Sex on Shuffle

41. Sinners and Sex Ed

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 11:00:00 -0400

⚠️ spoiler alert ⚠️

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, cindy lee talks about Sinners in all its power, beauty, and blood(lines)

What was your favorite part in Sinners? Did you notice other examples of sex and pleasure?

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Resources are here (thee blog)

40. Games of Video

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 15:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee chats with Hek (of Just Another Podcast) about games of the video variety. Tune into to Hek analyzing Cindy Lee's gaming history while they get their Zoom background on.

Both Sex on Shuffle and the JxS collab accepting listener questions! Email to sexonshuffle at gmail dot com

Resources

TechScape: Will the video games industry ever confront its carbon footprint? (The Guardian)

Game on: University of Arizona professors build one of the world’s largest video game archives (KOLD News 13)

The Learning Games Initiative

USC scholarship aims to help Black, Indigenous workers enter games industry (Washington Post)

The best video games of 2022, so far (Polygon)

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39. events, currently.

Thu, 21 Apr 2022 15:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee chats with Hek (of Just Another Podcast) about what's going on in the world today, including Sunset Park Subway Shooting and Tax Season

Both Sex on Shuffle and the JxS collab accepting listener questions! Email to sexonshuffle at gmail dot com

Resources

NYC Mayor Adams honors subway attack heroes as alleged shooter held without bail (ABC 7)

Police arrest suspect in New York subway shooting 'without incident' (BBC)

Inside TurboTax’s 20-Year Fight to Stop Americans From Filing Their Taxes for Free (ProPublica)

Only in America is filing taxes such a complicated mess. Here's how other countries do it better. (Insider)

IRS Free File: Do your Taxes for Free (IRS.gov)

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38. What we watchin?

Thu, 14 Apr 2022 21:00:00 -0400

*there may be some spoilers*

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Hek (of Just Another Podcast) and Cindy Lee talk about what shows they've been getting into lately.

What are you watching? What are you looking forward to?

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37. A Bit About Balance

Fri, 08 Apr 2022 15:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Hek and Cindy Lee talk about finding balance and what that looks like (another JxS collab)

Where to find ...

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36. A Kanye Convo

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 23:05:07 -0400

[CW: mental illness/wellness, interpersonal violence, stalking, white supremacy]

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Hek and Cindy Lee chop it up about Kanye's latest news circulation (another JxS collab)

Where to find ...

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35. College Antics

Thu, 10 Mar 2022 22:11:00 -0400

On this episode of the JxS collab, Hek and Cindy Lee try to recall their college days 20+ years later...

What's one piece of advice you'd give to someone going to college?

Where to find ...

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34. RnB Rap Session

Thu, 03 Mar 2022 22:11:54 -0400

*singing & sways* soft and warmmmmm...quiet storrrmm

On this episode of the JxS collab, Hek and Cindy Lee get into it about RnB - past, present, and who is in our queue.

Who are your fave RnB artists? What are your jams?

Where to find ...

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33. Capitalism Chat

Fri, 25 Feb 2022 17:01:25 -0400

Money makes the world ... go round? under? meta?

On this episode of the JxS collab (#11). Hek and Cindy Lee chop it up about money, labor, and the woes (glows for some) of capitalism.

Where to find ...

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32. Astrology with Friends

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Up up (in) the sky!

On this episode of the JxS collab (#10). Hek and Cindy Lee are joined by Lisa of Afromajick and Carolyn of Recovery for the Revolution as we talk about astrology. Where do you stand? Is Tropical your jam? Are you pro-Sun sign or pro-let me see that chart (aka "What time were you born?")! What about Sidereal? Vedic? Let us know!

Where to find ...

Lisa | Book a reading and/or coaching/mentoring session | Get your Free Sexual Values & Goals Worksheet | Lisa's IG

Carolyn | Check out Recovery for the Revolution | Support their Patreon | Carolyn's IG

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31. Body Stuff

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 00:00:48 -0400

We all got one…

On this episode of the JxS collab (#9). Hek and Cindy Lee discuss bodies, fatphobia, and the many ways we shame each other and ourselves. What are your thoughts?

Do you believe in beauty ideals? What are ways shame show up in your life?

Where to find Hek

Connect with Cindy Lee

Website

Cindy Lee's Instagram

Ascension Institute's IG

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30. Identity Things (aka What's Your ID?)

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0400

Content Warning (CW): transphobia, homophobia, slurs, stereotypes

On installment numero 8 of the Just Another Podcast/Sex on Shuffle collab, Cindy Lee and @just.Hek talk gender. Tune in as they chop it up about gender identity, gender presentation, and society’s fascination with gendering things.

How do you define gender and your own ID?

Where to find Hek

Connect with Cindy Lee:

Website

Cindy Lee's Instagram

Ascension Institute's IG

Twitter

Facebook

Recorded Trainings

Links & Resources

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29. The Marvel/DC Dialogue

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 00:00:51 -0400

*spoiler alert*

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle (JxS #7), Hek and I discuss Marvel and DC, our childhood faves, and the shows/films we dig.

Are you a Marvel or DC fan? Were you with them shooting in the gym since the comics? Are you like me and dig the pop culture of it all? Let us know!

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28. 2022 Resolutions Review

Thu, 13 Jan 2022 16:11:56 -0400

Happy Gregorian New Year!

On this 6th installment of the Sex on Shuffle/Just Another Podcast collab (JxS), we return from our (my) break to discuss 2022's resolutions. Tune in as Hek and I talk about what resolutions and rituals feel good for the new year (if you follow greg's calendar).

Do you make New Year's resolutions? Share your 2022 intentions with us!

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27. Politicking About Participation Trophies (aka 9th place medals)

Fri, 10 Dec 2021 00:11:00 -0400

You get a medal! And You get a trophy!

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee and Just.Hek share the 5th installment of their Sex on Shuffle/Just Another Podcast collab. What's starts off as a conversation on "participation trophies" ends up touching on so much more! What's your opinion on 9th place medals?

Where to find Hek

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26. Relationship Stuff with Just.Hek

Fri, 03 Dec 2021 00:04:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee and @just.Hek keep the collab going with a discussion on relationships. Tune in as they talk about boundaries, communication, and a little of their own experiences.

Where to find Hek

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25. Booty Talk with Hek

Fri, 19 Nov 2021 00:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee and @Just.Hek (of Just Another Podcast) talk about the (sometimes neglected) booty. This is the 3rd installment of our collab/mashup!

Where to find Hek

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24. Hip Hop Chat with Hek

Fri, 12 Nov 2021 01:11:06 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee and @Just.Hek (of Just Another Podcast) discuss hip hop and some of their fave artists

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23. A Closer Look at Dave Chappelle's "The Closer" with Hek (Just Another Podcast)

Thu, 04 Nov 2021 11:11:00 -0400

*Spoiler Alert*

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee sits down with long time homie, @Just.Hek of Just Another Podcast. They start this inaugural collab series discussing Dave Chapelle's Netflix special The Closer.

Where to find Hek: https://linktr.ee/just.hek

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22. Healing & Horror with Dr. Erika Evans-Weaver: Part 2

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 15:11:17 -0400

Spoiler Alert: We talk Candyman details

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee sits down with Erika Evans-Weaver, Ph.D., LMFT, Licensed Marriage, and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist. In this 2nd half, they discuss what Erika's working on, the new Candyman, and other horror favorites!

Erika's Bio

Dr. Erika Evans, LMFT has been a practicing marriage and family therapist since 2005. She holds a PhD in Human Sexuality Studies from Widener University, in addition to Masters’ Degrees in Marriage and Family Therapy (La Salle University) and Human Sexuality Education (Widener University). Her license is also in Marriage and Family Therapy.

In addition to maintaining a boutique private practice, Dr. Erika has held a full-time faculty position in the Center for Human Sexuality Studies Graduate program at Widener University. She also supports the development of burgeoning Marriage and Family Therapists as an Adjunct Professor at La Salle University. Dr. Erika has served for many years on the board of the Pennsylvania Association of Marriage and Family Therapists as the Director for Montgomery County and she has acted as a consultant for the Association of Marital and Family Therapy Regulatory Board.

Erika's Website

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21. Healing & Horror with Dr. Erika Evans-Weaver: Part 1

Wed, 27 Oct 2021 15:11:30 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee sits down with Erika Evans-Weaver, Ph.D., LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist. In this first half, they discuss nonmogamy, parenting, and becoming a sexuality professional!

Erika's Bio

Erika's Website

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20. Update on Shuffle

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 15:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee returns with updates and upcoming events.

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19. The Burn for Bridgerton

Sat, 20 Mar 2021 15:11:07 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares a few sex(uality) teachable moments found in Bridgerton. Whether you liked the show or not, it does bring up some points of discussion. I also wouldn't mind seeing some of the future Bridgerton themed cosplay #justsaying

Enjoy! (spoiler alert)

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18. Self-Care on Shuffle

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 20:00:00 -0400

Back it! On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares 5 cents on self-care and some helpful tips based on her experience working from home during a pandemic

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17. Sex Ed Policy with Jennifer Driver

Fri, 27 Nov 2020 16:11:48 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee politicks with Jennifer Driver, of Take Root Strategies, about sex ed policy in the US and Reproductive Justice.

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16. TDOR 2020

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 16:11:15 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee discusses Trans Awareness Week, TDOR, and organizations to support!

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15. Eugenics Never Left

Fri, 13 Nov 2020 16:11:57 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee provides examples of Sexual & Reproductive oppression in US history.

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14. Consent. Periodt.

Fri, 06 Nov 2020 16:11:21 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares a little about consent!

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13. A Bit About Butt Stuff

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 15:11:58 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares a few tips on playing with that tush (butt/anal play)!

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12. Crotch the Throne

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 15:11:54 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares her 5 cents on facesitting!

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11. Healing the Erotic Self with Sista Sexologist - Part 2

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 17:11:00 -0400

Sista Sexologist Lena Queen (she/they) joins us on this episode of Sex on Shuffle. She shares what informs and inspires her work and her healing.

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10. Healing the Erotic Self with Sista Sexologist - Part 1

Fri, 09 Oct 2020 15:11:43 -0400

Sista Sexologist Lena Queen (she/they) joins us on this episode of Sex on Shuffle. She shares what informs and inspires her work and her healing.

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9. Tag Lube In!

Fri, 02 Oct 2020 15:11:00 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares their 5 cents on Lube and its benefits!

Happy Sexual Health Month! Happy Self-Improvement Month!

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8. WAP Happenings

Thu, 10 Sep 2020 15:11:05 -0400

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Cindy Lee shares her 5 cents on Cardi B and Megan thee Stallion’s new single W.A.P.

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7. Candid amid COVID-19 with Lisa of AfroMajick

Sat, 30 May 2020 15:11:37 -0400

Image: Photo of Lisa along with Afromajick's and Sex on Shuffle's logo. Text underneath saying, "Episode 7: Candid Amid COVID-19 with Lisa of AfroMajick.

On this episode of Sex on Shuffle, Lisa of Afromajick joins us and chats with Cindy Lee about all the joy they’re partaking in via the interwebs despite living through the pandemic. If you haven’t seen any of the IG live VERZUZ, there will be spoilers!

Lisa is a Witch, Tarot interpreter and Spiritualist. She is also a Pleasure-affirming, sex-positive Sexuality Educator. Colliding worlds and energies, she helps people connect with their Higher Guidance and get in touch with their Higher Sexual Selves too. You can find her at Afromajick.com

Our conversation begins at 6:10 but we get into our favorite VERZUZ at 22:04 (if you want to guess which it was, listen before you dive into the links below).

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#Lovelovelove

Fri, 21 Feb 2020 16:11:44 -0400

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Sex Ed, S4S, and Selfies with Sloan

Fri, 17 Jan 2020 16:11:34 -0400

Happy New Year! We are starting 2020 with my very first interview!

In this episode, I'm speaking with the magnetic sexuality educator and selfie aficionado, Nefertari Sloan (she/they).

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For the 1-9 and the 2020

Tue, 31 Dec 2019 16:11:53 -0400

The last episode of the year! Tune in as Cindy Lee reflects on 2019 and some of what she's looking forward to in 2020!

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The Derrière Debate

Wed, 11 Dec 2019 16:11:12 -0400

In this episode, we chat a little about Lizzo and her Prince-inspired ensemble (according to me lol)

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Troubleman: Heavy is the Hymen

Mon, 25 Nov 2019 16:11:04 -0400

Cindy Lee's 5 cents on T.I. and the fascination with virginity and hymens.

Hint: only one of them exist...

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1. Pronouns Primer

Mon, 11 Nov 2019 16:11:58 -0400

A little talk about pronouns to commemorate International Pronouns Day (10/16/19)

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On Shuffle: The Beginning

Mon, 11 Nov 2019 16:11:00 -0400

A little snippet of what to expect from Cindy Lee ... On Shuffle!

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