491e-4ed1-4a06-ad87-374366cb44a4.mp3" length="15475474" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>18:25</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>30</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/1710790f-d20a-4815-bdda-0a9a28d8bfb7/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 2): How Coercive Control Rewires the Brain — and How We Heal (SGB Shot &amp; A.R.T.)</title><itunes:title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 2): How Coercive Control Rewires the Brain — and How We Heal (SGB Shot &amp; A.R.T.)</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dawn Bouillon delves deeper into the effects of psychological abuse on the body and mind, exploring how trauma responses manifest physically and emotionally. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the nervous system's role in trauma and discusses various healing modalities, including somatic therapies and medical interventions, to aid recovery. The conversation highlights the significance of restoring safety and trust in the healing process, encouraging survivors to embrace their journey towards empowerment and self-acceptance.</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Abuse involves subtle tactics that stack together.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The nervous system learns to survive through trauma responses.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trauma bonding creates a chemical loop in the brain.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Healing requires more than just talk therapy.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Somatic therapies can effectively address trauma stored in the body.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The SGB shot can provide relief for trauma responses.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Healing is about restoring safety and trust in the body.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Small moments of self-care teach the body safety.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You are healing at the speed of trust you restore.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You are not that girl anymore; you are becoming empowered.</li></ol><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dawn Bouillon delves deeper into the effects of psychological abuse on the body and mind, exploring how trauma responses manifest physically and emotionally. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the nervous system's role in trauma and discusses various healing modalities, including somatic therapies and medical interventions, to aid recovery. The conversation highlights the significance of restoring safety and trust in the healing process, encouraging survivors to embrace their journey towards empowerment and self-acceptance.</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Abuse involves subtle tactics that stack together.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The nervous system learns to survive through trauma responses.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trauma bonding creates a chemical loop in the brain.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Healing requires more than just talk therapy.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Somatic therapies can effectively address trauma stored in the body.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The SGB shot can provide relief for trauma responses.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Healing is about restoring safety and trust in the body.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Small moments of self-care teach the body safety.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You are healing at the speed of trust you restore.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You are not that girl anymore; you are becoming empowered.</li></ol><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">33592dca-66d2-44e2-840a-87101bc4936b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/33592dca-66d2-44e2-840a-87101bc4936b.mp3" length="17164210" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>20:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>29</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/de8ca70d-d044-4597-9f67-7904ea5d0684/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 1): Psychological Layering and Coercive Control in Relationships</title><itunes:title>When Love Becomes Control (Part 1): Psychological Layering and Coercive Control in Relationships</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In Part 1 of Dawn Bouillon’s new 3-part series <strong>“When Love Becomes Control: Understanding Psychological Abuse,”</strong> Dawn breaks down why coercive control is so often missed—and why it can leave strong, capable women feeling confused, trapped, and disconnected from themselves even when there are no visible bruises.</p><p>She introduces the idea of <strong>psychological layering</strong>: a stack of subtle tactics that, over time, creates an invisible “cage” where you begin <strong>policing yourself</strong> to stay safe. Dawn walks through key layers like <strong>gaslighting</strong> (controlling your reality), <strong>intermittent reinforcement</strong> (the addictive cycle that fuels trauma bonds), <strong>identity erosion</strong> (shrinking your voice, needs, and dreams), <strong>isolation</strong>, <strong>fear conditioning</strong>, and <strong>spiritual control</strong>—especially when faith language is used to shame or trap someone into staying.</p><p>Most importantly, Dawn reframes the painful thought of “I chose this” with compassion and clarity: survival inside coercive control is not the same as true choice. This episode is an empowering starting point for anyone trying to make sense of what happened, support someone they love, or begin healing by learning to trust their perceptions, body, and boundaries again.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In Part 1 of Dawn Bouillon’s new 3-part series <strong>“When Love Becomes Control: Understanding Psychological Abuse,”</strong> Dawn breaks down why coercive control is so often missed—and why it can leave strong, capable women feeling confused, trapped, and disconnected from themselves even when there are no visible bruises.</p><p>She introduces the idea of <strong>psychological layering</strong>: a stack of subtle tactics that, over time, creates an invisible “cage” where you begin <strong>policing yourself</strong> to stay safe. Dawn walks through key layers like <strong>gaslighting</strong> (controlling your reality), <strong>intermittent reinforcement</strong> (the addictive cycle that fuels trauma bonds), <strong>identity erosion</strong> (shrinking your voice, needs, and dreams), <strong>isolation</strong>, <strong>fear conditioning</strong>, and <strong>spiritual control</strong>—especially when faith language is used to shame or trap someone into staying.</p><p>Most importantly, Dawn reframes the painful thought of “I chose this” with compassion and clarity: survival inside coercive control is not the same as true choice. This episode is an empowering starting point for anyone trying to make sense of what happened, support someone they love, or begin healing by learning to trust their perceptions, body, and boundaries again.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f50a33d7-9f6c-4216-b476-d142220467d9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f50a33d7-9f6c-4216-b476-d142220467d9.mp3" length="14662354" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:27</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7603b05a-f0ff-4ecb-8b9c-af6c8c6721d4/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>High-Conflict Divorce Isn&apos;t High Conflict - It&apos;s Coercive Control with Special Guest Susie Miller Wendel</title><itunes:title>High-Conflict Divorce Isn&apos;t High Conflict - It&apos;s Coercive Control with Special Guest Susie Miller Wendel</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>High-conflict divorce is often misunderstood—and misnamed. In this episode of <strong>Not That Girl Anymore</strong>, trauma therapist and Embrace Your Brave founder <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong> sits down with author and trauma recovery practitioner <strong>Susie Miller Wendel</strong> (creator of <em>Nurturing After Narcissism</em>) to unpack what’s really happening beneath “high conflict”: <strong>coercive control that continues after separation</strong>.</p><p>Together, they explore why abuse frequently <strong>escalates post-separation</strong>, how the family court system can inadvertently reward abusive dynamics, and why traditional “co-parenting” often isn’t possible with a narcissistic or coercively controlling ex. Susie shares practical frameworks—including <strong>parallel parenting</strong>, <strong>Grey Rock/Yellow Rock communication</strong>, and how to protect your peace so you can be the <strong>safe, stable parent</strong> your children need.</p><p>If you’re navigating a custody battle, post-separation abuse, or the fallout of narcissistic family systems, this conversation offers language, validation, and grounded next steps—plus a reminder: <strong>you have more power than you think</strong>.</p><p>narcissistic abuse, narcissism, trauma therapy, trauma recovery, healing journey, women’s healing, nervous system regulation, boundaries, self-worth, empowerment</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>High-conflict divorce is often misunderstood—and misnamed. In this episode of <strong>Not That Girl Anymore</strong>, trauma therapist and Embrace Your Brave founder <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong> sits down with author and trauma recovery practitioner <strong>Susie Miller Wendel</strong> (creator of <em>Nurturing After Narcissism</em>) to unpack what’s really happening beneath “high conflict”: <strong>coercive control that continues after separation</strong>.</p><p>Together, they explore why abuse frequently <strong>escalates post-separation</strong>, how the family court system can inadvertently reward abusive dynamics, and why traditional “co-parenting” often isn’t possible with a narcissistic or coercively controlling ex. Susie shares practical frameworks—including <strong>parallel parenting</strong>, <strong>Grey Rock/Yellow Rock communication</strong>, and how to protect your peace so you can be the <strong>safe, stable parent</strong> your children need.</p><p>If you’re navigating a custody battle, post-separation abuse, or the fallout of narcissistic family systems, this conversation offers language, validation, and grounded next steps—plus a reminder: <strong>you have more power than you think</strong>.</p><p>narcissistic abuse, narcissism, trauma therapy, trauma recovery, healing journey, women’s healing, nervous system regulation, boundaries, self-worth, empowerment</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8613d4ed-2afc-4923-9c79-696c4a15829b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8613d4ed-2afc-4923-9c79-696c4a15829b.mp3" length="35883682" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>49:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode></item><item><title>Living in Alignment</title><itunes:title>Living in Alignment</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>What does it actually mean to live in alignment—and why do so many women feel exhausted, disconnected, or stuck even when life looks “fine” on the outside?</strong></p><p>In the first episode of 2026, Dawn Bouillon is joined by somatic practitioner and collaborator Dottie Griffin for a powerful conversation about <em>living in alignment</em>—not as a mindset shift, but as a whole-person experience.</p><p>Together, they explore why misalignment isn’t a failure, but a survival strategy—and how living out of alignment often shows up as chronic anxiety, people-pleasing, exhaustion, resentment, and feeling like life is on autopilot. Dottie introduces a simple but profound framework for alignment: <strong>mind, body, heart, and spirit moving in the same direction</strong>.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why saying “yes” when you mean “no” is one of the clearest signs of misalignment</li><li>How your body communicates misalignment long before your mind catches up</li><li>The difference between mindset work and true embodied alignment</li><li>Why many women were conditioned to abandon their intuition to stay safe or accepted</li><li>What begins to shift when you stop betraying yourself to keep the peace</li><li>How alignment leads to clarity, energy, confidence, and authentic connection</li></ul><br/><p>This conversation is an invitation—not to become someone new—but to <strong>return to who you already are</strong>.</p><p>If your body responded while listening… if something inside whispered <em>this is me</em>… trust that.</p><p>You’re not that girl anymore.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What does it actually mean to live in alignment—and why do so many women feel exhausted, disconnected, or stuck even when life looks “fine” on the outside?</strong></p><p>In the first episode of 2026, Dawn Bouillon is joined by somatic practitioner and collaborator Dottie Griffin for a powerful conversation about <em>living in alignment</em>—not as a mindset shift, but as a whole-person experience.</p><p>Together, they explore why misalignment isn’t a failure, but a survival strategy—and how living out of alignment often shows up as chronic anxiety, people-pleasing, exhaustion, resentment, and feeling like life is on autopilot. Dottie introduces a simple but profound framework for alignment: <strong>mind, body, heart, and spirit moving in the same direction</strong>.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why saying “yes” when you mean “no” is one of the clearest signs of misalignment</li><li>How your body communicates misalignment long before your mind catches up</li><li>The difference between mindset work and true embodied alignment</li><li>Why many women were conditioned to abandon their intuition to stay safe or accepted</li><li>What begins to shift when you stop betraying yourself to keep the peace</li><li>How alignment leads to clarity, energy, confidence, and authentic connection</li></ul><br/><p>This conversation is an invitation—not to become someone new—but to <strong>return to who you already are</strong>.</p><p>If your body responded while listening… if something inside whispered <em>this is me</em>… trust that.</p><p>You’re not that girl anymore.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">dc86caa0-bbb9-47ff-94ca-a3fd3f6a666f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/dc86caa0-bbb9-47ff-94ca-a3fd3f6a666f.mp3" length="31974082" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:24</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7d05b86b-d60e-46e2-a6f6-cce035557f02/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Special New Year’s Eve Edition; Becoming Her</title><itunes:title>Special New Year’s Eve Edition; Becoming Her</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As the year comes to a close, this final episode of the <em>Braving the Holidays</em> series offers a gentler way to step into what’s next.</p><p>Host Dawn Bouillon, joined by Dottie Griffin and Ashley Woodard, invites you to pause at the doorway between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming—without pressure, resolutions, or fixing yourself.</p><p>Together, they reflect on:</p><ol><li>Honoring what this year has held</li><li>Letting go of people-pleasing and shame</li><li>Learning to trust your body, your story, and your inner voice</li><li>Choosing alignment over approval</li><li>Becoming more of who you already are—gently</li></ol><br/><p>This conversation weaves personal reflection, healing insights, somatic grounding, and intention-setting into a safe, spacious moment for anyone navigating grief, growth, complicated family dynamics, or a quiet desire for something more aligned.</p><p>If the new year feels loud, heavy, or overwhelming, this episode is an invitation to slow down, choose yourself, and remember: you matter—and healing is allowed to be soft.</p><p>Happy New Year from <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As the year comes to a close, this final episode of the <em>Braving the Holidays</em> series offers a gentler way to step into what’s next.</p><p>Host Dawn Bouillon, joined by Dottie Griffin and Ashley Woodard, invites you to pause at the doorway between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming—without pressure, resolutions, or fixing yourself.</p><p>Together, they reflect on:</p><ol><li>Honoring what this year has held</li><li>Letting go of people-pleasing and shame</li><li>Learning to trust your body, your story, and your inner voice</li><li>Choosing alignment over approval</li><li>Becoming more of who you already are—gently</li></ol><br/><p>This conversation weaves personal reflection, healing insights, somatic grounding, and intention-setting into a safe, spacious moment for anyone navigating grief, growth, complicated family dynamics, or a quiet desire for something more aligned.</p><p>If the new year feels loud, heavy, or overwhelming, this episode is an invitation to slow down, choose yourself, and remember: you matter—and healing is allowed to be soft.</p><p>Happy New Year from <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fe31a831-e978-4c7c-9e69-0d5a1deb3ed2</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/fe31a831-e978-4c7c-9e69-0d5a1deb3ed2.mp3" length="28157218" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>39:06</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0e55796c-e690-4dc2-a28b-4f18fe94ce8e/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Braving the Holidays; 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In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillion is joined by Dottie Griffin and Ashley Woodard for an honest conversation about braving the holidays with gentleness, presence, and self-compassion.</p><p>They explore grief, pressure, people-pleasing, and the longing for connection, while offering grounding practices and reminders that your worth isn’t earned through performance. This episode is a soft place to land—permission to slow down, protect your peace, and honor where you are.</p><p>You’re not alone. You don’t have to be perfect. And you’re braving this season in real time.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The holidays can be beautiful—and deeply tender. In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillion is joined by Dottie Griffin and Ashley Woodard for an honest conversation about braving the holidays with gentleness, presence, and self-compassion.</p><p>They explore grief, pressure, people-pleasing, and the longing for connection, while offering grounding practices and reminders that your worth isn’t earned through performance. This episode is a soft place to land—permission to slow down, protect your peace, and honor where you are.</p><p>You’re not alone. You don’t have to be perfect. And you’re braving this season in real time.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5ca4c6f2-d8b7-4ac6-8963-dcb70ea37a68</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5ca4c6f2-d8b7-4ac6-8963-dcb70ea37a68.mp3" length="26055394" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>36:11</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5cd4dc82-c00a-48bf-8172-4fc1e5f871bf/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Braving the Holidays (Ep. 3) Navigating Grief in the Season of Joy</title><itunes:title>Braving the Holidays (Ep. 3) Navigating Grief in the Season of Joy</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>The holidays can magnify loss, heartache, and the lives we no longer have. In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillion—trauma therapist and coach—speaks gently and honestly about grief during the holidays.</p><p>This episode is for anyone:</p><ul><li>Missing a loved one</li><li>Grieving a relationship, marriage, or version of life that’s gone</li><li>Feeling pressure to be “okay” when they’re not</li></ul><br/><p>Grief isn’t something we get over—it’s something we learn to carry. Together, we explore how to honor grief without judgment, create meaningful rituals, set boundaries, and care for your nervous system during a season that can feel overwhelming.</p><p>You are not broken. You are grieving—and that makes sense.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The holidays can magnify loss, heartache, and the lives we no longer have. In this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillion—trauma therapist and coach—speaks gently and honestly about grief during the holidays.</p><p>This episode is for anyone:</p><ul><li>Missing a loved one</li><li>Grieving a relationship, marriage, or version of life that’s gone</li><li>Feeling pressure to be “okay” when they’re not</li></ul><br/><p>Grief isn’t something we get over—it’s something we learn to carry. Together, we explore how to honor grief without judgment, create meaningful rituals, set boundaries, and care for your nervous system during a season that can feel overwhelming.</p><p>You are not broken. You are grieving—and that makes sense.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4151d009-9eb8-4e36-93fa-409bc28bb67c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4151d009-9eb8-4e36-93fa-409bc28bb67c.mp3" length="14903602" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/17014de6-9fbe-41e0-a07f-8c1dccd0369f/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Braving the Holidays (Ep. 2) Christmas with Narcissists</title><itunes:title>Braving the Holidays (Ep. 2) Christmas with Narcissists</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillion&nbsp;unpacks why Christmas can feel overwhelming, heavy, or emotionally unsafe for survivors of narcissistic or dysregulated family systems.</p><p>If you feel that familiar knot in your stomach as the holidays approach, this conversation reminds you: <em>you’re not imagining it, you’re not dramatic, and you’re not alone.</em></p><p>Dawn breaks down:</p><ul><li>Why the holidays activate old survival roles (caretaker, scapegoat, lost child, golden child)</li><li>How narcissistic dynamics escalate around Christmas</li><li>Why joy threatens a narcissist — and why your joy matters</li><li>Trauma reactivation in the nervous system</li><li>How guilt, confusion, and cognitive dissonance keep you stuck</li><li>Real-life examples of emotional sabotage, chaos, triangulation, and boundary-punishment</li><li>How to choose safety, boundaries, and self-care without apology</li></ul><br/><p>You’ll also learn practical tools to protect your peace this holiday season—lowering expectations, limiting exposure, regulating your body, and creating new rituals that honor your healing.</p><p>This Christmas, your healing, your peace, and your joy matter. And you're not that girl anymore.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillion&nbsp;unpacks why Christmas can feel overwhelming, heavy, or emotionally unsafe for survivors of narcissistic or dysregulated family systems.</p><p>If you feel that familiar knot in your stomach as the holidays approach, this conversation reminds you: <em>you’re not imagining it, you’re not dramatic, and you’re not alone.</em></p><p>Dawn breaks down:</p><ul><li>Why the holidays activate old survival roles (caretaker, scapegoat, lost child, golden child)</li><li>How narcissistic dynamics escalate around Christmas</li><li>Why joy threatens a narcissist — and why your joy matters</li><li>Trauma reactivation in the nervous system</li><li>How guilt, confusion, and cognitive dissonance keep you stuck</li><li>Real-life examples of emotional sabotage, chaos, triangulation, and boundary-punishment</li><li>How to choose safety, boundaries, and self-care without apology</li></ul><br/><p>You’ll also learn practical tools to protect your peace this holiday season—lowering expectations, limiting exposure, regulating your body, and creating new rituals that honor your healing.</p><p>This Christmas, your healing, your peace, and your joy matter. And you're not that girl anymore.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a5d6df31-f624-459a-8439-ad8e049efb05</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a5d6df31-f624-459a-8439-ad8e049efb05.mp3" length="18896626" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:30</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/a7908bd6-7891-4fe0-917a-136c02c21a1a/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Braving The Holidays (Ep 1) Boundaries &amp; Protecting Your Peace</title><itunes:title>Braving The Holidays (Ep 1) Boundaries &amp; Protecting Your Peace</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>IIn this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon is joined by guests Ashley Woodard and Dottie Griffin for an honest, heartfelt conversation about why the holiday season can feel overwhelming for so many women—and what you can actually do about it.</p><p>Together, they unpack:</p><ul><li>How perfectionism gets activated during the holidays</li><li>Why old family roles (the fixer, the peacekeeper, the helper, the scapegoat) resurface</li><li>The pressure to create “magical moments,” match social media standards, and please everyone</li><li>How guilt tricks you into overextending yourself</li><li>Practical boundaries you can set around time, emotions, capacity, and family dynamics</li><li>Why saying “no” (without explanation) is often the most loving choice</li><li>How to honor your own joy, needs, peace, and traditions</li><li>Permission to create a holiday that feels good <em>to you</em>, not just good for others</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is a guide to reclaiming your holiday from burnout, resentment, and pressure—and stepping into a season defined by authenticity, presence, and peace.</p><p>Because it’s your holiday, too. And you’re not that girl anymore.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>IIn this episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn Bouillon is joined by guests Ashley Woodard and Dottie Griffin for an honest, heartfelt conversation about why the holiday season can feel overwhelming for so many women—and what you can actually do about it.</p><p>Together, they unpack:</p><ul><li>How perfectionism gets activated during the holidays</li><li>Why old family roles (the fixer, the peacekeeper, the helper, the scapegoat) resurface</li><li>The pressure to create “magical moments,” match social media standards, and please everyone</li><li>How guilt tricks you into overextending yourself</li><li>Practical boundaries you can set around time, emotions, capacity, and family dynamics</li><li>Why saying “no” (without explanation) is often the most loving choice</li><li>How to honor your own joy, needs, peace, and traditions</li><li>Permission to create a holiday that feels good <em>to you</em>, not just good for others</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is a guide to reclaiming your holiday from burnout, resentment, and pressure—and stepping into a season defined by authenticity, presence, and peace.</p><p>Because it’s your holiday, too. And you’re not that girl anymore.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fade980f-faa6-4a86-968c-330523e7ecff</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/fade980f-faa6-4a86-968c-330523e7ecff.mp3" length="22545250" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/61ac0dae-74f3-4ab0-98bf-35a23d128591/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Gap Brain, Gain Brain</title><itunes:title>Gap Brain, Gain Brain</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful and deeply affirming episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn welcomes Dottie and Ashley for a transformative conversation on one of the most life-changing mindset shifts in healing: <strong>Gap Brain vs. Gain Brain</strong>.</p><p>Dottie explains how “gap brain” keeps us focused on everything we <em>haven’t</em> accomplished—how far we still have to go, what’s missing, and all the ways we think we’re falling short. For trauma survivors especially, this mindset often comes from old survival strategies and perfectionistic patterns rooted in childhood.</p><p>But there’s another way.</p><p>“Gain brain” invites us to look backward instead of forward—to measure our progress by how far we’ve already come. To celebrate small steps. To honor resilience. To slow down, breathe deeper, and build confidence from the inside out.</p><p>Together, Dawn, Dottie, and Ashley unpack:</p><ul><li>The emotional and somatic differences between gap brain and gain brain</li><li>Why perfectionism can’t survive inside a gain-brain mindset</li><li>How celebrating tiny steps rewires self-worth and nervous system safety</li><li>The role of community and supportive relationships in sustaining healing</li><li>Real-life stories of how shifting this mindset transforms marriages, friendships, parenting, and self-trust</li></ul><br/><p>As the holidays approach, the trio invites listeners to reflect on <strong>who they were a year ago</strong> and recognize just how far they’ve already come.</p><p>This episode is equal parts grounding, inspiring, and deeply compassionate.</p><p>A reminder that:</p><p>✨ <em>You matter. Your story matters. Your healing matters.</em></p><p>✨ And you truly are <em>not that girl anymore.</em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful and deeply affirming episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, Dawn welcomes Dottie and Ashley for a transformative conversation on one of the most life-changing mindset shifts in healing: <strong>Gap Brain vs. Gain Brain</strong>.</p><p>Dottie explains how “gap brain” keeps us focused on everything we <em>haven’t</em> accomplished—how far we still have to go, what’s missing, and all the ways we think we’re falling short. For trauma survivors especially, this mindset often comes from old survival strategies and perfectionistic patterns rooted in childhood.</p><p>But there’s another way.</p><p>“Gain brain” invites us to look backward instead of forward—to measure our progress by how far we’ve already come. To celebrate small steps. To honor resilience. To slow down, breathe deeper, and build confidence from the inside out.</p><p>Together, Dawn, Dottie, and Ashley unpack:</p><ul><li>The emotional and somatic differences between gap brain and gain brain</li><li>Why perfectionism can’t survive inside a gain-brain mindset</li><li>How celebrating tiny steps rewires self-worth and nervous system safety</li><li>The role of community and supportive relationships in sustaining healing</li><li>Real-life stories of how shifting this mindset transforms marriages, friendships, parenting, and self-trust</li></ul><br/><p>As the holidays approach, the trio invites listeners to reflect on <strong>who they were a year ago</strong> and recognize just how far they’ve already come.</p><p>This episode is equal parts grounding, inspiring, and deeply compassionate.</p><p>A reminder that:</p><p>✨ <em>You matter. Your story matters. Your healing matters.</em></p><p>✨ And you truly are <em>not that girl anymore.</em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a2c8e1fe-23d5-490a-ab2a-1280b17c4af1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a2c8e1fe-23d5-490a-ab2a-1280b17c4af1.mp3" length="26546002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8eea27aa-ef8d-4384-8842-d01dc8a8e0d3/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Gratitude that Heals</title><itunes:title>Gratitude that Heals</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As the holidays draw near, Dawn invites you into a gentle, honest conversation about gratitude — the kind that doesn’t ignore pain or demand performance, but the kind that heals.</p><p>If you’ve ever been told to “just be grateful” while you were grieving, overwhelmed, or holding yourself together, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Dawn explores what <em>true</em> gratitude looks like when it’s embodied, compassionate, and safe.</p><p>Through powerful reflections and personal stories, she reminds us that gratitude isn’t about pretending everything’s fine — it’s about noticing the small, sacred threads of being alive: the warmth of coffee, laughter across a room, the light returning to our eyes.</p><p>✨ <strong>Listen when you need grounding, softness, or a reminder that joy grows right alongside the hard.</strong></p><p>Plus, hear Dawn’s heartfelt invitation to join <em>Wise Women Collective’s Celebration Fridays</em> — a free global gathering where women celebrate life’s wins, big and small.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As the holidays draw near, Dawn invites you into a gentle, honest conversation about gratitude — the kind that doesn’t ignore pain or demand performance, but the kind that heals.</p><p>If you’ve ever been told to “just be grateful” while you were grieving, overwhelmed, or holding yourself together, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Dawn explores what <em>true</em> gratitude looks like when it’s embodied, compassionate, and safe.</p><p>Through powerful reflections and personal stories, she reminds us that gratitude isn’t about pretending everything’s fine — it’s about noticing the small, sacred threads of being alive: the warmth of coffee, laughter across a room, the light returning to our eyes.</p><p>✨ <strong>Listen when you need grounding, softness, or a reminder that joy grows right alongside the hard.</strong></p><p>Plus, hear Dawn’s heartfelt invitation to join <em>Wise Women Collective’s Celebration Fridays</em> — a free global gathering where women celebrate life’s wins, big and small.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">1fa54b52-ece1-4fdc-8d34-886cbed2653d</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/1fa54b52-ece1-4fdc-8d34-886cbed2653d.mp3" length="10766770" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>12:49</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2e9c4ec4-1696-4f05-96ff-a914cb77a6ad/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Perfectionism</title><itunes:title>Perfectionism</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re taught to chase <em>perfection</em>—to get it right, to be good, to hold it together. But perfection is rarely about excellence. More often, it’s about fear: fear of being seen, fear of being judged, fear of being <em>too much</em> or <em>not enough.</em> In this conversation, we explore how perfectionism forms, how it shows up in our work, parenting, relationships, and self-image, and what it costs us emotionally and spiritually.</p><p>This episode is an invitation to soften.</p><p>To release the pressure to perform.</p><p>To return to your humanity.</p><p>To remember, you don’t need to earn your right to exist.</p><p>We talk about:</p><ul><li>How perfectionism forms in childhood</li><li>Why “being perfect” is a survival pattern, not a personality trait</li><li>The emotional exhaustion of constantly managing how others see you</li><li>What happens in the body when we begin to let perfection go</li><li>The freedom found in being seen as we truly are</li></ul><br/><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding your breath in your own life, this conversation is your reminder:</p><p>You are allowed to exhale.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re taught to chase <em>perfection</em>—to get it right, to be good, to hold it together. But perfection is rarely about excellence. More often, it’s about fear: fear of being seen, fear of being judged, fear of being <em>too much</em> or <em>not enough.</em> In this conversation, we explore how perfectionism forms, how it shows up in our work, parenting, relationships, and self-image, and what it costs us emotionally and spiritually.</p><p>This episode is an invitation to soften.</p><p>To release the pressure to perform.</p><p>To return to your humanity.</p><p>To remember, you don’t need to earn your right to exist.</p><p>We talk about:</p><ul><li>How perfectionism forms in childhood</li><li>Why “being perfect” is a survival pattern, not a personality trait</li><li>The emotional exhaustion of constantly managing how others see you</li><li>What happens in the body when we begin to let perfection go</li><li>The freedom found in being seen as we truly are</li></ul><br/><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding your breath in your own life, this conversation is your reminder:</p><p>You are allowed to exhale.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c435d7e-86b5-47be-9ffb-3aa48b7a89d6</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5c435d7e-86b5-47be-9ffb-3aa48b7a89d6.mp3" length="45550690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:03:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/425ef937-ac81-49af-b5ae-9ae4a8d8755f/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Dysfunctional Family Systems</title><itunes:title>Dysfunctional Family Systems</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this conversation, Dawn is joined by Dottie and Ashley for a deeply honest discussion about what it really means to grow up in a <em>dysfunctional family system</em>—and how we often mistake <em>survival patterns</em> for <em>love</em>.</p><p>Because when love is mixed with control, silence, caretaking, or unpredictability, we learn to protect ourselves in ways that once kept us safe—but eventually keep us small.</p><p>This episode gently names those patterns with <strong>compassion, curiosity, and clarity</strong>, so we can begin to heal without blaming ourselves or our families.</p><p>#dysfunctional family systems, #trauma healing, #emotional neglect, #family roles in childhood, #breaking generational cycles, #inner child healing, #somatic healing, #trauma recovery podcast, #Narcissist, #Religious Trauma</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this conversation, Dawn is joined by Dottie and Ashley for a deeply honest discussion about what it really means to grow up in a <em>dysfunctional family system</em>—and how we often mistake <em>survival patterns</em> for <em>love</em>.</p><p>Because when love is mixed with control, silence, caretaking, or unpredictability, we learn to protect ourselves in ways that once kept us safe—but eventually keep us small.</p><p>This episode gently names those patterns with <strong>compassion, curiosity, and clarity</strong>, so we can begin to heal without blaming ourselves or our families.</p><p>#dysfunctional family systems, #trauma healing, #emotional neglect, #family roles in childhood, #breaking generational cycles, #inner child healing, #somatic healing, #trauma recovery podcast, #Narcissist, #Religious Trauma</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">047e6e12-318e-45b1-b400-e2e921ff3aba</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/047e6e12-318e-45b1-b400-e2e921ff3aba.mp3" length="47097106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>56:04</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d06ad1fe-82de-461a-849a-471c2d380f33/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Boundaries Matter</title><itunes:title>Boundaries Matter</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges to deeper connection. In this heartfelt conversation, Dawn sits down with co-leaders <strong>Dottie</strong> and <strong>Ashley</strong> to explore what boundaries <em>really</em> mean in the healing journey. Together, they unpack how saying “no” can actually create safety, trust, and love—both for ourselves and the people we care about.</p><p>They share personal stories of people-pleasing, resentment, and guilt, and how learning to honor their own needs changed everything—from their relationships to their health. This episode is an empowering reminder that boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re sacred.</p><p>Healing journey, emotional boundaries, self-worth, trauma recovery, people-pleasing, emotional health, personal growth, self-love, empowerment, relationships, religious trauma.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges to deeper connection. 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This episode is an empowering reminder that boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re sacred.</p><p>Healing journey, emotional boundaries, self-worth, trauma recovery, people-pleasing, emotional health, personal growth, self-love, empowerment, relationships, religious trauma.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">82b8c2fa-79ed-427c-bcbc-f7afd992d741</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/82b8c2fa-79ed-427c-bcbc-f7afd992d741.mp3" length="36030274" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>42:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode></item><item><title>Power of Story</title><itunes:title>Power of Story</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Therapist and coach <em>Dawn Bouillion</em> is joined by <em>Ashley</em> and <em>Dottie</em> for a raw, healing conversation about reclaiming your voice and rewriting your story. Together they explore how trauma shapes identity, how vulnerability leads to freedom, and why your truth matters. If you’ve ever felt unseen or silenced, this episode reminds you: your story has power—and speaking it can set you free.</p><p>#trauma, #trauma abuse, #narssastic abuse, #religious Abuse</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Therapist and coach <em>Dawn Bouillion</em> is joined by <em>Ashley</em> and <em>Dottie</em> for a raw, healing conversation about reclaiming your voice and rewriting your story. Together they explore how trauma shapes identity, how vulnerability leads to freedom, and why your truth matters. If you’ve ever felt unseen or silenced, this episode reminds you: your story has power—and speaking it can set you free.</p><p>#trauma, #trauma abuse, #narssastic abuse, #religious Abuse</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4dd22139-9239-4237-985c-dd96d3053943</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 15:13:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4dd22139-9239-4237-985c-dd96d3053943.mp3" length="42189154" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>58:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ea3eb398-584d-468b-9d66-c399abc3ea6b/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Healing the Inner Child: How Ashley Reclaimed Her Voice, Faith &amp; Freedom</title><itunes:title>Healing the Inner Child: How Ashley Reclaimed Her Voice, Faith &amp; Freedom</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful final chapter of Ashley’s story on <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host <strong>Dawn Boillon</strong> and Ashley return to the heart of healing—the moment a woman finally realizes <em>she matters</em>.</p><p>After years of anxiety, exhaustion, people-pleasing, and religious conditioning, Ashley uncovers the deeper roots of her pain. Through therapy, self-discovery, and faith re-imagined, she learns that healing isn’t a single moment—it’s a lifelong relationship with herself.</p><p>Ashley shares how:</p><ul><li><strong>Anxiety became her body’s alarm system</strong> calling her back to self-care and compassion.</li><li><strong>Boundaries turned into sacred protection</strong> for peace, purpose, and emotional safety.</li><li><strong>Childhood wounds and church conditioning</strong> shaped her identity—and how she broke free.</li><li><strong>Perfectionism and people-pleasing</strong> kept her small, and how letting go created space for creativity, art, and joy.</li><li><strong>Art and therapy</strong> helped her reconnect to the little girl within, transforming pain into purpose.</li><li><strong>Safe community and authentic friendships</strong> became the medicine that rewired her nervous system and her beliefs about love.</li></ul><br/><p>Now an artist and future therapist, Ashley is helping others do the same—teaching women that self-awareness, support, and compassion aren’t luxuries, they’re lifelines.</p><p>This final part of Ashley’s three-part series is a testimony to the courage it takes to face your story, rewrite the patterns, and finally live from your truth. It’s an invitation to remember that <strong>healing is holy work</strong>—and that joy, creativity, and connection are waiting on the other side.</p><p>Therapy | Faith Deconstruction | Religious Trauma | Anxiety Recovery | Boundaries | Inner Child Healing | Women’s Empowerment | Authentic Faith | Motherhood | Art as Healing</p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen now</strong> to rediscover your voice, your worth, and your power.</p><p>ealing journey, inner child healing, religious trauma recovery, therapy for women, emotional healing, boundaries in faith, anxiety healing podcast, self-worth, healing through art, faith deconstruction, </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful final chapter of Ashley’s story on <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host <strong>Dawn Boillon</strong> and Ashley return to the heart of healing—the moment a woman finally realizes <em>she matters</em>.</p><p>After years of anxiety, exhaustion, people-pleasing, and religious conditioning, Ashley uncovers the deeper roots of her pain. Through therapy, self-discovery, and faith re-imagined, she learns that healing isn’t a single moment—it’s a lifelong relationship with herself.</p><p>Ashley shares how:</p><ul><li><strong>Anxiety became her body’s alarm system</strong> calling her back to self-care and compassion.</li><li><strong>Boundaries turned into sacred protection</strong> for peace, purpose, and emotional safety.</li><li><strong>Childhood wounds and church conditioning</strong> shaped her identity—and how she broke free.</li><li><strong>Perfectionism and people-pleasing</strong> kept her small, and how letting go created space for creativity, art, and joy.</li><li><strong>Art and therapy</strong> helped her reconnect to the little girl within, transforming pain into purpose.</li><li><strong>Safe community and authentic friendships</strong> became the medicine that rewired her nervous system and her beliefs about love.</li></ul><br/><p>Now an artist and future therapist, Ashley is helping others do the same—teaching women that self-awareness, support, and compassion aren’t luxuries, they’re lifelines.</p><p>This final part of Ashley’s three-part series is a testimony to the courage it takes to face your story, rewrite the patterns, and finally live from your truth. It’s an invitation to remember that <strong>healing is holy work</strong>—and that joy, creativity, and connection are waiting on the other side.</p><p>Therapy | Faith Deconstruction | Religious Trauma | Anxiety Recovery | Boundaries | Inner Child Healing | Women’s Empowerment | Authentic Faith | Motherhood | Art as Healing</p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen now</strong> to rediscover your voice, your worth, and your power.</p><p>ealing journey, inner child healing, religious trauma recovery, therapy for women, emotional healing, boundaries in faith, anxiety healing podcast, self-worth, healing through art, faith deconstruction, </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6595fc99-3f9f-493e-b313-0f93e11e3e85</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6595fc99-3f9f-493e-b313-0f93e11e3e85.mp3" length="52067554" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:01:59</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/55a3ecc4-9b51-442e-8876-4673f5493b40/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Surviving Religious Trauma and Family Abuse | Ashley Woodard’s Brave Story (Part 2)</title><itunes:title>Surviving Religious Trauma and Family Abuse | Ashley Woodard’s Brave Story (Part 2)</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What does it look like to take your power back after a childhood of trauma, religious control, and silence? In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Ashley Woodard shares how she began to reclaim her voice, rebuild her sense of self, and walk the long road of healing with tenderness, truth, and tenacity.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt unseen, unworthy, or unsure where to begin your healing — this episode will remind you what’s possible.</p><p>In this episode:</p><p>• How Ashley began healing after childhood abuse and narcissistic control</p><p>• Deconstructing harmful religious beliefs and finding a more loving view of God</p><p>• Grieving the childhood she never got to have</p><p>• Learning to let others show up for her</p><p>• The sacred power of giving your inner child a voice</p><p>This is a story of reclamation — one that will speak directly to the part of you that still hopes for freedom.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does it look like to take your power back after a childhood of trauma, religious control, and silence? In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Ashley Woodard shares how she began to reclaim her voice, rebuild her sense of self, and walk the long road of healing with tenderness, truth, and tenacity.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt unseen, unworthy, or unsure where to begin your healing — this episode will remind you what’s possible.</p><p>In this episode:</p><p>• How Ashley began healing after childhood abuse and narcissistic control</p><p>• Deconstructing harmful religious beliefs and finding a more loving view of God</p><p>• Grieving the childhood she never got to have</p><p>• Learning to let others show up for her</p><p>• The sacred power of giving your inner child a voice</p><p>This is a story of reclamation — one that will speak directly to the part of you that still hopes for freedom.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">9f56e0a4-877c-474f-871e-83790068585a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9f56e0a4-877c-474f-871e-83790068585a.mp3" length="31535266" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>37:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7250b0e2-c478-4c3c-806e-237c00f31e05/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Surviving Religious Trauma and Family Abuse | Ashley Woodard’s Brave Story (Part 1)</title><itunes:title>Surviving Religious Trauma and Family Abuse | Ashley Woodard’s Brave Story (Part 1)</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host Dawn Bouillion sits down with artist and future therapist Ashley Woodard to share her courageous journey of surviving religious trauma, family abuse, and the struggle of growing up in a home filled with control, violence, and silence.</p><p>This is part one of Ashley’s story, where she bravely reveals what it means to grow up in survival mode, wrestle with faith, and carry the hidden scars of trauma. Her honesty reminds us that healing begins with telling the truth.</p><p>✨ If you’ve ever struggled with religious trauma, childhood abuse, or the ache of not being seen, this conversation will make you feel less alone.</p><p>#trauma, #narcissistic, #religious trauma,</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host Dawn Bouillion sits down with artist and future therapist Ashley Woodard to share her courageous journey of surviving religious trauma, family abuse, and the struggle of growing up in a home filled with control, violence, and silence.</p><p>This is part one of Ashley’s story, where she bravely reveals what it means to grow up in survival mode, wrestle with faith, and carry the hidden scars of trauma. Her honesty reminds us that healing begins with telling the truth.</p><p>✨ If you’ve ever struggled with religious trauma, childhood abuse, or the ache of not being seen, this conversation will make you feel less alone.</p><p>#trauma, #narcissistic, #religious trauma,</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">28bcd550-7471-424e-8513-feae86f9d364</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/28bcd550-7471-424e-8513-feae86f9d364.mp3" length="39737986" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>55:11</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/262712ff-503d-475d-a428-4b683c2571fa/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Faith Hurts; Healing from Spiritual Anxiety</title><itunes:title>When Faith Hurts; Healing from Spiritual Anxiety</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Spiritual anxiety isn’t a sign of weak faith—it’s a trauma response. In this powerful solo episode, Dawn unpacks the difference between religious trauma and the fear-based patterns it leaves behind. From rapture panic to scrupulosity (religious OCD), she shares her story and offers a new lens of love, healing, and truth. You are not broken—you’re healing. And you are not that girl anymore.</p><p>#NotThatGirlAnymore #SpiritualAnxiety #ReligiousTrauma #LiminalNetwork</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spiritual anxiety isn’t a sign of weak faith—it’s a trauma response. In this powerful solo episode, Dawn unpacks the difference between religious trauma and the fear-based patterns it leaves behind. From rapture panic to scrupulosity (religious OCD), she shares her story and offers a new lens of love, healing, and truth. You are not broken—you’re healing. And you are not that girl anymore.</p><p>#NotThatGirlAnymore #SpiritualAnxiety #ReligiousTrauma #LiminalNetwork</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e9b7a03f-f89e-4a6b-8a7a-73f56a7bf944</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e9b7a03f-f89e-4a6b-8a7a-73f56a7bf944.mp3" length="18690322" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:15</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/52bfe61b-7607-4e7c-888f-29f3301bdd61/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>What Trauma Really Is (And How We Heal)</title><itunes:title>What Trauma Really Is (And How We Heal)</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Trauma isn’t just what happened—it’s what happened <em>inside</em> of you.</strong></p><p>In this powerful episode, Dawn unpacks the deeper layers of trauma, revealing how it lives in the body, disrupts connection, and quietly shapes our lives. But there is hope—and healing is possible.</p><p><strong>You’ll learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why trauma is about disconnection, not just painful events</li><li>How survival patterns like freeze, fawn, and shutdown form</li><li>What it means to heal from the <em>inside out</em>—body, mind, and spirit</li><li>How generational trauma gets passed down (and how we can break the cycle)</li><li>Why your body’s symptoms might be your story speaking</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you’ve carried silent pain for years or are just starting to name your wounds, this episode is a compassionate, empowering invitation to return to yourself—and reclaim your wholeness.</p><p>✨ <em>Your healing matters. And it starts with you.</em></p><p>#NotThatGirlAnymore #LiminalNetwork # Trauma, #Trauma Healing, #narcissist, </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Trauma isn’t just what happened—it’s what happened <em>inside</em> of you.</strong></p><p>In this powerful episode, Dawn unpacks the deeper layers of trauma, revealing how it lives in the body, disrupts connection, and quietly shapes our lives. But there is hope—and healing is possible.</p><p><strong>You’ll learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why trauma is about disconnection, not just painful events</li><li>How survival patterns like freeze, fawn, and shutdown form</li><li>What it means to heal from the <em>inside out</em>—body, mind, and spirit</li><li>How generational trauma gets passed down (and how we can break the cycle)</li><li>Why your body’s symptoms might be your story speaking</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you’ve carried silent pain for years or are just starting to name your wounds, this episode is a compassionate, empowering invitation to return to yourself—and reclaim your wholeness.</p><p>✨ <em>Your healing matters. And it starts with you.</em></p><p>#NotThatGirlAnymore #LiminalNetwork # Trauma, #Trauma Healing, #narcissist, </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b790a5e4-c1ac-4f2e-bf7e-aa2c32b94de3</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b790a5e4-c1ac-4f2e-bf7e-aa2c32b94de3.mp3" length="14828002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:39</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/92fef861-2bb8-4147-bff4-81a49fea629c/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Your Permission Slip: Stop Waiting for Approval and Start Living</title><itunes:title>Your Permission Slip: Stop Waiting for Approval and Start Living</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this empowering episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, discover how giving yourself permission can transform your healing journey. Learn how to break free from “good girl” rules, set boundaries, release shame, and reclaim your voice, worth, and power. Perfect for women ready to step into confidence, authenticity, and freedom.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this empowering episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, discover how giving yourself permission can transform your healing journey. Learn how to break free from “good girl” rules, set boundaries, release shame, and reclaim your voice, worth, and power. Perfect for women ready to step into confidence, authenticity, and freedom.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">42f9506a-5792-4e83-9ded-af79bfd4ef18</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/42f9506a-5792-4e83-9ded-af79bfd4ef18.mp3" length="13574722" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e9c82592-fbaa-4416-af5c-95759a1b2e36/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Gaslighting</title><itunes:title>Gaslighting</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re in the middle of our narcissistic abuse series, and today Dawn unpacks gaslighting—the repeated pattern of denial, blame-shifting, and story-rewriting that slowly disconnects you from your memory, intuition, and worth. With real-world examples (romantic partners, parent-child dynamics, workplaces, churches) and the language gaslighters use, Dawn shows how the tactic isolates you and keeps you spinning. You’ll leave with practical anchors: documenting reality, finding safe voices, setting conversational boundaries, listening to your body, limiting exposure, and beginning the healing work of <strong>reclaiming your voice</strong>.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re in the middle of our narcissistic abuse series, and today Dawn unpacks gaslighting—the repeated pattern of denial, blame-shifting, and story-rewriting that slowly disconnects you from your memory, intuition, and worth. With real-world examples (romantic partners, parent-child dynamics, workplaces, churches) and the language gaslighters use, Dawn shows how the tactic isolates you and keeps you spinning. You’ll leave with practical anchors: documenting reality, finding safe voices, setting conversational boundaries, listening to your body, limiting exposure, and beginning the healing work of <strong>reclaiming your voice</strong>.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">131ddf10-1173-472a-b454-40510094549b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/131ddf10-1173-472a-b454-40510094549b.mp3" length="20730850" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/74f626b2-18da-4c60-95b5-10c202e08306/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>You Matter: A Birthday Reflection</title><itunes:title>You Matter: A Birthday Reflection</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this special birthday episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong>—trauma therapist, coach, and founder of <em>Embrace Your Brave</em>—invites listeners into a heartfelt reflection on what it truly means to celebrate life. From her mother’s unforgettable birthday serenades to deeper insights about self-worth and presence, Dawn reminds us that every moment is a chance to honor ourselves and the people who matter most.</p><p>This episode isn’t just about birthdays—it’s about pausing to recognize that <strong>you matter, your story matters, and your voice matters</strong>. With warmth, authenticity, and a little bit of fun, Dawn shares her own journey of gratitude and reflection, offering encouragement for anyone navigating transitions or seeking to embrace their brave.</p><p>#TraumaHealing, #BirthdayReflection, #InspirationDaily, #YouMatter, #EmbraceYourBrave, #TraumaHealing, #HealingJourney, #EmotionalWellness, #MentalHealthAwareness, #SelfWorth, #PersonalGrowth</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this special birthday episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, host <strong>Dawn Bouillon</strong>—trauma therapist, coach, and founder of <em>Embrace Your Brave</em>—invites listeners into a heartfelt reflection on what it truly means to celebrate life. From her mother’s unforgettable birthday serenades to deeper insights about self-worth and presence, Dawn reminds us that every moment is a chance to honor ourselves and the people who matter most.</p><p>This episode isn’t just about birthdays—it’s about pausing to recognize that <strong>you matter, your story matters, and your voice matters</strong>. With warmth, authenticity, and a little bit of fun, Dawn shares her own journey of gratitude and reflection, offering encouragement for anyone navigating transitions or seeking to embrace their brave.</p><p>#TraumaHealing, #BirthdayReflection, #InspirationDaily, #YouMatter, #EmbraceYourBrave, #TraumaHealing, #HealingJourney, #EmotionalWellness, #MentalHealthAwareness, #SelfWorth, #PersonalGrowth</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://embraceyourbrave.org/]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6536edd4-0922-40df-a246-b1b0a5afed15</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/831c2320-338e-4050-9169-5331d795b3c3/mzgync5wbmc.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6536edd4-0922-40df-a246-b1b0a5afed15.mp3" length="12714226" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>15:08</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2626af7f-7d84-4543-81cb-dc9a7e372475/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Hidden Faces of Narcissism</title><itunes:title>The Hidden Faces of Narcissism</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Not all narcissists look the same—and some of the most dangerous ones wear masks of kindness, charm, or even faith.</p><p>In this powerful and validating episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon peels back the layers of narcissistic abuse to reveal five often-overlooked types of narcissists: overt, covert, malignant, communal, and spiritual. If you've ever questioned your reality, doubted your instincts, or wondered if <em>you're the problem</em>, this episode is for you.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not all narcissists look the same—and some of the most dangerous ones wear masks of kindness, charm, or even faith.</p><p>In this powerful and validating episode of <em>Not That Girl Anymore</em>, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon peels back the layers of narcissistic abuse to reveal five often-overlooked types of narcissists: overt, covert, malignant, communal, and spiritual. 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