In this episode, they share lessons learned from raising three kids into adulthood (and now stepping into grandparent life!), including why parenting isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection, consistency, and coaching. You’ll hear practical wisdom on helping teens transition into adulthood, teaching responsibility and a healthy relationship with money, and creating a home that feels like a safe place to land.

They also tackle today’s biggest challenges—screen time, smartphones, social media, and protecting your kids without putting them in a bubble—plus why shame and isolation don’t produce healthy growth. Most importantly, Ashley & Carlie talk about modeling a real relationship with Jesus in everyday life and trusting the Holy Spirit for wisdom in every season.

Whether you’re raising toddlers, navigating teenagers, or believing for reconciliation with a prodigal, this episode will encourage you, equip you, and remind you: you’re anointed for parenting.

Helpful Links & Resources

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4. Call for Prayer: +1 (719) 600-3344

Resources mentioned (available at https://terradez.com):

1. The Power of Expectation
2. Hannah and the Beanstalk
3. Hannah and the Lost Jelly Shoe

In this episode of T-Time, Ashley and Carlie Terradez share real-life wisdom from over 27 years of marriage, unpacking what actually makes a marriage grow stronger over time. From communication and submission to finances, boundaries, and putting Jesus first, this conversation is honest, practical, and full of grace.

They answer listener questions, share personal stories (including lessons learned the hard way), and talk openly about why healthy marriages are built on maturity, unity, and intentional love—not perfection. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or simply wanting better relationships, this episode offers insights you can apply right away.

If you’ve ever wondered what healthy marriages do differently—or how to build one that lasts—this episode is for you.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

1. Why healthy marriages aren’t perfect—but they are intentional
2. How submission and mutual respect strengthen a relationship
3. Why communication is more than just talking—it’s listening
4. How to get on the same page financially as a couple
5. The importance of leaving, cleaving, and creating a new family unit
6. Why putting Jesus first makes everything else work better

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In this episode of our T-Time Podcast, Ashley and Carlie Terradez have an honest, real-life conversation about marriage—cutting through cultural myths, unrealistic expectations, and fear-based narratives that surround commitment today.

We talk about why so many people question marriage, whether living together is really a safer option, and what actually makes a relationship thrive long-term. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and decades of marriage, this episode challenges the idea that marriage is either a fantasy or a trap—and reveals God’s design for covenant, joy, and lasting partnership.

If you’ve ever wondered:

1. Is marriage still relevant?
2. Does “happily ever after” really exist?
3. Should I say yes… or walk away?

This episode will bring clarity, encouragement, and truth.

🔑 Key Takeaways

1. Marriage isn’t a fairytale or a nightmare—it’s a covenant designed by God to grow, strengthen, and mature you.
2. Unrealistic expectations are often what disappoint people, not marriage itself.
3. Living together and marriage are not the same. Covenant brings security, clarity, and commitment that convenience cannot.
4. Fear of commitment is one of the biggest reasons people avoid marriage today—but fear isn’t from God.
5. Happily ever after doesn’t mean problem-free—it means having the tools, grace, and partnership to walk through life together.
6. Marriage reveals and refines you, helping develop character, selflessness, and love.
7. God’s design for marriage still works, even when culture says otherwise.
8. Saying “yes forever” is not about perfection—it’s about faithfulness, growth, and choosing covenant daily.

🔗 Links Mentioned

1. Terradez Ministries Website 👉 https://terradez.com
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We open up about navigating the busyness and commercialization that can so easily creep into the season, and how we’ve intentionally worked to keep Christ at the center of our home—especially as parents. Along the way, we share personal stories, laughs, and meaningful moments that remind us why Christmas matters beyond the gifts and decorations.

This episode is an encouragement to slow down, enjoy the season, and help our kids understand the true story of Christmas—that Jesus is the greatest gift of all. Our hope is that it inspires you to create traditions that point your heart and home back to Him.

🎄 Takeaways

1. Christmas is about more than gifts—it’s a celebration of Jesus’ birth.
2. Family traditions help create meaningful memories and pass faith to the next generation.
3. The Christmas story reminds us of peace and restored relationship with God through Jesus.
4. Keeping Christ at the center helps cut through the noise and distractions of the season.
5. Teaching kids the true meaning of Christmas builds faith without confusion or deception.
6. Jesus is—and always will be—the greatest gift we celebrate.

🔗 Links from this episode

1. https://terradez.com/booklet

You’ll hear their top packing hacks (yes, including the compression-bag strategy!), how they manage long flights with only carry-ons, and why flexibility is one of the most important travel skills you can have. They also share powerful insights about traveling with the Holy Spirit, listening to His voice, and treating every journey as an opportunity for divine connection and spiritual growth.

If you’re planning a trip—whether it’s for ministry, vacation, family, or a mission adventure—this episode will help you go from jet lag to joy, with peace, preparation, and purpose.

Key Takeaways

• Travel is part of the Great Commission. Jesus calls us to “go,” and sometimes that literally means getting on a plane, going to new places, and reaching new people.
• Be prepared, but stay flexible. Things change—delays happen, plans shift, and schedules adjust. Being adaptable makes travel far less stressful.
• Pack light and smart. Compression bags, carry-on-only tips, reusable routines, and choosing the right luggage can transform your whole travel experience.
• Listen to the Holy Spirit. He can warn you, guide you, and protect you. Peace—or lack of peace—is one of the best travel indicators you have.
• Embrace cultural differences. Travel broadens your perspective and helps you appreciate the beauty in how God made people all over the world.
• Enjoy the journey, not just the destination. Use travel time for prayer, rest, connection, and margin instead of letting anxiety take over.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

• The Power of Expectations (book): https://terradez.com/shop
• Terradez Ministries Website: https://terradez.com
• Partner with Terradez Ministries: https://terradez.com/give
• Events & Travel Schedule: https://terradez.com/events

We’ll talk about what happens when different personalities, traditions, and expectations collide—and how to set healthy boundaries that keep the peace. More than that, we’ll dig into how to prepare your heart before you even walk through the door, so you can show up with patience, understanding, and maybe even a little extra grace.

Because family time doesn’t have to be stressful—it can be a chance to grow, connect, and even laugh through the messy moments.

Key Takeaways:

• How to navigate family dynamics with a mix of empathy and boundaries.
• Why setting limits isn’t selfish—it’s essential for peace and mutual respect.
• Ways to prepare your mindset and heart before family gatherings so you can stay calm and loving.
• Practical tips for turning family time into connection time—like swapping competition for collaboration.
• How to use humor to lighten the mood without crossing lines.
• And how to prioritize your own family unit while still keeping those extended family ties strong.
• Connect with us at https://terradez.com/
• Get the Abundant Life 365 Devotional at https://terradez.com/shop/

Takeaways:

• In this episode of T-Time, we explore the profound impact of offense and how it can lead to spiritual and emotional bondage in our lives.
• Ashley and Carlie discuss the importance of confronting offense with a biblical perspective to foster personal growth and healing.
• We emphasize the necessity of forgiveness as a means of spiritual liberation, highlighting that it primarily benefits the one who forgives rather than the offender.
• The episode illustrates how societal reactions to truth can lead to violent outcomes and the importance of standing firm in one's beliefs without resorting to hatred.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Turning Point USA
• Christ for All Nations

Takeaways:

• The Rapture is a significant topic that many Christians are concerned about, often leading to anxiety about their readiness for Christ's return.
• It is essential to ground our faith in the Word of God and avoid fixating on individual prophetic claims that do not align with scripture.
• As believers, we should prioritize sharing the Gospel and living out our faith rather than being consumed with the date of the Rapture or the end times.
• Understanding that salvation through Jesus covers all sins—past, present, and future—can alleviate fears regarding being left behind during the Rapture.