<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/sis-i-love-you/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Sis, I Love You]]></title><podcast:guid>e31e9d08-1b39-53d3-93e4-edd2304aa4c6</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 05:59:15 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2025 Ruth Tolen]]></copyright><managingEditor>Ruth Tolen</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[*Sis, I Love You* is a heartfelt and empowering brand dedicated to creating a safe space for women in their 20s as they navigate the complexities of womanhood. Through thoughtful content, products, and community engagement, the brand aims to validate, comfort, and uplift women during some of life’s most pivotal moments. Rooted in core values of empowerment, emotional safeness, and kindness, *Sis, I Love You* offers a sanctuary for women to ask the hard questions, share their experiences, and find the support they need to heal, grow, and thrive.

From insightful podcast episodes and creative content to nurturing products like journals and candles, *Sis, I Love You* is a companion for women seeking to elevate their lives, connect with others, and embrace their journey with confidence. The brand's warm, loving, and inspirational tone reflects a commitment to fostering a deep sense of community and belonging, reminding every woman that she is not alone and that someone cares deeply about her well-being.

Ultimately, *Sis, I Love You* is more than just a brand—it’s a movement to support and celebrate women as they become their best selves.  Connect with us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@RuthYamin]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg</url><title>Sis, I Love You</title><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Ruth Tolen</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author><description>*Sis, I Love You* is a heartfelt and empowering brand dedicated to creating a safe space for women in their 20s as they navigate the complexities of womanhood. Through thoughtful content, products, and community engagement, the brand aims to validate, comfort, and uplift women during some of life’s most pivotal moments. Rooted in core values of empowerment, emotional safeness, and kindness, *Sis, I Love You* offers a sanctuary for women to ask the hard questions, share their experiences, and find the support they need to heal, grow, and thrive.

From insightful podcast episodes and creative content to nurturing products like journals and candles, *Sis, I Love You* is a companion for women seeking to elevate their lives, connect with others, and embrace their journey with confidence. The brand&apos;s warm, loving, and inspirational tone reflects a commitment to fostering a deep sense of community and belonging, reminding every woman that she is not alone and that someone cares deeply about her well-being.

Ultimately, *Sis, I Love You* is more than just a brand—it’s a movement to support and celebrate women as they become their best selves.  Connect with us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@RuthYamin</description><link>https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Navigating womanhood through your 20's and beyond]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Business"></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>Out with the old and In with the new</title><itunes:title>Out with the old and In with the new</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this podcast episode titled&nbsp;<em>"Out with the Old, In with the New,"</em>&nbsp;we dive into personal growth and the importance of leaving behind outdated habits, mindsets, and relationships that no longer serve us. We emphasize slowing down in relationships, being mindful of who deserves our time and energy, and setting clear boundaries around communication and intimacy.</p><p>We reflect on stepping away from constantly texting as a primary mode of connection, encouraging listeners to prioritize face-to-face interactions and meaningful conversations. Independence is key, as we reject the idea of being "flown out" or feeling obligated to anyone for favors or gifts.</p><p>Embracing the new means having the confidence to say "no" without explanations and standing firm in our decisions. There's also a focus on self-presentation, as we talk about improving posture as part of embodying self-confidence. We redefine productivity, explaining that sometimes rest is just as essential as action, and that we don't always need to push ourselves to the limit.</p><p>As we wrap up the episode, we invite you to evaluate your own life, ask yourself what outdated habits you need to let go of, and reflect on what "new" you plan to welcome into your life in 2025. Ending on a note of encouragement and love, we remind you that transformation begins with intentional choices and boundaries.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this podcast episode titled&nbsp;<em>"Out with the Old, In with the New,"</em>&nbsp;we dive into personal growth and the importance of leaving behind outdated habits, mindsets, and relationships that no longer serve us. We emphasize slowing down in relationships, being mindful of who deserves our time and energy, and setting clear boundaries around communication and intimacy.</p><p>We reflect on stepping away from constantly texting as a primary mode of connection, encouraging listeners to prioritize face-to-face interactions and meaningful conversations. Independence is key, as we reject the idea of being "flown out" or feeling obligated to anyone for favors or gifts.</p><p>Embracing the new means having the confidence to say "no" without explanations and standing firm in our decisions. There's also a focus on self-presentation, as we talk about improving posture as part of embodying self-confidence. We redefine productivity, explaining that sometimes rest is just as essential as action, and that we don't always need to push ourselves to the limit.</p><p>As we wrap up the episode, we invite you to evaluate your own life, ask yourself what outdated habits you need to let go of, and reflect on what "new" you plan to welcome into your life in 2025. Ending on a note of encouragement and love, we remind you that transformation begins with intentional choices and boundaries.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d5ee1dca-3729-42c6-8ea7-3be098f24aa8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/f88c8f21-7b68-4579-bdbf-77944c219613/ins-and-out.mp3" length="28704021" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>14:52</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>Fourth Quarter Pressure</title><itunes:title>Fourth Quarter Pressure</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Sis, I know the year is coming to an end but that doesn't mean your goals do?!?!?! Lets discuss how we can finish the year strong!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sis, I know the year is coming to an end but that doesn't mean your goals do?!?!?! Lets discuss how we can finish the year strong!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fee57314-1860-427d-8be2-9f49bd44369a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/bae5ad99-b443-4d70-91d0-3ae953347bb8/4th-qtr-podcast.mp3" length="26132618" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>13:31</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>To the girl with no friends...</title><itunes:title>To the girl with no friends...</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This season's theme: "Im just a girl". This season would be generalized topics on the things we go through in early womanhood.  I like to deem this season as the warm up. Simply for the fact that will allow my lovely audience to get warmed up to me and have some light, yet important conversations.</p><p>In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the emotional journey of losing friends and navigating seasons of loneliness. Whether you're feeling abandoned, struggling to understand why relationships have faded, or questioning your own worth, this episode reminds you that it's okay to reflect, feel vulnerable, and embrace solitude. You’ll learn how to take accountability without overanalyzing, release what no longer serves you, and resist filling the void with temporary distractions. Most importantly, you’ll find hope in the understanding that better connections are on the horizon. Stay grounded and remember, you are not alone.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This season's theme: "Im just a girl". This season would be generalized topics on the things we go through in early womanhood.  I like to deem this season as the warm up. Simply for the fact that will allow my lovely audience to get warmed up to me and have some light, yet important conversations.</p><p>In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the emotional journey of losing friends and navigating seasons of loneliness. Whether you're feeling abandoned, struggling to understand why relationships have faded, or questioning your own worth, this episode reminds you that it's okay to reflect, feel vulnerable, and embrace solitude. You’ll learn how to take accountability without overanalyzing, release what no longer serves you, and resist filling the void with temporary distractions. Most importantly, you’ll find hope in the understanding that better connections are on the horizon. Stay grounded and remember, you are not alone.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://youtu.be/4PZGM3h1SYE?si=UPCt4Yeltc7fNgGp]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">1b9c7d27-ec5f-460f-af2b-cb497d956abf</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/82aadf3b-2c5a-4d09-89c1-de6ab297a78a/Sequence-01.mp3" length="20791698" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>10:47</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>Commitment was never for him</title><itunes:title>Commitment was never for him</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of "Sis, I Love You," titled *"Commitment was never for him,"* Ruth Yamin delves into the topic of commitment, shifting the conversation from traditional relationship-based perspectives to a broader, more personal view of commitment.</p><p>Ruth opens by addressing how many women immediately associate commitment with romantic relationships. She challenges this by asking whether we, as individuals, are truly committed—not to a person—but to our own growth, habits, and the best version of ourselves. The essence of commitment, she explains, is about binding oneself to personal goals, values, and healthy routines.</p><p>She highlights how, often, people stay in relationships or situations out of habit or attachment, confusing that with true commitment. Ruth encourages women to refocus their energy on being committed to their own well-being and progress, rather than external relationships, particularly ones that aren't serving them.</p><p>Throughout the episode, Ruth asks listeners to take a deeper look at their habits, routines, and relationships—whether with themselves, their bodies, their careers, or their mental health. She stresses that being committed isn't just about relationships with others but about the commitments we make to our own growth, discipline, and consistency in every area of life.</p><p>In essence, Ruth's key message is clear: *Commitment is for you.* By committing to yourself and your growth, you unlock the power to live a better, more fulfilling life.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of "Sis, I Love You," titled *"Commitment was never for him,"* Ruth Yamin delves into the topic of commitment, shifting the conversation from traditional relationship-based perspectives to a broader, more personal view of commitment.</p><p>Ruth opens by addressing how many women immediately associate commitment with romantic relationships. She challenges this by asking whether we, as individuals, are truly committed—not to a person—but to our own growth, habits, and the best version of ourselves. The essence of commitment, she explains, is about binding oneself to personal goals, values, and healthy routines.</p><p>She highlights how, often, people stay in relationships or situations out of habit or attachment, confusing that with true commitment. Ruth encourages women to refocus their energy on being committed to their own well-being and progress, rather than external relationships, particularly ones that aren't serving them.</p><p>Throughout the episode, Ruth asks listeners to take a deeper look at their habits, routines, and relationships—whether with themselves, their bodies, their careers, or their mental health. She stresses that being committed isn't just about relationships with others but about the commitments we make to our own growth, discipline, and consistency in every area of life.</p><p>In essence, Ruth's key message is clear: *Commitment is for you.* By committing to yourself and your growth, you unlock the power to live a better, more fulfilling life.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d7d4b506-a3cc-4271-8c43-aaff8924abbd</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/c96c85f2-a387-430e-9395-816c9b11f8da/committment-podcast.mp3" length="15872568" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>08:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>Ways to be more feminine</title><itunes:title>Ways to be more feminine</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>Sis, I Love You</em>, we explore the journey of embracing feminine energy through simple yet impactful habits. Join the conversation on how slowing down, positive self-talk, and leading with kindness can elevate your inner softness. Discover how these subtle shifts, from minimizing cursing to learning how to receive, help cultivate a more confident and graceful you. Whether you're navigating independence or balancing ambition with femininity, this episode offers insightful tips to becoming the most authentic version of yourself.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>Sis, I Love You</em>, we explore the journey of embracing feminine energy through simple yet impactful habits. Join the conversation on how slowing down, positive self-talk, and leading with kindness can elevate your inner softness. Discover how these subtle shifts, from minimizing cursing to learning how to receive, help cultivate a more confident and graceful you. Whether you're navigating independence or balancing ambition with femininity, this episode offers insightful tips to becoming the most authentic version of yourself.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ebbb9a88-f60a-4553-91bf-c93e8827e7f4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/1c6ebadd-f9d3-4672-a482-ed0c373823a2/You-want-to-be-more-feminine-me-too-Habits-you-should-implement.mp3" length="23485669" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>12:12</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>You just got a new apartment</title><itunes:title>You just got a new apartment</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>"Sis, I Love You,"</em>&nbsp;Ruth Yamin shares essential tips for navigating your new apartment. Whether you're a first-time renter or just settling into a new space, Ruth covers everything from financial planning and budgeting to creating a sanctuary that supports your mental and spiritual well-being. Learn how to manage expenses, make your new place truly feel like home, and safeguard your personal space. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement to help you thrive in your new apartment.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>"Sis, I Love You,"</em>&nbsp;Ruth Yamin shares essential tips for navigating your new apartment. Whether you're a first-time renter or just settling into a new space, Ruth covers everything from financial planning and budgeting to creating a sanctuary that supports your mental and spiritual well-being. Learn how to manage expenses, make your new place truly feel like home, and safeguard your personal space. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement to help you thrive in your new apartment.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8b0a04ac-fb12-4f5e-8d13-20cec6ed69ff</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/3eb34ca7-ebf2-43ee-b593-d26fa0942882/new-apartment-podcast.mp3" length="28650863" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>14:39</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item><item><title>Overcoming adversity</title><itunes:title>Overcoming adversity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we dive into the power of believing in your journey, even when the path seems unclear. It’s easy to focus on the destination, but the true beauty lies in the small, present moments that shape who we are. I share personal stories about embracing the process and how finding joy in the unfolding of life is key. We’ll explore how mentorship comes in many forms—whether through YouTube, books, or eventually the right person—and why it’s essential to stay open to learning. I’ll also talk about the importance of seeking therapy, finding the right support system, and leaning on faith to get through adversity. You are not alone on this journey, and in this episode, I hope to inspire you to trust your process, seek out the resources around you, and find strength in the unknown. Tune in for words of encouragement, personal growth, and practical tips on navigating life’s challenges with resilience and faith.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we dive into the power of believing in your journey, even when the path seems unclear. It’s easy to focus on the destination, but the true beauty lies in the small, present moments that shape who we are. I share personal stories about embracing the process and how finding joy in the unfolding of life is key. We’ll explore how mentorship comes in many forms—whether through YouTube, books, or eventually the right person—and why it’s essential to stay open to learning. I’ll also talk about the importance of seeking therapy, finding the right support system, and leaning on faith to get through adversity. You are not alone on this journey, and in this episode, I hope to inspire you to trust your process, seek out the resources around you, and find strength in the unknown. Tune in for words of encouragement, personal growth, and practical tips on navigating life’s challenges with resilience and faith.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://sis-i-love-you.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b6238f72-c478-4953-99a9-d8125acd7383</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5c984afb-9f69-4618-be10-fcb572c92c6c/K-z5pICWFzEloPkDQUR8DvPd.jpg"/><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Tolen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/8600c474-be3b-4cce-8f7f-14724dd21005/Overcoming-adversity.mp3" length="46324445" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>24:03</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><itunes:author>Ruth Tolen</itunes:author></item></channel></rss>