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I Don't Think I Should Have Kids - Live Therapy Session

Sat, 09 Aug 2025 22:45:00 -0400

This live therapy session jumps right into a woman's disgust and disinterest in getting married and having children. Not just on a personal level, but in regard to others and especially in her community.

In the Beginning - Live Therapy Sessions. Real People. Real Stories.

This series consists of real therapy sessions with Yakov Danishefsky LCSW. The voices have been altered to keep the clients' identity anonymous.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs

00:14 Podcast Introduction and Episode Theme

02:29 Starting the Session: Client's Initial Thoughts

04:47 Client's Deep Dive into Personal Issues

06:47 Exploring the Client's Family Background

08:17 Client's Professional Life and Passion for Children

13:05 Health Concerns and Emotional Impact

21:05 Philosophical and Spiritual Reflections

24:47 Somatic Experiment and Client's Challenges

27:02 Exploring Cognitive and Somatic Approaches

27:53 Visualizing Life Choices

32:30 Reflecting on the Exercise

34:23 Understanding Attachment and Avoidance

36:20 The Role of the Body in Decision Making

39:55 Therapeutic Insights and Personal Growth

47:55 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

My Daughter In Law Won't Talk To Me - Live Therapy Session

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 09:56:00 -0400

This live therapy session delves into a dynamic between a mother and her son/daughter in law. She shares her perspective and we go deep into the underlying emotions and nuances.

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Why Don’t I Feel More? - Live Therapy Session

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 18:44:00 -0400

This live therapy session delves into a struggle many are feeling since October 7th. The jewish people has suffered tremendous losses throughout the past year and a half and it's difficult to cope. Listen in to how one person deals with the pain the jewish people are feeling currently.

In the Beginning - Live Therapy Sessions. Real People. Real Stories.

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Beneath the Mask - Live Therapy Session

Wed, 14 May 2025 15:48:00 -0400

In this emotionally charged episode, our guest opens up about their intense journey through life’s highs and lows, sharing candid reflections on mental health, therapy, and the pursuit of inner balance. They delve into their struggles with complex trauma, the long-lasting impact of family dynamics, and their ongoing quest for clarity and connection.

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Why Am I Still Struggling With This Addiction? - Live Therapy Session

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 16:27:00 -0400

This episode is a therapy session with an individual struggling with addiction and grief. He has done a lot of inner work and is eager to find the root of his issues. We come to a significant breakthrough in this episode, we hope you enjoy!

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My House is So Gloomy - Live Therapy Session

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 20:35:00 -0400

This episode is a therapy session with an individual facing challenges due to his mother's cancer diagnosis. In the episode Yakov delves into the root of the challenges and disxocers something prior to all of this, which is causing his struggles.

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Are We in Trouble? - Live Therapy Session

Wed, 09 Apr 2025 22:33:00 -0400

This episode is a therapy session with a newlywed couple who are experiencing challenges due to their differences. Join us for the journey to see the issues addressed, how Yakov approached the issues and tried to help the clients.

In the Beginning - Live Therapy Sessions. Real People. Real Stories.

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I'm Not a Feelings Guy - Jonathan's Story

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 15:59:00 -0400

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Feelings

00:42 Introducing Jonathan's Story

01:54 Exploring Jonathan's Emotions

02:47 The Feelings Wheel Exercise

08:40 Jonathan's Childhood and Emotional Shutdown

12:10 The Impact of Emotional Shutdown

19:22 The Importance of Emotions

27:30 Jonathan's Path to Emotional Healing

28:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Why Is My Wife So Nasty To Me? - Yehuda's Story

Wed, 08 Jan 2025 16:09:00 -0400

00:00 Introduction

01:08 Introducing Yehuda's Story

01:48 Yehuda's Perception of Negativity

09:08 Exploring Yehuda's Past

18:48 Understanding the Freeze Response

25:04 Connecting with Positive Resources

34:21 Final Reflections and Themes

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A Couple's Firsthand Journey With Sex Addiction - Moshe & Yael's Story

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 15:05:00 -0400

This is an episode with a couple who courageously shares their real story dealing with sex addiction. Their voices have been altered to maintain their anonymity.

00:00 Explicit Content Warning

00:50 Introduction to the Stories of Healing Series

01:09 A Unique Episode: Live Interview with a Couple

03:16 Discussing Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma

05:17 Yael's Experience: Discovery and Disclosure

15:01 Moshe's Perspective: Realization and Admission

23:02 The Impact of Emotional Neglect and Trauma

29:20 Yael's Background: Shame and Childhood Trauma

32:26 Early Years of Marriage

32:54 Struggles with Intimacy

34:13 Therapy and Silence

35:59 Road to Recovery

36:32 12-Step Program and Healing

41:02 Challenges Beyond Addiction

43:05 Personal Growth and Empathy

44:05 Yael's Journey

48:21 Impact on Family Life

49:47 Religious Journey

55:00 Advice for Others

01:00:14 Final Reflections

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Hurting or Healing? - Shimon & Leah's Story

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 11:44:00 -0400

Understanding the Dynamics of a Troubled Marriage: Shimon and Leah's Journey

In this episode of the Attached Life Podcast's Stories of Healing series, the focus is on the complex relationship between a seemingly perfect couple, Shimon and Leah. Despite their outward appearance of success and stability, Leah's frustrations with Shimon's drinking problem and Shimon's feelings of inadequacy create a tumultuous dynamic. The script delves into their weekly patterns, unraveling how Shimon's unpredictability exacerbates Leah's need for stability, while Leah's criticism amplifies Shimon's need for respect. The transformative session highlights the importance of understanding each other's backgrounds, emotional triggers, and the deeper, often spiritual, purpose of marriage challenges. By reframing these problems as opportunities for personal growth, the couple begins the path toward healing and deeper connection.

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00:00 The Model Couple's Hidden Struggles

01:07 Introducing Shimon and Leah

03:17 Leah's Perspective on Shimon's Drinking

05:21 Shimon's Perspective on the Marriage

07:21 A Typical Week in Their Lives

13:00 Understanding Their Backgrounds

21:25 The Core Needs of Shimon and Leah

27:11 The Vicious Cycle of Disrespect and Instability

29:04 The Path to Healing and Understanding

31:06 The Spiritual Perspective on Marriage

34:27 Complementary Differences in Relationships

39:17 The Perfect Problem for Personal Growth

42:50 A Hopeful Conclusion

Heart Stomach - Guided Meditation

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 13:43:00 -0400

Heart Stomach - Guided Meditation

Emotional Disconnect - Sarah's Story

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 16:22:00 -0400

Understanding Emotional Disconnect in Relationships: Sarah's Story

In this episode of the Attached Life Podcast's Stories of Healing series, we delve into the complex, yet relatable story of 'Sarah,' a composite character based on many real conversations. The episode explores Sarah's deep emotional growth and her struggle with feeling isolated due to her husband's emotional and spiritual disconnect. Listeners will gain insights into understanding emotional safety, gender differences in emotional expression, and how to support a partner without pressure. The episode offers practical advice for creating a safe and accepting environment to foster deeper emotional connections.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Stories of Healing Series

00:22 Meet Sarah: A Journey of Personal Growth

02:52 The Emotional Disconnect in Sarah's Marriage

05:04 Understanding Gender Differences in Emotional Expression

06:48 The Role of Safety in Emotional Expression

14:27 Avoidant Attachment Style Explained

19:36 Strategies for Building Emotional Connection

24:24 Reframing and Responding to Limited Emotional Expression

31:31 The Importance of Open Conversations

35:39 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

Body Awareness - Guided Meditation

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 16:19:00 -0400

Mindful Body Scan for Stress Relief

In this episode of Yishuv Hadass daily, the host guides listeners through a brief body scan exercise to identify and alleviate physical tension and stress. By focusing the mind's eye on stressed areas and using gentle, supportive touch and breathing techniques, listeners can promote relaxation and mindfulness.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Body Scan

00:59 Identifying and Addressing Tension

01:39 Breathing and Releasing Tension

01:59 Conclusion and Gratitude

Suppressed Emotions - David's Story

Mon, 26 Aug 2024 20:55:00 -0400

Navigating Inner Conflict: David's Journey to Healing

In this 'Stories of Healing' episode of the Attached Life Podcast, we explore the journey of David, a 38-year-old man struggling with his emotions and relationships. David's wife pushed him to seek therapy due to his frequent gaslighting, intense anger, and emotional neglect. The episode delves into his therapy sessions, where it's revealed that David undermines his own emotions similarly to how he dismisses his wife's feelings. This behavior is traced back to his childhood experiences where his feelings were invalidated. Through inner child work and imaginative exercises, David begins to understand and validate his own emotions, paving the way for healthier relationships with himself, his spouse, and his spirituality.

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00:00 Introduction

00:39 Meet David: A Complex Client Profile

02:11 Understanding Gaslighting

05:34 David's Therapy Journey Begins

11:24 Exploring David's Childhood

24:46 Connecting with the Inner Child

39:31 The Path to Healing and Self-Awareness

A Journey Between Two Worlds - Moshe's Story

Thu, 08 Aug 2024 13:35:00 -0400

Stories of Healing: Episode 1

In the first episode of the 'Stories of Healing' series, the host shares a therapeutic session with a fictional client named Moshe, whose experiences, though fictionalized, are based on real therapeutic encounters. Through Moshe's depiction of feelings associated with bipolar tendencies, the episode delves into understanding the spectrum of bipolar disorder, exploring how past traumas and childhood environments shape our coping mechanisms. The narrative highlights the importance of body awareness, corrective experiences through imagination, and the process of reclaiming one's personal space. Listeners are guided through the journey of inner healing, emphasizing that problematic behaviors often stem from survival mechanisms developed in response to past traumas.

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00:00 Introduction to the Stories of Healing Series

00:18 Meet Moshe: A Fictional Client's Journey

01:36 Understanding Bipolar Spectrum

04:55 Exploring Moshe's Emotional Landscape

10:15 Childhood Influences and Coping Mechanisms

15:02 Processing Trauma Through Body Awareness

19:43 Imagining New Outcomes and Beliefs

28:42 Session Reflections and Key Takeaways

Our Inner World Is Calling Us - Introduction

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 15:54:00 -0400

Stories of Healing Series Introduction - Our Inner World Is Calling Us

Understanding the Rise of Emotional Challenges: Divine Intent or Modern Factors?

In this introductory episode of the 'Stories of Healing' series on the Attached Life Podcast, we explore the increasing prevalence of mental health challenges, such as depression, anxiety, and addiction. Various explanations are examined, from the impacts of technology and materialism to intergenerational trauma. However, the host presents a unique perspective, arguing that these issues are divinely willed as part of God's plan for our generation to focus on inner emotional and relational healing. The episode sets the stage for future case studies that will provide insights into personal journeys of healing by focusing on the inner world, relationships, and our connection to God.

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00:00 Introduction

00:21 The Rise of Mental Health Challenges

04:34 A Spiritual Perspective on Mental Health

06:15 The Role of Jewish History

10:02 Balancing Focus on the Inner World

11:30 Introducing the Stories of Healing Series

(9) The Making of a Good Human

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 14:05:00 -0400

The Altruistic Personality: Insights from Holocaust Rescuers and Parenting

In this episode of The Attached Life podcast, we examine an extraordinary body of research by Sam and Pearl Oliner, presented in their book 'The Altruistic Personality,' which explores common traits in the backgrounds of non-Jewish Holocaust rescuers. We discuss five key ingredients that foster altruistic personality traits during childhood and how these can be integrated into parenting. Topics include the influence of economic values, care vs. entitlement, internal locus of control vs. victimhood, the role of discipline, and the vital importance of attachment. This episode offers powerful insights for parents and individuals aiming to nurture altruistic values and strengthen personal development.

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00:00 Introduction

01:15 The Altruistic Personality: Research Insights

03:33 Five Key Findings on Altruistic Development

04:52 Economic Competency vs. Altruism

07:39 Values in Action: The Alien Exercise

16:48 Caring vs. Entitlement and Equity

24:34 Internal Locus of Control vs. Victimhood

43:04 The Role of Discipline in Altruistic Development

48:02 The Importance of Secure Attachment

49:00 Conclusion: Applying the Five Components

(8) Healing Religious Constriction - Special Shavuos Episode

Thu, 06 Jun 2024 12:57:00 -0400

Healing Religious Narrowness

This episode of 'The Attached Life' addresses healing religious narrowness through the lens of Kabbalas Hatorah and Shavuos. The discussion explores the challenges faced by various groups within the Jewish community, such as men transitioning from learning to work, individuals who struggled academically in yeshiva, current yeshiva students, and women feeling disconnected from their spirituality. The episode emphasizes that Torah encompasses a vast range of experiences and practices, advocating for a broader and more inclusive approach to Jewish life and learning. It also discusses trauma's role in constriction and the importance of finding individual paths within Torah, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling relationship with Hashem.

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00:00 Introduction: Questioning Kabbalas Hatorah

02:21 Understanding Different Struggles with Learning

09:05 The Narrow Path of Torah Learning

14:23 Broadening the Definition of Torah

18:15 The Impact of Trauma on Jewish Learning

20:24 Finding Your Unique Path in Torah

40:26 Healing Through Broader Kabbalas Hatorah

46:07 Conclusion: Embracing a Personalized Torah Journey

(7) Life in the Mind of a Teen

Mon, 20 May 2024 12:56:00 -0400

Understanding Adolescent Brain Remodeling and Attachment Theory

This episode of The Attached Life podcast dives into the teenage years and how they are shaped by attachment theory and brain development. The host discusses the shift from parental dependency to peer attachment, driven by the brain's natural remodeling process. The script explains why teenagers undergo behaviors that seem irrational, relating them to neuroplasticity and the critical development phase called 'pruning.' It further explores how these changes prepare adolescents for adult attachments, and how caregivers can support teenagers through this transitional phase to foster healthy development. The episode also highlights the personal impacts of teenage experiences on adult life and relationships, advocating for compassion and understanding towards our inner adolescent selves.

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00:00 Understanding Teenage Years: Peer Pressure and Development

01:27 The Journey of Adolescence

03:55 The Teenage Brain: Remodeling and Neuroplasticity

07:32 Shifting Attachments: From Parents to Peers

13:10 The Radical Change of Adolescence

20:33 Navigating Teenage Challenges

26:20 Reflecting on Teenage Years: Self-Discovery and Healing

(6) Taking Your Inner Child out of Egypt

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 17:42:00 -0400

Transformative Passover: Finding Freedom in Our Inner Exodus

This episode delves into the deeply personal and transformative experience of Passover, drawing parallels between the story of the Exodus from Egypt and our own inner psychological journeys. The focus is on how the Passover Seder can serve as a metaphor for facing and freeing ourselves from the internal 'Egypt' of our past traumas and constraints. The narrative explores the concept of parts of self, likening personal growth and the overcoming of psychological barriers to the process of a tree adding rings as it grows. By engaging with our inner 'child' or past selves — parts of us that may still be trapped in 'Egypt' — the episode illustrates how the Passover Seder encourages not only the retelling of the Jewish people's historical exodus but also invites a personal journey of liberation. Highlighting the importance of facing our inner selves, understanding our personal histories, and embracing growth, the episode offers insights into achieving personal freedom and transformation by connecting deeply with the themes of Passover.

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00:00 Introduction to a Transformative Pesach Seder

00:50 Metaphor of the Tree Rings

02:12 Understanding Our Inner Layers and Challenges

06:52 The Seder as a Journey of Inner Exodus

09:18 Facing and Updating the Inner Child

11:17 Carrying the Raft

14:05 Telling and Facing in the Haggadah

16:53 The Complex Journey of Healing

20:08 Embracing the Dialectical Nature of Our Stories

25:36 Finding Light in the Darkness: The Ultimate Transformation

Why Does Attachment Theory Matter To a 7 Year Old? - Episode 5 Segment

Thu, 04 Apr 2024 18:44:48 -0400

Navigating Self-Comparison and Identity in Development

This episode of The Attached Life explores the significant shift in consciousness that occurs around the age of seven, marking the beginning of the 'industry versus inferiority' stage described by Erik Erikson. During this period, children develop a sense of competency or inferiority as they start comparing themselves against others, which can deeply influence their growth and self-image. The discussion incorporates perspectives from attachment theory, revealing how underlying needs for connection and relationships still play a vital role despite the emerging focus on personal achievements and comparisons. The episode also delves into the somatic perspective, examining how this developmental stage can trigger different states of activation in the body. Furthermore, it addresses the challenges presented by the school environment, where the narrow definition of success can lead to feelings of inferiority in those who don't excel in the academic model. The narrative stresses the importance of a supportive home environment and secure attachments in fostering resilience and a balanced self-view during this formative period, offering hope and healing to listeners by reconnecting with their inner child and reevaluating past experiences in a new light.

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(5) Am I Good At This?

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 17:37:55 -0400

Navigating Self-Comparison and Identity in Development

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00:00 Introduction

01:00 The Shift in Consciousness at Age Seven: Industry vs. Inferiority

02:47 Attachment Theory: The Need for Connection

06:41 The Body's Response to Self-Evaluation

09:27 The Importance of a Supportive Home Environment

19:36 Navigating School Challenges and Embracing Diverse Talents

29:04 Healing and Reparenting Our Younger Selves

Creating Space & Flexibility In a Family System - Episode 3 Segment

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 18:15:14 -0400

This episode delves into the complexities of family systems and their profound impact on individual development and relationships. It introduces the circumplex model by David Olson, which examines family systems through the lenses of flexibility vs. rigidity and cohesion vs. disengagement. The script illustrates how extremes in these dimensions can lead to maladaptive patterns in personal development and relationships. It also discusses strategies for overcoming these challenges, including identifying with one's inner child and fostering a balance between closeness and autonomy within family dynamics. Additionally, the episode promotes introspection on childhood experiences to understand and improve current relational patterns, aiming to empower listeners towards healthier, more fulfilled relationships.

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The Effects of Chaos in a family system - Episode 3 Segment

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 20:13:33 -0400

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The Trauma of the Purim Story - Episode 4 Segment

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 00:26:26 -0400

Uncovering Hidden Stories of Growth: A Special Edition of The Attached Life

This special edition of The Attached Life podcast, sponsored by Yonatees, explores the Megillah's Esther story, emphasizing the process of revealing hidden stories within ourselves and the importance of acknowledging both the trauma and the positive aspects of our lives. It dives into three key insights for healing trauma: recognizing the untold story of positivity, understanding our capacity to handle life's challenges is greater than we think, and transforming post-traumatic stress into post-traumatic growth. The episode also highlights the significance of recognizing the hidden elements in our stories and the role of the divine in our journeys of self-reflection and growth.

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Finding Positivity Through Our Journeys - Episode 4 Segment

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 18:54:40 -0400

Uncovering Hidden Stories of Growth: A Special Edition of The Attached Life

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The Megillah Story and Our Trauma - Episode 4 Segment

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 18:38:05 -0400

Uncovering Hidden Stories of Growth: A Special Edition of The Attached Life

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(4) A Purim Perspective of Our Untold Stories

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 21:07:42 -0400

Uncovering Hidden Stories of Growth: A Special Edition of The Attached Life

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00:00 Introduction to The Attached Life Podcast Special Edition

00:38 Sponsor: Yonatees - Jewish Apparel, Custom Design & Print

02:02 Exploring the Story of Megillah's Esther: A Journey of Hidden Revelations

05:35 The Power of Positivity Amidst Trauma: Lessons from Megillah's Esther

10:47 Understanding Trauma and Capacity for Growth

15:56 The Revelation of Hiddenness and the Path to Transformation

(3) The Family That Shaped You

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 20:08:41 -0400

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00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Expectations and Understanding

01:01 Understanding Family Dynamics and Childhood Development

01:23 Sponsorship Segment: Jump Into Shape

02:25 The Attached Life: Exploring Relationships

02:39 The Two Pillars of Human Development: Closeness and Space

05:11 The Circumplex Family Systems Model

10:24 Understanding the Spectrum of Family Dynamics

17:22 The Impact of Family Systems on Personal Development

19:25 Case Studies: The Effects of Different Family Systems

40:10 Rescuing the Inner Child: Healing from Dysfunctional Family Systems

51:48 Conclusion: Striving for Balance in Family Systems

Shame & Self-Doubt - Episode 2 Segment

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 19:11:28 -0400

This episode, 'The Attached Life', explores the developmental stage in early childhood where autonomy clashes with feelings of shame and self-doubt. It shares how this phase can influence the adult's difficulty in making decisions or pursuing their desires and discusses why such responses are rooted in childhood interactions with caregivers. The speaker utilizes examples of everyday parental situations to demonstrate how a child's autonomy should ideally be met with balance and containment. It touches upon the potential impacts of caregivers' personal anxiety, religious constrictions, and financial strains on a child's autonomous development. Lastly, it offers practical tips for adults to address and nurture their 'inner child', promoting self-awareness and personal growth.

(2) Born to be Me - Toddler Stage

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 18:35:30 -0400

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Concept of Inner Child

00:56 Understanding the Importance of Choices and Preferences

03:11 Exploring the Concepts of Shame and Self-Doubt

05:54 The Impact of Early Life Experiences on Adult Life

08:45 The Role of Trust in Developing Autonomy

20:31 The Consequences of Suppressing Natural Impulses

23:02 Understanding the Origins of Negative Self Beliefs

32:27 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Child Development

37:47 Techniques for Overcoming Shame and Self-Doubt

43:31 Conclusion: Embracing the Inner Child

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Guided Meditation - Episode 1 Segment

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 03:38:01 -0400

This is the first episode in the overcoming loneliness series where we explore the journey of developing attachment through the various life stages. This episode is diving into the newborn stage.

The Attached Life podcast is focused on recentering our lives around our most important relationships. Our content offers education, inspiration, and guidance for enhancing connection and fulfillment.

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Erikson's Model - Episode 1 Segment

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 03:02:10 -0400

This is the first episode in the overcoming loneliness series where we explore the journey of developing attachment through the various life stages. This episode is diving into the newborn stage.

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Piaget's Model - Episode 1 Segment

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 03:01:59 -0400

This is the first episode in the overcoming loneliness series where we explore the journey of developing attachment through the various life stages. This episode is diving into the newborn stage.

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In Therapy with Adults - Episode 1 Segment

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 03:01:49 -0400

This is the first episode in the overcoming loneliness series where we explore the journey of developing attachment through the various life stages. This episode is diving into the newborn stage.

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