<![CDATA[Still Asking Why]]>4d7fb1ee-7e10-5674-8648-6b0ffaadceacWed, 17 Jun 2026 23:00:17 +0000Captivate.fmUrban Podcastshttps://artwork.captivate.fm/ca41ee6c-3313-4dcb-93fb-60ed6de0cd28/Artwork-2.jpgStill Asking WhyUrban PodcastsUrban PodcastsWhy are people like this? Why is life so hard? And why do the worst people always seem to have the loudest opinions? I’m back, and welcome to the new era of my podcast, Still Asking Why. This podcast is about people. It’s about the things we care deeply about but don't always get a chance to talk about. It’s about finding wisdom in ordinary places and hearing perspectives that make you think, laugh, and feel a little less alone. In this era, I’m putting people at the centre. I’ll be chatting with everyone from divorce lawyers to Egyptologists. But don't worry - this won't be a constant stream of emotional TED Talks. The banter, dark humour, and nonsense are very much staying. If you find yourself overthinking in the shower, Still Asking Why is your perfect companion. Join me for new episodes twice a month as we dive into this next chapter together.https://urbanpodcasts.co.ukfalseepisodichttps://feeds.captivate.fm/still-asking-why/nopodcastWhy I'm BackWhy I'm BackIn this episode of Still Asking Why, I sit down with my girls Tan and Shiv to dive into the wild, varied, and deeply honest opinions sent in by you, the listeners. From the nostalgia of our very first jobs to the heavy, controversial realities of modern life, we explore why people hold the views they do, how our own upbringings shape our perspectives, and why a little bit of banter is absolutely medicinal.

What You’ll Discover

- The Nostalgia of the First Paycheck: A look back at the hustle of our first jobs - from Notting Hill Carnival food stalls to local laundrettes and what today's generation is missing out on.

- The Great Overpopulation Debate: Why the blanket statement "people need to stop having children" completely misses the mark on wealth inequality and the innate human drive to build a future.

- The Reality of Immigration and the "Pinch": A deeply personal conversation about why it's so easy to blame the underdog for a lack of resources, and why we have more in common with immigrants than the elite.

What really stood out to me is how much we overcomplicate our shared humanity. We spend so much time arguing over one-line opinions on social media that we forget the context behind them. Hearing Tan and Shiv break down their own experiences and reflecting on my own journey as an immigrant was a reminder that most of us are just trying to do the best we can with the hand we've been dealt.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why people are the way they are, this episode is worth a listen. It might just change how you think about the person sitting next to you on the train.

]]>In this episode of Still Asking Why, I sit down with my girls Tan and Shiv to dive into the wild, varied, and deeply honest opinions sent in by you, the listeners. From the nostalgia of our very first jobs to the heavy, controversial realities of modern life, we explore why people hold the views they do, how our own upbringings shape our perspectives, and why a little bit of banter is absolutely medicinal.

What You’ll Discover

- The Nostalgia of the First Paycheck: A look back at the hustle of our first jobs - from Notting Hill Carnival food stalls to local laundrettes and what today's generation is missing out on.

- The Great Overpopulation Debate: Why the blanket statement "people need to stop having children" completely misses the mark on wealth inequality and the innate human drive to build a future.

- The Reality of Immigration and the "Pinch": A deeply personal conversation about why it's so easy to blame the underdog for a lack of resources, and why we have more in common with immigrants than the elite.

What really stood out to me is how much we overcomplicate our shared humanity. We spend so much time arguing over one-line opinions on social media that we forget the context behind them. Hearing Tan and Shiv break down their own experiences and reflecting on my own journey as an immigrant was a reminder that most of us are just trying to do the best we can with the hand we've been dealt.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why people are the way they are, this episode is worth a listen. It might just change how you think about the person sitting next to you on the train.

]]>e109afd6-d963-4d0a-abc8-79ec69e26bb1Thu, 18 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +010001:21:43falsefull2112Flakey Thoughts: Robbery, Lies & FriendsFlakey Thoughts: Robbery, Lies & FriendsThis week, we are diving into the story of me getting robbed, why it’s okay to lie sometimes, and if Friends is overrated. Plus, we'll be discussing your controversial opinions!

]]>This week, we are diving into the story of me getting robbed, why it’s okay to lie sometimes, and if Friends is overrated. Plus, we'll be discussing your controversial opinions!

]]>817380ca-7e59-41b7-b0b6-7b62a616af26Wed, 15 May 2024 13:35:00 +010001:18:21falsefullFlakey Thoughts: Mo’ Money, Mo’ ProblemsFlakey Thoughts: Mo’ Money, Mo’ ProblemsWe are diving into your unpopular and controversial opinions again with my two guests, Shivi and Sophie. 

This episode brings a spicy discussion on reality TV, child-free spaces, and whether money brings true happiness.

]]>We are diving into your unpopular and controversial opinions again with my two guests, Shivi and Sophie. 

This episode brings a spicy discussion on reality TV, child-free spaces, and whether money brings true happiness.

]]>8930f346-f0be-4be3-8624-7099306ab6d9Thu, 25 Apr 2024 09:45:00 +010001:05:02falsefullFlakey Thoughts: Is Monogamy Outdated?Flakey Thoughts: Is Monogamy Outdated?It's another Flakey Thoughts discussion where we dissect your unpopular opinions and poll results. Plus, I welcome my new guest, Shivi!

In this episode, we explore monogamy and whether it is an outdated concept. Our answer might surprise you. We also discuss pets, settling for an ‘average', and why Nando's will forever slap.

]]>It's another Flakey Thoughts discussion where we dissect your unpopular opinions and poll results. Plus, I welcome my new guest, Shivi!

In this episode, we explore monogamy and whether it is an outdated concept. Our answer might surprise you. We also discuss pets, settling for an ‘average', and why Nando's will forever slap.

]]>d2558db5-5f31-498f-95cf-6e321eb8459eMon, 08 Apr 2024 11:16:00 +010055:59falsefullFlakey Thoughts: Is University Worth It?Flakey Thoughts: Is University Worth It?Another engaging, deep and banter-full discussion where we dissect your unpopular opinions and poll results. 

In this episode, Taneisha and I dive into the world of Higher Education and its relevance, parent dynamics, and why we might not like Prince Harry and Meghan anymore.

]]>Another engaging, deep and banter-full discussion where we dissect your unpopular opinions and poll results. 

In this episode, Taneisha and I dive into the world of Higher Education and its relevance, parent dynamics, and why we might not like Prince Harry and Meghan anymore.

]]>e2d17fa2-3d52-4a79-ac32-7f6e494fe90aTue, 02 Apr 2024 09:42:00 +010001:13:47falsefullFlakey Thoughts: Taylor Swfit, Siblings & Bed BugsFlakey Thoughts: Taylor Swfit, Siblings & Bed BugsGet ready for an engaging conversation and fresh perspective as we explore diverse subjects, fueled by your opinions.

In this episode, Taneisha joins me, and we discuss Taylor Swift's world, the unpredictable terrain of sibling rivalry, and the pesky topic of bed bugs.

]]>Get ready for an engaging conversation and fresh perspective as we explore diverse subjects, fueled by your opinions.

In this episode, Taneisha joins me, and we discuss Taylor Swift's world, the unpredictable terrain of sibling rivalry, and the pesky topic of bed bugs.

]]>eb7d7f0e-36f5-459e-8729-6cb63c961e30Thu, 07 Mar 2024 13:43:00 +010001:12:58falsefullThe Birth ExperienceThe Birth ExperienceWhen Natalie, a seasoned midwife, stepped into my studio, her childbirth stories resonated with every fibre of my being. Her eyes lit up as she recounted the strength and resilience she'd witnessed in the labour ward, and together, we explored the very essence of pregnancy and childbirth.

This episode is for the women who are pregnant for the first time and don't know what to expect, those who have given birth and wish to understand what happened and especially for those who know they want to have a baby in the future, but don’t know what to expect or may have anxiety and fear surrounding the event of childbirth.

]]>When Natalie, a seasoned midwife, stepped into my studio, her childbirth stories resonated with every fibre of my being. Her eyes lit up as she recounted the strength and resilience she'd witnessed in the labour ward, and together, we explored the very essence of pregnancy and childbirth.

This episode is for the women who are pregnant for the first time and don't know what to expect, those who have given birth and wish to understand what happened and especially for those who know they want to have a baby in the future, but don’t know what to expect or may have anxiety and fear surrounding the event of childbirth.

]]>2800efd5-9d49-4931-a196-7a2bd621e830Wed, 14 Feb 2024 07:30:00 +010001:02:28falsefullThe Courage To Be You with Gillian McMichaelThe Courage To Be You with Gillian McMichaelA conversation with the author of one of my favourite books ‘Coming Home: A guide to being your true self’ which has shifted and reinvented the way I learn and understand myself so that I can connect with others authentically.

Gillian is the UK’s leading transformational wellness coach with over 20 years of experience in helping people find meaning and bringing back joy into their lives. 

In this episode, she shares her story and how she used all of the life lessons to guide her into the amazing woman she is today who has helped so many. 

 I was also a guest on her wonderful podcast ‘The Full Circle’ – where I share my story and how I am healing from my past. You can listen to our conversation here.

The Healing Snowflake is produced and managed by Urban Podcasts.

]]>A conversation with the author of one of my favourite books ‘Coming Home: A guide to being your true self’ which has shifted and reinvented the way I learn and understand myself so that I can connect with others authentically.

Gillian is the UK’s leading transformational wellness coach with over 20 years of experience in helping people find meaning and bringing back joy into their lives. 

In this episode, she shares her story and how she used all of the life lessons to guide her into the amazing woman she is today who has helped so many. 

 I was also a guest on her wonderful podcast ‘The Full Circle’ – where I share my story and how I am healing from my past. You can listen to our conversation here.

The Healing Snowflake is produced and managed by Urban Podcasts.

]]>f6e28f68-f1aa-4d90-92d5-42e777daf278Thu, 01 Feb 2024 09:00:00 +010040:49falsefull66Welcome To The Healing SnowflakeWelcome To The Healing SnowflakeA confused and damaged healing 'Millennial' trying to learn, unlearn and relearn through this rollercoaster that we call life through conversations and enlightenment from other people.

]]>A confused and damaged healing 'Millennial' trying to learn, unlearn and relearn through this rollercoaster that we call life through conversations and enlightenment from other people.

]]>f9ecfe02-256f-4584-97a5-3a6860c6c800Mon, 29 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +010002:14falsetrailerThe Point Of God The Point Of God An honest, open and warm conversation on Christianity with a female reverend to explore our capacity and knowledge for faith in our lives. Regardless of your beliefs, you will be enlightened by this perspective - the first of many talks with religious leaders that I will be doing.

Connection! Knowledge! The Divine! Let's explore it together..

]]>An honest, open and warm conversation on Christianity with a female reverend to explore our capacity and knowledge for faith in our lives. Regardless of your beliefs, you will be enlightened by this perspective - the first of many talks with religious leaders that I will be doing.

Connection! Knowledge! The Divine! Let's explore it together..

]]>c5f57201-0691-49db-be0a-12c2a09505ffSun, 16 Jul 2023 19:36:28 +010001:45:22falsefull<p>An honest, open and warm conversation on Christianity with a female reverend to explore our capacity and knowledge for faith in our lives. Regardless of your beliefs, you will be enlightened by this perspective - the first of many talks with religious leaders that I will be doing. </p> <p>Connection! Knowledge! The Divine! Let&#39;s explore it together.. </p> The Dating Game The Dating Game Modern women giving their perspective on new age dating dilemmas. (Male Perspective episode to follow!)

Funny, dirty and controversial opinions that nobody asked for - enjoy!


]]>Modern women giving their perspective on new age dating dilemmas. (Male Perspective episode to follow!)

Funny, dirty and controversial opinions that nobody asked for - enjoy!


]]>605e2798-5891-4dbf-aca2-0758ed88375eWed, 17 May 2023 19:42:26 +010001:35:28falsefull<p>Modern women giving their perspective on new age dating dilemmas. (Male Perspective episode to follow!)</p> <p>Funny, dirty and controversial opinions that nobody asked for - enjoy! </p> <p><br></p> We need to talk about.. AutismWe need to talk about.. AutismAutism is on the rise, it's complex and there's so much to learn. This conversation involves 2 mothers who have (excellently!) raised kids with Autism. We cover stigmas, medication, what needs to change and improve and the importance of mental health in general. The strength, resilience and patience of their stories will inspire you!


]]>Autism is on the rise, it's complex and there's so much to learn. This conversation involves 2 mothers who have (excellently!) raised kids with Autism. We cover stigmas, medication, what needs to change and improve and the importance of mental health in general. The strength, resilience and patience of their stories will inspire you!


]]>6d7b6747-58de-4486-803a-da4c8b623325Thu, 04 May 2023 11:27:35 +010001:58:15falsefull<p>Autism is on the rise, it&#39;s complex and there&#39;s so much to learn. This conversation involves 2 mothers who have (excellently!) raised kids with Autism. We cover stigmas, medication, what needs to change and improve and the importance of mental health in general. The strength, resilience and patience of their stories will inspire you! </p> <p><br></p> The Blind LifeThe Blind LifeWhat is it like to be blind? A conversation with my friends Andrew and Devaki, both with their own and unique stories of vision loss - with Andrew being blind since birth, and Devaki who lost her sight later on in life.



]]>What is it like to be blind? A conversation with my friends Andrew and Devaki, both with their own and unique stories of vision loss - with Andrew being blind since birth, and Devaki who lost her sight later on in life.



]]>e7395c23-f038-4022-a138-1f7672af315eSat, 15 Apr 2023 14:05:50 +010001:44:38falsefull<p>What is it like to be blind? A conversation with my friends Andrew and Devaki, both with their own and unique stories of vision loss - with Andrew being blind since birth, and Devaki who lost her sight later on in life. </p> <p><br></p> <p><br></p> The Grieving WoundThe Grieving WoundLosing someone through death is one of the most painful experiences a human being can go through, yet it is something we all have to face at some point then comes the heaviness of grieving.

How do we cope? Why does it seem easier for some rather than others?

3 of us would like to share our personal journey of loss to hopefully make you feel less alone.

]]>Losing someone through death is one of the most painful experiences a human being can go through, yet it is something we all have to face at some point then comes the heaviness of grieving.

How do we cope? Why does it seem easier for some rather than others?

3 of us would like to share our personal journey of loss to hopefully make you feel less alone.

]]>03c95d4b-2090-46be-89f6-e33aba9d05d8Fri, 07 Apr 2023 15:28:52 +010001:45:02falsefull1111<p>Losing someone through death is one of the most painful experiences a human being can go through, yet it is something we all have to face at some point then comes the heaviness of grieving. </p> <p>How do we cope? Why does it seem easier for some rather than others? </p> <p>3 of us would like to share our personal journey of loss to hopefully make you feel less alone. </p>