In this episode I am sharing 3 of my "doula coach confessions" that I have never "kept secret" but have not said out loud in this way either.

I mention in this episode that my "disqualifiers" are also my "qualifiers" in SO many ways.

I also share to be a walking permission slip for doulas wanting to do things THEIR way, against the grain, and know that there is a different way to do things when you are juggling a career in birth work alongside pregnancies, young kids, financial pressure and life in general.

Come over to IG and tell me what you thought of the episode.

Peek behind the curtain of what things have been like for me the last couple months in motherhood, the "ah ha's" I'm having, and the things I'm being faced with head on so I can make needed changes.

This is NOT doula related AT ALL, but I know my people are majority moms and are juggling business and motherhood.

This does NOT make me feel "hirable", or an "expert in the space", but being transparent with my audience is a core value of mine so I felt it on my heart to unveil the highlight reel and share some of the "not great" things I've been dealing with.

The real and the raw of what I am NOT proud of, but felt I NEEDED to share.

I do hope this makes you feel less alone in your own journey.

Come let me know what you thought over on IG @taylornosakhere

Follow me on IG @taylornosakhere and let me know your thoughts on this episode.

As you all know, I share all the time, about stepping into your big doula energy. Well a few weeks ago MY coach told me "Taylor, you're not fully in YOUR Big Doula Energy", and damn that was a gut punch. But I knew she was right.

In this episode I share:

• Areas where I was not (and maybe still am not) showing up as authentic and bold as I could be.
• Where I still have work to do peeling back the onion of my most true beliefs and shadows.
• Questions I am asking myself (and you can ask yourself) in order to dive deeper into those shadows
• How impostor syndrome showed up for me as I pivoted from doula to doula coach.
• How important it is to me that I walk the walk I talk so that I can allow that to trickle down to YOU and then to your clients
• The new found clarity and direction for my signature program that I was able to finally OWN!

It's so important for me to share the BTS with you. I want you to know where I am doing the work too. I am in this WITH YOU.

Here is some of the clarity around my signature program. If you resonate, this program was created just for you!!

• impact driven doula who wants to be on call LESS
• she only wants to take about 6-8 1:1 clients all year!
• she wants to be able to go DEEP with each client, ie Quality > Quantity
• she wants this to be her full time income and create options & freedom for family
• she KNOWs her birth work business is the vehicle to her abundant life
• she wants to leverage her online presence to build a personal brand and make money with a virtual/digital offer to create WIDER impact and supplement the income she is making with 1:1.
• She is ready and willing to do the inner work required to step into her BDE & become her highest self in order to have the most aligned & fulfilling business in birth work!

Check out the program HERE.

Want to get a taste before jumping all the way in? Get the Doulapreneur Crash Course for only $33 and get a feel for what its like to be in my world:)

I want to make sure we share values, beliefs, and are the best fit.

You can steal some of mine to ask in your consults, but I'd challenge you to come up with YOUR OWN, that resonate with how you do business and how you doula!

What are some of your philosophies you hope your clients align with, key characteristics that you want them to have/not have, and beliefs/values you want to make sure you share?

Come to IG and tell me yours, as well as what you thought of this episode.

If this resonated, and you are ready to dive deeper for only $33 start HERE or dive all the way in with Doulapreneur AF!

In this episode I talk about the tendency moms have to outsource their power—to the FB groups, to doctors, to mom friends—rather than tuning into their own intuition.

You’ll hear:

• Why moms often default to outside opinions instead of trusting themselves
• The difference between seeking knowledge and outsourcing your power
• How this shows up in pregnancy, birth, and motherhood (and even doula work)
• The role of doulas in helping clients trust their intuition
• My personal mission to help birth workers and moms prioritize their self-trust

If you're a doula or mom who wants to make decisions from a grounded, intuitive place—this one's for you.

If you want more, the best place to start in my world is in my Doulapreneur Crash Course- an $33 audio training that you can listen to on the go! 

If you are ready to dive deeper, book a 1:1 Voxer day with me for $99! I currently have 3 spots open! 

OR 

If you know you are ready to transform your business this year from the inside out this year, my high proximity group coaching program Doulaprenauer AF is where you NEED to be. 

In this episode, I shift the conversation from WHAT I would not put in my contract and WHY, to what to actually put there instead if you are wanting to uphold a similar boundary.

There is a fine line between REALLY GOOD business boundaries, and falling out of service or integrity to your clients. This episode will make that line more clear and touch on the nuances.

After listening in, head to my IG, be sure to give me a follow, and let me know what you think:)

Then snag my Doulapreneur Crash Course to get MY actual contract that I use with MY doula clients, an audio breakdown of exactly why each section is the way it is, PLUS SO MUCH MORE for only $33!

You can even upgrade into my Consults to Clients Course (master attracting ideal clients & closing them on consults) for 1/2 off, making the bundle only $55! (Literally worth hundreds!!)

I dive into WHY I would not add these things to my contract, why they don't make sense, are in disservice to the client, or are even out of integrity.

I DO however understand the intention behind having these in the contract and that doulas are simply attempting to set and hold boundaries to keep themselves from burning out.

There is always nuance and of course I bring that to this conversation.

I recorded a part 2 adding in my solutions/alternatives to these clauses that are both very supportive of the client AND allow the doula to uphold boundaries that support their lifestyle needs.

Stay tuned for part 2, and in the meantime head over to IG and let me know what you thought of this episode- even if you disagree! I want to chat about it! Maybe even record a part 3 if needed!

Looking for more guidance, snag my Doulapreneur Crash Course to get my full contract template along with a walkthrough of each section I have in there and why + so much more for only $33 bucks!

I am typically in the camp of charging for all the births you attend! Even as a newbie and YES even for your certifying births.

That said, I wanted to bring some nuance to the conversations because there is duality to everything and nothing in business or life is black and white.

The ENERGY behind WHY you are doing births for fee or not matters more than anything else.

In this episode I talk about why charging MAY BE the best option and why doing a birth or 2 for free MAY ALSO be a better option for you.

It all goes back to it being an equal energy exchange and I dig into examples of how this can look.

Regardless, it requires introspection and knowing yourself. You can't simply base your decisions or prices on what others are doing or based on what you're "supposed" to do.

My warning is to not let "imposter syndrome" or fear of not getting hired drive the car in this important decision!

Ask yourself: Why am I charging what I am charging? Why am I doing births for free? Check in with yourself and how it feels.

When you're READY to get CLEAR and get personalized coaching around this topic, come join us inside Doulapreneur AF!

Not ready for the investment but want to connect further with me for FREE, come find me on IG and join my broadcast channel. I pour into that channel multiple times a week:)

This is one of the reasons doulas quit or decide to take a step back from their birth work career all together, BUT there are options that maybe you had not considered. 

In this episode I tell you how I pushed away doula work for myself for the longest time for this exact reason and how I decided to run my business differently from the jump! 

I give perspective shifts, share options I know you have not thought about, and give ways to continue having a business EVEN WHEN you truly can’t take on call clients at all. 

I am VERY passionate about this because I was here too!!

We deeper dive into these concepts in my Doulapreneur Crash Course- an $33 audio training that you can listen to on the go! 

Also if you are ready to dive deeper, book a 1:1 Voxer day with me for $99! I currently have 3 spots open! 

OR 

If you know you are ready to transform your business this year from the inside out this year, my high proximity group coaching program Doulaprenauer AF is where you NEED to be. 

• Decrease no-shows
• Increase the dreamy clients booking consults with you
• Increase your conversion rate so you can stop having call after call with people who don't hire you.

If you want to dive deeper,

Grab my FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Let me walk you through the guide and deepen your understanding of each topic covered;

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients for $44- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

OR get it for 1/2 off when you jump into the Doulapreneur Crash Course!

This is a women eager to do the mindset work needed to bring the appropriate energy to her work so that she can have a massively impactful and fulfilling career in birth work.

Get started NOW inside my Doulapreneur Crash Course taylornosakhere.shinepages.com

Ready to go deeper? Doulapreneur AF is for YOU! doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

I tell you what she said, how I responded, and why it was actually a good thing this happened.

As you grow, scale, become more visible, and put your authentic self out there, haters will hate and thats OKAY! It means your content is magnetic.

I mentioned the Crash Course in the episode. It's now available for purchase as a self paced audio course! Join us NOW

Ready for more and to dive deep with me for 9 whole months?!

Check out the details for Doulapreneur AF HERE

This is where you fully step into your Big Doula Energy and create the doula business that truly supports yours life!

Doula trainings are not focusing on these skills, but they are the MOST important when working with clients, and the BIGGEST contribution to clients having amazing birth experiences where they feel autonomous and have zero regrets about their decisions. These are also the skills that lead to the best reviews and referrals. 

Educating Without Judgment

I talk about how to educate your clients without making them feel like they’re stupid for not knowing something, wrong for a choice they made or want to make, and without projecting your own beliefs onto them. It’s okay to have biases, but knowing how to be transparent about them, while not pushing your opinions on clients is important. 

My ability to do this has come up in multiple client testimonials for a reason they loved working with me. 

Holding Space (For Real)

We’re breaking down what it really means to hold space—not fix, not save, not control—but truly hold. I’ll share how I do this with clients so they feel seen, safe, and supported even when their plans shift or things get hard. This is the doula magic that makes your clients RAVE about you (and refer you!).

Helping Clients Trust Their Intuition

This may arguably be the MOST important role you have as a doula and the most valuable skill you can have . I’m sharing my favorite ways to help moms get in touch with their own intuition so they can feel confident AF in their birth decisions.

If you're new or newer in this work and want to build on a solid foundation of skills, or have been in the game a bit and want to focus on things you were never really taught elsewhere, this one is for you. 

If you are listening in real time (or before April 21st), it's not too late to get into the Crash Course!! 

Come binge ALL the audio drops that are there, get access to upcoming audio drops through the 18th, and then join us on a LIVE Q&A/coaching call on Monday April 21st via Zoom!

Join us NOW

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to step into their Big Doula Energy, so they can make full time $$ on part time hours!

Check out the details for Doulapreneur AF HERE

This drop was all about dropping the newbie energy and stepping into your confident AF energy as a doula regardless of how experienced you are.

This is KEY to attracting clients that are ready and willing to pay you the prices you want to charge and will keep them from asking all about your credentials & experience levels in consults.

Of course this is easier said than done, but it's all about proving to your brain that it is safe.

I even gave an exercise for them to do as homework to help them prove to their brain that they are way more qualified than they realize.

It's not too late to get into the Crash Course!! Come binge what is there, get access to upcoming drops for the next 5 or so days, and then join us on a LIVE Q&A/coaching call via Zoom!

Join us NOW

Follow me on IG to stay in the loop and see behind the scenes.

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to step into their Big Doula Energy, so they can make full time $$ on part time hours!

Check out the details for Doulapreneur AF HERE

Get your butt in there HERE!

Inside I share that:

I made $25k on my business without having an LLC or being officially certified.

(is your jaw on the floor?)

This is what it means to be in your Big D (Doula) Energy!! 

I share some of my hot takes and polarizing opinions about what matters, dropping the "shoulds", and how even new doulas can get hired by dream clients and paid premium prices.

Inside this episode and even deeper inside Newbie Doula to Doulaprenur Crash Course you will:

1️⃣Step into your Confident AF energy, dropping that newbie energy

2️⃣Have A solid contract that upholds your boundaries w/ prices you LOVE

3️⃣Have Awareness of your signature prenatal process.

4️⃣ Learn the skills to educate w/out judgement, hold space & keep her trusting her intuition

5️⃣ Stock up on content and marketing ideas that will get you HIRED regardless of experience level

6️⃣Know EXACTLY how to close a consult with DREAM clients

Get access to the Crash Course LIVE April 7th-11th NOW HERE

Snag the mini course I reference in the episode: Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

Follow me on IG to stay in the loop and see behind the scenes. https://www.instagram.com/taylornosakhere/?igsh=MWp1YjlvZDRxdnlkYw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr# 

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to step into their Big Doula Energy, so they can make full time $$ on part time hours!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

We talked about:

• Mistakes doulas make when supporting VBAC clients
• How to navigate a client who says she wants a repeat c-section but is a good VBAC candidate
• Not "wanting it more than her"
• Top tips to help her prepare her client for a VBAC
• How to emotionally support her through her past experience, if this is a repeat cesarean, or if her VBAC is not a healing one
• Common misconceptions about VBAC
• Why a VBAC mom is different than a non-VABC mom
• What every doula NEEDS to know before supporting a VBAC
• What questions to ask a provider to ensure they are a VBAC supportive provider
• Finding you WHY for the birth that you want
• What makes a mom a good VBAC candidate?
• What makes a provider a VBAC supportive provider?

Connect with Hannah and find all her amazing resources at the following:

https://www.thehannahgill.com/

https://www.thehannahgill.com/doulawaitlist

IG: @thehannahgill

https://www.thehannahgill.com/newdoulatips

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/motherhood-flow-vbac-tips-preparing-for-a-vaginal/id1686913319

These are the EXACT notes I used to teach this portion of the training and from my free guide.

Get the whole course HERE for only $47.

There are 4 key things to do to prep them before the call. 

1. This needs to start with an application when they book the call- YES this is NEEDED (I will teach you what to ask down below)
2. Followed by an EASY way for them to book a consult call with you 
3. Followed by a confirmation email with a zoom link after they book- yes I do all my consults via Zoom!
4. Concluded with a reminder the day before (and maybe even an hour before as well) 

• These can be automated!  

Let’s look at each of these in a little more detail.

• 1. The application does not have to be super extensive or formal, but it should include certain questions that will make the consultation smoother, and give you information AHEAD of time, 
• Including:
• Some basic demographic questions about themselves
• So you don't have to ask on the call- wastes time and is boring  
• An overview of their past experiences, fears, preconceived notions coming into this experience.
• How they envision their birth going this time- dream birth 
• YOUR PRICES! 
• trust me- this makes the call so much less awkward at the end and qualifies the lead before you waste your time on a call for them to say “I can’t afford it”
• Have them choose if they would rather do payment plan or pay in full  
• Asking these will prepare you for how to LEAD the call, and prepare them for the investment.
• It also makes them feel SEEN when they get asked about their past, fears and desires.
• This helps them connect with you and trust you
• You will dive deeper into these questions on the call itself  
• 2. From here, booking should be easy and should NOT be back and forth over text and DM! - use something like Calandly. 
• This is a better experience for them, and less to keep track of for you.  
• 3. Once booked, they should get a confirmation email from you with a zoom link to the call and a thank you! 
• 4. Reminders are amazing as we are all BUSY and don't need to be showing op for calls people forgot about. 
• This also shows a level of professionalism showing them you have your shit together  
• These can be automated through a platform like Calandly mentioned above. 

If you are curious about step 1, 2 and 4

• Attracting ideal clients
• Warming them up to book a call AND
• How to run a consult call that converts,

Snag the whole course HERE for only $47 and get lifetime access to the content.

Want even more hands on support?

Check out Doulapreneur AF- my 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F...]]>Sharing with you Module 3 of my $47 course, Consults to Clients- Master Attracting Dream Clients to book consult calls with you, and confidently running the call so they can’t wait to HIRE you!

These are the EXACT notes I used to teach this portion of the training and from my free guide.

Get the whole course HERE for only $47.

There are 4 key things to do to prep them before the call. 

1. This needs to start with an application when they book the call- YES this is NEEDED (I will teach you what to ask down below)
2. Followed by an EASY way for them to book a consult call with you 
3. Followed by a confirmation email with a zoom link after they book- yes I do all my consults via Zoom!
4. Concluded with a reminder the day before (and maybe even an hour before as well) 

• These can be automated!  

Let’s look at each of these in a little more detail.

• 1. The application does not have to be super extensive or formal, but it should include certain questions that will make the consultation smoother, and give you information AHEAD of time, 
• Including:
• Some basic demographic questions about themselves
• So you don't have to ask on the call- wastes time and is boring  
• An overview of their past experiences, fears, preconceived notions coming into this experience.
• How they envision their birth going this time- dream birth 
• YOUR PRICES! 
• trust me- this makes the call so much less awkward at the end and qualifies the lead before you waste your time on a call for them to say “I can’t afford it”
• Have them choose if they would rather do payment plan or pay in full  
• Asking these will prepare you for how to LEAD the call, and prepare them for the investment.
• It also makes them feel SEEN when they get asked about their past, fears and desires.
• This helps them connect with you and trust you
• You will dive deeper into these questions on the call itself  
• 2. From here, booking should be easy and should NOT be back and forth over text and DM! - use something like Calandly. 
• This is a better experience for them, and less to keep track of for you.  
• 3. Once booked, they should get a confirmation email from you with a zoom link to the call and a thank you! 
• 4. Reminders are amazing as we are all BUSY and don't need to be showing op for calls people forgot about. 
• This also shows a level of professionalism showing them you have your shit together  
• These can be automated through a platform like Calandly mentioned above. 

If you are curious about step 1, 2 and 4

• Attracting ideal clients
• Warming them up to book a call AND
• How to run a consult call that converts,

Snag the whole course HERE for only $47 and get lifetime access to the content.

Want even more hands on support?

Check out Doulapreneur AF- my 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

This is weekly Slack coaching, bi-weekly coaching calls, my framework for a life first doula business that serves dream clients and makes the money you desire, a portal with trainings and guest expert trainings.

Check it out HERE

MONEY is ENERGY!  The vibration of $1 is different than $1k or $1 million. 

Your prices have to be an equal energetic exchange with the bandwidth you are putting out, or burn out will happen! 

I have an example of an aligned client vs an unaligned one, and how it affects the bandwidth needed. 

We talk about the twofold conversation about pricing alignment and ideal clients. 

Pricing is about the FEELING, not JUST the cost it takes to provide the service. 

Going through the practice of learning how to FEEL this in your body. I walk you through an example in the episode of tapping into your body. 

You could be subconsciously pushing clients away if there is a mismatch between your pricing and your output. 

When I was taking clients, I raised my prices every 3-4 clients. I did this based on a feeling. 

We are teaching our clients to check in with their bodies and their intuition, but we are not doing that in our business. 

So now you know the bandwidth does not match, but you have NO idea HOW to actually raise your prices. I share some ideas for you. 

If you can't raise your prices maybe you can change your service to become the match. 

Being in Doulapreneur AF allows you to work through the nuances of this conversation. 

If you want to be rich as fuck and impactful as fuck, this room is for you! Doulapreneur AF is for you!

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Love the guide and need more of a deep dive and me walking you through the concepts inside?

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

Follow me on IG and let me know what you thought of the episode. 

https://www.instagram.com/taylornosakhere/?igsh=MWp1YjlvZDRxdnlkYw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr# 

STOP believing these myths ASAP so you can step into your next level self as a doula and business women! 

I am getting FIREY on today's episode!! This is a must listen.

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Love the guide and need more of a deep dive and me walking you through the concepts inside?

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

Follow me on IG and let me know what you thought of the episode. 

https://www.instagram.com/taylornosakhere/?igsh=MWp1YjlvZDRxdnlkYw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr# 

They don't feel confident showing up online and they don't know what to post. They are afraid to share certain things.

I have been in the online space for 7 years and have had to learn so many of these things. 

High level ways to up-level your social media and online presence to attract clients. 

These tips will translate over to in person interactions as well. 

Spoiler, there is no magic strategy. Apps, trends and features come and go so these concepts will transcend those things. 

In this episode I give you some really good prompts to get your wheels turning on what and how to post. 

Then we go into the mindset it takes to show up and post and show up online in a way that will attract your dream clients to you. 

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Love the guide and need more of a deep dive and me walking you through the concepts inside?

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

Follow me on IG

https://www.instagram.com/taylornosakhere/?igsh=MWp1YjlvZDRxdnlkYw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr#

Moving from the Driver's Seat Moms Podcast and creating this podcast.

My story into birth work via my own birth stories and motherhood journey. 

How I pushed off doula work for a LONG time before I finally leaned into this profession that truly CHOSE me! 

How I built my in person doula business in 2020 and how I grew online. 

The evolution of my doula business as I navigated pregnancies, birthed more babies as well as attended more births. 

Finally went full time in my business, and soon after added in offers that were more scalable and virtual with my prenatal coaching program, as well as began creating an agency. 

Got pregnant unexpectedly with my 2nd set of twins. 

Poured into my prenatal coaching program and was set up to have a maternity leave.

The birth of my babies and the loss of my baby girl at birth. 

The most powerful, autonomous birth of my baby girl. 

I knew in her transition there was a bigger purpose. Her life had a bigger purpose. I had to believe there was a reason why I was supposed to grow her and know her. 

Telling the story for the first time about her unmedicated birth at home on my bed. 

The duality of her birth. 

I burned my business down and we survived on meal train donations for months. 

I dipped my toe into business coaching and LOVED it. Even got a part time job for a non-profit as a doula coordinator.

How I got my fire back:) It was a full body FUCK YES! 

Pouring my cup into the doulas so they can pour their cups into the moms.

Helping moms be successful just felt right. Everything in my body was telling me “this is the thing”. This is how you create a purpose out of my daughters story. Not despite my trauma, but BECAUSE of her. She is the fire under my ass. She left this planet for a reason and she came to this planet for a reason. Part of it was to propel me into this next thing. 

I feel more lit up about this than anything I have ever done and I did not think that was possible. 

I am here to change fucking lives! 

I want doulas to have profitable and fulfilling as fuck businesses. 

Thank you for being here. I can’t wait to keep pouring into you. 

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Love the guide and need more of a deep dive and me walking you through the concepts inside?

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com

My 9 month group coaching program for doulas ready to level the F up in their life and business!

doulapreneuraf.shinepages.com

FREE CONSULTATION GUIDE- How to attract ideal clients to schedule calls with you, and have them HIRING you!!

https://peaceful-lake-119.myflodesk.com/is6v115394

Love the guide and need more of a deep dive and me walking you through the concepts inside?

Snag my mini course Consults to Clients- Master attracting and getting hired by dream clients!

consultstoclients.shinepages.com