<![CDATA[What Your Therapist Thinks]]>5bbe21b3-7d09-59ee-a64c-4f849550dab6Wed, 15 Apr 2026 12:00:05 +0000Captivate.fmFelicia Keller Boyle & Kristie Plantingahttps://artwork.captivate.fm/39045f86-ea9d-4e69-9e03-dc43aba05979/What-Your-Therapist-Thinks.pngWhat Your Therapist ThinksFelicia Keller Boyle & Kristie PlantingaFelicia Keller Boyle & Kristie PlantingaA mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by burning mental health questions, we mean the stuff you’re posting about anonymously on Reddit in the middle of the night. These therapists aren’t holding back. They’re telling you what they really think including the things they’d never actually say in session. Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from emotional numbness and trauma, to self-worth and healing. What Your Therapist Thinks is a weekly, limited run podcast hosted by Kristie Plantinga, founder of Best Therapists, and Felicia Keller Boyle, a licensed somatic therapist in private practice. Brought to you by BestTherapists.com—a directory that vets mental health professionals so therapy-seekers can focus on fit, not quality. Produced by PodVision. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts or watch full video episodes on the “What Your Therapist Thinks” YouTube channel. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatYourTherapistThinkshttps://www.besttherapists.com/podcasttrueepisodic81bc0b30-b106-11f0-a1e4-9763fb9a5403nopodcastHow Can We Get The Spark Back? Strategies for Long-Term Relationship IntimacyHow Can We Get The Spark Back? Strategies for Long-Term Relationship IntimacyDr. Lindsay Cavanagh, psychologist and marriage expert, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the strategies for long-term intimacy. They discuss the emotional aspect of desire: how mental load and systemic stressors can make or break the spark in parenthood.

Some takeaways:

• Why spontaneity fails when it meets the exhausting logistics of parenthood.

• The difference between intentional pursuit and weaponized incompetence.

• How to start integrating emotional safety into your connection.

• How mental load influences your libido more than "lost attraction" does.

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Listen to Lindsay’s Podcast: Married After Kids.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Dr. Lindsay Cavanagh, psychologist and marriage expert, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the strategies for long-term intimacy. They discuss the emotional aspect of desire: how mental load and systemic stressors can make or break the spark in parenthood.

Some takeaways:

• Why spontaneity fails when it meets the exhausting logistics of parenthood.

• The difference between intentional pursuit and weaponized incompetence.

• How to start integrating emotional safety into your connection.

• How mental load influences your libido more than "lost attraction" does.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Follow Felicia on Instagram

Connect with Lindsay.

Follow Lindsay on Instagram.

Listen to Lindsay’s Podcast: Married After Kids.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>441b3c13-5485-4c53-9c6c-4a0bb3c1cd3cWed, 15 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -060055:49truefull2882How Do I Regulate My Nervous System? Resetting Your System & Managing StressHow Do I Regulate My Nervous System? Resetting Your System & Managing StressTherapists Julie Goldberg joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the mechanics of nervous system regulation and offer a practical, somatic perspective on mental health. They explore the range of human response from fight-or-flight to shutdown. This episode reframes anxiety and burnout away from personal failures to adaptive physiological responses designed to keep you safe.

Some takeaways:

• The differences between safety, mobilization and shutdown.

• Why the goal isn't permanent calm but building resilience and flexibility.

• How our bodies naturally find safety in the presence of another regulated human.

• Changing the narrative from "What's wrong with me?" to "What is my body trying to tell me?"

• Simple somatic techniques to help navigate your stress.

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Join Julie’s Course: Regulate with the Nervous System Reset Course

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Therapists Julie Goldberg joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the mechanics of nervous system regulation and offer a practical, somatic perspective on mental health. They explore the range of human response from fight-or-flight to shutdown. This episode reframes anxiety and burnout away from personal failures to adaptive physiological responses designed to keep you safe.

Some takeaways:

• The differences between safety, mobilization and shutdown.

• Why the goal isn't permanent calm but building resilience and flexibility.

• How our bodies naturally find safety in the presence of another regulated human.

• Changing the narrative from "What's wrong with me?" to "What is my body trying to tell me?"

• Simple somatic techniques to help navigate your stress.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

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Connect with Julie.

Follow Julie on Instagram.

Join Julie’s Course: Regulate with the Nervous System Reset Course

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>3f7a0c23-9967-457b-a54d-1806b489e802Wed, 08 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -060001:01:10truefull2772Why Am I Anxious About Money? Healing Your Financial PsychologyWhy Am I Anxious About Money? Healing Your Financial PsychologyFinancial therapist Lindsay Bryan-Podvin joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the psychological roots of our bank accounts. They center the conversation on the emotional landscape of money: how one’s childhood and systemic failures, not personal incompetence, shape financial anxiety.

Some takeaways:

• Why "logic" fails when it crashes with childhood narratives and fears.

• The difference between functional planning and toxic guilt.

• How to stop restricting pleasure and start integrating joy into your financial plan.

• How socioeconomic factors influence your wallet more than "bad habits" do.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Lindsay.

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Get Lindsay’s Book at Your Local Bookstore: The Financial Anxiety Solution.

Lindsay’s Recommendation: debtcollective.org.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Financial therapist Lindsay Bryan-Podvin joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the psychological roots of our bank accounts. They center the conversation on the emotional landscape of money: how one’s childhood and systemic failures, not personal incompetence, shape financial anxiety.

Some takeaways:

• Why "logic" fails when it crashes with childhood narratives and fears.

• The difference between functional planning and toxic guilt.

• How to stop restricting pleasure and start integrating joy into your financial plan.

• How socioeconomic factors influence your wallet more than "bad habits" do.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Follow Felicia on Instagram

Connect with Lindsay.

Follow Lindsay on Instagram.

Get Lindsay’s Book at Your Local Bookstore: The Financial Anxiety Solution.

Lindsay’s Recommendation: debtcollective.org.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>71e8531d-37d3-464e-9a6e-a58da4893a6dWed, 01 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -060059:58truefull2662Talking in Therapy isn’t Enough? Reprocessing Trauma with EMDRTalking in Therapy isn’t Enough? Reprocessing Trauma with EMDRErica Bonham, LPC, MA joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify EMDR therapy and how it actually works to heal the brain. They explore how bilateral stimulation mimics REM sleep to "unstick" traumatic memories trapped in the nervous system. Erica advocates for a bottom-up approach to recovery to address the somatic and emotional roots of distress.

Some takeaways:

• How bilateral stimulation helps the brain reprocess

• Why a somatic approach is often more effective than cognitive insight

• How to develop compassion for the internal mechanisms that try to keep us safe

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Episode referenced: What Type Of Trauma Do I Have? Understanding Trauma

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Connect with Erica

Follow Erica on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and YouTube

Read Erica’s Book: Always Enough, Never Done.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.


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]]>Erica Bonham, LPC, MA joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify EMDR therapy and how it actually works to heal the brain. They explore how bilateral stimulation mimics REM sleep to "unstick" traumatic memories trapped in the nervous system. Erica advocates for a bottom-up approach to recovery to address the somatic and emotional roots of distress.

Some takeaways:

• How bilateral stimulation helps the brain reprocess

• Why a somatic approach is often more effective than cognitive insight

• How to develop compassion for the internal mechanisms that try to keep us safe

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

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Episode referenced: What Type Of Trauma Do I Have? Understanding Trauma

Use our promo code "WYTT" for up to 20% Off at CozyEarth.com.

Connect with Erica

Follow Erica on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and YouTube

Read Erica’s Book: Always Enough, Never Done.

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.


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]]>23b79ce6-1899-4d8d-b16c-131fd0ae9635Wed, 25 Mar 2026 09:55:00 -060058:02truefull2552How Do I Get Over Someone? The Science of Heartbreak with Colette J. FehrHow Do I Get Over Someone? The Science of Heartbreak with Colette J. FehrRelationship expert Colette J. Fehr joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the messy, neurological reality of moving on. They explore why breakups feel less like a simple goodbye and more like overcoming an addiction, creating a need for a strategic "reset" of the brain. Colette advocates for “no-contact” as a vital tool for nervous system regulation and reclaiming your sense of self.

Some takeaways:

  1. Why missing an ex mirrors an addiction cycle and how to break it.
  2. How creating distance allows your nervous system to detach from an ex.
  3. How to move from waiting for closure to finding an internal resolution.
  4. The dangers of "rebounds" and why reclaiming self-worth should be a priority.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Colette

  1. Follow Colette on Instagram and TikTok
  2. Listen to Colette’s podcasts, Insights from the Couch, Real Talk for Women at Midlife and Love Thy Neighbor.
  3. Read Colette’s Book: The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure Lasting Love.

Listen to Colette’s TED Talk: Secrets of a Couple's Therapist

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Relationship expert Colette J. Fehr joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the messy, neurological reality of moving on. They explore why breakups feel less like a simple goodbye and more like overcoming an addiction, creating a need for a strategic "reset" of the brain. Colette advocates for “no-contact” as a vital tool for nervous system regulation and reclaiming your sense of self.

Some takeaways:

  1. Why missing an ex mirrors an addiction cycle and how to break it.
  2. How creating distance allows your nervous system to detach from an ex.
  3. How to move from waiting for closure to finding an internal resolution.
  4. The dangers of "rebounds" and why reclaiming self-worth should be a priority.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Follow Felicia on Instagram

Connect with Colette

  1. Follow Colette on Instagram and TikTok
  2. Listen to Colette’s podcasts, Insights from the Couch, Real Talk for Women at Midlife and Love Thy Neighbor.
  3. Read Colette’s Book: The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure Lasting Love.

Listen to Colette’s TED Talk: Secrets of a Couple's Therapist

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>7d12b776-2208-403e-ada1-11dd00624164Wed, 18 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -060001:01:13truefull2442Why Am I So Messy? Reasons You’re Messy with KC DavisWhy Am I So Messy? Reasons You’re Messy with KC DavisAuthor and counselor KC Davis, LPC joins Kristie and Felicia to break down the shame often associated with a messy home. They unpack the life-changing mindset of moral neutrality, meaning that your ability to do laundry is not a reflection of your character. KC supports shifting away from society’s standards of "tidiness" to a sustainable approach that prioritizes your mental health.

Some takeaways:

• Why struggling with dishes doesn't make you a "bad" person

• How to look at house chores as a way to make your space livable instead of a never-ending to-do list.

• Using hacks like larger trash cans or paper plates to manage your home during difficult mental health seasons.

• Why self-compassion is better motivation than guilt when you're feeling overwhelmed.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

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Use our promo code "WYTT" for up to 20% Off at CozyEarth.com

Connect with KC

Follow KC on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok

Read KC’s books: How to Keep House While Drowning and Who Deserves Your Love

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>Author and counselor KC Davis, LPC joins Kristie and Felicia to break down the shame often associated with a messy home. They unpack the life-changing mindset of moral neutrality, meaning that your ability to do laundry is not a reflection of your character. KC supports shifting away from society’s standards of "tidiness" to a sustainable approach that prioritizes your mental health.

Some takeaways:

• Why struggling with dishes doesn't make you a "bad" person

• How to look at house chores as a way to make your space livable instead of a never-ending to-do list.

• Using hacks like larger trash cans or paper plates to manage your home during difficult mental health seasons.

• Why self-compassion is better motivation than guilt when you're feeling overwhelmed.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Follow Felicia on Instagram

Use our promo code "WYTT" for up to 20% Off at CozyEarth.com

Connect with KC

Follow KC on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok

Read KC’s books: How to Keep House While Drowning and Who Deserves Your Love

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!


This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>7d9c8504-2125-4d7a-9689-a40a757b40bdWed, 11 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -060059:34truefull2332How Can I Enjoy Dating? Dating Advice From Therapy JeffHow Can I Enjoy Dating? Dating Advice From Therapy JeffJeff Guenther, LPC, also known as TherapyJeff, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on modern romance. They break down the dating world as a space that requires nervous system regulation and radical authenticity. Jeff advocates for a shift away from performing for validation to a more grounded approach focused on genuine curiosity instead of the pressure of finding "the one."

Some takeaways:

  1. Why looking at first dates as fun instead of as a job interview leads to better matches
  2. How to check in with your nervous system to avoid performing for validation
  3. Understanding how dating apps gamify rejection and how they lead to burnout
  4. The difference between healthy vulnerability and trauma dumping and how to spot early signs love bombing

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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  1. Connect with Jeff
  2. Follow Jeff on Instagram and TikTok
  3. Listen to Jeff’s podcast, Problem Solved
  4. Read Jeff’s book, “Big Dating Energy”

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>Jeff Guenther, LPC, also known as TherapyJeff, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on modern romance. They break down the dating world as a space that requires nervous system regulation and radical authenticity. Jeff advocates for a shift away from performing for validation to a more grounded approach focused on genuine curiosity instead of the pressure of finding "the one."

Some takeaways:

  1. Why looking at first dates as fun instead of as a job interview leads to better matches
  2. How to check in with your nervous system to avoid performing for validation
  3. Understanding how dating apps gamify rejection and how they lead to burnout
  4. The difference between healthy vulnerability and trauma dumping and how to spot early signs love bombing

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Join our Substack community

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Follow Felicia on Instagram

  1. Connect with Jeff
  2. Follow Jeff on Instagram and TikTok
  3. Listen to Jeff’s podcast, Problem Solved
  4. Read Jeff’s book, “Big Dating Energy”

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>1f0b8c79-3f4b-4bbb-8c14-47ef69133f9dWed, 04 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -060001:02:56truefull2222Do I Have ADHD? What ADHD Looks Like In WomenDo I Have ADHD? What ADHD Looks Like In WomenDr. Rebeccah Lyle, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the nuanced reality of ADHD in women and AFAB individuals. Together, they break down how social expectations of "good behavior" sometimes mask ADHD symptoms in girls, leading to life-changing diagnoses in adulthood when the pressures of career and motherhood reach a breaking point.

Some takeaways:

  1. Reframing neurological differences as strengths
  2. Understanding the psychological toll of masking and how it inevitably leads to burnout
  3. Shifting the narrative from self-blame for a "lack of discipline" to advocating for systemic accommodations and self-compassion

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Rebeccah

Mentioned in this episode: Am I Emotionally Numb? Signs Of Emotional Numbness and What To Do Next (WYTT, Season 1)

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Dr. Rebeccah Lyle, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the nuanced reality of ADHD in women and AFAB individuals. Together, they break down how social expectations of "good behavior" sometimes mask ADHD symptoms in girls, leading to life-changing diagnoses in adulthood when the pressures of career and motherhood reach a breaking point.

Some takeaways:

  1. Reframing neurological differences as strengths
  2. Understanding the psychological toll of masking and how it inevitably leads to burnout
  3. Shifting the narrative from self-blame for a "lack of discipline" to advocating for systemic accommodations and self-compassion

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

  1. Join our Substack community
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Connect with Rebeccah

Mentioned in this episode: Am I Emotionally Numb? Signs Of Emotional Numbness and What To Do Next (WYTT, Season 1)

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>fe287445-bdd0-45cc-ab31-0e0a5c233b23Wed, 25 Feb 2026 08:30:00 -060054:27truefull2112Season 2 is here!Season 2 is here!Welcome to Season 2 of What Your Therapist Thinks. We were absolutely mind-blown by all the love we got from you in season 1 and so after some life changes like Kristie having a baby… we’re back!

A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by "real-world," we mean Reddit posts. Incognito Google searches. And the stuff you think about bringing up in therapy… but maybe don’t. Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from dating advice and body dysmorphia to ADHD and EMDR therapy.

First episode drops February 25.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

  1. Watch full episodes on YouTube.
  2. Connect with us on Instagram.
  3. Subscribe to our Substack.
  4. Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
  5. Brought to you by BestTherapists.com
  6. Produced by PodVision.

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>Welcome to Season 2 of What Your Therapist Thinks. We were absolutely mind-blown by all the love we got from you in season 1 and so after some life changes like Kristie having a baby… we’re back!

A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by "real-world," we mean Reddit posts. Incognito Google searches. And the stuff you think about bringing up in therapy… but maybe don’t. Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from dating advice and body dysmorphia to ADHD and EMDR therapy.

First episode drops February 25.

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

  1. Watch full episodes on YouTube.
  2. Connect with us on Instagram.
  3. Subscribe to our Substack.
  4. Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
  5. Brought to you by BestTherapists.com
  6. Produced by PodVision.

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>90ed01ce-7072-44b6-b30f-fea272e7ac1dWed, 11 Feb 2026 06:30:00 -060002:51falsetrailer22Why Did We Start a Mental Health Podcast? Felicia & Kristie's Origin StoryWhy Did We Start a Mental Health Podcast? Felicia & Kristie's Origin StoryIn this special episode, hosts Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle share their own mental health journeys and what led them to create "What Your Therapist Thinks". Drawing from Felicia’s professional background as a somatic therapist and Kristie’s lived experience as a long-time therapy goer, they discuss navigating chronic illness, childhood isolation, the "good kid" trap and why breaking the stigma of silence is the first step toward true healing.

Some takeaways:

  1. The "Sensitive Kid to Therapist" pipeline and why high-achievers often hide their pain
  2. Why healing happens both inside and outside the therapy room through somatics and community
  3. The power of self-forgiveness and the freedom to change your mind and your life

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

  1. Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack
  2. Follow Felicia on Instagram
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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Connect with us on Instagram: @wyttpodcast

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision

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]]>In this special episode, hosts Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle share their own mental health journeys and what led them to create "What Your Therapist Thinks". Drawing from Felicia’s professional background as a somatic therapist and Kristie’s lived experience as a long-time therapy goer, they discuss navigating chronic illness, childhood isolation, the "good kid" trap and why breaking the stigma of silence is the first step toward true healing.

Some takeaways:

  1. The "Sensitive Kid to Therapist" pipeline and why high-achievers often hide their pain
  2. Why healing happens both inside and outside the therapy room through somatics and community
  3. The power of self-forgiveness and the freedom to change your mind and your life

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]]>aa13b17b-56bd-4ad0-af7e-ffc9742fad89Wed, 14 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -060050:51falsebonus114141How Do I Set Boundaries With Family? A Guide To Surviving The HolidaysHow Do I Set Boundaries With Family? A Guide To Surviving The HolidaysIn this special holiday episode, Katrina Mautner, a queer trauma-informed therapist, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on setting boundaries with family. Drawing from Katrina’s anti-oppressive and harm reduction framework, they break down boundaries as a tool for connection—defining them as the distance at which you can love both yourself and the other person.

Some takeaways:

  • How boundaries actually allow us to deepen relationships and say "yes" more freely
  • Surviving difficult moments with "strategic avoidance" and internal boundaries
  • Applying a harm reduction lens to deescalate family conflict, even imperfectly

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Connect with Katrina

Katrina’s Newsletter

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]]>In this special holiday episode, Katrina Mautner, a queer trauma-informed therapist, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on setting boundaries with family. Drawing from Katrina’s anti-oppressive and harm reduction framework, they break down boundaries as a tool for connection—defining them as the distance at which you can love both yourself and the other person.

Some takeaways:

  • How boundaries actually allow us to deepen relationships and say "yes" more freely
  • Surviving difficult moments with "strategic avoidance" and internal boundaries
  • Applying a harm reduction lens to deescalate family conflict, even imperfectly

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com


Connect with Katrina

Katrina’s Newsletter

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Connect with us on Instagram: @wyttpodcast

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision

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]]>6fd8f39b-b528-49a9-ae02-07fcb33afcf8Wed, 10 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -060047:08truebonus113131How Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind PerformanceHow Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind PerformanceShelly Qualter, an expert counselor, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on performance anxiety. Drawing from Shelly’s experience as an expert counselor, they break down performance anxiety as a fear-based emotion arising from uncertainty, feeling threatened, or being out of control.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between helpful "nervous energy" and debilitating panic
  • How externalizing anxiety (like giving it a name) fosters control and self-compassion
  • Distinguishing between fact-based worry and baseless "what if" worries

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]]>Shelly Qualter, an expert counselor, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on performance anxiety. Drawing from Shelly’s experience as an expert counselor, they break down performance anxiety as a fear-based emotion arising from uncertainty, feeling threatened, or being out of control.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between helpful "nervous energy" and debilitating panic
  • How externalizing anxiety (like giving it a name) fosters control and self-compassion
  • Distinguishing between fact-based worry and baseless "what if" worries

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]]>271ced05-bff8-449b-a572-f95a1178f3d7Wed, 19 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -060001:06:36truefull112121What Type Of Trauma Do I Have? Understanding TraumaWhat Type Of Trauma Do I Have? Understanding TraumaJon Lee LMFT, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on trauma and recovery. Drawing from Jon’s specialized niche in dissociative disorders, they break down trauma as a lasting adaptation of the nervous system.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between a traumatic event and the physiological trauma response
  • How healing is achieved through incremental progress and relational therapy
  • Balancing traditional Western practices with community and ancient wisdom

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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]]>Jon Lee LMFT, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on trauma and recovery. Drawing from Jon’s specialized niche in dissociative disorders, they break down trauma as a lasting adaptation of the nervous system.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between a traumatic event and the physiological trauma response
  • How healing is achieved through incremental progress and relational therapy
  • Balancing traditional Western practices with community and ancient wisdom

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Jon

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

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]]>cdae00ce-0fc1-417d-bc37-c780d9b9919bWed, 12 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -060001:10:57truefull111111Why Do People Cheat? Understanding the Psychology of InfidelityWhy Do People Cheat? Understanding the Psychology of InfidelityCertified sex therapist Amalia Miralrio joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything cheating. Drawing from her psychoanalytic expertise, Amalia breaks down infidelity as an unconscious drive. She explains where it can originate from and why this inner conflict leads to a struggle for autonomy.

Some takeaways:

  • How unconscious drives work as a motivation for cheating
  • The connection between infidelity and early developmental issues
  • How this inner conflict often leads to a repetition compulsion
  • Balancing the human needs for intimacy versus freedom

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]]>Certified sex therapist Amalia Miralrio joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything cheating. Drawing from her psychoanalytic expertise, Amalia breaks down infidelity as an unconscious drive. She explains where it can originate from and why this inner conflict leads to a struggle for autonomy.

Some takeaways:

  • How unconscious drives work as a motivation for cheating
  • The connection between infidelity and early developmental issues
  • How this inner conflict often leads to a repetition compulsion
  • Balancing the human needs for intimacy versus freedom

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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]]>de80c2c0-bccd-4e89-98a7-45272034c925Wed, 05 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -060001:03:07truefull110101Am I Just “Nice,” Or Am I A People Pleaser? Signs You’re People PleasingAm I Just “Nice,” Or Am I A People Pleaser? Signs You’re People PleasingSomatic trauma therapist Chloe Bean joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything people-pleasing. Drawing from her expertise in high-functioning anxiety, Chloe breaks down people-pleasing as a learned trauma response. She explains how it can originate from a childhood need for safety and why prioritizing others leads to resentment and losing yourself.

Some takeaways:

  • How people-pleasing works as a survival habit
  • The connection between people-pleasing and losing yourself
  • How prioritizing others' needs often leads to exhaustion and resentment
  • Shifting from fear to setting authentic boundaries

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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]]>Somatic trauma therapist Chloe Bean joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything people-pleasing. Drawing from her expertise in high-functioning anxiety, Chloe breaks down people-pleasing as a learned trauma response. She explains how it can originate from a childhood need for safety and why prioritizing others leads to resentment and losing yourself.

Some takeaways:

  • How people-pleasing works as a survival habit
  • The connection between people-pleasing and losing yourself
  • How prioritizing others' needs often leads to exhaustion and resentment
  • Shifting from fear to setting authentic boundaries

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Chloe:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>5438efce-42d7-4bce-81c3-6a00502c501dWed, 29 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -060001:08:03truefull1991What Does Contempt In Relationships Look Like? How To Keep Your Relationship Contempt-FreeWhat Does Contempt In Relationships Look Like? How To Keep Your Relationship Contempt-FreeLicensed clinical social worker Kenny Levine joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the destructive power of contempt in relationships. Drawing from the Gottman method, Kenny breaks down the "Four Horsemen" of conflict, explaining how to identify warning signs like contempt and why addressing this early is a must for maintaining a healthy partnership.

Some takeaways:

  • How contempt is a red flag for a relationship's health
  • The difference between resentment and contempt
  • Maintaining a five-to-one ratio of positive to negative interactions
  • Why addressing issues early on is key to preventing the buildup of hopelessness

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Resources:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Licensed clinical social worker Kenny Levine joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the destructive power of contempt in relationships. Drawing from the Gottman method, Kenny breaks down the "Four Horsemen" of conflict, explaining how to identify warning signs like contempt and why addressing this early is a must for maintaining a healthy partnership.

Some takeaways:

  • How contempt is a red flag for a relationship's health
  • The difference between resentment and contempt
  • Maintaining a five-to-one ratio of positive to negative interactions
  • Why addressing issues early on is key to preventing the buildup of hopelessness

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

Follow Felicia on Instagram

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Resources:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>cc43e274-0e30-4c92-b592-c8b02c8dd443Wed, 22 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -060001:03:57truefull1881What is Coregulation & Parenting? How Coregulation Helps Build The Best Child-Parent RelationshipsWhat is Coregulation & Parenting? How Coregulation Helps Build The Best Child-Parent RelationshipsLicensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Cassidy Freitas joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on co-regulation in parenting. Dr. Freitas breaks down advice like how a parent's calm presence can regulate a child's nervous system, and the crucial difference between gentle parenting and permissiveness.

Some takeaways:

  • What it means to be a calm anchor for your child's nervous system
  • The crucial difference between gentle parenting and permissive parenting
  • Why understanding your own triggers is the first step to co-regulation
  • The power of "repairing" after conflict to build a stronger connection

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Book Mentioned: Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers

Resource for Teachers in early childhood education: Teaching through Emotions.

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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]]>Licensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Cassidy Freitas joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on co-regulation in parenting. Dr. Freitas breaks down advice like how a parent's calm presence can regulate a child's nervous system, and the crucial difference between gentle parenting and permissiveness.

Some takeaways:

  • What it means to be a calm anchor for your child's nervous system
  • The crucial difference between gentle parenting and permissive parenting
  • Why understanding your own triggers is the first step to co-regulation
  • The power of "repairing" after conflict to build a stronger connection

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

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Book Mentioned: Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers

Resource for Teachers in early childhood education: Teaching through Emotions.

Connect with Dr. Cassidy:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

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]]>f8f7385b-e0ee-41f5-ab6f-2b75bb6ceab7Wed, 15 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -060001:02:06truefull1771What Should I Talk About During Ketamine Therapy? How to Get The Most Out Of A SessionWhat Should I Talk About During Ketamine Therapy? How to Get The Most Out Of A SessionKetamine specialist Shannon York joins Kristie and Felicia to chat about the transformative world of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). Shannon breaks down how it’s different from purely medical ketamine treatment, debunks common myths, and explores how (KAP) can quiet the brain's default mode network to accelerate healing.

Some takeaways:

- Ketamine as a medical treatment vs. an assistant to psychotherapy

- Why setting a clear intention is a non-negotiable step

- How KAP can make you more receptive to change

- The importance of a strong therapeutic alliance to experience this safely

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Connect with Shannon.

Get Shannon’s freebie for Loved Ones here!

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Ketamine specialist Shannon York joins Kristie and Felicia to chat about the transformative world of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). Shannon breaks down how it’s different from purely medical ketamine treatment, debunks common myths, and explores how (KAP) can quiet the brain's default mode network to accelerate healing.

Some takeaways:

- Ketamine as a medical treatment vs. an assistant to psychotherapy

- Why setting a clear intention is a non-negotiable step

- How KAP can make you more receptive to change

- The importance of a strong therapeutic alliance to experience this safely

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

Follow Felicia on Instagram

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Connect with Shannon.

Get Shannon’s freebie for Loved Ones here!

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

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]]>5301c1c8-f717-4737-baa2-4a65a2d416d1Wed, 08 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -060001:00:46truefull1661Are My Intrusive Thoughts "Normal" Or Do I Have OCD?Are My Intrusive Thoughts "Normal" Or Do I Have OCD?Licensed and multi-certified therapist Kathryn Wood joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and intrusive thoughts. They break down what OCD actually is (and isn’t) and differentiate reality from pop psychology stereotypes.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between a fleeting thought and a persistent, intrusive thought
  • Why typical “advice” can actually make OCD worse
  • How OCD can manifest: from perfectionism to fears of causing harm
  • Learning to sit with uncertainty as healing

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Licensed and multi-certified therapist Kathryn Wood joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and intrusive thoughts. They break down what OCD actually is (and isn’t) and differentiate reality from pop psychology stereotypes.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between a fleeting thought and a persistent, intrusive thought
  • Why typical “advice” can actually make OCD worse
  • How OCD can manifest: from perfectionism to fears of causing harm
  • Learning to sit with uncertainty as healing

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

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Connect with Kathryn:


Resources mentioned in this episode:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>374e6d9d-5ff2-4e5d-82a1-54789bc0b9eeWed, 01 Oct 2025 08:00:00 -060001:12:24truefull1551Am I Enmeshed With My Mom? Signs of Mother-Son Enmeshment & What To DoAm I Enmeshed With My Mom? Signs of Mother-Son Enmeshment & What To DoLicensed Therapist Mary Beth Somich joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify the concept of enmeshment in families, especially between mothers and sons. They look at what enmeshment actually means (hint: blurred boundaries and no space for individuality), where it comes from, and why it’s so tough to break free from.

Some takeaways:

  • How enmeshment manifests in real life
  • The effects of enmeshment on adult romantic and family relationships
  • Why setting boundaries can often feel like “rocking the boat”
  • How to shift to healthy connections without cutting ties

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Connect with Mary Beth: www.yourjourneythrough.com

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

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]]>Licensed Therapist Mary Beth Somich joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify the concept of enmeshment in families, especially between mothers and sons. They look at what enmeshment actually means (hint: blurred boundaries and no space for individuality), where it comes from, and why it’s so tough to break free from.

Some takeaways:

  • How enmeshment manifests in real life
  • The effects of enmeshment on adult romantic and family relationships
  • Why setting boundaries can often feel like “rocking the boat”
  • How to shift to healthy connections without cutting ties

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

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Connect with Mary Beth: www.yourjourneythrough.com

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>b471e2c7-e0e4-441b-bf87-7e766d4f13caWed, 24 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -060057:24truefull1441Are My Parents Emotionally Abusive? Signs You've Been Abused & What To DoAre My Parents Emotionally Abusive? Signs You've Been Abused & What To DoLicensed Therapist Ashley Hudson joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the complex and heavy topic of parental emotional abuse. They discuss why this form of abuse is so difficult to identify, why parents engage in it (often unconsciously), and the long-term impact it has on children as they transition into adulthood.

Some takeaways:

  • Why emotional abuse is harder to spot than physical abuse
  • The "good kid": How fear of a parent's reaction creates anxious compliance
  • Strategies for coping like setting "quiet boundaries"
  • Letting go of the "good kid" identity and accepting being labeled as the "bad guy"

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Connect with Ashley: https://www.ashleyhudsontherapy.com/

Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

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]]>Licensed Therapist Ashley Hudson joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the complex and heavy topic of parental emotional abuse. They discuss why this form of abuse is so difficult to identify, why parents engage in it (often unconsciously), and the long-term impact it has on children as they transition into adulthood.

Some takeaways:

  • Why emotional abuse is harder to spot than physical abuse
  • The "good kid": How fear of a parent's reaction creates anxious compliance
  • Strategies for coping like setting "quiet boundaries"
  • Letting go of the "good kid" identity and accepting being labeled as the "bad guy"

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

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]]>e7c16912-9efa-4233-864a-f8f6cbc27980Wed, 17 Sep 2025 09:30:00 -060001:08:35truefull1331Am I Emotionally Numb? Signs Of Emotional Numbness and What To Do NextAm I Emotionally Numb? Signs Of Emotional Numbness and What To Do NextDrama Therapist Arianna Wheat joins Kristie and Felicia to explore emotional numbness as a coping mechanism for when we feel overwhelmed by intense emotions or past trauma. Arianna believes healing begins with connection—to one’s past, present, and with someone who sees them fully.

Some takeaways:

  • How to regulate your nervous system
  • Hyper and hypo-arousal: what are they and why are they relevant?
  • Challenging the “shoulds”
  • Radical acceptance of your emotions

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

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]]>Drama Therapist Arianna Wheat joins Kristie and Felicia to explore emotional numbness as a coping mechanism for when we feel overwhelmed by intense emotions or past trauma. Arianna believes healing begins with connection—to one’s past, present, and with someone who sees them fully.

Some takeaways:

  • How to regulate your nervous system
  • Hyper and hypo-arousal: what are they and why are they relevant?
  • Challenging the “shoulds”
  • Radical acceptance of your emotions

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

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Connect with Arianna:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>c5eb9faa-3476-4030-a77e-191ce640e89eWed, 10 Sep 2025 10:30:00 -060055:31truefull1221Am I Hypervigilant? Signs Of Hypervigilance & How To Get BetterAm I Hypervigilant? Signs Of Hypervigilance & How To Get BetterTherapist Halle Thomas joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the exhausting reality of hypervigilance, a.k.a the survival mechanism rooted in trauma that has no "off switch." Through conversation and Reddit stories, they expose how hypervigilance manifests and leads to self-fulfilling prophecies in relationships. You’ll also hear validating, practical strategies for healing and why making mistakes is a crucial part of recovery.

Some takeaways:

  • Healthy vigilance vs hypervigilance originating from trauma
  • Hypervigilance as social anxiety or shutting down curiosity
  • Why your nervous system is stuck in "always-on" mode
  • Strategies for healing, such as "dosing safety"

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

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]]>Therapist Halle Thomas joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the exhausting reality of hypervigilance, a.k.a the survival mechanism rooted in trauma that has no "off switch." Through conversation and Reddit stories, they expose how hypervigilance manifests and leads to self-fulfilling prophecies in relationships. You’ll also hear validating, practical strategies for healing and why making mistakes is a crucial part of recovery.

Some takeaways:

  • Healthy vigilance vs hypervigilance originating from trauma
  • Hypervigilance as social anxiety or shutting down curiosity
  • Why your nervous system is stuck in "always-on" mode
  • Strategies for healing, such as "dosing safety"

For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com

Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

Follow Felicia on Instagram

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Connect with Halle:


*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>5eb4876c-cf6c-4a55-9a30-b622a7ad5481Wed, 10 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -060001:11:47truefull1111TrailerTrailerComing soon to your headphones! A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by burning mental health questions, we mean the stuff you’re posting about anonymously on Reddit in the middle of the night.

Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from emotional numbness and trauma to self-worth and healing. First episodes drop September 10.

*Watch full episodes on youtube.com/@WhatYourTherapistThinks

*Connect with us on Instagram: @wytt_podcast

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

]]>Coming soon to your headphones! A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by burning mental health questions, we mean the stuff you’re posting about anonymously on Reddit in the middle of the night.

Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from emotional numbness and trauma to self-worth and healing. First episodes drop September 10.

*Watch full episodes on youtube.com/@WhatYourTherapistThinks

*Connect with us on Instagram: @wytt_podcast

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

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