<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/the-soul-proprietor/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[The Soul Proprietor]]></title><podcast:guid>ac165629-e68f-5a5c-8d2e-7a4d3ff4c388</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2026 09:00:21 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 Melody Edwards and Curt Kempton]]></copyright><managingEditor>Melody Edwards and Curt Kempton</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Each week, Hosts Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards dive into the ethical questions and dilemmas that keep entrepreneurs up at night. They love talking about the soul of your business, which means having tough conversations that challenge what we believe and push us to think deeper about business, values, and what really matters. Whether you're building your own company or exploring life's big questions, You are welcome here.
New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Contact: soulproprietorpodcast@gmail.com ]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/82bf7dae-d7fe-488c-9f6d-e3fa2ad80030/sakq7Hz3U5fc_L-t4AjNNYG2.jpg</url><title>The Soul Proprietor</title><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/82bf7dae-d7fe-488c-9f6d-e3fa2ad80030/sakq7Hz3U5fc_L-t4AjNNYG2.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Melody Edwards and Curt Kempton</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Melody Edwards and Curt Kempton</itunes:author><description>Each week, Hosts Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards dive into the ethical questions and dilemmas that keep entrepreneurs up at night. They love talking about the soul of your business, which means having tough conversations that challenge what we believe and push us to think deeper about business, values, and what really matters. Whether you&apos;re building your own company or exploring life&apos;s big questions, You are welcome here.
New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Contact: soulproprietorpodcast@gmail.com </description><link>https://soulproprietorpod.com/</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Because running a business is hard...but running it with integrity is harder.]]></itunes:subtitle><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Business"><itunes:category text="Entrepreneurship"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Religion &amp; Spirituality"><itunes:category text="Spirituality"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Philosophy"/></itunes:category><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>The Business of Building Community with Dave Wintsch</title><itunes:title>The Business of Building Community with Dave Wintsch</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if the most valuable thing a business can build isn't something that shows up on a balance sheet?</p><p>In this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>, Curt and Melody sit down with Dave Wintsch, a longtime youth leader, mentor, and someone who has had a lasting influence on Melody's life.</p><p>Dave spent decades building community by doing something deceptively simple: he entered other people's worlds. He coached wrestling, showed up at schools, traveled with teenagers, listened to their stories, laughed with them, and built relationships over time. His approach wasn't about getting people to conform to his expectations. It was about meeting people where they were and creating a place where they could belong.</p><p>That becomes the jumping-off point for a much bigger conversation about entrepreneurship.</p><p>Curt, Melody, and Dave explore what happens when we apply relationship-first thinking to business—and whether the relentless pursuit of efficiency can sometimes come at the expense of the very relationships that make a business meaningful.</p><p>They also talk about faith, uncertainty, leadership, generosity, technology, legacy, and what it means to build a life around people rather than things.</p><h3>What They Talk About</h3><ul><li>Why Melody calls Dave her spiritual Mr. Rogers (and yes, she’s used it before)</li><li>Dave’s journey from black-and-white evangelical certainty to loving the mystery (and why “I don’t know” feels honest now)</li><li>The story about leaving a stable career for a leap-of-faith youth leadership gig—MGB convertibles, spring break twists, and all</li><li>Curt’s confession about Boy Scouts, OPK (“other people’s kids”), and feeling powerless to “like” your own kids sometimes</li><li>Why Dave thinks building real community with teenagers <em>never</em> starts with preaching—and what truly breaks (and remakes) a heart</li><li>Wrestling with faith and belonging: staying in community even when you’re not sure you buy all the doctrine</li><li>A very practical lesson from Jesus about coats, economics, and why Dave’s car is always in someone else’s driveway</li><li>The role of laughter (“carbonated holiness”), corncob pipes, and permission to break just a few rules</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Takeaways</h3><ul><li>You don’t have to know exactly what you believe to build real connection; mystery and listening go farther than certainty ever did</li><li>“Loving” and “liking” people—especially kids—are different skills, and liking often takes intention (and a good sense of humor)</li><li>Business is about people, not just products; lasting impact happens through relationships, not transactions</li><li>Convictions can get softer (and kinder) as you see more of the world—sometimes faith is just having the humility to admit you don’t know</li><li>Leaving room for each other’s stories (and even disagreements) is where community actually happens</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><ul><li>04:11 – Dave’s early days in youth work and finding his own faith</li><li>10:14 – Building “business” through relationships (and why he never sold Jesus)</li><li>15:28 – The “gift of immaturity” and actually enjoying teenagers</li><li>24:05 – Technology, anxiety, and the lost art of heart-breaking experiences</li><li>26:32 – Faith, literalism, and living with fewer certainties</li><li>35:02 – Economics according to Jesus (and Dave’s open-door policy)</li><li>53:32 – Legacy, laughter, and why stories beat stuff every time</li></ul><br/><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if the most valuable thing a business can build isn't something that shows up on a balance sheet?</p><p>In this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>, Curt and Melody sit down with Dave Wintsch, a longtime youth leader, mentor, and someone who has had a lasting influence on Melody's life.</p><p>Dave spent decades building community by doing something deceptively simple: he entered other people's worlds. He coached wrestling, showed up at schools, traveled with teenagers, listened to their stories, laughed with them, and built relationships over time. His approach wasn't about getting people to conform to his expectations. It was about meeting people where they were and creating a place where they could belong.</p><p>That becomes the jumping-off point for a much bigger conversation about entrepreneurship.</p><p>Curt, Melody, and Dave explore what happens when we apply relationship-first thinking to business—and whether the relentless pursuit of efficiency can sometimes come at the expense of the very relationships that make a business meaningful.</p><p>They also talk about faith, uncertainty, leadership, generosity, technology, legacy, and what it means to build a life around people rather than things.</p><h3>What They Talk About</h3><ul><li>Why Melody calls Dave her spiritual Mr. Rogers (and yes, she’s used it before)</li><li>Dave’s journey from black-and-white evangelical certainty to loving the mystery (and why “I don’t know” feels honest now)</li><li>The story about leaving a stable career for a leap-of-faith youth leadership gig—MGB convertibles, spring break twists, and all</li><li>Curt’s confession about Boy Scouts, OPK (“other people’s kids”), and feeling powerless to “like” your own kids sometimes</li><li>Why Dave thinks building real community with teenagers <em>never</em> starts with preaching—and what truly breaks (and remakes) a heart</li><li>Wrestling with faith and belonging: staying in community even when you’re not sure you buy all the doctrine</li><li>A very practical lesson from Jesus about coats, economics, and why Dave’s car is always in someone else’s driveway</li><li>The role of laughter (“carbonated holiness”), corncob pipes, and permission to break just a few rules</li></ul><br/><h3>Key Takeaways</h3><ul><li>You don’t have to know exactly what you believe to build real connection; mystery and listening go farther than certainty ever did</li><li>“Loving” and “liking” people—especially kids—are different skills, and liking often takes intention (and a good sense of humor)</li><li>Business is about people, not just products; lasting impact happens through relationships, not transactions</li><li>Convictions can get softer (and kinder) as you see more of the world—sometimes faith is just having the humility to admit you don’t know</li><li>Leaving room for each other’s stories (and even disagreements) is where community actually happens</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><ul><li>04:11 – Dave’s early days in youth work and finding his own faith</li><li>10:14 – Building “business” through relationships (and why he never sold Jesus)</li><li>15:28 – The “gift of immaturity” and actually enjoying teenagers</li><li>24:05 – Technology, anxiety, and the lost art of heart-breaking experiences</li><li>26:32 – Faith, literalism, and living with fewer certainties</li><li>35:02 – Economics according to Jesus (and Dave’s open-door policy)</li><li>53:32 – Legacy, laughter, and why stories beat stuff every time</li></ul><br/><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/building-community]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">62ce4f91-b065-4e5b-a429-7efbd6ef0948</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/6d567edf-5e49-4369-b629-acf99e786cef/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/62ce4f91-b065-4e5b-a429-7efbd6ef0948.mp3" length="58015241" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:00:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>47</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/402e69cb-75d8-49ad-906b-955b1ac39e24/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>AI Sprawl Is Killing The Joy of Business</title><itunes:title>AI Sprawl Is Killing The Joy of Business</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody are both feeling the squeeze of AI in their businesses, but instead of geeking out about the tech, they’re asking: has the very thing that’s supposed to save us actually made real work.. and real connection—harder? This episode is a meandering, totally honest look at what happens when business, process, and humanity collide. Expect bathhouse stories, checklists gone wild, and about “fun” at work.</p><p><strong>What We They About</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody thinks AI has totally sucked the joy and connection out of work—and what she misses most</li><li>The story of how Curt’s “rock” accountability system started feeling more like a soul-crushing checkbox factory than a team effort</li><li>Melody on returning from travel and feeling like her family (and her appetite) needed a reboot</li><li>The bathhouse as business metaphor: vulnerability, body issues, and why seeing <em>real people</em> matters</li><li>Curt’s bold move: killing the classic L10 meeting and building new rituals to bring fun (and actual life) back to the company</li><li>The difference between working at lightspeed vs. actually getting anywhere—or enjoying the ride</li><li>The real talk about what AI sprawl does to creative momentum and team collaboration</li><li>How Melody’s experimenting with quirky team check-ins and “finding the fun” again in meetings</li><li>Dolly Parton as the (unlikely) spiritual guru for loving the basics, potatoes, and all</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Speed for speed’s sake (or because AI “demands” it) won’t save your soul—or your team’s</li><li>Systems need to flex as business (and humanity) changes, not just get “faster”</li><li>The rituals and conversations you skip in the name of efficiency might actually be the point</li><li>Being able to admit when things <em>aren’t</em> fun or meaningful is the first step to fixing it</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps</strong></p><ul><li>00:00 – Why AI hasn’t made work better (and might have made it worse)</li><li>00:27 – Melody’s travels, identities, and re-entry</li><li>00:55 – Bathhouses, body acceptance, and business parallels</li><li>01:31 – Food, families, and the missing joy of eating</li><li>31:12 – Curt’s system overhaul: when “rocks” lead to burnout</li><li>42:53 – The new meeting format experiment (+ dad jokes)</li><li>58:07 – How do you bring back humanity without losing relevance?</li><li>01:08:15 – Why change should happen now, not just at “year end”</li></ul><br/><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody are both feeling the squeeze of AI in their businesses, but instead of geeking out about the tech, they’re asking: has the very thing that’s supposed to save us actually made real work.. and real connection—harder? This episode is a meandering, totally honest look at what happens when business, process, and humanity collide. Expect bathhouse stories, checklists gone wild, and about “fun” at work.</p><p><strong>What We They About</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody thinks AI has totally sucked the joy and connection out of work—and what she misses most</li><li>The story of how Curt’s “rock” accountability system started feeling more like a soul-crushing checkbox factory than a team effort</li><li>Melody on returning from travel and feeling like her family (and her appetite) needed a reboot</li><li>The bathhouse as business metaphor: vulnerability, body issues, and why seeing <em>real people</em> matters</li><li>Curt’s bold move: killing the classic L10 meeting and building new rituals to bring fun (and actual life) back to the company</li><li>The difference between working at lightspeed vs. actually getting anywhere—or enjoying the ride</li><li>The real talk about what AI sprawl does to creative momentum and team collaboration</li><li>How Melody’s experimenting with quirky team check-ins and “finding the fun” again in meetings</li><li>Dolly Parton as the (unlikely) spiritual guru for loving the basics, potatoes, and all</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Speed for speed’s sake (or because AI “demands” it) won’t save your soul—or your team’s</li><li>Systems need to flex as business (and humanity) changes, not just get “faster”</li><li>The rituals and conversations you skip in the name of efficiency might actually be the point</li><li>Being able to admit when things <em>aren’t</em> fun or meaningful is the first step to fixing it</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps</strong></p><ul><li>00:00 – Why AI hasn’t made work better (and might have made it worse)</li><li>00:27 – Melody’s travels, identities, and re-entry</li><li>00:55 – Bathhouses, body acceptance, and business parallels</li><li>01:31 – Food, families, and the missing joy of eating</li><li>31:12 – Curt’s system overhaul: when “rocks” lead to burnout</li><li>42:53 – The new meeting format experiment (+ dad jokes)</li><li>58:07 – How do you bring back humanity without losing relevance?</li><li>01:08:15 – Why change should happen now, not just at “year end”</li></ul><br/><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/ai-sprawl]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d802ed82-3d90-4354-a3d1-5fe0dd0b594f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/9b74e2a7-196f-4573-9a3f-c580582f5325/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-7.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d802ed82-3d90-4354-a3d1-5fe0dd0b594f.mp3" length="69119581" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:12:00</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>46</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8afe2fd8-e15a-4ee1-b919-c8a116af3008/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Would Knowing the Truth Change Anything?</title><itunes:title>Would Knowing the Truth Change Anything?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if you could travel anywhere in history and witness one moment with your own eyes?</p><p>Would you choose something deeply personal, like your parents' first date? A historical mystery like the building of Stonehenge? Or something that could challenge everything you believe.. like witnessing the resurrection of Jesus?</p><p>In this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor</em>, Curt and Melody explore that question and quickly discover that seeing something for yourself doesn't necessarily answer the bigger questions.</p><p>They talk about faith, history, family, the limits of certainty, and what it really means to know something. Along the way, the conversation turns toward a surprisingly practical question for entrepreneurs: "What would you tell yourself on the day you first became an entrepreneur if you could go back and give yourself advice?"</p><p>The answers are less about business tactics and more about trusting your gut, holding onto your values, having confidence, and realizing that you don't need to know everything to move forward.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Even if you had a time machine (and perfect proof), you'd probably still second-guess what it means.. and your faith or doubts would still be your own</li><li>Trying to find absolute certainty is a trap; the "aha" moment doesn't make next steps obvious</li><li>Sometimes, asking big questions together is more valuable than nailing any answer</li><li>Most so-called experts are just faking it.. a little confidence and trusting your gut can go a long way (especially in business)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps</strong></p><ul><li>04:00 — The time travel icebreaker (and a thousand possible answers)</li><li>06:22 — Melody's ancestral curiosity and Cape Cod history</li><li>09:49 — Curt’s obsession with how ancient wonders were built</li><li>16:58 — What would “witnessing proof” actually change?</li><li>26:29 — Melody's love of old houses and lost stories</li><li>29:06 — If you could give advice to your younger entrepreneurial self...</li></ul><br/><h2><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></h2>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if you could travel anywhere in history and witness one moment with your own eyes?</p><p>Would you choose something deeply personal, like your parents' first date? A historical mystery like the building of Stonehenge? Or something that could challenge everything you believe.. like witnessing the resurrection of Jesus?</p><p>In this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor</em>, Curt and Melody explore that question and quickly discover that seeing something for yourself doesn't necessarily answer the bigger questions.</p><p>They talk about faith, history, family, the limits of certainty, and what it really means to know something. Along the way, the conversation turns toward a surprisingly practical question for entrepreneurs: "What would you tell yourself on the day you first became an entrepreneur if you could go back and give yourself advice?"</p><p>The answers are less about business tactics and more about trusting your gut, holding onto your values, having confidence, and realizing that you don't need to know everything to move forward.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>Even if you had a time machine (and perfect proof), you'd probably still second-guess what it means.. and your faith or doubts would still be your own</li><li>Trying to find absolute certainty is a trap; the "aha" moment doesn't make next steps obvious</li><li>Sometimes, asking big questions together is more valuable than nailing any answer</li><li>Most so-called experts are just faking it.. a little confidence and trusting your gut can go a long way (especially in business)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps</strong></p><ul><li>04:00 — The time travel icebreaker (and a thousand possible answers)</li><li>06:22 — Melody's ancestral curiosity and Cape Cod history</li><li>09:49 — Curt’s obsession with how ancient wonders were built</li><li>16:58 — What would “witnessing proof” actually change?</li><li>26:29 — Melody's love of old houses and lost stories</li><li>29:06 — If you could give advice to your younger entrepreneurial self...</li></ul><br/><h2><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></h2>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/change-anything]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5385f6b7-260b-49b7-aa11-dfb6e60ec1d8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/2d14b022-828e-4a1d-9646-7ef9a35137f7/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-6.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5385f6b7-260b-49b7-aa11-dfb6e60ec1d8.mp3" length="32936854" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>34:19</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>45</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/c3acd80e-45ab-48a5-9e2c-a18768bb2af8/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Mel’s Building a Business That Doesn’t Need Her</title><itunes:title>Mel’s Building a Business That Doesn’t Need Her</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Melody was in the Philippines, reconnected with her team after months of burnout, overwhelm, and uncertainty about what was sustainable for her.. and for the business.</p><p>What starts as a conversation about travel, health, and navigating life in a different culture becomes something much deeper: a look at what happens when a founder steps away, gets back in the room with the team, and starts letting go of control.</p><p>Being together with her team in person gave Melody a clearer view of them, their strengths, and the ways fear, control, and a lack of trust had been affecting their relationships. She realized that building a sustainable business meant letting people take ownership, trusting their abilities, and creating a company that could move forward without her being involved in every decision.</p><p>In this conversation, Melody and Curt talk about burnout, delegation, trust, leadership, company culture, and the uncomfortable process of realizing that sometimes the best thing a founder can do for the business is make themselves less necessary.</p><h2><span class="ql-size-small">Melody and Curt talk about:</span></h2><ul><li>What burnout can reveal about the way a business is being run</li><li>Why being physically together can create a level of trust that Zoom can't</li><li>Discovering the strengths and personalities of team members that weren't showing up remotely</li><li>The difference between giving someone responsibility and actually trusting them with it</li><li>How Melody learned to loosen restrictions around her salesperson and let her do what she does best</li><li>Why sustainable leadership means recognizing what you can—and cannot—continue doing yourself</li><li>Resetting company goals and getting back to KPIs</li><li>What living and working in another culture can teach us about happiness, simplicity, and what we actually need</li><li>Why stepping away from the familiar can change the way you see your business</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><ul><li>00:00 – Rainy season in Manila and the reality of Filipino traffic</li><li>06:25 – How not to have a sabbatical and the rocky road to travel wellness</li><li>11:07 – Acupuncture, massages, and clarity (briefly)</li><li>16:08 – Conference burnout triggers and using AI to wrangle team meetings</li><li>22:42 – Why being together in person changed everything for Melody’s team</li><li>31:53 – Working night shift, Filipino work schedules, and the toll on health</li><li>38:16 – Happiness, culture shock, and what counts as “living simply”</li><li>46:19 – Planning the next trip, inviting clients, and why karaoke might save your business</li></ul><br/><p>At the heart of the conversation is a bigger leadership question: <em>What might change in your business if your team got to experience more of the real you—and you gave them more room to be themselves?</em></p><p>🎧 Listen to the full episode of The Soul Proprietor Podcast.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melody was in the Philippines, reconnected with her team after months of burnout, overwhelm, and uncertainty about what was sustainable for her.. and for the business.</p><p>What starts as a conversation about travel, health, and navigating life in a different culture becomes something much deeper: a look at what happens when a founder steps away, gets back in the room with the team, and starts letting go of control.</p><p>Being together with her team in person gave Melody a clearer view of them, their strengths, and the ways fear, control, and a lack of trust had been affecting their relationships. She realized that building a sustainable business meant letting people take ownership, trusting their abilities, and creating a company that could move forward without her being involved in every decision.</p><p>In this conversation, Melody and Curt talk about burnout, delegation, trust, leadership, company culture, and the uncomfortable process of realizing that sometimes the best thing a founder can do for the business is make themselves less necessary.</p><h2><span class="ql-size-small">Melody and Curt talk about:</span></h2><ul><li>What burnout can reveal about the way a business is being run</li><li>Why being physically together can create a level of trust that Zoom can't</li><li>Discovering the strengths and personalities of team members that weren't showing up remotely</li><li>The difference between giving someone responsibility and actually trusting them with it</li><li>How Melody learned to loosen restrictions around her salesperson and let her do what she does best</li><li>Why sustainable leadership means recognizing what you can—and cannot—continue doing yourself</li><li>Resetting company goals and getting back to KPIs</li><li>What living and working in another culture can teach us about happiness, simplicity, and what we actually need</li><li>Why stepping away from the familiar can change the way you see your business</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><ul><li>00:00 – Rainy season in Manila and the reality of Filipino traffic</li><li>06:25 – How not to have a sabbatical and the rocky road to travel wellness</li><li>11:07 – Acupuncture, massages, and clarity (briefly)</li><li>16:08 – Conference burnout triggers and using AI to wrangle team meetings</li><li>22:42 – Why being together in person changed everything for Melody’s team</li><li>31:53 – Working night shift, Filipino work schedules, and the toll on health</li><li>38:16 – Happiness, culture shock, and what counts as “living simply”</li><li>46:19 – Planning the next trip, inviting clients, and why karaoke might save your business</li></ul><br/><p>At the heart of the conversation is a bigger leadership question: <em>What might change in your business if your team got to experience more of the real you—and you gave them more room to be themselves?</em></p><p>🎧 Listen to the full episode of The Soul Proprietor Podcast.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/burnout-stories]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d324c547-2447-41e9-9d20-51bc2b7a23ff</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/8758d771-eff8-442d-9544-5713cede83c0/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-5.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d324c547-2447-41e9-9d20-51bc2b7a23ff.mp3" length="48760371" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>50:47</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>44</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/de8b23d6-8a75-43e5-bd98-ee39893b8a4b/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Good People Stop Being the Right People</title><itunes:title>When Good People Stop Being the Right People</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever wished you could get honest about what goes wrong in interviews, building a team, or making business partnerships work? This compilation episode is basically a highlight reel of the real, messy, sometimes hilarious conversations Curt and Melody keep having about how easy it is to get hiring, boundaries, and “vision” totally wrong.. plus a cautionary tale about why you should never skip the partnership prenup.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Curt's framework for actually learning about a candidate during interviews—minus the cheat-sheet answers</li><li>The story about Melody getting fired from a dog kennel (for throwing out someone’s shoes by accident) and what it taught her about boundaries</li><li>How “caring too much” becomes a fake interview weakness and why both hosts see themselves in that</li><li>Curt’s “never tell them your priorities up front” rule—just to see what people think success <em>means</em> before feeding answers</li><li>The burnout cycle of hiring someone to do four jobs badly, then feeling like you can’t win as a small business owner</li><li>Why having a crystal-clear business vision is both a curse and a superpower, and the mental spiral of feeling like everything’s “wrong” today until you reach it</li><li>Melody’s disaster partnership—lawyer visits, burping, and the one contract clause you must always add: what if you just stop liking each other?</li><li>Real talk about how purpose-driven business owners sacrifice sleep, health, and sanity for the dream… and why that has to change</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>If you lead interviews by feeding people your values, you’ll only see what they think you want.. not who they are.</li><li>The people who get your business off the ground aren’t always the ones who can keep it growing.</li><li>Clarity about vision matters, but sacrificing your own well-being (or family) in the name of “someday” is a recipe for regret.</li><li>A business partnership needs an exit strategy for the “we just don’t get along” scenario.. because it happens more than you think.</li><li>Trying to fill every “gap” alone or with scrappy hires is a guaranteed path to founder exhaustion.</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><ul><li>01:01 – Interview roleplay: desperate managers, fake weaknesses, chocolate-covered cherries</li><li>08:46 – Boundaries, peacemaking, and getting fired (and what we wish we’d done differently)</li><li>14:22 – Curt’s curious-interviewer framework and why he withholds “what good looks like”</li><li>24:14 – The pain of hiring for too many roles (and the mediocrity trap)</li><li>30:08 – How vision actually feels, and the misery of always feeling behind</li><li>36:15 – The contract clause you always forget in business partnerships</li><li>40:24 – Final thoughts, gratitude, and a brief plug for listener ideas</li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever wished you could get honest about what goes wrong in interviews, building a team, or making business partnerships work? This compilation episode is basically a highlight reel of the real, messy, sometimes hilarious conversations Curt and Melody keep having about how easy it is to get hiring, boundaries, and “vision” totally wrong.. plus a cautionary tale about why you should never skip the partnership prenup.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Curt's framework for actually learning about a candidate during interviews—minus the cheat-sheet answers</li><li>The story about Melody getting fired from a dog kennel (for throwing out someone’s shoes by accident) and what it taught her about boundaries</li><li>How “caring too much” becomes a fake interview weakness and why both hosts see themselves in that</li><li>Curt’s “never tell them your priorities up front” rule—just to see what people think success <em>means</em> before feeding answers</li><li>The burnout cycle of hiring someone to do four jobs badly, then feeling like you can’t win as a small business owner</li><li>Why having a crystal-clear business vision is both a curse and a superpower, and the mental spiral of feeling like everything’s “wrong” today until you reach it</li><li>Melody’s disaster partnership—lawyer visits, burping, and the one contract clause you must always add: what if you just stop liking each other?</li><li>Real talk about how purpose-driven business owners sacrifice sleep, health, and sanity for the dream… and why that has to change</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>If you lead interviews by feeding people your values, you’ll only see what they think you want.. not who they are.</li><li>The people who get your business off the ground aren’t always the ones who can keep it growing.</li><li>Clarity about vision matters, but sacrificing your own well-being (or family) in the name of “someday” is a recipe for regret.</li><li>A business partnership needs an exit strategy for the “we just don’t get along” scenario.. because it happens more than you think.</li><li>Trying to fill every “gap” alone or with scrappy hires is a guaranteed path to founder exhaustion.</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><ul><li>01:01 – Interview roleplay: desperate managers, fake weaknesses, chocolate-covered cherries</li><li>08:46 – Boundaries, peacemaking, and getting fired (and what we wish we’d done differently)</li><li>14:22 – Curt’s curious-interviewer framework and why he withholds “what good looks like”</li><li>24:14 – The pain of hiring for too many roles (and the mediocrity trap)</li><li>30:08 – How vision actually feels, and the misery of always feeling behind</li><li>36:15 – The contract clause you always forget in business partnerships</li><li>40:24 – Final thoughts, gratitude, and a brief plug for listener ideas</li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/hiring-experiment]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e2d65b3a-dece-4654-b51b-7b27f2860fb5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/7d4a00a8-5328-46d5-a378-64b5e83f56d7/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-4.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e2d65b3a-dece-4654-b51b-7b27f2860fb5.mp3" length="39469556" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>41:07</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/c69045c3-4d37-4518-8600-976b3e0425ed/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Best Of: AI Brain Fry: What AI Is Doing to Our Brains</title><itunes:title>Best Of: AI Brain Fry: What AI Is Doing to Our Brains</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>AI was supposed to make life easier.</p><p>So why does it feel like so many entrepreneurs are working more, thinking less clearly, and carrying more mental load than ever?</p><p>For this Best Of episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's conversations about what AI is actually doing to the way entrepreneurs work, think, create, and dream..</p><p>Curt and Melody use AI extensively yet they asked this question: <em>What happens when a tool that can help us execute faster starts changing the way we think?</em></p><p><strong>They explore:</strong></p><ul><li>Why AI can create more work instead of less</li><li>The "AI brain fry" that comes from relentless context switching and decision-making</li><li>How the promise of productivity can turn into longer workdays and higher expectations</li><li>Why uninterrupted thinking time may be more valuable than ever</li><li>What happens when AI turns dreaming into instant execution</li><li>The danger of outsourcing too much thinking and problem-solving to technology</li><li>Why AI can provide fast, useful information while still being confidently wrong</li><li>The importance of human judgment, experience, and wisdom</li><li>How Melody uses the idea of the "MelBot" to be transparent about when AI is helping create content</li><li>Why using AI ethically doesn't mean avoiding it—it means being intentional about how it's used</li><li>A real-world look at using AI in business without making the final product feel like it came from a robot</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Instant AI output feels magical at first, but all that speed just ramps up the pressure to produce even more (and fast)</li><li>Letting AI write for you is fine—as long as you’re transparent about where your words end and the robot’s begin</li><li>“Disposable knowledge” from AI is useful, but true wisdom still comes with nuance, hesitation, and lots of lived experience</li><li>We’re losing some of the dopamine hit of slow, intentional dreaming—sometimes what we need most is a break from building</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>06:23 – Ethics and the MelBot persona</p><p>13:30 – The burnout paradox of AI “productivity”</p><p>22:16 – Curt’s AI binge and family reality check</p><p>35:00 – Certainty, wisdom, and trusting the robot</p><p>41:10 – Dreaming vs. execution with AI</p><p>50:00 – Can you use AI in a job interview?</p><p>🎧 Listen to <em>AI Brain Fry: What AI Is Doing to Our Brains</em> and then ask yourself:</p><p>Is AI giving you your time back—or just helping you fill it faster?</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AI was supposed to make life easier.</p><p>So why does it feel like so many entrepreneurs are working more, thinking less clearly, and carrying more mental load than ever?</p><p>For this Best Of episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's conversations about what AI is actually doing to the way entrepreneurs work, think, create, and dream..</p><p>Curt and Melody use AI extensively yet they asked this question: <em>What happens when a tool that can help us execute faster starts changing the way we think?</em></p><p><strong>They explore:</strong></p><ul><li>Why AI can create more work instead of less</li><li>The "AI brain fry" that comes from relentless context switching and decision-making</li><li>How the promise of productivity can turn into longer workdays and higher expectations</li><li>Why uninterrupted thinking time may be more valuable than ever</li><li>What happens when AI turns dreaming into instant execution</li><li>The danger of outsourcing too much thinking and problem-solving to technology</li><li>Why AI can provide fast, useful information while still being confidently wrong</li><li>The importance of human judgment, experience, and wisdom</li><li>How Melody uses the idea of the "MelBot" to be transparent about when AI is helping create content</li><li>Why using AI ethically doesn't mean avoiding it—it means being intentional about how it's used</li><li>A real-world look at using AI in business without making the final product feel like it came from a robot</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Instant AI output feels magical at first, but all that speed just ramps up the pressure to produce even more (and fast)</li><li>Letting AI write for you is fine—as long as you’re transparent about where your words end and the robot’s begin</li><li>“Disposable knowledge” from AI is useful, but true wisdom still comes with nuance, hesitation, and lots of lived experience</li><li>We’re losing some of the dopamine hit of slow, intentional dreaming—sometimes what we need most is a break from building</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>06:23 – Ethics and the MelBot persona</p><p>13:30 – The burnout paradox of AI “productivity”</p><p>22:16 – Curt’s AI binge and family reality check</p><p>35:00 – Certainty, wisdom, and trusting the robot</p><p>41:10 – Dreaming vs. execution with AI</p><p>50:00 – Can you use AI in a job interview?</p><p>🎧 Listen to <em>AI Brain Fry: What AI Is Doing to Our Brains</em> and then ask yourself:</p><p>Is AI giving you your time back—or just helping you fill it faster?</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/ai-brain-fry]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5ff712c0-9803-41b2-a452-bae59c527816</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/925c4f5f-eee0-4f12-9a8d-8338fb0807fb/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-3.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5ff712c0-9803-41b2-a452-bae59c527816.mp3" length="50346526" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>52:27</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d619c4e7-9ed7-4fb9-9846-88646f7455f1/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Outsourcing Our Conscience, Voice &amp; Relationships</title><itunes:title>Outsourcing Our Conscience, Voice &amp; Relationships</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when we start outsourcing not just our work, but our actual voice, relationships, or even our consciousness to AI? This episode is the kind of rambling, real talk you have with your smartest friend at midnight: what even <em>is</em> the line? Melody and Curt get philosophical and a little bit ridiculous as they try to figure out what we're giving up.. and whether we're even noticing it's happening.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody is adamant that robots will never have childhood trauma (and why it matters)</li><li>Curt's categories for outsourcing: voice, relationships, morals, and even pain</li><li>That wild story about AI deleting a guy’s files (“my bad!”) and how easily trust gets broken</li><li>The difference between delegation and abdication.. especially when it comes to your voice online</li><li>Melody's confessions about using AI for difficult cards and when it actually helps</li><li>The idea that AI is basically “a sociopath who’s really good at pretending empathy” (not exactly comforting)</li><li>Navigating the nuance between human memory, actual relationships, and data-driven “companions”</li><li>Where we draw the line with AI in romantic relationships (hint: not here for wolf-man drama on Facebook)</li><li>The tension between using technology to save mental energy... versus losing what makes us, well, <em>us</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>We’re all outsourcing bits of ourselves—sometimes for good, sometimes just out of exhaustion—but there’s a difference between help and replacement.</li><li>No amount of “smart” tech can actually mirror the messy, embarrassing, deeply personal stuff that shapes our humanity.</li><li>Trust in AI is inherently fragile; one slip-up can unravel hundreds of seemingly perfect interactions.</li><li>Letting AI or others speak for you gets dicey fast—at some point, it becomes inauthentic, even if it’s “your” words.</li><li>The more we seek validation (or comfort) from AI, the easier it becomes to see actual humans as disposable... which feels pretty dangerous.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>0:00 – What robots will never know</p><p>9:27 – When AI trust gets shattered</p><p>19:21 – Is AI just a skilled sociopath?</p><p>29:59 – Algorithms picking who gets fired</p><p>38:35 – “MelBot” and the ethics of fake voices</p><p>43:08 – Why outsourcing relationships gets real messy</p><p>51:05 – The birthday text dilemma and emotional labor</p><p>54:20 – Relationship styles and that “how are you really?” moment</p><p>If this episode sparked new questions, Curt and Melody would love to hear from you.</p><p><strong>Where do you draw the line?</strong></p><p>At what point does AI stop being a helpful tool and start replacing something that should remain deeply human?</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when we start outsourcing not just our work, but our actual voice, relationships, or even our consciousness to AI? This episode is the kind of rambling, real talk you have with your smartest friend at midnight: what even <em>is</em> the line? Melody and Curt get philosophical and a little bit ridiculous as they try to figure out what we're giving up.. and whether we're even noticing it's happening.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody is adamant that robots will never have childhood trauma (and why it matters)</li><li>Curt's categories for outsourcing: voice, relationships, morals, and even pain</li><li>That wild story about AI deleting a guy’s files (“my bad!”) and how easily trust gets broken</li><li>The difference between delegation and abdication.. especially when it comes to your voice online</li><li>Melody's confessions about using AI for difficult cards and when it actually helps</li><li>The idea that AI is basically “a sociopath who’s really good at pretending empathy” (not exactly comforting)</li><li>Navigating the nuance between human memory, actual relationships, and data-driven “companions”</li><li>Where we draw the line with AI in romantic relationships (hint: not here for wolf-man drama on Facebook)</li><li>The tension between using technology to save mental energy... versus losing what makes us, well, <em>us</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>We’re all outsourcing bits of ourselves—sometimes for good, sometimes just out of exhaustion—but there’s a difference between help and replacement.</li><li>No amount of “smart” tech can actually mirror the messy, embarrassing, deeply personal stuff that shapes our humanity.</li><li>Trust in AI is inherently fragile; one slip-up can unravel hundreds of seemingly perfect interactions.</li><li>Letting AI or others speak for you gets dicey fast—at some point, it becomes inauthentic, even if it’s “your” words.</li><li>The more we seek validation (or comfort) from AI, the easier it becomes to see actual humans as disposable... which feels pretty dangerous.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>0:00 – What robots will never know</p><p>9:27 – When AI trust gets shattered</p><p>19:21 – Is AI just a skilled sociopath?</p><p>29:59 – Algorithms picking who gets fired</p><p>38:35 – “MelBot” and the ethics of fake voices</p><p>43:08 – Why outsourcing relationships gets real messy</p><p>51:05 – The birthday text dilemma and emotional labor</p><p>54:20 – Relationship styles and that “how are you really?” moment</p><p>If this episode sparked new questions, Curt and Melody would love to hear from you.</p><p><strong>Where do you draw the line?</strong></p><p>At what point does AI stop being a helpful tool and start replacing something that should remain deeply human?</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/outsourcing-voice]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">eb0d5c5b-9c6e-4adc-a8e2-45a2701030c9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/72a3863d-1db2-436b-9f94-7fbeee01f321/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/eb0d5c5b-9c6e-4adc-a8e2-45a2701030c9.mp3" length="56233481" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>58:35</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>43</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/3be6b822-b0ea-4a9a-8a06-52572ede9535/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Welcome to AI Burnout</title><itunes:title>Welcome to AI Burnout</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>AI promised to help us work smarter.</p><p>So why are so many entrepreneurs feeling more overwhelmed than ever?</p><p>In this episode, Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards explore a question that's becoming impossible to ignore: "When does AI stop being a helpful tool and start becoming an unhealthy dependency?"</p><p>The conversation begins with a humorous confession about planning life around AI credit windows before moving into a much deeper discussion about outsourcing our memory, communication, creativity, and even parts of our thinking.</p><p>Entrepreneurs have always outsourced tasks.. from calendars and navigation to customer service and marketing. AI simply raises a new ethical question: "What should never be outsourced?"</p><p><strong>In this episode, you'll hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why AI can feel both empowering and strangely addictive</li><li>The difference between healthy leverage and unhealthy dependence</li><li>How entrepreneurs have been outsourcing their thinking long before AI</li><li>The hidden cost of constant productivity</li><li>Why convenience isn't always the same as freedom</li><li>How AI is changing communication, relationships, and trust</li><li>Practical reflections on creating healthier boundaries with technology</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps: </strong></p><ul><li>05:20 – Melody’s history with automation &amp; trust</li><li>09:44 – The non-AI ways we’ve outsourced ourselves</li><li>15:06 – Automation in everyday life (and its failures)</li><li>18:26 – Scams and the darker edges of voice outsourcing</li><li>24:14 – What’s actually “healthy” in business tech use?</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Memorable Questions from the Episode</strong></p><ul><li>What should only you do?</li><li>Where is the line between helpful and harmful AI?</li><li>Is AI giving you more freedom—or making it harder to rest?</li><li>What parts of leadership should always remain human?</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever felt the pressure to keep up with AI, wondered whether you're using it wisely, or found yourself chasing productivity at the expense of presence, this conversation is for you.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AI promised to help us work smarter.</p><p>So why are so many entrepreneurs feeling more overwhelmed than ever?</p><p>In this episode, Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards explore a question that's becoming impossible to ignore: "When does AI stop being a helpful tool and start becoming an unhealthy dependency?"</p><p>The conversation begins with a humorous confession about planning life around AI credit windows before moving into a much deeper discussion about outsourcing our memory, communication, creativity, and even parts of our thinking.</p><p>Entrepreneurs have always outsourced tasks.. from calendars and navigation to customer service and marketing. AI simply raises a new ethical question: "What should never be outsourced?"</p><p><strong>In this episode, you'll hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why AI can feel both empowering and strangely addictive</li><li>The difference between healthy leverage and unhealthy dependence</li><li>How entrepreneurs have been outsourcing their thinking long before AI</li><li>The hidden cost of constant productivity</li><li>Why convenience isn't always the same as freedom</li><li>How AI is changing communication, relationships, and trust</li><li>Practical reflections on creating healthier boundaries with technology</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps: </strong></p><ul><li>05:20 – Melody’s history with automation &amp; trust</li><li>09:44 – The non-AI ways we’ve outsourced ourselves</li><li>15:06 – Automation in everyday life (and its failures)</li><li>18:26 – Scams and the darker edges of voice outsourcing</li><li>24:14 – What’s actually “healthy” in business tech use?</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Memorable Questions from the Episode</strong></p><ul><li>What should only you do?</li><li>Where is the line between helpful and harmful AI?</li><li>Is AI giving you more freedom—or making it harder to rest?</li><li>What parts of leadership should always remain human?</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever felt the pressure to keep up with AI, wondered whether you're using it wisely, or found yourself chasing productivity at the expense of presence, this conversation is for you.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/ai-burnout]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b0b37c47-8da7-496a-adca-513e0d1fb24d</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/28a145e4-1c9f-4ce4-85ac-832e422436de/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b0b37c47-8da7-496a-adca-513e0d1fb24d.mp3" length="29920443" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:10</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>42</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/7af03b9b-ddf7-4a0f-8268-25f5aaa8360d/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Trusting Your Team Enough to Let Go</title><itunes:title>Trusting Your Team Enough to Let Go</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when you finally step away from your business?</p><p>After weeks away from work, Curt and Melody reunite to share what they learned about their businesses and themselves.</p><p>What begins as a catch-up conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about burnout, trusting a team, recovering from constant decision-making, and how AI may be changing the way entrepreneurs think. Melody opens up about her health journey, taking time away to heal, and the surprising realization that her business continued to thrive without her. Curt shares his experience completely disconnecting in the mountains, discovering how restorative it can be to truly unplug.</p><p>Together they wrestle with a question many business owners avoid:</p><p><strong>Are we building businesses that depend on us—or businesses that empower others to lead?</strong></p><p>The conversation also explores the hidden cost of always being available, why making fewer decisions may actually make us better leaders, and what it means to create enough space to think, recover, and dream again.</p><h3>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</h3><ul><li>What happened after both of them stepped away from work</li><li>Why trusting your team is harder than it sounds</li><li>Burnout and the importance of creating space for recovery</li><li>The surprising freedom that comes from letting go of control</li><li>How AI may be contributing to decision fatigue and cognitive overload</li><li>Protecting your creativity in an increasingly fast-paced world</li><li>Learning to focus on only the decisions that truly require your leadership</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you're leading a growing business, feeling the weight of constant responsibility, or wondering if your company could function without you, this conversation offers an honest look at what it means to lead with trust instead of control.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Sometimes your team is more capable than you want to admit.. the business probably won’t collapse because you’re not there for six weeks</li><li>Chronic burnout isn’t just about needing a weekend off; getting your spark back could take months (or even years) if you’re not careful</li><li>Too much decision-making—especially with AI accelerating everything—is draining in ways we’re only starting to understand</li><li>Letting go of control (work, meds, even your own art) can be terrifying, but it’s how you make real space for something new</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00] Magic Ear Crystals &amp; Melody’s Health Saga</li><li>[06:03] Curt’s Mountain Adventures &amp; Camp Kitchen Mayhem</li><li>[09:59] Coming Off Meds, Grief, and Trying Alternative Healing</li><li>[17:34] Burnout, Brain Fog, and the Cognitive Toll of AI</li><li>[22:19] Letting the Business Run Without You</li><li>[29:03] Curt’s Lessons on Stepping Back (and Wanting to Step In)</li><li>[40:39] AI as Creative Partner and the Future of Making Things</li><li>[43:20] Shoutout to Ivan (the real MVP) and closing gratitude</li></ul><br/><p>🎧 Listen now and join the conversation.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when you finally step away from your business?</p><p>After weeks away from work, Curt and Melody reunite to share what they learned about their businesses and themselves.</p><p>What begins as a catch-up conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about burnout, trusting a team, recovering from constant decision-making, and how AI may be changing the way entrepreneurs think. Melody opens up about her health journey, taking time away to heal, and the surprising realization that her business continued to thrive without her. Curt shares his experience completely disconnecting in the mountains, discovering how restorative it can be to truly unplug.</p><p>Together they wrestle with a question many business owners avoid:</p><p><strong>Are we building businesses that depend on us—or businesses that empower others to lead?</strong></p><p>The conversation also explores the hidden cost of always being available, why making fewer decisions may actually make us better leaders, and what it means to create enough space to think, recover, and dream again.</p><h3>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</h3><ul><li>What happened after both of them stepped away from work</li><li>Why trusting your team is harder than it sounds</li><li>Burnout and the importance of creating space for recovery</li><li>The surprising freedom that comes from letting go of control</li><li>How AI may be contributing to decision fatigue and cognitive overload</li><li>Protecting your creativity in an increasingly fast-paced world</li><li>Learning to focus on only the decisions that truly require your leadership</li></ul><br/><p>Whether you're leading a growing business, feeling the weight of constant responsibility, or wondering if your company could function without you, this conversation offers an honest look at what it means to lead with trust instead of control.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Sometimes your team is more capable than you want to admit.. the business probably won’t collapse because you’re not there for six weeks</li><li>Chronic burnout isn’t just about needing a weekend off; getting your spark back could take months (or even years) if you’re not careful</li><li>Too much decision-making—especially with AI accelerating everything—is draining in ways we’re only starting to understand</li><li>Letting go of control (work, meds, even your own art) can be terrifying, but it’s how you make real space for something new</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00] Magic Ear Crystals &amp; Melody’s Health Saga</li><li>[06:03] Curt’s Mountain Adventures &amp; Camp Kitchen Mayhem</li><li>[09:59] Coming Off Meds, Grief, and Trying Alternative Healing</li><li>[17:34] Burnout, Brain Fog, and the Cognitive Toll of AI</li><li>[22:19] Letting the Business Run Without You</li><li>[29:03] Curt’s Lessons on Stepping Back (and Wanting to Step In)</li><li>[40:39] AI as Creative Partner and the Future of Making Things</li><li>[43:20] Shoutout to Ivan (the real MVP) and closing gratitude</li></ul><br/><p>🎧 Listen now and join the conversation.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/trusting-your-team]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">dadabc80-d39a-4d9d-bd41-309ce65d9b32</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/7864d92b-c4aa-43e4-84c9-33d0867115f7/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-11.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/dadabc80-d39a-4d9d-bd41-309ce65d9b32.mp3" length="42901419" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>41</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/4ba863b5-689b-4149-9b34-0dd592185a88/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Best Of: The Real Cost of Growth with Meaghan and Michael</title><itunes:title>Best Of: The Real Cost of Growth with Meaghan and Michael</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Success isn't just measured by revenue.</p><p>In this special "Best Of" episode, we revisit two of the most impactful conversations in the Soul Proprietor archives with Meaghan Likes and Michael Hinderliter. We unpack the hidden costs of entrepreneurship.. from the responsibility of leading employees and the myth of passive income to protecting your marriage, mental health, and sense of purpose.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Meaghan’s story about raising $250K for a Kenyan well, a corrupt official, and the moment she realized she stopped making money for herself (02:05)</li><li>Why hiring your first employee means you start working for everyone else—and what that does to your head</li><li>The weird guilt trip of making more than your employees (and why that mindset is so hard to shake)</li><li>Chaos addiction: why some founders just can’t sit still with a “boring” business</li><li>Spouses as Saints: painful confessions about coming home with nothing left in the tank (08:45)</li><li>Meaghan’s six failed partnerships (“thank God none were my marriage”) and what actually makes partnerships so tricky</li><li>Is “passive income” real? Megan’s candid take on why it almost never is for most business owners</li><li>Michael Hinderliter’s brutal honesty about divorce, depression, and how chasing success can leave your personal life in ruins (17:20)</li><li>The surprising truth about self-awareness and why it hurts (in a good way)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>The real test of growth isn’t revenue—it’s how much responsibility and obligation you’re willing to shoulder for other people</li><li>Partnerships almost always get messy unless you face the awkward questions about time, talent, and treasure up front</li><li>There’s no such thing as truly passive income for most people; anything worthwhile always asks for more of you</li><li>Mental health isn’t just a side note—if you’re not right in your head, nothing in business or family works</li><li>Self-awareness means seeing yourself the way others do, not just working on yourself in a vacuum</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>02:05 – Meaghan in Kenya &amp; “stop making money for yourself”</li><li>08:45 – The toll on family and real talk on marriage support</li><li>12:20 – “Passive income” as myth and the reality of business partnerships</li><li>17:20 – Michael’s story: ambition, divorce, and depression</li><li>28:45 – Self-awareness, abandoning victimhood, and what real growth feels like</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever wondered whether building a business is costing more than you expected, this conversation offers an honest look at the tradeoffs every entrepreneur eventually faces.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Success isn't just measured by revenue.</p><p>In this special "Best Of" episode, we revisit two of the most impactful conversations in the Soul Proprietor archives with Meaghan Likes and Michael Hinderliter. We unpack the hidden costs of entrepreneurship.. from the responsibility of leading employees and the myth of passive income to protecting your marriage, mental health, and sense of purpose.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Meaghan’s story about raising $250K for a Kenyan well, a corrupt official, and the moment she realized she stopped making money for herself (02:05)</li><li>Why hiring your first employee means you start working for everyone else—and what that does to your head</li><li>The weird guilt trip of making more than your employees (and why that mindset is so hard to shake)</li><li>Chaos addiction: why some founders just can’t sit still with a “boring” business</li><li>Spouses as Saints: painful confessions about coming home with nothing left in the tank (08:45)</li><li>Meaghan’s six failed partnerships (“thank God none were my marriage”) and what actually makes partnerships so tricky</li><li>Is “passive income” real? Megan’s candid take on why it almost never is for most business owners</li><li>Michael Hinderliter’s brutal honesty about divorce, depression, and how chasing success can leave your personal life in ruins (17:20)</li><li>The surprising truth about self-awareness and why it hurts (in a good way)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>The real test of growth isn’t revenue—it’s how much responsibility and obligation you’re willing to shoulder for other people</li><li>Partnerships almost always get messy unless you face the awkward questions about time, talent, and treasure up front</li><li>There’s no such thing as truly passive income for most people; anything worthwhile always asks for more of you</li><li>Mental health isn’t just a side note—if you’re not right in your head, nothing in business or family works</li><li>Self-awareness means seeing yourself the way others do, not just working on yourself in a vacuum</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>02:05 – Meaghan in Kenya &amp; “stop making money for yourself”</li><li>08:45 – The toll on family and real talk on marriage support</li><li>12:20 – “Passive income” as myth and the reality of business partnerships</li><li>17:20 – Michael’s story: ambition, divorce, and depression</li><li>28:45 – Self-awareness, abandoning victimhood, and what real growth feels like</li></ul><br/><p>If you've ever wondered whether building a business is costing more than you expected, this conversation offers an honest look at the tradeoffs every entrepreneur eventually faces.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/cost-of-growth]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">8a84c1e1-99dd-4197-a445-a7cbfd4bdfca</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/d8f6a8c6-a032-4dde-9fad-6301440fcda3/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-10.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8a84c1e1-99dd-4197-a445-a7cbfd4bdfca.mp3" length="38906147" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>40:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/00e3640b-0ce4-4e2e-91cb-23f1027855a0/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Best Of: Integrity, Ethics, and The Brutal Weight of Leadership</title><itunes:title>Best Of: Integrity, Ethics, and The Brutal Weight of Leadership</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this special <strong>Best Of</strong> episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's most thought-provoking conversations from the podcast archive, exploring the ethical questions that shape not just our businesses, but who we become.</p><p>From the phrase <em>"It's just business"</em> to the tension between confidence and authenticity, these conversations wrestle with what happens when doing the right thing isn't the easiest—or most profitable—path.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why "it's just business" can become an excuse for unethical behavior.</li><li>The difficult leadership decisions that leave lasting emotional weight.</li><li>Whether integrity helps or hurts entrepreneurs.</li><li>Why true expertise often creates more uncertainty, not less.</li><li>The challenge of balancing confidence with humility.</li><li>How business becomes one of life's greatest tests of character.</li><li>Why the real return on investment may not be financial at all.</li></ul><br/><p>This episode also features a little unexpected humor as Ivan temporarily takes over the microphone while Curt and Melody are away—before being reminded who really runs the show.</p><p>Whether you're leading a company, wrestling with difficult decisions, or simply trying to become the kind of person you want to be, this conversation offers an honest look at the messy intersection of business, ethics, and personal growth.</p><h3>Featured Episodes</h3><ul><li>Episode 1 – <em>It's Just Business</em></li><li>Episode 23 – <em>When Silence Becomes Agreement</em></li><li>Episode 12 – <em>The Trouble with Being Right</em></li><li>Episode 14 – <em>The ROI of Integrity</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>01:01 - Why “it’s just business” is a cop-out</li><li>08:00 - Curt’s brutal layoff story and emotional fallout</li><li>13:01 - Challenging the echo chamber vs. staying silent</li><li>19:12 - Melody’s crisis of confidence in sales and ethics</li><li>27:44 - The real ROI: authenticity, not profit</li><li>33:40 - Everyday integrity tests and regret—for better or worse</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Questions to reflect on after listening:</strong></p><ul><li>What does integrity cost you in your business?</li><li>Where have you been tempted to separate business from your personal values?</li><li>Are your decisions helping you become the person you want to be?</li></ul><br/><p>🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts, and if this conversation resonates, we'd love for you to leave a review and share it with another entrepreneur who values thoughtful leadership.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this special <strong>Best Of</strong> episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's most thought-provoking conversations from the podcast archive, exploring the ethical questions that shape not just our businesses, but who we become.</p><p>From the phrase <em>"It's just business"</em> to the tension between confidence and authenticity, these conversations wrestle with what happens when doing the right thing isn't the easiest—or most profitable—path.</p><p>Together, they discuss:</p><ul><li>Why "it's just business" can become an excuse for unethical behavior.</li><li>The difficult leadership decisions that leave lasting emotional weight.</li><li>Whether integrity helps or hurts entrepreneurs.</li><li>Why true expertise often creates more uncertainty, not less.</li><li>The challenge of balancing confidence with humility.</li><li>How business becomes one of life's greatest tests of character.</li><li>Why the real return on investment may not be financial at all.</li></ul><br/><p>This episode also features a little unexpected humor as Ivan temporarily takes over the microphone while Curt and Melody are away—before being reminded who really runs the show.</p><p>Whether you're leading a company, wrestling with difficult decisions, or simply trying to become the kind of person you want to be, this conversation offers an honest look at the messy intersection of business, ethics, and personal growth.</p><h3>Featured Episodes</h3><ul><li>Episode 1 – <em>It's Just Business</em></li><li>Episode 23 – <em>When Silence Becomes Agreement</em></li><li>Episode 12 – <em>The Trouble with Being Right</em></li><li>Episode 14 – <em>The ROI of Integrity</em></li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>01:01 - Why “it’s just business” is a cop-out</li><li>08:00 - Curt’s brutal layoff story and emotional fallout</li><li>13:01 - Challenging the echo chamber vs. staying silent</li><li>19:12 - Melody’s crisis of confidence in sales and ethics</li><li>27:44 - The real ROI: authenticity, not profit</li><li>33:40 - Everyday integrity tests and regret—for better or worse</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Questions to reflect on after listening:</strong></p><ul><li>What does integrity cost you in your business?</li><li>Where have you been tempted to separate business from your personal values?</li><li>Are your decisions helping you become the person you want to be?</li></ul><br/><p>🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts, and if this conversation resonates, we'd love for you to leave a review and share it with another entrepreneur who values thoughtful leadership.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/brutal-weight-of-leadership]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b9770c48-85c0-4cb8-9956-b7a53940e064</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4e60aa52-a64a-4c67-9220-6e4e18ed2603/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-6.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b9770c48-85c0-4cb8-9956-b7a53940e064.mp3" length="41006392" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>42:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Best Of: The Sparkly-Brained Entrepreneur</title><itunes:title>Best Of: The Sparkly-Brained Entrepreneur</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What makes an entrepreneur different from a business owner? Why do some minds seem wired to chase ideas, embrace risk, and constantly reinvent themselves.. even when it creates chaos?</p><p>While Curt and Melody are away, podcast editor Ivan returns for another "Best Of" takeover, curating some of the most memorable conversations about the entrepreneurial mind. From sparkly brains and ADHD strategies to identity, authenticity, and letting go, this episode explores why visionary thinking can be both your greatest strength and your biggest challenge.</p><p>Whether you've ever found yourself overwhelmed by too many ideas, struggling to stay focused, or questioning who you're becoming as your business grows, this episode is for you.</p><p><strong>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>What truly separates entrepreneurs from business owners</li><li>Why visionary minds naturally generate endless ideas</li><li>The hidden cost of entrepreneurial curiosity and opportunity</li><li>Practical strategies for managing ADHD and maintaining focus</li><li>How visual "mental milestones" can help keep conversations—and projects—on track</li><li>The challenge of evolving your identity as your business grows</li><li>Why authenticity doesn't have to mean staying the same forever</li><li>Learning to let go of old beliefs without compromising your values</li><li>Finding the balance between creativity, execution, and sustainable growth</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p><strong>Entrepreneurship is about creation.</strong></p><p>Building a business isn't just about owning one—it's about bringing something new into the world, whether that's a product, a brand, or a better way of serving people.</p><p><strong>Your sparkly brain is both a gift and a challenge.</strong></p><p>The same mind that generates innovative ideas can also struggle with focus, follow-through, and resisting the next exciting opportunity.</p><p><strong>Focus isn't one-size-fits-all.</strong></p><p>Curt shares personal systems he's developed to manage attention, while Melody discusses her own experiences with ADHD and different therapeutic approaches.</p><p><strong>Growth often requires becoming someone new.</strong></p><p>As businesses evolve, entrepreneurs are forced to examine long-held beliefs about leadership, marketing, authenticity, and even their own identity.</p><p><strong>Authenticity isn't about staying the same.</strong></p><p>It's about continuing to tell the truth while allowing yourself permission to learn, adapt, and grow.</p><p><strong>Episode Timeline</strong></p><p><strong>00:00</strong> – Ivan returns as the self-appointed podcast overlord</p><p><strong>01:50</strong> – What actually makes someone an entrepreneur?</p><p><strong>07:30</strong> – The risks entrepreneurs rarely talk about</p><p><strong>08:10</strong> – The "sparkly brain" and living with ADHD</p><p><strong>12:00</strong> – Curt's mental milestone strategy for staying focused</p><p><strong>13:45</strong> – Different approaches to ADHD support, TMS, and neurofeedback</p><p><strong>18:40</strong> – When your business identity no longer fits</p><p><strong>24:30</strong> – Can you "fake it till you make it" without losing your authenticity?</p><p><strong>31:00</strong> – Letting go of old beliefs to create room for growth</p><p><strong>39:00</strong> – Trying on a new identity as a business owner</p><p><strong>44:15</strong> – Where to hear the full conversations featured in this Best Of episode</p><p><strong>Featured Episodes</strong></p><p>This episode includes highlights from previous Soul Proprietor conversations:</p><ul><li><strong>Episode 9:</strong> <em>Visionaries vs. Control Freaks: Finding the Balance in Entrepreneurship</em></li><li><strong>Episode 19:</strong> <em>Does Your Sparkly Brain Help or Hurt Your Business?</em></li><li><strong>Episode 8:</strong> <em>You've Got to Let Go to Grow</em></li><li><strong>Episode 35:</strong> <em>Mel Infiltrates a Christian Business Conference</em></li></ul><br/><p>🎧 If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear from you. Leave a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts, and share this episode with another entrepreneur whose sparkly brain never seems to slow down.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What makes an entrepreneur different from a business owner? Why do some minds seem wired to chase ideas, embrace risk, and constantly reinvent themselves.. even when it creates chaos?</p><p>While Curt and Melody are away, podcast editor Ivan returns for another "Best Of" takeover, curating some of the most memorable conversations about the entrepreneurial mind. From sparkly brains and ADHD strategies to identity, authenticity, and letting go, this episode explores why visionary thinking can be both your greatest strength and your biggest challenge.</p><p>Whether you've ever found yourself overwhelmed by too many ideas, struggling to stay focused, or questioning who you're becoming as your business grows, this episode is for you.</p><p><strong>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>What truly separates entrepreneurs from business owners</li><li>Why visionary minds naturally generate endless ideas</li><li>The hidden cost of entrepreneurial curiosity and opportunity</li><li>Practical strategies for managing ADHD and maintaining focus</li><li>How visual "mental milestones" can help keep conversations—and projects—on track</li><li>The challenge of evolving your identity as your business grows</li><li>Why authenticity doesn't have to mean staying the same forever</li><li>Learning to let go of old beliefs without compromising your values</li><li>Finding the balance between creativity, execution, and sustainable growth</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p><strong>Entrepreneurship is about creation.</strong></p><p>Building a business isn't just about owning one—it's about bringing something new into the world, whether that's a product, a brand, or a better way of serving people.</p><p><strong>Your sparkly brain is both a gift and a challenge.</strong></p><p>The same mind that generates innovative ideas can also struggle with focus, follow-through, and resisting the next exciting opportunity.</p><p><strong>Focus isn't one-size-fits-all.</strong></p><p>Curt shares personal systems he's developed to manage attention, while Melody discusses her own experiences with ADHD and different therapeutic approaches.</p><p><strong>Growth often requires becoming someone new.</strong></p><p>As businesses evolve, entrepreneurs are forced to examine long-held beliefs about leadership, marketing, authenticity, and even their own identity.</p><p><strong>Authenticity isn't about staying the same.</strong></p><p>It's about continuing to tell the truth while allowing yourself permission to learn, adapt, and grow.</p><p><strong>Episode Timeline</strong></p><p><strong>00:00</strong> – Ivan returns as the self-appointed podcast overlord</p><p><strong>01:50</strong> – What actually makes someone an entrepreneur?</p><p><strong>07:30</strong> – The risks entrepreneurs rarely talk about</p><p><strong>08:10</strong> – The "sparkly brain" and living with ADHD</p><p><strong>12:00</strong> – Curt's mental milestone strategy for staying focused</p><p><strong>13:45</strong> – Different approaches to ADHD support, TMS, and neurofeedback</p><p><strong>18:40</strong> – When your business identity no longer fits</p><p><strong>24:30</strong> – Can you "fake it till you make it" without losing your authenticity?</p><p><strong>31:00</strong> – Letting go of old beliefs to create room for growth</p><p><strong>39:00</strong> – Trying on a new identity as a business owner</p><p><strong>44:15</strong> – Where to hear the full conversations featured in this Best Of episode</p><p><strong>Featured Episodes</strong></p><p>This episode includes highlights from previous Soul Proprietor conversations:</p><ul><li><strong>Episode 9:</strong> <em>Visionaries vs. Control Freaks: Finding the Balance in Entrepreneurship</em></li><li><strong>Episode 19:</strong> <em>Does Your Sparkly Brain Help or Hurt Your Business?</em></li><li><strong>Episode 8:</strong> <em>You've Got to Let Go to Grow</em></li><li><strong>Episode 35:</strong> <em>Mel Infiltrates a Christian Business Conference</em></li></ul><br/><p>🎧 If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear from you. Leave a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts, and share this episode with another entrepreneur whose sparkly brain never seems to slow down.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/sparkly-brained-entrepreneur]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">2e091838-a5c8-4989-baf7-dc7603eeeea7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/8d8e3410-478a-45c1-8379-4f2ab8e6b1e2/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-5.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2e091838-a5c8-4989-baf7-dc7603eeeea7.mp3" length="43209455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>45:01</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/f166f4aa-efe4-4691-aee5-27df233095ea/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Best Of: The Cost of Hustling</title><itunes:title>Best Of: The Cost of Hustling</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What if the biggest threat to your business isn't failure...it's your inability to stop working?</p><p>In this "Best Of" episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's conversations about workaholism, entrepreneur burnout, identity, and the hidden cost of always being "on."</p><p>Entrepreneurs often wear hustle like a badge of honor. Society rewards long hours, constant availability, and endless ambition. But what happens when the very drive that built your business begins to erode your relationships, your health, and even your sense of self?</p><p>This conversation explores why work can become a socially acceptable addiction, how entrepreneurs unknowingly sabotage the freedom they set out to create, and why having more time doesn't automatically lead to a better life.</p><p>Whether you've struggled to unplug, feel guilty when you're not working, or wonder who you'd be without your business, this episode offers an honest look at the questions many entrepreneurs avoid asking.</p><p><strong>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>Why workaholism can function like an addiction</li><li>The hidden link between identity and entrepreneurship</li><li>Decision fatigue and the mental load of leading a business</li><li>Why gaining more free time often doesn't solve burnout</li><li>How entrepreneurs unintentionally fill every available moment with more work</li><li>The tension between caring deeply and carrying too much</li><li>Practical ways to recognize unhealthy hustle before it costs you what matters most</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:32—Melody on generational programming and fake “freedom”</li><li>7:48—Identity crisis after selling the business</li><li>14:34—When caring too much becomes control</li><li>22:55—What “balance” actually means for a family</li><li>36:10—Decision fatigue and the Beat Saber analogy</li><li>39:43—Where to find more on this topic</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Memorable takeaway:</strong></p><p><em>"The freedom we build isn't always freedom if we simply use it to work even more."</em></p><p>If this conversation resonates with you, take a moment to ask yourself:</p><p>Are you building a business that gives you life—or one that quietly consumes it?</p><p>🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if the biggest threat to your business isn't failure...it's your inability to stop working?</p><p>In this "Best Of" episode, we revisit some of Curt and Melody's conversations about workaholism, entrepreneur burnout, identity, and the hidden cost of always being "on."</p><p>Entrepreneurs often wear hustle like a badge of honor. Society rewards long hours, constant availability, and endless ambition. But what happens when the very drive that built your business begins to erode your relationships, your health, and even your sense of self?</p><p>This conversation explores why work can become a socially acceptable addiction, how entrepreneurs unknowingly sabotage the freedom they set out to create, and why having more time doesn't automatically lead to a better life.</p><p>Whether you've struggled to unplug, feel guilty when you're not working, or wonder who you'd be without your business, this episode offers an honest look at the questions many entrepreneurs avoid asking.</p><p><strong>In this episode, Curt and Melody discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>Why workaholism can function like an addiction</li><li>The hidden link between identity and entrepreneurship</li><li>Decision fatigue and the mental load of leading a business</li><li>Why gaining more free time often doesn't solve burnout</li><li>How entrepreneurs unintentionally fill every available moment with more work</li><li>The tension between caring deeply and carrying too much</li><li>Practical ways to recognize unhealthy hustle before it costs you what matters most</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>1:32—Melody on generational programming and fake “freedom”</li><li>7:48—Identity crisis after selling the business</li><li>14:34—When caring too much becomes control</li><li>22:55—What “balance” actually means for a family</li><li>36:10—Decision fatigue and the Beat Saber analogy</li><li>39:43—Where to find more on this topic</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Memorable takeaway:</strong></p><p><em>"The freedom we build isn't always freedom if we simply use it to work even more."</em></p><p>If this conversation resonates with you, take a moment to ask yourself:</p><p>Are you building a business that gives you life—or one that quietly consumes it?</p><p>🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.</p><p><h2></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/cost-of-hustling]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a475e5ad-da67-423d-b833-1630d83573ad</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0b5208b7-2d5b-4b39-bad2-305078a3dd4c/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-3.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a475e5ad-da67-423d-b833-1630d83573ad.mp3" length="39662235" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>41:19</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Father&apos;s Day Episode</title><itunes:title>Father&apos;s Day Episode</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Father's Day has a way of making us reflect.. not just on our fathers, but on the people who raised us and the parents we're becoming.</p><p>In this heartfelt conversation, Curt and Melody explore the expectations we place on mothers and fathers, why holidays like Mother's Day and Father's Day can stir up unexpected emotions, and the freedom that comes when we stop expecting perfection from ourselves or our parents.</p><p>Along the way, they discuss entrepreneurship, family dynamics, taking a much-needed break from work, and the surprising moment every adult eventually experiences: realizing their parents were never superheroes. They were simply human beings doing their best with what they had.</p><p>Whether you're raising children, leading a business, caring for aging parents, or simply reflecting on your own childhood, this episode is a reminder that the greatest legacy isn't perfection.</p><p>It's showing up.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody blocks her team (and herself) when she needs a real break—and why so many entrepreneurs never feel “ready” to step away</li><li>The honest reason most moms struggle with Mother’s Day (hint: it’s not just about not getting presents)</li><li>The story about the “pampered” family dinner and the big reveal from Curt’s sisters about why the holiday actually stings (00:00)</li><li>Curt’s realization that he thinks of Father’s Day as honoring his own dad, not himself—and why he’s usually surprised it’s even happening</li><li>How social media and influencer “perfect” holidays crank up disappointment and comparison for everyone</li><li>Melody’s love-hate relationship with gifts (notes &gt; flowers; also, the existential dread of watching plants die)</li><li>Kitchen “technologies,” family hackathons, and why every house project somehow turns into six more chaos projects</li><li>Different modes of feeling “needed” as a parent, and that weird empty-nest sensation: do you actually want the freedom you think you want?</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Mother’s Day can amplify every insecurity moms feel, turning what’s meant to be a celebration into an emotional funhouse mirror</li><li>Most dads don’t crave the spotlight on Father’s Day—the expectations just hit differently, and sometimes barely register at all</li><li>Feeling “needed” is deeply wrapped up in identity, especially for mothers—when that shifts, it can be disorienting (and sometimes a relief)</li><li>Parenting and business both create their own chaos, and most of us learn to operate best inside it—even as we wish for rest</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps for Major Shifts:</strong></p><ul><li>01:01: Melody’s work hiatus and why breaks are so hard for entrepreneurs</li><li>09:16: Pivot to parent holidays and the messy reality of feeling appreciated (or not)</li><li>16:08: The ugly truth about Mother’s Day and the mom guilt microscope</li><li>32:32: Decision fatigue, kitchen gratitude, and why so many gifts miss the mark</li><li>38:48: Why you can survive with one (parent, brake, or project manager)—but the chaos is real</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Soul Proprietor Podcast</strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Father's Day has a way of making us reflect.. not just on our fathers, but on the people who raised us and the parents we're becoming.</p><p>In this heartfelt conversation, Curt and Melody explore the expectations we place on mothers and fathers, why holidays like Mother's Day and Father's Day can stir up unexpected emotions, and the freedom that comes when we stop expecting perfection from ourselves or our parents.</p><p>Along the way, they discuss entrepreneurship, family dynamics, taking a much-needed break from work, and the surprising moment every adult eventually experiences: realizing their parents were never superheroes. They were simply human beings doing their best with what they had.</p><p>Whether you're raising children, leading a business, caring for aging parents, or simply reflecting on your own childhood, this episode is a reminder that the greatest legacy isn't perfection.</p><p>It's showing up.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Melody blocks her team (and herself) when she needs a real break—and why so many entrepreneurs never feel “ready” to step away</li><li>The honest reason most moms struggle with Mother’s Day (hint: it’s not just about not getting presents)</li><li>The story about the “pampered” family dinner and the big reveal from Curt’s sisters about why the holiday actually stings (00:00)</li><li>Curt’s realization that he thinks of Father’s Day as honoring his own dad, not himself—and why he’s usually surprised it’s even happening</li><li>How social media and influencer “perfect” holidays crank up disappointment and comparison for everyone</li><li>Melody’s love-hate relationship with gifts (notes &gt; flowers; also, the existential dread of watching plants die)</li><li>Kitchen “technologies,” family hackathons, and why every house project somehow turns into six more chaos projects</li><li>Different modes of feeling “needed” as a parent, and that weird empty-nest sensation: do you actually want the freedom you think you want?</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Mother’s Day can amplify every insecurity moms feel, turning what’s meant to be a celebration into an emotional funhouse mirror</li><li>Most dads don’t crave the spotlight on Father’s Day—the expectations just hit differently, and sometimes barely register at all</li><li>Feeling “needed” is deeply wrapped up in identity, especially for mothers—when that shifts, it can be disorienting (and sometimes a relief)</li><li>Parenting and business both create their own chaos, and most of us learn to operate best inside it—even as we wish for rest</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps for Major Shifts:</strong></p><ul><li>01:01: Melody’s work hiatus and why breaks are so hard for entrepreneurs</li><li>09:16: Pivot to parent holidays and the messy reality of feeling appreciated (or not)</li><li>16:08: The ugly truth about Mother’s Day and the mom guilt microscope</li><li>32:32: Decision fatigue, kitchen gratitude, and why so many gifts miss the mark</li><li>38:48: Why you can survive with one (parent, brake, or project manager)—but the chaos is real</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Soul Proprietor Podcast</strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/fathers-day-episode]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">787a8ab5-e380-4c2c-b44e-de5c552574c2</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/b3d6e54b-e8b0-499b-8151-23aa95e86b5d/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/787a8ab5-e380-4c2c-b44e-de5c552574c2.mp3" length="63120194" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:05:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>40</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/60db76b2-1af7-4cb8-8472-07e0865c3c61/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Hiring Experiment Part 2: The Connection</title><itunes:title>The Hiring Experiment Part 2: The Connection</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What does a great interview actually sound like?</p><p>In Part 2 of <em>The Hiring Experiment</em>, the roles are reversed as Curt interviews Melody using the hiring framework he relies on today. Instead of searching for perfect answers, Curt demonstrates an approach built on curiosity, authenticity, and understanding who a candidate really is beneath the resume.</p><p>Throughout the conversation, Melody steps into the role of a candidate applying for a customer success position, giving listeners a front-row seat to a modern interview process designed to uncover values, motivations, communication style, and cultural fit.</p><p>Along the way, Curt explains why he avoids leading questions, how he evaluates expertise without giving away what he's looking for, and why he believes entrepreneurs should stop hiring people they've never worked with before.</p><p>This episode is part interview demonstration, part hiring masterclass, and a practical look at how thoughtful questions can reveal far more than rehearsed answers ever will.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About</strong></p><ul><li>Curt’s framework for interviews: extreme curiosity, not showing his hand, and never feeding answers</li><li>Why Melody thinks classic interviews are pressure-cookers that rarely show you who someone really is</li><li>The story about being fired for “working too hard” and why pretending to be busy might actually be the rule in some companies</li><li>The trauma of being a teenage elf—with a glued-on mustache (and what that says about sticking it out)</li><li>What makes a workplace culture truly great (spoiler: it’s not the perks, it’s the people)</li><li>How both hosts have moved to paid, real-world projects as part of hiring—not just talking about fit, but testing it</li><li>Conversations about remote work: the risks of micromanagement, the power of memes, and staying human over Zoom</li><li>Melody’s favorite interview question (hint: it’s about your best friend, not your résumé)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>You can’t game a genuinely curious interview.. if it’s done right, there is no “right answer”</li><li>Testing real work (not hypothetical scenarios) reveals so much more than traditional questions</li><li>Job fit is about values, energy, and growth.. not just skills or step-by-step instructions</li><li>Being honest about growth, conflict, and even failures leads to way better hires and happier teams</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><p>0:00 – Melody in the hot seat, and why this experiment matters</p><p>6:16 – Curt lays out his interview framework</p><p>13:09 – The window cleaning story and what lights Melody up at work</p><p>18:27 – Mustaches, quitting, and drawing boundaries with bad bosses</p><p>26:34 – What 75% of a truly great workplace agrees about</p><p>30:27 – The real deal on remote company culture</p><p>42:23 – The paid trial project and why it’s their “business prenup”</p><p>54:47 – Debriefs, ride-alongs, and prepping people for honest interviews</p><p>64:19 – Letting go of “forever hires” and making space for growth</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does a great interview actually sound like?</p><p>In Part 2 of <em>The Hiring Experiment</em>, the roles are reversed as Curt interviews Melody using the hiring framework he relies on today. Instead of searching for perfect answers, Curt demonstrates an approach built on curiosity, authenticity, and understanding who a candidate really is beneath the resume.</p><p>Throughout the conversation, Melody steps into the role of a candidate applying for a customer success position, giving listeners a front-row seat to a modern interview process designed to uncover values, motivations, communication style, and cultural fit.</p><p>Along the way, Curt explains why he avoids leading questions, how he evaluates expertise without giving away what he's looking for, and why he believes entrepreneurs should stop hiring people they've never worked with before.</p><p>This episode is part interview demonstration, part hiring masterclass, and a practical look at how thoughtful questions can reveal far more than rehearsed answers ever will.</p><p><strong>What They Talk About</strong></p><ul><li>Curt’s framework for interviews: extreme curiosity, not showing his hand, and never feeding answers</li><li>Why Melody thinks classic interviews are pressure-cookers that rarely show you who someone really is</li><li>The story about being fired for “working too hard” and why pretending to be busy might actually be the rule in some companies</li><li>The trauma of being a teenage elf—with a glued-on mustache (and what that says about sticking it out)</li><li>What makes a workplace culture truly great (spoiler: it’s not the perks, it’s the people)</li><li>How both hosts have moved to paid, real-world projects as part of hiring—not just talking about fit, but testing it</li><li>Conversations about remote work: the risks of micromanagement, the power of memes, and staying human over Zoom</li><li>Melody’s favorite interview question (hint: it’s about your best friend, not your résumé)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li>You can’t game a genuinely curious interview.. if it’s done right, there is no “right answer”</li><li>Testing real work (not hypothetical scenarios) reveals so much more than traditional questions</li><li>Job fit is about values, energy, and growth.. not just skills or step-by-step instructions</li><li>Being honest about growth, conflict, and even failures leads to way better hires and happier teams</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps</h3><p>0:00 – Melody in the hot seat, and why this experiment matters</p><p>6:16 – Curt lays out his interview framework</p><p>13:09 – The window cleaning story and what lights Melody up at work</p><p>18:27 – Mustaches, quitting, and drawing boundaries with bad bosses</p><p>26:34 – What 75% of a truly great workplace agrees about</p><p>30:27 – The real deal on remote company culture</p><p>42:23 – The paid trial project and why it’s their “business prenup”</p><p>54:47 – Debriefs, ride-alongs, and prepping people for honest interviews</p><p>64:19 – Letting go of “forever hires” and making space for growth</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/the-hiring-experiment]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a53c2239-f630-4999-bbce-ebd6270ac94e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0d30744f-6605-4a2e-9610-231083bb2b90/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a53c2239-f630-4999-bbce-ebd6270ac94e.mp3" length="65811852" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:08:33</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>39</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/efa3e783-b00a-45de-98f5-5460b74677c3/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Hiring Experiment Part 1: The Checklist</title><itunes:title>The Hiring Experiment Part 1: The Checklist</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Melody just got back from a whirlwind week of deep cleaning an inn on Cape Cod while launching a full-blown vegan detox.. yes, at the same time! This episode kicks off with that chaotic personal story before rolling into a hilarious, slightly cringey role-play of how she used to run job interviews (and all the mistakes that came with it). It’s all about the messy, mysterious art of hiring: what’s changed, what still stumps us, and why nailing the “culture fit” is way harder than anyone admits.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Most interviews are performances.. people say what you want to hear because survival (aka getting paid) is on the line.</li><li>True alignment isn’t about reciting the boss’s values, but about what motivates someone <em>when no one is watching</em>.</li><li>Even after hundreds (or thousands) of hires, you can’t game the mystery out of people.. you can only build better systems and expect a little failure.</li><li>Culture, capability, and manager fit all matter; a red flag in any one can unravel everything.</li><li>If someone’s not a morning person, no “pretend” morning enthusiasm will last longer than a few weeks—ask us how we know.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:01:29] Melody’s innkeeping and vegan cleanse escapades</li><li>[00:10:14] “Hiring mistakes from a decade ago”</li><li>[00:13:07] Interview style confessions (awkward silences, overselling)</li><li>[00:25:53] The myth of “values-based hiring”</li><li>[00:32:21] Testing tools, culture clashes, and international surprises</li><li>[00:35:27] Admitting we’re still not hiring experts</li></ul><br/><p>Definitely one for anyone who’s ever sweated over hiring… or wondered why “just hire nice people” never works out that simply.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melody just got back from a whirlwind week of deep cleaning an inn on Cape Cod while launching a full-blown vegan detox.. yes, at the same time! This episode kicks off with that chaotic personal story before rolling into a hilarious, slightly cringey role-play of how she used to run job interviews (and all the mistakes that came with it). It’s all about the messy, mysterious art of hiring: what’s changed, what still stumps us, and why nailing the “culture fit” is way harder than anyone admits.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Most interviews are performances.. people say what you want to hear because survival (aka getting paid) is on the line.</li><li>True alignment isn’t about reciting the boss’s values, but about what motivates someone <em>when no one is watching</em>.</li><li>Even after hundreds (or thousands) of hires, you can’t game the mystery out of people.. you can only build better systems and expect a little failure.</li><li>Culture, capability, and manager fit all matter; a red flag in any one can unravel everything.</li><li>If someone’s not a morning person, no “pretend” morning enthusiasm will last longer than a few weeks—ask us how we know.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:01:29] Melody’s innkeeping and vegan cleanse escapades</li><li>[00:10:14] “Hiring mistakes from a decade ago”</li><li>[00:13:07] Interview style confessions (awkward silences, overselling)</li><li>[00:25:53] The myth of “values-based hiring”</li><li>[00:32:21] Testing tools, culture clashes, and international surprises</li><li>[00:35:27] Admitting we’re still not hiring experts</li></ul><br/><p>Definitely one for anyone who’s ever sweated over hiring… or wondered why “just hire nice people” never works out that simply.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/hiring-experiment]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ae1c654c-6535-4c82-8d97-4dd1e3b72c97</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f372c0ac-fb10-4bb2-a7ef-ffdb7ed05ae7/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ae1c654c-6535-4c82-8d97-4dd1e3b72c97.mp3" length="38398745" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>40:00</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>38</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2abdb175-9c45-4f95-9a89-9724519ed699/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 3</title><itunes:title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 3</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In Part 3 of Curt and Melody’s conversation with Josh Latimer, the discussion moves far beyond business tactics and into the deeper questions entrepreneurs wrestle with underneath the surface.</p><p>Josh shares candidly about boredom in business, the tension between creativity and leadership, why so many entrepreneurs chase goals they don’t actually want, and how identity shapes pricing, confidence, growth, and decision-making.</p><p>The episode explores the difference between cravings created by outside expectations versus genuine desires rooted in purpose and conviction. Curt, Melody, and Josh also unpack sales psychology, delegation, startup culture, mentorship, boundaries, and what it really takes to grow into the next version of yourself.</p><p>This conversation feels equal parts business coaching session, philosophical discussion, and honest reflection on the emotional side of entrepreneurship.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Most of what entrepreneurs claim they want is just social conditioning—figuring out your real, internally-motivated desire is a much messier process.</li><li>Serving customers you “should” want to help (instead of the ones who value you) is a fast road to burnout and under-earning.</li><li>Boundaries actually make people respect you <em>more</em>—overgiving just makes everyone (yourself included) take your value for granted.</li><li>Pricing transforms how your clients show up (and how you see yourself). Sometimes doubling your price is the most generous thing you can do for both sides.</li><li>Iterating in public, embracing mistakes, and treating your business as a living "science experiment" beats waiting for perfect.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00:00] Desires vs. cravings and deathbed regrets</li><li>[00:07:13] The “so that” story that strips ambition to the core</li><li>[00:16:13] Melody’s “oughtness” trap and finding the right customer</li><li>[00:24:07] Pricing, confidence, and the weird truth about value</li><li>[00:33:35] Boundaries, burnout, and the hard lessons of letting go</li><li>[00:56:37] F.R.A.P. and the art (and science) of making profit actually work</li><li>[01:07:08] Can you market ethically <em>and</em> build wealth? (Hint: yes)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Soul Proprietor:</strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In Part 3 of Curt and Melody’s conversation with Josh Latimer, the discussion moves far beyond business tactics and into the deeper questions entrepreneurs wrestle with underneath the surface.</p><p>Josh shares candidly about boredom in business, the tension between creativity and leadership, why so many entrepreneurs chase goals they don’t actually want, and how identity shapes pricing, confidence, growth, and decision-making.</p><p>The episode explores the difference between cravings created by outside expectations versus genuine desires rooted in purpose and conviction. Curt, Melody, and Josh also unpack sales psychology, delegation, startup culture, mentorship, boundaries, and what it really takes to grow into the next version of yourself.</p><p>This conversation feels equal parts business coaching session, philosophical discussion, and honest reflection on the emotional side of entrepreneurship.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Most of what entrepreneurs claim they want is just social conditioning—figuring out your real, internally-motivated desire is a much messier process.</li><li>Serving customers you “should” want to help (instead of the ones who value you) is a fast road to burnout and under-earning.</li><li>Boundaries actually make people respect you <em>more</em>—overgiving just makes everyone (yourself included) take your value for granted.</li><li>Pricing transforms how your clients show up (and how you see yourself). Sometimes doubling your price is the most generous thing you can do for both sides.</li><li>Iterating in public, embracing mistakes, and treating your business as a living "science experiment" beats waiting for perfect.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00:00] Desires vs. cravings and deathbed regrets</li><li>[00:07:13] The “so that” story that strips ambition to the core</li><li>[00:16:13] Melody’s “oughtness” trap and finding the right customer</li><li>[00:24:07] Pricing, confidence, and the weird truth about value</li><li>[00:33:35] Boundaries, burnout, and the hard lessons of letting go</li><li>[00:56:37] F.R.A.P. and the art (and science) of making profit actually work</li><li>[01:07:08] Can you market ethically <em>and</em> build wealth? (Hint: yes)</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Connect with Soul Proprietor:</strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/josh-latimer]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">5ed1a82e-d316-46b7-8786-7d1b7449719f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/8d844909-817b-4045-92b0-273afaf6dcce/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5ed1a82e-d316-46b7-8786-7d1b7449719f.mp3" length="73824547" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:16:54</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>37</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/d248cc9e-672b-4f2a-8346-19969a316a68/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>We Were Dreamers Before We Were Entrepreneurs</title><itunes:title>We Were Dreamers Before We Were Entrepreneurs</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>At what point do entrepreneurs stop dreaming and start only solving problems?</p><p>In this deeply honest conversation, Curt and Melody explore the tension between creativity, ambition, technology, and being human in a world that never stops moving. What started as a conversation about entrepreneurship and AI turned into something much bigger: a reflection on dreaming itself.</p><p>They unpack the addictive nature of execution, the pressure entrepreneurs place on themselves, and how modern technology is changing not just the way businesses operate — but the way people think, create, rest, and connect.</p><p>Curt opens up about getting consumed by late-night AI building sessions and the moment Rachel confronted him about being present with his family. Melody reflects on the difference between dreaming, creating, and constantly reacting to the endless stream of possibilities AI creates.</p><p>Together, they wrestle with questions many entrepreneurs are quietly asking right now:</p><p>-What happens when ideas can become reality instantly?</p><p>-What do humans lose when every problem gets outsourced?</p><p>-And how do we protect wonder, creativity, and connection in the middle of nonstop execution?</p><p>By the end of the episode, Curt and Melody challenge themselves to reconnect with something they haven’t practiced in a long time: ridiculous, childlike dreaming.</p><p>Because before they were entrepreneurs… they were dreamers.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>00:10 – Melody’s travel spiral &amp; Kurt’s homebody era</li><li>05:00 – Dreaming vs. implementing (and why teams panic at new ideas)</li><li>13:10 – Addicted to AI, missing dinner, and marital intervention</li><li>21:30 – “Dreaming” now just means executing—what’s lost?</li><li>32:00 – Overwhelm, mental health, and sheltering our brains</li><li>39:00 – Dreaming for family, dreaming as community</li><li>45:05 – Ridiculous dreams (flying, performing, being a kid again)</li></ul><br/><p></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At what point do entrepreneurs stop dreaming and start only solving problems?</p><p>In this deeply honest conversation, Curt and Melody explore the tension between creativity, ambition, technology, and being human in a world that never stops moving. What started as a conversation about entrepreneurship and AI turned into something much bigger: a reflection on dreaming itself.</p><p>They unpack the addictive nature of execution, the pressure entrepreneurs place on themselves, and how modern technology is changing not just the way businesses operate — but the way people think, create, rest, and connect.</p><p>Curt opens up about getting consumed by late-night AI building sessions and the moment Rachel confronted him about being present with his family. Melody reflects on the difference between dreaming, creating, and constantly reacting to the endless stream of possibilities AI creates.</p><p>Together, they wrestle with questions many entrepreneurs are quietly asking right now:</p><p>-What happens when ideas can become reality instantly?</p><p>-What do humans lose when every problem gets outsourced?</p><p>-And how do we protect wonder, creativity, and connection in the middle of nonstop execution?</p><p>By the end of the episode, Curt and Melody challenge themselves to reconnect with something they haven’t practiced in a long time: ridiculous, childlike dreaming.</p><p>Because before they were entrepreneurs… they were dreamers.</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>00:10 – Melody’s travel spiral &amp; Kurt’s homebody era</li><li>05:00 – Dreaming vs. implementing (and why teams panic at new ideas)</li><li>13:10 – Addicted to AI, missing dinner, and marital intervention</li><li>21:30 – “Dreaming” now just means executing—what’s lost?</li><li>32:00 – Overwhelm, mental health, and sheltering our brains</li><li>39:00 – Dreaming for family, dreaming as community</li><li>45:05 – Ridiculous dreams (flying, performing, being a kid again)</li></ul><br/><p></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/dreamers-before-entrepreneurs]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">c17e40e4-7ac1-4006-b3a7-70c334af87ca</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0ddf33eb-063d-48b7-9042-a9aa432500b6/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c17e40e4-7ac1-4006-b3a7-70c334af87ca.mp3" length="51584939" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>53:44</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>36</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/351e7e7e-fba8-4b5a-b0dd-5a0af61435fd/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Mel Infiltrates A Christian Business Conference</title><itunes:title>Mel Infiltrates A Christian Business Conference</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when your values deeply align with a room full of people… but your identity still feels complicated?</p><p>In this episode, Melody joins Curt live from a Christian business conference in Arkansas and opens up about something unexpectedly vulnerable: feeling like a fraud in spaces where she actually feels deeply at home.</p><p>What starts as a conversation about faith quickly becomes a much bigger exploration of entrepreneurship, authenticity, self-worth, and the emotional tension many founders feel around visibility, networking, and asking for what they want.</p><p>Curt and Melody unpack:</p><ul><li>Why purpose-driven entrepreneurs often struggle to advocate for themselves</li><li>The difference between authentic connection and strategic collaboration</li><li>Why “being business-minded” can feel manipulative to relational people</li><li>The fear of rejection hiding underneath networking discomfort</li><li>What it means to “hold the pose” of the person you’re becoming</li><li>Why promoting a shared mission feels easier than promoting yourself</li><li>The surprising overlap between faith-based leadership values and ethical entrepreneurship</li></ul><br/><p>Along the way, Melody reflects on hearing speakers like Auntie Anne’s founder Anne Beiler, wrestling with identity in unfamiliar spaces, and realizing that maybe the hardest part of growth isn’t becoming someone new — it’s allowing yourself to fully step into who you already are.</p><p>This episode is honest, funny, uncomfortable in the best way, and deeply relatable for anyone building a business without wanting to lose themselves in the process.</p><h2><span class="ql-size-small">Connect with The Soul Proprietor</span></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when your values deeply align with a room full of people… but your identity still feels complicated?</p><p>In this episode, Melody joins Curt live from a Christian business conference in Arkansas and opens up about something unexpectedly vulnerable: feeling like a fraud in spaces where she actually feels deeply at home.</p><p>What starts as a conversation about faith quickly becomes a much bigger exploration of entrepreneurship, authenticity, self-worth, and the emotional tension many founders feel around visibility, networking, and asking for what they want.</p><p>Curt and Melody unpack:</p><ul><li>Why purpose-driven entrepreneurs often struggle to advocate for themselves</li><li>The difference between authentic connection and strategic collaboration</li><li>Why “being business-minded” can feel manipulative to relational people</li><li>The fear of rejection hiding underneath networking discomfort</li><li>What it means to “hold the pose” of the person you’re becoming</li><li>Why promoting a shared mission feels easier than promoting yourself</li><li>The surprising overlap between faith-based leadership values and ethical entrepreneurship</li></ul><br/><p>Along the way, Melody reflects on hearing speakers like Auntie Anne’s founder Anne Beiler, wrestling with identity in unfamiliar spaces, and realizing that maybe the hardest part of growth isn’t becoming someone new — it’s allowing yourself to fully step into who you already are.</p><p>This episode is honest, funny, uncomfortable in the best way, and deeply relatable for anyone building a business without wanting to lose themselves in the process.</p><h2><span class="ql-size-small">Connect with The Soul Proprietor</span></h2><p>Website: <a href="https://soulproprietorpod.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulproprietorpodcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@soulproprietorpodcast</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soul-proprietor-podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a> </p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/soulproprietorpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@SoulProprietorPod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Soul Proprietor Podcast</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/christian-business-conference]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">aa9acef5-1d36-42f1-8d1f-98f748c7f38a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/7eeb84ce-0272-452a-b811-d32fcbac1216/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/aa9acef5-1d36-42f1-8d1f-98f748c7f38a.mp3" length="30021171" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>31:16</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>35</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/646be139-c09b-40aa-9ace-6c9ad9b29646/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 2</title><itunes:title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 2</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever feel like your faith, your business, and who you’re becoming… don’t quite line up anymore?</p><p>That’s where this conversation goes.</p><p>Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards sit down with Josh Latimer for Part 2—and instead of clean answers, they follow the tension. The result is a conversation that moves through belief, doubt, identity, and what happens when long-held frameworks start to shift.</p><p>This is about answering what feels true and what doesn’t anymore.</p><p>For anyone who’s felt that quiet disconnect between what they were taught and what they’re actually experiencing… this one will feel familiar.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Curt can't stand "fake it till you make it" and Josh's alternative: holding the pose</li><li>The moment business trophies start gathering dust, and what it means for identity and growth</li><li>Melody's fierce struggle with inherited faith, especially when her core values collide with evangelical politics</li><li>Josh's "God as good dad" framework and why he puts religion itself on the chopping block</li><li>Parenting through spiritual evolution.. how Josh talks about faith and shame with his kids (very unfiltered)</li><li>The story of Uncle Roger, the lovable career criminal, and what it reveals about judgment, grace, and cosmic "grading on a curve"</li><li>Why entrepreneurial paths aren't for everyone and Josh's Home Improvement marathon as parenting philosophy</li><li>Riffing on economics: business as a garden vs. a pie, why value multiplies, and how real wealth is created collaboratively</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>You can outgrow your religious programming without tossing out the concept of a loving creator.</li><li>Business (done well) is about serving people, not extracting value—it’s a messy, generative web, not a zero-sum game.</li><li>There’s deep power (and pain) in living with uncertainty, wrestling with faith, and giving yourself permission to change your mind.</li><li>The roles we play in work, faith, and family aren’t interchangeable; your gifts matter exactly as they are.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>00:00: Why Josh can't stand religion and how Jesus fits in</li><li>01:44: The problem with "fake it till you make it" and the cost of certainty</li><li>09:23: God as good dad—Josh’s first principles</li><li>17:07: Sin, shame, and how Josh handles messy kid conversations</li><li>25:05: Are entrepreneurs born or made? The athlete/engineer/artist tribe</li><li>31:15: Wrestling with belief systems and finding spiritual freedom</li><li>41:57: Serving people, not money, and reframing economic value</li></ul><br/><p>(And yes, they planned to talk more about business and marketing. But they didn’t!)</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever feel like your faith, your business, and who you’re becoming… don’t quite line up anymore?</p><p>That’s where this conversation goes.</p><p>Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards sit down with Josh Latimer for Part 2—and instead of clean answers, they follow the tension. The result is a conversation that moves through belief, doubt, identity, and what happens when long-held frameworks start to shift.</p><p>This is about answering what feels true and what doesn’t anymore.</p><p>For anyone who’s felt that quiet disconnect between what they were taught and what they’re actually experiencing… this one will feel familiar.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Curt can't stand "fake it till you make it" and Josh's alternative: holding the pose</li><li>The moment business trophies start gathering dust, and what it means for identity and growth</li><li>Melody's fierce struggle with inherited faith, especially when her core values collide with evangelical politics</li><li>Josh's "God as good dad" framework and why he puts religion itself on the chopping block</li><li>Parenting through spiritual evolution.. how Josh talks about faith and shame with his kids (very unfiltered)</li><li>The story of Uncle Roger, the lovable career criminal, and what it reveals about judgment, grace, and cosmic "grading on a curve"</li><li>Why entrepreneurial paths aren't for everyone and Josh's Home Improvement marathon as parenting philosophy</li><li>Riffing on economics: business as a garden vs. a pie, why value multiplies, and how real wealth is created collaboratively</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>You can outgrow your religious programming without tossing out the concept of a loving creator.</li><li>Business (done well) is about serving people, not extracting value—it’s a messy, generative web, not a zero-sum game.</li><li>There’s deep power (and pain) in living with uncertainty, wrestling with faith, and giving yourself permission to change your mind.</li><li>The roles we play in work, faith, and family aren’t interchangeable; your gifts matter exactly as they are.</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>00:00: Why Josh can't stand religion and how Jesus fits in</li><li>01:44: The problem with "fake it till you make it" and the cost of certainty</li><li>09:23: God as good dad—Josh’s first principles</li><li>17:07: Sin, shame, and how Josh handles messy kid conversations</li><li>25:05: Are entrepreneurs born or made? The athlete/engineer/artist tribe</li><li>31:15: Wrestling with belief systems and finding spiritual freedom</li><li>41:57: Serving people, not money, and reframing economic value</li></ul><br/><p>(And yes, they planned to talk more about business and marketing. But they didn’t!)</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/josh-latimer]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b3a17f50-e1ae-40eb-83c3-31b3c55bc6d7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/e8e4197f-1c75-402e-82c4-adfe5987233f/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-30.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b3a17f50-e1ae-40eb-83c3-31b3c55bc6d7.mp3" length="53375476" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>55:36</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>34</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/a0c75b0e-c706-4971-bff7-ce0e034b9c13/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 1</title><itunes:title>Interview with Josh Latimer Part 1</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Curt and Melody sit down with longtime friend and mentor Josh Latimer for a conversation that goes far beyond business strategy.</p><p>They dig into the uncomfortable side of growth... why leveling up often feels like loss, how identity quietly sets the ceiling for your success, and why confidence has less to do with what you know and more to do with what you’ve proven to yourself.</p><p>Josh shares openly about failure, reinvention, faith, and the patterns that keep entrepreneurs stuck, even when they “know” what to do.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re circling the same level despite doing the work, this conversation offers a different lens.. one that might challenge more than it comforts.</p><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>You can’t carry your old identity into your next chapter.. real change feels like death, and that’s necessary</li><li>Integrity pays off over time, even when it feels like you’re falling behind the narcissists in the short run</li><li>Confidence doesn’t come from knowing more.. it comes from stacking real evidence through messy, relentless action</li><li>Your “purpose” is less about waiting for a big sign and more about showing up as yourself, right now, imperfectly</li><li>The people at the top are usually just painfully average, except for their willingness to think bigger, move faster, and do more</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Timestamps:</span></h3><p>0:00 – Josh’s “if it’s worth it, do it” philosophy</p><p>8:34 – Identity deaths, destiny, and $100M generosity</p><p>17:28 – Meeting your heroes: why it matters</p><p>21:27 – Melody’s purpose-versus-profit struggle</p><p>27:26 – The messy truth about religious baggage and family</p><p>39:30 – Confidence, “holding the pose,” and the alter ego effect</p><p>44:45 – Public speaking terror and why more volume changes everything</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Curt and Melody sit down with longtime friend and mentor Josh Latimer for a conversation that goes far beyond business strategy.</p><p>They dig into the uncomfortable side of growth... why leveling up often feels like loss, how identity quietly sets the ceiling for your success, and why confidence has less to do with what you know and more to do with what you’ve proven to yourself.</p><p>Josh shares openly about failure, reinvention, faith, and the patterns that keep entrepreneurs stuck, even when they “know” what to do.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re circling the same level despite doing the work, this conversation offers a different lens.. one that might challenge more than it comforts.</p><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>You can’t carry your old identity into your next chapter.. real change feels like death, and that’s necessary</li><li>Integrity pays off over time, even when it feels like you’re falling behind the narcissists in the short run</li><li>Confidence doesn’t come from knowing more.. it comes from stacking real evidence through messy, relentless action</li><li>Your “purpose” is less about waiting for a big sign and more about showing up as yourself, right now, imperfectly</li><li>The people at the top are usually just painfully average, except for their willingness to think bigger, move faster, and do more</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Timestamps:</span></h3><p>0:00 – Josh’s “if it’s worth it, do it” philosophy</p><p>8:34 – Identity deaths, destiny, and $100M generosity</p><p>17:28 – Meeting your heroes: why it matters</p><p>21:27 – Melody’s purpose-versus-profit struggle</p><p>27:26 – The messy truth about religious baggage and family</p><p>39:30 – Confidence, “holding the pose,” and the alter ego effect</p><p>44:45 – Public speaking terror and why more volume changes everything</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/josh-latimer]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">bc0c1243-dd73-4916-9691-f60d9e7d9f22</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/d647f228-89b4-4a6a-859d-297bcd42b780/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-29.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/bc0c1243-dd73-4916-9691-f60d9e7d9f22.mp3" length="46928874" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>48:53</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>33</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/402aca87-6342-4cbc-be5c-5f24e6ae326b/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Petty Justice: Mel Stops Being Nice and Starts Being Real.</title><itunes:title>Petty Justice: Mel Stops Being Nice and Starts Being Real.</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Melody’s nearly ready to start a fight club or at least dish out a little “petty justice.” This episode is basically what happens when you hit your late 40s and realize you’re done tiptoeing around fragile egos, especially when being “nice” never seems to work out. Curt and Melody share about a messy neighbor drama, the exhausting rules women are still expected to follow, and where standing up for yourself starts to feel like a crime.</p><h3><span class="ql-size-small">What They Talk About:</span></h3><ul><li>The saga of Melody vs. her neighbor’s rowdy late-night parties (and why she almost landed in jail over a phone snatch)</li><li>Why Melody is officially out of patience for dimming herself to coddle male egos and what happens when she doesn’t</li><li>The story about Matt’s black belt and the absolutely worst time to mention it to drunk party bros</li><li>Curt’s “Bro Code” theory and how it played out when the cops showed up</li><li>How Melody’s fight for peace triggered flashbacks to her old, much scarier neighbor (yeah, the one who literally sued everyone)</li><li>Why “Karen” isn’t quite the insult you think it is.. at least not when you’re just fighting for some sleep</li><li>Curt’s frank take on male vs. female expectations in parenting and work (featuring Rachel’s frozen dinners)</li><li>What changes and what doesn’t—frustration with slow progress, politics, and why real change takes generations</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>Sometimes, standing up for yourself will absolutely make you “the problem” and that’s still better than shrinking.</li><li>There’s a real energy boost in letting yourself feel anger instead of constantly bottling it up.</li><li>The rules and expectations placed on women (and especially moms) run much deeper than most guys ever realize.</li><li>If you’re tired of being a pushover, you don’t suddenly have to become a jerk.. you just get to stop apologizing for being yourself.</li><li>Real change is slow, messy, and full of setbacks, but the small ways we show up matter.</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><p>0:00 — The great neighbor meltdown/night of petty justice</p><p>10:12 — Melody’s realization: done dimming herself</p><p>18:55 — “Bro Code,” cops, and gendered assumptions</p><p>33:30 — Women in business and Melody’s double bind</p><p>43:41 — Curt’s take on mom guilt vs. dad self-permission</p><p>54:55 — Why systemic change is agonizingly slow</p><p>1:04:00 — Petty justice as self-respect (plus closing laughs)</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melody’s nearly ready to start a fight club or at least dish out a little “petty justice.” This episode is basically what happens when you hit your late 40s and realize you’re done tiptoeing around fragile egos, especially when being “nice” never seems to work out. Curt and Melody share about a messy neighbor drama, the exhausting rules women are still expected to follow, and where standing up for yourself starts to feel like a crime.</p><h3><span class="ql-size-small">What They Talk About:</span></h3><ul><li>The saga of Melody vs. her neighbor’s rowdy late-night parties (and why she almost landed in jail over a phone snatch)</li><li>Why Melody is officially out of patience for dimming herself to coddle male egos and what happens when she doesn’t</li><li>The story about Matt’s black belt and the absolutely worst time to mention it to drunk party bros</li><li>Curt’s “Bro Code” theory and how it played out when the cops showed up</li><li>How Melody’s fight for peace triggered flashbacks to her old, much scarier neighbor (yeah, the one who literally sued everyone)</li><li>Why “Karen” isn’t quite the insult you think it is.. at least not when you’re just fighting for some sleep</li><li>Curt’s frank take on male vs. female expectations in parenting and work (featuring Rachel’s frozen dinners)</li><li>What changes and what doesn’t—frustration with slow progress, politics, and why real change takes generations</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>Sometimes, standing up for yourself will absolutely make you “the problem” and that’s still better than shrinking.</li><li>There’s a real energy boost in letting yourself feel anger instead of constantly bottling it up.</li><li>The rules and expectations placed on women (and especially moms) run much deeper than most guys ever realize.</li><li>If you’re tired of being a pushover, you don’t suddenly have to become a jerk.. you just get to stop apologizing for being yourself.</li><li>Real change is slow, messy, and full of setbacks, but the small ways we show up matter.</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><p>0:00 — The great neighbor meltdown/night of petty justice</p><p>10:12 — Melody’s realization: done dimming herself</p><p>18:55 — “Bro Code,” cops, and gendered assumptions</p><p>33:30 — Women in business and Melody’s double bind</p><p>43:41 — Curt’s take on mom guilt vs. dad self-permission</p><p>54:55 — Why systemic change is agonizingly slow</p><p>1:04:00 — Petty justice as self-respect (plus closing laughs)</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/petty-justice]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">474f7e3e-fb91-402f-8e0b-c4df3fac0be3</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/fbc581a6-2d31-44ab-ab94-0163e7c23a1c/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-28.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/474f7e3e-fb91-402f-8e0b-c4df3fac0be3.mp3" length="64735607" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:07:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>32</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/13e46355-e44d-4187-b892-e736f7346c1e/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>AI Was Supposed to Save Time. Why Are We Working More?</title><itunes:title>AI Was Supposed to Save Time. Why Are We Working More?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Everyone keeps saying AI should make our work lives easier but is anyone actually working less? This week, Melody and Curt talk about burnout, why faster tech just puts more on our plates, and how even “delegating” can feel like another job. It’s one part therapy session, one part practical experiment in finding sanity as a business owner in the AI age.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Melody felt instant relief when her whole company shut down for a day and what “freedom” really means with a team</li><li>The women’s conference revelations: burn bright vs. burn out, a keynote on facing 100 fears, and why “comfort” is the real enemy of progress</li><li>Curt's wild ride with AI—doing a month’s work in a day and somehow always being more exhausted</li><li>When dashboards become soul-sucking rabbit holes (and the awkward truth about who actually uses them)</li><li>The invisible job of being everyone’s safety net and why no one feels comfortable stepping away</li><li>Micro-exhaustion and the “AI brain fry” phenomenon: more automation equals more fragmented days, not fewer headaches</li><li>That laundry list of burnout symptoms (yes, irritability is there) and how recognizing them still doesn’t make the work less tempting</li><li>Honest talk about work addiction, recovery, and the ambiguous dream of finally “taking a month off”</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>AI makes you more productive, but it also ramps up the speed and volume of decisions until your brain feels deep-fried</li><li>The real relief comes from connection and proactively creating space, not just optimizing workflows or working faster</li><li>Delegation is its own skill and even in a tech-powered world, it’s hard to let go without a serious mindset shift</li><li>Sometimes you need to commit, out loud, to shutting the laptop and going outside.. even if you have to guilt yourself into it</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Timestamps:</span></h3><p>0:00 – Why “working less” with AI is not the reality</p><p>11:07 – 10 warning signs of burnout (and both hosts fess up)</p><p>17:32 – Curt's AI workflow and the mounting pressure to keep up</p><p>26:44 – The dashboard dilemma: building for everyone, used by no one</p><p>38:03 – The micro-exhaustion cycle and lost space for thinking</p><p>49:05 – Let’s actually commit: little changes for a saner week</p><p>57:22 – Wrapping up: spring mulching, Easter sunrise, and choosing sanity over speed</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone keeps saying AI should make our work lives easier but is anyone actually working less? This week, Melody and Curt talk about burnout, why faster tech just puts more on our plates, and how even “delegating” can feel like another job. It’s one part therapy session, one part practical experiment in finding sanity as a business owner in the AI age.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Melody felt instant relief when her whole company shut down for a day and what “freedom” really means with a team</li><li>The women’s conference revelations: burn bright vs. burn out, a keynote on facing 100 fears, and why “comfort” is the real enemy of progress</li><li>Curt's wild ride with AI—doing a month’s work in a day and somehow always being more exhausted</li><li>When dashboards become soul-sucking rabbit holes (and the awkward truth about who actually uses them)</li><li>The invisible job of being everyone’s safety net and why no one feels comfortable stepping away</li><li>Micro-exhaustion and the “AI brain fry” phenomenon: more automation equals more fragmented days, not fewer headaches</li><li>That laundry list of burnout symptoms (yes, irritability is there) and how recognizing them still doesn’t make the work less tempting</li><li>Honest talk about work addiction, recovery, and the ambiguous dream of finally “taking a month off”</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Key Takeaways:</span></h3><ul><li>AI makes you more productive, but it also ramps up the speed and volume of decisions until your brain feels deep-fried</li><li>The real relief comes from connection and proactively creating space, not just optimizing workflows or working faster</li><li>Delegation is its own skill and even in a tech-powered world, it’s hard to let go without a serious mindset shift</li><li>Sometimes you need to commit, out loud, to shutting the laptop and going outside.. even if you have to guilt yourself into it</li></ul><br/><h3><span class="ql-size-small">Timestamps:</span></h3><p>0:00 – Why “working less” with AI is not the reality</p><p>11:07 – 10 warning signs of burnout (and both hosts fess up)</p><p>17:32 – Curt's AI workflow and the mounting pressure to keep up</p><p>26:44 – The dashboard dilemma: building for everyone, used by no one</p><p>38:03 – The micro-exhaustion cycle and lost space for thinking</p><p>49:05 – Let’s actually commit: little changes for a saner week</p><p>57:22 – Wrapping up: spring mulching, Easter sunrise, and choosing sanity over speed</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/ai-to-save-time]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6bc48ce0-b531-4614-baa7-74373d15953b</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4027c9a5-bbae-4ebe-b0f9-ebf4bd3b9fd7/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-24.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6bc48ce0-b531-4614-baa7-74373d15953b.mp3" length="58779270" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:01:14</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>31</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fc1435b5-a2e2-4cec-b4d0-5886c11fc7b0/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fc1435b5-a2e2-4cec-b4d0-5886c11fc7b0/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fc1435b5-a2e2-4cec-b4d0-5886c11fc7b0/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Business The Gen X Way</title><itunes:title>Business The Gen X Way</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody are wrestling with what “normal” even means anymore.. especially for Gen X business owners living through the AI revolution. If you’ve ever wondered whether tech is actually making life easier or just making you feel like you’re always chasing your tail, this one’s for you. They dig into overwhelm, nostalgia, adaptability, and whether anyone actually knows what’s real online.</p><p>What They Talked About: </p><ul><li>Why Melody feels <em>scared</em> (not just overwhelmed) about AI’s rise and what keeps her up at night</li><li>Curt’s hacks for speeding up everything with AI voice tools (and a rant about Siri being useless)</li><li>The story about Rachel’s dinner, “people better start caring,” and how family dinners are an endangered species</li><li>Melody’s struggle to process her month-and-a-half of travel and why “catching up” never happens</li><li>What happened when Curt tried to run events for real-life connection and why folks stopped showing up</li><li>The “forced to adapt” feeling for entrepreneurs: gun-to-the-head vibes</li><li>Disposable information and the risk of losing actual wisdom (plus how Gen Z kids just see all this as normal)</li><li>Old-school learning vs. AI-assisted thinking—and whether school will ever catch up</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Overwhelm isn’t just about pace; it’s about losing the freedom to choose your own priorities</li><li>Even with all our tech, quality of life sometimes feels less “real” and more fragmented</li><li>Human connection remains essential—but people aren’t voting for it with their dollars (yet)</li><li>Adaptation is inevitable, but forced adaptation is what breeds anxiety for business owners</li><li>Wisdom comes from wrestling with uncertainty, not just having instant answers</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><ul><li>[00:00] - Are we optimistic or pessimistic for the future? Kicking off with big, existential questions</li><li>[07:10] - Melody’s CleanCon trip and the AI coding class struggle</li><li>[12:34] - Is AI actually making work easier, or just shifting the burden?</li><li>[22:10] - The “forced to adapt” dilemma and ADHD entrepreneurial brains</li><li>[30:04] - The Gen Z perspective: kids who see fast change as normal</li><li>[44:23] - Can schools keep up with AI, or are they doomed to lag?</li><li>[47:34] - Social trust, scams, and the scary side of instant information</li><li>[51:08] - Happiness and contentment: why chasing it never works</li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody are wrestling with what “normal” even means anymore.. especially for Gen X business owners living through the AI revolution. If you’ve ever wondered whether tech is actually making life easier or just making you feel like you’re always chasing your tail, this one’s for you. They dig into overwhelm, nostalgia, adaptability, and whether anyone actually knows what’s real online.</p><p>What They Talked About: </p><ul><li>Why Melody feels <em>scared</em> (not just overwhelmed) about AI’s rise and what keeps her up at night</li><li>Curt’s hacks for speeding up everything with AI voice tools (and a rant about Siri being useless)</li><li>The story about Rachel’s dinner, “people better start caring,” and how family dinners are an endangered species</li><li>Melody’s struggle to process her month-and-a-half of travel and why “catching up” never happens</li><li>What happened when Curt tried to run events for real-life connection and why folks stopped showing up</li><li>The “forced to adapt” feeling for entrepreneurs: gun-to-the-head vibes</li><li>Disposable information and the risk of losing actual wisdom (plus how Gen Z kids just see all this as normal)</li><li>Old-school learning vs. AI-assisted thinking—and whether school will ever catch up</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Overwhelm isn’t just about pace; it’s about losing the freedom to choose your own priorities</li><li>Even with all our tech, quality of life sometimes feels less “real” and more fragmented</li><li>Human connection remains essential—but people aren’t voting for it with their dollars (yet)</li><li>Adaptation is inevitable, but forced adaptation is what breeds anxiety for business owners</li><li>Wisdom comes from wrestling with uncertainty, not just having instant answers</li></ul><br/><h3>Timestamps:</h3><ul><li>[00:00] - Are we optimistic or pessimistic for the future? Kicking off with big, existential questions</li><li>[07:10] - Melody’s CleanCon trip and the AI coding class struggle</li><li>[12:34] - Is AI actually making work easier, or just shifting the burden?</li><li>[22:10] - The “forced to adapt” dilemma and ADHD entrepreneurial brains</li><li>[30:04] - The Gen Z perspective: kids who see fast change as normal</li><li>[44:23] - Can schools keep up with AI, or are they doomed to lag?</li><li>[47:34] - Social trust, scams, and the scary side of instant information</li><li>[51:08] - Happiness and contentment: why chasing it never works</li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/just-business]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">40786dab-9e1a-477f-8786-bd3bd4e2c883</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/2de1d317-7f91-44e2-a1f5-a522835f166e/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-23.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/40786dab-9e1a-477f-8786-bd3bd4e2c883.mp3" length="57109106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>59:29</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>30</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/39fc3f57-3ff7-484c-a3e8-ccb3d06d5979/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Michael Hinderliter: The Cost of Success</title><itunes:title>Michael Hinderliter: The Cost of Success</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what really happens when workaholism, family expectations, and a purpose-driven heart collide? In this episode, Melody and Curt dig into the reality of entrepreneurship with Michael Hinderliter—aka the “power wash guy”—who’s lived through business reinvention, divorce, and the very human challenge of not losing yourself (or your mind) along the way.</p><p><strong>What We Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>The story of how Melody and Michael managed to become genuine friends despite wildly different backgrounds, politics, and <em>very</em> different flights to Italy</li><li>Why Michael’s dad trained him in power washing... after his failed union organizing left him blackballed from the industry</li><li>What it’s like growing up “power washing royalty” and why Michael never bought into the hype (or used his last name as a business card)</li><li>The chaos (and crumbling) of running a business with your spouse and what happens when your identities (and failures) get all tangled up</li><li>Curt and Melody trading notes on marriage dynamics: ride-or-die loyalty, chaos muppets vs. moored partners, and why most of us are building our businesses for our families (and sometimes forgetting to check if it’s actually working)</li><li>The truth about depression for entrepreneurs, and Michael’s way of climbing out of the pit.. plus why time isn’t your most valuable asset, but your mind is</li><li>Purpose, faith, and why Michael prays for people who’ve hurt him (including his exes—yes, really)</li><li>What changes when you become a grandparent (hint: more joy, less exhaustion), and why the “happiness chase” is a game you only win by stepping out of it</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Chasing “success” for your family while burning yourself out rarely ends with connection or peace—it might undermine both</li><li>Admitting you don’t have all the answers (or that you’ve been wrong) is where real growth starts, not where it ends</li><li>Relationships—business, personal, or even with yourself.. don’t get better by default; they get better with honesty and uncomfortable work</li><li>Everyone’s fighting battles you can’t see, and almost nobody fits the mold you thought was universal when you were 25</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00] Raw opening – showing emotion vs. losing respect</li><li>[00:41] Introductions &amp; the Italy “diplomacy” story</li><li>[11:47] Michael’s family, union busting, and the birth of a power washing legacy</li><li>[22:09] Marriage, working 24/7 with your spouse, and when things fall apart</li><li>[35:56] Post-divorce, depression, and the struggle to find meaning again</li><li>[46:10] Faith, business, and praying for people who’ve hurt you</li><li>[57:56] Becoming a grandparent and shifting family roles</li><li>[1:03:29] Stereotypes, gender roles, and learning to rethink old beliefs</li><li>[1:24:16] Showing emotion as a leader—where’s the line?</li><li>[1:26:12] The difference between happiness, purpose, and surviving the rollercoaster</li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what really happens when workaholism, family expectations, and a purpose-driven heart collide? In this episode, Melody and Curt dig into the reality of entrepreneurship with Michael Hinderliter—aka the “power wash guy”—who’s lived through business reinvention, divorce, and the very human challenge of not losing yourself (or your mind) along the way.</p><p><strong>What We Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>The story of how Melody and Michael managed to become genuine friends despite wildly different backgrounds, politics, and <em>very</em> different flights to Italy</li><li>Why Michael’s dad trained him in power washing... after his failed union organizing left him blackballed from the industry</li><li>What it’s like growing up “power washing royalty” and why Michael never bought into the hype (or used his last name as a business card)</li><li>The chaos (and crumbling) of running a business with your spouse and what happens when your identities (and failures) get all tangled up</li><li>Curt and Melody trading notes on marriage dynamics: ride-or-die loyalty, chaos muppets vs. moored partners, and why most of us are building our businesses for our families (and sometimes forgetting to check if it’s actually working)</li><li>The truth about depression for entrepreneurs, and Michael’s way of climbing out of the pit.. plus why time isn’t your most valuable asset, but your mind is</li><li>Purpose, faith, and why Michael prays for people who’ve hurt him (including his exes—yes, really)</li><li>What changes when you become a grandparent (hint: more joy, less exhaustion), and why the “happiness chase” is a game you only win by stepping out of it</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ul><li>Chasing “success” for your family while burning yourself out rarely ends with connection or peace—it might undermine both</li><li>Admitting you don’t have all the answers (or that you’ve been wrong) is where real growth starts, not where it ends</li><li>Relationships—business, personal, or even with yourself.. don’t get better by default; they get better with honesty and uncomfortable work</li><li>Everyone’s fighting battles you can’t see, and almost nobody fits the mold you thought was universal when you were 25</li></ul><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:00] Raw opening – showing emotion vs. losing respect</li><li>[00:41] Introductions &amp; the Italy “diplomacy” story</li><li>[11:47] Michael’s family, union busting, and the birth of a power washing legacy</li><li>[22:09] Marriage, working 24/7 with your spouse, and when things fall apart</li><li>[35:56] Post-divorce, depression, and the struggle to find meaning again</li><li>[46:10] Faith, business, and praying for people who’ve hurt you</li><li>[57:56] Becoming a grandparent and shifting family roles</li><li>[1:03:29] Stereotypes, gender roles, and learning to rethink old beliefs</li><li>[1:24:16] Showing emotion as a leader—where’s the line?</li><li>[1:26:12] The difference between happiness, purpose, and surviving the rollercoaster</li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/spp-29]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">db8a7f44-01c6-40f9-8340-4aa973abfebb</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/c4519597-1342-4565-8742-dbc9b98f0b30/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-21.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/db8a7f44-01c6-40f9-8340-4aa973abfebb.mp3" length="86157687" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:29:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>29</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/73635157-68b6-4433-b0e3-5c771929abd6/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Is Entrepreneurship Bad for Your Mental Health?</title><itunes:title>Is Entrepreneurship Bad for Your Mental Health?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Mental health is one of those things entrepreneurs love to ignore, but it sneaks up on all of us (usually in the form of workaholism, anxiety, or quarter-life crises... that somehow become annual). In this part 3 episode with Bobby Walker, Curt &amp; Melody share about their own struggles, childhood trauma, religious dogma, and the ways business ownership can both help and hurt your brain. If you've ever felt like you're rolling a boulder uphill or hiding your symptoms behind “just working really hard,” this conversation is for you.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Melody thinks workaholism is basically a generational sickness (and also the only way to survive entrepreneurship)</li><li>The story about Bobby Walker realizing he was “depressed”.. months into not being able to get out of bed</li><li>Curt's framework for how religion shaped his view of mental health (and how the paradigm crumbled)</li><li>Why “Rub some dirt on it!” was the emotional regulation lesson of the '80s/'90s</li><li>The false idea that business success equals happiness (and how the next big win is always… less satisfying than you hoped)</li><li>How trauma, dissociation, and ADHD show up as secret weapons (and sometimes landmines) in business</li><li>Melody's perspective on why female entrepreneurs carry extra guilt, even when they're supporting their families</li><li>The importance of moving from sympathy (thinking “that must be hard”) to real empathy (“this is what it feels like, and it changes how I lead”)</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Self-awareness is the first step, but you have to actually want to look inward otherwise you’ll just keep distracting yourself with work or goals</li><li>“Doing it for my family” can become an excuse for avoiding real healing and perpetuating unhealthy cycles</li><li>Empathy (not just sympathy) changes how you show up for your team, your customers, and yourself.. even if it takes a few decades and a lot of therapy to get there</li><li>Powerful stuff (business, habits, trauma) can build roadways or blow things up—it’s about how you wield it</li><li>Entrepreneurship doesn’t automatically make you “better”—it just reveals what you haven’t dealt with yet</li></ul><br/><p>Here's the link about the addiction bird Curt mentioned about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUngLgGRJpo</p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Childhood lessons on ignoring pain</p><p>7:00 – Emotional regulation and “rub some dirt on it”</p><p>18:00 – Religion vs. mental health</p><p>28:00 – When the paradigm breaks down</p><p>41:00 – Workaholism, cycles, and entrepreneur guilt</p><p>54:00 – Self-awareness, acceptance, and juggling family vs. business</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mental health is one of those things entrepreneurs love to ignore, but it sneaks up on all of us (usually in the form of workaholism, anxiety, or quarter-life crises... that somehow become annual). In this part 3 episode with Bobby Walker, Curt &amp; Melody share about their own struggles, childhood trauma, religious dogma, and the ways business ownership can both help and hurt your brain. If you've ever felt like you're rolling a boulder uphill or hiding your symptoms behind “just working really hard,” this conversation is for you.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Why Melody thinks workaholism is basically a generational sickness (and also the only way to survive entrepreneurship)</li><li>The story about Bobby Walker realizing he was “depressed”.. months into not being able to get out of bed</li><li>Curt's framework for how religion shaped his view of mental health (and how the paradigm crumbled)</li><li>Why “Rub some dirt on it!” was the emotional regulation lesson of the '80s/'90s</li><li>The false idea that business success equals happiness (and how the next big win is always… less satisfying than you hoped)</li><li>How trauma, dissociation, and ADHD show up as secret weapons (and sometimes landmines) in business</li><li>Melody's perspective on why female entrepreneurs carry extra guilt, even when they're supporting their families</li><li>The importance of moving from sympathy (thinking “that must be hard”) to real empathy (“this is what it feels like, and it changes how I lead”)</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Self-awareness is the first step, but you have to actually want to look inward otherwise you’ll just keep distracting yourself with work or goals</li><li>“Doing it for my family” can become an excuse for avoiding real healing and perpetuating unhealthy cycles</li><li>Empathy (not just sympathy) changes how you show up for your team, your customers, and yourself.. even if it takes a few decades and a lot of therapy to get there</li><li>Powerful stuff (business, habits, trauma) can build roadways or blow things up—it’s about how you wield it</li><li>Entrepreneurship doesn’t automatically make you “better”—it just reveals what you haven’t dealt with yet</li></ul><br/><p>Here's the link about the addiction bird Curt mentioned about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUngLgGRJpo</p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Childhood lessons on ignoring pain</p><p>7:00 – Emotional regulation and “rub some dirt on it”</p><p>18:00 – Religion vs. mental health</p><p>28:00 – When the paradigm breaks down</p><p>41:00 – Workaholism, cycles, and entrepreneur guilt</p><p>54:00 – Self-awareness, acceptance, and juggling family vs. business</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/mental-health-in-entrepreneurship]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">9c120442-ff12-458f-b65c-3c1609817fa9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0d6e1c6b-5b5b-4e1c-ac0b-85437bd933fe/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-20.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9c120442-ff12-458f-b65c-3c1609817fa9.mp3" length="59049272" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:01:31</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/6c6eeae9-ee61-451f-928d-49c6b1eb6018/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Addicted to Uncertainty: The Entrepreneur’s Paradox</title><itunes:title>Addicted to Uncertainty: The Entrepreneur’s Paradox</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Entrepreneurs love the thrill of chasing the unknown or do they actually crave certainty and stability more than they'd admit? In this episode, Melody and Curt spiral through the chaos, uncertainty, and optimism that seem baked into business ownership. It's a closer look at why we white-knuckle through unpredictability, and whether being “addicted to uncertainty” is actually a badge of honor or just a survival strategy.</p><p>What Curt &amp; Melody Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody left her pearls (literally!) and car keys at a hotel, and what losing stuff teaches her about letting go</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s ongoing battle with white-knuckling decisions and the existential “rug pull” he expects daily as an entrepreneur</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about Melody’s Filipino team facing economic instability, and what “I pay living wages” really feels like during a crisis</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Religions as systems for creating certainty and whether God cares about car keys (spoiler: this gets deep and funny)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How meditation, mountain biking, and rocky business times help Curt find peace at rock bottom, but only temporarily</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s comfort with chaos: why calm situations sometimes stress her out more than the messy ones</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The carrot metaphor: chasing goals we’ll never truly catch, and why achieving big things leaves us weirdly unsatisfied</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Micro-certainties vs. macro-unknowing—Melody’s recent aha’s about social media, and why they’re fleeting but helpful</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Being addicted to uncertainty may just be a survival skill for entrepreneurs: if you don’t adapt, the chaos eats you alive</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Certainty is almost always an illusion systems break, relationships change, and the world is rarely predictable</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Holding happiness hostage to certainty leads to cynicism; learning to find comfort in unknowing is essential for sanity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Practical wins (micro-certainties) help, but everything shifts again.. so keep curiosity alive and don’t cling too hard</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Ethical business means wrestling with pain, firing people, and accepting that every lesson usually needs repeating</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>8:07 - Entrepreneurs and the daily “rug pull”</p><p>12:15 - Spirituality as a system for certainty (and God + car keys)</p><p>20:16 - Addicted to chaos: Melody's money mindset and life at the edge</p><p>32:07 - The uniqueness of every hard business decision</p><p>45:02 - Curt on finding peace in uncertainty (and the carrot you never catch)</p><p>48:18 - Micro-certainties and why they never last</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Entrepreneurs love the thrill of chasing the unknown or do they actually crave certainty and stability more than they'd admit? In this episode, Melody and Curt spiral through the chaos, uncertainty, and optimism that seem baked into business ownership. It's a closer look at why we white-knuckle through unpredictability, and whether being “addicted to uncertainty” is actually a badge of honor or just a survival strategy.</p><p>What Curt &amp; Melody Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody left her pearls (literally!) and car keys at a hotel, and what losing stuff teaches her about letting go</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s ongoing battle with white-knuckling decisions and the existential “rug pull” he expects daily as an entrepreneur</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about Melody’s Filipino team facing economic instability, and what “I pay living wages” really feels like during a crisis</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Religions as systems for creating certainty and whether God cares about car keys (spoiler: this gets deep and funny)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How meditation, mountain biking, and rocky business times help Curt find peace at rock bottom, but only temporarily</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s comfort with chaos: why calm situations sometimes stress her out more than the messy ones</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The carrot metaphor: chasing goals we’ll never truly catch, and why achieving big things leaves us weirdly unsatisfied</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Micro-certainties vs. macro-unknowing—Melody’s recent aha’s about social media, and why they’re fleeting but helpful</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Being addicted to uncertainty may just be a survival skill for entrepreneurs: if you don’t adapt, the chaos eats you alive</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Certainty is almost always an illusion systems break, relationships change, and the world is rarely predictable</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Holding happiness hostage to certainty leads to cynicism; learning to find comfort in unknowing is essential for sanity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Practical wins (micro-certainties) help, but everything shifts again.. so keep curiosity alive and don’t cling too hard</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Ethical business means wrestling with pain, firing people, and accepting that every lesson usually needs repeating</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>8:07 - Entrepreneurs and the daily “rug pull”</p><p>12:15 - Spirituality as a system for certainty (and God + car keys)</p><p>20:16 - Addicted to chaos: Melody's money mindset and life at the edge</p><p>32:07 - The uniqueness of every hard business decision</p><p>45:02 - Curt on finding peace in uncertainty (and the carrot you never catch)</p><p>48:18 - Micro-certainties and why they never last</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/addicted-to-uncertainty]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">61045ca7-354b-4ef2-8744-2759efce5b61</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4c81a530-f58d-4509-9626-35eebe0f201e/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-18.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/61045ca7-354b-4ef2-8744-2759efce5b61.mp3" length="54359770" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>56:37</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5942e5e9-e87d-4504-9256-f985cbd99aaf/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Fighting your Brain &amp; Open Loops Minisode</title><itunes:title>Fighting your Brain &amp; Open Loops Minisode</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you just have a "blah" day and if you’re an entrepreneur, the pressure to stay “on” can make you question everything. This episode is the business owner’s confessional: Melody admits she’s feeling stuck and a little sun-starved, and Curt brings stories of finding creative flow and how wisdom (or sometimes, exhaustion) shapes what actually matters in your workday. They talk through not-so-sparkly days, bike-racing and doping analogies, the myth of endless hustle, and why sometimes the best thing you can do is outsource, nap, or both.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody feels creatively blocked (and why pretending otherwise just makes it worse)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s analogy to Tour de France doping: is chasing old levels of productivity actually the goal?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about driving above the clouds just to see the sun again and why that’s sometimes a business move</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How ADHD brains tangle them up in complex spreadsheets we’ll never look at again</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody finally hired someone to build her sales funnels (and stopped pretending she’d love email templates someday)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s take on “who, not how” and the relief of paying for help instead of DIY purgatory</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The difference between being a founder building with sheer hustle and having wisdom about where your energy actually belongs</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honest thoughts about humility, hiring your own boss, and knowing when to step back</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trying to push through mental fog usually just wastes more time and gives worse results, sometimes it’s better to pause or get help.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t have to keep doing everything just because you can; wisdom is cutting tasks that don’t move the needle for you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Knowing your limits and hiring people who love the pieces you hate which is a sign of maturity, not failure.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Adapting how you work as your business grows is required; who got you to Point A probably isn’t who’ll get you to Point Z.</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Chasing sunshine (literally) and admitting creative block</p><p>2:00 – The myth of endless founder flow</p><p>6:45 – Tour de France doping, business, and wisdom over hustle</p><p>13:30 – Outsourcing, the “who not how” rule, and hiring your own boss</p><p>16:00 – Wrapping up: humility, naps, and knowing yourself</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you just have a "blah" day and if you’re an entrepreneur, the pressure to stay “on” can make you question everything. This episode is the business owner’s confessional: Melody admits she’s feeling stuck and a little sun-starved, and Curt brings stories of finding creative flow and how wisdom (or sometimes, exhaustion) shapes what actually matters in your workday. They talk through not-so-sparkly days, bike-racing and doping analogies, the myth of endless hustle, and why sometimes the best thing you can do is outsource, nap, or both.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody feels creatively blocked (and why pretending otherwise just makes it worse)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s analogy to Tour de France doping: is chasing old levels of productivity actually the goal?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about driving above the clouds just to see the sun again and why that’s sometimes a business move</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How ADHD brains tangle them up in complex spreadsheets we’ll never look at again</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody finally hired someone to build her sales funnels (and stopped pretending she’d love email templates someday)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s take on “who, not how” and the relief of paying for help instead of DIY purgatory</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The difference between being a founder building with sheer hustle and having wisdom about where your energy actually belongs</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Honest thoughts about humility, hiring your own boss, and knowing when to step back</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Trying to push through mental fog usually just wastes more time and gives worse results, sometimes it’s better to pause or get help.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t have to keep doing everything just because you can; wisdom is cutting tasks that don’t move the needle for you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Knowing your limits and hiring people who love the pieces you hate which is a sign of maturity, not failure.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Adapting how you work as your business grows is required; who got you to Point A probably isn’t who’ll get you to Point Z.</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Chasing sunshine (literally) and admitting creative block</p><p>2:00 – The myth of endless founder flow</p><p>6:45 – Tour de France doping, business, and wisdom over hustle</p><p>13:30 – Outsourcing, the “who not how” rule, and hiring your own boss</p><p>16:00 – Wrapping up: humility, naps, and knowing yourself</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/fighting-your-brain]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">c33c3c2c-084f-4ae1-9709-9476582b6186</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/8f247f6f-dc80-46e8-b19d-5600677caba9/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-7.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c33c3c2c-084f-4ae1-9709-9476582b6186.mp3" length="37009282" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>18:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ed09b334-b7f5-4387-9a35-233a42e150fb/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Inconvenient Reinvention: A Conversation with Bobby Walker Part 2</title><itunes:title>The Inconvenient Reinvention: A Conversation with Bobby Walker Part 2</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like your faith got you into business and then one day, it didn’t fit anymore? In this head-spinning, raw, and sometimes hilarious episode, Curt sits down with Bobby Walker (for round two!) to peel back the story of deconversion: from zealous Pentecostal minister to proud atheist, with marriage, business, and “the dark night of the soul” along for the ride. This one’s for anyone who’s ever questioned their foundation and wondered what happens next.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The “Sunday night canceled = atheist now?” story—Bobby Walker’s domino moment that started with questioning church services</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>When everything you believed suddenly starts to crumble, one brick at a time (and why Curt’s shelf analogy totally lands)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The awkward, terrifying moment you tell your spouse “I think I don’t believe anymore”—and how both Curt and Bobby Walker survived it</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “just read and pray more” is both the best and worst faith crisis advice ever</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Shame, honesty, and holding back from your partner—the mess and the relief of finally letting it out</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How losing faith changed (and didn’t change) Bobby Walker’s experience as an entrepreneur (“Turns out, atheists need tribes too”)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Morality without God—how both guys wrestle with the fear that “if you’re not a believer, you just want to sin and eat babies”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The therapist story that did not go as planned (and why we both eventually needed real help)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Friendship across total belief difference—and why that’s the real miracle here</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Questioning everything isn’t a sign you want to “escape”—it’s usually the grittiest, most honest road there is</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deconversion isn’t a single moment; it’s death by a thousand cuts (and lots gets left unsaid)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Bringing shame and fear to light—especially with your spouse—is brutal but also freeing</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t lose your morals when you lose your faith—but that doesn’t mean people won’t judge you like you did</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes, caring for yourself means finding friends—or pros—who can actually sit with you in the discomfort</li></ol><br/><p>No fake “wrap-up”—just a meandering conversation about growing up, breaking down, and maybe finding yourself (and your business) on the other side.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like your faith got you into business and then one day, it didn’t fit anymore? In this head-spinning, raw, and sometimes hilarious episode, Curt sits down with Bobby Walker (for round two!) to peel back the story of deconversion: from zealous Pentecostal minister to proud atheist, with marriage, business, and “the dark night of the soul” along for the ride. This one’s for anyone who’s ever questioned their foundation and wondered what happens next.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The “Sunday night canceled = atheist now?” story—Bobby Walker’s domino moment that started with questioning church services</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>When everything you believed suddenly starts to crumble, one brick at a time (and why Curt’s shelf analogy totally lands)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The awkward, terrifying moment you tell your spouse “I think I don’t believe anymore”—and how both Curt and Bobby Walker survived it</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why “just read and pray more” is both the best and worst faith crisis advice ever</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Shame, honesty, and holding back from your partner—the mess and the relief of finally letting it out</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How losing faith changed (and didn’t change) Bobby Walker’s experience as an entrepreneur (“Turns out, atheists need tribes too”)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Morality without God—how both guys wrestle with the fear that “if you’re not a believer, you just want to sin and eat babies”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The therapist story that did not go as planned (and why we both eventually needed real help)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Friendship across total belief difference—and why that’s the real miracle here</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Questioning everything isn’t a sign you want to “escape”—it’s usually the grittiest, most honest road there is</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deconversion isn’t a single moment; it’s death by a thousand cuts (and lots gets left unsaid)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Bringing shame and fear to light—especially with your spouse—is brutal but also freeing</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t lose your morals when you lose your faith—but that doesn’t mean people won’t judge you like you did</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes, caring for yourself means finding friends—or pros—who can actually sit with you in the discomfort</li></ol><br/><p>No fake “wrap-up”—just a meandering conversation about growing up, breaking down, and maybe finding yourself (and your business) on the other side.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/inconvenient-reinvention]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">2c6b5773-1a4d-49ee-a5a3-404cb406728e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/cfe39e7b-a383-4479-9f11-872cc5032f45/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-6.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2c6b5773-1a4d-49ee-a5a3-404cb406728e.mp3" length="75321677" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:18:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/5a917942-fd2f-4105-ba62-8e2dc277ce4a/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Morals Without God:  A Conversation with Bobby Walker Part 1</title><itunes:title>Morals Without God:  A Conversation with Bobby Walker Part 1</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody bring on Bobby Walker for the ultimate "what actually happens when you go from devout faith to atheism AND still try to build a purposeful business?" episode. Imagine three close friends debating God, morality, and whether Coldplay concerts count as spiritual experiences.. without any certainty, plenty of sarcasm, and zero patience for cheap shots.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The moment Bobby realized Sunday night church wasn't actually biblical and the cascade it sparked (34:10)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Curt thinks religious people often label other people's spiritual experiences as counterfeit (19:12)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s “am I going to hell?” inner monologue, and why those childhood teachings refuse to die</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Bobby’s clear, no-nonsense breakdown of atheism vs. agnosticism—finally, axes that make sense</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What it feels like to tell your spouse you don’t believe anymore (hint: it goes worse in your head than in the car)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Coldplay as church: Bobby tells the story of finding communal, transcendent joy without faith (17:31)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Where morality comes from when you kick God out (spoiler: no one is robbing banks)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How shame, boundaries, and hard self-work defined Bobby’s post-religious mental health journey</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deconversion is rarely a sudden break; it’s years of fighting to hold on and then fighting to let go</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Morality and kindness don’t evaporate when you drop faith, but the fear of “what will they say?” sticks around for ages</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Childhood religious training leaves deep marks (hello, “I’m going to hell” anxiety, even when you don’t believe)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Self-worth and identity have to be rebuilt outside the faith bubble, often for the first time</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Spiritual feelings aren’t limited to church; music, nature, and community can offer the same rush.. if you let them</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:00 - Bobby’s journey from faith to atheism begins</p><p>04:47 - Defining atheism, beliefs, and knowledge</p><p>14:13 - Bobby as the church zealot, how his faith shaped him</p><p>16:00 - Where meaning comes from after religion (nature, music, Coldplay)</p><p>19:12 - Curt’s tangent on spirituality outside the church—and why people won’t admit it</p><p>31:06 - The “atheists have no morals” myth</p><p>34:10 - Losing your faith over Sunday night services (the domino effect)</p><p>39:27 - The terrifying moment: telling your spouse you don’t believe anymore</p><p>41:51 - Cliffhanger—what happens next?</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody bring on Bobby Walker for the ultimate "what actually happens when you go from devout faith to atheism AND still try to build a purposeful business?" episode. Imagine three close friends debating God, morality, and whether Coldplay concerts count as spiritual experiences.. without any certainty, plenty of sarcasm, and zero patience for cheap shots.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The moment Bobby realized Sunday night church wasn't actually biblical and the cascade it sparked (34:10)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Curt thinks religious people often label other people's spiritual experiences as counterfeit (19:12)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s “am I going to hell?” inner monologue, and why those childhood teachings refuse to die</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Bobby’s clear, no-nonsense breakdown of atheism vs. agnosticism—finally, axes that make sense</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What it feels like to tell your spouse you don’t believe anymore (hint: it goes worse in your head than in the car)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Coldplay as church: Bobby tells the story of finding communal, transcendent joy without faith (17:31)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Where morality comes from when you kick God out (spoiler: no one is robbing banks)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How shame, boundaries, and hard self-work defined Bobby’s post-religious mental health journey</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Deconversion is rarely a sudden break; it’s years of fighting to hold on and then fighting to let go</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Morality and kindness don’t evaporate when you drop faith, but the fear of “what will they say?” sticks around for ages</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Childhood religious training leaves deep marks (hello, “I’m going to hell” anxiety, even when you don’t believe)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Self-worth and identity have to be rebuilt outside the faith bubble, often for the first time</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Spiritual feelings aren’t limited to church; music, nature, and community can offer the same rush.. if you let them</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:00 - Bobby’s journey from faith to atheism begins</p><p>04:47 - Defining atheism, beliefs, and knowledge</p><p>14:13 - Bobby as the church zealot, how his faith shaped him</p><p>16:00 - Where meaning comes from after religion (nature, music, Coldplay)</p><p>19:12 - Curt’s tangent on spirituality outside the church—and why people won’t admit it</p><p>31:06 - The “atheists have no morals” myth</p><p>34:10 - Losing your faith over Sunday night services (the domino effect)</p><p>39:27 - The terrifying moment: telling your spouse you don’t believe anymore</p><p>41:51 - Cliffhanger—what happens next?</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/bobby-walker]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f3920011-b2ef-44fb-b193-2b1b0ba3bf97</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/1a1dc419-1ff6-4468-97cf-1ba56ac64cdc/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-3.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f3920011-b2ef-44fb-b193-2b1b0ba3bf97.mp3" length="42037079" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>43:47</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2ef208a4-7466-4217-acbb-423f63a0f416/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>When Silence Becomes Agreement</title><itunes:title>When Silence Becomes Agreement</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder if staying quiet is actually neutral.. or if sometimes, silence is complicit? This week, Melody and Curt digs into the pressure to stay “out of it” when the world feels like it’s falling apart, and what happens when your values bump up against the chaos of politics, family, and business.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody thinks political fights rarely affect her daily life but the emotional toll is real</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s journey from accepting the Bible as infallible to wrestling with contradictions and context</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about how family dinners got awkward when politics divided the room</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Binary thinking vs. grayscale.. how we’re wired to see right/wrong, and what gets lost in the nuances</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hidden cost of neutrality: when staying quiet makes you complicit (and how to know)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How personal encounters.. window cleaning, travel, meeting gay couples—changed Melody’s worldview</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real experiences with ICE, immigration, and why due process matters for business owners and families</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Holding space for opposing beliefs vs. reaching the limit—Melody’s struggle to keep relationships intact without compromising core values</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It’s possible to love someone and still vehemently disagree; the relationship is tested when values are on the line</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Binary “good/bad” thinking is comforting but doesn’t hold up in complex human situations</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Silence sometimes protects relationships, but can also undermine your own integrity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The narrative fed through media and politics rarely matches your lived reality but you can’t ignore the bigger ethical questions forever</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Changing your mind as you grow isn’t flip-flopping—it’s evolving, and wisdom means applying new knowledge thoughtfully</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:00 - The things the country fights about vs. actual daily impact</p><p>08:00 - Curt’s spiritual/ideological journey</p><p>20:59 - Binary thinking and polarization</p><p>27:57 - ICE, immigration stories, and family anxiety</p><p>38:41 - The cost of keeping conversations “light” in families</p><p>48:45 - Where persuasion meets righteous anger</p><p>58:00 - What’s next—holding relationships or taking a stand?</p><p>01:01:03 - Politics vs. humanity</p><p>01:05:48 - Wisdom, evolving, and leaving space for others</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder if staying quiet is actually neutral.. or if sometimes, silence is complicit? This week, Melody and Curt digs into the pressure to stay “out of it” when the world feels like it’s falling apart, and what happens when your values bump up against the chaos of politics, family, and business.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody thinks political fights rarely affect her daily life but the emotional toll is real</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s journey from accepting the Bible as infallible to wrestling with contradictions and context</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about how family dinners got awkward when politics divided the room</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Binary thinking vs. grayscale.. how we’re wired to see right/wrong, and what gets lost in the nuances</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hidden cost of neutrality: when staying quiet makes you complicit (and how to know)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How personal encounters.. window cleaning, travel, meeting gay couples—changed Melody’s worldview</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real experiences with ICE, immigration, and why due process matters for business owners and families</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Holding space for opposing beliefs vs. reaching the limit—Melody’s struggle to keep relationships intact without compromising core values</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>It’s possible to love someone and still vehemently disagree; the relationship is tested when values are on the line</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Binary “good/bad” thinking is comforting but doesn’t hold up in complex human situations</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Silence sometimes protects relationships, but can also undermine your own integrity</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The narrative fed through media and politics rarely matches your lived reality but you can’t ignore the bigger ethical questions forever</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Changing your mind as you grow isn’t flip-flopping—it’s evolving, and wisdom means applying new knowledge thoughtfully</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:00 - The things the country fights about vs. actual daily impact</p><p>08:00 - Curt’s spiritual/ideological journey</p><p>20:59 - Binary thinking and polarization</p><p>27:57 - ICE, immigration stories, and family anxiety</p><p>38:41 - The cost of keeping conversations “light” in families</p><p>48:45 - Where persuasion meets righteous anger</p><p>58:00 - What’s next—holding relationships or taking a stand?</p><p>01:01:03 - Politics vs. humanity</p><p>01:05:48 - Wisdom, evolving, and leaving space for others</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/being-neutral]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">223ee370-e778-476f-8658-fa4cf7eeeb74</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/aaa14d6f-510b-49c1-a92f-a9a99cbd5110/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/223ee370-e778-476f-8658-fa4cf7eeeb74.mp3" length="69571394" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:12:28</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/a0c73077-8c24-4846-9f44-5f0ad8b4dce0/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Who Controls Your Happiness?</title><itunes:title>Who Controls Your Happiness?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever catch yourself thinking, “Am I happy, or am I just riding the emotional rollercoaster of everyone around me?” This week, Melody and Curt get brutally honest about the messiness of happiness.. how much of it we actually control, how much is tied up in our relationships (and our businesses), and whether you can ever really keep your emotions in your own sandbox.</p><p>Melody &amp; Curt Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody’s version of “content” is surviving New England winter, missing her dog, and baby therapy air fresheners</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s Viktor Frankl reference and the impossible standard of not letting anyone affect you—and why he’s nowhere close to that</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about Melody putting her dog to sleep two days before Christmas (bring tissues, not solutions)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s pancake analogy: feeling both rage and joy about his daughter’s wedding, and why happiness can come from the same thing that makes you miserable</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The “box-holding” framework—aka, when you accidentally end up emotionally carrying everyone else’s stuff (and how that plays out at home and in business)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How business decisions, delayed pivots, and letting things linger can keep you in “cat poop side” of the sandbox way too long</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why happy isn’t a permanent state, contentment isn’t complacency, and sometimes you just need someone to tell you your perception is dead wrong (hi, Brittany!)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Mountain Biking/Yoga/Weightlifting coping mechanisms, and what actually works to get out of your head</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Nobody is completely immune to the emotions of people they love—trying to be might just make you feel worse.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Contentment isn’t laziness; it’s being okay with yourself and your life—even when it’s messy or in-progress.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You can’t always “think” your way out of unhappiness, but you can pay attention to where you’re spending your emotional energy (hint: not all of it belongs to you).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes, the bravest move is naming your overwhelm (and letting someone else hold your box… at least for a while).</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps: 0:00 – “Are you happy?” and Melody’s tiers of existence</p><p>5:22 – Grief, joy, winter, and the myth of perpetual happiness</p><p>16:21 – Business overwhelm and box-holding dynamics</p><p>34:02 – Sacrifice, spirituality, and not becoming a martyr</p><p>53:05 – Why you can’t live in other people’s feelings forever</p><p>01:01:09 – The happiness/contentment split, summarized</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever catch yourself thinking, “Am I happy, or am I just riding the emotional rollercoaster of everyone around me?” This week, Melody and Curt get brutally honest about the messiness of happiness.. how much of it we actually control, how much is tied up in our relationships (and our businesses), and whether you can ever really keep your emotions in your own sandbox.</p><p>Melody &amp; Curt Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody’s version of “content” is surviving New England winter, missing her dog, and baby therapy air fresheners</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s Viktor Frankl reference and the impossible standard of not letting anyone affect you—and why he’s nowhere close to that</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The story about Melody putting her dog to sleep two days before Christmas (bring tissues, not solutions)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s pancake analogy: feeling both rage and joy about his daughter’s wedding, and why happiness can come from the same thing that makes you miserable</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The “box-holding” framework—aka, when you accidentally end up emotionally carrying everyone else’s stuff (and how that plays out at home and in business)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How business decisions, delayed pivots, and letting things linger can keep you in “cat poop side” of the sandbox way too long</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why happy isn’t a permanent state, contentment isn’t complacency, and sometimes you just need someone to tell you your perception is dead wrong (hi, Brittany!)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Mountain Biking/Yoga/Weightlifting coping mechanisms, and what actually works to get out of your head</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Nobody is completely immune to the emotions of people they love—trying to be might just make you feel worse.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Contentment isn’t laziness; it’s being okay with yourself and your life—even when it’s messy or in-progress.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You can’t always “think” your way out of unhappiness, but you can pay attention to where you’re spending your emotional energy (hint: not all of it belongs to you).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Sometimes, the bravest move is naming your overwhelm (and letting someone else hold your box… at least for a while).</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps: 0:00 – “Are you happy?” and Melody’s tiers of existence</p><p>5:22 – Grief, joy, winter, and the myth of perpetual happiness</p><p>16:21 – Business overwhelm and box-holding dynamics</p><p>34:02 – Sacrifice, spirituality, and not becoming a martyr</p><p>53:05 – Why you can’t live in other people’s feelings forever</p><p>01:01:09 – The happiness/contentment split, summarized</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/control-your-happiness]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">782a0651-f437-4aa0-9a6d-32f2d596cd75</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f4c7189a-5ec5-4bb2-b374-0caa62df419b/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/782a0651-f437-4aa0-9a6d-32f2d596cd75.mp3" length="67158098" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:09:57</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/f9693558-5014-4154-bae8-2d1f6fd10507/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Battle Between Family and Business</title><itunes:title>The Battle Between Family and Business</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Being present sounds easy, but for entrepreneurs whose brains never stop spinning business plates, it can feel downright impossible, especially when family and holiday expectations crash in.</p><p>In this episode, Melody and Curt talks about what it really takes to show up for your people, why “just turn your phone off” is terrible advice, and how guilt, workaholism, and that familiar business-owner urgency sabotage our best intentions.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Curt’s history of literally working through family outings and the moment he realized “being there” doesn’t mean being present</li><li>Why Melody felt mom guilt even when she was always aware of ignoring her family—and how it’s different for men and women entrepreneurs</li><li>The story of Curt being “white hot mad” on Christmas Eve and his sister’s reality check about presence and perspective</li><li>When providing for your family becomes the excuse for not enjoying them (and why that mindset is so seductive)</li><li>“Holding things lightly”—the Buddhist therapist hack that changed Curt’s approach to frustration, stress, and ultimately, family time</li><li>Melody’s transition from workaholic identity to re-learning how to savor moments with her kids, nephew, and actually herself</li><li>Meditating, being silent (even if only for a tenth of a second), and why decompressing is a skill—not an automatic reward for burning out</li><li>The only short-term hack that works: If all else fails, just make “being delightful” your job at the family party (it’s weirdly effective)</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Most family “resentment moments” aren’t about the actual holiday mishap—they’re business stress finding a scapegoat.</li><li>Presence is uncomfortable because silence and unstructured time can feel scarier than replying to emails.</li><li>Treating holidays like time you “give your family out of generosity” is an ego trap; true presence is a gift to yourself.</li><li>You won’t change overnight—getting present takes experimentation, therapy, self-mockery, and sometimes just faking it for a couple hours at a time.</li></ul><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Why being present feels impossible (especially during holidays)</p><p>4:05 – Curt’s all-time low point for family presence</p><p>15:00 – The “hold it lightly” therapy metaphor</p><p>18:46 – Melody’s three things that finally shifted her presence</p><p>25:55 – When your brain craves work stress more than silence</p><p>34:16 – Real secrets (and cheats) for putting down the phone and actually being there</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being present sounds easy, but for entrepreneurs whose brains never stop spinning business plates, it can feel downright impossible, especially when family and holiday expectations crash in.</p><p>In this episode, Melody and Curt talks about what it really takes to show up for your people, why “just turn your phone off” is terrible advice, and how guilt, workaholism, and that familiar business-owner urgency sabotage our best intentions.</p><p>What They Talk About:</p><ul><li>Curt’s history of literally working through family outings and the moment he realized “being there” doesn’t mean being present</li><li>Why Melody felt mom guilt even when she was always aware of ignoring her family—and how it’s different for men and women entrepreneurs</li><li>The story of Curt being “white hot mad” on Christmas Eve and his sister’s reality check about presence and perspective</li><li>When providing for your family becomes the excuse for not enjoying them (and why that mindset is so seductive)</li><li>“Holding things lightly”—the Buddhist therapist hack that changed Curt’s approach to frustration, stress, and ultimately, family time</li><li>Melody’s transition from workaholic identity to re-learning how to savor moments with her kids, nephew, and actually herself</li><li>Meditating, being silent (even if only for a tenth of a second), and why decompressing is a skill—not an automatic reward for burning out</li><li>The only short-term hack that works: If all else fails, just make “being delightful” your job at the family party (it’s weirdly effective)</li></ul><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ul><li>Most family “resentment moments” aren’t about the actual holiday mishap—they’re business stress finding a scapegoat.</li><li>Presence is uncomfortable because silence and unstructured time can feel scarier than replying to emails.</li><li>Treating holidays like time you “give your family out of generosity” is an ego trap; true presence is a gift to yourself.</li><li>You won’t change overnight—getting present takes experimentation, therapy, self-mockery, and sometimes just faking it for a couple hours at a time.</li></ul><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Why being present feels impossible (especially during holidays)</p><p>4:05 – Curt’s all-time low point for family presence</p><p>15:00 – The “hold it lightly” therapy metaphor</p><p>18:46 – Melody’s three things that finally shifted her presence</p><p>25:55 – When your brain craves work stress more than silence</p><p>34:16 – Real secrets (and cheats) for putting down the phone and actually being there</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/be-present]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">885b1dfc-f45d-4d52-983d-3b732e3d0a43</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/7199951a-10df-4b6c-97b7-f85cc021c3fa/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-17.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/885b1dfc-f45d-4d52-983d-3b732e3d0a43.mp3" length="40793233" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>42:30</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2aa7ff8a-620f-4b81-9940-f01d602b7749/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Hard Truth About Teams and Growth</title><itunes:title>The Hard Truth About Teams and Growth</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Letting people go, holding your team accountable, and figuring out what kind of leader you actually want to be.. none of it’s simple. In this episode, Melody and Curt talks about the messiness of managing people you genuinely care about, the emotional cost of firing, and what happens when your "people-first" values run up against business realities. Expect stories, frustration, a little sparring, and a surprising amount of compassion.</p><p>What Melody &amp; Curt Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody waited way too long to fire people (again) and regrets “keeping them because I love them”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s “boiling frog” metaphor for how dysfunction sneaks up</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The comfort trap: when loyalty and long-term relationships blur the line between family and business</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The great fight: Is it better to have relationships or to treat staff as interchangeable “numbers?”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real talk on KPIs, weekly scorecards, and why “feelings aren’t data”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s February company reset: six weeks where everyone has to prove they can lead themselves</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Struggling with being a “cheerleader” versus embracing the hard-ass accountability role</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The exhaustion (and necessity) of moving someone out of a job, especially in a tiny team where roles overlap and money’s tight</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The myth of “changing yourself” into the perfect leader and why building the right leadership team matters more</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Keeping someone just because you care about them is usually a sign you need to let them go.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Accountability doesn’t happen by accident—it takes structure, and sometimes, giving someone else the authority to deliver the tough news.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t have to fit the old-school “boss” mold to be a real leader; your job is to find complementary strengths and let go of what drains you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>When self-accountability is missing, no number of meetings or systems will save you (but you still have to try).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Growth almost always means outgrowing someone. The worst part? You’ll know it long before you act.</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Why it’s so hard to let people go</p><p>8:55 – Relationship vs. results: The accountability fight</p><p>31:28 – Wearing too many hats when the business is small</p><p>46:43 – The myth of the “perfect” leader and reframing leadership roles</p><p>57:58 – Growth, fear, and why change is always painful (until it isn’t)</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Letting people go, holding your team accountable, and figuring out what kind of leader you actually want to be.. none of it’s simple. In this episode, Melody and Curt talks about the messiness of managing people you genuinely care about, the emotional cost of firing, and what happens when your "people-first" values run up against business realities. Expect stories, frustration, a little sparring, and a surprising amount of compassion.</p><p>What Melody &amp; Curt Talk About:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody waited way too long to fire people (again) and regrets “keeping them because I love them”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s “boiling frog” metaphor for how dysfunction sneaks up</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The comfort trap: when loyalty and long-term relationships blur the line between family and business</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The great fight: Is it better to have relationships or to treat staff as interchangeable “numbers?”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Real talk on KPIs, weekly scorecards, and why “feelings aren’t data”</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody’s February company reset: six weeks where everyone has to prove they can lead themselves</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Struggling with being a “cheerleader” versus embracing the hard-ass accountability role</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The exhaustion (and necessity) of moving someone out of a job, especially in a tiny team where roles overlap and money’s tight</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The myth of “changing yourself” into the perfect leader and why building the right leadership team matters more</li></ol><br/><p>Key Takeaways:</p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Keeping someone just because you care about them is usually a sign you need to let them go.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Accountability doesn’t happen by accident—it takes structure, and sometimes, giving someone else the authority to deliver the tough news.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>You don’t have to fit the old-school “boss” mold to be a real leader; your job is to find complementary strengths and let go of what drains you.</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>When self-accountability is missing, no number of meetings or systems will save you (but you still have to try).</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Growth almost always means outgrowing someone. The worst part? You’ll know it long before you act.</li></ol><br/><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 – Why it’s so hard to let people go</p><p>8:55 – Relationship vs. results: The accountability fight</p><p>31:28 – Wearing too many hats when the business is small</p><p>46:43 – The myth of the “perfect” leader and reframing leadership roles</p><p>57:58 – Growth, fear, and why change is always painful (until it isn’t)</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/teams-and-growth]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">46b048a5-d200-41b7-bae6-9ba534286578</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0ae8e152-0330-45d5-8f3d-d56003ac223d/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-16.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/46b048a5-d200-41b7-bae6-9ba534286578.mp3" length="59572139" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:02:03</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9f298372-8145-4799-9959-0042b6eb35b6/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Does Your Sparkly Brain Help or Hurt Your Business?</title><itunes:title>Does Your Sparkly Brain Help or Hurt Your Business?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ever get that feeling your brain is sprinting in a million directions while the rest of the world is taking a slow stroll? This episode is all about living and thriving with ADHD as an entrepreneur. Melody shares the vulnerable, messy reality behind her diagnosis and running a business with a “sparkly brain,” while Curt brings his undiagnosed-but-oh-so-familiar Ferrari brain energy and the worry, self-doubt, and relentless hacks that go with it. We get personal, philosophical, and practical about what ADHD means in a world built for Hondas and why that might not be a bad thing.</p><p><strong>What We Talk About:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody feels like her ADHD diagnosis gave her “the handbook” for her brain (and why Curt resisted getting one)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Ferrari vs. Honda Pilot analogy are ADHD brains just built for a different kind of track?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Stories about homework meltdowns, parenting kids with wildly different operating systems, and the heartbreak of letting go of school expectations</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hacks, tricks, and self-management systems that actually help, plus why those only work for the person who invented them</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s visual “milestone” strategy for corralling racing thoughts in meetings</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody explaining why her whole company is designed for ADHD entrepreneurs (and why work is her “healthy addiction”)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How shame and comparison warp the experience of ADHD and the real work of finding your strengths</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What happens when faith, God, and fairness collide with neurodiversity (Curt gets philosophical!)</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>ADHD isn’t just distractibility—it’s relentless energy and hyperfocus that can be superpowers <em>if</em> you learn to channel them (but the crash is real)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Diagnosis isn’t a crutch—it’s the start of self-compassion, better strategies, and actual confidence</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The best hacks are unique—trying to model someone else’s perfect system usually ends in chaos (or shame)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Building a purpose-driven business is possible with ADHD, but you need systems, structure, and help—and it still won’t be linear</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Parenting, business, and relationships are all harder—and richer—when you embrace the unpredictability instead of fighting it</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>0:00 – Melody’s ADHD energy and the joy of new ideas</p><p>1:10 – Diagnosis journeys and how it shifts self-perception</p><p>6:00 – Ferrari brains vs. Honda brains: what does that mean for business and life?</p><p>16:00 – Hacks for keeping focus (but only if they fit your brain)</p><p>30:00 – ADHD tendencies and why entrepreneurship attracts them</p><p>39:00 – The faith question: why are we all so different, and what does that mean?</p><p>46:00 – Everyday coping strategies that actually stick</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever get that feeling your brain is sprinting in a million directions while the rest of the world is taking a slow stroll? This episode is all about living and thriving with ADHD as an entrepreneur. Melody shares the vulnerable, messy reality behind her diagnosis and running a business with a “sparkly brain,” while Curt brings his undiagnosed-but-oh-so-familiar Ferrari brain energy and the worry, self-doubt, and relentless hacks that go with it. We get personal, philosophical, and practical about what ADHD means in a world built for Hondas and why that might not be a bad thing.</p><p><strong>What We Talk About:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Why Melody feels like her ADHD diagnosis gave her “the handbook” for her brain (and why Curt resisted getting one)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The Ferrari vs. Honda Pilot analogy are ADHD brains just built for a different kind of track?</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Stories about homework meltdowns, parenting kids with wildly different operating systems, and the heartbreak of letting go of school expectations</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The hacks, tricks, and self-management systems that actually help, plus why those only work for the person who invented them</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Curt’s visual “milestone” strategy for corralling racing thoughts in meetings</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Melody explaining why her whole company is designed for ADHD entrepreneurs (and why work is her “healthy addiction”)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>How shame and comparison warp the experience of ADHD and the real work of finding your strengths</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>What happens when faith, God, and fairness collide with neurodiversity (Curt gets philosophical!)</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></p><ol><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>ADHD isn’t just distractibility—it’s relentless energy and hyperfocus that can be superpowers <em>if</em> you learn to channel them (but the crash is real)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Diagnosis isn’t a crutch—it’s the start of self-compassion, better strategies, and actual confidence</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>The best hacks are unique—trying to model someone else’s perfect system usually ends in chaos (or shame)</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Building a purpose-driven business is possible with ADHD, but you need systems, structure, and help—and it still won’t be linear</li><li data-list="bullet"><span class="ql-ui" contenteditable="false"></span>Parenting, business, and relationships are all harder—and richer—when you embrace the unpredictability instead of fighting it</li></ol><br/><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>0:00 – Melody’s ADHD energy and the joy of new ideas</p><p>1:10 – Diagnosis journeys and how it shifts self-perception</p><p>6:00 – Ferrari brains vs. Honda brains: what does that mean for business and life?</p><p>16:00 – Hacks for keeping focus (but only if they fit your brain)</p><p>30:00 – ADHD tendencies and why entrepreneurship attracts them</p><p>39:00 – The faith question: why are we all so different, and what does that mean?</p><p>46:00 – Everyday coping strategies that actually stick</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/sparkly-brains]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">a4152e8d-fe5f-4aac-aea6-63d1b0f3da94</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/62fad856-ed25-46f2-91aa-f6ccefafd3a4/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-12.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a4152e8d-fe5f-4aac-aea6-63d1b0f3da94.mp3" length="63042872" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:05:40</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2155b02b-cf50-4eb1-804b-0085aef88cd7/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Meg Likes Money: But It’s Not About the Money</title><itunes:title>Meg Likes Money: But It’s Not About the Money</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody sit down with their friend <strong>Meaghan Likes</strong>- entrepreneur, accountant, investor, and the human behind the name Meg Likes Money, for a conversation that goes exactly nowhere they expected.</p><p>Curt tries to talk about capitalism.</p><p>Meaghan politely shuts that down.</p><p>And what unfolds is a surprisingly grounded conversation about money, power, obligation, and what’s really driving entrepreneurs when they say they “want more.”</p><p>Meaghan has built and partnered in businesses across accounting, software, home services, and tech. She’s seen the bank accounts, profit margins, and pressure points behind thousands of businesses. She’s sat behind closed doors with very wealthy people. And she’s watched, up close, what money actually does (and doesn’t) fix.</p><p>Her Take? It’s almost never about the money.</p><p>They talk about</p><p>-Why chasing money is usually a cover for something else</p><p>-The moral obligation entrepreneurs take on when they choose to build</p><p>-Why profit isn’t greedy</p><p>-How money reveals people instead of changing them</p><p>-Why “passive income” is mostly a myth</p><p>-What happens when you stop making money about you</p><p>This episode is thoughtful, funny, and occasionally uncomfortable, but it’s the kind of conversation that will stick with you.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt conflicted about money…</p><p>This one’s for you.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody sit down with their friend <strong>Meaghan Likes</strong>- entrepreneur, accountant, investor, and the human behind the name Meg Likes Money, for a conversation that goes exactly nowhere they expected.</p><p>Curt tries to talk about capitalism.</p><p>Meaghan politely shuts that down.</p><p>And what unfolds is a surprisingly grounded conversation about money, power, obligation, and what’s really driving entrepreneurs when they say they “want more.”</p><p>Meaghan has built and partnered in businesses across accounting, software, home services, and tech. She’s seen the bank accounts, profit margins, and pressure points behind thousands of businesses. She’s sat behind closed doors with very wealthy people. And she’s watched, up close, what money actually does (and doesn’t) fix.</p><p>Her Take? It’s almost never about the money.</p><p>They talk about</p><p>-Why chasing money is usually a cover for something else</p><p>-The moral obligation entrepreneurs take on when they choose to build</p><p>-Why profit isn’t greedy</p><p>-How money reveals people instead of changing them</p><p>-Why “passive income” is mostly a myth</p><p>-What happens when you stop making money about you</p><p>This episode is thoughtful, funny, and occasionally uncomfortable, but it’s the kind of conversation that will stick with you.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt conflicted about money…</p><p>This one’s for you.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/meaghan-likes]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b76b8c4c-cba5-48f3-9c33-b2c988f92f9a</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/ac90813e-4fd9-48de-b783-0f2a862b0f3e/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-11.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b76b8c4c-cba5-48f3-9c33-b2c988f92f9a.mp3" length="66665742" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:09:27</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/b99edd12-7295-44e9-b319-ec417ed95164/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Business Partnerships: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly</title><itunes:title>Business Partnerships: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Partnerships sound amazing!</p><p>Another brain.</p><p>Shared responsibility.</p><p> Someone else to help shoulder the weight of building something hard.</p><p>But what happens when real life tests the agreement you signed on a good day?</p><p>In this episode, Curt and Melody talk honestly about their own business partnership experiences and what they’ve learned.</p><p>This isn’t a how-to episode. Although there is advice, there’s no checklist that guarantees success. It’s a conversation about what partnerships <em>actually</em> feel like from the inside. </p><p>The good, the awkward, and the parts no one likes to talk about.</p><p>If you’re thinking about teaming up, already in a partnership, or quietly wondering whether you should have asked better questions before signing anything… this one’s for you.</p><p><br></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Partnerships sound amazing!</p><p>Another brain.</p><p>Shared responsibility.</p><p> Someone else to help shoulder the weight of building something hard.</p><p>But what happens when real life tests the agreement you signed on a good day?</p><p>In this episode, Curt and Melody talk honestly about their own business partnership experiences and what they’ve learned.</p><p>This isn’t a how-to episode. Although there is advice, there’s no checklist that guarantees success. It’s a conversation about what partnerships <em>actually</em> feel like from the inside. </p><p>The good, the awkward, and the parts no one likes to talk about.</p><p>If you’re thinking about teaming up, already in a partnership, or quietly wondering whether you should have asked better questions before signing anything… this one’s for you.</p><p><br></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/business-partnerships]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">eea93c68-e463-4eaa-9045-f82d722dafad</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/39edfa7d-23af-4bcf-9d80-25bf82c9f1b4/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-10.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/eea93c68-e463-4eaa-9045-f82d722dafad.mp3" length="52555022" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>54:45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/bcb30f96-eab3-445e-9065-f0271ed07d78/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Mel&apos;s Annual Quarterly Midlife Crisis</title><itunes:title>Mel&apos;s Annual Quarterly Midlife Crisis</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when two “sparkly-brained” entrepreneurs sit down to explore what it really means to be a business misfit? In this Special Christmaas episode, Curt and Melody revisit their first-ever podcast conversation, diving into the rollercoaster ride of entrepreneurship, vision, and vulnerability. </p><p>You’ll hear their candid takes on fighting imposter syndrome, the magic (and madness!) of visionary leadership, and why emotional intelligence is as vital as your bottom line. They swap stories about the joys and messiness of building a business your own way, how to harness big ideas without overwhelming your team, and what it takes to filter out business advice that doesn’t match your values. </p><p>There’s plenty here for anyone curious about authentic business leadership, routines that actually work for the ultra-creative, and the future of AI-powered small business. Tune in for a high-energy, deeply honest episode perfect for anyone feeling a little like a misfit in the world of entrepreneurship.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when two “sparkly-brained” entrepreneurs sit down to explore what it really means to be a business misfit? In this Special Christmaas episode, Curt and Melody revisit their first-ever podcast conversation, diving into the rollercoaster ride of entrepreneurship, vision, and vulnerability. </p><p>You’ll hear their candid takes on fighting imposter syndrome, the magic (and madness!) of visionary leadership, and why emotional intelligence is as vital as your bottom line. They swap stories about the joys and messiness of building a business your own way, how to harness big ideas without overwhelming your team, and what it takes to filter out business advice that doesn’t match your values. </p><p>There’s plenty here for anyone curious about authentic business leadership, routines that actually work for the ultra-creative, and the future of AI-powered small business. Tune in for a high-energy, deeply honest episode perfect for anyone feeling a little like a misfit in the world of entrepreneurship.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/midlife-crisis]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">935d4f1d-b5e0-4cf0-a037-4833e518ddd1</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/d1ceecdf-4279-4e57-b1e1-1f1e48890bad/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-6.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/935d4f1d-b5e0-4cf0-a037-4833e518ddd1.mp3" length="61841239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:04:25</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/9dd6e9ed-7602-4a44-b0a8-b8445e76a9d1/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Birth of Soul Proprietor: The Business Misfits</title><itunes:title>The Birth of Soul Proprietor: The Business Misfits</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how Melody and Curt met and started this podcast? Well, this is your chance to know how everything started! In this special episode, we’re bringing back one of the episodes of Melody’s previous podcast, Business Misfits Podcast, where Curt was one of the guests of Melody. And this is their first-ever recording together!</p><p>This episode talks about the challenges of entrepreneurship, covering topics like imposter syndrome, emotional intelligence, business growth, and building authentic company culture.</p><p>Curt and Melody share honest insights about leadership, hiring visionary teams, implementing new habits, and embracing change.. especially with AI’s impact on small businesses! Their candid conversation resonates with business owners who feel like misfits, encouraging listeners to stay true to their values, build genuine relationships, and never stop growing. Perfect for entrepreneurs seeking real talk and actionable advice.</p><p>If you want to hear two friends debate, laugh, and call out the weirdness of running a business that actually means something to you, you’ll probably enjoy tuning in to this one.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how Melody and Curt met and started this podcast? Well, this is your chance to know how everything started! In this special episode, we’re bringing back one of the episodes of Melody’s previous podcast, Business Misfits Podcast, where Curt was one of the guests of Melody. And this is their first-ever recording together!</p><p>This episode talks about the challenges of entrepreneurship, covering topics like imposter syndrome, emotional intelligence, business growth, and building authentic company culture.</p><p>Curt and Melody share honest insights about leadership, hiring visionary teams, implementing new habits, and embracing change.. especially with AI’s impact on small businesses! Their candid conversation resonates with business owners who feel like misfits, encouraging listeners to stay true to their values, build genuine relationships, and never stop growing. Perfect for entrepreneurs seeking real talk and actionable advice.</p><p>If you want to hear two friends debate, laugh, and call out the weirdness of running a business that actually means something to you, you’ll probably enjoy tuning in to this one.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/soul-proprietor-]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">67f3f4b1-c1db-417c-a7b4-7445014bc4e9</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4b122df3-3a23-4903-afea-da0ee7fae865/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-7.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/67f3f4b1-c1db-417c-a7b4-7445014bc4e9.mp3" length="78454699" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:21:43</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/83b29763-0ff8-4a8d-93dd-469c10e45abf/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The ROI of Integrity</title><itunes:title>The ROI of Integrity</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week on Soul Proprietor: Does integrity actually pay off in business?</p><p>Melody and Curt swap stories about reputations being tested, the messy reality of trying to do the right thing, and what it feels like when your best intentions completely miss the mark.</p><p>The conversation swings between frustrating and funny as they dissect the gap between our noble stories about operating with integrity and what actually happens when money’s on the line.</p><p>This episode is for you if:</p><p>• You’ve ever questioned whether being the “good guy” is worth the cost</p><p>• You find yourself overthinking every business decision</p><p>• You’re building a values-driven business and need honest guidance, not platitudes</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week on Soul Proprietor: Does integrity actually pay off in business?</p><p>Melody and Curt swap stories about reputations being tested, the messy reality of trying to do the right thing, and what it feels like when your best intentions completely miss the mark.</p><p>The conversation swings between frustrating and funny as they dissect the gap between our noble stories about operating with integrity and what actually happens when money’s on the line.</p><p>This episode is for you if:</p><p>• You’ve ever questioned whether being the “good guy” is worth the cost</p><p>• You find yourself overthinking every business decision</p><p>• You’re building a values-driven business and need honest guidance, not platitudes</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/roi-of-integrity]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">0ce8e46c-49ce-4a7a-b7a0-6c995097e7a8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/cae3f693-3be4-4416-945e-9cd18a458563/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-4.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/0ce8e46c-49ce-4a7a-b7a0-6c995097e7a8.mp3" length="51421935" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>53:34</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/93119fba-da8d-4916-a74a-ff798e239939/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>We&apos;re Wired to Connect: The Power of Community</title><itunes:title>We&apos;re Wired to Connect: The Power of Community</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody get real about how different communities have shaped their lives as entrepreneurs .. from women’s business meetups to sales conferences and even working with international teams. Melody talks about what it felt like to step into new circles and suddenly question where she really belonged, while Curt shares the surprise of joining a sales group he never thought would be “his” kind of space.</p><p>They trade stories about what it’s like to work with people in the Philippines, handle everyday challenges, and push through bigger setbacks along the way. The conversation naturally drifts into what happens when your assumptions get challenged, and how both big rooms and small, tight-knit groups can offer support in totally unexpected ways.</p><p>By the end, Curt and Melody concluded on what makes a group feel right and why building the kind of community you actually want takes a little intention, a lot of curiosity, and the flexibility to try things that might feel uncomfortable at first.</p><p>No perfect formula, just honest reflections on why finding spaces that really “click” is worth it.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody get real about how different communities have shaped their lives as entrepreneurs .. from women’s business meetups to sales conferences and even working with international teams. Melody talks about what it felt like to step into new circles and suddenly question where she really belonged, while Curt shares the surprise of joining a sales group he never thought would be “his” kind of space.</p><p>They trade stories about what it’s like to work with people in the Philippines, handle everyday challenges, and push through bigger setbacks along the way. The conversation naturally drifts into what happens when your assumptions get challenged, and how both big rooms and small, tight-knit groups can offer support in totally unexpected ways.</p><p>By the end, Curt and Melody concluded on what makes a group feel right and why building the kind of community you actually want takes a little intention, a lot of curiosity, and the flexibility to try things that might feel uncomfortable at first.</p><p>No perfect formula, just honest reflections on why finding spaces that really “click” is worth it.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/connect-with-community]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">23104f00-4c85-4fe1-9026-084e857327ac</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/db9f41f2-32cc-4f08-8e49-0c5931b3de02/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/23104f00-4c85-4fe1-9026-084e857327ac.mp3" length="131257427" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>54:25</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8fabf93d-1644-4c50-b2f5-b6956d3a84ae/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8fabf93d-1644-4c50-b2f5-b6956d3a84ae/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/8fabf93d-1644-4c50-b2f5-b6956d3a84ae/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Trouble With Being Right</title><itunes:title>The Trouble With Being Right</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Certainty feels good.</p><p>It gives us the illusion of control.</p><p>But when we hold tight to being “right,” it can make us less open, less curious, and less willing to consider other people’s experiences.  That gap can lead us to act in ways that don’t match the values we say we care about.</p><p>This week, Curt and Melody talk certainty,  how religion can shape moral blind spots,  when confidence supports leadership and when it gets in the way,  and how to stay connected to people who believe differently while still holding your own convictions.</p><p>This episode will be a thought provoking listen whether you are certain, uncertain, or somewhere in between.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Certainty feels good.</p><p>It gives us the illusion of control.</p><p>But when we hold tight to being “right,” it can make us less open, less curious, and less willing to consider other people’s experiences.  That gap can lead us to act in ways that don’t match the values we say we care about.</p><p>This week, Curt and Melody talk certainty,  how religion can shape moral blind spots,  when confidence supports leadership and when it gets in the way,  and how to stay connected to people who believe differently while still holding your own convictions.</p><p>This episode will be a thought provoking listen whether you are certain, uncertain, or somewhere in between.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/being-right]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d4bf145b-1300-4389-8587-d9f0a2fc27cc</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/ce0f2679-5a2e-4eb1-b263-f3915588c4f2/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-12.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d4bf145b-1300-4389-8587-d9f0a2fc27cc.mp3" length="179332561" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:13:57</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/6a908fef-60dd-442a-b3bc-92ebb30c2e61/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/6a908fef-60dd-442a-b3bc-92ebb30c2e61/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/6a908fef-60dd-442a-b3bc-92ebb30c2e61/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Grateful for Pickle Juice: The Thanksgiving Episode</title><itunes:title>Grateful for Pickle Juice: The Thanksgiving Episode</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This year? It’s been <em>a lot</em>.</p><p>Inflation, AI chaos, hiring struggles, tension in the air... and yet, here comes Thanksgiving, asking us to be <em>grateful</em>. So what does that even look like when your legs are cramping (figuratively or otherwise) and your business is running on fumes?</p><p>In this special Thanksgiving episode, Curt and Melody take a break from the business to reflect on what it <em>actually</em> means to lead with gratitude, not just when things are good, but when you’re tired, depleted, and trying to find meaning in the middle of it all.</p><p>They cover:</p><ul><li>Why exhaustion doesn’t always look like burnout (but still matters)</li><li>How leaders spiral -and what it takes to break the cycle</li><li>The danger of over-thanking your team (yep, that’s a thing)</li><li>Traditions, turkey, and why leftovers are a metaphor for leadership</li><li>The one thing Curt and Melody are <em>most</em> grateful for this year</li><li>And yes, we promise: there’s a reason we talk about pickle juice.</li></ul><br/><p>This one’s a warm, honest, slightly weird episode.</p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen now on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.</strong></p><p>💬 <em>Leave us a review if this one resonated </em></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This year? It’s been <em>a lot</em>.</p><p>Inflation, AI chaos, hiring struggles, tension in the air... and yet, here comes Thanksgiving, asking us to be <em>grateful</em>. So what does that even look like when your legs are cramping (figuratively or otherwise) and your business is running on fumes?</p><p>In this special Thanksgiving episode, Curt and Melody take a break from the business to reflect on what it <em>actually</em> means to lead with gratitude, not just when things are good, but when you’re tired, depleted, and trying to find meaning in the middle of it all.</p><p>They cover:</p><ul><li>Why exhaustion doesn’t always look like burnout (but still matters)</li><li>How leaders spiral -and what it takes to break the cycle</li><li>The danger of over-thanking your team (yep, that’s a thing)</li><li>Traditions, turkey, and why leftovers are a metaphor for leadership</li><li>The one thing Curt and Melody are <em>most</em> grateful for this year</li><li>And yes, we promise: there’s a reason we talk about pickle juice.</li></ul><br/><p>This one’s a warm, honest, slightly weird episode.</p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen now on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.</strong></p><p>💬 <em>Leave us a review if this one resonated </em></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/episode-11-pickle-thanksgiving]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fb661821-e804-42e0-8545-2bca0cd6ece8</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0938c484-7e24-4dc2-a2d5-a55c8a6d6174/soul-prop-ep-11-cover.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/fb661821-e804-42e0-8545-2bca0cd6ece8.mp3" length="155623618" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:04:20</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/94bd88a9-9a60-41b6-aa52-69659fd4e8c2/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/94bd88a9-9a60-41b6-aa52-69659fd4e8c2/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/94bd88a9-9a60-41b6-aa52-69659fd4e8c2/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Taking The Week</title><itunes:title>Taking The Week</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Guess What!?</p><p>We Took The week off...</p><p>We'll be back next week with a very special Thanksgiving Episode. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guess What!?</p><p>We Took The week off...</p><p>We'll be back next week with a very special Thanksgiving Episode. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/taking-the-week]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">af321b5a-feac-4852-a053-96c8a24dbe0f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/9e3387d6-61e3-45cf-8c69-5e7a6f895979/soul-prop-week-off.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/af321b5a-feac-4852-a053-96c8a24dbe0f.mp3" length="292850" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>00:21</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>The Weight of Caring Too Much: Protecting Your Energy</title><itunes:title>The Weight of Caring Too Much: Protecting Your Energy</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards unpack the hidden cost of caring too much as a business owner. They explore how passion, the very thing that fuels success, can quietly turn into exhaustion and resentment when boundaries aren't in place.</p><p>Melody shares how taking a week off forced her to see where over-caring had crept in, while Curt reflects on the signs that caring has crossed the line into overextension. Together, they examine what it means to stay invested in your work without letting it consume you.</p><p>They discuss:</p><ul><li>How to recognize when caring is causing burnout</li><li>The emotional toll of being “too available”</li><li>What healthy care looks like versus self-sacrifice</li><li>Simple ways to reclaim energy and perspective</li></ul><br/><p>This conversation challenges entrepreneurs to look honestly at where their energy goes, and to redefine what it means to lead with heart without burning out.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards unpack the hidden cost of caring too much as a business owner. They explore how passion, the very thing that fuels success, can quietly turn into exhaustion and resentment when boundaries aren't in place.</p><p>Melody shares how taking a week off forced her to see where over-caring had crept in, while Curt reflects on the signs that caring has crossed the line into overextension. Together, they examine what it means to stay invested in your work without letting it consume you.</p><p>They discuss:</p><ul><li>How to recognize when caring is causing burnout</li><li>The emotional toll of being “too available”</li><li>What healthy care looks like versus self-sacrifice</li><li>Simple ways to reclaim energy and perspective</li></ul><br/><p>This conversation challenges entrepreneurs to look honestly at where their energy goes, and to redefine what it means to lead with heart without burning out.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/episode-11-]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">6833f6dd-b468-4fd1-9ad1-65fdfdb8ea31</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/d6cce7af-e89e-4db9-819f-9fa915c3f4c1/soul-prop-cover-10.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/6833f6dd-b468-4fd1-9ad1-65fdfdb8ea31.mp3" length="100916583" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>52:14</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2970b47c-a4a2-4089-b83a-f15b18b11b75/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2970b47c-a4a2-4089-b83a-f15b18b11b75/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/2970b47c-a4a2-4089-b83a-f15b18b11b75/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Visionaries vs. Control Freaks: Finding the Balance in Entrepreneurship</title><itunes:title>Visionaries vs. Control Freaks: Finding the Balance in Entrepreneurship</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody explore the intricate relationship between being a visionary and a control freak in entrepreneurship, emphasizing the delicate balance needed to successfully bring ideas to life. They delve into the challenges entrepreneurs face when trying to realize their visions, often battling the impulse to micro-manage their teams while striving for innovative outcomes. The duo reflects on personal experiences and anecdotes, highlighting how their journeys have shaped their understanding of risk, creativity, and the nuances of leadership. They also touch on the importance of delegation, illustrating how a strong integrator can help visionaries maintain focus while allowing others to contribute meaningfully. </p><p>Ultimately, this episode serves as a reminder for entrepreneurs to introspectively evaluate their control tendencies and embrace the collaborative spirit necessary for growth.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody explore the intricate relationship between being a visionary and a control freak in entrepreneurship, emphasizing the delicate balance needed to successfully bring ideas to life. They delve into the challenges entrepreneurs face when trying to realize their visions, often battling the impulse to micro-manage their teams while striving for innovative outcomes. The duo reflects on personal experiences and anecdotes, highlighting how their journeys have shaped their understanding of risk, creativity, and the nuances of leadership. They also touch on the importance of delegation, illustrating how a strong integrator can help visionaries maintain focus while allowing others to contribute meaningfully. </p><p>Ultimately, this episode serves as a reminder for entrepreneurs to introspectively evaluate their control tendencies and embrace the collaborative spirit necessary for growth.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/visionary]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">702327c0-7850-4dae-81c5-173d6c77a344</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/10c50763-077e-49e9-bb7a-56fa67d4f29e/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-3.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/702327c0-7850-4dae-81c5-173d6c77a344.mp3" length="99837813" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>51:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0de71976-17b4-4e67-80be-327c3ef93e74/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0de71976-17b4-4e67-80be-327c3ef93e74/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/0de71976-17b4-4e67-80be-327c3ef93e74/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>You Gotta Let Go to Grow</title><itunes:title>You Gotta Let Go to Grow</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes the hardest part of growth (and leadership) is letting go.</p><p>In this episode, Curt and Melody get honest about what it really takes to evolve your business without betraying your values. They unpack how control, care, and clarity can all coexist — and what happens when holding on too tight starts to suffocate the very growth you’ve been working for. This one’s about trust, boundaries, and the kind of maturity that doesn’t always feel good while it’s happening, but always leads somewhere truer.</p><p><strong>They talk about:</strong></p><ul><li>Why “letting go” isn’t the same as giving up</li><li>How to trust what you’ve already built -the systems, people, and process</li><li>What discernment means in leadership</li><li>The cost (and payoff) of clarity</li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes the hardest part of growth (and leadership) is letting go.</p><p>In this episode, Curt and Melody get honest about what it really takes to evolve your business without betraying your values. They unpack how control, care, and clarity can all coexist — and what happens when holding on too tight starts to suffocate the very growth you’ve been working for. This one’s about trust, boundaries, and the kind of maturity that doesn’t always feel good while it’s happening, but always leads somewhere truer.</p><p><strong>They talk about:</strong></p><ul><li>Why “letting go” isn’t the same as giving up</li><li>How to trust what you’ve already built -the systems, people, and process</li><li>What discernment means in leadership</li><li>The cost (and payoff) of clarity</li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/episode-8-letting-go]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ef799b95-ea29-4865-8fed-3fca854501b3</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/be829c28-2261-47d9-94b8-559645642ac1/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ef799b95-ea29-4865-8fed-3fca854501b3.mp3" length="157338348" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:05:02</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/51b48e9e-baf3-4321-a4c0-22a176686146/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/51b48e9e-baf3-4321-a4c0-22a176686146/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/51b48e9e-baf3-4321-a4c0-22a176686146/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Hidden Costs  of Being a Workaholic: America&apos;s Celebrated Addiction</title><itunes:title>The Hidden Costs  of Being a Workaholic: America&apos;s Celebrated Addiction</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week Curt and Melody are naming the thing so many entrepreneurs quietly wrestle with: workaholism.</p><p>In a culture that glorifies the hustle, they ask, where’s the line between healthy drive and emotional avoidance?They swap stories of burnout, self-sabotage, and the tricky ways “freedom” can turn into just another excuse to stay busy. </p><p>Melody opens up about life after selling her first business (and why she still calls herself a recovering workaholic). Curt shares the year a product launch nearly broke him.</p><p>It’s a candid conversation about how busyness becomes a socially acceptable way to numb, and how to notice the signs before you burn out and hit the wall.</p><p>It's honest, funny, a little raw, and ultimately hopeful.</p><p>If you ever feel guilty for resting, this episode is definitely for you!</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week Curt and Melody are naming the thing so many entrepreneurs quietly wrestle with: workaholism.</p><p>In a culture that glorifies the hustle, they ask, where’s the line between healthy drive and emotional avoidance?They swap stories of burnout, self-sabotage, and the tricky ways “freedom” can turn into just another excuse to stay busy. </p><p>Melody opens up about life after selling her first business (and why she still calls herself a recovering workaholic). Curt shares the year a product launch nearly broke him.</p><p>It’s a candid conversation about how busyness becomes a socially acceptable way to numb, and how to notice the signs before you burn out and hit the wall.</p><p>It's honest, funny, a little raw, and ultimately hopeful.</p><p>If you ever feel guilty for resting, this episode is definitely for you!</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/episode-7-workaholic]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">da637c56-378e-40b7-bfcd-b56645042300</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/a32071f5-3cd1-431c-bc26-17af9ba69594/ep7-workaholic.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/da637c56-378e-40b7-bfcd-b56645042300.mp3" length="183199342" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:15:50</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/70153bcf-1a7c-4b25-9dfd-ab4ac8bacc41/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/70153bcf-1a7c-4b25-9dfd-ab4ac8bacc41/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/70153bcf-1a7c-4b25-9dfd-ab4ac8bacc41/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-4f4f6a75-6fb7-4dfc-a9c7-c74f3923eed1.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>How to Work with AI (Without Losing What Makes You Human)</title><itunes:title>How to Work with AI (Without Losing What Makes You Human)</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody unpack the ethical questions around artificial intelligence in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>. They explore how AI can be both a powerful tool for creativity and productivity, and a challenge to authenticity and human connection.  With humor and honesty, they share personal stories about using AI, touching on fears of job loss, whether it will inspire or destroy creativity, and the risks of over-reliance. </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody unpack the ethical questions around artificial intelligence in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>. They explore how AI can be both a powerful tool for creativity and productivity, and a challenge to authenticity and human connection.  With humor and honesty, they share personal stories about using AI, touching on fears of job loss, whether it will inspire or destroy creativity, and the risks of over-reliance. </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/the-ethical-implications-of-ai]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">e879600a-2962-4dcb-994f-44e2d6d3b442</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/4e0b5e57-3d88-4b9d-9c99-6a6723851c32/Soul-Prop-Episode-Cover-2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e879600a-2962-4dcb-994f-44e2d6d3b442.mp3" length="200881758" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:22:56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/04e5065d-156d-43e1-ad75-1d07f4eb6cb5/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/04e5065d-156d-43e1-ad75-1d07f4eb6cb5/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/04e5065d-156d-43e1-ad75-1d07f4eb6cb5/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Is it God’s Plan, or Your Business Plan?</title><itunes:title>Is it God’s Plan, or Your Business Plan?</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards ask a tough question in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>: is it God guiding decisions, or is it us? They dig into  faith vs personal accountability, sharing real-life stories that challenge traditional beliefs. The conversation explores how to tell the difference between divine inspiration and personal ambition, and why humility and responsibility matter when navigating both faith and business.</p><p>With honesty and humor, they admit the tension of faith and skepticism in their own lives. The episode highlights that faith isn’t a simple answer; it’s an ongoing process of growth, doubt, and discovery. </p><p>Listeners are invited to reflect on their own beliefs and to see both faith and entrepreneurship as journeys shaped by uncertainty, responsibility, and opportunity.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards ask a tough question in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>: is it God guiding decisions, or is it us? They dig into  faith vs personal accountability, sharing real-life stories that challenge traditional beliefs. The conversation explores how to tell the difference between divine inspiration and personal ambition, and why humility and responsibility matter when navigating both faith and business.</p><p>With honesty and humor, they admit the tension of faith and skepticism in their own lives. The episode highlights that faith isn’t a simple answer; it’s an ongoing process of growth, doubt, and discovery. </p><p>Listeners are invited to reflect on their own beliefs and to see both faith and entrepreneurship as journeys shaped by uncertainty, responsibility, and opportunity.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/is-it-god-or-is-it-you]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">54b3fd9c-39dc-423f-a088-a4e33be103cb</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0310b52c-c4fa-4f32-892d-60a92bdaf287/5.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/54b3fd9c-39dc-423f-a088-a4e33be103cb.mp3" length="92639037" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:02:38</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/cf3a20a4-111a-4ace-be96-2cf47a48a76f/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/cf3a20a4-111a-4ace-be96-2cf47a48a76f/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/cf3a20a4-111a-4ace-be96-2cf47a48a76f/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Selling without selling your soul</title><itunes:title>Selling without selling your soul</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody talk about how to sell without losing your integrity in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>. </p><p>They share the common struggle many entrepreneurs face-wanting to help people but fearing sales will make them seem pushy or fake. Melody reflects on how she leans on referrals and avoids traditional sales, while Curt describes how selling services sometimes left him feeling like a fraud.</p><p>Together, they explore how sales can shift from a transaction to a relationship. They stress the importance of believing in what you offer, building trust, and staying aligned with your values. The conversation encourages listeners to see sales differently; showing that genuine, ethical selling creates stronger client relationships and a healthier view of success.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Curt and Melody talk about how to sell without losing your integrity in this episode of <em>The Soul Proprietor Podcast</em>. </p><p>They share the common struggle many entrepreneurs face-wanting to help people but fearing sales will make them seem pushy or fake. Melody reflects on how she leans on referrals and avoids traditional sales, while Curt describes how selling services sometimes left him feeling like a fraud.</p><p>Together, they explore how sales can shift from a transaction to a relationship. They stress the importance of believing in what you offer, building trust, and staying aligned with your values. The conversation encourages listeners to see sales differently; showing that genuine, ethical selling creates stronger client relationships and a healthier view of success.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/selling-without-selling-your-soul]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">04c9ce7d-11df-4f71-aee6-506cd7516833</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/97ce785c-afc3-4d25-9fbf-6ae1deca3ecb/4.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/04c9ce7d-11df-4f71-aee6-506cd7516833.mp3" length="150203886" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:02:15</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fa56acb7-eb8f-462c-a236-abfbcb1058ab/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fa56acb7-eb8f-462c-a236-abfbcb1058ab/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/fa56acb7-eb8f-462c-a236-abfbcb1058ab/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>The Eternal Crisis of Faith: Interview with Melody Edwards</title><itunes:title>The Eternal Crisis of Faith: Interview with Melody Edwards</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Melody doesn't know if she believes in God, But she know's she's going to hell for even thinking it. </p><p>In this episode, she opens up about growing up in a strict evangelical world and how that upbringing planted both deep convictions and deep doubts. She and Curt explore the tension of searching for truth while still carrying the values ingrained from childhood.</p><p>They also dig into how political events can shake long-held beliefs, creating moments of crisis that force a re examination of faith. </p><p>Melody shares candid reflections on identity, doubt, and the weight of cultural expectations around belief.</p><p>More than just a conversation about religion, this episode highlights the struggle of reconciling past and present, the role of community, and the shared human search for meaning in a world full of competing perspectives.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melody doesn't know if she believes in God, But she know's she's going to hell for even thinking it. </p><p>In this episode, she opens up about growing up in a strict evangelical world and how that upbringing planted both deep convictions and deep doubts. She and Curt explore the tension of searching for truth while still carrying the values ingrained from childhood.</p><p>They also dig into how political events can shake long-held beliefs, creating moments of crisis that force a re examination of faith. </p><p>Melody shares candid reflections on identity, doubt, and the weight of cultural expectations around belief.</p><p>More than just a conversation about religion, this episode highlights the struggle of reconciling past and present, the role of community, and the shared human search for meaning in a world full of competing perspectives.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/interview-with-melody]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">22931cbc-43dc-437a-9976-09b2a4055023</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/ec80df81-60fb-4074-9313-7715bcf14f29/3.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/22931cbc-43dc-437a-9976-09b2a4055023.mp3" length="101172878" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>41:39</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/de117a61-7095-4950-8a34-a34b5d228570/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/de117a61-7095-4950-8a34-a34b5d228570/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/de117a61-7095-4950-8a34-a34b5d228570/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-6703a81a-26e3-4d89-9ef7-804a5ebb91f2.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>Milkshakes, Missions, and Meaning: Interview with Curt</title><itunes:title>Milkshakes, Missions, and Meaning: Interview with Curt</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Curt opens up to Melody Edwards in a candid discussion about his journey through faith, spirituality, and their profound impact on his entrepreneurial life. </p><p>Curt opens up about his upbringing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, how it shaped his values and beliefs, and how his ongoing crisis of faith has led him to re-evaluate some of these principles. </p><p>He shares anecdotes about the misconceptions surrounding his faith, while also addressing deeper, often uncomfortable truths about the doctrines he grew up with. As they delve into the nuances of faith and business, Curt highlights the importance of authenticity, integrity, and the courage to question established norms, emphasizing that true growth comes from embracing one's own journey. This thoughtful exchange invites listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the role they play in their personal and professional lives.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> Curt Kempton shares his journey of faith and how it influences his entrepreneurial values and decisions. </li><li> Explore the intersection of personal beliefs and business ethics, emphasizing authenticity and integrity. </li><li> Melody and Curt discuss the change in how the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is perceived and its evolving policies over time. </li><li> Curt explains the significance of family and community in shaping one's spiritual journey and how it impacts business dynamics. </li><li> The conversation highlights the importance of questioning beliefs and being open to new information for personal and professional growth. </li><li> Curt reflects on the complexities of faith during his mission and how it shaped his understanding of spirituality and ethics. </li></ul><br/>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Curt opens up to Melody Edwards in a candid discussion about his journey through faith, spirituality, and their profound impact on his entrepreneurial life. </p><p>Curt opens up about his upbringing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, how it shaped his values and beliefs, and how his ongoing crisis of faith has led him to re-evaluate some of these principles. </p><p>He shares anecdotes about the misconceptions surrounding his faith, while also addressing deeper, often uncomfortable truths about the doctrines he grew up with. As they delve into the nuances of faith and business, Curt highlights the importance of authenticity, integrity, and the courage to question established norms, emphasizing that true growth comes from embracing one's own journey. This thoughtful exchange invites listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the role they play in their personal and professional lives.</p><p>Takeaways:</p><ul><li> Curt Kempton shares his journey of faith and how it influences his entrepreneurial values and decisions. </li><li> Explore the intersection of personal beliefs and business ethics, emphasizing authenticity and integrity. </li><li> Melody and Curt discuss the change in how the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is perceived and its evolving policies over time. </li><li> Curt explains the significance of family and community in shaping one's spiritual journey and how it impacts business dynamics. </li><li> The conversation highlights the importance of questioning beliefs and being open to new information for personal and professional growth. </li><li> Curt reflects on the complexities of faith during his mission and how it shaped his understanding of spirituality and ethics. </li></ul><br/>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/interview-with-curt]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">564daa71-f3e9-41be-9e0e-afe596cea8ae</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/52536e38-0fa9-4762-8a4c-d9c72d82b156/2.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/564daa71-f3e9-41be-9e0e-afe596cea8ae.mp3" length="134143494" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:30:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ddb2d5ae-f326-448a-85a4-86650385240c/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ddb2d5ae-f326-448a-85a4-86650385240c/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/ddb2d5ae-f326-448a-85a4-86650385240c/index.html" type="text/html"/><podcast:chapters url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/chapter-be6b98e6-cfbd-4309-b30a-c62199dcdf4c.json" type="application/json+chapters"/></item><item><title>It’s Just Business</title><itunes:title>It’s Just Business</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p> In this episode, Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards tackle a phrase that strikes a nerve for many entrepreneurs: “It’s just business.” </p><p>What does it really mean when people say this? Is it a harmless way to explain tough decisions, or just a convenient excuse to avoid responsibility for how business impacts real people?</p><p>Curt and Melody dive into their personal experiences, sharing  stories about layoffs, difficult choices, and the challenge of separating emotion from entrepreneurship. </p><p>Along the way, they explore whether you can, or even <em>should, </em>detach your personal values from your business, and why the phrase “it’s just business” so often feels like a dismissal.</p><p>Get ready for honest conversation, a few hard-won lessons, and a fresh look at how business decisions touch our lives. If you’ve ever wondered where to draw the line between what’s personal and what’s “just business,” this is the episode for you.</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> In this episode, Curt Kempton and Melody Edwards tackle a phrase that strikes a nerve for many entrepreneurs: “It’s just business.” </p><p>What does it really mean when people say this? Is it a harmless way to explain tough decisions, or just a convenient excuse to avoid responsibility for how business impacts real people?</p><p>Curt and Melody dive into their personal experiences, sharing  stories about layoffs, difficult choices, and the challenge of separating emotion from entrepreneurship. </p><p>Along the way, they explore whether you can, or even <em>should, </em>detach your personal values from your business, and why the phrase “it’s just business” so often feels like a dismissal.</p><p>Get ready for honest conversation, a few hard-won lessons, and a fresh look at how business decisions touch our lives. If you’ve ever wondered where to draw the line between what’s personal and what’s “just business,” this is the episode for you.</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://soulproprietorpod.com/340-2/its-just-business]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">874cc265-a27b-494e-b3f2-9ca9f2aa1826</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/d904711a-8ae5-46ab-87ca-d45d2033ac8a/1.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/874cc265-a27b-494e-b3f2-9ca9f2aa1826.mp3" length="51775234" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>53:55</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/43325d99-ffd0-400d-93c9-7414ae9e1de8/transcript.json" type="application/json"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/43325d99-ffd0-400d-93c9-7414ae9e1de8/transcript.srt" type="application/srt" rel="captions"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcripts.captivate.fm/transcript/43325d99-ffd0-400d-93c9-7414ae9e1de8/index.html" type="text/html"/></item><item><title>Starting The Soul Proprietor Podcast</title><itunes:title>Starting The Soul Proprietor Podcast</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this bonus clip, Curt and Melody dive into the heart of their podcast journey, sharing their motivation for creating a space where entrepreneurs can explore the deeper aspects of their lives and businesses. They emphasize the importance of understanding the internal drivers behind their entrepreneurial spirit, recognizing that these insights empower them to project their values into the world. </p><p>Their discussions transcend typical business talk, delving into spirituality, ethics, and personal beliefs that shape their unique approaches. Both share a passion for meaningful conversations that challenge conventional business norms while fostering curiosity and vulnerability. </p><p>As they embark on this podcasting adventure, they invite listeners to join them in exploring the intersection of purpose, integrity, and entrepreneurships</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this bonus clip, Curt and Melody dive into the heart of their podcast journey, sharing their motivation for creating a space where entrepreneurs can explore the deeper aspects of their lives and businesses. 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