Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We’re joined by Nick Jain, a Harvard-trained former private equity investor, and co-founder of Eagle Rock CFO, who builds systems to replace the leadership that used to require a senior executive, giving him a front row seat to a transformation that's rapidly coming for every industry, whether they're ready or not. And he's under no illusions about what that could mean for the rest of us.

In this episode we investigate how AI is displacing not just entry-level roles but senior professional positions that people spent careers building toward, examine the J curve of productivity, and why the short-term pain of technology adoption is being distributed so unevenly.

We also explore the gap between AI's actual capabilities and the hype being sold to businesses and workers, and ask whether Universal Basic Income is a genuine safety net for what's coming - or a way of making worker displacement politically acceptable.

(00:00) The gap between what technology promised and what it's actually delivering

(03:09) The J curve of productivity: why things get worse before they get better

(05:57) AI and job displacement: which roles are most exposed and why

(08:52) Optimism versus pessimism about the future of work: what the evidence actually supports

(12:03) The role of creativity in surviving an AI-driven workforce

(14:51) Where the real opportunities for growth are, and which industries face the hardest road

(18:10) Hollywood as a case study in what AI disruption looks like in practice

(21:01) AI washing: separating genuine capability from marketing noise

(23:06) What AI can actually do in the workforce right now versus what we're told it can do

(30:11) The human cost of job displacement beyond the economic argument

(37:24) Universal Basic Income as a response to automation: solution or sticking plaster?

(42:12) What the future of work looks like as AI capabilities continue to evolve

Key takeaways:

• AI and the always-on work culture: Technology promised liberation from the workplace but created a prisoner's dilemma where competition drives everyone to work more, not less

• AI displacement is structural, not temporary: Like auto industry automation, displaced white-collar workers are unlikely to successfully retrain - roughly 60% face permanent displacement

• AI washing is real: Many corporate layoffs framed as AI-driven efficiency are either premature or cover for offshoring, but the end result for workers is identical

• UBI is inevitable but minimal: AI-driven displacement will force democratic governments toward Universal Basic Income, but only enough to prevent civil unrest - not enough for genuine prosperity

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Taxi Industry: A Data-Driven Destruction of Dignified Work?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZjFmM2RlN2EtZTNjMC00MTVmLTg3YzgtNTk5Y2NjMWNkNzMy

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

The Job Hunt: Built to Harvest Data, Not People?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTEzYzdjODgtNzYyMS00MzY2LWE5ZmQtN2YzMWMwODE5Njhi

Guest links – Nick Jain

Website: https://www.eaglerockcfo.com/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Joe Zahaitis, a payments industry strategist with over 30 years experience in the high-velocity digital marketplace - giving him an insider's view of what happens when we trade a sensory, social experience for an impersonal digital one that leaves most retailers in a tech-driven race to the bottom.

In this episode we investigate how e-commerce dismantled the high street and the community spaces built around it, examine the psychological effects of instant gratification and what it's done to our relationship with shopping, explore the trust and transparency challenges of buying in a world you can't touch or see, and ask whether AI and personalisation can ever replace what’s been lost.

(00:00) The transformation of retail in the digital age

(03:02) How e-commerce reshaped society beyond just shopping

(06:08) The rise of instant gratification and what it costs us

(08:49) Customer service in the digital age: better or worse?

(12:07) The future of local retail: survival or slow death?

(14:46) Trust and transparency in online shopping

(18:04) The role of AI in shaping consumer experiences

(21:01) The psychological effects of online shopping on behaviour and identity

(23:52) Digital payments and the friction they remove - and create

(26:54) Where online retail goes from here - and what gets left behind

Key takeaways:

• The Cost of Frictionless Consumption: The over-optimisation of e-commerce has systematically stripped away the natural consequences of consumer behaviour.

• The Monopolistic Playbook: Once competitors are forced into obsolescence, market power consolidates completely into entities that face little genuine accountability for rising fraud, counterfeit goods, or declining systemic customer service.

• The Loss of Relationship and Community: Where consumers once built long-term trust and value with local proprietors, modern systems rely on relentless, programmatic outreach and defensive customer service architectures.

• The Decrementing Value of Cashless Economies: the digital payments ecosystem demands that a network fee be scraped from every transaction layer by intermediaries, deeply diminishing capital’s true purchasing power.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Rental Markets: A Frantic Fight For Shelter As A Service?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZDU3ZjAzYjktMmZiZi00NmM3LTg4M2ItYTE4OGI1ZWQ2YTFl

Gambling: Optimised For Frictionless Financial Mayhem?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NmY5NjZmYTktYzc4Mi00MWFlLThiMjAtNmE0OTM0MTc2MTVk

Broadcast Television: The Digital Dismantling of an Entire Industry?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/OTc0YmNmYzItMTI4ZC00OTcwLTk0YWYtYjdjNjY2MTYxYmFj

Guest links – Joe Zahaitis

Website: https://www.zahaitis.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joezahaitis/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Chelsea Reynolds - sleep researcher and clinical psychologist - who is exactly the right person to ask about what happens when bedtime becomes screen time, and whether our screens are the problem, or the solution.

In this episode we investigate how screens and digital habits are disrupting our sleep biology, examine the sleep displacement hypothesis and what it actually means for how we rest, explore the psychology behind why we choose screens over sleep even when we know better, and ask whether the same technology keeping us awake could ever genuinely help us sleep.

(00:00) The internet's impact on sleep and why it matters

(04:59) Sleep biology and exactly where technology interferes

(09:57) The sleep displacement hypothesis: are screens stealing our hours or just our quality?

(15:00) Navigating sleep aids in a world full of digital solutions

(20:01) How the blurring of work and personal life is destroying sleep boundaries

(25:04) The bright light hypothesis and how screen wavelengths affect sleep patterns

(25:09) Understanding sleep routines and where technology fits in

(30:36) Teenagers, sleep needs, and the specific risks of digital exposure

(33:00) The risk factors most people don't know are affecting their sleep

(35:30) How to transform technology from sleep disruptor into sleep aid

(37:23) Practical sleep strategies for a screen-saturated world

(39:44) The nuance of technology's role in sleep: it's not all bad

Key takeaways:

• The Screen Light Myth vs. Reality: While the general rule to avoid screens an hour before bed is a safe way to wind down, the idea that blue light completely destroys sleep biology is overblown.

• Four Psychological Drivers of Late-Night Tech Use: Dr. Chelsea Reynolds outlines four distinct frameworks behind why we can't put down our devices at night.

• The Trap of Sleep Trackers and the "8-Hour Rule": A major irony of modern sleep health is the tendency to turn to new technology to solve problems supposedly caused by technology.

• Expert Recommendations for Better Sleep: Instead of relying on rigid rules or digital tracking metrics, clinical practice emphasizes individual flexibility and behavioural conditioning.

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Attention Spans: A Short-form Destruction of Focus?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2M2NzYwY2ItMTI0OC00MzNhLWJkNmUtNWVlNmE5YzkwNTky

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODYyNDQ1MzAtMzdlNy00NjEzLWE4ZWEtYjgxMjMzNTJjOGJk

Self Improvement: Progress Replaced With Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTI5M2Y0OWItNWMzNy00OGMxLTljZTgtOTk5MjI2MGM1YzRj

Guest links - Chelsea Reynolds

Website: https://www.bedtimewindow.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chelsea-reynolds-29b43191/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We’re joined by Courtney Kocak - writer, comedian, and author of the memoir ‘Girl Gone Wild’ - to investigate one of the most uncomfortable questions about what technology has done to identity, autonomy, power, and the people caught in between.

In this episode we trace the journey from early 2000s media to today's self-monetisation platforms, examine how the attention economy and algorithms have reshaped desire and self-perception, investigate the rise of online male communities and their generational impact, and ask whether AI is accelerating the problem - or simply making it harder to see.

(00:00) The Internet's impact on empowerment and objectification

(03:10) From early 2000s media to today's self-monetization platforms

(07:50) The evolution of pop culture and its increasingly explicit direction

(09:12) Tracing the cultural roots of today's online extremity

(13:28) The influence of the attention economy

(14:37) The rise of the manosphere and its impact

(16:29) The generational difference: navigating online life and authenticity

(20:13) Shifting attitudes toward sex work and societal acceptance

(23:29) The influence of explicit online content

(25:34) How online validation shapes our self-perception

(27:13) Authenticity and the rejection of algorithm-driven content

(30:18) The potential and pitfalls of AI in digital content and society

(34:47) The impact of AI-generated actors and content on creative industries

(36:57) The slow political response to AI and digital regulation

(38:15) The importance of nuanced conversations

(39:41) Concerns about technology's societal effects

Key takeaways:

• The Evolution of Digital Empowerment: While early-2000s entities like Girls Gone Wild commodified young women to enrich a few male executives, modern platforms like OnlyFans represent a genuine shift in financial and creative control.

• The Rise of "Honest" Pop Culture: While turn-of-the-century media used humour to mask toxic behaviours and normalise sexual assault, modern internet culture and art are arguably more explicit but far more honest, allowing women to remain in control of their own sexuality.

• Algorithmic ‘Brain Rot’: Modern digital platforms rely on attention-economy algorithms that trap creators and audiences in loops of outrage, hot takes, and hyper-fixation—transforming real human lives into content mills designed to feed the product.

• The Looming Threat of AI Scale: As AI-generated bot content and virtual figures surpass 50% of online material, individual human creators face an unsustainable battle for attention against automated systems.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Self Improvement: Progress Replaced With Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTI5M2Y0OWItNWMzNy00OGMxLTljZTgtOTk5MjI2MGM1YzRj

Dating & Relationships: A Dehumanising Paradox of Infinite Choice?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NDAyYjM4YjItNjgxYi00NWEyLTlkZTQtZWY1NTk0N2E3YjFi

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Guest links — Courtney Kocak

Website: https://www.courtneykocak.com/

Podcast: https://www.privatepartsunknown.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtneykocak/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courtneykocak

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Thomas Sigler - Deputy Head of the School of the Environment and Associate Professor of Human Geography at the University of Queensland - whose research sits at the intersection of urban geography, technology, and how we live.

In this episode we investigate how short-term rental platforms hollowed out housing supply, examine the role of PropTech in reshaping how we search and apply for homes, explore the data privacy implications of digital rental applications, and ask whether the technology that promised transparency has simply handed more power to landlords, platforms, and property influencers.

(00:00) Introduction to the Rental Market Crisis

(02:57) The Impact of Short-Term Rentals

(06:04) Understanding the Rental Market Dynamics

(08:47) The Role of PropTech in Rental Searches

(11:55) Community Resistance and Transient Populations

(15:02) The Rise of Digital Nomadism

(17:51) The Transparency of Digital Platforms

(21:07) Privacy Concerns in Rental Applications

(24:09) Regulatory Challenges in the Rental Market

(26:45) The Influence of Property Influencers

(29:56) FOMO and the Property Market

(33:10) Crisis in the Housing Market

(36:05) The Future of Housing and Technology

(38:59) What renters can actually do

Key takeaways:

• Corporate Consolidation: While short-term rental platforms were originally marketed as a way for everyday moms and dads to rent out a spare room, the market has undergone massive institutional consolidation.

• Neighbourhood Decay: The financial incentive to chase high nightly yields over stable monthly tenancies erodes the traditional social fabric of neighbourhoods, drives up local baseline rents, and replaces community stability with hollowed-out tourist corridors.

• Algorithmic Rent-Setting and Artificial Pricing Floors: The traditional, relationship-driven negotiations between local property managers and tenants have been largely replaced by dynamic, algorithmic pricing software.

• Information Asymmetry and Tenant Vulnerability: While landlords have total transparency into a prospective tenant's rental history, financial standing, and digital footprint, tenants remain completely blind to the algorithmic metrics denying them housing.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Job Security: Optimised For Our Own Obsolescence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGM2ZmUwZDQtMWEzNS00NWNmLWIyNjAtZmMwMzkxMTRmOGQ3

The Taxi Industry: A Data-driven Destruction of Dignified Work?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZjFmM2RlN2EtZTNjMC00MTVmLTg3YzgtNTk5Y2NjMWNkNzMy

Gambling: Optimised for Frictionless Financial Mayhem?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NmY5NjZmYTktYzc4Mi00MWFlLThiMjAtNmE0OTM0MTc2MTVk

Guest links — Thomas Sigler:

https://environment.uq.edu.au/profile/9602/thomas-sigler

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Justin Leff - behavioural coach and founder of Solilium Coaching - who helps people with discipline, wellness, and self-understanding, and has seen firsthand what happens when the algorithm becomes the self-improvement plan.

In this episode we investigate how algorithms and social media have reshaped our goals and motivation, examine the danger of social comparison in a world of curated success, explore how digital overload creates decision fatigue, and ask whether AI is finally the personalised self-improvement tool we were promised - or just a more sophisticated version of the same one-size-fits-all problem.

(00:00) The Impact of the Internet on Self-Improvement

(03:12) Globalisation of Ideas and Goals

(06:07) The Dangers of Social Comparison

(09:08) The Role of Role Models in the Digital Age

(12:03) Chasing Status vs. Genuine Self-Improvement

(15:12) The Journey of Self-Discovery

(18:05) The Process Over Quick Fixes

(21:14) The Impact of Digital Overload on Motivation

(24:08) Navigating Decision Fatigue in a World of Options

(28:03) The Future of Self-Improvement Without Social Media

(30:41) AI's Role in Tailored Self-Improvement

(35:08) Finding Authentic Peer Support in Self-Improvement

(37:13) The Importance of Community in Personal Growth

Key takeaways:

• The Optimisation Trap: reading endless books, listening to podcasts, and watching motivation videos tricks the brain into feeling productive while delaying the uncomfortable real-world action required for genuine change.

• Flawless Online Archetype Illusion: Social media platforms elevate curated, hyper-disciplined aesthetics into unrealistic standards of human perfection, forcing everyday users into toxic loops of comparison and shame.

• Commercialisation of Existential Discontent: The modern wellness and self-improvement economy operates by intentionally pathologising normal human emotions and rebranding them as systemic optimisation problems to fix.

• The Ceiling of Digital Community: Digital-only connections hit a psychological ceiling; lasting personal transformation and fulfillment ultimately require grounding yourself in physical, local communities.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Sleep: Screens Stealing Our Slumber?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/N2NlNGQ3ZmItYTk1Yy00MjRlLTk5YjAtMmUyODM0OTRlNTQz

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Empowerment: Objectification Rebranded As Agency?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YTVjZDI5NjYtOWUzZC00ZDQ4LWFkZWUtYWViZjlmMjRmYjUx

Guest links - Justin Leff

Website: https://www.soliliumcoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soliliumthoughts/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoliliumThoughts

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Rod Barton - former Victorian Member of Parliament and founder of the Transport Matters Party - who fought the regulatory battle for taxi drivers firsthand, and understands better than most what happens when platforms disrupt an industry and governments struggle to keep up.

In this episode we investigate how rideshare platforms dismantled the traditional taxi industry, examine the safety and insurance gaps that opened up in the process, explore the rights of gig economy workers caught between flexibility and exploitation, and ask whether government regulation has any hope of keeping pace with the platforms rewriting the rules.

(00:00) The internet's impact on the taxi industry

(03:01) What the taxi industry looked like before rideshare

(05:52) The regulatory framework rideshare bypassed

(08:57) Safety and insurance gaps in rideshare services

(12:13) Gig economy workers — flexibility or exploitation?

(15:05) Customer service in the age of algorithmic dispatch

(17:50) Where the gig economy is heading

(21:00) The role of government in regulating platform transport

(23:55) What a fair path forward looks like for drivers and riders

Key takeaways:

• Innovation via Regulatory Arbitrage: The rapid ascent of rideshare giants was less an achievement of superior technology and more a deliberate exploitation of legal loopholes.

• Destruction of Intergenerational Equity: The sudden de-regulation and refusal of state governments to protect taxi licences stripped working-class operators of their financial security.

• Exploitative Architecture of the "Gig Economy": The shift from traditional employment or stable independent contracting to a platform-based model systematically offloads all operational risk from the corporate entity onto the individual worker.

• Erosion of Local Corporate Accountability: The gig economy allows foreign entities to funnel local economic wealth out of the country, and remain largely detached from the long-term social health of the communities they operate in.

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Rental Markets: A Frantic Fight for Shelter As A Service?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZDU3ZjAzYjktMmZiZi00NmM3LTg4M2ItYTE4OGI1ZWQ2YTFl

Broadcast Television: The Digital Dismantling of an Entire Industry?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/OTc0YmNmYzItMTI4ZC00OTcwLTk0YWYtYjdjNjY2MTYxYmFj

Music: An Algorithmic Burial of Human Artists?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGEwYmZiOTUtMTAyNS00ZDA1LTlkNmMtNjlhYjhkNzBjMmQz

Guest links — Rod Barton

Website: https://rodbarton.com.au

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rod-barton

Facebook: https://facebook.com/RodBarton08

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Joseph Kennedy - Head of Marketing & Growth at blockchain platform Alephium - who works at the centre of decentralisation and understands better than most the gap between what the technology promised and what it delivered.

In this episode we investigate how venture capital and Big Tech quietly captured the decentralisation movement, examine the rise and fall of crypto's public credibility, explore the regulatory battle between governments and decentralised networks, and ask whether true decentralisation is still possible - or whether the centre always wins in the end.

(00:00) The promise of decentralisation and how it was eroded

(02:50) The role of venture capital in shaping crypto

(06:11) The infrastructure dilemma: centralised tools in a decentralised world

(08:57) Public perception of crypto and Web3: how did it go so wrong?

(12:11) The influence of regulation on decentralised innovation

(15:08) Corporate involvement in Web3: help or hijack?

(17:52) NFTs beyond the hype: is there real utility?

(20:50) How value is perceived in the digital asset space

(23:07) The rise and fall of Steemit as a cautionary tale

(28:08) The ethical dilemma at the heart of centralisation vs decentralisation

(30:29) Can the decentralised space self-regulate?

(33:18) Government control and the decentralised response

(37:50) The real barriers to mass adoption

(40:12) A divided landscape: where decentralisation goes from here

(42:55) A vision for what true decentralisation could look like

Key takeaways:

• Centralised Chokepoints in Web3: While blockchain technology was engineered to eliminate intermediaries, the modern crypto ecosystem heavily relies on centralised entities like major exchanges and stablecoin issuers.

• The Mutation of Decentralisation: The foundational philosophy of cryptography has been largely overshadowed by an attention economy driven by speculation, wealth extraction, and gambling.

• Regulatory Arbitrage of Global Tech Platforms: Platforms that prioritise compliance often sacrifice core decentralised principles, leaving pure peer-to-peer protocols operating in a vulnerable grey market facing aggressive regulatory headwinds.

• Resurgence and Value of True Self-Custody: Managing your own cryptographic keys and routing transactions without third-party oversight offers genuine security that centralised alternatives cannot guarantee.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Internet: A Corporate Hijacking of Digital Freedom?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmIzMDA0ZTQtMDA1Ny00OTE1LTkyY2QtNjhhM2NlMzJmODdh

Truly Disappearing: Powering Our Own Perpetual Surveillance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGMxOTZlZTMtMTM4Yi00MmI4LWI0YTgtNzU3YjE5N2Q3Y2Nl

Child Safety: Private Platforms Full of Private Predators?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2U3MWEyMGEtM2I3NC00ZjUxLTk0YzItYTY3NDhmZjUwNTBm

Guest links – Joseph Kennedy

Website: http://www.alephium.org

Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/bigpepghost

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephkennedyuk/

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We're joined by Dr Maria-Elena Lukeides - clinical psychologist specialising in Mindfulness-based Cognitive Behavioural Therapies, drawing on neuroscience, behavioural design, and evolutionary psychology - who understands better than most what genuine human connection actually requires, and what the digital world is quietly stripping away.

In this episode we investigate how digital communication has changed the nature of relationships, examine the neuroscience behind why online validation feels like connection but isn't, explore the battle between dopamine and oxytocin in a world optimised for instant gratification, and ask whether AI is the most dangerous substitute for human connection yet - or simply the most convenient.

(00:00) The internet's impact on human connection

(02:34) The illusion of connection in a hyper-connected world

(06:03) What online communication can and can't replicate

(10:37) How the internet is eroding our patience for real relationships

(13:30) Why we avoid unpleasant emotions - and what that costs us

(17:14) Dopamine vs oxytocin: the chemistry of real vs digital connection

(20:53) The quest for meaningful relationships in a fast-paced world

(24:17) How digital habits are bleeding into real-life connections

(28:23) AI as a substitute for human connection: comfort or catastrophe?

(33:43) The challenges facing modern relationships

(38:07) Building resilience in relationships in a distracted world

(41:00) Psychedelic therapy and its role in rebuilding connection

Key takeaways:

• Connection vs. Neurological Isolation: While social media and messaging platforms simulate constant interpersonal contact, digital communication fails to activate the complex processes that human biology requires to regulate stress and feel genuinely connected.

• Erosion of Developmental Milestones in Tech-First Childhoods: The introduction of smartphones and personal screens to developing children bypasses crucial experiential milestones, fostering a generation with heightened social anxiety and diminished emotional resilience.

• Commercialisation of Human Vulnerability: By feeding on and amplifying user insecurities, outrage, and comparison loops to maximise screen time, these platforms actively monetise existential loneliness under the guise of community building.

• Value of Boredom and Unstructured Space: Without quiet, unstructured moments of internal reflection, the human brain loses its primary incubator for creative problem-solving, self-soothing, and deep identity formation.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODYyNDQ1MzAtMzdlNy00NjEzLWE4ZWEtYjgxMjMzNTJjOGJk

Common Ground: From Dialogue to Digital Battlefield?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODkzNWY5Y2UtYTFmMy00NGQxLTk1YWMtMjk2ZDNkYjg0NDU4

Guest links - Dr Maria-Elena Lukeides

Website: https://www.drmariaelenalukeides.com.au

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmariaelena_lukeides/

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-elena-lukeides-270379a5

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Bia Labate - Brazilian anthropologist, founder and Executive Director of The Chacruna Institute of Psychedelic Plant Medicines, and one of the world's leading ayahuasca experts - who has spent her career at the intersection of indigenous knowledge, psychedelic research, and the ethics of what happens when ancient practices meet the modern internet.

In this episode we investigate how social media transformed ayahuasca from a protected indigenous practice into a globally marketed experience, examine the ethical minefield of selling spiritual healing online, explore the very real risks of unqualified facilitators operating in an unregulated digital marketplace, and ask whether the internet's role in spreading ayahuasca has done more harm than good — or opened doors that needed opening.

(00:00) Introduction to ayahuasca and the internet's impact

(01:03) Bia's personal journey with ayahuasca

(04:09) How ayahuasca practices have evolved in the digital age

(07:37) Social media's role in shaping ayahuasca experiences

(12:28) Authenticity versus misrepresentation in online ayahuasca culture

(17:16) Guidelines for finding safe ayahuasca practices online

(19:58) The role of facilitators in healing ceremonies

(21:02) Navigating the real risks of digitally sourced ceremonies

(22:45) Cultural etiquette and the question of community control

(24:35) The genuine positive outcomes of ayahuasca's global exposure

(27:46) The paradox of ayahuasca's popularity

(29:26) Ethics and sustainability in a commodified practice

(31:03) How digitalisation is changing the ceremony itself

(34:16) What prospective participants should know before they look online

Key takeaways:

• Mutation of Sacred Lineages into Digital Commodities: Online advertising and social media algorithms have replaced deep, face-to-face community vetting with superficial digital branding, decoupling the medicine from its traditional lineage and cultural contexts.

• Rise of Performative Spiritualism: Visual platforms like Instagram have fuelled the phenomenon of neo-shamanism, where facilitators use curated aesthetics, professional photography, and lifestyle branding to project spiritual authority.

• The Distortion of Expectations: Digital hype often minimises the intense psychological, physical, and emotional risks involved, leading to a lack of preparation for the complex reality of the experience.

• Erosion of Safety, Ethics, and Reciprocity: The rapid expansion of the global psychedelic market has led to a rise in under-trained facilitators, cultural extraction without reciprocity to Indigenous communities, and a lack of centralised accountability for safety violations or spiritual malpractice.

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Attention Spans: A Short-form Destruction of Focus?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2M2NzYwY2ItMTI0OC00MzNhLWJkNmUtNWVlNmE5YzkwNTky

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Magic & Illusion: Secrets Killed 60 Seconds at a Time?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGI0ZGFmM2YtYTA4ZS00ZWJhLTg4YzAtMWUyYzFjYzU3ODJl

Guest links – Bia Labate

Website: http://www.bialabate.net

Chacruna Institute: https://chacruna.net/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC22F9iOhoGVWPiVlO9ueN0Q/featured

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labatebia/

Further reading: https://chacruna.net/the-commodification-of-ayahuasca-how-can-we-do-better/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Dr Andres Reiljan - political scientist at the European University Institute - whose research into affective polarisation puts him at the exact intersection of politics, psychology, and what the digital world is doing to how we see each other.

In this episode we investigate the mechanics of affective polarisation in a digital age, examine how algorithms amplify divisive sentiment without most people realising it, explore the psychological toll of constant exposure to conflict, and ask whether technology that created the polarisation problem can ever meaningfully solve it.

(00:00) Introduction to affective polarisation

(02:30) What affective polarisation actually means and why it matters

(04:30) The role of politics in driving digital division

(07:05) Party versus leader polarisation: what's the difference?

(09:17) The biggest misconceptions about polarisation

(11:35) How algorithms amplify divisive content

(13:44) Factual belief polarisation: when we can't agree on reality

(16:13) Navigating disagreement with curiosity rather than conflict

(18:02) The outsized influence of loud voices in political discourse

(19:56) The mechanics of how polarisation spreads and sticks

(24:36) Social media's specific role in the polarisation crisis

(29:11) Finding common ground in a fragmented world

(32:24) The psychological toll of living in a polarised environment

(34:06) Practical strategies for overcoming polarisation

(36:09) Can technology be used to combat what technology created?

Key takeaways:

• Shift from Ideological to Affective Polarisation: Modern political division is increasingly driven by a deep-seated, emotional hostility where individuals view political opponents with active dislike and distrust.

• Algorithmic Weaponisation of Outrage: Social media platforms are engineered to treat user attention as a core commodity, with algorithms explicitly designed to maximise engagement by prioritising content that triggers moral outrage and division.

• Exposure in Echo Chambers: Users self-select into highly curated digital echo chambers, insulating them from opposing viewpoints and creating an exaggerated perception of their own group's consensus.

• Erosion of Localized Common Ground: The hyper-globalization of political narratives online has flattened local, nuanced community dynamics, removing the shared baseline facts to build consensus, solve regional problems, or maintain basic civic trust.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Trust In Information: The End of Believing Our Own Eyes?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGMwN2YyNzItZmU3Yy00Njk0LTkxNWYtYmU5NDdkN2VkY2Y3

Music: An Algorithmic Burial of Human Artists?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGEwYmZiOTUtMTAyNS00ZDA1LTlkNmMtNjlhYjhkNzBjMmQz

Journalism & News: From Fact-Checking to Attention-Seeking?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmJlMjUwNTAtNDQzNy00ZWQ0LWFkOWYtMTJhM2IwNzM1NGRh

Guest links - Dr Andres Reiljan

Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=uBEitnwAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=ao

Twitter/X: https://x.com/AReiljan

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/andres.reiljan

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/areiljan.bsky.social

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Nick Richtsmeier - growth consultant and founder of CultureCraft - who works directly with businesses and non-profits to solve the trust decay problem, and understands better than most what brands did wrong and whether there's any way back.

In this episode we investigate the mechanics of brand trust decay in the digital age, examine the concept of enshittification and how platforms turned authenticity into a performance, explore the shift toward community-based growth as a response to algorithmic manipulation, and ask whether genuine trust between brands and people is still possible - or whether the damage is already done.

(00:00) The internet's impact on brand trust

(05:03) Enshittification: what it means and why it matters

(10:05) How algorithms shape and distort brand perception

(15:03) The shift toward community and authenticity as a response

(19:58) Navigating the future of business relationships in a cynical market

(24:43) The ticking clock of social movements and brand relevance

(29:00) The role brands should play in societal change

(35:09) What building genuine trust in the digital age actually looks like

(39:55) The illusion of internet trust - and who it serves

(46:58) The human spirit versus digital reality

Key takeaways:

• Fallacy of Hyper-Optimised Scaling: Chasing short-term data metrics has broken the fundamental systems required for long-term organisational health, forcing brands to step back from the tech-stack arms race to focus on core operational fundamentals.

• Erosion of Genuine Brand Trust: The modern digital landscape treats consumer trust as a purely transactional commodity to be hacked or automated.

• Imaginary World Marketplace: The internet has built an insulated, superficial echo chamber where organisations spend vast amounts of capital communicating with a simulated digital audience rather than real people.

• Liberation Through Fundamentals: True liberation for modern brands and consumers comes from breaking free of dependency on failing digital systems, and reinvesting in raw human experiences such as art, beauty, shared risk-taking, and face-to-face connection.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Job Hunt: Built to Harvest Data, Not People?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTEzYzdjODgtNzYyMS00MzY2LWE5ZmQtN2YzMWMwODE5Njhi

Journalism & News: From Fact-Checking to Attention-Seeking?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmJlMjUwNTAtNDQzNy00ZWQ0LWFkOWYtMTJhM2IwNzM1NGRh

Trust In Information: The End of Believing Our Own Eyes?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGMwN2YyNzItZmU3Yy00Njk0LTkxNWYtYmU5NDdkN2VkY2Y3

Guest links - Nick Richtsmeier

Website: https://www.damnsgiven.com/

CultureCraft: https://culturecraft.com/

Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2365925

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickrichtsmeier/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Stuart Thomson - public affairs and political engagement specialist, author, and founder of reputation management consultancy CWE Communications - who has navigated reputation crises in the digital age firsthand, and understands better than most what it costs when the internet never forgets.

In this episode we investigate how the internet transformed reputation crises from slow and controllable to fast and permanent, examine the ethics of public relations in an age of misinformation and AI, explore the murky dynamics of reputation laundering and influencer manipulation, and ask whether any crisis communications strategy can keep pace with a digital world that never forgets and never forgives.

(00:00) Introduction to reputation management in the digital age

(02:00) How the internet changed the speed and nature of reputation crises

(06:08) Crisis preparedness: what organisations get wrong before it happens

(09:50) The power dynamics at play in digital reputation management

(13:59) Handling unexpected crises when public perception moves faster than truth

(18:08) The ethical minefield of public relations in a digital age

(22:03) AI and misinformation: the new frontier of reputation threat

(25:49) Reputation laundering and the role of influencers in perception management

(30:00) How to identify and respond to smear campaigns in the digital space

(33:02) What effective reputation management actually looks like today

Key takeaways:

• From Temporary Crises to Permanent Digital Records: Today, the internet ensures that every corporate misstep, political scandal, or negative review is indexed permanently, transforming temporary public relations challenges into an enduring, un-erasable digital archive.

• The Democratisation of Scrutiny: The modern internet has completely democratized public scrutiny, empowering individual citizens, activist groups, and everyday consumers to bypass corporate gatekeepers and dismantle a brand's narrative overnight.

• The "Speed-Over-Accuracy" Trap: The 24-hour digital news cycle and real-time social media commentary often traps communications teams into issuing reactive, unverified statements that can worsen the situation.

• Proactive Reflection as the Ultimate Defensive Strategy: True resilience in the modern digital ecosystem requires moving away from purely reactive crisis control and adopting a strategy of radical internal honesty.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Journalism & News: From Fact-Checking to Attention-Seeking?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmJlMjUwNTAtNDQzNy00ZWQ0LWFkOWYtMTJhM2IwNzM1NGRh

Job Security: Optimised For Our Own Obsolescence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGM2ZmUwZDQtMWEzNS00NWNmLWIyNjAtZmMwMzkxMTRmOGQ3

Guest links - Stuart Thomson

Website: https://www.cwecommunications.com

Podcast: https://publicaffairs.podbean.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CWECommunications

Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/redpolitics/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Terry Flew - Professor of Digital Communication & Culture and Co-Director of the Centre for AI, Trust & Governance at the University of Sydney - whose research sits at the exact intersection of media, technology, and why we've stopped believing what we read.

In this episode we investigate the concept of mediated trust and how the internet broke it, examine the battle between social media and traditional journalism for credibility, explore how AI is accelerating the misinformation crisis, and ask whether critical thinking is enough to navigate a digital world specifically designed to exploit our trust.

(00:00) Introduction to mediated trust and the information crisis

(01:26) How media and misinformation have evolved together

(01:37) What mediated trust actually means and why it's breaking down

(06:06) The crisis of trust in institutions: is it terminal?

(07:39) How algorithms decide what we trust without us realising

(09:28) Trust in Australian media: a case study in collapse

(14:10) Journalists versus influencers: who's actually shaping what we believe?

(17:57) Defamation, power dynamics, and who gets to control the narrative

(19:27) How media trust and consumption patterns are shifting in real time

(22:29) The polarising impact of celebrity culture on information credibility

(24:25) AI's role in information processing: help or accelerant?

(30:16) Navigating human versus machine communication in a trust vacuum

(33:09) What restoring trust in information sources would actually require

Key takeaways:

• The Evolution of Mediated Trust: Trust is increasingly mediated by a complex, shifting landscape of digital platforms and algorithmic systems that fundamentally transform how information is delivered, filtered, and perceived for better or worse.

• Vulnerability of Scientific and Institutional Discourse: When complex institutional findings are flattened by social media mechanics, it creates fertile ground for scepticism, allowing partisan narratives to overshadow objective facts.

• Asymmetry Between Information and Knowledge: True knowledge requires critical evaluation and context, yet algorithmic structures often incentivise users to substitute comprehensive understanding with rapid, surface-level information consumption.

• Danger of the Partisan Information Diet: To combat the echo-chamber effect, users must actively vary their information diet, critically interrogate source credibility, and verify algorithmic or AI-generated links rather than accepting them at face value.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Common Ground: From Dialogue to Digital Battlefield?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODkzNWY5Y2UtYTFmMy00NGQxLTk1YWMtMjk2ZDNkYjg0NDU4

Journalism & News: From Fact-Checking to Attention-Seeking?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmJlMjUwNTAtNDQzNy00ZWQ0LWFkOWYtMTJhM2IwNzM1NGRh

Broadcast Television: The Digital Dismantling of an Entire Industry?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/OTc0YmNmYzItMTI4ZC00OTcwLTk0YWYtYjdjNjY2MTYxYmFj

Guest links – Terry Flew

University profile: https://www.sydney.edu.au/arts/about/our-people/academic-staff/terry-flew.html

Podcast: https://mediated-trust-arts.sydney.edu.au/programs/time-for-trust-podcast-series/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terryflew/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Wouter Constant - co-founder and researcher at Nostr, an open protocol for decentralised, censorship-resistant communication - who is actively building the alternative and understands better than most how the internet lost its way.

In this episode we investigate how the internet shifted from open network to corporate controlled platform, examine the role of government in shaping what we can and can't say online, explore the promise and challenges of decentralised alternatives like Nostr, and ask whether a genuinely free internet is still possible - or whether centralisation always wins in the end.

(00:00) The promise of the internet and how it was abandoned

(02:54) The rise of centralised platforms and how it happened so fast

(05:54) Investment, network effects, and how corporations captured the web

(09:00) Government involvement and the censorship dynamic nobody talks about

(12:02) Decentralisation and freedom of association: what the alternative looks like

(15:07) The real challenges of building a decentralised internet

(18:08) Platform responsibility and what user experience costs us

(27:09) Who is actually responsible for what happens in digital spaces?

(29:44) The evolution of decentralised social media

(32:30) Nostr versus Bluesky: what's the difference and does it matter?

(35:30) Identity and reputation in a decentralised world

(39:16) How decentralisation handles content authenticity

(44:25) Navigating AI-generated content in an open protocol

(50:51) Building a safer internet for future generations: is it still possible?

Key takeaways:

• Shift from Protocols to Centralised Platforms: Over time, open, collaborative protocols were overshadowed by centralised, corporate walled gardens (like Facebook, Twitter, and Google) that locked data, identities, and social graphs into proprietary platforms to maximise advertising revenue.

• Vulnerability of the Corporate "Walled Garden": Entrusting global communication to a handful of centralised tech giants has created massive systemic vulnerabilities, fundamentally breaking the original promise of a free, open town square.

• Return to Open-Source Principles: Nostr (Notes and Other Stuff Transmitted by Relays) is not a platform, but an open, decentralised cryptographic protocol designed to replace centralised social media, making communication inherently resistant to top-down censorship.

• Separation of Identity, Data, and Infrastructure: Decoupling identity and content from the underlying infrastructure allows users to seamlessly move their entire social network between different applications without fear of being banned or losing their data.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Common Ground: From Dialogue to Digital Battlefield?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODkzNWY5Y2UtYTFmMy00NGQxLTk1YWMtMjk2ZDNkYjg0NDU4

Child Safety: Private Platforms Full of Private Predators?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2U3MWEyMGEtM2I3NC00ZjUxLTk0YzItYTY3NDhmZjUwNTBm

Decentralisation: Freedom or Fragmented Control?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTA5ZDJiM2YtZjc1NC00MzQzLWFkMTQtYjQ0N2M3ZGI4YWU1

Guest links - Wouter Constant

Nostr: https://nostr.com/

Web of Trust Foundation: https://weboftrustfoundation.com/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Lachlan Jarvis - private investigator, digital forensics expert, and Director of Lyonswood Investigations - who spends his career finding people who don't want to be found, and understands better than most just how permanent our digital trails really are.

In this episode we investigate how the digital landscape has made true anonymity virtually impossible, examine the difference between active and passive digital footprints and what each reveals, explore the right to be forgotten and why it rarely works in practice, and ask whether reinventing yourself in a world that never forgets is still genuinely possible.

(00:00) Introduction to private investigation in the digital age

(01:48) How digital growth transformed the art of investigation

(04:13) Understanding digital footprints: what you leave without knowing it

(08:04) The interplay between online and offline data trails

(11:32) The right to be forgotten: what it promises and what it actually delivers

(17:50) The future of investigation in the age of AI

(20:32) The challenge of truly disappearing in a connected world

(22:16) The art of disappearing: is it still possible?

(23:00) Digital privacy and security measures that actually work

(24:29) Understanding malware and the digital threats most people ignore

(25:28) Identity theft and its real world consequences

(27:08) Creating a new identity in a world that never forgets

(28:46) The role of technology in helping - and hindering - disappearance

(30:13) Government surveillance and digital IDs: how much do they know?

(31:53) The risks of centralised information and who controls it

(33:25) Practical steps for digital hygiene you can take today

Key takeaways:

• The Myth of Truly Disappearing: True digital erasure is practically impossible. Once data, photos, or personal information enter the internet, they are permanently archived, cached, or stored by third parties, meaning an individual's digital footprint can almost always be recovered.

• Democratisation of Surveillance: The internet has turned everyday citizens into passive data-gatherers. With open-source intelligence (OSINT), public social media feeds, and digital breadcrumbs, a significant portion of modern investigative work is now conducted entirely from a keyboard rather than through traditional physical tailing.

• Algorithmic Deception and Deepfakes: The integration of AI into the digital landscape has compromised the reliability of visual evidence. The rapid proliferation of highly convincing deepfake videos and manipulated media makes distinguishing objective truth from digital fabrication a hurdle for modern investigators.

• Being Deliberately Boring: In an era of aggressive data-scraping, the ultimate defence of personal privacy is radical obscurity. Safeguarding your real-world identity requires individuals to strictly limit what they share, actively audit their digital permissions, and choose a low-profile online presence.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Internet: A Corporate Hijacking of Digital Freedom?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmIzMDA0ZTQtMDA1Ny00OTE1LTkyY2QtNjhhM2NlMzJmODdh

Child Safety: Private Platforms Full of Private Predators?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2U3MWEyMGEtM2I3NC00ZjUxLTk0YzItYTY3NDhmZjUwNTBm

Decentralisation: Freedom or Fragmented Control?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTA5ZDJiM2YtZjc1NC00MzQzLWFkMTQtYjQ0N2M3ZGI4YWU1

Guest links - Lachlan Jarvis

Website: https://www.investigators.net.au/

Twitter/X: https://x.com/Lyonswood_PI

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lyonswoodinvestigations/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LyonswoodInvestigations

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lyonswoodinvestigations

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Emily Toner - clinical psychologist and international expert in mindfulness, eco-psychology, and mental health - who understands better than most what we lose when we're physically present but digitally elsewhere.

In this episode we investigate how constant digital distraction is eroding the quality of our in-person relationships, examine the concept of phubbing and what it's actually doing to the people around us, explore the tension between the state of doing and the state of being in a world that never switches off, and ask whether genuine presence is still possible in a digitally saturated life.

(00:00) The internet's impact on social interaction and presence

(05:06) Why social connection matters more than we admit, and what technology is costing us

(09:55) How our definition of social interaction has shifted in the digital age

(14:51) The distraction of technology in social settings: what we're missing

(20:03) Phubbing: the new social norm nobody wants to talk about

(24:48) The state of doingness versus beingness, and why the internet keeps us stuck

(28:09) The importance of community connections in a digitally fragmented world

(35:37) How digital interactions are changing the nature of real relationships

(39:22) AI and the future of human connection: comfort or catastrophe?

(46:25) Practical strategies for healthier social interactions in a tech-driven world

Key takeaways:

• Staggering Biological Toll of Loneliness: Research indicates that structural social isolation increases premature mortality risk by 29%, packing a physical health hazard equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day and carrying twice the mortality risk of obesity.

• Slower-Aging Power of Real Connection: Maintaining robust, lifelong face-to-face relationships - known as "cumulative social advantage" - manifests as tangible physical health benefits. Individuals anchored in deep personal and community networks exhibit significantly lower baseline inflammation markers and experience demonstrably slower cellular and biological aging.

• Slow Friction Leak of Digital Alternatives: While video calls and messaging apps maintain visual contact, they ultimately strip away the nuanced multi-sensory feedback required for true neural resonance - leaving people feeling drained where in-person exchanges leave them energised.

• Silent Disruptor of "Phubbing": This phenomenon of "phone snubbing" (phubbing) constantly derails executive functioning, signals to our companions that an algorithm is more valuable than their presence, and damages text communications through the total absence of tone, body language, and shared physical environment.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Self Improvement: Progress Replaced With Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTI5M2Y0OWItNWMzNy00OGMxLTljZTgtOTk5MjI2MGM1YzRj

Dating & Relationships: A Dehumanising Paradox of Infinite Choice?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NDAyYjM4YjItNjgxYi00NWEyLTlkZTQtZWY1NTk0N2E3YjFi

Deeper Connection: An Algorithmic Illusion of Intimacy?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGFiZDU5OTEtYjY5NS00M2ZmLWE1YzYtMjcxYzQzMzFjOTg2

Guest links - Emily Toner

Website: https://www.emilytoner.com

Podcast: https://pod.link/1828836798

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilytoner_

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/emilytonerconsulting/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-toner-27413336/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Charlie Hooper-Williams - critically acclaimed composer, pianist, creative coder, and one of the developers behind music identification app Shazam - whose new album The Book of Fixed Stars is out now on The Way Beyond Music. He's seen the music industry's digital transformation from both sides, and understands better than most what's been lost and what's still possible.

In this episode we investigate how streaming platforms devalued music while promising to democratise it, examine the TikTokification of music and what it's doing to artistic ambition, explore the role of algorithms in deciding what gets heard and what disappears, and ask whether AI is the final chapter in the story of music's commodification - or the beginning of something genuinely new.

(00:00) Introduction to Charlie's musical journey and digital transformation

(01:31) How digital technology changed everything about the music industry

(02:33) The TikTokification of music: what it means for artists and listeners

(04:17) The devaluation of music as an art form in a streaming world

(05:32) Streaming platforms: exposure versus earnings, and who really wins

(08:06) Spotify's role in reshaping the music industry

(08:51) The challenges of discoverability when algorithms control what gets heard

(12:17) How the artist-fan relationship has evolved, and what's been lost

(17:52) Technology's role in music creation and distribution today

(20:04) Navigating the modern music landscape as an independent artist

(22:56) Live performance in the age of technology: what still can't be replicated

(25:46) The role of algorithms and AI in music: creative tool or existential threat?

(34:50) The future of music in a digital age

(40:46) Advice for aspiring musicians trying to survive the internet economy

Key takeaways:

• Rental Model Value Drain: Shifting from physical ownership to streaming devalues music, creating severe economic inequality by locking independent creators into fractions-of-a-cent payouts controlled by tech giants.

• Algorithmic Cultural Flattening: Streaming algorithms prioritise safe, generic background music to maximise user retention - systematically squeezing out complex, avant-garde, and challenging artistic expressions.

• Dismantling the Creative Middle Class: Centralised platforms heavily amplify the top 1% of globally recognised artists, destroying the local and mid-tier touring circuits that historically supported sustainable professional careers.

• Reclaiming Autonomy Through Physical Formats: Artists are bypassing corporate tech gatekeepers by returning to vinyl, self-managed platforms like Bandcamp, and intimate live performances to foster genuine consumer relationships.

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Video Games: From Finished Art to Perpetual Product?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YWNlNzQ1ZDMtMzE1Ny00ZTM4LWIyMzUtMjBhMGY5YzBmODBk

Ayahuasca: From Ancient Ritual to Instagram Aesthetic?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MWMyYjAxNjktYTg4OS00MDk0LThiNDktZGU2NWNjYThhNDg4

The Taxi Industry: A Data-driven Destruction of Dignified Work?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZjFmM2RlN2EtZTNjMC00MTVmLTg3YzgtNTk5Y2NjMWNkNzMy

Guest links - Charlie Hooper-Williams

Website: http://charliehooperwilliams.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliehooperwilliams

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CharlieHooperWilliams

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Mark Kempster - gambling reform advocate and member of Australia's Alliance For Gambling Reform's Voices of Lived Experience program - who has seen the human cost of online gambling firsthand, and is fighting to make sure others don't pay the same price.

In this episode we investigate the addictive design built into digital platforms, examine how data and algorithms are used to target vulnerable people at their most exposed moments, explore the normalisation of online activity among young people, and ask whether regulation can ever keep pace with an industry that has turned a public health crisis into a business model.

(00:00) The rise of online gambling and its real world impact

(06:55) The addictive design deliberately built into digital platforms

(11:48) Regulatory challenges and the industry's influence over reform

(15:59) How data and algorithms are used to target vulnerable people

(23:38) The future of reform in Australia: what needs to change

(25:33) The pervasiveness of the problem among young people

(27:57) The specific dangers of in-play betting and real time exploitation

(30:46) How online culture has normalised what was once considered a serious risk

(34:49) The role of technology in accelerating addiction

(39:03) The urgent need for regulation and corporate accountability

(43:33) Advocacy for change and what hope for the future looks like

Key takeaways:

• Frictionless Dopamine Architecture: Mobile apps use psychological design tactics (hiding the time, complicating withdrawals, and employing predatory "VIP managers") to trap users in continuous betting loops.

• Targeting Vulnerable Demographics: Tech-driven inducements like bonus bets target 18-to-34-year-olds with developing impulse control, radically normalising gambling to the point that young children routinely debate match odds.

• Exploiting Instant Urges: Erasing traditional physical barriers, real-time in-play betting capitalises on immediate emotional impulses, allowing vulnerable users to bypass natural urge dissipation windows and lose thousands in seconds.

• Regulatory Capture and Failure: Meaningful reform is blocked by powerful sporting and gambling lobbies in Canberra, while a $50 billion industry exploits loopholes to register in the Northern Territory under a regulator with zero full-time staff.

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Rental Markets: A Frantic Fight for Shelter As A Service?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZDU3ZjAzYjktMmZiZi00NmM3LTg4M2ItYTE4OGI1ZWQ2YTFl

Job Security: Optimised For Our Own Obsolescence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGM2ZmUwZDQtMWEzNS00NWNmLWIyNjAtZmMwMzkxMTRmOGQ3

The Job Hunt: Built to Harvest Data, Not People?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTEzYzdjODgtNzYyMS00MzY2LWE5ZmQtN2YzMWMwODE5Njhi

Guest links - Mark Kempster

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark_kempster

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-kempster-2925317b/

Twitter/X: https://x.com/OffOdds

Alliance For Gambling Reform: https://www.agr.org.au/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Colin Corby - Digital Detox Coach, Technologist, and CEO of Technology Wellbeing - who helps people reclaim their identity from the platforms designed to reshape it, and understands better than most the psychological cost of living online.

In this episode we investigate how social media has separated our online and offline selves, examine the psychological toll of performing an identity for algorithmic approval, explore the role of influencers in reshaping how we measure our own self-worth, and ask whether AI is accelerating the identity crisis - or offering a way out of it.

(00:00) The internet's impact on human identity

(02:49) Curating online versus offline selves, and the gap between them

(05:46) The psychological effects of social media on who we think we are

(08:51) The role of influencers in shaping identity and self-worth

(11:57) The stress of maintaining an online performance indefinitely

(14:44) AI and the future of human identity: help or accelerant?

(17:46) The case for digital detox and what it actually achieves

(21:00) The psychological toll of a permanent online record

(24:05) Empathy in the digital age: is it surviving?

(27:00) AI's role in the workplace and what it means for professional identity

(30:07) The future of human identity in a technology-driven world

(36:19) Cyborgs and the evolution of human identity

Key takeaways:

• Curated Online Personas: Because our digital footprints create an unerasable, lifelong record, users routinely self-censor and curate flat, two-dimensional versions of themselves online.

• Migration of Primal Social Instincts: Human biological needs for safety and group status have migrated onto social media platforms. Digital currency such as likes and shares exploits these instincts, causing profound mental health issues and inadequacy.

• Illusion of Easy Success: Influencer culture propagates the false appearance that everything in life is effortless. In reality, maintaining this endless content treadmill induces severe stress and burnout, forcing a growing number of influencers to temporarily step away from their online identities.

• Outsourcing and the AI Detox: As corporate tech pushes for agentic AI to automate tasks and mirror human behaviours online, humanity risks outsourcing critical thinking and problem-solving skills – defaulting to the "new average" generated by technology

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Empowerment: Objectification Rebranded As Agency?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YTVjZDI5NjYtOWUzZC00ZDQ4LWFkZWUtYWViZjlmMjRmYjUx

Self Improvement: Progress Replaced With Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTI5M2Y0OWItNWMzNy00OGMxLTljZTgtOTk5MjI2MGM1YzRj

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODYyNDQ1MzAtMzdlNy00NjEzLWE4ZWEtYjgxMjMzNTJjOGJk

Guest links - Colin Corby

Website: https://thedigitaldetoxcoach.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_digital_detox_coach

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedigitaldetoxcoach

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/colincorby

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Dr Justine Ferrer - Senior Lecturer in Human Resource Management at the Deakin Business School - whose research sits at the intersection of people, technology, and the ethics of how organisations treat the humans inside them.

In this episode we investigate how automation and AI have reshaped HR practices, examine the tension between efficiency and the human touch in people management, explore the surveillance and data privacy risks that digital HR systems have introduced, and ask whether AI can ever be genuinely unbiased in hiring - or whether it simply encodes existing inequalities at scale.

(00:00) The internet's impact on human resources and people management

(02:57) The shift toward strategic HR, and what got left behind

(06:00) Balancing automation and the human touch in a digital workplace

(08:47) Workplace surveillance and the erosion of employee trust

(11:53) Data privacy and security challenges in modern HR systems

(14:48) How small businesses are navigating HR technology without the resources

(17:57) AI, algorithmic bias, and the future of hiring

(20:55) The skills HR professionals need to survive the automation wave

(23:43) Building an ethical framework for AI in human resources

(26:50) The future of human resources in a technology-driven world

Key takeaways:

• Strategic Shift vs. Wellbeing: Historically focused on employee welfare, modern HR has transformed into a strategic corporate function that increasingly leverages technology to drive efficiency over traditional human-centric care.

• Automation as Liberation or Reductionism: While systems can automate menial administrative tasks to free up staff for more meaningful work, the total automation of processes risks reducing unique, complex human beings to mere commodity data points.

• Care vs. Coercion: While marketed under the guise of employee care and health monitoring, invasive employer surveillance tech solutions often manifest as a coercive cultural force that breeds deep worker cynicism and distrust.

• Demands of the Analytical Skill Set: Rather than completely replacing the workforce, the rise of autonomous programs and generative AI demands a massive upskilling in human data interpretation. HR professionals must possess critical thinking, analytical skills, and prompt engineering expertise to actively audit algorithms for data errors and inherent biases.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Brand Trust: The Era of Algorithmic Enshittification?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YjBkYzg1OTktMWQ5OC00N2JmLWEwNjMtNWIwMDkxZmQ2N2I1

Reputation Management: A New World of Digital Life Sentences?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NjRlNGY5YjEtNmQ5YS00NGY1LTg0Y2QtNTAwNTcwNDI3Nzg5

The Taxi Industry: A Data-driven Destruction of Dignified Work?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZjFmM2RlN2EtZTNjMC00MTVmLTg3YzgtNTk5Y2NjMWNkNzMy

Guest links - Dr Justine Ferrer

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/justineferrer

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Steve Wright - owner and Editor-in-Chief of Stevivor.com, Australia's leading independent video games outlet - who has covered the gaming industry's digital transformation from the inside, and understands better than most what's been gained, what's been lost, and what the industry refuses to admit.

In this episode we investigate how games-as-a-service transformed player relationships with the medium, examine the rise of microtransactions and subscription models and who they really serve, explore the democratisation of development through indie games and what it's produced, and ask whether the internet's connectivity has saved gaming culture or simply created new ways to exploit it.

(00:00) Introduction and Steve's journey to video game journalism

(02:22) The internet's impact on gaming: the good, the bad, and the predatory

(04:31) Games as a service: how consumer behaviour changed and why

(07:19) From local to online: how connectivity changed the community experience

(11:49) The evolution of game design and storytelling in a connected world

(15:38) Quality control in the age of day-one patches and rushed releases

(17:59) Community feedback and developer response: does it actually work?

(21:27) Indie games, nostalgia, and the democratisation of game development

(27:02) Navigating healthy versus toxic gaming communities

(29:03) Esports, competitive gaming, and how it affects the casual player experience

(34:18) Finding your place in a modern gaming landscape designed to monetise you

(36:46) The financialisaton of gaming: microtransactions, early access, and subscriptions

(41:00) The future of gaming: subscription models, ownership, and AI-driven experiences

(46:10) The positive impact of connectivity on gaming culture

Key takeaways:

• The Rise of Games as a Service (GaaS): The industry has heavily shifted toward free-to-play models (like Fortnite and Destiny) that rely on microtransactions and season passes to encourage continuous spending.

• The Decline of Local Co-op: "Couch co-op" and split-screen gaming have largely faded as developers prioritise utilising full hardware processing power for high-fidelity, individual online experiences.

• Rushed Releases and Patch Culture: Driven by late-stage capitalism and rigid quarterly goals, publishers frequently rush unfinished games to market, relying on the internet to deploy post-launch patches for bugs found by the public.

• Subscription Models vs. Ownership: Services like Xbox Game Pass operate like a "Netflix for gaming", offering massive convenience and a way for indie games to find an audience, but at the cost of players losing true digital ownership of their games.

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Music: An Algorithmic Burial of Human Artists?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGEwYmZiOTUtMTAyNS00ZDA1LTlkNmMtNjlhYjhkNzBjMmQz

Rental Markets: A Frantic Fight for Shelter As A Service?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZDU3ZjAzYjktMmZiZi00NmM3LTg4M2ItYTE4OGI1ZWQ2YTFl

Retail: Convenience That Costs Everything?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGU0YTkzMjAtNGExNi00ZjlkLWFkYTMtOTRmMWFkYjBiMjM3

Guest links - Steve Wright

Website: https://stevivor.com

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/stevivor.com

Instagram: http://instagram.com/stevivor

Facebook: http://facebook.com/stevivor

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/c/stevivor

Discord: https://discord.gg/7YXk6DcS

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/stevivor

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by John DeDakis - award-winning novelist, writing coach, public speaker, and former CNN Senior Copy Editor - who spent his career at the sharp end of broadcast journalism and understands better than most what the internet did to the craft, the industry, and the public's ability to tell truth from noise.

In this episode we investigate how the internet transformed journalism from a trusted institution into a clicks-driven economy, examine the rise of citizen journalism and what it costs when everyone is a reporter, explore AI's role in accelerating both the misinformation crisis and potential solutions, and ask whether media literacy is enough to save an informed society - or whether the damage is already done.

(00:00) John's journey through journalism and what it taught him

(02:16) How the internet fundamentally changed what journalism is

(03:52) Scepticism, trust, and why digital news is so hard to believe

(06:25) The challenges facing editors in a speed-over-accuracy culture

(08:48) The shift toward clickbait and what happened to investigative journalism

(11:35) The rise of citizen journalism: democratisation or dangerous free-for-all?

(13:55) The role of AI in journalism: tool, threat, or both?

(16:37) The future of content creation in a world of infinite noise

(19:14) The ethics of AI in journalism: where are the lines?

(21:19) Substack and the future of individual journalism: salvation or fragmentation?

(24:08) How journalism has evolved in the digital age - for better and worse

(30:15) Media literacy and education: is it enough to save us?

(37:08) The role of public broadcasting in a fractured media landscape

(42:50) Is there genuine hope for the future of journalism?

(45:18) Curiosity as the most important skill a writer - or reader - can have

Key takeaways:

• Scepticism and Fact-Checking in the Digital Age: The fundamental shift brought by the internet is global connectivity, but digital information can easily be a pipeline for state-level misinformation, deepfakes, and conspiracy theories.

• Erosion of Trust and Rise of "New Media": Public trust in traditional institutions is breaking down as lines blur between rigorous journalism and unverified "citizen journalism" by content creators who focus on maximum reach rather than editorial accuracy.

• Financial Strain on Investigative Journalism: Because the public initially expected news to be free online, many newspapers were slow to establish paywalls, damaging their business models.

• Threat of Generative AI to Human Writing: While AI can serve as a basic research tool, it currently lacks genuine human creativity and often relies on copyright infringement by scraping authors' published works without permission or compensation.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Trust In Information: The End of Believing Our Own Eyes?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGMwN2YyNzItZmU3Yy00Njk0LTkxNWYtYmU5NDdkN2VkY2Y3

Common Ground: From Dialogue to Digital Battlefield?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODkzNWY5Y2UtYTFmMy00NGQxLTk1YWMtMjk2ZDNkYjg0NDU4

Broadcast Television: The Digital Dismantling of an Entire Industry?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/OTc0YmNmYzItMTI4ZC00OTcwLTk0YWYtYjdjNjY2MTYxYmFj

Guest links - John DeDakis

Website: https://johndedakis.com/

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B002BM6WM0

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dedakisjohn/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/john.dedakis

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/johndedakis.bsky.social

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We're joined by Amanda Lotz - award-winning author, professor, and research leader at Queensland University of Technology's Digital Media Research Centre - whose work on the post-network era makes her one of the world's leading authorities on what the internet did to television, and where it's heading next.

In this episode we investigate how on-demand viewing dismantled the traditional broadcast model, examine Netflix's role in reshaping audience expectations and industry metrics, explore what the fragmentation of television means for local content and public broadcasting, and ask whether we're living through a golden age of television - or just an age of overwhelming choice.

(00:00) The evolution of television and how media studies has tried to keep up

(03:02) The internet's impact on traditional broadcast television

(05:34) The post-network era explained: what it means and why it matters

(08:12) How audience behaviour and viewing habits have fundamentally changed

(10:34) The role of technology in reshaping the viewing experience itself

(13:21) Why on-demand viewing was always inevitable, and what that tells us

(15:45) Netflix's influence on the streaming landscape and viewer expectations

(18:14) The Australian broadcasting landscape in a global streaming world

(20:41) How success is measured in a fragmented, algorithm-driven market

(25:02) Understanding Netflix's viewing patterns and what they reveal

(27:17) Traditional broadcasters versus streaming disruption: who survives?

(30:59) Are we really living through a new golden age of television?

(33:22) Local content quotas in Australia: protection or futile resistance?

(37:05) The future of traditional broadcasting: slow decline or reinvention?

(42:50) The evolution of video consumption and where it ends up

Key takeaways:

• Technology Affordances Shifted TV Models: The transition from broadcasting (a one-to-many, non-excludable signal) to internet distribution broke the historical constraints of spectrum scarcity. This shifted the industry from a rigid, linear programming schedule to an on-demand library model.

• Delayed Disruption in Australia: Unlike the US, which experienced a massive multi-channel shift via cable in the 1980s, Australia had very low cable adoption. Local networks didn't face severe financial destabilisation until 2009, when digital free-to-air multi-channels diluted advertising revenue across higher programming costs.

• Illusion of Streaming "Hits": Being number one on a streaming platform today is numerically incomparable to a top-rated broadcast hit from the pre-digital era. Streaming data is heavily aggregated globally and cumulatively over time, and a daily "Top 10" list only accounts for roughly 2% to 3% of a platform's total viewing.

• Rise of Personal Media Streams: Instead of pushing audiences toward completely atomised, AI-generated custom content, the internet has shifted behaviour toward short-form social video feeds. These personalised streams maximize efficiency during limited modern leisure windows, acting as a supplement to traditional movies and series.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Rental Markets: A Frantic Fight for Shelter As A Service?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZDU3ZjAzYjktMmZiZi00NmM3LTg4M2ItYTE4OGI1ZWQ2YTFl

The Taxi Industry: A Data-driven Destruction of Dignified Work?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZjFmM2RlN2EtZTNjMC00MTVmLTg3YzgtNTk5Y2NjMWNkNzMy

Retail: Convenience That Costs Everything?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGU0YTkzMjAtNGExNi00ZjlkLWFkYTMtOTRmMWFkYjBiMjM3

Guest links - Amanda Lotz

Website: https://amandalotz.com

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com.au/stores/Amanda-D.-Lotz/author/B001JSDEIW

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adlotz/

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/drtvlotz.bsky.social

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Edan Haddock - Global Head of Talent and People Experience at Movember - who works at the meeting point of human connection and hiring technology, and is exactly the right person to ask about what happens if recruitment becomes a purely digital process.

In this episode we investigate how AI and automation have reshaped the recruitment process from both sides, examine the ethical implications of algorithmic hiring and the biases it encodes, explore what it takes to maintain genuine human connection in a virtualised hiring environment, and ask whether the future of recruitment will be more human than ever - or less.

(00:00) Introduction to Movember and Edan's role in talent and people experience

(03:07) The evolution of talent acquisition: how technology changed everything

(05:20) The impact of digital communication on interviews and what gets lost

(08:12) Building genuine human connections in a digitalised hiring process

(10:55) The application process: quality versus quantity and who wins

(13:21) The biggest misconceptions in talent acquisition today

(15:49) The role of AI in recruitment: where it helps and where it doesn't

(18:34) The AI arms race in hiring: candidates versus algorithms

(22:47) Addressing bias in AI recruitment: can it ever be truly fair?

(26:56) How AI can enhance rather than replace the candidate experience

(32:36) Practical strategies for candidates trying to stand out in a digital pile

(35:09) Creative approaches in recruitment that cut through the noise

(37:16) The future of job searching and recruitment: more human or less?

Key takeaways:

• AI Replaces Gatekeeping, Not Connection: Rather than using technology to rank and filter candidates out via rigid skills-matching keywords, Movember uses tools to summarise dense CVs. This frees up time to focus on candidate authenticity, such as embedded Spotify tracks and custom trivia questions.

• Intimacy Shift of Remote Interviews: Transitioning from formal, intimidating corporate panel interviews to video calls has flipped the power dynamic. By entering a candidate's home environment, the interaction becomes a safe space that encourages genuine warmth, unique talking points, and less performative "acting".

• Hyper-Personalisation Crushes "Spray and Pray": High-volume, low-effort tactics like using automated AI tools to blast hundreds of generic resumes overnight, are highly ineffective. The recruiters who care about cultural values want deliberate, tailored applications that highlight a deep personal connection to the organisation's core mission.

• Agentic Screening Multiplies Opportunity: Movember implemented a conversational AI agent named ‘Joel’ to conduct initial 20-minute phone screens. Instead of rejecting hundreds of applicants at the resume phase due to human time constraints, this allows every single applicant an equal, unbiased opportunity to pitch their potential on an opt-in basis.

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Sleep: Screens Stealing Our Slumber?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/N2NlNGQ3ZmItYTk1Yy00MjRlLTk5YjAtMmUyODM0OTRlNTQz

Dating & Relationships: A Dehumanising Paradox of Infinite Choice?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NDAyYjM4YjItNjgxYi00NWEyLTlkZTQtZWY1NTk0N2E3YjFi

The Human Identity: Authenticity or Algorithmic Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YzU1NjhlYzYtMDVjNC00ODJkLTgzYjQtMzBhNDcwN2RkZTJi

Guest links - Edan Haddock

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/edan-haddock-total-talent/id1833735442

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Elly Klein - professional dating mentor, author, and founder of Your Dating Bestie - whose career is built on helping people navigate a dating landscape the internet fundamentally broke, and who has seen every way the apps fail the people using them.

In this episode we investigate how online dating transformed romance into a numbers game, examine the pitfalls that trap even the most well-intentioned daters, explore how generational attitudes toward dating have shifted in a swipe-driven world, and ask whether the perfect dating profile is the solution, or part of the problem.

(00:00) The internet's impact on dating and what it fundamentally changed

(03:09) The most common pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid them

(06:10) The numbers game: why online dating feels like a full time job

(09:01) The shopping mentality in dating and what it's doing to genuine connection

(12:01) Crafting a dating profile that actually represents who you are

(15:07) Understanding preferences and filters: helpful boundaries or missed opportunities?

(22:35) Navigating preferences in dating: where to hold firm and where to stay open

(29:01) How technology is changing the nature of relationships themselves

(35:03) Practical strategies for success in the online dating landscape

(39:23) Recognising and overcoming burnout in the digital dating world

(43:12) The power of perseverance and positivity when dating feels impossible

Key takeaways:

• The Funnel Trap: People treat dating apps like a shopping catalogue and get overly picky at the top of the "dating funnel". Casting a narrow net initially eliminates the chance to be pleasantly surprised by someone who doesn't check every superficial box.

• Cliché Problem: Instead of fabricating their lives, many successful people completely undersell themselves on apps. By using generic phrases like "I love travel and the beach", they turn their profiles into boring, identical ads.

• Screen to Avoid Burnout: To beat coffee-date fatigue, implement a quick, structured vetting process. Text briefly, then schedule a short phone call within the first week to filter out low-effort matches before meeting offline.

• Cynicism Echo Chamber: Social media has turned dating complaints into a toxic "misery loves company" echo chamber. Magnifying a few bad experiences creates a self-fulfilling prophecy of negativity, causing people to give up on love entirely.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODYyNDQ1MzAtMzdlNy00NjEzLWE4ZWEtYjgxMjMzNTJjOGJk

Empowerment: Objectification Rebranded As Agency?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/YTVjZDI5NjYtOWUzZC00ZDQ4LWFkZWUtYWViZjlmMjRmYjUx

Deeper Connection: An Algorithmic Illusion of Intimacy?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGFiZDU5OTEtYjY5NS00M2ZmLWE1YzYtMjcxYzQzMzFjOTg2

Guest links - Elly Klein

Website: https://yourdatingbestie.com

Blog: https://www.ellyklein.com/blog

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Cosentino - Australia's most successful magician, illusionist, and escape artist, known to audiences around the world as The Grand Illusionist - who has built a career on creating wonder in a world that wants to know how everything works, and has more to say about the internet's impact on his craft than you might expect.

In this episode we investigate how social media and digital exposure have changed the relationship between magicians and their audiences, examine the tension between transparency and mystery in a world that can Google anything, explore how technology has simultaneously threatened and enhanced the art of illusion, and ask whether wonder can survive in an age of instant answers.

(00:00) The journey to becoming The Grand Illusionist

(04:07) How technology changed the art and business of magic

(07:37) The evolution of performance styles in a digital age

(12:05) Navigating fame and social media as a performing artist

(17:06) The tension between keeping secrets and the internet's hunger for exposure

(22:47) How magic has evolved to survive - and thrive - in the digital age

(27:45) The impact of technology on live magic performance

(31:46) The art of creating genuine wonder when audiences have seen everything

(37:13) How Cosentino leverages technology to enhance rather than diminish the craft

(41:20) Advice for aspiring magicians trying to build a career in a demystified world

Key takeaways:

• Death of Presentation: Short-form platforms like TikTok force a focus on just the trick, erasing the theatrical build-up, narrative suspense, and emotional connection unique to traditional stage illusion.

• Copycat Loop: Learning strictly from video creates "recorded magicians" who mimic identical styles; Cosentino urges learning from books to force self-analysis, original storytelling, and authentic performance style.

• Clout Exposure Trap: While online tools lower entry barriers for pitching and filming, exposing secrets purely for social media likes oversimplifies the craft and shifts focus from showmanship to cheap engagement.

• Tech-Enhanced Wonder: Instead of diluting magic, modern tech like roving cameras, LED screens, and pre-filmed packages allow performers to prove props are real, boosting live audience immersion.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Music: An Algorithmic Burial of Human Artists?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MGEwYmZiOTUtMTAyNS00ZDA1LTlkNmMtNjlhYjhkNzBjMmQz

Attention Spans: A Short-form Destruction of Focus?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/M2M2NzYwY2ItMTI0OC00MzNhLWJkNmUtNWVlNmE5YzkwNTky

Ayahuasca: From Ancient Ritual to Instagram Aesthetic?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MWMyYjAxNjktYTg4OS00MDk0LThiNDktZGU2NWNjYThhNDg4

Guest links - Cosentino

Website: https://www.cosentino.com.au/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecosentino/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/officialcosentino

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheCosentino/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecosentino

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Brett Lee - Cyber Safety Advocate, Author, and Founder of Internet Safe Education - who has spent his career on the frontline of this issue, working directly with young people, parents, and schools, and has seen the full spectrum of what the internet does to children when adults aren't paying attention.

In this episode we investigate how online risks to young people have evolved as the internet has changed, examine the platform features specifically harmful to younger users and why they exist, explore the role parents can realistically play in protecting children in a digital world, and ask whether legislation and community action can ever keep pace with the risks the internet keeps creating.

(00:00) Introduction to cyber safety education and why it matters

(03:08) How internet dangers have evolved as the technology has changed

(05:56) Online predators: who they are, how they operate, and why young people are vulnerable

(09:38) How technology shapes young people's perception of the world

(11:52) The platform features most harmful to young users and why they exist

(17:07) Age restrictions on social media: do they actually work?

(19:30) Cyberbullying and anonymity: the dangers of a world where school never ends

(25:53) The role parents can realistically play, and how technology also enables creativity

(27:55) Practical strategies for safer technology use that actually work

(31:37) Peer pressure, legislation, and who is ultimately responsible for keeping kids safe

(35:10) The positive online spaces that exist for young people

(38:04) Navigating social media risks without demonising the technology entirely

(41:25) Communication, grassroots efforts, and final advice for concerned parents

Key takeaways:

• Psychology of the Screen: Cybercriminals and predators leverage the human mind's "seeing is believing" vulnerability, exploitation of personal needs, and the illusion of anonymity to manipulate victims and drive dangerous behavioural choices.

• Australian Social Media Ban: Australia's under-16 social media ban targeting open, unmoderated platforms (like TikTok and Instagram) aims to reverse a documented drop in life satisfaction among vulnerable, developing adolescent brains.

• Global Regulation Hurdles: Enforcing child safety online is uniquely difficult because law enforcement remains tied to geographical borders, while digital stakeholders have competing motivations across differing international jurisdictions.

• Parent-Led Defence: Technology is essential for a child's future, but the ultimate defence against online harm is grassroots family intervention through filtering tools, healthy boundaries, and constant, open conversation.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

The Internet: A Corporate Hijacking of Digital Freedom?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/MmIzMDA0ZTQtMDA1Ny00OTE1LTkyY2QtNjhhM2NlMzJmODdh

Sleep: Screens Stealing Our Slumber?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/N2NlNGQ3ZmItYTk1Yy00MjRlLTk5YjAtMmUyODM0OTRlNTQz

Deeper Connection: An Algorithmic Illusion of Intimacy?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ZGFiZDU5OTEtYjY5NS00M2ZmLWE1YzYtMjcxYzQzMzFjOTg2

Guest links - Brett Lee

Website: https://www.internetsafeeducation.com/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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We're joined by Dr Patrick Clarke - Clinical Psychologist and Associate Professor at Curtin University - whose research into attention and cognition puts him at the exact point where the science meets the scroll, and who brings evidence to a conversation usually driven by assumption.

In this episode we investigate how our interaction with technology is changing our attention habits, examine what the research actually says about attention spans in the digital age, explore the relationship between short-form content, social media, and mental health, and ask whether our fundamental cognitive abilities are genuinely declining - or simply adapting to a new environment.

(00:00) Introduction to attention, focus, and digital devices

(02:48) Understanding the different types of attention and why it matters

(09:20) Attention span in the digital age: what's actually changing?

(11:00) What the research really says about attention over time

(13:10) The impact of personal interest on our ability to focus

(15:13) Task switching, focus, and the cost of constant interruption

(17:44) Brain plasticity and how our minds adapt to digital environments

(21:40) Social media, short-form content, and their effect on cognitive engagement

(23:27) The relationship between cognitive load and anxiety levels

(24:12) What rapid-fire short-form content is actually doing to our brains

(27:07) Social media's specific influence on mental health

(30:46) Digital interactions versus real-life relationships: what gets lost

(32:38) Practical strategies for improving focus in a distracted world

(38:38) Reassessing our attention span concerns: are we worrying about the right things?

Key takeaways:

• Capabilities Intact, Habits Broken: Cognitive data proves our fundamental brain power and ability to focus have not diminished generation over generation; instead, our habits have changed because we constantly practice rapid task-switching online.

• Power of "Free Won't": True focus relies on inhibitory control; the brain's filtering system that blocks out irrelevant background stimuli. While minimal instrumental background noise can help stop us from scanning our environment, heavy device multitasking actively disrupts this filter.

• Nuanced Mental Health Impact: Mobile data reveals that generic screen time numbers have a negligible impact on anxiety. The true damage or benefit depends entirely on consumption style, either creating supportive communities or amplifying pre-existing psychological vulnerabilities via algorithmic feedback loops.

• Environment Drives Focus: Reclaiming an attention span requires rebuilding behavioural habits rather than repairing a damaged brain. Focus is easily restored by creating physical friction, single-task boundaries, and leveraging social accountability.

If this episode got you thinking, check out:

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/ODYyNDQ1MzAtMzdlNy00NjEzLWE4ZWEtYjgxMjMzNTJjOGJk

Sleep: Screens Stealing Our Slumber?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/N2NlNGQ3ZmItYTk1Yy00MjRlLTk5YjAtMmUyODM0OTRlNTQz

Self Improvement: Progress Replaced With Performance?

https://pod.link/1825601333/episode/NTI5M2Y0OWItNWMzNy00OGMxLTljZTgtOTk5MjI2MGM1YzRj

Guest links - Dr Patrick Clarke

University profile: https://staffportal.curtin.edu.au/staff/profile/view/patrick-clarke-ec8428e9/

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Welcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.

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