Tails and Tones

38: From Dog Account to Business, with Robin Waite

Fri, 07 Aug 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Business coach Robin Waite (Fearless Business) joins Mariska to break down why "exposure" isn't a payment plan, how raising your prices can mean selling less for the same profit, and why waiting for the perfect moment is quietly costing you customers. Plus: his Guinness World Record, his 4Ocean plastic pledge, and a live "build a 100K month" business plan.

Guest Bio:

Robin Waite is a UK-based business coach and the founder of Fearless Business. After 12 years running a marketing agency, he sold it in 2016 and has spent the last decade coaching entrepreneurs on pricing, positioning, and building profitable, sustainable businesses. He is the bestselling author of Take Your Shot and Fearless Pricing, has guested on over 300 podcasts, and has coached creators including Ali Abdaal and Simon Squibb. He also holds a Guinness World Record for taking part in the largest speed-networking event on record.

Takeaways:

A hobby becomes a business the moment you decide it is one, and start planning six months, a year, and two years out instead of just three weeks ahead.
"Exposure" is not a business model. Real partnerships are a long-term marketing asset built on trust, not a one-off trade.
One podcast guest appearance (Robin's on Ali Abdaal's show) generated 3,000 leads and over £300,000 in revenue, three years after the relationship began.
Pricing at the average makes you average. Aim for the top 10% of your category instead of matching competitors.
Raise your prices by 5% and you can sell 11% fewer units for the same profit. At 10%, it's 22% fewer units.
The "build one, sell one" approach (borrowed from Simon Squibb) beats waiting to launch until everything is perfect.
There's a real difference between being exhausted and having genuinely exhausted your options, and most founders find out the hard way.
Robin's dogs Wilbur and Twiggy are his cue to stop "procrastiworking": when he catches himself stalling, he closes the laptop and takes them for a walk in the Cotswolds instead.
Robin donates to 4Ocean with every new client, working toward removing 100kg of ocean plastic, currently at roughly 40kg.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Robin Waite: Instagram / LinkedIn / TikTok / Website
Fearless Pricing Scorecard — Robin's pricing tool + book, mentioned on the episode
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Intro

[02:12] Who is Robin Waite

[04:16] Robin's Guinness World Record

[06:13] When does a hobby become a business

[08:28] Why exposure isn't a business model

[14:57] Building a pet business from zero

[21:27] The biggest mistake creators make

[25:32] Why waiting for perfect is costing you

[28:59] The 3 Fs: Freedom, Fulfilment, Financial success

[34:50] The pricing math that changes everything

[39:08] The first 90 days of a crowdfund

[42:24] Exhausted vs. out of options

[47:52] What Wilbur and Twiggy taught him

[49:14] There's never a perfect time to start

[52:42] 4Ocean and building a business for good

FAQ

What is the difference between a hobby and a business, according to Robin Waite?

Robin Waite says a hobby becomes a business once you're earning a living from it and can plan for it beyond the next three weeks, the point at which most people's forward planning naturally stops.

Why doesn't Robin Waite recommend working for "exposure"?

Because exposure alone is short-term and transactional. Robin recommends treating brand partnerships as long-term relationships built on trust, the kind that can eventually generate leads and revenue for years, as his relationship with Ali Abdaal did.

What is Robin Waite's "one page business plan"?

It's five questions: your dream monthly revenue, your product or service, your average sale price, the number of units needed to hit that revenue, and whether that demand is realistic to stimulate right now.

Where can I find Robin Waite's Fearless Pricing Scorecard?

At fearlesspricing.co.uk, alongside his book Fearless Pricing. His first book, Take Your Shot, is available through his Fearless Business site.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

37: How Dogs Build Better Kids: Responsibility, Enrichment & the Human-Dog Bond with Brian Manni of Pup O'Clock

Fri, 03 Jul 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Brian Manni, founder of Pup O'Clock, shares how watching his son grow up alongside their family pug, through bullying, family stress, and the ordinary hardships of childhood, inspired him to build a monthly subscription box that turns dog ownership into a hands-on lesson in responsibility, empathy, and discipline for kids. He explains why dogs returned to shelters are usually under-stimulated rather than "bad," why the one skill a child needs before a dog will truly respond to them is consistency, and why raising a dog with your kids builds better humans, not just better-behaved pets.

Guest Bio:

Brian Manni is the founder of Pup O'Clock, a monthly themed subscription box (with a nonprofit arm) designed to help families build deeper bonds between children and their dogs. Fuelled by his personal journey in sobriety and watching his son navigate childhood with a pug by his side, Brian built Pup O'Clock around the belief that the right tools — not good intentions — are what keep dogs in homes and out of shelters. His mission: reach one million families.

Takeaways:

Dogs that end up back in shelters aren't bad dogs — they're under-stimulated. Enrichment (mental stimulation) is the most commonly missing piece in family dog ownership.
The one skill a child needs before a dog will respond to them is discipline and consistency — and those exact same skills build better humans.
When a child takes responsibility for a living being, something shifts: they're no longer the centre of the universe. The humility and introspection that follows is powerful.
Themed, monthly boxes keep kids engaged longer than one-off purchases — variety without the parents having to do the research.
Every Pup O'Clock box includes a built-in contribution back to a shelter, trainer, or organisation supporting the human-dog bond — because behaviour change, not just money, is what stops dogs being returned.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Use code PIPER10 for 10% off your Pup O'Clock subscription at check out.
Enrichment Episode with Torri Mistick
Pup O Clock: Instagram / Facebook / Website
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Intro

[02:19] Brian introduces himself and the Pup O'Clock origin story

[04:33] The specific moment that sparked it all — Brian's son and their family pug

[08:15] Building the product: market research, the expert team (Dr. Daisy + Torri Mistick), and the response from shelters

[12:03] What's inside the box? Trading cards, vet guides, enrichment activities, chore chart, and more

[16:31] Getting kids off screens, the pendulum swung too far

[18:50] The one skill a child needs for their dog to respond to them

[20:36] Why variety matters, and how monthly themes keep kids engaged

[25:46] The nonprofit side: why money alone doesn't solve the shelter return problem

[27:34] Brian's big dream: 1 million families and a full entertainment company

[29:18] The enrichment pivot, what changed everything

[31:53] What this journey has taught Brian: sobriety, accountability, and building with his son

[32:37] Where to find Pup O'Clock

FAQ

Is Pup O'Clock available outside the US?

Not yet, Pup O'Clock currently ships to all 50 US states.

What age is Pup O'Clock designed for?

The boxes are designed to engage kids of all ages through themed activities, trading cards, and enrichment materials, with content that grows with them.

How do I get a discount?

Use code PIPER10 for 10% off, or check with your local shelter as Pup O'Clock regularly partners with shelters for promo codes. 6- and 12-month plans also include a built-in discount.

What's inside the flagship box?

Trading cards, a vet guide, an enrichment activity guide (Dog Detective), a responsibility contract, a gotcha certificate, a fridge chore chart (with marker), bandanas, stickers, and enrichment products from SodaPup.

Is Pup O'Clock a nonprofit?

Pup O'Clock has a nonprofit arm for those who want to donate. Every box also includes a built-in contribution back to a shelter, trainer, or organisation supporting the human-dog bond.

Why do dogs end up back in shelters so often?

Most returned dogs aren't dangerous or badly behaved by nature, they're under-stimulated, and without enrichment or the right tools, normal behaviours like chewing or barking spiral into a returned adoption.

Why does my French Bulldog seem to get "picked on" by other dogs?

Because of how they've been bred, many French Bulldogs and other brachycephalic breeds can't fully show their teeth or move their facial skin the way other dogs expect, so their attempts to communicate can be misread as aggression or confuse other dogs entirely.

What's the one skill a child needs before a dog will actually listen to them?

Discipline and consistency, a dog won't respond reliably to a child who engages only halfheartedly, but with consistent engagement over time, the relationship becomes natural and rewarding for both the child and the dog.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

36: Limping But Not in Pain? Why Your Dog's Discomfort Is Easier to Miss Than You Think with Dr. Ellie Lederer

Fri, 05 Jun 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Dr. Ellie Lederer, an ECVS board-certified small animal orthopedic surgeon at Umm Suqeim Veterinary Centre in Dubai and founder of MOVES, explains why the phrase "they're limping but they're not in pain" is almost never true, dogs and cats are simply wired to hide discomfort. She covers the subtle signs of joint pain most owners miss, why slippery flooring may contribute to hip dysplasia in puppies, when to stop "waiting and seeing" and get a vet involved, and confirms that feeding at the correct height and posture is clinically recommended for dogs with osteoarthritis, neck pain, or disc disease, while flagging that floor feeding puts unnecessary flexion and weight load through the front legs at every single meal.

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Ellie Lederer, an ECVS board-certified small animal orthopedic surgeon, and the founder of MOVES, a free online orthopaedic journal club for vets across the Middle East. We get into the subtle signs that your dog might be in more pain than they're letting on, the most common orthopedic conditions in small dogs, what slippery floors are actually doing to your puppy's hips, when waiting is fine versus when you really need to see a vet, and, something that is incredibly close to my heart, why feeding posture matters so much more than most of us realise, especially for dogs already navigating joint issues.

Guest Bio:

Our guest today is Dr. Ellie Lederer, an ECVS board-certified small animal orthopedic surgeon currently running a referral orthopaedic service at Umm Suqeim Veterinary Centre in Dubai. She specialises in joint replacements, fracture repair, cruciate disease, elbow disease, and all things bones and joints in dogs and cats.

With two decades of veterinary experience, five years of training followed by fifteen years in practice, including a full residency in the UK Dr. Ellie holds one of the highest qualifications available in her field. She is also the founder of MOVES (Middle Eastern Orthopaedics Veterinary Excellence Society), a free online journal club designed to improve clinical outcomes for pets across the UAE by making the latest research accessible to vets in practice.

Outside the operating theatre, she competed as a contender on the BBC reboot of Gladiators and is an avid bagpipe player, which, as it turns out, is excellent training for surgery.

Takeaways:

"They're limping but they're not in pain" is almost never true. Dogs are hardwired to hide discomfort. Limping, lameness, or gait changes are pain signals 99% of the time. The 1% exception is a structural leg-length difference — everything else warrants investigation.
Pain shows up as behaviour change, not just limping.
Common orthopedic conditions such as luxating patella, hip dysplasia, and cruciate ligament injuries prevalent in specific breeds
The significance of early diagnosis and appropriate interventions to improve quality of life in senior and arthritic dogs
How breed, age, and body condition influence decisions around neutering timing and orthopedic health
The importance of proper feeding posture and how elevated bowls support joint health and reduce strain.
The role of scientific research, including MOVES, a veterinary orthopedics journal club, in advancing pet care
The benefits of collaboration and shared knowledge among veterinary professionals for better clinical outcomes

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Dr. Ellie Lederer: Instagram Dr. Ellie USVetCentre/ Youtube/ Website
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:30] BBC Gladiators, bagpipes, and what they have in common with surgery

[04:25] What does ECVS board-certified actually mean? Breaking down the credential

[06:34] The difference between "specialist" in the UK vs UAE, and why it matters when choosing a vet

[07:04] What drew Dr. Ellie to orthopedics, putting things back together and keeping pets pain-free

[07:56] How do you actually know if your dog is in pain? The signs most owners miss

[09:10] "They're limbing but they're not in pain", why this breaks Dr. Ellie's heart (and why it's almost never true)

[11:22] More hidden pain signals: licking joints, reluctance to exercise, lying down on walks

[12:47] Mariska's own story, Piper becoming snappy with dogs, and how pain was the real reason

[13:35] Hip pain and behaviour at daycare, why irritability with other dogs is a common red flag

[15:17] The most common orthopedic conditions in small dogs, luxating patella, cruciate disease, elbow disease

[16:13] How luxating patella (dislocating kneecap) actually works, and why grade matters

[17:58] Piper's grade 3 luxating patella — Mariska's story, the snap in the park, and the physio she wishes she'd prioritised

[19:15] Traumatic vs developmental patella luxation, and "let dogs be dogs" (the guilt-free moment)

[21:00] Community question: can running (zoomies) on tiles cause joint trauma or luxating patella?

[21:13] The hip dysplasia + slippery floors study, and why runner rugs are a simple fix

[23:37] Wait and see, when is it fine and when is it a problem?

[25:18] "I'm the same", Dr. Ellie as a pet owner, and why going to the vet is never a waste

[26:09] Which breeds walk through Dr. Ellie's door most? Labradors, French Bulldogs, Dachshunds, and more

[28:42] Community question: does early neutering (7–8 months) negatively affect body development in Pomeranians?

[29:08] How neutering affects calorie needs, hormones, joint development, and cancer risk, and why it's breed-specific

[32:36] Chemical castration, the reversible implant option most people don't know about

[33:43] MOVES: Dr. Ellie's free online orthopaedic journal club for vets across the Middle East

[34:47] Feeding posture, what is actually happening in your dog's body when they eat from the floor?

[35:08] Why Dr. Ellie recommends elevated feeding for dogs with osteoarthritis, neck pain, and disc disease

[36:26] The French Bulldog head weight question, proportionally, how much pressure does that big head put on their front legs?

[37:46] Elevated feeding for senior dogs, esophageal motility, aspiration risk, and why height helps

[39:16] The 60/40 rule, how weight should be distributed across your dog's limbs at mealtime

[40:48] How high should the bowl actually be? The ergonomic posture principle

[41:38] "If your dog is getting into an extreme posture to eat, trying an elevated feeding bowl seems like a sensible step."

[42:22] The one thing Dr. Ellie wishes every dog parent knew before their first orthopedic appointment

[42:36] Biggest misconception revisited, "they're limbing but they're not in pain" and why early intervention changes outcomes

[44:04] Quality of life with arthritis, body condition scoring, keeping dogs lean, and what's actually possible

[46:41] Where to find Dr. Ellie, Instagram, YouTube, MOVES, and the new joint replacement program

FAQ

Is it true that my dog can limp without being in pain?

Almost never, roughly 99% of the time, a limp or lameness in a dog signals pain, with the rare exception being a structural leg-length difference that creates an asymmetrical gait without discomfort.

What are the subtle signs that my dog might be in pain?

Look for reluctance to jump onto furniture they used to love, stiffness when rising, sudden changes in sociability (more aloof or more clingy), snapping or irritability around other dogs, or lying down partway through a walk.

Can slippery floors really affect my puppy's hip development?

There is a study suggesting that raising puppies on slippery flooring could be a contributing factor in the development of hip dysplasia, and adding runner rugs along main walking paths is a simple way to give puppies better traction.

How long should I wait before taking a limping dog to the vet?

Rest your dog for a day first, similar to how you'd treat a minor strain in yourself, but if the limp persists beyond a week, keeps returning on the same leg, or doesn't improve, it's time to see a vet rather than continuing to wait.

Does the height of my dog's food bowl actually matter for their joints?

Yes, Dr. Ellie confirms that eating from the floor causes dogs to lean forward into extreme flexion and shifts excess weight onto their front legs, and she actively recommends elevated feeding for dogs with osteoarthritis, neck pain, or disc disease.

What is the ideal weight distribution for a dog's front and back legs?

A healthy dog should carry roughly 60% of their body weight on their front legs and 40% on their back legs; feeding postures that force significantly more weight onto the front legs can be uncomfortable for dogs with existing joint issues.

Can elevated feeding help senior dogs too?

Yes, elevated feeding can help senior dogs with esophageal motility issues by using gravity to assist food movement, which reduces the risk of regurgitation and aspiration-related lung infections.

Is my dog's neutering age affecting their joint development?

It can be, and it's breed-specific, smaller dogs reach skeletal maturity earlier than large breeds, and studies suggest some breeds benefit from delayed neutering to reduce the risk of certain joint and cancer-related conditions, so this is worth discussing directly with your vet.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

35: Understanding Dog Behavior, The Hidden Link Between Pain, Emotions & Reactivity with Dr Julie Ashton

Fri, 01 May 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Dr. Julie Ashton, an ABTC-certified veterinary behaviourist and founder of Life on Four Legs, explains why behaviour problems in dogs are almost always a sign of pain, fear, or emotional struggle, never spite or control. She breaks down why "reactivity" is a descriptor, not a diagnosis, why any change in behaviour should be treated as medical until proven otherwise, why you cannot socialise an adult dog once the 14-16 week window has closed, and why feeding at a neutral neck height "can have a big impact on dogs that are painful and is not a bad thing to do for every dog."

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Julie Ashton, an ABTC-certified veterinary behaviorist, to unpack what’s really going on behind common dog behavior challenges, from reactivity and anxiety to sudden changes like house accidents or obsessive ball play. We explore the powerful connection between physical health, emotional wellbeing, and behavior, and why many issues are often misunderstood as “bad behavior” rather than signs of stress, fear, or even pain. This conversation is packed with practical, science-backed insights to help dog parents better understand their pets, avoid common mistakes, and build a calmer, more supportive environment for their dogs.

Guest Bio:

Our guest today is Dr. Julie Ashton, an ABTC-certified Veterinary Behaviourist who helps dogs and cats with complex behavioural challenges. Julie discovered her passion for behaviour while studying at Bristol Vet School, where she graduated in 2009 as both a veterinarian and with a degree in Animal Behaviour and Welfare. After working in London and later Sydney, she now runs her behaviour practice from rural Essex, supporting pet owners through referral behaviour consultations both online and in person.

Takeaways:

Behavior problems are often rooted in pain, fear, or emotional distress, not disobedience
Always rule out medical issues first when behavior changes suddenly
Reactivity is a symptom, not a diagnosis, understanding the cause is key
Overexposure to fears (like forcing socialization) can make anxiety worse
Proper play should include balance, breaks, and mutual engagement
High-arousal activities (like excessive ball play) can increase stress and physical strain
Dogs need rest, structure, and safe environments to regulate behavior
Early puppy socialization (done correctly) is critical for long-term behavior
Many “bad behaviors” are actually dogs struggling, not misbehaving

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Life on four legs vet: Instagram / Facebook / Website
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product, Élevé (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[04:08] The biggest misconception about dog behavior

[07:26] What “reactivity” actually means

[09:54] Why sudden behavior changes = check health first

[14:30] The #1 mistake dog owners make with anxious dogs

[18:12] Why play can turn into aggression

[23:59] Obsession with ball play explained

[28:39] Why dogs suddenly pee inside the house

[35:26] Why behavior changes should always be checked by a vet

[41:07] How to prevent behavior problems in puppies

[46:24] “They’re not giving you a hard time…” mindset shift

FAQ

Is my dog being stubborn or spiteful when they misbehave?

Almost never, most behaviour problems that look like stubbornness or spite are actually signs of pain, fear, or emotional distress, and a proper behaviourist will look for the underlying cause rather than labelling the dog as difficult.

What does it mean that "reactivity is a descriptor, not a diagnosis"?

It means that behaviours like lunging, barking, or growling describe what a dog is doing, but not why, the same reactive behaviour can be driven by fear, frustration, past learning, or pain, so effective treatment depends on identifying the actual cause.

Can I socialise my adult dog if they missed it as a puppy?

Not in the true sense, the critical socialisation window closes around 14 to 16 weeks of age, so an adult dog with fear or reactivity issues needs careful, gradual behaviour work rather than "socialisation" in the classic sense.

Why does my dog seem to get worse the more I expose them to something they're scared of?

Repeated exposure to a fear trigger doesn't automatically reduce fear, especially if the dog is overwhelmed each time, gradual, controlled exposure below the dog's stress threshold works far better than repeated flooding.

Does the height of my dog's food bowl really matter for behaviour or comfort?

Yes, feeding at a neutral neck height can have a significant positive impact on dogs experiencing pain, and is considered a reasonable, low-risk choice for any dog, according to veterinary behaviourist Dr. Julie Ashton.

Why does my French Bulldog or Pug seem to get "picked on" by other dogs at the park?

Brachycephalic breeds often can't move their facial skin enough to show typical calming or warning signals, which can confuse other dogs and sometimes leads to overreactions or perceived "provoking," even when the flat-faced dog isn't doing anything wrong.

My previously potty-trained dog suddenly started having accidents indoors, what should I do?

Treat it as medical until proven otherwise: rule out urinary tract infections, pain that affects posture (like squatting), or other physical causes with your vet before assuming it's purely behavioural.

Is it normal for my dog to guard a favourite toy like a ball?

Resource guarding often reflects a conflict between wanting to play and fearing the item will be taken away, rather than dominance, and can be addressed by offering other engaging, lower-arousal activities alongside the toy.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

34: If I Got a Puppy Tomorrow, I’d Do THIS Differently

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska Nell reflects on nearly six years with Piper and shares everything she'd set up from day one if she were starting over, from building a consistent daily rhythm to the feeding posture discovery that changed how she thinks about mealtimes entirely. She walks through dental habits, medicine prep (including her go-to cheese ball technique), and why introducing equipment like ramps, shoes, and strollers early, before you actually need them, makes life so much easier down the line.

Our French Bulldog, Piper is almost six. And looking back, there's a list of things Mariska would do differently from day one. In this solo episode, she shares everything, the daily routines, the health habits, the equipment, and the medical prep, that she wishes someone had told her before Piper came home.

Takeaways:

Why a consistent daily rhythm matters more than any individual training technique
The feeding setup most owners miss, and why how your dog eats matters as much as what they eat
Teeth cleaning alternatives when brushing just isn't happening (drops, foam, enzymes)
How to get your dog comfortable taking medicine, the cheese ball method and the decoy trick
Why you should introduce shoes, ramps, and strollers before you ever need them
The midday rest most dog parents skip, and why it changes everything
The non-negotiables Mariska would never go without

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Enzyme tooth gel, dental drops, dental foam that we use or ask your vet or local pet store
Frenchie vs Everybody dental toppers
Episode 32: Why Your Dog Reacts with Mena Lopes
Episode 33: The Hidden Cause of Dog Allergies with Amanda Smith
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Piper's Founders Pack, Elevated Food System) here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Intro + product update

[02:18] Why routine is the foundation (and what causes anxiety in dogs)

[03:20] The morning routine that sets your dog up for success

[06:05] The feeding setup, how Piper’s physio changed everything

[09:35] Dental health, the parent fail and what actually works

[18:45] Getting your dog ready for medicine (before you actually need it)

[25:10] Equipment habituation: shoes, ramps, harnesses, strollers

[30:05] Midday rest, - why your dog might be overtired (not under-stimulated)

[31:55] The afternoon sniff walk (“sniffari”) and why it matters

[34:05] Evening routine and wind-down

[35:50] What I’d never skip (the non-negotiables)

[39:05] Outro

FAQ

Why is my dog's feeding posture important?

Feeding posture affects strain on the neck, shoulders, and joints over thousands of meals across a dog's lifetime, and for brachycephalic breeds especially, bringing the bowl to a more comfortable height can reduce unnecessary physical stress at every meal.

How can I get my dog to take medicine without a fight?

Build up a repertoire of foods your dog loves as "vehicles" for medicine (used only occasionally so they don't become suspicious), give a decoy piece with no medicine first, and consider using a syringe with something pleasant beforehand so it isn't only associated with medical treatment.

What can I do if my dog won't tolerate teeth brushing?

Alternatives include enzyme gels or pastes brushed lightly over the teeth and gums, dental drops added to water, foam or gel products applied directly, and dental chews, alongside regular vet dental cleans, typically starting from around eighteen months of age.

When should I introduce equipment like ramps, shoes, or strollers to my dog?

Introduce equipment early and in low-stakes, positive situations, long before you actually need it for a surgery recovery, extreme heat, or mobility decline, so your dog already has a positive association when it truly matters.

How much rest does my dog actually need?

Adult dogs typically need 12-16 hours of sleep per day, and puppies need even more; skipping deliberate rest time can leave a dog overstimulated, anxious, and harder to settle even after a busy, "successful" day.

What is a "snaffari" and why does it matter?

A snaffari is a slow, sniff-led walk where the dog sets the pace and gets to investigate their environment freely; a 20-minute sniff walk can be more mentally tiring and satisfying for a dog than a longer, faster-paced walk.

How do I build a calming bedtime routine for my dog?

Repeat the exact same sequence every night, the same cues, phrases, and wind-down activities, consistently over weeks or months until your dog associates that sequence with safety and settles on their own.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

33: The Hidden Cause of Dog Allergies Most Owners Miss with Amanda Smith

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Amanda Smith, a functional canine nutritionist with over 20 years in the veterinary field and founder of Canine Gut Solutions, explains why roughly 70-80% of a dog's immune system lives in the gut, meaning itchy skin, ear infections, and even anxiety often trace back to gut health rather than "allergies" alone. She shares simple, practical ways to start improving gut health (swapping a small percentage of kibble for whole foods, rotating proteins) and confirms that elevated bowl height can support neck posture and digestion, calling it especially kind for brachycephalic dogs.

In this episode, we dive into one of the most overlooked root causes of common dog health issues: gut health. From itchy skin to ear infections and low energy, we explore how what goes into your dog’s bowl directly impacts their wellbeing. Joined by functional canine nutritionist Amanda Smith, we unpack simple, realistic ways to start improving your dog’s health without overwhelm.

Guest Bio:

Amanda Smith is a functional canine nutritionist with over 20 years of experience in the veterinary field. After working across multiple roles in clinical practice, she shifted her focus to nutrition and gut health. Today, she helps dog parents identify the root causes of health issues and guides them in transitioning from processed diets to more balanced, whole food approaches.

Takeaways:

The inside-out connection: most issues like itching, behavior changes, and immunity start in the gut
It’s not just “allergies”, signs like licking, stress, and even poop changes can point to gut imbalance
You don’t need to overhaul everything, start by adding simple foods like sardines, eggs, and blueberries
Rotation matters more than perfection when it comes to nutrition
Overfeeding and lack of variety are some of the biggest mistakes dog parents make
Testing can give direction, but your dog’s behavior and stool already tell you a lot
There’s no one-size-fits-all, everything from food ratios to bowl setup should suit your dog

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Canine Gut Solutions: Instagram / Facebook / Website
Animal Biome (gut health testing kit)
Glacier Peak (pet intolerance test)
Dr. Karen Becker & Rodney Habib
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Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] - Intro and product update

[02:28] - Meet Amanda Smith

[03:14] - Amanda’s journey from vet tech to nutritionist

[05:37] - Why dogs need whole, fresh foods

[07:13] - Where to start without feeling overwhelmed

[09:45] - Why gut health is the root of many issues

[11:04] - Gut testing and how it works

[13:44] - Signs your dog has gut imbalance

[15:13] - The “poop police” discussion

[16:15] - Common feeding mistakes

[19:22] - Easy ways to upgrade your dog’s bowl

[22:32] - Keeping it simple and realistic

[25:50] - Bowl height and posture

[30:52] - Preparing for allergy season

[32:51] - What improvements look like

[35:42] - First steps to take today

FAQ

Why does my dog keep getting ear infections or itchy skin even though we've ruled out allergies?

Recurring ear infections and itchy skin are often connected to underlying gut health rather than a true environmental or food allergy, since roughly 70-80% of a dog's immune system is based in the gut.

How can I start improving my dog's gut health without a big diet overhaul?

Start small by swapping about 20% of your dog's kibble for whole foods like sardines, eggs, or blueberries, and focus on rotating proteins and food sources over time rather than aiming for one "perfect" diet.

Can gut health affect my dog's anxiety or behaviour?

Yes, gut health has a connection to a dog's emotional and behavioural state, so persistent anxiety or stress-related behaviours are sometimes linked to underlying gut imbalances.

Does the height of my dog's food bowl really affect digestion?

Yes, feeding at a more neutral neck height can support better posture during eating, which in turn can support digestion, particularly for brachycephalic breeds.

Are brachycephalic dogs like French Bulldogs and Pugs more sensitive to feeding setup?

Yes, because of their compressed airways and neck structure, brachycephalic dogs often benefit even more from an elevated feeding setup that reduces strain during meals.

What are some easy first foods to add to my dog's diet for gut health?

Sardines, eggs, and blueberries are simple, accessible whole-food "toppers" that can be added in small amounts to support gut health without a full diet change.

Is rotating my dog's food better than sticking to one type consistently?

Yes, rotating proteins and whole-food sources supports greater gut microbiome diversity than feeding the exact same diet indefinitely.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

32: Why Your Dog Reacts (And What It’s Trying to Tell You) with Mena Lopes

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Mena Lopes, founder of Ginger's Way, a Dubai-based dog trainer and behaviourist, conservation biology graduate, and creator of Leash Explorer UAE, explains why reactivity in dogs is never a "bad dog" problem. It's communication rooted in fear, stress, or past trauma, and it's neither the dog's fault nor the owner's. She breaks down why you cannot "reward" a fearful dog by comforting them (it builds trust rather than reinforcing fear), why management and true behaviour-change training are two very different things, and how to read subtle calming signals like a dismissive lick, whale eyes, and ear position before a reaction escalates.

Have you ever felt your stomach tighten the moment another dog appears on a walk? This episode is for you.

We sat down with dog behaviorist Mena Lopes to talk about reactivity, what it actually is, why it happens, and why it’s so often misunderstood. What we kept coming back to is this: it’s not about having a “bad dog.” It’s about understanding what’s going on underneath the behavior.

We also get into potty training, regression (because yes, that happens), and how to stay kind to yourself on the harder days, the ones where nothing seems to be working.

Guest Bio:

Mena Lopes is a dog trainer and behaviorist, and the founder of Ginger’s Way in Dubai. Originally trained in conservation biology, her work today focuses on helping dogs and their humans navigate things like reactivity, anxiety, and everyday challenges, in a way that feels practical, supportive, and realistic.

Takeaways:

Reactivity isn’t random, it’s often rooted in fear, stress, or uncertainty
Your dog isn’t doing it on purpose (even when it feels like it)
Progress takes time, much longer than most people expect
Understanding your dog changes how you respond
Small signals matter more than the big reactions
Potty training isn’t linear (and regression is part of it)
You can work on behavior while still accepting your dog as they are
Not every dog needs to be social, and that’s okay
“Good behavior” often goes unnoticed (until it changes)
Management and training are two different things, and both matter
Sometimes the biggest shift is helping the human feel less like they’ve failed
Context matters, behavior isn’t one-size-fits-all
You don’t need a perfect dog, just a better understanding of your own

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Ginger's Way: Instagram / Facebook / Website
Leash Explorer: Instagram / Website
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Piper's Founders Pack - Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:22] – Mena’s story + how Ginger changed everything

[05:06] – What people misunderstand about dog behavior

[06:25] – What reactivity actually looks like day-to-day

[07:41] – Where to start with a reactive dog

[09:14] – Why we often need to train the human first

[12:26] – How reactivity becomes a pattern

[13:03] – When behavior changes later on (and what to do)

[16:01] – The myth around “rewarding bad behavior”

[17:55] – Can reactivity really be fixed?

[22:29] – The subtle signs we often miss

[27:02] – The idea behind Leash Explorer

[30:46] – Potty training expectations vs reality

[35:08] – Why accidents happen (even later on)

[37:33] – What training looks like on hard days

[38:28] – Stories that stay with you

Notes

Pipers Founders Pack: Mention it is the first 100 but we extended it to the first 150 people.

FAQ

Why does my dog react so strongly to other dogs or people?

Reactive behaviour is almost always rooted in fear, stress, or past experience rather than aggression for its own sake, and it develops from a combination of genetics, environment, and history rather than anything the owner did wrong.

Am I making my dog's fear worse by comforting them?

No, comforting a frightened or reactive dog builds trust and security rather than rewarding or reinforcing the fear, contrary to a common misconception about "rewarding bad behaviour."

What's the difference between managing a reactive dog and training a reactive dog?

Management involves short-term strategies like avoiding triggers or using physical barriers to prevent a reaction from happening, while training is the longer-term work of actually changing how the dog feels about the trigger.

How long does it take to fix reactivity in a dog?

Real, lasting behaviour change in a reactive dog typically takes years rather than weeks, so it's important to set realistic expectations from the start.

What are calming signals in dogs?

Calming signals are subtle body language cues, like a quick dismissive lick, "whale eyes" showing the whites of the eyes, or changes in ear position, that dogs use to communicate stress or discomfort before a reaction escalates.

Is my dog being reactive on purpose to embarrass me or misbehave?

No, reactive dogs are not choosing to react out of spite; the behaviour comes from an involuntary fear or stress response, not a deliberate choice.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

31: Senior Dog Care & When Is It Time? Navigating Dog Dementia and Pet Loss With Adam Greenbaum

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love, Baxter (the world's largest pet end-of-life resource) and previously founder of WhiskerCloud, shares what he learned after losing his dog Baxter suddenly, and how that grief led him to build a platform helping pet parents plan for end-of-life care instead of avoiding it. He explains why tracking "good days vs. bad days" grounds hard decisions, why you never have to agree to euthanasia in the moment even if a vet suggests it, why consistent routines comfort senior pets, and what to say (and never say) to someone grieving a pet.

Caring for our pets as they grow older asks something deeper of us, more noticing, more patience, and sometimes the courage to begin preparing for goodbye. In this heartfelt conversation, Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love, Baxter, shares his personal journey through losing his beloved dog Baxter and caring for his 16-year-old Boston Terrier, Sophie, who is living with dementia. Together, we explore anticipatory grief, senior pet care, making end-of-life decisions with clarity, and how to support someone grieving the loss of a pet. This episode is a gentle reminder that loving well includes planning well, and that no pet parent has to walk that road alone.

Guest Bio:

Adam Greenbaum is the founder of Love, Baxter, the world’s largest pet end-of-life resource and professional directory, created in honor of his late dog Baxter. He previously founded WhiskerCloud, a veterinary technology company that supported over 10,000 veterinary clinics globally before being acquired by PetDesk. Today, Adam partners with veterinary teams and human hospice professionals to remove friction for families, provide practical tools, and raise the standard of care from the first hard conversation through aftercare. He lives in Newport Beach, California with his wife Elizabeth, their senior Boston Terrier Sophie, one-year-old Boston Terrier Cosmo, and their cat Nala.

Takeaways:

Preparing for end-of-life care does not make it happen sooner, it creates clarity when it matters most.
Tracking “good days vs. bad days” can help pet parents make grounded, compassionate decisions.
You do not have to agree to euthanasia immediately if your pet is stable, you can pause and reflect.
There is no timeline for grief, and pet loss is not “less than” any other form of loss.
The most helpful thing you can say to someone grieving a pet is simple: I’m here. Tell me about them.
Routines and consistent systems (like feeding and walk schedules) can provide comfort for senior pets.
Take more photos and videos, not out of fear, but out of gratitude.
Loving our pets fully means honoring both the joyful seasons and the difficult ones.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Love, Baxter: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / YouTube/ Website
Senior pet planning quality of life
Connect with Adam Greenbaum on LinkedIn
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / YouTube / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Intro Caring for our pets as they grow older

[02:14] Welcome Adam Greenbaum

[02:52] Adam introduces himself, Sophie, Cosmo, Nala & WhiskerCloud

[04:18] The loss of Baxter & why Love, Baxter was created

[06:56] Insurance, access to care & the chaos at end-of-life

[08:12] What people are actually searching for in crisis moments

[10:20] Senior dogs, dementia & what we don’t talk about enough

[12:49] Planning ahead, red lines & tracking good vs. bad days

[14:07] You don’t have to euthanize immediately

[16:40] Adapting care as dogs age, feeding, routines & daily life

[20:30] The power of consistent systems for senior pets

[22:19] What to say and not say after someone loses a pet

[25:09] “It was just a pet” navigating minimization & grief

[29:08] There is no timeline for grief

[31:24] Preserving memories, photos, rituals & honoring their life

[32:18] Why we replay the final days

[35:24] Small rituals that help during grief

[37:09] How loving our pets changes how we move through the world

[39:17] What Adam hopes grieving pet parents feel

[41:15] What makes a founder build something that truly matters

[42:22] Closing reflections

FAQ

How do I know when it's time to euthanize my pet?

There's no single rule, but tracking your pet's "good days vs. bad days" over time, using a simple template to record eating, mobility, and mood, helps ground the decision in real patterns rather than panic in the moment.

Do I have to agree to euthanasia the moment my vet suggests it?

No, unless it's a genuine emergency, you're allowed to take your pet home, think it through, and make the decision on your own timeline rather than deciding immediately in the vet's office.

What should I say to someone whose pet has died?

Say their pet's name, share a specific memory if you have one, and offer to simply be present, avoid phrases like "you can get another dog" or "at least they lived a long life," which minimise the loss.

Why does losing a pet feel as painful as losing a family member?

For many pet parents, a pet is genuinely part of the family, and the loss deserves the same legitimacy and grieving process as any other close relationship, without needing to be compared or ranked.

How can I care for a senior dog with dementia?

Consistent daily routines, fixed feeding times, walk times, and familiar cues, help ground a dog through cognitive decline, alongside monitoring their eating, mobility, and overall comfort day to day.

What can I do to prepare for my pet's eventual passing?

You can pre-plan with an in-home euthanasia vet or cremation facility before you ever need them, decide on your "red lines" in advance, and keep a running record of your pet's good and bad days.

Is there a normal amount of time to grieve a pet?

There is no fixed timeline for grieving a pet, some people grieve for years, and that's a normal reflection of a meaningful bond, not something that needs to be rushed or minimised.

What are some ways to process grief after losing a pet?

Helpful rituals include writing your pet a letter, going through old photos and videos, listening to songs that hold meaning, and allowing yourself to notice small, comforting "signs" without judgment.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

30: How to Run With Your Dog: Distances, Gear & Ultra Training with Meghan Gould of She Runs Ultras

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Ultrarunning coach Meghan Gould, founder of She Runs Ultras, shares how to safely and joyfully run with your dog, from building distance gradually to reading their cues over chasing mileage targets. She covers breed considerations, gear essentials like harnesses versus collars, heat and hydration rules, and her "daily shakedown" mobility practice, while making the case that flexibility and consistency beat rigid perfection, both in ultramarathon training and in everyday life with a dog.

In this episode, Mariska and ultra running coach Meghan Gould discuss the intricacies of sharing an active lifestyle with dogs. They explore the balance between training for ultra marathons and caring for dogs, the importance of choosing the right breed for running, and the essential gear needed for safe and enjoyable runs. Meghan shares her personal journey into ultra running, the lessons learned from training with dogs, and the significance of flexibility and consistency in achieving running goals. The conversation emphasizes the joy of running with dogs and the importance of making it a fun experience for both.

Guest Bio:

Meghan Gould is an ultrarunning coach and the founder of She Runs Ultras, a podcast and online coaching community that supports women, especially those in midlife, as they train for their first or farthest ultramarathon in a way that actually fits real life.

Meghan has run distances from 50K to 200 miles, giving her firsthand experience with the physical, mental, and logistical demands of ultra running. Through coaching, community, and honest conversations about what training really requires, she helps runners stop second-guessing themselves, build confidence, and make smarter decisions, so they can cross the finish line feeling strong, healthy, and proud.

Takeaways:

Running with your dog is about reading their cues, not hitting mileage targets. Distraction, panting, and soreness matter more than the number on your watch.
Gradual build-up protects joints, especially in young dogs still developing, start with short walk-run intervals and build slowly over weeks and months.
Not every breed is a running partner. High-energy breeds like Australian Shepherds need serious exercise commitment, while brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs are better suited to shorter distances or stroller support.
A proper harness matters more than any other gear. It reduces strain on your dog's neck compared to a collar, and pairing it with a sturdy long lead gives dogs room to explore while keeping you in control.
Heat is a hard limit, not a guideline. Meghan won't run her dog once temperatures climb into the 70s Fahrenheit (low-to-mid 20s Celsius), and always carries extra water.
Flexibility beats rigid perfection in both running and dog training, plan for your schedule to be knocked off track, and build in buffer time rather than treating deviations as failure.
The Daily Shakedown is a low-cost recovery tool. A 5-10 minute head-to-toe mobility practice, done any time of day, can prevent the kind of chronic pain that comes from ignoring small issues.
Training a dog to run takes longer than people expect. Distractions, smells, and other dogs mean early "runs" are really training sessions that happen to include some running.
Chasing the process, not the medal, builds more lasting motivation, especially for first-time ultra or marathon runners navigating setbacks like injury or life circumstances.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Meghan Gould, She Runs Ultra's, Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok, YouTube, Podcast
Daily Shakedown
Episode 29: Your Dog Isn’t “Just Getting Older.” This Is What’s Actually Happening with Dr. Laurie McCauley
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Some dog breeds that might be great if you need a training buddy:

Border Collie

Typical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12 miles

Efficient movers; mental engagement required.

Vizsla

Typical: 5–9 miles, Upper: 10–12 miles

Smooth stride, thrives on steady pacing.

Rhodesian Ridgeback

Typical: 4–8 miles, Upper: 10 miles

Steady, heat tolerant, large-frame considerations.

German Shorthaired Pointer

Typical: 6–12 miles, Upper: 15 miles

Built for endurance; needs humans to enforce limits.

Dalmatian

Typical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12 miles

Historically bred to run long distances.

Belgian Sheepdog

Typical: 5–9 miles, Upper: 10–12 miles

High-drive, mentally intense endurance dogs.

Weimaraner

Typical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12–14 miles

Strong aerobic engine; benefits from structure.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[00:00]- How to Share an Active Life With Your Dog Safely

[02:16]- Introducing Meghan Gould of She Runs Ultras

[03:00]- What Is an Ultramarathon

[03:39]- How Meghan Got Into Running

[05:05]- Discovering Trail Running and Ultras

[06:00]- Balancing Ultra Training and Dog Mom Life

[07:23]- What Ultra Training Actually Looks Like Behind the Scenes

[08:52]- How Wyatt Started Running With Meghan

[10:32]- Why Some Breeds Aren’t Built for Distance Running

[12:39]- Choosing the Right Dog Breed for Your Lifestyle

[14:24]- How Far Can Dogs Really Run

[14:56]- Appropriate Distances for Running With a Dog

[17:15]- Why Gradual Build Up Is Critical for Dogs

[18:11]- Essential Gear for Running With Your Dog

[21:38]- Heat, Hydration and Safety Rules for Dogs

[25:24]- What Meghan Wishes She Knew Earlier About Running With Dogs

[27:55]- Flexibility vs Perfection in Ultra Training

[32:37]- Staying Connected to Big Running Goals Without Pressure

[35:31]- What Is the Daily Shakedown

[39:15]- The Biggest Advice for Running Safely With Your Dog

[40:46]- Upcoming Ultra Races and Travel Plans

FAQ

What distance is safe to run with my dog?

Safe running distance depends heavily on breed, age, and fitness, some dogs top out around 5-6 miles before losing focus or getting tired, while athletic breeds like Vizslas or Rhodesian Ridgebacks can comfortably handle 10-12 miles, so build up gradually and watch your dog's cues rather than following a fixed number.

What's the best gear for running with a dog?

A well-fitted harness (rather than a collar) paired with either a sturdy long lead or a fixed six-foot leash gives your dog room to move while protecting their neck and giving you control.

How do I know if it's too hot to run with my dog?

If temperatures climb into the 70s Fahrenheit (low-to-mid 20s Celsius) or your dog shows open-mouth, long-tongue panting, it's time to walk instead of run, seek shade, or head home.

Can any dog breed run long distances?

No, breeds like Vizslas and Rhodesian Ridgebacks are naturally suited to longer distances, while brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs or dogs with health conditions are better suited to shorter distances, stroller-assisted outings, or walks instead.

How do I start training my dog to run with me?

Begin with regular walks, then introduce short bursts of easy jogging, gradually increasing distance based on how interested and how tired your dog seems afterward, rather than following a fixed schedule.

What is the Daily Shakedown?

It's a 5-10 minute movement practice combining yoga-style stretches and joint mobility work, done head to toe, that can be used to wake up and prime the body before a run or wind down before bed.

Should I stretch my dog before or after exercise?

Dogs often self-stretch instinctively (similar to a "down dog" pose) when given the chance, and gentle movement or stretching around exercise can support recovery, though there's no single required routine.

How do I stay motivated training for a big goal like an ultra or marathon?

Focus on enjoying the process of training itself rather than fixating solely on race day, and remember that delays or setbacks from injury or life circumstances aren't failures, they're part of a longer journey.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

29: Your Dog Isn’t “Just Getting Older.” This Is What’s Actually Happening with Dr. Laurie McCauley

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode, host Mariska Nell sits down with Dr. Laurie McCauley, a pioneer in veterinary rehabilitation, to explore what's really happening when dogs start slowing down. Together, they unpack why stiffness and changes in movement aren't always "just age," and how fascia, trigger points, posture, nutrition, and everyday habits quietly shape a dog's long-term comfort and mobility. Dr. Laurie shares practical, empowering insights for pet parents, from simple movement and stretching exercises, to weight management, joint supplements, laser therapy, and how feeding posture, including elevated eating setups for certain dogs, can reduce strain on the neck, spine, and joints during daily meals. This thoughtful conversation encourages pet parents to notice sooner, support intentionally, and rethink what's possible when movement truly becomes medicine, helping dogs live not just longer lives, but happier, more comfortable ones.

Guest Bio:

Dr. Laurie McCauley is a pioneer in veterinary rehabilitation with a lifelong passion for helping dogs move better, feel better, and live fuller lives. After graduating from Colorado State University’s School of Veterinary Medicine, she opened the first veterinary rehabilitation clinic in the U.S. and designed the first underwater treadmill for dogs, long before the field had a formal name. Board certified in canine sports medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Laurie is the founder of Optimum Pet Vitality and has spent decades educating both professionals and pet parents on how movement, awareness, and thoughtful support can transform a dog’s quality of life.

During This Episode:

Dr. Laurie McCauley's path into veterinary rehabilitation, from opening the first rehab clinic in the US to designing the first underwater treadmill for dogs
Why rehab matters more than most pet parents realise
Aging versus discomfort: the early signs dog parents often miss
Piper's own story with laser therapy, joint supplements, and getting her zoomies back
Longevity, exercise, and why movement truly is medicine
What fascia is and why it's so important to a dog's comfort and mobility
How fascia connects to immunity, and why "sticky" tissue causes problems over time
How movement, stretching, and breathing support healthy fascia
Doggy yoga and cookie stretches explained, and how often to do them
A live demo of core strength, balance, and ball exercises
When to start mobility work, from puppies to seniors
What trigger points are and why they matter, plus a live demo of finding and releasing one
Breathing and movement techniques to release tension, and the vagus nerve's role in calming a dog
Why trigger points often persist after injury or surgery
Tuning forks, vibration therapy, and fascial release explained
What laser therapy actually does in the body, with a live demo of lasering a knee properly
Why positioning matters for cartilage, ligaments, and arthritis prevention
How often to use laser therapy for acute versus chronic issues, and at-home versus clinic options
Why this isn't just a senior-dog issue, and the arthritis stats every pet parent should know
When to start supplements, exercise, and prevention, and why weight matters so much
Simple range-of-motion checks every dog parent can do at home
Body condition scores and keeping dogs lean
Why how dogs eat matters, and when elevated bowls help versus when they don't
Neck, spine, and pain-free eating, including Piper's own feeding changes and picky eating
Where to safely start supporting mobility at home, including the Core and More program
Touch, awareness, and learning what's "normal" for your own dog
The one thing every pet parent should pay attention to: daily living functions like stairs, jumping, and greeting you
What changes when dogs start feeling better
Final movement reminders and a free resource for geriatric dog exercises
Tuning forks explained in more depth, including amethyst, lapis, and other frequencies
Why fascial tools can be so powerful, and final thoughts on not waiting for something to be "wrong"

Takeaways:

Aging is not a disease. Slowing down is often a sign of discomfort, not "just age."
Subtle changes appear long before pain becomes obvious. Shifts in movement, posture, or behavior are usually the first clue, well before a dog looks visibly unwell.
Early awareness and proactive support pay off. Noticing sooner and acting early can significantly improve a dog's long-term comfort and mobility.
Fascia plays a critical role in movement, flexibility, pain perception, and recovery. It's the connective tissue running through the whole body, and it matters far more than most pet parents realize.
Fascial restriction and trigger points can quietly alter posture and movement over time, often without an obvious single cause.
Trigger points often persist after injury or surgery due to compensation, even when healing appears complete on the surface.
Movement truly is medicine. Regular, appropriate exercise supports joints, muscles, and overall well-being.
Controlled strengthening and stretching are just as important as walks or free play, not an optional extra.
Consistency in daily habits matters more than occasional big interventions. Small, regular movement and stretching add up more than an occasional intensive session.
Weight management has a major impact on joint health, inflammation, and longevity. Keeping a dog lean is one of the single biggest levers for a longer, more comfortable life.
Nutrition and joint supplements can support mobility when used thoughtfully as part of a broader care approach, not as a standalone fix.
Tools like laser therapy can help reduce inflammation, support healing, and improve comfort, whether used at home or in a clinic setting.
Feeding posture matters. How a dog eats can influence strain on the neck, spine, and joints, meal after meal.
Elevated feeding setups may benefit dogs with neck pain, arthritis, spinal issues, or mobility challenges, but should always be individualized to the dog.
Empowered, observant pet parents play one of the most important roles in supporting their dog's quality of life over the long term.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Dr Laurie McCauley, Optimum Pet Vitality, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube
Top 5 Exercises for Geriatric Dogs (Free eBook)
Core & More: Foundational Exercises for Your Dog
At Home! Laser Therapy for Pet Parents
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[02:55]- Meet Dr. Laurie McCauley & Her Path into Veterinary Rehabilitation

[05:14]- Why Rehab Matters More Than We Realize

[06:18]- Aging vs. Discomfort: Early Signs Dog Parents Often Miss

[08:34]- Piper’s Story: Laser Therapy, Joint Supplements & Zoomies

[10:21]- Longevity, Exercise & Why Movement Is Medicine

[10:58]- What Fascia Is and Why It’s So Important

[12:45]- Fascia, Immunity & Why “Sticky” Tissue Causes Problems

[13:57]- How Movement, Stretching & Breathing Support Fascia

[14:55]- Doggy Yoga & Cookie Stretches Explained

[15:15]- How Often to Stretch: Daily vs. Throughout the Day

[16:27]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Core Strength, Balance & Ball Exercises

[17:10]- When to Start Mobility Work (Puppies to Seniors)

[19:26]- What Trigger Points Are and Why They Matter

[20:22]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Finding & Releasing a Trigger Point

[20:58]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Breathing & Movement to Release Tension

[21:30]- Breathing, the Vagus Nerve & Calming Your Dog

[23:00]- Why Trigger Points Persist After Injury or Surgery

[23:36]- Tuning Forks, Vibration Therapy & Fascial Release

[25:34]- Laser Therapy: What It Actually Does in the Body

[26:15]- Dr. Laurie Demo: How to Laser a Knee Properly

[27:40]- Positioning Matters: Cartilage, Ligaments & Arthritis Prevention

[28:41]- How Often to Use Laser (Acute vs. Chronic Issues)

[30:20]- At-Home Lasers vs. Clinic Visits

[31:45]- Why This Is NOT Just a Senior-Dog Issue

[32:17]- Arthritis Stats: 20% by Age 1, 80% by Age 7

[32:55]- When to Start Supplements, Exercise & Prevention

[33:12]- Exercise, Obesity & Why Weight Matters So Much

[33:56]- Range-of-Motion Checks Every Dog Parent Can Do

[35:31]- Body Condition Scores & Keeping Dogs Lean

[38:10]- Why How Dogs Eat Matters

[38:29]- Elevated Bowls: When They Help & When They Don’t

[39:57]- Neck, Spine & Pain-Free Eating

[40:52]- Piper’s Feeding Changes & Picky Eating

[41:02]- Where to Safely Start Supporting Mobility at Home

[41:26]- Core & More Program & Simple At-Home Exercises

[42:10]- Touch, Awareness & Knowing What’s “Normal”

[43:23]- The One Thing Pet Parents Should Pay Attention To

[43:34]- Daily Living Functions: Stairs, Jumping & Greeting You

[45:28]- What Changes When Dogs Start Feeling Better

[46:08]- Final Movement Reminders

[47:06]- Free Resource: Top 5 Exercises for Geriatric Dogs

[48:29]- Tuning Forks Explained (Amethyst, Lapis & More)

[52:52]- Why Fascial Tools Can Be So Powerful

[53:13]- Final Thoughts & Gratitude

[53:48]- Outro: Not Waiting for Something to Be “Wrong”

FAQ

Why does my older dog seem to be slowing down?

A slowing-down dog is usually showing signs of discomfort rather than simply "getting old," and early signs like hesitating on stairs or not jumping onto furniture are worth investigating with a vet or rehab specialist.

What is fascia and why does it matter for my dog?

Fascia is the connective tissue that runs through and links the whole body, playing a critical role in movement, flexibility, pain perception, and recovery, and when it becomes restricted, it can quietly affect posture and comfort over time.

How common is arthritis in dogs?

Arthritis is far more common than most people realise. Around 20% of dogs already have it by age one, rising to about 80% of dogs by age seven, which is why this isn't just a senior-dog issue.

Should I use an elevated bowl for my dog?

Elevated feeding setups may benefit dogs with neck pain, arthritis, spinal issues, or mobility challenges, but the right choice should always be individualized to your dog's specific needs rather than applied as a blanket rule.

How can I tell if my dog has a trigger point?

Trigger points are areas of fascial restriction that can be found and gently released through touch, combined with breathing and movement techniques, similar to how a tight knot feels in a human muscle.

Does keeping my dog lean really extend their life?

Yes, weight management has a major impact on joint health, inflammation, and longevity, making it one of the most effective things a pet parent can control day to day.

What age should I start exercise or mobility work with my dog?

Mobility work and controlled strengthening exercises are appropriate at every life stage, from puppies through to senior dogs, as long as they're matched to the individual dog's condition and ability.

Can laser therapy really help my dog's joints?

Yes, laser therapy can help reduce inflammation, support healing, and improve comfort, and can be used both in a clinic setting and, with the right guidance, safely at home.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

28: Your Dog Isn’t “Bad”, They’re Overwhelmed (A Dog Trainer Explains Why) with Phoebe Peppiatt from Double Woof Dog Training

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this thoughtful and engaging conversation, Phoebe Peppiatt, a Dubai-based dog trainer, shares her journey from corporate life to ethical, relationship-led dog training. Together with Mariska, she explores why reactivity is so common, especially in busy urban environments like the UAE, and how confidence, early socialisation, and environment shape behaviour over time. They discuss practical, compassionate approaches to common challenges such as separation anxiety, potty training, and overstimulation, while also highlighting the importance of daily routines, feeding setups, and learning to read canine body language. The episode closes with an important reminder: caring for yourself as a pet parent is not optional, it's part of caring well for your dog.

Guest Bio:

Phoebe Peppiatt is a Dubai-based dog trainer and the founder of Double Woof Dog Training. Originally from the UK, Phoebe has spent over a decade in the Middle East and more than five years working professionally with dogs and their humans around the world. Her approach is rooted in positive, ethical, and judgment-free training, with a strong focus on confidence, communication, and understanding behaviour beneath the surface. Having fostered many rescue dogs herself, Phoebe is deeply passionate about helping dogs stay out of shelters by supporting the human–dog relationship before challenges escalate.

During This Episode:

Phoebe's journey from corporate life to founding Double Woof Dog Training
Why lived experience with fostering shaped her training approach as much as any qualification
Why reactivity is so common in busy urban environments like the UAE
What Phoebe looks for beneath the surface of a reactive dog's behaviour
How to create a calmer home environment that supports emotional regulation
A practical, step-by-step approach to building confidence in reactive dogs
Why early socialisation matters so much, and what the UAE context adds to that conversation
Compassion for pet parents themselves, not just their dogs, under pressure and guilt
The quiet signs that a dog's confidence is actually growing
A gradual, trust-building approach to separation anxiety in apartment living
Using enrichment and buttons to manage overstimulation
Common misunderstandings between humans and dogs, and how to read canine body language
Why humans usually need to change their behaviour first, not the dog
How daily routines support a dog's emotional regulation
Why feeding setup, posture, and comfort matter more than most pet parents realise
A compassionate, consistency-first approach to potty training for puppies and adopted dogs
Final reflections on why self-care is part of caring well for your dog

Takeaways:

Patience and empathy are foundational to effective dog training. Phoebe's whole approach centers on understanding a dog's inner experience before addressing the behaviour itself.
Dogs communicate stress and unmet needs through behaviour, not misbehaviour. What looks like disobedience is usually a signal, not defiance.
A calm, low-stimulation environment supports emotional regulation. Household fragrances, noise, and visual stimulation can quietly raise a dog's baseline stress before they even leave the house.
Early socialisation plays a key role in building confidence, and matters even more in a busy, urban environment like the UAE.
Daily routines help dogs feel safe and settled. Predictability itself is a form of comfort and confidence-building.
Separation anxiety improves through gradual trust-building, not force. Start with very short absences and build up slowly as trust grows.
Feeding setups and environment can affect comfort and stress. Bowl height, stability, and posture during meals are part of a dog's overall sense of safety.
Potty training succeeds with consistency, not punishment. Accidents are almost always about fear of being scolded, not spite.
Many challenges stem from misunderstandings between humans and dogs. Learning to read canine body language changes how owners respond, often before the dog needs to change at all.
Supporting your own wellbeing helps you show up better for your dog. Self-care isn't separate from good dog care, it's part of it.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Double Woof Website, Facebook, Instagram and TikTok
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[03:05] – Phoebe’s journey into dog training

[06:10] – Ethical training and lived experience vs qualifications

[09:26] – Reactivity: what sits beneath the behaviour

[11:40] – Creating a calmer home environment

[14:41] – Building confidence in reactive dogs

[18:04] – Early socialisation and the UAE context

[21:46] – Compassion, pressure, and empathy for dog parents

[22:57] – Quiet signs a dog is gaining confidence

[24:47] – Separation anxiety in apartment living

[28:45] – Buttons, enrichment, and managing overstimulation

[36:53] – Misunderstandings and canine body language

[39:10] – Why humans change first

[40:16] – Daily routines and emotional regulation

[43:10] – Feeding setup, posture, and comfort

[45:40] – Potty training for puppies and adopted dogs

[49:06] – Final reflections on self-care

[50:51] – Outro

FAQ

Why does my dog react so strongly to other dogs, noises, or people?

Reactivity is almost always a fear or confidence-based response rather than aggression or dominance, and it's shaped by the dog's environment, past experiences, and how safe they feel in the moment, which is especially common in busy urban environments.

Is my dog being spiteful when they have potty accidents in the house?

No. Dogs that have accidents indoors are usually anxious about being scolded, not being deliberately defiant, and consistency rather than punishment is what actually resolves potty training struggles.

How do I help my dog with separation anxiety?

Start by reducing the time your dog spends alone, then very gradually build up the length of absences so your dog learns, through gradual trust-building rather than force, that you always come back.

Does my dog's feeding setup actually matter for their stress levels?

Yes. Feeding posture, bowl height, and the overall setup can affect a dog's comfort and stability, and are worth paying attention to as part of their daily routine.

At what age should I start socialising my puppy?

Early socialisation plays a key role in building confidence, and it matters even more in busy environments like the UAE, though gradual, calm exposure still helps dogs who missed that early window.

How do I know if my dog is gaining confidence?

Watch for the quiet signs Phoebe describes, like calmer behaviour, easier recovery from novelty, and more settled body language day to day, not just the absence of obvious reactivity.

How can I take care of myself while managing a reactive or anxious dog?

Supporting your own wellbeing, whether that's rest, support from others, or simply lowering your own expectations during a hard training period, is part of caring well for your dog, not a distraction from it.

How do I balance my dog's needs with daily life in a busy environment?

Focus on calm, low-stimulation routines at home, gradual confidence-building outside, and consistent daily structure, since these all work together to help a dog feel safe rather than overwhelmed.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

27: Dog Feeding Posture Explained: Elevated Bowls, Brachycephalic Dogs & What Vets Really Say

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Feeding posture is something most of us never question, yet it's something our dogs do every single day. In this solo episode, Mariska explores the often-overlooked role of feeding posture in canine health, and why elevated bowls can be supportive for some dogs but harmful for others. Drawing on veterinary literature, canine physiotherapy guidance, and her lived experience with Piper (whose own physio unexpectedly asked about her feeding setup), Mariska breaks down how feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders, and spine, why brachycephalic dogs like French Bulldogs and Pugs often struggle more, what the research really says about elevated bowls and bloat (GDV), subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often miss, and how to think about feeding as a system, not just a bowl. This episode isn't blanket advice, and it's not about telling you what to buy. It's about helping you notice what your dog's body might be asking for.

During This Episode:

Why no one really talks about dog feeding posture, even though it happens every single day
An important disclaimer up front: this episode is not blanket advice that every dog should use an elevated bowl
The unexpected question from Piper's physio that started this whole investigation: "What does Piper's feeding setup look like?"
How Piper's shoulder and neck stiffness led to physio sessions and the realization that her food bowl (not just her water bowl) mattered
Why feeding from a flat, floor-level bowl requires repeated neck flexion and a forward weight shift, especially taxing for small dogs with a large head-to-body ratio
Which dogs are most likely to benefit from posture-supportive feeding: brachycephalic breeds (Frenchies, Pugs, Bostons), senior dogs, dogs with arthritis, and dogs with or at risk of IVDD
Subtle signs of neck and shoulder stiffness pet parents often miss, including neck folds in healthy-weight dogs
Why treating stiffness is never just one solution: it usually requires a combination of vet or physio-guided approaches (acupuncture, laser therapy, water treadmill, targeted core-strengthening exercises)
What the research really says about elevated bowls and bloat (GDV): the increased risk is specifically documented in large, deep-chested breeds, not universally across all dogs
Why dogs who gulp their food fast may need a slow feeder rather than an elevated bowl, since eating pace matters more than height in that case
For the right dogs, posture-adjusted feeding can reduce air gulping, improve swallowing comfort, and reduce regurgitation and aspiration-related issues
Why brachycephalic dogs are different: altered airway anatomy and swallowing mechanics mean breathing and digestion are closely linked
What "elevated" actually means: the ideal feeding height brings the bowl to roughly shoulder/lower-chest height for a neutral neck position, not simply "as tall as possible"
Why canine physios typically start with simple, everyday systems (sleeping surface, harness fit, flooring, stairs, and feeding posture) before recommending dramatic interventions
Reframing feeding as a system, not just a product, considering surface, height, pace, and the dog's individual needs together
Why the search for the right feeding setup for Piper (who struggles to eat from a standard bowl) led directly to Tails and Tones developing its own elevated feeding system

Takeaways:

Feeding posture is crucial for a dog's health, even though it's a daily habit almost no one thinks to question.
Not all dogs should use elevated bowls; individual needs vary. This episode is intentionally not blanket advice, since size, structure, breed, and health history all matter.
Feeding setups can impact a dog's comfort and wellbeing, since repeated neck-down posture multiple times a day can add up to real strain over time.
Signs of discomfort in dogs can be subtle but important to notice, including neck folds, stiffness after rest, or hesitance to bend down.
Brachycephalic dogs are particularly at risk for feeding-related issues, since their altered airway and swallowing anatomy closely link breathing and digestion.
Elevated bowls can help with posture but are not a one-size-fits-all solution. Research on bloat (GDV) risk applies specifically to large, deep-chested breeds, not universally.
Daily feeding habits can shape a dog's body over time. A single awkward movement doesn't matter much, but repeated strain multiple times a day, every day, can.
Consulting with a vet or canine physio is essential for tailored advice, since the right feeding height and setup depends on your individual dog's shoulder height, breed, and health history.
Creating a supportive feeding environment can improve a dog's quality of life, particularly for brachycephalic, senior, arthritic, or IVDD-prone dogs.
Pet parents should be proactive in addressing their dog's feeding needs by noticing what feeding actually looks like for their dog, rather than assuming a bowl is just a bowl.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Why no one talks about dog feeding posture

[01:05]- Important context: this isn’t advice for every dog

[03:20]- Piper’s physio moment & the unexpected question

[06:10]- Why feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders & spine

[09:20]- The emotional impact of chronic discomfort in dogs

[10:45]- Subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often miss

[13:40]- Treating stiffness: why it’s never just one solution

[15:10]- Elevated bowls, digestion & GDV, a balanced view

[17:55]- Why brachycephalic dogs are different

[19:30]- What “elevated” actually means (ideal feeding height)

[21:25]- Why physios start with everyday systems like feeding

[22:45]- Rethinking feeding: systems, not products

[23:30]- Final reflections, waitlist & how to follow along

FAQ

Should all dogs use elevated bowls?

No. Elevated bowls are not universal advice; they tend to benefit brachycephalic breeds, senior dogs, and dogs with arthritis or IVDD, but may not be appropriate for large, deep-chested breeds prone to bloat (GDV) or fast eaters who gulp their food.

Do elevated bowls cause or prevent bloat in dogs?

The research on elevated bowls and bloat (GDV) primarily applies to large, deep-chested breeds like Great Danes and Weimaraners, showing an increased risk profile in those specific dogs. It is not established as a universal risk or benefit across all breeds.

Why are brachycephalic dogs more affected by feeding posture?

Brachycephalic dogs like French Bulldogs and Pugs have altered airway anatomy and swallowing mechanisms, meaning breathing and digestion are closely linked, so even small changes in head and neck posture during feeding can affect how comfortably and safely they eat.

What is the ideal height for an elevated dog bowl?

The ideal height brings the bowl to roughly your dog's shoulder or lower chest level so their neck stays in a neutral position while eating, rather than raising the bowl as high as possible. The right height varies by individual dog size and structure.

What are subtle signs that my dog might have neck or shoulder stiffness?

Subtle signs include neck folds in a healthy-weight dog, stiffness or hesitance after resting, reluctance to bend down, or noticeable discomfort during everyday movements like eating. None of these are a diagnosis on their own, but they're worth mentioning to your vet.

Can an elevated bowl alone fix my dog's stiffness or discomfort?

No. An elevated bowl can help support posture, but treating stiffness usually requires a combination of approaches, such as vet or physio-guided therapies, targeted core-strengthening exercises, and appropriate feeding posture together.

What should I do if my dog eats too fast?

If your dog gulps their food quickly, a slow feeder designed to reduce eating pace is generally more important than changing the bowl's height, since eating speed plays a bigger role in digestive comfort than posture in these cases.

How do I know if my dog would benefit from a posture-adjusted feeding setup?

Consult your vet or a canine physiotherapist, who can assess your dog's individual breed, structure, and health history to determine whether a posture-adjusted or elevated feeding setup would genuinely help.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

26: The Last Best Day: Loving a Senior Dog Through Dementia and Goodbye with Coeli Fortun

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach Coeli (Chelly) Fortun joins Mariska for a gentle, deeply honest conversation about caring for her 15-year-old Shih Tzu, Manolo, through canine dementia, degenerative myelopathy, and arthritis, and what it meant to give him his "last best day." Coeli shares the story behind her viral last-day video, why nutrition and community were central to both Manolo's care and her cat Snuffles living to 20, and the philosophy that reframed her hardest decision: "it's not about fixing aging, it's about supporting good days," and "euthanasia isn't giving up, it's compassion."

In this episode, we sit down for a gentle and deeply honest conversation with Coeli Fortun, a pet photographer and certified pet nutrition coach, as she shares what it was like to care for her senior dog, Manolo, through decline, and what it meant to give him his last best day.

Together, we talk about the bond we build with our pets over a lifetime, the role nutrition and supportive care can play as they age, and the long, emotional road that leads to end-of-life decisions. Chelly opens up about grief, judgment, and the quiet relief that can coexist with loss, and why community matters so much during these moments.

This episode is for anyone loving a senior pet, grieving one they’ve lost, or navigating the question no one prepares you for. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to go through it without compassion or support.

Guest Bio:

Coeli (Chelly) Fortun is a Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach whose work centers on documenting the deep bond between pets and their humans. After caring for her Shih Tzu, Manolo (15 y.o), through three years of senior decline (including canine dementia, degenerative myelopathy, and arthritis) and her cat Snuffles (20y.o), through cancer, she began sharing their stories openly and found comfort in the community that formed around them.

During This Episode:

Coeli's background as a Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach
How caring for her cat Snuffles, who lived to 20, first drew Coeli into pet nutrition coaching
The role good nutrition played in extending both Snuffles' and Manolo's quality of life
Why photographing the bond between pets and their humans became Coeli's life's work
The story behind Manolo's viral "last best day" video, filmed at a park with strangers
Why Coeli and her partner chose to spend Manolo's final hours in public rather than privately
The slow, monthslong accumulation of symptoms that signaled Manolo's decline: nighttime yelping, loss of mobility, worsening arthritis, blindness, and deafness
The quality of life checklist that helped Coeli and her partner make their decision
A canine behaviorist's rule of thumb: if a dog can't do at least three of their four favorite things anymore, they're no longer living a happy dog's life
The judgment and criticism Coeli faced online, and how she processed both support and hate in the comments
Why community (vets, physiotherapists, chiropractors, and fellow pet parents) was essential to getting through the hardest year of her life
How Coeli holds space for her ongoing grief, including advice for others going through anticipatory grief
The powerful message from a 20-year veteran vet tech: "euthanasia isn't giving up, it's compassion"
What Coeli wishes she'd known earlier, including the value of documenting the hard days, not just the good ones
What Manolo's last day actually looked like, and the quiet moment that will stay with Coeli forever

Takeaways:

Chelly's journey into pet photography began with her own pets — a desire to document the emotional bond between pets and their humans, sparked by regret over not taking enough photos of her cat Snuffles.
The emotional bond between pets and their humans is profound. Photography, for Chelly, became a way to honor routines, inside jokes, and connection that often go unseen by the rest of society.
Nutrition plays a crucial role in the health of senior pets. Chelly's cat Snuffles lived to 20 largely due to a focus on fresh, quality nutrition, which also shaped how she supported Manolo through his decline.
Creating lasting memories with pets is essential for pet parents. Chelly encourages documenting both the good days and the hard ones, since both become part of honoring a pet's full story.
Euthanasia is a compassionate choice, not a sign of giving up. A 20-year veteran vet tech reminded Chelly that ending suffering is a gift, not a defeat.
Grief is a complex and non-linear process for pet parents. Chelly describes it as a mix of grief, relief, and joy that resurfaces unexpectedly, even months later.
Community support is vital during the grieving process. Vets, physiotherapists, chiropractors, and fellow pet parents became Chelly's closest support system through Manolo's decline.
It's important to seek out others who understand your experience, whether through Facebook support groups or local pet parent communities, rather than facing it alone.
Documenting both good and bad days can be therapeutic and can help other pet parents feel less alone in similar situations.
Cherishing the last moments with a pet can bring peace, even amid the sadness, by focusing on what brought them joy rather than what was lost.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Coeli Fortun, Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTok
Manolo last best day video
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[03:45]- Meet Chelly: Photographer, pet nutrition coach & senior pet advocate

[05:22]- How photographing her own pets changed everything

[07:27]- Why nutrition played a major role in extending her pets’ quality of life

[09:15]- “It’s not about fixing aging, it’s about supporting good days”

[12:24]- The story behind Manolo’s last-day video

[15:11]- Why the park, the sign, and strangers mattered so much

[16:06]- Turning grief into connection: sharing to help even one person feel less alone

[17:10]- Why end-of-life decisions are never “overnight”

[18:21]- Understanding canine dementia (and why no one talks about it)

[20:24]- The Quality of Life checklist that changed everything

[21:05]- “If they can’t do the dog things they love anymore…”

[23:37]- Sensory loss, fear, and what senior decline really looks like

[26:03]- How vets and specialists helped confirm it wasn’t “giving up”

[27:40]- Holding grief and relief at the same time

[29:25]- How to hold space for grief when the world doesn’t understand

[32:13]- Why community is everything during senior pet care

[35:16]- What to say to yourself when you feel exhausted, judged, or overwhelmed

[38:03]- “Euthanasia isn’t giving up, it’s compassion”

[42:04]- The moment Manolo showed them he was ready

FAQ

How do I know when it's time to euthanize my senior dog?

A helpful guideline shared in this episode is to consider whether your dog can still do at least three of their four favorite things — if they've lost the ability to do almost everything that made them happy, it may be time to consult your vet about quality of life.

What is canine dementia and how does it progress?

Canine dementia in this episode was described as a slow accumulation of symptoms, starting with nighttime restlessness and yelping that gradually extends throughout the day, often accompanied by confusion, disorientation, and loss of vision or hearing.

Is euthanasia giving up on my pet?

No — as a longtime veterinary technician told Coeli, euthanasia is not giving up, it is a compassionate act that ends suffering and preserves a pet's dignity and peace when their quality of life has significantly declined.

How can I cope with grief after losing a senior pet?

Allowing yourself to feel grief in the moment it arises, rather than suppressing it, and leaning on communities of people who understand the experience (such as Facebook support groups for pet loss or canine dementia) can help you process grief in a healthier way.

What role does nutrition play in a senior pet's quality of life?

Good nutrition can meaningfully extend a senior pet's quality of life and help manage conditions like arthritis and gut health, though any major dietary changes should be made in consultation with a vet or certified pet nutritionist.

How do I deal with people who judge my decisions about my senior pet's care?

Recognize that people who judge from the outside don't see the full picture of your pet's health and daily struggles, and instead seek support from people who understand, such as fellow pet parents or professionals who were part of your pet's care journey.

What is a "quality of life checklist" and how can it help?

A quality of life checklist, like the one referenced in this episode, is a structured tool that helps pet parents objectively assess a pet's comfort, mobility, appetite, and happiness to guide difficult end-of-life decisions.

Should I document my pet's decline, even the hard days?

Yes — Coeli shares that she wishes she had documented more of the difficult days alongside the good ones, since that footage can help other pet parents feel less alone and reduce the stigma around senior pet decline.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

25: French Bulldog 101: The Ultimate Health Guide, BOAS, Breathing, IVDD, Diet & Puppy Care with Dr. Sarah Ramsey

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

This episode dives deep into the essential care and health considerations for French Bulldogs, exploring their rising popularity, common medical issues, and the importance of responsible breeding. Dr. Sarah Ramsey, an Advanced Veterinary Practitioner based in Dubai, shares her expertise on early care, recognizing health problems, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle for these beloved pets. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the unique needs of French Bulldogs, from nutrition to veterinary care, including a standout moment where Dr. Sarah confirms that an elevated feeding setup can really help this breed.

Guest Bio:

Dr. Sarah Ramsey, originally from West Sussex in the UK, graduated from The Royal (Dick) School of Veterinary Studies in Edinburgh in 2006 and also holds a degree in Parasitology from Glasgow University. She has practiced acupuncture since 2007, is a member of the ABVA, and earned her Certificate in Small Animal Medicine from the University of Liverpool in 2016, later achieving Advanced Veterinary Practitioner status in 2022. With a special interest in feline medicine, oncology, pain management, and end-of-life care, Dr. Sarah has held senior roles including Clinical Director of a two-site practice in the UK and Head of Medicine at a London small animal hospital. She relocated to the UAE in 2021 with her husband, two children, and a growing rescue family of cats, alongside her Bedlington Whippet, Snowy, and a tortoise named Taco. Beyond veterinary medicine, she is a passionate runner, ultramarathon finisher, yoga practitioner, and stand-up paddleboarder, with recent adventures in aerial gymnastics and a goal of completing a triathlon within the next year.

During This Episode:

Dr. Sarah Ramsey's background and introduction to French Bulldog care
The rising popularity of French Bulldogs and why that matters for prospective owners
Understanding the key health risks that come with the breed
What to look for when choosing the right French Bulldog puppy or rescue
Early care essentials for a new French Bulldog
Recognizing breathing issues in French Bulldogs before they become emergencies
Understanding Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome (BOAS) in depth
Why early intervention matters so much for this breed
Assessing whether and when surgical intervention is needed
Neutering and its ideal timing for French Bulldogs
Setting up a French Bulldog's home and routine for long-term success
Understanding IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) in French Bulldogs
Emergency responses to proprioceptive deficits, a key warning sign of spinal issues
Why imaging matters for assessing spinal health
Feeding posture and the real benefits of an elevated feeding system for French Bulldogs
Health considerations to weigh when choosing the right puppy
How specific breed characteristics shape long-term health outcomes
Grooming and maintenance routines for French Bulldogs
Dietary needs and ideal feeding frequency for the breed
Veterinary care, bloodwork, and why baseline health checks matter
Proactive versus reactive health management
What a comprehensive veterinary checkup should actually include
Recognizing subtle signs of discomfort most owners miss
The role of research in responsible pet ownership
Why ethical breeding practices matter for the future of the breed
Dr. Sarah's final thoughts on French Bulldog care

Takeaways:

French Bulldogs require special care due to their unique health issues. Their compact build and short skull shape a long list of breed-specific risks worth understanding before you bring one home.
Research is crucial before bringing a French Bulldog home. Understanding the realistic medical and financial commitment upfront prevents heartbreak later.
Regular vet check-ups can help catch health issues early. Baseline bloodwork and consistent visits make it far easier to spot subtle changes before they become emergencies.
Brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs often need BOAS surgery. Widening the airway and shortening the soft palate can be genuinely life-changing for breathing and comfort.
Maintaining a healthy body condition is vital for their well-being. Extra weight puts additional strain on already compromised airways and joints.
Feeding practices should be tailored to the individual dog's needs. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to frequency, portion, or posture.
Using an elevated feeding setup can really help this breed. It supports easier swallowing and more comfortable posture during meals.
Early socialization and training are important for French Bulldogs. Building good habits and confidence early supports a well-adjusted adult dog.
Recognizing signs of pain or discomfort can lead to better health outcomes. Subtle changes in posture, energy, or mood are often the first clue something is wrong.
Ethical breeding practices are essential to reduce health risks. Responsible breeders prioritize health testing over appearance trends.
French Bulldogs can live happier lives with proper care and attention. With the right knowledge and support, the breed's challenges are manageable.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

World Small Animal Veterinary Association (WSAVA) Body Condition Score Card
Dr Well Website, Instagram
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Introduction to French Bulldog Care

[05:15]- The Popularity of French Bulldogs

[06:39]- Understanding French Bulldog Health Risks

[10:18]- Choosing the Right French Bulldog

[11:32]- Early Care for Your French Bulldog

[14:55]- Recognizing Breathing Issues in French Bulldogs

[16:34]- Understanding Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome (BOAS)

[19:06]- The Importance of Early Intervention for French Bulldogs

[21:36]- Assessing Surgical Needs in French Bulldogs

[22:28]- Neutering and Its Timing for French Bulldogs

[26:21]- Setting Up French Bulldogs for Success

[30:26]- Understanding IVDD in French Bulldogs

[34:13]- Emergency Responses to Proprioceptive Deficits

[35:08]- The Importance of Imaging for Spinal Health

[36:54]- Feeding Posture and the Benefits of an elevated feeding system for French Bulldogs

[38:45]- Choosing the Right Puppy: Health Considerations

[39:38]- The Impact of Breed Characteristics on Health

[40:57]- Grooming and Maintenance for French Bulldogs

[43:28]- Dietary Needs and Feeding Frequency for French Bulldogs

[48:58]- Veterinary Care and Blood Work for French Bulldogs

[49:14]- Importance of Baseline Health Checks

[50:01]- Proactive vs Reactive Health Management

[51:47]- Comprehensive Veterinary Checkups

[53:09]- Recognizing Subtle Signs of Discomfort

[55:49]- The Role of Research in Pet Ownership

[57:44]- Ethical Breeding Practices

[58:59]- Health Considerations for French Bulldogs

[01:01:51]- Final Thoughts on French Bulldog Care

Bonus: Frenchie Nose-to-Tail Health Checklist

👃 Nose & Breathing

☐ Nostrils open and symmetrical

☐ Breathing is quiet (no excessive snorting, wheezing, or rasping)

☐ No panting at rest

☐ No blue/pale gums

☐ Able to exercise/play without stopping quickly

👀 Eyes

☐ No redness

☐ No excessive tearing or staining

☐ No squinting or blinking more than normal

☐ Corneas look smooth & clear (no cloudy patches or scratches)

☐ Check corners of eyes for any discharge

🐶 Skin & Face Folds

☐ Clean between facial folds

☐ No redness or moisture

☐ No smell from folds

☐ No crusting or irritation

☐ Chin and lip folds clean and dry

👂 Ears

☐ No redness

☐ No odor

☐ No waxy buildup

☐ Dog is comfortable when ears are touched

🦷 Mouth & Teeth

☐ Gums pink and healthy

☐ No broken or loose teeth

☐ Breath smells normal

☐ No difficulty chewing

🧴 Body & Skin

☐ No redness, dry patches, or hotspots

☐ No new lumps or bumps (if found, note location + size)

☐ Coat looks healthy & shiny

☐ No excessive itching or licking

🦴 Spine, Posture & Mobility

☐ Walks normally (no stiffness, limping, or hopping)

☐ Able to jump up/down as usual

☐ No hesitation on stairs

☐ When running/playing, no signs of pain

☐ No sensitivity when gently feeling along the spine

🐾 Paws & Feet

☐ Between toes clean

☐ No interdigital cysts or swelling

☐ Nails an appropriate length

☐ Paw pads clean and free of cracks

💩 Tummy & Toileting

☐ Stool normal (note soft, loose, mucus, blood, or changes)

☐ No vomiting/regurgitation

☐ Eating normally

☐ Drinking normal amounts

⚖️ Weight & Body Condition

☐ Rib check: Can feel ribs without pressing hard

☐ Waist visible from above

☐ Belly tuck visible from side

☐ Compare with WSAVA Body Condition Score chart

🛁 Grooming Reminders

☐ Quick rinse after beach or sand

☐ Weekly brush-out

☐ Bath only as needed (mild dog-specific wash)

☐ Clean folds, underarms, groin if needed

☐ Check nails weekly

❤️ Behavior & Mood

☐ Normal energy levels

☐ No sudden clinginess or hiding

☐ No unusual aggression or irritability

☐ Sleeping and playing normally

FAQ

What health problems are French Bulldogs most prone to?

French Bulldogs commonly face breathing issues related to BOAS, skin and fold-related irritation, eye sensitivity, spinal issues like IVDD, and joint concerns, which is why understanding these risks before adoption matters so much.

What is BOAS and why does it matter for French Bulldogs?

BOAS (Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome) is a breathing condition caused by the compressed skull shape of brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs, and recognizing the early signs, along with timely surgical intervention when needed, can significantly improve a dog's comfort and quality of life.

Are elevated bowls good for French Bulldogs?

Yes, an elevated feeding setup can really help French Bulldogs by supporting a more comfortable feeding posture, which is especially valuable given their unique anatomy.

What is IVDD and why are French Bulldogs prone to it?

IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) affects the spine and can cause pain, weakness, or proprioceptive deficits (where a dog struggles to sense the position of their feet), and French Bulldogs are prone to it due to their compact spinal structure, making imaging and prompt veterinary care essential if symptoms appear.

How do I know if my French Bulldog is in pain or discomfort?

Subtle signs like changes in posture, reluctance to move, altered energy levels, or shifts in mood can all indicate discomfort, and recognizing these early leads to better long-term health outcomes.

How often should French Bulldogs see the vet?

Regular, proactive veterinary care with baseline bloodwork and comprehensive checkups helps catch health issues early, rather than waiting to respond only once a problem has become obvious.

What should I look for when choosing a French Bulldog puppy?

Look for ethical breeding practices, transparency about health testing, and realistic conversations about the breed's known health risks, since research before bringing a puppy home is one of the most important steps you can take.

How should I groom and feed my French Bulldog day to day?

Grooming should include regular fold cleaning, nail checks, and an as-needed bathing routine, while feeding should be tailored to the individual dog's needs, including posture, frequency, and portion size.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

24: Making the Holidays Magical for Your Dog

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska discusses how to make the holiday season magical for dogs. She shares the Elfie for Dogs tradition, holiday enrichment ideas, safety tips, and ways to create special memories with pets. The episode emphasizes the importance of connection and presence during the festive season, reminding pet parents to prioritize their dogs' needs and joy over Pinterest-perfect setups.

During This Episode:

Live update: the elevated feeding system story and founding pack waitlist
What is Elfie for Dogs? A dog-friendly daily tradition and how it got started
The 25-day printable Elfie pack, and Mariska's favorite Elfie setups (pancakes, binoculars, naughty or nice)
Holiday enrichment ideas to help dogs cope with festive stress
The Christmas "snafari" walk, a slow, sniff-focused walk through the holiday season
Wrapping paper treasure hunts and festive lick mats
Advent calendars, both store-bought and DIY
Christmas Eve treat puzzles and setting up a cozy den
Holiday safety for dogs, including toxic foods and guest safety
Decoration hazards to watch for around the house
Managing guests, stress, and decompression spaces for your dog
Traveling with your dog during the holidays
Special holiday traditions: paw print ornaments and Christmas Eve walks
Matching pajamas, pup stockings, and family photos
Gift ideas that support your dog's wellbeing, plus enrichment gifts, treats, and acts of kindness
Where Tails Meet Hearts: a tribute to Tika the Iggy
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Frederick and Royston
Final message: presence over perfection

Takeaways:

Make the holidays magical for your dog. Small, consistent moments of connection matter far more than elaborate setups.
The Elfie for Dogs tradition adds fun and creativity. A daily printable scene, like pancakes or binoculars, gives you a simple way to bond each day of December.
Enrichment activities help dogs cope with holiday stress. Snafari walks, wrapping paper treasure hunts, and festive lick mats give dogs an outlet for changed routines.
Safety is crucial during the festive season. Toxic foods, decoration hazards, and unfamiliar guests all need extra attention in December.
Create special traditions to bond with your dog. Paw print ornaments, Christmas Eve walks, and matching pajamas build memories you'll return to every year.
Dogs thrive on connection and presence during holidays. They notice when you slow down and include them, more than any decoration ever could.
Use everyday items for holiday enrichment activities. Wrapping paper, cardboard, and pantry staples can all become simple enrichment tools.
Be mindful of food hazards for dogs during gatherings. Brief your guests before they offer your dog anything from the table.
Set up a cozy retreat for your dog during busy times. A decompression den with familiar items gives an overstimulated dog somewhere calm to go.
Gifts should support your dog's well-being and happiness. Choose enrichment toys, comfort items, or a rescue donation over pure novelty.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tails and Tones Elfie Experience for Dogs
Episode 19: From Bored to Brilliant: How Daily Enrichment Builds Your Dog’s Confidence with Tori Mistick
Episode 6: Toxic Foods + Printable Guide
DIY Advent Calendar Video
Alex Cearns
Furchild
Where Tails meet hearts: Tika @tikatheiggy (Dad's Tribute)
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Frederick & Royston @frederickandroyston (Christmas photoshoot and video)
Review the podcast on Podchaser
Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] — Intro

[00:40] — The Elevated Feeding System Story & Founding Pack

[02:18] — Welcome to the Episode

[04:10] — What Is Elfie for Dogs?

[05:20] — The 25-Day Printable Elfie Pack

[06:15] — My Favourite Elfie Setups (Pancakes, Binoculars, Naughty/Nice)

[07:30] — Holiday Enrichment Ideas

[09:00] — Christmas “Snafari” Walk

[10:40] — Wrapping Paper Treasure Hunt

[11:20] — Festive Lick Mats

[12:15] — Advent Calendars (Store-Bought & DIY)

[13:05] — Christmas Eve Treat Puzzle & Cozy Den Setup

[13:32] — Holiday Safety for Dogs

[15:15] — Toxic Foods & Guest Safety

[17:40] — Decoration Hazards

[18:40] — Guests, Stress & Decompression Spaces

[19:30] — Traveling With Your Dog During the Holidays

[20:25] — Special Holiday Traditions With Your Dog

[21:45] — Paw-Print Ornaments & Christmas Eve Walks

[22:15] — Matching PJs, Pup Stockings & Family Photos

[22:55] — Gift Ideas That Support Wellbeing

[24:45] — Enrichment Gifts, Treats & Acts of Kindness

[25:06] — Where Tails Meet Hearts: Tika the Iggy Tribute

[27:28] — Paw-lebrity of the Week: Fredrick and Royston

[28:40] — Final Message: Presence Over Perfection

FAQ

What is Elfie for Dogs?

Elfie for Dogs is a dog-friendly holiday tradition where you set up a small, playful daily scene throughout December, using ideas like a tiny pancake breakfast, binoculars for "bird watching," or a naughty-or-nice treat setup, using a printable pack to guide you.

What foods are toxic to dogs during the holidays?

Common holiday foods that are dangerous for dogs are covered in detail in Episode 6's toxic foods guide, and general holiday hazards include chocolate, grapes and raisins, onions and garlic, xylitol, alcohol, and fatty or bone-in scraps from the table, so it's worth briefing guests before they feed your dog anything.

Are Christmas decorations dangerous for dogs?

Yes, tinsel, ribbons, and small ornaments can all be choking or ingestion hazards, so dogs should be supervised around a decorated tree, especially in the first few days.

What are some good enrichment activities for dogs during the holidays?

A Christmas "snafari" (a slow, sniff-focused walk), a wrapping paper treasure hunt with hidden treats, and a festive lick mat are all low-cost, high-value ways to keep a dog engaged during a busy season.

How can I help my dog cope with holiday guests and noise?

Set up a quiet decompression space with your dog's bed and favorite items so they have somewhere calm to retreat to if the holiday hustle and bustle becomes overwhelming.

What are meaningful, low-cost holiday traditions I can start with my dog?

An annual paw print ornament, a quiet Christmas Eve walk together, a pup stocking, matching pajamas, and an annual family photo are all simple traditions that become more meaningful each year.

What are good holiday gift ideas for dogs?

Gifts that genuinely support wellbeing, like enrichment toys, comfort items, and treats tied to your dog's actual needs, or even a donation to a rescue in your dog's name, tend to matter more than novelty gifts.

Should I travel with my dog over the holidays?

If you do travel with your dog, bring familiar comfort items like their bed or a worn piece of your clothing to help them settle more easily in a new environment.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

23: How Smart Are Dogs Really? Jennifer Holland Reveals the Science Behind Canine Intelligence

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Mariska Nell sits down with science writer and longtime National Geographic contributor Jennifer S. Holland to explore what it really means to be "dog smart." Jennifer shares stories and insights from her latest book, Dog Smart: Life-Changing Lessons in Canine Intelligence, including why an estimated 85% of the world's dogs aren't pets, how street dogs adapt and thrive, and what search-and-rescue and cancer-detection dogs reveal about canine superpowers. They dive into everyday intelligence, like the quiet genius of a dog waiting at the window, why so-called "bad dogs" are often just misunderstood or under-exercised, how ear cropping and tail docking can impact communication, and why letting dogs sniff, move, and "be dogs" is one of the most loving things we can do. The conversation blends science, personal stories (including Mariska's Frenchie Piper and Jennifer's dog Monk), and practical takeaways for modern pet parents who want to better understand and support their dogs' emotional and cognitive lives.

Guest Bio:

Jennifer S. Holland is a science and nature writer with a long career as a staff writer at National Geographic. Her work focuses on animals, conservation, and the natural world, and she is the bestselling author of the Unlikely Friendships book series, which shares true stories of surprising bonds between animals. Her latest book, Dog Smart: Life-Changing Lessons in Canine Intelligence, examines what it means to be smart in the world of the dog, weaving together cutting-edge research, field reporting, and stories from trainers, working dogs, and beloved pets. Jennifer lives with her dog Monk and continues to write, speak, and share about the rich inner lives of animals.

During This Episode:

Jennifer Holland's background as a National Geographic staff writer and bestselling author of the Unlikely Friendships book series
Why she turned her attention to dogs specifically for her latest book, Dog Smart
Why an estimated 85% of the world's dogs aren't pets, and how street and roaming dogs adapt and thrive
Monk's bed-spot trick: an everyday example of canine problem-solving
Talking buttons and what they reveal about cause and effect, connection, and communication
How dogs are trained to sit still in MRI machines, and what that research reveals about canine cognition
A search-and-rescue scent-tracking story that shows the scale of canine scent detection
How signals, cropped ears, and tail docking affect a dog's ability to communicate, and why it's on us to step up for them
Why "bad dogs" are often just misdirected intelligence rather than a behavior problem
Why exercise, both physical and cognitive, is non-negotiable for a well-adjusted dog
Our responsibility as pet parents: sniffing, breed needs, and true partnership with our dogs
A deeper truth about intelligence and the value of every dog's existence, pet or not
Jennifer's signature takeaway: "let dogs be dogs"
Jennifer's one message to every pet parent

Takeaways:

Dogs are communicators first. Body language, subtle signals, and redundancy matter, and cropped ears or docked tails can limit a dog's natural communication tools, so supervise thoughtfully.
85% of the world's dogs aren't pets. Street and roaming dogs occupy a valid ecological niche, and their adaptability is a form of intelligence in its own right.
Genius comes in many forms. From cancer detection to waiting at the window, "smart" includes problem-solving, emotional attunement, and connection.
Training isn't just about obedience. Many "bad behaviors" are unmet needs or misdirected intelligence, and compassionate, consistent training, with the right trainer, changes outcomes.
Exercise is non-negotiable. Physical and cognitive work together reduce frustration and destructive behaviors.
Let dogs be dogs. Sniffing is learning, exploration builds optimism, and partnership matters more than possession.
Talking buttons are a fun extra. They're useful for enrichment and cause-and-effect learning, while dog-forward communication still comes first.
Humility helps. Understanding dogs well can make us better, more observant humans too.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Jennifer’s website

Dog Smart the book

Jennifer's Unlikely series books

Jennifer on social: Instagram/TikTok / Facebook

Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[02:00] – Welcome, Jennifer’s intro

[03:40] – Jennifer’s origin story & “why dogs”

[07:30] – 85% of dogs aren’t pets; street-dog intelligence

[10:55] – Monk’s bed-spot trick: everyday problem-solving

[12:48] – Talking buttons: cause/effect & connection

[15:49] – Dogs in MRI machines—how they trained it

[22:00] – Search-and-rescue scent tracking story

[20:15] – Signals, cropped ears, and stepping up for our dogs

[27:57] – “Bad dogs” as misdirected intelligence

[30:01] – Exercise is everything (physical & cognitive)

[31:56] – Responsibility: sniffing, breed needs, partnership

[35:51] – A deeper truth about intelligence & existence value

[39:04] – Signature takeaway: “Let dogs be dogs”

[41:00] – Jennifer's one message to every pet parent

[42:31] – Outro

FAQ

How smart are dogs, really?

Dogs possess adaptive, social intelligence rather than human-like intelligence. They excel at reading emotion, solving problems relevant to their environment, and using extraordinarily sensitive scent detection, all shaped by thousands of years of co-evolving alongside humans.

Are most dogs in the world actually pets?

No. An estimated 85% of the world's dogs are free-roaming rather than household pets, which reframes what a "normal" or valid dog life looks like beyond the pet-owning world.

Can dogs really detect cancer by smell?

Yes. Research discussed in Jennifer Holland's book Dog Smart shows dogs can detect certain cancers and diseases through scent, demonstrating a sensory intelligence far beyond human capability.

What do MRI studies reveal about how dogs think?

Dogs can be trained, using positive reinforcement, to lie still in MRI machines, and the resulting brain scans are helping researchers understand how dogs process human voices and emotional tone.

Why do ear cropping and tail docking affect a dog's communication?

Ears and tails are key tools dogs use to signal intent and emotion to other dogs, so removing or altering them can strip away natural communication cues, making interactions with other dogs riskier or more easily misread.

Is my "badly behaved" dog just being difficult?

Not usually. Behavior problems are very often a sign of unmet physical or cognitive needs rather than defiance, and addressing the root cause, through more exercise, more mental stimulation, and better training, typically resolves it.

Why is it important to let my dog sniff during walks?

Sniffing is a dog's primary way of gathering information about their world, and letting them sniff freely on walks supports a more optimistic, well-adjusted temperament, so it's meaningful enrichment, not just a delay.

What does "let dogs be dogs" mean in practice?

It means recognizing that dogs are an entirely different species with their own instincts, needs, and ways of experiencing the world, and making space for those needs (sniffing, exercise, problem-solving) rather than expecting them to behave like small humans.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

22: DIY Dog Art Ideas: Safe Pawprint Projects, Lick Paintings & Creative Keepsakes

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska brings her art world background and pet-parent journey together to explore DIY art projects you can create with your dog. From safe, non-toxic pawprint masterpieces to hilarious lick-art abstracts, she shares practical tips, safety considerations, and creative ideas for turning your dog's paws and personality into meaningful keepsakes and functional art. Along the way, she opens up about the R&D journey behind Tails and Tones' first product: an elevated food and water station.

During This Episode:

Live product update: Tails and Tones' elevated food and water station is officially in R&D
Why making art with your dog is powerful enrichment and a bonding experience, not just a cute keepsake
Mariska's own art background and how it shapes her approach to pet-safe projects
The importance of using pet-safe, non-toxic materials, since most studio art supplies aren't dog-safe
Two main ways to create pawprints safely: no-mess baby handprint and footprint kits for clean, crisp prints, and Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint for colorful, washable paw art
Step-by-step guidance for classic pawprint masterpieces using either method
Lick art using canvas, cling film, and peanut butter or yogurt to create abstract, swirled patterns
Why lick art needs close supervision so your dog doesn't tear through the plastic film
Cleanup essentials: washing paws with lukewarm water immediately after any art project
How to turn your dog's art into functional pieces like mugs, coasters, bowls, and holiday gifts
Behind-the-scenes look at Tails and Tones' sustainable product journey, especially the upcoming elevated bowl for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Monty, Lola, and Amy, including Monty's video that was shared on The Dodo
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Pharaby and Jen, including Pharaby's own art and FluentPet talking buttons

Takeaways:

Making art with your dog is powerful enrichment. It's a bonding experience that goes beyond a cute keepsake, engaging your dog's senses and your creativity together.
Safety is non-negotiable when making art with your dog. Use pet-safe, non-toxic materials only, since most studio art supplies aren't safe for dogs.
There are two easy ways to create pawprints safely. A no-mess baby handprint or footprint kit gives clean, crisp prints, while Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint offers colorful, washable paw art.
Lick art turns your dog's natural licking instinct into abstract art. Peanut butter or yogurt spread over canvas and cling film creates unique swirled patterns as your dog licks.
Always supervise art activities closely. Watch for your dog trying to tear through the plastic film, and wash paws immediately afterward with lukewarm water.
Your dog's art can become functional keepsakes. Turn a paw print or lick art piece into mugs, coasters, bowls, or holiday gifts.
Tails and Tones' first product is progressing through R&D. The upcoming elevated bowl is designed for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs, with a waitlist open for updates.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tails & Tones on Instagram: @tailsandtones
Where Tails meet hearts: Monty, Lola and Amy @amyqzak (Monty's video that was shared on The Dodo)
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Pharaby & Jen @pharaby_fable, Pharaby's Art, YouTube
Review the podcast on Podchaser
The Dodo (featured Monty’s video): The Dodo
FluentPet talking buttons: FluentPet
Tails & Tones Elevated Bowl Waitlist

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[01:10] – Big news: Tails & Tones product update

[06:30] – Why make art with your dog?

[09:00] – Safety first: pet-safe art supplies

[13:30] – Pawprint Masterpiece (No-mess & paint versions)

[20:30] – Lick Art abstract painting

[25:30] – Turning pet art into functional gifts

[27:30] – Where Tails Meet Hearts

[30:00] – Paw-lebrity of the Week

FAQ

What kind of paint is safe to use on a dog's paws?

Baby-safe, washable finger paint like Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint is a good option for colorful paw prints, but always avoid studio acrylic or oil paints, since most art supplies aren't formulated to be dog-safe.

How do I make a paw print with my dog without any mess?

Use a no-mess baby handprint or footprint kit, which captures a clean, crisp impression without paint touching your dog's paw directly.

What is lick art and how do I make it with my dog?

Lick art involves setting up canvas and cling film with peanut butter or yogurt on top, then letting your dog lick it so the motion creates an abstract, swirled painting underneath.

Do I need to supervise my dog during a lick art or pawprint project?

Yes, always supervise closely, especially during lick art, so your dog doesn't tear through the cling film, and clean their paws with lukewarm water right after.

Can I turn my dog's art into something more than a keepsake?

Yes, pawprint and lick art designs can be turned into functional pieces like mugs, coasters, bowls, and holiday gifts.

Is Tails and Tones launching a product soon?

Yes, Tails and Tones' first product, an elevated food and water station designed for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs, is in R&D, with a waitlist open at tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co for updates.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

21: From Playdates to Paychecks: The Future of Pet Content Creation with Tori Mistick

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Tori Mistick, founder of Wear Wag Repeat and a dog mom, blogger, and podcast host with over a decade of experience creating content for pet lovers, joins Mariska to unpack what it really takes to turn a love of dogs into a real online pet brand or business. Tori is also a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and recently launched her limited-series podcast, Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick. The central message: believing in your passion comes first, follower count doesn't equal revenue, authenticity builds trust, and owning your audience through an email list and website matters more than any single platform.

In this episode of Tails and Tones, Mariska Nell and Tori Mistick discuss the journey of turning a passion for dogs into a thriving business. Tori shares her experiences in building her brand, Wear Wag Repeat, and offers insights on monetizing pet accounts, the importance of authenticity, and the evolving landscape of pet influencing. They emphasize the significance of community, effective branding, and the resurgence of long-form content in engaging audiences. Tori also highlights the necessity of starting an email list and building genuine relationships within the pet industry.

Guest Bio:

Tori Mistick is a dog mom, blogger, podcast host, and the founder of Wear Wag Repeat. With over a decade of experience creating content for pet lovers, Tori helps pet parents enrich their dogs’ lives and supports “petpreneurs” in growing their businesses online. She’s also a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and recently launched her limited-series podcast Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick, which dives deep into the science and joy of helping dogs live their best lives.

During This Episode:

Tori's origin story: how she went from dog mom to building Wear Wag Repeat
The moment her hobby crossed into being an actual business
Landing her first paid campaign, and what that taught her
The early challenges of balancing passion and profit
Where to actually start monetizing a pet account, no matter your size
A reality check on what pet influencers really earn
Why diversifying income streams matters for longevity
The mindset shift from "hobby account" to "brand"
Safety and responsibility considerations when building a pet-focused platform
Why it pays to be authentically where you are, rather than performing expertise
Funding and founder transparency in the pet industry
What branding really means for pet businesses, beyond visuals
Content quality and why Tori encourages creators to "post the bad stuff" too
Building a consistency system that actually sticks
Platforms, AI, and why owning your audience matters more than ever
What makes a pet community last long term
The comeback of long-form content, and why it suits authentic storytelling
The one thing Tori recommends every pet creator do today
Where to find Tori, and a look at her Dog Enrichment podcast

Takeaways:

Believing in your passion is the first step to success. Genuine love for the work is what keeps you going through the slow, inconsistent early days of monetizing.
Collaboration is key to building relationships in the pet industry. Reaching out and working with other pet brands and creators pays off long term, no matter your size.
Monetization can be slow, so passion is essential for longevity. The income doesn't arrive quickly, and it's the love of the work that carries creators through.
Follower count does not equate to revenue in pet influencing. Micro-influencers with smaller, more engaged audiences can out-earn accounts with far larger followings.
Authenticity in content creation builds trust with your audience. Sharing your real journey, including the hard parts, resonates more than curated perfection.
Long-form content is making a comeback in the digital space. Podcasts, newsletters, and videos allow for the kind of storytelling that short-form content and AI can't replicate.
Building an email list is crucial for long-term engagement. It's the one channel you fully own, no matter what happens to any social platform.
Branding should evoke feelings and connect with your audience, not just look good. It's about how people feel when they engage with your content.
Networking and genuine outreach can foster community growth. Personal check-ins and real relationships build community faster than sales pitches.
Diversifying income streams is important for pet influencers, since relying on a single revenue source (like sponsored posts alone) is risky.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tori's Website Wear Wag Repeat, Wear Wag Repeat Podcast

Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick Podcast

Mental Enrichment Activity Pack ($19)

Instagram: @wearwagrepeat @tmistick

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:30] – Tori’s Origin Story

[03:44] – Hobby vs. Business Moment

[05:11] – First Paid Campaign

[07:16] – Passion vs. Profit (Early Challenges)

[09:05] – Where to Start Monetizing

[10:46] – Reality Check on Earnings

[14:57] – Diversify

[16:04] – Mindset Shift to “Brand”

[18:25] – Safety & Responsibility

[20:01] – Be Authentically Where You Are

[22:05] – Funding & Founder Transparency

[23:36] – What Branding Really Means in Pets

[26:08] – Content Quality & “Post the Bad Stuff”

[28:10] – Consistency System

[29:54] – Platforms, AI & Owning Your Audience

[32:01] – Community That Lasts

[36:19] – Long-Form Comeback

[39:31] – One Thing to Do Today

[39:38] – Where to Find Tori

[40:52] – Tori’s Enrichment Podcast

FAQ

How do I turn my dog's Instagram account into a business?

Start by believing in the work itself, since monetization is often slow at first, then look for collaboration opportunities with other pet accounts or brands and begin building an email list you fully own.

Do pet influencers with more followers make more money?

Not necessarily. Follower count does not equate to revenue, and smaller, more engaged accounts can often out-earn much larger ones.

What's the biggest mistake new pet content creators make?

Relying entirely on social platforms for their audience is one of the biggest risks, since accounts can be locked, hacked, or deprioritized by an algorithm overnight, which is why an email list matters so much.

How important is authenticity in pet content creation?

Very. Authenticity is what builds trust with an audience, and creators who share their real journey, including setbacks, tend to build deeper, longer-lasting connections than those who only post polished wins.

What does branding mean for a pet business?

Branding is less about visuals alone and more about the feeling it creates. It's how your colors, tone, and story make your audience feel when they engage with your content.

Is long-form content coming back for pet creators?

Yes. Podcasts, newsletters, and other long-form formats are resurging because they let creators tell deeper stories in a way short-form content and AI-generated content can't easily replicate.

What's the best first step for someone just starting a pet content account?

Start an email list right away and focus on genuine collaboration and community-building rather than chasing follower counts.

How can I keep my pet community engaged long term?

Long-term engagement comes from real relationships: consistent content, genuine outreach, and showing up for other people in the pet industry, not just posting for your own account's growth.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

20: Frenchies 101: Why Everyone Wants One, and Why You Might Not

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska breaks down the honest pros and cons of French Bulldog ownership using her own experience raising Piper. Frenchies have exploded in popularity thanks to celebrity culture and social media, but that same demand has fueled unethical breeding and a long list of serious health issues, including BOAS (brachycephalic obstructive airway syndrome), IVDD (intervertebral disc disease), overheating risk, and an inability to give birth naturally in most cases. Mariska's bottom line: French Bulldogs are goofy, affectionate, apartment-friendly companions, but only for people who can commit financially (often $15,000 a year or more) and emotionally to a breed with serious, well-documented medical needs.

During This Episode:

Why French Bulldogs have exploded in popularity, including celebrities like Lady Gaga, The Rock, and Tom Hardy, plus AKC chart-topping status
The true history of the breed, from English lace workers' toy bulldogs to their refinement in France
Why they became trendy: an apartment-friendly size, bat ears, and a baby-face expression
Mariska's rule of thumb: don't get a Frenchie unless you can comfortably budget around $15,000 a year
Fun (and slightly terrifying) fact: most Frenchies can't swim, including Piper's own ocean scare and why water safety matters
The "wherever your gas be free" motto and other everyday Frenchie truths
The AKC's 9 official Frenchie colors versus 30+ real-world combinations, including lilac, blue, and merle
Why Frenchies are nicknamed "pocket rockets": Piper weighs around 12 kg (26 lb), denser than she looks, which is part of why they sink in water
Average lifespan for a healthy, well-bred Frenchie: 10 to 12 years, with real variance
The pros: clown-dog personalities, deep affection and loyalty, and a tendency to shadow their humans everywhere
Grooming and care routine: shedding, ear and fold cleaning, and paw and nose balm
Brachycephalic anatomy basics: how a short skull leads to real breathing challenges
Piper's own BOAS surgery story: what the surgery involves, her results, the costs, and the ethics of prioritizing comfort
Overheating: what to actually do (cool the feet and belly, use A/C) and what to avoid (never cover them in a cold towel)
The price tag of breeding and C-sections, and why overbreeding happens
The British Veterinary Association's "Breed to Breathe" campaign and the roughly 3,000% rise in UK French Bulldog numbers
Walking and harness fit: why a harness over a collar matters, plus how to monitor tongue color and respiratory rate
IVDD (intervertebral disc disease): the risks, warning signs, and prevention steps like avoiding jumps and using stairs or a ramp
Allergies: common triggers like grass, pollen, and food, and how Mariska manages them with wipes and antihistamines
Insurance, savings, and how the approach differs by region (Australia versus the UAE)
Mariska's final thoughts: choose this breed with your eyes open, because commitment is everything
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Freddie & Bruno's toy lineup tradition
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Griffin & Haru, including their Pixar Animation Studios adventure and a collaboration with Tiffani Thiessen

Takeaways:

French Bulldog popularity has a dark side. Celebrity culture and social media have driven demand, and that demand has fueled unethical breeding practices.
Owning a Frenchie is a major financial commitment. Mariska recommends budgeting around $15,000 a year on average, given how often health issues arise.
Most Frenchies cannot swim. Their dense, compact build means they can sink quickly, so always supervise them closely around water, as Mariska learned with Piper's own ocean scare.
BOAS surgery can be life-changing. Widening the nostrils and removing excess tissue significantly improves breathing, reduces snoring, and boosts comfort, as Piper's own results show.
Overheating is a real emergency risk. Frenchies can go from fine to dangerously overheated within minutes, and the fix is cooling their feet and belly, not covering them in a cold towel.
IVDD is a serious, breed-common risk. Avoiding jumps on and off furniture and using ramps or stairs can help reduce the risk of spinal injury.
Allergies are extremely common in Frenchies, ranging from food to grass and pollen, and often require trial and error to manage.
Ethical breeding matters enormously. A nearly 3,000% rise in UK French Bulldog numbers over the last decade has driven a rise in puppy mills and illegal imports.
Despite the challenges, Frenchies are deeply loving companions: goofy, affectionate, and content with short walks and lots of couch time.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Breed-to-Breathe Campaign — British Veterinary Association

Where Tails meet hearts: Freddie & Bruno (Freddie line up toys, Bruno Freddie's #1 fan)

Paw-lebrity of the Week Griffin & Haru (Pixar Animation Studios adventures, Tiffani Thiessen Colab, )

Cooling Tips with Dr Sarah — Episode 15

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] - Intro

[02:15] - Popularity + rescues trend:

[03:10] – The $15k rule (cost reality)

[04:05] – Origins: Toy bulldogs → France: Lace workers, toy bulldogs, refined in France.

[05:15] – Why they became trendy: Apartment-friendly size, bat ears, baby-face expression.

[06:05] – Celebs & AKC popularity: Lady Gaga, The Rock, Tom Hardy; AKC chart topper.

[06:44] – Fun fact: Most Frenchies can’t swim: Piper’s ocean scare + water safety.

[07:35] – Gas & other “truths”: The “wherever your gas be free” motto.

[08:05] – AKC colors vs. rare colors: 9 official colors vs. ~30+ combos (lilac, blue, merle).

[08:58] – “Pocket rockets” weight & density: Piper at ~12 kg / 26 lb; why they sink.

[09:40] – Lifespan (healthy, well-bred): 10–12 years with big variance.

[10:10] – PROS: Personality & daily life: Clown dogs; affection, loyalty, shadow tendencies.

[11:30] – PROS: Grooming & care routine: Shedding, ear/fold cleaning, paw/nose balm.

[12:35] – CONS: Brachycephalic basics: Short skull anatomy → breathing challenges.

[13:40] – BOAS surgery (Piper’s story): What it is, results, costs, ethics of comfort.

[15:05] – Overheating: what to do/avoid: Cool feet/belly, A/C; don’t cover with cold towel.

[16:10] – Price tag, breeding, C-sections: Why overbreeding happens; risks and costs.

[17:05] – BVA “Breed to Breathe” + overbreeding: Awareness, ~3,000% rise in the UK.

[18:05] – Walking/harness fit & monitoring: Harness over collar; tongue/resp rate checks.

[18:50] – IVDD: risks, signs, prevention: No jumping; stairs/ramp; signs, treatment paths.

[20:15] – Allergies: triggers & management: Grass/pollen/food; wipes, antihistamines.

[21:20] – Insurance/savings & regional notes: Australia vs. UAE approach.

[22:05] – Final thoughts: love + responsibility: Choose with eyes open; commitment matters.

[23:10] – Where Tails meet hearts: Freddie & Bruno (Freddie line up toys, Bruno Freddie's #1 fan)

[24:10] – Paw-lebrity of the Week Griffin & Haru (Pixar Animation Studios adventures, Tiffani Thiessen Colab, )

FAQ

Should I get a French Bulldog?

French Bulldogs make wonderful, affectionate companions for people who can commit to significant ongoing veterinary costs (often $15,000+ per year) and are prepared to manage serious breed-specific health risks like BOAS and IVDD.

Why are French Bulldogs so unhealthy?

French Bulldogs are brachycephalic, meaning their skulls are compressed, which squeezes their airway, soft palate, and nostrils, causing breathing difficulties, and their body shape also predisposes them to spinal issues like IVDD and difficulty giving birth naturally.

What is BOAS surgery and does every Frenchie need it?

BOAS (brachycephalic obstructive airway syndrome) surgery widens the nostrils, shortens the soft palate, and sometimes removes excess tissue or tonsils to improve breathing; not every Frenchie needs it, but many benefit significantly from the procedure.

Can French Bulldogs swim?

Most French Bulldogs cannot swim well and can sink due to their dense, heavy build and short snouts, so they should always be closely supervised around water, including pools and the ocean.

What is IVDD and why are French Bulldogs prone to it?

IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) occurs when the discs between a dog's vertebrae harden or rupture, causing pain, paralysis, or loss of bladder control; French Bulldogs are especially prone to it due to their compact spine structure, so avoiding jumps and using ramps or stairs can help reduce the risk.

How do I cool down an overheating French Bulldog?

Cool an overheating Frenchie by focusing on their feet and belly and moving them to a cool environment quickly. Avoid covering them in a cold towel, since this can trap heat rather than release it.

Why have French Bulldogs become so popular?

Celebrity ownership, heavy use in advertising and social media, and their apartment-friendly size and affectionate personalities have driven French Bulldogs to become one of the world's most popular breeds in the last decade.

What should I look for in an ethical French Bulldog breeder?

An ethical breeder will let you meet both parent dogs, be transparent about health testing and BOAS scoring, and never rush you into a purchase without proper documentation of vaccinations and health history.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

19: From Bored to Brilliant: How Daily Enrichment Builds Your Dog’s Confidence

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell and Tori Mistick of Wear Wag Repeat explore how daily enrichment transforms your dog's emotional health and confidence. Tori, a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and founder of Wear Wag Repeat, reframes what enrichment actually means: not keeping a dog busy, but understanding their emotions and building genuine connection. Learn simple, practical ways to enrich your dog's day, strengthen your bond, and bring more joy to both of your lives.

Guest Bio:

During This Episode:

Meet Tori Mistick and her canine journey into content creation and enrichment
Redefining enrichment beyond puzzles and toys
Building your dog's confidence through small choices, not big gestures
Trick training as a confidence booster at any age
How enrichment needs differ for puppies, adults, and seniors
Burt's story: from anxiety to confidence through enrichment
Enrichment as a form of therapy for anxious dogs
Using music and calm environments to support recovery
Meeting your dog's emotional needs while avoiding overstimulation
Practical enrichment ideas for busy pet parents
Three low-cost DIY enrichment ideas anyone can try
The one toy Tori thinks is actually worth splurging on
Tori's biggest piece of enrichment advice for pet parents
One small action that can help your dog feel truly seen
The Mental Enrichment Activity Pack and what's inside it
Where to find Tori and her work

Takeaways:

Enrichment is connection, not distraction. It's about understanding your dog's emotions, not just keeping them busy.
Small choices build confidence. Let your dog pick between treats, directions on a walk, or how they'd like to spend time with you.
Balance is key. Mix active enrichment, like sniff walks and games, with calm bonding, like gentle petting and sound baths.
DIY can be powerful. Muffin tins, towel burritos, and busy boxes make enrichment easy and low-cost.
Presence matters most. True enrichment starts when we slow down and meet our dogs where they are.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tori's Website Wear Wag Repeat, Wear Wag Repeat Podcast

Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick Podcast

Mental Enrichment Activity Pack ($19)

Instagram: @wearwagrepeat @tmistick

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro: What true enrichment means

[01:44] - Meet Tori Mistick & her canine journey

[05:03] - Redefining enrichment beyond puzzles

[08:13] - Building your dog’s confidence through small choices

[10:30] - Trick training as a confidence booster

[13:59] - Enrichment for puppies, adults & seniors

[17:15] - Burt’s story: From anxiety to confidence

[21:14] - Enrichment as therapy for anxious dogs

[23:44] - Using music and calm environments for recovery

[25:06] - Meeting emotional needs & avoiding overstimulation

[27:47] - Enrichment for busy pet parents

[31:37] - 3 Low-cost DIY enrichment ideas

[34:01] - The one toy worth splurging on

[35:07] - Tori’s biggest enrichment advice for pet parents

[36:29] - One small action to help your dog feel seen

[37:23] - The Mental Enrichment Activity Pack

[38:22] - Where to find Tori?

[39:23] - Outro: Turning love into enrichment

FAQ

What is dog enrichment and why does it matter?

Dog enrichment is about understanding and meeting your dog's emotional needs, not just keeping them occupied, and it works best when it strengthens connection rather than simply filling time.

How can I give my dog enrichment if I only have a few minutes a day?

Small, low-cost activities like a DIY busy box, a muffin tin game, or a towel burrito with hidden treats can turn just a few minutes into meaningful enrichment.

Can enrichment help an anxious or fearful dog?

Yes, as Burt's story in this episode shows, enrichment can help an anxious dog build confidence over time, especially when paired with calm environments and consistent, low-pressure routines.

Is it possible to over-enrich a dog?

Yes, meeting emotional needs is about balance. Too much stimulation without calm bonding time can overwhelm a dog rather than support them, so mixing active and calm enrichment matters.

What are some low-cost enrichment ideas that don't require buying toys?

Muffin tins, towel burritos, and homemade busy boxes are all inexpensive, easy ways to bring enrichment into your dog's day without needing to buy anything new.

Is there a toy worth actually spending money on?

Tori shares her one splurge-worthy toy recommendation in the episode, though the bigger message is that connection and presence matter more than any single product.

What's the single best piece of enrichment advice for a busy pet parent?

Tori's core advice is to slow down and be present, since true enrichment often comes from small, consistent moments of connection rather than elaborate activities.

Where can I learn more about structured enrichment programs?

Tori's Mental Enrichment Activity Pack, available for $19 through Wear Wag Repeat, offers a structured way to bring more enrichment into your dog's daily routine.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

18: How to Choose the Right Dog for Your Lifestyle (and Avoid Heartbreaking Mistakes)

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell unpacks what you should really be looking for when choosing a dog, beyond just the cutest breed on Instagram. From energy levels and lifestyle fit to financial readiness and long-term commitment, Mariska shares practical tips (and personal lessons from life with her Frenchie, Piper) to help you find your perfect canine match. She also explores dog breed tendencies using insights from Kim Brophey's book Meet Your Dog, breaking down 10 canine categories to understand how instincts and personalities shape compatibility. Whether you're adopting, shopping, or still dreaming about your future pup, this episode will help you choose with both your head and heart.

During This Episode:

Welcome back, and a quick revisit of adopt versus shop from Episode 11
Rescue versus reputable breeder: what good matching can actually look like
When the match is right: the joy, ease, and fewer issues that follow
When it's wrong: unmet needs, guilt, burnout, and rehoming risk
Piper's story: making a non-obvious fit work, stroller runs included
The money talk: planning realistically for the cost of care
Thinking long-term: lifespan and life changes to plan around
Breed tendencies 101, and an overview of Kim Brophey's 10 canine categories
Community segments: Where Tails Meet Hearts and Paw-lebrity of the week
Final message: partnership over perfection

Takeaways:

Match first, breed second. A great fit reduces frustration, behavior issues, and rehoming risk.
Know your energy and time. High-drive dogs need work, purpose, and movement. Low-key households should choose accordingly.
Budget honestly. Some breeds can be costly, so plan for vet care, training, nutrition, and insurance.
Life changes matter. Think travel, kids, moves, and retirement, and pick a dog you can support through every season.
Tendencies are not destiny. Even within a breed, personalities vary, so respect the individual dog in front of you.
Use categories as a compass. Brophey's groupings, like sighthounds, guardians, toys, herders, bulldogs, terriers, gundogs, scent hounds, "natural," and "world dogs," help you predict instincts and needs.
A "wrong" match on paper can still work with adaptation. Piper isn't marathon material, but stroller runs let her join Mariska's routine on her own terms.
Choosing a dog is a long-term commitment. The goal is partnership, not perfection.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Meet your Dog Book by Kim Brophey

Episode 11: Adopt or Shop

Where Tails Meet Heart Stories

Paw-Lebrities

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[01:11]- Welcome + adopt vs. shop (see Ep 11)

[03:10]- Rescue vs reputable breeder: what matching can look like

[04:40]- When the match is right: joy, ease, fewer issues

[05:20]- When it’s wrong: unmet needs, guilt, burnout, rehoming risk

[06:50]- Piper’s story: making a non-obvious fit work (stroller runs!)

[09:46]- The money talk: planning realistically for care

[10:50]- Thinking long-term: lifespan and life changes

[14:08]- Breed tendencies 101 + Kim Brophey’s categories overview

[27:45]- Community segments: Where Tails Meet Hearts & Paw-lebrity

[32:52]- Final message: partnership over perfection

FAQ

How do I choose the right dog breed for my lifestyle?

Start by honestly assessing your energy level, available time, living space, and future life plans, then match those factors against a breed's typical tendencies, using resources like Kim Brophey's 10 breed categories from Meet Your Dog as a guide rather than a guarantee.

What happens if I choose the wrong dog breed for my lifestyle?

A lifestyle mismatch can lead to unmet needs, behavior issues, frustration for both dog and owner, and a higher risk of the dog eventually being rehomed.

What are Kim Brophey's dog breed categories?

Her book Meet Your Dog groups dogs into categories like sighthounds, guardians, toy dogs, herders, bulldogs and entertainers, terriers, gundogs, scent hounds, "natural" dogs, and "world dogs," each reflecting shared instincts and historical purpose.

Can a high-energy dog still work for someone with limited time or a smaller home?

Yes, with adaptation. Piper's stroller runs are a good example of finding a workaround that respects both the dog's limits and the owner's routine, though it's still important to be honest about whether you can meet a breed's core needs.

Is a dog's breed a guarantee of its personality?

No, breed categories describe general tendencies, but individual personality varies significantly even within the same breed, so tendencies are not destiny, and it's worth respecting the specific dog in front of you.

Should I consider a dog's lifespan when choosing a breed?

Yes, thinking long-term, in terms of the years and life changes ahead, helps you plan for how a dog's needs will fit with things like having kids, moving, traveling, or retiring during the years you'll share together.

How much should I budget for a dog financially?

Budget honestly for the specific breed you're considering, including ongoing costs like vet care, training, nutrition, and insurance, rather than just the upfront cost of adoption or purchase.

Where can I find more community stories and inspiration featured on the podcast?

This episode recaps some of the podcast's favorite Where Tails Meet Hearts stories and Paw-lebrities of the week, all linked above, so you can follow along with the dogs and stories the community has loved so far.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

17: Who’s Really Walking Your Dog? How to Find a Walker You Can Trust

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell discusses the importance of choosing the right dog walker for your furry friend. She emphasizes understanding your dog's unique needs, the qualities to look for in a dog walker, and the importance of building a relationship with them. The episode also includes a product review of a dog bed and heartwarming stories about dogs making a difference in their communities.

During This Episode:

Why choosing the right dog walker is crucial for your dog's well-being
Understanding your dog's specific needs before selecting a walker
The qualities to look for in a good dog walker
How to vet potential dog walkers
Why trial walks matter, and the red flags to watch for
Building an ongoing relationship with your dog walker
Fetch or Forget: a review of the Snooza Cotton Canvas Futon dog bed
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Litter Logie
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Winston and Cooper, "the Doods"
Final thoughts on choosing your dog's care team wisely

Takeaways:

Choosing the right dog walker is crucial for your dog's well-being. It affects their fitness, socialization, and daily happiness, not just their exercise.
Understand your dog's needs before selecting a walker. Energy level, medical conditions, anxiety, and reactivity should all shape who you hire.
Look for reliability, experience, and communication in a dog walker. These three qualities separate a good walker from a risky one.
Trial walks can help determine if a walker is a good fit. Watching the interaction firsthand tells you far more than a resume or reviews alone.
Trust your dog's instincts when meeting a new walker. Dogs are honest, and if they're relaxed and happy, that's a strong sign of a good match.
Communication with your dog walker is essential for your dog's happiness. Updates, photos, and notes on behavior changes keep you in the loop.
Be aware of red flags when vetting potential walkers. Hesitancy about references or insurance, inconsistent communication, and walking too many dogs at once are all warning signs.
Your dog is part of your family, so choose wisely. Don't settle for convenience over genuine trust and compatibility.
Building a relationship with your dog walker is important. Setting expectations, sharing routines, and keeping communication open strengthens the partnership over time.
A good dog walker can provide peace of mind for pet parents, becoming a genuine teammate in your dog's care, not just a service provider.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Fetch or Forget: Snooza Cotton Canvas Futon

Where Tails meet hearts - Litter Logie

Paw-lebrity of the Week -Winston and Cooper aka the Doods, Dood Winston

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:14]- Choosing the Right Dog Walker

[04:57]- Qualities of a Good Dog Walker

[07:54]- Vetting Potential Dog Walkers

[10:29]- Trial Walks and Red Flags

[13:50]- Building a Relationship with Your Dog Walker

[16:40]- Fetch or Forget: Snooza Cotton Canvas Futon

[19:31]- Where Tails meet hearts - Litter Logie

[20:37]- Paw-lebrity of the Week -Winston and Cooper aka the Doods, Dood Winston

[22:36]- Final Thoughts

FAQ

How do I choose the right dog walker for my dog?

Start by understanding your dog's specific needs, such as energy level, medical conditions, or reactivity to other dogs, then look for a walker who shows reliability, relevant experience, clear communication, and professionalism.

What questions should I ask a potential dog walker?

Ask how they handle emergencies, whether they walk one dog at a time or multiple dogs together, and whether they can provide references or proof of insurance.

Should I do a trial walk before hiring a dog walker?

Yes, a trial walk lets you observe how the walker interacts with your dog and how comfortable your dog seems with them, which is one of the most reliable ways to judge whether it's a good match before committing.

What are red flags when choosing a dog walker?

Red flags include hesitancy to provide references or proof of insurance, inconsistent or spotty communication, walking too many dogs at once, and body language that shows impatience toward your dog.

How do I know if my dog likes their new dog walker?

Trust your dog's instincts. A relaxed, happy dog around a new walker is a good sign, while signs of stress or discomfort suggest the match may not be right, even if it takes a little time to build trust.

How can I build a good long-term relationship with my dog walker?

Set clear expectations early, keep communication open, and encourage your walker to flag any changes they notice in your dog's behavior, energy, or mood.

Why does it matter who walks my dog?

Your dog is part of your family, and the person walking them plays a real role in their daily happiness and wellbeing, so it's worth choosing that person with the same care you'd bring to any other part of their care team.

What's a good dog bed to pair with a solid daily walking routine?

This episode's Fetch or Forget segment reviews the Snooza Cotton Canvas Futon, a dog bed worth considering as part of a comfortable at-home routine after a good walk.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

16: Why Losing a Pet Hurts So Deeply with Jennifer Muldowney aka the Glam Reaper

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this conversation, Mariska Nell interviews Jennifer Muldowney, known as the Glam Reaper, who specializes in funeral planning and pet loss grief. Jennifer shares her journey into the funeral space, the importance of advocating for pet loss, and the emotional complexities surrounding grief. They discuss the societal hierarchy of grief, the need for safe spaces for grieving individuals, and how to involve pets in memorials. Jennifer also addresses the difficult decisions surrounding euthanasia and offers insights on memorializing pets. The conversation concludes with thoughts on when to consider getting another pet and the importance of honoring the memory of lost companions.

Guest Bio:

Jennifer Muldowney, better known as The Glam Reaper. Is an Irish award-winning memorial planner, celebrant, and TEDx speaker who’s redefining how we talk about loss. After experiencing personal grief herself, Jennifer combined her background in event planning with a deep passion for supporting others, creating ceremonies that are as unique as the lives they honor. She’s the author of Say Farewell Your Way, the voice behind The Glam Reaper Podcast, and an advocate for mental health within the funeral profession. Alongside her work with Muldowney Memorials and Funeral Professionals Peer Support, Jennifer helps families and pet parents alike find comfort, healing, and even moments of lightness during life’s hardest goodbyes.

During This Episode:

Jennifer's journey into funeral planning, and how it led her to advocate for pet loss specifically
Why pet loss deserves recognition as a significant grief experience
Understanding the societal hierarchy of grief, and how it can invalidate pet loss
Creating safe spaces for grieving individuals, whether communities, panels, or one-on-one support
Involving pets in the grieving process, including how other pets in the home sense and process loss
Incorporating pets in farewells and memorial moments
Navigating the difficult decisions around euthanasia with care and compassion
Creative memorials for pets, from ceremonies to keepsakes
Honoring pets and moving through the grieving process without judgment
The journey of love and loss, including when to consider getting another pet

Takeaways:

Jennifer Muldowney is known as the Glam Reaper, specializing in funeral planning. Her work spans human memorials and pet loss support alike.
She advocates for recognizing pet loss as a significant grief experience, not a lesser form of loss.
Grief is often judged by a hierarchy, which can invalidate pet loss. Comparing losses only adds pain rather than helping anyone heal.
Creating safe spaces for grieving individuals is essential. Communities, panels, and simply being surrounded by people who understand can ease the isolation of grief.
Involving pets in memorials can help in the grieving process, both for the humans involved and for other pets in the household who sense the loss too.
Euthanasia decisions are complex and should be approached with care. There's no universal formula, only reading your individual pet's comfort and quality of life.
Memorializing pets can take many forms, including ceremonies and keepsakes. Shadow boxes, paw print keepsakes, cremation jewellery, and personal rituals are all valid ways to honor a pet.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve or memorialize a pet, as long as it feels true to your relationship with them.
The love for a pet does not replace but expands with new companions. Getting another dog later doesn't mean replacing the one you lost.
It's important to check local laws regarding pet burials and memorials, since regulations vary significantly by location.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Jennifer's website, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn

The Glam Reaper podcast

TedX Talk

Jon Steward's video

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[03:03]- The Journey into Funeral Planning

[05:52]- Advocating for Pet Loss Grief

[09:10]- Understanding Grief Hierarchies

[11:48]- Creating Safe Spaces for Grief

[14:43]- Involving Pets in the Grieving Process

[19:55]- Incorporating Pets in Farewells

[22:45]- Navigating Difficult Decisions

[25:42]- Creative Memorials for Pets

[29:27]- Honoring Pets and the Grieving Process

[34:39]- The Journey of Love and Loss

FAQ

Why does losing a dog feel like losing a family member?

Losing a dog often triggers grief comparable to losing a human loved one, since it also means losing a daily routine, unconditional companionship, and a bond built on years of shared life, which is why pet loss deserves genuine recognition rather than dismissal.

Is it normal to grieve a pet as much as a person?

Yes, pet loss is a legitimate and often profound form of grief that is frequently unacknowledged or minimized by society's unspoken hierarchy of grief, despite being just as real.

How do I know when it's time to euthanize my dog?

There's no single formula for this deeply personal decision. It comes down to closely reading your individual dog's quality of life and comfort, ideally in conversation with a trusted veterinarian, and recognizing that feeling uncertain afterward doesn't mean you made the wrong choice.

How can I help my other pets grieve after losing a companion animal?

Other pets often sense and grieve a loss too, so involving them in the process, whether through scent, presence, or a moment near the departed pet's belongings, can help them process the change rather than being left confused by an unexplained absence.

What are meaningful ways to memorialize a dog?

Popular options include shadow boxes with a collar or leash, paw print keepsakes, cremation jewellery, memorial paintings, and personalized rituals, since there is no right or wrong way to memorialize a pet as long as it honors your relationship with them.

Is it okay to get a new dog after losing one?

Yes, getting a new dog doesn't mean replacing the one you lost. Your heart grows to hold new love alongside the grief and memories of your previous companion, rather than one substituting for the other.

Can I bury my pet in my backyard?

It depends entirely on your local laws, as pet burial regulations vary significantly by location, so it's important to check local rules before planning a backyard burial or any other memorial arrangement.

How do I create a safe space for someone grieving a pet?

Simply showing up, listening without judgment, and avoiding comparisons to other types of loss go a long way, since safe spaces, whether in person or online, help people feel less alone in pet grief.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

15: Pet First Aid 101: Building an Emergency Kit with Dr. Sarah Ramsey

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode, Dr. Sarah Ramsey shares her extensive experience in veterinary medicine, discussing the importance of specialized care for pets, emergency preparedness, and essential first aid skills for pet owners. She emphasizes the need for proper veterinary care, including routine check-ups and vaccinations, while also providing practical advice on creating emergency kits and knowing when to seek professional help. Dr. Ramsey's insights aim to empower pet owners to take proactive steps in ensuring their pets' health and safety.

Guest Bio:

During This Episode:

Understanding veterinary specializations and what they mean for choosing the right care for your pet
Emergency preparedness for pets, and why having a plan matters before you ever need it
Essential items for pet emergency kits, both at home and on the go
First aid skills every pet parent should know, including checking breathing and pulse
Essential first aid techniques for pets, covering wounds, bleeding, and immediate response steps
Handling toxic ingestions and heat stroke safely
Real-life emergency scenarios and how preparedness makes a difference
Understanding snake bites and prevention
Customizing first aid kits for different pets and chronic conditions
When to seek veterinary help, even when a wound doesn't look serious
Routine veterinary care and vaccination schedules

Takeaways:

Dr. Sarah Ramsey has nearly 30 years of experience in veterinary medicine. Her background spans general practice, advanced small animal medicine, and clinic leadership in the UK and UAE.
Understanding veterinary specializations helps in choosing the right care for pets. Knowing the difference between a general practitioner, advanced practitioner, and specialist matters when a pet needs more complex treatment.
Emergency kits for pets should include saline, gauze, and vet wrap. These three alone can handle most cuts, wounds, and sting situations before you reach the vet.
Basic first aid skills can save a pet's life in emergencies. Knowing how to check breathing, gum color, and pulse, and how to perform rescue breaths if needed, makes a real difference.
Knowing when to seek veterinary care is crucial for pet health, even for wounds that don't look serious at first glance, since bite wounds especially can hide deep tissue damage.
Routine veterinary check-ups are essential for early detection of health issues. A full exam covers every body system, not just vaccinations.
Vaccination schedules may vary by region and should be discussed with a vet. UAE law requires annual vaccination, which differs from titer-based schedules common elsewhere.
Pet owners should be aware of their pets' specific health needs and risks. Brachycephalic breeds, for example, overheat faster and show fewer obvious signs of heat stroke.
Regular blood work can help monitor chronic conditions in pets and gives your vet a healthy baseline to compare against if something changes.
Creating a customized emergency kit for pets is important for preparedness. Chronic conditions, known allergies, and breed-specific risks should shape what you carry.

Emergency Kits:

At-Home Emergency Kit

Gloves (latex or nitrile) – to keep your hands clean and safe.
Saline pods/pipettes – safe for cleaning wounds and eyes.
Sterile gauze – apply pressure and stop bleeding.
Vet wrap (self-adhering bandage) – to secure gauze/dressings (sticks to itself, not fur).
Muzzle or strong tape for a makeshift muzzle – for safety if your pet is in pain.
Tick hook – safe removal of ticks without leaving parts behind.
Tweezers – for removing thorns, splinters, or foreign bodies.
Cotton buds – useful for cleaning small areas, like removing grass seeds.
Styptic powder - to stop bleeding from nails, ears, or tails.
Elizabethan collar (cone) – to prevent licking/ingesting toxins or cleaning wounds.

On-the-Go / Walk & Travel Kit (Mini Version)

Saline pod – for quick wound or eye cleaning.
Sterile gauze – for immediate coverage of cuts or stings.
Vet wrap – to hold gauze in place.
Muzzle tape – lightweight safety option.
Antihistamines (chlorphenamine / “Piriton”) – especially if your dog has known allergies (4mg tablet for medium/large dogs, ½ tablet for small dogs/cats; expect drowsiness as a side effect).
Water bottle – for flushing wounds, burns, or helping with heat stroke.
(Optional for hikes/desert walks: extra antihistamines, spare bandage, tick hook.)

Special Additions / Situational Items

Chronic condition meds – e.g., seizure medication for epileptic dogs.
Burn care – clean water only (never dressings).
Heatstroke care – water, shade, portable fan, cooling jacket/towel (used correctly).
Allergy-prone pets – antihistamines carried at all times.
Snake bite care – saline for flushing, never tourniquets.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Dr Well Website, Instagram

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:04]- Understanding Veterinary Specializations

[03:57]- Emergency Preparedness for Pets

[10:03]- Essential Items for Pet Emergency Kits

[15:59]- First Aid Skills Every Pet Parent Should Know

[23:40]- Essential First Aid Techniques for Pets

[25:31]- Handling Toxic Ingestions and Heat Stroke

[29:47]- Real-Life Emergency Scenarios and Preparedness

[31:31]- Understanding Snake Bites and Prevention

[33:34]- Customizing First Aid Kits for Different Pets

[36:39]- When to Seek Veterinary Help

[40:01]- Routine Veterinary Care and Vaccination Schedules

FAQ

What should be in a pet's emergency first aid kit?

A basic at-home kit should include gloves, saline pods for cleaning wounds and eyes, sterile gauze, self-adhering vet wrap, a muzzle or muzzle tape, a tick hook, tweezers, cotton buds, styptic powder for nail bleeds, and an Elizabethan collar to prevent licking.

What should I carry in a smaller kit for walks and hikes?

For walks, carry a saline pod, sterile gauze, vet wrap, muzzle tape, and a water bottle. For hikes or if your dog has known allergies, also carry antihistamines like chlorphenamine (Piriton) in case of insect stings.

Can I use human antiseptics like iodine or Dettol on my dog's wound?

No. Products like iodine and TCP can be toxic if a pet licks the wound afterward and may cause stinging, so saline is a safer choice for cleaning cuts and wounds at home.

How do I stop my dog's nail from bleeding after a bad trim?

Apply styptic powder directly to the nail and hold pressure, since nail, ear, and tail wounds tend to bleed heavily and steadily despite looking dramatic.

What is the correct way to treat heat stroke in a dog?

Move your dog to shade, wet them down with cool water, use a fan to increase airflow over the wet coat, and offer small amounts of water to drink. Never cover them in dry towels, which trap heat rather than releasing it, and always seek veterinary attention afterward.

Why are French Bulldogs and other flat-faced breeds more at risk during heat stroke?

Brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs have narrower airways that make it harder for them to cool themselves through panting, so they can overheat faster and show fewer obvious warning signs before a serious heat stroke occurs.

What should I do if my dog gets bitten by a snake?

Flush the bite area thoroughly with saline, never apply a tourniquet, and get your dog to a vet as quickly as possible, while trying to avoid walking dogs off-leash near vegetation at dusk when snakes are most active.

How often should my dog see the vet for check-ups?

A healthy, low-risk adult dog typically needs an annual check-up, but dogs aged six or seven and older, or those with chronic conditions, should generally see the vet twice a year with more frequent blood work as needed.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

14: Who Will Care for Your Dog? How to Choose the Right Godparent for Your Pup

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses the importance of planning for your dog's future, particularly in selecting a godparent who can care for your pet if something happens to you. She emphasizes the need for responsible planning, including financial considerations and ensuring the chosen godparent shares your values and love for dogs. The episode also features heartwarming stories from the pet community and encourages listeners to celebrate their pets and the bonds they share.

During This Episode:

Have you ever wondered who would care for your pup if something happened to you?
Why choosing a godparent for your dog is a genuinely responsible thing to do
Life happens: accidents happen, illness happens, and it's worth planning for
How you can still be there for your dog, even if you're not the one physically caring for them
Assessing whether a candidate has the time, energy, and finances to truly step in
Why you should look for someone who truly loves dogs, not just someone convenient
Making the godparent conversation a joyful moment, not a heavy one
Reassurance that this isn't about being morbid
Framing it as giving your dog the gift of security
Fetch or Forget: a review of the FURminator de-shedding tool
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Elko's journey with Away on Earth
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Billy the Kid

Takeaways:

Have you ever wondered who would care for your pup? It's a question most dog parents avoid, but one worth sitting with.
Choosing a godparent for your pup is responsible. It's planning for your dog's wellbeing no matter what happens to you.
Life happens, accidents happen, illness happens. Preparing in advance means your dog never has to end up without a plan.
We can still be there for them, even through the plans and people we put in place ahead of time.
Does this person have the time, energy, and finances? Capacity matters just as much as love when choosing a godparent.
Look for someone who truly loves dogs, not someone who simply seems convenient or available.
Make it a joyful moment. Celebrating the role, rather than treating it as a burden, changes how it feels for everyone involved.
This is not about being morbid. It's a practical, loving act of planning, not a dark or uncomfortable topic.
You're giving your pup the gift of security, which is one of the most meaningful things you can plan for in advance.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Fetch or Forget - FURminator

Where Tails meet hearts - Elko's journey on Away on Earth

Paw-lebrity of the Week - Billy the Kid

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[13:19]- Choosing the Right Godparent

[14:12]- Fetch or Forget - FURminator

[20:45]- Where Tails meet hearts - Elko's journey on Away on Earth

[23:07]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - Billy the Kid

FAQ

What is a dog godparent?

A dog godparent is a trusted person who agrees in advance to care for your dog if you're no longer able to, so your dog has a planned, loving home rather than an uncertain future.

How do I choose the right godparent for my dog?

Look for someone who truly loves dogs, has the time, energy, and financial capacity to care for them, and shares your values, rather than defaulting to whoever seems most convenient.

Isn't planning for this too morbid?

No. This isn't about being morbid, it's about giving your pup the gift of security, and it can even be made into a joyful moment rather than a heavy one.

What should I consider financially when choosing a godparent?

Consider whether the person you're choosing has the finances to support your dog's ongoing needs, and think about whether setting aside funds or making a plan in advance would ease that responsibility for them.

What if life circumstances change after I've chosen a godparent?

Life happens, and accidents or illness can happen too, so it's worth revisiting your choice periodically to make sure the person you've chosen still has the capacity and willingness to step in.

How can I make choosing a godparent a positive experience rather than a stressful one?

Make it a joyful moment. Frame the conversation as an honor rather than a burden, and celebrate the decision once it's made.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

13: How to create a dog friendly community with Doggie Adventures Yvonne Senden

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell speaks with Yvonne Sendin, the founder of Doggie Adventures, about her journey in creating a dog-friendly community in the UAE. They discuss the challenges of dog ownership in the region, the importance of public etiquette, and the exciting initiatives like Leash Explorer and WoofStock that promote responsible pet ownership and community engagement. Yvonne shares her insights on how to make the UAE more dog-friendly and the responsibilities that come with being a dog owner.

Guest Bio:

Yvonne Sendin is a Dutch expat and the founder of Doggie Adventures, the leading dog-friendly directory and community platform in the UAE, established in 2018. After relocating to Dubai with her rescue dog Boefje, Yvonne turned a personal list of dog-friendly cafes into a UAE-wide resource for pet parents. She is also a co-founder of Leash Explorer, an annual UAE-wide dog adventure challenge, and the creator of Woof Stock, a sensory-conscious dog festival designed with dogs' comfort in mind.

During This Episode:

Introducing Yvonne Sendin, founder of Doggie Adventures, and her 10+ years living in Dubai
How Boefje, Yvonne's rescue dog from the Netherlands, inspired the whole Doggie Adventures journey
The contrast between dog-friendly Europe and navigating pet life in the UAE
How Dubai used to be far more dog-friendly (unrestricted beach access) before rules tightened
Cold-calling cafes and hotels to build the original dog-friendly places list
Turning that list into a full UAE-wide dog-friendly directory
Why irresponsible pet owners (off-leash dogs, uncleaned poop, dogs on tables) are closing dog-friendly venues
Real examples: dogs running over restaurant furniture off-leash, and a mall poop incident Mariska witnessed firsthand
The fines and municipality warnings pushing venues to drop dog-friendly status
Advice for confronting bad pet etiquette in public: Yvonne's direct-but-kind approach
Doggie Adventures' free consultations helping cafes, restaurants, and hotels train staff to be dog-friendly with confidence
The origin and growth of Leash Explorer (co-founded with HK9 and Ginger's Way): the annual UAE-wide challenge and seasonal group hikes
Inclusivity in Leash Explorer: color-coded leash sleeves so reactive or shy dogs can join safely
The Wadi Dafta hike recommendation for smaller or less active dogs like Piper
The creation of Woof Stock, a UAE dog festival designed for dogs first (not just entertainment for humans)
Sensory-conscious festival design: no flashing lights, calm background music, sociability-based leash sleeve assessments
Advice for making an apartment building, compound, or neighborhood more dog-friendly
A hint at Doggie Adventures' next community-focused initiative in development

Takeaways:

Doggie Adventures was founded to create a better life for dogs in the UAE. It started as a simple personal list of dog-friendly cafes for Yvonne's rescue dog, Boefje.
Public etiquette is crucial for responsible dog ownership. Irresponsible behavior, like off-leash dogs and uncleaned messes, is directly responsible for venues losing their dog-friendly status.
Leash Explorer offers structured adventures for dogs and their owners. The annual UAE-wide challenge and seasonal group hikes give the community a shared calendar of dog-friendly experiences.
Woof Stock is a festival designed around dogs' comfort, not just entertainment for people. Calm music, no flashing lights, and sociability-based assessments keep the event genuinely dog-friendly.
Community engagement is key to making the UAE more dog-friendly overall. Change happens when responsible pet parents set the example for venues considering going dog-friendly.
Dog owners must respect public spaces and other people's comfort. Not everyone grew up around dogs, and some people are genuinely afraid, so owners need to be considerate of that.
Education about dog behavior benefits both owners and the wider community. Doggie Adventures offers free consultations to help venue staff feel confident interacting with dogs.
A directory of dog-friendly places helps pet owners navigate the UAE with confidence. It saves time and reduces the guesswork of where dogs are actually welcome.
Responsible pet ownership is the foundation everything else builds on. Cleaning up after your dog and keeping them leashed protects access for the whole community.
New community-focused initiatives are coming from Doggie Adventures. Yvonne teased an upcoming project focused on making dog-friendly discovery easier and more community-driven.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Doggie Adventures (Website, Instagram, Youtube)

Leash Explorer (Website, Instagram)

WoofStock (Website, Instagram)

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Yvonne and Doggie Adventures

[03:23]- The Journey of Doggie Adventures

[06:04]- Challenges of Dog Ownership in the UAE

[08:50]- Public Etiquette and Responsibility of Dog Owners

[11:26]- Community Engagement and Advocacy for Dog-Friendly Spaces

[14:19]- Navigating Dog Etiquette in Public Spaces

[19:36]- Consultations and Community Engagement

[20:22]- Introducing Leash Explorer

[21:51]- The Annual Challenge and Activities

[23:17]- Inclusivity in Dog Activities

[25:29]- Planning Hikes for All Dogs

[27:27]- Creating Wolf Stock: A Dog Festival

[31:48]- Making Communities Dog-Friendly

[35:46]- Future Plans and Community Feedback

[38:16]- The Power of One: Inspiring Change Through Love

[39:07]- Creating Welcoming Spaces for Dogs and Humans

FAQ

Is the UAE dog-friendly?

The UAE has a growing number of dog-friendly cafes, restaurants, hotels, and hiking trails, largely thanks to community efforts like Doggie Adventures, but dog-friendly status can vary by venue and has become more restricted in recent years due to irresponsible pet owner behavior.

Why are dog-friendly places closing in Dubai and the UAE?

Many venues have lost their dog-friendly status because owners let dogs off-leash indoors, failed to clean up after their pets, or allowed dogs on furniture and tables, leading to municipality warnings and fines that push businesses to stop allowing dogs altogether.

What is Leash Explorer?

Leash Explorer is a UAE-wide dog adventure challenge co-founded by Doggie Adventures, HK9, and Ginger's Way, featuring an annual multi-Emirate activation in February and March plus a season of monthly group hikes designed for dogs of all sociability levels.

What is Woof Stock?

Woof Stock is a dog-focused festival created by Doggie Adventures that prioritizes dogs' sensory comfort with calm music, no flashing lights, and color-coded sociability assessments, alongside activities, workshops, adoption opportunities, and vendors for their humans.

How can I find dog-friendly places in the UAE?

The Doggie Adventures directory lists dog-friendly cafes, restaurants, hotels, and hiking trails across the UAE, and can be saved as a Google Maps list for quick access wherever you are.

How do I make my building or neighborhood more dog-friendly?

Start by checking whether your building management allows dogs at all, then ask individual venues directly if they'll accommodate your dog (outdoor seating is more likely to be approved than indoor), and always model responsible pet etiquette to build trust with venues considering going dog-friendly.

What should I do if I see a dog owner behaving irresponsibly in public?

Politely and calmly addressing the behavior directly, or speaking to venue staff or management about training their team to be more assertive, can help. Doggie Adventures also offers free consultations to businesses that want support becoming genuinely dog-friendly.

Are reactive dogs welcome at Leash Explorer events?

Yes. Leash Explorer uses color-coded leash sleeves based on sociability behavior so other dog owners know whether a dog wants to be approached, making the events inclusive for reactive and shy dogs as well as social ones.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

12: How to Choose the Right Vet or Animal Hospital for Your Dog

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell discusses the essential steps in choosing the right veterinarian for your dog. She shares her personal experiences and insights on what to consider, including the dog's specific needs, location, vet costs, emergency preparedness, and the importance of effective communication with your vet. The episode emphasizes the significance of trust and partnership in ensuring your pet's health and happiness.

During This Episode:

Choosing the right vet for your dog, and why it's worth researching carefully
Understanding vet costs and insurance options
Emergency preparedness and knowing when you need specialist care
Where Tails Meet Hearts: the 1510 Foundation and Meemaw's story
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Leo, with dad Charles Leclerc and mom Alexandra Saint Mleux
A recap of the key takeaways from the episode

Takeaways:

Choosing the right vet is crucial for your dog's health. It's a decision worth researching carefully, not rushing into.
Research and recommendations are key in finding a vet. Friends, neighbors, and online reviews all help narrow the field.
Consider your dog's specific needs when selecting a vet. Breed-related risks and existing conditions should guide your search.
Location and accessibility can impact your choice of vet. Being able to get there quickly matters, especially in an emergency.
Vet care can be expensive, so know the costs upfront. Ask for pricing on common services before you commit to a clinic.
Emergency preparedness is vital for pet owners. Know your vet's after-hours policy and identify a 24/7 emergency clinic near you before you need one.
A good vet should communicate clearly and listen to concerns. You shouldn't leave an appointment more confused or anxious than when you arrived.
Trust and partnership with your vet are essential. A good vet treats both your dog and you with respect and kindness.
Always ask for estimates on veterinary services. Comparing costs across clinics can prevent unexpected, oversized bills during a crisis.
Your dog relies on you to be their voice. Since they can't describe their symptoms, it's your job to advocate clearly for their care.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

How to choose your vet - checklist

Where Tails meet hearts - 1510 Foundation (Meemaw's story)

Paw-lebrity of the Week - Leo (Dad Charles Leclerc, Mom Alexandra Malena Saint Mleux)

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Choosing the Right Vet for Your Dog

[10:23]- Understanding Vet Costs and Insurance

[13:49]- Emergency Preparedness and Specialist Care

[17:44]- Where Tails meet hearts - 1510 Foundation (Meemaw's story)

[19:12]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - Leo (Dad Charles Leclerc, Mom Alexandra Malena Saint Mleux)

[23:16]- Recap and Key Takeaways

FAQ

How do I choose the right veterinarian for my dog?

Start by identifying your dog's specific health needs and any breed-related risks, then gather recommendations from friends and neighbors, and consider location and accessibility alongside cost and communication style before committing to a clinic.

What questions should I ask a vet before choosing them?

Ask about pricing for common services, whether they offer 24/7 emergency access or after-hours protocols, and whether they have experience with your dog's specific breed or health conditions.

How much does veterinary care typically cost for a dog?

Costs vary widely by clinic and location, and by your dog's specific health needs, so it's worth asking for estimates on vaccinations, bloodwork, and common procedures upfront rather than being surprised later.

What should I look for when I first visit a vet?

Watch how the clinic staff and vet interact with your dog, whether they take the time to build comfort and trust, and whether they explain things clearly rather than using confusing jargon.

What should my dog's emergency vet plan include?

Every pet parent should know their regular vet's after-hours policy and have a nearby 24/7 emergency clinic identified in advance, so you're not scrambling to find one during an actual crisis.

Why is communication with my vet so important?

Since your dog can't describe their own symptoms, you are their voice, and a good vet needs to listen to your concerns and explain diagnoses and treatment options in plain language.

Should I get pet insurance?

Weighing insurance or a membership plan against your dog's actual healthcare needs and history is worth doing early, since costs can add up quickly, especially for breeds prone to health issues.

How do I know if my vet is the right long-term fit?

Trust and partnership are essential, so if you consistently feel heard, respected, and well-informed after appointments, that's a strong sign you've found the right vet for the long term.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

11: Adopt or Shop?

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell explores the important decision of whether to adopt or shop for a dog. She emphasizes the value of adoption, sharing personal stories and statistics about the current state of dog shelters. The conversation delves into the challenges of adopting dogs, including potential trauma and the thorough application process. Mariska also discusses the pros and cons of purchasing from reputable breeders versus puppy mills, highlighting the ethical considerations involved. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to approach dog ownership with intention and commitment, regardless of their choice.

During This Episode:

Introduction to dog adoption versus shopping, and why it's a question of honesty rather than morality
The case for adoption: saving a life, cost considerations, and the range of ages and temperaments available
The real challenges of adoption: application processes, home checks, and potential trauma
Understanding dog shopping and what it involves
The dark side of breeding: puppy mills, backyard breeding, and the health issues that follow
Finding the right dog for you, regardless of which path you choose
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Rolls and Underbites
Paw-lebrity of the Week: The Kevin and Kayla Show

Takeaways:

Adoption is a personal journey and should be approached with empathy. There's no single right answer for every family, the goal is honesty about what you can offer a dog.
Dogs are a long-term commitment, not a temporary decision. A dog should never be treated like a gift or an impulse purchase.
Shelters often face overcrowding, leading to difficult choices for animals. This creates real pressure on rescues and fosters, especially during peak relocation seasons.
Adopting a dog can save a life and provide a second chance. Many shelters face capacity limits when dogs aren't adopted in time.
Adoption fees can vary, and sometimes adopting can be more cost-effective. Fees often cover vaccinations, spay or neuter, and microchipping.
Some adopted dogs may come with trauma and require patience. Structure, patience, and space help rescue dogs settle and thrive in their new home.
Reputable breeders prioritize health and ethics over profit. They run genetic health panels, screen for hereditary conditions, and are transparent about any issues.
Puppy mills often operate under cruel conditions, treating dogs poorly. Dogs are frequently bred relentlessly with no regard for genetic health or welfare.
Choosing the right dog involves matching energy levels and lifestyle needs. A high-energy working breed won't thrive in a quiet apartment, and vice versa.
Regardless of the choice, responsible pet ownership is crucial. What counts most is the care, training, and commitment you provide afterward.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

How dogs are assisting with scientific research with Kayla Fratt

How to Make Your Pet Adoption Application Stand Out

Rolls and Underbites

The Kevin and Kayla Show

Kevin's Video (the two classic Frenchie moods)

Kevin's Video (how much can happen in just a blink)

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Dog Adoption vs. Shopping

[02:55]- The Case for Adoption

[05:42]- Challenges of Adoption

[08:46]- Understanding Dog Shopping

[11:33]- The Dark Side of Breeding

[14:47]- Finding the Right Dog for You

[16:40]- Where Tails meet hearts - Rolls and Underbites.

[18:40]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - The Kevin and Kayla Show

FAQ

Should I adopt or buy a dog from a breeder?

Adoption is generally the more responsible choice because it saves a life and helps address shelter overcrowding, but buying from a reputable, health-screening, and transparent breeder can also be an ethical option depending on your circumstances.

What is dog "decompression time" after adoption?

Decompression time is the period a newly adopted dog needs to adjust to a new home, requiring structure, patience, and space, since many rescue dogs carry some level of past trauma that takes time and consistency to work through.

How do I know if a dog breeder is reputable?

A reputable breeder is transparent about health issues, runs genetic health panels and screens for hereditary conditions, and raises puppies in a safe, enriching environment rather than mass-producing litters.

What are puppy mills and why are they harmful?

Puppy mills prioritize profit over welfare, often breeding dogs relentlessly under poor conditions with no regard for genetic health, which is why researching a breeder thoroughly matters so much if you choose to buy rather than adopt.

Is adopting a dog cheaper than buying one?

It depends. Adoption fees are often lower than a breeder's price and typically include vaccinations, spaying or neutering, and microchipping, though costs can rise if a dog needs extensive veterinary care.

What should I consider before getting a dog, adopted or purchased?

Honestly assess whether you can meet a dog's emotional and physical needs, whether you're prepared for training and bonding, and whether your lifestyle and energy level match the dog's, regardless of how you bring them home.

Can a rescue dog with a difficult past still become a great companion?

Yes. With consistent training, patience, and love, even rescue dogs with challenging pasts can transform significantly over time into loving, well-adjusted companions.

Does it matter more how I got my dog, or how I care for them afterward?

How you care for your dog afterward matters most. Regardless of whether you adopt or buy, responsible pet ownership, meaning consistent care, training, and commitment, is what truly determines a dog's quality of life.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

10: Tails and Tones Journey

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, Mariska shares her personal journey as a dog parent, highlighting the challenges faced in pet care and the quest for sustainable products. She traces the "kettlebell incident," when her French Bulldog Piper collapsed mid-walk, alongside two failed pet strollers, and how those experiences, combined with her Master's in Sustainable Design, pushed her to research the pet industry's waste problem and start building durable, sustainable products instead of settling for disposable ones.

During This Episode:

Introduction to the journey of pet care
The challenges of pet ownership, including the kettlebell incident and two stroller fiascos
The quest for sustainable pet products, and why they're so hard to find
The birth of a pet company, and what it took to get there
Building a community of dog parents around Tails and Tones

Takeaways:

Caring for pets can be overwhelming at times. Even simple things, like carrying your dog partway through a walk, can turn into a physically and emotionally draining ordeal.
Sustainable pet products are often hard to find. The market is dominated by items designed for convenience and price, not longevity or eco-friendliness.
Many pet products are designed for short-term use. They're built without a way to repair or replace individual parts.
The pet industry is growing rapidly, but sustainability is lagging. More households than ever have pets, but most products still aren't designed to last.
There is a need for durable and eco-friendly pet products. Products should be built to be fixed, not thrown away and replaced.
Pet ownership statistics show a significant increase in households with pets. That growth makes the sustainability gap in pet products even more urgent to address.
The average lifespan of a dog is much longer than the lifespan of many pet products. A dog's years together with you should outlast the gear you buy for them, not the other way around.
Community engagement is essential for building a successful pet brand. Tails and Tones grew from listener stories and feedback, not just product development in isolation.
The journey of creating a pet company is filled with challenges and learning experiences. From two broken strollers to a completed thesis, every setback shaped the final product direction.
It's important to design products that evolve with the needs of pet parents, not force them to keep buying new gear as circumstances change.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Ryan Daniel Moran's Book, 12 Months to $1million

Join our Newsletter here

Join our Waiting List here

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to the Journey of Pet Care

[04:34]- Challenges of Pet Ownership

[09:00]- The Quest for Sustainable Pet Products

[14:10]- The Birth of a Pet Company

[18:49]- Building a Community of Dog Parents

FAQ

Why did Mariska start Tails and Tones?

Mariska started Tails and Tones after struggling to find pet gear that was both durable and sustainable, following the "kettlebell incident" with her dog Piper and two different strollers that failed her within months.

What is the "kettlebell incident" that inspired Tails and Tones?

The kettlebell incident refers to the day Piper suddenly stopped walking mid-walk and had to be carried home, feeling far heavier than her actual weight and leaving Mariska's arms shaking by the time she got home.

Are pet products bad for the environment?

Many mass-market pet products are designed for short-term use, meaning they often end up needing replacement well before a dog's own lifespan is over.

Why is sustainability lagging in the pet industry?

The pet industry is growing rapidly, but product design hasn't kept pace, with many items built for convenience and price rather than durability or eco-friendliness.

What is Tails and Tones' first product?

Tails and Tones' first product is Elevé, a modular, height-adaptive feeding system designed to be durable and evolve with a dog's changing needs, inspired directly by challenges Mariska faced with her own dog, Piper.

How can I join the Tails and Tones waiting list or newsletter?

You can join the waiting list from the link in our instagram bio and sign up for the newsletter at newsletter.tailsandtones.com to stay updated on the first product launch.

What did Mariska study before starting Tails and Tones?

Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, and a post graduate degree in Environmental Science, directly informing the design philosophy behind Tails and Tones and its focus on durability and repairability.

Why does community matter for a pet brand like Tails and Tones?

Community engagement helps shape the products themselves, since listener stories and feedback have directly influenced how Tails and Tones designs for the real needs of dog parents.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

9: Indoor Enrichment for Dogs: Fun Activities

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses how to keep dogs entertained indoors, especially during extreme weather conditions. She shares personal anecdotes about responsible pet ownership and the importance of picking up after dogs. The episode highlights various indoor enrichment activities, including games like hide and seek, the toilet roll challenge, and tug of war, as well as the significance of rotating enrichment toys to keep dogs mentally stimulated. Mariska also shares heartwarming stories about dogs making a difference in their communities, emphasizing the bond between pets and their owners.

Bonus tip: you can always take your pet to the local pet shop or hardware store if they are dog friendly, a wonderful indoor snuffle too.

During This Episode:

Introduction to indoor dog enrichment
The importance of picking up after your dog
Keeping dogs happy indoors during extreme weather
Fun indoor games for dogs
Enrichment toys and puzzle rotation
Fetch or Forget: a review of the Earth Rated Natural Rubber Treat Toy
Tug and chase play
Trick training sessions
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Kelby and Nixie
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Some Frenchie Named Apollo
A recap and conclusion

Takeaways:

Indoor enrichment is crucial for dogs during extreme weather. Heat, cold, or rain shouldn't mean your dog goes without mental and physical stimulation.
Responsible pet ownership includes cleaning up after your dog. Leaving mess behind in shared spaces risks those places becoming off-limits to all dogs in the future.
Engaging games can keep dogs happy and stimulated indoors. You don't need a big backyard or a long walk to give your dog a fulfilling day.
Enrichment activities should be tailored to each dog's preferences. What thrills one dog, like a snuffle mat, might bore or frustrate another, so it's worth experimenting.
Rotating puzzle toys helps maintain a dog's interest and challenge. Dogs get faster with practice, so a toy that took 15 minutes to solve may only take one minute after enough repetition.
Tug of war is a great way to release energy indoors, especially on carpet rather than slippery tile, to protect joints from injuries like luxating patella.
Trick training can strengthen the bond between dog and owner. Short, five-to-ten-minute sessions add mental stimulation and communication beyond just food-foraging games.
Heartwarming dog stories remind us of the impact pets can have. Stories like Kelby and Nixie's highlight the resilience and capability of dogs.
Finding fun activities is more important than perfection in pet care. Trying different games and seeing what your dog responds to matters more than doing it "right."
Community engagement is vital for responsible pet ownership, whether that's sharing enrichment ideas or simply modeling good etiquette in shared spaces.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Fetch or Forget, Earth Rated Natural Rubber Treat Toy

Where Tails meet hearts, Kelby & Nixie (That Nepa Newfie)

Paw-lebrity of the Week, Some Frenchie Named Apollo

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Indoor Dog Enrichment

[03:29]- The Importance of Picking Up After Your Dog

[04:15]- Keeping Dogs Happy Indoors

[06:11]- Fun Indoor Games for Dogs

[17:23]- Enrichment Toys and Puzzle Rotation

[20:17]- Fetch or Forget, Earth Rated Natural Rubber Treat Toy

[23:03]- Tug and Chase Play

[26:55]- Trick Training Sessions

[27:53]- Where Tails meet hearts, Kelby & Nixie (That Nepa Newfie)

[29:37]- Paw-lebrity of the Week, Some Frenchie Named Apollo

[31:07]- Recap and Conclusion

*I mistakenly called Artemis a boy in this episode. Straight to doggy hell with me. Artemis, you’re a queen 👑apologies and virtual treats incoming!

FAQ

How can I keep my dog entertained indoors when it's too hot or cold to walk?

Try rotating enrichment games like a hide-and-seek treasure hunt using their regular food, the toilet roll challenge, puzzle toy rotation, tug and chase play on carpet, and short trick-training sessions to keep them mentally and physically engaged without going outside.

What is indoor enrichment for dogs?

Indoor enrichment refers to mentally and physically stimulating activities done inside the home, designed to keep a dog engaged when regular walks aren't possible due to weather or other constraints.

Is tug of war safe for dogs indoors?

Yes and No, when played on a non-slip surface like carpet rather than tile, tug and chase games are a safe way to burn off energy indoors. Avoid encouraging quick, sharp turns, which can contribute to joint issues. If played on a regular and very intense it can cause issues. If you are concerned contact your vet.

Why does my dog get bored of puzzle toys quickly?

Dogs get faster at solving puzzle toys with repeated practice, so rotating between a few different toys helps keep them appropriately challenged.

Is it safe to leave my dog alone with a toilet roll enrichment game?

It's best to supervise this activity closely, since some dogs may try to eat the tubes once the treats are gone, so pack the game away once your dog shifts from searching to chewing.

What if my dog can't go on a walk at all today?

Consider taking them somewhere dog-friendly like a local pet shop or hardware store, which can double as a wonderful indoor snuffle outing when a proper walk isn't possible or do an indoor sniffari.

Do I need to buy special toys for indoor enrichment?

Not necessarily. Games like hide and seek, the toilet roll challenge, and tug of war can all be done with things you likely already have at home.

How does trick training help with enrichment?

Trick training gives dogs mental stimulation while strengthening the bond and communication between dog and owner, making it a valuable addition to any indoor enrichment routine.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

8: Neighbour Complaints About Your Dog? Here’s the Ultimate Guide to Keeping the Peace

Fri, 15 Aug 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses the challenges dog owners face when neighbors complain about barking. She emphasizes the importance of understanding barking as a form of communication and offers practical steps for addressing complaints with neighbors. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, actionable advice, and heartwarming stories, all aimed at fostering a supportive community for dog parents.

During This Episode:

Introduction to dog complaints, and why getting one doesn't make you a bad dog parent
Understanding barking as communication: boredom, anxiety, excitement, or alerting you to something
Navigating neighbor complaints without letting them feel like a personal attack
Five steps to address complaints, from staying calm to standing your ground when needed
Tools and strategies for dog owners, including cameras and behavior tracking
Fetch or Forget: a review of the Eufy Cam 2 Pro
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Padre João Paulo
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Tuna

Takeaways:

Barking is a form of communication from your dog. It can signal boredom, anxiety, excitement, or alertness, so the goal is to address the cause, not just silence the noise.
Not every complaint is a personal attack on you. A neighbor's frustration often reflects their own bad day or an unrelated stressor as much as it reflects your dog's behavior.
Understanding the reason behind barking can help address complaints. Pinpointing the trigger, whether it's boredom, passing noise, or fence reactivity, lets you apply a targeted fix.
Transparency with neighbors can ease tensions. Letting neighbors know you're actively training your dog builds patience and goodwill.
Assess complaints neutrally before reacting. Check camera footage, note the time and consistency, and talk to other neighbors before deciding how to respond.
If a complaint is valid, take proactive steps to resolve it. Practical fixes include pre-departure walks, enrichment toys, white noise, and visual blocks for fence reactivity.
Document your dog's behavior to track progress. A notebook, spreadsheet, or camera footage gives you a factual record if the issue continues or escalates.
A dog apology basket can help smooth over neighbor relations. A small gesture with earplugs, a handwritten note, and a treat shows genuine effort and care.
Stay calm and grounded when addressing complaints. Your response, not your dog's behavior alone, shapes how the situation and your relationship with your neighbor unfolds.
Your response to complaints is crucial in maintaining community harmony. Confidence, consistency, and compassion create more peace than defensiveness or denial ever will.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Where Tails meet hearts, Padre João Paulo

Paw-lebrity of the Week, Tuna (Traveling Tuna)

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Dog Complaints

[01:19]- Understanding Barking as Communication

[02:39]- Navigating Neighbor Complaints

[09:49]- Five Steps to Address Complaints

[18:11]- Tools and Strategies for Dog Owners

[17:40]- Fetch or Forget, Eufy Cam 2 Pro, Never versions available

[20:22]- Where Tails meet hearts, Padre João Paulo

[23:32]- Paw-lebrity of the Week, Tuna (Traveling Tuna)

FAQ

What should I do if my neighbor complains about my dog barking?

Stay calm rather than reacting emotionally, assess the complaint neutrally using camera footage or by checking with other neighbors, fix the issue if it's valid, communicate proactively with your neighbor about your progress, and stand your ground if the complaint turns out to be unreasonable.

Why does my dog bark so much when I leave the house?

Excessive barking when left alone is often a sign of separation anxiety, boredom, or under-stimulation, and can be improved through gradual alone-time training, pre-departure exercise, and enrichment toys or puzzle feeders.

Is it normal to feel guilty when a neighbor complains about my dog?

Yes, it's a very common reaction, but a complaint isn't proof you're a bad dog parent. It usually reflects a gap between your neighbor's expectations and your dog's current behavior, which can be worked on together.

What tools can help reduce a dog's barking at home?

White noise machines can mask outside triggers, pet cameras with custom zone detection let you monitor and address behavior remotely, and visual blocks can help with fence reactivity.

Should I confront my neighbor if their complaint about my dog seems unfair?

Investigate first, checking your camera footage and asking other neighbors what they've noticed, and if the complaint isn't supported by evidence, calmly share what you found and offer to be notified directly next time so you can address it in real time.

What is a dog apology basket?

A dog apology basket is a small gesture for an affected neighbor that might include earplugs, a handwritten note explaining you're actively training your dog, and a treat, showing genuine effort and helping smooth over tension.

How do I know if a barking complaint is actually valid?

Assess it neutrally rather than reacting emotionally, using camera footage, timing, and consistency as your guide, and check in with other neighbors before deciding whether and how to respond.

What are the five steps to handling a neighbor's complaint about my dog?

Stay calm, assess the complaint neutrally, fix the issue if it's valid, communicate proactively with your neighbor, and stand your ground against complaints that turn out to be unreasonable.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

7: Dog Parks Dirty Looks and Drama The Real Talk Guide to Dog Etiquette

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses essential dog etiquette for pet owners, emphasizing the importance of responsible pet ownership, training, and socialization. She shares personal experiences and practical tips on navigating public spaces with dogs, ensuring their health and safety, and fostering a supportive dog-loving community. The episode concludes with a heartwarming story about a dog rescue foundation and a spotlight on a unique dog personality, reinforcing the joy and responsibility of being a dog parent.

During This Episode:

Understanding dog etiquette as community respect, not an official rulebook
Leash rules, and why they matter even for a well-trained dog
Dog poop and the non-negotiable responsibility of cleaning up after your dog
Training and socialization for dogs, and how it builds confidence, not just obedience
Doggie Adventures UAE as a resource for navigating dog-friendly life in the region
Navigating public spaces with dogs, including greetings and boundaries
Health and safety for dogs, including vaccinations and reading body language
Where Tails Meet Hearts: the Jason Heigl Foundation and Badlands Ranch Pet
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Dolly Pawton
A look ahead to the next episode, on what to do when your neighbours complain about your dog

Takeaways:

Dog etiquette is about respect for the community. It isn't an official rulebook, but following it makes shared spaces safer and more pleasant for everyone.
Leash rules are for the safety of all dogs and people. Even a well-behaved dog off-leash can cause anxiety or a safety concern for others who aren't as comfortable.
Cleaning up after your dog is a basic responsibility. Leaving mess behind risks getting shared spaces closed to dogs altogether.
Always ask before letting your dog interact with others. Even a friendly dog shouldn't be assumed to be welcome by every other dog or person.
Training helps dogs feel safe and confident. Structured socialization builds calm in new situations rather than simply teaching commands.
Know when it's best to leave your dog at home. Extreme heat or situations where your dog won't be comfortable are good reasons to skip bringing them along.
Dog-friendly spaces require responsible behavior from owners. A quick potty break beforehand, cleaning up accidents, and general consideration keeps these spaces open for everyone.
Keep your dog's vaccinations and health records up to date. It matters for travel, boarding, and general wellbeing, and having documentation on hand avoids last-minute scrambles.
Understanding dog body language can prevent conflicts. Learning to read tail position, stiffness, and ear posture in your dog and others helps you step in before a bad interaction happens.
Empathy and awareness create better experiences for everyone. Staying calm around people who fear dogs, and respecting other dogs' boundaries, builds a more welcoming pet community.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Doggie Adventures UAE

Leave a review on Podchaser

Where Tails meet hearts - Jason

Heigl Foundation and Badlands Ranch Pet

Paw-lebrity of the Week - Dolly Pawton

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we are digging into what do you do when your neighbours complain about your dog.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Understanding Dog Etiquette

[01:49]- Leash?

[03:25]- Dog Poop

[08:41]- Training and Socialization for Dogs

[13:11]-Doggie Adventures UAE

[13:25]- Navigating Public Spaces with Dogs

[18:05]- Health and Safety for Dogs

[18:35]- Where Tails meet hearts - Jason

Heigl Foundation and Badlands Ranch Pet

[20:14]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - Dolly Pawton

FAQ

What is proper dog park etiquette?

Proper dog park etiquette includes always asking before letting your dog approach another dog or person, keeping your dog leashed where required, cleaning up after them without exception, and respecting signals that another dog or owner isn't comfortable interacting.

Is it okay to let my dog off-leash if they have good recall?

Leash rules exist for the comfort and safety of everyone sharing the space, not just your own dog's behavior, so even a well-trained dog should stay leashed in on-leash areas out of respect for people and pets who may not be comfortable.

Does "he's friendly" mean I can let my dog approach another dog?

No. Even if your dog is friendly, the other dog or person may not want an interaction, so it's always best to ask first rather than assume friendliness is enough.

Why do dogs need up-to-date vaccinations?

Current vaccinations and health records are essential for travel, boarding, and training enrollment, and having documentation on hand avoids delays or having to redo vaccinations unnecessarily.

How can I tell if a dog is uncomfortable during an interaction?

Watch for stiffening, avoided eye contact, pinned-back ears, raised hackles, or a tucked tail, all signs a dog is uncomfortable and needs space rather than continued interaction.

How do I know when to leave my dog at home instead of bringing them out?

Consider the environment (extreme heat, crowds, or unfamiliar settings) and your dog's own comfort level, since dog-friendly doesn't always mean dog-appropriate for every outing.

What can I do to help make my city or community more dog-friendly?

Model responsible behavior yourself, like cleaning up after your dog and respecting leash rules, and use resources like Doggie Adventures UAE to find and support genuinely dog-friendly spaces.

How can I support dog rescue efforts like the ones featured on this episode?

Following and supporting organizations like the Jason Heigl Foundation, and being mindful of ethical, responsible pet ownership in your own life, both help build a stronger dog-loving community.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

6: Don’t Feed Your Dog This: Common Foods That Can Kill or Harm Them

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses the critical topic of food and household items that can be toxic or deadly to dogs. She provides a comprehensive guide on what pet parents need to know, including common human foods that are dangerous, household items to avoid, and natural dangers in the environment. The episode also emphasizes the importance of emergency preparedness for pet owners and shares heartwarming rescue stories, along with a spotlight on a celebrity pet. Mariska encourages listeners to be informed and proactive in ensuring their pets' safety.

During This Episode:

Introduction to dog safety and toxic foods
Common human foods that are toxic to dogs
Household items and medications dangerous for dogs
Natural dangers in the environment, like backyard mushrooms and toxic plants
Emergency preparedness for dog owners
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Dino and Ruby
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Pug Lou Lou and Pug Mosy
A look ahead to the next episode, on dog etiquette every good dog owner should have

Takeaways:

Always check if food is safe for dogs before sharing it, even something that seems harmless.
Some human foods can be deadly to dogs. Chocolate, grapes, raisins, alcohol, macadamia nuts, avocado, onions, and garlic are all common kitchen items that pose real danger.
Avoid giving treats without asking the pet parent. A dog may have allergies or health conditions that make even a well-meaning treat harmful.
Human medications can be fatal to dogs. Ibuprofen, acetaminophen, and multivitamins are all dangerous if ingested.
Mushrooms can be extremely toxic for dogs. Check your yard after rain, and never let your dog "help" you pick wild mushrooms.
Keep cleaning products out of reach of pets, along with essential oils and toxic plants like lilies, tulips, daffodils, and cycads.
Stay calm in an emergency with your pet. Panicking wastes precious time, so secure your dog and the hazard first, then call for help.
Have a little bit of an emergency plan. Know your vet's number, your local animal hospital, and poison control, and keep them somewhere you can find instantly.
Rescue stories remind us of the power of love. Dino and Ruby's story is a heartwarming example of the bond between rescue dogs and their people.
Celebrity pets bring joy and entertainment to our lives, like this episode's Paw-lebrity picks, Lou Lou and Mosy

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Download the guide

Where Tails meet hearts - Dino and Ruby video

Paw-lebrity of the Week - Pug Lou Lou Pug Mosy

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we are digging into the dog etiquette every good dog owner should have.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Dog Safety and Toxic Foods

[02:36]- Common Human Foods That Are Toxic to Dogs

[05:22]- Household Items and Medications Dangerous for Dogs

[08:01]- Natural Dangers in the Environment

[10:39]- Emergency Preparedness for Dog Owners

[13:31]- Where Tails meet hearts - Dino and Ruby's video

[16:28]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - Pug Lou Lou and Pug Mosy

FAQ

What human foods are toxic to dogs?

Chocolate, grapes, raisins, sultanas, currants, alcohol, macadamia nuts and other tree nuts, avocado, onions, garlic, chives, leeks, and caffeine are all toxic to dogs and should never be shared, even in small amounts.

Is chocolate really dangerous for dogs?

Yes. Chocolate contains theobromine, a compound dogs cannot metabolize properly, and even a small amount can be dangerous or deadly depending on the dog's size and the type of chocolate.

Are grapes and raisins poisonous to dogs?

Yes. Grapes, raisins, sultanas, and currants can cause sudden kidney failure in dogs, and even a small amount can be dangerous, so they should be kept completely out of reach.

What should I do if my dog eats something toxic?

Stay calm, note the time it happened, move your dog and the hazard to a safe area, do not induce vomiting unless a vet instructs you to, and call your vet or animal poison control immediately with details of what, how much, and when your dog ate it.

Are mushrooms dangerous for dogs?

Yes, mushrooms can be extremely toxic for dogs, so it's worth checking your yard after rain and keeping a close eye on your dog during walks where wild mushrooms might be growing.

Are lilies and other houseplants dangerous for dogs?

Yes, plants like lilies, tulips, daffodils, and cycads are all risky for dogs if chewed or ingested, so these should be kept out of reach or avoided in homes with dogs.

Can dogs have human medication?

No, never give a dog human medication without veterinary guidance. Common medications can be fatal, so anything a vet prescribes for a dog should be clearly identified as such when filled at a pharmacy.

How can I be better prepared for a pet emergency?

Have a little bit of an emergency plan in place before you need it, including your vet's number, a nearby emergency clinic, and a quick-reference guide to toxic foods and substances.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

A Tail of Gratitude: The Thank-You Episode

Fri, 25 Jul 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this heartfelt episode, Mariska expresses deep gratitude to the many individuals and organizations that have supported her and her dog, Piper, throughout their journey. From the medical teams that cared for Piper to the dog community that welcomed them, Mariska highlights the importance of support and love in pet parenting. She reflects on the joy and lessons learned along the way, emphasizing the bond between pets and their owners.

During This Episode:

An introduction to this thank-you episode and why Mariska wanted to record it
Gratitude to No Pup Cleft Behind, the rescue organization behind Piper's journey
Recognition of Waroona Veterinary Clinic, including Dr. Ron, Kellie, and the nursing staff who cared for Piper
Thanks to Murdoch University Animal Hospital's Small Animal Surgery team, led by Professor Giselle Hosgood
Appreciation for Greencross Vets Subiaco
Gratitude to Fremantle Animal Hospital (Freo Vets), including Dr. Garnett, Dr. Kristy, and the nursing team
A shoutout to the community at Subiaco Common Dog Park, including Katie and Austin, Denise and Boy George, Simone and Floyed, Anne, Danielle, and Mark, Nicky, and Moose
Thanks to Happy Tails in Perth, including Amanda and her referees
Recognition of Bruno's Play Center in Dubai, including Jimmy and his team
Gratitude to the podcast's technical and production partners, including Podcast Websites, Captivate, and Rebel Base Media
Appreciation for FluentPet and its role in Piper's life
A final thank you to Alex Cearns of Houndstooth Studio

Takeaways:

Mariska expresses gratitude to her support system. This episode is dedicated entirely to acknowledging the people and organizations who made Piper's journey and the podcast itself possible.
The importance of community in pet parenting is highlighted. From dog park friends to veterinary teams, a strong support network makes a real difference for pet parents facing health challenges.
Piper's journey has been filled with challenges and joy. Her medical needs, from a cleft palate to ongoing surgeries, shaped much of what Tails and Tones stands for today.
Support from medical teams was crucial for Piper's health. Multiple veterinary clinics and specialists across Perth and Fremantle played a direct role in her care.
Mariska acknowledges the role of her family in her journey, alongside friends from the local dog park community.
The podcast is a reflection of Mariska's love for Piper. Its existence is tied directly to the people who supported them both along the way.
Community members played a significant role in their lives, from fellow dog parents at Subiaco Common Dog Park to daycare teams in both Perth and Dubai.
Mariska emphasizes the joy of pet ownership, even amid the medical and emotional challenges Piper's journey has involved.
The episode serves as a thank you to all supporters, including veterinary teams, podcast production partners, and the wider dog-loving community.
Piper's personality and journey inspire the podcast's creation, grounding Tails and Tones in real, lived experience rather than theory alone.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

NoPupCleftBehind

Waroona Veterinary Clinic

Greencross Subiaco

Murdoch Small Animal Surgeries

Houndstooth Studio by Alex Cearns

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[01:11]- No Pup Cleft Behind

[02:07]- Waroona Veterinary Clinic Dr. Ron, Kellie, and the nursing staff at Waroona Veterinary Clinic

[02:27]- Murdoch University Animal Hospital – Small Animal Surgery Professor Giselle Hosgood

[02:59]- Greencross Vets Subiaco

[03:25]- Fremantle Animal Hospital (Freo Vets) Dr. Garnett, Dr. Kristy, and the nursing team at Fremantle Animal Hospital

[03:56]- Subiaco Common Dog Park

[04:02]- Katie & Austin

[04:14]- Denise and Boy George

[04:20]- Simone and Floyed

[04:31]- Anne

[04:48]- Danielle

[04:57]- Mark, Nicky, and Moose

[05:56]- Happy Tails – Perth Amanda and her referees at Happy Tails

[06:03]- Bruno’s Play Center – Dubai Jimmy and his team at Bruno’s Play Center

[07:58]- Podcast Websites / Captivate / Rebel Base Media

[08:25]- FluentPet

[10:18]- Alex Cearns from Houndstooth Studio

FAQ

Who is this bonus episode dedicated to?

This episode is Mariska's thank you to everyone who supported her and Piper, including veterinary teams, rescue organizations, dog park friends, daycare centers, and the podcast's production partners.

Why is community support important for pet parents, especially those with a medically complex dog?

Community support, whether from veterinary specialists, daycare teams, or fellow dog parents, provides both practical help and emotional reassurance during the ups and downs of caring for a dog with ongoing health needs like Piper's.

Which veterinary clinics cared for Piper throughout her journey?

Piper's care team included Waroona Veterinary Clinic, Murdoch University Animal Hospital's Small Animal Surgery department, Greencross Vets Subiaco, and Fremantle Animal Hospital (Freo Vets), spanning her early years in Australia. In Dubai we had the amazing team at Amity, Dr Wells and Umm Suqeim Veterinary Centre taking care of her.

What role did No Pup Cleft Behind play in Piper's story?

No Pup Cleft Behind is the rescue organization that supported Piper's early life with a cleft palate, playing a foundational role in her journey and, later, in the mission behind Tails and Tones.

How does this episode connect to the mission behind Tails and Tones?

Piper's personality and journey, including the community and medical support she received, directly inspired the creation of the podcast and shaped the values behind the Tails and Tones brand.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

5: Dog Boarding, Pet Sitters, or Family? How to Choose the Best Care While You’re Away

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses the various options for pet care when traveling, emphasizing the importance of safety and comfort for pets. She shares personal experiences and criteria for selecting pet sitters, explores different care options including pet sitting, boarding, and trusted house sitters, and highlights the value of community support among pet parents. The episode concludes with heartwarming pet stories and a spotlight on celebrity pets, reinforcing the bond between pets and their owners.

During This Episode:

Introduction to pet care dilemmas when traveling
Navigating the different pet care options available
Criteria for choosing a pet sitter you can genuinely trust
Exploring pet sitting and boarding as options
Understanding trusted house sitters and how the model works
The role of friends and family in pet care
Community support for pet parents
Fetch or Forget: a product review
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Crusoe the Dachshund
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Gnocchi the Frenchie
Final thoughts on pet care while traveling

Takeaways:

Many pet parents face the dilemma of pet care while traveling. It's a common source of stress and guilt, but there are several legitimate options to choose from.
It's important to prioritize your pet's safety and comfort. The right choice depends on your individual dog's personality, not on what other people think you should do.
Judgment from others shouldn't dictate your choices for pet care. What works for one dog parent may not work for another, and that's okay.
A meet and greet with potential sitters is essential. Watching how your dog reacts to a new person gives you valuable insight before committing to an overnight stay.
Your pet's needs may change over time, requiring different care solutions. Age, health, and temperament can all shift what type of care setup works best.
Pet sitting can be flexible and personalized to your pet's routine. Whether at your home or the sitter's, it lets your dog stay close to their normal rhythm.
Check the legality and insurance of pet sitters in your area. In markets where pet sitting is a grey area, confirming this protects both you and your dog.
Community support can be invaluable for pet parents. Offering to help a fellow dog parent, or accepting help, can build a genuine safety net for emergencies.
Trial runs can help ease anxiety for both pets and owners. Starting small, with a short stay before a full holiday, builds trust gradually on both sides.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Pawshake

Mad Paws

Pet Bae (Piper's video)

Petbacker

Bruno’s Play Center

Happy Tails

KONG Signature Small/Petit Ball

Trusted housesitters

Crusoe the Celebrity Dachshund

Crusoe's retirement video

Doggoramps

Paw-lebrity of the Week, Gnocchi the Frenchie

Gnocchi's clothing brand - Life of Leisure

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we are digging into things your dog should not be eating.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] -Introduction to Pet Care Dilemmas

[02:23] -Navigating Pet Care Options

[05:23] -Criteria for Choosing a Pet Sitter

[08:07] -Exploring Pet Sitting and Boarding

[10:57] -Understanding Trusted House Sitters

[14:00] -The Role of Friends and Family in Pet Care

[16:35] -Community Support for Pet Parents

[19:05] - Fetch or Forget

[19:37] -Where Tails meet hearts - Crusoe The Dachshund

[22:19] -Paw-lebrity of the Week - Gnocchi The Frenchie

[25:19] -Final Thoughts on Pet Care

FAQ

What are the best options for pet care when traveling?

The main options are pet sitting, whether at your home or the sitter's, pet boarding or daycare, trusted house-sitting platforms, and asking friends or family, with the right choice depending on your dog's personality, your budget, and how long you'll be away.

How do I choose a good pet sitter?

Look for a sitter with a clear plan for emergencies and a strong reputation, and confirm your dog reacts well to them during a meet and greet before booking an overnight stay.

Is pet sitting legal everywhere?

Not necessarily. Pet sitting for pay is a grey area in some regions, so it's important to check whether sitters in your area need to be licensed or insured before hiring one.

Should I do a trial run before boarding my dog for a long trip?

Yes, starting with a short stay before a full holiday helps your dog build trust with the sitter or facility and gives you confidence that a longer stay will go smoothly.

What should I look for in a dog boarding facility?

Tour the facility beforehand, ask about emergency procedures and supervision, and see what a typical day looks like, since popular facilities can fill up quickly around holidays.

Is it okay to ask friends or family to look after my dog?

Yes, if your dog already knows and trusts them, but it's still worth treating it professionally by discussing an emergency plan and confirming your dog feels genuinely comfortable with them.

What is a trusted house-sitting platform?

Platforms like Trusted Housesitters connect you with vetted sitters who stay in your home to care for your pet, which means your pet stays in a familiar environment and your home gets looked after too.

How can community support help pet parents who need to travel?

Offering to help a fellow dog parent, or accepting help when it's offered, can build a genuine safety net that makes pet care while traveling feel far less stressful for everyone involved.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

How to Support the Tails and Tones Podcast

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Thank you for being part of the Tails and Tones pack! If you're wondering how to support the podcast, this episode walks through simple ways to help it grow, from listening and leaving a review to subscribing, sharing, joining the newsletter, and even becoming a monthly supporter or sponsor. Every bit of support helps spread joyful, stress-free dog parenting tips to more pet parents.

During This Episode:

Listen to more episodes on your favorite platform
Leave a review to help others find the show and share what's resonating with you
Subscribe or follow the show on your podcast app so you never miss an episode
Share the podcast with someone navigating a new puppy or caring for a senior dog
Join the conversation on social media, including Instagram
Join the newsletter for bite-sized updates and behind-the-scenes sneak peeks
Become a monthly supporter to help keep the podcast going and growing
Sponsor or collaborate with Tails and Tones if you're a pet brand or dog-friendly business

Takeaways:

Listening to more episodes is the simplest way to support the show. Every listen helps the podcast grow and reach more pet parents.
Leaving a review helps others find the show. Reviews on Podchaser, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify tell Mariska what's resonating with listeners.
Subscribing or following ensures you never miss an episode, and it also signals to podcast platforms that the show is worth recommending.
Sharing the podcast helps the right people find it, whether that's a friend with a new puppy or someone devoted to their senior dog.
Joining the conversation on Instagram keeps the community active. Likes, comments, and DMs all help keep the momentum going.
The newsletter offers behind-the-scenes updates and exclusives you won't find anywhere else.
Becoming a monthly supporter directly funds the podcast's production, helping keep the mics on and the show growing.
Sponsorship and collaboration opportunities are open for pet brands and dog-friendly businesses whose mission aligns with Tails and Tones.

Thank you for being part of the Tails and Tones pack! If you’re wondering how to support the podcast, here are a few simple ways to help us grow:

Ways to Support the Podcast:

1. Listen to More Episodes

Listen to the podcast on your favorite platform

2. Leave a Review

Reviews help others find the show and tell me what’s resonating with you.

You can leave a review on:

3. Subscribe or Follow

Hit the Subscribe or Follow button on your podcast app so you never miss an episode.

4. Share the Podcast

Know someone navigating life with a new puppy? Or a friend who treats their senior dog like royalty (as they should!)? Send them your favorite episode.

5. Join the conversation on on Social Media

Follow along on Instagram @tailsandtones. Your likes, comments, and DMs keep the tail

wags going.

6. Join Our Newsletter

Get bite-sized updates, behind-the-scenes sneak peeks, and exclusives to your inbox. Subscribe here or via our Instagram bio

Feeling Extra Generous?

Become a Monthly Supporter

Help keep the mics on and the kibble flowing, by joining our monthly membership. Your support directly helps keep the podcast going and growing, and you’ll get access to exclusive perks.

Sponsor or Collaborate with Us

Are you a pet brand or dog-friendly biz with a mission that aligns with ours? We’re opening up a few sponsorship and collaboration spots! If you’d love to team up, message us directly on Instagram @tailsandtones.

Your support, whether through listening, sharing, reviewing, or partnering, helps us spread joyful, stress-free dog parenting tips and inspires more pet parents to raise happy, healthy pups.

Thank you for being part of the Tails and Tones journey, where every tail tells a story, and every tone speaks from the heart.

FAQ

How can I support the Tails and Tones podcast?

You can support the podcast by listening to episodes, leaving a review, subscribing or following on your podcast app, sharing episodes with friends, following on Instagram, joining the newsletter, becoming a monthly supporter, or exploring a sponsorship or collaboration.

Where can I leave a review for Tails and Tones?

You can leave a review on Podchaser, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite listening platform, with how-to videos available for each option.

Is there a way to financially support the podcast?

Yes, listeners can become a monthly supporter through the Tails and Tones membership on Patreon, which helps fund the podcast's production and comes with exclusive perks.

Can my pet brand sponsor or collaborate with Tails and Tones?

Yes, Tails and Tones is opening up a few sponsorship and collaboration spots for pet brands and dog-friendly businesses whose mission aligns with theirs. Reach out directly via Instagram to start the conversation.

How do I stay updated on new episodes and announcements?

Subscribe or follow the podcast on your listening app, follow @tailsandtones on Instagram, and join the newsletter for bite-sized updates and behind-the-scenes content.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

4: Prepping for Paws: How to Make Your Home Dog-Ready

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska discusses how to prepare your home for a new dog, covering essential items, safety measures, and the importance of crate training. She shares personal anecdotes and practical tips for first-time dog owners, emphasizing the need for a safe and loving environment for pets.

During This Episode:

Getting ready for a new dog
A Pawsative Rant on a topic close to Mariska's heart
Essential preparations for dog owners before their new pup arrives
Creating a safe space for your dog at home
Understanding dog needs and training basics
Fetch or Forget: a review of the Forever Frankie Adjustable Harness
Where Tails Meet Hearts: Doug the Pug's graduation video
Paw-lebrity of the Week: Koa the Doodle
A look ahead to the next episode, on boarding, pet sitting, and what to do when you go on holiday

Takeaways:

Join local community groups for pet supplies. Buy Nothing groups are a great way to source gently used beds, bowls, and harnesses while connecting with other local dog parents.
Consider where your dog will sleep and eat. Choosing a cozy, secure sleeping spot and a quiet feeding area helps a new dog settle in faster.
Potty training requires a consistent method. Whether it's an outdoor spot, doggy door, or pee pads, sticking to one location reinforces the habit.
Always have poop bags on hand for walks. It's a basic but non-negotiable part of responsible dog ownership in any shared community space.
Doggy cams can help monitor your pet's behavior. Seeing what your dog is doing when left alone builds confidence and helps you respond appropriately.
Dogs can have strong preferences for toys. Letting your dog "choose" toys at the pet shop by watching what they sniff and return to can help you figure out what they'll actually use.
Safety-proof your home for your new dog. Get down to their eye level to spot cords, sharp corners, and other hazards before they become a problem.
Use eco-friendly cleaning products around pets. Safer alternatives reduce the risk of accidental poisoning.
Every dog is unique and may require different care. What works for one dog may need to be adjusted for another.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Buy Nothing Groups

Forever Frankie

Frankie selecting her piggie

Doug the Poug's graduation video

Koa The Doodle

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we are digging into boarding, pet sitting or what do you do when you go on holiday.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Getting Ready for a New Dog

[01:14] Pawsative Rant

[02:37] Essential Preparations for Dog Owners

[05:22] Creating a Safe Space for Your Dog

[08:16] Understanding Dog Needs and Training

[15:21] Fetch or Forget - Forever Frankie Adjustable Harness

[28:10] Where Tails meet hearts - Doug the Poug's graduation video

[29:30]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - Koa the doodle (Mom - Katherine Dad - Collin)

FAQ

How do I dog-proof my home before a new puppy arrives?

Get down to your dog's eye level to spot cords, sharp corners, and other hazards, decide in advance where your dog will sleep, eat, and go potty, and secure any hidden hazards before your dog comes home.

Where should a new puppy sleep?

Choose a cozy, secure spot that isn't isolated but also isn't in the middle of household chaos, and consider a comfort item nearby to help ease the transition for a puppy sleeping alone for the first time.

Is crate training necessary for a new dog?

Crate training isn't mandatory, but a crate can provide a safe, secure space for your dog, and baby gates are a good alternative if you prefer not to crate train.

How can I get pet supplies cheaply before adopting a dog?

Local Buy Nothing groups are an excellent source for gently used beds, bowls, harnesses, and other supplies, often at no cost, while also connecting you with other dog parents in your area.

Should I put my home address on my dog's name tag?

No, it's safer to include your dog's name and a phone number rather than a home address, since publicly listing where you live could make your dog a target for theft.

How do I know what toys my dog will actually like?

Let your dog "choose" their own toys at the pet shop by watching what they sniff and return to, rather than guessing based on what looks appealing to you.

Why should I use a doggy cam?

A doggy cam can give you peace of mind by letting you see what your dog is doing when left alone, helping you respond appropriately rather than overreacting to every noise.

What should I prioritize first when preparing for a new dog?

Start with the basics: where your dog will sleep, eat, and go potty, along with safety-proofing your space, before worrying about extras like toys or accessories.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

3: How to Create the Ultimate Dog Manual for Sitters, Travel, and Peace of Mind

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 05:40:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell discusses the importance of creating a personalized dog manual for pet owners. She emphasizes the need for trust when leaving dogs with sitters and provides a comprehensive guide on what to include in a dog manual, such as emergency contacts, medical history, daily routines, and personality traits. The episode also features heartwarming stories from the dog community, highlighting the bond between dogs and their owners.

During This Episode:

Introduction to dog manuals, and why Mariska created one
Ask a Soulful Mom: a listener question on leaving your dog alone for the first time
The importance of a dog manual for peace of mind
Emergency information every dog manual should include
Medical history and medications, documented clearly for a sitter
Understanding your dog's personality so a sitter can anticipate quirks
Daily routines and preferences that keep a dog settled
House rules and access information for anyone caring for your dog
Where Tails Meet Hearts: stories from the pet community, including Live Like Piggie and Harold the Little Lad
Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week: Cricket the Gremlin
A look ahead to the next episode, on getting your house dog ready

Takeaways:

Creating a dog manual can ease the stress of leaving your pet. Having everything written down gives you calm and confidence, even on a trip where you're hard to reach.
Trusting your pet sitter is crucial for peace of mind. Building that trust in advance makes both the drop-off and the trip itself easier.
A comprehensive dog manual includes emergency contacts and medical history. Vet details, opening hours, a backup animal hospital, and emergency contacts should all be in one easy-to-find place.
Daily routines and personality traits help sitters care for your dog properly. Meals, walk schedules, sleep spots, and potty routines prevent accidents and confusion.
Updating the dog manual regularly is important as your dog evolves. Revisit it every so often so it reflects your dog's current needs, not outdated ones.
Include specific feeding and walking schedules in the manual. Precise timing is more useful to a sitter than vague instructions.
Document your dog's quirks to help sitters avoid issues. Letting a sitter anticipate problems prevents them from discovering it the hard way.
Photos and visuals can enhance the usability of the manual. Bold headings, icons, and photos make a manual easy to scan quickly in a stressful moment.
Engaging with the dog community can provide support and inspiration. Sharing stories from the pet community builds connection among dog parents.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Downloadable Dog Manual Template

Review on Podcahaser

Join our newsletter

Tails and Tones Instagram

Bruno's Play Center

No Pup Cleft Behind

Live Like Piggie , Harold The Little Lad's video

Cricket the Gremlin

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, , we’re talking about how to get your house dog ready.

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Introduction to Dog Manuals

[02:10] Ask a Soulful Mom: Leaving Your Dog Alone

[05:54] The Importance of a Dog Manual

[10:13] Emergency Information in the Dog Manual

[14:00] Medical History and Medications

[17:50] Understanding Your Dog's Personality

[22:09] Daily Routines and Preferences

[26:57] House Rules and Access Information

[26:04] Where Tails Meet Hearts Segment Stories from the Pet Community - Live Like Piggie, Harrold The Little Lad

[29:03] Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week - Cricket the Gremlin with her sombreros and berets

FAQ

What should be included in a dog manual for a pet sitter?

A good dog manual should include a snapshot of your dog's basic details, emergency vet and contact information, medical history and medications, personality quirks, daily routines for meals and walks, potty schedule, and house access details.

Why do I need a dog manual if I already tell the sitter everything?

A written manual fills the gaps between what you've said out loud and what a sitter actually remembers in the moment, especially during an emergency.

What emergency information should I include for my pet sitter?

Include your vet's name, address, contact number, and opening hours, a backup animal hospital, and at least one or two emergency contacts in case you can't be reached.

How often should I update my dog's manual?

Update it regularly, whenever your dog's routine, medical needs, or personality quirks change, since an outdated manual can be as unhelpful as having no manual at all.

What's the best way to prepare a sitter for my dog's quirks?

List specific behavioral quirks so the sitter can anticipate and avoid problem situations rather than discovering them by accident.

Should I include photos in my dog's manual?

Yes, photos and visuals make a manual easier to scan quickly, which matters most in a stressful, time-sensitive moment.

What is the "downloadable dog manual template" mentioned in this episode?

It's a free template Mariska created to help pet parents build their own comprehensive dog manual, covering everything from emergency contacts to daily routines.

How can engaging with the dog community help me as a pet parent?

Following and sharing stories from accounts like Live Like Piggie and Harold the Little Lad can offer both practical inspiration and emotional support from other people navigating similar pet parenting journeys.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

2: How to Make Your Pet Adoption Application Stand Out

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 05:35:00 +0400

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell discusses the challenges of pet adoption applications, especially during high-demand periods. She shares valuable tips on how to craft a standout application, emphasizing the importance of treating it like a job application, telling a personal story, and being honest about one's lifestyle and living situation. The episode also highlights the significance of community support in pet rescue and adoption, featuring heartwarming stories of individuals who have gone above and beyond for their pets.

During This Episode:

Introduction to pet adoption applications, and why they're more competitive than people expect
Understanding the role of rescues in matching dogs to the right home, not just any home
Top tips for a standout application, from tone to specific details
Navigating the application process, including honesty about your lifestyle and past pet experiences
Where Tails Meet Hearts: stories from the pet community
Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week: ErocDog, skating with Tony Hawk
A look ahead to the next episode, on creating a dog manual for sitters, friends, or daycares

Takeaways:

Adoption applications can receive hundreds of submissions. Popular dogs, especially during high-demand periods, can attract 70 to 200+ applicants, so standing out takes real effort.
It's crucial to make your application stand out. Rescues want to see you have the means, plan, and heart to give the dog a permanent, happy home.
Adopting a pet is a long-term commitment, not a whim. The decision deserves the same weight as any major life commitment.
Treat your application like a job application. Be polite, thorough, and free of errors.
Tell a personal story to connect with the rescues. Specific, heartfelt details about why you want this particular dog carry more weight than generic statements.
Be honest about your lifestyle and living situation. Rescues use this information to match you with a dog that will genuinely thrive in your home.
Show that you've done your research on the pet's needs. Mentioning a vet, trainer, or breed-specific resources signals genuine preparedness.
Be transparent about any past pet experiences. Honesty here helps rescues make safer, more informed placement decisions.
Provide references to demonstrate responsibility. A vet, trainer, or landlord reference builds credibility, especially for renters.
Follow up politely after submitting your application. A single, courteous follow-up shows genuine interest without overwhelming an already busy rescue team.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Review on Podcahaser

Join our newsletter

Tails and Tones Instagram

No Pup Cleft Behind

Paris Hilton's Chihuahua, Harajuku

Piper's Frog Beanie

Meet your Dog Book By Kim Brophey

Where Tails meet heart - Sittie and the 3 Snouts and Their Abouts

Eroc Dog

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we’re talking about dog manuals, not ones that come with your pet (though we wish they did!), but the one you create for sitters, friends, or day cares when you're away. So stay tuned!

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Introduction to Pet Adoption Applications

[04:01] Understanding the Role of Rescues

[07:49] Top Tips for a Standout Application

[16:24] Navigating the Application Process

[24:47] Where Tails Meet Hearts Segment Stories from the Pet Community

[27:47] Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week - ErocDog, skating with Tony Hawk

FAQ

How many applications does a rescue dog typically get?

Rescue dogs can receive anywhere from none, a handful to over 200 applications for a single dog, particularly during high-demand periods, which is why a thoughtful, specific application matters so much.

How do I make my pet adoption application stand out?

Treat it like a job application: be thorough and error-free, tell a genuine personal story about why you want this specific dog, describe your lifestyle and living situation honestly, and provide references.

Should I be honest about my lifestyle in an adoption application?

Yes, describing your true lifestyle helps the rescue match you with a dog that will genuinely thrive in your home rather than one that isn't suited to your routine.

Should I mention if I've had past pet experiences worth noting on an adoption application?

Yes, transparency matters. Explaining past experiences honestly helps rescues make informed placement decisions and shows you take pet ownership seriously.

How soon should I follow up after submitting an adoption application?

A single, polite follow-up shows genuine interest without overwhelming a rescue team that may be reviewing hundreds of applications.

What should I research before applying to adopt a specific dog?

Look into the breed's typical needs, training considerations, and local vet options, since showing you've done your homework signals genuine preparedness to a rescue.

Do landlord restrictions affect pet adoption applications?

Yes, many rescues ask about your living situation, so getting clarity or approval from your landlord before applying can strengthen your application.

Why is community support important in pet rescue and adoption?

Stories from the pet community, like the ones shared in this episode, remind rescues and adopters alike that the effort behind a thoughtful application is part of a much bigger, supportive network of people showing up for dogs.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

1: 5 Dog Mom Mistakes I Made, And What They Taught Me

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Have you ever wondered if you're making mistakes as a pet parent? Or maybe you've questioned whether other pet parents are facing the same struggles as you? You're not alone, and that's exactly what we're diving into on this episode. In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell shares her personal experiences as a dog mom, discussing five key mistakes she made while raising her dog, Piper. The conversation covers the importance of early training, understanding dog body language, recognizing overstimulation, and the necessity of dog-proofing the home. Mariska also emphasizes the significance of picking up after pets and shares a product review of the Chuckit! Air Fetch Ball, along with heartwarming stories from the pet community.

During This Episode:

Introduction to pet parenting mistakes, and why Mariska is opening with her own missteps rather than a highlight reel
The importance of early training in the first weeks with a new dog
Understanding dog body language, and why it matters more than most new dog parents realize
Introducing the Ask a Soulful Mom segment
Addressing bad habits in dogs before they become bigger problems
Recognizing overstimulation in pets before it turns into reactivity
The Pawsative Rant
Dog-proofing your home, and why it's a priority from day one
Final thoughts on learning from mistakes
Fetch It or Leave It: a product review of the Chuckit! Air Fetch Ball
Where Tails Meet Hearts: stories from the pet community, featuring Bunny
Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week: Haya_London
A look ahead to the next episode, on making your pet adoption application stand out

Takeaways:

You are not alone in your struggles as a pet parent. Even experienced dog parents make mistakes, and the goal isn't perfection, it's learning and adjusting.
Every moment with your dog can be a training opportunity. Consistency in the small, everyday moments matters more than formal training sessions alone.
Understanding your dog's body language is crucial for their well-being. Learning to spot stress and discomfort early helps you step in before a situation escalates.
Don't let bad habits slide; address them early on. Small unwanted behaviors are far easier to correct in the first weeks than after they become ingrained.
Recognize signs of overstimulation in your dog to prevent issues. Overstimulated dogs can become reactive, so learning their triggers protects both the dog and the people around them.
Dog-proof your home to ensure your pet's safety. A safe environment prevents accidents before they happen rather than reacting after the fact.
Being a good pet parent is about learning from mistakes. Growth as a dog parent comes from reflecting honestly on what didn't work.
Celebrate the unique personalities of pets in your community. Sharing stories and celebrating other dogs builds a stronger, more supportive dog-parent community.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Review on Podcahaser

Join our newsletter

Tails and Tones Instagram

Piper disturbing sleeping dogs (Video Credit to No Pup Cleft Behind)

Chuckit! Air Fetch Ball

Bunny's video

Paw-lebrity of the Week Haya_London

Coming in the next episode:

In the next episode, we’ll be talking about how to make your pet adoption application stand out, so don’t miss it!

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] Introduction to Pet Parenting Mistakes

[01:45] The Importance of Early Training

[06:36] Understanding Dog Body Language

[10:58] Introducing the Ask a Soulful Mom Segment

[11:39] Addressing Bad Habits in Dogs

[13:53] Recognizing Overstimulation in Pets

[16:53] The Pawsative Rant

[19:38] Dog-Proofing Your Home

[23:04] Final Thoughts on Learning from Mistakes

[24:12] Fetch it or leave it - Product Review: Chukit Airfetch Ball

[26:20] Where Tails Meet Hearts Segment Stories from the Pet Community - Bunny's Story

[27:46] Celebrating our Paw-lebrity of the Week Haya_London

FAQ

What are common mistakes new dog parents make?

Common mistakes include delaying early training, missing early signs of overstimulation or stress in a dog's body language, letting small bad habits go unaddressed, and not dog-proofing the home before problems occur, all of which are easier to prevent early than to correct later.

Why is early training important for a new dog?

Early training matters because dogs are constantly learning from every interaction with you, and the habits formed in the first weeks and months, good or bad, tend to stick, making early consistency far more effective than trying to retrain later.

How can I tell if my dog is overstimulated?

Signs of overstimulation can include heightened reactivity, an inability to settle, and excessive barking or jumping, so recognizing these cues early lets you intervene before it turns into a bigger behavioral issue.

Why is understanding dog body language important?

Understanding body language lets you catch stress, discomfort, or anxiety in your dog before it escalates into a bigger behavioral or health issue, helping you respond proactively rather than reactively.

What does it mean to dog-proof your home?

Dog-proofing means reviewing your space from your dog's perspective and removing or securing anything that could be chewed, swallowed, knocked over, or otherwise cause harm, ideally done before problems arise rather than after an incident.

Is it normal to make mistakes as a new dog parent?

Yes, making mistakes is a completely normal part of dog parenting, and being honest about them, as Mariska is in this episode, is one of the best ways to learn and become a more attentive, responsive pet parent.

Why does picking up after your dog matter so much?

It's a basic responsibility that protects shared spaces and shows respect for the wider dog-owning community, something Mariska emphasizes throughout this episode.

What's a good first step if I recognize one of these mistakes in myself?

Start with whichever mistake feels most urgent for your dog's safety or wellbeing, whether that's addressing a bad habit, dog-proofing a space, or brushing up on reading body language, since small, honest course-corrections add up over time.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

Tails and Tones — A Happy Place for Busy Dog Parents [Trailer]

Tue, 06 May 2025 05:30:00 +0400

TL;DR

Welcome to Tails and Tones, the short, fun podcast for busy pet parents who want to raise happy, healthy pups without the stress or second-guessing. Host Mariska Nell introduces the show, her background in sustainable design, and her rescue French Bulldog, Piper, ahead of the podcast's launch on July 4th. The show originally released new episodes every Friday, though it's currently on a once-a-month cadence while Mariska focuses on the upcoming product launch, with a return to more frequent episodes planned afterward. Each episode is packed with helpful tips, heartwarming stories, and honest reviews.

During This Episode:

Introducing Tails and Tones, launching July 4th
Meet Mariska Nell, founder and host of Tails and Tones and Mama Earth Talk
Mariska's background in design and environmental science, including her Master's in Sustainable Design with a focus on the pet industry
Meet Piper, Mariska's rescue French Bulldog and the real boss of the show
What to expect from each episode: quick, practical tips, heartwarming stories, and honest reviews
A note on release schedule: originally weekly on Fridays, currently once a month while Mariska focuses on the product launch, with more frequent episodes planned afterward
From "should I really buy that pet stroller?" to the "wish I knew this sooner" moments every dog parent goes through
Mostly solo episodes, with occasional guests sharing their own stories and expertise
Where to find and subscribe to Tails and Tones

Takeaways:

Tails and Tones is a short, fun podcast for busy pet parents. It's designed to help you raise happy, healthy pups without the stress or second-guessing.
Host Mariska Nell brings a background in sustainable design. Her Master's in Sustainable Design, with a focus on the pet industry, shapes how she approaches the show.
Piper, Mariska's rescue French Bulldog, is the real boss of the show. Her personality and needs are woven throughout the podcast's content and mission.
The show originally released new episodes every Friday. It's currently on a once-a-month cadence while Mariska focuses on the upcoming product launch, with a return to more frequent episodes planned afterward.
Every episode is quick and practical, covering everything from product reviews to lessons learned the hard way.
Most episodes are solo, with occasional guests. When guests do join, they bring their own stories and expertise to the conversation.
The show is available anywhere you listen, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and Amazon.
The podcast's tagline captures its spirit: every tail tells a story, and every tone speaks from the heart.

Podcast Launched July 4th 2025

Welcome to Tails and Tones—the short, fun podcast for

busy pet parents who want to raise happy, healthy pups without the stress or

second-guessing.

I’m Mariska Nell, Founder and host of Tails and

Tones and Mama Earth Talk. I’ve got a background in design and

environmental science, and I hold a Master’s in Sustainable Design, with

a special focus on the pet industry. But most importantly, I’m a proud dog mom

to Piper, my adorable rescue French Bulldog... and let’s be honest, the real

boss of this show.

Every month I share quick, practical episodes packed with

helpful tips, heart-warming tails, and honest reviews—from “should I really buy

that pet stroller?” to those “wish-I-knew-this-sooner” moments every dog parent

goes through.

Most episodes are just us hanging out, but every now and

then I’ll bring on a guest or two to share their own stories and smarts.

You can find Tails and Tones on Apple Podcasts,

Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon—anywhere you listen. And if you’d like to

subscribe, head over to Podcat.TailsandTones.com/listen.

Because every tail tells a story, and every tone speaks

from the heart.

FAQ

When does the Tails and Tones podcast launch?

Tails and Tones launched on July 4th 2025. The show originally released new episodes every Friday, and is currently on a once-a-month schedule while Mariska focuses on our first product launch (A Food and Water Bowl), with more frequent episodes planned afterward.

Who hosts the Tails and Tones podcast?

Mariska Nell hosts Tails and Tones. She's also the founder and host of Mama Earth Talk, with a background in design and environmental science and a Master's in Sustainable Design focused on the pet industry.

What kind of content can I expect from Tails and Tones?

Expect quick, practical episodes packed with helpful tips, heartwarming stories, and honest reviews, covering everything from pet product reviews to the lessons every dog parent wishes they'd known sooner.

Does the podcast feature guests?

Most episodes are solo conversations with Mariska, but we also brings on a guests to share their own stories and expertise.

Where can I listen to Tails and Tones?

Tails and Tones is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon, and anywhere else you listen to podcasts, or you can subscribe directly at podcast.tailsandtones.com/listen.

Who is Piper?

Piper is Mariska's rescue French Bulldog, whose journey and personality directly inspired the creation of Tails and Tones.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.