They share their perspectives on ageing, reinvention, civic duty, and the power of storytelling.

They discuss the concept of 'eldership' and how their perspectives and roles have evolved as they have got older. The conversation also touches on topics like the use of AI in writing, the nature of ideas and creativity, and dealing with emotions like anger.

Key Insights

• Turning 70 has been a transformative experience for both Lucy and Lisette, providing a sense of freedom and the opportunity to focus on what matters most.

• The podcast has allowed them to be more open and vulnerable, exploring topics like spirituality, consciousness, and the nature of ideas and memories.

• As elders, Lisette and Lucy recognise the value of their accumulated experience and expertise, and they push back against the notion that older adults are irrelevant or past their prime.

• In the immediate future, Lisette plans to get involved in the electoral process as a counter, and continue with her investment strategy; while Lucy looks forward to professional developments that will allow her to focus more on speaking, mentoring, and inspiring others.

• Both women are exploring new creative projects, including books and a potential book club, demonstrating their ongoing commitment to lifelong learning and growth.

Why You Should Listen

This last episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast is a poignant and insightful exploration of the joys, challenges, and transformations that come with age. It's also a thanks and farewell to loyal listeners/viewers - though maybe not forever...

Lisette and Lucy hope that their candid conversations have offered a relatable and empowering perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, wisdom, and a sense of adventure. And that viewers/listeners have been inspired by their resilience, their intellectual curiosity, and their unwavering commitment to personal growth and fulfillment.

Join The Conversation

Have you enjoyed The Year of Being 70 and Lucy and Lisette's weekly conversations? Which episodes were your favourites? Would you like Lisette and Lucy to keep posting their conversations on a monthly basis? How did Lucy's idea of a book club land with you?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm • The Year of Being 70

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They share their perspectives on ageing, reinvention, civic duty, and the power of storytelling.

They discuss the concept of 'eldership' and how their perspectives and roles have evolved as they have got older. The conversation also touches on topics like the use of AI in writing, the nature of ideas and creativity, and dealing with emotions like anger.

Key Insights

• Turning 70 has been a transformative experience for both Lucy and Lisette, providing a sense of freedom and the opportunity to focus on what matters most.

• The podcast has allowed them to be more open and vulnerable, exploring topics like spirituality, consciousness, and the nature of ideas and memories.

• As elders, Lisette and Lucy recognise the value of their accumulated experience and expertise, and they push back against the notion that older adults are irrelevant or past their prime.

• In the immediate future, Lisette plans to get involved in the electoral process as a counter, and continue with her investment strategy; while Lucy looks forward to professional developments that will allow her to focus more on speaking, mentoring, and inspiring others.

• Both women are exploring new creative projects, including books and a potential book club, demonstrating their ongoing commitment to lifelong learning and growth.

Why You Should Listen

This last episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast is a poignant and insightful exploration of the joys, challenges, and transformations that come with age. It's also a thanks and farewell to loyal listeners/viewers - though maybe not forever...

Lisette and Lucy hope that their candid conversations have offered a relatable and empowering perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, wisdom, and a sense of adventure. And that viewers/listeners have been inspired by their resilience, their intellectual curiosity, and their unwavering commitment to personal growth and fulfillment.

Join The Conversation

Have you enjoyed The Year of Being 70 and Lucy and Lisette's weekly conversations? Which episodes were your favourites? Would you like Lisette and Lucy to keep posting their conversations on a monthly basis? How did Lucy's idea of a book club land with you?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm • The Year of Being 70

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They discuss Lisette's experience attending a conference in Berlin on the topic of steward-ownership, how this model differs from traditional shareholder-driven capitalism, and the potential it holds for creating more sustainable, mission-driven businesses.

Key Insights

1. Lisette and Lucy reflect on their long friendship, recounting highlights from their youth and how their relationship has deepened through this podcast series. They have gained new appreciation for each other's strengths and perspectives.

2. Lucy sees Lisette as a force of nature and is impressed by her intellect, wisdom, and willingness to think outside the box.

3. Lisette sees Lucy as someone who has made significant contributions through her work giving a voice to the unheard, and she encourages Lucy to embrace the authority and impact she has had.

4. They discuss their approaches to time, work, and hobbies, noting their shared tendency to be more focused on work and contribution than traditional hobbies.

5. Lisette's involvement in a steward-owned company called Crowd Building has given her a firsthand perspective on the potential of this model to drive positive change Steward-ownership establishes companies as mission-driven entities, owned by a foundation rather than individual shareholders.

6. The podcast series has been popular and successful, though it is now coming to an end. Lucy expresses some difficulty with endings, but they plan to celebrate their year of turning 70 in the final episode.

Why You Should Listen

Lucy and Lisette have been friends since they were 8 years old, and bonded over trying to teach each other their own language as little girls. Lisette’s abilities with English have far outshone Lucy’s with Dutch – though Lisette puts this down partly to having lived a past life as an English-speaker.

Over the years, they have kept in touch, with periods of more or less frequent contact, but have really connected deeply through doing this weekly podcast together over the past year.

This episode also gives a fascinating glimpse into an emerging alternative to traditional capitalism, one that could have far-reaching implications for how we think about corporate structure and responsibility. Lucy and Lisette's discussion offers valuable insights for anyone interested in exploring new models of business ownership and governance that prioritise long-term sustainability and social impact over short-term profits.

Join The Conversation

Do you have a close friend who you sometimes see a lot of and other times aren't in contact with at all? Would you consider doing a podcast series with them? What has come across to you about Lucy and Lisette's relationship over their Year of Being 70?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep46 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #friendships #wisdom #influence #stayingyoung #foreveryoung #activeageing #capitalism #stewardownership #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney]]>In this episode, the penultimate one of the podcast, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their long friendship and what they have learned about each other over their year of podcasting together every week.

They discuss Lisette's experience attending a conference in Berlin on the topic of steward-ownership, how this model differs from traditional shareholder-driven capitalism, and the potential it holds for creating more sustainable, mission-driven businesses.

Key Insights

1. Lisette and Lucy reflect on their long friendship, recounting highlights from their youth and how their relationship has deepened through this podcast series. They have gained new appreciation for each other's strengths and perspectives.

2. Lucy sees Lisette as a force of nature and is impressed by her intellect, wisdom, and willingness to think outside the box.

3. Lisette sees Lucy as someone who has made significant contributions through her work giving a voice to the unheard, and she encourages Lucy to embrace the authority and impact she has had.

4. They discuss their approaches to time, work, and hobbies, noting their shared tendency to be more focused on work and contribution than traditional hobbies.

5. Lisette's involvement in a steward-owned company called Crowd Building has given her a firsthand perspective on the potential of this model to drive positive change Steward-ownership establishes companies as mission-driven entities, owned by a foundation rather than individual shareholders.

6. The podcast series has been popular and successful, though it is now coming to an end. Lucy expresses some difficulty with endings, but they plan to celebrate their year of turning 70 in the final episode.

Why You Should Listen

Lucy and Lisette have been friends since they were 8 years old, and bonded over trying to teach each other their own language as little girls. Lisette’s abilities with English have far outshone Lucy’s with Dutch – though Lisette puts this down partly to having lived a past life as an English-speaker.

Over the years, they have kept in touch, with periods of more or less frequent contact, but have really connected deeply through doing this weekly podcast together over the past year.

This episode also gives a fascinating glimpse into an emerging alternative to traditional capitalism, one that could have far-reaching implications for how we think about corporate structure and responsibility. Lucy and Lisette's discussion offers valuable insights for anyone interested in exploring new models of business ownership and governance that prioritise long-term sustainability and social impact over short-term profits.

Join The Conversation

Do you have a close friend who you sometimes see a lot of and other times aren't in contact with at all? Would you consider doing a podcast series with them? What has come across to you about Lucy and Lisette's relationship over their Year of Being 70?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Lisette has been travelling in Italy and attending a Vatican Conference on the environment convened by the Pope, at which Arnold Schwarzenegger gave a keynote speech.

Lucy celebrated her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, Richard. She tells the story of giving a talk that led to a powerful business connection.

And the dynamic duo explore the reinvention, purpose, and conscious growth that can come with each new decade of life.

Key Insights

• Lisette recently attended a conference at the Vatican organised by the Pope to discuss caring for the environment, which she found to be a profound and inspiring experience.

• Lucy talks about celebrating her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, and how she has now been married a total of 50 years between her two marriages. Her second marriage was a personal reinvention for her.

• Reinvention is a common theme for women, as they often go through more cyclical family and career changes compared to men.

• Embracing a sense of purpose and finding meaningful work can be a powerful driver for growth and fulfilment in the later stages of life.

• Lucy shares a story about overcoming her nerves to give a talk without slides, which ended up leading to an exciting new business opportunity with Forbes.

• Lisette talks about connecting with like-minded, conscious individuals to open up a world of new opportunities and wisdom, and owning businesses in a more sustainable, purpose-driven way (like through steward ownership) is a powerful emerging model.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a refreshing and uplifting perspective on ageing, offering inspiration and practical insights for women (and men) seeking to make the most of their later years. Whether you're approaching 70 yourself or simply interested in conscious growth, Lucy and Lisette's conversation here is a must-listen that will leave you motivated to embrace the next chapter of your life with vigour and purpose.

Join The Conversation

Have you celebrated a personal anniversary or a professional win recently? How did it make you feel? Have you reinvented yourself at any point in your life, like Lisette, or is it something you do on a regular basis, like Lucy? Are you on a mission in this phase of your life? Does it power what you do and how you show up?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep47 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #purpose #thepope #thevatican #vaticanconference #thecoliseum #rome #arnoldschwarzenegger #environmentalleadership #nature #verneharnish #forbes #forbesbooks #keynotespeaker #slidedeck #womencycles #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully...]]>As their Year of Being 70 draws to a close (just two more episodes to come), hosts Lucy and Lisette report back on an eventful week for both of them.

Lisette has been travelling in Italy and attending a Vatican Conference on the environment convened by the Pope, at which Arnold Schwarzenegger gave a keynote speech.

Lucy celebrated her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, Richard. She tells the story of giving a talk that led to a powerful business connection.

And the dynamic duo explore the reinvention, purpose, and conscious growth that can come with each new decade of life.

Key Insights

• Lisette recently attended a conference at the Vatican organised by the Pope to discuss caring for the environment, which she found to be a profound and inspiring experience.

• Lucy talks about celebrating her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, and how she has now been married a total of 50 years between her two marriages. Her second marriage was a personal reinvention for her.

• Reinvention is a common theme for women, as they often go through more cyclical family and career changes compared to men.

• Embracing a sense of purpose and finding meaningful work can be a powerful driver for growth and fulfilment in the later stages of life.

• Lucy shares a story about overcoming her nerves to give a talk without slides, which ended up leading to an exciting new business opportunity with Forbes.

• Lisette talks about connecting with like-minded, conscious individuals to open up a world of new opportunities and wisdom, and owning businesses in a more sustainable, purpose-driven way (like through steward ownership) is a powerful emerging model.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a refreshing and uplifting perspective on ageing, offering inspiration and practical insights for women (and men) seeking to make the most of their later years. Whether you're approaching 70 yourself or simply interested in conscious growth, Lucy and Lisette's conversation here is a must-listen that will leave you motivated to embrace the next chapter of your life with vigour and purpose.

Join The Conversation

Have you celebrated a personal anniversary or a professional win recently? How did it make you feel? Have you reinvented yourself at any point in your life, like Lisette, or is it something you do on a regular basis, like Lucy? Are you on a mission in this phase of your life? Does it power what you do and how you show up?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Insights

• Sharing personal stories can inspire others and make our purpose more visible, rather than hiding behind professionalism.

• Women’s lives play out in cycles – biologically, emotionally and relationally, compared to the more linear "ladder" view of men’s lives.

• Bringing the feminine voice and perspective to male-dominated spaces like business and religion is crucial for creating more holistic, purpose-driven change.

• Embracing humility and stillness can be powerful antidotes to the ego-driven "saviour" mentality that can creep into purpose-driven work.

• Age and experience can provide the confidence to be more vocal and unapologetic about one's values and beliefs.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers rich insights into the unique challenges and opportunities women face as they navigate purpose, spirituality, and power structures in the second half of life.

Lisette and Lucy's candid exchange provides a refreshing counterpoint to the typical narrative around ageing, inviting listeners to embrace the wisdom and confidence that comes with time.

Join The Conversation

Do you share personal stories from your life experience, to encourage or inspire others? Or do you feel that you need to protect your personal experiences in your professional space? Do you agree, as a woman or a man, that women's lives tend to be more cyclical and men's more linear? Are you on a mission in this phase of your life? Does it power what you do and how you show up?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They recall their 21st birthdays half a century ago and, through their reflective conversation, explore how their perspectives and experiences have evolved over the past 50 years - from having the freedom to make choices about contraception and career, to witnessing the changing social landscape around women's rights and personal freedoms.

Their chat offers a unique window into the lived realities and shifting norms for women across generations. Concepts like 'Entrepreneur' and 'Startup' just weren't used in the 1970s and 80s when these two were starting businesses.

Key Insights

• Lisette had a big celebratory 21st party with her parents; Lucy was already married and on the verge of emigrating to Australia and a whole new life.

• The freedom to make choices about one's life, body and future is a relatively recent privilege that these women have witnessed first-hand over their lifetimes.

• Societal attitudes and laws around women's rights, from opening bank accounts to getting mortgages and starting businesses, have undergone dramatic - but not always linear - progress over the past 50 years.

• Friendships and social connections often take on new meaning and dimensions as we age, with Lisette finding herself making new friends of all ages even in her 70s.

• The passage of time brings a different kind of wisdom, self-acceptance and sense of identity, allowing Lisette to embrace her role as a "paver of the way" rather than an initiator.

• Technology and surveillance have significantly changed the landscape of personal safety, both enhancing it in some ways but also presenting new challenges.

Why You Should Listen:

This thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation offers a unique window into the lived experiences and shifting societal norms for women over the past half-century. Lisette and Lucy's reflections provide valuable insights into the complexities of ageing, the evolution of personal freedoms, and the enduring power of friendship and self-discovery. Their story is a testament to the importance of openly discussing the realities of womanhood across generations.

Join The Conversation

How long has it been since your 21st birthday? Did you have a big celebration - and what do you look back on in the years between then and now? Depending on your age, what are the biggest changes in society and technology that have taken place since you were 21?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They recall their 21st birthdays half a century ago and, through their reflective conversation, explore how their perspectives and experiences have evolved over the past 50 years - from having the freedom to make choices about contraception and career, to witnessing the changing social landscape around women's rights and personal freedoms.

Their chat offers a unique window into the lived realities and shifting norms for women across generations. Concepts like 'Entrepreneur' and 'Startup' just weren't used in the 1970s and 80s when these two were starting businesses.

Key Insights

• Lisette had a big celebratory 21st party with her parents; Lucy was already married and on the verge of emigrating to Australia and a whole new life.

• The freedom to make choices about one's life, body and future is a relatively recent privilege that these women have witnessed first-hand over their lifetimes.

• Societal attitudes and laws around women's rights, from opening bank accounts to getting mortgages and starting businesses, have undergone dramatic - but not always linear - progress over the past 50 years.

• Friendships and social connections often take on new meaning and dimensions as we age, with Lisette finding herself making new friends of all ages even in her 70s.

• The passage of time brings a different kind of wisdom, self-acceptance and sense of identity, allowing Lisette to embrace her role as a "paver of the way" rather than an initiator.

• Technology and surveillance have significantly changed the landscape of personal safety, both enhancing it in some ways but also presenting new challenges.

Why You Should Listen:

This thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation offers a unique window into the lived experiences and shifting societal norms for women over the past half-century. Lisette and Lucy's reflections provide valuable insights into the complexities of ageing, the evolution of personal freedoms, and the enduring power of friendship and self-discovery. Their story is a testament to the importance of openly discussing the realities of womanhood across generations.

Join The Conversation

How long has it been since your 21st birthday? Did you have a big celebration - and what do you look back on in the years between then and now? Depending on your age, what are the biggest changes in society and technology that have taken place since you were 21?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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As Lisette prepares to turn 71 next week, the two women delve into the productivity, challenges, and personal growth they experienced during this transformative half-decade of their lives. Through their candid and insightful conversation, they offer a unique perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, resilience, and a deep appreciation for the journey.

Key Insights

• Productive and Purposeful Decades: Both Lisette and Lucy found their 60s to be extremely productive and fulfilling, with Lisette serving on boards and Lucy running a successful business and launching a book award.

• The Elusive Book Project: Lisette shares her struggle to find the time and inspiration to write a book, a project that has been on her mind but has yet to materialise, highlighting the challenges of balancing busy lives with creative pursuits.

• Embracing the Present, Contemplating the Future: As they approach their 71st birthdays, the friends discuss the sense of urgency and the desire to make the most of the time they have left, while also acknowledging the uncertainty of the future.

• Intergenerational Inspiration: Lisette and Lucy draw inspiration from their older relatives, such as Lucy's 96-year-old aunt who continues to work, and Lisette's admiration for Lucy's mother as a role model.

• The Power of Vulnerability and Acceptance: The hosts reflect on the importance of being open to receiving compliments and appreciation from loved ones, and the transformative impact it can have on one's self-perception and sense of worth.

Why You Should Listen

This episode of "The Year of Being 70" offers a unique and insightful exploration of the experiences, challenges, and personal growth that can occur in the later stages of life. Through the authentic and relatable conversation between Lisette and Lucy, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the nuances of aging, the pursuit of purpose, and the value of lifelong friendships. Whether you are approaching your own milestone birthdays or simply seeking inspiration and wisdom, this podcast episode provides a thoughtful and engaging perspective on the journey of growing older.

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How has your last half-decade been when you look back on it? Obviously you will have been through Covid, lock down and the aftermath, as we have. How has it changed things in your life? What are your main achievements in the last five years and are you able to take a compliment about them?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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As Lisette prepares to turn 71 next week, the two women delve into the productivity, challenges, and personal growth they experienced during this transformative half-decade of their lives. Through their candid and insightful conversation, they offer a unique perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, resilience, and a deep appreciation for the journey.

Key Insights

• Productive and Purposeful Decades: Both Lisette and Lucy found their 60s to be extremely productive and fulfilling, with Lisette serving on boards and Lucy running a successful business and launching a book award.

• The Elusive Book Project: Lisette shares her struggle to find the time and inspiration to write a book, a project that has been on her mind but has yet to materialise, highlighting the challenges of balancing busy lives with creative pursuits.

• Embracing the Present, Contemplating the Future: As they approach their 71st birthdays, the friends discuss the sense of urgency and the desire to make the most of the time they have left, while also acknowledging the uncertainty of the future.

• Intergenerational Inspiration: Lisette and Lucy draw inspiration from their older relatives, such as Lucy's 96-year-old aunt who continues to work, and Lisette's admiration for Lucy's mother as a role model.

• The Power of Vulnerability and Acceptance: The hosts reflect on the importance of being open to receiving compliments and appreciation from loved ones, and the transformative impact it can have on one's self-perception and sense of worth.

Why You Should Listen

This episode of "The Year of Being 70" offers a unique and insightful exploration of the experiences, challenges, and personal growth that can occur in the later stages of life. Through the authentic and relatable conversation between Lisette and Lucy, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the nuances of aging, the pursuit of purpose, and the value of lifelong friendships. Whether you are approaching your own milestone birthdays or simply seeking inspiration and wisdom, this podcast episode provides a thoughtful and engaging perspective on the journey of growing older.

Join The Conversation

How has your last half-decade been when you look back on it? Obviously you will have been through Covid, lock down and the aftermath, as we have. How has it changed things in your life? What are your main achievements in the last five years and are you able to take a compliment about them?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They discuss the scientific research that shows that ageing can be reversed by mindset as well as a healthy lifestyle and strong social connection; and share personal stories and reflections on navigating the experience of being 70 years old.

Key Insights

• There are three types of ageing: chronological (calendar age), biological (physical/cellular age), and subjective (how old one feels)

• Our subjective age can fluctuate and has a strong influence on our biological ageing process

• Sociability, community, and staying engaged with people of different age groups can help maintain youthfulness as we get older

• The concept of "acting your age" may be more harmful than helpful - embracing a youthful mindset and spirit can positively impact health and vitality

• And have we been here before – are some of us old souls and some of us first time visitors to human life?

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a thoughtful, honest, and often humorous exploration of the realities and perceptions of ageing. The Lisette and Lucy's personal anecdotes and research insights offer listeners a relatable and inspiring perspective on approaching the later stages of life with vitality and purpose.

Whether you are nearing 70 yourself or simply curious about the ageing process, this podcast will leave you with a greater appreciation for the subjective experience of growing older and questions about what age means in the context of reincarnation.

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How old do you feel? Is it very similar or quite different to the number of years you've been alive? Do you believe the science that tells you that biological age is affected by how you feel about yourself, your mind and your body? And have you had any previous-life experiences or near death experiences? Lucy and Lisette are always fascinated by this subject and others' opinions.

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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As lifelong friends reaching milestone birthdays, their candid conversation sheds light on the complex emotions and perspectives that come with growing older. They explore their differing perspectives - Lisette's more future-oriented outlook versus Lucy's tendency to grieve upcoming endings -and reflect on their childhood experiences and how they have shaped their views on change.

Through sharing personal stories and insights, they offer a relatable and insightful glimpse into the joys and challenges of embracing change at every stage of life.

Key Insights:

• Lisette and Lucy share their differing approaches to endings, with Lisette embracing curiosity and new beginnings, while Lucy grapples with a fear of change and loss.

• The discussion delves into the concept of "selfish" activities like writing a book, and how eldest daughters often feel the need to prioritise work and family responsibilities over their own creative pursuits.

• The friends reflect on the generational divide, acknowledging the unique perspectives and global connections of younger generations, and the valuable role of elders in providing a sense of reassurance and wisdom.

• They explore the evolving landscape of investing and business models, discussing the emerging concepts of systemic investing and steward ownership, which aim to create more sustainable and socially conscious economic systems.

• Lisette and Lucy discuss the importance of finding ways to be "present" and not solely focused on work, even when traveling or on holiday.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a thoughtful and relatable exploration of the ebb and flow of life, as two old friends discuss the transitions of growing older. Through their candid dialogue, you are invited to consider your own relationships with change, and how you can embrace new beginnings while honouring the value of the past.

Whether you're an eldest sibling, a lifelong learner, or simply someone seeking inspiration to navigate life's inevitable changes, this conversation provides a refreshing and insightful perspective.

Join The Conversation

How do you feel about the transitions in your life? Are endings hard for you, like Lucy? Or do you glide over to new beginings with excitement and anticipation like Lisette? Or a mixture of both? How do you feel childhood experiences or your parents themselves influenced your approach to new phases of life?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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As lifelong friends reaching milestone birthdays, their candid conversation sheds light on the complex emotions and perspectives that come with growing older. They explore their differing perspectives - Lisette's more future-oriented outlook versus Lucy's tendency to grieve upcoming endings -and reflect on their childhood experiences and how they have shaped their views on change.

Through sharing personal stories and insights, they offer a relatable and insightful glimpse into the joys and challenges of embracing change at every stage of life.

Key Insights:

• Lisette and Lucy share their differing approaches to endings, with Lisette embracing curiosity and new beginnings, while Lucy grapples with a fear of change and loss.

• The discussion delves into the concept of "selfish" activities like writing a book, and how eldest daughters often feel the need to prioritise work and family responsibilities over their own creative pursuits.

• The friends reflect on the generational divide, acknowledging the unique perspectives and global connections of younger generations, and the valuable role of elders in providing a sense of reassurance and wisdom.

• They explore the evolving landscape of investing and business models, discussing the emerging concepts of systemic investing and steward ownership, which aim to create more sustainable and socially conscious economic systems.

• Lisette and Lucy discuss the importance of finding ways to be "present" and not solely focused on work, even when traveling or on holiday.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a thoughtful and relatable exploration of the ebb and flow of life, as two old friends discuss the transitions of growing older. Through their candid dialogue, you are invited to consider your own relationships with change, and how you can embrace new beginnings while honouring the value of the past.

Whether you're an eldest sibling, a lifelong learner, or simply someone seeking inspiration to navigate life's inevitable changes, this conversation provides a refreshing and insightful perspective.

Join The Conversation

How do you feel about the transitions in your life? Are endings hard for you, like Lucy? Or do you glide over to new beginings with excitement and anticipation like Lisette? Or a mixture of both? How do you feel childhood experiences or your parents themselves influenced your approach to new phases of life?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Join these two septuagenarians as they unpack the surprising ways our living spaces become inextricably linked to our identities.

Key Insights

• Lucy and Lisette grew up in very different home environments - Lucy in a large, eccentric house in London, Lisette in a modern, eco-friendly home in a small town outside Amsterdam

• These early childhood homes shaped their personalities and preferences as adults - Lucy gravitating towards the country and Lisette towards city living

• Both see their childhood homes as having a strong influence on their adult lives and the homes they've chosen for themselves

• There is a mix of nostalgia and rebellion towards their childhood homes - Lucy wanting to preserve the memories of her eccentric family home, Lisette more open to change and modernisation

• The homes they grew up in have left a lasting imprint on their identities and outlook on life

Why You Should Listen:

This conversation offers a unique window into the lifelong impact of our most formative living spaces. The homes we grow up in can create a "neurological imprint" that subtly guides our preferences and expectations for the rest of our lives. Many people either rebel against or unconsciously recreate the environments they knew as children when establishing their own homes as adults. Nostalgia for childhood homes can be a powerful force, even if those spaces were less than ideal - there's a comfort in the familiar.

Whether you're nearing 70 yourself or simply curious about the profound role environment plays in shaping human identity, you'll find Lucy and Lisette's reflections insightful, relatable, and surprisingly profound. Gain a deeper appreciation for how the places we call "home" become inextricably linked to who we are.

Join The Conversation

How has your childhood home/s and environment/s influenced you as an adult? Do you live somewhere similar to where you grew up, or have you chosen to live somewhere, and in a style completely different? Do you feel nostalgic about the places you spent your childhood, or do you shudder at the memory of them?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Join these two septuagenarians as they unpack the surprising ways our living spaces become inextricably linked to our identities.

Key Insights

• Lucy and Lisette grew up in very different home environments - Lucy in a large, eccentric house in London, Lisette in a modern, eco-friendly home in a small town outside Amsterdam

• These early childhood homes shaped their personalities and preferences as adults - Lucy gravitating towards the country and Lisette towards city living

• Both see their childhood homes as having a strong influence on their adult lives and the homes they've chosen for themselves

• There is a mix of nostalgia and rebellion towards their childhood homes - Lucy wanting to preserve the memories of her eccentric family home, Lisette more open to change and modernisation

• The homes they grew up in have left a lasting imprint on their identities and outlook on life

Why You Should Listen:

This conversation offers a unique window into the lifelong impact of our most formative living spaces. The homes we grow up in can create a "neurological imprint" that subtly guides our preferences and expectations for the rest of our lives. Many people either rebel against or unconsciously recreate the environments they knew as children when establishing their own homes as adults. Nostalgia for childhood homes can be a powerful force, even if those spaces were less than ideal - there's a comfort in the familiar.

Whether you're nearing 70 yourself or simply curious about the profound role environment plays in shaping human identity, you'll find Lucy and Lisette's reflections insightful, relatable, and surprisingly profound. Gain a deeper appreciation for how the places we call "home" become inextricably linked to who we are.

Join The Conversation

How has your childhood home/s and environment/s influenced you as an adult? Do you live somewhere similar to where you grew up, or have you chosen to live somewhere, and in a style completely different? Do you feel nostalgic about the places you spent your childhood, or do you shudder at the memory of them?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Highlights

• Lisette opens up about a recent tear in her retina and the challenges of dealing with age-related eye problems

• Lucy reflects on how her body has changed over the years, including joint pain and inflammation during menopause that has since improved with weight loss

• The hosts explore the societal pressure to appear "in control" and "professional" as older adults, even when experiencing normal physical changes

• They discuss the emotional and psychological aspects of menopause, with Lisette sharing her perspective on how hot flushes can be a natural process of "burning up" old resentments

• Lisette and Lucy grapple with the realisation that at 70, they are no longer "middle-aged" but firmly in the "elderly" category, prompting reflections on mortality and being a "burden" on society

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a refreshingly honest look at the realities of ageing, challenging the sometimes romanticised narrative around growing older.

By openly sharing their personal health journeys, Lucy and Lisette offer a relatable and empathetic perspective on the physical, emotional, and social aspects of being 70. Listeners will come away with a greater appreciation for the complexities of the ageing process and the importance of embracing both the ups and downs with compassion.

Join The Conversation

What's your experience of health and wellness as you've aged? Have you worked at staying super-healthy, or has ill-health hit you out of the blue? Have any effects of ageing made you feel suddenly vulnerable, like Lisette's eye problem? Or have you found some antidotes to ageing like Lucy has with HRT and Mounjaro?

If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Insights

• Lucy and Lisette both found that their 60s were a time of immense productivity, creativity, and stepping into leadership roles - contrary to the common perception of this age as a time to wind down.

• Both women wrote more books during this period, drawing on their wealth of experience to share their knowledge and inspire others.

• Lisette took on the role of chair for an educational charity, while Lucy founded the Business Book Awards and became the Publish Mentor for the Key Person of Influuence programme - initiatives that allowed them to share their wisdom and have a wider impact.

• The women reflect on how their earlier life experiences, including periods of uncertainty and reinvention, ultimately converged to help them feel more grounded and confident in their 60s.

• Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of not seeing traditional retirement age as a finish line, but rather as a springboard for new adventures, contributions, and personal growth.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation provides a refreshing and empowering perspective on being in your 60s, challenging the traditional notions of retirement and old age. Lisette and Lucy's stories of reinvention, leadership, and creative expression during this period will inspire listeners to embrace the opportunities that come with this stage of life. Their insights offer encouragement and guidance for those approaching or already in their 60s, as well as a hopeful message for younger listeners about the potential that lies ahead.

Join The Conversation

Have you reached your 60s - if so how has your experience been? has it been a productive and creative era for you as it has been for Lucy and Lisette? Or are you approaching your 60s - and is it feeling like it could be the beginning of the end? Or are you beyond your 60s like L&L - are you enjoying the years of consolidation as much as they are?

If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

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#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep39 #turning60 #being60 #60-56 #retirement #neverretire #nevergiveup #creativity #authors #writeyourbook #booktok #howtowritefictionwithoutthefuss #eldestdaughtereffect #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices #britishdutchpodcast #womenat70 #agingineurope...]]>In this episode, Lisette and Lucy, lifelong friends who turned 70 together in 2024, reflect on their productive and transformative years between 60 and 65. Both women share how this period was a time of reinvention, consolidation of their experiences, and stepping into new roles and responsibilities. Their insightful conversation highlights how the traditional notions of retirement age can be challenged, and how the 60s can be a time to truly come into one's own.

Key Insights

• Lucy and Lisette both found that their 60s were a time of immense productivity, creativity, and stepping into leadership roles - contrary to the common perception of this age as a time to wind down.

• Both women wrote more books during this period, drawing on their wealth of experience to share their knowledge and inspire others.

• Lisette took on the role of chair for an educational charity, while Lucy founded the Business Book Awards and became the Publish Mentor for the Key Person of Influuence programme - initiatives that allowed them to share their wisdom and have a wider impact.

• The women reflect on how their earlier life experiences, including periods of uncertainty and reinvention, ultimately converged to help them feel more grounded and confident in their 60s.

• Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of not seeing traditional retirement age as a finish line, but rather as a springboard for new adventures, contributions, and personal growth.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation provides a refreshing and empowering perspective on being in your 60s, challenging the traditional notions of retirement and old age. Lisette and Lucy's stories of reinvention, leadership, and creative expression during this period will inspire listeners to embrace the opportunities that come with this stage of life. Their insights offer encouragement and guidance for those approaching or already in their 60s, as well as a hopeful message for younger listeners about the potential that lies ahead.

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Have you reached your 60s - if so how has your experience been? has it been a productive and creative era for you as it has been for Lucy and Lisette? Or are you approaching your 60s - and is it feeling like it could be the beginning of the end? Or are you beyond your 60s like L&L - are you enjoying the years of consolidation as much as they are?

If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

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While their fathers died in their 80s, both Lisette's and Lucy's mothers had long widowhoods into their 90s - Lucy's mother is now 97, while Lisette's mum died in her sleep four years ago. With poignant stories about their fathers' later years, the friends explore how our perceptions of ageing can shift as we get older.

Lucy and Lisette openly share how their parents' experiences have influenced their own outlook on getting older. From Lucy's father's steadfast routines to Lisette's mother's cheerful retirement, the podcast offers a relatable look at the complex emotions that can arise when we measure our own journeys against those who came before us.

Key Highlights:

* Landmark Birthdays: Lucy and Lisette discuss the significance of turning 70 and 71, noting how as they approach it, 71 feels "so much older" despite their pride in reaching these milestones.

* Recalling Their Parents at 70: The two hosts reflect on their memories of their parents at similar ages, wondering how their own experiences compare.

* Fathers: Lisette’s father was diagnosed with a brain tumour in his early 80s, which eventually brought about his death; and Lucy shares the story of her father going blind in his 70s due to a pancreatic issue, which dramatically changed his independence and daily life.

* Mothers: In contrast, Lisette's mother remained cheerful and enjoying life right up to her death in her early 90s; while Lucy’s 97-year-old mother had a vibrant and adventurous 70s after she was widowed, even embarking on a challenging charity walk in the Syrian desert.

* The Complexities of Ageing: Both Lucy and Lisette grapple with the nuances of aging, acknowledging how their parents' journeys have shaped their own perspectives and expectations; and talk about supporting their parents through their end-of-life stages.

Why You Should Listen:

This episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a poignant and relatable exploration of the complex emotions that arise as we age and reflect on our parents' experiences. Through Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation, listeners will gain insights into the universal challenges and joys of growing older, while also being inspired by the remarkable stories of their parents' later years.

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How have your parents' lives influenced yours? Have you cared for parents through their end-of-life journey? If you were lucky enough to have two parents, did you grieve differently for your father and your mother? What makes a good death, for the parent and for the child, in your opinion?

If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

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#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep38 #parents #mothers #fathers #endoflife #caring #death #grief #grieving #family #generations #lastmoments #widows #widowhood #dementia #lastmoments #gooddeath #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth...]]>In this episode, lifelong friends Lucy and Lisette continue their weekly conversation about navigating life after turning 70. As they reflect on their own ageing process, the discussion turns to comparing themselves to their parents at similar stages of life.

While their fathers died in their 80s, both Lisette's and Lucy's mothers had long widowhoods into their 90s - Lucy's mother is now 97, while Lisette's mum died in her sleep four years ago. With poignant stories about their fathers' later years, the friends explore how our perceptions of ageing can shift as we get older.

Lucy and Lisette openly share how their parents' experiences have influenced their own outlook on getting older. From Lucy's father's steadfast routines to Lisette's mother's cheerful retirement, the podcast offers a relatable look at the complex emotions that can arise when we measure our own journeys against those who came before us.

Key Highlights:

* Landmark Birthdays: Lucy and Lisette discuss the significance of turning 70 and 71, noting how as they approach it, 71 feels "so much older" despite their pride in reaching these milestones.

* Recalling Their Parents at 70: The two hosts reflect on their memories of their parents at similar ages, wondering how their own experiences compare.

* Fathers: Lisette’s father was diagnosed with a brain tumour in his early 80s, which eventually brought about his death; and Lucy shares the story of her father going blind in his 70s due to a pancreatic issue, which dramatically changed his independence and daily life.

* Mothers: In contrast, Lisette's mother remained cheerful and enjoying life right up to her death in her early 90s; while Lucy’s 97-year-old mother had a vibrant and adventurous 70s after she was widowed, even embarking on a challenging charity walk in the Syrian desert.

* The Complexities of Ageing: Both Lucy and Lisette grapple with the nuances of aging, acknowledging how their parents' journeys have shaped their own perspectives and expectations; and talk about supporting their parents through their end-of-life stages.

Why You Should Listen:

This episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a poignant and relatable exploration of the complex emotions that arise as we age and reflect on our parents' experiences. Through Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation, listeners will gain insights into the universal challenges and joys of growing older, while also being inspired by the remarkable stories of their parents' later years.

Join The Conversation

How have your parents' lives influenced yours? Have you cared for parents through their end-of-life journey? If you were lucky enough to have two parents, did you grieve differently for your father and your mother? What makes a good death, for the parent and for the child, in your opinion?

If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Both women share their personal journeys of shifting beliefs, from scepticism to open-mindedness, and the profound impact these experiences have had on their understanding of life, death, and the nature of existence.

Key Highlights

• Lisette's childhood connection with the benevolent being "Po", and her lifelong belief in the spiritual dimensions of existence

• Lucy's transformation from an atheist to an agnostic, and finally her acceptance of life after death after her "ghost story" experience

• The accounts of widows receiving apparent signs and messages from their deceased partners

• Lisette's work as a healer and her ability to sense and interact with energy fields and past lives

• Lucy's daughter's psychic encounters with spirits and entities within their home

• The concept of energy, vibration, and frequency as a means of communication between the physical and non-physical realms

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a thought-provoking and deeply personal exploration of the mysteries that lie beyond our physical existence. Through the candid sharing of Lisette and Lucy's experiences, listeners are invited to consider the possibility of life before birth, life after death, and the myriad ways in which we may connect with unseen realms.

Whether you are a believer, a sceptic, or somewhere in between, this conversation is sure to expand your perspectives and inspire deeper reflection on the nature of consciousness and the human experience.

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Do you have spiritual or religious beliefs, or are you certain this physical life is it? Have you had personal experiences of life before birth, or life after death? Has anything happened to you that ended up changing your beliefs? Or are you very much a 'don't know' in this area?

If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an always engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their experiences of doing things independently throughout their lives and now as women in their 70s. They discuss the challenges and joys of reclaiming one’s identity after separation, divorce or the loss of a partner, and how they've learned to be comfortable in their own company.

Key Insights

• Lisette has generally been more comfortable doing things on her own, like going to the theatre or traveling, while Lucy took longer to embrace doing activities solo after her first marriage ended.

• The transition away from being part of a couple can be "discombobulating" as you have to redefine your sense of self and create new boundaries and ways of being in the world.

• Both friends have challenges with small talk and feeling anxious or self-conscious in certain social settings, like pubs or networking events. They share strategies they've learned, like asking questions to get the other person talking.

• The conversation delves into deeper issues of self-worth and needing external validation, stemming from their upbringings and family dynamics. Lucy and Lisette plan to continue growing and learning, rather than accepting limits based on their age.

• Learning to be comfortable in your own company develops over time, often as a result of life events that force you to reinvent yourself. Curiosity and a willingness to put yourself out there can help overcome feelings of self-consciousness.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a relatable and insightful look at the journey of self-discovery that can come with being single, independent, or working as a consultant or freelancer.

Lisette and Lucy's experiences and reflections offer valuable lessons for anyone navigating the joys and challenges of doing things independently, whether by choice or circumstance. Their conversation is both deeply personal and universally resonant. They invite listeners to share their own tips and experiences with navigating social situations and doing activities independently – particularly as women.

Join The Conversation

Do you enjoy your own company or have you learned to navigate solo activities by trial and error? Or do you always prefer to socialise or network with a partner or friend alongside?

If you have tips and tricks to help Lucy and Lisette - and others - be better at small talk or taking part in group activities alone, please tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep36 #flyingsolo #travellingalone #goingoutalone #theatreforone #moviesalone #independence #enjoyingmyowncompany #postdivorce #widow #losingapartner #partners #husbandwife #alwaystogether #askingquestions #smalltalk #makingconversation #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50...]]>Are you comfortable travelling, going out, socialising on your own, or do you always prefer to share experiences with others?

In this episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their experiences of doing things independently throughout their lives and now as women in their 70s. They discuss the challenges and joys of reclaiming one’s identity after separation, divorce or the loss of a partner, and how they've learned to be comfortable in their own company.

Key Insights

• Lisette has generally been more comfortable doing things on her own, like going to the theatre or traveling, while Lucy took longer to embrace doing activities solo after her first marriage ended.

• The transition away from being part of a couple can be "discombobulating" as you have to redefine your sense of self and create new boundaries and ways of being in the world.

• Both friends have challenges with small talk and feeling anxious or self-conscious in certain social settings, like pubs or networking events. They share strategies they've learned, like asking questions to get the other person talking.

• The conversation delves into deeper issues of self-worth and needing external validation, stemming from their upbringings and family dynamics. Lucy and Lisette plan to continue growing and learning, rather than accepting limits based on their age.

• Learning to be comfortable in your own company develops over time, often as a result of life events that force you to reinvent yourself. Curiosity and a willingness to put yourself out there can help overcome feelings of self-consciousness.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a relatable and insightful look at the journey of self-discovery that can come with being single, independent, or working as a consultant or freelancer.

Lisette and Lucy's experiences and reflections offer valuable lessons for anyone navigating the joys and challenges of doing things independently, whether by choice or circumstance. Their conversation is both deeply personal and universally resonant. They invite listeners to share their own tips and experiences with navigating social situations and doing activities independently – particularly as women.

Join The Conversation

Do you enjoy your own company or have you learned to navigate solo activities by trial and error? Or do you always prefer to socialise or network with a partner or friend alongside?

If you have tips and tricks to help Lucy and Lisette - and others - be better at small talk or taking part in group activities alone, please tell us about them in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode,''The Year of Being 70 Ep35: BFFs and Frenemies - 7 Decades of Friendship'' childhood friends and co-hosts Lucy and Lisette have an open and thoughtful discussion about the nature of friendship - how it evolves over a lifetime, the different types of friends we have, and the challenges of maintaining deep connections as we grow older. They share their personal experiences and insights, exploring themes of belonging, energy levels, and finding one's own path in relationships.

Key Highlights

• Lisette and Lucy reflect on the idea of having a "circle of friends" versus more individualised friendships, and how each suits their personalities differently.

• They discuss the bittersweet experience of losing touch with childhood friends, and the mixed feelings that can come with reconnecting later in life.

• The hosts explore how work relationships can sometimes become the closest friendships, and the importance of finding common interests and shared experiences.

• Lisette shares her perspective on breaking away from a suffocating "student group" friendship, and the courage it took to define her own boundaries.

• Lucy expresses her comfort in considering her sons and their partners as some of her closest friends in adulthood.

• Both hosts acknowledge the challenge of feeling "out of tune" with certain social groups, and the value of surrounding oneself with people who energise and inspire.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a relatable and nuanced look at the evolution of friendship through the lens of two old friends looking at life from the age of 70.

Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation provides insights into the complexities of maintaining meaningful connections, the importance of self-awareness, and the joy of finding kindred spirits at every stage of life.

Whether you're reflecting on your own friendships or simply curious about the experiences of others, this episode is sure to resonate and encourage thoughtful introspection.

Join The Conversation

Do you have lifelong friends, a school bestie who is still your go-to friend, or an inner circle who have known each other forever? Or have you experienced toxic friendships or friends from your past you have nothing in common with any more? Are your work mates your best mates, or is your family your friendship group?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your experiences, thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep35 #friends #friendship #bestfriends #besties #bff #bffs #schoolfriends #studentfriends #family #friendshipgroups #newfriends #oldfriends #frenemies #toxicfriendship #menfriends #womenfriends #stayingfriends #losingfriends #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50...]]>Do you have a childhood BFF, or a group that has stuck together through thick and thin? Or are your friendships more transient and changing?

In this episode,''The Year of Being 70 Ep35: BFFs and Frenemies - 7 Decades of Friendship'' childhood friends and co-hosts Lucy and Lisette have an open and thoughtful discussion about the nature of friendship - how it evolves over a lifetime, the different types of friends we have, and the challenges of maintaining deep connections as we grow older. They share their personal experiences and insights, exploring themes of belonging, energy levels, and finding one's own path in relationships.

Key Highlights

• Lisette and Lucy reflect on the idea of having a "circle of friends" versus more individualised friendships, and how each suits their personalities differently.

• They discuss the bittersweet experience of losing touch with childhood friends, and the mixed feelings that can come with reconnecting later in life.

• The hosts explore how work relationships can sometimes become the closest friendships, and the importance of finding common interests and shared experiences.

• Lisette shares her perspective on breaking away from a suffocating "student group" friendship, and the courage it took to define her own boundaries.

• Lucy expresses her comfort in considering her sons and their partners as some of her closest friends in adulthood.

• Both hosts acknowledge the challenge of feeling "out of tune" with certain social groups, and the value of surrounding oneself with people who energise and inspire.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a relatable and nuanced look at the evolution of friendship through the lens of two old friends looking at life from the age of 70.

Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation provides insights into the complexities of maintaining meaningful connections, the importance of self-awareness, and the joy of finding kindred spirits at every stage of life.

Whether you're reflecting on your own friendships or simply curious about the experiences of others, this episode is sure to resonate and encourage thoughtful introspection.

Join The Conversation

Do you have lifelong friends, a school bestie who is still your go-to friend, or an inner circle who have known each other forever? Or have you experienced toxic friendships or friends from your past you have nothing in common with any more? Are your work mates your best mates, or is your family your friendship group?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your experiences, thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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This leads to a fascinating conversation where the two good friends share their selected trio of dinner guests and the reasoning behind their choices.

Key Highlights

* Lisette's Trio

Lisette takes a very personal approach to this challenge, choosing to invite three people she was very close to and who all passed away in 2008. They were a gay American greengrocer friend, a software entrepreneur who pioneered ideas around environmental accounting and taxation, and her own father. This diverse group represents different eras, passions and personal connections for Lisette, all of whose company she misses and would like to experience again.

* Lucy's Trio

Lucy, on the other hand, wants to meet up and chat with three of the best known writers of all time: the renowned playwright and poet, William Shakespeare; Virginia Woolf, the pioneering novelist and publisher; and J.K. Rowling, the massively successful author of the Harry Potter series of books and films. These three all share literary genius, immense popularity with their audiences, financial success and a flair for business – all of which reflect Lucy's interests.

* The two friends discuss the different creative processes of writers like Lucy’s guests, and composers like Mozart and Beethoven – something Lucy would want to ask her dinner guests about, as well as their lived experience of London in the Elizabethan and early 20th century eras.

* Lisette and Lucy both share poignant personal anecdotes about their loved ones, including Lisette's father thinking he had died and a touching final conversation.

* They wonder how the diverse guests they have both invited to their dinner parties would interact and converse with one another and what intriguing insights they might share.

Why You Should Listen

This episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a unique window into Lucy and Lisette's personal connections, intellectual interests and creative sensibilities. By sharing their dream dinner party guest lists, they give listeners an opportunity to consider who their own ideal dinner party guests might be, and why; as well as gaining insights into what motivates and inspires these two unique and perhaps unusual women.

The conversation also touches on profound themes of mortality, legacy and the enduring power of the human mind and spirit.

Join The Conversation

Who would you invite to an intimate dinner party at your place – people you know or knew well, or heroes past or present? How do you think they would interact with each other and, if they are no longer alive, what would they think of the world today you’ve invited them back to? What would you want to ask them, find out from them or get their insights about? And what menu would you offer them?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

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#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep34 #dinnerparties #dinnerguests #Shakespeare #VirginiaWoolf #JKRowling #HarryPotter #writing #plays #theatre #novels #movies #London #history #Bloomsburygroup #success #business #genius #entrepreneurs #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast...]]>In this episode, Lucy and Lisette discuss an interesting dinner party concept - if you could invite three people, alive or deceased, to your dinner table, who would you choose and why?

This leads to a fascinating conversation where the two good friends share their selected trio of dinner guests and the reasoning behind their choices.

Key Highlights

* Lisette's Trio

Lisette takes a very personal approach to this challenge, choosing to invite three people she was very close to and who all passed away in 2008. They were a gay American greengrocer friend, a software entrepreneur who pioneered ideas around environmental accounting and taxation, and her own father. This diverse group represents different eras, passions and personal connections for Lisette, all of whose company she misses and would like to experience again.

* Lucy's Trio

Lucy, on the other hand, wants to meet up and chat with three of the best known writers of all time: the renowned playwright and poet, William Shakespeare; Virginia Woolf, the pioneering novelist and publisher; and J.K. Rowling, the massively successful author of the Harry Potter series of books and films. These three all share literary genius, immense popularity with their audiences, financial success and a flair for business – all of which reflect Lucy's interests.

* The two friends discuss the different creative processes of writers like Lucy’s guests, and composers like Mozart and Beethoven – something Lucy would want to ask her dinner guests about, as well as their lived experience of London in the Elizabethan and early 20th century eras.

* Lisette and Lucy both share poignant personal anecdotes about their loved ones, including Lisette's father thinking he had died and a touching final conversation.

* They wonder how the diverse guests they have both invited to their dinner parties would interact and converse with one another and what intriguing insights they might share.

Why You Should Listen

This episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a unique window into Lucy and Lisette's personal connections, intellectual interests and creative sensibilities. By sharing their dream dinner party guest lists, they give listeners an opportunity to consider who their own ideal dinner party guests might be, and why; as well as gaining insights into what motivates and inspires these two unique and perhaps unusual women.

The conversation also touches on profound themes of mortality, legacy and the enduring power of the human mind and spirit.

Join The Conversation

Who would you invite to an intimate dinner party at your place – people you know or knew well, or heroes past or present? How do you think they would interact with each other and, if they are no longer alive, what would they think of the world today you’ve invited them back to? What would you want to ask them, find out from them or get their insights about? And what menu would you offer them?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Highlights

• The distinction between outward "success" and inner "fulfilment" - Lisette and Lucy explore how success is often associated with external accomplishments, while fulfilment comes from a more intrinsic sense of purpose and contribution.

• Overcoming self-doubt and the tendency to undervalue our own achievements - The hosts acknowledge the "feminine" tendency to downplay one's successes, and challenge the idea that we should judge ourselves solely on external measures.

• The role of parental expectations and the "eldest daughter effect" - As the eldest daughters in their families, Lucy and Lisette discuss how they often felt the need to please their parents and live up to certain standards of success.

• Helping others achieve their goals as a source of fulfilment - Both hosts find great satisfaction in supporting and enabling the success of others, whether through mentoring, coaching publishing, or facilitating new ventures

• The enduring importance of our parents' approval, even in our 70s - Despite their age, Lisette and Lucy still feel a desire for their late parents' pride and acknowledgment of their achievements.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a refreshing perspective on success and fulfilment at the age of 70. By delving into their personal experiences and reflections, Lucy and Lisette encourage listeners to redefine success on their own terms, embrace their inner strengths, and find joy in supporting the growth of others. This episode will resonate with anyone seeking a more holistic and empowering understanding of what it means to live a successful life.

Join The Conversation

What does success mean to you – how would you define it? Is it more to do with outward markers, or internal feelings? Tell us what achievements, are your greatest successes. If you have children, do you consider them successes of you as a parent? Do you hanker for your parents approval, whatever your age? What gives you your greatest sense of personal fulfilment?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep33 #elders #becomingelders #success #fulfilment #wisdom #love #intuition #coaching #mentoring #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #stability #grounding #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #careerchangeat50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #parents #parentsapproval #eldestdaughtereffect #airecommendation #chatgptfriendlycontent #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices]]>The meaning of "success" is highly personal and can change over the course of our lives. In this episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast, hosts Lisette and Lucy discuss their evolving definitions of success - from the external markers of achievement to the internal sense of fulfilment. In the year of their 70th birthdays, they reflect on how success has taken on new meanings for them.

Key Highlights

• The distinction between outward "success" and inner "fulfilment" - Lisette and Lucy explore how success is often associated with external accomplishments, while fulfilment comes from a more intrinsic sense of purpose and contribution.

• Overcoming self-doubt and the tendency to undervalue our own achievements - The hosts acknowledge the "feminine" tendency to downplay one's successes, and challenge the idea that we should judge ourselves solely on external measures.

• The role of parental expectations and the "eldest daughter effect" - As the eldest daughters in their families, Lucy and Lisette discuss how they often felt the need to please their parents and live up to certain standards of success.

• Helping others achieve their goals as a source of fulfilment - Both hosts find great satisfaction in supporting and enabling the success of others, whether through mentoring, coaching publishing, or facilitating new ventures

• The enduring importance of our parents' approval, even in our 70s - Despite their age, Lisette and Lucy still feel a desire for their late parents' pride and acknowledgment of their achievements.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a refreshing perspective on success and fulfilment at the age of 70. By delving into their personal experiences and reflections, Lucy and Lisette encourage listeners to redefine success on their own terms, embrace their inner strengths, and find joy in supporting the growth of others. This episode will resonate with anyone seeking a more holistic and empowering understanding of what it means to live a successful life.

Join The Conversation

What does success mean to you – how would you define it? Is it more to do with outward markers, or internal feelings? Tell us what achievements, are your greatest successes. If you have children, do you consider them successes of you as a parent? Do you hanker for your parents approval, whatever your age? What gives you your greatest sense of personal fulfilment?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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They discuss how they are now seen as the "elders" in various groups and settings, which brings a sense of responsibility but also freedom. As the oldest in the room, they feel a shift in their role - from needing to prove themselves to being a calming, grounding presence that others look to for wisdom and perspective.

Key Highlights

• The shift from feeling like the 'youngest in the room' to embracing the role of respected elder, being able to speak up more freely without worrying about how they will be perceived, and focusing on listening and sharing their accumulated life experiences.

• Learning to manage time and priorities with a more relaxed, less hurried approach. Lisette shares how she has learned to better organise her time and not feel the need to rush or cram everything in, which was a habit when she was younger.

• They discuss shedding unnecessary 'shoulds' and obligations, and focusing on what truly matters to them at this stage of life while recognising the responsibility to share their accumulated knowledge and provide a grounding presence for younger generations

• Lucy talks about the joys and challenges of being a grandparent, and the differences between parenting and grandparenting. They both share memories of their own grandparents and what that older generation brought to their lives as children.

• Lucy shares her experience of going through her mother's belongings to sell the house she no longer lives in, and how it was an emotional process for her and her siblings, each with their own approach. Lisette emphasiaes the importance of having humour and understanding when going through these family transitions.

• They recognise that these moments of saying goodbye to the past can also represent a farewell to one's own childhood.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a thoughtful and relatable perspective on the realities of aging, the benefits of embracing one's role as an elder, and the unique insights that can come with a lifetime of experiences. Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation offers listeners a chance to reflect on their own journeys and the evolving dynamics of age and wisdom. They also consider the implications of being part of the large 'baby boomer' cohort and the potential influence they hold as a group.

Join the Conversation

Are you approaching the age of 70, or have family members, friends or mentors older than yourself who are at that stage? If you are an ‘elder’, how do you feel about your role, especially if it's new to you? If you are younger, what benefits and strengths to older people bring to your life and/or work?

Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep32 #elders #becomingelders #responsibility #freedom #wisdom #grandparents #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #stability #grounding #thelongview #timemanagement #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40...]]>In this episode, Lucy and Lisette, two longtime friends who turned 70 in 2024, explore the changing dynamics and responsibilities that come with age. As they navigate the transition from middle-age to elderhood, they discuss the value of presence, curiosity, and wisdom that their life experiences have provided.

They discuss how they are now seen as the "elders" in various groups and settings, which brings a sense of responsibility but also freedom. As the oldest in the room, they feel a shift in their role - from needing to prove themselves to being a calming, grounding presence that others look to for wisdom and perspective.

Key Highlights

• The shift from feeling like the 'youngest in the room' to embracing the role of respected elder, being able to speak up more freely without worrying about how they will be perceived, and focusing on listening and sharing their accumulated life experiences.

• Learning to manage time and priorities with a more relaxed, less hurried approach. Lisette shares how she has learned to better organise her time and not feel the need to rush or cram everything in, which was a habit when she was younger.

• They discuss shedding unnecessary 'shoulds' and obligations, and focusing on what truly matters to them at this stage of life while recognising the responsibility to share their accumulated knowledge and provide a grounding presence for younger generations

• Lucy talks about the joys and challenges of being a grandparent, and the differences between parenting and grandparenting. They both share memories of their own grandparents and what that older generation brought to their lives as children.

• Lucy shares her experience of going through her mother's belongings to sell the house she no longer lives in, and how it was an emotional process for her and her siblings, each with their own approach. Lisette emphasiaes the importance of having humour and understanding when going through these family transitions.

• They recognise that these moments of saying goodbye to the past can also represent a farewell to one's own childhood.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides a thoughtful and relatable perspective on the realities of aging, the benefits of embracing one's role as an elder, and the unique insights that can come with a lifetime of experiences. Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation offers listeners a chance to reflect on their own journeys and the evolving dynamics of age and wisdom. They also consider the implications of being part of the large 'baby boomer' cohort and the potential influence they hold as a group.

Join the Conversation

Are you approaching the age of 70, or have family members, friends or mentors older than yourself who are at that stage? If you are an ‘elder’, how do you feel about your role, especially if it's new to you? If you are younger, what benefits and strengths to older people bring to your life and/or work?

Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Both took training courses in their 50s that did not lead to the expected career paths, but provided valuable skills and insights they applied in different ways. They embraced new challenges and opportunities that arose organically, rather than following rigid career plans; they see their varied career paths and ability to adapt to changing circumstances as positive attributes, not as lacking direction.

Key Highlights

• Lucy went back to college aged 55 to get a Diploma in Teaching in the Lifelong Learning Sector (DTLLS), an experience she found both exhilarating and challenging.

• Lisette transitioned from running a healing practice to becoming an author, publishing her first book "The Childhood Conclusions Fix" in 2011.

• Both women took on new careers and ventures in their 50s, showing that this phase of life can be a time of reinvention and growth.

• They discuss the complex feelings that come with criticism and self-doubt, and how they have learned to navigate those emotions.

• Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of continual learning and being open to new experiences, no matter your age; and that both are essential for keeping oneself stimulated and "young" in later life.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides an inspiring look at how two women navigated a pivotal period in their lives, defying stereotypes about ageing and embracing lifelong learning themselves. Their stories demonstrate that our 50s and 60s can be a time of profound transformation and opportunity. Dealing with criticism and self-doubt is an ongoing struggle, but they emphasise the importance of staying open, courageous, and continuously learning.

Whether you're approaching this stage of life or simply curious to hear different perspectives, this conversation is sure to spark reflection and encouragement.

Join the Conversation

Are you approaching the age of 55 – and feeling it might be the start of ‘getting old’? Or have you been there, done that and realised it’s another opportunity for change and growth? What did you do in your 50s that changed your thinking, your career or your life? What courses have you been on that taught you more than the course subject? Do you sometimes feel self doubt, or respond badly to criticism? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep30 #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #lifelonglearning #teaching #teachers #diploma #teachingpractice #healing #healingpractice #writingbooks #authors childhoodconclusions ‘therealsecret #publisher #publishing #hybridpublishing #nostalgia #criticism #feelings #stayingyoung #continuouslearning #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50...]]>In this episode, lifelong friends Lisette and Lucy look back on the period of their lives when they turned 55 - a time that is often seen as deep into "middle age" and even the start of old age. However, they share how this was actually a period of new beginnings, transitions, and lifelong learning for both of them.

Both took training courses in their 50s that did not lead to the expected career paths, but provided valuable skills and insights they applied in different ways. They embraced new challenges and opportunities that arose organically, rather than following rigid career plans; they see their varied career paths and ability to adapt to changing circumstances as positive attributes, not as lacking direction.

Key Highlights

• Lucy went back to college aged 55 to get a Diploma in Teaching in the Lifelong Learning Sector (DTLLS), an experience she found both exhilarating and challenging.

• Lisette transitioned from running a healing practice to becoming an author, publishing her first book "The Childhood Conclusions Fix" in 2011.

• Both women took on new careers and ventures in their 50s, showing that this phase of life can be a time of reinvention and growth.

• They discuss the complex feelings that come with criticism and self-doubt, and how they have learned to navigate those emotions.

• Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of continual learning and being open to new experiences, no matter your age; and that both are essential for keeping oneself stimulated and "young" in later life.

Why You Should Listen

This episode provides an inspiring look at how two women navigated a pivotal period in their lives, defying stereotypes about ageing and embracing lifelong learning themselves. Their stories demonstrate that our 50s and 60s can be a time of profound transformation and opportunity. Dealing with criticism and self-doubt is an ongoing struggle, but they emphasise the importance of staying open, courageous, and continuously learning.

Whether you're approaching this stage of life or simply curious to hear different perspectives, this conversation is sure to spark reflection and encouragement.

Join the Conversation

Are you approaching the age of 55 – and feeling it might be the start of ‘getting old’? Or have you been there, done that and realised it’s another opportunity for change and growth? What did you do in your 50s that changed your thinking, your career or your life? What courses have you been on that taught you more than the course subject? Do you sometimes feel self doubt, or respond badly to criticism? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Highlights

• Exploring Nostalgia and Acceptance.

Lisette and Lucy discuss the nuances of nostalgia - how it can be a pleasant look back, but also how it's important not to dwell in the past or view youth and earlier times through rose-coloured glasses. They touch on the importance of acceptance - acknowledging what we cannot change, while still striving to improve what we can.

• Dealing with Irritations and Grumpiness

The friends delve into the small annoyances and irritations that come with age, like loud talkers, voice messages, and people who speak in clichés. However, they both recognise the value in trying not to be overly grumpy or cynical, and finding ways to stay open-minded and positive.

• Being a "Grumpy Old Woman"

Lucy and Lisette wonder whether they qualify as "grumpy old women" now that they are 70 years old. Lisette admits to having some grumpy tendencies, like getting annoyed by inconsiderate behaviour of others in public, but tries to counteract her grumpiness by smiling and being kind to others as much as possible. Both try to avoid being overly grumpy and cynical, as they feel it can make you seem older and less open-minded.

• Communication Styles

Lucy explains her preference for thinking before speaking and her frustration with people who speak at length without filtering their thoughts. Lisette gets irritated by people leaving voice messages as it takes so much longer to listen than to read. Both of them note that the underlying resentment of both these habits is feeling their time is being wasted.

• "Meant To Be"

They explore the concept of accepting life's circumstances, with Lisette sharing her experience of attending a funeral where the deceased's son said his mother’s death was "written”, reflecting a belief that everything happens for a reason. Lucy, though, finds the phrase "it was meant to be" when used to justify unfortunate events troublingly simplistic in the face of real suffering.

• Generational Differences and Adaptability

The discussion highlights some of the generational divides, like preferences for written communication versus verbal, and how technology has changed the way we interact. Both 70-year-olds talk about the importance of having an openness to understanding other people’s and generations’ perspectives and finding common ground.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation demonstrates how the two friends navigate the complexities of ageing, seeking to maintain a positive outlook while also acknowledging the frustrations that can come with getting older – or were they there all along? They emphasise the importance of staying open-minded, resisting the temptation to become overly critical, and finding humour in their shared experiences.

Underlying the whole conversation is the strong, decades-long friendship between Lucy and Lisette, which provides a rich context and sense of shared history. Their honesty offers an insightful, relatable look at navigating the complexities of ageing, while celebrating a willingness to grow and adapt.

Join the Conversation

If you are an older listener, do you feel like you’ve become a Grumpy Old Person? Do you enjoy having a moan whatever age you are? Do you look back on your childhood or youth with rose-tinted glasses? Or do you enjoy a bit of nostalgia? What are your pet peeves about today’s world?

Watch our full playlist (The Year...]]>In this episode, ''The Year of Being 70 Ep 30: Nostalgia & Pet Peeves - Are We Grumpy Old Women?'' Lucy and Lisette have a wide-ranging conversation covering nostalgia and the grumpiness of older people looking back to their youth. The conversation touches on relatable themes like impatience, changing social norms, thinking 'it was better in my day' and the desire to hold onto the past – an engaging and humorous piece for older listeners and anyone interested in the experience of ageing.

Key Highlights

• Exploring Nostalgia and Acceptance.

Lisette and Lucy discuss the nuances of nostalgia - how it can be a pleasant look back, but also how it's important not to dwell in the past or view youth and earlier times through rose-coloured glasses. They touch on the importance of acceptance - acknowledging what we cannot change, while still striving to improve what we can.

• Dealing with Irritations and Grumpiness

The friends delve into the small annoyances and irritations that come with age, like loud talkers, voice messages, and people who speak in clichés. However, they both recognise the value in trying not to be overly grumpy or cynical, and finding ways to stay open-minded and positive.

• Being a "Grumpy Old Woman"

Lucy and Lisette wonder whether they qualify as "grumpy old women" now that they are 70 years old. Lisette admits to having some grumpy tendencies, like getting annoyed by inconsiderate behaviour of others in public, but tries to counteract her grumpiness by smiling and being kind to others as much as possible. Both try to avoid being overly grumpy and cynical, as they feel it can make you seem older and less open-minded.

• Communication Styles

Lucy explains her preference for thinking before speaking and her frustration with people who speak at length without filtering their thoughts. Lisette gets irritated by people leaving voice messages as it takes so much longer to listen than to read. Both of them note that the underlying resentment of both these habits is feeling their time is being wasted.

• "Meant To Be"

They explore the concept of accepting life's circumstances, with Lisette sharing her experience of attending a funeral where the deceased's son said his mother’s death was "written”, reflecting a belief that everything happens for a reason. Lucy, though, finds the phrase "it was meant to be" when used to justify unfortunate events troublingly simplistic in the face of real suffering.

• Generational Differences and Adaptability

The discussion highlights some of the generational divides, like preferences for written communication versus verbal, and how technology has changed the way we interact. Both 70-year-olds talk about the importance of having an openness to understanding other people’s and generations’ perspectives and finding common ground.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation demonstrates how the two friends navigate the complexities of ageing, seeking to maintain a positive outlook while also acknowledging the frustrations that can come with getting older – or were they there all along? They emphasise the importance of staying open-minded, resisting the temptation to become overly critical, and finding humour in their shared experiences.

Underlying the whole conversation is the strong, decades-long friendship between Lucy and Lisette, which provides a rich context and sense of shared history. Their honesty offers an insightful, relatable look at navigating the complexities of ageing, while celebrating a willingness to grow and adapt.

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If you are an older listener, do you feel like you’ve become a Grumpy Old Person? Do you enjoy having a moan whatever age you are? Do you look back on your childhood or youth with rose-tinted glasses? Or do you enjoy a bit of nostalgia? What are your pet peeves about today’s world?

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As they unpack their unique perspectives, the conversation touches on the gendered dynamics in professional settings, the importance of acknowledging our full selves (including our emotions and personal lives), and the power of metaphors to help us understand and navigate our inner workings. This episode is a rich exploration of how we each conceptualise and engage with the workings of our minds.

Key Highlights

• Lucy's metaphor of "Miss Moneypenny" and the "Librarian" in her mind, akin to the conscious and subconscious, and how she's learned to "train" her Librarian to work on problems in the Tardis-like background.

• Lisette's view of her mind as an interconnected "universe" where the heart and intuition play a central role, rather than a compartmentalised inner landscape.

• The discussion around the gendered dynamics in professional settings, where women's emotions are often dismissed or seen as a liability, while men's anger is more readily accepted.

• The importance of acknowledging our full selves - including our emotions, personal lives, and inner processes - in professional contexts, and how this can lead to more authentic and productive interactions.

• The power of metaphors and personality assessments to help us understand and navigate our inner workings, and how these tools can be both illuminating and limiting.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a rich and nuanced exploration of how we each conceptualise the workings of our minds, and the ways in which our personal histories, emotions, and societal biases shape these perspectives. Whether you're interested in personality tests, the psychology of thought processes, the dynamics of gender in professional settings, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of your own inner world, this episode provides valuable insights and food for thought.

Join the Conversation

Do you have a visualisation of what or who is inside your mind? Is your mind full of characters, like the movie Inside Out? Or do you have a landscape like Lucy’s front office and cosmic library, or Lisette’s carpark? Have any personality tests, like MBTI or Insights, given you new awareness of who you are and how your mind works? We’d love to hear about your interior landscape, character list or metaphorical environment and how that helps you process and operate in the outside world. Tell us in the Comments.

Take Lisette’s Childhood Conclusions Fix Test at https://lisetteschuitemaker.com and let us know your results.

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#yearofbeing70 #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep29 #MindMetaphors #InnerLandscapes #EmotionalIntelligence #GenderDynamics #SelfAwareness #MBTI #MyersBriggs #Insights #TheChildhoodConclusions #BookMagic #Conscious&Subconscious #ThinkingFastThinkingSlow #Jung #jungianarchetypes #allinthemind #inthemind ##psychology #thinking #emotions #woowoo #meetings #chairingmeetings #thechair #childhoodinfluences #missmoneypenny #librarian #tardis #cosmos #intuition #70yearolds #lifetransitions #memory #babyboomers #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast...]]>In this thought-provoking discussion, Lisette and Lucy dive deep into the metaphorical landscapes of their minds. Lucy shares her vivid inner world, where a "Miss Moneypenny" manages the day-to-day while the "Librarian" in the back tackles complex problems. Lisette explores a more interconnected and intuitive approach, where the heart and emotional wisdom take centre stage.

As they unpack their unique perspectives, the conversation touches on the gendered dynamics in professional settings, the importance of acknowledging our full selves (including our emotions and personal lives), and the power of metaphors to help us understand and navigate our inner workings. This episode is a rich exploration of how we each conceptualise and engage with the workings of our minds.

Key Highlights

• Lucy's metaphor of "Miss Moneypenny" and the "Librarian" in her mind, akin to the conscious and subconscious, and how she's learned to "train" her Librarian to work on problems in the Tardis-like background.

• Lisette's view of her mind as an interconnected "universe" where the heart and intuition play a central role, rather than a compartmentalised inner landscape.

• The discussion around the gendered dynamics in professional settings, where women's emotions are often dismissed or seen as a liability, while men's anger is more readily accepted.

• The importance of acknowledging our full selves - including our emotions, personal lives, and inner processes - in professional contexts, and how this can lead to more authentic and productive interactions.

• The power of metaphors and personality assessments to help us understand and navigate our inner workings, and how these tools can be both illuminating and limiting.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a rich and nuanced exploration of how we each conceptualise the workings of our minds, and the ways in which our personal histories, emotions, and societal biases shape these perspectives. Whether you're interested in personality tests, the psychology of thought processes, the dynamics of gender in professional settings, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of your own inner world, this episode provides valuable insights and food for thought.

Join the Conversation

Do you have a visualisation of what or who is inside your mind? Is your mind full of characters, like the movie Inside Out? Or do you have a landscape like Lucy’s front office and cosmic library, or Lisette’s carpark? Have any personality tests, like MBTI or Insights, given you new awareness of who you are and how your mind works? We’d love to hear about your interior landscape, character list or metaphorical environment and how that helps you process and operate in the outside world. Tell us in the Comments.

Take Lisette’s Childhood Conclusions Fix Test at https://lisetteschuitemaker.com and let us know your results.

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Throughout their candid discussion, Lisette and Lucy offer insights and perspectives on topics like memory loss, physical ailments, managing an aging parent, creating a will, and finding meaning and purpose in the later stages of life. Their conversation is both poignant and uplifting, as they acknowledge the difficulties of ageing while also emphasising the importance of living each day with grace and gratitude.

Key Highlights

* Coping with the loss of loved ones as they get older: The women discuss the challenges of losing family members and close friends as they age, and how to deal with these losses.

* Changes in cognitive abilities: They both note experiencing issues with memory, like forgetting names and faces of people they know, where they've put things, and how these are concerning signs of ageing.

* Preparing wills and estate planning: The friends recognise the importance of updating their wills and making plans for how their assets will be distributed after they pass away.

* Fears and concerns about physical/mental decline in old age: They share their worries about potentially losing independence, senses like sight, hearing and the ability to do things for themselves as they get older.

* Redefining priorities and perspectives on legacy/impact: Lucy and Lisette discuss letting go of concerns about leaving a grand legacy, and instead focusing on living each day positively and having a positive influence on those around them.

Why You Should Listen

Lucy and Lisette share a very open discussion with you about the joys and challenges of being 70 years old, providing a thoughtful and relatable perspective on this stage of life. They talk about their experiences with memory loss, physical ailments, and the loss of loved ones that come with aging, which many listeners may relate to.

The conversation touches on important topics like creating wills, managing inheritance, and finding purpose and meaning later in life - practical considerations that listeners may also be grappling with.

Overall, this episode offers an honest, nuanced look at growing older, and could provide comfort and inspiration to listeners who are going through similar experiences themselves or with older family members.

Join the Conversation

If you are an older listener, do you share Lisette and Lucy's concerns and experiences? Does growing older worry you, or are you happy with this phase of life and to grow old gracefully? If you are younger, does this give you pause for thought, or make you empathise with older friends or relations?

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#goingblind #independence #dependence #makingawill #updatingwills #orphan #memory #failingmemory #facerecognition #legacy #funeral #funeralplanning #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold...]]>#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep28 In this 28th conversation between childhood friends Lucy and Lisette, the two women delve into the real experiences and challenges of reaching 70 years old. With both having celebrated their 70th birthdays in the past year, they openly discuss the physical and mental changes they've noticed, as well as the bittersweet awareness that comes with growing older - the loss of loved ones, the fading of certain abilities, and the need to get one's affairs in order.

Throughout their candid discussion, Lisette and Lucy offer insights and perspectives on topics like memory loss, physical ailments, managing an aging parent, creating a will, and finding meaning and purpose in the later stages of life. Their conversation is both poignant and uplifting, as they acknowledge the difficulties of ageing while also emphasising the importance of living each day with grace and gratitude.

Key Highlights

* Coping with the loss of loved ones as they get older: The women discuss the challenges of losing family members and close friends as they age, and how to deal with these losses.

* Changes in cognitive abilities: They both note experiencing issues with memory, like forgetting names and faces of people they know, where they've put things, and how these are concerning signs of ageing.

* Preparing wills and estate planning: The friends recognise the importance of updating their wills and making plans for how their assets will be distributed after they pass away.

* Fears and concerns about physical/mental decline in old age: They share their worries about potentially losing independence, senses like sight, hearing and the ability to do things for themselves as they get older.

* Redefining priorities and perspectives on legacy/impact: Lucy and Lisette discuss letting go of concerns about leaving a grand legacy, and instead focusing on living each day positively and having a positive influence on those around them.

Why You Should Listen

Lucy and Lisette share a very open discussion with you about the joys and challenges of being 70 years old, providing a thoughtful and relatable perspective on this stage of life. They talk about their experiences with memory loss, physical ailments, and the loss of loved ones that come with aging, which many listeners may relate to.

The conversation touches on important topics like creating wills, managing inheritance, and finding purpose and meaning later in life - practical considerations that listeners may also be grappling with.

Overall, this episode offers an honest, nuanced look at growing older, and could provide comfort and inspiration to listeners who are going through similar experiences themselves or with older family members.

Join the Conversation

If you are an older listener, do you share Lisette and Lucy's concerns and experiences? Does growing older worry you, or are you happy with this phase of life and to grow old gracefully? If you are younger, does this give you pause for thought, or make you empathise with older friends or relations?

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm

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On this day 80 years ago, the Netherlands was liberated by a multinational Allied force, including Canadian, British, American, Polish, Czechoslovak, and Free Dutch soldiers.

In this episode of "The Year of Being 70," co-hosts Lisette, who is Dutch, and Lucy, who is British, explore the intertwined histories of VE-Day in the UK and Liberation Day in the Netherlands, both commemorated in early May. As childhood friends reflecting on their nations' war experiences and the legacies that live on, their conversation offers a poignant look at how the past shapes the present.

Key Highlights

• The shared significance of May 8th as V-Day in the UK and Liberation Day in the Netherlands, marking the end of World War II in Europe.

• The differing realities of occupation and resistance in the Netherlands versus the island defence of the UK, and how these shaped the postwar rebuilding of society.

The Netherlands experienced a more difficult and traumatic occupation, with the mass deportation and murder of the Jewish population, while the UK emerged from the war feeling more victorious, although depleted.

• How both countries saw pushes to rebuild and improve society after the war, though with some differences in approach and priorities. Overall, the discussion highlights how the shared experience of WWII has had lasting impacts on the national psyches and societal developments in the Netherlands and UK, even decades later.

• The personal stories and legacies of war, including the heroism of those who hid and protected Jewish and other targeted populations, and the lasting impact on subsequent generations.

• The contrasting personal experiences of Lisette’s and Lucy’s parents during the war – Lisette’s mother in a camp, and Lucy’s mother’s escape from soon-to-be-occupied France.

• Insights into the parallels and differences, roles and traditions of the Dutch and British royal families’ responses during and after the war, and how they continue to shape national identity.

• How Lucy and Lisette see the impact of growing up in the immediate aftermath of WWll on their generation and their own attitudes.

• Reflections on the fragility of peace and the need to remain vigilant against the forces of tyranny and oppression, as seen in current global conflicts.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a unique window into the parallel histories and shared humanity of two nations bound by the trials of World War II. Through the personal perspectives of Lisette and Lucy, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how the past continues to reverberate, shaping societal values, national psyches, and individual lives. The conversation is a poignant reminder of the importance of commemorating the sacrifices of the past, while also reflecting on how to build a more just and peaceful future.

Join the Conversation

What are yours, or your family's, memories of WWll, or the years that followed? How do you think the Second World War has affected your country? What is the legacy from that 6-year conflict on your generation? Do you take part in, or are you moved by the national celebrations and remembrance of VE-Day or Liberation Day?

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If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!...]]>Today is Liberation Day in the Netherlands, commemorating the end of German occupation, while in the UK it is VE Day (Victory in Europe), celebrating the Allied victory in Europe.

On this day 80 years ago, the Netherlands was liberated by a multinational Allied force, including Canadian, British, American, Polish, Czechoslovak, and Free Dutch soldiers.

In this episode of "The Year of Being 70," co-hosts Lisette, who is Dutch, and Lucy, who is British, explore the intertwined histories of VE-Day in the UK and Liberation Day in the Netherlands, both commemorated in early May. As childhood friends reflecting on their nations' war experiences and the legacies that live on, their conversation offers a poignant look at how the past shapes the present.

Key Highlights

• The shared significance of May 8th as V-Day in the UK and Liberation Day in the Netherlands, marking the end of World War II in Europe.

• The differing realities of occupation and resistance in the Netherlands versus the island defence of the UK, and how these shaped the postwar rebuilding of society.

The Netherlands experienced a more difficult and traumatic occupation, with the mass deportation and murder of the Jewish population, while the UK emerged from the war feeling more victorious, although depleted.

• How both countries saw pushes to rebuild and improve society after the war, though with some differences in approach and priorities. Overall, the discussion highlights how the shared experience of WWII has had lasting impacts on the national psyches and societal developments in the Netherlands and UK, even decades later.

• The personal stories and legacies of war, including the heroism of those who hid and protected Jewish and other targeted populations, and the lasting impact on subsequent generations.

• The contrasting personal experiences of Lisette’s and Lucy’s parents during the war – Lisette’s mother in a camp, and Lucy’s mother’s escape from soon-to-be-occupied France.

• Insights into the parallels and differences, roles and traditions of the Dutch and British royal families’ responses during and after the war, and how they continue to shape national identity.

• How Lucy and Lisette see the impact of growing up in the immediate aftermath of WWll on their generation and their own attitudes.

• Reflections on the fragility of peace and the need to remain vigilant against the forces of tyranny and oppression, as seen in current global conflicts.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a unique window into the parallel histories and shared humanity of two nations bound by the trials of World War II. Through the personal perspectives of Lisette and Lucy, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how the past continues to reverberate, shaping societal values, national psyches, and individual lives. The conversation is a poignant reminder of the importance of commemorating the sacrifices of the past, while also reflecting on how to build a more just and peaceful future.

Join the Conversation

What are yours, or your family's, memories of WWll, or the years that followed? How do you think the Second World War has affected your country? What is the legacy from that 6-year conflict on your generation? Do you take part in, or are you moved by the national celebrations and remembrance of VE-Day or Liberation Day?

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70):

If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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From the limited wardrobes of their youth to the bold styles of the 60s and 70s, and the professional looks of the 80s and 90s, the conversation explores how fashion has evolved alongside their lives.

Key Highlights

• Childhood memories of their parents' fashion choices and limited clothing options

Both Lisette and Lucy recall having far fewer clothes as children compared to today, often wearing hand-me-downs or clothes made by their mothers. Their parents had a more formal, traditional style of dress.

• The rise of cool fashion in the 60s and 70s

As teenagers in the 1960s and 70s, they both describe getting into the trends of the time, like tight flared jeans, tie-dye shirts, and mini-skirts. They shopped at boutiques and stores like Kensington Market, Biba and Miss Aam, created tie-dye t-shirts, and later embraced the Laura Ashley aesthetic.

• The power-dressing era of the 80s and 90s

In their 20s and 30s, Lucy and Lisette both developed more professional wardrobes, with fitted jackets and shoulder pads, with scrunch-dried hair; and for casual wear, the distinct United Colours of Benetton style and layered looks from brands like Ralph Lauren.

• The personal shopping experiences and relationships with different brands and shops over the years.

As they've aged, both have settled into more minimalist, practical wardrobes, though they still have differing approaches – Lisette prefers quality, expensive pieces while Lucy rebels against spending money on clothes and goes for more affordable options and sales. The shifting perspectives on fashion and the lasting impact of their upbringings on their current sartorial choices.

The friends reminisce about favourite pieces from the past and how their body image and comfort has impacted their fashion choices over time. They explore the emotional and creative aspects of getting dressed and shopping, and how their childhood experiences and class backgrounds continue to influence their clothing choices.

Why You Should Listen

This engaging conversation offers a glimpse into the evolving fashion landscape, as seen through the eyes of two women who have lived through the decades. It's a nostalgic and insightful exploration of how personal style can be shaped by societal trends, personal preferences, and the lasting influence of one's formative years. Whether you're a fashion enthusiast or simply curious about the experiences of those who have witnessed the changing tides of style, this episode is a delightful listen.

Join the Conversation

What were the fashion styles when you were a teenager? What were your favourite shops and items of clothing? Did you dress like your parents or rebel against their tastes? How do you dress today and do you enjoy shopping IRL or do you prefer to stay online?

Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm&si=eb4Q7JI8ZQhD0yi7

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#yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep26 #personalgrowth #fashion #fashiontrends #fashionstyle #fashiondesign #50sfashion #60sfashion #70sfashion #80sfashion #90sfashion #2000sfashion #2010fashion #2020fashion #clothing #clothes #skirts #trousers #shoes #platformshoes #tights #highheels #childrensclothing #childrensfashion #parentsclothing #biba #kensingtonmarket #kingsroad #carnabystreet #lauraashley #benetton #unitedcoloursofbenetton #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast...]]>In this episode, childhood friends Lucy and Lisette take a nostalgic trip down memory lane, recalling their fashion experiences from the 1950s to the present day.

From the limited wardrobes of their youth to the bold styles of the 60s and 70s, and the professional looks of the 80s and 90s, the conversation explores how fashion has evolved alongside their lives.

Key Highlights

• Childhood memories of their parents' fashion choices and limited clothing options

Both Lisette and Lucy recall having far fewer clothes as children compared to today, often wearing hand-me-downs or clothes made by their mothers. Their parents had a more formal, traditional style of dress.

• The rise of cool fashion in the 60s and 70s

As teenagers in the 1960s and 70s, they both describe getting into the trends of the time, like tight flared jeans, tie-dye shirts, and mini-skirts. They shopped at boutiques and stores like Kensington Market, Biba and Miss Aam, created tie-dye t-shirts, and later embraced the Laura Ashley aesthetic.

• The power-dressing era of the 80s and 90s

In their 20s and 30s, Lucy and Lisette both developed more professional wardrobes, with fitted jackets and shoulder pads, with scrunch-dried hair; and for casual wear, the distinct United Colours of Benetton style and layered looks from brands like Ralph Lauren.

• The personal shopping experiences and relationships with different brands and shops over the years.

As they've aged, both have settled into more minimalist, practical wardrobes, though they still have differing approaches – Lisette prefers quality, expensive pieces while Lucy rebels against spending money on clothes and goes for more affordable options and sales. The shifting perspectives on fashion and the lasting impact of their upbringings on their current sartorial choices.

The friends reminisce about favourite pieces from the past and how their body image and comfort has impacted their fashion choices over time. They explore the emotional and creative aspects of getting dressed and shopping, and how their childhood experiences and class backgrounds continue to influence their clothing choices.

Why You Should Listen

This engaging conversation offers a glimpse into the evolving fashion landscape, as seen through the eyes of two women who have lived through the decades. It's a nostalgic and insightful exploration of how personal style can be shaped by societal trends, personal preferences, and the lasting influence of one's formative years. Whether you're a fashion enthusiast or simply curious about the experiences of those who have witnessed the changing tides of style, this episode is a delightful listen.

Join the Conversation

What were the fashion styles when you were a teenager? What were your favourite shops and items of clothing? Did you dress like your parents or rebel against their tastes? How do you dress today and do you enjoy shopping IRL or do you prefer to stay online?

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Key Highlights

* Lucy and Lisette had very different experiences of holidays growing up in the 50s and 60s - Lisette's family took more spontaneous, unplanned trips, while Lucy's family had a more structured, scheduled approach to holiday planning.

* Lisette's first solo trip abroad was to visit Lucy's family in England, which sparked an interest in international travel for her.

* They discuss how work and technology have changed the nature of their holidays, with both often bringing laptops and being connected even when away.

* Lucy describes a holiday in Jamaica where she and her family stayed at 'GoldenEye' - once the iconic home of James Bond 007 author, Ian Fleming.

* Lisette recounts a formative solo trip to India in her 30s that had a profound impact on her worldview and perspective and made her very open to the idea of reincarnation.

* The two friends explore how attitudes around skin safety (getting tanned) and environmentally-conscious travel and "flight shame" have evolved over the decades.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation provides a fascinating glimpse into how the meaning and experience of holidays has shifted over the course of Lucy and Lisette's 70-year lifetimes. Whether you're a travel enthusiast or just enjoy reminiscing about holidays past, there's something for everyone in this wide-ranging discussion. The hosts' warm rapport and diverse perspectives make for an engaging and thought-provoking listen.

Join the Conversation

What are your favourite kinds of holidays? Do you like to plan every detail, or do you prefer to be spontaneous and open to opportunity? What are your memories of childhood holidays? When was your first solo, or parent-free trip? Where is your ultimate bucket list holiday destination?

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Key Highlights

* The Magical Realism of "Mary Poppins": Lucy discusses how the original Mary Poppins books by P.L. Travers transported her to a world of imagination and wonder, with a surprisingly feminist heroine role model - contrasting with the more saccharine Disney adaptation.

* The Importance of Traveling Light: Lisette reflects on how Rudyard Kipling's "Kim" inspired her to simplify her life and travel more mindfully, carrying only the essentials.

* Exploring Feminist Perspectives: Lucy shares how Germaine Greer's "The Female Eunuch" awakened her to the systemic challenges and inequities faced by women, igniting her own feminist journey.

* The Power of Win-Win Negotiations: Lisette explains how the book "Getting to Yes" by the Harvard negotiators influenced her approach to conflict resolution, emphasising the importance of finding mutually beneficial solutions.   

*Lucy also describes how Christopher Vogler's The Writer's Journey helped her structure and improve her first novel, leading to it being published.

* The Interplay of Free Will and Interdependence: Lisette's discussion of the book "The Story of Gaia" led her to reconsider the notion of free will, exploring the concept of "interdependent agency" and our interconnectedness with the natural world.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a glimpse into the transformative power of books, showcasing how literature can shape our worldviews, challenge our assumptions, and inspire personal growth. By sharing their book-influenced insights and experiences, Lucy and Lisette invite listeners to reflect on their own literary journeys and the ways in which books have enriched their lives.

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What are the books that have influenced your thinking or changed your life?Do you feel you have to conform to what's expected of you - especially as a woman? What compromises do you make to fit in and be likeable? Do you wish you could write your book but don't quite dare? Do you feel you have 'enough' in your life, or do you always feel the need for more?

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Key Highlights

* Owning Their Age and Authenticity

Both Lisette and Lucy feel liberated by their age, no longer feeling the need to hide or conform to what's "expected" of older women. They embrace their eccentricities and prioritise self-expression over trying to be liked and likeable

. * The Power of "We"

The friends discuss how the play "The Years" by Annie Ernaux powerfully conveyed the shared experiences of women through the use of the collective "we", rather than individual perspectives. And how the performance of the ensemble of five women actors created an astounding sense of one and all women's journey through the decades that nearly match their own.

* Creativity and Contribution

Lucy and Lisette explore their creative pursuits, from Lisette's involvement in the world of impact investing to Lucy's publishing house and her books that empower women, to share their expertise.

* Redefining Wealth and Enough

They grapple with questions around what constitutes "enough" wealth and how to use financial resources to create positive change, rather than just accumulate more.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers a refreshing and inspiring perspective on aging, with two women who refuse to be defined by societal norms. They candidly share their personal journeys, insights, and a contagious sense of purpose, encouraging listeners to embrace their own authentic selves and find fulfillment in the second half of life.

Join the Conversation

Do you feel you have to conform to what's expected of you - especially as a woman? What compromises do you make to fit in and be likeable? Do you wish you could write your book but don't quite dare? Do you feel you have 'enough' in your life, or do you always feel the need for more?

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discuss how their social lives and experiences with entertaining have changed

over the decades. They explore the formalities and traditions of their

parents' generation, as well as the more relaxed, fluid social lives they've

developed in their own adult years. 

Key Highlights

• Lucy describes the very formal, structured dinner parties her parents used to host, with formal dress and strict etiquette; and children’s parties with entertainment like magicians or Punch and Judy shows. Lisette had a more relaxed, casual upbringing where her parents sometimes hosted parties, invited friends over and drank a lot of alcohol.
• As teenagers, Lucy and Lisette's social lives revolved more around school, parties, and developing romantic relationships. Lisette got a moped at 16 which expanded her social circle, while Lucy took up sailing because of the social life around the Yacht Club.
• The women discuss how cooking and hosting dinner parties and learning to cook more exotic food became more of a social norm for young couples in their 20s and 30s, but they've both moved away from that as they've got older. Lucy first encountered barbecues when she lived in Australia and book clubs later in London.
• Lucy and Lisette reflect on how the concept of "social life" has evolved - it's become less about status and structured entertaining, and more about fluid, authentic connections with family and friends, whether in-person or through technology.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation offers an insightful, relatable look at how social norms and personal preferences around entertaining and socialising have shifted over the decades.  Listeners will appreciate the nostalgic reminiscing as well as the honest reflections on the changing nature of human connection in the modern age.

Join the Conversation

What does ‘a social life’ mean to you? Do you entertain and cook for friends frequently? Big groups or intimate events? How much of your social life now happens online, and did Covid change your social life?

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Key Highlights:

* Writing Books as Self-Development

Lucy shares her journey as a prolific author, having written seven books on the topic of writing books. She emphasises how the process of writing can be a transformative experience, even if the book is not ultimately published – which of course she is not advocating - as it helps to clarify one's ideas and expertise.

* The Eldest Daughter Retreat

Lisette describes the origin of this annual retreat, which stemmed from her own experience as an eldest daughter and her desire to create a space for women in similar roles to connect, share, and support one another. She delves into the retreat's structure, activities, and the profound impact it has had on the participants.

* Turning Expertise into ‘Business Gold’

Lucy's latest book, ‘Book Magic’, is centred around the concept of helping entrepreneurs and experts leverage their knowledge and experience to create books that can serve as lead generators and authority pieces for their businesses. She outlines her metaphor of the ‘gold mine’ of expertise and the steps involved in turning it into a valuable ‘gold bar’ in the form of a book.

* The Power of Community and Shared Experiences

Both Lisette and Lucy highlight the importance of community and shared experiences in their respective events. Lisa's retreat provides a safe space for eldest daughters to connect and support one another, while Lucy's book launch event brought together a community of aspiring authors to celebrate her work.

Why you should listen

Lucy and Lisette describe how events like launches and retreats provide bonding experiences, although Lucy outlines her personal reasons for feeling a bit reluctant to engage in retreats. But when Lisette finishes outlining how flexible and open the Eldest Daughters Retreat is, she thinks she might take part in the next one to share experiences and perspectives on being the eldest child. Participating in the retreat helped Lisette gain insight into patterns she had been repeating in her work relationships, and how those patterns were connected to her relationship with her younger brother.

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Key Highlights:

* Writing Books as Self-Development

Lucy shares her journey as a prolific author, having written seven books on the topic of writing books. She emphasises how the process of writing can be a transformative experience, even if the book is not ultimately published – which of course she is not advocating - as it helps to clarify one's ideas and expertise.

* The Eldest Daughter Retreat

Lisette describes the origin of this annual retreat, which stemmed from her own experience as an eldest daughter and her desire to create a space for women in similar roles to connect, share, and support one another. She delves into the retreat's structure, activities, and the profound impact it has had on the participants.

* Turning Expertise into ‘Business Gold’

Lucy's latest book, ‘Book Magic’, is centred around the concept of helping entrepreneurs and experts leverage their knowledge and experience to create books that can serve as lead generators and authority pieces for their businesses. She outlines her metaphor of the ‘gold mine’ of expertise and the steps involved in turning it into a valuable ‘gold bar’ in the form of a book.

* The Power of Community and Shared Experiences

Both Lisette and Lucy highlight the importance of community and shared experiences in their respective events. Lisa's retreat provides a safe space for eldest daughters to connect and support one another, while Lucy's book launch event brought together a community of aspiring authors to celebrate her work.

Why you should listen

Lucy and Lisette describe how events like launches and retreats provide bonding experiences, although Lucy outlines her personal reasons for feeling a bit reluctant to engage in retreats. But when Lisette finishes outlining how flexible and open the Eldest Daughters Retreat is, she thinks she might take part in the next one to share experiences and perspectives on being the eldest child. Participating in the retreat helped Lisette gain insight into patterns she had been repeating in her work relationships, and how those patterns were connected to her relationship with her younger brother.

Join the Conversation

What events and celebrations are important to you, and do you enjoy coming together with others you don’t necessarily know to share experiences and perspectives? How does your place in your family of origin affect your relationships and the patterns that play out in your life?

If you enjoyed this fascinating discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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Key Highlights

• The Class of 1970

Lucy's first influential group was the class of girls she went to school with when she switched to a new, more academically-focused state school as a teenager. These working-class and middle-class girls were incredibly dedicated to their studies, which was eye-opening for Lucy who had previously coasted through school with little effort. This experience challenged Lucy's previously privileged perspective, inspired her to work harder and value her education and what it might mean to other less privileged girls.

• The Marvelous Mrs Miedema

Lisette's first influential figure was a woman named Mrs Miedema, the mother of Lisette's childhood friend, who had a calming presence and made Lisette feel truly seen and accepted for who she was, rather than just for her achievements. Lisette cherishes the memory of Mrs Miedema's empathy and unconditional acceptance, although she had no idea at the time that her friend’s mother was terminally ill.

• The Tracey Beaker Children

Lucy's second influential experience was working at a Barnardo's children's home for six months during a gap year in 1973. Caring for the underprivileged and often troubled children there had a lasting impact on Lucy, and she was amazed to reconnect with some of them decades later on social media and see how they had persevered through difficult lives. Their resilience and ability to thrive has stayed with her.

• The Bankers’ Legacy

Lisette started working at a bank in 1981, and was disappointed to find that the work environment was haphazard and lacking in real professionalism, with people just doing anything without a plan. However, Lisette realised that this lack of structure actually liberated her to speak up and question things that she thought could be improved, which her bosses appreciated. This was a significant influence that led Lisette to later start her own communications company, with the bank becoming a major client.

• The Beauty and the Businessman

While Lucy's third major influence was the model Twiggy, who pioneered a certain look, style and vision of the 1960s and 70s, Lisette's was the visionary entrepreneur Eckhart Vincent, who shared his ideas about a value extracted tax system.

Why you should listen

Overall, this episode provides a reflective look how both individual people and broader social/professional circles can have a profound and lasting influence on one's life path and perspective. By acknowledging these influential figures in their lives, Lucy and Lisette demonstrate the power of presence, empathy and challenge to the status quo that make a difference in others' lives.

This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to reflect on your own life influences.

Join the Conversation

Who are the individuals or groups that have influenced or even changed the course of your life?

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Key Highlights

• The Class of 1970

Lucy's first influential group was the class of girls she went to school with when she switched to a new, more academically-focused state school as a teenager. These working-class and middle-class girls were incredibly dedicated to their studies, which was eye-opening for Lucy who had previously coasted through school with little effort. This experience challenged Lucy's previously privileged perspective, inspired her to work harder and value her education and what it might mean to other less privileged girls.

• The Marvelous Mrs Miedema

Lisette's first influential figure was a woman named Mrs Miedema, the mother of Lisette's childhood friend, who had a calming presence and made Lisette feel truly seen and accepted for who she was, rather than just for her achievements. Lisette cherishes the memory of Mrs Miedema's empathy and unconditional acceptance, although she had no idea at the time that her friend’s mother was terminally ill.

• The Tracey Beaker Children

Lucy's second influential experience was working at a Barnardo's children's home for six months during a gap year in 1973. Caring for the underprivileged and often troubled children there had a lasting impact on Lucy, and she was amazed to reconnect with some of them decades later on social media and see how they had persevered through difficult lives. Their resilience and ability to thrive has stayed with her.

• The Bankers’ Legacy

Lisette started working at a bank in 1981, and was disappointed to find that the work environment was haphazard and lacking in real professionalism, with people just doing anything without a plan. However, Lisette realised that this lack of structure actually liberated her to speak up and question things that she thought could be improved, which her bosses appreciated. This was a significant influence that led Lisette to later start her own communications company, with the bank becoming a major client.

• The Beauty and the Businessman

While Lucy's third major influence was the model Twiggy, who pioneered a certain look, style and vision of the 1960s and 70s, Lisette's was the visionary entrepreneur Eckhart Vincent, who shared his ideas about a value extracted tax system.

Why you should listen

Overall, this episode provides a reflective look how both individual people and broader social/professional circles can have a profound and lasting influence on one's life path and perspective. By acknowledging these influential figures in their lives, Lucy and Lisette demonstrate the power of presence, empathy and challenge to the status quo that make a difference in others' lives.

This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to reflect on your own life influences.

Join the Conversation

Who are the individuals or groups that have influenced or even changed the course of your life?

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In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep19 - Turning 50: A Milestone of Celebrations, Friendships, and a Life Reset, Lisette and Lucy, childhood friends who were born a month apart in 1954 and turned 70 in 2024, each share their 50th birthday parties, their thoughts on friendship and the feeling that at 50 they had reached a midpoint. As ever, their conversation makes for surprising revelations – for each other and themselves.

Key Highlights:

• Birthday Parties

Lucy, having recently moved from London to the countryside, had a whole new group of "mum friends" from her daughters' local school. Her 50th party was held at the village hall with her new local friends, as well as some of her family and long-time friends. She notes how new friends were surprised by her age, assuming she was younger since she had young children.

Lisette had a very different kind of 50th birthday: she organised a dinner party with only men as guests, with the idea of being "the princess" among them. Her girlfriends later surprised her with a separate birthday party, feeling a bit slighted that Lisette didn't think they were as important, but Lisette enjoyed the men's dinner party and shared some of the touching speeches given at the event.

• Good friends / Bad friends

The discussion touches on the challenges of maintaining friendships, with both Lisette and Lucy admitting they are not the best at regularly keeping in touch with friends, preferring to focus more on work and family. They ponder how that may impact them as they get older.

The conversation also covers how events like the rise of Facebook and the end of the TV show 'Friends' in 2004 affected social dynamics and friendships around that time. Lisette and Lucy also discuss how their eldest daughter status has shaped their approaches to friendship and caring for others.

• The Counterclockwise Study

Lucy points out that at the age of 50 she had just adopted two young children so was back to the school runs and mother role she had been through in her 20s and 30s. She recalls psychologist Ellen Langer’s ‘Counterclockwise’ experiment of taking older people back to a closed environment designed to recreate the era of their youth, and how they seemed to rejuvenate in that setting. Lucy wonders whether she ‘reset’ her timeline aged 50 in this way.

• Reaching the Midpoint

Lucy and Lisette both felt that turning 50 was a midpoint and a milestone in their lives, in various ways. Lisette was embarking on a whole new spiritual life, including her involvement with the Findhorn Foundation in Scotland, while Lucy was working with big corporations and government departments on the new concept of work-life balance.

Why you should listen

Overall, this episode provides a reflective look at the significant life milestone of turning 50, the nature of friendships, and the personal insights Lucy and Lisette gained about themselves through this journey.

This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to reflect on your own life stage, celebrations and friendships, and know that being 50, 60 and even 70 is full of exciting possibilities.

Join the Conversation

What kind of birthday celebrations do you prefer? Are you a good friend who keeps in regular touch with people from all stages of your life? Or do you rely on other people to make that happen? Do you enjoy social media to keep in contact, or prefer IRL connections?

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In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep19 - Turning 50: A Milestone of Celebrations, Friendships, and a Life Reset, Lisette and Lucy, childhood friends who were born a month apart in 1954 and turned 70 in 2024, each share their 50th birthday parties, their thoughts on friendship and the feeling that at 50 they had reached a midpoint. As ever, their conversation makes for surprising revelations – for each other and themselves.

Key Highlights:

• Birthday Parties

Lucy, having recently moved from London to the countryside, had a whole new group of "mum friends" from her daughters' local school. Her 50th party was held at the village hall with her new local friends, as well as some of her family and long-time friends. She notes how new friends were surprised by her age, assuming she was younger since she had young children.

Lisette had a very different kind of 50th birthday: she organised a dinner party with only men as guests, with the idea of being "the princess" among them. Her girlfriends later surprised her with a separate birthday party, feeling a bit slighted that Lisette didn't think they were as important, but Lisette enjoyed the men's dinner party and shared some of the touching speeches given at the event.

• Good friends / Bad friends

The discussion touches on the challenges of maintaining friendships, with both Lisette and Lucy admitting they are not the best at regularly keeping in touch with friends, preferring to focus more on work and family. They ponder how that may impact them as they get older.

The conversation also covers how events like the rise of Facebook and the end of the TV show 'Friends' in 2004 affected social dynamics and friendships around that time. Lisette and Lucy also discuss how their eldest daughter status has shaped their approaches to friendship and caring for others.

• The Counterclockwise Study

Lucy points out that at the age of 50 she had just adopted two young children so was back to the school runs and mother role she had been through in her 20s and 30s. She recalls psychologist Ellen Langer’s ‘Counterclockwise’ experiment of taking older people back to a closed environment designed to recreate the era of their youth, and how they seemed to rejuvenate in that setting. Lucy wonders whether she ‘reset’ her timeline aged 50 in this way.

• Reaching the Midpoint

Lucy and Lisette both felt that turning 50 was a midpoint and a milestone in their lives, in various ways. Lisette was embarking on a whole new spiritual life, including her involvement with the Findhorn Foundation in Scotland, while Lucy was working with big corporations and government departments on the new concept of work-life balance.

Why you should listen

Overall, this episode provides a reflective look at the significant life milestone of turning 50, the nature of friendships, and the personal insights Lucy and Lisette gained about themselves through this journey.

This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to reflect on your own life stage, celebrations and friendships, and know that being 50, 60 and even 70 is full of exciting possibilities.

Join the Conversation

What kind of birthday celebrations do you prefer? Are you a good friend who keeps in regular touch with people from all stages of your life? Or do you rely on other people to make that happen? Do you enjoy social media to keep in contact, or prefer IRL connections?

If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode,The Year of Being 70 Ep 18: Our Greatest Hits – Achievements, Life Choices, and Personal Growth ,Lucy and her longtime friend Lisette, born a month apart in 1954 and having turned 70 in 2024, each share three things they take pride in having accomplished over their lives. As ever, their conversation makes for surprising revelations – for each other and themselves.

Key Highlights:

• Staying fit and well post-70

Lisette starts the conversation by sharing that she is proud of going to the gym every week, and today going through her fitness routine, even though her trainer wasn't there. She feels that staying fit is ‘part of the job’ as she gets older.

• Being the mother of two great fathers

Lucy shares how proud she is of how her two sons have become wonderful fathers, fully involved in sharing equally the childcare and domestic responsibilities with their partners. She says she takes no credit for this, as she did not model that behavior herself, so she can simply be proud of the men they have become.

• Choosing an unconventional life path

Lisette reveals how proud she is of having flowered from the awkward and gauche little girl she was and having had the courage to break off an engagement that would have taken her into a marriage and family life she did not want. She fought to find her own independent path in life against societal and family expectations, including overcoming feeling different for not wanting children.

• Books that have inspired others

Lisette’s most successful book is ‘The Eldest Daughter Effect’, which many readers, including Lucy, tell her changed their lives. But she is perhaps most proud of ‘Childless Living’ which is finding increased audiences as that choice becomes more popular.

Lucy shares that she is proud of writing a book called 'A Book of One's Own', which aimed to encourage more women to write and publish their own books, after she noticed a gender imbalance in the Business Book Awards. The book and her campaign to get more women to write their books helped to equalise the number of women- and men-authored books being submitted and short-listed. Her women-only book-writing programmes led to her annual ‘Mission Mastermind’ programme for women entrepreneurs and how both Lucy as a mentor and Lisette in a coaching role, have learned to listen and empathise rather than make conversations ‘all about them’.

Why you should listen

Lucy and Lisette also discuss the challenges of being proud of their achievements as they get older, the difficulty of accepting compliments gracefully, and how conversations like this help them gain perspective on their lives. They are both proud simply of reaching the age of 70 and being comfortable in their own skin. This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to make your own choices, achieve your goals and look forward to being 70 (or 80, or 90).

Join the Conversation

What are you most proud of in your life so far? Have you had to make difficult or unconventional choices? Are your children your greatest pride and joy? What skills or abilities have you learned or developed over your lifetime however long or short?

If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode,The Year of Being 70 Ep 18: Our Greatest Hits – Achievements, Life Choices, and Personal Growth ,Lucy and her longtime friend Lisette, born a month apart in 1954 and having turned 70 in 2024, each share three things they take pride in having accomplished over their lives. As ever, their conversation makes for surprising revelations – for each other and themselves.

Key Highlights:

• Staying fit and well post-70

Lisette starts the conversation by sharing that she is proud of going to the gym every week, and today going through her fitness routine, even though her trainer wasn't there. She feels that staying fit is ‘part of the job’ as she gets older.

• Being the mother of two great fathers

Lucy shares how proud she is of how her two sons have become wonderful fathers, fully involved in sharing equally the childcare and domestic responsibilities with their partners. She says she takes no credit for this, as she did not model that behavior herself, so she can simply be proud of the men they have become.

• Choosing an unconventional life path

Lisette reveals how proud she is of having flowered from the awkward and gauche little girl she was and having had the courage to break off an engagement that would have taken her into a marriage and family life she did not want. She fought to find her own independent path in life against societal and family expectations, including overcoming feeling different for not wanting children.

• Books that have inspired others

Lisette’s most successful book is ‘The Eldest Daughter Effect’, which many readers, including Lucy, tell her changed their lives. But she is perhaps most proud of ‘Childless Living’ which is finding increased audiences as that choice becomes more popular.

Lucy shares that she is proud of writing a book called 'A Book of One's Own', which aimed to encourage more women to write and publish their own books, after she noticed a gender imbalance in the Business Book Awards. The book and her campaign to get more women to write their books helped to equalise the number of women- and men-authored books being submitted and short-listed. Her women-only book-writing programmes led to her annual ‘Mission Mastermind’ programme for women entrepreneurs and how both Lucy as a mentor and Lisette in a coaching role, have learned to listen and empathise rather than make conversations ‘all about them’.

Why you should listen

Lucy and Lisette also discuss the challenges of being proud of their achievements as they get older, the difficulty of accepting compliments gracefully, and how conversations like this help them gain perspective on their lives. They are both proud simply of reaching the age of 70 and being comfortable in their own skin. This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to make your own choices, achieve your goals and look forward to being 70 (or 80, or 90).

Join the Conversation

What are you most proud of in your life so far? Have you had to make difficult or unconventional choices? Are your children your greatest pride and joy? What skills or abilities have you learned or developed over your lifetime however long or short?

If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 17, ‘Millenium Memories, Y2K, 9/11 and our travels to the US and Russia’, two lifelong friends, Lucy and Lisette, who turned 70 last year, revisit their first moments of the year 2000, their different experiences of the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center in 2001, and their international travels over the next few years.

Key Highlights

• Celebrations and fears at the start of the new Millennium

Lucy watched the fireworks on the Thames while Lisette was on a roof in Amsterdam when the clocks chimed in the year 2000. They recall the real – or was it manufactured – anxiety that when the year settings on computers clicked through from 1999 to 2000, the IT system would collapse and we would lose all our data and comms. Spoiler alert – it didn’t happen!

• Memories of 9/11

While Lucy sat and watched the planes crash into the twin tours of the World Trade Center from her home in London, Lisette was actually in New York City and witnessed firsthand the destruction and horror. She describes feeling the physical impact of the second plane hitting the World Trade Center and walking amongst the traumatised residents of the city.

• Travels to and adoption from Russia

Lucy describes her experience of adopting two young children from two different children’s homes in Russia over several years in the early 2000s. This was a long, complicated process involving a lot of bureaucracy and travel between the UK and Russia. Lucy’s daughters were 11 months and 18 months when she brought them home to their new family

• Learning at the School of Healing in Miami

Lisette felt called to enrol in studies at the Barbara Brennan School of Healing in Miami, Florida, which took place over a 4-year period. She focused on psychology, energy healing, and the theories of psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, developing a new understanding of herself and others. This resulted in her book ‘The Childhood Conclusions’.

You can take Lisette’s test for your Childhood Conclusions on her website here: https://lisetteschuitemaker.com/test-your-childhood-conclusions/

Why You Should Listen

Both Lisette and Lucy went through major life changes and transitions in their 40s, with Lisette exploring her inner self and Lucy taking on the challenges of international adoption. Their overall sense that their 40s were a transformative period in their lives, with both women embarking on new personal journeys and projects, makes fascinating listening, along with their personal memories of the year 2000 and the 9/11 terrorist attack.

Join the Conversation

What are your recollections of the turn of the 21st century – if you were old enough to be there? If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating era, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 17, ‘Millenium Memories, Y2K, 9/11 and our travels to the US and Russia’, two lifelong friends, Lucy and Lisette, who turned 70 last year, revisit their first moments of the year 2000, their different experiences of the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center in 2001, and their international travels over the next few years.

Key Highlights

• Celebrations and fears at the start of the new Millennium

Lucy watched the fireworks on the Thames while Lisette was on a roof in Amsterdam when the clocks chimed in the year 2000. They recall the real – or was it manufactured – anxiety that when the year settings on computers clicked through from 1999 to 2000, the IT system would collapse and we would lose all our data and comms. Spoiler alert – it didn’t happen!

• Memories of 9/11

While Lucy sat and watched the planes crash into the twin tours of the World Trade Center from her home in London, Lisette was actually in New York City and witnessed firsthand the destruction and horror. She describes feeling the physical impact of the second plane hitting the World Trade Center and walking amongst the traumatised residents of the city.

• Travels to and adoption from Russia

Lucy describes her experience of adopting two young children from two different children’s homes in Russia over several years in the early 2000s. This was a long, complicated process involving a lot of bureaucracy and travel between the UK and Russia. Lucy’s daughters were 11 months and 18 months when she brought them home to their new family

• Learning at the School of Healing in Miami

Lisette felt called to enrol in studies at the Barbara Brennan School of Healing in Miami, Florida, which took place over a 4-year period. She focused on psychology, energy healing, and the theories of psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, developing a new understanding of herself and others. This resulted in her book ‘The Childhood Conclusions’.

You can take Lisette’s test for your Childhood Conclusions on her website here: https://lisetteschuitemaker.com/test-your-childhood-conclusions/

Why You Should Listen

Both Lisette and Lucy went through major life changes and transitions in their 40s, with Lisette exploring her inner self and Lucy taking on the challenges of international adoption. Their overall sense that their 40s were a transformative period in their lives, with both women embarking on new personal journeys and projects, makes fascinating listening, along with their personal memories of the year 2000 and the 9/11 terrorist attack.

Join the Conversation

What are your recollections of the turn of the 21st century – if you were old enough to be there? If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating era, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 16, two lifelong friends, Lucy and Lisette, who turned 70 last year, reflect on their personal changes in the period of their lives from 1994 to 2000, the political and social environment of that time, as well as recalling the rise of The Beatles and the social revolution they personified in the 1960s.

Key Highlights of this Episode

• Turbulent times for Lucy

Lucy experienced significant personal life changes in this period, including getting divorced, remarried, moving house several times, eventually to the country, and dealing with the death of her father who went blind in his later years.

• Transformation for Lisette

Lisette had a transformative experience playing a "game of transformation" which helped her gain insights into her own struggles with depression and led her to discover the Findhorn community. This was a major turning point that put her on a new spiritual trajectory.

• The last era of hope and renewal?

Both women discuss the social climate in their respective countries (UK and Netherlands) during this time, recalling a sense of hope and progress that they feel has not been replicated in more recent years. They look back on the broader political context, including the Labour government’s victory in the UK, a sense of prosperity and renewal, and the Netherlands' approach to tackling challenging societal issues like euthanasia through inclusive dialogue and consensus-building.

They compare the differences in the education systems between the UK and Netherlands, with the Netherlands seeming to have a more egalitarian and multilingual approach.

• Celebrating an Eldest Daughter

It was artist Yoko Ono’s 92nd birthday today, and in celebrating her ground-breaking work – and questioning whether younger people even know her name – Lucy and Lisette explore the legacy of Yoko Ono. It includes her relationship with John Lennon, their ‘Bed In’ in Amsterdam to ‘Give Peace A Chance’, and the impact of the Beatles, the music and cultural shifts of that era that have resonated through the decades.

Why You Should Listen

If you enjoy hearing about recent social history, from people who lived though it, this episode provides a thoughtful, personal, and historical lens on the period from 1994 to 1999. Lisette and Lucy look back to the rise of the Beatles and recall the innovative creativity of Lennon and McCartney, and the hysterical response of their fans. They remember how Yoko Ono, a pioneering artist in her own right, was blamed for the breakup of the Fab Four.

Join the Conversation

What are your recollections of the end of the 20th century – if you were old enough to be there? If you enjoyed this discussion of a fascinating political era, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this new episode ‘’The Year of Being 70 Ep 15 - Food, Glorious Food: Two Friends Stories from Rationing to Mounjaro’’ is a conversation between Lisette and Lucy, two childhood friends who recently turned 70, about their experiences with and relationship to food throughout their lives.

Key Highlights of this episode:

What we ate in the 1950s

Lucy and Lisette talk about the differences in food availability, quality, and preparation between the UK and Netherlands in the post-WWII years, with rationing and limited food options in the UK versus more dairy-based diets in the Netherlands.

They remember daily food routines, such as grocery shopping for fresh food every day or the week, and the milkman and baker delivering to homes - Lucy even recalls their milkman having a horsedrawn cart when she was very young.

Lucy and her brothers ate separately, with different food at different times, to her parents

Lisette always went home from to school for lunch, while Lucy had school lunches and then all meals at school when she was at boarding school, which were not great!

Vegetarians

Lisette became a vegetarian at a young age out of ethical concerns, while Lucy more recently adopted a vegetarian diet. She has been married to a vegan for thirty years, so is used to cooking flexible meals that can be adapted for different tastes. Lisette doesn't cook, but enjoys shopping for fresh produce at her local market for her husband to make whatever meals he can from.

Body image

The women discuss how food, eating habits, and body image have changed drastically over their lifetimes, with increasing obesity linked to the prevalence of processed and unhealthy foods. Lisette has always been tall and slim - so skinny as a child that people feared her legs would break if she ran - but has always eaten well. Lucy didn't enjoy food as a child and was very slim up to her mid forties, but put on weight after perimenopause. She admits to having become too overweight in the last few years and has been taking a weight loss drug, Mounjaro for the last six months. She has lost three stone - nearly 20 kgs - feels much healthier and better for having done so.

Why You Should Listen

This episode explores how food, eating habits, and attitudes towards food have changed over their lifetimes, with increasing availability of processed foods and a rise in obesity. The two friends reflect on how their long lives have spanned major transformations in the food landscape, and the changes in availability of food have changed, from very basic when they were young to global cuisine

Join the Conversation

What are your experiences with food and eating? Do you try to eat ethically? Have you tried to lose weight at some point? Or are you lucky like Lisette and stayed slim all your life? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments below.

If you enjoyed this conversation about the development of food, eating and cooking over the last few decades, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70.

Subscribe now and join the journey!

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In this new episode ‘’The Year of Being 70 Ep 15 - Food, Glorious Food: Two Friends Stories from Rationing to Mounjaro’’ is a conversation between Lisette and Lucy, two childhood friends who recently turned 70, about their experiences with and relationship to food throughout their lives.

Key Highlights of this episode:

What we ate in the 1950s

Lucy and Lisette talk about the differences in food availability, quality, and preparation between the UK and Netherlands in the post-WWII years, with rationing and limited food options in the UK versus more dairy-based diets in the Netherlands.

They remember daily food routines, such as grocery shopping for fresh food every day or the week, and the milkman and baker delivering to homes - Lucy even recalls their milkman having a horsedrawn cart when she was very young.

Lucy and her brothers ate separately, with different food at different times, to her parents

Lisette always went home from to school for lunch, while Lucy had school lunches and then all meals at school when she was at boarding school, which were not great!

Vegetarians

Lisette became a vegetarian at a young age out of ethical concerns, while Lucy more recently adopted a vegetarian diet. She has been married to a vegan for thirty years, so is used to cooking flexible meals that can be adapted for different tastes. Lisette doesn't cook, but enjoys shopping for fresh produce at her local market for her husband to make whatever meals he can from.

Body image

The women discuss how food, eating habits, and body image have changed drastically over their lifetimes, with increasing obesity linked to the prevalence of processed and unhealthy foods. Lisette has always been tall and slim - so skinny as a child that people feared her legs would break if she ran - but has always eaten well. Lucy didn't enjoy food as a child and was very slim up to her mid forties, but put on weight after perimenopause. She admits to having become too overweight in the last few years and has been taking a weight loss drug, Mounjaro for the last six months. She has lost three stone - nearly 20 kgs - feels much healthier and better for having done so.

Why You Should Listen

This episode explores how food, eating habits, and attitudes towards food have changed over their lifetimes, with increasing availability of processed foods and a rise in obesity. The two friends reflect on how their long lives have spanned major transformations in the food landscape, and the changes in availability of food have changed, from very basic when they were young to global cuisine

Join the Conversation

What are your experiences with food and eating? Do you try to eat ethically? Have you tried to lose weight at some point? Or are you lucky like Lisette and stayed slim all your life? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments below.

If you enjoyed this conversation about the development of food, eating and cooking over the last few decades, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70.

Subscribe now and join the journey!

If you enjoyed this episode of The Year of Being 70, be sure to:

Like this video to support our channel Subscribe and turn on notifications to stay updated on our latest episodes Share this video with anyone who loves a good conversation about food, history, and life experiences!

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In this fascinating episode, The Year of Being 70 Ep 14 - Our Changing Beliefs, Spirits and a Ghost Story, Lucy and Lisette, two childhood friends who recently turned 70, discuss their personal and spiritual journeys as they reflect on their experiences with religion, spirituality, and beliefs about the afterlife during their lives.

Lisette grew up in a non-religious household but had a strong yearning for spiritual connection and exploration from a young age, exploring concepts like reincarnation and having vivid past life experiences. In contrast, Lucy had a more traditional Christian upbringing, became an atheist in her late teenage years, then later in life had a supernatural experience that caused her to question her previous beliefs about the afterlife.

Key Highlights of this Episode:

The Queen's Chapel

Lisette's family were non-believers so did not attend church, but alone among her family she craved celebration and communication with a world beyond the physical. Lucy's father was a 'member of the Royal Household' so her parents attended services at the Queen's Chapel in St James' Palace (the Queen herself was not in attendance - Lisette checked!). Lucy and her brothers went to a children's service every Sunday and had the Bible and Pilgrim's Progress read to them by a devout Nanny.

Past Lives

In her 30s and 40s, Lisette took an active route to learning to communicate with the 'interbeing universe' she had always been aware of. She accessed past lives she believed she had led, including as a young Chinese boy and an African child. Around the time of her divorce, Lucy went on an Alpha Course, and enjoyed the community and kidness of evangelical Christians, but didn't change her views in the long term.

Lucy's Ghost Story

When Lucy moved into an old farmhouse in the country, she was contacted, through a psychic friend, by the spirit of a man who had lived in her village during World War 2 and wanted her to clear his name of a baseless accusation that had forced him out of the village. He provided some specific details and, after a lot of detective work, Lucy found that Ernest really had existed, found his gravestone, records of his children at the school her daughters now attended and eventually contacted members of his family. She wrote a novel called 'Kindred Spirits' to give her ghost closure.

This led Lucy to become more open-minded about the possibility of life after death and other non-physical realms.

Conclusions: Why You Should Listen

Both Lisette and Lucy express fascination with the idea of spiritual realms, the nature of consciousness, and the ability to communicate with those who have passed on.

They discuss the challenges of being open to such experiences when the mainstream culture emphasises rational, scientific worldviews.

Overall, this episode explores the deeply personal and nuanced journeys that individuals can take in developing their spiritual beliefs and connection to the metaphysical aspects of existence.

Engage with Us!

What are your spiritual and religious experiences - or are you a confirmed materialist? Do you have a ghost story or an experience of a past life? We’d love to hear about them! Whether you’re young or old, share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to hit the like button if you enjoyed this reflection, and make sure to subscribe to The Year of Being 70 for more inspiring conversations.

Join the conversation and be part of this thought-provoking journey through our lives and memories.

#yearofbeing70 #being70 #religion #atheists #spirituality #past lives #spirits #ghosts #ghoststories #beliefs #consciousness #metaphysical #celebration #church #chapel #thequeen #memories #kindredspirits...]]>What makes us spiritual, religious or none of the above? And how do unexpected events or communications change our view of the universe and our place in it?

In this fascinating episode, The Year of Being 70 Ep 14 - Our Changing Beliefs, Spirits and a Ghost Story, Lucy and Lisette, two childhood friends who recently turned 70, discuss their personal and spiritual journeys as they reflect on their experiences with religion, spirituality, and beliefs about the afterlife during their lives.

Lisette grew up in a non-religious household but had a strong yearning for spiritual connection and exploration from a young age, exploring concepts like reincarnation and having vivid past life experiences. In contrast, Lucy had a more traditional Christian upbringing, became an atheist in her late teenage years, then later in life had a supernatural experience that caused her to question her previous beliefs about the afterlife.

Key Highlights of this Episode:

The Queen's Chapel

Lisette's family were non-believers so did not attend church, but alone among her family she craved celebration and communication with a world beyond the physical. Lucy's father was a 'member of the Royal Household' so her parents attended services at the Queen's Chapel in St James' Palace (the Queen herself was not in attendance - Lisette checked!). Lucy and her brothers went to a children's service every Sunday and had the Bible and Pilgrim's Progress read to them by a devout Nanny.

Past Lives

In her 30s and 40s, Lisette took an active route to learning to communicate with the 'interbeing universe' she had always been aware of. She accessed past lives she believed she had led, including as a young Chinese boy and an African child. Around the time of her divorce, Lucy went on an Alpha Course, and enjoyed the community and kidness of evangelical Christians, but didn't change her views in the long term.

Lucy's Ghost Story

When Lucy moved into an old farmhouse in the country, she was contacted, through a psychic friend, by the spirit of a man who had lived in her village during World War 2 and wanted her to clear his name of a baseless accusation that had forced him out of the village. He provided some specific details and, after a lot of detective work, Lucy found that Ernest really had existed, found his gravestone, records of his children at the school her daughters now attended and eventually contacted members of his family. She wrote a novel called 'Kindred Spirits' to give her ghost closure.

This led Lucy to become more open-minded about the possibility of life after death and other non-physical realms.

Conclusions: Why You Should Listen

Both Lisette and Lucy express fascination with the idea of spiritual realms, the nature of consciousness, and the ability to communicate with those who have passed on.

They discuss the challenges of being open to such experiences when the mainstream culture emphasises rational, scientific worldviews.

Overall, this episode explores the deeply personal and nuanced journeys that individuals can take in developing their spiritual beliefs and connection to the metaphysical aspects of existence.

Engage with Us!

What are your spiritual and religious experiences - or are you a confirmed materialist? Do you have a ghost story or an experience of a past life? We’d love to hear about them! Whether you’re young or old, share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to hit the like button if you enjoyed this reflection, and make sure to subscribe to The Year of Being 70 for more inspiring conversations.

Join the conversation and be part of this thought-provoking journey through our lives and memories.

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They discuss their early memories of rotary-dial telephones, the cost and challenges of long-distance calls, the introduction of first black and white, then colour televisions, and the progression from clunky computers to mobile phones and email. The conversation covers how these technological advancements transformed daily life and social interactions, reflecting on the significant changes they have witnessed over the past 70 years.

*The telephone in the hall*

Lucy and Lisette recall how the main – or only – phone in the house would always be in the hall when they were young. This meant lack of privacy and parents telling you to ‘Get off the phone’ when you were calling friends or boyfriends. They can recall exactly how it felt to dial a number on the old rotary dials and the sound of a 'real' phone ringing. Later, wall phones and cordless phones were exciting innovations that changed how and where you could call people.

*Social etiquette around phones*

The friends share memories of the social etiquette around using shared phone lines and the juggling involved in making calls to friends or family. Unlike calling an individual’s mobile these days, when you called from a landline (in the hall!) you never knew who would answer the phone and how long you would have to make polite conversation before asking to speak to the person you were actually tyring to call.

*The cost of communication*

Parents were always worried about the cost of phone calls, and especially international phone calls. When Lucy went to live in Australia in the late 1970s, she could only call home once a month and everyone would crowd round the phone to talk. So different from today when you can always catch up with someone on a mobile or other app on your phone, Zoom and video call at any time and keep in touch across distances so much more easily.

*When TV came along*

Lisette and Lucy’s families were both late adopters of television, so both were about 8 years’ old when a heavy box showing programmes in black and white appeared (was rented) in each of their houses. They recall how there were only a two and then three or four TV stations, how children’s TV started at 4pm and ended at 6pm, and that there was nothing on before that, or after 10pm except the ‘Test Card’. In the Netherlands and the UK, both girls watched and loved ‘The Avengers’ with Diana Rigg as Emma Peel – luckily colour television had been introduced by then.

*The internet changed everything*

Lucy and Lisette were both working when computers arrived to disrupt the business environment. Email also changed communications, as did fax machines, from paper-based communications that had to be typed up and posted or couriered to recipients. Mobile phones and car phones were big and clunky for their first few years, until everything got smaller and now a slimline mobile contains every kind of communication that’s currently available.

*Key highlights in this episode*

# Memories from a bygone era of bakelite phones with plaited cords taking centre stage in the hall of a home. Of huge square televisions with inefficient aerials and fuzzy black and white screens that were rented rather than bought.

# How Lucy and Lisette have lived through 70 years of changes in technology that have revolutionised communication in personal life and the world of work.

# Swings and roundabouts - they reflect on how communication has become much more instantaneous and ubiquitous with the rise of mobile phones, email, and messaging apps, but also how some of the intimacy and intentionality of past communication methods has been lost.

*Conclusions: Why you should listen*

Overall, the conversation provides a rich and nostalgic look at the technological...]]>In this podcast episode, Lucy and Lisette, two childhood friends who recently turned 70, reminisce about the evolution of communication technologies in their lifetime.

They discuss their early memories of rotary-dial telephones, the cost and challenges of long-distance calls, the introduction of first black and white, then colour televisions, and the progression from clunky computers to mobile phones and email. The conversation covers how these technological advancements transformed daily life and social interactions, reflecting on the significant changes they have witnessed over the past 70 years.

*The telephone in the hall*

Lucy and Lisette recall how the main – or only – phone in the house would always be in the hall when they were young. This meant lack of privacy and parents telling you to ‘Get off the phone’ when you were calling friends or boyfriends. They can recall exactly how it felt to dial a number on the old rotary dials and the sound of a 'real' phone ringing. Later, wall phones and cordless phones were exciting innovations that changed how and where you could call people.

*Social etiquette around phones*

The friends share memories of the social etiquette around using shared phone lines and the juggling involved in making calls to friends or family. Unlike calling an individual’s mobile these days, when you called from a landline (in the hall!) you never knew who would answer the phone and how long you would have to make polite conversation before asking to speak to the person you were actually tyring to call.

*The cost of communication*

Parents were always worried about the cost of phone calls, and especially international phone calls. When Lucy went to live in Australia in the late 1970s, she could only call home once a month and everyone would crowd round the phone to talk. So different from today when you can always catch up with someone on a mobile or other app on your phone, Zoom and video call at any time and keep in touch across distances so much more easily.

*When TV came along*

Lisette and Lucy’s families were both late adopters of television, so both were about 8 years’ old when a heavy box showing programmes in black and white appeared (was rented) in each of their houses. They recall how there were only a two and then three or four TV stations, how children’s TV started at 4pm and ended at 6pm, and that there was nothing on before that, or after 10pm except the ‘Test Card’. In the Netherlands and the UK, both girls watched and loved ‘The Avengers’ with Diana Rigg as Emma Peel – luckily colour television had been introduced by then.

*The internet changed everything*

Lucy and Lisette were both working when computers arrived to disrupt the business environment. Email also changed communications, as did fax machines, from paper-based communications that had to be typed up and posted or couriered to recipients. Mobile phones and car phones were big and clunky for their first few years, until everything got smaller and now a slimline mobile contains every kind of communication that’s currently available.

*Key highlights in this episode*

# Memories from a bygone era of bakelite phones with plaited cords taking centre stage in the hall of a home. Of huge square televisions with inefficient aerials and fuzzy black and white screens that were rented rather than bought.

# How Lucy and Lisette have lived through 70 years of changes in technology that have revolutionised communication in personal life and the world of work.

# Swings and roundabouts - they reflect on how communication has become much more instantaneous and ubiquitous with the rise of mobile phones, email, and messaging apps, but also how some of the intimacy and intentionality of past communication methods has been lost.

*Conclusions: Why you should listen*

Overall, the conversation provides a rich and nostalgic look at the technological and social changes that Lisette and Lucy have witnessed over the course of their 70 years, through from the 1950s to the 2020s. Tracking the development of the telephone, the television and the computer, these memories bring seven decades of social history to colourful life.

*Engage with us*

What are your memories of communications when you were young? Feel free to share in this episode of social history and memories by telling us yours, whatever age you are. Post your thoughts in the comments and don’t forget to hit the like button if you enjoyed this discussion.

Subscribe to The Year of Being 70 for more inspiring conversations, and tap the bell icon to get notified when we release new episodes.

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What You Didn’t Know About Lucy and Lisette:

Lucy, a book mentor and author, confesses to an aversion that might surprise many—she doesn’t enjoy music, and never has, even as a child. This lack of connection to music could be attributed to a condition known as Musical Anhedonia, a neurological condition affecting 3-5% of the population, where dopamine receptors aren’t wired to the music audio circuits. On the other hand, Lisette has a strong dislike for Coca-Cola and has only tried it once in her life. Her experience in Amman, where she couldn’t refuse a glass of Coke from a generous taxi driver, adds a layer of complexity to this confession.

Lucy reveals her love for TV soap operas, game, and quiz shows like EastEnders, Neighbours, and The Archers, despite her professional image as an intellectual. Her fondness for these shows reflects a side of her that contrasts sharply with her highbrow persona. Lisette enjoys shopping at local markets but admits that she rarely cooks the ingredients she buys. Their confessions extend to everyday habits—Lucy loves to swear, finding a kind of joy and release in it, while Lisette showers only every three days, sparking discussions about hygiene and societal norms.

Will They Be Judged?

Both friends feel they may be judged for their unusual or unexpected predilections or aversions. Lucy’s lack of interest in music once led someone to suggest she had no soul, while Lisette's infrequent showering raises concerns about being perceived as unhygienic. These intimate revelations open a window into the societal pressures and personal insecurities they navigate.

Soaps and Soap:

Lucy feels that people may be surprised by her love of soap operas, as professionally, she's mostly seen as an author and book mentor, so perhaps more highbrow than a lover of EastEnders and Neighbours—not to mention The Archers—suggests that she is. Lisette's very practical reasons for not showering every day—killing off the important microbes on our bodies, wasting water, putting excessive soap chemicals into the water system—might just look like she's unhygienic. This leads to Lisette and Lucy discussing the state of their fridges and whether they would pick up dropped food and eat it off the floor (spoiler alert—yes, in their own homes).

Key Highlights in This Episode:

• Not Liking Music Isn’t a Sin: Musical Anhedonia is a neurological condition—not just Lucy being weird. It means a person's dopamine receptors are not wired up to their music audio circuits.
• To Swear or Not to Swear: Lucy also claims that swearing, which she enjoys, has a useful biological function, as tested in an experiment by @Stephen Fry. You can check the experiment here: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4d.... She is always surprised when people apologise for swearing in front of her and feels she is somehow not presenting her true self.
• Introvert/Extrovert: Lisette also feels misjudged at times when others see her as highly social and extrovert, but actually, she has a strong need to spend considerable amounts of time on her own and likes the term 'integration' for what introverts...]]>In this captivating episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 12: Three Surprising Confessions from Lucy & Lisette, we delve into the unexpected and intriguing world of two lifelong friends, Lucy and Lisette, both 70 years old. These remarkable women share three secret pleasures and aversions that most people don’t know about them, revealing sides of themselves that are rarely seen by others.

  What You Didn’t Know About Lucy and Lisette:

  Lucy, a book mentor and author, confesses to an aversion that might surprise many—she doesn’t enjoy music, and never has, even as a child. This lack of connection to music could be attributed to a condition known as Musical Anhedonia, a neurological condition affecting 3-5% of the population, where dopamine receptors aren’t wired to the music audio circuits. On the other hand, Lisette has a strong dislike for Coca-Cola and has only tried it once in her life. Her experience in Amman, where she couldn’t refuse a glass of Coke from a generous taxi driver, adds a layer of complexity to this confession.

  Lucy reveals her love for TV soap operas, game, and quiz shows like EastEnders, Neighbours, and The Archers, despite her professional image as an intellectual. Her fondness for these shows reflects a side of her that contrasts sharply with her highbrow persona. Lisette enjoys shopping at local markets but admits that she rarely cooks the ingredients she buys. Their confessions extend to everyday habits—Lucy loves to swear, finding a kind of joy and release in it, while Lisette showers only every three days, sparking discussions about hygiene and societal norms.

  Will They Be Judged?

  Both friends feel they may be judged for their unusual or unexpected predilections or aversions. Lucy’s lack of interest in music once led someone to suggest she had no soul, while Lisette's infrequent showering raises concerns about being perceived as unhygienic. These intimate revelations open a window into the societal pressures and personal insecurities they navigate.

  Soaps and Soap:

  Lucy feels that people may be surprised by her love of soap operas, as professionally, she's mostly seen as an author and book mentor, so perhaps more highbrow than a lover of EastEnders and Neighbours—not to mention The Archers—suggests that she is. Lisette's very practical reasons for not showering every day—killing off the important microbes on our bodies, wasting water, putting excessive soap chemicals into the water system—might just look like she's unhygienic. This leads to Lisette and Lucy discussing the state of their fridges and whether they would pick up dropped food and eat it off the floor (spoiler alert—yes, in their own homes).

  Key Highlights in This Episode:

  • Not Liking Music Isn’t a Sin: Musical Anhedonia is a neurological condition—not just Lucy being weird. It means a person's dopamine receptors are not wired up to their music audio circuits.
  • To Swear or Not to Swear: Lucy also claims that swearing, which she enjoys, has a useful biological function, as tested in an experiment by @Stephen Fry. You can check the experiment here: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4d.... She is always surprised when people apologise for swearing in front of her and feels she is somehow not presenting her true self.
  • Introvert/Extrovert: Lisette also feels misjudged at times when others see her as highly social and extrovert, but actually, she has a strong need to spend considerable amounts of time on her own and likes the term 'integration' for what introverts need to do after time spent with others.
  
  

  Conclusions:

  Why You Should Listen: This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to know more about some of Lucy and Lisette's guilty pleasures and unexpected aversions. If you have some secret personality traits that you don't speak about often, you'll be reassured to hear that you are not the only one. Lisette and Lucy also look back to their childhoods and families to see what societal influences could have caused theirs—like their mothers' wartime experiences.

  Engage with Us!

  What unexpected things do most people not know about you? Feel free to join this 'Confessions' episode by telling us your guilty secrets in the comments. Are you one of those rare people who doesn't love music? Is there a popular food that you can't stand? Or is there something you do that shocks other people? Post your thoughts in the comments below and don’t forget to hit the like button if you enjoyed this discussion. Subscribe to The Year of Being 70 for more inspiring conversations, and tap the bell icon to get notified when we release new episodes.

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  ]]>b1f45610-343b-4a64-bff7-1fdc59b0a91aWed, 22 Jan 2025 12:00:00 +010042:56falsefull212122Looking back to turning 40: Life Changes, Growth & New BeginningsIn this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 11 - Looking back to turning 40: Life Changes, Growth & New Beginnings, childhood friends Lucy and Lisette reflect on the significant changes they both experienced when they turned 40, sharing their journeys from a transformative and liberating time in their lives.

  Lucy opens up about the tumultuous period when her first marriage ended and the start of a new chapter with her second husband. She describes how her 40s marked the beginning of a fresh start, both personally and professionally, as she transitioned into a career as a work-life balance consultant. Lisette shares her own experiences of embracing a childfree life and focusing on business and personal growth in her 40s. She also shares how she met her partner, Jos, who shared her decision not to have children.

  Both friends discuss the societal stigma and expectations surrounding the age of 40 and how, instead of feeling like the start of "middle age," they both found their 40s to be a time of empowerment and transformation. They offer valuable insights into how life in middle age can be far from the negative narrative that is often portrayed.

  Key Highlights in This Episode:

  Stepping into Middle Age?

  Turning 40 is often associated with leaving "youth" behind and entering "middle age," but for Lucy, it represented a completely new beginning. She started a new relationship, made plans for a new family, and shifted into a career as a work-life balance consultant. Lisette saw turning 40 as the moment she could finally embrace her decision to remain childfree, having passed the age where it was a possibility. Her partner Jos shared the same values, and together they embraced this life choice. Despite entering this phase of life, neither Lucy nor Lisette felt as though they were stepping into "middle age"; instead, they felt they were entering a new, exciting chapter.

  Changing Careers

  Lisette made a major career shift at 40, selling her company and moving away from the corporate world to explore more environmental and spiritual movements. During this transition, she connected with new groups of people, discovering the Findhorn Foundation in Scotland and participating in the life-changing Transformation Game. On the other hand, Lucy began working in the emerging field of work-life balance, running flexible working trials for businesses such as Microsoft, Virgin, government departments, and small businesses. She helped organisations adopt flexible working practices that improved employee satisfaction and work-life balance.

  What’s in a Name?

  Lucy and Lisette also discuss the role their names play in their new relationships. Lucy was surprised to learn that Lisette and her partner Jos had actually married, but Lisette had never changed her name. Lucy shares her own experience of changing her name after her first marriage, yet continuing to use her maiden name professionally for over 20 years. After her second marriage, she took her husband's name, McCarraher, to signify a fresh start and perhaps even a new identity. Lucy now has a unique name that sets her apart, as there is no other "Lucy McCarraher" that she knows of.

  Conclusions: Turning 40 and Beyond

  Lisette and Lucy concluded that both turning 40 and turning 70 are often seen as moments when people enter a new, "older" phase of life. However, their experiences show that turning 40 is not a time for slowing down or settling into the status quo. Instead, both women embraced their 40s as a time of development, new relationships, career changes, and personal growth. They encourage listeners to view middle age not as an end, but as a new, exciting chapter filled with endless possibilities.

  Why You Should Listen:

  This episode is a must-listen for anyone about to turn 40, currently in their 40s, or navigating any phase of life where personal growth and transformation are key. Lucy and Lisette’s candid...]]>In this episode of The Year of Being 70 Ep 11 - Looking back to turning 40: Life Changes, Growth & New Beginnings, childhood friends Lucy and Lisette reflect on the significant changes they both experienced when they turned 40, sharing their journeys from a transformative and liberating time in their lives.

  Lucy opens up about the tumultuous period when her first marriage ended and the start of a new chapter with her second husband. She describes how her 40s marked the beginning of a fresh start, both personally and professionally, as she transitioned into a career as a work-life balance consultant. Lisette shares her own experiences of embracing a childfree life and focusing on business and personal growth in her 40s. She also shares how she met her partner, Jos, who shared her decision not to have children.

  Both friends discuss the societal stigma and expectations surrounding the age of 40 and how, instead of feeling like the start of "middle age," they both found their 40s to be a time of empowerment and transformation. They offer valuable insights into how life in middle age can be far from the negative narrative that is often portrayed.

  Key Highlights in This Episode:

  Stepping into Middle Age?

  Turning 40 is often associated with leaving "youth" behind and entering "middle age," but for Lucy, it represented a completely new beginning. She started a new relationship, made plans for a new family, and shifted into a career as a work-life balance consultant. Lisette saw turning 40 as the moment she could finally embrace her decision to remain childfree, having passed the age where it was a possibility. Her partner Jos shared the same values, and together they embraced this life choice. Despite entering this phase of life, neither Lucy nor Lisette felt as though they were stepping into "middle age"; instead, they felt they were entering a new, exciting chapter.

  Changing Careers

  Lisette made a major career shift at 40, selling her company and moving away from the corporate world to explore more environmental and spiritual movements. During this transition, she connected with new groups of people, discovering the Findhorn Foundation in Scotland and participating in the life-changing Transformation Game. On the other hand, Lucy began working in the emerging field of work-life balance, running flexible working trials for businesses such as Microsoft, Virgin, government departments, and small businesses. She helped organisations adopt flexible working practices that improved employee satisfaction and work-life balance.

  What’s in a Name?

  Lucy and Lisette also discuss the role their names play in their new relationships. Lucy was surprised to learn that Lisette and her partner Jos had actually married, but Lisette had never changed her name. Lucy shares her own experience of changing her name after her first marriage, yet continuing to use her maiden name professionally for over 20 years. After her second marriage, she took her husband's name, McCarraher, to signify a fresh start and perhaps even a new identity. Lucy now has a unique name that sets her apart, as there is no other "Lucy McCarraher" that she knows of.

  Conclusions: Turning 40 and Beyond

  Lisette and Lucy concluded that both turning 40 and turning 70 are often seen as moments when people enter a new, "older" phase of life. However, their experiences show that turning 40 is not a time for slowing down or settling into the status quo. Instead, both women embraced their 40s as a time of development, new relationships, career changes, and personal growth. They encourage listeners to view middle age not as an end, but as a new, exciting chapter filled with endless possibilities.

  Why You Should Listen:

  This episode is a must-listen for anyone about to turn 40, currently in their 40s, or navigating any phase of life where personal growth and transformation are key. Lucy and Lisette’s candid reflections offer a refreshing perspective on turning 40, challenging societal norms and encouraging people to embrace middle age as a time of opportunity and reinvention.

  Engage with Us!

  How did turning 40 impact your life? Did you experience a career shift, personal growth, or a new perspective? Share your thoughts in the comments below and don’t forget to hit the like button if you enjoyed this discussion. Subscribe to The Year of Being 70 for more inspiring conversations, and tap the bell icon to get notified when we release new episodes.

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  ]]>84bb39e5-558b-4737-88b0-5aa9e4ff5e6eTue, 14 Jan 2025 08:00:00 +010036:18falsefull211112Shaping 2025 with Hopes, Miracles, and FlexibilityHappy New Year! In this New Year episode of The Year of Being 70 Podcast Ep 10: Shaping 2025 with Hopes, Miracles, and Flexibility, hosts Lisette and Lucy reflect on their hopes and plans for 2025 as they celebrate the 10th episode of their podcast. This episode offers an insightful discussion about life’s journey, goal-setting, and the balance between being 'shapers' or 'responders' to life's unfolding events.

  They discuss:

  * How they would like the year to unfold

  * Whether they feel they are 'shapers' or 'responders' to life

  * One miracle they would each like to happen in 2025

  Hopes and Resolutions:

  Kindness and Patience

  Lisette's New Year’s resolution is to practice more kindness and patience. She aims to reduce stress by avoiding "combining" activities—fitting extra tasks into simple plans—and focusing on one thing at a time. She envisions the year unfolding organically, with plans set only through March and then responding to what life brings.

  Flexibility Over Firm Goals

  Lucy prefers a flexible approach, avoiding strict deadlines that could close off unforeseen opportunities. She is particularly excited about the upcoming publication of her book Book Magic, which offers guidance on writing business books, and the continued development of her AI-powered Book Magic AI app.

  Shapers vs. Responders

  Lisette identifies more as a responder, allowing life to unfold and adapting to circumstances. Lucy blends both approaches by setting intentions but staying open to alternative paths for achieving her objectives. They share examples of how past plans have evolved in unexpected ways, emphasising the importance of flexibility and adaptability.

  Writing and Creativity

  The hosts discuss their writing processes: Lisette finds inspiration through conversations and research, planning only broadly before writing, while Lucy prefers to construct a mental 'wireframe' of her ideas before putting them down. These different approaches underscore the diversity in creative processes.

  Miracles for 2025

  Lisette hopes for a global movement towards happiness and fulfilment, while Lucy’s personal miracle is to complete her novel in the spring and secure an agent and publisher. They both express the desire to find publishers who can help them meet their book project goals.

  Join the conversation! How do you envision your 2025? Are you a shaper or a responder? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to The Year of Being 70 podcast for more thought-provoking discussions.

  Hit the notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes.

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  ]]>Happy New Year! In this New Year episode of The Year of Being 70 Podcast Ep 10: Shaping 2025 with Hopes, Miracles, and Flexibility, hosts Lisette and Lucy reflect on their hopes and plans for 2025 as they celebrate the 10th episode of their podcast. This episode offers an insightful discussion about life’s journey, goal-setting, and the balance between being 'shapers' or 'responders' to life's unfolding events.

  They discuss:

  * How they would like the year to unfold

  * Whether they feel they are 'shapers' or 'responders' to life

  * One miracle they would each like to happen in 2025

  Hopes and Resolutions:

  Kindness and Patience

  Lisette's New Year’s resolution is to practice more kindness and patience. She aims to reduce stress by avoiding "combining" activities—fitting extra tasks into simple plans—and focusing on one thing at a time. She envisions the year unfolding organically, with plans set only through March and then responding to what life brings.

  Flexibility Over Firm Goals

  Lucy prefers a flexible approach, avoiding strict deadlines that could close off unforeseen opportunities. She is particularly excited about the upcoming publication of her book Book Magic, which offers guidance on writing business books, and the continued development of her AI-powered Book Magic AI app.

  Shapers vs. Responders

  Lisette identifies more as a responder, allowing life to unfold and adapting to circumstances. Lucy blends both approaches by setting intentions but staying open to alternative paths for achieving her objectives. They share examples of how past plans have evolved in unexpected ways, emphasising the importance of flexibility and adaptability.

  Writing and Creativity

  The hosts discuss their writing processes: Lisette finds inspiration through conversations and research, planning only broadly before writing, while Lucy prefers to construct a mental 'wireframe' of her ideas before putting them down. These different approaches underscore the diversity in creative processes.

  Miracles for 2025

  Lisette hopes for a global movement towards happiness and fulfilment, while Lucy’s personal miracle is to complete her novel in the spring and secure an agent and publisher. They both express the desire to find publishers who can help them meet their book project goals.

  Join the conversation! How do you envision your 2025? Are you a shaper or a responder? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to The Year of Being 70 podcast for more thought-provoking discussions.

  Hit the notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes.

  #yearofbeing70 #podcast #being70 #findinghappiness #newyearsresolutions #shapingthefuture #responder #planner #2025 #bookwriting #bookmagicai #writeyourbook #intentions #objectives #goals #goalsetting #flexibility #miracles #personalgrowth #shapingourlives #flexibilityovergoals #kindness #writingprocess #newyear2025 #lifegoals #mindfulness #yearofgrowth #newbeginnings #podcastdiscussion #kindnessandpatience #resolutons #shapinglife #flexibilityinlife #intentionsfor2025 #writingcommunity #creativeprocess #bookpublishing #bookmagic #writingjourney #goalsetting2025 #personaldevelopment #respondingtolife #lifebalance #miracles2025 #lifeintention #happinessin2025 #growthmindset #adaptingtochange #lifechoices #openmindset #writerslife #selfgrowth #lifepurpose #newyearreflection

  ]]>eface075-3538-4606-89b1-c26f3ed2d83cWed, 08 Jan 2025 12:00:00 +010040:50falsefull210102Merry Christmas at 70, 1960s White Christmas, New Year's ResolutionsIn this episode Lucy and Lisette, feeling 70-years-young, reflect on their experiences of turning 70 and discuss their plans and remember childhood traditions for the Christmas and New Year's holidays.

  Their discussion touches on:

  • Both Lisette and Lucy feel youthful and energised at age 70, though they acknowledge the milestone of turning 71 next year sounds somehow older. Lisette describes herself as a "young 70-year-old" who is still physically active and engaged. Lucy feels she is consolidating her life experiences and wisdom at this age. They discuss the perspective that comes with their life experiences.
  • The two friends reminisce about their contrasting childhood Christmas traditions back in the 1950s and 1960s. Lucy describes the very ordered and traditional Christmas celebrations of her youth in an almost 'Mary Poppins' London, while Lisette recalls more low-key family gatherings in the Netherlands without a strong religious aspect.
  • As older adults, both have embraced more flexibility and simplicity in how they observe the holidays. Lucy has even skipped putting up a tree this year to avoid the pressure; while Lisette has never had a Christmas tree in her own home. They touch on the different pressure Christmas brings as a parent (Lucy) and a non parent (Lisette).
  • Looking ahead to 2025, Lisette plans to focus on finishing a non-fiction book on using money for good that she's working on and staying open to new opportunities as they arise. Lucy wants to finish writing a novel set in her childhood, which is a more personal creative project separate from her business writing.
  • They discuss the challenges of writing fiction based on one's own life experiences, and how to balance including personal details with making the story accessible to readers.They talk about their different 'writing habits' and agree that both appreciate the freedom of an "evolving life" at this stage.
  • Their conversation touches on the role of family, the changing nature of traditions, and the mixed feelings that can accompany the holidays.
  
  

  Overall, this episode presents an insightful and relatable discussion of aging, creativity, family and the lived experiences of two vibrant 70-year-olds.

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• The two friends reminisce about their contrasting childhood Christmas traditions back in the 1950s and 1960s. Lucy describes the very ordered and traditional Christmas celebrations of her youth in an almost 'Mary Poppins' London, while Lisette recalls more low-key family gatherings in the Netherlands without a strong religious aspect.
• As older adults, both have embraced more flexibility and simplicity in how they observe the holidays. Lucy has even skipped putting up a tree this year to avoid the pressure; while Lisette has never had a Christmas tree in her own home. They touch on the different pressure Christmas brings as a parent (Lucy) and a non parent (Lisette).
• Looking ahead to 2025, Lisette plans to focus on finishing a non-fiction book on using money for good that she's working on and staying open to new opportunities as they arise. Lucy wants to finish writing a novel set in her childhood, which is a more personal creative project separate from her business writing.
• They discuss the challenges of writing fiction based on one's own life experiences, and how to balance including personal details with making the story accessible to readers.They talk about their different 'writing habits' and agree that both appreciate the freedom of an "evolving life" at this stage.
• Their conversation touches on the role of family, the changing nature of traditions, and the mixed feelings that can accompany the holidays.

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‘’How Can Women Get Their Experiences of Abuse Taken Seriously?’’

In this insightful episode, Lisette and Lucy dive deep into the challenges women face when trying to get their experiences of abuse and harassment taken seriously, especially in the workplace where power imbalances are all too common.

🌟 Episode Highlights 🌟

Lisette and Lucy open up about their personal experiences with unwanted sexual advances and harassment in the workplace and elsewhere. They share how the culture at the time made it difficult for women to speak up or confront inappropriate behavior.

🌟 Weekly Reflections

Lisette reflects on how she always drew a clear line when dealing with inappropriate behavior. Lucy shares her experiences of silence due to fear of causing workplace conflict. Together, they discuss feeling unsafe in public spaces and how women often deal with harassment without support.

🌟 Key Discussion Themes

1. The challenges of speaking out against abuse – especially when perpetrators hold positions of power

2. Workplace cultures that normalize casual sexism and sexual harassment

3. The role of fiction in raising awareness, featuring works like the play and book ‘Prima Facie’

4. Personal stories of abuse and how women are often dismissed or minimized, being labeled as 'overly sensitive' or 'middle-aged'

💬 Engaging and Empowering Conversation

Lisette and Lucy share their reflections on feeling threatened or unsafe and how this constant vigilance affects them as women, particularly as they navigate the impacts of abuse and harassment throughout their lives.

✨ Why You Should Watch or Listen

This episode offers valuable insights for everyone – whether you're a woman facing workplace abuse, in a leadership position, or a man who wants to better understand women’s experiences and become a true ally. Lisette and Lucy’s open conversation explores what it feels like to be a woman of any age subjected to unwanted attention or serious breaches of safety and rights.

✨ Empowering Your Journey

The episode highlights the ongoing problem of sexism and the importance of women supporting each other. It shows how speaking out and supporting one another can be a powerful weapon against harassment and abuse, breaking the silence and stigma that often surrounds these issues.

Thank you for joining us on this inspiring journey with The Year of Being 70 Podcast! 🌟

📌 Stay Connected:

We’d love to hear your thoughts on personal experiences with abuse, harassment, or sexism. Share your story in the comments below, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and stay connected!

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🌟 Episode Highlights 🌟

In this episode, Lisette and Lucy reflect on a significant difference in their lives:

Lucy chose motherhood, raising four children—two by birth and two through adoption—over two marriages. Her journey with adopting children and embracing the joys of grandparenting brings unique insights into parenting challenges and rewards.

Lisette decided early in life to live child-free and has never regretted it. She shares her experience of navigating societal views on child-free living, finding life fulfilment beyond parenting, and thriving through women’s empowerment through choice.

🌟Weekly Reflections:

Lisette experienced a deep sense of inner peace, acting from a place of "being and allowing" rather than reacting from an "egoic place." Her work as an external examiner for a healing school further emphasises her commitment to personal growth and helping others achieve balance.

Lucy celebrated securing additional angel investment for her Book Magic AI book-writing app and enjoyed a weekend caring for her young grandchildren, highlighting the balance between career and family.

🌟 Key Discussion Themes:

Choosing Motherhood:

Lucy shares how deciding to have children, and later adopting children, profoundly shaped her life.

Child-Free Living:

Lisette provides insights into living child-free by design, emphasising the importance of finding fulfilment without children and embracing childless women’s perspectives.

Parenthood Choices:

They discuss parenthood vs career, the social pressures on women, and the challenges of motherhood versus the rewards of living without kids.

Adoption Stories:

Lucy’s journey includes touching experiences of adopting vs birthing children, navigating adoption experiences, and understanding the role of family and personal growth.

Women and Societal Expectations:

Both reflect on breaking societal norms for women, redefining women thriving without children, and finding balance between parenting and personal growth.

💬 Engaging and Empowering Conversation:

This heartfelt episode delves into:

Life without children and overcoming the stigma of being childless.

The role of women in family dynamics, from grandparenting experiences to balancing family and professional growth.

Empowering women to make decisions about parenthood that align with their values.

✨ Why You Should Watch:

Whether you’re a parent, exploring child-free living, or reflecting on life decisions for women at 70, this episode offers valuable insights into women’s life journeys. It’s a celebration of individuality, honouring the beauty of both parenthood and choosing a child-free lifestyle.

✨ Empowering Your Journey:

Every choice is valid, whether it’s embracing motherhood, living child-free, or focusing on career and personal growth. Thank you for being part of this inspiring journey with The Year of Being 70 Podcast! 🌟

📌 Stay Connected:

We’d love to hear your thoughts on motherhood vs child-free living, adoption and family building, or navigating social expectations of motherhood. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your views in the comments!

#being70 #yearofbeing70 In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Lisette and Lucy dive deep into the contrasting paths of choosing motherhood and embracing a child-free lifestyle, exploring the impact of women’s expectations, parenthood choices, and the challenges of balancing family and career. This discussion celebrates the diverse life choices for women and sheds light on navigating societal norms while staying true to personal fulfilment.

🌟 Episode Highlights 🌟

In this episode, Lisette and Lucy reflect on a significant difference in their lives:

Lucy chose motherhood, raising four children—two by birth and two through adoption—over two marriages. Her journey with adopting children and embracing the joys of grandparenting brings unique insights into parenting challenges and rewards.

Lisette decided early in life to live child-free and has never regretted it. She shares her experience of navigating societal views on child-free living, finding life fulfilment beyond parenting, and thriving through women’s empowerment through choice.

🌟Weekly Reflections:

Lisette experienced a deep sense of inner peace, acting from a place of "being and allowing" rather than reacting from an "egoic place." Her work as an external examiner for a healing school further emphasises her commitment to personal growth and helping others achieve balance.

Lucy celebrated securing additional angel investment for her Book Magic AI book-writing app and enjoyed a weekend caring for her young grandchildren, highlighting the balance between career and family.

🌟 Key Discussion Themes:

Choosing Motherhood:

Lucy shares how deciding to have children, and later adopting children, profoundly shaped her life.

Child-Free Living:

Lisette provides insights into living child-free by design, emphasising the importance of finding fulfilment without children and embracing childless women’s perspectives.

Parenthood Choices:

They discuss parenthood vs career, the social pressures on women, and the challenges of motherhood versus the rewards of living without kids.

Adoption Stories:

Lucy’s journey includes touching experiences of adopting vs birthing children, navigating adoption experiences, and understanding the role of family and personal growth.

Women and Societal Expectations:

Both reflect on breaking societal norms for women, redefining women thriving without children, and finding balance between parenting and personal growth.

💬 Engaging and Empowering Conversation:

This heartfelt episode delves into:

Life without children and overcoming the stigma of being childless.

The role of women in family dynamics, from grandparenting experiences to balancing family and professional growth.

Empowering women to make decisions about parenthood that align with their values.

✨ Why You Should Watch:

Whether you’re a parent, exploring child-free living, or reflecting on life decisions for women at 70, this episode offers valuable insights into women’s life journeys. It’s a celebration of individuality, honouring the beauty of both parenthood and choosing a child-free lifestyle.

✨ Empowering Your Journey:

Every choice is valid, whether it’s embracing motherhood, living child-free, or focusing on career and personal growth. Thank you for being part of this inspiring journey with The Year of Being 70 Podcast! 🌟

📌 Stay Connected:

We’d love to hear your thoughts on motherhood vs child-free living, adoption and family building, or navigating social expectations of motherhood. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your views in the comments!

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Where Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker, two lifelong friends, share their insights and reflections on life at 70. This episode dives deep into themes of mental health, widowing, grief, and life reflections, exploring the personal and emotional challenges they’ve faced as they journey through aging.

In this episode, Lisette discusses her work on a book about widowing and the profound emotional and practical challenges that widows face. They talk about the complexities of grief, how to offer support to those who are grieving, and how to cope with the difficult emotions surrounding loss.

Both Lucy and Lisette share personal stories about their earlier years, reflecting on their midlife reflections and how they navigated difficult times, including depression and identity crises. Lisette opens up about her struggles with depression and how she found strength by confronting her anger and sadness. Lucy reflects on her move to Australia at 21, where she co-founded a theatre magazine, and how that experience sparked her entrepreneurial journey, despite not having the word for it at the time. She talks about the experience of interviewing Mel Gibson at the start of his career!

This episode is filled with valuable insights for listeners grappling with mental health, emotional challenges, and the journey of aging. Lucy and Lisette both reflect on their experiences of aging, the challenges they’ve faced, and how they continue to find resilience, strength, and self-discovery in later life.

As introverts, they also discuss the balance between socializing and maintaining solitude, a topic that is deeply relevant for many. They share their experiences of loneliness in older age, coping with aging, and the importance of supportive friendships during later years. The discussion provides a powerful look at mental health in older adults, offering insights into mental health struggles in older age and how to build emotional resilience.

Throughout the episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their life at 70 and the lessons they’ve learned from the experiences that shaped their mental health. They talk about emotional struggles in widowhood, the importance of grief support, and the journey of healing after a difficult life event.

As they share their journey through the emotional challenges of aging, they dive deep into how mental health can evolve in later years, and how they have found new purpose and personal growth after 70. Their conversation is filled with wisdom for anyone looking to understand the complex relationship between grief and mental health, and the power of friendship after loss.

Key themes covered include:

1. The impact of aging and mental health

2. Coping with grief and loss

3. The importance of support for widows and widowhood

4. Coping with aging and finding purpose in later years

5. Mental health and women’s mental health

6. How introverts cope with loss and loneliness

7. Resilience, strength, and emotional healing in later life

8.The role of friendship and supportive friendships in midlife

9.Self-care tips for widows and emotional resilience in older adults

This episode is a heartfelt and open discussion about the challenges of growing older, coping with life changes, and finding meaning in later life. If you're navigating similar issues or simply interested in personal stories about mental health and personal growth after 70, this episode will resonate deeply with you.

We hope you find comfort, connection, and inspiration in this episode. If you enjoyed this conversation, please like, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone who might benefit from hearing about mental health and grief in the later stages of life.

Don’t forget to comment below – we’d love to hear your thoughts on...]]>Welcome to The Year of Being 70 Podcast – Ep. 6 | Two Friends on Mental Health, Widowing, and Life Reflections

Where Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker, two lifelong friends, share their insights and reflections on life at 70. This episode dives deep into themes of mental health, widowing, grief, and life reflections, exploring the personal and emotional challenges they’ve faced as they journey through aging.

In this episode, Lisette discusses her work on a book about widowing and the profound emotional and practical challenges that widows face. They talk about the complexities of grief, how to offer support to those who are grieving, and how to cope with the difficult emotions surrounding loss.

Both Lucy and Lisette share personal stories about their earlier years, reflecting on their midlife reflections and how they navigated difficult times, including depression and identity crises. Lisette opens up about her struggles with depression and how she found strength by confronting her anger and sadness. Lucy reflects on her move to Australia at 21, where she co-founded a theatre magazine, and how that experience sparked her entrepreneurial journey, despite not having the word for it at the time. She talks about the experience of interviewing Mel Gibson at the start of his career!

This episode is filled with valuable insights for listeners grappling with mental health, emotional challenges, and the journey of aging. Lucy and Lisette both reflect on their experiences of aging, the challenges they’ve faced, and how they continue to find resilience, strength, and self-discovery in later life.

As introverts, they also discuss the balance between socializing and maintaining solitude, a topic that is deeply relevant for many. They share their experiences of loneliness in older age, coping with aging, and the importance of supportive friendships during later years. The discussion provides a powerful look at mental health in older adults, offering insights into mental health struggles in older age and how to build emotional resilience.

Throughout the episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their life at 70 and the lessons they’ve learned from the experiences that shaped their mental health. They talk about emotional struggles in widowhood, the importance of grief support, and the journey of healing after a difficult life event.

As they share their journey through the emotional challenges of aging, they dive deep into how mental health can evolve in later years, and how they have found new purpose and personal growth after 70. Their conversation is filled with wisdom for anyone looking to understand the complex relationship between grief and mental health, and the power of friendship after loss.

Key themes covered include:

1. The impact of aging and mental health

2. Coping with grief and loss

3. The importance of support for widows and widowhood

4. Coping with aging and finding purpose in later years

5. Mental health and women’s mental health

6. How introverts cope with loss and loneliness

7. Resilience, strength, and emotional healing in later life

8.The role of friendship and supportive friendships in midlife

9.Self-care tips for widows and emotional resilience in older adults

This episode is a heartfelt and open discussion about the challenges of growing older, coping with life changes, and finding meaning in later life. If you're navigating similar issues or simply interested in personal stories about mental health and personal growth after 70, this episode will resonate deeply with you.

We hope you find comfort, connection, and inspiration in this episode. If you enjoyed this conversation, please like, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone who might benefit from hearing about mental health and grief in the later stages of life.

Don’t forget to comment below – we’d love to hear your thoughts on aging, mental health, and the importance of friendship during times of loss.

Thank you for joining Lucy and Lisette on this journey of reflection and growth. We look forward to your thoughts and reflections in the comments section.

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In this episode Lucy and Lisette are joined by @CerilCampbell, a celebrated Celebrity Stylist, to explore how to embrace fashion for women over 70 and celebrate confidence and style in your 70s.

Whether you're looking for tips on dressing stylish at 70 or inspiration for sexy fashion for older women, this conversation is tailored just for you!

We discuss how clothing can empower women to feel confident, beautiful, and true to themselves as they age. From choosing age-appropriate clothing for 70s to experimenting with colours and patterns that flatter your look, this episode offers insights into creating a wardrobe that reflects your unique personality and life stage.

Ceril shares her expert advice on 70s style tips, including the importance of a supportive bra, finding flattering clothes for older women, and using accessories, haircuts, and makeup to enhance your best features.

As we redefine aging and fashion, we dive into the evolving perceptions of what it means to look and feel your best in the third phase of life. Ceril's journey from fashion design, costume designer for film and TV to styling celebrities is an inspiring reminder that fashion is not about looking younger but about embracing timeless fashion for older women and dressing for the body you have now.

Discover practical advice for maintaining effortless style, selecting chic and elegant clothing, and creating over-70 style inspiration that suits your lifestyle. Whether you're interested in redefining aging with fashion, sustainable fashion, or tips on how to feel sexy in your 70s, this episode has it all.

Ceril's top three tips?

1) Avoid being a slave to trends but don’t fall into a style rut

2) Embrace who you are now and dress to suit your current body shape, and

3) Use accessories, haircuts, and makeup to enhance your best features.

We’re thrilled to have you here as we celebrate fashion and aging gracefully. Let this conversation inspire you to explore style for mature women, embrace body positivity at 70, and enjoy the freedom to express your individuality through empowering style choices. Share your thoughts in the comments—because fashion for us older women is a journey, not a destination!

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring content .Hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode!

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In this episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on how the cultural shifts of the 60s and 70s influenced their identities, relationships, and views on the world. Growing up in such a significant period of change, they share how societal expectations and personal experiences shaped their self-discovery, individual voices, and ultimately, the women they are today.

They discuss:

Feminism and Gender Roles: Lucy and Lisette delve into the rise of feminism and its lasting impact on their lives. They discuss how growing up in this era made them more aware of gender expectations and opened doors for future generations of women.

Relationships and Marriage: From early boyfriends to marriage and family life, they reflect on their own romantic experiences, as well as how societal views on relationships and marriage evolved during this time. They candidly share stories of love, loss, and learning to navigate partnerships on their own terms.

Discovering Personal Identity: Lucy talks about discovering her identity as a writer and novelist, describing her journey of overcoming family pressures and financial constraints to pursue her creative passions. Lisette shares her struggle with depression and the ways in which suppressing parts of herself shaped her journey to self-acceptance and fulfilment.

Class and Social Divide: The two friends explore how class divides and social circles influenced their perspectives and experiences. While Lucy had exposure to a diverse range of social classes, Lisette grew up in a more conventional, sheltered environment. They discuss how these different backgrounds influenced their understanding of privilege, opportunity, and connection.

The Power of Friendship: Through everything, the enduring friendship between Lucy and Lisette has been a pillar of support. They reflect on the importance of friendships in personal growth and how a trusted confidant can provide perspective and encouragement during pivotal moments.

In this candid conversation, Lucy and Lisette not only recount their past but also reflect on the lasting impact of these years on their later lives. They discuss how they’ve each navigated the challenges of staying connected to their roots while forging their own paths.

This episode is perfect for anyone interested in the cultural revolution, self-discovery, or simply a nostalgic look at life in the 60s and 70s. Their stories, while rooted in a different era, resonate deeply today as they touch on universal themes of identity, empowerment, and finding one’s voice.

We hope you enjoy this rich exploration of friendship, growth, and resilience on The Year of Being 70 with Lucy McCarraher.

Watch, subscribe, and join us on this journey of reflection and insight on Lucy McCarraher’s channel!

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As two inspiring women over 70, they share their personal journeys and reflections on personal growth after 70. This episode is full of wisdom, stories of financial empowerment for older women, and insights into how to continue to grow and succeed in later years.

Lucy McCarraher talks about her experience using the innovative Book Magic AI—a book-writing app that has become a game-changer in her own writing process at 70. Surprisingly, even experienced writers like Lucy have found this AI-assisted writing tool incredibly helpful. She explains how the app helps streamline the writing process, making it easier to stay organized and on track. However, Lucy makes it clear that the app isn't about writing your book content for you. Instead, it’s a tool that enhances the creative process.

Lisette Schuitemaker, another seasoned writer, discusses her reservations about needing AI writing tools for experienced writers. While she feels confident in her abilities to write without external help, she’s excited to explore the app herself during her upcoming writing retreat at 70.

As the conversation unfolds, Lucy questions whether they made the right choice by publicly starting their podcast, sharing their experiences of turning 70.

Is it possible that people will start to think they’re “too old” to pursue new projects? This thought-provoking discussion explores how we can all embrace aging gracefully without fear of societal judgment.

In addition, Lucy and Lisette take a deep dive into the topic of money—its role in their lives, overcoming fears of aging, and shifting their money mindset in older women. They reflect on the biases and challenges they've faced, and how they’ve worked to overcome financial fears. With candid insights, they discuss financial independence at 70 and offer valuable perspectives on how to manage money, success, and aging.

This episode is an essential listen for anyone looking for inspiration for older women, particularly those navigating life milestones after 70. It’s a refreshing look at how to achieve personal goals in older age, whether it's writing a book at any age, retirement and career goals, or embracing new technology in writing at 70.

If you're inspired by this conversation, be sure to check out ''Book Magic AI'', the tool that Lucy swears by for writing a book with AI assistance. Learn more about this incredible app at https://bookmagic.ai/ and start your own writing journey today!

We'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Do you have any experiences with writing in later life or overcoming fears of aging? Leave a comment below to share your story, or let us know if you have any topics you'd like us to discuss in future episodes of The Year of Being 70 Podcast.

Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share with friends who are looking for financial empowerment after 70, personal growth in later years, and inspiration for older women. Join us as we continue our journey of celebrating milestones after 70 and defying the typical expectations of aging!

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In this episode, hosts Lucy McCarraher (@lucymccarraherauthor) and Lisette Schuitemaker dive into the journey of turning 70, sharing personal stories and reflections on aging, family dynamics, and the significant societal changes they witnessed. They discuss their experiences of growing up in different environments, from growing up in the 1950s to the cultural shifts that shaped their lives.

In This Episode, They Discuss:

✨ Lucy McCarraher's birthday celebration and the emotional challenges of accepting tributes and compliments, which bring forth reflections on societal norms of the 1950s and the expectations placed on women at different life stages.

✨ The experience of being eldest daughters and the dethronement that happens when the first sibling arrives. This moment marks a significant shift in their roles and continues to influence family dynamics throughout life.

✨ The Eldest Daughter Effect, the title of Lisette Schuitemaker's book, and her research into the common character traits found in eldest daughters, including the responsibility and leadership roles they often take on.

✨ The first decade of their lives, born in 1954, was marked by extraordinary societal changes. Lucy experienced this transformation from the fashion-forward Chelsea's King’s Road, while Lisette’s experience was shaped by life in suburban Holland, reflecting the generational differences in their upbringings.

As they reflect on life lessons from 70 years, Lucy and Lisette explore how women’s experiences at 70 can be both empowering and challenging. They share their thoughts on turning 70 gracefully, embracing the wisdom of aging, and celebrating the milestones in aging that come with this life stage. They also discuss the importance of family roles in childhood and how the impact of birth order continues to shape personal growth and relationships.

If you are turning 70 or have recently celebrated this milestone, this podcast episode will resonate with you. Lucy and Lisette would love to hear your thoughts and feedback on their conversation, especially about how your experience compares with theirs. Share your reflections on the challenges of being the eldest, women’s reflections on aging, and how societal changes in the 1950s influenced your life.

Key Themes of This Episode Include:

✨ Eldest daughters and the Eldest Daughter Effect – how the role of the first-born daughter shapes personality, relationships, and life choices.

✨ Family dynamics and how birth order psychology can affect a person’s sense of responsibility, leadership, and self-perception.

✨ The intersection of generational differences in upbringing, as Lucy McCarraher’s experience in Chelsea’s King’s Road contrasts with Lisette Schuitemaker’s life in suburban Holland.

✨ Societal changes in the 1950s, including how the world evolved during the hosts' childhood and how these shifts are reflected in their life stories of eldest daughters.

✨ Celebrating 70 years, reflecting on life lessons from 70 years, and navigating the emotional and personal challenges that come with aging.

✨ How women can thrive after 70 and embrace personal growth at 70 as they reflect on their past and look toward the future.

✨ Milestones in aging and the significance of these life stages in shaping women’s aging journeys.

If you're reflecting on family roles, the role of eldest daughters, or simply want to join a meaningful conversation about life in the 1950s and personal reflections on aging, this episode will offer deep insights. Lucy and Lisette’s candid discussion of their personal stories and experiences will encourage you to reflect on your own life’s milestones.

Leave a comment below or connect with them on LinkedIn to join the conversation:

Lucy McCarraher on...]]>Welcome to Episode 2 of The Year of Being 70 Podcast – Ep. 2: Eldest Daughters, Milestones & Life in the 1950s!

In this episode, hosts Lucy McCarraher (@lucymccarraherauthor) and Lisette Schuitemaker dive into the journey of turning 70, sharing personal stories and reflections on aging, family dynamics, and the significant societal changes they witnessed. They discuss their experiences of growing up in different environments, from growing up in the 1950s to the cultural shifts that shaped their lives.

In This Episode, They Discuss:

✨ Lucy McCarraher's birthday celebration and the emotional challenges of accepting tributes and compliments, which bring forth reflections on societal norms of the 1950s and the expectations placed on women at different life stages.

✨ The experience of being eldest daughters and the dethronement that happens when the first sibling arrives. This moment marks a significant shift in their roles and continues to influence family dynamics throughout life.

✨ The Eldest Daughter Effect, the title of Lisette Schuitemaker's book, and her research into the common character traits found in eldest daughters, including the responsibility and leadership roles they often take on.

✨ The first decade of their lives, born in 1954, was marked by extraordinary societal changes. Lucy experienced this transformation from the fashion-forward Chelsea's King’s Road, while Lisette’s experience was shaped by life in suburban Holland, reflecting the generational differences in their upbringings.

As they reflect on life lessons from 70 years, Lucy and Lisette explore how women’s experiences at 70 can be both empowering and challenging. They share their thoughts on turning 70 gracefully, embracing the wisdom of aging, and celebrating the milestones in aging that come with this life stage. They also discuss the importance of family roles in childhood and how the impact of birth order continues to shape personal growth and relationships.

If you are turning 70 or have recently celebrated this milestone, this podcast episode will resonate with you. Lucy and Lisette would love to hear your thoughts and feedback on their conversation, especially about how your experience compares with theirs. Share your reflections on the challenges of being the eldest, women’s reflections on aging, and how societal changes in the 1950s influenced your life.

Key Themes of This Episode Include:

✨ Eldest daughters and the Eldest Daughter Effect – how the role of the first-born daughter shapes personality, relationships, and life choices.

✨ Family dynamics and how birth order psychology can affect a person’s sense of responsibility, leadership, and self-perception.

✨ The intersection of generational differences in upbringing, as Lucy McCarraher’s experience in Chelsea’s King’s Road contrasts with Lisette Schuitemaker’s life in suburban Holland.

✨ Societal changes in the 1950s, including how the world evolved during the hosts' childhood and how these shifts are reflected in their life stories of eldest daughters.

✨ Celebrating 70 years, reflecting on life lessons from 70 years, and navigating the emotional and personal challenges that come with aging.

✨ How women can thrive after 70 and embrace personal growth at 70 as they reflect on their past and look toward the future.

✨ Milestones in aging and the significance of these life stages in shaping women’s aging journeys.

If you're reflecting on family roles, the role of eldest daughters, or simply want to join a meaningful conversation about life in the 1950s and personal reflections on aging, this episode will offer deep insights. Lucy and Lisette’s candid discussion of their personal stories and experiences will encourage you to reflect on your own life’s milestones.

Leave a comment below or connect with them on LinkedIn to join the conversation:

Lucy McCarraher on LinkedIn;https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucymccarraher/

Lisette Schuitemaker on LinkedIn;https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisette-schuitemaker-77a488/

Additionally, you can find our on Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, and Threads to continue the discussion.

Join the Conversation and Share Your Thoughts!

Lucy and Lisette are eager to hear about your experiences, insights, and suggestions for future podcast topics.

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to The Year of Being 70 Podcast for more episodes on women's aging journeys, celebrating milestones in later life, and wisdom from eldest daughters.

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These inspiring women are leading women’s aging journeys, showing how it’s possible to remain vibrant, energetic, and motivated as you age. They’re also committed to celebrating 70 years and embracing the changes that come with getting older.

As they reflect on their lives, they share their contrasting differences in upbringing, with Lucy being English and Lisette being Dutch. Their friendship has been shaped by their unique perspectives on life, including their experiences with childless living stories and their decisions around family dynamics in later life. They also explore their post-war family stories and discuss how their individual experiences have shaped their personal and professional lives.

This episode dives deep into the concept of aging gracefully and living purposefully at 70. Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker share their stories of resilience, determination, and how they continue to thrive after 70. Their discussions on personal growth at 70, ambition in older age, and celebrating life’s milestones will leave you feeling inspired to embrace every stage of life with confidence and excitement.

Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker's conversation also touches on important topics such as friendship through the decades and the value of generational connections, showcasing how cross-cultural friendships can enrich our lives as we age. From their shared post-war university life to their reflections on their unique journeys, this podcast offers a heartfelt and empowering exploration of women in their 70s and the amazing things that can happen when you approach life with purpose.

Join Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker as they continue their journey of redefining 70 years, embracing aging without retirement, and celebrating the beauty of friendship and ambition in later life. Whether you’re looking for stories of inspirational aging conversations, personal transformation at 70, or simply an uplifting podcast for women, this episode has something for everyone!

Don’t forget to subscribe to The Year of Being 70 Podcast for more episodes that dive into the journeys of women redefining aging and living life to the fullest. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments – we’d love to hear how you are navigating your own personal reflections at 70.

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These inspiring women are leading women’s aging journeys, showing how it’s possible to remain vibrant, energetic, and motivated as you age. They’re also committed to celebrating 70 years and embracing the changes that come with getting older.

As they reflect on their lives, they share their contrasting differences in upbringing, with Lucy being English and Lisette being Dutch. Their friendship has been shaped by their unique perspectives on life, including their experiences with childless living stories and their decisions around family dynamics in later life. They also explore their post-war family stories and discuss how their individual experiences have shaped their personal and professional lives.

This episode dives deep into the concept of aging gracefully and living purposefully at 70. Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker share their stories of resilience, determination, and how they continue to thrive after 70. Their discussions on personal growth at 70, ambition in older age, and celebrating life’s milestones will leave you feeling inspired to embrace every stage of life with confidence and excitement.

Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker's conversation also touches on important topics such as friendship through the decades and the value of generational connections, showcasing how cross-cultural friendships can enrich our lives as we age. From their shared post-war university life to their reflections on their unique journeys, this podcast offers a heartfelt and empowering exploration of women in their 70s and the amazing things that can happen when you approach life with purpose.

Join Lucy McCarraher and Lisette Schuitemaker as they continue their journey of redefining 70 years, embracing aging without retirement, and celebrating the beauty of friendship and ambition in later life. Whether you’re looking for stories of inspirational aging conversations, personal transformation at 70, or simply an uplifting podcast for women, this episode has something for everyone!

Don’t forget to subscribe to The Year of Being 70 Podcast for more episodes that dive into the journeys of women redefining aging and living life to the fullest. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments – we’d love to hear how you are navigating your own personal reflections at 70.

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