<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/okay-actually/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Okay, Actually]]></title><podcast:guid>40779fab-cddb-52c0-a14e-45b59331f3e9</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 18:12:28 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Karen Doak]]></copyright><managingEditor>Karen Doak</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Okay, Actually is a show for people who are competent, well-resourced, and still somehow building the plane while flying it. 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It's not.</p><p>Each episode — always under 25 minutes — we dig into what's truly broken and figure out how to build a solution that can actually work.</p><p>In this episode, I walk through what ground truth is, why it's harder to find than it sounds, and four questions I use to test whether I've actually gotten there — or whether I'm just comfortable with where I've landed.</p><p>02:06 The Real Question</p><p>03:04 Defining Ground Truth</p><p>07:02 Four Ground Truth Tests</p><p>15:57 When Truth Feels Deflating</p><p>17:55 Apply It This Week</p><p><strong>The four questions:</strong></p><ol><li>Does it change shape? Does your explanation about the problem change depending on who's asking?</li><li>Can you break it? Can you find the scenario where you're wrong?</li><li>Is this the source or the signal? If you solved this exact thing, would the underlying situation actually change?</li><li>Does it hold alone? Does this still feel true when no one's watching and nothing needs to sound good?</li></ol><br/><p>Find me here:</p><p><a href="https://okaydoak.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">OkayDoak.com</a></p><p><a href="mailto:karen@okaydoak.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">karen@okaydoak.com</a></p><p>Get clear. Get sorted. Get going. Stay sane.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, Actually is a podcast for people who are working hard, still falling behind, and are starting to wonder if the problem is them. 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It's not.</p><p>Each episode we dig into what's truly broken, and figure out how to build a solution that can actually work.</p><p>The smartest women I know are drowning. They're overwhelmed, burnt out, and working incredibly hard. That last part is the tell: if effort isn't fixing it, you probably have the wrong diagnosis.</p><p>In this episode, I walk through a situation where I did everything right — hired a coach, read the articles, built the spreadsheets, tried harder — and still couldn't crack it. Because I kept treating a people problem like a systems problem. No system fixes that.</p><p>The question I want to leave you with: what problem are you working really hard on right now? And are you sure it's actually the problem?</p><p>Find me here: </p><p><a href="https://okaydoak.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">OkayDoak.com</a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenuntereker/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></p><p><a href="mailto:karen@okaydoak.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">karen@okaydoak.com</a></p><p>Get clear. Get sorted. Get going. Stay sane.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Okay, Actually</em> is a podcast for people who are working hard, still falling behind, and are starting to wonder if the problem is them. It's not.</p><p>Each episode we dig into what's truly broken, and figure out how to build a solution that can actually work.</p><p>The smartest women I know are drowning. They're overwhelmed, burnt out, and working incredibly hard. 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