<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/pillars-of-grief/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Pillars Of Grief]]></title><podcast:guid>a0c9177b-ddb9-5ea2-9827-37ad29255e9b</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 14:09:48 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[© 2025 Pillars Of Grief]]></copyright><managingEditor>Jock Brocas</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>The Pillars of Grief podcast is an essential resource for anyone who is struggling with grief. Jock Brocas is a renowned medium, grief researcher, and spiritual mentor. Through his interviews and personal teachings, Jock provides a safe and supportive space where listeners can learn to navigate their journey through grief.&nbsp; Jock is not fearful of challenging societal ignorance when trying to understand grief. He offers those grieving, deeper understanding and guidance from his own experience and research to the grief journey.<br><br>With each episode, Jock delivers valuable insights and compassionate support, helping listeners to find hope and guidance in the midst of their pain. Join Jock and take the first steps towards finding peace and comfort on your own journey through grief.</p>]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/399ccfcc-2733-435d-b9d0-c53b4c9b661f/2d5u5ph9s3naohtupbgjhbkyiw15.jpg</url><title>Pillars Of Grief</title><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/399ccfcc-2733-435d-b9d0-c53b4c9b661f/2d5u5ph9s3naohtupbgjhbkyiw15.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Jock Brocas</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Jock Brocas</itunes:author><description>The Pillars of Grief podcast is an essential resource for anyone who is struggling with grief. Jock Brocas is a renowned medium, grief researcher, and spiritual mentor. Through his interviews and personal teachings, Jock provides a safe and supportive space where listeners can learn to navigate their journey through grief.&amp;nbsp; Jock is not fearful of challenging societal ignorance when trying to understand grief. He offers those grieving, deeper understanding and guidance from his own experience and research to the grief journey.

With each episode, Jock delivers valuable insights and compassionate support, helping listeners to find hope and guidance in the midst of their pain. Join Jock and take the first steps towards finding peace and comfort on your own journey through grief.</description><link>https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Religion &amp; Spirituality"><itunes:category text="Spirituality"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Science"><itunes:category text="Social Sciences"/></itunes:category><itunes:new-feed-url>https://feeds.captivate.fm/pillars-of-grief/</itunes:new-feed-url><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><podcast:txt>jbspiritmedia@gmail.com</podcast:txt><item><title>Between Worlds: How Loss Reshapes Our Reality</title><itunes:title>Between Worlds: How Loss Reshapes Our Reality</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of the human experience, one that we all encounter in various forms throughout our lives. Throughout our discourse, we delve into the multifaceted nature of grief, emphasizing the necessity of acknowledging and processing our emotions as a means to navigate through the pain. Acceptance, we assert, does not equate to forgetting or diminishing the significance of our loss; rather, it is a pathway to reconciling with our reality and honoring the lives of those we have lost. We will explore the profound implications of grief, touching upon the ways it alters our existence and how it can lead us to question our very purpose in life. Join us as we embark on this introspective journey, examining the Pillars of Grief and their potential to guide us towards understanding and healing. The episode provides a thoughtful exploration of the various dimensions of grief, commencing with the assertion that grief is a universal experience that reshapes our reality.</p><p>We delve into the disorientation and disconnection that often accompany grief, acknowledging how it can alienate us from our social circles and alter our interpersonal dynamics. The discussion extends beyond the death of a loved one, recognizing that grief can arise from myriad forms of loss, including relationships, careers, and even existential crises. Throughout our conversation, we reflect on the emotional turmoil that often accompanies grief, characterized by a sense of abandonment and isolation.</p><p>We stress the uniqueness of each individual's grieving process, advocating for a compassionate understanding of the varied expressions of grief. The episode culminates in a revelation that grief necessitates deeper inquiry into one's own existence and purpose, challenging listeners to confront their emotions and seek meaning amidst the chaos. This episode is not merely an examination of sorrow; it is an invitation to engage in a deeper dialogue with oneself, to transform grief from an experience of despair into a catalyst for personal transformation and renewed purpose.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of the human experience, manifesting in various forms throughout our lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Awareness of our emotions during grief facilitates acceptance and progression through our pain effectively.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Acceptance of grief does not equate to forgetting, but rather signifies a reconciliation with loss and its implications.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honoring our departed loved ones can provide a meaningful way to navigate our grief journey, celebrating their lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief can significantly alter our reality, leading to feelings of disconnection and disorientation from those around us.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The complexities of grief extend beyond death, encompassing a myriad of losses that influence our emotional and psychological well-being.</li></ol><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/between-worlds-what-happens-when-we-die/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Between Worlds Journey</a></li></ol><br/><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of the human experience, one that we all encounter in various forms throughout our lives. Throughout our discourse, we delve into the multifaceted nature of grief, emphasizing the necessity of acknowledging and processing our emotions as a means to navigate through the pain. Acceptance, we assert, does not equate to forgetting or diminishing the significance of our loss; rather, it is a pathway to reconciling with our reality and honoring the lives of those we have lost. We will explore the profound implications of grief, touching upon the ways it alters our existence and how it can lead us to question our very purpose in life. Join us as we embark on this introspective journey, examining the Pillars of Grief and their potential to guide us towards understanding and healing. The episode provides a thoughtful exploration of the various dimensions of grief, commencing with the assertion that grief is a universal experience that reshapes our reality.</p><p>We delve into the disorientation and disconnection that often accompany grief, acknowledging how it can alienate us from our social circles and alter our interpersonal dynamics. The discussion extends beyond the death of a loved one, recognizing that grief can arise from myriad forms of loss, including relationships, careers, and even existential crises. Throughout our conversation, we reflect on the emotional turmoil that often accompanies grief, characterized by a sense of abandonment and isolation.</p><p>We stress the uniqueness of each individual's grieving process, advocating for a compassionate understanding of the varied expressions of grief. The episode culminates in a revelation that grief necessitates deeper inquiry into one's own existence and purpose, challenging listeners to confront their emotions and seek meaning amidst the chaos. This episode is not merely an examination of sorrow; it is an invitation to engage in a deeper dialogue with oneself, to transform grief from an experience of despair into a catalyst for personal transformation and renewed purpose.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of the human experience, manifesting in various forms throughout our lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Awareness of our emotions during grief facilitates acceptance and progression through our pain effectively.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Acceptance of grief does not equate to forgetting, but rather signifies a reconciliation with loss and its implications.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honoring our departed loved ones can provide a meaningful way to navigate our grief journey, celebrating their lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief can significantly alter our reality, leading to feelings of disconnection and disorientation from those around us.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The complexities of grief extend beyond death, encompassing a myriad of losses that influence our emotional and psychological well-being.</li></ol><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/between-worlds-what-happens-when-we-die/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Between Worlds Journey</a></li></ol><br/><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/between-worlds-how-loss-reshapes-our-reality]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d18a2bcc-a967-4ac1-b152-ab6e1787c824</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84e5e093-7533-40f5-943b-768460c646b4/Between-Worlds.jpg"/><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2026 18:32:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d18a2bcc-a967-4ac1-b152-ab6e1787c824.mp3" length="12592680" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:14</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>33</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/746141af-1b54-4e17-b772-afc690223f84/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/746141af-1b54-4e17-b772-afc690223f84/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/746141af-1b54-4e17-b772-afc690223f84/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-00bcd0e4-34f2-4af4-99db-6fca37c781de.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>From Grief to Growth: Insights on Living Fully After Loss</title><itunes:title>From Grief to Growth: Insights on Living Fully After Loss</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>The conversation presented in this podcast revolves around the profound themes of bereavement and the search for meaning amidst loss. Grief, as articulated by Jason Tifford, is portrayed as an intrinsic aspect of the human experience that demands acknowledgment and understanding. Through a dialogue that explores the emotional intricacies of grief, we delve into the significance of acceptance—not as a means of forgetting, but as a pathway to honoring the memories of our loved ones. Furthermore, Tifford emphasizes that by embracing our emotions during the grieving process, we can navigate our pain and ultimately find purpose in our sorrow. This episode serves as an exploration of the foundational pillars of grief and how they facilitate healing, fostering a deeper understanding of our shared human experience in the face of loss. The profound exploration of grief in this podcast episode with Jason Tifford provides invaluable insights into the human experience of loss and the search for meaning that often accompanies it. The dialogue begins with an acknowledgment of grief as a universal phenomenon, one that every individual must confront at some stage of life. Through Jason's personal narrative—the story of his father's battle with terminal illness—listeners are offered a glimpse into the emotional turmoil and inevitable transformations that accompany such experiences. This personal element not only humanizes the discussion but also serves as a vital starting point for understanding the intricate relationship between grief and personal growth. An essential theme that emerges from the conversation is the concept of acceptance. The hosts elucidate that acceptance does not equate to forgetting or minimizing the pain of loss; rather, it signifies a profound reconciliation with one's emotions. By fostering emotional awareness, individuals can navigate the grieving process more effectively. Jason's reflections on his journey emphasize how actively engaging with grief can lead to a more meaningful existence. In sharing stories of triumph over sorrow, the episode underscores the importance of community support and connection in facilitating healing. The collaborative aspect of sharing grief—whether through dialogue with others or through personal reflection—becomes a cornerstone for transforming pain into purpose. Ultimately, the episode serves as both an exploration and a guide for those navigating their own grief journeys. Listeners are encouraged to consider how they can honor their loved ones through celebration and remembrance, thereby fostering a legacy that lives on beyond loss. The conversation culminates in a collective understanding that while grief is inherently challenging, it also holds the potential for profound personal transformation and renewed purpose in life. This duality—of sorrow and growth—makes this episode a poignant and necessary listen for anyone grappling with loss.</p><p>Some listeners seek private, one-to-one grief work that focuses on meaning, orientation, and continuing bonds. I describe that work <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/private-grief-coaching/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of human existence, which every individual encounters at some juncture in their lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>By cultivating awareness of our emotions during the grieving process, we can facilitate acceptance and gradually navigate through our suffering.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Acceptance does not equate to oblivion or cessation of feeling; rather, it permits us to reconcile with our loss.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honoring deceased loved ones through celebration of their lives and discovering meaning within our sorrow...]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The conversation presented in this podcast revolves around the profound themes of bereavement and the search for meaning amidst loss. Grief, as articulated by Jason Tifford, is portrayed as an intrinsic aspect of the human experience that demands acknowledgment and understanding. Through a dialogue that explores the emotional intricacies of grief, we delve into the significance of acceptance—not as a means of forgetting, but as a pathway to honoring the memories of our loved ones. Furthermore, Tifford emphasizes that by embracing our emotions during the grieving process, we can navigate our pain and ultimately find purpose in our sorrow. This episode serves as an exploration of the foundational pillars of grief and how they facilitate healing, fostering a deeper understanding of our shared human experience in the face of loss. The profound exploration of grief in this podcast episode with Jason Tifford provides invaluable insights into the human experience of loss and the search for meaning that often accompanies it. The dialogue begins with an acknowledgment of grief as a universal phenomenon, one that every individual must confront at some stage of life. Through Jason's personal narrative—the story of his father's battle with terminal illness—listeners are offered a glimpse into the emotional turmoil and inevitable transformations that accompany such experiences. This personal element not only humanizes the discussion but also serves as a vital starting point for understanding the intricate relationship between grief and personal growth. An essential theme that emerges from the conversation is the concept of acceptance. The hosts elucidate that acceptance does not equate to forgetting or minimizing the pain of loss; rather, it signifies a profound reconciliation with one's emotions. By fostering emotional awareness, individuals can navigate the grieving process more effectively. Jason's reflections on his journey emphasize how actively engaging with grief can lead to a more meaningful existence. In sharing stories of triumph over sorrow, the episode underscores the importance of community support and connection in facilitating healing. The collaborative aspect of sharing grief—whether through dialogue with others or through personal reflection—becomes a cornerstone for transforming pain into purpose. Ultimately, the episode serves as both an exploration and a guide for those navigating their own grief journeys. Listeners are encouraged to consider how they can honor their loved ones through celebration and remembrance, thereby fostering a legacy that lives on beyond loss. The conversation culminates in a collective understanding that while grief is inherently challenging, it also holds the potential for profound personal transformation and renewed purpose in life. This duality—of sorrow and growth—makes this episode a poignant and necessary listen for anyone grappling with loss.</p><p>Some listeners seek private, one-to-one grief work that focuses on meaning, orientation, and continuing bonds. I describe that work <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/private-grief-coaching/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is an intrinsic aspect of human existence, which every individual encounters at some juncture in their lives.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>By cultivating awareness of our emotions during the grieving process, we can facilitate acceptance and gradually navigate through our suffering.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Acceptance does not equate to oblivion or cessation of feeling; rather, it permits us to reconcile with our loss.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honoring deceased loved ones through celebration of their lives and discovering meaning within our sorrow can be a transformative experience.</li></ol><br/><p>Companies mentioned in this episode:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Liverpool John Moore University</li></ol><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/from-grief-to-growth-insights-on-living-fully-after-loss]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">56354019-8471-4a9a-90b8-265a84d4d628</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/34a04a53-b6d2-427d-8721-43477777e79e/finding-meaning-in-loss.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/56354019-8471-4a9a-90b8-265a84d4d628.mp3" length="28622280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>59:38</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>32</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ed75caaa-f577-4010-bf7f-ad03bd0d980e/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ed75caaa-f577-4010-bf7f-ad03bd0d980e/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ed75caaa-f577-4010-bf7f-ad03bd0d980e/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-6c07e5dc-7ef4-4b37-9556-7f216b85a7dd.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>Are Our Loved Ones Truly Happy in the Afterlife?</title><itunes:title>Are Our Loved Ones Truly Happy in the Afterlife?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>The question addressed in this episode pertains to the perennial question: "Are our loved ones happy on the other side?" This matter weighs heavily on the hearts of many who have experienced the profound sorrow of loss. I assert unequivocally that yes, your loved ones are indeed content in the realm beyond our earthly existence. As we <strong><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-blog/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">navigate the complex terrain of grief,</a></strong> it becomes paramount to acknowledge that while we yearn for their physical presence, they have returned to their true essence, unencumbered by earthly trials and tribulations. In this exploration, we will delve into the nature of our spiritual existence, the experiences of those who have crossed over, and the comforting notion that our loved ones thrive in a state devoid of suffering. Join us as we unravel these insights, fostering a deeper understanding of the connection that transcends the veil of life and death.</p><p>Amidst the complexities of grief, the question of our loved ones' happiness in the afterlife emerges as a pivotal theme. Throughout the episode, we explore the inherent human desire for reassurance regarding the well-being of those who have departed. With a firm conviction, we assert that our loved ones are indeed at peace in their spiritual abode, liberated from the trials that once defined their earthly existence. This reassurance serves not only to alleviate the anxieties of the bereaved but also to foster a deeper understanding of the nature of life itself. By emphasizing the spiritual dimension of our existence, we invite listeners to cultivate a perspective that honors their loved ones' journey, encouraging a shift from sorrow to celebration—a recognition that life is fundamentally about experiences, love, and interconnectedness.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The notion of happiness for loved ones in the afterlife is a common inquiry among those experiencing grief.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It is essential to recognize that our loved ones, once they pass, return to a state of happiness and peace.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is a natural process, and understanding that our loved ones are content in the spirit world can alleviate some of our suffering.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The connection we seek with our departed loved ones can be fostered through meditation and personal reflection.</li></ol><br/><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Join The Pillars Of Grief Community</a></p><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The question addressed in this episode pertains to the perennial question: "Are our loved ones happy on the other side?" This matter weighs heavily on the hearts of many who have experienced the profound sorrow of loss. I assert unequivocally that yes, your loved ones are indeed content in the realm beyond our earthly existence. As we <strong><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-blog/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">navigate the complex terrain of grief,</a></strong> it becomes paramount to acknowledge that while we yearn for their physical presence, they have returned to their true essence, unencumbered by earthly trials and tribulations. In this exploration, we will delve into the nature of our spiritual existence, the experiences of those who have crossed over, and the comforting notion that our loved ones thrive in a state devoid of suffering. Join us as we unravel these insights, fostering a deeper understanding of the connection that transcends the veil of life and death.</p><p>Amidst the complexities of grief, the question of our loved ones' happiness in the afterlife emerges as a pivotal theme. Throughout the episode, we explore the inherent human desire for reassurance regarding the well-being of those who have departed. With a firm conviction, we assert that our loved ones are indeed at peace in their spiritual abode, liberated from the trials that once defined their earthly existence. This reassurance serves not only to alleviate the anxieties of the bereaved but also to foster a deeper understanding of the nature of life itself. By emphasizing the spiritual dimension of our existence, we invite listeners to cultivate a perspective that honors their loved ones' journey, encouraging a shift from sorrow to celebration—a recognition that life is fundamentally about experiences, love, and interconnectedness.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The notion of happiness for loved ones in the afterlife is a common inquiry among those experiencing grief.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It is essential to recognize that our loved ones, once they pass, return to a state of happiness and peace.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Grief is a natural process, and understanding that our loved ones are content in the spirit world can alleviate some of our suffering.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The connection we seek with our departed loved ones can be fostered through meditation and personal reflection.</li></ol><br/><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Join The Pillars Of Grief Community</a></p><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p><strong>Between Worlds Journey</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/are-our-loved-ones-truly-happy-in-the-afterlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5df0a7c2-1b49-406a-b038-7302ab970530</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/a5e35f2f-94a4-4ee8-ba67-5f360c31624b/Do-we-have-a-body-after-death.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5df0a7c2-1b49-406a-b038-7302ab970530.mp3" length="10677410" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:15</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>31</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5f367d85-ef6a-4748-b8fd-bc5a56bfdf37/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5f367d85-ef6a-4748-b8fd-bc5a56bfdf37/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5f367d85-ef6a-4748-b8fd-bc5a56bfdf37/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-23a4f032-8959-4b64-b337-b47e66eeb868.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>Grief and Communication: Why Do Our Loved Ones Fade Away?</title><itunes:title>Grief and Communication: Why Do Our Loved Ones Fade Away?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>The cessation of communication from our loved ones can evoke feelings of abandonment and confusion. This episode delves deeply into the reasons why such a silence may occur, asserting that it is not indicative of their departure or abandonment. Instead, it is often a reflection of our own evolution and acceptance in the grieving process. I emphasize that rather than viewing this lack of communication as a loss, it may signify a transition towards a healthier understanding of our relationship with those who have passed. Through this exploration, we aim to provide clarity and comfort, reminding listeners that their loved ones remain connected, albeit in a different manner than before.</p><p>Communication with departed loved ones often ceases, leading the bereaved to question the reasons behind this abrupt silence. Throughout this episode of 'Pillars of Grief', we explore the multifaceted nature of such experiences, emphasizing that the cessation of contact is not indicative of abandonment. Rather, it is essential to understand that the dynamics of these spiritual connections can evolve. As individuals navigate their grief, they may find themselves moving towards acceptance, which in turn alters their reliance on constant communication with those who have passed. It is imperative to recognize that loved ones do not abandon the bereaved; instead, they encourage personal growth and healing by stepping back, allowing the living to embrace life anew. This discussion sheds light on the nuances of grief, emphasizing the importance of understanding the emotional journey that accompanies the loss of communication with loved ones in the spirit realm.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> Communication from loved ones may diminish not due to their absence, but rather your emotional evolution and acceptance of their presence in the spirit world. </li><li> The cessation of messages from departed loved ones can signify a healthy transition in your grief journey, allowing for personal growth and acceptance. </li><li> It is vital to recognize that loved ones do not abandon us; instead, they may refrain from constant communication to encourage our own development and healing. </li><li> Grief is a complex process, and understanding that loved ones wish for us to live fully can aid in reconciling feelings of abandonment or loss. </li><li> The misconception that loved ones have moved on to a different level can lead to feelings of isolation; they remain connected but may wish not to be used as a crutch in our grief. </li><li> Accepting that communication may fluctuate is essential; it reflects our own journey through grief and the evolving relationship we maintain with those we have lost. </li></ul><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ul><li><a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com</a></li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The cessation of communication from our loved ones can evoke feelings of abandonment and confusion. This episode delves deeply into the reasons why such a silence may occur, asserting that it is not indicative of their departure or abandonment. Instead, it is often a reflection of our own evolution and acceptance in the grieving process. I emphasize that rather than viewing this lack of communication as a loss, it may signify a transition towards a healthier understanding of our relationship with those who have passed. Through this exploration, we aim to provide clarity and comfort, reminding listeners that their loved ones remain connected, albeit in a different manner than before.</p><p>Communication with departed loved ones often ceases, leading the bereaved to question the reasons behind this abrupt silence. Throughout this episode of 'Pillars of Grief', we explore the multifaceted nature of such experiences, emphasizing that the cessation of contact is not indicative of abandonment. Rather, it is essential to understand that the dynamics of these spiritual connections can evolve. As individuals navigate their grief, they may find themselves moving towards acceptance, which in turn alters their reliance on constant communication with those who have passed. It is imperative to recognize that loved ones do not abandon the bereaved; instead, they encourage personal growth and healing by stepping back, allowing the living to embrace life anew. This discussion sheds light on the nuances of grief, emphasizing the importance of understanding the emotional journey that accompanies the loss of communication with loved ones in the spirit realm.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> Communication from loved ones may diminish not due to their absence, but rather your emotional evolution and acceptance of their presence in the spirit world. </li><li> The cessation of messages from departed loved ones can signify a healthy transition in your grief journey, allowing for personal growth and acceptance. </li><li> It is vital to recognize that loved ones do not abandon us; instead, they may refrain from constant communication to encourage our own development and healing. </li><li> Grief is a complex process, and understanding that loved ones wish for us to live fully can aid in reconciling feelings of abandonment or loss. </li><li> The misconception that loved ones have moved on to a different level can lead to feelings of isolation; they remain connected but may wish not to be used as a crutch in our grief. </li><li> Accepting that communication may fluctuate is essential; it reflects our own journey through grief and the evolving relationship we maintain with those we have lost. </li></ul><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ul><li><a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com</a></li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/grief-and-communication-why-do-our-loved-ones-fade-away]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">56480d88-cd4a-4391-9088-5dab0bf14d4c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/90475a54-54ee-453f-8cb2-0e7038fb7545/why-do-loved-ones-stop-communicating.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2025 17:45:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/56480d88-cd4a-4391-9088-5dab0bf14d4c.mp3" length="10746871" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:23</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>30</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e9708fca-b7e6-4e98-b21b-f79c3a043821/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e9708fca-b7e6-4e98-b21b-f79c3a043821/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/e9708fca-b7e6-4e98-b21b-f79c3a043821/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-29187409-f6a7-428d-8265-e3ebc8b17af6.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>Exploring the Nature of Existence: Do We Have Bodies in the Afterlife?</title><itunes:title>Exploring the Nature of Existence: Do We Have Bodies in the Afterlife?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>The central theme of this podcast episode revolves around the affirmation of the existence of a body in the afterlife, a notion that is often fraught with existential uncertainty among individuals grappling with the concept of death. I elucidate the idea that our loved ones, who have transcended, retain a form that allows them to interact with the living, thereby providing solace and evidence of their continued presence. Grief is acknowledged as a universal experience, and I emphasize the importance of understanding and accepting our emotions to navigate this arduous journey. Through the exploration of the "Pillars of Grief," we delve into the profound connections that persist beyond the veil of mortality, reinforced by both experiential evidence and anecdotal accounts of those who have encountered their loved ones posthumously. I invite listeners to join us in this exploration, as we seek to uncover the truths surrounding life, death, and the enduring bonds of love that defy the boundaries of existence.</p><p>The narrative unfolds a compelling examination of the intersection between grief and the metaphysical understanding of existence beyond physical life. It is articulated that the fear of losing one's identity upon death is fundamentally unfounded, as numerous accounts from both spiritual practitioners and those nearing the end of life indicate a persistence of selfhood. The speaker elucidates the concept of the 'perispirit', an energetic double that mirrors our physical form, thereby affirming that individuals possess a recognizable essence even after transcending the physical realm. This assertion is fortified by references to holistic healing practices and scientific explorations into the nature of consciousness, which highlight the energetic composition of all beings. The episode serves as a poignant reminder that grief can be navigated with the understanding that our departed loved ones continue to exist in a form that allows for connection and recognition. By embracing this perspective, individuals may find solace and meaning in their grief, fostering a path toward acceptance and celebration of the lives that have touched their own.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> The concept of grief encompasses a natural process that everyone experiences at some stage. </li><li> Acceptance of grief does not equate to forgetting the loss of a loved one. </li><li> Loved ones in the afterlife are often reported to have a recognizable energy form. </li><li> Experiences of terminal lucidity reveal that those nearing death often see familiar spirits. </li><li> Grief can be a profound and isolating journey, yet it is essential to seek support. </li><li> The evidence presented suggests that we maintain a body in the afterlife, contrary to common fears. </li></ul><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ul><li><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com/grief-group</a></li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The central theme of this podcast episode revolves around the affirmation of the existence of a body in the afterlife, a notion that is often fraught with existential uncertainty among individuals grappling with the concept of death. I elucidate the idea that our loved ones, who have transcended, retain a form that allows them to interact with the living, thereby providing solace and evidence of their continued presence. Grief is acknowledged as a universal experience, and I emphasize the importance of understanding and accepting our emotions to navigate this arduous journey. Through the exploration of the "Pillars of Grief," we delve into the profound connections that persist beyond the veil of mortality, reinforced by both experiential evidence and anecdotal accounts of those who have encountered their loved ones posthumously. I invite listeners to join us in this exploration, as we seek to uncover the truths surrounding life, death, and the enduring bonds of love that defy the boundaries of existence.</p><p>The narrative unfolds a compelling examination of the intersection between grief and the metaphysical understanding of existence beyond physical life. It is articulated that the fear of losing one's identity upon death is fundamentally unfounded, as numerous accounts from both spiritual practitioners and those nearing the end of life indicate a persistence of selfhood. The speaker elucidates the concept of the 'perispirit', an energetic double that mirrors our physical form, thereby affirming that individuals possess a recognizable essence even after transcending the physical realm. This assertion is fortified by references to holistic healing practices and scientific explorations into the nature of consciousness, which highlight the energetic composition of all beings. The episode serves as a poignant reminder that grief can be navigated with the understanding that our departed loved ones continue to exist in a form that allows for connection and recognition. By embracing this perspective, individuals may find solace and meaning in their grief, fostering a path toward acceptance and celebration of the lives that have touched their own.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> The concept of grief encompasses a natural process that everyone experiences at some stage. </li><li> Acceptance of grief does not equate to forgetting the loss of a loved one. </li><li> Loved ones in the afterlife are often reported to have a recognizable energy form. </li><li> Experiences of terminal lucidity reveal that those nearing death often see familiar spirits. </li><li> Grief can be a profound and isolating journey, yet it is essential to seek support. </li><li> The evidence presented suggests that we maintain a body in the afterlife, contrary to common fears. </li></ul><br/><p>Links referenced in this episode:</p><ul><li><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com/grief-group</a></li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/exploring-the-nature-of-existence-do-we-have-bodies-in-the-afterlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d04e4e52-9203-4e04-b545-7d5d6a882bea</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/99169173-1efc-40fc-889c-532384ba230a/Do-we-have-a-body-after-death3.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 10:16:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d04e4e52-9203-4e04-b545-7d5d6a882bea.mp3" length="14391262" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:59</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>29</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bb2624d5-5139-4cad-ab8d-ccd41184d3bb/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bb2624d5-5139-4cad-ab8d-ccd41184d3bb/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bb2624d5-5139-4cad-ab8d-ccd41184d3bb/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-62116f8c-af31-464f-897b-c17beef7c391.json" type="application/json+chapters"/><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Do we have a body after death?"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/UrrxC6qy-I4"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Exploring the Afterlife: Your Questions Answered</title><itunes:title>Exploring the Afterlife: Your Questions Answered</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this discourse, we delve into the profound and multifaceted inquiries surrounding the afterlife, extending an earnest invitation for our audience to engage with their most pressing questions, regardless of their perceived simplicity. The essence of our conversation hinges upon the acknowledgement of grief as an inherent aspect of the human experience, a truth we all confront at various junctures in our lives. By cultivating an awareness of our emotional responses during the grieving process, we aspire to facilitate a journey towards acceptance and healing, wherein we honor the memories of our departed loved ones while grappling with our own pain. Throughout this series, we shall explore the foundational principles that govern our understanding of grief, enriched by insights gleaned from both personal experiences and the narratives of others who have traversed similar paths. As we embark on this reflective journey together, I encourage you to submit your questions, as they will guide our exploration of the intricate relationship between grief and the afterlife.</p><p>As the episode unfolds, the speakers extend an invitation to the audience, highlighting the importance of community engagement in confronting the complexities of grief. They introduce a new series aimed at addressing questions related to the afterlife and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies loss. With a backdrop of personal anecdotes and professional experiences, the speakers articulate their intention to answer the pressing inquiries that individuals have regarding the afterlife, thus fostering a space for open dialogue around existential questions. This initiative not only aims to provide clarity but also seeks to create a supportive environment where individuals can share their experiences and seek guidance. The conversation underscores the necessity of addressing such profound queries, particularly in times of grief, thereby encouraging listeners to participate actively and voice their concerns.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> The exploration of grief is essential for understanding the spectrum of human emotions, particularly during loss. </li><li> Engaging with questions about the afterlife can provide comfort and clarity to those grieving. </li><li> The process of acceptance in grief allows individuals to find meaning and celebrate the lives of lost loved ones. </li><li> By joining our community, listeners can submit their questions and receive insights into the nature of existence and the afterlife. </li><li> We are committed to addressing deep philosophical questions surrounding grief and the afterlife in our upcoming episodes. </li><li> This podcast series will share insights from years of research and personal experience regarding grief and spiritual matters. </li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this discourse, we delve into the profound and multifaceted inquiries surrounding the afterlife, extending an earnest invitation for our audience to engage with their most pressing questions, regardless of their perceived simplicity. The essence of our conversation hinges upon the acknowledgement of grief as an inherent aspect of the human experience, a truth we all confront at various junctures in our lives. By cultivating an awareness of our emotional responses during the grieving process, we aspire to facilitate a journey towards acceptance and healing, wherein we honor the memories of our departed loved ones while grappling with our own pain. Throughout this series, we shall explore the foundational principles that govern our understanding of grief, enriched by insights gleaned from both personal experiences and the narratives of others who have traversed similar paths. As we embark on this reflective journey together, I encourage you to submit your questions, as they will guide our exploration of the intricate relationship between grief and the afterlife.</p><p>As the episode unfolds, the speakers extend an invitation to the audience, highlighting the importance of community engagement in confronting the complexities of grief. They introduce a new series aimed at addressing questions related to the afterlife and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies loss. With a backdrop of personal anecdotes and professional experiences, the speakers articulate their intention to answer the pressing inquiries that individuals have regarding the afterlife, thus fostering a space for open dialogue around existential questions. This initiative not only aims to provide clarity but also seeks to create a supportive environment where individuals can share their experiences and seek guidance. The conversation underscores the necessity of addressing such profound queries, particularly in times of grief, thereby encouraging listeners to participate actively and voice their concerns.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> The exploration of grief is essential for understanding the spectrum of human emotions, particularly during loss. </li><li> Engaging with questions about the afterlife can provide comfort and clarity to those grieving. </li><li> The process of acceptance in grief allows individuals to find meaning and celebrate the lives of lost loved ones. </li><li> By joining our community, listeners can submit their questions and receive insights into the nature of existence and the afterlife. </li><li> We are committed to addressing deep philosophical questions surrounding grief and the afterlife in our upcoming episodes. </li><li> This podcast series will share insights from years of research and personal experience regarding grief and spiritual matters. </li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/exploring-the-afterlife-your-questions-answered]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">279cc40e-d0bb-4416-aee1-91ea88becb38</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4c06b762-3416-46c1-a9d8-c36fc1d65e6b/Exploring-the-Afterlife-Your-Questions-Answered.png"/><pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2025 23:33:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/279cc40e-d0bb-4416-aee1-91ea88becb38.mp3" length="7995677" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:39</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/afa048aa-3338-48a2-833b-0dacfcfe28db/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/afa048aa-3338-48a2-833b-0dacfcfe28db/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/afa048aa-3338-48a2-833b-0dacfcfe28db/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-faf2c5fa-c6ce-46d1-9f63-908d6afb85a0.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>The Intuitive Awareness of Mortality: Dreams and Signs</title><itunes:title>The Intuitive Awareness of Mortality: Dreams and Signs</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This podcast episode delves into the profound phenomenon of precognitive dreams related to death and dying, exploring the intricate connection between intuition and the awareness of impending loss. We discuss personal experiences, including those of loved ones who seemed to possess a deeper understanding of their mortality, manifesting through subtle hints and conversations prior to their passing. The narrative reflects on how these intuitive signals can often go unrecognized until retrospectively examined, prompting a contemplation of the emotional and spiritual implications of such experiences. We invite listeners to share their own stories and insights regarding this topic, fostering a communal dialogue on the nature of grief and the unseen connections that bind us to our loved ones. Ultimately, this episode serves as a catalyst for reflection on the ways in which we prepare for loss, both as individuals and as part of a larger human experience.</p><p>The discussion revolves around the complex interplay between precognitive dreams and the phenomenon of death, particularly focusing on personal experiences that illuminate these themes. As we delve into the realm of precognition, I reflect on how dreams can sometimes serve as harbingers of significant life events, especially the death of loved ones. Through the lens of my own experiences and those of my wife, we explore the intuition that often accompanies these dreams, suggesting that there is more at play than mere coincidence. The narratives shared highlight instances where individuals appeared to possess a deep, almost instinctual awareness of their impending demise, prompting them to prepare in subtle yet profound ways. This leads us to contemplate the implications of such knowledge, both for the individuals experiencing it and for those who bear witness to their journeys.</p><p>Throughout the episode, I recount touching anecdotes that illustrate how our loved ones may begin to hint at their mortality well before the actual event, as seen in the case of my dear friend Sheila. Her conversations about death and preparations for her own funeral became eerily prescient, prompting me to question why we often overlook such signs until it is too late. These reflections stir a deeper inquiry into the nature of grief and how it manifests in anticipation of loss. I emphasize the importance of recognizing these intuitive cues, as they may offer a pathway to understanding our grief more profoundly and preparing ourselves emotionally for the inevitable.</p><p>Moreover, I encourage listeners to consider their own experiences with precognitive dreams and intuitive knowledge of death. This episode serves not only as a personal exploration of grief but also as an invitation for others to share their stories, fostering a community of understanding and support. By engaging with these themes, we can collectively navigate the challenging landscape of loss, drawing strength from the shared human experience and the insights gained from recognizing the signs that our intuition may provide. Ultimately, this dialogue aims to illuminate the intricate connections between our dreams, our intuition, and our relationships with those we love, particularly as we face the reality of mortality together.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> In this episode, we discuss the intriguing phenomenon of precognitive dreams concerning death and dying. </li><li> We explore personal experiences where loved ones seem to intuitively know their impending demise. </li><li> The conversation emphasizes the subjective nature of precognition and how it can manifest in various forms. </li><li> Listeners are invited to share their own experiences with precognitive events related to loved ones. </li><li> The episode highlights the emotional impact of anticipating loss, even before the death occurs. </li><li> We examine how intuition may guide loved ones towards an understanding of their mortality. </li></ul><br/><p>Companies...]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This podcast episode delves into the profound phenomenon of precognitive dreams related to death and dying, exploring the intricate connection between intuition and the awareness of impending loss. We discuss personal experiences, including those of loved ones who seemed to possess a deeper understanding of their mortality, manifesting through subtle hints and conversations prior to their passing. The narrative reflects on how these intuitive signals can often go unrecognized until retrospectively examined, prompting a contemplation of the emotional and spiritual implications of such experiences. We invite listeners to share their own stories and insights regarding this topic, fostering a communal dialogue on the nature of grief and the unseen connections that bind us to our loved ones. Ultimately, this episode serves as a catalyst for reflection on the ways in which we prepare for loss, both as individuals and as part of a larger human experience.</p><p>The discussion revolves around the complex interplay between precognitive dreams and the phenomenon of death, particularly focusing on personal experiences that illuminate these themes. As we delve into the realm of precognition, I reflect on how dreams can sometimes serve as harbingers of significant life events, especially the death of loved ones. Through the lens of my own experiences and those of my wife, we explore the intuition that often accompanies these dreams, suggesting that there is more at play than mere coincidence. The narratives shared highlight instances where individuals appeared to possess a deep, almost instinctual awareness of their impending demise, prompting them to prepare in subtle yet profound ways. This leads us to contemplate the implications of such knowledge, both for the individuals experiencing it and for those who bear witness to their journeys.</p><p>Throughout the episode, I recount touching anecdotes that illustrate how our loved ones may begin to hint at their mortality well before the actual event, as seen in the case of my dear friend Sheila. Her conversations about death and preparations for her own funeral became eerily prescient, prompting me to question why we often overlook such signs until it is too late. These reflections stir a deeper inquiry into the nature of grief and how it manifests in anticipation of loss. I emphasize the importance of recognizing these intuitive cues, as they may offer a pathway to understanding our grief more profoundly and preparing ourselves emotionally for the inevitable.</p><p>Moreover, I encourage listeners to consider their own experiences with precognitive dreams and intuitive knowledge of death. This episode serves not only as a personal exploration of grief but also as an invitation for others to share their stories, fostering a community of understanding and support. By engaging with these themes, we can collectively navigate the challenging landscape of loss, drawing strength from the shared human experience and the insights gained from recognizing the signs that our intuition may provide. Ultimately, this dialogue aims to illuminate the intricate connections between our dreams, our intuition, and our relationships with those we love, particularly as we face the reality of mortality together.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> In this episode, we discuss the intriguing phenomenon of precognitive dreams concerning death and dying. </li><li> We explore personal experiences where loved ones seem to intuitively know their impending demise. </li><li> The conversation emphasizes the subjective nature of precognition and how it can manifest in various forms. </li><li> Listeners are invited to share their own experiences with precognitive events related to loved ones. </li><li> The episode highlights the emotional impact of anticipating loss, even before the death occurs. </li><li> We examine how intuition may guide loved ones towards an understanding of their mortality. </li></ul><br/><p>Companies mentioned in this episode:</p><ul><li> Pillars of Grief </li><li> Paranormal Daily News </li><li> Deadly Departed </li><li> Frames magazine </li><li> Dr. Marjorie Willico </li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/the-intuitive-awareness-of-mortality-dreams-and-signs]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8e8783eb-c154-45de-8fac-167e2ca83063</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/95e11e81-964a-4a81-a104-0288b3d7f8bc/Precognitive-Death-and-Dying-2.png"/><pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2025 20:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8e8783eb-c154-45de-8fac-167e2ca83063.mp3" length="11952981" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b6479804-bfd2-4961-afd6-9d339d29f8c6/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b6479804-bfd2-4961-afd6-9d339d29f8c6/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b6479804-bfd2-4961-afd6-9d339d29f8c6/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-dc2c9740-2490-4c34-925e-a2b942a437cb.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>Exploring Grief, Division, and Hope Following Charlie Kirk’s Assassination</title><itunes:title>Exploring Grief, Division, and Hope Following Charlie Kirk’s Assassination</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to a special episode of Pillars Of Grief. Today, host Jock Brocas addresses the tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk on September 10, 2025—a shocking event that has rippled far beyond politics into the very heart of our communities. In the midst of misinformation, vitriol, and political polarization, this episode turns the conversation toward grief: how it affects not just the family—leaving his wife, Erika, and two young children to navigate unimaginable loss—but also the wider circles of students, colleagues, and communities who feel shaken, divided, and unsafe.</p><p>Jock calls for reflection and unity in the face of tragedy, urging listeners to look past political labels, to challenge hatred and online toxicity, and to focus on understanding and support. As the nation grapples with trauma and discord, this episode explores how grief, if approached collectively and compassionately, could become a powerful teacher—helping us bridge divides, heal together, and find hope amidst profound loss.</p><p>Whether you agreed with Charlie Kirk’s views or not, this is a call to choose dialogue, empathy, and love over division. Join us as we explore the emotional and social impacts of public tragedy, and how we can come together—rather than let grief become our greatest nemesis.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to a special episode of Pillars Of Grief. Today, host Jock Brocas addresses the tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk on September 10, 2025—a shocking event that has rippled far beyond politics into the very heart of our communities. In the midst of misinformation, vitriol, and political polarization, this episode turns the conversation toward grief: how it affects not just the family—leaving his wife, Erika, and two young children to navigate unimaginable loss—but also the wider circles of students, colleagues, and communities who feel shaken, divided, and unsafe.</p><p>Jock calls for reflection and unity in the face of tragedy, urging listeners to look past political labels, to challenge hatred and online toxicity, and to focus on understanding and support. As the nation grapples with trauma and discord, this episode explores how grief, if approached collectively and compassionately, could become a powerful teacher—helping us bridge divides, heal together, and find hope amidst profound loss.</p><p>Whether you agreed with Charlie Kirk’s views or not, this is a call to choose dialogue, empathy, and love over division. Join us as we explore the emotional and social impacts of public tragedy, and how we can come together—rather than let grief become our greatest nemesis.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/exploring-grief-division-and-hope-following-charlie-kirks-assassination]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">7703a1ff-b2cd-4f21-b6fe-ebb872cfa0a8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/2dca0db4-793b-44e4-9e94-58ca801b5181/Charlie-Kirk-s-Death-How-Grief-Ripples-Through-Families-Communi.jpg"/><pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2025 20:58:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/7703a1ff-b2cd-4f21-b6fe-ebb872cfa0a8.mp3" length="14369454" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>Honoring Loved Ones: Creative Ways to Memorialize and Celebrate Life After Loss</title><itunes:title>Honoring Loved Ones: Creative Ways to Memorialize and Celebrate Life After Loss</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt conversation, Jock and Denise Mack explore the profound journey of grief following the loss of Denise's husband, Jeff. Denise shares her experiences of coping with loss, the signs she feels from Jeff, and how she has honored his memory through community support and creative expressions. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acceptance, storytelling, and the ongoing journey of healing, encouraging listeners to find ways to memorialize their loved ones and embrace their grief as a path to personal growth.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this heartfelt conversation, Jock and Denise Mack explore the profound journey of grief following the loss of Denise's husband, Jeff. Denise shares her experiences of coping with loss, the signs she feels from Jeff, and how she has honored his memory through community support and creative expressions. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acceptance, storytelling, and the ongoing journey of healing, encouraging listeners to find ways to memorialize their loved ones and embrace their grief as a path to personal growth.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/honoring-my-loved-one]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a4fbc6df-1aef-4a5b-b829-5326bc222cac</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/77f8adc7-1af0-40a9-b64d-1f03d9f7f483/Amazing-Ways-You-Can-Remember-Loved-Ones-Podcast-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2025 22:20:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a4fbc6df-1aef-4a5b-b829-5326bc222cac.mp3" length="16398228" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8e5dd97a-a67c-4bc6-affc-9ac27ead9b4d/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8e5dd97a-a67c-4bc6-affc-9ac27ead9b4d/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How She Turned Her Grief Journey Into Something Beautiful"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/ns0xUX-ZVbY"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>It&apos;s never too late to say goodbye to your loved ones</title><itunes:title>It&apos;s never too late to say goodbye to your loved ones</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of "Pillars of Grief with Jock Brocas," we explore the concept of saying goodbye and how it's never too late to do so. Whether you have lost a loved one recently or years ago, it's important to find closure and make peace with the loss. Jock shares tips on how to speak out loud to your loved one, connect with nature, and share stories of their loved ones to help find comfort and healing.</p><p>Show Notes:</p><ul><li>Speaking Out Loud: Sometimes we may feel that we missed the chance to say goodbye to our loved one, but it's never too late. Find a quiet space and speak out loud to your loved one, expressing your feelings, regrets, and love. This can be a cathartic experience and help bring a sense of closure.</li><li>Connecting with Nature: Spending time in nature can be a healing experience. Find a quiet spot where you can be alone and feel connected to the environment around you. Take deep breaths, listen to the sounds of nature, and reflect on your memories of your loved one.</li><li>Sharing Stories: Sharing stories of your loved one with others can be a way to keep their memory alive and find comfort in the memories. Connect with others who knew your loved one and share your favorite memories, stories, and moments. This can help bring a sense of connection and community during the&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grieving process</a>.</li><li>Connecting in your Mind: If you can't find a quiet space or feel uncomfortable speaking out loud, try connecting in your mind. Close your eyes and imagine a peaceful place where you can connect with your loved one. Visualize a conversation with them and express your feelings and love.</li></ul><br/><p>In conclusion, saying goodbye is an important part of the grieving process, and it's never too late to do so. Whether it's speaking out loud, connecting with nature, sharing stories, or connecting in your mind, find what works best for you and honor the memory of your loved one.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of "Pillars of Grief with Jock Brocas," we explore the concept of saying goodbye and how it's never too late to do so. Whether you have lost a loved one recently or years ago, it's important to find closure and make peace with the loss. Jock shares tips on how to speak out loud to your loved one, connect with nature, and share stories of their loved ones to help find comfort and healing.</p><p>Show Notes:</p><ul><li>Speaking Out Loud: Sometimes we may feel that we missed the chance to say goodbye to our loved one, but it's never too late. Find a quiet space and speak out loud to your loved one, expressing your feelings, regrets, and love. This can be a cathartic experience and help bring a sense of closure.</li><li>Connecting with Nature: Spending time in nature can be a healing experience. Find a quiet spot where you can be alone and feel connected to the environment around you. Take deep breaths, listen to the sounds of nature, and reflect on your memories of your loved one.</li><li>Sharing Stories: Sharing stories of your loved one with others can be a way to keep their memory alive and find comfort in the memories. Connect with others who knew your loved one and share your favorite memories, stories, and moments. This can help bring a sense of connection and community during the&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grieving process</a>.</li><li>Connecting in your Mind: If you can't find a quiet space or feel uncomfortable speaking out loud, try connecting in your mind. Close your eyes and imagine a peaceful place where you can connect with your loved one. Visualize a conversation with them and express your feelings and love.</li></ul><br/><p>In conclusion, saying goodbye is an important part of the grieving process, and it's never too late to do so. Whether it's speaking out loud, connecting with nature, sharing stories, or connecting in your mind, find what works best for you and honor the memory of your loved one.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/its-never-too-late-to-say-goodbye-to-your-loved-ones]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">700b34e0-ac78-4290-805b-9a7224a8bea7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/fe6c062b-1043-4cf2-9652-4dbd0704fc51/Never-too-late-to-say-goodbye.png"/><pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 09:40:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/700b34e0-ac78-4290-805b-9a7224a8bea7.mp3" length="24282345" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Did you not say goodbye to your loved one? It&apos;s not too late to say goodbye"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/_odgvYNmb4o"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Solitary Shadows: Men Navigating the Unspoken Depths of Grief and Loneliness</title><itunes:title>Solitary Shadows: Men Navigating the Unspoken Depths of Grief and Loneliness</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to this poignant and heartfelt episode of the Pillars of Grief, hosted by Jock Brocas, a man of deep insight and personal experience in navigating the complex emotional landscape of grief and loneliness. In this intimate and raw conversation, Jock will bravely share his own journey through the uncharted territories of loss, opening up about the unique challenges that men face when confronting their pain.</p><p>As Jock delves into this powerful episode, he will create a safe space for men to unravel the knots of&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-work/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>grief and loneliness</strong></a>&nbsp;that often lay hidden beneath the surface. Through genuine connection and open dialogue, he will explore the transformative power of storytelling and how it can act as a beacon of hope for those wrestling with the silent struggle of bereavement.</p><p>Join Jock on this deeply emotional journey as he uncovers how the bonds of shared experiences can light the way towards healing and resilience in the face of unimaginable loss. Together, we will navigate the&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">unspoken depths of grief</a>&nbsp;and loneliness, and discover the strength that lies within vulnerability and the courage to share our stories.</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to this poignant and heartfelt episode of the Pillars of Grief, hosted by Jock Brocas, a man of deep insight and personal experience in navigating the complex emotional landscape of grief and loneliness. In this intimate and raw conversation, Jock will bravely share his own journey through the uncharted territories of loss, opening up about the unique challenges that men face when confronting their pain.</p><p>As Jock delves into this powerful episode, he will create a safe space for men to unravel the knots of&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-work/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>grief and loneliness</strong></a>&nbsp;that often lay hidden beneath the surface. Through genuine connection and open dialogue, he will explore the transformative power of storytelling and how it can act as a beacon of hope for those wrestling with the silent struggle of bereavement.</p><p>Join Jock on this deeply emotional journey as he uncovers how the bonds of shared experiences can light the way towards healing and resilience in the face of unimaginable loss. Together, we will navigate the&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">unspoken depths of grief</a>&nbsp;and loneliness, and discover the strength that lies within vulnerability and the courage to share our stories.</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/solitary-shadows-men-navigating-the-unspoken-depths-of-grief-and-loneliness]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">c2da4380-6d1c-41b0-b6ea-daeece4ce1f5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/a3ce9ce2-5a35-4d16-b6a9-403eb446f116/SOLITARY-SHADOWS.jpg"/><pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 09:24:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c2da4380-6d1c-41b0-b6ea-daeece4ce1f5.mp3" length="24279820" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>33:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Men&apos;s Loneliness and Grief Breaking the Silence: Men&apos;s Struggles with Grief and Loneliness"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/4I7KlbG38jc"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Unmasking the Hidden Tears: Grieving Men and The Journey Through Loss</title><itunes:title>Grieving Men and The Grief Journey</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>n this profoundly moving episode of the Pillars of Grief Podcast, Jock Brocas delves deep into the rarely explored world of&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>grieving men</strong></a>. Unmasking the Hidden Tears provides listeners with an intimate and emotional journey through the unique challenges and struggles that men face when grappling with loss.</p><p>Our society often expects men to be stoic and strong, but this heart-wrenching discussion reveals the silent suffering they endure behind closed doors. With powerful stories from brave individuals who have faced unimaginable pain, this episode serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.</p><p>Join Jock as he navigates the complex landscape of male grief, breaking down the barriers of societal expectations, and creating a space for vulnerability, healing, and connection. Listen to Unmasking the Hidden Tears and discover the power of embracing our shared humanity in times of unimaginable loss.</p><p>Here are some key takeaway's from this episode;</p><p><br></p><p>1. Men's grief is unique due to societal expectations and the stigma of expressing emotions.</p><p><br></p><p>2. The difficulty men face in expressing their emotions to therapists who may not fully understand their grief.</p><p><br></p><p>3. The importance of having a support system to talk through feelings and emotions.</p><p><br></p><p>4. The need for men to give themselves permission to express their emotions and seek help.</p><p><br></p><p>5. The lack of resources and support for men in grief communities.</p><p><br></p><p>6. The issue of suicide among men who are grieving.</p><p><br></p><p>7. The impact of losing a spouse on a man's life.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p><p>Tags</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>n this profoundly moving episode of the Pillars of Grief Podcast, Jock Brocas delves deep into the rarely explored world of&nbsp;<a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>grieving men</strong></a>. Unmasking the Hidden Tears provides listeners with an intimate and emotional journey through the unique challenges and struggles that men face when grappling with loss.</p><p>Our society often expects men to be stoic and strong, but this heart-wrenching discussion reveals the silent suffering they endure behind closed doors. With powerful stories from brave individuals who have faced unimaginable pain, this episode serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.</p><p>Join Jock as he navigates the complex landscape of male grief, breaking down the barriers of societal expectations, and creating a space for vulnerability, healing, and connection. Listen to Unmasking the Hidden Tears and discover the power of embracing our shared humanity in times of unimaginable loss.</p><p>Here are some key takeaway's from this episode;</p><p><br></p><p>1. Men's grief is unique due to societal expectations and the stigma of expressing emotions.</p><p><br></p><p>2. The difficulty men face in expressing their emotions to therapists who may not fully understand their grief.</p><p><br></p><p>3. The importance of having a support system to talk through feelings and emotions.</p><p><br></p><p>4. The need for men to give themselves permission to express their emotions and seek help.</p><p><br></p><p>5. The lack of resources and support for men in grief communities.</p><p><br></p><p>6. The issue of suicide among men who are grieving.</p><p><br></p><p>7. The impact of losing a spouse on a man's life.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p><p>Tags</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/unmasking-the-hidden-tears-grieving-men-and-the-journey-through-loss]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4db9f502-800a-4528-8a7d-71fc552e7e1e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/a7f612ba-cc55-4bc1-8bee-09b64e8903e8/UNMASKING-TEARS.jpg"/><pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 09:06:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4db9f502-800a-4528-8a7d-71fc552e7e1e.mp3" length="16711411" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>23:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Unmasking the Hidden Tears Grieving Men and The Grief Journey"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/Y5Qgyp7q8fk"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Beyond Butterflies and Feathers: How Real Signs from Loved Ones Appear</title><itunes:title>Beyond Butterflies and Feathers: How Real Signs from Loved Ones Appear</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome back to Pillars of Grief. In this unique episode, host Jock Brocas steps away from the studio and takes us outdoors, sharing his insights while walking in nature—a setting he highly recommends for anyone navigating loss. Today’s focus is a question Jock receives often: how do you truly become aware of signs from your loved ones who have passed? Drawing from personal experience and heartfelt stories, Jock debunks common misconceptions about signs and explores why awareness, intuition, and an unmistakable sense of knowing play a far greater role than simply spotting common symbols like butterflies or feathers. Tune in as Jock guides you through what it really means to recognize authentic signs and why the most profound messages often come in the most unexpected—and extraordinary—ways. If you’re seeking comfort, clarity, or just a gentle reminder that your loved ones remain close, this episode offers both wisdom and solace.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome back to Pillars of Grief. In this unique episode, host Jock Brocas steps away from the studio and takes us outdoors, sharing his insights while walking in nature—a setting he highly recommends for anyone navigating loss. Today’s focus is a question Jock receives often: how do you truly become aware of signs from your loved ones who have passed? Drawing from personal experience and heartfelt stories, Jock debunks common misconceptions about signs and explores why awareness, intuition, and an unmistakable sense of knowing play a far greater role than simply spotting common symbols like butterflies or feathers. Tune in as Jock guides you through what it really means to recognize authentic signs and why the most profound messages often come in the most unexpected—and extraordinary—ways. If you’re seeking comfort, clarity, or just a gentle reminder that your loved ones remain close, this episode offers both wisdom and solace.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/beyond-butterflies-and-feathers-how-real-signs-from-loved-ones-appear]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-17645940</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/8e358350-862a-4e96-9757-6234b8e68849/3ba5qz558zogdh1t9p92vucjfyp4.jpg"/><pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2025 22:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/65659f9c-263a-486d-bc0d-6debac256a61.mp3" length="9601585" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>20:00</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome back to Pillars of Grief. In this unique episode, host Jock Brocas steps away from the studio and takes us outdoors, sharing his insights while walking in nature—a setting he highly recommends for anyone navigating loss. Today’s focus is a question Jock receives often: how do you truly become aware of signs from your loved ones who have passed? 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In today's episode, titled "Anticipatory Grief," host Jock Brocas speaks with psychotherapist Rebecca Moughton about her deeply personal experience with anticipatory grief.&nbsp;</p><p>As Jock and Rebecca navigate through the complexities of watching a loved one suffer from a terminal illness, they delve into the emotional rollercoaster that anticipatory grief brings. They discuss the importance of self-compassion, the power of spiritual foundations, and how acknowledging your pain can transform your grieving process. This episode offers valuable insights and support for those dealing with anticipatory grief and helps listeners understand how to integrate this experience into their lives with grace and resilience. Join us as we journey through this challenging yet enlightening topic, offering tools and perspectives to navigate the anticipatory grief that many of us may face.</p><p>Tune in and open your mind as Jock and Rebecca share their personal stories and professional advice to help you manage anticipatory grief. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation on this episode of "Pillars Of Grief."</p><p><br></p><p>Contact Rebecca on her linkedin profile:</p><p>Rebecca Moughtin MBACP</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-moughtin-mbacp-19475520a/</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome to another powerful and heartfelt episode of "Pillars Of Grief," the show exploring the multifaceted journey of grief and loss. In today's episode, titled "Anticipatory Grief," host Jock Brocas speaks with psychotherapist Rebecca Moughton about her deeply personal experience with anticipatory grief.&nbsp;</p><p>As Jock and Rebecca navigate through the complexities of watching a loved one suffer from a terminal illness, they delve into the emotional rollercoaster that anticipatory grief brings. They discuss the importance of self-compassion, the power of spiritual foundations, and how acknowledging your pain can transform your grieving process. This episode offers valuable insights and support for those dealing with anticipatory grief and helps listeners understand how to integrate this experience into their lives with grace and resilience. Join us as we journey through this challenging yet enlightening topic, offering tools and perspectives to navigate the anticipatory grief that many of us may face.</p><p>Tune in and open your mind as Jock and Rebecca share their personal stories and professional advice to help you manage anticipatory grief. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation on this episode of "Pillars Of Grief."</p><p><br></p><p>Contact Rebecca on her linkedin profile:</p><p>Rebecca Moughtin MBACP</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-moughtin-mbacp-19475520a/</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/anticipatory-grief-and-spiritual-awareness-balancing-emotions-and-acceptance]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-16482394</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/ad69a6c5-163e-4f7e-9cb3-e8f680773daf/ownfp3342yd699oghqsobc33fp6e.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 12:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/52c2b2ba-38e0-4cb5-99a3-e993688d1fd7.mp3" length="56029894" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:17:49</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to another powerful and heartfelt episode of &quot;Pillars Of Grief,&quot; the show exploring the multifaceted journey of grief and loss. In today&apos;s episode, titled &quot;Anticipatory Grief,&quot; host Jock Brocas speaks with psychotherapist Rebecca Moughton about her deeply personal experience with anticipatory grief.   As Jock and Rebecca navigate through the complexities of watching a loved one suffer from a terminal illness, they delve into the emotional roll...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="I Grieved My Loss Before It Happened: How to cope with anticipatory grief"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/DE12xhwOGFQ"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Pets in Spirit: Recognizing Communication from Our Deceased Animals</title><itunes:title>Pets in Spirit: Recognizing Communication from Our Deceased Animals</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Pets are undeniably intertwined with our lives, offering unconditional love, companionship, and at times, even sensing our deepest emotions. But what happens to them when they leave us? Do they possess a soul, and can they communicate with us from the afterlife?</p><p>In this episode, we’ll be delving into the profound bonds we share with our pets and exploring stories that suggest our furry friends can indeed reach out to us from beyond. From heartwarming accounts of dogs holding on until their owners arrive to fascinating discussions on how pets manifest energy to show their presence, we’ll uncover various signs of pet visitations in the afterlife, including dreams, smells, and even mimicked behavior.</p><p>We'll also discuss a scientific test aimed at gathering evidence of pets' communication from the other side. And, as always, we invite you to share your own touching stories of connection with your pets.</p><p>Join us as we navigate this emotional and deeply personal journey, offering insights and support to help us manage our grief while opening our minds to the possibility of afterlife connections. Plus, hear about our upcoming 4-day retreat in 2025 and our free online support community.</p><p>Stay tuned, and let's open our hearts to the signs from our beloved pets in the afterlife.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Pets are undeniably intertwined with our lives, offering unconditional love, companionship, and at times, even sensing our deepest emotions. But what happens to them when they leave us? Do they possess a soul, and can they communicate with us from the afterlife?</p><p>In this episode, we’ll be delving into the profound bonds we share with our pets and exploring stories that suggest our furry friends can indeed reach out to us from beyond. From heartwarming accounts of dogs holding on until their owners arrive to fascinating discussions on how pets manifest energy to show their presence, we’ll uncover various signs of pet visitations in the afterlife, including dreams, smells, and even mimicked behavior.</p><p>We'll also discuss a scientific test aimed at gathering evidence of pets' communication from the other side. And, as always, we invite you to share your own touching stories of connection with your pets.</p><p>Join us as we navigate this emotional and deeply personal journey, offering insights and support to help us manage our grief while opening our minds to the possibility of afterlife connections. Plus, hear about our upcoming 4-day retreat in 2025 and our free online support community.</p><p>Stay tuned, and let's open our hearts to the signs from our beloved pets in the afterlife.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/pets-in-spirit-recognizing-communication-from-our-deceased-animals]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-15582781</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84d55af7-d69e-4bdd-8bbb-1856cdab683d/jw4gw00j0srpy3svnc2fo6brttea.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 14 Aug 2024 12:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a15db51e-cc2b-49dc-91bc-53735fe84f77.mp3" length="26271617" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>36:29</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Pets are undeniably intertwined with our lives, offering unconditional love, companionship, and at times, even sensing our deepest emotions. But what happens to them when they leave us? Do they possess a soul, and can they communicate with us from the afterlife? In this episode, we’ll be delving into the profound bonds we share with our pets and exploring stories that suggest our furry friends can indeed reach out to us from beyond. From heartwarming accou...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Pets in the Afterlife: Comforting Stories of Visits and Messages"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/lOvbvE3XqIA"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Why Grief Bots Might Do More Harm Than Good in Grieving</title><itunes:title>Why Grief Bots Might Do More Harm Than Good in Grieving</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Today we're diving into a controversial yet increasingly relevant topic—**Grief Tech**. While the loss of a loved one is an inevitable part of life, the rise of technology and AI has introduced new methods of coping with grief that raise significant ethical and emotional concerns.</p><p>&nbsp;From AI-generated voices and visual representations of deceased loved ones to grief bots and ghost bots, we'll explore the pros and cons of these modern-day solutions. We'll discuss why these temporary fixes might offer immediate comfort but potentially lead to deeper suffering and prolonged grief disorder. With years of experience in grief research, spiritual mentorship, and afterlife studies, I'll share insights on how to navigate your grief journey without relying on these potentially harmful technologies.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Tune in as we unpack the complexities of grief tech and provide you with the tools to find genuine solace and connection with your loved ones. Let's begin.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Today we're diving into a controversial yet increasingly relevant topic—**Grief Tech**. While the loss of a loved one is an inevitable part of life, the rise of technology and AI has introduced new methods of coping with grief that raise significant ethical and emotional concerns.</p><p>&nbsp;From AI-generated voices and visual representations of deceased loved ones to grief bots and ghost bots, we'll explore the pros and cons of these modern-day solutions. We'll discuss why these temporary fixes might offer immediate comfort but potentially lead to deeper suffering and prolonged grief disorder. With years of experience in grief research, spiritual mentorship, and afterlife studies, I'll share insights on how to navigate your grief journey without relying on these potentially harmful technologies.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Tune in as we unpack the complexities of grief tech and provide you with the tools to find genuine solace and connection with your loved ones. Let's begin.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/why-grief-bots-might-do-more-harm-than-good-in-grieving]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-15331872</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3d2801f9-2513-4b12-9f12-65f4ef7884e9/qlqlejiib97vm62uj4r1q0cfit9b.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jul 2024 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/acf28d2a-adec-4ab5-aaea-8dc1fbfdfa6a.mp3" length="19224187" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:42</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Today we&apos;re diving into a controversial yet increasingly relevant topic—**Grief Tech**. While the loss of a loved one is an inevitable part of life, the rise of technology and AI has introduced new methods of coping with grief that raise significant ethical and emotional concerns.   From AI-generated voices and visual representations of deceased loved ones to grief bots and ghost bots, we&apos;ll explore the pros and cons of these modern-day solutions. We&apos;...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="The Dangerous Side of Ai and Grief Bots"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/YL_ziudQSns"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Staying Connected: How to Talk to Lost Loved Ones During Grief</title><itunes:title>Staying Connected: How to Talk to Lost Loved Ones During Grief</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Pillars of Grief."&nbsp; Today we're delving into an aspect of grief that often goes unspoken: the audible connection to our loved ones who have passed. In this touching episode titled "Talk to Your Loved Ones," we'll explore the profound impact of missing conversations with those we've lost and how we can still maintain that connection. Drawing from personal experiences and years of research, I will provide you with insights and practical steps to help you navigate this unique aspect of your grief journey. </p><p>We’ll discuss how to <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-speaker/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">integrate grief into our lives</a> and learn a new language of communication with our loved ones, ensuring their presence remains deeply embedded in our hearts. So, join me as we embark on this emotional and enlightening exploration, offering comfort and wisdom to all who are navigating the path of loss. Grab a tissue, take a deep breath, and get ready to find solace in the shared journey of grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Pillars of Grief."&nbsp; Today we're delving into an aspect of grief that often goes unspoken: the audible connection to our loved ones who have passed. In this touching episode titled "Talk to Your Loved Ones," we'll explore the profound impact of missing conversations with those we've lost and how we can still maintain that connection. Drawing from personal experiences and years of research, I will provide you with insights and practical steps to help you navigate this unique aspect of your grief journey. </p><p>We’ll discuss how to <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-speaker/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">integrate grief into our lives</a> and learn a new language of communication with our loved ones, ensuring their presence remains deeply embedded in our hearts. So, join me as we embark on this emotional and enlightening exploration, offering comfort and wisdom to all who are navigating the path of loss. Grab a tissue, take a deep breath, and get ready to find solace in the shared journey of grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/staying-connected-how-to-talk-to-lost-loved-ones-during-grief]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-15205912</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3461c54a-5375-43b2-b9b0-637dd04511ea/zo9qvx4rjq7cjj4rbaqhlv76yt48.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2024 11:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/98ff11c4-0c06-4846-ac41-6862b4015266.mp3" length="20192821" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>28:03</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to another heartfelt episode of &quot;Pillars of Grief.&quot;  Today we&apos;re delving into an aspect of grief that often goes unspoken: the audible connection to our loved ones who have passed. In this touching episode titled &quot;Talk to Your Loved Ones,&quot; we&apos;ll explore the profound impact of missing conversations with those we&apos;ve lost and how we can still maintain that connection. Drawing from personal experiences and years of research, I will provide you wit...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How To Talk With Your Loved Ones When They&apos;re Gone"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/xSpA7dkue2w"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Reuniting with Loved Ones: Spiritual Insights and Warnings</title><itunes:title>Reuniting with Loved Ones: Spiritual Insights and Warnings</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome to another heart-touching episode of "Pillars of Grief." Today we're diving deep into the profound topic of crossing over to the other side. This episode, titled "<strong>Do Not Cross Over</strong>," delves into the spiritual and emotional consequences of making drastic decisions to be with your loved ones who have passed.&nbsp;</p><p>While addressing the delicate subjects of grief and suicide, we'll explore the vibrational imbalance that such choices cause and stress the importance of spiritual growth and healing. I'll share personal insights, debunk myths surrounding suicide, and highlight the timeless connection we share with our loved ones. Together, we'll uncover the precious gift of life, embrace the process of natural transition, and find solace in our supportive online community. Stay tuned as we navigate these deep waters with honesty, love, and a commitment to uplift your spirit. Remember to subscribe, leave your reviews, and join us for a journey of understanding and hope.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome to another heart-touching episode of "Pillars of Grief." Today we're diving deep into the profound topic of crossing over to the other side. This episode, titled "<strong>Do Not Cross Over</strong>," delves into the spiritual and emotional consequences of making drastic decisions to be with your loved ones who have passed.&nbsp;</p><p>While addressing the delicate subjects of grief and suicide, we'll explore the vibrational imbalance that such choices cause and stress the importance of spiritual growth and healing. I'll share personal insights, debunk myths surrounding suicide, and highlight the timeless connection we share with our loved ones. Together, we'll uncover the precious gift of life, embrace the process of natural transition, and find solace in our supportive online community. Stay tuned as we navigate these deep waters with honesty, love, and a commitment to uplift your spirit. Remember to subscribe, leave your reviews, and join us for a journey of understanding and hope.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/reuniting-with-loved-ones-spiritual-insights-and-warnings]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-15079774</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/713882f7-9746-4510-9b46-7eb6b9be4090/4h1hmmim51ou3msn83fzb5ery2nz.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b145162f-5a70-48f9-bf6e-12cd139a78dc.mp3" length="21679290" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>30:07</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to another heart-touching episode of &quot;Pillars of Grief.&quot; Today we&apos;re diving deep into the profound topic of crossing over to the other side. This episode, titled &quot;Do Not Cross Over,&quot; delves into the spiritual and emotional consequences of making drastic decisions to be with your loved ones who have passed.   While addressing the delicate subjects of grief and suicide, we&apos;ll explore the vibrational imbalance that such choices cause and stress t...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How to Avoid a Spiritual Crisis After Loss"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/YUe00hrJkWU"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>The Feminine Power Of Grief with Dr. Anne Baring</title><itunes:title>The Feminine Power Of Grief with Dr. Anne Baring</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Today, in our thought-provoking episode titled "The Feminine Power of Grief with Dr. Anne Baring," we dive into a transformative conversation that bridges the spiritual with the material, the past with the present.</p><p>At an inspiring 92 years of age, <a href="https://www.annebaring.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Anne Baring</a>, an esteemed author, union analyst, and historian, brings her wealth of knowledge to our show. She discusses the profound impact the shift from a matriarchal to a patriarchal society has had on our world, and how this has led to the diminishing of the feminine aspect in both men and women—a grief we continue to process.</p><p>From the rise of materialism that disconnects us from the transcendent, to the unfolding narrative of the lost feminine aspect of God, Dr. Baring illuminates the path to understanding the sacredness of life and the urgent need to embrace the feminine power within our grief.</p><p>We explore the shadow aspect, a concept from Carl Jung's work, and its detrimental integration into human consciousness, leading to dire actions such as the manipulation of pathogens in gain-of-function laboratories. Dr. Baring passionately calls for a united stand against such practices that stem from a pursuit of power and an obsession with immortality.</p><p>Beyond our conversations on the historical grief of lost feminine roles and the tragedy of war, we touch upon the importance of love and compassion in the face of loss—something all too familiar during these times of global pandemic.</p><p>As Dr. Baring shares her vision of a global movement led by mothers and grandmothers to end the addiction to war, we're reminded of the collective power of the human spirit. Moreover, we delve into the significance of understanding and integrating grief, whether it's through our online support community or our workshops designed to help manage grief more effectively.</p><p>And, as a bonus, Dr. Baring invites listeners to explore her work further, mentioning her books like "The Dream of the Cosmos," available through her website and Amazon.</p><p>Please join us for this deep and meaningful conversation that not only honors the feminine principle in grief but also encourages us to trust in life's sacred journey. Stay with us as we uncover the pillars of grief and the feminine power within.</p><p>This is "Pillars Of Grief," where every loss is a step on the path to understanding.</p><p><a href="https://www.annebaring.com/book-archive/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Anne Baring Books</a></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Today, in our thought-provoking episode titled "The Feminine Power of Grief with Dr. Anne Baring," we dive into a transformative conversation that bridges the spiritual with the material, the past with the present.</p><p>At an inspiring 92 years of age, <a href="https://www.annebaring.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Anne Baring</a>, an esteemed author, union analyst, and historian, brings her wealth of knowledge to our show. She discusses the profound impact the shift from a matriarchal to a patriarchal society has had on our world, and how this has led to the diminishing of the feminine aspect in both men and women—a grief we continue to process.</p><p>From the rise of materialism that disconnects us from the transcendent, to the unfolding narrative of the lost feminine aspect of God, Dr. Baring illuminates the path to understanding the sacredness of life and the urgent need to embrace the feminine power within our grief.</p><p>We explore the shadow aspect, a concept from Carl Jung's work, and its detrimental integration into human consciousness, leading to dire actions such as the manipulation of pathogens in gain-of-function laboratories. Dr. Baring passionately calls for a united stand against such practices that stem from a pursuit of power and an obsession with immortality.</p><p>Beyond our conversations on the historical grief of lost feminine roles and the tragedy of war, we touch upon the importance of love and compassion in the face of loss—something all too familiar during these times of global pandemic.</p><p>As Dr. Baring shares her vision of a global movement led by mothers and grandmothers to end the addiction to war, we're reminded of the collective power of the human spirit. Moreover, we delve into the significance of understanding and integrating grief, whether it's through our online support community or our workshops designed to help manage grief more effectively.</p><p>And, as a bonus, Dr. Baring invites listeners to explore her work further, mentioning her books like "The Dream of the Cosmos," available through her website and Amazon.</p><p>Please join us for this deep and meaningful conversation that not only honors the feminine principle in grief but also encourages us to trust in life's sacred journey. Stay with us as we uncover the pillars of grief and the feminine power within.</p><p>This is "Pillars Of Grief," where every loss is a step on the path to understanding.</p><p><a href="https://www.annebaring.com/book-archive/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Anne Baring Books</a></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/the-feminine-power-of-grief-with-dr-anne-baring]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14749607</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4230ab9e-ed02-4529-8a6b-5f35c06d21fa/bzebbqesh7e83myadamqw02mdxal.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2024 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f48be1c7-66ce-4e00-a8f8-1ae67c4dc70d.mp3" length="40045803" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>55:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Today, in our thought-provoking episode titled &quot;The Feminine Power of Grief with Dr. Anne Baring,&quot; we dive into a transformative conversation that bridges the spiritual with the material, the past with the present. At an inspiring 92 years of age, Dr. Anne Baring, an esteemed author, union analyst, and historian, brings her wealth of knowledge to our show. She discusses the profound impact the shift from a matriarchal to a patriarchal society has had on ou...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Confronting Historical Grief: Dr. Baring&apos;s Perspective on Women&apos;s Struggles"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/Ui2-fT0ABjE"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Shattering Materialist Views: Uncovering the Spiritual Side of Grief</title><itunes:title>Shattering Materialist Views: Uncovering the Spiritual Side of Grief</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome to another moving episode of "Pillars Of Grief." Today we're delving into a profound journey from a materialist mindset to a belief in the afterlife. With us is the inspiring Laurel Waterman, who will take us through her transformational experiences from the bustling streets of India to the quiet introspection of meditation, and how these laid the groundwork for a seismic shift in her worldview.</p><p>In this episode, "Materialist To Believer In An Afterlife," Laurel bravely opens up about her battles with loneliness, attachment, and the crippling fear of loss, which intensified following the tragic accidental death of her beloved husband. As a creative nonfiction writing teacher at the University of Toronto, she sought solace in the academic, until a small penny dated 1976 emerged from the snow, challenging her skepticism and leading her to explore mediumship and past life regressions.</p><p>Laurel's scholarly pursuits took a turn into the metaphysical, moving from a staunch materialist approach to embracing post-materialism after compelling encounters at a psychometry workshop and transformative moments of spiritual synchronicity.</p><p>Join us as Laurel shares her poignant story that journeys through grief, skepticism, and spiritual awakening, and how it has reshaped her life, her teachings, and her understanding of the connection between this world and the next. Remember to subscribe, leave a review, and join our support community for those on the path of grieving.&nbsp;</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>Welcome to another moving episode of "Pillars Of Grief." Today we're delving into a profound journey from a materialist mindset to a belief in the afterlife. With us is the inspiring Laurel Waterman, who will take us through her transformational experiences from the bustling streets of India to the quiet introspection of meditation, and how these laid the groundwork for a seismic shift in her worldview.</p><p>In this episode, "Materialist To Believer In An Afterlife," Laurel bravely opens up about her battles with loneliness, attachment, and the crippling fear of loss, which intensified following the tragic accidental death of her beloved husband. As a creative nonfiction writing teacher at the University of Toronto, she sought solace in the academic, until a small penny dated 1976 emerged from the snow, challenging her skepticism and leading her to explore mediumship and past life regressions.</p><p>Laurel's scholarly pursuits took a turn into the metaphysical, moving from a staunch materialist approach to embracing post-materialism after compelling encounters at a psychometry workshop and transformative moments of spiritual synchronicity.</p><p>Join us as Laurel shares her poignant story that journeys through grief, skepticism, and spiritual awakening, and how it has reshaped her life, her teachings, and her understanding of the connection between this world and the next. Remember to subscribe, leave a review, and join our support community for those on the path of grieving.&nbsp;</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/shattering-materialist-views-uncovering-the-spiritual-side-of-grief]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14730398</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/fcc6bae4-d246-4f5f-aad3-4fbe9c9d85c7/sz2mfuqqawve0cwkgltr533150j1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5d22fe11-25c1-4f0d-8f4c-c3bcbb3006d9.mp3" length="42302778" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>58:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to another moving episode of &quot;Pillars Of Grief.&quot; Today we&apos;re delving into a profound journey from a materialist mindset to a belief in the afterlife. With us is the inspiring Laurel Waterman, who will take us through her transformational experiences from the bustling streets of India to the quiet introspection of meditation, and how these laid the groundwork for a seismic shift in her worldview. In this episode, &quot;Materialist To Believer In An After...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="The Transformative Power of Grief: How grief changes you"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/qLFiUfbY7MY"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Understanding Grief: The Impact of Losing a Close Friend</title><itunes:title>Understanding Grief: The Impact of Losing a Close Friend</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>In this heart-wrenching episode of the Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas opens up about the recent loss of a dear friend and the profound impact it has had on his life. Through his raw and emotional storytelling, Jock delves into the deep connection he shared with his friend and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the significant impact of losing a friend. He explores the unique nature of soul connections and how they can be just as powerful and profound as family relationships. Join us as we navigate the complexities of grief and learn to cherish the memories of our lost friends.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>In this heart-wrenching episode of the Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas opens up about the recent loss of a dear friend and the profound impact it has had on his life. Through his raw and emotional storytelling, Jock delves into the deep connection he shared with his friend and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the significant impact of losing a friend. He explores the unique nature of soul connections and how they can be just as powerful and profound as family relationships. Join us as we navigate the complexities of grief and learn to cherish the memories of our lost friends.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/understanding-grief-the-impact-of-losing-a-close-friend]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14638120</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4ccf4653-26d0-4b41-8514-425ebe61cefc/pdr417axhdkbn0mllu0usei95ib5.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 06 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4aad8d7e-3150-4b0b-8084-bf41bcd2fa5a.mp3" length="18045547" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>25:04</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. In this heart-wrenching episode of the Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas opens up about the recent loss of a dear friend and the profound impact it has had on his life. Through his raw and emotional storytelling, Jock delves into the deep connection he shared with his friend and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the significant impact of losing a friend. He explores the unique nature of soul connections and how they can be just as powerful and pr...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Secrets To Process Losing A Friend And How To Cope With Grief"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/Dt8x6Ead6lI"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Grief&apos;s Dreamscape: The Reality of Spiritual Dream Visitations</title><itunes:title>Grief&apos;s Dreamscape: The Reality of Spiritual Dream Visitations</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to a poignant new episode of "Pillars Of Grief," I'm your host, <a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Jock Brocas</a>. Today we delve into the enigmatic and comforting realm of dream-visitations, where the veil between this world and the next seems to thin transiently through the language of dreams. Together we explore the profound ways our loved ones may communicate with us as we sleep. No matter where you stand on the spectrum of belief, this episode is about offering reassurance that there's no singular way to experience the ethereal touch of those we've lost.</p><p>Throughout various cultures and religious beliefs, dreams have long been revered as conduits for omens, divine wisdom, or ancestral guidance. But what sets a visitation dream apart from a regular nocturnal reverie? We discuss the ethereal quality of these experiences and share personal accounts that might just shift your perspective on the nightly journeys we all take.</p><p>And while the empirical research is still catching up to the experiential reports, we also touch on the intriguing phenomena of lucid dreaming and how it correlates with these visitations. We honor the powerful narrative of Dr. Patrick McNamara, whose skepticism transformed into belief through a personal encounter within a dream with his late parents.</p><p>As we traverse the complexities of grief's impact on our waking and sleeping lives, we call on you, our listeners, to engage and share your own stories of nocturnal visitations. Your contributions will light the way for others in our online support community.</p><p>So, let us open our minds to the possibility of <a href="https://21v.org/human-spirit-warrior/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">spiritual transformation</a>, and may this episode be a gentle reminder that even in the solitude of grief, we are profoundly connected. Stay tuned as we seek to understand, honor, and accept these "dream-visitations" as potential gifts from those we still hold dear.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to a poignant new episode of "Pillars Of Grief," I'm your host, <a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Jock Brocas</a>. Today we delve into the enigmatic and comforting realm of dream-visitations, where the veil between this world and the next seems to thin transiently through the language of dreams. Together we explore the profound ways our loved ones may communicate with us as we sleep. No matter where you stand on the spectrum of belief, this episode is about offering reassurance that there's no singular way to experience the ethereal touch of those we've lost.</p><p>Throughout various cultures and religious beliefs, dreams have long been revered as conduits for omens, divine wisdom, or ancestral guidance. But what sets a visitation dream apart from a regular nocturnal reverie? We discuss the ethereal quality of these experiences and share personal accounts that might just shift your perspective on the nightly journeys we all take.</p><p>And while the empirical research is still catching up to the experiential reports, we also touch on the intriguing phenomena of lucid dreaming and how it correlates with these visitations. We honor the powerful narrative of Dr. Patrick McNamara, whose skepticism transformed into belief through a personal encounter within a dream with his late parents.</p><p>As we traverse the complexities of grief's impact on our waking and sleeping lives, we call on you, our listeners, to engage and share your own stories of nocturnal visitations. Your contributions will light the way for others in our online support community.</p><p>So, let us open our minds to the possibility of <a href="https://21v.org/human-spirit-warrior/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">spiritual transformation</a>, and may this episode be a gentle reminder that even in the solitude of grief, we are profoundly connected. Stay tuned as we seek to understand, honor, and accept these "dream-visitations" as potential gifts from those we still hold dear.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/griefs-dreamscape-the-reality-of-spiritual-dream-visitations]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14531812</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/826736e0-1072-4dcb-bc09-34805e308193/jru5mwo01120ca4krc2etpx2ddpc.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2024 12:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/39c02dd0-cdab-495c-8df4-f124249aa47c.mp3" length="27814827" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>38:38</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to a poignant new episode of &quot;Pillars Of Grief,&quot; I&apos;m your host, Jock Brocas. Today we delve into the enigmatic and comforting realm of dream-visitations, where the veil between this world and the next seems to thin transiently through the language of dreams. Together we explore the profound ways our loved ones may communicate with us as we sleep. No matter where you stand on the spectrum of belief, this episode is about offering reassurance that th...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Dream Visitations From Deceased Loved Ones"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/JVET_gmz9_0"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Deciding When to Keep or Part With Your Loved Ones&apos; Belongings</title><itunes:title>Deciding When to Keep or Part With Your Loved Ones&apos; Belongings</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into the sensitive question that many grieving individuals face: How long should they keep their loved ones' belongings? He shares insights and personal experiences, explaining that there are no set rules for this process and that it's okay to hold onto these items as long as they provide comfort.&nbsp;</p><p>Jock encourages listeners to prioritize their emotional well-being and make their own decisions without feeling pressured by societal expectations. He offers thoughtful suggestions, such as creating meaningful gifts from the possessions or donating them to serve others in need. Ultimately, he emphasizes that there's no rush – individuals should take their time and do what feels right for them. Tune in as Jock provides heartfelt guidance on navigating this aspect of the grieving journey.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into the sensitive question that many grieving individuals face: How long should they keep their loved ones' belongings? He shares insights and personal experiences, explaining that there are no set rules for this process and that it's okay to hold onto these items as long as they provide comfort.&nbsp;</p><p>Jock encourages listeners to prioritize their emotional well-being and make their own decisions without feeling pressured by societal expectations. He offers thoughtful suggestions, such as creating meaningful gifts from the possessions or donating them to serve others in need. Ultimately, he emphasizes that there's no rush – individuals should take their time and do what feels right for them. Tune in as Jock provides heartfelt guidance on navigating this aspect of the grieving journey.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/deciding-when-to-keep-or-part-with-your-loved-ones-belongings]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14338863</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/bc0f7ab0-e74b-4bfc-ae78-d42ffb06bbef/j56q4j0i6mvy0jo9x9hdxkcwynsj.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2024 07:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e7eda9b9-a28a-41c3-be87-e26b6e33ecac.mp3" length="15188623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>21:06</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into the sensitive question that many grieving individuals face: How long should they keep their loved ones&apos; belongings? He shares insights and personal experiences, explaining that there are no set rules for this process and that it&apos;s okay to hold onto these items as long as they provide comfort.   Jock encourages listeners to prioritize their emotional well-being and make their own decisio...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How long should I keep my loved ones belongings?"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/8XpRBf1qveg"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Honor your loved ones by living your life</title><itunes:title>Honor your loved ones by living your life</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into how we can honor our loved ones by living our lives. He emphasizes the importance of experiencing and celebrating life to honor and remember those we have lost. Jock encourages listeners to shift from grief to a spirit of living, sharing personal experiences and providing insights on how to navigate the journey of grief. He underlines the idea that our loved ones continue to exist in another plane, and by living our lives to the fullest, we can honor their memory. Join Jock Brocas as he guides us through a message of hope and resilience in the face of grief, and inspires us to embrace life in the new year.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into how we can honor our loved ones by living our lives. He emphasizes the importance of experiencing and celebrating life to honor and remember those we have lost. Jock encourages listeners to shift from grief to a spirit of living, sharing personal experiences and providing insights on how to navigate the journey of grief. He underlines the idea that our loved ones continue to exist in another plane, and by living our lives to the fullest, we can honor their memory. Join Jock Brocas as he guides us through a message of hope and resilience in the face of grief, and inspires us to embrace life in the new year.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/honor-your-loved-ones-by-living-your-life]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14232016</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0ff83385-201d-46ff-8306-5b44d99b8025/vdgokq4qm5ttp4fjv347sxhgt4of.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 2024 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d3013059-0bf9-4228-a27a-30bb57e74e6c.mp3" length="14176421" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>19:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. In this episode of Pillars of Grief, host Jock Brocas delves into how we can honor our loved ones by living our lives. He emphasizes the importance of experiencing and celebrating life to honor and remember those we have lost. Jock encourages listeners to shift from grief to a spirit of living, sharing personal experiences and providing insights on how to navigate the journey of grief. He underlines the idea that our loved ones continue to exist in another...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Honor your loved ones by living your life"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/XTWh2H-QKc0"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>8 Strategies For Coping With Holiday Grief</title><itunes:title>8 Strategies For Coping With Holiday Grief</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of navigating holiday grief. The festive season, a time of joy and togetherness, can often amplify the pain of loss and absence. Join us as we explore eight compassionate and practical strategies to help you or someone you love cope with grief during the holidays. From embracing your emotions to creating new traditions, seeking support, and honoring cherished memories, we cover a spectrum of approaches to find solace and strength.</p><p>We'll also discuss the power of storytelling in keeping the legacy of loved ones alive and the importance of creative self-expression in the healing journey. Understanding that holidays can trigger intense emotions, we offer advice on how to anticipate and handle these moments with grace.</p><p>Whether you're grieving, supporting someone who is, or just seeking to understand this complex emotion, this episode offers a blend of empathy, real-life stories, and expert insights. Tune in to find a glimmer of light through loss and discover how to navigate holiday grief with grace and resilience.</p><p>🌟 Listen now to transform your holiday experience and find a path to healing and hope. 🌟</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of navigating holiday grief. The festive season, a time of joy and togetherness, can often amplify the pain of loss and absence. Join us as we explore eight compassionate and practical strategies to help you or someone you love cope with grief during the holidays. From embracing your emotions to creating new traditions, seeking support, and honoring cherished memories, we cover a spectrum of approaches to find solace and strength.</p><p>We'll also discuss the power of storytelling in keeping the legacy of loved ones alive and the importance of creative self-expression in the healing journey. Understanding that holidays can trigger intense emotions, we offer advice on how to anticipate and handle these moments with grace.</p><p>Whether you're grieving, supporting someone who is, or just seeking to understand this complex emotion, this episode offers a blend of empathy, real-life stories, and expert insights. Tune in to find a glimmer of light through loss and discover how to navigate holiday grief with grace and resilience.</p><p>🌟 Listen now to transform your holiday experience and find a path to healing and hope. 🌟</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/8-strategies-for-coping-with-holiday-grief]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-14200822</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5890fd2b-47df-4d09-aa10-86cc82463c99/x3bx4e7er5gvncd8veu1s9upy6y5.jpg"/><pubDate>Sun, 24 Dec 2023 18:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ea8a5808-3d67-4ad7-9bc7-9912a04d0f48.mp3" length="22032278" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>30:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of navigating holiday grief. The festive season, a time of joy and togetherness, can often amplify the pain of loss and absence. Join us as we explore eight compassionate and practical strategies to help you or someone you love cope with grief during the holidays. From embracing your emotions to creating new traditions, seeking support, and honoring cherished memories, we cover a spectrum of appr...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="8 Tips To Overcome Holiday Grief"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/D7Vk1TvEMB0"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Finding Support For Your Grieving Journey</title><itunes:title>Finding Support For Your Grieving Journey</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this episode of "Pillars of Grief," host Jock Brocas shares a heartfelt message about navigating grief during the holiday season. Acknowledging the challenges that come with loss, Jock offers a supportive invitation to join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief community</a>. Through peer-to-peer support and shared experiences, he emphasizes the importance of finding comfort and understanding during a time that may feel particularly difficult for those who are grieving. Join us as we explore the power of community and compassion in the journey through grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>In this episode of "Pillars of Grief," host Jock Brocas shares a heartfelt message about navigating grief during the holiday season. Acknowledging the challenges that come with loss, Jock offers a supportive invitation to join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief community</a>. Through peer-to-peer support and shared experiences, he emphasizes the importance of finding comfort and understanding during a time that may feel particularly difficult for those who are grieving. Join us as we explore the power of community and compassion in the journey through grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/finding-support-for-your-grieving-journey]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-13916304</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/c385db14-be71-4cd6-8847-0a7127f70580/f68zhefcvi0xrrmgiaabpjyitpcd.jpg"/><pubDate>Sat, 11 Nov 2023 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a6b004fd-b3e2-4648-9c7c-ed5e60e50d77.mp3" length="6420875" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>08:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. In this episode of &quot;Pillars of Grief,&quot; host Jock Brocas shares a heartfelt message about navigating grief during the holiday season. Acknowledging the challenges that come with loss, Jock offers a supportive invitation to join the Pillars of Grief community. Through peer-to-peer support and shared experiences, he emphasizes the importance of finding comfort and understanding during a time that may feel particularly difficult for those who are grieving. Joi...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How Can You Heal From Grief? Getting Grief Support"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/W32y8LdCF4w"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Grief Cycles Unveiled: Learning to Ride the Emotional Waves of Loss</title><itunes:title>Grief Cycles Unveiled: Learning to Ride the Emotional Waves of Loss</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome back to a new episode of "Pillars of Grief" with your host, myself, Jock Brocas. I apologize for my absence, but life has taken me on different paths. Today, I want to delve into an important topic that we've discussed in our support groups before: the cycles of grief and how to cope with them. In our journey through grief, we often experience ups and downs, and it's crucial to understand and navigate these cycles. To kick things off, I'll share a funny story about forgetting my own father's anniversary and the valuable lessons I learned from that experience. So, if you're ready to explore the ebb and flow of grief and discover coping mechanisms to help you along the way, let's dive into this episode of "Pillars of Grief."</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome back to a new episode of "Pillars of Grief" with your host, myself, Jock Brocas. I apologize for my absence, but life has taken me on different paths. Today, I want to delve into an important topic that we've discussed in our support groups before: the cycles of grief and how to cope with them. In our journey through grief, we often experience ups and downs, and it's crucial to understand and navigate these cycles. To kick things off, I'll share a funny story about forgetting my own father's anniversary and the valuable lessons I learned from that experience. So, if you're ready to explore the ebb and flow of grief and discover coping mechanisms to help you along the way, let's dive into this episode of "Pillars of Grief."</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/grief-cycles-unveiled-learning-to-ride-the-emotional-waves-of-loss]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-13580872</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/1ef1042c-4b53-4bb9-af1c-066316908d47/dwcmm86iwygemqkb5ee3kxbyzdtt.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 12 Sep 2023 20:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9ae34f08-88f4-497d-888d-033166d8eb1b.mp3" length="24970447" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome back to a new episode of &quot;Pillars of Grief&quot; with your host, myself, Jock Brocas. I apologize for my absence, but life has taken me on different paths. Today, I want to delve into an important topic that we&apos;ve discussed in our support groups before: the cycles of grief and how to cope with them. In our journey through grief, we often experience ups and downs, and it&apos;s crucial to understand and navigate these cycles. To kick things off, I&apos;ll share a ...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Why Do We Feel Grief Like Waves?"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/V3sUfG5w-w8"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Theres So Much More to Grief and Loss Part 2</title><itunes:title>Theres So Much More to Grief and Loss Part 2</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deeper into the multifaceted aspects of grief and loss. Host Jock Brocas welcomes guest Dr. Charlson Gaines, as they explore the profound impact that relationships and connections have on our self-perception and self-worth. They explore how losing a friend can lead to a loss of self-worth and negatively affect our mood, happiness, appetite, and sleep. Dr. Charlson shares his personal experience of not initially recognizing his own experience as grief until they noticed the effects on their overall well-being. </p><p>They discuss the significance of losing someone they held in high regard and the ripple effects it had on their life. Jock and Dr. Charlson encourage viewers to provide feedback and suggest specific topics they would like to be discussed. They invite viewers to subscribe to the podcast and leave reviews to help others discover it. To provide further support, the episode invites viewers to join an online support community for grieving individuals. Dr. Charlson concludes, expressing hope for viewers to find spiritual realization through their <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-support/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief</a>. Throughout the conversation, Jock and Dr. Charlson emphasize the importance of acknowledging the emotional and physiological reactions tied to events. They highlight that grief is not solely about losing a loved one but also about losing a part of oneself. They share the example of an Air Force retiree who faced a loss of identity after 27 years of service, underscoring the diverse nature of grief. The episode also draws attention to the varying responses individuals receive when opening up about their grief. Some respond with compassion, while others dismiss the struggle. </p><p><br></p><p>This complex discussion challenges societal preconceptions of grief, expanding the understanding beyond the loss of a loved one and death. Jock and Dr. Charlson invite listeners to send in questions for further discussion and clarification. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion in the journey of self-discovery and identity realization. Recognizing that the process is different for someone in their mid-40s compared to a teenager, they advocate for self-compassion to embrace healing and seek support from friends. The episode highlights that seeking help for emotional pain should not be stigmatized. </p><p><br></p><p>Dr Gaines emphasizes that emotional pain, like a broken arm, requires assistance and should not be a cause for embarrassment. They explore the connection between the material world and the spiritual realm, emphasizing the need to blend these aspects for holistic healing. Jock discusses their <a href="https://evidentialmedium.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">work as a medium</a> and the importance of raising their vibration to communicate with loved ones on the other side. They stress the continued spiritual connection between partners even after separation. They highlight the yearning of souls and higher selves for expression, peace, harmony, and love. The episode explores the duality of the material world and the absence of karmic imbalance in the spirit world. As the episode comes to a close, Jock expresses excitement about future discussions and encourages listeners to ask questions and share their concerns. They reflect on society's lack of vulnerability, which hinders connections and the e</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer"...]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deeper into the multifaceted aspects of grief and loss. Host Jock Brocas welcomes guest Dr. Charlson Gaines, as they explore the profound impact that relationships and connections have on our self-perception and self-worth. They explore how losing a friend can lead to a loss of self-worth and negatively affect our mood, happiness, appetite, and sleep. Dr. Charlson shares his personal experience of not initially recognizing his own experience as grief until they noticed the effects on their overall well-being. </p><p>They discuss the significance of losing someone they held in high regard and the ripple effects it had on their life. Jock and Dr. Charlson encourage viewers to provide feedback and suggest specific topics they would like to be discussed. They invite viewers to subscribe to the podcast and leave reviews to help others discover it. To provide further support, the episode invites viewers to join an online support community for grieving individuals. Dr. Charlson concludes, expressing hope for viewers to find spiritual realization through their <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-support/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief</a>. Throughout the conversation, Jock and Dr. Charlson emphasize the importance of acknowledging the emotional and physiological reactions tied to events. They highlight that grief is not solely about losing a loved one but also about losing a part of oneself. They share the example of an Air Force retiree who faced a loss of identity after 27 years of service, underscoring the diverse nature of grief. The episode also draws attention to the varying responses individuals receive when opening up about their grief. Some respond with compassion, while others dismiss the struggle. </p><p><br></p><p>This complex discussion challenges societal preconceptions of grief, expanding the understanding beyond the loss of a loved one and death. Jock and Dr. Charlson invite listeners to send in questions for further discussion and clarification. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion in the journey of self-discovery and identity realization. Recognizing that the process is different for someone in their mid-40s compared to a teenager, they advocate for self-compassion to embrace healing and seek support from friends. The episode highlights that seeking help for emotional pain should not be stigmatized. </p><p><br></p><p>Dr Gaines emphasizes that emotional pain, like a broken arm, requires assistance and should not be a cause for embarrassment. They explore the connection between the material world and the spiritual realm, emphasizing the need to blend these aspects for holistic healing. Jock discusses their <a href="https://evidentialmedium.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">work as a medium</a> and the importance of raising their vibration to communicate with loved ones on the other side. They stress the continued spiritual connection between partners even after separation. They highlight the yearning of souls and higher selves for expression, peace, harmony, and love. The episode explores the duality of the material world and the absence of karmic imbalance in the spirit world. As the episode comes to a close, Jock expresses excitement about future discussions and encourages listeners to ask questions and share their concerns. They reflect on society's lack of vulnerability, which hinders connections and the e</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/theres-so-much-more-to-grief-and-loss-part-2]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-13228154</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0645b1b6-89f7-41ac-b6c9-d5ab8ca0e4ee/fdxz13gzvadutbmqsyd0yyiecsjf.jpg"/><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jul 2023 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/73d2dc42-c0e3-40f8-aced-525f72c79c85.mp3" length="51577725" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:11:38</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deeper into the multifaceted aspects of grief and loss. Host Jock Brocas welcomes guest Dr. Charlson Gaines, as they explore the profound impact that relationships and connections have on our self-perception and self-worth. They explore how losing a friend can lead to a loss of self-worth and negatively affect our mood, happiness, appetite, and sleep. Dr. Charlson shares his personal experience of not initially...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Unveiling the Layers of Grief: Beyond Death - Exploring the Many Faces of Loss"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/3iThh4-iEb4"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>The Other Side Of Grief and Grieving</title><itunes:title>The Other Side Of Grief and Grieving</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deep into the other side of grief and grieving. Our host, Jock Brocas, is joined by guest Dr. Charlson Gaines as they explore various aspects of the healing process. They discuss finding a therapist who has dealt with similar issues and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in establishing a connection with a therapist. Trust in therapy is also highlighted, with the recognition that ethical therapists will refer clients to other specialists if they lack expertise in certain areas.&nbsp;</p><p>Dr. Gaines shares a personal example of working as a life coach to help a client improve their relationship and self-esteem, illustrating how the healing process can bring up suppressed trauma. They suggest seeking additional help for dealing with newly surfaced memories and emphasize the importance of acknowledging the reasons for grief in order to better understand it.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation also delves into the concept of vulnerability and self-compassion as aids in the healing process, emphasizing that grief can hinder emotional normalcy if not properly dealt with. Dr. Gaines opens up about their own personal experience with grieving during a complex divorce process, highlighting the unique challenges that arise when an ex-partner remains present in one's life.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The episode takes a spiritual turn as Dr. Gaines discusses the duality between the material world and the higher self. As a medium, Jock explains the process of raising vibrations to connect with loved ones on the other side and highlight the transcendent nature of the love connection between partners. The soul's yearning for expression and the higher self's desire for peace, harmony, and love are explored, as well as the potential breakdown of a relationship if partners do not vibrate at the same level.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation widens to encompass the idea that grief extends beyond just losing loved ones, with examples such as losing a job leading to a deep sense of loss. Listeners are invited to send in questions about grief to further explore the topic. The episode concludes with the anticipation of the next guest, Jalson, sharing their thoughts on the topic.</p><p><br></p><p>&nbsp;Throughout the episode, Jock and Dr. Charlson Gaines address issues such as vulnerability, lack of communication, and the importance of self-compassion in navigating the complexities of grief. They aim to create a safe space for listeners to explore their own experiences of grief and loss. The Pillars Of Grief podcast encourages listeners to subscribe and promises to continue discussing the psychological aspects of grief in future episodes. Listeners are also encouraged to complete the assigned homework and provide feedback or ask questions. Stay tuned for more engaging content in the upcoming episodes of Pillars Of Grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deep into the other side of grief and grieving. Our host, Jock Brocas, is joined by guest Dr. Charlson Gaines as they explore various aspects of the healing process. They discuss finding a therapist who has dealt with similar issues and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in establishing a connection with a therapist. Trust in therapy is also highlighted, with the recognition that ethical therapists will refer clients to other specialists if they lack expertise in certain areas.&nbsp;</p><p>Dr. Gaines shares a personal example of working as a life coach to help a client improve their relationship and self-esteem, illustrating how the healing process can bring up suppressed trauma. They suggest seeking additional help for dealing with newly surfaced memories and emphasize the importance of acknowledging the reasons for grief in order to better understand it.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation also delves into the concept of vulnerability and self-compassion as aids in the healing process, emphasizing that grief can hinder emotional normalcy if not properly dealt with. Dr. Gaines opens up about their own personal experience with grieving during a complex divorce process, highlighting the unique challenges that arise when an ex-partner remains present in one's life.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The episode takes a spiritual turn as Dr. Gaines discusses the duality between the material world and the higher self. As a medium, Jock explains the process of raising vibrations to connect with loved ones on the other side and highlight the transcendent nature of the love connection between partners. The soul's yearning for expression and the higher self's desire for peace, harmony, and love are explored, as well as the potential breakdown of a relationship if partners do not vibrate at the same level.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation widens to encompass the idea that grief extends beyond just losing loved ones, with examples such as losing a job leading to a deep sense of loss. Listeners are invited to send in questions about grief to further explore the topic. The episode concludes with the anticipation of the next guest, Jalson, sharing their thoughts on the topic.</p><p><br></p><p>&nbsp;Throughout the episode, Jock and Dr. Charlson Gaines address issues such as vulnerability, lack of communication, and the importance of self-compassion in navigating the complexities of grief. They aim to create a safe space for listeners to explore their own experiences of grief and loss. The Pillars Of Grief podcast encourages listeners to subscribe and promises to continue discussing the psychological aspects of grief in future episodes. Listeners are also encouraged to complete the assigned homework and provide feedback or ask questions. Stay tuned for more engaging content in the upcoming episodes of Pillars Of Grief.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/the-other-side-of-grief-and-grieving]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-13170892</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/113788b0-1dcd-43cd-9dd2-1c111c34e65f/6106wir1yx6ri37btoz2293r1wyk.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/bd44fcdc-3ad7-4fab-9bdd-0d4cb4a01010.mp3" length="51480542" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:11:30</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. On this episode of Pillars Of Grief, we delve deep into the other side of grief and grieving. Our host, Jock Brocas, is joined by guest Dr. Charlson Gaines as they explore various aspects of the healing process. They discuss finding a therapist who has dealt with similar issues and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in establishing a connection with a therapist. Trust in therapy is also highlighted, with the recognition that ethical ther...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Unveiling the Layers of Grief: Beyond Death - Exploring the Many Faces of Loss"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/3iThh4-iEb4"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Covid Widows</title><itunes:title>Covid Widows</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to Pillars of Grief, Episode 7, 'Coping with the Loss of a Loved One to COVID and Finding Community Support.' In this episode, your hosts Jock and Jill navigate the uniquely painful experience of losing a partner to COVID-19, an ordeal that has become tragically common in our world today. They discuss the profound impact of such a loss, sharing personal insights and stories of resilience in the face of bereavement.</p><p>This episode also shines a light on the help and support that exist within our community for those who have been widowed due to the pandemic. Discover the resources available and learn how connection, empathy, and understanding can play a crucial role in the healing process. It's a journey of pain and recovery, one that we can embark on together, building our pillars of grief and finding strength in shared experiences. Tune in to hear how we can collectively cope with loss and find help in our pillars of grief community.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>Welcome to Pillars of Grief, Episode 7, 'Coping with the Loss of a Loved One to COVID and Finding Community Support.' In this episode, your hosts Jock and Jill navigate the uniquely painful experience of losing a partner to COVID-19, an ordeal that has become tragically common in our world today. They discuss the profound impact of such a loss, sharing personal insights and stories of resilience in the face of bereavement.</p><p>This episode also shines a light on the help and support that exist within our community for those who have been widowed due to the pandemic. Discover the resources available and learn how connection, empathy, and understanding can play a crucial role in the healing process. It's a journey of pain and recovery, one that we can embark on together, building our pillars of grief and finding strength in shared experiences. Tune in to hear how we can collectively cope with loss and find help in our pillars of grief community.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/covid-widows]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-13065933</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/02200a9e-5ca5-42ff-acf2-72210e13ac6c/nq6ngi8l402p0j3anr7xjyp53kr4.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/7b2d6a70-6611-43c3-b1bf-a7284bef2f15.mp3" length="32269845" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:49</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. Welcome to Pillars of Grief, Episode 7, &apos;Coping with the Loss of a Loved One to COVID and Finding Community Support.&apos; In this episode, your hosts Jock and Jill navigate the uniquely painful experience of losing a partner to COVID-19, an ordeal that has become tragically common in our world today. They discuss the profound impact of such a loss, sharing personal insights and stories of resilience in the face of bereavement. This episode also shines a light ...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="How To Battle Covid Grief and How We Support Covid Widows In Our Grief Community"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/WU7OumInPTQ"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Are You Married In Heaven and The Afterlife?</title><itunes:title>Are You Married In Heaven and The Afterlife?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>This episode is not only thought-provoking, but for many of you, it will free you from your chains of bondage you have forged. </p><p>There are so many questions that I get all the time from those loved ones who have been left behind, and who may have lost a husband or a wife? They remain a <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">prisoner in their grief,</a> and the question is - whether there is marriage in the afterlife, and should you find someone else to spend this life with.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Should you date again after your loved one is gone? In the LGBTQ community, I'm often asked if there's any judgement about being in a same-sex marriage or relationship.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>This episode is not only thought-provoking, but for many of you, it will free you from your chains of bondage you have forged. </p><p>There are so many questions that I get all the time from those loved ones who have been left behind, and who may have lost a husband or a wife? They remain a <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grieving-men-breaking-the-self-abuse-of-grief/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">prisoner in their grief,</a> and the question is - whether there is marriage in the afterlife, and should you find someone else to spend this life with.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Should you date again after your loved one is gone? In the LGBTQ community, I'm often asked if there's any judgement about being in a same-sex marriage or relationship.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/are-you-married-in-heaven-and-the-afterlife]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-12888183</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f93e841b-cd9f-49db-a329-54256fee382e/ocdb3qzu4jmazzrhnotf66rruwsv.jpg"/><pubDate>Sun, 21 May 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/68ef1b37-30cb-4fea-b811-b3c2690d0493.mp3" length="21004061" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>29:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. This episode is not only thought-provoking, but for many of you, it will free you from your chains of bondage you have forged.   There are so many questions that I get all the time from those loved ones who have been left behind, and who may have lost a husband or a wife? They remain a prisoner in their grief, and the question is - whether there is marriage in the afterlife, and should you find someone else to spend this life with.   Should you date a...</itunes:summary><podcast:alternateEnclosure type="video/youtube" title="Are You Still Married in the Afterlife, Are There Soulmates In The Afterlife?"><podcast:source uri="https://youtu.be/v40J0IjiOOQ"/></podcast:alternateEnclosure></item><item><title>Honoring Your Loved One With Dr Charlson Gaines PT1</title><itunes:title>Honoring Your Loved One With Dr Charlson Gaines PT1</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>How do you honor your loved ones. When you are grieving, you often try to honor your loved ones based on the expectations of others. In this poignant episode of The Pillars of Grief Podcast, host Jock Brocas sits down with renowned clinical psychologist, Dr. Charlson Gaines. The conversation dives deep into the subject of how we can honor our loved ones who have passed away.&nbsp;</p><p>Dr. Gaines brings his wealth of knowledge through his own journey and professional experience to help us understand the complexities of grief fom his own loss and the importance of honoring those we have lost. He shares his insights on navigating the grief journey and suggests practical ways to remember and honor loved ones in our day-to-day lives.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>In this episode, you will learn:</strong></p><ol><li>The psychological impact of losing a loved one.</li><li>Healthy coping mechanisms during the grieving process.</li><li>The importance and ways of keeping the memory of loved ones alive.</li><li>How honoring our loved ones aids in the healing process.</li><li>Dr. Gaines's perspective on cultural differences in grief and mourning.</li></ol><br/><p>This is a must-listen episode for anyone navigating the landscape of loss and searching for ways to honor the memory of their loved ones. Be sure to tune in for Part 2 of this enlightening discussion.</p><p><strong>Guest Bio:</strong></p><p>Dr. Charlson Gaines is a renowned clinical psychologist, and is the TV Host of Kope Life Nation.</p><p><strong>Host Bio:</strong></p><p>Jock Brocas is a seasoned grief expert and the dedicated host of the Pillars of Grief Podcast. His mission is to help listeners navigate the challenging terrain of loss and grief, offering understanding, solace, and practical tools for their journey.</p><p><strong>Links &amp; Resources Mentioned:</strong></p><ul><li>Dr. Charlson Gaines's (<a href="https://kopelife.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://kopelife.org</a>/)</li><li>Jock Brocas's (<a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com</a>)</li></ul><br/><p>Please remember to rate, review, and subscribe to the Pillars of Grief Podcast to receive updates on the latest episodes.</p><p><strong>DISCLAIMER: The information shared in this podcast is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. If you are in need of support, please reach out to a mental health professional in your area.</strong></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2163272/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send me your questions and thoughts.</a></p><p>How do you honor your loved ones. When you are grieving, you often try to honor your loved ones based on the expectations of others. In this poignant episode of The Pillars of Grief Podcast, host Jock Brocas sits down with renowned clinical psychologist, Dr. Charlson Gaines. The conversation dives deep into the subject of how we can honor our loved ones who have passed away.&nbsp;</p><p>Dr. Gaines brings his wealth of knowledge through his own journey and professional experience to help us understand the complexities of grief fom his own loss and the importance of honoring those we have lost. He shares his insights on navigating the grief journey and suggests practical ways to remember and honor loved ones in our day-to-day lives.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>In this episode, you will learn:</strong></p><ol><li>The psychological impact of losing a loved one.</li><li>Healthy coping mechanisms during the grieving process.</li><li>The importance and ways of keeping the memory of loved ones alive.</li><li>How honoring our loved ones aids in the healing process.</li><li>Dr. Gaines's perspective on cultural differences in grief and mourning.</li></ol><br/><p>This is a must-listen episode for anyone navigating the landscape of loss and searching for ways to honor the memory of their loved ones. Be sure to tune in for Part 2 of this enlightening discussion.</p><p><strong>Guest Bio:</strong></p><p>Dr. Charlson Gaines is a renowned clinical psychologist, and is the TV Host of Kope Life Nation.</p><p><strong>Host Bio:</strong></p><p>Jock Brocas is a seasoned grief expert and the dedicated host of the Pillars of Grief Podcast. His mission is to help listeners navigate the challenging terrain of loss and grief, offering understanding, solace, and practical tools for their journey.</p><p><strong>Links &amp; Resources Mentioned:</strong></p><ul><li>Dr. Charlson Gaines's (<a href="https://kopelife.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://kopelife.org</a>/)</li><li>Jock Brocas's (<a href="https://jockbrocas.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jockbrocas.com</a>)</li></ul><br/><p>Please remember to rate, review, and subscribe to the Pillars of Grief Podcast to receive updates on the latest episodes.</p><p><strong>DISCLAIMER: The information shared in this podcast is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. If you are in need of support, please reach out to a mental health professional in your area.</strong></p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Community</a> APP. <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join Here</strong></a>.</p><p>Join the <a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">grief support community</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/honoring-your-loved-one-with-dr-charlson-gaines-pt1]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-12807305</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/39f293ef-364d-4c5f-8e23-13ad6c995eca/8blgl5ok29fmgm91atbm5taczcer.jpg"/><pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2023 12:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5ca19d8a-628b-426f-914f-ac8acac79557.mp3" length="62550667" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:26:53</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. How do you honor your loved ones. When you are grieving, you often try to honor your loved ones based on the expectations of others. In this poignant episode of The Pillars of Grief Podcast, host Jock Brocas sits down with renowned clinical psychologist, Dr. Charlson Gaines. The conversation dives deep into the subject of how we can honor our loved ones who have passed away.  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Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on what makes him uniquely qualified to help others cope with grief.</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community and connect with the host direct.</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Send me your questions and thoughts.</p><p>On this episode of the <a href="https://PillarsofGriefPodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pillars of Grief Podcast</a>, Jock Brocas shares his grief journey and how it led to his expertise on the topic. Jock offers valuable insights and advice on how to navigate through the grieving process. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on what makes him uniquely qualified to help others cope with grief. 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Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on what makes him uniquely qualified to help others cope with grief.</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jockbrocas" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support the show</a></p><p>Join the Grief Support Community and connect with the host direct.</p><p><a href="https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://jockbrocas.com/grief-group/</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://pillarsofgriefpodcast.com/episode/what-makes-you-the-expert-on-grief]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">Buzzsprout-12611979</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/cc6b5350-03ec-4d7a-88bf-d222f5aaa83d/ea4s2d0x4epap7gpb4uyamhwmrcb.jpg"/><pubDate>Sat, 08 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3f40fb93-af4a-426e-839b-14e039dc62db.mp3" length="15729627" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>21:51</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:summary>Send me your questions and thoughts. 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