<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/style.xsl" type="text/xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><atom:link href="https://feeds.captivate.fm/then-and-now-stories/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title><![CDATA[Then & Now: Stories of Life, Love and Family through the Decades]]></title><podcast:guid>34f64e14-7ccb-5ebb-865b-eca351860635</podcast:guid><lastBuildDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2026 15:01:50 +0000</lastBuildDate><generator>Captivate.fm</generator><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><copyright><![CDATA[Patti & Larry Schmidt]]></copyright><managingEditor>Patti &amp; Larry Schmidt</managingEditor><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get ready for Then & Now with Patti and Larry Schmidt, where four decades of love, marriage, and family are shared with humor, heart, and plenty of laugh-out-loud stories. From raising kids across generations to aging with confidence, Patti and Larry share their experience navigating life’s smallest moments and biggest milestones.]]></itunes:summary><image><url>https://artwork.captivate.fm/901d9854-29a9-4eb9-8e11-255eaf85250f/fcPhhT4X8jnWlm4vluCs7z02.jpg</url><title>Then &amp; Now: Stories of Life, Love and Family through the Decades</title><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link></image><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/901d9854-29a9-4eb9-8e11-255eaf85250f/fcPhhT4X8jnWlm4vluCs7z02.jpg"/><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Patti &amp; Larry Schmidt</itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author>Patti &amp; Larry Schmidt</itunes:author><description>Get ready for Then &amp; Now with Patti and Larry Schmidt, where four decades of love, marriage, and family are shared with humor, heart, and plenty of laugh-out-loud stories. From raising kids across generations to aging with confidence, Patti and Larry share their experience navigating life’s smallest moments and biggest milestones.</description><link>https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&amp;ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de</link><atom:link href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" rel="hub"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:new-feed-url>https://feeds.captivate.fm/then-and-now-stories/</itunes:new-feed-url><podcast:locked>no</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><item><title>14. Christmas Then &amp; Now</title><itunes:title>14. Christmas Then &amp; Now</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and we’re talking all things holidays from our family traditions to our thoughts on Santa Claus and the Elf on the Shelf. Merry Christmas and Happy Everything to you and yours! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and we’re talking all things holidays from our family traditions to our thoughts on Santa Claus and the Elf on the Shelf. Merry Christmas and Happy Everything to you and yours! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">01a4b1c7-627e-4949-9df9-141001afc968</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/68c6202b-a2ad-4ffa-9a8b-700f84ecb247/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 12:48:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/01a4b1c7-627e-4949-9df9-141001afc968.mp3" length="56661455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>59:01</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>13. Moms Over 40</title><itunes:title>13. Moms Over 40</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week we’re talking all about our experience having our daughter in our mid-40s and reflecting on the judgement that’s sometimes aimed directly at older mothers. Thank you for listening! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week we’re talking all about our experience having our daughter in our mid-40s and reflecting on the judgement that’s sometimes aimed directly at older mothers. Thank you for listening! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">ec7d5acb-c246-453c-937d-414cc35fe9aa</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/901d9854-29a9-4eb9-8e11-255eaf85250f/fcPhhT4X8jnWlm4vluCs7z02.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 20:41:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ec7d5acb-c246-453c-937d-414cc35fe9aa.mp3" length="65825231" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:08:34</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>12. Seasons of Marriage</title><itunes:title>12. Seasons of Marriage</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we talk about marriage in our early years vs today and share our honest thoughts about roommate vs honeymoon phases, what we got right and what we would do differently. Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we talk about marriage in our early years vs today and share our honest thoughts about roommate vs honeymoon phases, what we got right and what we would do differently. Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">f1169664-2c49-4500-9220-25c65b6ec74e</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/409a3b5f-3bdb-49ab-bdae-820aa3fa1b10/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 18:19:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f1169664-2c49-4500-9220-25c65b6ec74e.mp3" length="79815119" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:23:08</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>11. Our Wedding Story</title><itunes:title>11. Our Wedding Story</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>From our Christmas Eve engagement our senior year of college in 1991, to our elopement to St. Thomas, to our last minute reception back at home in New Jersey, we tell the story of how our marriage began 33 years ago this week. It’s not the most traditional wedding story, but it’s ours! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From our Christmas Eve engagement our senior year of college in 1991, to our elopement to St. Thomas, to our last minute reception back at home in New Jersey, we tell the story of how our marriage began 33 years ago this week. It’s not the most traditional wedding story, but it’s ours! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">98076d91-dc13-40b0-91ed-40bd64cfb62f</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/0797a730-0282-4af8-8e68-cb49263b57b4/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 08:43:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/98076d91-dc13-40b0-91ed-40bd64cfb62f.mp3" length="42625491" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>44:24</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>10. Travels and Adventures</title><itunes:title>10. Travels and Adventures</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Travel has always been a priority, even when our children were little. In this episode we share our favorite memories, destinations and mishaps over the years and where we plan to go next! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Travel has always been a priority, even when our children were little. In this episode we share our favorite memories, destinations and mishaps over the years and where we plan to go next! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">7659011f-4b8d-436c-8c61-8c899c9c1df5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/42d8cccf-b70b-4c05-8eb5-53e51690a64c/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 15:16:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/7659011f-4b8d-436c-8c61-8c899c9c1df5.mp3" length="76518867" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:19:42</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>9. Party Like It&apos;s 1988</title><itunes:title>9. Party Like It&apos;s 1988</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Inspired by commentary on some of our old photos we talk in depth about our relationship with alcohol and other substances then and now. Let us know if you can relate to any of our stories! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inspired by commentary on some of our old photos we talk in depth about our relationship with alcohol and other substances then and now. Let us know if you can relate to any of our stories! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">63903f2a-3646-420b-8cb7-b25db450ef74</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3f7f1812-3c14-4456-819d-bb49ee063126/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/63903f2a-3646-420b-8cb7-b25db450ef74.mp3" length="164006400" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:08:20</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>8. Age Gap Siblings</title><itunes:title>8. Age Gap Siblings</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we chat about the unique relationship between siblings that are a generation apart, staying close to our adult kids and behind the scenes of our much-loved sibling costume photo series. Thank you for listening! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we chat about the unique relationship between siblings that are a generation apart, staying close to our adult kids and behind the scenes of our much-loved sibling costume photo series. Thank you for listening! Xo </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">3a0d0238-d858-4d6f-bf6d-06cea4047229</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3f019ab5-1bc7-405e-bf4d-324990dee75f/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 14:58:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3a0d0238-d858-4d6f-bf6d-06cea4047229.mp3" length="73383891" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:16:26</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>7. Birth, Loss &amp; Baby Stories</title><itunes:title>7. Birth, Loss &amp; Baby Stories</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Inspired by the upcoming birth of our grandson we take a trip down memory lane sharing our birth and baby stories, our losses in between and our insights from then and now. Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inspired by the upcoming birth of our grandson we take a trip down memory lane sharing our birth and baby stories, our losses in between and our insights from then and now. Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">9d5bd2f4-6921-4837-93ef-2d35d16ea694</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/bc19017d-dd0c-4d86-90f8-3b680308cbbb/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 16:16:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9d5bd2f4-6921-4837-93ef-2d35d16ea694.mp3" length="77363667" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:20:35</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>6. Social Media: The Discussion Continues</title><itunes:title>6. Social Media: The Discussion Continues</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week we continue our social media deep dive covering sponsored posts and working with brands plus our thoughts about children and social media. Thank you for listening! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week we continue our social media deep dive covering sponsored posts and working with brands plus our thoughts about children and social media. Thank you for listening! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">80436f93-6f9c-4f73-bfeb-ff4994629ca6</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/f07e795d-ff51-4fa5-b617-482c87276936/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 20:37:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/80436f93-6f9c-4f73-bfeb-ff4994629ca6.mp3" length="69290451" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:12:11</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>5. Social Media: The Good, The Bad &amp; The Ugly</title><itunes:title>5. Social Media: The Good, The Bad &amp; The Ugly</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we talk all things social media from what it’s really like to go viral, to the unpredictable algorithms, to balancing our private life with our public social media presence. Let us know what you think! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we talk all things social media from what it’s really like to go viral, to the unpredictable algorithms, to balancing our private life with our public social media presence. Let us know what you think! Xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">d03dc87e-32cf-410c-80e8-ae2bc484d3ee</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/5f07ea27-1305-4821-9c58-d302121fcbe8/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 21:30:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d03dc87e-32cf-410c-80e8-ae2bc484d3ee.mp3" length="71240403" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:14:13</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>4. Long Distance Love in the 80s</title><itunes:title>4. Long Distance Love in the 80s</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We had so much fun with this episode! We’re reminiscing about long distance romance pre-internet, sharing our thoughts on commitment at a young age, and talking about teenagers and consent. Thank you for listening! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had so much fun with this episode! We’re reminiscing about long distance romance pre-internet, sharing our thoughts on commitment at a young age, and talking about teenagers and consent. Thank you for listening! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">b76ea978-e5e2-4efb-911c-f95ad5f3dcd7</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3cd6c2bf-6986-4330-a496-130e9b441b54/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2025 13:19:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b76ea978-e5e2-4efb-911c-f95ad5f3dcd7.mp3" length="60025908" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:02:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>3. Parenting in the 90s vs Today</title><itunes:title>3. Parenting in the 90s vs Today</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode we’re reminiscing about raising our three young sons in the 90s vs our young daughter today… how different the world was then, being younger vs older parents, and a few of the insights we’ve learned along the way. xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode we’re reminiscing about raising our three young sons in the 90s vs our young daughter today… how different the world was then, being younger vs older parents, and a few of the insights we’ve learned along the way. xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">c0c817d6-0bb2-4cb3-85c9-a5869c60ad19</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/b25c9015-ca78-4c73-87c8-53b0c083af95/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 14:35:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c0c817d6-0bb2-4cb3-85c9-a5869c60ad19.mp3" length="51394740" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>53:32</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>2. Is Lifelong Monogamy Possible</title><itunes:title>2. Is Lifelong Monogamy Possible</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re sharing all of our unfiltered thoughts on this topic, and some of them may surprise you. We can’t wait to hear what you think! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re sharing all of our unfiltered thoughts on this topic, and some of them may surprise you. We can’t wait to hear what you think! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">71a7e55f-ac66-4c35-8211-57377f2bd7b5</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/cc30eb14-d571-419f-956f-4dce69d7d73b/Thumbnail.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2025 09:50:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/71a7e55f-ac66-4c35-8211-57377f2bd7b5.mp3" length="45782196" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>47:41</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>1. Our Story &amp; How We Got Here</title><itunes:title>1. Our Story &amp; How We Got Here</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>In our first episode we take you with us from summer 1985 through today and answer a few of our most common questions about marriage, family, social media and Larry’s hair. Thank you for listening! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4C16yocd0fo&amp;t=541s" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Watch this episode on YouTube</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p><br></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a> </p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our first episode we take you with us from summer 1985 through today and answer a few of our most common questions about marriage, family, social media and Larry’s hair. Thank you for listening! xo</p><p><a href="https://www.thenandnowpodcast.net/message" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Send us a message</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4C16yocd0fo&amp;t=541s" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Watch this episode on YouTube</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pattischmidt?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Follow Patti on Instagram</a></p><p>Personal email ~ <a href="mailto:hello@pattischmidt.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">hello@pattischmidt.com </a></p><p><br></p><p>Business inquiries ~ <a href="mailto:teampatti@gersh.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">teampatti@gersh.com</a> </p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">4c768110-cf03-4479-b02d-49a4c73d7773</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/3f8c0c4d-53dc-4ba4-a7f5-367837152f3c/lOQsnCDtek9YcrrCT2nIs-KY.jpg"/><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 17:05:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4c768110-cf03-4479-b02d-49a4c73d7773.mp3" length="46084020" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>48:00</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item><item><title>Trailer</title><itunes:title>Trailer</itunes:title><description><![CDATA[<p>Get ready for Then &amp; Now with Patti and Larry Schmidt, where four decades of love, marriage, and family are shared with humor, heart, and plenty of laugh-out-loud stories. From raising kids across generations to aging with confidence, Patti and Larry share their experience navigating life’s smallest moments and bigges</p>]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Get ready for Then &amp; Now with Patti and Larry Schmidt, where four decades of love, marriage, and family are shared with humor, heart, and plenty of laugh-out-loud stories. From raising kids across generations to aging with confidence, Patti and Larry share their experience navigating life’s smallest moments and bigges</p>]]></content:encoded><link><![CDATA[https://linktr.ee/pattischmidt?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=8fb1eb4f-1592-4e97-a2bc-54accb3ab8de]]></link><guid isPermaLink="false">fe015a72-4235-49e3-a791-e48287c1ba34</guid><itunes:image href="https://artwork.captivate.fm/56c20ef5-3aec-49cc-ad9b-008643656fdc/oPmFtA4LtB_fovamusniiEtU.jpg"/><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2025 23:45:00 -0500</pubDate><enclosure url="https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/2e2e17e5-3af5-42e3-a354-6ec31eaefabc/P034-001-Trailer-Final.mp3" length="1144331" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:duration>01:11</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:episodeType>trailer</itunes:episodeType><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><podcast:season>1</podcast:season></item></channel></rss>