<![CDATA[Queerly in Love]]>8483423e-c175-55ba-af0b-c3ea1feed045Fri, 26 Jun 2026 23:30:00 +0000Captivate.fmQueerly in Lovehttps://artwork.captivate.fm/1e8fd3a4-4404-42c6-976a-9129f8a03e59/46009746-1779319086931-628b0aaf6a7a3.jpgQueerly in LoveQueerly in LoveQueerly in LoveComing to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where a very queer and a very much in love couple answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving. Nālani Santiago (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her) is a comedian, trans woman and a sexy sex enthusiast. Her comedy has been seen on the show The Last Open Mic at the end of the world, available on HBO and Adult Swim. In her latest special, Erin turns dating in LA into a live social experiment by looking for a date for the evening on Grindr onstage. Drawing on their own experiences navigating dating, love, identity, and long-term partnership, Erin and Nālani offer candid advice, thoughtful perspectives, and plenty of humor. From first dates and situationships to communication struggles and queer community dynamics, each episode explores real-life dilemmas with empathy, honesty, and a healthy dose of playful banter. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this is your weekly reminder that queer love comes in many forms and nobody has to figure it out alone.https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queerly-in-lovetrueepisodichttps://feeds.captivate.fm/queerly-in-love/PDJWCL5I1MTFnopodcastMommy Doms, Why Date Men and the Ethics of Ethical Non-MonogamyMommy Doms, Why Date Men and the Ethics of Ethical Non-MonogamyThis week we're talking about mommy vs daddy doms, the ethics of ethical non-monogomy and we answer the age old question "why date men?"

Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.

Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that neither one of the hosts aren't complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369.

Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995.

Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiasts.

]]>This week we're talking about mommy vs daddy doms, the ethics of ethical non-monogomy and we answer the age old question "why date men?"

Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.

Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that neither one of the hosts aren't complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369.

Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995.

Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiasts.

]]>83aa904a-9f76-4217-b9d7-349738dd1a1fThu, 25 Jun 2026 07:30:00 -070024:20truefull1441Throuple Trouble, Badmouthing Bi Boys and An Analysis of AnilingusThrouple Trouble, Badmouthing Bi Boys and An Analysis of AnilingusThis week we're theorizing throuples, dissecting bi boys and analyzing analingus. First up, the trouble with throuples.Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that neither one of the hosts aren't complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

]]>This week we're theorizing throuples, dissecting bi boys and analyzing analingus. First up, the trouble with throuples.Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that neither one of the hosts aren't complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

]]>0a0842df-182d-4b94-ac37-c9ec204c99cfThu, 04 Jun 2026 14:08:00 -070027:57truefull1331Trans Chasers, Distance Domination and Poly Pandering PartnersTrans Chasers, Distance Domination and Poly Pandering PartnersThis week we're chatting trans chasers and a poly pandering partner. But our first question is about domination from a distance.


Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.


Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that none of the hosts are complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

]]>This week we're chatting trans chasers and a poly pandering partner. But our first question is about domination from a distance.


Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.


Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that none of the hosts are complete a-holes. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin (she/her) is a comedian, content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

]]>9d752d6b-7e83-404e-86fa-dc77218a68f5Thu, 28 May 2026 23:34:44 -070012:54falsefull1221Brats, Crying During Sex and Comparing Partners in Poly RelationshipsBrats, Crying During Sex and Comparing Partners in Poly RelationshipsThis week we're discussing the dynamics of bratty behavior, crying during sex and comparing partners in poly relationships.


Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that both of the hosts are capable of making a woman cum. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani Santiago (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin Mohr (she/her) is a comedian seen on Adult Swim and HBO, a content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

]]>This week we're discussing the dynamics of bratty behavior, crying during sex and comparing partners in poly relationships.


Coming to you from West Hollywood California, welcome to Queerly in Love, a show where we answer your questions about love, sex, queerness, kink, polyamory/non-monogamy, and why choosing to find joy at this moment in time is more than just a good time, it's life saving.Think of this podcast as Loveline, but with a twist. That twist, of course, is that both of the hosts are capable of making a woman cum. If you have a question you'd like us to answer you can call or text us at 323-645-9369. You can also post your question in the comments below. Nalani Santiago (they/them) has been an enthusiast of, advocate for, and an educator of healthy, fulfilling, and shame-free sex and sexual expression since 1995. Erin Mohr (she/her) is a comedian seen on Adult Swim and HBO, a content creator and a sexy sex enthusiast.

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