<![CDATA[YOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS]]>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 17:00:08 +0000Captivate.fmYou Can't Have it Both Wayshttps://artwork.captivate.fm/82bbff5d-daf3-4bf7-aef2-a33f1ea1e13b/ltafJPGjs962NgUlywMDmfLH.jpgYOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYSYou Can't Have it Both WaysYou Can't Have it Both WaysYou Can't Have it Both Ways is a social commentary podcast on the new gender orthodoxy ----------------------------- Subscribe at https://youcanthaveitbothways.substack.com/ and leave us a comment! ----------------------------- Subscribe via iTunes and leave a review ------------------------------------ Follow @ychibw on Twitter -------------------------------- Contact writetoychibw@gmail.comhttps://you-cant-have-it-both-ways.captivate.fmyesepisodicThe Academic Vault Presents: Forgive Me ChatGPT, For I Have SinnedThe Academic Vault Presents: Forgive Me ChatGPT, For I Have SinnedWith over 100 million people talking to ChatGPT instead of each other, it seemed only right to ask the question: Is ChatGPT woke?

]]>With over 100 million people talking to ChatGPT instead of each other, it seemed only right to ask the question: Is ChatGPT woke?

]]>a5e813ec-8498-401f-86e8-859dd0e2a76eMon, 06 Mar 2023 12:00:00 -050036:02yesfull30You Can't Have it Both WaysUnwoke Theatre: Tiny ShouldersUnwoke Theatre: Tiny ShouldersA deep dive into the 2018 documentary Tiny Shoulders: Rethinking Barbie, about some marketing executives who designed a "Curvy Barbie" for little girls even though the little girls said they didn't want it.

]]>A deep dive into the 2018 documentary Tiny Shoulders: Rethinking Barbie, about some marketing executives who designed a "Curvy Barbie" for little girls even though the little girls said they didn't want it.

]]>38e3deb4-06c0-41b9-8736-4679a9431047Sat, 04 Feb 2023 16:30:00 -050057:51yesfull29You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Notre Dames OnlyThe Academic Vault Presents: Notre Dames OnlyA women's college announces it will begin accepting cis men. The community revolts!

]]>A women's college announces it will begin accepting cis men. The community revolts!

]]>118e6a6a-2f91-4305-bea1-b8ed62560913Mon, 23 Jan 2023 19:45:00 -050051:04yesfull28You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. XII: Death ChicksThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. XII: Death ChicksAll the news that's fit to rant about. Two transwomen are prominent in the media at the moment - one is accused of murder, and one was recently executed for murder. Why is the media treating Nikki Secondino like a cis woman, while focusing on Amber McLaughlin's transness to the point of ignoring her victim?

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Two transwomen are prominent in the media at the moment - one is accused of murder, and one was recently executed for murder. Why is the media treating Nikki Secondino like a cis woman, while focusing on Amber McLaughlin's transness to the point of ignoring her victim?

]]>e395c237-98e2-4271-8239-f4cec81ffc51Mon, 09 Jan 2023 08:45:00 -050043:00yesfull27You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. XI: Snuggle Party USAThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. XI: Snuggle Party USAAll the news that's fit to rant about. Snuggle parties are dystopian madness: Here's what snuggle parties reveal about our tendency to repress and self-oppress.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Snuggle parties are dystopian madness: Here's what snuggle parties reveal about our tendency to repress and self-oppress.

]]>04b1403c-2097-45d1-aec9-6d57182ec88fSun, 23 Oct 2022 17:30:00 -050053:16yesfull26You Can't Have it Both WaysUnwoke Theatre: Don't Worry DarlingUnwoke Theatre: Don't Worry DarlingA deep dive into Don't Worry Darling, the latest in a spate of films and TV series celebrating women liberating themselves from the illusion of heteronormative happiness by murdering their husbands.

]]>A deep dive into Don't Worry Darling, the latest in a spate of films and TV series celebrating women liberating themselves from the illusion of heteronormative happiness by murdering their husbands.

]]>2fccf91e-8f4b-4da2-8dd9-9731c4136004Mon, 17 Oct 2022 16:38:00 -050047:44yesfull25You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Dolezal Shows AllThe Academic Vault Presents: Dolezal Shows AllTransphobia! Racism! Misogyny! Body shaming! Contemporary culture is obsessed with stamping out these evils, yet quick to perpetrate them against the politically incorrect. Consider the case of Rachel Dolezal.

]]>Transphobia! Racism! Misogyny! Body shaming! Contemporary culture is obsessed with stamping out these evils, yet quick to perpetrate them against the politically incorrect. Consider the case of Rachel Dolezal.

]]>258d3978-9981-40ec-afac-a88bcd5fee1dSat, 01 Oct 2022 15:00:00 -050029:34yesfull24You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. X: The Ink Black TruthThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. X: The Ink Black TruthAll the news that's fit to rant about. J. K. Rowling's new Galbraith book gets labeled transphobic, while a Virginia judge deems Maia Kobabe's child-porn book fit for kids. In other news, Lana Del Rey gets fat and no one's allowed to notice.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. J. K. Rowling's new Galbraith book gets labeled transphobic, while a Virginia judge deems Maia Kobabe's child-porn book fit for kids. In other news, Lana Del Rey gets fat and no one's allowed to notice.

]]>025cfb34-779b-48e5-b564-3a75ff2e40f1Mon, 12 Sep 2022 22:00:00 -050051:45yesfull23You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. IX: Sheriff BuddyThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. IX: Sheriff BuddyAll the news that's fit to rant about.  A Southern sheriff issues an ominous warning (and a slew of assault rifles) to rural school teachers, and a New England community refuses to prosecute a man even as he continues to terrorize them.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about.  A Southern sheriff issues an ominous warning (and a slew of assault rifles) to rural school teachers, and a New England community refuses to prosecute a man even as he continues to terrorize them.

]]>a11e14c3-0953-41c8-b953-ca8b3af38f05Sat, 03 Sep 2022 20:30:00 -050056:47yesfull22You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VIII: The Other N WordThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VIII: The Other N WordAll the news that's fit to rant about. Some thoughts on the use of the word "Nazi" in an increasingly polarized landscape.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Some thoughts on the use of the word "Nazi" in an increasingly polarized landscape.

]]>c0cfcf13-e279-4528-bc75-33992548e22fTue, 23 Aug 2022 17:04:00 -050030:36yesfull21You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VII: Feeld of DreamsThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VII: Feeld of DreamsAll the news that's fit to rant about. The New Yorker kicks off its week-long "Family Issue" with an in-depth endorsement of Feeld - "a hookup app for the emotionally mature." Budding Roses, a summer camp in Portland, Oregon, teaches kids how to survive police brutality and the evils of the patriarchy.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. The New Yorker kicks off its week-long "Family Issue" with an in-depth endorsement of Feeld - "a hookup app for the emotionally mature." Budding Roses, a summer camp in Portland, Oregon, teaches kids how to survive police brutality and the evils of the patriarchy.

]]>7e195583-21d1-403c-b976-5c6fd8484b81Tue, 16 Aug 2022 16:07:00 -050053:44yesfull20You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Straw PeopleThe Academic Vault Presents: Straw PeopleSome thoughts on our polarized political landscape in the wake of the overturning of Roe v. Wade. In this episode we discuss the unintended consequences of separating gender from biological sex, the increasing divisions within the left, the narcissistic nature of modern narratives of meaning, and other topics.

]]>Some thoughts on our polarized political landscape in the wake of the overturning of Roe v. Wade. In this episode we discuss the unintended consequences of separating gender from biological sex, the increasing divisions within the left, the narcissistic nature of modern narratives of meaning, and other topics.

]]>1c2728c9-13b5-445e-ad75-3fb0fa64b17fTue, 02 Aug 2022 22:45:00 -050051:01yesfull19You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VI: Bad Poet's SocietyThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. VI: Bad Poet's SocietyAll the news that's fit to rant about. National Youth Poet Laureate Amanda Gorman proves you don't have to be good - you just have to be woke. Trans actor Elliot Page proves it's okay to be a man as long as you’re biologically female.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. National Youth Poet Laureate Amanda Gorman proves you don't have to be good - you just have to be woke. Trans actor Elliot Page proves it's okay to be a man as long as you’re biologically female.

]]>14e96d62-2533-4be5-85b2-249fce343c51Tue, 19 Jul 2022 21:00:00 -050048:50yesfull18You Can't Have it Both WaysWoke Therapy: A Conversation with Dr. Andrew HartzWoke Therapy: A Conversation with Dr. Andrew HartzA conversation with Dr. Andrew Hartz about the infiltration of the therapeutic industry by progressive identity politics. They discuss the trend of therapist activism, wokeness as mental health, race and gender based hostility of therapists toward their patients, the need for therapists to provide a safe space for non-woke feelings, the mental health implications of using judgment and shame to force people to repress their feelings, the parallels between woke bullies and wife beaters, the parallels between antiracists and homophobes, the ways that widespread institutionally enforced cultural repression leads to a shallow culture, identity politics as a form (and cause) of mental illness, borderline personality disorder, splitting with regard to race and gender, the need for ambivalence, how splitting can destroy an inpatient psychiatric unit, how splitting devalues human beings and justifies abusing them, the ways in which reason has been distorted socially on a widespread level, and how trans issues went from off the radar to unarguable in the field of psychology.

Read Dr. Hartz's publications referenced in this episode:

"Leftist Extremism Is Turning Therapists And Counselors Against Their Own Clients": https://thefederalist.com/2022/06/02/leftist-extremism-is-turning-therapists-and-counselors-against-their-own-clients/

"A Diagnosis for American Polarization": https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-diagnosis-for-american-polarization-11604447133?mod=hp_opin_pos_2

]]>A conversation with Dr. Andrew Hartz about the infiltration of the therapeutic industry by progressive identity politics. They discuss the trend of therapist activism, wokeness as mental health, race and gender based hostility of therapists toward their patients, the need for therapists to provide a safe space for non-woke feelings, the mental health implications of using judgment and shame to force people to repress their feelings, the parallels between woke bullies and wife beaters, the parallels between antiracists and homophobes, the ways that widespread institutionally enforced cultural repression leads to a shallow culture, identity politics as a form (and cause) of mental illness, borderline personality disorder, splitting with regard to race and gender, the need for ambivalence, how splitting can destroy an inpatient psychiatric unit, how splitting devalues human beings and justifies abusing them, the ways in which reason has been distorted socially on a widespread level, and how trans issues went from off the radar to unarguable in the field of psychology.

Read Dr. Hartz's publications referenced in this episode:

"Leftist Extremism Is Turning Therapists And Counselors Against Their Own Clients": https://thefederalist.com/2022/06/02/leftist-extremism-is-turning-therapists-and-counselors-against-their-own-clients/

"A Diagnosis for American Polarization": https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-diagnosis-for-american-polarization-11604447133?mod=hp_opin_pos_2

]]>0fb35d30-f12e-408d-be17-29a6544f581eSun, 10 Jul 2022 20:00:00 -050001:47:18yesfull17You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. V: Spaghetti Strap WesternThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. V: Spaghetti Strap WesternAll the news that's fit to rant about. Daily shootings, Trump '24, gender fanaticism, Margaret Atwood - is it time to expatriate?

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Daily shootings, Trump '24, gender fanaticism, Margaret Atwood - is it time to expatriate?

]]>ee13ff1d-9ae9-4088-81ef-18713b445b8fWed, 22 Jun 2022 19:30:00 -050001:18:36yesfull16You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Camp BitterlakenThe Academic Vault Presents: Camp BitterlakenA kids' summer camp called Camp Interlaken gets gender inclusive.

]]>A kids' summer camp called Camp Interlaken gets gender inclusive.

]]>85540dad-cbc0-4fdb-9ffc-68b500e19c2eSat, 28 May 2022 21:00:00 -050050:06yesfull15You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. IV: The Bottle and the ChairThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. IV: The Bottle and the ChairAll the news that's fit to rant about. Johnny Depp gets his day in court despite being a man. Ezra Miller throws a chair at a woman, which is worse than throwing a chair at a man, but the important thing is that Ezra Miller is nonbinary. Disney heroically protects us from the dangers of The Muppet Show. Local elementary school children show their love for Identity, Diversity, and Justice.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Johnny Depp gets his day in court despite being a man. Ezra Miller throws a chair at a woman, which is worse than throwing a chair at a man, but the important thing is that Ezra Miller is nonbinary. Disney heroically protects us from the dangers of The Muppet Show. Local elementary school children show their love for Identity, Diversity, and Justice.

]]>dc85529f-1412-4d9c-bbf4-d5405746f93eFri, 13 May 2022 21:30:00 -050001:21:32yesfull14You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Don't Say Gay (or Straight!)The Academic Vault Presents: Don't Say Gay (or Straight!)Some thoughts about the Parental Rights in Education law, more commonly known (thanks to its critics) as the Don't Say Gay law.

]]>Some thoughts about the Parental Rights in Education law, more commonly known (thanks to its critics) as the Don't Say Gay law.

]]>4cf29f76-f5ad-4e64-9404-da6127f3177aMon, 02 May 2022 21:32:00 -050029:04yesfull13You Can't Have it Both WaysUnwoke Theatre: Bad VeganUnwoke Theatre: Bad VeganA deep dive into the Netflix documentary Bad Vegan, chronicling the rise and fall of the queen of vegan cuisine Sarma Melngailis.

]]>A deep dive into the Netflix documentary Bad Vegan, chronicling the rise and fall of the queen of vegan cuisine Sarma Melngailis.

]]>4c3b360a-e070-43db-afbe-c27cd078bef9Mon, 11 Apr 2022 20:30:00 -050001:08:40yesfull12You Can't Have it Both WaysUnwoke Theatre: Turning RedUnwoke Theatre: Turning RedA deep dive into Turning Red, the latest disaster from the formerly great Pixar.

]]>A deep dive into Turning Red, the latest disaster from the formerly great Pixar.

]]>21a33396-35cb-4ea1-ab9c-3d757e6c6431Wed, 06 Apr 2022 09:45:00 -050052:02yesfull11You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. III: Le Voyage dans l'École d'ArtThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. III: Le Voyage dans l'École d'ArtAll the news that's fit to rant about. A personal tale about getting canceled at a top art school, being assaulted on the streets of Chicago, and proving (despite popular opinion) that decent straight cis white men exist.

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. A personal tale about getting canceled at a top art school, being assaulted on the streets of Chicago, and proving (despite popular opinion) that decent straight cis white men exist.

]]>fac4c499-1eb6-4b28-8d47-2cf6f0e7e3abFri, 18 Mar 2022 20:00:00 -050001:02:02yesfull10You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Ballet of the TransplainersThe Academic Vault Presents: Ballet of the TransplainersThink you're safe stating your opinion in your own home? Just ask Rosie Kay, the famed choreographer who was ousted from her own dance company for offending her dinner guests.

]]>Think you're safe stating your opinion in your own home? Just ask Rosie Kay, the famed choreographer who was ousted from her own dance company for offending her dinner guests.

]]>9c2c9505-bc0f-4b0d-8787-68f046e95cadSat, 19 Feb 2022 19:25:00 -050056:23yesfull9You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. II: How Do I Love Thee? And Thee? etc.The Daily Huzzah! Vol. II: How Do I Love Thee? And Thee? etc.All the news that's fit to rant about. Valentine's Day edition - "love'" in the modern age, Julia Fox's new Birkin, the cottagecore aesthetic, and more!

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Valentine's Day edition - "love'" in the modern age, Julia Fox's new Birkin, the cottagecore aesthetic, and more!

]]>93a4e0c5-9d1b-4f36-9d4e-1eff67ac8d31Sun, 13 Feb 2022 13:45:00 -050001:11:49yesfull8You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. I: Hemingway's ProzacThe Daily Huzzah! Vol. I: Hemingway's ProzacAll the news that's fit to rant about. Lia Thomas in the locker room, Snow White without her dwarves, Harry Potter trigger warnings, and more!

]]>All the news that's fit to rant about. Lia Thomas in the locker room, Snow White without her dwarves, Harry Potter trigger warnings, and more!

]]>5d959b07-7e11-44fc-a978-7d51d6e7f697Thu, 03 Feb 2022 20:58:00 -050001:08:15yesfull7You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Survival of the WokestThe Academic Vault Presents: Survival of the WokestIs it wrong to be a fascist if you're right? Not according to the modern university. Consider the cases of Amy Wax and Allyn Walker.

]]>Is it wrong to be a fascist if you're right? Not according to the modern university. Consider the cases of Amy Wax and Allyn Walker.

]]>04c9da6c-f8c9-44f4-941f-40e18072452bSat, 29 Jan 2022 18:42:00 -050025:54yesfull6You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: The Jender ThingThe Academic Vault Presents: The Jender ThingAfter J. K. Rowling gets snubbed from the Harry Potter reunion show, some thoughts on "transphobic" as a slur, the return of the Thought Police, and social justice bullying as a mental illness, with an eclectic tie-in to that blind girl from Pretty Little Liars.

]]>After J. K. Rowling gets snubbed from the Harry Potter reunion show, some thoughts on "transphobic" as a slur, the return of the Thought Police, and social justice bullying as a mental illness, with an eclectic tie-in to that blind girl from Pretty Little Liars.

]]>b3343b81-e85c-4bad-be1b-9a285f1838ffWed, 12 Jan 2022 20:52:00 -050044:44yesfull5You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Goofus Genders and Gallant GermaphobesThe Academic Vault Presents: Goofus Genders and Gallant GermaphobesHarry Potter, OCD germaphobes, the problem with "Born This Way," the recasting of women's self-defense as victim-blaming, feminists in search of chivalry, assault prevention training for alligators, and much more!

]]>Harry Potter, OCD germaphobes, the problem with "Born This Way," the recasting of women's self-defense as victim-blaming, feminists in search of chivalry, assault prevention training for alligators, and much more!

]]>4c682c7c-357a-424e-8392-e72979aaf663Fri, 10 Dec 2021 13:27:00 -050042:57yesfull4You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: A Brief Report from the Calvinball FieldThe Academic Vault Presents: A Brief Report from the Calvinball FieldWoke politics is just Calvinball: The decline of public trust in universities and other institutions does not bode well.

]]>Woke politics is just Calvinball: The decline of public trust in universities and other institutions does not bode well.

]]>90b6ae7e-61c3-4739-92f9-2e15604c3140Sat, 27 Nov 2021 16:53:00 -050035:58yesfull3You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Ballet of the MansplainersThe Academic Vault Presents: Ballet of the MansplainersA reference to Emile Ratelband kicks up all kinds of issues. Women and the draft, cross-dressing ballet, the perpetual myth of male-dominated everything, mansplaining versus suffersplaining, toxic femininity, and other topics.

]]>A reference to Emile Ratelband kicks up all kinds of issues. Women and the draft, cross-dressing ballet, the perpetual myth of male-dominated everything, mansplaining versus suffersplaining, toxic femininity, and other topics.

]]>94f7bfc6-ae87-4a76-9688-263e6a4fb07dWed, 17 Nov 2021 15:30:00 -050040:21yesfull2You Can't Have it Both WaysThe Academic Vault Presents: Sensitivity Readers Gone WildThe Academic Vault Presents: Sensitivity Readers Gone WildWorking as a sensitivity reader, Dave Chappelle's "The Closer," apologizing to bullies, how fixating on micro-aggressions blinds us to real social progress, the manufacturing of transhood, the taboo of acknowledging biological difference between the sexes, feeling excluded as a vegetarian, secular fundamentalism, the difficulties of teaching social justice obsessed students, and other topics.

]]>Working as a sensitivity reader, Dave Chappelle's "The Closer," apologizing to bullies, how fixating on micro-aggressions blinds us to real social progress, the manufacturing of transhood, the taboo of acknowledging biological difference between the sexes, feeling excluded as a vegetarian, secular fundamentalism, the difficulties of teaching social justice obsessed students, and other topics.

]]>91ba8411-bd71-4299-9e46-2178bbe08890Wed, 03 Nov 2021 23:00:00 -050043:38yesfull1You Can't Have it Both Ways