HIV+ and Retiring Abroad:

Which Countries Actually Have Your Back?

Solo Episode •Host: Mark Goldstein • 46 min 17 sec

Episode Description

If you are HIV-positive and thinking about retiring abroad, you have probably researched the cost of living, visas, and LGBTQ+ rights. But there is one question almost nobody addresses directly: what actually happens to your antiretroviral medications when you move? Will you be able to get them? Will they be covered? Or will you arrive in a country where you are suddenly paying thousands of dollars out of pocket every month for medication you cannot live without?

In this solo episode, Mark Goldstein digs into the research to give you real, sourced, country-by-country answers. He opens with a surprising look at Spain — where a legal paradox means undocumented residents have more HIV treatment rights than Americans on a legal Non-Lucrative Visa — then walks through ten countries evaluated against three clear criteria: LGBTQ+ rights, retirement visa access, and genuine HIV treatment availability.

The research draws on positivedestinations.info (HIV Justice Network), the 2024 InfoVIH legal guide from gTt-VIH in Barcelona, and a series of legal guides provided by the HIV Legal Clinic at the University of Alcalá in Spain — backed by rulings from the Spanish Supreme Court.

This episode is for anyone living with HIV who wants honest, accurate information before making one of the most important decisions of their life.

In This Episode

• The Spain NLV situation — what the Convenio Especial does and does not cover, confirmed by Spanish Supreme Court rulings
• The extraordinary legal paradox: why undocumented residents in Spain have more HIV treatment rights than NLV visa holders
• The three criteria used to evaluate every country: LGBTQ+ rights, retirement visa access, and HIV treatment access
• Why do all featured countries have domestically funded HIV systems unaffected by the 2025 PEPFAR funding freeze
• A country-by-country breakdown of HIV treatment access, visa options, and LGBTQ+ legal status
• The legal paradox in Colombia: HIV criminal laws that distinguish it from every other country featured
• Italy’s November 2025 ECJ ruling and what it does — and does not — mean for American same-sex couples
• A call to action for HIV-positive listeners who have already made a move abroad to share their story

Countries Covered

Full Feature — All Three Criteria Met

🇵🇹 Portugal — The Gold Standard

• D7 Passive Income Visa: ~€920/month
• HIV treatment is free for all, regardless of migration status — praised by UNAIDS
• ARVs dispensed at hospital pharmacies, refilled every 3 months, zero cost
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2010

🇦🇷 Argentina — The Latin America Leader

• Pensionado/Rentista visa: ~$1,500–$2,000/month
• Free HIV treatment in all public hospitals, regardless of immigration status
• Path to citizenship in just 2 years of continuous residence
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2010 — first in Latin America

🇺🇾 Uruguay — The Underrated Gem

• Rentista visa: ~$1,500/month
• Migrants have the same health rights as Uruguayan nationals by law
• No HIV-specific criminalization laws — zero documented prosecutions
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2013

🇨🇷 Costa Rica — Central America’s Progressive Gem

• Pensionado visa: just $1,000/month — lowest threshold in the Americas
• CAJA social security system covers HIV treatment for legal residents
• Non-nationals who cannot afford contributions still have the right to HIV care without interruption — Article 11, Comprehensive HIV and AIDS Act
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2020 — first in Central America

🇫🇷 France — The European Option Beyond Spain

• Visiteur long-stay visa for passive income retirees
• Anyone resident 3+ months is entitled to public health cover, including ARVs
• Article 313-11: residence permit granted to those who cannot access treatment in their home country — accounts for discrimination as a barrier
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2013

🇩🇪 Germany — Europe’s Structured Approach

• Full ARV coverage through the statutory health insurance system
• Migrants in deportation proceedings will not be deported if ARV treatment is unavailable in their home country
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2017

🇪🇨 Ecuador — The Surprise Standout

• Pensionado visa: ~$800/month — most accessible threshold in this episode
• Free HIV treatment regardless of nationality or documentation status
• First-person verified: 7-year expat confirms zero HIV restrictions at any residency stage
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2019

Include With Caveats

🇲🇽 Mexico — Strong Policy, Real-World Complications

• Strong legal framework: NOM-010-SSA-2023 guarantees HIV treatment access regardless of immigration status
• CAVEAT: Documented ARV supply shortages reported 2024–2025 across multiple public health institutions
• Same-sex marriage legal in all 32 states
• Permanent Resident Visa: ~$2,500–3,000/month

🇹🇭 Thailand — The Wildcard — Verify Before You Go

• Same-sex marriage legalized in January 2025 — first in Asia
• Excellent, affordable private healthcare; ARVs available privately
• CAVEAT: Long-stay residency policy for people with HIV is genuinely unclear — the list of prohibited diseases is not publicly accessible
• Verify with the Royal Thai Embassy and CHARM Thailand before committing

Honorable Mentions

🇨🇴 Colombia — Good Access, Important Legal Concern

• HIV treatment is available through the AHF network in multiple cities
• IMPORTANT: Active HIV-specific criminal laws with documented prosecutions
• Same-sex marriage legal since 2016

🇮🇹 Italy — Excellent HIV Access, Evolving LGBTQ+ Rights

• Free HIV treatment even for undocumented non-nationals at the Servizio Sanitario Nazionale
• Civil unions have been recognized since 2016; same-sex marriage has not yet been performed domestically
• November 2025 ECJ ruling: Italy must now recognize same-sex marriages performed in other EU countries by EU citizens
• For American couples: US marriage is still registered as a civil union under Italian domestic law

Key Resources Mentioned

• Positive Destinations — Global HIV Travel & Residency Database: https://www.positivedestinations.info
• InfoVIHtal 2024 (Spain NLV + HIV treatment, English): https://www.gtt-vih.org
• HIV Legal Clinic, University of Alcalá — Free legal consultations on HIV rights in Spain: https://www.uah.es
• GAT Portugal — HIV healthcare access guide for migrants: https://www.gatportugal.org
• Fundación Huésped — Argentina’s leading HIV advocacy organization: https://www.huesped.org.ar

HIV Legal Clinic, University of Alcalá — Free, anonymous, confidential consultations on HIV rights in Spain:

clinicalegal@uah.es

Share Your Story

Are you HIV-positive and living abroad? Mark would love to hear about your experience accessing antiretroviral treatment in any of these countries or elsewhere in the world. Your story is confidential. You do not have to appear on the podcast.

Email: mark@wheredogaysretire.com

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The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or medical advice. Always consult qualified healthcare and legal professionals before making decisions about living abroad.

Join us as we sit down with John Pistana, a retired American expatriate who moved from New York and Fort Lauderdale, FL, to the charming city of Braga, Portugal. Discover his insights on cost of living, community integration, healthcare, and what makes Braga a peaceful haven for retirees seeking safety, walkability, and authentic culture.

In this episode:

• John's personal journey from Upstate New York to Braga, Portugal
• Why Braga's climate, cost, and lifestyle attracted him
• The local real estate market: rentals and renovations
• Cost of living comparison: Braga vs. Lisbon, Porto, and the USA
• Healthcare system overview: public vs. private options and costs
• Navigating visas and residency as a retiree
• Local transportation, walkability, and connectivity
• LGBTQ+ community presence and integration
• The vibrant food scene: regional dishes, international cuisine, and marketplaces
• Cultural norms: outdoor living, social habits, and community safety
• Practical tips on language, banking, and managing taxes
• The emotional and practical aspects of downsizing and starting anew

Timestamp Highlights:

00:00 - Welcome and John's story: From New York to Braga 02:22 - Why John fell in love with Braga's vibe and community 04:41 - Braga's geographical location and local environment 06:11 - Weather and climate patterns across seasons 08:40 - Cost of living essentials: rent, utilities, and groceries 12:57 - Comparing Braga's expenses with Lisbon and Porto 15:00 - Public services, transportation, and walkability 19:49 - Train travel between Braga, Porto, Lisbon, and beyond 23:17 - The local dining and wine scene 27:55 - Embracing the peaceful lifestyle and community safety 42:15 - Cultural approaches to neighborliness and outdoor living 45:16 - Portugal’s acceptance and safety for LGBTQ+ residents 54:22 - Practical tips for managing belongings and downsizing 58:17 - Tax considerations for US retirees living in Portugal 62:26 - Transportation options, owning a vehicle, and exploring the country 64:03 - Safety and crime: Braga’s secure community environment 66:55 - The political climate regarding LGBTQ+ rights 71:20 - Final advice for those considering Braga as their retirement haven

Whether you're contemplating retirement abroad or just curious about life in Portugal, John's experience offers valuable insights into creating a peaceful, connected, and fulfilling life in Braga.

Takeaways:

1. Cascais, Portugal is a chill place for LGBTQ retirees, offering safety and a decent cost of living.
2. Mark interviews Alastair and Wes about their move to Cascais and life post-retirement.
3. Life in Cascais is all about relaxation, art, food, and enjoying the calm ocean vibes.
4. Public displays of affection are totally cool in Cascais, no weird looks, just love!
5. The cost of living in Cascais is manageable, especially if you're smart about your choices.
6. Cascais offers beautiful beaches, rich history, and a welcoming community for everyone.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

In this episode, Mark Goldstein interviews Brad Shreve and Maurice Chevalier, a couple who recently relocated to Oliva, Spain, after years of contemplating a move abroad. They share their journey of deciding between Ecuador and Spain, ultimately choosing Spain for its quality of life and community. The couple discusses their specific criteria for choosing a location, including a preference for smaller towns, affordability, and a welcoming atmosphere for the LGBTQ+ community. They emphasize that their move was not an escape from the U.S. but rather a pursuit of a different lifestyle and culture.

Brad and Maurice recount their experiences of moving to Oliva without ever having visited, highlighting their extensive research and the importance of community connections. They discuss the cultural adjustments they’ve faced, including the pace of life, meal times, and the siesta concept. The couple also touches on the cost of living in Spain compared to their previous life in California, noting significant savings in rent and utilities, as well as the quality of food. Their story is a testament to the joys and challenges of relocating to a new country, and they offer insights into the vibrant life they are building in Oliva. In this episode, Maurice Chevalier shares his experiences of living in Oliva, Spain, particularly as part of the local gay community. He describes the vibrant and inclusive atmosphere, noting that being gay is a non-issue in the area and that a strong expat community regularly gathers for social events. Maurice discusses the ease of making acquaintances and the importance of community in their new life, emphasizing that they enjoy the local culture and the relaxed pace of life. He also touches on the practical aspects of living in Oliva, such as transportation, walkability, and the unique dining culture that differs from the U.S. lifestyle.

The conversation shifts to the logistics of relocating to Spain, including the visa process and the importance of hiring relocation specialists to navigate the bureaucracy. Maurice explains the differences in daily life, including the Spanish dining schedule and the social norms surrounding coffee culture. He concludes by reflecting on the long-term prospects of living in Oliva, expressing a strong sense of belonging and contentment in their new home, while also acknowledging the importance of adaptability and openness to new experiences.

Takeaways

"We wanted somewhere that was openly gay friendly."

"We did not want to work 60 to 70 hours a week to buy things that we then didn't have time to enjoy."

"We are purposely not putting ourselves in that bubble."

"We want to be able to converse, even if it's just minimal conversation."

"We could change that overnight if we wanted to."

"We love the concept of siesta. There's nothing about it that's negative in our mind."

"We are actually trying to learn the language and practice it."

"We felt instantly at home. It was just like this place has been waiting for me my whole life."

"We are living in a much larger space for less money."

"We are trying to build ties to the local community, not just the expat community." It's a non-issue, quite honestly.

We wanted to have an active gay community.

We can go be gay for the weekend.

Everything's pretty much within a 15-minute walk.

It's a clean town because people physically sweep the streets.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. wheredogaysretire.com
2. www.youtube.com/@ourchosenspanishlife

Companies mentioned in this episode:

1. Marriott

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

In this conversation, Mark Goldstein interviews Chad Pitts and Jorge Pitts about their experiences living in Zaragoza, Spain. They discuss their motivations for moving, the research they conducted, and their first impressions of the city. The couple shares insights into the cultural vibe, community building, cost of living, transportation, food scene, and healthcare in Zaragoza. They also touch on the challenges of navigating Spanish bureaucracy and the benefits of living in a city that is both family-friendly and LGBTQ+ safe. Overall, they emphasize the importance of embracing the local culture and the rewarding experiences of expat life in Zaragoza.

Takeaways

Zaragoza offers a very authentic Spanish vibe, with a strong sense of community.

The cost of living in Zaragoza is significantly lower than in larger cities like Madrid and Barcelona.

Transportation in Zaragoza is excellent, with walkable streets and a reliable public transport system.

Cultural experiences in Zaragoza are rich, with festivals and events happening regularly.

Making friends in Zaragoza can be challenging, but it is possible with effort and openness.

Healthcare in Zaragoza is accessible and affordable, especially compared to the US.

The climate in Zaragoza can be extreme, with hot summers and cold winters, but it is manageable.

Zaragoza is a safe place for LGBTQ+ families, with a welcoming community.

The food scene in Zaragoza is diverse and delicious, with many international options available.

Navigating Spanish bureaucracy can be frustrating, but it is part of the expat experience.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

El Puerto de Santa Maria is where the sun shines, the sherry flows, and the LGBTQ community thrives! In this episode, we dive into the coastal charm of this Andalusian gem with our guest Daniel Cairns, who swapped the hustle of London for a more relaxed life in Spain. Daniel shares how he and his partner, John, created a cozy home and a vibrant community project that welcomes newcomers with open arms. We talk about the importance of integrating into local culture, navigating the healthcare system, and embracing the joys of outdoor living. Daniel's stories are not just about retirement; they’re about finding your place in the world, making friends, and enjoying life to the fullest. Whether you're thinking of moving or just dreaming, this episode paints a picture of what life in El Puerto can be like for LGBTQ people, sprinkled with humor and heart. Get ready to be inspired by the beauty of community and connection!

Takeaways:

1. El Puerto de Santa Maria is a vibrant coastal town in Spain, perfect for LGBTQ retirees.
2. Daniel and John created a community-focused project that blends affordable living with shared spaces.
3. The local lifestyle includes outdoor living, festivals, and a strong sense of community and belonging.
4. Healthcare in El Puerto is efficient, private insurance is affordable, and the services are excellent.
5. Living in El Puerto means embracing a unique culture rich in flamenco, sherry, and local cuisine.
6. Transportation is super convenient, making it easy to explore nearby cities and towns.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. https://andaluzliving.com/
2. wheredogaysretire.com
3. lgbtqseniors.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

1. Louis Vuitton
2. Chanel
3. Harrods

Diving straight into the heart of retirement planning, this week’s episode is all about the essential questions every LGBTQ retiree needs to ask when choosing that perfect place to kick back and relax. We start by discussing the importance of picking a city that resonates with who you are today—not who you were 20 years ago. I mean, did you really think a beachside bungalow would still be your jam when you can barely handle a sand grain in your flip-flop? The conversation is rich with insights about walkability, cost of living, and how a place can either support or stifle your daily joy. We even share a few personal anecdotes about our own misadventures in city selection, which, spoiler alert, involved a gator or two in a retention pond. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s unravel what makes a retirement city the right fit for you.

Next up, we tackle the burning question of LGBTQ friendliness. Spoiler: it’s not just about rainbows and parades! We dive into what actual protections look like and how to spot a community that truly embraces you year-round, not just during Pride Month. Think about it—wouldn’t it be nice to stroll down the street with your partner without feeling like you’re on display? We chat about cities that excel in creating inclusive environments, from the glittering streets of San Francisco to the surprisingly warm vibes of Asheville, North Carolina. Plus, we share how places in Spain set the bar high when it comes to feeling normal and accepted. Trust us; it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss!

Finally, we wrap it all up with the big picture—what does your ideal Tuesday look like in retirement? No, really! Tuesday is the unsung hero of your week, and we explore how the day-to-day aspects of a city can make or break your experience. Accessibility to stores, health care, and even coffee shops play crucial roles in your retirement happiness. We throw in a dash of humor with tales of our own Tuesday escapades, comparing cities that excel at making life easier (hello, Spanish trams!) versus those that turn errands into Olympic events. So, hang tight as we help you navigate these essential questions, ensuring your retirement isn’t just about the sun—it's about thriving in your new home!

Takeaways:

1. Choosing a retirement city is all about finding the right vibe for who you are today, not who you were in the past.
2. Is the city LGBTQ friendly year-round? Because Pride Month isn't the only time we need love and support!
3. Your Tuesday routine matters more than you think—make sure it fits your retirement lifestyle and makes you happy.
4. Don't forget to check out the healthcare situation; it’s crucial to know if you can get the care you need when you need it!
5. Affordability goes beyond just rent; consider all the little costs that can add up and stress you out.
6. Ask yourself if the city supports your dreams for this new chapter of life, because you deserve to thrive!

Links referenced in this episode:

1. wheredogaysretire.com

Cities mentioned in this episode:

1. San Francisco
2. Asheville
3. Madison
4. Palm Springs
5. Cathedral City
6. Rancho Mirage
7. Seattle
8. Portland
9. Boston
10. Spain
11. San Diego
12. Valencia
13. Alicante

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Let’s talk about walkability, community vibes, and the sweet life in Oaxaca! David and Harvey break down the nitty-gritty of life in their new home, where cobblestone streets lead to charming markets and friendly faces greet you at every corner. They’ve lived in several neighborhoods, each with its own unique flavor, and they reveal what surprised them most about settling in. Spoiler alert: the vibrant energy of the city, especially during the Day of the Dead celebrations, is a total game-changer! They emphasize the importance of community and how they've built connections with fellow LGBTQ folks, from volunteer opportunities to regular meetups. Plus, they share tips on navigating local healthcare and the importance of learning some Spanish to truly immerse yourself in the culture. This episode is packed with insights for anyone considering a retirement adventure south of the border!

Takeaways:

1. Oaxaca is a vibrant city filled with music, art, and a friendly atmosphere, perfect for retirees.
2. David and Harvey share their experiences living in various Latin American countries before settling in Oaxaca.
3. The cost of living in Oaxaca is quite reasonable, with rent for a two-bedroom apartment around $500 monthly.
4. Healthcare in Oaxaca can be affordable, but many choose private care due to overcrowded public hospitals.
5. Community is key in Oaxaca, with places like the Oaxaca Lending Library connecting LGBTQ folks with each other.
6. Transportation in Oaxaca is walkable, and public options like taxis and buses are readily available, making car ownership unnecessary.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

1. Airbnb
2. Amazon
3. Costco
4. Santander

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Who knew moving to Spain could spark a whole new identity? In this episode, we chat with Christopher about the nitty-gritty of relocating, focusing on the non-lucrative visa that many Americans are eyeing. It's not just about the paperwork; it’s about understanding what life will look like once you land in Spain. Christopher emphasizes the importance of scouting trips, not just vacations, to get the real feel of living in Spanish neighborhoods. We also dive into the social aspects, from the vibrant LGBTQ community to the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Let’s just say, if you’re thinking about making Spain your next home, you might want to pack more than just your bags!

Takeaways:

1. This podcast episode highlights how to find affordable and gay-friendly retirement spots globally, especially in Spain.
2. Mark Goldstein interviews Christopher Hughey, who shares insights about moving to Spain and life there.
3. Understanding the visa process for moving to Spain is crucial, especially for retirees in the U.S.
4. Scouting trips to Spain are essential for ensuring a smooth transition and happy living experience.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. americansmovingtospain.com
2. www.wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

1. Americans Moving to Spain
2. Facebook

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Strap in, folks! We’re taking a detour from the usual retirement chit-chat to tackle a wild and emotional ride. Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving a plane crash in Malaga, Spain, 43 years ago, and how that experience shaped his outlook on life and community. He reflects on the chaos of that day and the choices he made that still resonate with him. It’s all about survival, connection, and the power of returning to a place that holds so much history. This isn’t just about retirement; it’s about the life we lead and the people we surround ourselves with. Mark’s journey reminds us that choosing a retirement destination is about more than just geography; it’s about choosing a community that feels like home.

Takeaways:

• This episode dives deep into the journey of finding safe and affordable retirement options for the LGBTQ community.
• Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving an airplane crash in Spain back in 1982.
• The discussion highlights the importance of community and connection when choosing a place to retire happily.
• Listeners are encouraged to consider key factors like walkability and safety in their retirement planning.
• Mark reflects on how past experiences shape our choices in life and retirement, emphasizing the value of chosen family.
• The episode wraps up with a reminder that choosing joy and community is a powerful act of survival.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Drexel Burnham Lambert
• Iberia

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• lgbtqseniors.com

Welcome to the sunny shores of Montpellier, where the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes you on a lively exploration of this Mediterranean haven! Mark Goldstein is on the mic with local resident Lloyd Meeker, who spills the secrets of what makes this city so special for LGBTQ retirees. From the moment you arrive, you’ll find a place that feels like home, where the climate is as warm as the community spirit.

Lloyd shares his story of moving from the U.S. to France, navigating the housing market, and getting to grips with the local customs. Want to know about healthcare? He’s got you covered with all the juicy details on how the French system works and why it’s a game changer for retirees. Plus, if you’re a foodie, you’re in for a treat! The culinary scene in Montpellier is a delightful mix of traditional Occitan dishes and fresh seafood that’ll make your taste buds dance with joy.

Throughout the episode, you’ll hear about the vibrant arts scene, the ease of getting around thanks to a top-notch public transport system, and the sense of safety that comes from living in such an accepting city. Whether you’re in the planning stages or just curious about life abroad, this episode is a treasure trove of information, camaraderie, and inspiration for your next big life chapter. So tune in and let’s get ready to retire in style!

Takeaways:

• Montpellier is a Mediterranean gem where the LGBTQ community can feel safe and thrive.
• Living in Montpellier offers a unique blend of sunshine, culture, and community vibes for everyone.
• Healthcare in France is amazing, providing quality services without the exorbitant costs found in the U.S.
• Public transport in Montpellier is not only efficient but also free for residents, making life easier and more enjoyable.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein interviews Colin Brownlee, who has established Club Heasa, a men-only vacation and short-term rental community in Costa Rica. Colin shares his journey from a marketing career in Vancouver to building a successful hotel business in Costa Rica, and eventually founding Club Heasa to create a safe and comfortable space for mature gay men. They discuss the specifics of Club Heasa, including its amenities, location, pricing, and the compelling reasons for choosing to make it a gay men-only community. Colin also offers insights into the Costa Rican climate, healthcare, local attractions, and the significance of creating physical spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. The episode sheds light on the benefits of retiring in Costa Rica and offers practical advice for potential residents.

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:50 Meet Colin Brownlee: From Vancouver to Costa Rica

01:56 The Birth of Club Heasa

02:25 Welcome Colin to the Podcast

02:39 Exploring Club Heasa: Concept and Vision

03:03 The Story Behind the Name 'Club Heasa'

09:40 Creating a Gay Men Only Community

09:53 Challenges and Decisions in Building Club Heasa

15:05 The Importance of Physical Community

18:05 Demographics and Age Considerations

20:12 Short-Term Vacation Rentals at Club Heasa

25:33 Climate and Location Benefits

31:32 Pricing and Amenities at Club Heasa

33:17 Common Areas and Social Spaces

37:11 Local Attractions and Excursions

39:24 Transportation and Accessibility

40:00 Car Rentals and Cost Savings

40:11 Rules and Regulations at the Hotel

42:49 Laundry and Housekeeping Services

43:31 Guest Demographics and Preferences

46:24 LGBTQ Scene and Social Life

50:33 Healthcare and Medical Facilities

53:28 Travel Insurance and Citizenship

55:10 Security and Online Shopping

57:03 Natural Risks and Earthquakes

59:35 Visa Limits and Food Scene

01:03:45 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Takeaways:

• This episode highlights the importance of finding a safe and affordable retirement place for the LGBTQ community, as discussed by Mark Goldstein.
• Colin Brownlee's journey from marketing in Canada to creating Club Heasa in Costa Rica is both inspiring and insightful.
• Listeners will gain insight into the cost of staying at Club Heasa and the experiences that await them there.
• Colin emphasizes the significance of building a community for gay men in Costa Rica, especially as traditional gay neighborhoods fade away.
• The podcast dives into the unique amenities and environment of Club Heasa, including its clothing-optional policy and planned excursions.
• Listeners can learn about the healthcare accessibility in Costa Rica, making it a viable option for retirees.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• clubheasa.com
• lgbtqseniors.com
• booking.com
• expedia.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Club Heasa
• Hotel Banana Azul
• Ajijic
• Wilton Manors
• Fort Lauderdale
• Palm Springs
• Steve Cross
• Rick's Bar

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Join Mark Goldstein as he takes us on a lively journey through the experiences of Chuck and Ed, a dynamic couple who recently made the leap from Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to Fountain Grove Lodge in sunny Santa Rosa, California. In this episode, they share their heartfelt reasons for choosing a retirement community that embraces the LGBTQ+ lifestyle, highlighting the importance of finding a supportive environment as they approach this new stage of life. With a sprinkle of humor and genuine warmth, Chuck and Ed recount their first impressions of Fountain Grove Lodge, from the beautiful architecture to the welcoming atmosphere that instantly made them feel at home. Their infectious enthusiasm shines through as they talk about the meticulous planning that went into their move, including the decision to choose a community that would provide joy and security as they age.

The conversation flows effortlessly as they discuss the wide range of activities available, from gardening and art classes to social events that foster connections among residents. Chuck and Ed emphasize the significance of community and how it enriches their lives, noting that it’s more than just a place to live; it’s a vibrant hub of support and friendship. They also touch on the practical aspects of living at Fountain Grove, like the cost of living and amenities that provide peace of mind without sacrificing quality of life. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone considering retirement options, especially for those within the LGBTQ+ community seeking a place that resonates with their values and lifestyle.

Chuck and Ed’s story is a testament to the joys of embarking on a new adventure together, proving that retirement can be as fabulous as you make it. So grab your headphones and join us for this delightful exploration of love, laughter, and the beauty of finding your perfect retirement community!

Takeaways:

• Fountain Grove Lodge is a vibrant community that welcomes LGBTQ residents and their allies with open arms and festive spirits.
• Living at Fountain Grove means enjoying a stylish place with great food, activities, and an overall sense of belonging.
• Chuck and Ed's journey highlights the importance of finding a supportive retirement community that fits one's lifestyle and values.
• The podcast shows that aging can be a fun adventure, especially when surrounded by interesting people and engaging social activities.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Fountain Grove Lodge
• Philadelphia Orchestra
• Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts
• Curtis Institute
• Bucks County Playhouse
• Welltower
• Oakmont

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Takeaways:

• Friendship Village is all about creating a fun and inclusive environment for seniors, where they can age gracefully and enjoy life to the fullest.
• Cole Marvin's journey to senior living was inspired by his grandparents' stories, showing how personal connections can shape our careers.
• The podcast highlights the importance of community and relationships for seniors, especially those in the LGBTQ community, ensuring they feel safe and celebrated.
• Friendship Village offers various levels of care, allowing residents to age in place without the fear of being forced to move elsewhere.
• Innovative amenities like rooftop breweries and community gardens provide residents with engaging activities that promote connection and wellness.
• The episode emphasizes the significance of open communication and understanding in creating a supportive atmosphere for both residents and staff.

Links referenced in this episode:

• friendshipvillageaz.com
• wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Friendship Village
• Life Care Services
• Ohio University
• LCS
• SAGE
• Starfire Brewery
• Fountain Grove Lodge

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Retirement isn’t just about sipping cocktails on the beach; it’s about living your best life, and that includes deciding whether you really want to own a car. Mark Goldstein dives headfirst into the importance of walkability in retirement, drawing from his own experiences living in car-dependent and pedestrian-friendly cities. He paints a vivid picture of life in New York, where owning a car feels like an unnecessary burden, versus the sprawling suburbs that demand a vehicle just to grab a quart of milk. Through his lighthearted anecdotes, he emphasizes how walkability isn’t merely about sidewalks — it’s about reclaiming independence and fostering community as we age.

Mark lays out three compelling reasons why walkability matters in retirement: health, social engagement, and financial savings. Walking isn’t just good for your waistline; it’s a gateway to meeting people and experiencing life on a more intimate level. As he humorously notes, when you’re behind the wheel, the only connection you’re likely to make is through a honk or a wave of frustration. But when you’re out strolling, you’re more likely to share a smile or a spontaneous chat with a neighbor. Plus, let’s get real — cars can gut your retirement savings quicker than you can say “car insurance.” With the costs of gas, maintenance, and unexpected repairs piling up, it’s clear that ditching the car might free up some cash for those dreamy vacations you’ve been planning.

As the episode unfolds, Mark explores various cities known for their walkability, from the iconic streets of San Francisco to the historic charm of Boston, where you can enjoy a leisurely stroll without feeling like you’re on a treadmill. He highlights LGBTQ-friendly neighborhoods that not only offer vibrant community life but also make it easy to live without a car. With a nod to international destinations, he gives a shout-out to places where walkability is the norm, unlike the car-centric U.S. Join Mark on this delightful exploration of where to retire without the burden of a vehicle, and you might just find your next home sweet home, where the only thing you need to worry about is which café to visit next!

Takeaways:

• Walkability in retirement is not just about sidewalks; it’s about freedom and community.
• Living in walkable neighborhoods can save you tons of money on car expenses.
• Places like New York City are great for walking, but they can also be pricey.
• In retirement, it's important to live where life happens at eye level, not behind a wheel.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• lgbtqseniors.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• New York City
• Phoenix
• Stamford
• Apollo Beach
• Wilton Manors
• Asbury Park
• Providence
• Provincetown
• Valencia
• Malaga
• Nice
• Montpellier
• Berlin
• Reykjavik
• Lisbon
• Mexico City
• Guadalajara
• Puerto Vallarta

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Let’s get cozy with Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert, a dynamic duo living at Friendship Village, where they’ve made the leap into retirement living. They share their delightful journey from a traditional home to this fabulous community, which they chose for its high-end amenities and supportive environment. They’ve nailed down what makes this place feel like home: the people! From the friendly staff to the diverse residents, Joe and Terry feel embraced in a way that really enhances their quality of life.

The episode dives deep into the nitty-gritty of living in a retirement community, covering everything from the financial aspects to the social scene. Joe and Terry discuss how they evaluated the costs of moving in and how those expenses stack up against what they were spending before. It’s a refreshing take on how retirement can be both enjoyable and economically savvy!

But it’s not all spreadsheets and numbers! We also explore the richness of community life at Friendship Village. Joe and Terry describe the plethora of activities available, from arts and crafts to fitness classes, ensuring that there’s never a dull moment. They also touch on the importance of inclusivity and how being a gay couple in this environment has been a positive experience, with solid support from both staff and residents. So grab your favorite beverage and settle in for this enlightening chat about love, community, and what it really means to retire in style!

Takeaways:

• This episode of the podcast highlights how important it is for LGBTQ couples to find a safe, welcoming, and affordable retirement community to enjoy their golden years together.
• Mark interviews Joe and Terry, a couple who has lived at Friendship Village for two years, and they share their journey of moving from independent living to a community that values inclusivity and respect.
• One key takeaway is the emphasis on the importance of community: Joe and Terry express how their life at Friendship Village has allowed them to be their true selves and feel accepted among diverse residents.
• Listeners will learn about the various amenities and activities available at Friendship Village, which include dining options, social events, and support services that promote an active and engaged lifestyle.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• valleymetro.gov

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Friendship Village
• Corona Health
• Banner Desert

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

> Stepping off the plane and into the vibrant world of Vigo, Spain, our guest Daniel Louis Loboto shares the thrilling tale of his journey from Denver to this picturesque port city. At 62, Daniel's life took a bold turn when he came out later in life, transitioning from a traditional family life to one filled with adventure and self-discovery. With a rich background in Spanish heritage, he made the leap across the Atlantic, seeking a community that resonates with his identity. The conversation dives deep into the factors that drew Daniel to Vigo—its affordable cost of living, welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and the allure of a vibrant culture. We learn about the stunning climate boasting mild summers and manageable winters, making it an ideal retirement locale. Daniel is not just living in Spain; he’s thriving in a unique cultural tapestry that weaves together his roots and his newfound freedom. Join us as we uncover what it means to redefine home and community, and how life in Vigo fosters a sense of belonging and joy.

> As we cozy up with Daniel, we explore the ins and outs of living in Vigo, focusing on the economics, culture, and the undeniable charm of the city. With his digital nomad visa in hand, Daniel discusses the financial advantages of retiring in Spain compared to the U.S. He shares how his retirement income stretches further here, allowing for a lifestyle filled with tapas, local wines, and the kind of leisurely afternoons that make life sweeter. Listeners will learn about the affordability of housing, utilities, and healthcare, painting a clear picture of financial freedom in this coastal gem. The conversation covers everything from the lush, green landscapes of Galicia to the vibrant street life, making it clear that Vigo isn't just a place to retire; it's a place to live life to the fullest. With a dash of humor and a lot of heart, Daniel's stories will have you daydreaming about your own retirement in this enchanting corner of Spain.

> In the final segment, we get into the nitty-gritty of community—specifically, the LGBTQ+ scene in Vigo. Daniel describes a welcoming atmosphere where diversity flourishes, even if there aren't specific gay bars or organizations. The relaxed vibe of the city allows for a blend of cultures, where same-sex couples hold hands freely in the streets, and everyone feels at home. He shares his experiences of meeting other LGBTQ+ folks and emphasizes the importance of establishing a social network upon arriving. From local festivals celebrating Galician culture to the delicious culinary scene featuring Michelin-starred restaurants, it’s clear that Vigo offers a rich, fulfilling life. Daniel’s insights and experiences are not just informative; they’re an invitation to step out of your comfort zone and consider the beautiful possibilities that await in retirement. So grab your café con leche, sit back, and let’s dive into the wonders of life in Vigo!

Takeaways:

• Vigo, Spain is a hidden gem for LGBTQ+ retirees, offering a vibrant community and low cost of living.
• The climate in Vigo is mild, with summers in the 70s and winters rarely freezing, perfect for outdoor lovers.
• Living in Vigo means enjoying fresh seafood, local cuisine, and a rich cultural scene with festivals and art.
• Establishing a social network is key in Vigo; it helps newcomers adjust and feel at home in this welcoming city.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Bayer
• Primark
• El Corte Ingles

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Gran Canaria, an island paradise in the Atlantic, is the focal point of today’s conversation on the Where Do Gays Retire podcast. We kick off with an exploration of the island’s charm through the eyes of Raquel Rojas, who was born and raised here. She paints a picture of Gran Canaria as a welcoming haven for the LGBTQ community, sharing her personal journey from the island to the bustling streets of Canada and back again. With a PhD in Cinematography and years of experience in media, Raquel brings a unique perspective on life in Gran Canaria, emphasizing its exceptional climate, rich culture, and vibrant community.

The discussion flows into the nitty-gritty of what makes Gran Canaria so attractive for retirees, particularly those in the LGBTQ community. We chat about the island's mild temperatures year-round, making it a perfect escape from harsh winters. Raquel highlights the affordability of living here, especially when compared to other European destinations. Imagine renting a spacious apartment for just €600 a month or snagging a three-bedroom sea-view home for around €200,000! It’s a dream come true for many looking to enjoy their golden years in a beautiful, sunny locale.

As we dive deeper, we get the scoop on the island’s safety and healthcare system, which are both top-notch. Gran Canaria boasts one of the best public healthcare systems in the world, and English-speaking doctors are readily available, providing peace of mind for expats. Raquel reassures us that the island is incredibly safe, allowing residents to enjoy life without the constant fear that often comes with living in larger cities. With all these perks, it’s no wonder Gran Canaria is becoming a go-to destination for LGBTQ retirees seeking a vibrant, inclusive community to call home.

Takeaways:

• Gran Canaria boasts an amazing climate with mild temperatures year-round, making it a perfect retirement spot.
• The cost of living in Gran Canaria is significantly lower than in many other European countries, so your money stretches further here.
• Gran Canaria has a vibrant LGBTQ community, with a welcoming atmosphere and no discrimination, making it a safe haven for all.
• Healthcare in Gran Canaria is excellent, with both public and private options available to expats and retirees alike.
• Transportation is super convenient, with a great bus system and walkable neighborhoods, making it easy to get around without a car.
• Food in Gran Canaria is delicious and diverse, featuring fresh seafood, tropical fruits, and local wines that are very affordable.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Ever thought about trading your busy city life for the sunny, laid-back vibes of Madeira, Portugal? Well, our guests Paul and Kevin did just that, and they’re here to tell us all about their journey from Seattle to this picturesque island. With a dreamy climate that feels like endless spring and a cost of living that’s a fraction of their old life, these two lovebirds are living the retirement dream! They share how they navigated moving during the COVID pandemic, why they chose Madeira over Mexico, and all the juicy details of settling down in this subtropical paradise. Get ready to learn about the local culture, the unique flora and fauna, and why they absolutely adore their new home. Spoiler alert: it involves great wine, stunning views, and a sense of community that makes them feel right at home.

Not only do Paul and Kevin give us the scoop on why Madeira is such a great place for LGBTQ retirees, but they also dive into the nitty-gritty of everyday life on the island. From the surprisingly low property taxes to the affordable healthcare system, they break down how living on this beautiful island compares to their previous lives in the U.S. And let’s not forget the food! They share some delicious local specialties and their thoughts on the dining scene, which ranges from cozy cafes to Michelin-starred restaurants. Whether you’re contemplating a move or just daydreaming about island life, this episode is packed with tips, insights, and plenty of hearty laughs.

As they reflect on their journey, Paul and Kevin emphasize the importance of community and connection. They talk about how easy it is to meet people, make friends, and become part of the fabric of life on Madeira. With everything from local markets to vibrant festivals, there’s never a dull moment! They even share their experiences with healthcare, transportation, and the overall safety of the island. If you’ve ever considered retiring abroad or simply want to escape the hustle and bustle for a more serene lifestyle, this episode is a must-listen. So grab your headphones and let’s explore Madeira together!

Takeaways:

• Living in Madeira, Portugal offers a beautiful subtropical climate and a friendly community vibe that makes settling in a delight.
• Retiring in Madeira can be much more affordable than in the U.S., with lower costs for housing and healthcare!
• The local cuisine in Madeira tends to be simple, focusing on fresh ingredients and comfort food rather than intricate flavors or spices.
• Madeira is incredibly safe, making it easy to enjoy late-night strolls without fear, a huge plus for anyone considering relocation.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• match.com
• LGBTQseniors.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• match.com
• Edmonds College
• Washington State Attorney's General Office
• Leroy Merlin

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Nerja, Spain, is like that hidden gem you stumble upon when you least expect it. Richard Carnaby, an actor living in Norfolk with his husband Steve, takes us on a journey of how they found their future retirement home on the eastern Costa del Sol. Initially drawn to the popular town of Nerja, they soon realized that nearby Salobreña was their perfect match—a blend of beautiful beaches, a quaint atmosphere, and a dash of local charm. Richard shares delightful stories about their adventures in house hunting, including a memorable long weekend that reignited his love for the area after many years. They explore climate, community, and the lifestyle that awaits them in this sun-soaked paradise, where winters are mild and the summers are warm and inviting. Richard's narrative paints a picture of tranquility, highlighting why he feels Nerja and Salobreña are not just places to live, but true havens for those seeking peace and belonging.

Takeaways:

• The Where Do Gays Retire Podcast is all about finding the perfect retirement spot for the LGBTQ community!
• Richard Carnaby shares his journey of choosing a retirement home in sunny Nerja, Spain, with his husband.
• Living in Nerja offers a chill vibe with beautiful beaches, great food, and a warm community!
• The cost of living in Spain is generally cheaper than in the UK, especially when it comes to food and dining out.
• Nerja is not just a tourist trap; it’s a tranquil town with rich history and culture to explore!
• Safety is a big plus in Nerja, where walking home late at night feels as safe as a cozy blanket on a cold day.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com
• www.lgbtqseniors.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Takeaways:

• Medellín has a vibrant LGBTQ community that is super welcoming and friendly. Seriously, it's like a big hug every time you step out!
• The cost of living in Medellin is way lower than in the US, so you can live like a king or queen for way less. Talk about winning!
• Colombia's healthcare system is top-notch and super affordable, making it easy for retirees to access quality medical care without breaking the bank.
• Medellin has a fabulous climate, so you won't have to sweat like a popsicle in the sun! It's like eternal spring here, and who doesn't love that?
• Finding community is key when moving abroad, and Medellín has plenty of events and groups where you can connect with fellow LGBTQ folks.
• Safety in Medellín has significantly improved, allowing you to enjoy the city without constantly looking over your shoulder.

Links referenced in this episode:

• lgbtqseniors.com
• wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Rethinking Your Retirement: Political Landscapes Matter

In this episode of the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, host Mark Goldstein emphasizes the importance of considering the political climate of potential retirement destinations. While aspects such as cost of living, healthcare, and weather are often scrutinized, Mark argues that understanding the local political landscape is crucial for ensuring long-term safety and well-being. Using examples from Spain, Italy, Mexico, and other global locations, he illustrates how political shifts can impact the LGBTQ+ community. The episode encourages listeners to proactively research and engage with local news and communities to make informed decisions about their retirement plans.

Takeaways:

• Retirement isn't just about palm trees and cute cafes; the political climate is key.
• Before moving, dig into local politics to ensure your future safety and well-being.
• Don't just fall for pretty beaches; make sure the local government supports LGBTQ rights.
• Awareness is crucial; knowing the local vibe can prevent future headaches for your retirement.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

Mark Goldstein, host of Where Do Gays Retire?, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Takeaways:

• Living Out is a unique community where LGBTQ seniors can thrive together and foster authentic connections.
• Mark Goldstein interviews Loren Ostrow about the importance of safe, welcoming retirement options for the LGBTQ community.
• The podcast discusses how Living Out addresses specific challenges LGBTQ seniors face, ensuring they feel accepted and valued.
• Listeners learn about the vibrant local culture in Palm Springs, where Living Out is situated, enhancing the resident experience.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Living Out
• SAGE
• Los Angeles LGBT Center
• National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
• Alice B. Restaurant
• Eisenhower Medical
• Brand G
• HRC

If you've ever thought about retiring in a beautiful, culturally rich country, Tom Leonard’s story will inspire you! This episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes us through Tom’s exciting experience of moving from California to Florence, Italy. He shares the good, the bad, and the absolutely delicious of living in this stunning city. From adjusting to the climate to understanding the cost of living, Tom gives us a real sense of what it’s like to call Florence home. He talks about the fantastic healthcare system, how to get by with the language barrier, and the incredible public transport that makes getting around a breeze. Plus, we dive into the culinary delights that await in local markets, and how to enjoy the Italian way of life while keeping fit with all that walking! Whether you’re considering a move yourself or just dreaming of an Italian getaway, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and laughter.

Takeaways:

• Finding a safe and affordable retirement spot in the LGBTQ community is crucial.
• Tom Leonard's journey to Florence highlights the importance of embracing new adventures.
• Florence offers a vibrant culture, delicious food, and welcoming locals, perfect for expats.
• Understanding the local climate and costs is key to enjoying life in Italy.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Warner Brothers
• Netflix
• lifegateway
• Gamers Change Lives
• Smart Move Italy

Flagstaff, Arizona, is a hidden gem for LGBTQ retirees looking for a vibrant and welcoming community. With stunning natural beauty, outdoor adventures, and a climate that keeps things cool in the summer, it’s no wonder that people are flocking to this high-desert paradise. Nancy Sullivan, a music professor at Northern Arizona University, shares her journey of moving from Seattle to Flagstaff for a job opportunity, and she hasn’t looked back since. She describes the friendly atmosphere and liberal values that make Flagstaff feel like home, especially for those in the LGBTQ community. Retirees can enjoy a myriad of outdoor activities like hiking, biking, and even horseback riding right from their doorsteps, thanks to the abundance of trails and parks. Nancy's enthusiasm for her small ranch outside of town, where she lives with her wife and their animals, paints a picture of a life filled with adventure and tranquility.

The climate in Flagstaff is another standout feature, especially for retirees who prefer a cooler environment compared to the scorching heat of Phoenix. Nancy discusses the high-desert climate, the changes due to climate change, and how the elevation impacts the weather patterns. She stresses that while the winters can be snowy and cold, they also offer opportunities for winter sports, making it a year-round playground for outdoor enthusiasts. For those considering Flagstaff as a retirement destination, Nancy emphasizes the need to acclimatize to the elevation but reassures that the lifestyle is worth the adjustment. The community spirit and the beautiful landscapes are definite pros, making Flagstaff an attractive option for anyone looking to retire in a friendly and engaging environment.

Takeaways:

• Flagstaff is a stunning place filled with outdoor activities, perfect for nature lovers who want to stay active during retirement.
• The cost of living in Flagstaff can be a bit high, especially housing prices, so plan your budget accordingly.
• The LGBTQ community in Flagstaff is incredibly welcoming, making it a safe haven for retirees looking for inclusivity.
• Climate change is impacting Flagstaff, with hotter summers and less snowfall, so it's good to be aware of changing weather patterns.
• Wildfires are a real concern in Flagstaff, and retirees should have a solid emergency plan in place.
• Transportation options in Flagstaff are pretty good, with a decent public bus system and lots of bike-friendly routes available.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com

Nashville, Tennessee, is not just a hub for music and culture; it is also emerging as a welcoming oasis for LGBTQ+ retirees seeking a supportive and vibrant community. Mark Goldstein and Evan Thomas embark on an insightful journey through the city, highlighting the unique attributes that make it an attractive destination for those in the LGBTQ+ community. Nashville’s reputation as the ‘Music City’ serves as a backdrop for a lively discussion about the city’s diverse neighborhoods, including East Nashville and the Gulch, celebrated for their inclusivity and artistic flair. Evan shares his experiences living and working in Nashville, offering listeners a glimpse into the city’s evolving atmosphere that embraces creativity, connection, and community.

The conversation delves deeper into the practical aspects of life in Nashville, discussing the cost of living, healthcare access, and the importance of community organizations that advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Evan outlines the median home prices, showcasing how Nashville remains an affordable option compared to other metropolitan areas despite its growing popularity. He emphasizes the city’s robust healthcare system, mainly its focus on LGBTQ+ health initiatives, which cater to the community's specific needs, ensuring that retirees have access to essential medical services. The episode celebrates the contributions of organizations like SAGE Nashville, which provide vital resources and social opportunities for LGBTQ+ seniors, fostering a sense of belonging and support as they navigate the complexities of aging.

As the episode progresses, the hosts explore Nashville’s vibrant Pride celebrations, which exemplify the city’s commitment to inclusivity and acceptance. Evan recounts the growth of the Pride festival, emphasizing its role in unifying the community and promoting visibility for LGBTQ+ individuals. This lively celebration showcases the community's resilience and highlights Nashville’s status as a progressive beacon in a predominantly conservative region. With an invitation for listeners to visit and experience the city firsthand, the episode leaves a lasting impression of Nashville as a city rich in culture, community, and opportunity, making it a perfect destination for LGBTQ+ retirees looking to embrace a fulfilling and dynamic lifestyle.

The vibrant city of Nashville, Tennessee, is explored as an exceptional choice for LGBTQ+ retirees seeking a blend of culture, community, and care in their golden years. Mark Goldstein and Evan Thomas engage in a dynamic conversation that reveals the unique qualities of Nashville, where music, art, and culinary experiences abound, creating an ideal backdrop for retirement. Evan, a local real estate expert, underscores the housing affordability in Nashville, providing listeners with insights into the median prices of homes and the variety of neighborhoods that cater to diverse lifestyles. Areas such as East Nashville and the Gulch are highlighted for their lively atmospheres, which not only welcome LGBTQ+ individuals but also foster a sense of belonging and community.

The discussion shifts to the practical aspects of living in Nashville, including the healthcare landscape, which is particularly favorable for retirees. Evan elaborates on the city’s commitment to LGBTQ+ health initiatives, showcasing organizations like Music City Prep that provide essential services in a supportive environment. This focus on health and well-being is crucial for retirees who seek peace of mind as they transition into this new phase of life. Additionally, the podcast addresses the importance of community engagement and social opportunities, with Evan sharing his experiences of connecting with others through local LGBTQ+ organizations that enrich the lives of seniors.

As the episode progresses, the hosts celebrate Nashville’s vibrant Pride events, which serve as a testament to the city’s progressive values and commitment to inclusivity. Evan recounts the growth of Pride celebrations, emphasizing their ability to unite the community and bring awareness to LGBTQ+ issues. The conversation concludes with a heartfelt invitation for listeners to consider Nashville not just as a potential retirement destination but as a place where they can thrive, build lasting relationships, and enjoy the artistry and warmth of Southern life. With its unique blend of culture, community, and care, Nashville is an inspiring choice for LGBTQ+ retirees eager to embrace their next chapter.

Takeaways:

• Nashville offers a vibrant LGBTQ community with various safe neighborhoods to choose from.
• The city hosts numerous cultural events, including a large Pride celebration every June.
• Nashville's dining scene has rapidly expanded, featuring award-winning chefs and unique local cuisine.
• Healthcare options are extensive in Nashville, with many LGBTQ-friendly services available.
• The cost of living in Nashville is reasonable compared to other major metropolitan areas.
• Substantial public transportation options are still developing, but walkability in key neighborhoods is improving.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com
• thomastwinsteam.com
• www.instagram.com/therealhousesofnashville

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Vanderbilt University Medical Center
• St. Thomas Health
• TriStar Health
• Music City Prep
• Tennessee Equality Project
• Nashville Cares
• OASIS Center
• Osher Lifelong Learning Institute
• HCA
• Fisk University
• Tennessee State University
• Cheekwood Estate and Gardens
• The Frist Art Museum
• The National Museum of African American Music
• The Johnny Cash Museum
• Nashville and Harmony

Evan Thomas Contact Info:

Website: thomastwinsteam.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_real_houses_of_nashville

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourthomastwins/

Email: evan@thomastwinsteam.com

In an insightful episode of Where Do Gays Retire, hosts Mark Goldstein and Jameson Farn delve into the enchanting world of Nice, France, and what it has to offer those in the LGBTQ community considering retirement. Farn, a seasoned resident and expert on the French Riviera, shares his journey and the reasons behind his long-standing love affair with this picturesque city. The discussion revolves around the unique blend of culture, safety, and community that Nice provides, making it a top choice for those seeking a welcoming environment in which to spend their golden years. Listeners are treated to a vivid description of the region’s stunning landscapes, vibrant nightlife, and the rich cultural experiences easily accessible in and around Nice.

The conversation takes a practical turn as Goldstein and Farn discuss the essentials of relocating to Nice, including housing options, the local healthcare system, and the cost of living. Farn’s insights into the housing market are particularly valuable, as he encourages potential retirees to rent before committing to a purchase, allowing them to better understand the local lifestyle and amenities. The episode also sheds light on Nice’s excellent healthcare services, which are renowned for their quality and accessibility, making it an attractive option for retirees. Farn emphasizes that the city is not just about beautiful beaches and sunny weather; it’s about creating a fulfilling life in a community that values diversity and inclusivity.

The episode concludes with a reflection on the vibrant LGBTQ culture in Nice and the various events and activities that bring the community together. Farn shares anecdotes of pride celebrations, art exhibitions, and social gatherings that highlight the city's acceptance and embrace of the LGBTQ lifestyle. This conversation serves not only as a guide for those considering a move to Nice but also as an invitation to embrace the adventure of retirement in a city that offers so much more than just a place to live—it promises a rich and rewarding lifestyle filled with connection, culture, and joy.

Takeaways:

• Nice, France is considered a cultural hub for the LGBTQ community, offering vibrant nightlife and events.
• The city of Nice boasts a Mediterranean climate with over 300 days of sunshine yearly.
• Transportation in Nice is very accessible, with a great public transit system and walkable neighborhoods.
• Healthcare in France is excellent, with easy access to doctors and affordable appointments.
• Renting in Nice can be challenging, but it is advisable to start with short-term leases.
• The LGBTQ community in Nice is welcoming and supportive, with numerous events and festivals throughout the year.

Links referenced in this episode:

• gayfrenchriviera.substack.com
• www.wheretogaysretire.com
• https://www.instagram.com/experiencethefrenchriviera
• https://www.facebook.com/experiencethefrenchriviera

Exploring the enchanting coastal city of Viña del Mar, Chile, this podcast episode captures the essence of retirement through the journey of Suber Corley, who has found a home and a purpose in his new life. Mark Goldstein facilitates an enlightening discussion that traverses Subar's expansive life, from his educational endeavors to corporate leadership, culminating in his and his husband Nelson’s decision to retire in this beautiful locale. The episode highlights the unique geographical features of Viña del Mar, including its Mediterranean climate, which Suber fondly compares to Southern California, and the appealing aspects of living in a city that boasts stunning ocean views and a vibrant community atmosphere.

Suber’s narrative weaves through essential themes such as the affordability of living in Chile, the accessibility of healthcare, and the culinary delights that define his daily life. He shares firsthand experiences about the healthcare system, emphasizing its quality and affordability, especially compared to the United States. The discussion also delves into the local dining scene, where fresh seafood and Peruvian influences take center stage. Suber paints a vivid picture of a lifestyle enriched by fresh, locally sourced food and the benefits of a community that values inclusivity and diversity, particularly for LGBTQ individuals.

As the conversation unfolds, Suber reflects on the evolving societal attitudes towards LGBTQ rights in Chile, sharing his comfort in being openly gay and married in a community that welcomes diverse identities. The episode serves as an enlightening guide for listeners contemplating retirement options abroad, illustrating how Viña del Mar offers a beautiful setting and a supportive, vibrant environment for those looking to embrace a new chapter in life.

Takeaways:

• Viña del Mar, Chile, offers a Mediterranean climate similar to Southern California, ideal for retirees.
• The cost of living in Viña del Mar is generally lower than in the U.S., especially for food and housing.
• LGBTQ rights have progressed in Chile, with same-sex marriage legalized and a welcoming community.
• Healthcare options in Viña del Mar include affordable private insurance at about $35 a month.
• Public transportation is efficient, with frequent buses and a light rail system to Santiago.
• Crime rates are relatively low in Viña del Mar compared to many U.S. cities, enhancing safety for residents.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com

Welcome to another exciting episode of the *Where Do Gays Retire* Podcast! Host Mark Goldstein catches up with Steve Cross and Harold Watts to revisit Ajijic, Mexico—a picturesque lakeside town nestled by Lake Chapala. This episode is packed with updates on Ajijic’s climate, cost of living, LGBTQ+ community, social scene, healthcare, and more. Whether you’re considering retirement in Mexico or just curious about this charming destination, Steve and Harold share firsthand insights and experiences you won’t want to miss!

**Episode Highlights**:

- **Why Ajijic Stands Out**: Updates on Ajijic's unique appeal as an LGBTQ+ haven and how the social scene has evolved since our last visit.

Climate & Living Conditions: Discover Ajijic's "Goldilocks" climate and how climate change is subtly impacting it.

- **Cost of Living**: Insights into housing prices, grocery costs, and utility expenses, including affordable solar options and property taxes that will amaze you.

- **Social Life & Community**: Learn about the vibrant cocktail and dinner parties, growing LGBTQ+ gatherings, and the incredible inclusivity of the Ajijic community.

- **Healthcare Access**: How Ajijic provides excellent and affordable healthcare options, including stories of speedy services and highly respected local practitioners.

- **Dining Scene**: Explore Ajijic’s dining delights, from casual bites to upscale culinary experiences, plus some must-try spots in nearby Guadalajara.

- **Arts & Culture**: Get the scoop on local theaters, art exhibitions, and the thriving cultural scene that enriches life in Ajijic.

- **Safety & Security**: Updates on crime rates, community safety, and why Ajijic remains a safe and welcoming place for residents and visitors alike.

- **Transportation Tips**: Everything from navigating traffic to hiring drivers, and whether you truly need a car in this walkable lakeside town.

💬 **Notable Quotes**:

- *“Ajijic is all about community—everyone knows everyone, and there’s always something going on.”*

- *“For less than $20 a month, my electricity bill covers my pool, garden, and entire house thanks to solar!”*

- *“Ajijic has the heart of a small town but the inclusivity and vibrance of a big city LGBTQ+ community.”*

**About Our Guests**:

- **Steve Cross is a long-time resident of Ajijic, a real estate expert, and founder of the Gay Alliance Ajijic. Steve shares his knowledge of local life, housing options, and his role in fostering a supportive LGBTQ+ community.

- **Harold Watts is a passionate local who is involved in the vacation rental business and community charities. Harold provides invaluable insights into healthcare, social life, and the dining scene in Ajijic.

📍 **Why Listen?**

This episode is perfect for anyone considering Ajijic, Mexico, as a retirement destination or curious about what makes this vibrant LGBTQ+ haven special. From practical advice to heartwarming stories, Mark, Steve, and Harold bring Ajijic to life in this engaging and informative discussion.

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Jac shares his passion for home restoration, particularly his and his partner Shane's efforts in restoring a historic greenhouse conservatory in their neighborhood of Palmer Woods. This personal touch adds a relatable element to the discussion, showcasing the beauty of Detroit's architecture and the sense of community that comes with living in such an area. The conversation also highlights Detroit's cultural scene, with Mark and Jac praising the city's art galleries, theaters, and diverse culinary offerings. They touch on the Detroit Institute of Arts, which has been recognized as one of the best in the country, and Jack's enthusiasm for the various dining experiences available, from fine dining to local favorites. Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to view Detroit through a new lens that celebrates the city's revival and the opportunities it presents to those in the LGBTQ+ community.

The dialogue takes a reflective turn as Mark and Jac discuss the safety of the city, addressing the lingering stereotypes about crime in Detroit. They emphasize that while crime can occur in any city, Detroit has significantly declined criminal activity. Jack reassures potential movers that his neighborhood feels safe, even for late-night walks, and that the community is becoming more vibrant and inclusive. With a focus on the importance of community and connection, the episode wraps up with a positive message about the future of Detroit, encouraging those from the LGBTQ+ community to consider this city as a welcoming and enriching place to retire. The conversation ultimately paints a picture of Detroit as a city that is recovering from its past and thriving in its present, ready to embrace new residents with open arms and a vibrant lifestyle.

Takeaways:

• Detroit's real estate market offers diverse options, with homes ranging in affordability and historic charm.
• The city's healthcare system is robust, with specialized services for the LGBTQ community.
• Crime rates in Detroit have significantly decreased, making neighborhoods safer for residents.
• The vibrant arts and culture scene in Detroit includes renowned museums and theaters.
• Transportation options are expanding in Detroit, making it easier to navigate the city.
• Jac Blanco encourages thorough research for retirees considering Detroit, highlighting its many positive attributes.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com

Jac Blanco

Jac Blanco was born in Miami, Florida; however, soon after he was born, his family relocated to New Jersey and was raised in the NYC metro area of Bergen County, New Jersey. Jac lived in NJ until 2010, when he relocated to Chattanooga, Tennessee, for a new job opportunity. Jac met his current partner, Shane, in 2014 while living in Chattanooga. In March of 2016, Jac and Shane relocated for another job opportunity to Detroit, Michigan. They now live in Palmer Woods, a historic neighborhood in Detroit, and are restoring their 103-year-old greenhouse/conservatory.

Jac enjoys working out, gardening, home restorations and decorating, traveling, theater, opera, and dining out.

In 2021, Jac was appointed to the Michigan Hispanic Chamber of Commerce board of directors. In 2022, he was elected to the board as Corporate Vice Chair. 

Jac earned a Bachelor of Arts Degree from New Jersey City State University. 

Jac is still working and plans to retire in a few years.

Takeaways:

• Mark Goldstein hosts a vibrant discussion comparing the unique aspects of retirement in Albuquerque and Tucson, emphasizing climate, culture, and community.
• Pam Myers shares her deep passion for Albuquerque's rich arts scene and diverse food culture, especially its famous chili cuisine.
• Jeff Schukart highlights Tucson's recognition as a UNESCO City of Gastronomy, showcasing its culinary diversity and vibrant local dining options.
• Both guests emphasize the importance of community and inclusiveness within the LGBTQ population in their respective cities, fostering connections.
• The conversation touches on the rising cost of living and housing market trends in both cities, highlighting affordability for retirees.
• Listeners gain insights into healthcare access and the importance of considering crime rates when choosing a retirement destination.

pamm meyers

Pamm Meyers is a storyteller, dynamic leader, and advocate dedicated to fostering prosperity within the LGBTQIA community through business innovation and social advocacy. With a multifaceted background, Pamm has become a trailblazer in various fields, leaving an indelible mark on New Mexico’s LGBTQIA and business communities.

As CEO of Go Social, Pamm Meyers is at the forefront of digital marketing and podcasting solutions for business owners and organizations. Her visionary approach has empowered countless ventures to harness social media's potential, unlocking new avenues for growth and engagement. Pamm is a driving force behind her clients’ success, leveraging the power of connectivity to elevate their brands through digital marketing and podcasting.

Pamm is also the managing partner of Two Flower Productions, a podcasting company that produces “Lip Service: The Podcast of Our Coming Out Stories” https://lipservice.media, which boasts over 4,800 subscribers in 39 countries, and “3Q: New Mexico’s Business Podcast” https://3qnm.com, which has over 4,439 subscribers in New Mexico.

Previously, Pamm served as the Executive Director of the New Mexico Out Business Alliance. She is currently a Board Advisor for the Way Out West Film Fest https://wayoutwestfilmfest.com/ and the Albuquerque Community Foundation Pride Circle https://abqcf.org/pride-circle/, supporting the LGBTQIA community through philanthropy.

Jeff Schuchart

From Personal Interest to Profession – Jeff relocated to Tucson, Arizona, with his husband during the summer of 2014. Yes, you read that right — they moved during the summer! Despite the timing, he never looked back. Jeff and his husband grew up in southeast Pennsylvania and set a timeline for their move, even though they didn’t know anyone in Tucson. Jeff had always been interested in real estate. After retiring in 2016, he obtained his real estate license and joined Long Realty, the largest brokerage in southern Arizona and part of the Berkshire Hathaway network.

Background – Jeff spent 30 years with VF Corporation, working entirely in human resources. He holds an undergraduate degree in fine arts and an MBA from state and private universities in Pennsylvania. Jeff and his husband, Bob, have come to appreciate Tucson as a vibrant city filled with wonderful people, diversity, a university atmosphere, gastronomy, culture, hiking, cycling, golfing, mountains at every turn, and a large gay community. Jeff has volunteered for most of his adult life and has found numerous organizations to support within their local community.

Jeff never tires of talking about Tucson and all it offers. If you have any questions about their experiences, please visit his website at https://jeffs.longrealty.com or email him at jeffs@longrealty.com.

In the latest episode of Where Do Gays Retire?, we take a compelling look at the intersection of LGBTQ rights and the pressing question of marriage equality. Our host Mark Goldstein sits down with none other than Evan Wolfson, a pioneer in the marriage equality movement. As they navigate through the current political landscape, it becomes clear that while we’ve made significant strides, there are still shadows lurking. Wolfson reflects on his early days as an activist and the fierce battles fought to secure the rights we have today. He doesn’t shy away from discussing the challenges that lie ahead, especially in light of recent threats to these hard-won liberties. Listeners will find themselves armed with knowledge about the historical context of marriage rights, the significance of the Obergefell decision, and the urgent need for continued activism. This episode serves as a rallying cry for the community, encouraging everyone to stay engaged and hopeful as we continue to fight for equality and safety in our retirement years. Mark and Evan remind us that the power of love and commitment is resilient, and together, we can create a future where everyone can retire with dignity and joy.

Takeaways:

• Evan Wolfson's journey in advocating for marriage equality spans over three decades, starting from his law school thesis in 1983.
• The 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges decision marked a historic victory, legalizing same-sex marriage across the U.S. and changing countless lives.
• Wolfson emphasizes that while the fight for equality continues, there are solid protections in place, like the Respect for Marriage Act.
• Engagement and activism are crucial; we can't just sit back and hope for progress, we must actively participate.
• The LGBTQ+ community has made incredible strides, now 39 countries recognize marriage equality, showcasing the power of perseverance.
• Wolfson encourages everyone to stay hopeful and engaged, as collective action can lead to significant change over time.

Links referenced in this episode:

• wheredogaysretire.com
• freedomtomarry.org

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Freedom to Marry
• Lambda Legal
• GLAD
• ACLU
• National Center for Lesbian Rights
• Stand Up America
• Indivisible
• Protect America

This podcast episode invites listeners to discover why Pittsburgh is a desirable retirement city for the LGBTQ community. Mark Goldstein interviews Mike Madden, who discusses his transformative journey and the city's remarkable evolution. The conversation addresses Pittsburgh's growing reputation as a retirement destination, covering aspects such as climate, safety, healthcare, and cultural vibrancy. Madden's insights reveal a city that balances affordability with rich amenities, making it a practical and attractive option for LGBTQ retirees seeking a welcoming environment to call home.

Throughout the episode, Madden recounts personal anecdotes and shares the various social and recreational opportunities available to residents. The discussion touches on the significance of community engagement and the sense of belonging that Pittsburgh offers to LGBTQ individuals. Listeners will learn about the city's rich history, diverse neighborhoods, and increasing inclusivity, all contributing to a supportive environment for retirees. The episode highlights not only the practical advantages of living in Pittsburgh, such as lower housing costs and free public transportation for seniors but also the emotional fulfillment of being part of a vibrant and connected community, ultimately presenting Pittsburgh as a city where LGBTQ individuals can thrive.

Takeaways:

• Pittsburgh offers a unique blend of urban amenities and a friendly, welcoming atmosphere for the LGBTQ community.
• The city has transformed from its industrial roots into a vibrant, tech-driven environment attracting retirees.
• With no state taxes on pensions or Social Security, Pittsburgh is a financially appealing option for retirees.
• Healthcare access is robust, with a range of quality providers and minimal appointment wait times.
• Pittsburgh's cultural scene includes world-class museums, theaters, and a vibrant dining experience.
• Safety measures in the city have improved, making it a relatively safe place for residents.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Carnegie Mellon
• University of Pittsburgh
• Duquesne University
• UPMC
• Allegheny Health Network
• Eddie Merlot's
• Apteca
• Pusadis Garden
• Con Alma
• Heinz History Museum
• Andy Warhol Museum

Tim McCormick’s insights into Providence, Rhode Island, serve as a captivating exploration of a city rich in history and evolving social dynamics, particularly for the LGBTQ community. The podcast unpacks Tim's journey back to Providence, where he reflects on the significant changes the city has undergone over the years. With a historical lens, he recounts a time when homosexuality was not only stigmatized but also criminalized, transitioning to a contemporary environment where LGBTQ rights are celebrated and protected. This transformation is rooted deeply in the city's cultural fabric, making it a welcoming destination for retirees seeking a sense of belonging and community.

The conversation navigates through essential aspects of retirement living in Providence, from the cost of living to healthcare facilities. Tim provides a detailed overview of the current real estate market, which has seen an uptick in prices but still offers diverse housing options for those looking to settle down. His focus on accessibility highlights the challenges seniors may face in navigating the city’s historic neighborhoods, underscoring the importance of selecting residences that accommodate their needs as they age. Moreover, the podcast delves into healthcare, emphasizing the presence of reputable hospitals and LGBTQ-focused clinics, ensuring that retirees have access to necessary medical care tailored to their unique circumstances.

Beyond the practical considerations, the podcast shines a light on the vibrant social fabric of Providence. With many LGBTQ-friendly events, community groups, and recreational activities, the city fosters a sense of camaraderie and engagement among its residents. Tim encourages listeners to immerse themselves in the local culture, highlighting events such as Pride parades and artistic exhibitions celebrating diversity. Through his narrative, the podcast paints a vivid picture of a city that embraces its historical roots and thrives on its progressive values, making it an ideal locale for LGBTQ retirees looking to build a fulfilling life in a supportive and dynamic environment.

Takeaways:

• Providence, Rhode Island, offers a rich history of LGBTQ acceptance and community support.
• The city has seen significant improvements in safety and infrastructure over the past decades.
• Healthcare in Providence is generally accessible, but finding new patient appointments can be challenging.
• The cost of living in Providence has risen, but it remains below national averages overall.
• Providence's vibrant arts scene thrives with numerous events and cultural offerings year-round.
• Outdoor activities are abundant, with parks and waterfront access appealing to retirees.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com
• queerri.com
• artsnowrhodeisland.com
• goprovidence.com

Retiring in Providence, Rhode Island, offers a unique blend of community, culture, and accessibility, as articulated by Tim McCormick in this enlightening podcast episode. McCormick's narrative captures the essence of a city that has evolved significantly over the years, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. He shares his personal journey, having left Rhode Island in search of greater acceptance and eventually returning to a city transformed into a vibrant hub for gay individuals and allies. Throughout the episode, listeners gain insight into the historical context of LGBTQ+ rights in Rhode Island, illustrating how past struggles have paved the way for a more inclusive present.

McCormick discusses the practical aspects of life in Providence, detailing the cost of living, housing options, and healthcare facilities. He emphasizes that despite recent increases in home prices, the city still offers affordable living compared to many other urban areas. The conversation also highlights the city's diverse neighborhoods, each with its own character and charm, and the importance of choosing a location that fits one's lifestyle needs, especially for retirees who may require accessible living arrangements. McCormick's insights into the local arts scene, including queer-friendly events and cultural activities, reveal a city full of life and opportunities for social engagement.

Moreover, the episode explores the accessibility of Providence, with its rich array of parks and outdoor activities that encourage an active lifestyle among retirees. McCormick's recommendations to potential movers include visiting the city to experience its ambiance and community firsthand, as he believes that personal connections are integral to finding a sense of belonging. This episode serves as a comprehensive guide for LGBTQ+ retirees contemplating their next chapter, showcasing Providence as a place where history, acceptance, and community come together to create an inviting retirement destination.

Vancouver, Washington, emerges as a beacon for retirees in the LGBTQ+ community in a lively dialogue between Mark Goldstein and Gary Beagle. Gary, a well-established figure in the local community, shares his personal story and professional insights that weave together the allure of this Pacific Northwest city. The conversation touches on Vancouver's inviting atmosphere, which is complemented by its absence of a state income tax, making it financially appealing for those looking to stretch their retirement dollars. Gary emphasizes the city’s favorable climate, which allows for year-round outdoor activities, from hiking in nearby mountains to enjoying the stunning Oregon coast just a short drive away. The discussion also paints a vivid picture of what life is like in Vancouver, with a focus on its natural beauty, vibrant parks, and the moderate temperatures that characterize the region.

The episode further explores the cultural and social dimensions of life in Vancouver, highlighting the active LGBTQ+ scene that thrives alongside a welcoming community. Gary discusses the various events and local establishments that cater to diverse interests, along with the safety and acceptance experienced by residents. This is particularly significant for LGBTQ+ retirees who seek a community where they can live openly and comfortably. Mark and Gary also touch on the healthcare landscape, noting the availability of LGBTQ-friendly medical services and the accessibility of healthcare providers, which is crucial for retirees. With a blend of personal anecdotes, practical information, and engaging narratives, this episode serves as a valuable resource for anyone considering a move to Vancouver, Washington, showcasing why it is an ideal retirement destination.

Takeaways:

• Vancouver, Washington offers a welcoming environment for retirees, particularly within the LGBTQ community.
• The cost of living in Vancouver is 11% lower than other cities in Washington.
• Air conditioning is becoming more common in homes due to increasing summer temperatures.
• Vancouver has a vibrant arts and culture scene, with various events and venues available.
• Health care in Vancouver is highly rated, with LGBTQ-friendly providers accessible to residents.
• The city has made significant strides in addressing homelessness through community initiatives.

In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein highlights the quaint town of Lewes, Delaware, as a compelling retirement destination for the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion covers key aspects such as the town's climate, cost of living, crime rates, and access to healthcare. Mark elaborates on the town's proximity to the LGBTQ+ friendly Rehoboth Beach, the tax perks specific to Delaware, and the vibrant food and arts scene Lewes offers. He also underscores the community support through organizations like Delaware Pride and Camp Rehoboth. Considering safety, affordability, and accessible healthcare, Mark makes a strong case for why Lewes could be the perfect place to enjoy one's golden years.

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:48 Spotlight on Lewes, Delaware

01:39 Community and Support for LGBTQ+

02:32 Weather and Outdoor Activities

03:24 Walkability and Transportation

04:30 Cost of Living in Lewes

07:52 Tax Benefits in Delaware

09:15 Safety and Crime Rates

10:50 Healthcare Facilities

12:55 Culinary Delights

15:00 Arts, Culture, and Outdoor Attractions

17:11 Conclusion and Farewell

The podcast episode explores the appeal of Lewes, Delaware, as a prime retirement destination for the LGBTQ community, highlighting its welcoming environment, affordable cost of living, and proximity to beautiful beaches. Host Mark Goldstein interviews Terry Manzberger, who shares insights into life in Lewes, emphasizing its friendly atmosphere and rich cultural heritage. Terry discusses the town's climate, healthcare facilities, and the impact of climate change, noting that while flooding and rising sea levels are concerns, local initiatives are addressing these issues. The episode also delves into the vibrant social scene in Lewes and nearby Rehoboth Beach, where numerous events and organizations cater to the LGBTQ community. Additionally, the podcast touches on the benefits of Delaware's tax structure, which makes it an attractive location for retirees.

Show Notes

Mark Goldstein engages in an insightful conversation with Terry Manzberger, who shares why he and his partner chose to retire in Lewes, Delaware. The episode offers a comprehensive look at Lewes as an ideal spot for LGBTQ retirees, emphasizing its welcoming environment, affordability, and quality of life. Terry describes the town's appeal, from its scenic beauty and historical charm to its vibrant community life.

Terry discusses the practical aspects of living in Lewes, detailing the local climate and its effects on daily life. He addresses climate change concerns, particularly coastal flooding, and the initiatives to combat these issues. The discussion of the cost of living is thorough, with Terry comparing it to other areas and highlighting the lack of sales tax and reasonable property taxes as key advantages. He also discusses the housing market, explaining the options available for buying and renting in the area.

The episode delves into community life in Lewes, focusing on the strong LGBTQ presence and the numerous social and cultural opportunities available. Terry talks about his involvement in local historical activities, clubs, and organizations that make Lewes a lively and inclusive place. The conversation wraps up with a look at healthcare services in the area, noting the improvements and availability of specialists. Overall, the episode paints a vivid picture of Lewes as an attractive retirement location for the LGBTQ community, combining affordability, community spirit, and quality of life.

Takeaways:

• Lewes, Delaware, is a small, quaint town known for its LGBTQ-friendly environment and affordable living.
• Terry and Charlie moved to Lewes after vacationing there for 20 years, attracted by the beaches and low cost of living.
• The climate in Lewes is typical mid-Atlantic, with mild winters, hot summers, and a threat of hurricanes.
• Due to its flat geography and wetlands, climate change impacts Lewes with stronger storms and flooding.
• The cost of living in Lewes is lower than in many neighboring states, with no sales tax and low property taxes.
• Lewes offers a vibrant LGBTQ community with many social groups, events, and a welcoming atmosphere.
• Local hospitals like Beebe have improved Healthcare access in Lewes, but specialist wait times can still be extended.
• Crime in Lewes is low, mainly consisting of petty theft, making it a generally safe area for retirees.

Takeaways:

• Olvera, Spain and Elvas, Portugal are two charming towns ideal for LGBTQ retirees.
• Both towns boast low property taxes and affordable living costs compared to US standards.
• Olvera enjoys 300 sunny days per year, making it perfect for sun lovers.
• Elvas offers a rich cultural experience with its UNESCO-recognized historical sites.
• LGBTQ communities in both Spain and Portugal are known for their inclusivity and safety.
• Understanding visa options is crucial for retirees considering living in Spain or Portugal.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheretogaysretire.com

Listeners are treated to a comprehensive overview of the LGBTQ retirement landscape in Southern Europe, as Bruce Joffe and Russ Warren engage in a lively discussion about their experiences in Spain and Portugal. The episode covers a breadth of topics, including climate differences, cost of living, and the vibrancy of local LGBTQ communities. The guests emphasize the significance of community support and the welcoming nature of both cultures. They provide listeners with valuable tips on navigating the visa application processes, particularly the non-lucrative D7 visa in Portugal, which allows for retirement without the necessity of employment. Furthermore, they explore the social dynamics and safety of living in these regions, painting a picture of a life filled with joy, camaraderie, and cultural richness, making it clear that both countries offer unique opportunities for a fulfilling retirement.

Takeaways:

• The podcast highlights the challenges and benefits of retiring in Spain versus Portugal, focusing on climate, culture, and lifestyle.
• Mark Goldstein interviews Bruce Joffe and Russ Warren, who share insights about their experiences living as LGBTQ+ retirees in Europe.
• Listeners learn about the significant differences in residency requirements for retirees in Spain and Portugal.
• Bruce emphasizes the importance of doing thorough research before making retirement decisions in foreign countries.
• The hosts discuss the welcoming nature of both Spain and Portugal towards LGBTQ+ individuals, highlighting inclusivity.
• Cost of living comparisons reveal that Portugal may be more affordable than Spain for retirees.

Bruce Joffe Bio

Pastor, professor, publisher, and journalist Bruce H. Joffe is an award-winning author of magazine features, academic research, journal articles, self-help manuals, and newspaper stories. His nine books deal with international (intercultural) living, progressive theology, gender studies, “social” politics, our vulnerabilities, marketing, and the media. 

More than six years ago, Bruce relocated from Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin, to the European Union, dividing his time between Portugal and Spain.

Portugal Living Facebook group:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/451204043309681

Portalegre People Facebook group:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/288581375359604

People of Faith Online Spiritual Community:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/303381510793586

“EXACTLY!”: Pastor Bruce’s Bodacious Blog

https://pastorbrucesblog.com

EXPAT: Leaving the USA for Good (on Amazon Spain):

https://www.amazon.es/-/pt/dp/B0D7ZB9H2J/ref=sr_1_1

SPANISH TOWNS, PORTUGUESE VILLAGES (on Amazon Spain):

https://www.amazon.es/-/pt/dp/B0CCCSLFTS/ref=sr_1_4

Russ Warren Bio

Russ grew up in the Tidewater region of Virginia. He attended Virginia Wesleyan College in Norfolk and then George Mason University in Fairfax, where he graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology in 1989.

He worked as the Special Projects Director for the Specialty Graphic Imaging Association and later as the Director of Marketing and Meetings Management for Courier Magazine, a national publication dedicated to the messenger-courier industry.

Subsequently, Russ worked as Lead Coordinating Editor for LexisNexis and as Copy Editor for SNL Financial, both in Charlottesville, Virginia. He also served as a U.S. Patent Classifier for Centuria Corp. in Harrisburg, Virginia, where he reviewed and classified environmental, biotechnical, and organic chemistry patent applications.

He was an Accreditation Manager for the American Culinary Federation’s Education Foundation for four years. He reviewed postsecondary program curricula against established standards and competencies and guided programs through accreditation.

In Door County, Wisconsin, Russ was the Marketing Director for Birch Creek Music Performance Center in Egg Harbor and Midsummer’s Music, where he was promoted to Executive Director after a year.

In 2018, Russ and his husband embarked on a lifelong dream of living in Spain and Portugal, where he continues to live today. He still serves remotely and leads Marketing/Media for Midsummer’s Music.

Exploring the climate, the episode reveals that Fort Collins enjoys an average of 237 sunny days per year, complemented by a delightful mix of seasonal activities for both summer and winter enthusiasts. The city's reputation as a biking paradise is underscored with its platinum designation for cycling infrastructure, making it easy for residents to navigate without a vehicle. While the cost of living is slightly above the national average, the abundance of dining options, including over 600 restaurants, and a rich cultural scene offset this expense. Goldstein illustrates how the lively downtown area, with its walkability and vibrant atmosphere, makes Fort Collins a charming place for retirees.

Listeners are introduced to the city's dynamic arts and culture scene, featuring venues like the Lincoln Center and various live music events that enrich community life. The influence of Colorado State University is also discussed, highlighting how it contributes to the diverse and energetic vibe of Fort Collins. With numerous resources available for LGBTQ seniors, including active senior centers and quality healthcare services, the episode paints a comprehensive picture of Fort Collins as not just a retirement destination, but a community where LGBTQ retirees can thrive, feel safe, and engage in a fulfilling lifestyle.

Takeaways:

• Fort Collins, Colorado is a vibrant city with a strong LGBTQ community, offering inclusivity and safety.
• The city boasts a high number of sunny days, making it ideal for outdoor activities and relaxation.
• Fort Collins is renowned for its craft beer scene, home to over 20 breweries.
• Fort Collins's living cost is higher than the national average, especially housing.
• Colorado has recently strengthened its abortion rights and marriage equality protections, emphasizing inclusivity.
• Transportation in Fort Collins is bicycle-friendly, with a strong network for cyclists and upcoming rail connections.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• New Belgium Brewing
• Odell Brewing Co.

Patty Book is a retired academic administrator who has served as vice president of continuing education and distance education at several universities, including the University of Alaska Fairbanks, Penn State, Kent State, and the American Council on Education in DC. She is also an Anne Lister diary decoder.

Summary

In this conversation, Mark Goldstein interviews Patty Book and Pat Nelson about their experiences living in Fort Collins, Colorado, as retirees. They discuss the city's climate, geography, cost of living, healthcare services, and vibrant arts and culture scene. The guests highlight the community's friendliness, outdoor activities, and the importance of climate action. They also touch on the LGBTQ-friendly environment and the various amenities available for seniors, making Fort Collins an attractive place for retirement.

Takeaways

Fort Collins boasts 300 days of sunshine annually.

The city has a moderate four-season climate with low humidity.

Climate change has led to more hot days and droughts in the area.

Fort Collins is known for its outdoor activities, including hiking and biking.

The cost of living has increased, with median home prices around $550,000.

Transportation is accessible, with a robust public transit system and bike-friendly infrastructure.

The vibrant arts and culture scene has numerous galleries, theaters, and music festivals.

Safety is a priority, with low crime rates reported in the community.

Healthcare services are excellent, with multiple hospitals and specialized care available.

The community is inclusive and welcoming, particularly for the LGBTQ population.

Born and raised in Syracuse, New York, Scott lives in Camillus, a charming suburb outside the city. He comes with a rich worker-compensation background, where he honed his negotiation skills over a commendable 23-year career at an insurance company, specializing in high-dollar claims for a decade.

During the challenging times of COVID-19 in 2020, Scott pivoted towards a new passion—real estate. After completing his licensing in September 2021, he transitioned from his corporate role in early 2022 to focus full-time on helping individuals and families find their perfect homes. His previous experience has proven invaluable, especially in assisting buyers navigate the complexities of real estate transactions.

Scott's journey into real estate began over sixteen years ago when he first recognized his passion for the field. Although initially held back by financial constraints, his love for home renovations and genuine satisfaction in assisting others to achieve their dream of homeownership kept his interest alive. Today, he's not just selling homes but also helping familiarize newcomers with the myriad opportunities Central New York offers, ensuring they understand the buying and selling process thoroughly. Scott, welcome to the show, and thank you for joining us to share your insights and experiences in Syracuse's vibrant real estate market.

Summary

Mark Goldstein interviews Scott Hier, a real estate expert from Syracuse, New York, in this conversation. They discuss various aspects of living in Syracuse, including its climate, housing market, cost of living, healthcare services, transportation options, and the vibrant arts and culture scene. Scott shares insights into the local LGBTQ+ community, the support systems available, and the ongoing revitalization of downtown Syracuse. The conversation highlights the unique characteristics of Syracuse, making it an attractive place to live and work. In this conversation, Scott Hier shares insights about Syracuse, highlighting its vibrant cultural scene, diverse dining options, and the community's overall safety. He emphasizes the city's appeal as a hidden gem, especially for retirees and the LGBTQ community, while discussing the seasonal changes and activities available throughout the year. Scott also touches on the prospects of Syracuse, including new developments and the importance of community involvement.

Takeaways

• Syracuse is known for its heavy snowfall, but recent winters have been milder.
• Although the housing market in Syracuse has seen significant price increases recently, it remains affordable compared to national averages.
• Healthcare services in Syracuse are robust, with several specialized hospitals.
• Syracuse has made strides in walkability and bike lanes, enhancing urban mobility.
• The downtown area is revitalizing, with old buildings being converted into condos.
• Various organizations and events support the LGBTQ+ community in Syracuse.
• Syracuse hosts a pride festival that has grown in popularity over the years.
• Syracuse's arts and culture scene includes museums, theaters, and live performances.
• Syracuse University contributes to the local arts scene with its drama department.
• Transportation options include public buses, Amtrak, and ride-sharing services. Syracuse has a rich cultural scene with plenty of shows and events.
• The dining options in Syracuse are diverse and plentiful, especially Italian cuisine.
• Safety in Syracuse is generally high, with a downward trend in violent crime.
• Syracuse is often overlooked but offers a lot for residents and visitors alike.
• The city has a variety of seasonal activities, making it appealing year-round.
• Retirement in Syracuse is attractive due to its community and amenities.
• Syracuse is evolving with new developments and revitalization efforts.
• The city is well-connected, with many attractions within a short drive.
• Community involvement is encouraged, and many volunteer opportunities are available.
• Syracuse's charm lies in its balance of urban and natural offerings.

Are you looking for a place to call home in Syracuse, New York? Contact Scott Hier: https://g.co/kgs/dHsDFsF

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Waldron spent twenty-five years in the Pacific Northwest of the US. He developed a master's degree and doctorate in leadership at a university. He traveled the world doing partnership work with global non-profit leaders. For the past thirteen years, he has lived in downtown Tacoma as part of an intentional community that provides transitional housing for homeless people, recent immigrants, and people released from incarceration. He has led men’s work through the Mankind Project and working with men in prison.

In 2023, Waldron received Irish citizenship through his grandfather and, in 2024, retired to County Wexford, Ireland. 

Summary

Waldron McGinnis, a retiree in Courtown, Ireland, shares his experience of retiring in Ireland. Courtown is a village in County Wexford, known for its fishing and seaside charm.

Waldron chose Courtown because he wanted to live in a smaller town near Dublin for travel and welcoming guests.

He highlights the mild climate, affordable cost of living, and access to healthcare as benefits of retiring in Courtown.

Waldron also discusses the process of obtaining Irish citizenship and the visa requirements for retirees.

He emphasizes Ireland's vibrant arts and culture scene, with music, theater, and museums being popular attractions.

The food scene in Courtown offers a variety of options, including traditional Irish dishes and international cuisine. Moving to Ireland offers a safe and peaceful environment with high public trust. The crime rate is low, and the country has strict gun control laws.

Research the cost of living and housing beforehand, and join expat groups for valuable information. Set up a bank account and obtain car insurance ahead of time. Ireland is known for its natural beauty, cultural activities, and historical sites. The language barrier is not an issue; the friendly and inclusive society makes it a welcoming place for LGBTQ individuals. Public transportation is convenient, and cashless payments are standard. Overall, Ireland is an excellent choice for retirement.

Climate change is a crucial factor to consider when choosing a retirement destination, especially for the LGBTQ community seeking both safety and inclusivity. In this engaging episode of "Where Do Gays Retire?" host Mark Goldstein explores various U.S. cities that stand out for their proactive approaches to climate change mitigation. From the eco-conscious vibes of Portland, Oregon, to the wind-powered ambitions of Chicago, Illinois, each city is committed to sustainability while maintaining a welcoming atmosphere for the LGBTQ community. Mark also highlights affordable cities with minimal climate risks, such as Madison, Wisconsin, and Burlington, Vermont, where retirees can enjoy a progressive lifestyle without breaking the bank. For those considering international options, cities like Lisbon, Portugal, and Auckland, New Zealand, emerge as top contenders, offering charm, affordability, and vibrant LGBTQ scenes without the looming threat of climate chaos.

Show Notes

Exploring the intersection of climate change and retirement, Mark Goldstein delves into the best cities for LGBTQ retirees seeking sustainable and inclusive environments. Focusing on proactive and affordable cities, the episode covers key factors like municipal equality scores and climate resilience. Cities like Austin and Chicago are praised for their green initiatives, while Madison and Burlington are noted for their affordability and safety from climate extremes. The narrative offers a blend of humor and practical advice, emphasizing the importance of choosing a city that aligns with one's values and is resilient against climate challenges. The episode concludes with a look at international destinations, providing a global perspective on retirement options.

Links referenced in this episode:

• www.wheredogaysretire.com

The podcast episode delves into the experiences of LGBTQ retirees living in Malaga and Valencia, Spain, highlighting the allure of these Spanish cities for those seeking a vibrant and inclusive retirement destination. Host Mark Goldstein engages with guests Steve Aronberg from Malaga and Dave Piccolo and Jesus Bartoli from Valencia, who share insights about the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and the welcoming atmosphere for LGBTQ individuals. Both cities boast a high quality of life, affordable living costs, excellent healthcare systems, and a rich cultural landscape, making them attractive options for expatriates. The discussion also touches on practical aspects such as obtaining residency, navigating Spanish bureaucracy, and the minimal crime rates, underscoring the safety and comfort of living in Spain. With personal anecdotes and expert advice, the episode offers valuable guidance for those considering a move to these sun-soaked destinations.

Show Notes

Exploring the nuances of retirement in Spain, Mark Goldstein hosts an engaging dialogue featuring insights from Steve Aronberg in Malaga and Dave Piccolo and Jesus Bartoli in Valencia. This installment of the "Where Do Gays Retire?" podcast offers a comprehensive look at the factors influencing expatriates' choice of retirement location, from climate and geography to local culture and real estate.

Steve shares his experience of Malaga's sunny Mediterranean climate and its appeal to retirees seeking an active, outdoor lifestyle. He discusses the region's cultural richness, including its lively arts scene and historical landmarks. Dave and Jesus highlight Valencia's affordability and flat terrain, making it an ideal place for walking and cycling. They emphasize the vibrant food culture, where local markets and diverse dining options abound, offering a taste of authentic Spanish cuisine.

The episode also addresses the practical aspects of living abroad, such as healthcare and language barriers, while reassuring listeners about the safety and inclusivity of both cities. Both locations are portrayed as welcoming to the LGBTQ community, with a sense of acceptance and integration into the broader society. The discussion encourages potential retirees to explore different parts of Spain to find a location that aligns with their personal and financial needs, highlighting the benefits of a slower-paced, culturally rich lifestyle.

Takeaways:

• The podcast explores two Spanish cities, Malaga and Valencia, as potential retirement destinations for the LGBTQ community.
• Malaga offers a sunny climate with 300 days of sunshine a year, making it an attractive place to live outdoors.
• Valencia is a flat, walkable city with a low cost of living. It is famous for its rice dishes, such as paella.
• Malaga and Valencia have vibrant LGBTQ-friendly communities and are very accepting of diversity.
• The healthcare system in Spain is affordable and accessible, with private insurance options for non-residents.
• Spain is known for its safety, with low crime rates and a lack of gun culture, providing peace of mind.

Steve Aronberg

He was born in Nuremberg, Germany. His dad was in the army and stationed there. His dad proposed to his mom, who flew over to get married. He spent all his teen years in New Bedford, MA, and graduated from the University of Massachusetts in Amherst with a degree in Business Administration.

His entire career was with the U.S. Federal government, and he spent his last 25 years working for the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. He is a strong proponent of equality and was fortunate to spend most of his working career supporting civil rights. He was also fortunate to retire at the young age of 55.

During his career, he lived in the Washington, D.C. metro area and worked in San Diego, CA, for 17+ years. He met his husband in San Diego, and they have been together for 25 years. They have been married since 2013.

They bought their home in Spain in January 2017. He is a Spanish resident and lives there full-time.

Dave Piccolo

He lived as a real estate agent in Indianapolis, Indiana, for 30 years. In July 2019, he met Jesus from Venezuela and only planned to stay for three months before moving to Spain. They got married and moved to Dallas to be closer to his mom. They lived there for just one year before moving to Fort Myers, Florida. When Hurricane Ian came through Fort Myers and destroyed most of it (luckily, their house was spared), a displaced family needed housing, so they decided to rent it. As a result, they moved back to Dallas temporarily.

The political climate in Florida under Ron DeSantis and in Texas under Greg Abbott had become so extreme that he was experiencing anxiety and a general sense of unhappiness. When he and Jesus met, they talked about moving to Spain. Their goal was to move when he retired at 65 (he was 54 then). He started perusing Idealista to get a feel for the real estate market in Valencia. He spent the next six months looking at over 1,000 properties online from Dallas. He came across a property that was the needle in the haystack. It was newly converted into a residence (previously commercial), fully renovated, bright, open, spacious, and furnished with a 200-square-foot terrace. And it was half the budget they had anticipated.

They called the realtor and had him do FaceTime so they could see the apartment and neighborhood virtually. As a realtor, he knew they could not afford to pass this up and wait another ten years. So, they purchased it without ever setting foot in Valencia! They have been there about 14 months, love it, and have no regrets!

Jesus Gallardo Bartoli

Jesus was born and raised in Caracas, Venezuela, where he went to college and earned his degree in Business Administration and Tourism. In 2010, he moved to Bogota, Columbia, where he owned a Venezuelan restaurant for ten years. In 2019, he visited a friend in the US and planned to live in Spain. Dave and Jesus met in Indianapolis in 2019. They planned to move to Spain when Dave retired in 2027. A series of open doors allowed them to (semi) retire to Valencia in 2023.

Steven moved to Seattle after graduating from Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington, in 1989 and met his husband in 1990. They have been together for thirty-four years. They have two adopted sons and await grandchildren, although none are imminently expected. 

Steven's community involvement is a testament to his commitment to social causes. He's an active member of their Lutheran congregation and other civic groups. His activism includes advocating for the full inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in the Lutheran Church and working to alleviate hunger and homelessness. One of his most significant achievements is helping a refugee family from Syria start a new life in British Columbia. Recently, he took on the role of regional coordinator for Gonzaga University's Lavender Alumni Network.

Steven Chapman, a retired high school math teacher, shares his experience living in Seattle. He fell in love with the city after visiting for Thanksgiving in 1988 and has lived there ever since. Seattle is known for its unique climate, with rain over extended periods rather than concentrated bursts.

The city is also surrounded by water, with Puget Sound to the west and Lake Washington to the east.

With high housing prices and rental fees, Seattle's living cost is approximately 50% higher than the national average. However, the city has a vibrant food scene and is LGBTQ-friendly, with inclusive community centers and events like Pride.

Seattle offers a vibrant arts and culture scene, with symphonies, ballets, operas, art museums, and Broadway touring companies. Burlesque shows are also popular in the city. Seattle hosts the Seattle International Film Festival, one of the largest film festivals in the country.

The city has a commuter-based transit system, with light rail and buses, but having a car in certain areas may be necessary.

Healthcare in Seattle is excellent, with multiple hospitals and a high number of LGBT doctors.

The state of Washington does not have an income tax, which benefits retirees, and property taxes can vary depending on the location and value of the property. Seattle has high property taxes and sales tax, which fund government services.

Crime rates vary by neighborhood, but systemic racism within the police department is a problem.

Due to high housing costs, Seattle has a significant homeless population. The city provides some services and housing options for the homeless, but it's insufficient.

Seattle is known for its laid-back culture, acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community, and beautiful natural surroundings. However, the city experiences gloomy winters and is prone to earthquakes and volcanic activity.

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Torremolinos has a warmer climate year-round compared to Sitges

Sitges has a higher cost of living than Torremolinos

Torremolinos has better healthcare access and proximity to hospitals

Sitges has a more established and longer-standing LGBTQ+ community

Both cities offer excellent walkability and public transport options

Sitges has a more vibrant arts and culture scene, while Torremolinos is more focused on beach and nightlife

Sitges offers a diverse dining scene, while Torremolinos is better for casual, traditional meals

Both cities are generally safe but experience petty theft due to tourism

Torremolinos has better tax advantages, particularly regarding income and inheritance tax

Torremolinos is the winner!

The cost of living is relatively high in both areas, especially for housing. Healthcare is accessible in both places, with private health insurance being standard. However, the public healthcare system in Catalonia does not cover PrEP for HIV prevention.

Overall, Torremolinos and Sitges offer a vibrant lifestyle with access to beaches, outdoor activities, and various amenities. In this part of the conversation, the speakers discuss healthcare, language barriers, transportation, and arts and culture in Torremolinos and Sitges.

They mention the availability of STD testing and HIV medication in Catalonia, the friendliness of the Spanish and Catalan people, the language differences between Catalan and Spanish, and the importance of meeting people halfway in terms of language.

They also talk about the transportation systems in both places, including the local trains and buses, and the ease of walking to most places.

In terms of arts and culture, they mention the presence of art galleries, museums, festivals, and theaters in Torremolinos, Sitges, Barcelona, and Malaga.

Tormelinos and Sitges are excellent destinations for food lovers, offering a variety of cuisines. Tormelinos is known for its fresh sardines grilled on swords, while Sitges provides a range of Spanish and international dishes.

Both places have a vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, with numerous gay bars and clubs. The communities are welcoming and accepting, making it a safe and inclusive environment for LGBTQ+ individuals.

Regarding residency and taxes, Spain offers retirement visas for those who can prove they have the means to support themselves. The country has a double taxation treaty with the US, allowing residents to deduct what they pay in Spain from their US taxes.

Crime rates are generally low in both Torremolinos and Sitges, and there is a strong police presence and a sense of safety.

When moving to these areas, it is recommended to join local expat and LGBTQ+ communities for support and advice.

Richard Jasicki

He just turned 65 in May! He had a Mid-Atlantic Ocean childhood in Europe and the US as a US Air Force brat with an English “Mum.” He worked many years in the UK and California before retiring at 62 and moving to Spain.

He met his life partner, Charles, in 2001 online. Their first meeting turned out to be at a wedding venue that had been canceled and opened its doors to the public—very auspicious! They married as soon as it was legal in 2014 by their pool in San Diego.

He has lived in Torremolinos on the Costa del Sol for almost two years and loves it. Their apartment has a beautiful view of the Mediterranean.

Leo Boni

They wanted a change of lifestyle. They lived in the SF Bay Area and are both tired of the high cost of living, the lack of vacation time, and not being able to shake the feeling that they could not afford to retire there. He is Italian by birth, so they first wanted to move to Italy; they chose Spain because of its weather and infrastructure. They made an exploratory trip to Barcelona and liked it but didn't fall in love with it. They did fall in love with Sitges. They moved to Barcelona first for various reasons, mainly because this was pre-pandemic, and his job required him to be in the office, located off Passeig de Gracia in BCN. When quarantine came, they took the opportunity to move to Sitges. There were several deciding factors, being on the beach, in a smaller town, with a vibrant gay and food scene. Sitges offered them the more tranquil life they were looking for. 

He is an Italian citizen, so he and his partner have the right to live and work in Spain. For Leo, the immigration process was easy; it took less than 10 minutes, but for Bill, his partner, it took over six months. 

On a family trip to NYC when Brent was in grade school, he saw Ethel Merman in Hello, Dolly! This sparked a love of theater and eventually a move to Manhattan to pursue a career in musical theater. Brent has performed off-Broadway, in regional theaters across the US, and on cruise ships worldwide for over ten years. In the late 1990s, Brent left the theater and began working in non-profit administration, spending almost 20 years as the business manager for a Nobel laureate in a research laboratory at Rockefeller University.

A friend from his theater days introduced Brent to Asbury Park, NJ, in the early 2000s when the city changed from a gritty ghost town to a Jersey Shore Mecca for gays wanting to nab an affordable house near the beach. After many vacation trips to Asbury, Brent and his husband bought their first shore home in 2011.

Brent retired early at the end of the pandemic and started a new career in real estate, following in his mother’s footsteps. He enjoys making many new friends, as his mother did, and helping to find the perfect shore home for his clients.

Brent enjoys small-town life. Now in his third Asbury home, he lives with his husband Joe, also a former actor turned non-profit professional, and their mini-Aussiedoodle Dickens.

Summary

Brent Winborn shares his journey to Asbury Park, New Jersey, highlighting the city's transformation from a gritty ghost town to a vibrant LGBTQ+ mecca.

He describes Asbury Park's geographical overview, unique perspectives, and proximity to New York City and Philadelphia. Brent also discusses the climate, which has four seasons but milder winters and longer fall periods.

He emphasizes the strong LGBTQ+ community in Asbury Park, the presence of gay bars and hotels, and the sense of community and acceptance.

Brent also provides insights into the cost of living, including home prices, rentals, utilities, and groceries. Asbury Park offers diverse housing options, from newer condos to renovated older buildings.

The vibrant cultural scene has festivals, music events, theaters, and galleries.

The restaurant scene is diverse, with options ranging from dive bar burgers to high-end dining.

Asbury Park is a walkable city, and while public transportation is limited, e-scooters and e-bikes are popular for getting around. Safety is not a major concern, and excellent healthcare facilities are nearby.

Challenges include parking availability and the need for more hotels. Overall, Asbury Park offers a unique small-town atmosphere with an urban feel.

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Is There an E Street? Where?

E Street runs northeast through the New Jersey shore town of Belmar. According to Springsteen lore, the band took its name from the street because original keyboard player David Sancious's mother lived there and allowed the band to rehearse in her house. The titular avenue of "Tenth Avenue Freeze-Out" is also in Belmar.

Mark's unique perspective on life and his commitment to the LGBTQ community has landed him in Salisbury, MD, where he has retired to settle down with his fiancée Eric and his new puppy, Ash. His work keeps him active and busy as he plans the city's new pride parade while he tries to find time with family and makes new friends from all over Delmarva.

While traveling worldwide and finally settling in Maryland, his life may be considered an adventure by some, a tragedy by others, and a short trashy novel by haters. However, he is living proof that we all have a story to tell. 

Salisbury, Maryland

Mark Delancey, the executive director of the Salisbury, Maryland, PFLAG chapter, shares his journey of moving to Salisbury and why he chose it as his new home.

Salisbury is located on the Delmarva Peninsula and offers a unique downtown area, historical district, marina, beaches, museums, and a zoo. The LGBTQ community in Salisbury is not huge, but it is diverse and accepting. Rehoboth Beach, a thriving LGBTQ community, is only 45 minutes away.

The cost of living in Salisbury is relatively affordable, with rental prices for a two-bedroom, two-bath averaging around $1,180 per month. The town has been revitalized with new developments, walking paths, and community events.

Salisbury also offers arts and culture with galleries, a museum, and regular exhibits. Salisbury, Maryland, provides a welcoming and safe community for LGBTQ individuals. The city has a growing LGBTQ population and a supportive atmosphere. The healthcare system is accessible, with a major hospital and numerous clinics.

The restaurant scene in Salisbury is diverse, offering a variety of cuisines, including Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, and seafood.

The city also has a thriving theater scene, with multiple theater companies and cultural centers. While Salisbury is predominantly a car-centric city, there is a focus on walkability and revitalization of the downtown area. The city is located within a reasonable driving distance to New York and Philadelphia, providing opportunities for theater and cultural experiences.

However, Salisbury does have some challenges, including political divisions and a lack of a larger LGBTQ community. Overall, Salisbury offers affordability, good healthcare, and a sense of community for retirees.

Athens, Greece is a vibrant city with a rich history and modern amenities. It offers a mix of ancient ruins, world-class museums, delicious food, and lively nightlife. The city is known for its welcoming LGBTQ+ community, with a gayborhood in the Ghazi neighborhood and a variety of gay-friendly establishments.

Both expats and locals find it relatively easy to make friends, especially through activities and social events. While speaking Greek is not necessary to live in Athens, it can be helpful when dealing with government agencies and utilities. English is widely spoken, especially in tourist areas and among healthcare professionals.

Athens offers a vibrant arts and culture scene, with theaters, music venues, museums, and festivals. The city has a variety of outdoor theaters and concert venues, including the ancient theater of Epidaurus, known for its exceptional acoustics. The museums in Athens, such as the Acropolis Museum and the Benaki Museum, are top-notch. The city also has a good public transportation system, including metro, buses, trams, and taxis. Housing costs in Athens vary depending on the neighborhood, with apartments ranging from 500 to 1000 euros per month.

The city has a low crime rate, with theft being the most common crime. Overall, Athens is considered a safe city for residents and tourists. They mention that crime is low in Athens, especially violent crime and that it is safe to walk around the city at any hour.

They also talk about the healthcare system in Athens, highlighting the low cost of medical services and medications. They mention that there are enough doctors in Athens and that it is relatively easy to get appointments. They also discuss the different types of visas available for living in Greece and the tax implications of becoming a resident.

Steve Gantzos

Steve Gantzos is a Greek-American currently living in Athens running a business as a real estate broker serving foreign and Greek clients to find their dream home in Greece. Born in the ancient Roman town of Esslingen, Germany, given the Byzantine name of Stylianos belonging to his late grandfather, the family moved to the USA in the latter months of 1969, settling in the Philadelphia area, where his mother's family settled years before, and had established themselves in the Greek community of Upper Darby, a suburb of the city.

As was the norm in the Greek community of the early 70's, the families steadfastly clung to traditions and the language, where Steve grew up speaking Greek as his first language, while enjoying the rich cultural background of his family and ancestors. Greek was the only language he spoke until entering grade school where the challenge of learning English in school turned into both a daunting and exciting task for a young child whose parents depended on his language skills at later stages of life.  

Steve spent most of his life living in the Philadelphia area then a career opportunity took him to Miami, where he spent 12 years in the tropical sun, enjoying the gentrification of the region in the mid-90s. Realizing his heart was always in Europe after numerous visits, he ventured into the process of successfully obtaining ancestral citizenship in Greece to initiate the dream of living in his continent of birth, yet the dream took many years to come to fruition. At the peak of the pandemic, and the realization that life is much too short, the dream to live and work in Europe became reality with the move to Greece in early January 2021. Steve spends much of his time enjoying the richness of his ancestral land, traveling for business and pleasure to places he learned of in his youth, and making wonderful friends along the way while enjoying the remarkable adventure that is his life in Greece.  

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Ken Cook

In "Greek Life Getaway: Live the Life You've Imagined in Greece," readers embark on a journey rich with insights into the transformative experience of settling in Greece, guided by the wisdom and personal stories of Ken Cook. Beyond his professional accolades and contributions, Ken's life story is deeply intertwined with the vibrant culture and spirit of Greece, a connection that has grown stronger over the years, especially through his marriage to an American/Greek dual citizen.

Ken first set foot in Greece in 1987, an experience that ignited a lasting passion for the country's stunning landscapes, ancient heritage, and dynamic lifestyle. His bond with Greece was further cemented in 2017 when he purchased his first apartment in Athens, and again in 2022 with a second property, a penthouse acclaimed for its spectacular Acropolis view, featured in the New York Times "The Hunt" on February 19, 2023.

Ken's journey in Greece has been enriched by his partnership with his Greek spouse. Together for 15 years and married for eight, their shared life is a testament to the beauty of cultural fusion and mutual growth. This intimate connection to Greece and its people has profoundly influenced Ken's perspective, infusing "Greek Life Getaway" with authenticity and depth.

As the President of KEC & Associates, LLC since May 2019, Ken leverages his expertise to assist Greek expatriates and those aspiring to become one. His endeavors extended to founding the Next Gen Greece Foundation, Inc. in May 2021, a non-profit aimed at empowering Greek youth to pursue meaningful careers within their homeland, thereby encouraging them to remain in Greece post-education.

Ken's extensive background, spanning from his service as a Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps to his executive roles in quality management across various industries, equips him with unparalleled leadership and strategic skills. His academic credentials, including a degree in Business Administration from West Virginia University and an Executive Development Certificate from the University of Minnesota, complement his practical experience.

Ken's journey exemplifies the enriching process of cultural integration and personal discovery. Through "Greek Life Getaway," Ken shares not only the logistical considerations of relocating to Greece but also the emotional and relational dimensions of building a life there. His narrative is a compelling invitation to explore the possibilities that Greece offers, underscored by his own life's testament to the joy of embracing a new culture alongside a beloved partner. This guide is an indispensable resource for anyone drawn to the prospect of a vibrant, fulfilling life in Greece, illuminated by Ken's experiences and insights.

People listening to the podcast can get a FREE copy of my book by emailing me at Ken@greeklifegetaway.com.

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LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kenneth-cook-298b3b11

New York Times Article:

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/02/16/realestate/athens-greece-apartment-retirement.html?smid=url-share 

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a commune in the Pyrénées-Atlantiques department in southwestern France. It is located at the foot of the Pyrenees mountains, at the confluence of the Gave d'Oloron and the Gave de Pau (Pronounced Po) rivers. The town has a population of around 10,000 inhabitants.

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a historic town, with a rich cultural heritage. The town center is pedestrianized and lined with half-timbered houses. There are also several churches and other religious buildings in the town.

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a popular tourist destination, particularly for those who enjoy hiking and other outdoor activities. The town is also a center for Basque culture, and there are several Basque festivals and events held here throughout the year.

• Nancy Schneider, a Philadelphia retiree shares her experience of retiring in the city.
• Philadelphia is located on the East Coast of Pennsylvania, with easy access to New York City, Washington DC, and the Jersey coast.
• The city has a temperate climate and offers a variety of quick getaways, including New York, the Jersey Shore, and nearby gay towns like New Hope and Rehoboth.
• Philadelphia has a vibrant LGBTQ neighborhood known as the Gayborhood, but being gay is accepted throughout the city.
• The city has a rich arts and
• culture scene, with attractions like the Kimmel Center, Walnut Street Theater, Museum of Art, Barnes Museum, and more.
• The cost of living in Philadelphia varies depending on the neighborhood, but there are affordable options available.
• The city is walkable and offers convenient public transportation options.
• Philadelphia's food scene is exceptional and offers a wide variety of cuisines, including Italian, Vietnamese, Chinese, African, and more.
• The city is known for its sports culture, with basketball, football, and baseball being popular.
• Crime is a factor to consider, but the new mayor is taking action to address it.
• Philadelphia has excellent healthcare options, with renowned hospitals and a high number of doctors.
• The city has an urban lifestyle with walkability and access to arts, culture, and entertainment.
• Philadelphia offers easy access to travel, including an international airport.
• Pennsylvania offers tax benefits for retirees, including tax exemptions for retirement income, 401K withdrawals, IRAs, pensions, and social security. The state has the lowest flat tax rate in the country and provides property tax and rent rebate programs. The cost of living in Pennsylvania is slightly below the national average, and the average sales tax rate is 6.17%.
• Transportation savings include discounts on auto insurance for drivers aged 55+, free bus, subway, and trolley rides for seniors over 65, $1 regional rail rides during off-peak hours, and discounted bridge tolls for drivers aged 65+ with a New Jersey EZPass.
• Overall, Philadelphia is considered a hidden gem in the Northeast.

Check out this link and video about LGBTQ+ healthcare at Cooper at Cooper University HealthCare in South New Jersey. (3.7 miles and 14 minutes from Philadelphia) https://www.cooperhealth.org/services/cooper-proud-lgbtq-health?utm_source=pgn&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PGN

He has a passion for languages and has found a way to make money from it.

In addition to being multilingual, he also has a fondness for the arts, particularly pottery and music. He played in the orchestra of his city in Bolivia and Spain for approximately 5 years.

Renato was born in Japan, then moved to Bolivia where he studied until he was 16 years old. He finished his high school education in Logroño, Spain, and in 2022 he moved to Madrid to start his Spanish school. But instead of giving up, he kept trying and now he is the principal of his school in the center of Madrid.

Renato enjoys traveling around the world and is planning to retire at the young age of 25 if everything goes according to plan.

Summary

Renato Padilla, a Bolivian entrepreneur in Madrid, shares his experiences and insights about living and retiring in Madrid, Spain.

He discusses his background, the reasons for choosing Madrid, the LGBTQ+ community in the city, the importance of learning Spanish, and the local economy and housing costs.

Renato also provides information about Madrid's geography, climate, and utility costs. Madrid offers high-quality public services, including healthcare and education, funded by high taxes.

The city has a vibrant arts and culture scene, with numerous theaters, museums, and live performances. Madrid is a food lover's paradise, offering various cuisines, including Japanese, Italian, French, Ethiopian, and more.

The city has excellent public transportation, including local trains, high-speed bullet trains, buses, and a metro system.

While pickpocketing can be a concern, overall, Madrid is considered a safe city. Renato shares insights about safety, healthcare, visas, and living in Madrid in this conversation.

He recounts a personal experience of losing his wallet and how it was returned to him, highlighting the honesty and safety in the city.

Renato discusses the healthcare system in Madrid, emphasizing the accessibility and affordability of both private and public options. He also provides information about obtaining a visa, particularly the non-lucrative visa for retirees. Renato mentions the importance of understanding the different autonomous regions in Spain and their varying rules and taxes. He concludes by offering advice for those considering relocating to Madrid.

Unveiling the Tapestry of Madrid, Spain: A Quick Guide

Bustling Heart of Spain: Madrid, Spain's vibrant capital city, pulsates with energy. As the country's largest metropolis (population: 3.3 million).

Climate and Geography: Nestled on a central plateau at over 2,000 feet, Madrid experiences distinct seasons. Summers are warm and sunny, perfect for strolling through charming plazas or exploring verdant parks like El Retiro. Winters tend to be crisp, with occasional snowfall.

Getting Around: Madrid is a pedestrian's paradise. Many historic areas are best explored on foot, allowing you to soak in the architectural grandeur and vibrant street life. A comprehensive public transportation network offers efficient travel via metro, buses, and trams for longer distances.

A Welcoming Embrace for the LGBTQ+ Community: Madrid has long championed LGBTQ+ rights, fostering a thriving and inclusive community. The city explodes with rainbow colors during the annual Pride celebration, one of the largest in Europe. Numerous LGBTQ+ bars, clubs, and cultural centers provide safe spaces for connection and self-expression.

A Feast for the Senses: Arts & Culture: World-renowned museums like the Prado Museum and Reina Sofía Museum house masterpieces by Goya, Velázquez, and Picasso. The city's energy extends beyond museums, with captivating flamenco performances, lively theaters, and a constant buzz of creativity.

Tantalizing Your Taste Buds: Dining & Restaurants: Madrid is a haven for gourmands. From the iconic tapas bars overflowing with delectable bite-sized delights to Michelin-starred restaurants crafting exquisite culinary experiences, the city caters to every palate. Don't miss out on indulging in local specialties like cocido madrileño (a hearty chickpea stew) or churros con chocolate (deep-fried dough sticks dipped in hot chocolate).

Cost of Living: Compared to other Western European capitals, Madrid offers a relatively moderate cost of living. However, it's important to factor in your lifestyle choices, as dining out and entertainment can add up.

Crime and Safety: Madrid is generally a safe city for tourists. However, as with any major destination, petty theft can occur, particularly in crowded areas. It is recommended that tourists be aware of their surroundings and take precautions with their belongings.

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Author: Dr Jeremy B. Bierbach

Jeremy Bierbach (1975) is originally from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. After graduating from Georgetown University in Washington, DC, in 1996 with a bachelor’s degree in linguistics, Jeremy worked as an IT specialist for several years. In 2001, Jeremy emigrated to the Netherlands. In 2003, he changed his career direction. He studied law at the University of Amsterdam, earning a bachelor’s degree in Dutch law in 2006 and a master’s in constitutional and administrative law in 2007. Jeremy subsequently worked as a legal advisor through Avocado Legal, where he focused on immigration and European migration law. In January 2014, Jeremy joined Franssen Advocaten and was sworn into the Dutch bar as an attorney. In September 2015, he successfully defended his PhD thesis in European constitutional law at the University of Amsterdam. A commercial edition of his thesis, Frontiers of Equality in the Development of US and EU Citizenship, was published in 2017 by Asser Press. 

His specialty and focus of interest are in invoking norms of international law — EU law in particular — as a source of protection for members of minority groups who are unrepresented or underrepresented in the democratic process: in particular EU citizens, their non-EU citizen family members, and other non-EU citizen immigrants to the Netherlands (including British citizens as former EU citizens).

Takeaways

• Amsterdam is a popular city due to its charm and infrastructure.
• The Netherlands is located northwest of Europe and is known for its flat landscape and canals.
• Amsterdam has a temperate climate with short days in winter and long days in summer.
• The city has a history of tolerance and a vibrant LGBTQ community.
• Housing in Amsterdam can be expensive, with limited availability.
• Utilities, including gas and electricity, can be costly.
• The price of groceries in Amsterdam is lower compared to the US, with high-quality produce available.
• Meeting friends and gay people in Amsterdam is relatively easy due to the city's diverse and inclusive culture.
• The Red Light District is a famous area in Amsterdam known for its adult entertainment. Obtaining a visa in the Netherlands is challenging for non-EU citizens, as Dutch immigration law is based on the concept that the country is already whole and has a housing shortage.
• The only ways for non-EU citizens to move to the Netherlands are through family connections, work-related migration, or the Dutch-American Friendship Treaty, which allows US citizens to legally reside in the Netherlands to develop and run a business.
• Living in Amsterdam has its advantages, such as a high quality of life, good infrastructure, and a vibrant queer scene. Still, it also has limitations, including limited housing stock and strict zoning regulations.

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Michael is American by birth (born in Hollywood, Florida) and became French while living in Paris. An HR Executive for 2 very large conglomerates, Michael has moved around a lot for his companies and traveled the world. 

He and Eric decided that life was too short to pass up a move to somewhere warm, and sunny yet still close to Eric's family in Paris. They decided to move to Malta in 2014 and opened a couple of rental properties before restoring an ancient property to become a boutique hotel, Senglea Suites.

Summary:

• Eric Tenin and Michael Salone discuss their move from Paris to Malta.
•  Reasons for choosing Malta as their new home.
• Climate, expat community, LGBTQ+ acceptance, language, and local economy discussed.
• Integration and acceptance of foreigners, cost of housing, and living expenses explored.
• Various aspects of living in Malta covered: taxes, cost of living, the impact of expats, rental properties, quality of life, healthcare system, services, amenities, food prices, transportation, infrastructure, proximity to the airport, and low crime rate.
• Gun laws and safety, cultural differences, honesty, safety for women, homelessness, challenges, access to goods/services, obtaining visa/residency, buying citizenship/residency, and cons of living discussed.

 Takeaways:

•  Malta is popular for expats due to its warm climate, English proficiency, and LGBTQ+ acceptance.
•  English is widely spoken alongside Maltese.
•  Diverse expat community, particularly in areas like Senglea.
•  Housing is expensive, with rental prices ranging from 1,000 to 1,200 euros for a two-bedroom apartment, and home prices averaging around 1 million euros.
•  Gun ownership laws and cultural attitudes differ from the US.
•  Malta is considered safe with low crime rates.
•  Homelessness is not significant due to cultural/legal factors.
•  Limited access to goods/services like Amazon Prime.
•  Obtaining a visa/residency is expensive, and may require meeting financial criteria.
•  Considerations for relocating include lifestyle preferences, language barriers, and access to amenities.

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pamm meyers is, storyteller, dynamic leader and advocate dedicated to fostering prosperity within the LGBTQIA community through business innovation and social advocacy. With a multifaceted background, pamm has become a trailblazer in various fields, leaving an indelible mark on New Mexico’s LGBTQIA and business communities. 

As CEO of Go Social, pamm meyers Social Media.

https://www.pammmeyerssocialmedia.com/ pamm is at the forefront of digital marketing and podcasting solutions for business owners and organizations. Her visionary approach has empowered countless ventures to harness the potential of social media, unlocking new avenues for growth and engagement. It is a driving force behind her client’s success, leveraging the power of connectivity to elevate their brand through digital marketing and podcasting. 

pamm is the managing partner of Two Flower Productions, a podcasting company that produces “Lip Service, the podcast of Our Coming Out Stories”, New Mexico’s Business Podcast.

Previously the Execu?ve Director of the New Mexico Out Business Alliance, currently, Board Advisor for the Way Out West Film Fest, Board Advisor for the Albuquerque Community Founda?on Pride Circle, hMps://abqcf.org/pride-circle/

supporting the LGBTQIA community through philanthropy. 

pamm meyers

https://www.pammmeyerssocialmedia.com/ pamm@pammmeyers.com

Albuquerque, New Mexico with Pamm Meyers 

Summary 

Pam Myers, a dynamic leader and advocate, shares her retirement experience in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

She discusses the LGBTQ+ community, arts and culture, cost of living, and transportation in the area.

Pam highlights the welcoming and safe environment for LGBTQ+ individuals and the thriving arts scene in Albuquerque. She also mentions the affordable cost of living and the abundance of galleries, theaters, and restaurants in the city. Pam concludes by mentioning the unique attractions in New Mexico, such as the Balloon Fiesta and the historic train rides.

Albuquerque, New Mexico offers an enchanting atmosphere with its blue skies and sense of peacefulness. Albuquerque's lack of traffic and affordable housing make it an attractive option. The city has a public transportation system, including buses and a rail trolley, but owning a car is still necessary.

The airport is conveniently located and undergoing renovations.

Crime rates in Albuquerque are comparable to other cities of its size, with petty theft being the most common issue.

The healthcare system is well-equipped, with multiple hospitals and reasonable wait times for specialists. The LGBTQ+ community in Albuquerque is welcoming and supportive. Overall, Albuquerque offers an ideal climate, affordability, and a strong sense of community.\

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He began his work as a public service when he was elected as Dane County WI County Board Supervisor for which he will aim for reelection on 4/2/24. 

He is an advocate for the disenfranchised serving as a CASA volunteer in 3 states, as co-chair of Pride In Prevention, focused on harm reduction within the queer PWUD community, and as a fierce feminist.

He also writes regularly for The Word In Season, a daily Christian devotional that is translated into 30 languages. He lives in Madison, WI having moved there from Shreveport, LA.

Summary

Rick Rose, a retired producer, writer, and director, discusses his move from Shreveport, Louisiana to Madison, Wisconsin. He shares his reasons for choosing Madison and talks about the climate and amount of snow in the area. Rick also discusses the LGBTQ+ community in Madison and the absence of a specific gayborhood.

He highlights the growth and economy of Madison, the ease of making friends, and the presence of arts and culture in the city.

Rick also mentions the local food and dining scene in Madison. Madison, Wisconsin has a vibrant arts and entertainment scene, with a thriving comedy community and a diverse range of performances and events.

The city also has a strong public transportation system, with options for biking, electric transportation, and plans for an Amtrak center.

Healthcare in Madison is highly regarded, with access to quality providers and affordable insurance options.

While crime exists, Madison is considered a safe city overall. The city also has a significant Native American community and is working towards preserving and promoting Native American culture and tourism.

Takeaways

Madison, Wisconsin offers a unique blend of urban amenities and natural beauty, making it an attractive place to retire.

The city experiences a wide range of weather, including hot and humid summers and snowy winters.

While Madison does not have a designated gayborhood, it is known for its progressive and inclusive community.

The city has a thriving arts and culture scene, with opportunities to enjoy live music, theater, and visual arts.

The cost of living in Madison can be high, with average home prices and rental rates above the national average. 

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He was educated in Utah through high school, and went to Weber State University, majoring in Architecture, but discontinued his education. 

Raised in the area's predominant religion (Latter Day Saints, Mormon) Served a church mission to So. Korea. Has since left organized religion.

They have been in a relationship since 1987, They were legally married in Oakland CA, when it was legal in California and then again In Salt Lake after the federal recognition of same-sex marriage.

His employment is in Fire Protection and he worked in the Salt Lake area for 8yr and currently in the Oakland/San Francisco CA area (27 years) but remains living in SLC Utah. 

He has lived in downtown Salt Lake since 2002. They recently sold our condo there and live in South Ogden. He enjoyed the SLC community/vibe since he's a city guy, but his husband is not so much!

He was part of the neighborhood community, and also supported the gay community but was not active/involved in the community.

He has already planned for retirement locations and has a tiny home in Littlefield AZ (a sliver of Arizona between Utah and Nevada) and a place in Baltimore MD. 

They chose to remain in Northern Utah for our primary retirement location.

Hobbies are camping (maybe considered glamping! LOL), hiking in summer, snowshoeing in winter, riding side by side in the mountains and desert, attending local car shows, local community festivals, small venue music concerts, and evenings with friends enjoying dinner and wine.

I'm still working, but I enjoy traveling when we can (when I can) to different places around the country and sometimes the world. 

Salt Lake City

Salt Lake City, often shortened to Salt Lake or SLC, is the capital and most populous city of Utah, United States. It is the seat of Salt Lake County, the most populous county in Utah. 

Salt Lake City, state capital and seat (1849) of Salt Lake County, north-central Utah, U.S., situated on the Jordan River at the southeastern end of Great Salt Lake.

Summary of cost of living in Salt Lake City, UT, United States: A family of four estimated monthly costs are 3,766.4$ without rent. A single person's estimated monthly costs are 1,047.8$ without rent. Salt Lake City is 30.6% less expensive than New York (without rent). 

Kurt's commitment to community health began in Las Cruces, where he served as a Health Educator for Families and Youth. Notably, he initiated an LGBTQ+ youth group, 'The Next Rainbow Generation,' orchestrating remarkable initiatives such as raising funds to showcase the largest ever NAMES Project AIDS memorial quilt in southern New Mexico, spanning over 15,000 square feet. Kurt and his youth also pioneered 'Not Your Mom's Prom,' one of the area's first alternative proms.

 In 1999, Kurt's journey led him to Austin, Texas, where he assumed the role of the City's Coordinator for Ryan White funds, overseeing the distribution of over $4 million annually. In 2006, he became the immunization manager for the City of Austin and Travis County. He successfully secured a $12 million grant to provide easy and free access to vaccines for at-risk adults.

In 2021 Kurt retired from the City of Austin and returned to his roots in Ithaca with his husband of 15 years, Jose. Nestled on 1.5 green acres, they share their home with their two dogs, Molly and Heidi." 

**Ithaca, New York Quick Facts:**

- **Location:**

 - Located in the Finger Lakes region of New York, in the northeastern United States.

 - Approximately 225 miles northwest of New York City 

- **Geography:**

 - Surrounded by picturesque natural landscapes, including gorges, waterfalls, and Cayuga Lake.

 - Home to Cornell University and Ithaca College.

- **Climate:**

 - Experiences a humid continental climate with cold winters and warm summers.

 - Average winter temperatures range from -1 to -8°C (30 to 18°F), while summer temperatures range from 14 to 27°C (57 to 80°F).

- **Cost of Living:**

 - The cost of living is moderate, with housing costs being a significant factor.

 The average price of a single-family home varies but may range from $250,000 to $400,000, depending on the neighborhood and size.

- **Arts and Culture:**

 - Vibrant arts scene with numerous galleries, theaters, and cultural events.

 - Hosts festivals, including the Ithaca Festival and the Finger Lakes International Film Festival.

- **LGBTQ+ Community:**

 - Ithaca is known for its LGBTQ+ inclusivity and progressive values.

 - Supportive community with LGBTQ+ events and organizations.

- **Healthcare:**

 - Access to healthcare through local hospitals and clinics.

 - Presence of medical facilities associated with Cornell University.

- **Crime and Safety:**

 - Generally considered a safe city with a low crime rate.

He has a great life partner and best friend, and they have been together for 22 years. In 2005, they purchased a second home in the Saugatuck/Douglas area which they loved and enjoyed for years. In 2016, they both decided to permanently relocate to West, Michigan. After 27.5 years with McDonald’s, he pursued his interests in Real Estate…and has been enjoying it eight years later. They have two little Havanese Fur Babies, Rex (5 yrs old) and Max (4 years old). His partner and Kevin love spending time with their little fur babies, vacationing, sharing time with friends, meeting new people, and enjoying life to the best of their ability. If anyone should have any Real Estate needs, Kevin can help anywhere in Michigan, and even assist anywhere in the US.

Best wishes for happiness, good health, and good/memorable times.

Kevin Putnam…with Kevin & Sarah, Coastal Living Advisors Email is… KevinandSarah@CoastalLivingAdvisors.com Website is… https://www.coastallivingadvisors.com Contact Number is… (586)524-3462.

Saugatuck/Douglas, Michigan

• Location: Situated on the eastern shore of Lake Michigan, in Allegan County, Michigan. 
• Nickname: "The Art Coast of Michigan" due to its thriving art scene and numerous art galleries. 
• Population: Around 865 residents (city of Saugatuck) but the area attracts many tourists throughout the year.
• Beaches: Award-winning beaches with soft sand and clear waters, perfect for swimming, sunbathing, and water sports. 
• Outdoor activities: Hiking, biking, kayaking, canoeing, stand-up paddleboarding, and fishing are popular options. 
• Wineries and breweries: Sample local wines and craft beers at the many wineries and breweries in the area. 
• Art scene: Explore the numerous art galleries, studios, and museums showcasing the work of local and regional artists.
• Festivals and events: Throughout the year, Saugatuck/Douglas hosts a variety of festivals and events, including the Saugatuck Art Fair, the Saugatuck Boat Show, and the Douglas Winter Fest. 
• Dining: Enjoy a variety of restaurants, cafes, and bars offering fresh, seasonal cuisine. 
• Shopping: Find unique gifts and souvenirs at the many shops and boutiques in Saugatuck/Douglas. 
• Accommodations: Choose from a variety of hotels, resorts, vacation rentals, and campgrounds to suit your needs and budget.

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Dog Trainer and author

Marc  Goldberg had his first paying client while still in junior high school and printed his first business card in 1975 at the age of 17.  Marc first competed in an American Kennel Club obedience ring at age 12 with his first dog, a Sheltie named Gus.  They won High in Trial, beating out nearly 100 dogs and they won a Dog World Magazine Award that same year.

Marc became the youngest voting member of the Philadelphia Dog Training Club. He trained dogs for private clients during college at Frankin & Marshall and taught classes for the college Adult Education program. 

Marc became a full-time professional dog trainer in the Chicago area. He served as president of the International Association of Canine Professionals.  

Now he writes books with the Monks of New Skete who are NY Times Best Selling authors. Together, they have coauthored three books:

LET DOGS BE DOGS

THE ART OF TRAINING YOUR DOG 

And their newly released book THE JOY OF PLAYING WITH YOUR DOG

Marc lives with his partner and their two beloved dogs.

Chicago, Illinois
 
- **Population:**
  - Approximately 2.7 million people (as of my last knowledge update in 2022).

- **Climate:**
  - Humid continental climate with distinct seasons.
  - Winters are cold and snowy, while summers are warm and humid.

- **Cost of Living:**
  - The cost of living in Chicago is generally higher than the national average.
  - Housing costs can be a significant factor, with variations between neighborhoods.

- **Transportation:**
  - Extensive public transportation system including buses and the "L" train system.
  - Major highways and expressways for commuting.
  - Bike-friendly city with a growing emphasis on cycling infrastructure.

- **LGBTQ+ Community:**
  - Chicago has a vibrant LGBTQ+ community with numerous events and organizations.
  - Boystown, in the Lakeview neighborhood, is one of the oldest and most famous LGBTQ+ neighborhoods in the U.S.

- **Arts and Culture:**
  - Home to numerous museums, including the Art Institute of Chicago and the Museum of Science and Industry.
  - The city has a rich architectural history, with iconic buildings like the Willis Tower and John Hancock Center.
  - A thriving theater scene, including the famous Chicago Broadway district.

- **Crime and Safety:**
  - Like many large cities, crime rates can vary by neighborhood.
  - Areas downtown and in the north side are generally considered safer, while some south and west side neighborhoods may have higher crime rates.
  - The city has implemented various initiatives to address crime and improve public safety.

These facts provide a general overview, and it's essential to note that the situation in any city can change, so it's a good idea to check for the most recent information if you're considering a move or an extended visit.

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The couple bought their home in the Mesilla Valley area of Las Cruces in September of 2021 and were able to complete their move in November 2021. In November of 2022, Michael was contacted by a recruiter and asked to consider teaching social welfare policy at NMSU as a Visiting Professor. He began teaching in January 2023 and continues to teach online courses for the School of Social Work at NMSU, focusing on social policy. Since retirement and the move to Las Cruces, Larry has been engaged with a national therapy organization to provide online mental health counseling to residents of New Mexico and Arkansas.

Lac Cruces:

• Population: 111,385 (2020)
• Location: Southern New Mexico, on the banks of the Rio Grande
• Elevation: 3,908 feet (1,193 m)
• Climate: Warm, dry desert climate with 350 days of sunshine per year
• Major industries: Education, healthcare, tourism, agriculture
• Notable attractions: White Sands National Monument, Organ Mountains-Desert Peaks National Monument, Mesilla Valley Bosque State Park, New Mexico State University, Spaceport America
• Why people visit Las Cruces: For its warm weather, beautiful scenery, and variety of cultural and recreational activities
• Why people live in Las Cruces: For its affordable cost of living, friendly people, and proximity to outdoor recreation

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Travel and anything international have always been a significant part of his life. He grew up with a German grandmother who taught high school social studies when she wasn’t traveling the world. His grandfather was in the American military and stationed in Turkey in the 1950s and Iran in the 1960s. That fueled his grandmother’s love of the far and near east and that was transmitted to him via the slides she would show him when he stayed at her house and all the Asian artifacts that filled her home. She literally traveled the entire Silk Road except Afghanistan.  By the time he graduated college, he had already been to Europe and Asia. His career choices seemed to boil down to either international relations the hospitality industry, or a mix of the two.

Luck and chance led him to a career in the Federal Government where he’s been for 33 years. Approximately 23 of those years have been spent doing international work. The remainder has been in high-level management positions. His work has allowed him to travel to Europe, South America, and Asia multiple times. Between work and his own passion for travel, he’s a member of the 6 continents club (with only Antarctica being the one that got away). His passion for travel continues in retirement. He’s a big believer in life lists (NOT bucket lists). His generally contains places he’d love to visit. He’s been very lucky in that he’s hit so many places but there are still more to see. Right now, that includes New Zealand, India, South Africa, Costa Rica, Poland, and all the countries of the former Yugoslavia. 

He's very fortunate to have a partner of 29 years who also loves to travel. Ultimately, it’s a compromise. We trade off in picking places to visit. Next stop? Probably Greece because he hasn’t been (I’ve been twice). His next stop? Either India or New Zealand.

The Washington metropolitan area, also sometimes referred to as Greater Washington, the National Capital Region, or colloquially as the DMV (named after the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia), is the metropolitan area containing Washington, D.C., the federal capital of the United States. The metropolitan area includes all of Washington, D.C., and parts of Maryland, Virginia, and West Virginia. 

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Despite having grown up with a cosmopolitan mindset and bicultural orientation, California became home and in adult life, Long Beach was my happy home for a long time. 

I currently work mostly remotely as an executive coach and leadership development advisor, although I sometimes travel within Europe for engagements. I support clients primarily in the US, and also in Latin America, the Caribbean, and Europe. My career began in community public health with many fond memories created in the city of Long Beach where I played and worked.

I live in a 4-story moradia en banda (similar to a townhouse) 3 blocks from the beach in the quaint town of Ericeira with my dog Riley. I’m single.

My wife and partner died in 2017. April was an artist and spiritual seeker and her loss in part fueled my decision to explore beyond my borders. I coached myself – was I living in a town that aligned with my values? The answer was no. Violence, racism, growing homelessness. Added to this, financial pressures brought about my pandemic aftermath. I experienced a significant loss of work and income. So, with 3 passports in hand, US, Italian, and Argentinean, I started to reflect on options outside of where I lived. I didn’t want to “burn” through my savings to stay afloat. And so in the middle of the pandemic, I reached out to my good friend and realtor Marilyn who then lived on the same street and decided to move on selling my property while the market was hot.

Population:

• 8,951 (2021)

Geography:

• A coastal town in the Lisbon District of Portugal
• Known for its world-class surfing beaches
• Located about 50 kilometers northwest of Lisbon

Cost of Living:

• Lower than most major European cities
• The average rent for a one-bedroom apartment is €600 per month
• The average cost of a meal at a restaurant is €10

LGBTQ Community:

• Ericeira is a welcoming and inclusive community for LGBTQ people
• There are several LGBTQ-friendly bars and clubs in town
• Ericeira Pride is celebrated annually in June

Crime and Safety:

• Ericeira is a very safe place to live
• Crime rates are very low
• The town has a strong sense of community and people look out for each other

Additional Facts:

• Ericeira is a UNESCO World Surfing Reserve
• The town is home to several beautiful beaches, including Praia dos Supertubos, which is known for its powerful waves
• Ericeira is also a popular destination for hiking, biking, and other outdoor activities
• The town has a charming historic center with narrow streets and traditional Portuguese houses
• Ericeira is a great place to live for people who are looking for a relaxed and laid-back lifestyle

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He moved to Dallas Texas in the spring of 1984 where he built a self-directed real estate investment company where he still owns and manages a diverse portfolio of commercial real estate rental properties.  

He came out to his family in the fall of 1984 and today is single and breeds the national dog of Mexico, of which he has 8, and shares these fine miniature hairless Xoloitzcuintli who is just as passionate about the breed as was Freda Khalo and Diego Rivera who brought attention to this 3500-year-old breed that the Aztecs held in high esteem.

He also spent decades engaged in the cultural, political, and civic communities by giving of both his time and resources of which the list is endless.  He has received countless awards and recognitions from art, and historic preservation to homelessness sitting on many boards, commissions, and task forces both in the US and Mexico.

 In 2003 while vacationing in Puerto Vallarta Mexico he bought a small home on a mountainside overlooking the romantic zone and assembled three additional adjoining properties where he designed and built Hacienda Herchito which includes six fully furnished rental apartments along with his private residence which was designed as a boutique hotel but occupied as his private home.  These acquisitions were astute moves before the word got out about PV and the extensive condo explosion took place.

Today Herschel is once again working on a new construction project which is an assemblage of six properties on a higher mountaintop that will be a home with gardens unlike anything that can be found in the romantic zone today so that his dogs will have plenty of room to roam and is known as La Casa Nuevo de La Familia de Yoli y Temo.

Puerto Vallarta Quick Facts

• Population: 319,000
• Geography: Puerto Vallarta is a coastal city in Mexico, located in the state of Jalisco. It is situated on the Pacific Ocean, on the western side of Mexico's mainland. The city is surrounded by the Sierra Madre Occidental mountains to the east.
• Climate: Puerto Vallarta has a tropical climate, with warm, humid weather year-round. The average temperature is 25°C (77°F). The rainy season runs from June to October, but even during this time, there are usually sunny days in between the rains.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Puerto Vallarta is relatively low, especially when compared to other popular tourist destinations in Mexico. A couple can live comfortably on $2,000 per month, including rent, utilities, and groceries.
• Visa requirements: US citizens do not need a visa to visit Mexico for up to 180 days. However, if you plan to stay longer

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In 1994, Elaine relocated to Scottsdale, AZ and soon thereafter became securities and insurance licensed after her teaching job ended in Phoenix. 

She figured she might as well learn about money, something her family didn’t really teach her about…After several years of training, she earned her Certified Financial Planning designation as well as the Certified Estate Planning designation.

Elaine helped people retire for 27 years. After Covid and the death of her mother, she and her wife decided to hang it up and retire to Uruguay where they currently reside happily and safely. 

Her major incentive to move away from the US was to create a life where she didn’t feel terrorized on a daily basis.

Cynthia Richards was born and raised in Maine. She is the baby of the family with an older brother who lives in Washington state. She grew up tromping in the woods, fishing in the lakes, and looking for Mermaid tears (sea glass) with her family. She married the woman of her dreams, Elaine Zito, in 2015, and they now tromp through the woods, eat fish someone else has caught, and look for Mermaid tears on the beaches of Uruguay with their family of three dogs.

She started dance class at two or three, found her people in theater groups in school and throughout Maine, and eventually moved to the Washington D.C. area to work professionally in the theater communities in D.C., Virginia, and Maryland. This is a love she has today and continued with Voices of the Desert, an Unconventional Theatrical Chorus in Phoenix, AZ. 

Cynthia has a Master’s Degree in Business with an emphasis on Human Resource Management and has worked in the HR capacity in many forms of business, eventually spending the years before retirement working with her wife in the finance industry. 

Today she can be found in Uruguay, retired, walking with her family on the beach, learning Spanish, finding places to sing and dance, baking, playing pickleball, and being grateful and thankful for the life she has been allowed to create.

If you are interested in reaching out to either Elaine or Cynthia you can email them at elainezito65@gmail.com. 

• Location: La Barra is a resort town located on the eastern coast of Uruguay, near the popular tourist destination of Punta del Este.
• Population: La Barra has a population of about 2,000 people.
• Climate: La Barra has a mild climate year-round, with average temperatures ranging from 60°F to 80°F.

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It is this excitement of discovery and anticipation of meeting new people that has only flourished with time. After visiting Los Cabos on a quick weekend getaway with friends, Lew was captivated by the beauty of the ocean, terrain, and people of Baja Sur. The practically perfect weather and delicious cuisine only added to its allure. Lew went home, gave his notice at work, and was living in Cabo 3 months later.

Now, with 4+ years of living the Cabo life, Lew has become known for bringing people together and sharing his love for all that is Cabo. He has earned a reputation for taking exceptional care of the buyers and sellers he represents, making sure to go the extra mile to get the best deal possible. Whether it’s a high-rise condo or a high-end beachfront property, Lew knows the ins and outs of Los Cabos and the surrounding neighborhoods.

Before entering real estate, Lew had a successful furniture and interior design career focusing on superior quality and unique sustainable design. He has a discerning eye for architecture and an appreciation of community. Combine that with a genuine concern for people and an ability to hear their specific needs and wants, and you see what drives Lew to be the best at what he does.

Lew has had the opportunity to travel the world for both work and pleasure. For his design work, he spent a lot of time in Asia and Europe. During this time, he found a deep love for Vietnam and considered living there at one point. Luca Italy was also on his list of places to live but since his parents were getting up there in age, he wanted to focus on places closer to the US. After crossing PV and PS off of his list, he discovered San Jose del Cabo and knew he found his new home.
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 El Pescadero, Mexico:

• Population: 4,245 (2020)
• Geography: Located on the Pacific coast of Baja California Sur, Mexico, about 8 kilometers south of Todos Santos and one hour north of Cabo San Lucas.
• Climate: Hot and dry summers, mild winters. Average temperature: 22°C (72°F).
• LGBTQ+ community: El Pescadero is a relatively accepting community for LGBTQ+ people. There are a few gay-owned businesses in town, and the annual Chili and Strawberry Festival is a popular event for the LGBTQ+ community.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in El Pescadero is lower than in most other parts of Mexico. A couple can live comfortably on a budget of around $1,500 USD per month.

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Keith was born in New Jersey but spent most of his younger life in Atlanta.  Joe was born and raised in Chicago.  After meeting 16 years ago, they moved to Arizona.

Keith has a degree in Psychology from Georgia State.

Joe started his career as a registered nurse but worked most of his professional career in the IT and Operations side of healthcare.  Joe has a BSN from Northern Illinois, an MBA from Loyola University Chicago, and a Masters degree in Healthcare Administration from Georgia State University.  Joe worked remotely for the first 3 years after moving to Costa Rica but just retired (June 30, 2023) and now works solely helping to run the hotel.

Keith has had a variety of jobs throughout his career, first working as a corporate travel agent and then moving on to various project management roles in the tech and travel industries.  Keith quit working after purchasing the hotel and is the primary operator of the hotel.  Joe cooks breakfast, sets up rooms, does laundry, and checks in guests.

Joe plays tennis, works out at the gym, hikes, reads, cooks, and bakes.  He also watches a lot of tennis on TV.

Keith discovered a love for gardening and bird watching since moving to Costa Rica.  They both are actively engaged in the Costa Rican community they live in. 

Both Keith and Joe enjoy traveling.   They are going on an extended trip to Spain followed by a trans-Atlantic cruise.

Uvita 

Town in Costa Rica

• Population: Approximately 5,000 people
• Geography: Uvita is located on the southern Pacific coast of Costa Rica, in the Puntarenas province. It is about a 3-hour drive from the capital city of San José. 
• Climate: Uvita has a tropical rainforest climate, with warm temperatures and high humidity year-round. The average temperature is 77°F (25°C).
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Uvita is relatively affordable, especially compared to other parts of Costa Rica. Groceries are also relatively inexpensive, and you can find many local restaurants that offer affordable meals.
• Uvita is home to the Whale Tail, a natural rock formation that resembles a whale's tail. This is a popular spot for whale watching, as humpback whales migrate to the area every year to mate and give birth. 
• Uvita is also home to the Marino Ballena National Park, which protects a variety of wildlife, including humpback whales, dolphins, turtles, and monkeys.
• Uvita is a popular destination for surfers, as it has several good surfing spot

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The early 80s HIV/AIDS crisis inspired him to partner with NYC-based pioneers in HIV/AIDS patient care and research that was published in notable medical journals and tests.  This life-changing experience led him to enroll in medical school at the age of 29.  He returned to Yale in ’88 as a resident in Internal Medicine and then to NYU as a resident in Dermatology.

He has over 35 years of medical experience in the San Francisco Bay area and was an Assistant Professor of Medicine at the University of California, San Francisco.

He is currently a volunteer physician with Hawaii’s Big Island Medical Reserve Corps and resides near Hilo, Hawaii with his husband, Bob Sleasman.

Bob Sleasman is originally from upstate New York.  His professional brand marketing career led him over the years to reside in the San Francisco Bay Area, Chicago, Cincinnati, Baltimore, and Sarasota.  He currently is gleefully retired and living on Hawaii’s Big Island with his husband Rich.

After earning his MBA at Northwestern University’s prestigious Kellogg School he climbed the corporate brand management ladder at such companies as Procter & Gamble, Clorox, and Ghirardelli Premium Chocolate.  Having developed an expertise in strategic brand design he jumped to the branding agency business and consulted with a multitude of well-known consumer brands for the balance of his career.

Hilo is the largest city on the Big Island of Hawaii, with a population of 45,248 as of 2020. It is located on the eastern side of the island, on the shores of Hilo Bay. Hilo is a popular tourist destination, known for its beautiful scenery, lush rainforests, and active volcanoes.

Some of the popular points of interest in Hilo include:

• Rainbow Falls: A beautiful waterfall that cascades over a basalt cliff.
• Akaka Falls State Park: A park that features Akaka Falls, one of the tallest waterfalls in Hawaii.
• Hawaii Volcanoes National Park: A national park that protects the active volcanoes of Kilauea and Mauna Loa.
• Liliuokalani Gardens: A botanical garden that features a variety of plants from around the world.
• Lyman Museum and Mission House: A museum that tells the story of the early missionaries to Hawaii.
• Pacific Tsunami Museum: A museum that tells the story of the devastating tsunami that struck Hilo in 1946.

The cost of living in Hilo is relatively high, compared to other parts of the United States. The median home price in Hilo is $500,000, and the median rent is $1,500 per month. However, the cost of living in Hilo is still lower than on the other islands of Hawaii.

The LGBTQ+ community in Hilo is small but active. There are a number of LGBTQ+-friendly businesses and organizations in Hilo, and the city is generally welcoming to LGBTQ+ people.

Here are some additional facts about Hilo:

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In addition to his work with NOAGE, he is the secretary for the LGBT Archives Project of Louisiana, and he serves on the board of directors for A Home Among Friends, which aims to provide affordable housing to low-income LGBT seniors in New Orleans.

He is vice president of the New Orleans Steamboat Club, one of the oldest gay social clubs in America. He is particularly interested in providing support to LGBT elders, and in preserving the history and legacy of the New Orleans LGBT community.

Joe Fay is the founder of A Home Among Friends, a 501(c)(3) created to provide affordable housing for very low-income LGBTQ seniors. We believe communities that are modest in scope work best to create not just housing, but homes for older folks who deserve as much as anyone to enjoy their golden years in safe, welcoming environments.

Joe spent 30 years in the non-profit sector in senior management and leadership. He is a graduate of Boston College and Columbia University's Graduate School of Business. He served as a U.S. Navy Supply Corps Officer between college and graduate school. He and his long-time partner were recently married in New Orleans. They live in the Irish Channel in a restored Italianate home dating from the 1880s.

New Orleans
New Orleans is a Louisiana city on the Mississippi River, near the Gulf of Mexico. Nicknamed the "Big Easy," it's known for its round-the-clock nightlife, vibrant live music scene, and spicy, singular cuisine reflecting its history as a melting pot of French, African, and American cultures. Embodying its festive spirit is Mardi Gras, the late-winter carnival famed for raucous costumed parades and street parties. 

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He is a two-time Emmy winner, as the co-creator and original writer for the children’s television program, Into the Outdoors. He worked as the Story Editor for foreign co-productions of Sesame Street, before spending a decade at Reuters News, the world’s largest news organization, as the Executive Assistant to the Global Managing Editor. He has been the co-host of The Twist Podcast with his longtime collaborator Rick Rose (Madison, WI) for the past five years. 

He currently lives in rural New Jersey, after spending 25 years in New York City (preceded by 12 years in Los Angeles). He is a Mississippian by birth, a Hoosier by upbringing, and much prefers where he lives to either of those locations.  

He will soon celebrate 10 years of marriage to his husband, Frank Murray (17 years together), and loves ‘the country life’ surrounded by woods, animals, and plant life, just 20 minutes from Lambertville, NJ, his favorite town and now the setting of his murder mysteries.  

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Lambertville, New Jersey

Lambertville is a city within Hunterdon County in the U.S. state of New Jersey. As of the 2020 United States census, the city's population was 4,139, an increase of 233 (+6.0%) from the 3,906 recorded at the 2010 census, which in turn had reflected an increase of 38 (1.0%) from the 3,868 counted at the 2000 census.

Lambertville is situated on the banks of the Delaware River in southwestern Hunterdon County, directly across the river from New Hope, Pennsylvania. In the 18th century, the area was named after various operators of ferries across the river to Pennsylvania, ultimately becoming known as Coryell's Ferry, after its owner, Emanuel Coryell. Coryell's Ferry was the western terminus of the New Jersey portion of York Road, which became U.S. Route 202

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Here are some quick facts on Mexico City, Mexico:

• Area: 1,495 square kilometers (577 sq mi)
• Altitude: 2,240 meters (7,350 ft)
• Climate: Temperate, with hot summers and cool winters
• Time zone: Central Standard Time (UTC-6)
• Languages: Spanish, Nahuatl, and other indigenous languages
• Currency: Mexican peso (MXN)
• Government: Federal republic
• Capital: Mexico City

Mexico City is the most populous city in North America and the second-largest city in the Americas after São Paulo, Brazil. It is also one of the world's largest metropolitan areas, with a population of over 22 million people. The city is located in the Valley of Mexico, at an altitude of over 2,000 meters (6,600 feet). Mexico City has a long and rich history, dating back to its founding by the Aztecs in the 14th century. The city was conquered by the Spanish in 1521 and became the capital of New Spain. After Mexico gained independence from Spain in 1821, Mexico City remained the capital of the new nation.

Today, Mexico City is a modern metropolis with a diverse population. The city is home to a wide range of cultural attractions, including museums, historical sites, and theaters. Mexico City is also a major center for business, finance, and education.

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• Population: 641,162 (2021)
• Climate: Temperate, with average temperatures ranging from 35°F (2°C) in the winter to 75°F (24°C) in the summer.
• Geography: Located in the Willamette Valley, on the Columbia and Willamette rivers.
• Cost of living: Moderate, with a median home price of $525,000 (2022).
• LGBTQ+ community: Large and welcoming, with Portland being named one of the "Best Places to Live for LGBTQ People" by The Advocate magazine.
• Arts and culture: Thriving, with a variety of museums, theaters, and music venues.
• Crime and safety: Relatively safe, with a violent crime rate that is below the national average.

Here are some additional details about each of these highlights:

• Population: Portland is the largest city in Oregon and the 26th largest city in the United States. The population is diverse, with many people from Asian, European, and Hispanic backgrounds.
• Climate: Portland has a temperate climate, with four distinct seasons. The winters are mild, with average temperatures in the mid-30s Fahrenheit. The summers are warm, with average temperatures in the mid-70s Fahrenheit.
• Geography: Portland is located in the Willamette Valley, a lush, green valley surrounded by mountains. The city is bisected by the Columbia and Willamette rivers, which provide stunning views and opportunities for recreation.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Portland is moderate, but it has been rising in recent years. The median home price is now over $500,000.
• LGBTQ+ community: Portland has a large and welcoming LGBTQ+ community. The city has been named one of the "Best Places to Live for LGBTQ People" by The Advocate magazine.
• Arts and culture: Portland has a thriving arts and culture scene. The city has a number of museums, theaters, and music venues. The Portland Art Museum is one of the oldest and largest museums in the Pacific Northwest. The Portland Center Stage is a professional theater company that produces a wide range of plays. The Portland Symphony Orchestra is a well-respected classical music ensemble.
• Crime and safety: Portland is relatively safe, with a violent crime rate that is below the national average. However, the city has seen increased property crime in recent years.

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They have been together for 26 years after meeting at the Los Angeles Gay Rodeo.   

They moved to Sacramento 16 years ago from Los Angeles where Greg was a restaurant manager and a dietitian.   

Greg is now a retired clinical dietitian from UC Davis Medical Center, where he was promoting healthy nutrition and preventing malnutrition in patients with Head and Neck Cancer. 

 In retirement, Greg assists his husband Robert, a Realtor, and his clients with design ideas to maximize potential in buying and selling real estate.  

Together they live in an active 55+ resort community of 960 homes called Heritage Park, in Sacramento where they enjoy many amenities, including a 100+ member Rainbow Club. 

Sacramento, California

• Current population: 523,899 (2022)
• Geography: Sacramento is located in the Central Valley of California, at the confluence of the Sacramento and American rivers.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Sacramento is slightly lower than the national average.
• Transportation: Sacramento is a relatively easy city to get around, with a variety of public transportation options available, including buses, light rail, and Amtrak.
• LGBTQ+ community: Sacramento has a thriving LGBTQ+ community, with a number of bars, clubs, and organizations that cater to the community.
• Crime and safety: Sacramento has a relatively low crime rate compared to other major cities in California.

Here are some additional details about each of these points:

• Population: Sacramento is the capital of California and the sixth-most populous city in the state. The population has been growing steadily in recent years and is expected to continue to grow in the future.
• Geography: Sacramento is located in the Central Valley of California, at the confluence of the Sacramento and American rivers. The city is surrounded by rolling hills and agricultural land.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Sacramento is slightly lower than the national average. The median home price is $450,000, and the median rent is $1,500 per month.
• Transportation: Sacramento is a relatively easy city to get around, with a variety of public transportation options available. The Sacramento Regional Transit District (RTD) operates buses, light rail, and a streetcar. Amtrak also offers service to Sacramento.
• LGBTQ+ community: Sacramento has a thriving LGBTQ+ community, with a number of bars, clubs, and organizations that cater to the community. The city hosts the annual Sacramento Pride Festival, which is one of the largest LGBTQ+ events in California.
• Crime and safety: Sacramento has a relatively low crime rate compared to other major cities in California. The violent crime rate is below the national average, and the property crime rate is slightly above the national average.

Check out this link on LGBTQ+ Sacramento. 

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Originally from Philadelphia, Bob spent time growing up in Mexico and Florida, where he completed a Master’s Degree in Business Administration. Bob’s professional background includes a career working in grant administration for both the New Mexico State Supreme Court and the Cochise County, AZ Victim Witness Program. He has been involved in real estate for many years, starting off by working in property management in Santa Fe. Bob also owns and operates the Doublejack Guesthouse, a popular destination guesthouse in historic Old Bisbee. 

Bob has worked as a REALTOR in Bisbee since 2013; every year since 2015 he has been voted “Best REALTOR in Bisbee” by the Sierra Vista Herald. He has been a resident of Bisbee since 2004 and attributes much of his success to his passion for the community of Bisbee, from the people and historic nature of the town to the beauty of the historic architecture and the landscape. His appreciation and knowledge of Cochise County and the local real estate market have become an advantage for his clients; they continue to value his hands-on approach, attention to detail, persistence, strong negotiating skills, extensive local network, and insider knowledge. 

Community involvement is critical to Bob, and he’s manifested this in many ways. This includes being involved in the creation and development of the annual Bisbee Pride Festival and working with the annual Bisbee Historic Home Tour and annual Bisbee Coaster Races. Bob is also strongly committed to quality childhood education in Bisbee by working on the Bisbee Community Montessori School Board of Directors and CMS Executive Steering Committee. 

When Bob is not previewing Bisbee properties, assisting folks in listing their properties, or helping others find the perfect Bisbee home/getaway, he enjoys spending time with his family, volunteering, cooking, being physically active, traveling, and sharing experiences with friends. Whether sharing his passion for Bisbee with his clients or marketing a home to others, Bob is committed to offering the highest quality representation and service. His track record says it all.

Bisbee, Arizona

• Population: Bisbee's population was around 5,500 residents. (2021) 
• Geography: Bisbee is a city located in the southeastern part of Arizona, near the Mexican border. It is nestled in the Mule Mountains, surrounded by picturesque landscapes.
• Climate: Bisbee experiences a semi-arid climate. Summers are typically hot with temperatures reaching the 90s °F (30-40°C) during the day. Winters are mild, with daytime temperatures averaging in the 50s to 60s °F (10-20°C). It can get quite chilly at night during the winter.
• Cost of living: Bisbee is known for being an affordable place to live compared to larger cities in the United States. The cost of living can vary, but generally, housing costs, utilities, and other expenses are relatively reasonable.
• LGBTQ+ community: Bisbee has a vibrant and inclusive LGBTQ+ community. The city has been recognized as LGBTQ+-friendly and has a reputation for being an accepting and supportive community for people of all sexual orientations an

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1985 - Worked as a flight attendant for United Airlines, Chicago, IL, Los Angeles CA, San Francisco, CA, Miami, FL, and London, UK              Moved to Cathedral City, California

1989 - Worked at College of the Desert. Palm Desert, CA as Adjunct faculty (Theatre Arts)

1991 - Moved to London, UK

1992 - Moved to Ft. Lauderdale, FL

1992 - Moved to Cathedral City, California

2004 - Graduated from San Francisco State University, M.A. (Drama)

2001- 2013 Produced and directed multiple plays for community theatre

2011- Retired from United Airlines

2023 -Traveling and enjoying life!  

I was partnered from 1985-1998, my husband is deceased

I am partnered/married from1999 to present

Two dogs, one cat, one tortoise

Cathedral City

• Geography: Cathedral City is a desert resort city in Riverside County, California, United States, within the Colorado Desert's Coachella Valley. It is situated between Cathedral City and Rancho Mirage and has over 50,000 people.
• Population: The population of Cathedral City is diverse, with a large Hispanic population. The median age is 38.1 years old, and the median household income is $50,350.
• Cost of Living: The cost of living in Cathedral City is relatively high, especially for housing. The median home price is over $500,000.
• LGBTQ Community: Cathedral City is a welcoming city for the LGBTQ community. The city has a Pride festival every year, and many LGBTQ-owned businesses are in the city.
• Crime and Safety: The crime rate in Cathedral City is relatively low. The violent crime rate is below the national average, and the property crime rate is slightly above the national average.

Here are some additional facts about Cathedral City:

• The city was incorporated in 1981.
• The city is home to the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians.
• The city is known for its golf courses, spas, and resorts.
• The city is a popular destination for winter snowbirds.

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After high school, I began working in the airline industry as a customer service representative. This led me to a job transfer to Ft. Lauderdale, Fl in 1985. I spent ten years in South Florida where I met my former partner. Together, we moved to San Diego in 1995 as a result of his job transfer. 

Our partnership ended in 2005. However, we remain great friends to this day. It was also during this time that I enrolled in school to obtain my degree in Education. In 2002 I started my career as a teacher. I have been teaching at the same school since (21 years). 

I met my current husband, Curtis, on a vacation in Florida in 2012. He lived in Philadelphia at the time and we maintained a long-distance relationship for two years until he moved to San Diego in 2014. We were married in 2019. He also works in education. As we plan for our retirement, one of our priorities is to continue our love of traveling (particularly cruises). Our goal is to retire in 2025.

San Diego is a large coastal city in California, well-known for its beaches, climate, and military bases. It is also a popular destination for LGBTQ+ people, who make up a significant portion of the population.

Geography

San Diego is located in the southern part of California, on the coast of the Pacific Ocean. It is bordered by Mexico to the south and east, and by the cities of Chula Vista, National City, and Imperial Beach to the north and west. The city has a total area of 325 square miles, making it the second-largest city in California by area.

Population

The population of San Diego is approximately 1.4 million people. The city is home to a diverse population, with people from all over the world calling San Diego home. The LGBTQ+ community is a significant part of the population, making up an estimated 10% of the city's residents.

LGBTQ+ Community

San Diego is a very welcoming city for LGBTQ+ people. The city has a large and vibrant LGBTQ+ community, with many resources and events available to LGBTQ+ residents and visitors. Hillcrest is a neighborhood in San Diego that is known for its LGBTQ+ community. The neighborhood is home to many LGBTQ+ businesses, bars, and clubs.

Climate

San Diego has a Mediterranean climate, with warm, dry summers and mild, wet winters. The average temperature in San Diego is 72 degrees Fahrenheit. The city receives an average of 10 inches of rain per year.

Cost of Living

The cost of living in San Diego is relatively high. The median home price in San Diego is $750,000. The median rent for a one-bedroom apartment is $2,000 per month.

Crime and Safety

San Diego is a relatively safe city. The violent crime rate in San Diego is lower than the national average. The property crime rate in San Diego is higher than the national average.

Overall, San Diego is a great place to

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We’ve been here 3 years, and I still smile every morning when I wake up and realize we really live here! There are challenges for us to learn new ways to communicate and navigate the process of making decisions with 27 other homeowners. I feel like there’s always something coming up to do, and something new for me to learn which is essential to keep our minds active and engaged!  

Pat and I wanted to avoid the loneliness and isolation we often see as folks age and mobility becomes more difficult. In addition, we wanted to be in a community with like-minded neighbors who could share resources and give and receive neighborly support. Village Hearth was a dream in 2015 when we hired our Development Consultant, Katie McCamant (Cohousing Solutions) and by 2020 we were moving into our completed homes. We are a lovely mix of well-educated, well-traveled, politically aware, partnered, married, widowed, divorced, and living single or with partners/spouses. We also are a mix of LGBTQ+ folks and folks who identify themselves as “straight”.  

All of us at Village Hearth have a special bond because of all we have seen affect the LGBTQ+ community over the decades. We have rejoiced and cried at the events we have seen in person or on TV.  We have come too far to have to go back into the closet. And, in a community like Village Hearth, we know we can always feel understood, respected, and free to be who we really are.

Check out the story on CNBC! https://www.cnbc.com/2023/06/12/how-lgbtq-seniors-can-tackle-their-special-caregiving-challenges.html.
Village Hearth Website: About Village Hearth - VILLAGE HEARTH (villagehearthcohousing.com)
Village Hearth Co-Housing Facebook Page: (10) Facebook

Resources:
Cohousing.org
CohoUS (Cohousing Association of the U.S.)

Ic.org
Foundation for Intentional Communities

Cohousing-solutions.com
Katie McCamant, President, Cohousing Solutions
(0ur fabulous Development Consultant)

Senior Cohousing Handbook, 2nd Ed. A Community Approach to Independent Living
Charles Durrett, Author (ebook or paperback)

…and one of the best ways to get a feel for Village Hearth and Durham is to look through our newsletter archives:

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• Location: Dordogne is a department in southwestern France, located in the Nouvelle-Aquitaine region. It is situated between the Loire Valley and the Pyrenees mountains. 
• Area: Dordogne has an area of 9,060 square kilometers.
• Population: Dordogne has a population of about 430,000 people.
• Capital: The capital of Dordogne is Périgueux. 
• Language: The official language of Dordogne is French. However, many people in the region also speak Occitan, a regional language of southern France.
• Climate: Dordogne has a mild Mediterranean climate, with warm summers and mild winters.
• Economy: The economy of Dordogne is based on agriculture, tourism, and wine production.
• Attractions: Dordogne is a popular tourist destination, known for its beautiful countryside, medieval villages, and world-famous caves. Some of the most popular attractions in Dordogne include Lascaux Caves: These caves are famous for their prehistoric paintings. 
• The Périgord Noir: This region is known for its black limestone cliffs and forests. 
• The Dordogne River Valley: This valley is home to many charming villages and vineyards. 
• Sarlat-la-Canéda: This medieval town is a UNESCO World Heritage Site. 

Retirement Information

Dordogne is a popular destination for retirees, thanks to its mild climate, beautiful scenery, and relaxed lifestyle. The cost of living in Dordogne is also relatively low, making it an affordable option for retirees.

Here are some of the things that make Dordogne a great place to retire:

• Beautiful scenery: Dordogne is home to some o

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During graduate school in 1974, she went to Provincetown on a whim for New Year’s. It turned into a wild and crazy weekend that included Grace Jones in concert.  

Provincetown spoke to her then as it continues to do every day. She was determined to return for the summer, which she did. Since that time, she has never left except to travel. Over the next several decades, she wore many entrepreneurial hats with business startups, including kite store owner, printmaker, website and design firm owner, restauranteur, photo studio owner, press photographer, advertising marketing director, innkeeper, educator, nonprofit founder, therapy dog trainer, and boat captain. 

Her core interests are the welfare of animals and children, environmental preservation, and fine art & wildlife photography. 

She lives at Gabriel’s, a Provincetown hotel that she has owned since 1979. They have luxury accommodations, consisting of four buildings, and are right in the center of town next to the park. Her wife, also named Elizabeth, runs the business now, so she is free and able to concentrate full-time on my photography.

 Visit Gabriel's at: www.gabriels.com 

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As photographer

About The Photographer:

Photographer Elizabeth G. Brooke has made her home in Provincetown, MA, since 1974; her lifelong love of the sea and her seaside community is frequently evident in her images. However, she travels worldwide, always broadening her subject matter while using her technical skill and aesthetic vision. 

Publications: Massachusetts Audubon Society newsletter, Cape Cod Times, Boston Globe, Provincetown Magazine, Provincetown Independent, New York Times, South by Southeast Magazine, Shitzen Magazine, among others. 

Exhibits: Provincetown Art Association and Museum juried show, One woman show at The Commons in Provincetown, Cape Cod Creative Arts Center in Chatham, Columbia Arts Center in Maryland, Photoplace Gallery in Vermont, SE Center for Photography

Awards: First Place Winner in Black and White category by Paper Arts Collective, Best in Show by Orleans Gallery of Photography, Jurors Award for Anamalia by Photoplace Gallery, Award in Group Show by Chatham Creative Arts Center, Leica Society Photo of the Week

Her 2021 book of Provincetown-based images, “The Lobstermen,” can be purchased online at https://www.blurb.com/b/10527651-the-lobstermen

Elizabeth describes looking through her lens and uniting with her subject without thinking, “change my f-stop, move right, left, up, down,” but rather sensing what will capture the raw quality and feel of the moment through creative intuition and sharing that through her images.

Elizabeth holds a Master’s degree from the University of Massachusetts/Amherst. She is married. You are invited to visit her website, here: https://www.elizabethgbrooke.com/


Provincetown is a town located at the extreme tip of Cape Cod in Barns

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Now a novelist and playwright. Born in London UK, moved to Australia when he was 16 years old.

Autobiography published 2002.

Now living in Thailand with his Thai husband.
Links to Tweed Harris:
https://www.amazon.com/Tweed-Harris/e/B004NZPGNY%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

https://www.stageplays.com/plays-by-author/Tweed%20Harris

Here are some facts on living in retirement in Pattaya, Thailand:

• Cost of living: The cost of living in Pattaya is very low compared to many other countries. A couple can live comfortably on a budget of $2,000 per month.
• Weather: The weather in Pattaya is warm and sunny year-round. The average temperature is 28 degrees Celsius (82 degrees Fahrenheit).
• Healthcare: Healthcare in Pattaya is good and affordable. There are many hospitals and clinics in the city, and many doctors and nurses speak English.
• Visas: Retirees from many countries can obtain a visa that allows them to live in Thailand for one year. The visa can be renewed for multiple years.
• Culture: Thailand is a very welcoming and friendly country. The Thai people are known for their hospitality and their love of life.
• Activities: There are many activities and things to do in Pattaya. The city has beautiful beaches, vibrant nightlife, and a variety of cultural attractions.

Overall, Pattaya is a great place to live in retirement. The cost of living is low, the weather is great, and there are many things to do. If you are looking for a warm, sunny place to retire, Pattaya is a great option.

Here are some additional tips for retirees considering Pattaya:

• Do your research: There are many different areas of Pattaya, and some are more suitable for retirees than others. Do your research and find an area that fits your needs and budget.
• Visit Pattaya before you move: It is always a good idea to visit a place before you move there. This will give you a chance to see the city for yourself and meet some of the people who live there.
• Be prepared to adjust to a new culture: Thailand is a very different country from the United States, and it may take some time to adjust to the culture shock.

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Mick is from the San Francisco Bay Area—first San Francisco, then Oakland--having worked in high-tech publishing, cable TV broadcasting, and a variety of editing and writing stints in banking, insurance, and website development. 

Often called el corazon de Mexico, San Miguel is a colonial gem featuring Old World Spanish architecture, cobblestone streets, and a grand pink Neo-Gothic cathedral. Readers from Travel and Leisure magazine have voted San Miguel de Allende one of the most beautiful cities in the world. 

San Miguel is a favored spot for expats from around the world, approximating 10 percent of the city’s 160,000 residents. The city offers a relaxed, gracious style of living with fine dining, art galleries, boutiques, and a variety of opportunities to socialize. The weather is mostly temperate year-round.  The cost of living is considerably lower than in the U.S. and Canada, although, with inflation, prices are rising for everything from housing to food costs. 

Traditionally a place for retired expats, San Miguel is enjoying popularity among young families and digital nomads. LGTBQ Out magazine has called San Miguel, the “new queer oasis.” 

(Reference: https://www.out.com/travel/2020/9/03/thirsting-culture-san-miguel-de-allende-lgbtq-travel-must). San Miguel does have a gay community, with a small annual Gay Pride parade,  but the community is integrated well within the larger culture. 

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After working way too hard for 10 years, doing research in 17 countries, and sitting in traffic far too long, John moved to Asheville in 2001 to be a professor and create a nurturing home life. John now teaches at the University of North Carolina Asheville and consults on a national study of birth defects. 

John lives in a loving web of people but, oddly, is currently single. He would like to date (hint hint). He is currently raising his nearly perfect adopted 16-year-old son who will soon go off to college. He also is raising a sweet, somewhat neurotic dog, who will not. 

Asheville is John’s home base but he dreams of living in other countries, one or two month a year, and some new adventures.

·       Asheville is a city located in the western part of the state of North Carolina, United States. Here are some quick facts about Asheville:

·       Population: As of the 2020 Census, the estimated population of Asheville was 97,317.

·       Geography: Asheville is located in the Blue Ridge Mountains and is surrounded by the Pisgah National Forest. The city sits at an elevation of 2,134 feet (650 meters) above sea level.

·       Climate: Asheville has a humid subtropical climate, with hot summers and mild winters. The average high temperature in July is 83°F (28°C), while the average low temperature in January is 28°F (-2°C).

·       LGBTQ Community: Asheville has a vibrant LGBTQ community and has been recognized as one of the most gay-friendly cities in the country. The city has numerous LGBTQ-owned businesses and hosts several LGBTQ events throughout the year, such as the Blue Ridge Pride Festival.

·       Crime and Safety: According to the FBI's Uniform Crime Report, Asheville has a crime rate that is higher than the national average. However, the city has a relatively low violent crime rate. Like any city, it is important to take precautions and be aware of your surroundings.

 ·     Cost of Living: Asheville has a cost of living that is slightly higher than the national average. However, the city has a relatively low cost of housing compared to other cities on the East Coast. The cost of living can vary depending on the neighborhood you live in and your lifestyle. 

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In 1992 he started an Off-Premise Catering business in Silicon Valley, the next best thing to having a restaurant.  He was actually on unemployment when he started the business with no capital, but built it into one of the largest LGBTQ Businesses in the San Francisco Bay Area by the time he sold it in 2019.  

His business catered about 80% Corporate events and the rest weddings and social events.  By the time he left the business, he had 70 full-time staff, 3 cafes, and a regular client that he catered for 20,000 guests at one time multiple years in a row!

In 2016 he had a therapist, doctor, and mentor all say to him “It sounds like you need a vacation.”  Having been intrigued with the city of Berlin for many years he first visited the city in 2007 and kept visiting every couple of years running the Berlin Marathon three times.  So he decided that vacation would be a 3-month sabbatical from work and he would go to Berlin to experience more of the city and culture and travel around Europe.  

Once in Berlin he connected with a community there and fell more in love with the city and the people.  After the sabbatical, for the next couple of years, he started stepping back from his business a bit and would travel to Berlin for a month at a time and work remotely, letting some of his managers handle the day-to-day operations.  

At the same time in 2016, he celebrated being with his husband for 30 years, but at the same time, the relationship was changing.  He was actively looking for an apartment in Silicon Valley to be on his own and soon realized that he could rent an apartment in Berlin and fly back and forth every couple of months for less than renting an apartment in the Valley, so that is how he ended up in Berlin.  

In 2018 on one trip back to California and work his General Manager said “When you are ready to sell the business I want to buy it”, his immediate answer was YES.  Although he loved working and building the business, mentoring staff, and thought he would be working till he was 100, it seemed like the right thing to do at the time.  

So at the end of 2018, he sold the business, bought an apartment in Berlin, and now resides there about 80% of the year.  

·       Berlin is the capital and largest city in Germany, with a population of over 3.7 million people. It has a rich history, and vibrant culture, and is known for its progressive attitudes toward LGBTQ+ rights.

·       Here are some of the highlights of why Berlin could be a great place for LGBTQ+ retirees:

·       LGBTQ+ Scene: Berlin is famous for its diverse and inclusive LGBTQ+ scene, which includes everything from bars and clubs to community centers and events. The city has a long history of LGBTQ+ activism and is home to one of the world's largest pride parades, Christopher Street Day, which takes place every June.

·       Cultural Offe

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They have been here ever since. Billy, a native of Jamaica came to the USA in 1975, spending his childhood and adolescence on Long Island, and moving to Virginia, and Florida in his professional life as a nurse and nursing home manager. Billy and Tom met in 2010 he joined Tom in Cambridge the same year. They spent the last five years renovating their Cape Cod Inn and running it together with Brody, their six-year-old Leonberger. As innkeepers, they have incorporated everything they previously learned to design a welcoming and tranquil environment for their guests, combining the laid-back lifestyle enjoyed by well-to-do people of the Gilded Age with traditional Cape Cod cottage garden grounds. 

They welcome both gay and straight guests, from singles looking for an escape to couples celebrating life together, to bridal couples looking to tie the knot on the Cape.

Thomas von Zabern

Palmer House Inn

81 Palmer Avenue

Falmouth, MA, 02540

https://www.palmerhouseinn.com/

508-548-1230 Main

617-817-4098 Cell

Tomvonz1@gmail.com

Falmouth is a town located in Barnstable County, Massachusetts, USA. Here are some quick facts about Falmouth:

Population: According to the United States Census Bureau, as of 2020, the estimated population of Falmouth is 30,013.

Geography: Falmouth is located on the southwestern corner of Cape Cod, Massachusetts, and is surrounded by water on three sides, with the Atlantic Ocean to the south and southwest, Buzzards Bay to the west, and Vineyard Sound to the east.

Climate: Falmouth has a climate with warm summers and cool winters. The average temperature in July is around 74°F, while the average temperature in January is around 33°F.

Cost of living: The cost of living in Falmouth is generally higher than the national average due to its desirable location on Cape Cod. Housing prices in particular are quite high, with a median home price of around $608,000.

Healthcare: Falmouth has several healthcare options, including Falmouth Hospital, which is part of the Cape Cod Healthcare system. The hospital has 95 beds and offers a range of services, including emergency care, surgery, and maternity care.

Crime and safety: Falmouth is generally considered a safe community, with a relatively low crime rate compared to other towns and cities in Massachusetts. However, like any community, there is still some crime, particularly theft and property crime.

LGBTQ community: Falmouth has a relatively active LGBTQ community, with several organizations and events ai

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Matthew worked in operations in various university libraries in Virginia and California from 2000 until 2022. Now he runs 2 Airbnbs in Guadalajara, Mexico with his husband. He was born and raised in rural Virginia, moved to California in 2006, and then to Mexico in 2020. He attended the University of Virginia where he received a degree in urban planning. 

Matthew currently lives in Guadalajara, Mexico with his husband of 7 years, 3 (or 4) dogs, 4 birds, various fish, and a turtle named Angela. He chose to live in Guadalajara for the quality of life, queer culture, and friendliness of people. He is an avid gardener, self-taught chef, and puzzle fanatic.

Adam Lopez

Adam was born in Los Ángeles, California, and studied fine arts at the San Francisco Art Institute. He lived many years in SF and NYC and returned to LA in his 30s where he met Matthew.  Adam worked in Hollywood for many years in production and sold handmade mid-century furniture online.  Currently, he runs an e-commerce shop where he sells Mexican handicrafts worldwide. Adam and Matthew formed an art collective in 2020 that brings art to local children of the community and they also hold art shows and cultural events in one of their Airbnbs.

Links to their Airbnb’s:
3 bedroom - https://abnb.me/I2XzFgGNwzb
4 bedroom - https://abnb.me/2i1BeSKNwzb

• Guadalajara is the capital city of the state of Jalisco in Mexico.
• With a population of over 1.5 million people, the metro is 5.5 million it is the second most populous city in Mexico.
• Guadalajara is known for its rich cultural heritage, including mariachi music, and tequila.
• The city is also home to several universities and has a thriving technology industry.
• Guadalajara has a warm, semi-arid climate with an average temperature of around 22°C (72°F) throughout the year.
• The city has a vibrant LGBT+ community, with several gay bars, clubs, and events taking place throughout the year.
• The annual Guadalajara Pride Parade takes place in June and attracts thousands of participants and visitors from all over Mexico and beyond.
• Guadalajara has been recognized as one of the most gay-friendly cities in Mexico, and the country as a whole is becoming increasingly accepting of LGBT+ people and their rights.

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Twenty-four of his images were exhibited at the NY Historical Society in NYC in 1998. In 1999, he launched the Fading Ad Campaign website and later a celebrated blog of the same name. A lifelong LGBTQ and AIDS activist, Jump married his partner Vincenzo, in 2004 in Toronto Canada, and later again in NYC in 2017. Jump and his husband have been living in Milton Delaware since 2016.

Quick Facts on Rehoboth Beach

• Rehoboth Beach is a popular coastal resort town located in Sussex County, Delaware, on the east coast of the United States.
• The town has a population of around 1,500 people, but during peak tourist season, that number can soar to over 25,000.
• Rehoboth Beach has a reputation as a gay-friendly destination and has been a popular vacation spot for the LGBTQ+ community since the 1940s.
• The town has a vibrant LGBTQ+ community, and there are several LGBTQ+ organizations, events, and businesses in the area.
• Rehoboth Beach has been named one of the best beach towns for retirees by several publications, including U.S. News & World Report and Forbes.
• The town has a low cost of living compared to other coastal retirement destinations, and Delaware does not have a sales tax, making it an attractive option for retirees on a budget.
• Rehoboth Beach has a mild climate, with average temperatures ranging from the low 30s in winter to the mid-80s in summer.
• The town has a wide range of recreational activities available, including golfing, fishing, hiking, and biking, as well as a variety of cultural events and festivals throughout the year.
• Rehoboth Beach is located just a few hours' drive from major cities like Philadelphia, Baltimore, and Washington, D.C., making it easy to visit friends and family or take advantage of urban amenities.

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Scott was living in NYC at the time and Dave is from Vermont. Scott had an early career in marketing & advertising, was running a mail order catalog business and was an amateur competitive triathlete, Dave was a pro ski patroller at Mount Snow during the winter months and a pro mountain biker in the off-season. 

Previous to Mount Snow, Dave was a professional chef with much experience in the hospitality field.  

• Population: Brattleboro has a population of 12,046 people.
• Cost of living: The cost of living in Brattleboro is higher than the national average but lower than the cost of living in other parts of Vermont.
• Real estate: The median home price in Brattleboro is $325,000.
• Climate: Brattleboro has a temperate climate with four distinct seasons. The average temperature in January is 22 degrees Fahrenheit, and the average in July is 74 degrees Fahrenheit.
• Geography: Brattleboro is located on the Connecticut River in the southern part of Vermont.
• The LGBTQ+ community: Brattleboro is a welcoming and inclusive community for LGBTQ+ people. There are many LGBTQ+-friendly businesses and organizations in Brattleboro, and the city has a strong sense of community.
• Crime and safety: Brattleboro is a safe and comfortable place to live. The crime rate in Brattleboro is low, and the city has a strong sense of community safety.

Here is some additional information about Brattleboro:

• Brattleboro is a popular tourist destination. The town is home to a number of art galleries, museums, and shops.
• Brattleboro is also a popular destination for outdoor recreation. The town is located near a number of hiking trails, biking trails, and swimming holes.
• Brattleboro is a great place to retire. The town is quiet and peaceful, and the cost of living is relatively low.
• Brattleboro is also a great place to raise a family. The town has a robust public school system, and there are a number of family-friendly activities and events.

 Further background:  

https://www.frogmeadow.com/more-info/about-ushistory/   

https://www.frogmeadow.com/gay-brattleboro-vt/ 

https://www.frogmeadow.com/rock-river-vermont/   

https://www.frogmeadow.com/more-info/recent-pressmedia/   

https://www.frogmeadow.com/community-partners/   

https://www.gayrealestate.com/news/usa/vermont/brattleboro/gay-realtor-brattleboro-vermont-a-vibrant-gay-arts-community.html 

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 Through luck and timing, they were able to buy a cottage on the water on Vashon Island (in 1989) and were early adopters of VRBO as a way to enjoy a wonderful place and have a bit of income to help pay for it.  They eventually bought a condo in Ketchum Idaho (Sun Valley ski resort town) as Bruce is a big skier; it was a great place that they loved, with a boost from rental income to make it possible.  That's how they came to buy the condo they are now living in Buenos Aires.  

Up until the pandemic and our retirement, they did very well with vacation rentals and were able to enjoy the place for a week or two most years.  Now they are spending October thru April here in Argentina, and May-September on Vashon Island.


·       Buenos Aires is known as the "gay capital" of South America, with a thriving LGBTQ+ community.

·       Same-sex marriage has been legal in Argentina since 2010, making it the first country in Latin America to legalize same-sex marriage.

·       Argentina also has laws prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

·       The annual Buenos Aires Pride Parade is one of the largest LGBTQ+ events in South America, attracting thousands of participants and spectators.

·       The city has a vibrant LGBTQ+ nightlife, with many bars, clubs, and events catering to the community.

·       LGBTQ+ rights organizations in Buenos Aires include the Argentine Federation of LGBT Rights and the Buenos Aires LGBT Chamber of Commerce.

·       Buenos Aires is also home to several LGBTQ+ landmarks, such as the iconic Obelisk monument, which is often lit up in rainbow colors to celebrate Pride Month.

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Mark Camp - Associate Broker

Berkshire Hathaway Home Services of Georgia 

1163 West Peachtree Street, Suite 200

Atlanta, GA 30309

Show Notes:


Welcome to the Where Do Gays Retire podcast. Today, we're exploring Atlanta, Georgia - a city that offers a unique blend of Southern charm, urban sophistication, and a thriving LGBTQ community. Atlanta has long been considered a hub for the LGBTQ community in the South and is consistently ranked as one of the top cities for LGBTQ retirement. Let's dive into what makes Atlanta such an appealing destination for the LGBTQ community.

History of LGBTQ Community in Atlanta:
Atlanta has a rich history of LGBTQ activism and acceptance, dating back to the 1960s when the city was a hub for the civil rights movement. In the decades that followed, Atlanta has become a hub for LGBTQ culture, with a thriving nightlife scene, numerous LGBTQ organizations and events, and a strong community of LGBTQ residents.

Entertainment and Culture:
Atlanta is known for its diverse and vibrant arts and cultural scene, including the High Museum of Art, the Alliance Theatre, and the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra. The city also offers a thriving LGBTQ nightlife scene, with numerous gay bars and clubs, as well as annual events such as the Atlanta Pride Festival and the Atlanta Black Pride Festival.

Outdoor Activities:
Atlanta is home to a number of parks and outdoor spaces, including Piedmont Park, Centennial Olympic Park, and the Atlanta Botanical Garden. These spaces offer opportunities for outdoor recreation, such as hiking, biking, and picnicking, as well as events and festivals throughout the year.

Dining and Shopping:
Atlanta is a foodie's paradise, with a diverse range of cuisine options, from Southern comfort food to international dishes. The city is also home to numerous shopping destinations, including the Lenox Square mall and the Westside Provisions District.

Conclusion:
In conclusion, Atlanta, Georgia is a city that offers a unique blend of Southern charm, urban sophistication, and a thriving LGBTQ community. From its rich history of LGBTQ activism and acceptance, to its thriving arts and cultural scene, outdoor activities, and dining and shopping options, Atlanta is a top destination for LGBTQ retirees. Whether you're looking for a place to call home or just a city to visit, Atlanta is a must-see for the LGBTQ community.

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He was born on a USAF base in the UK to an English mom from London and an American dad from Milwaukee, WI. At the ripe age of 6 months they moved to Madison, WI where his dad was stationed at the local USAF base. 

He sponsored his partner for a Green Card as soon as it was legal to marry. That took over 18 months and over $2k to get it done. He is happy  to compare the process he is going through now here in Spain as his husband is an Irish/UK citizen and now he is sponsoring Rich for immigration to Spain. 

Introduction:
Today, we're exploring Torremolinos, a vibrant and popular coastal town in the province of Málaga, Andalusia, Spain. With its sunny weather, stunning beaches, and bustling gay scene, Torremolinos has been a popular destination for LGBTQ+ travelers and retirees for many years. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at what makes Torremolinos such a great place to live and visit.

History:

Torremolinos has a rich history dating back to the Roman times. In the 20th century, it emerged as a popular holiday destination for travelers from Northern Europe, and by the 1970s, it had become one of the first destinations in Europe to embrace LGBTQ+ tourism. Since then, Torremolinos has continued to evolve, becoming a destination known for its lively gay scene, stunning beaches, and diverse cultural offerings.

Culture:

Torremolinos is a melting pot of different cultures, with a mix of Spanish, Andalusian, and international influences. The town is known for its lively atmosphere, with plenty of bars, clubs, and restaurants to enjoy. There's also a thriving arts scene, with several galleries and cultural centers showcasing local and international works.

Gay Scene:

Torremolinos has a thriving gay scene, with several bars and clubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community. The town is also home to the annual Torremolinos Gay Pride celebration, which attracts visitors from all over the world. Whether you're looking to party the night away or simply relax with a drink in a friendly, welcoming environment, Torremolinos has something for everyone.

Beaches:

One of the main draws of Torremolinos is its stunning beaches. The town is surrounded by several miles of sandy coastline, offering plenty of opportunities for sunbathing, swimming, and other water sports. Some of the most popular beaches in Torremolinos include Playa del Bajondillo and Playa de la Carihuela.

Retirement:

For those looking to retire in Torremolinos, the town offers a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere, with plenty of opportunities to enjoy the great outdoors and a lively social scene. The cost of living in Torremolinos is relatively low compared to other areas of Europe, making it a great option for retirees on a budget. With its warm climate, stunning beaches, and thriving gay scene, Torremolinos is a top choice for LGBTQ+ retirees looking for a place to call home.

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He received two degrees (Pharmacy and Biology) from Drake University in Des Moines, Iowa. Upon graduation, he moved to Dallas, to begin his career as a Pharmacist. After 3 years, he moved He earned a Master’s Degree MAS in Information Technology Management. In 1999, he met a man and moved in with him in Washington DC.
 
 In January 2005, they came to a conference in Santa Fe.  They fell in love with the energy and flavor and kindness of the people in Santa Fe. They had decided that they should buy a vacation house and retire someday in Santa Fe. 

In 2008 they bought a house on the west edge of Santa Fe. In 2011 his husband’s job changed and they decided to sell their house in DC and move. They landed in Santa Fe full-time in January 2012. 

They enjoy food and drinks, restaurants, and all the amazing art and cultures of Santa Fe.

Introduction:

Welcome to another episode of Where Do Gays Retire! Today, we will be exploring the beautiful city of Santa Fe, New Mexico. Santa Fe is known for its stunning natural beauty, rich cultural heritage, and vibrant arts scene, making it a popular destination for retirees and travelers alike.

History:

Santa Fe is the oldest capital city in the United States, founded in 1610. It has a rich history, having been ruled by Spanish, Mexican, and American governments, each leaving its mark on the city's architecture and culture. The city is also known for being a center of Native American culture, with many Pueblo Indian tribes still residing in the area.

Arts and Culture:

Santa Fe is a city of art and creativity, with a thriving art scene that includes galleries, museums, and performing arts centers. The city is home to the famous Lensic Performing Arts Center, as well as the Santa Fe Opera and the New Mexico Museum of Art. The city also hosts several cultural festivals throughout the year, including the Santa Fe Indian Market, the Spanish Market, and the Folk Art Market.

Outdoor Activities:

Santa Fe is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, with opportunities for outdoor activities such as hiking, biking, skiing, and horseback riding. The city is also located near several national parks, including the Santa Fe National Forest, Bandelier National Monument, and the Pecos Wilderness.

Food and Drink:

Santa Fe is known for its delicious cuisine, with a wide range of dining options that include traditional New Mexican food, and Mexican, Italian, and contemporary American cuisine. The city is also home to many wineries and breweries, making it a great place for food and drink enthusiasts.

Lifestyle:

Santa Fe is a city that values community, relaxation, and a connection to nature. It has a small-town feel, with a friendly and welcoming community, and a relaxed pace of life. The city also has a thriving LGBTQ community, with many events and activities that celebrate diversity and inclusiveness.

Conclusion:

In conclusion, Santa Fe is a beautiful and unique city that offers retirees a vibrant

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