<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/selves-unedited/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Selves Unedited]]></title><podcast:guid>1c94a031-1caf-52da-9d75-37cfd4260b2b</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 16:01:31 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Maria-Christina Stewart and Danielle Colborn]]></copyright><managingEditor>Maria-Christina Stewart and Danielle Colborn</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join Stanford-trained psychologists Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn as they dive into the science and soul of everything related to eating disorders (and disordered eating), body image, and finding ways to love ourselves. Through evidence-based insights and heartfelt conversations, we’ll uncover the keys to personal growth, authentic values, and a life filled with meaning. Whether you or a loved one are seeking freedom from distress around eating, shape, or weight, this podcast is your guide to living fully and thriving unapologetically.]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png</url><title>Selves Unedited</title><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Maria-Christina Stewart and Danielle Colborn</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Maria-Christina Stewart and Danielle Colborn</itunes:author><description>Join Stanford-trained psychologists Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn as they dive into the science and soul of everything related to eating disorders (and disordered eating), body image, and finding ways to love ourselves. Through evidence-based insights and heartfelt conversations, we’ll uncover the keys to personal growth, authentic values, and a life filled with meaning. Whether you or a loved one are seeking freedom from distress around eating, shape, or weight, this podcast is your guide to living fully and thriving unapologetically.</description><link>https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Conversations with eating disorder experts that help us redefine body, mind, and meaning]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>Is Body Shame Stealing Your Summer?</title><itunes:title>Is Body Shame Stealing Your Summer?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if the life you're waiting to live is happening right now?</p><p>As summer approaches, many of us feel increased pressure to look a certain way before we allow ourselves to fully participate in vacations, celebrations, beach days, and everyday moments. But what if confidence isn't the prerequisite we've been taught it is?</p><p>In this episode, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore how body shame and self-consciousness can quietly shrink our lives—not because of how we look, but because of what we avoid.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why "I'll do it when..." can become a trap</li><li>How avoidance strengthens anxiety and body shame</li><li>The surprising way confidence is actually built</li><li>Why "good enough" may be more powerful than perfection</li><li>How to stop postponing meaningful experiences</li><li>Small steps toward showing up exactly as you are</li></ul><br/><p>If you've been waiting to feel better about yourself before fully living your life, consider this instead:</p><p><strong>Maybe the confidence you're looking for is waiting <em>on the other side</em> of participation.</strong></p><p><strong>Selves Unedited</strong> is hosted by Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn, psychologists specializing in eating disorders, body image, and mental health.</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, please <strong>subscribe</strong>, leave a <strong>review</strong>, and <strong>share</strong> it with someone who might benefit from this conversation—your support helps more people find <em>Selves Unedited</em>.</p><p><em>Please note: This podcast is intended for educational purposes and is not therapy or a substitute for professional treatment. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek out professional help.</em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if the life you're waiting to live is happening right now?</p><p>As summer approaches, many of us feel increased pressure to look a certain way before we allow ourselves to fully participate in vacations, celebrations, beach days, and everyday moments. But what if confidence isn't the prerequisite we've been taught it is?</p><p>In this episode, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore how body shame and self-consciousness can quietly shrink our lives—not because of how we look, but because of what we avoid.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why "I'll do it when..." can become a trap</li><li>How avoidance strengthens anxiety and body shame</li><li>The surprising way confidence is actually built</li><li>Why "good enough" may be more powerful than perfection</li><li>How to stop postponing meaningful experiences</li><li>Small steps toward showing up exactly as you are</li></ul><br/><p>If you've been waiting to feel better about yourself before fully living your life, consider this instead:</p><p><strong>Maybe the confidence you're looking for is waiting <em>on the other side</em> of participation.</strong></p><p><strong>Selves Unedited</strong> is hosted by Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn, psychologists specializing in eating disorders, body image, and mental health.</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, please <strong>subscribe</strong>, leave a <strong>review</strong>, and <strong>share</strong> it with someone who might benefit from this conversation—your support helps more people find <em>Selves Unedited</em>.</p><p><em>Please note: This podcast is intended for educational purposes and is not therapy or a substitute for professional treatment. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek out professional help.</em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e3d8bc06-d579-42e5-8ba1-e067f1743c97</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e3d8bc06-d579-42e5-8ba1-e067f1743c97.mp3" length="8106545" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:53</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/90e973fe-6ee3-45e3-864d-0a16ba673d60/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Body Shame, Embodiment, and Learning to Care for Ourselves</title><itunes:title>Body Shame, Embodiment, and Learning to Care for Ourselves</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Selves Unedited with</em> Dr. Danielle Colborn <em>and</em> Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart</p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Danielle and Maria Christina explore the quiet but powerful ways body shame can shape our lives. From shrinking ourselves socially to disconnecting from pleasure, body shame often operates beneath the surface—impacting confidence, relationships, self-esteem, and the way we care for our bodies.</p><p>Together, they unpack the difference between everyday body dissatisfaction and deeper body shame, while offering compassionate, practical ways to shift from self-surveillance toward embodiment, nourishment, and self-trust.</p><p><strong>In This Episode</strong></p><ul><li>The difference between body dissatisfaction and body shame </li><li>How shame becomes internalized through culture, media, and societal expectations </li><li>Why body shame affects confidence, relationships, and mental health </li><li>The connection between body shame and disordered eating </li><li>Why self-criticism is not an effective motivator for health </li><li>Shifting from “fixing” your body to caring for your body </li><li>Moving from appearance-focused thinking to body functionality and appreciation </li><li>Recognizing self-critical thoughts and practicing self-compassion </li><li>The exhaustion of “proving” you are good enough </li><li>Embodiment as a path toward greater ease, connection, and presence </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Shame says <em>“there is something wrong with me,”</em> while guilt says <em>“I did something I regret.”</em> </li><li>Body shame often becomes normalized, making it difficult to recognize how deeply it affects daily life. </li><li>Restriction and rigid control rarely create lasting self-worth or wellbeing. </li><li>Nourishment, care, and curiosity create a healthier relationship with the body than criticism or punishment. </li><li>Appreciating what the body allows us to do can help shift attention away from appearance alone. </li><li>Small shifts in awareness and self-talk can create meaningful change over time. </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Reflection for the Week</strong></p><p>As you move through this week, notice the moments where self-consciousness pulls you away from presence, connection, or ease. What would it look like to respond with compassion rather than criticism?</p><p><strong>Reminder</strong></p><p>This podcast is for educational and reflective purposes only and is not therapy or a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are struggling, please seek support from a qualified professional.</p><p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Selves Unedited with</em> Dr. Danielle Colborn <em>and</em> Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart</p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Danielle and Maria Christina explore the quiet but powerful ways body shame can shape our lives. From shrinking ourselves socially to disconnecting from pleasure, body shame often operates beneath the surface—impacting confidence, relationships, self-esteem, and the way we care for our bodies.</p><p>Together, they unpack the difference between everyday body dissatisfaction and deeper body shame, while offering compassionate, practical ways to shift from self-surveillance toward embodiment, nourishment, and self-trust.</p><p><strong>In This Episode</strong></p><ul><li>The difference between body dissatisfaction and body shame </li><li>How shame becomes internalized through culture, media, and societal expectations </li><li>Why body shame affects confidence, relationships, and mental health </li><li>The connection between body shame and disordered eating </li><li>Why self-criticism is not an effective motivator for health </li><li>Shifting from “fixing” your body to caring for your body </li><li>Moving from appearance-focused thinking to body functionality and appreciation </li><li>Recognizing self-critical thoughts and practicing self-compassion </li><li>The exhaustion of “proving” you are good enough </li><li>Embodiment as a path toward greater ease, connection, and presence </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Shame says <em>“there is something wrong with me,”</em> while guilt says <em>“I did something I regret.”</em> </li><li>Body shame often becomes normalized, making it difficult to recognize how deeply it affects daily life. </li><li>Restriction and rigid control rarely create lasting self-worth or wellbeing. </li><li>Nourishment, care, and curiosity create a healthier relationship with the body than criticism or punishment. </li><li>Appreciating what the body allows us to do can help shift attention away from appearance alone. </li><li>Small shifts in awareness and self-talk can create meaningful change over time. </li></ul><br/><p><strong>Reflection for the Week</strong></p><p>As you move through this week, notice the moments where self-consciousness pulls you away from presence, connection, or ease. What would it look like to respond with compassion rather than criticism?</p><p><strong>Reminder</strong></p><p>This podcast is for educational and reflective purposes only and is not therapy or a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are struggling, please seek support from a qualified professional.</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">bc4343ef-da1b-4ae4-a963-2642b5adb18a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 23:30:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/bc4343ef-da1b-4ae4-a963-2642b5adb18a.mp3" length="6297618" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:07</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/11c491ed-b040-4bf0-9212-9e81570def8c/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Summer Lie That Keeps People Stuck</title><itunes:title>The Summer Lie That Keeps People Stuck</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>As summer approaches, have you noticed some old narratives starting to resurface about your body, your appearance, comparisons to others, or pressure to look a certain way?</p><p>In this episode of Selves Unedited, Dr. Maria Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn begin May’s new theme by exploring why summer can intensify these body image struggles, and why so many people postpone fully living until they feel better about how they look.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why summer often amplifies body shame and self-criticism</li><li>The cultural pressure to become “summer ready”</li><li>Fear of being seen in swimsuits, shorts, tank tops, and social settings</li><li>How trying to “fix” the body can actually reinforce shame</li><li>The emotional aftermath of visibility and vulnerability</li><li>Why avoidance strengthens anxiety</li><li>The difference between body positivity and body acceptance</li><li>How meaningful experiences become possible when we stop waiting to feel perfect</li><li>Practical ways to gently take up space in the body you have right now</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is a compassionate conversation about visibility, discomfort, self-acceptance, and learning to participate in life now, not someday when your body changes.</p><p><strong>Leave A Review!</strong></p><p>If this episode resonated with you, please let us know and subscribe, leave a review, or share it with someone who may need this conversation.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As summer approaches, have you noticed some old narratives starting to resurface about your body, your appearance, comparisons to others, or pressure to look a certain way?</p><p>In this episode of Selves Unedited, Dr. Maria Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn begin May’s new theme by exploring why summer can intensify these body image struggles, and why so many people postpone fully living until they feel better about how they look.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why summer often amplifies body shame and self-criticism</li><li>The cultural pressure to become “summer ready”</li><li>Fear of being seen in swimsuits, shorts, tank tops, and social settings</li><li>How trying to “fix” the body can actually reinforce shame</li><li>The emotional aftermath of visibility and vulnerability</li><li>Why avoidance strengthens anxiety</li><li>The difference between body positivity and body acceptance</li><li>How meaningful experiences become possible when we stop waiting to feel perfect</li><li>Practical ways to gently take up space in the body you have right now</li></ul><br/><p>This episode is a compassionate conversation about visibility, discomfort, self-acceptance, and learning to participate in life now, not someday when your body changes.</p><p><strong>Leave A Review!</strong></p><p>If this episode resonated with you, please let us know and subscribe, leave a review, or share it with someone who may need this conversation.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">227d81aa-c081-427c-adae-aea83a7dd787</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/227d81aa-c081-427c-adae-aea83a7dd787.mp3" length="9003276" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>18:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/11d3c9ed-5cb0-4e13-a357-56b9fd4161f9/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Seen vs Known: The Gap Between Visibility and Authenticity</title><itunes:title>Seen vs Known: The Gap Between Visibility and Authenticity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Episode Summary</strong></h3><p>This week, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria Christina Stewart explore the nuanced difference between being <em>seen</em> and being <em>truly known</em>. As they close out April’s theme of “taking up space,” they examine why visibility alone doesn’t always lead to meaningful connection—and how authenticity plays a central role in bridging that gap.</p><p>Through personal reflection and clinical insight, they unpack the internal and relational factors that lead us to edit ourselves, people-please, or present curated versions of who we are. The conversation invites listeners to consider what it might look like to move toward being more fully known—gently, intentionally, and in ways that feel safe.</p><h3><strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></h3><ul><li>The difference between <strong>being visible</strong> and <strong>being authentically seen</strong></li><li>Why we often <strong>edit, soften, or reshape ourselves</strong> in social spaces</li><li>How <strong>people-pleasing and performance</strong> can create disconnection</li><li>The role of <strong>self-awareness</strong> in authentic expression</li><li>Why <strong>knowing your own thoughts, needs, and feelings</strong> is foundational</li><li>How shifting attention toward <strong>genuine curiosity about others</strong> can ease social anxiety</li><li>The impact of <strong>social media and curated identity</strong> on feeling “seen”</li><li>The importance of <strong>presence vs. being in your thoughts about the moment</strong></li><li>How authenticity fosters <strong>deeper, more meaningful connections</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></h3><ul><li>Being seen doesn’t guarantee being known—<strong>authenticity is the bridge</strong></li><li>You can’t fully see others if you’re not <strong>allowing yourself to be seen</strong></li><li><strong>Self-connection comes before authentic connection with others</strong></li><li>Awareness of when you’re “editing yourself” is the first step toward change</li><li>Small, intentional shifts toward authenticity can lead to <strong>more fulfilling interactions</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Looking Ahead</strong></h3><p>This conversation sets the stage for May’s theme: <strong>Embodiment</strong>—exploring what it means to feel at home in your body and connected to yourself. Because being fully seen starts with being fully connected within.</p><h3><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h3><p>As you move through your week, notice moments where:</p><ul><li>You hold something back</li><li>You shift away from what feels true</li><li>You present a more “acceptable” version of yourself</li></ul><br/><p>Not as something to judge—but simply to observe. Awareness is where change begins.</p><h3><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h3><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are struggling, please seek support from a qualified provider.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Episode Summary</strong></h3><p>This week, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria Christina Stewart explore the nuanced difference between being <em>seen</em> and being <em>truly known</em>. As they close out April’s theme of “taking up space,” they examine why visibility alone doesn’t always lead to meaningful connection—and how authenticity plays a central role in bridging that gap.</p><p>Through personal reflection and clinical insight, they unpack the internal and relational factors that lead us to edit ourselves, people-please, or present curated versions of who we are. The conversation invites listeners to consider what it might look like to move toward being more fully known—gently, intentionally, and in ways that feel safe.</p><h3><strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></h3><ul><li>The difference between <strong>being visible</strong> and <strong>being authentically seen</strong></li><li>Why we often <strong>edit, soften, or reshape ourselves</strong> in social spaces</li><li>How <strong>people-pleasing and performance</strong> can create disconnection</li><li>The role of <strong>self-awareness</strong> in authentic expression</li><li>Why <strong>knowing your own thoughts, needs, and feelings</strong> is foundational</li><li>How shifting attention toward <strong>genuine curiosity about others</strong> can ease social anxiety</li><li>The impact of <strong>social media and curated identity</strong> on feeling “seen”</li><li>The importance of <strong>presence vs. being in your thoughts about the moment</strong></li><li>How authenticity fosters <strong>deeper, more meaningful connections</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></h3><ul><li>Being seen doesn’t guarantee being known—<strong>authenticity is the bridge</strong></li><li>You can’t fully see others if you’re not <strong>allowing yourself to be seen</strong></li><li><strong>Self-connection comes before authentic connection with others</strong></li><li>Awareness of when you’re “editing yourself” is the first step toward change</li><li>Small, intentional shifts toward authenticity can lead to <strong>more fulfilling interactions</strong></li></ul><br/><h3><strong>Looking Ahead</strong></h3><p>This conversation sets the stage for May’s theme: <strong>Embodiment</strong>—exploring what it means to feel at home in your body and connected to yourself. Because being fully seen starts with being fully connected within.</p><h3><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h3><p>As you move through your week, notice moments where:</p><ul><li>You hold something back</li><li>You shift away from what feels true</li><li>You present a more “acceptable” version of yourself</li></ul><br/><p>Not as something to judge—but simply to observe. Awareness is where change begins.</p><h3><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h3><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are struggling, please seek support from a qualified provider.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">dca9d3e1-1301-4eea-b978-7627dbcda351</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 13:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/dca9d3e1-1301-4eea-b978-7627dbcda351.mp3" length="9562924" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>19:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/a8f9340f-1e15-4188-a361-03f2c7483a97/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>What No One Tells You About Taking Up Space</title><itunes:title>What No One Tells You About Taking Up Space</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens after you take the brave step of showing up more fully? For many of us, that’s when the real challenge begins.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore the often overlooked aftermath of vulnerability: the anxiety, self-doubt, and urge to retreat that can arise after we put ourselves out there. Whether you've spoken up, reached out, worn something that feels more like you, or taken a meaningful risk, the discomfort that follows can be intense—and it's deeply human.</p><p>Together, they discuss why our brains naturally scan for threat after moments of exposure, how anticipatory anxiety differs from actual danger, and why the goal isn't to eliminate fear, but to learn that we can stay with ourselves through it.</p><p>This conversation offers practical strategies for navigating the emotional aftermath of visibility, including:</p><ul><li>Why feeling anxious after taking a risk is normal</li><li>How retreat reinforces fear—and how staying teaches safety</li><li>The importance of self-compassion in moments of vulnerability</li><li>Physical tools for calming the nervous system</li><li>How to let go of post-event rumination and self-criticism</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever found yourself wanting to disappear after being seen, this episode is for you. Growth isn't just about stepping forward—it's about learning to remain present after you do.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens after you take the brave step of showing up more fully? For many of us, that’s when the real challenge begins.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore the often overlooked aftermath of vulnerability: the anxiety, self-doubt, and urge to retreat that can arise after we put ourselves out there. Whether you've spoken up, reached out, worn something that feels more like you, or taken a meaningful risk, the discomfort that follows can be intense—and it's deeply human.</p><p>Together, they discuss why our brains naturally scan for threat after moments of exposure, how anticipatory anxiety differs from actual danger, and why the goal isn't to eliminate fear, but to learn that we can stay with ourselves through it.</p><p>This conversation offers practical strategies for navigating the emotional aftermath of visibility, including:</p><ul><li>Why feeling anxious after taking a risk is normal</li><li>How retreat reinforces fear—and how staying teaches safety</li><li>The importance of self-compassion in moments of vulnerability</li><li>Physical tools for calming the nervous system</li><li>How to let go of post-event rumination and self-criticism</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever found yourself wanting to disappear after being seen, this episode is for you. Growth isn't just about stepping forward—it's about learning to remain present after you do.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e3293683-f04d-463d-b485-4a196e454ca9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e3293683-f04d-463d-b485-4a196e454ca9.mp3" length="7966529" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>16:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/1613cb27-fc97-4bf1-828d-b0a399527372/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>What Happens When You Come Out of Hiding: Fear, Visibility and Growth</title><itunes:title>What Happens When You Come Out of Hiding: Fear, Visibility and Growth</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when you finally start showing up more fully—and fear shows up too?</p><p>In this episode, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart explore the anxiety that often comes with becoming more visible, taking up space, and moving toward the life you want. They discuss why fear is often a natural sign of growth rather than a signal to retreat, and how learning to tolerate discomfort can open the door to a fuller, more meaningful life.</p><p>The conversation includes practical tools for working with fear, including emotional labeling, self-compassion, structured worry time, and using the breath to regulate moments of overwhelm.</p><h3>In This Episode:</h3><ul><li>Why fear often increases when we begin to grow or expand</li><li>The difference between real danger and emotional discomfort</li><li>How avoidance strengthens anxiety over time</li><li>Why exposure is one of the most effective ways to reduce fear</li><li>How to relate to fear as a younger part of yourself needing care</li><li>Naming emotions to build self-awareness and perspective</li><li>Structured worry time as a tool for anxiety spirals</li><li>Using the breath and body to ride waves of overwhelm</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Takeaway:</h3><p>Feeling fear when you begin to show up more fully does not mean something is wrong—it often means you are doing something brave.</p><h3>Reminder:</h3><p>This podcast is for educational purposes and is not therapy or a substitute for professional support. If you are struggling, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when you finally start showing up more fully—and fear shows up too?</p><p>In this episode, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart explore the anxiety that often comes with becoming more visible, taking up space, and moving toward the life you want. They discuss why fear is often a natural sign of growth rather than a signal to retreat, and how learning to tolerate discomfort can open the door to a fuller, more meaningful life.</p><p>The conversation includes practical tools for working with fear, including emotional labeling, self-compassion, structured worry time, and using the breath to regulate moments of overwhelm.</p><h3>In This Episode:</h3><ul><li>Why fear often increases when we begin to grow or expand</li><li>The difference between real danger and emotional discomfort</li><li>How avoidance strengthens anxiety over time</li><li>Why exposure is one of the most effective ways to reduce fear</li><li>How to relate to fear as a younger part of yourself needing care</li><li>Naming emotions to build self-awareness and perspective</li><li>Structured worry time as a tool for anxiety spirals</li><li>Using the breath and body to ride waves of overwhelm</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Takeaway:</h3><p>Feeling fear when you begin to show up more fully does not mean something is wrong—it often means you are doing something brave.</p><h3>Reminder:</h3><p>This podcast is for educational purposes and is not therapy or a substitute for professional support. If you are struggling, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d8f4d816-7c26-4e33-a449-5f15551328e9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 20:30:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d8f4d816-7c26-4e33-a449-5f15551328e9.mp3" length="9038176" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>18:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b4938316-854f-42bf-862e-433b4e63e453/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>A Gentle Start to Taking Up Space</title><itunes:title>A Gentle Start to Taking Up Space</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if taking up space didn’t require a bold transformation… but started with one quiet moment?</p><p>In this solo episode, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart offers a more reflective, intimate conversation on what it really means to begin <em>coming out of hiding</em>. Instead of pushing yourself into visibility, this episode explores a gentler path—one rooted in awareness, curiosity, and small, meaningful shifts.</p><p>If you’ve ever found yourself holding back, editing who you are, or staying small to feel safe, this episode is an invitation to begin—slowly and compassionately—expanding into your life.</p><h1><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></h1><ul><li>Why “taking up space” often begins with small, quiet moments</li><li>How hiding develops as a protective pattern—and why it makes sense</li><li>The difference between forcing change vs. experimenting with growth</li><li>How to shift from seeking approval to gathering insight</li><li>Why fear before action is often louder than the reality</li><li>How to build trust in your ability to handle discomfort</li></ul><br/><h1><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h1><p>Where in your life are you shrinking right now?</p><p> And what would it look like to expand—just 5%—this week?</p><h1><strong>What’s Next</strong></h1><p>Next week, Dr. Danielle Colborn rejoins the conversation as we continue exploring this month's theme of <strong>Coming Out of Hiding</strong>—with a deeper look at fear, visibility, and what it means to take up space in your life.</p><h1><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h1><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek support from a qualified professional.</p><h1><strong>Enjoying the Podcast?</strong></h1><p>If this episode resonated with you, please consider subscribing, leaving a rating or review, and sharing it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps these conversations reach more people.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if taking up space didn’t require a bold transformation… but started with one quiet moment?</p><p>In this solo episode, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart offers a more reflective, intimate conversation on what it really means to begin <em>coming out of hiding</em>. Instead of pushing yourself into visibility, this episode explores a gentler path—one rooted in awareness, curiosity, and small, meaningful shifts.</p><p>If you’ve ever found yourself holding back, editing who you are, or staying small to feel safe, this episode is an invitation to begin—slowly and compassionately—expanding into your life.</p><h1><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></h1><ul><li>Why “taking up space” often begins with small, quiet moments</li><li>How hiding develops as a protective pattern—and why it makes sense</li><li>The difference between forcing change vs. experimenting with growth</li><li>How to shift from seeking approval to gathering insight</li><li>Why fear before action is often louder than the reality</li><li>How to build trust in your ability to handle discomfort</li></ul><br/><h1><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h1><p>Where in your life are you shrinking right now?</p><p> And what would it look like to expand—just 5%—this week?</p><h1><strong>What’s Next</strong></h1><p>Next week, Dr. Danielle Colborn rejoins the conversation as we continue exploring this month's theme of <strong>Coming Out of Hiding</strong>—with a deeper look at fear, visibility, and what it means to take up space in your life.</p><h1><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h1><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek support from a qualified professional.</p><h1><strong>Enjoying the Podcast?</strong></h1><p>If this episode resonated with you, please consider subscribing, leaving a rating or review, and sharing it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps these conversations reach more people.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ee88ee40-ae5e-47bb-bbb6-588a3afa4686</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 01:05:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ee88ee40-ae5e-47bb-bbb6-588a3afa4686.mp3" length="2275178" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>04:44</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/090b63bb-efab-4676-96fb-a42a56bd9ce0/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Are You Shrinking or Expanding? Taking Up Space &amp; Facing the Fear of Being Seen</title><itunes:title>Are You Shrinking or Expanding? Taking Up Space &amp; Facing the Fear of Being Seen</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong></p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Danielle Colborne and Dr. Maria Christina Stewart explore a powerful and deeply relatable question: <em>Are you shrinking or expanding?</em></p><p>They unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we hold ourselves back—from avoiding visibility and staying silent, to hiding behind clothing or self-doubt. This conversation goes beyond body image to touch on authenticity, fear, growth, and what it really means to take up space in your life.</p><p>Whether you’ve found yourself dimming your voice, avoiding opportunities, or feeling caught between wanting to be seen and wanting to disappear, this episode offers compassionate insight and practical ways to move toward expansion—at your own pace.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>✨ In This Episode, We Cover:</strong></p><ul><li>What it means to “shrink” vs. “expand” in everyday life </li><li>The many ways hiding shows up (speech, behavior, body, and choices) </li><li>Fear of visibility and the vulnerability of being seen </li><li>Why even positive growth and success can feel scary </li><li>The role of self-compassion, grace, and emotional awareness </li><li>How to identify and challenge feared outcomes </li><li>Building distress tolerance when things don’t go as planned </li><li>The importance of values and your personal “why” </li><li>Taking small, meaningful steps toward showing up more fully </li><li>Navigating body image, clothing choices, and safety considerations </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🔍 Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Hiding is common and human</strong>—it can show up in many areas of life, not just body image. </li><li><strong>Fear doesn’t mean stop</strong>—it’s something to understand, validate, and work with. </li><li><strong>Thoughts aren’t facts</strong>—others’ opinions don’t define your truth. </li><li><strong>Worst-case scenarios are survivable</strong>—you are more capable than your fear suggests. </li><li><strong>Expansion is a practice</strong>—small, intentional steps create meaningful change over time. </li><li><strong>You get to define what “taking up space” looks like for you</strong>, in a way that feels safe and authentic. </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🌱 Reflection Questions</strong></p><ul><li>Where in your life might you be shrinking right now? </li><li>What fears come up when you think about being more visible? </li><li>What is one small step you could take toward expanding this week? </li><li>What values or “why” might support you in showing up more fully? </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>💬 Notable Moments</strong></p><ul><li>The idea that growth—even positive change—can trigger fear and self-doubt </li><li>A personal example of “shrinking” through avoidance and how awareness shifted action </li><li>Imagining worst-case scenarios as a way to build resilience and confidence </li><li>The reminder that even the most celebrated creators face criticism </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>⚠️ Disclaimer</strong></p><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you’re struggling, please consider reaching out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>💛 Connect &amp; Share</strong></p><p>If this episode resonated with you, consider sharing it with someone who might benefit or leaving a review to help others find the show.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🌿 Closing Thought</strong></p><p>As you move through your week, gently notice:</p><p> <strong>Where are you shrinking—and where might you be ready, even just a little, to expand?</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong></p><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Danielle Colborne and Dr. Maria Christina Stewart explore a powerful and deeply relatable question: <em>Are you shrinking or expanding?</em></p><p>They unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we hold ourselves back—from avoiding visibility and staying silent, to hiding behind clothing or self-doubt. This conversation goes beyond body image to touch on authenticity, fear, growth, and what it really means to take up space in your life.</p><p>Whether you’ve found yourself dimming your voice, avoiding opportunities, or feeling caught between wanting to be seen and wanting to disappear, this episode offers compassionate insight and practical ways to move toward expansion—at your own pace.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>✨ In This Episode, We Cover:</strong></p><ul><li>What it means to “shrink” vs. “expand” in everyday life </li><li>The many ways hiding shows up (speech, behavior, body, and choices) </li><li>Fear of visibility and the vulnerability of being seen </li><li>Why even positive growth and success can feel scary </li><li>The role of self-compassion, grace, and emotional awareness </li><li>How to identify and challenge feared outcomes </li><li>Building distress tolerance when things don’t go as planned </li><li>The importance of values and your personal “why” </li><li>Taking small, meaningful steps toward showing up more fully </li><li>Navigating body image, clothing choices, and safety considerations </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🔍 Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Hiding is common and human</strong>—it can show up in many areas of life, not just body image. </li><li><strong>Fear doesn’t mean stop</strong>—it’s something to understand, validate, and work with. </li><li><strong>Thoughts aren’t facts</strong>—others’ opinions don’t define your truth. </li><li><strong>Worst-case scenarios are survivable</strong>—you are more capable than your fear suggests. </li><li><strong>Expansion is a practice</strong>—small, intentional steps create meaningful change over time. </li><li><strong>You get to define what “taking up space” looks like for you</strong>, in a way that feels safe and authentic. </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🌱 Reflection Questions</strong></p><ul><li>Where in your life might you be shrinking right now? </li><li>What fears come up when you think about being more visible? </li><li>What is one small step you could take toward expanding this week? </li><li>What values or “why” might support you in showing up more fully? </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>💬 Notable Moments</strong></p><ul><li>The idea that growth—even positive change—can trigger fear and self-doubt </li><li>A personal example of “shrinking” through avoidance and how awareness shifted action </li><li>Imagining worst-case scenarios as a way to build resilience and confidence </li><li>The reminder that even the most celebrated creators face criticism </li></ul><br/><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>⚠️ Disclaimer</strong></p><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you’re struggling, please consider reaching out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>💛 Connect &amp; Share</strong></p><p>If this episode resonated with you, consider sharing it with someone who might benefit or leaving a review to help others find the show.</p><p class="ql-align-center"></p><p><strong>🌿 Closing Thought</strong></p><p>As you move through your week, gently notice:</p><p> <strong>Where are you shrinking—and where might you be ready, even just a little, to expand?</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">35e18991-654e-483a-9d5a-d3193aee9664</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 09:45:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/35e18991-654e-483a-9d5a-d3193aee9664.mp3" length="13346290" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>27:48</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/415ce104-d509-4d77-bf39-1daa3df54120/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When the Feelings Get Loud: Staying the Course Through Discomfort</title><itunes:title>When the Feelings Get Loud: Staying the Course Through Discomfort</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>When you start making space for what truly matters, difficult emotions often follow.</p><p>In this final episode of our March <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> series, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore what to do when challenging emotions such as fear, shame, anxiety, or self-doubt show up - especially when you’re stepping outside of old patterns and into growth.</p><p>These emotions can feel like a signal to stop. But what if they’re not a sign you’re on the wrong path… but simply part of the process?</p><p>In this conversation, we walk through practical, compassionate ways to respond to difficult emotions so they don’t derail you from what matters most.</p><h1><strong>In This Episode, We Discuss:</strong></h1><ul><li>Why difficult emotions often increase during periods of growth</li><li>The difference between <strong>feelings and facts</strong></li><li>How emotions act as <strong>messengers—not directives</strong></li><li>A simple, powerful framework: <strong>Notice → Label → Validate → Care</strong></li><li>Why naming your emotions can actually help calm your brain</li><li>How to respond to emotions with <strong>self-compassion instead of avoidance</strong></li><li>Ways to care for yourself when emotions feel “sticky”</li><li>The connection between <strong>love, fear, and vulnerability</strong></li><li>How allowing a full range of emotions leads to a fuller life</li></ul><br/><h1><strong>Key Takeaway</strong></h1><p>Growth isn’t about getting rid of difficult emotions.</p><p>It’s about learning how to <strong>make space for them—without letting them decide your path</strong>.</p><h1><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h1><p>When a difficult emotion shows up this week, ask yourself:</p><p> <strong>Can I make space for this feeling—and still take one small step toward what matters?</strong></p><h1><strong>What’s Next</strong></h1><p>Next month, we begin a new theme: <strong>Coming Out of Hiding</strong></p><p>We’ll explore what it means to take up space in your life—through how you show up, how you express yourself, and how you move through the fear of being seen.</p><h1><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h1><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek professional support.</p><h1><strong>Connect With Us</strong></h1><p>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our show, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. It helps these conversations reach more people.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you start making space for what truly matters, difficult emotions often follow.</p><p>In this final episode of our March <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> series, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore what to do when challenging emotions such as fear, shame, anxiety, or self-doubt show up - especially when you’re stepping outside of old patterns and into growth.</p><p>These emotions can feel like a signal to stop. But what if they’re not a sign you’re on the wrong path… but simply part of the process?</p><p>In this conversation, we walk through practical, compassionate ways to respond to difficult emotions so they don’t derail you from what matters most.</p><h1><strong>In This Episode, We Discuss:</strong></h1><ul><li>Why difficult emotions often increase during periods of growth</li><li>The difference between <strong>feelings and facts</strong></li><li>How emotions act as <strong>messengers—not directives</strong></li><li>A simple, powerful framework: <strong>Notice → Label → Validate → Care</strong></li><li>Why naming your emotions can actually help calm your brain</li><li>How to respond to emotions with <strong>self-compassion instead of avoidance</strong></li><li>Ways to care for yourself when emotions feel “sticky”</li><li>The connection between <strong>love, fear, and vulnerability</strong></li><li>How allowing a full range of emotions leads to a fuller life</li></ul><br/><h1><strong>Key Takeaway</strong></h1><p>Growth isn’t about getting rid of difficult emotions.</p><p>It’s about learning how to <strong>make space for them—without letting them decide your path</strong>.</p><h1><strong>Reflection Prompt</strong></h1><p>When a difficult emotion shows up this week, ask yourself:</p><p> <strong>Can I make space for this feeling—and still take one small step toward what matters?</strong></p><h1><strong>What’s Next</strong></h1><p>Next month, we begin a new theme: <strong>Coming Out of Hiding</strong></p><p>We’ll explore what it means to take up space in your life—through how you show up, how you express yourself, and how you move through the fear of being seen.</p><h1><strong>Disclaimer</strong></h1><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek professional support.</p><h1><strong>Connect With Us</strong></h1><p>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our show, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. It helps these conversations reach more people.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">17cdb1c3-459d-4740-955d-0a15d148334e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/17cdb1c3-459d-4740-955d-0a15d148334e.mp3" length="8567136" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:51</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/291963f5-cfb9-4204-98ee-a3d3f5f4a40f/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Clearing the Noise: Reclaiming Space from Worries about Eating, Shape and Weight</title><itunes:title>Clearing the Noise: Reclaiming Space from Worries about Eating, Shape and Weight</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Show Notes</strong></h2><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart continue their “spring cleaning the mind” series by exploring a form of mental clutter many people quietly carry: persistent thoughts about food, body weight, and shape.</p><p>These thoughts can feel overwhelming, convincing, and constant—but what if the goal isn’t to eliminate them, but to change your relationship with them?</p><p>Danielle and Maria zoom out to examine how our environments, habits, and internal patterns shape the mental noise we experience. They share practical, compassionate tools to help you step back from unhelpful thoughts, create more mental space, and reconnect with what truly matters.</p><h2>🌱 <strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why you <em>can’t</em> control your thoughts—but you can influence your environment</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How daily behaviors (like social media use or tracking habits) reinforce mental clutter</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hidden impact of avoidance and how it strengthens fear-based thinking</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Common cognitive distortions (all-or-nothing thinking, mind reading, catastrophizing)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “fixing” thoughts isn’t always the most effective strategy</li></ol><br/><h2><strong>Tools to Create More Mental Space:</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Set Yourself Up for Success:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Take an honest look at your environment—what you consume, who you’re around, and what messages you’re reinforcing daily.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Notice Patterns, Not Just Thoughts:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Identify recurring thinking styles like extremes or assumptions about others.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Externalize the Inner Critic:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Give your thoughts a name (e.g., “anxiety mind,” “perfectionist voice”) to create distance and perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Practice Detachment Over Debate:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Instead of arguing with thoughts, allow them to exist while continuing to live your life.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Use Humor as a Tool:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Turning harsh thoughts into something playful (like a cartoon voice) can reduce their intensity.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Write It Out:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Journaling can help you see thoughts more clearly and even “dialogue” with them from a grounded, wise perspective.</li></ol><br/><h2> <strong>Key Takeaways</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Mental clutter often reflects what we repeatedly expose ourselves to and practice.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t need to eliminate difficult thoughts to feel better.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Creating even a <em>little</em> distance from your thoughts can be powerful.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real change happens through both external shifts and internal awareness.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>With consistent practice, your relationship to your thoughts <em>can</em> change over time.</li></ol><br/><h2>⚠️ <strong>Reminder</strong></h2><p>This podcast is not a substitute for therapy. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><h2>💬 <strong>Loved This Episode?</strong></h2><p>If this conversation resonated with you, consider leaving a review or sharing it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps more people find these discussions.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Show Notes</strong></h2><p>In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart continue their “spring cleaning the mind” series by exploring a form of mental clutter many people quietly carry: persistent thoughts about food, body weight, and shape.</p><p>These thoughts can feel overwhelming, convincing, and constant—but what if the goal isn’t to eliminate them, but to change your relationship with them?</p><p>Danielle and Maria zoom out to examine how our environments, habits, and internal patterns shape the mental noise we experience. They share practical, compassionate tools to help you step back from unhelpful thoughts, create more mental space, and reconnect with what truly matters.</p><h2>🌱 <strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why you <em>can’t</em> control your thoughts—but you can influence your environment</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How daily behaviors (like social media use or tracking habits) reinforce mental clutter</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hidden impact of avoidance and how it strengthens fear-based thinking</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Common cognitive distortions (all-or-nothing thinking, mind reading, catastrophizing)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “fixing” thoughts isn’t always the most effective strategy</li></ol><br/><h2><strong>Tools to Create More Mental Space:</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Set Yourself Up for Success:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Take an honest look at your environment—what you consume, who you’re around, and what messages you’re reinforcing daily.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Notice Patterns, Not Just Thoughts:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Identify recurring thinking styles like extremes or assumptions about others.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Externalize the Inner Critic:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Give your thoughts a name (e.g., “anxiety mind,” “perfectionist voice”) to create distance and perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Practice Detachment Over Debate:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Instead of arguing with thoughts, allow them to exist while continuing to live your life.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Use Humor as a Tool:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Turning harsh thoughts into something playful (like a cartoon voice) can reduce their intensity.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Write It Out:</strong></li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span> Journaling can help you see thoughts more clearly and even “dialogue” with them from a grounded, wise perspective.</li></ol><br/><h2> <strong>Key Takeaways</strong></h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Mental clutter often reflects what we repeatedly expose ourselves to and practice.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t need to eliminate difficult thoughts to feel better.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Creating even a <em>little</em> distance from your thoughts can be powerful.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real change happens through both external shifts and internal awareness.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>With consistent practice, your relationship to your thoughts <em>can</em> change over time.</li></ol><br/><h2>⚠️ <strong>Reminder</strong></h2><p>This podcast is not a substitute for therapy. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional.</p><h2>💬 <strong>Loved This Episode?</strong></h2><p>If this conversation resonated with you, consider leaving a review or sharing it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps more people find these discussions.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fee2f0f3-f13e-4a28-845e-03a1e45c3825</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/fee2f0f3-f13e-4a28-845e-03a1e45c3825.mp3" length="7508445" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>15:39</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/09b78e6e-1e73-4601-a440-0be7100bec95/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Growth Through Small Experiments</title><itunes:title>Growth Through Small Experiments</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn continue the March theme of <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> by exploring a gentle approach to change with <strong>small experiments</strong>.</p><p>When we try to grow or shift long-standing habits, it’s common for uncomfortable thoughts and emotions to arise. That discomfort can make change feel overwhelming or even impossible. Instead of treating growth like a test we have to pass, Drs. Stewart and Colborn suggest approaching it with curiosity—taking <strong>small, manageable steps and observing what we learn along the way</strong>.</p><p>Together, they discuss how breaking change into small behavioral experiments can help us move forward.</p><h2>In This Episode</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How big changes can feel overwhelming—and why small steps help</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Using <strong>experiments </strong>when approaching growth</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How anticipatory anxiety can make situations feel scarier than they actually are</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Examples of behavioral experiments related to clothing, body image, and self-comfort</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why holding onto “goal clothes” can keep us stuck in painful thinking patterns</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How small actions can help shift both <strong>behavior and mindset</strong></li></ol><br/><h2>A Question to Reflect On</h2><p>What is <strong>one small experiment</strong> you could try this week that aligns with what truly matters to you? Try breaking it down into <strong>three manageable steps </strong>to help you get started.</p><h2>Enjoying the Podcast?</h2><p>If this episode resonated with you, please consider <strong>subscribing, leaving a rating or review, or sharing the episode with someone who might benefit</strong>. Your support helps more people find these conversations.</p><h2>Disclaimer</h2><p>This podcast is intended for educational purposes only and is not therapy or a substitute for professional care. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified mental health professional.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn continue the March theme of <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> by exploring a gentle approach to change with <strong>small experiments</strong>.</p><p>When we try to grow or shift long-standing habits, it’s common for uncomfortable thoughts and emotions to arise. That discomfort can make change feel overwhelming or even impossible. Instead of treating growth like a test we have to pass, Drs. Stewart and Colborn suggest approaching it with curiosity—taking <strong>small, manageable steps and observing what we learn along the way</strong>.</p><p>Together, they discuss how breaking change into small behavioral experiments can help us move forward.</p><h2>In This Episode</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How big changes can feel overwhelming—and why small steps help</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Using <strong>experiments </strong>when approaching growth</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How anticipatory anxiety can make situations feel scarier than they actually are</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Examples of behavioral experiments related to clothing, body image, and self-comfort</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why holding onto “goal clothes” can keep us stuck in painful thinking patterns</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How small actions can help shift both <strong>behavior and mindset</strong></li></ol><br/><h2>A Question to Reflect On</h2><p>What is <strong>one small experiment</strong> you could try this week that aligns with what truly matters to you? Try breaking it down into <strong>three manageable steps </strong>to help you get started.</p><h2>Enjoying the Podcast?</h2><p>If this episode resonated with you, please consider <strong>subscribing, leaving a rating or review, or sharing the episode with someone who might benefit</strong>. Your support helps more people find these conversations.</p><h2>Disclaimer</h2><p>This podcast is intended for educational purposes only and is not therapy or a substitute for professional care. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified mental health professional.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6badbafe-1388-4799-b206-f564c2ffcde7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6badbafe-1388-4799-b206-f564c2ffcde7.mp3" length="6937931" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>14:27</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/219d122d-0eb5-4498-867c-45af8a02a230/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Spring Cleaning the Mind: What to do When Fear Tries to Stop You</title><itunes:title>Spring Cleaning the Mind: What to do When Fear Tries to Stop You</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<h2>Overview</h2><p>As part of the <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> theme, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart explore a common experience that arises when we try to make meaningful changes: <strong>fear</strong>. Even when we move toward something positive, fear and self-doubt can appear.</p><p>The hosts share their own experience of questioning whether their previous episode was “good enough,” highlighting how easily our minds can create negative narratives that aren’t grounded in reality.</p><h2>Key Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Fear often appears at the edge of growth.</strong> It doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Don’t automatically believe your thoughts.</strong> Thoughts are mental events, not necessarily facts.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Pause and gather data.</strong> Check whether your fears are actually supported by reality.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Avoid avoidance.</strong> Facing fears in small steps helps reduce them over time.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Don’t let perfectionism stop progress.</strong> Focus on “good enough” rather than perfect.</li></ol><br/><h2>Reflection</h2><p>Instead of asking, <em>“How do I get rid of this fear?”</em> try asking:</p><p> <strong>“How can I move forward wisely, even while fear is here?”</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Overview</h2><p>As part of the <strong>Spring Cleaning the Mind</strong> theme, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart explore a common experience that arises when we try to make meaningful changes: <strong>fear</strong>. Even when we move toward something positive, fear and self-doubt can appear.</p><p>The hosts share their own experience of questioning whether their previous episode was “good enough,” highlighting how easily our minds can create negative narratives that aren’t grounded in reality.</p><h2>Key Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Fear often appears at the edge of growth.</strong> It doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Don’t automatically believe your thoughts.</strong> Thoughts are mental events, not necessarily facts.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Pause and gather data.</strong> Check whether your fears are actually supported by reality.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Avoid avoidance.</strong> Facing fears in small steps helps reduce them over time.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span><strong>Don’t let perfectionism stop progress.</strong> Focus on “good enough” rather than perfect.</li></ol><br/><h2>Reflection</h2><p>Instead of asking, <em>“How do I get rid of this fear?”</em> try asking:</p><p> <strong>“How can I move forward wisely, even while fear is here?”</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d9849d54-caf5-4f10-98fb-e4373c01f065</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 01:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d9849d54-caf5-4f10-98fb-e4373c01f065.mp3" length="5950502" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>12:24</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season></item><item><title>A New Season of Becoming: What Are You Ready to Grow?</title><itunes:title>A New Season of Becoming: What Are You Ready to Grow?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>March feels like a beginning.</p><p>In this season opener of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore what it means to grow intentionally — not by fixing ourselves, but by making room for what is important and meaningful to us.</p><p>We talk about:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why growth isn’t a one-time decision but a return</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How fear quietly shrinks our lives</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The cognitive and emotional space taken up by body image, comparison, and self-criticism</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The illusion that control will make us happy</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why meaningful living often requires tolerating discomfort</li></ol><br/><p>Instead of asking, <em>“How do I fix myself?”</em></p><p>We’re asking, <em>“What do I want to make room for?”</em></p><p>This episode invites you to consider what’s currently taking up too much space in your mind — and what might become possible if it softened.</p><p><strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Growth as an intentional, ongoing process</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 How perfectionism and comparison crowd out joy</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 The protective function of food and body preoccupation</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Fear as both protector and life-shrinker</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 The difference between control and care</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Healing as expansion rather than achievement</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Reflection Questions</strong></p><p>As you move through this season, consider:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What is taking up too much space in my mind right now?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What feels like it’s shrinking my life?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>If that softened, what would I have more energy for?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What do I want to grow more of this spring?</li></ol><br/><p><strong>A Note From Us</strong></p><p>A challenging relationship with food, your body, or yourself overall doesn’t just affect how you look and feel. It shapes how you move through the world. It consumes attention. It narrows your focus.</p><p>Healing isn’t about achieving the perfect mindset.</p><p>It’s about expansion.</p><p>More presence.</p><p>More energy.</p><p>More choice.</p><p>We invite you to tune-in and join this journey of growth with us.</p><p><strong>Disclaimer</strong></p><p>Please remember: this podcast is not therapy or a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you care about is struggling, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional.</p><p><strong>Connect With Us on <em>LinkedIn</em>:</strong></p><p>Dr. Danielle Colborn</p><p>DrMariaChristina</p><p><strong>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit.</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>March feels like a beginning.</p><p>In this season opener of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore what it means to grow intentionally — not by fixing ourselves, but by making room for what is important and meaningful to us.</p><p>We talk about:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why growth isn’t a one-time decision but a return</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How fear quietly shrinks our lives</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The cognitive and emotional space taken up by body image, comparison, and self-criticism</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The illusion that control will make us happy</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why meaningful living often requires tolerating discomfort</li></ol><br/><p>Instead of asking, <em>“How do I fix myself?”</em></p><p>We’re asking, <em>“What do I want to make room for?”</em></p><p>This episode invites you to consider what’s currently taking up too much space in your mind — and what might become possible if it softened.</p><p><strong>In This Episode, We Explore:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Growth as an intentional, ongoing process</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 How perfectionism and comparison crowd out joy</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 The protective function of food and body preoccupation</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Fear as both protector and life-shrinker</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 The difference between control and care</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>🌿 Healing as expansion rather than achievement</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Reflection Questions</strong></p><p>As you move through this season, consider:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What is taking up too much space in my mind right now?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What feels like it’s shrinking my life?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>If that softened, what would I have more energy for?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What do I want to grow more of this spring?</li></ol><br/><p><strong>A Note From Us</strong></p><p>A challenging relationship with food, your body, or yourself overall doesn’t just affect how you look and feel. It shapes how you move through the world. It consumes attention. It narrows your focus.</p><p>Healing isn’t about achieving the perfect mindset.</p><p>It’s about expansion.</p><p>More presence.</p><p>More energy.</p><p>More choice.</p><p>We invite you to tune-in and join this journey of growth with us.</p><p><strong>Disclaimer</strong></p><p>Please remember: this podcast is not therapy or a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you care about is struggling, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional.</p><p><strong>Connect With Us on <em>LinkedIn</em>:</strong></p><p>Dr. Danielle Colborn</p><p>DrMariaChristina</p><p><strong>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5a4ebf7d-2d78-4f77-a802-336770aba57c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5a4ebf7d-2d78-4f77-a802-336770aba57c.mp3" length="10956609" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>22:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>2</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/050c5da8-57a4-4d5a-90d8-4520963cf821/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Authentic Self, Part 2: Tiny Tweaks That Change Everything</title><itunes:title>The Authentic Self, Part 2: Tiny Tweaks That Change Everything</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this follow-up episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn return to the topic of <strong>authenticity</strong>—this time focusing on practical ways to navigate the space between external pressure and internal truth.</p><p>They explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) forces that shape our image decisions—everything from fashion trends and social comparison to fears about how we’re perceived. Whether you're a teenager figuring out your style or an adult navigating aging, image, or identity, this conversation offers tools to help you pause, reflect, and reconnect with what <em>you</em> actually want.</p><h4><strong>What You'll Learn:</strong></h4><p>🔹 How to tell if a decision is driven by <strong>fear</strong> or grounded in <strong>self-confidence</strong></p><p>🔹 The role of language—“I have to” vs. “I want to”—in revealing our motivation</p><p>🔹 How social and cultural messages influence our sense of authenticity</p><p>🔹 Why image decisions can feel high-stakes</p><p>🔹 What true authenticity feels like—and how to move toward it</p><h4><strong>Notable Insights:</strong></h4><p>💬 <em>If you notice that it’s fear-based, it might be a clue that it’s not aligned with authenticity.</em></p><p>💬 <em>We’re all influenced—no one is completely untouched. The goal isn’t to escape influence, but to recognize it.</em></p><p>💬 <em>Grace matters. For ourselves, our kids, our families—we’re all doing our best to figure this out.</em></p><p><strong>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, or share it with someone who might benefit!</strong></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this follow-up episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn return to the topic of <strong>authenticity</strong>—this time focusing on practical ways to navigate the space between external pressure and internal truth.</p><p>They explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) forces that shape our image decisions—everything from fashion trends and social comparison to fears about how we’re perceived. Whether you're a teenager figuring out your style or an adult navigating aging, image, or identity, this conversation offers tools to help you pause, reflect, and reconnect with what <em>you</em> actually want.</p><h4><strong>What You'll Learn:</strong></h4><p>🔹 How to tell if a decision is driven by <strong>fear</strong> or grounded in <strong>self-confidence</strong></p><p>🔹 The role of language—“I have to” vs. “I want to”—in revealing our motivation</p><p>🔹 How social and cultural messages influence our sense of authenticity</p><p>🔹 Why image decisions can feel high-stakes</p><p>🔹 What true authenticity feels like—and how to move toward it</p><h4><strong>Notable Insights:</strong></h4><p>💬 <em>If you notice that it’s fear-based, it might be a clue that it’s not aligned with authenticity.</em></p><p>💬 <em>We’re all influenced—no one is completely untouched. The goal isn’t to escape influence, but to recognize it.</em></p><p>💬 <em>Grace matters. For ourselves, our kids, our families—we’re all doing our best to figure this out.</em></p><p><strong>If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, or share it with someone who might benefit!</strong></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4d7d202f-f366-44ee-85c4-1d0c0add538c</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4d7d202f-f366-44ee-85c4-1d0c0add538c.mp3" length="6674199" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/4bbce9b1-4c55-4122-9245-5257409d3907/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Authentic Self - Navigating Image and Identity</title><itunes:title>The Authentic Self - Navigating Image and Identity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this introspective episode of Selves Unedited, clinical psychologists Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart embark on a profound exploration of personal authenticity and image. Drawing from their extensive experience in eating disorder therapy, the hosts challenge listeners to examine the deeper motivations behind their image-related decisions. They ask critical questions: When do personal choices become a form of self-erasure? How can we truly understand the "why" behind our desire to change?Perfect for anyone seeking deeper self-understanding, this episode offers compassionate, evidence-based insights into the intricate relationship between self-image and personal authenticity.</p><p>Key Discussion Highlights:</p><p>• The psychological landscape of body and image choices</p><p>• Unpacking the complex motivations behind self-enhancement</p><p>• Distinguishing between genuine self-expression and external pressures</p><p>• The delicate balance of self-acceptance and personal transformation</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this introspective episode of Selves Unedited, clinical psychologists Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart embark on a profound exploration of personal authenticity and image. Drawing from their extensive experience in eating disorder therapy, the hosts challenge listeners to examine the deeper motivations behind their image-related decisions. They ask critical questions: When do personal choices become a form of self-erasure? How can we truly understand the "why" behind our desire to change?Perfect for anyone seeking deeper self-understanding, this episode offers compassionate, evidence-based insights into the intricate relationship between self-image and personal authenticity.</p><p>Key Discussion Highlights:</p><p>• The psychological landscape of body and image choices</p><p>• Unpacking the complex motivations behind self-enhancement</p><p>• Distinguishing between genuine self-expression and external pressures</p><p>• The delicate balance of self-acceptance and personal transformation</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d6c1f094-c743-4ddc-bdd8-635ad1fec442</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d6c1f094-c743-4ddc-bdd8-635ad1fec442.mp3" length="49438114" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>25:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2355d059-2fb4-4a33-bfe5-0a0c04636476/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Self-Love: More Than Just a Buzzword</title><itunes:title>Self-Love: More Than Just a Buzzword</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Summary:</strong></p><p>What does <em>self-love</em> really mean? In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore the deep and often misunderstood concept of self-love—beyond affirmations, self-care routines, and the pressure to always feel good about yourself. They discuss how self-love is rooted in self-acceptance, grace, and authenticity, and why it’s a lifelong process, not a destination.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you need to "fix" yourself to be worthy of love, or if you've struggled with self-criticism and perfectionism, this conversation is for you.</p><h4>Notable Moments from the Episode:</h4><p>💡 <em>“Self-love isn’t about reaching a perfect state—it’s about embracing yourself as you are.”</em></p><p>💡 <em>“We would never tell a friend, ‘I’ll love you more if you change.’ Why do we do that to ourselves?”</em></p><p>💡 <em>“Rest isn’t something you earn after being productive. It’s something you deserve because you’re human.”</em></p><h4><strong>Key Topics Covered:</strong></h4><p>✅ <strong>The difference between self-love and self-care</strong> – and why both matter</p><p>✅ <strong>Why self-love isn’t about feeling great all the time</strong> – but about self-acceptance</p><p>✅ <strong>The myth that "you must love yourself before others can love you"</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>How societal pressures &amp; perfectionism get in the way of self-love</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>The role of authenticity and setting boundaries in loving yourself</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>Self-love in relationships: treating ourselves with the same kindness we show others</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>The connection between self-love, rest, and emotional well-being</strong></p><p><br></p><h4><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></h4><p>📖 <a href="https://self-compassion.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Resources</a> by Dr. Kristin Neff on self-compassion</p><p>🎧 Previous episode on self-care: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-does-taking-care-of-yourself-in-2025-really-mean/id1787051248?i=1000694024170" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">What Does Taking Care of Yourself in 2025 Really Mean?</a></p><p><br></p><h4><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></h4><p>🔗 Follow us or suggest a topic:</p><p>	LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-colborn-96938621/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Danielle Colborn</a></p><p>	Substack: <a href="https://drmariachristina.substack.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Maria-Christina</a></p><p>⭐ If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review—it helps others find the podcast!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Summary:</strong></p><p>What does <em>self-love</em> really mean? In this episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore the deep and often misunderstood concept of self-love—beyond affirmations, self-care routines, and the pressure to always feel good about yourself. They discuss how self-love is rooted in self-acceptance, grace, and authenticity, and why it’s a lifelong process, not a destination.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you need to "fix" yourself to be worthy of love, or if you've struggled with self-criticism and perfectionism, this conversation is for you.</p><h4>Notable Moments from the Episode:</h4><p>💡 <em>“Self-love isn’t about reaching a perfect state—it’s about embracing yourself as you are.”</em></p><p>💡 <em>“We would never tell a friend, ‘I’ll love you more if you change.’ Why do we do that to ourselves?”</em></p><p>💡 <em>“Rest isn’t something you earn after being productive. It’s something you deserve because you’re human.”</em></p><h4><strong>Key Topics Covered:</strong></h4><p>✅ <strong>The difference between self-love and self-care</strong> – and why both matter</p><p>✅ <strong>Why self-love isn’t about feeling great all the time</strong> – but about self-acceptance</p><p>✅ <strong>The myth that "you must love yourself before others can love you"</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>How societal pressures &amp; perfectionism get in the way of self-love</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>The role of authenticity and setting boundaries in loving yourself</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>Self-love in relationships: treating ourselves with the same kindness we show others</strong></p><p>✅ <strong>The connection between self-love, rest, and emotional well-being</strong></p><p><br></p><h4><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></h4><p>📖 <a href="https://self-compassion.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Resources</a> by Dr. Kristin Neff on self-compassion</p><p>🎧 Previous episode on self-care: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-does-taking-care-of-yourself-in-2025-really-mean/id1787051248?i=1000694024170" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">What Does Taking Care of Yourself in 2025 Really Mean?</a></p><p><br></p><h4><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></h4><p>🔗 Follow us or suggest a topic:</p><p>	LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-colborn-96938621/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Danielle Colborn</a></p><p>	Substack: <a href="https://drmariachristina.substack.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Maria-Christina</a></p><p>⭐ If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review—it helps others find the podcast!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6f63d0b8-0e94-417e-9ae6-2f1b84aa9336</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/4705fbd4-9e85-4cd3-8424-14c3264166e3/riverside-copy-of-danielle-maria-chris-full-episode-maria-chris.mp3" length="20602271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>42:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/80b2b981-2223-4631-bba3-8405fa588fe7/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>What Does Taking Care of Yourself in 2025 Really Mean?</title><itunes:title>What Does Taking Care of Yourself in 2025 Really Mean?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<h4><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></h4><p>In this episode, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Maria-Christina Stewart dive into what self-care truly looks like in 2025. With the rise of wellness trends, hustle culture, and digital overwhelm, taking care of yourself has never been more important—or more complicated. They explore the myths around self-care, the pressures of modern life, and the real strategies that actually make a difference in physical and mental well-being.</p><h4><strong>Key Topics Covered:</strong></h4><ul><li>Why the traditional definition of self-care needs to evolve</li><li>How societal pressures make it harder to prioritize well-being</li><li>The fine line between self-improvement and self-criticism</li><li>The role of technology in both helping and harming mental health</li><li>Why self-care isn’t about perfection but about sustainability</li><li>Practical ways to care for yourself in 2025 without guilt</li></ul><br/><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Redefining Self-Care in 2025</p><p>02:53 The Importance of Mindfulness and Meaning</p><p>05:18 Navigating Discomfort in Self-Care</p><p>08:16 Setting Boundaries for Wellbeing</p><p>10:47 Finding Balance and Moderation</p><p>13:27 Realistic Goal Setting for Self-Care</p><p>16:19 Holistic Approaches to Physical Health</p><p>23:30 Redefining Exercise and Self-Care</p><p>25:49 The Dangers of Goal-Oriented Fitness</p><p>29:41 Embracing Imperfection in Life</p><p>35:08 Authenticity vs. Perfectionism</p><p>39:17 Parenting and Self-Care in Challenging Times</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4><strong>Episode Summary:</strong></h4><p>In this episode, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Maria-Christina Stewart dive into what self-care truly looks like in 2025. With the rise of wellness trends, hustle culture, and digital overwhelm, taking care of yourself has never been more important—or more complicated. They explore the myths around self-care, the pressures of modern life, and the real strategies that actually make a difference in physical and mental well-being.</p><h4><strong>Key Topics Covered:</strong></h4><ul><li>Why the traditional definition of self-care needs to evolve</li><li>How societal pressures make it harder to prioritize well-being</li><li>The fine line between self-improvement and self-criticism</li><li>The role of technology in both helping and harming mental health</li><li>Why self-care isn’t about perfection but about sustainability</li><li>Practical ways to care for yourself in 2025 without guilt</li></ul><br/><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Redefining Self-Care in 2025</p><p>02:53 The Importance of Mindfulness and Meaning</p><p>05:18 Navigating Discomfort in Self-Care</p><p>08:16 Setting Boundaries for Wellbeing</p><p>10:47 Finding Balance and Moderation</p><p>13:27 Realistic Goal Setting for Self-Care</p><p>16:19 Holistic Approaches to Physical Health</p><p>23:30 Redefining Exercise and Self-Care</p><p>25:49 The Dangers of Goal-Oriented Fitness</p><p>29:41 Embracing Imperfection in Life</p><p>35:08 Authenticity vs. Perfectionism</p><p>39:17 Parenting and Self-Care in Challenging Times</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">1c5f49d5-d1ec-488c-b505-3b50572d1691</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Wed, 19 Feb 2025 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/b11eb115-99ef-4c8d-9eda-8dd9ed318df1/riverside-final-edited-version-1-danielle-maria-chris-maria-chr.mp3" length="21198489" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/61ceeabf-bae9-4b56-be9c-4928eeb576c8/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Managing Holiday Stress and Eating with Meaning, Grace, and Self-Compassion</title><itunes:title>Managing Holiday Stress and Eating with Meaning, Grace, and Self-Compassion</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Welcome to the First Episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>!</strong></p><p>Co-hosted by Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn, <em>Selves Unedited</em> is your go-to podcast for exploring eating difficulties, body image, and self-love through heartfelt conversations and evidence-based insights. In our debut episode, we dive into the unique challenges of the holiday season and share practical strategies to help you navigate this time with intention, grace, and self-compassion.</p><p><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>How to create a holiday season based on your values and what brings you meaning</li><li>Practical tips for planning meals, managing stress, and finding balance during the holidays.</li><li>Why living by your values and practicing self-compassion, especially during the stressful holiday season, are essential—and how to start.</li><li>How parents can support their children in recovery while taking care of their own well-being.</li><li>The role of discomfort in recovery and how to approach it in manageable steps.</li><li>The importance of seeking professional support.</li><li>How to support yourself and loved ones with grace, especially when managing recovery.</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you’re in recovery, supporting a loved one, or just looking to foster a healthier relationship with food and yourself, this episode offers meaningful insights to guide you through the holiday season.</p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p>00:00 Introduction </p><p>04:08 Setting Intentions for the Holidays</p><p>07:41 The Importance of Flexibility</p><p>11:55 Managing Eating During the Holidays</p><p>15:27 Building a Healthy Relationship with Food</p><p>20:47 Refocusing on Values and Enjoyment</p><p>21:48 The Impact of Negative Self-Talk</p><p>22:47 Acceptance and Mindfulness in Social Settings</p><p>26:19 The Importance of Grace</p><p>27:31 Navigating Holiday Challenges for College Students</p><p>31:22 Conscious Choices and Intentions</p><p>32:48 Self-Compassion and Grace in Recovery</p><p>33:51 Supporting Parents of Children with Eating Disorders</p><p>38:18 Addressing Eating Challenges During the Holidays</p><p><strong>Join Us on This Journey:</strong></p><p><strong>We’re so excited to launch <em>Selves Unedited</em> and share this space with you! If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit.</strong></p><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><ul><li>Dr. Danielle Colborn: Check out her <a href="https://www.drdaniellecolborn.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> and find her on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-colborn-96938621/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/drcolborn" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">X</a> (formerly Twitter).</li><li>Dr. Maria-Christina: Check out her <a href="https://www.drmariachristina.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> and connect with her on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s build a community of support and understanding together. Live fully, love yourself, and embrace what truly makes life meaningful.</strong></p><p><strong>Subscribe and Follow Us</strong> to stay updated on upcoming episodes and resources by following <em>Selves Unedited</em> on your favorite podcast platform.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Welcome to the First Episode of <em>Selves Unedited</em>!</strong></p><p>Co-hosted by Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn, <em>Selves Unedited</em> is your go-to podcast for exploring eating difficulties, body image, and self-love through heartfelt conversations and evidence-based insights. In our debut episode, we dive into the unique challenges of the holiday season and share practical strategies to help you navigate this time with intention, grace, and self-compassion.</p><p><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>How to create a holiday season based on your values and what brings you meaning</li><li>Practical tips for planning meals, managing stress, and finding balance during the holidays.</li><li>Why living by your values and practicing self-compassion, especially during the stressful holiday season, are essential—and how to start.</li><li>How parents can support their children in recovery while taking care of their own well-being.</li><li>The role of discomfort in recovery and how to approach it in manageable steps.</li><li>The importance of seeking professional support.</li><li>How to support yourself and loved ones with grace, especially when managing recovery.</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you’re in recovery, supporting a loved one, or just looking to foster a healthier relationship with food and yourself, this episode offers meaningful insights to guide you through the holiday season.</p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p>00:00 Introduction </p><p>04:08 Setting Intentions for the Holidays</p><p>07:41 The Importance of Flexibility</p><p>11:55 Managing Eating During the Holidays</p><p>15:27 Building a Healthy Relationship with Food</p><p>20:47 Refocusing on Values and Enjoyment</p><p>21:48 The Impact of Negative Self-Talk</p><p>22:47 Acceptance and Mindfulness in Social Settings</p><p>26:19 The Importance of Grace</p><p>27:31 Navigating Holiday Challenges for College Students</p><p>31:22 Conscious Choices and Intentions</p><p>32:48 Self-Compassion and Grace in Recovery</p><p>33:51 Supporting Parents of Children with Eating Disorders</p><p>38:18 Addressing Eating Challenges During the Holidays</p><p><strong>Join Us on This Journey:</strong></p><p><strong>We’re so excited to launch <em>Selves Unedited</em> and share this space with you! If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit.</strong></p><p><strong>Connect with Us:</strong></p><ul><li>Dr. Danielle Colborn: Check out her <a href="https://www.drdaniellecolborn.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> and find her on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-colborn-96938621/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/drcolborn" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">X</a> (formerly Twitter).</li><li>Dr. Maria-Christina: Check out her <a href="https://www.drmariachristina.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> and connect with her on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drmariachristina/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Let’s build a community of support and understanding together. Live fully, love yourself, and embrace what truly makes life meaningful.</strong></p><p><strong>Subscribe and Follow Us</strong> to stay updated on upcoming episodes and resources by following <em>Selves Unedited</em> on your favorite podcast platform.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://selves-unedited.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">81ae019f-e01c-479c-af86-dd7ad53856f4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/80fbeafa-baf5-4cdd-b66c-e73e644ee6fb/8y8xQTAn9gw9icda0ULevzM-.png"/><pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/cc426aa8-cf70-4d24-b4f2-6a3fc702d9fd/1st-episode-Selves-Unedited.mp3" length="21492106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:46</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d60d0af5-3130-4e98-96ad-dbaebd34bb26/index.html" type="text/html"/></item></channel></rss>