<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/somewhere-in-new-york/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Somewhere in New York]]></title><podcast:guid>1871c83e-73ad-5038-9ecd-a6b163048aa6</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 16:01:08 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Taylor Durland]]></copyright><managingEditor>Taylor Durland</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Navigating life and real estate in the greatest city in the world. ]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg</url><title>Somewhere in New York</title><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Taylor Durland</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Taylor Durland</itunes:author><description>Navigating life and real estate in the greatest city in the world. </description><link>https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>serial</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Business"></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Arts"><itunes:category text="Fashion &amp; Beauty"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>Why Elite Clients Pay for Service, Not Just Luxury</title><itunes:title>Why Elite Clients Pay for Service, Not Just Luxury</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>“A lot of my clients are billionaires… they just hang out with each other.” – <strong>Wayne Yeh</strong></p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, the host sits down with <strong>Wayne Yeh</strong>, founder and CEO of The Champ, to explore how the ultra-wealthy actually travel—and why relationships matter more than money.</p><p>Wayne explains how his company operates as a <strong>membership-based lifestyle management service</strong>, where clients—many of them billionaires—have 24/7 access to a concierge team via WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal. From securing sold-out hotel suites to coordinating entire entourages (security, chefs, assistants), the job goes far beyond booking travel. It’s about eliminating friction from a client’s life.</p><p>The conversation dives into the <strong>new era of luxury travel</strong>: safaris in Africa, Antarctica expeditions, ultra-luxury cruises, and wellness retreats designed around longevity and biohacking. They also unpack the economics behind the surge in luxury travel prices since COVID, why relationships with hotels unlock experiences money alone cannot buy, and how many wealthy clients now live a <strong>multi-city lifestyle</strong>, moving between homes in New York, Europe, and beyond.</p><p>Along the way, Wayne shares how his business blends <strong>Asian hospitality culture, high-touch service, and modern tools like AI</strong>—while still believing that the human element is the real luxury.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wayne Yeh founded The Champ, a luxury travel and lifestyle management company based in Hong Kong and New York. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Many of his clients are billionaires, and most new clients come through referrals within the same social circles. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The company operates on a membership model, giving clients 24/7 concierge access through private messaging groups. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Requests can range from booking hotels to coordinating entire travel entourages including security and personal staff. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Relationships with hotels often unlock perks like upgrades, VIP arrivals, and rooms that appear “sold out” online. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Luxury travel prices have increased dramatically since COVID—sometimes two to three times higher than before. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Experiential travel is dominating the luxury market: safaris, Antarctica trips, and exclusive cruises. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Many ultra-wealthy clients now live a “multi-city lifestyle,” maintaining homes in several global destinations. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Travel experiences often lead clients to eventually purchase homes in places they visit frequently. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wealthy travelers increasingly prioritize wellness, longevity, and biohacking as part of their lifestyle. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wayne believes luxury service means solving problems immediately—even if it costs the company money in the moment. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>AI is used behind the scenes for productivity and data analysis, but the human touch remains essential. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The ultimate luxury isn’t just money—it’s <strong>access, relationships, and seamless experiences</strong>.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>Introduction: luxury travel meets real estate</p><p>Wayne Yeh’s background and founding Champ Travel</p><p>The membership-based concierge model</p><p>Why billionaires rely on referrals and trusted networks</p><p>How travel advisors unlock VIP access and perks</p><p>The explosion of luxury travel pricing after COVID</p><p>Experiential travel: safaris, Antarctica, and luxury cruises</p><p>Multi-city living and the rise of global citizens</p><p>Wellness travel, longevity, and biohacking trends</p><p>Using AI in high-touch concierge businesses</p><p>Why long-term relationships matter more than short-term profit</p><p>Rapid fire: impossible requests and luxury insights</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #LuxuryTravel #ChampTravel #WayneYeh #LuxuryLifestyle #ConciergeService #LuxuryConcierge #HighNetWorth #BillionaireLifestyle #UltraLuxuryTravel #ExperientialTravel #LuxurySafaris #AntarcticaTravel #WellnessTravel #Biohacking #GlobalCitizens #MultiCityLiving #VIPAccess #Hospitality #LuxuryService</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“A lot of my clients are billionaires… they just hang out with each other.” – <strong>Wayne Yeh</strong></p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, the host sits down with <strong>Wayne Yeh</strong>, founder and CEO of The Champ, to explore how the ultra-wealthy actually travel—and why relationships matter more than money.</p><p>Wayne explains how his company operates as a <strong>membership-based lifestyle management service</strong>, where clients—many of them billionaires—have 24/7 access to a concierge team via WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal. From securing sold-out hotel suites to coordinating entire entourages (security, chefs, assistants), the job goes far beyond booking travel. It’s about eliminating friction from a client’s life.</p><p>The conversation dives into the <strong>new era of luxury travel</strong>: safaris in Africa, Antarctica expeditions, ultra-luxury cruises, and wellness retreats designed around longevity and biohacking. They also unpack the economics behind the surge in luxury travel prices since COVID, why relationships with hotels unlock experiences money alone cannot buy, and how many wealthy clients now live a <strong>multi-city lifestyle</strong>, moving between homes in New York, Europe, and beyond.</p><p>Along the way, Wayne shares how his business blends <strong>Asian hospitality culture, high-touch service, and modern tools like AI</strong>—while still believing that the human element is the real luxury.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wayne Yeh founded The Champ, a luxury travel and lifestyle management company based in Hong Kong and New York. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Many of his clients are billionaires, and most new clients come through referrals within the same social circles. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The company operates on a membership model, giving clients 24/7 concierge access through private messaging groups. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Requests can range from booking hotels to coordinating entire travel entourages including security and personal staff. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Relationships with hotels often unlock perks like upgrades, VIP arrivals, and rooms that appear “sold out” online. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Luxury travel prices have increased dramatically since COVID—sometimes two to three times higher than before. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Experiential travel is dominating the luxury market: safaris, Antarctica trips, and exclusive cruises. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Many ultra-wealthy clients now live a “multi-city lifestyle,” maintaining homes in several global destinations. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Travel experiences often lead clients to eventually purchase homes in places they visit frequently. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wealthy travelers increasingly prioritize wellness, longevity, and biohacking as part of their lifestyle. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wayne believes luxury service means solving problems immediately—even if it costs the company money in the moment. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>AI is used behind the scenes for productivity and data analysis, but the human touch remains essential. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The ultimate luxury isn’t just money—it’s <strong>access, relationships, and seamless experiences</strong>.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>Introduction: luxury travel meets real estate</p><p>Wayne Yeh’s background and founding Champ Travel</p><p>The membership-based concierge model</p><p>Why billionaires rely on referrals and trusted networks</p><p>How travel advisors unlock VIP access and perks</p><p>The explosion of luxury travel pricing after COVID</p><p>Experiential travel: safaris, Antarctica, and luxury cruises</p><p>Multi-city living and the rise of global citizens</p><p>Wellness travel, longevity, and biohacking trends</p><p>Using AI in high-touch concierge businesses</p><p>Why long-term relationships matter more than short-term profit</p><p>Rapid fire: impossible requests and luxury insights</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #LuxuryTravel #ChampTravel #WayneYeh #LuxuryLifestyle #ConciergeService #LuxuryConcierge #HighNetWorth #BillionaireLifestyle #UltraLuxuryTravel #ExperientialTravel #LuxurySafaris #AntarcticaTravel #WellnessTravel #Biohacking #GlobalCitizens #MultiCityLiving #VIPAccess #Hospitality #LuxuryService</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">92e8a03f-10ca-4433-9324-0bd94cb85fa4</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/92e8a03f-10ca-4433-9324-0bd94cb85fa4.mp3" length="79908961" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>54:42</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why NYC Real Estate Is Picking Up in 2026</title><itunes:title>Why NYC Real Estate Is Picking Up in 2026</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<h1>“If you’re waiting for the Fed, you’re already late.”</h1><p>In this episode of <strong>Somewhere in New York</strong>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen open 2026 with a grounded look at what’s actually happening in the NYC real estate market. From post-election uncertainty to renewed deal flow, they unpack why momentum is returning — and why many buyers still misunderstand how interest rates truly move. Their central thesis is simple: by the time a rate cut is announced, it’s already priced in.</p><p>The conversation moves beyond surface-level market optimism into nuance. Luxury properties above $10M continue to drive activity due to constrained inventory and insatiable demand, while buyers under $2M are slowly re-entering as rate psychology adjusts. Taylor explains why mortgage rates track the bond market — not headlines — and why being opportunistic in 2026 means being financially prepared before the opportunity appears.</p><p>Midway through, the discussion shifts from markets to mindset. Both reflect on how their definition of success has evolved over the past five years. What was once measured strictly in monetary milestones now includes health, learning, curiosity, and long-term fulfillment. They examine the tension between ambition and happiness, and how growth requires both discipline and perspective.</p><p>At its core, this episode is about readiness — in business and in life. Whether navigating a selective housing market or redefining personal benchmarks, progress favors those who stay curious, prepared, and forward-looking.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>By the time the Fed announces a rate cut, the market has already priced it in.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Mortgage rates follow the bond market, not headlines.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The NYC market is improving, but it’s selective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>$10M+ properties continue to outperform due to limited inventory.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Buyers under $2M may return as interest rate psychology shifts.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Renovated and turnkey properties command a premium.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Value opportunities often lie in properties requiring renovation.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Preparation creates leverage — have financing and documents ready.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Success evolves beyond income to include growth and learning.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity is a long-term competitive advantage.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Balancing ambition with fulfillment requires intentional effort.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>External perspectives can expose blind spots you overlook yourself.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 – Why waiting for rate cuts can backfire</p><p> 00:27 – Welcome to 2026</p><p> 01:00 – Post-election market fears vs reality</p><p> 02:20 – NYC deal flow returning</p><p> 02:30 – Why $10M+ homes are leading</p><p> 03:05 – The myth of Fed-driven mortgage drops</p><p> 04:10 – “Be ready” mindset for buyers</p><p> 04:30 – Buyers on the sidelines under $2M</p><p> 05:15 – Rate psychology and adjustment</p><p> 05:45 – Renovation vs turnkey value</p><p> 06:50 – Personal goals for the year</p><p> 09:30 – Redefining success beyond money</p><p> 10:20 – Curiosity as a competitive edge</p><p> 12:00 – Health, fulfillment, and ambition</p><p> 14:10 – Growth requires execution</p><p> 16:15 – Seeking objective outside feedback</p><p> 17:00 – Closing reflections on 2026</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #TaylorDurland #JosephPullen #2026Market #LuxuryRealEstate #InterestRates #FederalReserve #MortgageRates #ManhattanMarket #BusinessMindset #SuccessRedefined #Entrepreneurship #MarketPsychology #RealEstatePodcast</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>“If you’re waiting for the Fed, you’re already late.”</h1><p>In this episode of <strong>Somewhere in New York</strong>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen open 2026 with a grounded look at what’s actually happening in the NYC real estate market. From post-election uncertainty to renewed deal flow, they unpack why momentum is returning — and why many buyers still misunderstand how interest rates truly move. Their central thesis is simple: by the time a rate cut is announced, it’s already priced in.</p><p>The conversation moves beyond surface-level market optimism into nuance. Luxury properties above $10M continue to drive activity due to constrained inventory and insatiable demand, while buyers under $2M are slowly re-entering as rate psychology adjusts. Taylor explains why mortgage rates track the bond market — not headlines — and why being opportunistic in 2026 means being financially prepared before the opportunity appears.</p><p>Midway through, the discussion shifts from markets to mindset. Both reflect on how their definition of success has evolved over the past five years. What was once measured strictly in monetary milestones now includes health, learning, curiosity, and long-term fulfillment. They examine the tension between ambition and happiness, and how growth requires both discipline and perspective.</p><p>At its core, this episode is about readiness — in business and in life. Whether navigating a selective housing market or redefining personal benchmarks, progress favors those who stay curious, prepared, and forward-looking.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>By the time the Fed announces a rate cut, the market has already priced it in.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Mortgage rates follow the bond market, not headlines.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The NYC market is improving, but it’s selective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>$10M+ properties continue to outperform due to limited inventory.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Buyers under $2M may return as interest rate psychology shifts.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Renovated and turnkey properties command a premium.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Value opportunities often lie in properties requiring renovation.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Preparation creates leverage — have financing and documents ready.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Success evolves beyond income to include growth and learning.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity is a long-term competitive advantage.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Balancing ambition with fulfillment requires intentional effort.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>External perspectives can expose blind spots you overlook yourself.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 – Why waiting for rate cuts can backfire</p><p> 00:27 – Welcome to 2026</p><p> 01:00 – Post-election market fears vs reality</p><p> 02:20 – NYC deal flow returning</p><p> 02:30 – Why $10M+ homes are leading</p><p> 03:05 – The myth of Fed-driven mortgage drops</p><p> 04:10 – “Be ready” mindset for buyers</p><p> 04:30 – Buyers on the sidelines under $2M</p><p> 05:15 – Rate psychology and adjustment</p><p> 05:45 – Renovation vs turnkey value</p><p> 06:50 – Personal goals for the year</p><p> 09:30 – Redefining success beyond money</p><p> 10:20 – Curiosity as a competitive edge</p><p> 12:00 – Health, fulfillment, and ambition</p><p> 14:10 – Growth requires execution</p><p> 16:15 – Seeking objective outside feedback</p><p> 17:00 – Closing reflections on 2026</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #TaylorDurland #JosephPullen #2026Market #LuxuryRealEstate #InterestRates #FederalReserve #MortgageRates #ManhattanMarket #BusinessMindset #SuccessRedefined #Entrepreneurship #MarketPsychology #RealEstatePodcast</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">481a0161-9e5e-4120-8529-18b1a64ab500</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 00:30:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/481a0161-9e5e-4120-8529-18b1a64ab500.mp3" length="25345821" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>17:29</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Don’t Need to Win Every Conversation in Business</title><itunes:title>Why You Don’t Need to Win Every Conversation in Business</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>“If you’re not moving forward, you’re wasting time looking backward.”</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere New York</em>, <strong>Taylor Durland</strong> and <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong> unpack the realities of working in a relationship-driven business where deals are emotional, timelines are unpredictable, and success depends as much on mindset as it does on skill. Speaking candidly about client dynamics, partnership friction, and personal growth, they explore how experience reshapes stress, why honesty is the foundation of trust, and how learning to manage ego can keep both relationships and transactions on track.</p><p>The conversation moves beyond tactics into operator psychology: how to stay level-headed when deals fall apart, why not every client is worth pursuing, and how complementary personalities can strengthen decision-making. Taylor and Joseph share lessons from difficult negotiations, missteps in communication, and the discipline required to keep momentum rather than dwell on setbacks. At its core, the episode is about resilience—choosing progress over perfection and clarity over conflict.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trust is built by telling clients what they <strong>need</strong> to hear, not what they want to hear. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Letting ego drive responses can create unnecessary hurdles in already complex deals. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Experience reduces emotional volatility and helps you handle pressure with perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Strong partnerships rely on complementary strengths, not identical working styles. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Humor and communication are key to sustaining long-term collaboration. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Having a clearly defined lead on each deal improves efficiency and accountability. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Walking away from a misaligned client can prevent larger failures later. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Success often comes down to navigating personalities—clients, attorneys, lenders, and other stakeholders. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Dwelling on what went wrong wastes time; forward motion is what fixes problems.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Confidence in the value you deliver makes it easier to stay steady when outcomes are uncertain.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 – Why time valuation defines client relationships </p><p> 00:27 – Welcome and episode setup </p><p> 01:30 – Business and life: where boundaries blur </p><p> 02:00 – Building connection through conversation </p><p> 03:10 – Ego: confidence vs control </p><p> 04:10 – Handling difficult personalities without resistance </p><p> 05:15 – A blunt email, and what it cost the deal </p><p> 06:40 – Facts vs tone: why delivery matters </p><p> 08:00 – Staying calm when deals start falling apart </p><p> 09:10 – How experience changes stress responses </p><p> 10:20 – Stop dwelling: fix it and move forward </p><p> 12:50 – What makes their partnership work </p><p> 13:45 – Humor, disagreement, and recovering fast </p><p> 15:00 – Why every deal needs a clear lead </p><p> 16:00 – Building trust through honesty </p><p> 17:00 – Knowing when you’re not the right fit </p><p> 18:00 – Misaligned clients lead to failure for both sides </p><p> 19:20 – Closing reflections on integrity and momentum </p><p><br></p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereNewYork #TaylorDurland #JosephPullen #ClientRelationships #BusinessMindset #Partnerships #Trust #Negotiation #Leadership #ProfessionalGrowth</p><p><br></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“If you’re not moving forward, you’re wasting time looking backward.”</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere New York</em>, <strong>Taylor Durland</strong> and <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong> unpack the realities of working in a relationship-driven business where deals are emotional, timelines are unpredictable, and success depends as much on mindset as it does on skill. Speaking candidly about client dynamics, partnership friction, and personal growth, they explore how experience reshapes stress, why honesty is the foundation of trust, and how learning to manage ego can keep both relationships and transactions on track.</p><p>The conversation moves beyond tactics into operator psychology: how to stay level-headed when deals fall apart, why not every client is worth pursuing, and how complementary personalities can strengthen decision-making. Taylor and Joseph share lessons from difficult negotiations, missteps in communication, and the discipline required to keep momentum rather than dwell on setbacks. At its core, the episode is about resilience—choosing progress over perfection and clarity over conflict.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trust is built by telling clients what they <strong>need</strong> to hear, not what they want to hear. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Letting ego drive responses can create unnecessary hurdles in already complex deals. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Experience reduces emotional volatility and helps you handle pressure with perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Strong partnerships rely on complementary strengths, not identical working styles. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Humor and communication are key to sustaining long-term collaboration. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Having a clearly defined lead on each deal improves efficiency and accountability. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Walking away from a misaligned client can prevent larger failures later. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Success often comes down to navigating personalities—clients, attorneys, lenders, and other stakeholders. </li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Dwelling on what went wrong wastes time; forward motion is what fixes problems.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Confidence in the value you deliver makes it easier to stay steady when outcomes are uncertain.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 – Why time valuation defines client relationships </p><p> 00:27 – Welcome and episode setup </p><p> 01:30 – Business and life: where boundaries blur </p><p> 02:00 – Building connection through conversation </p><p> 03:10 – Ego: confidence vs control </p><p> 04:10 – Handling difficult personalities without resistance </p><p> 05:15 – A blunt email, and what it cost the deal </p><p> 06:40 – Facts vs tone: why delivery matters </p><p> 08:00 – Staying calm when deals start falling apart </p><p> 09:10 – How experience changes stress responses </p><p> 10:20 – Stop dwelling: fix it and move forward </p><p> 12:50 – What makes their partnership work </p><p> 13:45 – Humor, disagreement, and recovering fast </p><p> 15:00 – Why every deal needs a clear lead </p><p> 16:00 – Building trust through honesty </p><p> 17:00 – Knowing when you’re not the right fit </p><p> 18:00 – Misaligned clients lead to failure for both sides </p><p> 19:20 – Closing reflections on integrity and momentum </p><p><br></p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereNewYork #TaylorDurland #JosephPullen #ClientRelationships #BusinessMindset #Partnerships #Trust #Negotiation #Leadership #ProfessionalGrowth</p><p><br></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d88ef166-87d3-4ea6-ab82-568f26e5ea7f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2026 11:35:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d88ef166-87d3-4ea6-ab82-568f26e5ea7f.mp3" length="28451382" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>19:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Real Estate Isn’t “Cocktails”—It’s 24/7 Pressure</title><itunes:title>Real Estate Isn’t “Cocktails”—It’s 24/7 Pressure</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>“There's really no logging off when there's a deal on.”</strong> – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen unpack the reality most people never see in New York City real estate: even when it looks quiet from the outside, the job is always on. The public version is “cocktails, fashion, a couple hours a day.” The real version is constant shepherding, constant relationship work, and constant readiness for whatever breaks next.</p><p>They start by naming the core truth: brokerage is a 24/7 business because deals don’t move themselves. When something is in play, it doesn’t matter where you are in the world or what time it is — you’re pushing the process forward, juggling stakeholders, and protecting your client’s position all the way to the closing table.</p><p>From there, they zoom out to the less obvious workload: what happens <em>between</em> deals. If you’re a serious broker, there’s always something to do — strategy, networking, nurturing referral sources, staying top-of-mind in a market full of competition. The downtime isn’t rest; it’s where you plant seeds, build relationships, and create future deal flow.</p><p>The conversation then shifts into balance and how they manage a role that never fully shuts off. Taylor shares the routines and curiosities that keep him sane — fitness and wellness, language lessons, creating content, and curating monthly dinners that bring interesting people together. They argue that being a connector and a “creator of a room” isn’t separate from the job — it’s part of what makes you valuable, especially in a post-pandemic world where isolation is easy and phones are engineered to keep people scrolling.</p><p>They also get practical about execution vs illusion. A day spent “putting out fires” can feel productive, but it’s often just reactivity. Protecting workflow time — uninterrupted focus — is what actually moves the ball forward, even if it means being unavailable in the moment.</p><p>And then they hit the most New York example possible: hours of legal and board-level conversations… over the existence of a washer-dryer. In a $5 million co-op deal, an undisclosed or unapproved washer-dryer became a real threat to closing. It’s the perfect reminder that high-dollar doesn’t mean smooth — and that who you’re working with on the other side, especially brokers with integrity, can make the difference between progress and chaos.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Brokerage is “truly a twenty four seven business.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>There’s “really no logging off” when a deal is active.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deals require “shepherding” and constant forward pressure.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Even without deals in the hopper, “there’s always something to do.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Strategy and networking are part of the daily workload.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Downtime is when you “plant seeds for the future.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Referral relationships must be nurtured or you “fall off the map.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>One-to-many referral sources are more efficient than one-to-one.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Competition is constant; staying top-of-mind matters.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity outside real estate can make you better at the job.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Clients prefer people who are “interesting and worldly.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Being a connector can be a real differentiator.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curating dinners creates value beyond transactions.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Post-pandemic culture made isolation easier and connection rarer.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It’s “easier to be satiated by your phone” than go out.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“Hundreds if not thousands of engineers” are keeping people scrolling.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A fire-filled day can feel productive but is often just reactive.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Protecting workflow time helps you “move the ball forward.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes urgency forces reactivity; sometimes focus is possible.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deals can go sideways “to no fault of your own.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A washer-dryer issue became hours of legal conversation.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The washer-dryer had been installed unknowingly or illegally.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The board required removal before closing.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Buyers with kids saw washer-dryer access as essential.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The other-side broker’s integrity and relationship with the client mattered.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>In New York, forced self-promotion reads as inauthentic fast.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You still have to promote yourself — but in your own way.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Balance can include health, music, city life, and retreat time.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Even when decompressing, you’re “still thinking about the business.”</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 — The myth: cocktails, fashion, easy deals</p><p> 01:10 — The truth: real estate is 24/7</p><p> 03:00 — What “shepherding a deal” actually means</p><p> 05:10 — Why you can’t just “log off” at 6pm</p><p> 07:20 — Even without deals, there’s always work</p><p> 09:20 — Planting seeds and staying proactive</p><p> 11:10 — Referrals, relationships, and competition</p><p> 13:30 — The question: how do you find balance?</p><p> 15:00 — Health, wellness, and mental release</p><p> 17:10 — Curiosity and being valuable beyond transactions</p><p> 19:20 — Language lessons, content, and monthly dinners</p><p> 21:40 — Connection as a differentiator after the pandemic</p><p> 23:10 — Phones, scrolling, and modern isolation</p><p> 25:00 — Workflow vs firefighting</p><p> 27:10 — The washer-dryer problem in a $5M deal</p><p> 31:30 — Why integrity on the other side matters</p><p> 35:10 — Music, city energy, and retreat time</p><p> 38:30 — Wrap: never fully not thinking about business</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #BehindTheScenes #NYCLife #ClientTrust #Referrals #Networking #DealMaking #LuxuryRealEstate #CoopBoards #Workflow #DeepWork #ProfessionalIntegrity #RelationshipBusiness #CityCulture #WellnessAndWork #Connection #NewYorkCity</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>“There's really no logging off when there's a deal on.”</strong> – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen unpack the reality most people never see in New York City real estate: even when it looks quiet from the outside, the job is always on. The public version is “cocktails, fashion, a couple hours a day.” The real version is constant shepherding, constant relationship work, and constant readiness for whatever breaks next.</p><p>They start by naming the core truth: brokerage is a 24/7 business because deals don’t move themselves. When something is in play, it doesn’t matter where you are in the world or what time it is — you’re pushing the process forward, juggling stakeholders, and protecting your client’s position all the way to the closing table.</p><p>From there, they zoom out to the less obvious workload: what happens <em>between</em> deals. If you’re a serious broker, there’s always something to do — strategy, networking, nurturing referral sources, staying top-of-mind in a market full of competition. The downtime isn’t rest; it’s where you plant seeds, build relationships, and create future deal flow.</p><p>The conversation then shifts into balance and how they manage a role that never fully shuts off. Taylor shares the routines and curiosities that keep him sane — fitness and wellness, language lessons, creating content, and curating monthly dinners that bring interesting people together. They argue that being a connector and a “creator of a room” isn’t separate from the job — it’s part of what makes you valuable, especially in a post-pandemic world where isolation is easy and phones are engineered to keep people scrolling.</p><p>They also get practical about execution vs illusion. A day spent “putting out fires” can feel productive, but it’s often just reactivity. Protecting workflow time — uninterrupted focus — is what actually moves the ball forward, even if it means being unavailable in the moment.</p><p>And then they hit the most New York example possible: hours of legal and board-level conversations… over the existence of a washer-dryer. In a $5 million co-op deal, an undisclosed or unapproved washer-dryer became a real threat to closing. It’s the perfect reminder that high-dollar doesn’t mean smooth — and that who you’re working with on the other side, especially brokers with integrity, can make the difference between progress and chaos.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Brokerage is “truly a twenty four seven business.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>There’s “really no logging off” when a deal is active.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deals require “shepherding” and constant forward pressure.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Even without deals in the hopper, “there’s always something to do.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Strategy and networking are part of the daily workload.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Downtime is when you “plant seeds for the future.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Referral relationships must be nurtured or you “fall off the map.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>One-to-many referral sources are more efficient than one-to-one.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Competition is constant; staying top-of-mind matters.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity outside real estate can make you better at the job.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Clients prefer people who are “interesting and worldly.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Being a connector can be a real differentiator.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curating dinners creates value beyond transactions.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Post-pandemic culture made isolation easier and connection rarer.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It’s “easier to be satiated by your phone” than go out.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“Hundreds if not thousands of engineers” are keeping people scrolling.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A fire-filled day can feel productive but is often just reactive.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Protecting workflow time helps you “move the ball forward.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes urgency forces reactivity; sometimes focus is possible.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deals can go sideways “to no fault of your own.”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A washer-dryer issue became hours of legal conversation.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The washer-dryer had been installed unknowingly or illegally.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The board required removal before closing.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Buyers with kids saw washer-dryer access as essential.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The other-side broker’s integrity and relationship with the client mattered.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>In New York, forced self-promotion reads as inauthentic fast.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You still have to promote yourself — but in your own way.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Balance can include health, music, city life, and retreat time.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Even when decompressing, you’re “still thinking about the business.”</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><p>00:00 — The myth: cocktails, fashion, easy deals</p><p> 01:10 — The truth: real estate is 24/7</p><p> 03:00 — What “shepherding a deal” actually means</p><p> 05:10 — Why you can’t just “log off” at 6pm</p><p> 07:20 — Even without deals, there’s always work</p><p> 09:20 — Planting seeds and staying proactive</p><p> 11:10 — Referrals, relationships, and competition</p><p> 13:30 — The question: how do you find balance?</p><p> 15:00 — Health, wellness, and mental release</p><p> 17:10 — Curiosity and being valuable beyond transactions</p><p> 19:20 — Language lessons, content, and monthly dinners</p><p> 21:40 — Connection as a differentiator after the pandemic</p><p> 23:10 — Phones, scrolling, and modern isolation</p><p> 25:00 — Workflow vs firefighting</p><p> 27:10 — The washer-dryer problem in a $5M deal</p><p> 31:30 — Why integrity on the other side matters</p><p> 35:10 — Music, city energy, and retreat time</p><p> 38:30 — Wrap: never fully not thinking about business</p><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #BehindTheScenes #NYCLife #ClientTrust #Referrals #Networking #DealMaking #LuxuryRealEstate #CoopBoards #Workflow #DeepWork #ProfessionalIntegrity #RelationshipBusiness #CityCulture #WellnessAndWork #Connection #NewYorkCity</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5bd1d803-e38e-4390-b87c-e486b68a71ad</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2026 13:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5bd1d803-e38e-4390-b87c-e486b68a71ad.mp3" length="30344070" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>20:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What It’s Really Like Working in Residential Real Estate in NYC</title><itunes:title>What It’s Really Like Working in Residential Real Estate in NYC</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>“Real estate will humble you — no matter how expensive the listing is.”</strong> – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen pull back the curtain on what actually happens behind the scenes of New York City real estate — the moments clients never see and brokers rarely talk about.</p><p>They open with life in and around Times Square, contrasting the city’s glitz with the far less polished reality of residential buildings. From pigeons inside apartments to uncomfortable encounters during showings, the conversation quickly makes one thing clear: this job is rarely glamorous, and often deeply humbling.</p><p>From there, the discussion moves into what real estate actually demands. The inability to outsource the human side of the job. The responsibility that comes with being trusted inside someone’s home. And the quiet, unspoken work brokers do to protect both property and people — whether that means cleaning up messes, managing awkward situations, or maintaining discretion at all costs.</p><p>They explore the tension between high-end branding and everyday reality, pushing back on the idea that luxury transactions are somehow “above” the fundamentals. Whether it’s a $25 million co-op or a modest walk-up, the core responsibility stays the same: show up, adapt, and create a positive experience.</p><p>The episode closes with reflections on integrity, flexibility, and why professionalism is most visible when things go wrong — not when everything goes according to plan.</p><h3>Takeaways</h3><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real estate is far more humbling than it appears from the outside.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>High-end listings don’t eliminate basic, unglamorous work.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The human element of the job can’t be automated or outsourced.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Discretion and trust are central to working inside private homes.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Brokers are stewards of a space, not just salespeople.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Adaptability often matters more than polish.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Awkward and uncomfortable moments are part of the job.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Integrity shows up when it would be easier not to care.</li></ol><br/><h3>Chapters</h3><p><strong>Cold open:</strong> Times Square vs real residential life</p><p> Behind-the-scenes incidents brokers don’t advertise</p><p> Why real estate is inherently humbling</p><p> The limits of automation and AI in property sales</p><p> High-end branding vs real-world responsibility</p><p> Discretion, trust, and protecting private spaces</p><p> Awkward showings and professional restraint</p><p> What integrity looks like when things go sideways</p><p> Wrap: doing the job no matter the circumstances</p><h3>Tags</h3><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #BehindTheScenes #ApartmentShowings #NYCLife #PropertySales #RealEstateStories #LuxuryRealEstate #UrbanLiving #NewYorkCity #RealEstateReality #HousingMarket #NYCBrokers #IntegrityInBusiness #Professionalism #CityStories #PodcastEpisode</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>“Real estate will humble you — no matter how expensive the listing is.”</strong> – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen pull back the curtain on what actually happens behind the scenes of New York City real estate — the moments clients never see and brokers rarely talk about.</p><p>They open with life in and around Times Square, contrasting the city’s glitz with the far less polished reality of residential buildings. From pigeons inside apartments to uncomfortable encounters during showings, the conversation quickly makes one thing clear: this job is rarely glamorous, and often deeply humbling.</p><p>From there, the discussion moves into what real estate actually demands. The inability to outsource the human side of the job. The responsibility that comes with being trusted inside someone’s home. And the quiet, unspoken work brokers do to protect both property and people — whether that means cleaning up messes, managing awkward situations, or maintaining discretion at all costs.</p><p>They explore the tension between high-end branding and everyday reality, pushing back on the idea that luxury transactions are somehow “above” the fundamentals. Whether it’s a $25 million co-op or a modest walk-up, the core responsibility stays the same: show up, adapt, and create a positive experience.</p><p>The episode closes with reflections on integrity, flexibility, and why professionalism is most visible when things go wrong — not when everything goes according to plan.</p><h3>Takeaways</h3><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real estate is far more humbling than it appears from the outside.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>High-end listings don’t eliminate basic, unglamorous work.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The human element of the job can’t be automated or outsourced.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Discretion and trust are central to working inside private homes.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Brokers are stewards of a space, not just salespeople.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Adaptability often matters more than polish.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Awkward and uncomfortable moments are part of the job.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Integrity shows up when it would be easier not to care.</li></ol><br/><h3>Chapters</h3><p><strong>Cold open:</strong> Times Square vs real residential life</p><p> Behind-the-scenes incidents brokers don’t advertise</p><p> Why real estate is inherently humbling</p><p> The limits of automation and AI in property sales</p><p> High-end branding vs real-world responsibility</p><p> Discretion, trust, and protecting private spaces</p><p> Awkward showings and professional restraint</p><p> What integrity looks like when things go sideways</p><p> Wrap: doing the job no matter the circumstances</p><h3>Tags</h3><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #BehindTheScenes #ApartmentShowings #NYCLife #PropertySales #RealEstateStories #LuxuryRealEstate #UrbanLiving #NewYorkCity #RealEstateReality #HousingMarket #NYCBrokers #IntegrityInBusiness #Professionalism #CityStories #PodcastEpisode</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f61332a0-a9a1-4623-b703-1b34689a1957</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f61332a0-a9a1-4623-b703-1b34689a1957.mp3" length="27856508" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>19:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What People Get Wrong About Living in New York</title><itunes:title>What People Get Wrong About Living in New York</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>“A neighborhood won’t make you — you have to make the neighborhood.” – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen talk about the neighborhoods that shaped them — and the very real, very imperfect parts of living in NYC that outsiders often don’t understand.</p><p>They open with a blunt reality check (yes, the street-level stuff) and quickly move into why New Yorkers still choose to stay: the energy, the culture, the “melting pot” feeling, and the way hardship can create belonging.</p><p>From Greenwich Village to the Upper East Side, they compare neighborhood “vibes,” unpack misconceptions (like thinking downtown will make you cool), and explain why curiosity is a competitive advantage — especially in real estate, where knowing buildings and financials can help a client avoid a bad deal.</p><p>They close with how the city has evolved over the last 10–20 years, with more fluid movement between neighborhoods and boroughs, and why New York’s imperfections are baked into its DNA.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>NYC can be loud, dirty, and expensive — and people stay anyway.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Hardship can be part of what bonds New Yorkers together.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>New York’s “energy” is a big reason it feels like home.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The city’s diversity is a defining feature (languages, cultures, people).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Greenwich Village is Taylor’s home base after a decade there.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph points to the Upper East Side as a shaping neighborhood, while noting how much he’s moved around the city.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“Living downtown won’t make you cool.” The neighborhood doesn’t change you — you bring who you are.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Every neighborhood has a distinct “vibe” you can feel immediately.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity matters in any profession — and in real estate it becomes a real edge.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor joined his co-op board to protect his asset and learn how buildings, contractors, and the DOB ecosystem works.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>In a crowded broker market (“27,000 other brokers”), differentiation comes from knowledge and perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A broker’s win can be helping a client avoid a financially unstable building.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>West Chelsea comes up as Taylor’s “next choice” neighborhood (water, park access, downtown feel).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Upper East Side’s big misconception: it’s “stodgy,” but Joseph argues it’s become more vibrant over the last 10–20 years.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Q train expansion is framed as a major game-changer for Upper East Side access.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Cold open: the unfiltered NYC street reality</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why New York still feels “worth it”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The city’s energy and the “DNA” argument</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s NYC path and why Greenwich Village stuck</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s early “melting pot” subway moment</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The neighborhood that shapes you: UES vs Village</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity as a real estate advantage (co-op board insight)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“27,000 brokers”: standing out with perspective</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Misconceptions: downtown “cool” and neighborhood identity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Upper East Side misconceptions + the Q train effect</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wrap: neighborhoods evolve, borders fade</li></ol><br/><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NewYorkCity #NYC #NYCNeighborhoods #GreenwichVillage #UpperEastSide #DowntownNYC #WestChelsea #NYCLife #CityCulture #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #CoopBoard #NYCCondos #NYCCoops #HudsonRiverPark #QTrain #LivingInNYC #NewYorkPodcast</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“A neighborhood won’t make you — you have to make the neighborhood.” – Taylor Durland</p><p>In this episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em>, Taylor Durland and Joseph Pullen talk about the neighborhoods that shaped them — and the very real, very imperfect parts of living in NYC that outsiders often don’t understand.</p><p>They open with a blunt reality check (yes, the street-level stuff) and quickly move into why New Yorkers still choose to stay: the energy, the culture, the “melting pot” feeling, and the way hardship can create belonging.</p><p>From Greenwich Village to the Upper East Side, they compare neighborhood “vibes,” unpack misconceptions (like thinking downtown will make you cool), and explain why curiosity is a competitive advantage — especially in real estate, where knowing buildings and financials can help a client avoid a bad deal.</p><p>They close with how the city has evolved over the last 10–20 years, with more fluid movement between neighborhoods and boroughs, and why New York’s imperfections are baked into its DNA.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>NYC can be loud, dirty, and expensive — and people stay anyway.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Hardship can be part of what bonds New Yorkers together.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>New York’s “energy” is a big reason it feels like home.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The city’s diversity is a defining feature (languages, cultures, people).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Greenwich Village is Taylor’s home base after a decade there.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph points to the Upper East Side as a shaping neighborhood, while noting how much he’s moved around the city.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“Living downtown won’t make you cool.” The neighborhood doesn’t change you — you bring who you are.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Every neighborhood has a distinct “vibe” you can feel immediately.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity matters in any profession — and in real estate it becomes a real edge.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor joined his co-op board to protect his asset and learn how buildings, contractors, and the DOB ecosystem works.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>In a crowded broker market (“27,000 other brokers”), differentiation comes from knowledge and perspective.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A broker’s win can be helping a client avoid a financially unstable building.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>West Chelsea comes up as Taylor’s “next choice” neighborhood (water, park access, downtown feel).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Upper East Side’s big misconception: it’s “stodgy,” but Joseph argues it’s become more vibrant over the last 10–20 years.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Q train expansion is framed as a major game-changer for Upper East Side access.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Cold open: the unfiltered NYC street reality</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why New York still feels “worth it”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The city’s energy and the “DNA” argument</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s NYC path and why Greenwich Village stuck</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s early “melting pot” subway moment</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The neighborhood that shapes you: UES vs Village</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curiosity as a real estate advantage (co-op board insight)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“27,000 brokers”: standing out with perspective</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Misconceptions: downtown “cool” and neighborhood identity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Upper East Side misconceptions + the Q train effect</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Wrap: neighborhoods evolve, borders fade</li></ol><br/><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NewYorkCity #NYC #NYCNeighborhoods #GreenwichVillage #UpperEastSide #DowntownNYC #WestChelsea #NYCLife #CityCulture #NYCRealEstate #RealEstatePodcast #BrokerLife #CoopBoard #NYCCondos #NYCCoops #HudsonRiverPark #QTrain #LivingInNYC #NewYorkPodcast</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6c268d93-dd8a-429b-938c-791e7567551a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2026 22:39:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6c268d93-dd8a-429b-938c-791e7567551a.mp3" length="33650021" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>23:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Reality TV Didn’t Prepare Us for NYC Real Estate</title><itunes:title>Reality TV Didn’t Prepare Us for NYC Real Estate</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>“<strong>A deal is literally never done until the commission check has been deposited.</strong>” – <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong></p><p>In this <strong>first episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em></strong>, <strong>Taylor Durland</strong> and <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong> kick things off <strong>live from Times Square</strong>, leaning into the nerves, the new format, and what this show will actually be: <strong>“all things life,” with real estate sprinkled in.</strong></p><p>They unpack how each of them ended up in NYC real estate: Joseph’s pivot from advertising (sparked by reality shows flashing big commissions) and Taylor’s path from banking/consulting → entrepreneurship → real estate, driven by a long-time obsession with homes and “home base.”</p><p>From there, the conversation turns into the “behind-the-scenes” reality: <strong>commission-only risk</strong>, intense competition (they cite <strong>~27,000 licensed agents</strong>), why friends don’t automatically “hand you deals,” and why you can’t “editorialize” your taste onto buyers. It closes with the mental side: thick skin, hearing “no,” staying flexible when deals wobble, and why the agent often becomes the <em>conductor</em> blamed for everything.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The show starts <strong>live from Times Square</strong>, with Joseph admitting he’s nervous.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The mission: <strong>life-first conversations</strong> with real estate as the backdrop.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s interest started during the early <strong>Million Dollar Listing / Selling New York</strong> era.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Reality TV sells drama—<strong>not the actual broker life</strong> (like writing emails for hours).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph got his license <strong>quietly</strong>, told almost nobody, and targeted <strong>Corcoran</strong>.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor came from banking/consulting, then founded a beverage company, sold it, and felt “lost” before real estate.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s early love for real estate started with <strong>Sunday Times real estate listings</strong> as a kid.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>They discuss the “used car salesman” stigma brokers still fight.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Commission-only work means <strong>uncertainty</strong> and sometimes years of effort before payday.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>NYC is brutally competitive—Taylor cites <strong>~27,000 licensed agents</strong>.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A key lesson: <strong>don’t editorialize</strong>—buyers’ taste can surprise you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real estate humbles you fast (including the “dog shit on the terrace” story).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Social media feedback can be savage; resilience matters (TikTok comments story).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The closer mindset: <strong>deals can fall apart late</strong>, so stay calm and keep moving.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Agents become the “quarterback/conductor” coordinating everyone—and often taking the blame.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Live from Times Square: episode one setup + nerves</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What the show is really about: “life” + real estate sprinkled in</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s pivot: advertising → real estate, inspired by reality shows</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“That’s not good TV”: the unglamorous broker work nobody sees</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Going secret-mode: getting licensed and aiming for Corcoran</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s path: banking/consulting → entrepreneurship → real estate</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “home base” matters: the Sunday Times listings obsession</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Commission reality: risk, uncertainty, and “eat what you kill”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Expectations vs reality: friends won’t hand you deals</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Craft lesson: don’t editorialize—taste is subjective</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Humility check: last-minute chaos before showings</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Thick skin: TikTok reactions, rejection, and momentum</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Closing principle: the deal isn’t done until the commission clears</li></ol><br/><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #LuxuryRealEstate #TimesSquare #RealEstateBroker #RealEstateAgent #Corcoran #MillionDollarListing #SellingNewYork #CommissionOnly #SalesMindset #Entrepreneurship #CareerChange #RealEstateReality #NYCLife #HomeBase #ClientManagement #Negotiation #TikTokMarketing #RejectionProof</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“<strong>A deal is literally never done until the commission check has been deposited.</strong>” – <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong></p><p>In this <strong>first episode of <em>Somewhere in New York</em></strong>, <strong>Taylor Durland</strong> and <strong>Joseph Pullen</strong> kick things off <strong>live from Times Square</strong>, leaning into the nerves, the new format, and what this show will actually be: <strong>“all things life,” with real estate sprinkled in.</strong></p><p>They unpack how each of them ended up in NYC real estate: Joseph’s pivot from advertising (sparked by reality shows flashing big commissions) and Taylor’s path from banking/consulting → entrepreneurship → real estate, driven by a long-time obsession with homes and “home base.”</p><p>From there, the conversation turns into the “behind-the-scenes” reality: <strong>commission-only risk</strong>, intense competition (they cite <strong>~27,000 licensed agents</strong>), why friends don’t automatically “hand you deals,” and why you can’t “editorialize” your taste onto buyers. It closes with the mental side: thick skin, hearing “no,” staying flexible when deals wobble, and why the agent often becomes the <em>conductor</em> blamed for everything.</p><h2>Takeaways</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The show starts <strong>live from Times Square</strong>, with Joseph admitting he’s nervous.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The mission: <strong>life-first conversations</strong> with real estate as the backdrop.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s interest started during the early <strong>Million Dollar Listing / Selling New York</strong> era.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Reality TV sells drama—<strong>not the actual broker life</strong> (like writing emails for hours).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph got his license <strong>quietly</strong>, told almost nobody, and targeted <strong>Corcoran</strong>.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor came from banking/consulting, then founded a beverage company, sold it, and felt “lost” before real estate.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s early love for real estate started with <strong>Sunday Times real estate listings</strong> as a kid.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>They discuss the “used car salesman” stigma brokers still fight.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Commission-only work means <strong>uncertainty</strong> and sometimes years of effort before payday.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>NYC is brutally competitive—Taylor cites <strong>~27,000 licensed agents</strong>.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>A key lesson: <strong>don’t editorialize</strong>—buyers’ taste can surprise you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real estate humbles you fast (including the “dog shit on the terrace” story).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Social media feedback can be savage; resilience matters (TikTok comments story).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The closer mindset: <strong>deals can fall apart late</strong>, so stay calm and keep moving.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Agents become the “quarterback/conductor” coordinating everyone—and often taking the blame.</li></ol><br/><h2>Chapters</h2><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Live from Times Square: episode one setup + nerves</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What the show is really about: “life” + real estate sprinkled in</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Joseph’s pivot: advertising → real estate, inspired by reality shows</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>“That’s not good TV”: the unglamorous broker work nobody sees</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Going secret-mode: getting licensed and aiming for Corcoran</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Taylor’s path: banking/consulting → entrepreneurship → real estate</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “home base” matters: the Sunday Times listings obsession</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Commission reality: risk, uncertainty, and “eat what you kill”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Expectations vs reality: friends won’t hand you deals</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Craft lesson: don’t editorialize—taste is subjective</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Humility check: last-minute chaos before showings</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Thick skin: TikTok reactions, rejection, and momentum</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Closing principle: the deal isn’t done until the commission clears</li></ol><br/><h2>Tags</h2><p>#SomewhereInNewYork #NYCRealEstate #LuxuryRealEstate #TimesSquare #RealEstateBroker #RealEstateAgent #Corcoran #MillionDollarListing #SellingNewYork #CommissionOnly #SalesMindset #Entrepreneurship #CareerChange #RealEstateReality #NYCLife #HomeBase #ClientManagement #Negotiation #TikTokMarketing #RejectionProof</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://somewhere-in-new-york.captivate.fm]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d240a7c2-5f63-4f72-811b-122cf1821538</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/84980cbe-9ef4-4e8b-9793-5fe5707689d9/SNY-LOGO-1400-x-1400-px-3000-x-3000-px.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2026 12:30:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d240a7c2-5f63-4f72-811b-122cf1821538.mp3" length="37933076" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>26:14</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>